WEBVTT - #156: Group Therapy 0:00:00.640 --> 0:00:02.960 Hi, idiot, It's just popping in before you listen to 0:00:03.000 --> 0:00:05.840 the episode to give you a little trigger warning. About 0:00:06.040 --> 0:00:08.360 seven minutes in, we touch on a few topics that 0:00:08.960 --> 0:00:10.559 might be a bit tricky for some people to hear, 0:00:10.680 --> 0:00:14.440 including body image, diet culture, eating disorders, and so if 0:00:14.440 --> 0:00:16.560 those topics bring up anything for you and you want 0:00:16.600 --> 0:00:18.479 to give that segment a miss, you can check the 0:00:18.480 --> 0:00:20.400 show notes and you'll see a time code of where 0:00:20.400 --> 0:00:23.239 to skip forward to. Plus will pop some resources in 0:00:23.280 --> 0:00:24.800 the show notes if you feel like you need a 0:00:24.800 --> 0:00:25.360 bit of support. 0:00:26.000 --> 0:00:29.720 Right, let's get into it. 0:00:30.040 --> 0:00:35.320 Just Real hosted by a couple of mitches. Yeah, you 0:00:35.960 --> 0:00:39.720 please yourself for the route shocks of young adults. 0:00:39.920 --> 0:00:40.320 Oh please. 0:00:40.360 --> 0:00:42.520 You're in bed with a cup of bloody Hall Licks 0:00:42.520 --> 0:00:45.480 by a tall Licks. It puts you to slip. It's 0:00:45.479 --> 0:00:46.400 like a milk drink. 0:00:46.920 --> 0:00:54.560 Sounds like the slur I've heard that whole Licks. 0:00:53.600 --> 0:01:00.120 Mature and mitchual coups. Hello you you helloh. 0:01:00.440 --> 0:01:02.920 Welcome back to my loundroom technically. 0:01:02.440 --> 0:01:05.080 Talk Back Tings Live three point zero. I feel like 0:01:05.120 --> 0:01:07.960 we're back to last week. We're in Mitchell's lound room again. 0:01:07.959 --> 0:01:09.840 Just no callers. That's the only difference. 0:01:10.000 --> 0:01:13.000 No, no fucking call Jesus Christ. That call waiting sound 0:01:13.080 --> 0:01:14.160 burnt into my brain. 0:01:14.400 --> 0:01:16.520 Did you notice, listening back to the episode that I 0:01:16.520 --> 0:01:18.400 did manage to edit out a lot of the beepings 0:01:18.440 --> 0:01:18.760 I did. 0:01:19.040 --> 0:01:21.240 That would have been mindnumbingly boring for you. 0:01:21.280 --> 0:01:21.880 No, it wasn't. 0:01:21.920 --> 0:01:24.600 I literally just highlighted one of the beeps and then 0:01:24.640 --> 0:01:27.160 I highlighted the whole audio and just said, remove this 0:01:27.240 --> 0:01:28.160 sound from the whole thing. 0:01:28.840 --> 0:01:29.760 Fuck, you can do that. 0:01:30.000 --> 0:01:30.840 Yeah, But then I. 0:01:30.800 --> 0:01:32.720 Realized that we reference the beepings, I have to put 0:01:32.760 --> 0:01:33.400 some of them back in. 0:01:34.360 --> 0:01:36.759 Can you do that one week? But just isolate one 0:01:36.760 --> 0:01:39.720 of Jenna, one of Jenna's moons or her laughs, and 0:01:39.840 --> 0:01:41.759 just isolate all of Jenna from the show. 0:01:41.959 --> 0:01:45.240 Prizkeeper Jenner is here or is she? I'm gonna remove her? No, 0:01:45.360 --> 0:01:46.160 don't remive me. 0:01:46.640 --> 0:01:48.800 Wait, can you just give us a couple of classic 0:01:48.920 --> 0:01:51.400 jenitisms and then we can mark them with AI. We 0:01:51.480 --> 0:01:53.040 might even put it. We can put it somewhere for 0:01:53.200 --> 0:01:53.560 the best. 0:01:54.720 --> 0:01:55.880 It's actually ras shirt. 0:01:57.040 --> 0:02:02.240 Give us some genitisms a big cackle, well said, and 0:02:02.280 --> 0:02:05.360 now what am I supposed to do with that? Isn't 0:02:05.360 --> 0:02:07.080 that what you said? That you give the computer that 0:02:07.160 --> 0:02:08.480 piece and then it removes all. 0:02:08.400 --> 0:02:10.360 Of her Yeah, but she'd have to do that exact 0:02:10.400 --> 0:02:13.040 cackle again to detect it. 0:02:13.120 --> 0:02:14.560 Yeah, well you're pretty predictable. 0:02:15.600 --> 0:02:17.000 That might work, That might work. 0:02:17.400 --> 0:02:19.880 We Mitch's living room, because, to be perfectly honest with 0:02:19.919 --> 0:02:22.519 you all, you idiots, we just don't have the energy. 