1 00:00:03,800 --> 00:00:09,000 Speaker 1: On today's show, Sky Wheatley's vaginal tightening procedure, Northwest chowles 2 00:00:09,000 --> 00:00:12,840 Speaker 1: down on an onion Jeordie Shaw star Gary Beadle announces 3 00:00:12,880 --> 00:00:18,360 Speaker 1: his shock divorce and a TikTok theory about quitting your job. Hello, 4 00:00:18,480 --> 00:00:21,360 Speaker 1: and welcome to Outspoken. It's your dose of the hottest 5 00:00:21,360 --> 00:00:24,960 Speaker 1: influencer and pop culture news twice a week. I'm Sophie 6 00:00:25,000 --> 00:00:27,040 Speaker 1: Torbert and okay, it's just you and I today because 7 00:00:27,040 --> 00:00:30,640 Speaker 1: it appears Amy is still recovering from a Hen's party. Yeah, 8 00:00:30,680 --> 00:00:33,320 Speaker 1: so it's been what a day and a bit and 9 00:00:33,840 --> 00:00:35,920 Speaker 1: she decided that it was all a bit too much 10 00:00:35,920 --> 00:00:38,160 Speaker 1: for her. She didn't even get drunk or anything. It's 11 00:00:38,159 --> 00:00:41,400 Speaker 1: literally just been days and days of work to get 12 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:45,400 Speaker 1: ready for this Hens. I am exhausted. You touched on 13 00:00:45,400 --> 00:00:46,879 Speaker 1: the fact that she didn't get drunk. She had a 14 00:00:46,880 --> 00:00:49,519 Speaker 1: few pims and lemonades, because we did set up a 15 00:00:49,560 --> 00:00:53,080 Speaker 1: pims and lemonade stand. Amy actually did paint the sign herself. 16 00:00:53,080 --> 00:00:54,640 Speaker 1: I have to give her props for that because she 17 00:00:54,720 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 1: wanted to be very involved. But her partner Dale did 18 00:00:58,040 --> 00:01:01,800 Speaker 1: give our bride'sman a task bridesman, so he had left 19 00:01:01,880 --> 00:01:05,399 Speaker 1: an eski under his desk with all the ingredients to 20 00:01:05,440 --> 00:01:08,240 Speaker 1: make skittle bombs, and he really wanted Amy to be 21 00:01:08,280 --> 00:01:09,840 Speaker 1: able to let her hair down. And the reason it 22 00:01:09,880 --> 00:01:13,679 Speaker 1: was skittle bombs is because probably five or eight years ago, 23 00:01:14,240 --> 00:01:17,800 Speaker 1: we had a really fun night out on the towns. Yeah, 24 00:01:17,800 --> 00:01:20,360 Speaker 1: it was our friend's Hens party and she had had 25 00:01:20,440 --> 00:01:22,880 Speaker 1: quite a few skittle bombs and she was ticking along nicely, 26 00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:26,160 Speaker 1: so he wanted her to have some. But I made 27 00:01:27,240 --> 00:01:30,840 Speaker 1: a quite toxic batch of them, i'd say, and everyone 28 00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:35,800 Speaker 1: either they ended up being thrown into the garden or refused. Well, 29 00:01:35,840 --> 00:01:38,679 Speaker 1: my job was making the jugs of pims and lemonade, 30 00:01:38,760 --> 00:01:41,399 Speaker 1: and I got some great feedback. Mum said it was 31 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:44,160 Speaker 1: a really good mix. I was blown away by how 32 00:01:44,200 --> 00:01:47,960 Speaker 1: everyone got so into the theme. Everyone's outfits looked incredible. 33 00:01:48,000 --> 00:01:49,600 Speaker 1: A few of us were saying, God, we should wear 34 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:52,160 Speaker 1: this tennis stuff all the time because it's quite a vibe. 35 00:01:52,280 --> 00:01:55,480 Speaker 1: It really was a vibe. It was very stressful on 36 00:01:55,560 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 1: Saturday afternoon because we had flagged it with Amy that 37 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:00,840 Speaker 1: it was going to be a lot of work to 38 00:02:00,920 --> 00:02:05,600 Speaker 1: transform her outdoor entertaining area into Wimbledon. Look, I'm actually 39 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:08,600 Speaker 1: quite relieved that her party is finally over because it's 40 00:02:08,639 --> 00:02:12,080 Speaker 1: been exhausting. And the reason I never wanted Amy to 41 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:14,519 Speaker 1: have it at her house is because the poor thing, 42 00:02:14,600 --> 00:02:16,320 Speaker 1: she ended up having to do a lot of the 43 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:19,000 Speaker 1: work herself as well, so she was getting up trying 44 00:02:19,040 --> 00:02:21,440 Speaker 1: to serve people, giving people drinks, and I just wanted 45 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 1: her to sit down and enjoy it, because it's the 46 00:02:23,160 --> 00:02:25,160 Speaker 1: one day when I think that you should be waited on. 47 00:02:25,280 --> 00:02:27,320 Speaker 1: Maybe we should have got topless waiters. It might have 48 00:02:27,360 --> 00:02:30,200 Speaker 1: been easy. Oh, that would have been a much better idea. Yeah, 49 00:02:30,240 --> 00:02:31,960 Speaker 1: because we did have a pizza van, but they were 50 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:33,840 Speaker 1: kind of parked in the corner and we wanted to 51 00:02:33,840 --> 00:02:36,400 Speaker 1: do a sit down mill as well. In hindsight, it 52 00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:37,800 Speaker 1: would have been better if it was kind of more 53 00:02:37,880 --> 00:02:40,959 Speaker 1: mingled and people could go up. But we were slaves 54 00:02:40,960 --> 00:02:42,960 Speaker 1: to everyone, so if you and I were serving pizza, 55 00:02:43,360 --> 00:02:46,280 Speaker 1: serving drinks with the hostesses the most asses. I want 56 00:02:46,280 --> 00:02:48,639 Speaker 1: to give a tip for anyone who's planning a Hen's party. 57 00:02:49,120 --> 00:02:51,880 Speaker 1: You might have seen on TikTok or on Instagram the 58 00:02:52,040 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 1: people are printing off really colorful place mats, kind of 59 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:58,200 Speaker 1: that wavy desire. So I ordered the template off Etsy 60 00:02:58,320 --> 00:03:01,680 Speaker 1: and then custom made it to suit Amy's theme and 61 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:04,359 Speaker 1: they were a hit. So I included the games on there. 62 00:03:04,400 --> 00:03:06,680 Speaker 1: I had the menu on there. You only then have 63 00:03:06,760 --> 00:03:10,160 Speaker 1: to print one thing off and they looked really good. Yeah. 64 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:13,240 Speaker 1: Can that be manipulated for yours? Or do I need 65 00:03:13,280 --> 00:03:15,880 Speaker 1: to get another template? I might be a bit of 66 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:18,400 Speaker 1: a henzilla. I might want a different template. I don't know. 67 00:03:19,160 --> 00:03:21,000 Speaker 2: Oh, you guys a bit about it later. 