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Speaker 1: fire rapid questions at one of our fearlessly failing guests. PS.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest with you. I'm not so good

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Speaker 1: at the rapid part. I get too intrigued by the

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Speaker 1: every Wednesday, so enjoy this shortest style episode of fearlessly

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Speaker 1: Failing Hot Seat. Welcome to the hot seat. What is

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Speaker 1: your full name? My friend? You don't have to share middles.

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Speaker 1: I always My.

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Speaker 2: Full name is am Ahorn am a hon Oh.

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Speaker 1: I like that you sing it? Oh so nice? And

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Speaker 1: I noticed this on socials. You loved little sings I do.

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Speaker 2: It's like a I think, Yeah, it's part of my brain.

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Speaker 1: I love it.

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Speaker 2: I know some people don't do that, which I recommend

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Speaker 2: you should.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's fair, that's fair, that's fair. I saw this

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Speaker 1: is a total side note. I saw this. Australian TV

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Speaker 1: host Osha Ginsburg and he did a stand up show

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Speaker 1: and he shared at a trauma when he was a

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Speaker 1: child and he had to sing. It was the only

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Speaker 1: way he could share the trauma, isn't that? And then

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Speaker 1: he would speak the rest of the standard. Probably why no,

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Speaker 1: But isn't that fascinating? It's like I felt safer for him? Yeah, fascinating.

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Speaker 1: Sweet or savory, my friend? Oh sweet, you're still going

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Speaker 1: through oats phase or you're in a bagel phase now. Bagel? Yep,

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Speaker 1: bit abbo.

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Speaker 2: Bagel, bagel, bagel, bagel avo. Every morning I have like

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Speaker 2: avocado my bagel with cream cheese and chili flakes and spinach.

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Speaker 1: Oh, sign me up. Yep, that's very good. Sign up.

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Speaker 1: Yeah that sounds real. Favorite city, Oh, I know, I know.

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Speaker 2: Oh gosh, favorite city I know, I mean very many.

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Speaker 2: Can it be like one in my mind?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Crystal Land nice, nice with lots of like rose

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Speaker 1: courts and all that.

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Speaker 2: I just my favorite city is a beach.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, well the next was an h spot. Oh

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Speaker 1: gocause you're Pisces.

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Speaker 2: I'm Scorpio.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's right, you're the fire of the water scorpio.

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Speaker 2: Oh. My favorite nature spot is oh gosh, Queensland beaches

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Speaker 2: my mom's property and laying in the paddock under the trees.

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Speaker 1: Do you have like animals like horses and stuff?

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Speaker 2: I used to like I grew up with cows and

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Speaker 2: horses and one time I washed an eagle carry my duck.

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Speaker 1: Away, No my duck, yeah, eagle ate the duck.

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Speaker 2: Well he carried it away, so really know what happened next.

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Speaker 1: But no, okay, okay, no, no, I love I love

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Speaker 1: the oath, the honesty.

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Speaker 2: You have a fear, Do I have a fear?

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Speaker 1: Comes? I have a fear.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I have a fear of not being chosen.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think we've all got that.

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Speaker 2: Bye. Yeah, oh by what by like a like in

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Speaker 2: like a partners.

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Speaker 1: Younger than me? Rightise, Someone gave me this advice and

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Speaker 1: I was like, I'm going to be alone forever. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna get all my goals, but I'll like go

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Speaker 2: Yep, which like honestly not badly.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, But and a friend was like who was older

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Speaker 1: than me? My friend was like, if you want a partner,

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Speaker 1: you will have a partner. And it was like a

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Speaker 2: Like so interesting because I don't even I don't even

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Speaker 2: know if I can clearly say I want a partner,

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Speaker 2: I think because I can't fully envision it right now,

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Speaker 2: like I guess I do. But I truly love my

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Speaker 2: like independent life a lot. Yeah, and I think I've

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Speaker 1: So yeah, but I feel you on that. I always like,

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Speaker 1: my boyfriend will be like, oh, I've got to leave.

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Speaker 1: You need alone time, you need a lone wolf time,

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Speaker 1: and I'm like one hundred percent. And we've got mates

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Speaker 2: I was like, absolutely, yeah, I do want that. No,

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Speaker 2: I do want to partner relationship. I do want a relationship.

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Speaker 2: I do want a partner blah blah blah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but you can have both. You know, you can

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Speaker 1: and need alone time as well. That's totally normal, well

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Speaker 2: Definitely.

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Speaker 1: I think that's the right way to say. Okay, what's

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Speaker 2: Ooh? I think I like that I am quite upfront

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Speaker 2: Most well, I think it's most of the time. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but I think I like that I can be upfront

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's not feels like a superpower to me. Well,

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Speaker 1: people don't know where they stand, like, I think it's

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Speaker 1: nice to know where you There's nothing worse than feeling

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Speaker 1: you know, when you hang out with someone and you

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Speaker 1: walk away and you feel icky and you don't understand why,

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Speaker 1: Like the conversation is really positive or felt really like nice,

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Speaker 1: and you're like, oh, why do I feel like spiritually

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Speaker 1: just being like cool, this is where I'm at.

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Speaker 2: I think it builds like closer relationships with people.