0:02:22.800 --> 0:02:25.160 We're exhausted, feeling relaxed. 0:02:25.200 --> 0:02:28.040 And to be frank, after last week's talk back ting's 0:02:28.080 --> 0:02:30.920 episode that we did from my lounge room, you just 0:02:31.040 --> 0:02:32.800 fucked off because you were running late for dinner, so 0:02:32.840 --> 0:02:35.320 all your equipment was here anyway. Yeah, why don't we 0:02:35.400 --> 0:02:37.120 just kick back in my laundeer And I'm sitting on 0:02:37.160 --> 0:02:38.080 the l of my couch. 0:02:38.080 --> 0:02:39.560 I've got my feet up, I'm loving Yeah. 0:02:39.400 --> 0:02:41.400 It looks like we're about to have a therapy session, Mitchell. 0:02:42.320 --> 0:02:45.000 He's got his bike, his socks on, his legs are 0:02:45.080 --> 0:02:45.760 up on the chape. 0:02:45.800 --> 0:02:48.080 I do look like I'm at a therapy session. This 0:02:48.160 --> 0:02:50.080 is nice. Yeah you're the therapist. 0:02:50.520 --> 0:02:53.119 Oh fuck, I think i'd be a great therapist. 0:02:53.160 --> 0:02:53.520 You reckon. 0:02:53.639 --> 0:02:59.480 Yeah, I meant to laugh in their face at their issues. 0:03:00.880 --> 0:03:02.120 I'm just so boisterous. 0:03:02.160 --> 0:03:05.240 Now can I ask you to Oh God, how are 0:03:05.280 --> 0:03:08.560 your bodies feeling because I dragged you along to my 0:03:08.639 --> 0:03:11.040 pilate studio to do one of my bar classes that 0:03:11.080 --> 0:03:12.120 I do twice a week. 0:03:12.360 --> 0:03:14.520 We've filmed it, we've recorded it. We're bringing it to 0:03:14.560 --> 0:03:18.160 you next week on the podcast as part of the 0:03:18.200 --> 0:03:18.720 Hobby Hunt. 0:03:18.800 --> 0:03:20.359 Hobby Hunt Baby, Yeah next week. 0:03:20.400 --> 0:03:23.560 Mummy needs time to edit, mummy. But yeah, that the 0:03:23.600 --> 0:03:26.239 class has happened. How are you feeling? Are you aching? 0:03:26.600 --> 0:03:30.120 I thought i'd be fine. The day after I was 0:03:30.160 --> 0:03:32.440 not fine. Yeah, muscle pain. 0:03:32.680 --> 0:03:35.320 I am so sore. Really, I am so soal. 0:03:35.440 --> 0:03:36.760 Do you want know what happened to me? Though? 0:03:37.200 --> 0:03:39.920 So I did my normal class that I would go 0:03:40.000 --> 0:03:43.400 to and then a half hour gap, and then you 0:03:43.400 --> 0:03:45.600 guys rocked up and we did a second private class 0:03:46.040 --> 0:03:48.520 and doing two bar classes in a row. 0:03:49.040 --> 0:03:51.000 Holy fuck. Yeah, it killed me. 0:03:51.040 --> 0:03:53.080 And then I had to hobble back to that studio 0:03:53.120 --> 0:03:55.160 today because I do two classes a week and so 0:03:55.240 --> 0:03:57.440 I've done a third and so I'm so glad I 0:03:57.440 --> 0:03:58.880 didn't have to go to the studio. And I'm on 0:03:58.960 --> 0:04:03.280 my couch because my body is ready to just give up. 0:04:03.400 --> 0:04:05.320 I could just Mumma find me. I'm ready to go, 0:04:05.440 --> 0:04:06.920 but I had Pete that day. 0:04:07.040 --> 0:04:11.320 Also, no one congratulated me. I ran a quarter marathon. Well, yeah, 0:04:11.400 --> 0:04:13.000 I think you. I had the medal in the car, 0:04:13.040 --> 0:04:15.080 and I was gonna wear it like a dick, like 0:04:15.320 --> 0:04:16.760 a dick, like a dickhead. 0:04:17.080 --> 0:04:18.600 Oh right, I thought you. 0:04:18.520 --> 0:04:20.080 Literally meant you were going to put it around your 0:04:20.080 --> 0:04:21.640 waist and just have it dangling like. 0:04:21.640 --> 0:04:24.400 Balls that it eat me in the ball. I'm gonna 0:04:24.400 --> 0:04:26.440 wear it like a cock. Now, wear it like a 0:04:26.520 --> 0:04:29.040 knob head and be like, look what I got. I 0:04:29.120 --> 0:04:32.080 ran fourteen kilometers. I did it. 0:04:32.240 --> 0:04:35.640 Did you run the whole time? Yes? Yes, ran, Yes, 0:04:35.839 --> 0:04:36.280 I did it. 0:04:36.200 --> 0:04:39.159 In an hour forty You have to it's fourteen kilometers. 