68 00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:27,320 Speaker 1: Sky Wheatley has revealed she recently underwent a vaginal tightening procedure. Now. 69 00:03:27,360 --> 00:03:30,400 Speaker 1: The former Big Brother star openly discussed her decision on 70 00:03:30,440 --> 00:03:33,720 Speaker 1: her Instagram story to her six hundred and twenty five 71 00:03:33,919 --> 00:03:37,480 Speaker 1: thousand followers. She also didn't mind talking about it in 72 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:39,920 Speaker 1: front of her two young sons, who were sitting in 73 00:03:39,920 --> 00:03:42,760 Speaker 1: the cart while she was filming the stories. I did 74 00:03:42,800 --> 00:03:45,840 Speaker 1: notice that she avoided using the term vaginal tightening, so 75 00:03:45,920 --> 00:03:50,119 Speaker 1: she wrote that term on the screen instead. She didn't mind, though, 76 00:03:50,160 --> 00:03:53,680 Speaker 1: talking out loud about her boyfriend Lockie Ware's opinion on 77 00:03:53,760 --> 00:03:56,760 Speaker 1: her vagina, so she said that he didn't have any 78 00:03:56,800 --> 00:03:58,920 Speaker 1: complaints about it. I feel like I need to throw 79 00:03:58,960 --> 00:04:02,560 Speaker 1: to a clip to give this justice. Not that luck 80 00:04:02,600 --> 00:04:04,920 Speaker 1: you had any complaints that I always ask him. I'm 81 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:10,120 Speaker 1: like babe, what's a feeling like? You feel good? And 82 00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:12,560 Speaker 1: he's like, yeah, babe, nothing to worry about. 83 00:04:12,600 --> 00:04:15,320 Speaker 2: But I'm just I just really wanted to try the treatment, 84 00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:17,880 Speaker 2: and I I would highly recommend. 85 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:22,920 Speaker 1: This is why Sky Wheatley remains uncancellable. These types of 86 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:26,040 Speaker 1: conversations that you never expect to hear out loud from 87 00:04:26,080 --> 00:04:29,719 Speaker 1: other people is why people keep tuning in to her content. 88 00:04:29,920 --> 00:04:32,560 Speaker 1: I think it's a conversation that a lot of women 89 00:04:32,800 --> 00:04:35,880 Speaker 1: who have had children could relate to, saying, oh, is 90 00:04:35,880 --> 00:04:38,040 Speaker 1: everything the same? Does it feel the same for you? 91 00:04:38,360 --> 00:04:40,400 Speaker 1: It does concern me a little bit that we're having 92 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:42,800 Speaker 1: this conversation in the sense that it puts a lot 93 00:04:42,839 --> 00:04:46,080 Speaker 1: of pressure on women. And there is all this discussion 94 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:49,400 Speaker 1: about bouncing back and the way you look, and now 95 00:04:49,720 --> 00:04:52,240 Speaker 1: we're putting pressure on people to feel as tight as 96 00:04:52,240 --> 00:04:54,640 Speaker 1: they did before having kids. That's the thing. I didn't 97 00:04:54,680 --> 00:04:56,760 Speaker 1: even know that this was a thing. I've always heard 98 00:04:56,960 --> 00:05:00,719 Speaker 1: people speaking about keegel exercises, but but I didn't know 99 00:05:00,760 --> 00:05:03,680 Speaker 1: that people were genuinely going out there and getting vaginal 100 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:06,559 Speaker 1: tightening procedures. Like, absolutely, no shame if that's what someone 101 00:05:06,600 --> 00:05:09,239 Speaker 1: wants to do to feel better and more confident about themselves. 102 00:05:09,279 --> 00:05:11,720 Speaker 1: But as you said, Kate, I just feel uncomfortable if 103 00:05:11,720 --> 00:05:14,600 Speaker 1: this becomes some sort of default thing that women feel 104 00:05:14,640 --> 00:05:16,720 Speaker 1: like they need to do after having a child, and 105 00:05:16,760 --> 00:05:20,640 Speaker 1: particularly to impress a male partner as well. It reminds 106 00:05:20,680 --> 00:05:22,760 Speaker 1: me of those guys who give a bit of a 107 00:05:22,800 --> 00:05:24,800 Speaker 1: wink to the nurse and say, oh, yeah, add a 108 00:05:24,800 --> 00:05:27,640 Speaker 1: few more stitches in there after their wife's just given birth. 109 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:31,520 Speaker 1: It's so gross, Yeah, it really is. The whole thing 110 00:05:31,560 --> 00:05:33,920 Speaker 1: with the kids in the car added an extra element 111 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:37,159 Speaker 1: of awkwardness because while they didn't seem to understand what 112 00:05:37,360 --> 00:05:40,920 Speaker 1: Sky was talking about, a lot of publications picked up 113 00:05:40,960 --> 00:05:43,240 Speaker 1: on this story. So in front of her kids, Sky 114 00:05:43,440 --> 00:05:46,000 Speaker 1: was talking about how the treatment can help with vaginal 115 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 1: dryness and also sexual pleasure, and it was pretty funny 116 00:05:49,200 --> 00:05:52,239 Speaker 1: because Forrest kept interrupting her and screaming at the camera, 117 00:05:52,279 --> 00:05:54,120 Speaker 1: and She's like, Oh, this is probably a little bit 118 00:05:54,160 --> 00:05:56,080 Speaker 1: inappropriate to talk about in front of them. I'll go 119 00:05:56,160 --> 00:05:59,520 Speaker 1: film another update later on. The optics went great because, 120 00:05:59,600 --> 00:06:01,919 Speaker 1: as you said, Kate, the media had a screenshot of 121 00:06:01,920 --> 00:06:03,599 Speaker 1: her in the car with the kids with that sort 122 00:06:03,600 --> 00:06:05,839 Speaker 1: of headline. Yeah, and all I can think about is 123 00:06:05,839 --> 00:06:08,120 Speaker 1: when they're older and they go google their mum and 124 00:06:08,200 --> 00:06:11,080 Speaker 1: dad's name, this story pops up. It's probably a bit 125 00:06:11,120 --> 00:06:13,359 Speaker 1: too much information for them, lough, it's probably not the 126 00:06:13,400 --> 00:06:15,560 Speaker 1: worst story that they're going to see about their parents' 127 00:06:15,600 --> 00:06:18,440 Speaker 1: pop I am very intrigued to know more about this 128 00:06:18,480 --> 00:06:21,159 Speaker 1: procedure because it was the first time I've ever heard 129 00:06:21,200 --> 00:06:24,000 Speaker 1: about it, and I noticed that Sky did tag the 130 00:06:24,040 --> 00:06:26,360 Speaker 1: clinic that she got the procedure done at, so I 131 00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:29,520 Speaker 1: was wondering if there was some sort of partnership between 132 00:06:29,560 --> 00:06:32,280 Speaker 1: the two. Yeah, I wouldn't be surprised. It reminds me 133 00:06:32,360 --> 00:06:34,679 Speaker 1: of when she was promoting the Calarium at the start 134 00:06:34,720 --> 00:06:36,680 Speaker 1: of the year and there was a lot of backlash 135 00:06:36,760 --> 00:06:40,480 Speaker 1: over her promoting sun beds. I think she sometimes misses 136 00:06:40,560 --> 00:06:42,520 Speaker 1: the mark, even though this is something that maybe she 137 00:06:42,560 --> 00:06:45,720 Speaker 1: thinks is helpful to other women. Some of these procedures 138 00:06:45,760 --> 00:06:48,880 Speaker 1: don't seem to have much scientific basis behind well, this 139 00:06:48,920 --> 00:06:51,400 Speaker 1: one appears to be a little bit different. So A 140 00:06:51,520 --> 00:06:55,000 Speaker 1: study published in the International Journal of Women's Dermatology in 141 00:06:55,000 --> 00:06:58,920 Speaker 1: twenty sixteen stated that sixty seven percent of women who 142 00:06:59,080 --> 00:07:02,320 Speaker 1: underwent this proceed you just saw improvement in vaginal tightness 143 00:07:02,560 --> 00:07:05,400 Speaker 1: after a month, while it increased to eighty seven percent 144 00:07:05,480 --> 00:07:08,440 Speaker 1: after six months, so she might be onto something. And 145 00:07:08,480 --> 00:07:10,960 Speaker 1: for those who might be wondering about the treatment, it 146 00:07:11,040 --> 00:07:14,640 Speaker 1: is called former V and essentially what happens is a 147 00:07:14,720 --> 00:07:17,960 Speaker 1: probe is applied to the vaginal area and it delivers 148 00:07:18,000 --> 00:07:22,960 Speaker 1: a radio frequency that stimulates tissue regeneration and boost collagen production. 