1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:05,279 Speaker 1: If you're listening to Will and Woody the seriously spicy 2 00:00:05,320 --> 00:00:10,400 Speaker 1: meatball for you guys right now that I. 3 00:00:10,920 --> 00:00:16,160 Speaker 2: Meet the ball, i'd say this is the spiciest meatball 4 00:00:16,360 --> 00:00:17,880 Speaker 2: that this show has ever digested. 5 00:00:18,040 --> 00:00:20,400 Speaker 3: Wow, you reckoned. Well here's the question. Everyone, you can 6 00:00:20,440 --> 00:00:23,160 Speaker 3: make up your mind. Are you currently seeing a married man? 7 00:00:24,160 --> 00:00:27,280 Speaker 3: There's a thread that I clicked on Reddit this afternoon, 8 00:00:27,360 --> 00:00:33,400 Speaker 3: a subreddit basically asking what they're called side chicks? Is 9 00:00:33,440 --> 00:00:36,680 Speaker 3: what they're called, That's what they've called themselves. Why they 10 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:39,000 Speaker 3: did it? A lot of them was about the level 11 00:00:39,040 --> 00:00:41,280 Speaker 3: of desire they felt about, some of them saying they 12 00:00:41,320 --> 00:00:43,800 Speaker 3: had commitment issues, so it was a great noncommittal relationship. 13 00:00:43,800 --> 00:00:46,000 Speaker 3: But we've asked you to call right now if you 14 00:00:46,040 --> 00:00:47,919 Speaker 3: are a side chick, or if you have been a 15 00:00:47,920 --> 00:00:51,560 Speaker 3: side chick, why you slept with a married man? What 16 00:00:51,600 --> 00:00:52,600 Speaker 3: I'm going to say, We're going to go with the 17 00:00:52,640 --> 00:00:54,760 Speaker 3: knowledge that you knew, because I think if there's a 18 00:00:54,800 --> 00:00:56,680 Speaker 3: sense if you didn't know, then I don't think then 19 00:00:57,200 --> 00:00:59,160 Speaker 3: the crime doesn't quite match up. We're going to go 20 00:00:59,200 --> 00:01:02,760 Speaker 3: to Diane here. Diane, you're you're currently a side chick, 21 00:01:02,800 --> 00:01:04,399 Speaker 3: you're currently dating a married man? 22 00:01:06,240 --> 00:01:08,479 Speaker 4: Yeah, I have been for about four years now since 23 00:01:08,480 --> 00:01:09,679 Speaker 4: I left my husband. 24 00:01:09,760 --> 00:01:11,759 Speaker 2: And Diane, can I ask why. 25 00:01:13,480 --> 00:01:16,560 Speaker 4: I guess it's, to be honest, it's just convenient. Like 26 00:01:16,640 --> 00:01:19,880 Speaker 4: they're not needy, they're not you know, like they leave 27 00:01:19,920 --> 00:01:21,560 Speaker 4: you alone when you want them to leave learn and 28 00:01:21,600 --> 00:01:23,760 Speaker 4: you just go about your day. And I feel the 29 00:01:23,840 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 4: other thing is like I was cheated on in my 30 00:01:25,959 --> 00:01:28,520 Speaker 4: marriage and I used to like confront the girls and 31 00:01:28,520 --> 00:01:31,320 Speaker 4: like I would turn them photos. Was like, here's my husband, 32 00:01:31,319 --> 00:01:33,959 Speaker 4: I'm here with, live together, we have kids, and like 33 00:01:34,040 --> 00:01:36,200 Speaker 4: the lack of respect that I got. I would rather 34 00:01:36,200 --> 00:01:37,880 Speaker 4: be the girl on this side than the girl on 35 00:01:37,880 --> 00:01:39,560 Speaker 4: that side any day. 36 00:01:39,640 --> 00:01:42,679 Speaker 3: Wow, hang on, hang on hand, Dane. The reason that 37 00:01:42,760 --> 00:01:47,199 Speaker 3: you left your husband or four years ago was because 38 00:01:47,200 --> 00:01:50,000 Speaker 3: he was cheating on you. And then how long life 39 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:54,120 Speaker 3: and then as a means to keep yourself safe from that, 40 00:01:54,840 --> 00:01:58,840 Speaker 3: you're now the one who's cheating with another guy on 41 00:01:58,880 --> 00:02:00,600 Speaker 3: his And. 42 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:02,680 Speaker 4: How you said that is how I seed in my 43 00:02:02,720 --> 00:02:06,400 Speaker 4: head too. Sometimes I valid at myself that all men 44 00:02:06,440 --> 00:02:09,040 Speaker 4: are the same because like they're all still out he's 45 00:02:09,080 --> 00:02:12,359 Speaker 4: doing it you that's so horrible, But that's how I validated. 46 00:02:12,440 --> 00:02:14,840 Speaker 4: And the sex is just great and it's just like 47 00:02:14,880 --> 00:02:19,520 Speaker 4: they're convenience. I liked how you said they're willing to 48 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:22,840 Speaker 4: ruin their home life for you, So there is like 49 00:02:22,919 --> 00:02:25,519 Speaker 4: the bit of kick of that too, But I think 50 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:30,080 Speaker 4: it's more as well, like they're just not needy like there, 51 00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:31,280 Speaker 4: it's just convenience. 