0:04:39.200 --> 0:04:42.159 It's truly impressive because I've been telling myself since the 0:04:42.279 --> 0:04:45.720 year twenty fifteen, when I first moved to Sydney. I 0:04:45.760 --> 0:04:48.360 was like, oh, I'm not ready this year, but next 0:04:48.480 --> 0:04:50.240 year I'm going to do the fuck consider it serve. 0:04:50.640 --> 0:04:53.280 And every single year I've been going, nah, next year 0:04:53.320 --> 0:04:55.520 is my year. It just kind of comes around again. 0:04:55.600 --> 0:04:58.320 I'm like, ah, well I missed it this year, I'll 0:04:58.360 --> 0:04:59.760 do it next year. I'll be ready next year. 0:04:59.800 --> 0:05:02.279 Well, I know what happened is I signed up two 0:05:02.320 --> 0:05:04.440 days or three days before the run, so I was 0:05:04.960 --> 0:05:08.040 in the mums and bubb category because everything else was empty. 0:05:08.080 --> 0:05:11.120 It's like pink, green, blue, yellow, red, orange, and orange 0:05:11.160 --> 0:05:15.400 is Prams and my charity walkers. So I was there. 0:05:15.480 --> 0:05:17.760 Everyone had run, so then I was like right at 0:05:17.760 --> 0:05:20.080 the front of the orange pack. And as I was running, 0:05:20.080 --> 0:05:22.000 I'd pass people and I'd pass like a red bib, 0:05:22.080 --> 0:05:23.760 then a green bib, and I got all the. 0:05:23.680 --> 0:05:30.360 Way to that not the front, but you won, basically, yeah, correct, Well, 0:05:31.240 --> 0:05:31.599 no I'm not. 0:05:31.760 --> 0:05:34.320 I don't want praise. But that's also why I'm fucking sore, 0:05:34.360 --> 0:05:36.560 because that was less than a week ago and I'm 0:05:36.640 --> 0:05:37.760 just achy everywhere. 0:05:38.040 --> 0:05:41.120 It's kind of like a satisfying ache. Though, don't you think. 0:05:41.200 --> 0:05:43.839 It's like, well, after you have sex, does anyone else 0:05:43.880 --> 0:05:44.559 ach after sex? 0:05:44.920 --> 0:05:45.000 Not? 0:05:45.120 --> 0:05:47.720 Really, that was probably a thought that I should have 0:05:47.800 --> 0:05:48.600 kept to myself. 0:05:48.920 --> 0:05:52.640 But anyway, Yes, we're bringing you the first ever hobby 0:05:52.720 --> 0:05:55.960 Hunt next week, yes, as well as Gina Leano our 0:05:56.000 --> 0:05:57.279 special guest next week. 0:05:57.160 --> 0:05:57.799 And next week. 0:05:57.920 --> 0:05:58.480 Yeah it is. 0:05:58.520 --> 0:06:00.719 We recorded that so long ago because she's got to 0:06:00.760 --> 0:06:04.560 be podcast judge Gina. It's an iHeart exclusive. So yeah, 0:06:04.560 --> 0:06:06.960 we were on Gina's podcast, but she is also our 0:06:07.000 --> 0:06:09.080 guest on our show next week, Beautiful. 0:06:09.120 --> 0:06:11.279 As for this week, we're doing a round of Jenner's Junk. 0:06:11.720 --> 0:06:14.680 Oh about time, it's so full. 0:06:14.720 --> 0:06:18.120 And I've also got to open up about my recent breakup. 0:06:18.160 --> 0:06:19.520 I now feel you're pain cheery. 0:06:19.600 --> 0:06:22.800 Wait, what what do you have? You broken up with Sean? 0:06:23.480 --> 0:06:26.640 Worse, far worse. I wish it was that. 0:06:27.320 --> 0:06:30.040 I'd argue a breakup with a breakup worse, that a 0:06:30.040 --> 0:06:32.599 breakup with Sean would be a breakup between us friendship wise. 0:06:32.640 --> 0:06:34.800 Well, it's not that it's even worse, because. 0:06:34.560 --> 0:06:37.200 We're still here. Who else could it be. I'll tell 0:06:37.200 --> 0:06:40.640 you you're just prefacing it by saying you think it's 0:06:40.640 --> 0:06:44.320 worse than the divorce that I just had. Yet the 0:06:44.400 --> 0:06:45.480 divorce that crippled me. 0:06:45.640 --> 0:06:50.040 I'll explain why I think I'm the bigger victim later on. 0:06:50.800 --> 0:06:53.360 I can't wait to hear that. Well listen, if it's 0:06:53.400 --> 0:06:55.719 your first time listening, welcome to is just me. Every 0:06:55.720 --> 0:06:58.000 week we start the show the same way to Igym's 0:06:59.000 --> 0:07:02.160 something we've noticed, something we hate or appreciate. Mitch doesn't 0:07:02.160 --> 0:07:04.600 know mine. I don't know Mitch's, to be honest with you, 0:07:05.360 --> 0:07:08.279 mine's a little considering Mitch looks like he's in therapy. Yeah, 0:07:08.360 --> 0:07:09.480 mine is therapy based. 