149 00:07:23,280 --> 00:07:27,200 Speaker 1: So this basically enhances the skin firmness and strength. That 150 00:07:27,360 --> 00:07:30,120 Speaker 1: sounds really painful and unpleasant. Yeah. I know it's not 151 00:07:30,200 --> 00:07:32,120 Speaker 1: an actual laser, but so if you and I have 152 00:07:32,200 --> 00:07:35,800 Speaker 1: both had our face lasered, and I can't imagine having 153 00:07:35,960 --> 00:07:39,560 Speaker 1: that type of pain in a private area. Sky did 154 00:07:39,800 --> 00:07:42,560 Speaker 1: liken the procedure to the feeling of getting a perhaps 155 00:07:42,680 --> 00:07:45,760 Speaker 1: mean She said, while it was uncomfortable, it wasn't painful. 156 00:07:46,000 --> 00:07:47,960 Speaker 1: But you know when people say that and then you 157 00:07:48,080 --> 00:07:49,920 Speaker 1: go in and get this thing done and it ends 158 00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:52,600 Speaker 1: up being excruciating. Yeah, I feel like everyone has a 159 00:07:52,680 --> 00:07:55,520 Speaker 1: different pain threshold. The thing that I just sort of 160 00:07:55,600 --> 00:07:57,760 Speaker 1: laugh about when I think about this is I can't 161 00:07:57,800 --> 00:07:59,680 Speaker 1: really see men being like, oh, I'm going to do 162 00:07:59,760 --> 00:08:01,680 Speaker 1: this to make sure my partner likes I'm gonna spend 163 00:08:01,720 --> 00:08:03,760 Speaker 1: all this money and do something incredibly uncomfortable and all, 164 00:08:03,800 --> 00:08:05,880 Speaker 1: which just so my wife likes it. What about the 165 00:08:05,880 --> 00:08:08,280 Speaker 1: guys that get penis enlargements. I wouldn't think that would 166 00:08:08,280 --> 00:08:10,960 Speaker 1: be incredibly painful. Yeah, but I don't think that there's 167 00:08:11,000 --> 00:08:14,400 Speaker 1: tons of guys getting penis enlargement. No, true. I mean 168 00:08:14,480 --> 00:08:18,160 Speaker 1: some guys do get vaseectomes after they've had children. I 169 00:08:18,160 --> 00:08:20,720 Speaker 1: think that's a little bit different because it's not cosmetic 170 00:08:20,920 --> 00:08:24,280 Speaker 1: or aimed at the other person's pleasure. With a vasectomy, 171 00:08:24,360 --> 00:08:26,960 Speaker 1: that's a decision that the couple has made together because 172 00:08:26,960 --> 00:08:28,800 Speaker 1: they don't want to have any more children. It does 173 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:32,520 Speaker 1: benefit women who have been given the mental load of 174 00:08:32,559 --> 00:08:35,320 Speaker 1: thinking about contraception though. Yeah, that's true. I suppose they're 175 00:08:35,320 --> 00:08:37,560 Speaker 1: doing something all right, then I. 176 00:08:37,520 --> 00:08:38,000 Speaker 2: Just love that. 177 00:08:39,240 --> 00:08:43,600 Speaker 1: Another week, another TikTok theory that categorizes which generation you 178 00:08:43,720 --> 00:08:47,000 Speaker 1: hail from. So last week it was all about whether 179 00:08:47,080 --> 00:08:49,839 Speaker 1: you wear invisible socks or longer socks pulled up to 180 00:08:49,880 --> 00:08:52,600 Speaker 1: your calf. Sophie, what are you? I'm, of course team 181 00:08:52,720 --> 00:08:55,360 Speaker 1: invisible socks. I'm a millennial. I have grown up wearing 182 00:08:55,400 --> 00:08:58,080 Speaker 1: invisible socks and thinking that it's embarrassing if you see 183 00:08:58,080 --> 00:09:00,520 Speaker 1: your socks poking out from your shoes. We did used 184 00:09:00,520 --> 00:09:02,520 Speaker 1: to wear knee high socks at school, so I don't 185 00:09:02,520 --> 00:09:04,440 Speaker 1: know if that's just put you off the whole socks 186 00:09:04,480 --> 00:09:05,040 Speaker 1: being visible. 187 00:09:05,080 --> 00:09:05,200 Speaker 2: Well. 188 00:09:05,200 --> 00:09:07,880 Speaker 1: Amy actually bought me a pair of the cool higher 189 00:09:07,960 --> 00:09:11,240 Speaker 1: socks for her hen's party, and I was gonna put 190 00:09:11,280 --> 00:09:14,760 Speaker 1: them on, but then I remembered someone saying that when 191 00:09:14,800 --> 00:09:17,240 Speaker 1: you wear the higher socks, it makes your legs look 192 00:09:17,280 --> 00:09:19,720 Speaker 1: stumpier because it cuts you off at a certain angle, 193 00:09:19,800 --> 00:09:22,720 Speaker 1: and as somebody has quite large carbs, I didn't want 194 00:09:22,760 --> 00:09:24,880 Speaker 1: to take the risk for something as important as a 195 00:09:24,880 --> 00:09:26,920 Speaker 1: hen's party. I'll see I wore them. I was like, 196 00:09:27,040 --> 00:09:29,080 Speaker 1: fuck this, I'm gonna look like a gen Zea with 197 00:09:29,120 --> 00:09:32,000 Speaker 1: my higher socks. UF. I actually quite liked the look. Yeah. Now, 198 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:34,960 Speaker 1: what is this new TikTok theory? Though? Well, this week 199 00:09:35,040 --> 00:09:37,959 Speaker 1: it's all about your response to someone quitting their job. 200 00:09:38,320 --> 00:09:42,240 Speaker 1: So a TikToker called Samantha She who has sixty thousand followers. 201 00:09:42,559 --> 00:09:45,040 Speaker 1: She came up with a theory that your reaction to 202 00:09:45,120 --> 00:09:49,200 Speaker 1: someone resigning reveals a difference in your generation. So, before 203 00:09:49,240 --> 00:09:52,360 Speaker 1: we get into the theory, how would you react if 204 00:09:52,400 --> 00:09:55,120 Speaker 1: your friend told you they were quitting their job. I 205 00:09:55,160 --> 00:09:59,160 Speaker 1: think I would react with positivity because generally I'm finding 206 00:09:59,160 --> 00:10:02,199 Speaker 1: that my friends acquitting their job to go on and 207 00:10:02,240 --> 00:10:04,640 Speaker 1: do their own thing, whether it's their own business or 208 00:10:04,679 --> 00:10:07,000 Speaker 1: become a freelancer. And I think a lot of us 209 00:10:07,040 --> 00:10:10,280 Speaker 1: millennials and Gen Zettas don't want to be weighed down 210 00:10:10,400 --> 00:10:13,440 Speaker 1: by working for someone else. So often it's because someone's 211 00:10:13,480 --> 00:10:15,240 Speaker 1: going off to do their own thing. So I'm always like, 212 00:10:15,320 --> 00:10:19,040 Speaker 1: that's fantastic, that's great, I mean, very encouraging of that. Well, Sophie, 213 00:10:19,040 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 1: I'm happy to say you pass the test for your generation. 214 00:10:22,040 --> 00:10:26,319 Speaker 1: So the theory is that Gen x's and boomers react 215 00:10:26,360 --> 00:10:31,599 Speaker 1: with concern and trepidation, whereas millennials and Gen Zettas respond positively. 216 00:10:31,800 --> 00:10:33,240 Speaker 1: Let's throw to what Samantha said. 217 00:10:34,000 --> 00:10:37,839 Speaker 2: The difference between the generations is like every time that 218 00:10:38,400 --> 00:10:42,040 Speaker 2: I tell someone who's over I don't know forty, that 219 00:10:42,120 --> 00:10:44,239 Speaker 2: I left my job, they're. 220 00:10:44,000 --> 00:10:46,600 Speaker 1: Like, oh my god, what are you going to do? 221 00:10:46,800 --> 00:10:49,520 Speaker 2: Like you don't have a giant job lined up? Like 222 00:10:49,559 --> 00:10:53,680 Speaker 2: aren't you nervous? Like don't you have to pay? And 223 00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:57,080 Speaker 2: then whenever I tells someone that is like I don't know, 224 00:10:57,160 --> 00:11:02,480 Speaker 2: twenties or early thirties, they're like sleep clean, congratulations less 225 00:11:02,480 --> 00:11:05,480 Speaker 2: go celebrate. You're the best, You're the barm You're an icon. 226 00:11:06,600 --> 00:11:09,040 Speaker 1: I think social media plays a big part in this, 227 00:11:09,120 --> 00:11:13,280 Speaker 1: because you see influences online earning big bucks for going 228 00:11:13,320 --> 00:11:15,800 Speaker 1: against the nine to five trend. And I think a 229 00:11:15,800 --> 00:11:18,800 Speaker 1: lot of young people dream about working for themselves and 230 00:11:18,880 --> 00:11:21,640 Speaker 1: having that work life balance of flexibility. I think a 231 00:11:21,679 --> 00:11:24,920 Speaker 1: lot of young people become disillusioned when they do finally 232 00:11:24,960 --> 00:11:27,720 Speaker 1: get a nine to five job because they're like, is 233 00:11:27,800 --> 00:11:31,320 Speaker 1: this it? Like this is shit. You're just gonna eat 234 00:11:31,320 --> 00:11:33,800 Speaker 1: an onion like an apple. This is what she does people. 