52 00:02:31,800 --> 00:02:33,639 Speaker 3: How often are you seeing him. 53 00:02:34,880 --> 00:02:38,120 Speaker 4: In the last four years. I'd say about twelve times, 54 00:02:38,680 --> 00:02:41,480 Speaker 4: but in sane but there's been like other people in between. 55 00:02:41,960 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 4: But yeah, you will literally just mersage me all the 56 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:46,800 Speaker 4: time to be like are you busy and if I'm free, 57 00:02:46,919 --> 00:02:49,359 Speaker 4: willing up? If not, it's fun like go about your day. 58 00:02:50,320 --> 00:02:52,440 Speaker 2: When you say other people, are you referring to other 59 00:02:52,480 --> 00:02:57,839 Speaker 2: married men? Yes, So you're currently saying how many married men? 60 00:02:58,400 --> 00:03:00,400 Speaker 4: I was saying in the last four years, been with 61 00:03:00,440 --> 00:03:01,560 Speaker 4: about six married men. 62 00:03:02,040 --> 00:03:04,000 Speaker 3: Oh my god, wow. 63 00:03:04,200 --> 00:03:08,680 Speaker 2: Where do any of these married men, Diane say to you, like, Hey, 64 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:11,680 Speaker 2: I've fallen for you and I'm going to leave my 65 00:03:11,800 --> 00:03:15,040 Speaker 2: current wife to be with you. 66 00:03:15,040 --> 00:03:17,280 Speaker 4: No, I wouldn't say they say that. They ask like 67 00:03:17,360 --> 00:03:19,400 Speaker 4: why I haven't fallen for them, or why I'm not 68 00:03:19,480 --> 00:03:22,520 Speaker 4: like offering further commitments and stuff. But I just make 69 00:03:22,560 --> 00:03:25,080 Speaker 4: it clear that's not what I'm after whatsoever. I stay 70 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:27,399 Speaker 4: married so that I don't get in another relationship. 71 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:30,960 Speaker 3: And where do you where do you find them? 72 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:36,960 Speaker 4: They find me? That's the weird. I don't that's all 73 00:03:36,960 --> 00:03:39,680 Speaker 4: on my No, just Facebook. I'm not even on dating apps. 74 00:03:39,680 --> 00:03:40,640 Speaker 4: It's just Facebook. 75 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:42,680 Speaker 2: So how what do you mean that is that has 76 00:03:42,840 --> 00:03:44,480 Speaker 2: message you on on Facebook? 77 00:03:45,320 --> 00:03:50,440 Speaker 4: One hundred These men these days, they have no shame. Wow, 78 00:03:50,600 --> 00:03:53,640 Speaker 4: I can't talk. I know, I know, but I'm loyalties 79 00:03:53,680 --> 00:03:54,760 Speaker 4: and nobody but myself. 80 00:03:54,960 --> 00:03:59,360 Speaker 3: And and you're in a relationship yourself. No, I'm not. 81 00:03:59,480 --> 00:04:02,760 Speaker 4: Now I'm still legally married. But I left my husband. 82 00:04:03,320 --> 00:04:05,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, equal because of the fact that he was cheating 83 00:04:05,160 --> 00:04:09,560 Speaker 3: on you, Diane, and you've got children. He said, yes, Okay, 84 00:04:10,040 --> 00:04:12,440 Speaker 3: do you is there any sense of like not wanting 85 00:04:12,480 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 3: them to find out and not wanting them to have 86 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:16,160 Speaker 3: cheating in their life or are you kind of like, 87 00:04:16,760 --> 00:04:19,480 Speaker 3: you know, the world's cooked and everyone cheats on everyone, 88 00:04:19,560 --> 00:04:21,520 Speaker 3: so you know, yeah, I think the party. 89 00:04:21,279 --> 00:04:23,920 Speaker 4: Is pretty cooked. And like I just thought my kids 90 00:04:23,920 --> 00:04:27,680 Speaker 4: that are way younger morals and just realized, well, don't 91 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:29,919 Speaker 4: realize what these men lif because I've never ever exposed 92 00:04:29,920 --> 00:04:31,919 Speaker 4: my kids to any of these men. Like that's like, 93 00:04:32,600 --> 00:04:34,560 Speaker 4: what the trash to be in a marriage, and. 94 00:04:35,120 --> 00:04:37,360 Speaker 3: So that gives you the impression that you're just doing 95 00:04:37,360 --> 00:04:39,120 Speaker 3: it for sex. Then because like if you if you 96 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:42,159 Speaker 3: don't okay, so you don't rate these people, it keeps 97 00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:44,440 Speaker 3: me single. Okay, So you don't like their integ you 98 00:04:44,480 --> 00:04:46,920 Speaker 3: don't like them in their like their