0:07:10.240 --> 0:07:12.720 Really, mine's a little bit therapy, Eskato. Should we just 0:07:12.840 --> 0:07:13.400 dive right in? 0:07:13.480 --> 0:07:13.680 Yeah? 0:07:13.680 --> 0:07:14.800 Ok to go first? 0:07:14.920 --> 0:07:18.760 H yeah, you do it all right? Is it just me? 0:07:20.840 --> 0:07:22.720 Are you in the mood for a group therapy right now? 0:07:22.720 --> 0:07:23.520 Because I am. 0:07:23.560 --> 0:07:24.920 Going to lean into this, aren't we? 0:07:25.000 --> 0:07:25.200 Yeah? 0:07:25.960 --> 0:07:27.640 It's actually perfect that it looks like I'm on a 0:07:27.640 --> 0:07:28.440 therapist count. 0:07:28.360 --> 0:07:29.800 We all are. Yeah, let's go. What do you want 0:07:29.840 --> 0:07:30.240 to talk about? 0:07:30.480 --> 0:07:35.160 Well, there's just been one thing that's been on my 0:07:35.240 --> 0:07:39.120 mind recently, and I don't know if it's anxiety related, 0:07:39.120 --> 0:07:42.280 but it's just I juste to word vomited out to 0:07:42.360 --> 0:07:43.480 try and make sense of it. 0:07:43.520 --> 0:07:45.960 Okay, okay, so stick with me. 0:07:47.080 --> 0:07:47.360 Mitch. 0:07:48.120 --> 0:07:50.040 You recently went on your health kick. 0:07:50.280 --> 0:07:50.880 I'm still on it. 0:07:50.960 --> 0:07:51.760 Yeah, yeah, exactly. 0:07:51.800 --> 0:07:54.920 You've you've lost weight, people are telling you that you're glowing. 0:07:54.960 --> 0:07:57.120 You're getting thousands of compliments. 0:07:57.320 --> 0:07:59.680 I am, yeah, which I think is lovely. 0:07:59.400 --> 0:08:02.200 Because those men that is accurate. I agree with them, right, 0:08:02.320 --> 0:08:02.720 I'm like. 0:08:03.080 --> 0:08:03.640 Yeah, thank you. 0:08:03.800 --> 0:08:06.320 However, and I've already told you this off the cloud, 0:08:06.360 --> 0:08:09.800 but I'm very confused lately because I've been finding myself 0:08:09.840 --> 0:08:12.840 getting so fucking jealous about all the attention you're getting. 0:08:12.920 --> 0:08:14.800 Yeah, and this is something. This is so funny because 0:08:14.800 --> 0:08:18.240 we've discussed this off the show, and we're like, we 0:08:18.240 --> 0:08:19.880 need to talk about it on the show because I 0:08:19.920 --> 0:08:21.040 know you don't want to say it, but I'm going 0:08:21.080 --> 0:08:24.080 to say it for you. Mitch's lost fifteen kilos. Yes, 0:08:24.720 --> 0:08:28.040 you have lost fifteen kilos. That is such an accomplishment 0:08:28.480 --> 0:08:32.120 and it's kind of just terrible timing that I've also 0:08:32.400 --> 0:08:33.800 now lost twenty five kilos. 0:08:35.559 --> 0:08:40.479 It's really strange because I started going to my nutritionist. 0:08:40.600 --> 0:08:40.800 Yeah. 0:08:40.840 --> 0:08:44.280 Her name's Sarah Delarenzo. She's fabulous. I have that book, 0:08:44.640 --> 0:08:48.040 do you whatever? The ten ten brand? Yeah, yeah, there 0:08:48.080 --> 0:08:48.240 you go. 0:08:48.320 --> 0:08:51.000 Yeah, she's from Sunrise. She does all the food and 0:08:51.000 --> 0:08:53.319 the healthy eating and the lifestyle segments on Telly. 0:08:53.400 --> 0:08:55.640 She's awesome as seen on TV. She can have one 0:08:55.679 --> 0:08:57.240 of these stickers on her Oh. 0:08:57.120 --> 0:08:58.320 She could, Yeah she could. 0:08:58.920 --> 0:08:59.240 So Yeah. 0:08:59.240 --> 0:09:02.440 I started going to her for nutrition appointments I think 0:09:02.480 --> 0:09:07.160 in May yep. And at the time I decided I 0:09:07.240 --> 0:09:10.319 wasn't going to talk about it and draw attention to 0:09:10.360 --> 0:09:12.520 the fact that I was on this health kick because 0:09:13.400 --> 0:09:15.559 I remember when I was in like a real rut. 0:09:16.080 --> 0:09:16.320 Right. 