235 00:11:33,880 --> 00:11:39,040 Speaker 1: She eats veggies like apple. Kim Kardashian's ten year old 236 00:11:39,120 --> 00:11:42,000 Speaker 1: daughter at Northwest has shocked viewers by eating a raw 237 00:11:42,080 --> 00:11:45,400 Speaker 1: onion like an apple on a recent episode of The Kardashians. 238 00:11:45,880 --> 00:11:47,960 Speaker 1: When I saw this, all I could think about was 239 00:11:47,960 --> 00:11:51,800 Speaker 1: that scene in Sign Fell when George Gastanza mistakens an 240 00:11:51,880 --> 00:11:54,240 Speaker 1: onion for an apple and just quiets into it all. 241 00:11:54,240 --> 00:11:56,840 Speaker 1: The difference here is that north didn't make a mistake. 242 00:11:56,880 --> 00:11:59,720 Speaker 1: According to Kim, she eats a lot of different vegetables 243 00:11:59,760 --> 00:12:03,480 Speaker 1: like apple. I love that Kim said that with such conviction, 244 00:12:03,640 --> 00:12:07,119 Speaker 1: and she didn't acknowledge the fact that eating a vegetable 245 00:12:07,200 --> 00:12:10,520 Speaker 1: like an onion is very strange because most people can't 246 00:12:10,520 --> 00:12:14,240 Speaker 1: even handle cutting up an onion without crying, but actually 247 00:12:14,320 --> 00:12:17,280 Speaker 1: biting into it and having the smell and the scent. 248 00:12:17,920 --> 00:12:20,560 Speaker 1: How could you eat that? Yeah, it's not something that 249 00:12:20,600 --> 00:12:22,520 Speaker 1: you really meant to eat raw. Like I don't know, 250 00:12:22,600 --> 00:12:25,280 Speaker 1: some people have a little bit of raw onion and salad. 251 00:12:25,760 --> 00:12:28,400 Speaker 1: It's a difference between having a red onion though. I 252 00:12:28,440 --> 00:12:30,760 Speaker 1: feel like you can eat a red onion raw, but 253 00:12:30,840 --> 00:12:32,880 Speaker 1: not a white one. Well, red onion's more of a 254 00:12:32,920 --> 00:12:36,600 Speaker 1: salad onion. It's pretty funny because Reese's dad, everyone gives 255 00:12:36,640 --> 00:12:39,320 Speaker 1: him shit because he eats a lot of strange vegetable. 256 00:12:39,400 --> 00:12:42,600 Speaker 1: So for lunch he'll have like a plate with turnips 257 00:12:42,600 --> 00:12:44,520 Speaker 1: and radishes on it, and he will have a vinegar 258 00:12:44,600 --> 00:12:48,040 Speaker 1: on it. It must be a particular craving for some people. 259 00:12:48,080 --> 00:12:51,000 Speaker 1: Maybe that maybe North is missing something out in her die. Oh. 260 00:12:51,040 --> 00:12:53,400 Speaker 1: I don't think that this is about her enjoying the 261 00:12:53,440 --> 00:12:55,520 Speaker 1: taste at all. I think that this is purely for 262 00:12:55,600 --> 00:12:58,760 Speaker 1: shock value. I think that she is trying to desperately 263 00:12:58,800 --> 00:13:01,840 Speaker 1: get her parents' attention. I mean, maybe it's because Kim 264 00:13:01,880 --> 00:13:04,280 Speaker 1: and Karnie are going through a divorce and sort of 265 00:13:04,320 --> 00:13:07,080 Speaker 1: acting out like this and doing something strange is a 266 00:13:07,120 --> 00:13:09,040 Speaker 1: way for them to focus on her because I can 267 00:13:09,080 --> 00:13:13,200 Speaker 1: imagine both of them having incredibly busy careers, and you know, 268 00:13:13,280 --> 00:13:15,400 Speaker 1: I mean, Kim Kardashian does get accused of being quite 269 00:13:15,400 --> 00:13:18,920 Speaker 1: self centered sometime. Maybe it's a cry for help, particularly 270 00:13:18,960 --> 00:13:21,679 Speaker 1: when they do have a private chef that could make 271 00:13:21,720 --> 00:13:24,840 Speaker 1: her anything that she wants to eat, Like why would 272 00:13:24,840 --> 00:13:26,880 Speaker 1: you choose to eat a raw onion? Well, we saw 273 00:13:26,920 --> 00:13:29,320 Speaker 1: in this episode that she was desperate to make her 274 00:13:29,360 --> 00:13:32,320 Speaker 1: own sushi with Kim, and Kim's like, oh, let's maybe 275 00:13:32,400 --> 00:13:34,760 Speaker 1: get the private chef out to help, but she's like, no, Mom, 276 00:13:34,800 --> 00:13:38,040 Speaker 1: we're doing this ourselves. It's just bizarre because for them, 277 00:13:38,240 --> 00:13:41,000 Speaker 1: they clearly want to do it. Yeah, they also paid 278 00:13:41,040 --> 00:13:43,360 Speaker 1: out Kendall Jenna when because North was cutting up a 279 00:13:43,400 --> 00:13:45,800 Speaker 1: cucumber and she was saying that she's ambidextrous and can 280 00:13:45,800 --> 00:13:47,760 Speaker 1: do it with both hands, and she's like, oh, Kim's like, 281 00:13:47,800 --> 00:13:51,040 Speaker 1: maybe we should FaceTime Auntie Kendall. Well, everyone's saying that 282 00:13:51,160 --> 00:13:54,120 Speaker 1: North deserves her own show, and I think that when 283 00:13:54,160 --> 00:13:57,480 Speaker 1: she's older, they could definitely be onto something. Yeah, well, 284 00:13:57,520 --> 00:14:00,439 Speaker 1: I remember when she was first born and Cant was 285 00:14:00,559 --> 00:14:02,960 Speaker 1: very protective and he didn't want her appearing on The 286 00:14:03,000 --> 00:14:06,440 Speaker 1: cut Ashian Show. So it's really come full circle where 287 00:14:06,480 --> 00:14:08,679 Speaker 1: the kids are starting to play a bit of a 288 00:14:08,679 --> 00:14:12,320 Speaker 1: main role. I did see Penelope was giving Scott Distick 289 00:14:12,320 --> 00:14:14,559 Speaker 1: advice on his dating and saying that he shouldn't be 290 00:14:14,640 --> 00:14:19,280 Speaker 1: dating teenagers and they're so sassy, like North is literally 291 00:14:19,320 --> 00:14:23,360 Speaker 1: a mini Kanye. She sounds so much like him it's crazy. Well, 292 00:14:23,400 --> 00:14:26,560 Speaker 1: they're only about around ten, in saying that though they 293 00:14:26,600 --> 00:14:30,320 Speaker 1: have grown up in a very adult environment with cameras 294 00:14:30,360 --> 00:14:33,760 Speaker 1: around them, a lot of older people and influences, so 295 00:14:33,800 --> 00:14:36,800 Speaker 1: you can see why they've grown up a lot faster 296 00:14:36,920 --> 00:14:40,400 Speaker 1: than other children. Yeah, definitely, I did like this episode 297 00:14:40,440 --> 00:14:43,120 Speaker 1: because Kim actually opened up about the struggles that she 298 00:14:43,200 --> 00:14:46,120 Speaker 1: has with parenting, and she said that North is really 299 00:14:46,160 --> 00:14:49,040 Speaker 1: special and smart and creative and definitely beats to her 300 00:14:49,080 --> 00:14:52,800 Speaker 1: own drum, like her personality is really really silly, and 301 00:14:52,840 --> 00:14:54,920 Speaker 1: then she went on to say that Courtney always says 302 00:14:54,960 --> 00:14:57,520 Speaker 1: that North is Kim's lesson on this planet, and when 303 00:14:57,560 --> 00:15:00,080 Speaker 1: she was asked to elaborate on that, she said that 304 00:15:00,480 --> 00:15:03,560 Speaker 1: North teaches her patience and a lot about life. And 305 00:15:03,680 --> 00:15:06,680 Speaker 1: Kim was talking about North that had this massive meltdown 306 00:15:06,680 --> 00:15:09,160 Speaker 1: and was refusing to get in