integrity, you don't 99 00:04:46,960 --> 00:04:49,440 Speaker 3: rate them really as people because they're doing the thing 100 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:52,279 Speaker 3: that you had done to you? Is there like a 101 00:04:52,360 --> 00:04:55,880 Speaker 3: level of self hate that kind of is punched in 102 00:04:55,920 --> 00:04:56,520 Speaker 3: here as well? 103 00:04:57,400 --> 00:05:00,320 Speaker 4: Only to a certain agree because all the men that 104 00:05:00,320 --> 00:05:02,560 Speaker 4: I've done it with, they are actually the sort of 105 00:05:02,560 --> 00:05:05,000 Speaker 4: people that I would genuinely be in a relationship with, 106 00:05:05,160 --> 00:05:07,720 Speaker 4: and like they appear to be great people, like stand 107 00:05:07,760 --> 00:05:09,840 Speaker 4: up guys, and then so when I see them doing this, 108 00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:13,680 Speaker 4: it's like it just confirms in my head that my 109 00:05:13,800 --> 00:05:15,200 Speaker 4: type of guy is a piece of shit. 110 00:05:16,960 --> 00:05:19,279 Speaker 2: Did you do you see yourself being in like a 111 00:05:19,400 --> 00:05:21,920 Speaker 2: relationship with someone else in the future or is it 112 00:05:22,040 --> 00:05:24,240 Speaker 2: just married men from here on out? 113 00:05:24,920 --> 00:05:27,320 Speaker 4: Well, right now, I'm just raising my kids solo, and 114 00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:29,920 Speaker 4: I'm doing that pretty successfully happily, and my life is 115 00:05:29,960 --> 00:05:32,160 Speaker 4: stable and it's great. So after what I went through 116 00:05:32,240 --> 00:05:34,600 Speaker 4: my marriage, I am and I was going to relationship 117 00:05:34,640 --> 00:05:38,720 Speaker 4: fifteen years, It's like it's not worth safe the heartache 118 00:05:38,760 --> 00:05:40,159 Speaker 4: that came with it. Yeah, it's safe. 119 00:05:40,360 --> 00:05:43,640 Speaker 2: Fascinating, Diane. Are you seeing a married man? Are you 120 00:05:43,640 --> 00:05:44,400 Speaker 2: seeing one tonight? 121 00:05:45,000 --> 00:05:47,800 Speaker 4: No? No, I've got the kids hunt fair enough. 122 00:05:47,839 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 2: I got to draw the line there, don't you. You got 123 00:05:49,320 --> 00:05:51,640 Speaker 2: to see the boundaries fair enough, Diane. Thank you so 124 00:05:51,760 --> 00:05:54,520 Speaker 2: much for that perspective. That was That was bloody interesting. 125 00:05:54,560 --> 00:05:57,360 Speaker 3: Do you consider yourself a bad person, Diane? 126 00:05:58,279 --> 00:06:01,960 Speaker 4: I consider it's a be pretty a disgusting because I 127 00:06:01,960 --> 00:06:03,400 Speaker 4: know what it's like to be on the other end. 128 00:06:04,120 --> 00:06:06,520 Speaker 4: But at the same time, I just like I welcome 129 00:06:06,680 --> 00:06:08,720 Speaker 4: these women to like contact me and be like, are 130 00:06:08,720 --> 00:06:10,960 Speaker 4: you talking about men? And I'll be like, hundred percent, 131 00:06:11,080 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 4: I told them everything, like I have no lud to 132 00:06:13,520 --> 00:06:16,040 Speaker 4: his men. I would destroy their relationships in a heartbeat. 133 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:17,640 Speaker 4: But I just have been confronted. 134 00:06:19,160 --> 00:06:21,200 Speaker 3: If let's just say that, like you're you're a villain 135 00:06:21,279 --> 00:06:24,920 Speaker 3: in like a comic book series, right your If we 136 00:06:24,960 --> 00:06:28,960 Speaker 3: could say that your mo o is like, you hate 137 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:32,360 Speaker 3: men so much that you are willing to destroy their 138 00:06:32,400 --> 00:06:35,000 Speaker 3: relationships despite the fact that they're married to women. 139 00:06:36,120 --> 00:06:39,279 Speaker 4: I will allow them to ruin their own relationships and 140 00:06:39,360 --> 00:06:42,320 Speaker 4: get benefits from it along the way. 141 00:06:43,400 --> 00:06:45,720 Speaker 2: Wow, it's like, in a weird way, you're punishing them 142 00:06:45,720 --> 00:06:47,520 Speaker 2: but rewarding them at the same I'm getting a bit 143 00:06:47,560 --> 00:06:50,160 Speaker 2: lost in it. Same lost in it, but. 144 00:06:50,440 --> 00:06:55,599 Speaker 3: Wow, understand thanks for Yeah, thanks for calling in mate. 145 00:06:55,600 --> 00:06:59,720 Speaker 3: I appreciate that I didn't. That's that's absolutely fascinating him. 146 00:06:59,720 --> 00:07:02,680 Speaker 1: More of the boys on the Full Show podcast, all 147 00:07:02,760 --> 00:07:06,080 Speaker 1: on the iHeartRadio app. Oh wherever me get your podcast.