0:09:16.840 --> 0:09:19.240 If I saw other people banging on about their health kicks, 0:09:19.240 --> 0:09:21.160 it kind of made me feel shit, yeah, And so 0:09:21.200 --> 0:09:22.520 I was like, I don't want to make other people 0:09:22.520 --> 0:09:24.560 feel shit, and so I kind of just kept it 0:09:24.600 --> 0:09:26.920 to myself and I was like, I'll let the results 0:09:26.920 --> 0:09:30.760 speak for themselves, whatever happens. Because I wasn't necessarily going 0:09:30.880 --> 0:09:32.839 to a nutritionist to lose weight. 0:09:33.240 --> 0:09:35.960 It was mostly just like during. 0:09:36.520 --> 0:09:39.640 It would have been COVID lockdown. Actually during twenty twenty onwards, 0:09:39.640 --> 0:09:43.720 I just developed some really gross habits. Yea, really gross. 0:09:43.440 --> 0:09:45.640 How everyone did? So many people went through that. 0:09:45.720 --> 0:09:47.600 Were you drinking two bottles of rose a night? 0:09:47.840 --> 0:09:50.720 That's a you thing? Yeah, yeah, that's two bottles of night? 0:09:50.760 --> 0:09:53.040 Were you, Oh, not every night, but a lot of 0:09:53.120 --> 0:09:53.920 nights you did have it. 0:09:53.960 --> 0:09:55.160 Did you think you have a drink? Did you have 0:09:55.160 --> 0:09:56.880 a drinking problem? Do you look back now and think 0:09:57.080 --> 0:09:57.320 that was. 0:09:57.480 --> 0:10:00.360 I mean, in hindsight, I can't even have two lasses 0:10:00.400 --> 0:10:02.360 of Rosea now without getting a fucking headache. 0:10:02.440 --> 0:10:04.800 That's a good point. Actually, what was going on in 0:10:04.840 --> 0:10:06.280 your system to drink two bottles? 0:10:06.400 --> 0:10:08.720 That's weird, right, I don't know. I was just it 0:10:08.760 --> 0:10:10.880 was short around in twenty twenty. 0:10:10.720 --> 0:10:13.160 Or twenty twenty. Sorry, So yeah, yeah, the other. 0:10:13.040 --> 0:10:14.960 Thing, by the way side, note, the other thing that 0:10:15.000 --> 0:10:17.400 happened in twenty twenty that ruined my fucking health kick 0:10:17.600 --> 0:10:20.880 was that obviously everything shut down and so I just 0:10:21.000 --> 0:10:24.360 discovered my love for pilates. And the local studio shut 0:10:24.400 --> 0:10:25.240 down during COVID. 0:10:25.240 --> 0:10:27.360 It never reopened, Like a lot of businesses, they just 0:10:27.400 --> 0:10:31.000 didn't survive that. And so anyway, I developed really gross 0:10:31.000 --> 0:10:35.040 habits in twenty twenty lockdown, like I said, the drinking, 0:10:35.559 --> 0:10:40.200 the constant vaping, binge eating, stress eating, comfort eating, it 0:10:40.240 --> 0:10:42.600 was just a lot of things and I really couldn't 0:10:42.600 --> 0:10:46.320 shake those habits for like three years. It's twenty twenty three. 0:10:46.520 --> 0:10:49.440 And sure with that, I did put on weight, but 0:10:49.480 --> 0:10:51.960 I didn't really care. I was just like, whatever, you know, 0:10:52.040 --> 0:10:53.920 your size doesn't matter which I to sleep that. I 0:10:53.960 --> 0:10:56.600 did believe that, and so I didn't beat myself up 0:10:56.640 --> 0:10:57.600 about it too much. 0:10:58.280 --> 0:10:59.840 And then yeah, it got you. 0:10:59.840 --> 0:11:01.840 A where I was like, actually, when it comes to 0:11:01.920 --> 0:11:04.800 things that I'm totally clueless about, like nutrition, I'm actually 0:11:04.880 --> 0:11:07.120 really good at being told what to do. I'll just 0:11:07.160 --> 0:11:08.600 do it, and I'm fucking told so I went and 0:11:08.600 --> 0:11:10.600 saw a professional. I was like, you just give me 0:11:10.640 --> 0:11:12.840 some sort of idea of what to eat when, and 0:11:12.880 --> 0:11:15.320 I'll just do it because that's one less decision for 0:11:15.360 --> 0:11:17.600 me to make as well. I don't have to decide 0:11:17.600 --> 0:11:18.959 what I'm going to have a breakfast and stuff. You 0:11:19.000 --> 0:11:21.680 can just let me know what's good. And so yeah, 0:11:21.800 --> 0:11:23.520 I went and saw the nutrition and then decided I 0:11:23.520 --> 0:11:24.880 wasn't going to talk about it, and I thought the 0:11:24.920 --> 0:11:31.080 results will speak for themselves. Yes, fifteen kilos later, nothing, 0:11:32.080 --> 0:11:36.000 I'm not even kidding. And it's been a really hard 0:11:36.040 --> 0:11:39.360 thing to reckon with in my brain because I keep saying, Mitchell, 0:11:39.800 --> 0:11:42.280 you weren't doing it for validation from others. You were 0:11:42.280 --> 0:11:44.840 doing it because you wanted to feel better, which, by 0:11:44.880 --> 0:11:46.920 the way, fucking ridiculous. 