the car and wanted 307 00:15:09,200 --> 00:15:11,640 Speaker 1: all this private time with Kim and doesn't talk to 308 00:15:11,680 --> 00:15:14,120 Speaker 1: her little siblings. And I was like, I'm loving this. 309 00:15:14,240 --> 00:15:16,880 Speaker 1: I'm loving seeing this side of the Kardashian family that 310 00:15:16,920 --> 00:15:20,160 Speaker 1: we don't normally get to look in at. You're talking 311 00:15:20,200 --> 00:15:25,280 Speaker 1: about the bullshit details because it's all your egotistical, selfish 312 00:15:25,320 --> 00:15:29,680 Speaker 1: mind can think about. It's being reported that Courtney Kardashian 313 00:15:29,800 --> 00:15:32,560 Speaker 1: has given birth to a baby boy. It is her 314 00:15:32,600 --> 00:15:36,240 Speaker 1: fourth child and first with her husband Travis Barker. Now, 315 00:15:36,280 --> 00:15:38,600 Speaker 1: can you remember a couple of months ago, back in June, 316 00:15:38,640 --> 00:15:41,800 Speaker 1: she announced her pregnancy in the most iconic way. She 317 00:15:41,920 --> 00:15:44,600 Speaker 1: was holding up a poster at Travis Barker's Blink One 318 00:15:44,680 --> 00:15:47,560 Speaker 1: Night two concert with a sign saying I'm pregnant. Yeah, 319 00:15:47,560 --> 00:15:50,840 Speaker 1: And this was after a lot of IVF attempts. The 320 00:15:50,920 --> 00:15:54,480 Speaker 1: couple did confirm that they actually naturally conceived this child. 321 00:15:54,760 --> 00:15:58,000 Speaker 1: And it's pretty scary because only in September, Courtney shared 322 00:15:58,000 --> 00:16:01,000 Speaker 1: with her followers that she had undergone am urgency fetal 323 00:16:01,080 --> 00:16:04,960 Speaker 1: surgery and confirmed doctors had saved her baby's life. It 324 00:16:05,000 --> 00:16:09,320 Speaker 1: feels like this is the longest pregnancy ever. It shouldn't 325 00:16:09,320 --> 00:16:11,400 Speaker 1: feel that way because when they announced it, she was 326 00:16:11,640 --> 00:16:14,360 Speaker 1: like four months pregnant already. Yeah, she was pretty along 327 00:16:14,400 --> 00:16:17,280 Speaker 1: the way. I think it's because a lot has happened 328 00:16:17,280 --> 00:16:20,600 Speaker 1: within the pregnancy. It's not just been smooth sailing, and 329 00:16:20,640 --> 00:16:24,720 Speaker 1: it's pretty unprecedented. Because Travis confirmed his soon to be 330 00:16:24,800 --> 00:16:28,080 Speaker 1: son's name back in July, so in an interview he 331 00:16:28,200 --> 00:16:31,440 Speaker 1: said that they're going to call their son Rocky thirteen 332 00:16:32,000 --> 00:16:35,640 Speaker 1: because it'd been in his head recently. So the name 333 00:16:35,800 --> 00:16:39,080 Speaker 1: Rocky comes from musician Rocky George, who played guitar for 334 00:16:39,160 --> 00:16:44,160 Speaker 1: Suicidal Tendencies, and Travis also took inspiration from the Rocky movies, 335 00:16:44,160 --> 00:16:46,840 Speaker 1: which was my first thought when I saw the name. Wow, 336 00:16:46,920 --> 00:16:49,360 Speaker 1: it does suit their vibe because obviously going for that 337 00:16:49,440 --> 00:16:53,920 Speaker 1: very grungy rocker vibe. Yeah, the inclusion of thirteen is 338 00:16:53,960 --> 00:16:56,480 Speaker 1: because Travis said it is the greatest number of all time. 339 00:16:56,520 --> 00:17:00,560 Speaker 1: Maybe he's a bit of a swifty. Is Courtney any 340 00:17:00,680 --> 00:17:02,720 Speaker 1: saying the name or is it all what Travis wants? 341 00:17:02,920 --> 00:17:05,399 Speaker 1: It does seem like it's all what Travis wants. It's 342 00:17:05,440 --> 00:17:08,439 Speaker 1: pretty funny though, because his daughter Alabama said that she 343 00:17:08,600 --> 00:17:10,679 Speaker 1: wasn't a fan of the name at the time and 344 00:17:10,720 --> 00:17:14,400 Speaker 1: she labeled it so bad. It appears though, it has 345 00:17:14,480 --> 00:17:17,040 Speaker 1: been growing on her because in a recent interview she 346 00:17:17,080 --> 00:17:19,520 Speaker 1: said it's a cool name. We all have very authentic, 347 00:17:19,720 --> 00:17:23,840 Speaker 1: weird names. The name isn't very Courtney because her other 348 00:17:23,960 --> 00:17:26,760 Speaker 1: children do have quite normal names. So she's got a 349 00:17:26,760 --> 00:17:30,000 Speaker 1: son called Mason and Penelope. Her other son is called Rain, 350 00:17:30,080 --> 00:17:32,400 Speaker 1: so that is a bit more unusual. But I don't 351 00:17:32,440 --> 00:17:34,520 Speaker 1: know if Rocky sort of goes with the flow of 352 00:17:34,560 --> 00:17:37,359 Speaker 1: these names. Yeah, but back when Mason was born, because 353 00:17:37,359 --> 00:17:40,120 Speaker 1: he's thirteen now, I don't think it was a very 354 00:17:40,160 --> 00:17:42,200 Speaker 1: common name. I think a lot of people have copied 355 00:17:42,200 --> 00:17:44,600 Speaker 1: it from Courtney. Yeah, well, it became a very on 356 00:17:44,800 --> 00:17:47,639 Speaker 1: trend name. Everyone was calling their child Mason. I wonder 357 00:17:47,680 --> 00:17:50,119 Speaker 1: if we're going to see Rocky popping up as one 358 00:17:50,160 --> 00:17:53,360 Speaker 1: of those names, whether there will be any impact out 359 00:17:53,400 --> 00:17:55,760 Speaker 1: of Rockies. I don't think so. I don't think Courtney 360 00:17:55,800 --> 00:17:58,720 Speaker 1: has as much of a pool anymore. Travis's children are 361 00:17:58,760 --> 00:18:01,960 Speaker 1: called Alabama and Lamb, so I think Rocky fits more 362 00:18:02,000 --> 00:18:04,239 Speaker 1: in with his vibe, and I think he's really pushing it. 363 00:18:04,440 --> 00:18:06,840 Speaker 1: I'll be interested to see if they actually do announce 364 00:18:06,880 --> 00:18:09,280 Speaker 1: this as the name, because Travis has been talking about 365 00:18:09,320 --> 00:18:12,199 Speaker 1: it for so long. But the Kardashians are known for 366 00:18:12,320 --> 00:18:15,160 Speaker 1: changing their mind at the times rate. 367 00:18:15,400 --> 00:18:16,439 Speaker 2: I feel like I'm happy. 368 00:18:17,080 --> 00:18:19,600 Speaker 1: I've got two kids, swell one kid to one and aware. 369 00:18:19,800 --> 00:18:21,680 Speaker 1: So yeah, we're gonna got Manchester. We're going to buy 370 00:18:21,720 --> 00:18:22,040 Speaker 1: the ring. 371 00:18:22,520 --> 00:18:23,720 Speaker 2: I'm much a little bit nervous. 372 00:18:24,680 --> 00:18:27,760 Speaker 1: Former Jeordie Shaw star Gary Beadle has announced his shock 373 00:18:27,800 --> 00:18:31,080 Speaker 1: split from wife Emma McVeigh, just two years after tying 374 00:18:31,119 --> 00:18:33,879 Speaker 1: the knot. The news comes as his former flame and 375 00:18:33,880 --> 00:18:38,000 Speaker 1: co star Charlotte Crosby announced her engagement Sophie. I have 376 00:18:38,240 --> 00:18:41,720 Speaker 1: not been across this. What has been going on? Well. 377 00:18:41,760 --> 00:18:44,119 Speaker 1: Gary announced the end of his marriage in a very 378 00:18:44,119 --> 00:18:47,119 Speaker 1: odd way. It was all very casual during an Instagram 379 00:18:47,240 --> 00:18:49,679 Speaker 1: Q and a. So the follower asked him if the 380 00:18:49,720 --> 00:18:52,399 Speaker 1: couple were still together, and this was after there was 381 00:18:52,400 --> 00:18:55,560 Speaker 1: a bit of speculation because they hadn't been posting about 382 00:18:55,600 --> 00:18:59,000 Speaker 1: one another for a couple of weeks. So Gary said, hey, no, 383 00:18:59,119 --> 00:19:02,719 Speaker 1: we actually separate about three weeks ago. We are still friends. 