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Speaker 1: Too, definitely more genuine.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't have to be like a Meani, But

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Speaker 2: I think it's okay to be like I feel this way.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I think there's different there's it depends because

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Speaker 2: instead of reflecting on like their kind of process. They

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Speaker 2: put it on someone else. But I think if someone

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Speaker 2: do you feel this way? I will be very honest

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Speaker 2: and it always has improved my relationships, friendships, whatever.

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Speaker 1: It's also refreshing, yeah, like just being real.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I think it's a fake world.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely. Do you have a non negotiable?

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Speaker 2: Oh? In what way?

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Speaker 1: Like, is it like something that you're like It sounds

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Speaker 1: of my non negotiables is like I like to get

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Speaker 1: my mental health or therapy or like writing journaling.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so non negotiable for myself.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like a self care practice.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, I was gonna be like, if you don't

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Speaker 2: care about people's human rights, then I don't like you.

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Speaker 1: Oh happy you You're amazing.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, there's that. That's anod shit.

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Speaker 1: You share a lot of Like the stuff you've been

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Speaker 1: sharing is unreal.

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Speaker 2: By the way, I think I have a platform, so

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Speaker 2: I want to use it in a specific way and

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Speaker 2: like it shouldn't be controversial.

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Speaker 1: Agreed.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I my non negotiable. I mean, like tea

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Speaker 2: is a big one. I need a tea. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I like that.

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Speaker 2: I feel like my non negotiable should be to see water.

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Speaker 2: But tell me what water water. Australians listen to this

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Speaker 2: and everyone, But I moved to Melbourne as a Why

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah. And even if you get to

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Speaker 2: War the coast like a damn.

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Speaker 1: You should like go up this if you should, if

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Speaker 1: you write this book of yours or the series you're

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Speaker 1: talky great ocean road.

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Speaker 2: And I wanted to get a van and just go

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Speaker 2: travel like up the coast.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's so like one isn't the Twelve Apostles like

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Speaker 1: Do that, my friend. Okay, it's not fair of me

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Speaker 1: to ask actors these questions so you can you can.

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Speaker 2: Be like what's your favorite?

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Speaker 1: What one is play? And one is movie favorite?

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Speaker 2: can it be a musical?

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Speaker 2: Okay, hmm, oh my gosh, well my favorite? Well okay, okay,

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Speaker 2: it depends on the day. But I like, I know

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Speaker 2: it's so popular right now for lack of a better word,

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Speaker 2: but I love Wicked.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, amazing.

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Speaker 2: I think it was I think they did such an

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Speaker 2: incredible job, seriously, like obsessed with it. But I've always

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Speaker 2: loved Wicked. I love I saw the Australian musical. Oh

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Speaker 2: my gosh, oh Muriel's Wedding.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that would have been fun.

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Speaker 2: It was so good.

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Speaker 3: And like Muriel's Wedding as a film is like my

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Speaker 3: one of my mom and I is like favorite films,

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Speaker 2: I just think it's so funny.

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Speaker 1: How is that razor Blades line? It's like, say, it

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Speaker 1: isn't that? Like I'd rather swallow race blades and have

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Speaker 1: with Dea Muriel or something like that you did.

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Speaker 2: That's so good.

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Speaker 1: It's something like that, isn't it? It's that?

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Speaker 2: And also well you know the famous line real terrible Muriel. Yes,

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Speaker 2: I had said that in so long. I also yeah, hm,

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Speaker 2: shouldn't it? No is it called I'm not gonna say

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Speaker 2: that because I can't remember it. There's been There's been.

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Speaker 1: Many, that's all right, though I don't remember half of that.

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Speaker 2: And favorite movie like it changes all the time because

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Speaker 2: I'm always like, do you mean like forever as a kid?

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Speaker 1: It just what's in your zeitgeist now? Like what do

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Speaker 1: you like for you right now? Or that you saw recently?

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Speaker 1: Like I saw one battle after another recently and I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I've seen that twice. I loved it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, something that i've What the heck have I watched recently?

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Speaker 2: I've watched a bunch of horror, But.

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Speaker 1: No, say horror the weapons you love, didn't you?

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Speaker 2: No, I haven't even seen it yet.

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Speaker 1: Oh it's clear I saw weapons.

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Speaker 2: I saw weapons. Yeah, she keeps talking about it. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 2: oh yeah, yeah, but we're doing like the oh no,

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Speaker 2: that's people keep doing the actions of weapons. I need

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Speaker 2: I watched a film recently called Swallow.

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Speaker 2: I think it's like a twenty nineteen Canadian film, and

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Speaker 2: I think it's great. It's basically about this. Well I

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Speaker 2: Hmmm, well go to La No, No, it's expensive.

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Speaker 1: Love it. Final question, when you get good news, who's

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Speaker 2: That makes me want to cry? My god? I mean

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Speaker 2: She's so used to it now, so just like call

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Speaker 2: I love that. Go to my mother.

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Speaker 1: You're incredible, my friend. I cannot wait to see You're incredible.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for You're the great host.

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Speaker 1: I love chatting with you. I could talk to you

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Speaker 1: all day long, but you have two more pods and

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Speaker 1: an audition to a or doer that don't even remind me.

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Speaker 1: You are NonStop my friend.

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Speaker 2: True.

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