0:11:47.080 --> 0:11:50.079 How much better I feel mentally? It turns out there 0:11:50.120 --> 0:11:52.319 actually is a connection between what food you put in 0:11:52.360 --> 0:11:53.960 your mouth and how that affects your brain. 0:11:54.920 --> 0:11:58.400 Right, weird that in dolphins actually a thing that people 0:11:58.440 --> 0:12:01.560 talk about in Scientists have studied when I exercise, I 0:12:01.600 --> 0:12:02.200 feel good. 0:12:02.559 --> 0:12:03.040 Exactly. 0:12:03.160 --> 0:12:04.920 They're crazy how it works, yeah, exactly. 0:12:04.960 --> 0:12:07.080 And also, like the binge eating and stress eating I 0:12:07.120 --> 0:12:10.320 was doing, I did not feel good, funny that, and 0:12:10.360 --> 0:12:13.079 so yeah, I was just like, Okay, I'm going to 0:12:13.120 --> 0:12:14.839 do this thing, this health kick, it's my thing. 0:12:14.880 --> 0:12:16.560 I'm not going to push it onto others. 0:12:16.559 --> 0:12:18.760 I'm not going to tell everyone because I wasn't trying 0:12:18.760 --> 0:12:22.200 to fish for validation. And yeah, I know this is 0:12:22.280 --> 0:12:24.160 terrible because now you're getting. 0:12:23.880 --> 0:12:26.080 All the attention and all the validation. I feel so 0:12:26.240 --> 0:12:28.480 fucking jealous. And I know that that's an awful thing 0:12:28.559 --> 0:12:31.080 to say and feel, because like, I'm happy for you, 0:12:31.120 --> 0:12:32.960 I am, but I still just am just like, what 0:12:33.040 --> 0:12:33.400 the fuck? 0:12:33.440 --> 0:12:36.720 Why happy for someone and then jealous? 0:12:37.320 --> 0:12:39.880 Jealous. Here's the thing, Mitchell, And first I want to 0:12:39.880 --> 0:12:41.800 preface it by saying, I'm exactly the same as you. 0:12:41.920 --> 0:12:45.320 I was a very happy, bigger person and it didn't 0:12:45.320 --> 0:12:48.000 bother me and I and also I've had the most 0:12:48.000 --> 0:12:50.720 success in my career as a really big person, the 0:12:50.720 --> 0:12:54.120 most success in my professional career as a big person, and. 0:12:54.000 --> 0:12:54.880 In your love life. 0:12:54.920 --> 0:12:57.360 In my love exactly, I was in a happy, loving 0:12:57.400 --> 0:13:00.959 relationship for five years at my biggest Yeah, and I'm 0:13:01.000 --> 0:13:03.040 a big boy. I'm talking like one hundred and fifty 0:13:03.080 --> 0:13:07.120 kilos plus. But I think the difference is people at 0:13:07.120 --> 0:13:09.400 the moment, and I love everyone for it. Are wanting 0:13:09.400 --> 0:13:11.240 me to have a win because I've just come off 0:13:11.240 --> 0:13:13.719 the back of this awful breakup and I haven't even 0:13:13.760 --> 0:13:15.520 really gone into the details of it, and I don't 0:13:15.520 --> 0:13:17.040 think I have a will. So then they see me 0:13:17.120 --> 0:13:19.200 kind of glowing up, posting and being a bit happier, 0:13:19.200 --> 0:13:21.199 going on my hot girl walks, and they're like, yes, 0:13:21.360 --> 0:13:23.679 he's happy. So like, we're going to tell him how 0:13:23.679 --> 0:13:26.440 good he looks because he's been sad and you are 0:13:26.520 --> 0:13:28.240 loved up and you've got Sean and you're having hot 0:13:28.240 --> 0:13:31.480 adal sex. No one's happy for you because you're coming. 0:13:32.200 --> 0:13:34.400 That's the point. That's the subject. 0:13:34.400 --> 0:13:35.360 That's a good point, you know. 0:13:35.640 --> 0:13:37.920 No, but that's the thing. I actually enjoy that everyone's 0:13:37.960 --> 0:13:41.480 being your cheerleader. I think it's beautiful. And a question 0:13:41.600 --> 0:13:44.559 for you, is that a motivator to keep going? 