384 00:19:02,760 --> 00:19:05,240 Speaker 1: There is no bad blood or anything. We have worked 385 00:19:05,280 --> 00:19:07,280 Speaker 1: out the best way of doing it for the kids, 386 00:19:07,480 --> 00:19:09,679 Speaker 1: which for me and Emma is always going to be 387 00:19:09,840 --> 00:19:12,959 Speaker 1: the most important thing. We both deserve to be happy 388 00:19:13,000 --> 00:19:16,720 Speaker 1: as well as being parents. It's quite premature to announce 389 00:19:16,720 --> 00:19:20,560 Speaker 1: it after a three weeks separation, particularly when you have kids. 390 00:19:21,000 --> 00:19:23,520 Speaker 1: They must know for sure that there is no path 391 00:19:23,560 --> 00:19:27,119 Speaker 1: of reconciliation. Yeah. I was very surprised that he announced 392 00:19:27,119 --> 00:19:29,560 Speaker 1: it in this way because we have been seeing a 393 00:19:29,560 --> 00:19:33,880 Speaker 1: lot of celebrities and influencers utilizing pr agencies to put 394 00:19:33,920 --> 00:19:37,639 Speaker 1: out these perfectly curated pr statements when they break up, 395 00:19:37,640 --> 00:19:39,240 Speaker 1: and most of the time, you know, they say, oh, 396 00:19:39,240 --> 00:19:41,399 Speaker 1: we're going to be great friends, and you know, this 397 00:19:41,480 --> 00:19:43,959 Speaker 1: is a great decision for the two of us. But 398 00:19:44,040 --> 00:19:48,280 Speaker 1: this feels very weird because Emma hadn't said anything yet. 399 00:19:48,320 --> 00:19:50,240 Speaker 1: It wasn't coming from both of them, it was just 400 00:19:50,320 --> 00:19:53,399 Speaker 1: coming from Gary. Yeah. It almost seems like he's jumped 401 00:19:53,400 --> 00:19:55,320 Speaker 1: the gun to try and get his point of view 402 00:19:55,400 --> 00:19:57,879 Speaker 1: out there before she says anything. Yeah, And it's not 403 00:19:57,920 --> 00:20:01,040 Speaker 1: as though Emma doesn't have her own platform. So when 404 00:20:01,080 --> 00:20:03,639 Speaker 1: Gary and Emma met, she was a model and she 405 00:20:03,720 --> 00:20:06,920 Speaker 1: has grown her following obviously through her association with him, 406 00:20:06,960 --> 00:20:09,879 Speaker 1: So she has over eight hundred thousand followers, and she 407 00:20:10,080 --> 00:20:13,359 Speaker 1: was allegedly left blindsided by the very casual tone of 408 00:20:13,400 --> 00:20:16,920 Speaker 1: his breakup announcement. So she finally did break her silence, 409 00:20:17,000 --> 00:20:19,959 Speaker 1: sharing a mirror selfie where you could visibly see she 410 00:20:20,040 --> 00:20:22,720 Speaker 1: was still wearing her wedding pants. Wow, and she wrote, 411 00:20:22,760 --> 00:20:24,720 Speaker 1: it's been really hard for me and the kids to 412 00:20:24,760 --> 00:20:27,600 Speaker 1: be separated. There's been a lot of crying on FaceTime, 413 00:20:27,640 --> 00:20:30,800 Speaker 1: which really breaks my heart. I've been numb and focusing 414 00:20:30,800 --> 00:20:33,720 Speaker 1: on my children while still trying to work. I've honestly 415 00:20:33,800 --> 00:20:36,400 Speaker 1: not known what to say. I'm hoping this will get 416 00:20:36,440 --> 00:20:39,600 Speaker 1: easier in time. Sending so much love to anyone going 417 00:20:39,640 --> 00:20:42,400 Speaker 1: through something similar, and thank you so much to everyone 418 00:20:42,440 --> 00:20:44,480 Speaker 1: who has been checking in on me. That, to me 419 00:20:44,640 --> 00:20:47,920 Speaker 1: makes it clear that it wasn't Emma who made this decision, 420 00:20:48,640 --> 00:20:51,960 Speaker 1: and it seems like she's pretty shocked that Gary has 421 00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:55,120 Speaker 1: even touched on it, because, as I said earlier, three 422 00:20:55,160 --> 00:20:57,800 Speaker 1: weeks isn't very long too make an announcement like this 423 00:20:57,840 --> 00:21:00,760 Speaker 1: when children are involved. Well, for those who haven't actually 424 00:21:00,800 --> 00:21:03,800 Speaker 1: seen Jordie Shaw before, what are you doing with your life? 425 00:21:03,840 --> 00:21:06,360 Speaker 1: You need to rectify this immediately. But for those who 426 00:21:06,359 --> 00:21:09,040 Speaker 1: don't know who Gary is. He was on the show 427 00:21:09,080 --> 00:21:11,840 Speaker 1: and he was touted as being this huge player. Yeah. 428 00:21:11,880 --> 00:21:14,560 Speaker 1: He was known for his big parsnip as well. Yeah, 429 00:21:14,600 --> 00:21:17,080 Speaker 1: and he would practically be bringing a new go home 430 00:21:17,160 --> 00:21:20,239 Speaker 1: every night. And a big part of the show was 431 00:21:20,240 --> 00:21:23,000 Speaker 1: his on again, off again relationship with his co star 432 00:21:23,200 --> 00:21:26,320 Speaker 1: Charlotte Crosby, and she was a fan favorite. Everyone really 433 00:21:26,359 --> 00:21:29,040 Speaker 1: wanted to see them sort their shit out and get 434 00:21:29,080 --> 00:21:32,480 Speaker 1: together properly. Yeah, because while Gary was a player, there 435 00:21:32,600 --> 00:21:35,960 Speaker 1: was a side to him that was likable. And even 436 00:21:36,000 --> 00:21:39,200 Speaker 1: though he treated Charlotte like shit for so many seasons, 437 00:21:39,760 --> 00:21:41,600 Speaker 1: there was a point where they got together for a 438 00:21:41,600 --> 00:21:43,800 Speaker 1: little bit and it was really good. And then of 439 00:21:43,840 --> 00:21:46,040 Speaker 1: course he ended up breaking her heart. She had an 440 00:21:46,080 --> 00:21:47,640 Speaker 1: ep topic pregnancy with him. 441 00:21:47,760 --> 00:21:47,879 Speaker 2: Ye. 442 00:21:47,960 --> 00:21:51,480 Speaker 1: Yeah. The saddest bit about that story is that when 443 00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:55,400 Speaker 1: Charlotte was rushed to hospital and she almost lost her life, 444 00:21:55,400 --> 00:21:58,160 Speaker 1: like this was a serious thing. So Gary was off 445 00:21:58,160 --> 00:22:01,679 Speaker 1: filming X on the Beach and known to Charlotte, Gary 446 00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:04,840 Speaker 1: slept with his ex on the show, So she was 447 00:22:04,880 --> 00:22:07,800 Speaker 1: going through the heartbreak of losing a child and then 448 00:22:07,840 --> 00:22:10,639 Speaker 1: also losing her partner, and he just wasn't there for 449 00:22:10,680 --> 00:22:13,320 Speaker 1: her through any of this. Yeah, Charlotte has spoken a 450 00:22:13,320 --> 00:22:17,080 Speaker 1: lot about this traumatic experience on her podcast in interviews, 451 00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:19,879 Speaker 1: and it's clear just how painful this whole thing was 452 00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:23,320 Speaker 1: for her because it seemed like Gary wasn't really there 453 00:22:23,359 --> 00:22:26,560 Speaker 1: for her at all. Yeah. Well, particularly because very shortly 454 00:22:26,720 --> 00:22:31,240 Speaker 1: after Charlotte and Gary parted ways, Gary started dating Emma 455 00:22:31,359 --> 00:22:33,960 Speaker 1: and everyone thought it was a bit too soon. I 456 00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:37,280 Speaker 1: didn't realize this, but Gary was on Hell's Kitchen, which 457 00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:40,879 Speaker 1: was being filmed in Australia, so he brought Emma out 458 00:22:40,920 --> 00:22:43,679 Speaker 1: to be with him whilst he was filming for this show, 459 00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:47,520 Speaker 1: and apparently she was pretty upset because he was filming 460 00:22:47,520 --> 00:22:50,200 Speaker 1: for fifteen hours a day and they really didn't spend 461 00:22:50,200 --> 00:22:53,960 Speaker 1: any time together. And once they returned home from Australia, 462 00:22:54,080 --> 00:22:57,199 Speaker 1: Gary went straight back to filming Jordie Show and he 463 00:22:57,240 --> 00:23:00,359 Speaker 1: allegedly broke up with Emma over text message wilst he 464 00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:02,119 Speaker 1: was in the house. God, it seems like such a 465 00:23:02,200 --> 00:23:05,560 Speaker 1: nice guy, no, And at the time, Emma slammed Gary 466 00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:08,280 Speaker 1: on Twitter saying that he cheated on her, and she 467 00:23:08,400 --> 00:23:11,439 Speaker 1: told the media that she was contacted by multiple people 468 00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:14,560 Speaker 1: on Twitter who accused Gary of flirting with other women 469 00:23:14,720 --> 00:23:17,760 Speaker 1: whilst he was filming on Jordie Show. Now, apparently she'd 470 00:23:17,800 --> 00:23:20,800 Speaker 1: never watched the show before, so she hadn't seen him 471 00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:23,479 Speaker 1: in action. So I don't believe that. I don't believe 472 00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:26,080 Speaker 1: that you start dating someone that's famous from a TV 473 00:23:26,160 --> 00:23:28,560 Speaker 1: show and you don't do a sneaky little look into 474 00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:30,800 Speaker 1: what they've been acting like on the show. Yeah, it 475 00:23:30,840 --> 00:23:33,760 Speaker 1: was quite embarrassing because they ended up getting back together 476 00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:36,159 Speaker 1: and she spoke to the media about it and she 477 00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:39,400 Speaker 1: said that she blamed her hormones as she had discovered 478 00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:42,639 Speaker 1: that she was pregnant whilst Gary was filming on the show. 479 00:23:43,040 --> 00:23:46,560 Speaker 1: So they did reconcile shortly after filming wrapped in August 480 00:23:46,640 --> 00:23:50,280 Speaker 1: twenty seventeen, and then announced the baby news publicly. Well 481 00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:54,440 Speaker 1: that's just awkward because it seems like they only got 482 00:23:54,440 --> 00:23:56,920 Speaker 1: back together for this baby. Yeah. Well, a lot of 483 00:23:57,000 --> 00:23:59,280 Speaker 1: Jordi Shaw fans weren't happy about the news. They were 484 00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:02,040 Speaker 1: quite shocked because they did appear on a lot of 485 00:24:02,080 --> 00:24:06,080 Speaker 1: front pages, all these pregnancy spreads. But in saying that 486 00:24:06,560 --> 00:24:08,840 Speaker 1: becoming a dad for Gary, he really did turn his 487 00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:11,919 Speaker 1: life around because he stopped partying and he really seemed 488 00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:16,240 Speaker 1: to mature and even watching his social media of recent years, 489 00:24:16,280 --> 00:24:19,360 Speaker 1: he comes across as a really devoted dad. Yeah, well 490 00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:21,679 Speaker 1: he might have something to do with him turning thirty 491 00:24:21,720 --> 00:24:24,960 Speaker 1: and actually growing. Well, he's thirty five now. Yeah, it's 492 00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:27,240 Speaker 1: crazy to think that his son Chester is now six 493 00:24:27,280 --> 00:24:29,679 Speaker 1: and his daughter Primrose is four. I actually really like 494 00:24:29,760 --> 00:24:32,680 Speaker 1: those names. Yeah, they are cute names. Now. I only 495 00:24:32,680 --> 00:24:34,520 Speaker 1: want to bring this up because I think it's quite 496 00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:38,240 Speaker 1: interesting now that they've separated, because they did get engaged 497 00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:40,520 Speaker 1: in twenty nineteen and they tied the knot in twenty 498 00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:44,040 Speaker 1: twenty one, but they did postpone their wedding. Now, they 499 00:24:44,040 --> 00:24:47,080 Speaker 1: claimed it was because their daughter was hospitalized and there 500 00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:49,040 Speaker 1: was a lot of stress around that. But I wonder 501 00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:51,959 Speaker 1: if Gary got cold feet. Yeah, that's definitely not a 502 00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:55,359 Speaker 1: good sign at the time. Gary said, the last three 503 00:24:55,560 --> 00:24:57,640 Speaker 1: or four months, it's been so hard to even think 504 00:24:57,680 --> 00:24:59,760 Speaker 1: about the wedding. I think it's important to have kids 505 00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:02,720 Speaker 1: before you get married, because getting married is easy. It's 506 00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:06,040 Speaker 1: just a label. Now, they haven't been any cheating rumors 507 00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:08,919 Speaker 1: as of yet. I'm waiting for those. Yeah, I'm definitely 508 00:25:08,920 --> 00:25:10,919 Speaker 1: waiting for them. I do wonder if it has something 509 00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:12,800 Speaker 1: to do with the fact that the couple has had 510 00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:16,639 Speaker 1: an incredibly stressful year, so Emma has been navigating some 511 00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:20,359 Speaker 1: really serious health conditions. So right before the couple's wedding, 512 00:25:20,560 --> 00:25:22,719 Speaker 1: Emma found out that she had three holes in her 513 00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:25,600 Speaker 1: heart and doctors told her that she couldn't have any 514 00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:28,919 Speaker 1: more children unless she had the surgery. And then following 515 00:25:28,960 --> 00:25:32,720 Speaker 1: the surgery, she suffered a collapsed lung, and then months 516 00:25:32,760 --> 00:25:36,040 Speaker 1: later she was also diagnosed with inflammatory bow disease. So 517 00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:38,000 Speaker 1: there's been a lot of serious things going on in 518 00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:40,679 Speaker 1: this family's life, and I can't help but feel really 519 00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:44,040 Speaker 1: sorry for her now going through a divorce having two 520 00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:47,800 Speaker 1: young kids. That's just dreadful. There is speculation that Gary 521 00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:50,720 Speaker 1: and Emma are preparing to sell their mansion at the moment. 