0:13:45.400 --> 0:13:47.960 Yes and no, because on the flip side, there is 0:13:48.360 --> 0:13:52.000 the criticism, and it's very valid that celebrating weight loss 0:13:52.000 --> 0:13:55.400 insinuates that bigger is worse, skinnier. Yeah. 0:13:55.559 --> 0:13:58.040 See, that's what I was worried about. I didn't want 0:13:58.080 --> 0:14:00.319 to be like, look at what I've done. I've lost 0:14:00.360 --> 0:14:01.120 fifteen kilos. 0:14:01.160 --> 0:14:04.760 What an achievement, because I felt like inadvertently that was 0:14:04.800 --> 0:14:08.120 sending the message like you said, that smaller is better, 0:14:08.240 --> 0:14:10.880 bigger it's worse, which I fucking don't believe for a second, 0:14:11.720 --> 0:14:13.880 which is why I found it really confusing, because I've 0:14:13.880 --> 0:14:17.120 got this like core belief that it doesn't make a 0:14:17.160 --> 0:14:19.640 difference how big or how skinny you are. 0:14:19.680 --> 0:14:21.760 It doesn't make a difference to who you are. That's 0:14:21.800 --> 0:14:24.240 the core belief. And yet I'm still feeling fucking jealous 0:14:24.240 --> 0:14:25.880 that I'm not getting as many compliments as you. 0:14:26.320 --> 0:14:27.120 We're complimenting. 0:14:27.320 --> 0:14:29.760 Yes, I swear this is not me fishing for complimenting 0:14:30.240 --> 0:14:31.760 at all. I mean you are. 0:14:31.800 --> 0:14:33.920 There's people in my life that have been very lovely 0:14:33.920 --> 0:14:35.240 and supportive, like Sean. 0:14:35.240 --> 0:14:37.280 Obviously, please touch it. 0:14:37.360 --> 0:14:39.120 He can feel the fat mass. 0:14:39.240 --> 0:14:43.440 Yes, he's noticed. How nimbliant are you? Yeah? Bar class 0:14:43.440 --> 0:14:44.520 helps with that too. 0:14:44.120 --> 0:14:47.160 Wow. I'm sure he's up to give you someone hold 0:14:47.160 --> 0:14:47.320 on to. 0:14:47.480 --> 0:14:49.760 And actually, you know someone else who I'm going to 0:14:49.800 --> 0:14:51.800 give a shout out because I hope he's listening. Tim 0:14:51.840 --> 0:14:55.640 Abbott gorgeous. Every time I see him, he goes, you 0:14:55.720 --> 0:14:56.720 are just glowing. 0:14:56.800 --> 0:14:57.240 Look at you. 0:14:57.360 --> 0:14:59.880 It's so lovely to hear he's a sweetheart like that. 0:15:00.120 --> 0:15:02.080 But then I'm going to be honest, I spiral a 0:15:02.120 --> 0:15:04.680 little bit because I also have access to strangers who 0:15:04.680 --> 0:15:06.880 aren't complimenting me the same way they're complimenting you. 0:15:06.920 --> 0:15:07.600 And again, I know. 0:15:07.600 --> 0:15:09.760 This is so eagy to say, I hate it, but 0:15:10.520 --> 0:15:13.560 it makes me start to question, well, if they're complimenting 0:15:13.600 --> 0:15:15.240 him but not me, I haven't lost enough way to need. 0:15:15.160 --> 0:15:16.840 To lose more show it. 0:15:17.000 --> 0:15:19.240 And then I think, oh, well, the people aren't telling 0:15:19.240 --> 0:15:21.120 me I'm glowing, but they're telling him he is glowing. 0:15:21.280 --> 0:15:23.080 Then maybe I'm just not happy. I'm I not happy 0:15:23.120 --> 0:15:24.120 enough to look like I'm glowing. 0:15:24.280 --> 0:15:26.240 And so I've just been going through this weird fucking 0:15:26.320 --> 0:15:28.920 spiral and I know it's not a healthy way to think. 0:15:28.960 --> 0:15:30.000 I know it's wrong, Mitchell. 0:15:30.080 --> 0:15:33.400 The issue here, and like the whole fitness industry as 0:15:33.400 --> 0:15:36.080 a whole, has a lot to answer for because they 0:15:36.160 --> 0:15:38.840 benefit off people being scared of being fat, and they 0:15:38.880 --> 0:15:40.840 benefit off people wanting to be skinny. 0:15:40.920 --> 0:15:41.760 Yeah, which I hate that. 0:15:41.880 --> 0:15:45.560 I agree, every marketing campaign is someone who is skinny. 0:15:45.600 --> 0:15:47.680 We don't really do it anymore. Diet culture is dead, 0:15:47.880 --> 0:15:50.840 which is great and I'm not lying to you. This 0:15:50.880 --> 0:15:53.480 is where the hot girl walks came from. I told you, Mitch. 