522 00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:54,040 Speaker 1: So they have this incredible three story mansion which they've 523 00:25:54,080 --> 00:25:56,639 Speaker 1: been renovating for a number of years now in Leeds, 524 00:25:56,880 --> 00:25:58,560 Speaker 1: and they both want to move out so that they 525 00:25:58,560 --> 00:26:02,359 Speaker 1: can have fresh starts now. Sources told UK tabloids that 526 00:26:02,400 --> 00:26:04,920 Speaker 1: the house is going on the market even though they've 527 00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:08,760 Speaker 1: spent years perfecting it and you know, building everything customs 528 00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:11,000 Speaker 1: so it's suited to what they wanted. You do hear 529 00:26:11,080 --> 00:26:13,960 Speaker 1: that a lot these couples spending so much time and 530 00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:16,679 Speaker 1: money to make the house exactly what they want, and 531 00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:19,639 Speaker 1: then they end up breaking up or even recently with 532 00:26:19,880 --> 00:26:23,800 Speaker 1: Leah asenas she built her dream house in Adelaide and 533 00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:25,879 Speaker 1: they get the bug for it and want to go 534 00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:28,560 Speaker 1: do it again. Yeah, it's quite interesting because in a 535 00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:31,600 Speaker 1: now deleted Instagram story, Gary said that he is on 536 00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:34,680 Speaker 1: the hunt for somewhere within an hour's drive of Leeds, 537 00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:37,560 Speaker 1: but he admitted that his home city of Newcastle was 538 00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:40,000 Speaker 1: too far for him to travel back and forwards to 539 00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:42,280 Speaker 1: see his children. I just found it interesting that it 540 00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:45,000 Speaker 1: was deleted because, as you said, Kate, they've only been 541 00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:48,360 Speaker 1: separated for three weeks, and then you know, adding in 542 00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:51,720 Speaker 1: actually having to take the next step and lock in 543 00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:54,360 Speaker 1: a house, it all seems very permanent. Yeah, it makes 544 00:26:54,400 --> 00:26:56,240 Speaker 1: me think this has been brewing for quite a long 545 00:26:56,280 --> 00:26:59,200 Speaker 1: time and they've made the official move to actually move 546 00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:03,160 Speaker 1: away from each other. It's really awkward timing because Charlotte 547 00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:06,040 Speaker 1: Crosby has just announced her engagement to her boyfriend and 548 00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:09,360 Speaker 1: baby daddy Jake. Look, I don't think it's awkward. They 549 00:27:09,400 --> 00:27:12,520 Speaker 1: haven't been an item for years and years. There's no 550 00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:15,080 Speaker 1: way Charlotte would consider getting back with him now that 551 00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:17,920 Speaker 1: he is single. Either. That's not why I'm saying it's awkward. 552 00:27:18,040 --> 00:27:20,399 Speaker 1: I just think it's awkward timing that they're both coming 553 00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:24,679 Speaker 1: out with these huge life announcements. And for Charlotte, she 554 00:27:24,880 --> 00:27:30,479 Speaker 1: probably feels somewhat vindicated in that she's been watching Gary 555 00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:34,359 Speaker 1: have this seemingly perfect life. He's building this mansion with 556 00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:37,240 Speaker 1: his model girlfriend, and they've got these cute kids together, 557 00:27:37,400 --> 00:27:40,359 Speaker 1: and he turned his life all around for her. But 558 00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:42,760 Speaker 1: clearly there's been other things brewing in the background, and 559 00:27:42,840 --> 00:27:45,959 Speaker 1: Charlotte did speak about how watching Gary go on and 560 00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:48,200 Speaker 1: have kids with someone else was really tough for her. 561 00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:50,840 Speaker 1: So I guess I'm just happy that she's been able 562 00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:54,399 Speaker 1: to move on and create her own family with someone 563 00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:56,480 Speaker 1: else who seems to actually really value her. 564 00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:57,040 Speaker 2: Yeah. 565 00:27:57,160 --> 00:27:59,879 Speaker 1: See, when I saw this announcement, I was really happy 566 00:27:59,880 --> 00:28:02,560 Speaker 1: for Charlotte, but I thought they were already engaged. Now 567 00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:05,360 Speaker 1: they've only been together for two years. They did meet though, 568 00:28:05,400 --> 00:28:08,919 Speaker 1: in twenty fifteen through mutual friends. The engagement was very cute. 569 00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:11,359 Speaker 1: He had set up these red roses that were in 570 00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:14,000 Speaker 1: a heart shape, and Charlotte wrote on her Instagram that 571 00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:16,760 Speaker 1: she's the happiest woman in the world and said yes, yes, yes, 572 00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:18,760 Speaker 1: you are my best friend and you are my life. 573 00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:21,320 Speaker 1: I was surprised to learn that their daughter is already 574 00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:24,560 Speaker 1: one year's old. Time is absolutely flying. The ring is 575 00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:29,000 Speaker 1: very unique. It has five diamonds that make her Marquez shape. 576 00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:31,159 Speaker 1: It was nice to see a ring that's not just 577 00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:35,480 Speaker 1: your typical oval shaped diamond out there. I am very 578 00:28:35,520 --> 00:28:39,080 Speaker 1: intrigued to see if more details about this divorce emerge. 579 00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:41,640 Speaker 1: Surely someone's going to start speaking to the media. Well, 580 00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:43,840 Speaker 1: we're gonna leave things there, but we do have an 581 00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:46,840 Speaker 1: exciting subs episode ready to go on Wednesday. 582 00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:47,160 Speaker 2: Yeah. 583 00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:49,960 Speaker 1: It's called Spill Your Guts or Fill Your Guts, So 584 00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:53,200 Speaker 1: we're gonna be answering some juicy questions that listeners have 585 00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:55,560 Speaker 1: sent in and having a look at them. I'm already 586 00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:57,600 Speaker 1: feeling a bit nervous about how this is going to 587 00:28:57,640 --> 00:29:00,160 Speaker 1: go down. Yeah, we did set up at NGL think 588 00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:01,640 Speaker 1: it seemed like a bit of a throwback, but I 589 00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:04,480 Speaker 1: thought some people might like to be anonymous. This podcast 590 00:29:04,600 --> 00:29:07,080 Speaker 1: was recorded on the traditional land of the Ghana people 591 00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:09,800 Speaker 1: of the Adelaide Plains. We pay respect to elders past 592 00:29:09,880 --> 00:29:10,400 Speaker 1: and present,