0:15:53.760 --> 0:15:56.920 I started walking King Street, Newtown because I was so 0:15:57.040 --> 0:15:59.760 sad every day from the breakup. I was so depressed 0:16:00.080 --> 0:16:02.800 that I had to just walk like I was just 0:16:02.880 --> 0:16:05.360 doing it mentally. I'd had no goals to lose weight, 0:16:05.400 --> 0:16:07.640 i had no goals to slim down. 0:16:07.840 --> 0:16:08.560 I was the same. 0:16:08.760 --> 0:16:11.640 I used to go for walks and exercise, and I'd 0:16:11.680 --> 0:16:13.560 hate it because I was doing it to lose weight. 0:16:14.000 --> 0:16:15.120 But this, this. 0:16:15.080 --> 0:16:17.840 Health kick, the twenty twenty three may on Woods or whatever, 0:16:18.600 --> 0:16:20.200 it's been different where I'm like, if I don't go 0:16:20.240 --> 0:16:22.120 for a walk, I feel shit, not because I have 0:16:22.120 --> 0:16:24.080 an exercise because I want to lose weight, just because 0:16:24.080 --> 0:16:27.320 of the dolphins if you call them, yes. 0:16:27.040 --> 0:16:30.920 Yes, yes, say the dolphins. Of course, it's also hard 0:16:31.040 --> 0:16:35.760 because like you want to compliments are great and you 0:16:36.080 --> 0:16:38.440 also want to receive them, but then you also don't. 0:16:38.600 --> 0:16:40.560 That's not why you you do it. 0:16:40.760 --> 0:16:43.240 This is why I'm really confused about what I'm thinking 0:16:43.280 --> 0:16:46.960 and feeling. Because I've always tried to lead by example 0:16:47.000 --> 0:16:50.560 about like don't let other people's opinions affect you, which 0:16:50.960 --> 0:16:51.760 most of the time. 0:16:51.800 --> 0:16:52.360 They don't. 0:16:52.920 --> 0:16:55.040 Like, if someone says to me, get a haircut, I'm like, 0:16:55.080 --> 0:16:56.360 how about you get a throat cut? 0:16:56.480 --> 0:16:56.680 Yeah? 0:16:56.720 --> 0:16:58.600 Yeah, fuck wickat come back, Well said. 0:16:58.840 --> 0:17:02.240 If someone says, oh, you've got a massive forehead, and I'm like, yeah, 0:17:02.240 --> 0:17:04.399 it's bigger than your dick dog Welson like, but for 0:17:04.440 --> 0:17:06.440 the most part, I don't care what other people think. 0:17:06.520 --> 0:17:08.760 What off a duck's clit? I don't care, yes, Well said, 0:17:08.920 --> 0:17:10.960 And yet oh there's a part of me that's this 0:17:11.119 --> 0:17:12.800 human and wants to be told that I look nice. 0:17:13.000 --> 0:17:18.240 Mitchel also like, on a literal level, I was bigger 0:17:18.320 --> 0:17:20.480 and you could visibly see that I was a bigger boy. 0:17:20.600 --> 0:17:22.160 It was never a problem, and no one ever said 0:17:22.200 --> 0:17:22.880 you're a big boy. 0:17:23.920 --> 0:17:24.800 How well you did? 0:17:25.320 --> 0:17:29.359 Yeah, but that was my god given right. However, now 0:17:29.440 --> 0:17:33.359 it's such a drastic change. Physically, people have monkey brains. 0:17:33.400 --> 0:17:37.000 They're like, Mitch better, Mitch, breakup, Mitch better. Now, let 0:17:37.000 --> 0:17:38.880 me message Mitch. That's all it is. They don't look 0:17:38.880 --> 0:17:40.640 at you and go, he's gone from this to this. 0:17:41.119 --> 0:17:43.399 People are also hesitant to do it. You should see 0:17:43.480 --> 0:17:45.919 I'm getting hundreds of messages and they're like, hey, I 0:17:45.960 --> 0:17:49.680 don't normally comment on people's physical appearance. But you're looking good, 0:17:49.720 --> 0:17:51.879 and I just wanted you to know that because I 0:17:51.960 --> 0:17:53.600 know what you've been through and I love those kinds 0:17:53.640 --> 0:17:55.280 of messages because they get the nuance. 0:17:55.400 --> 0:17:56.560 Yeah, well that was the thing. 0:17:56.560 --> 0:17:59.720 When I lost the first ten kilos, I thought, gee, 0:17:59.760 --> 0:18:02.600 tenues doesn't sound like a small amount. I would have 0:18:02.600 --> 0:18:04.480 thought that people would start to notice. But then I thought, 0:18:04.520 --> 0:18:07.399 maybe it's twenty twenty three. People have learnt not to 0:18:07.400 --> 0:18:09.640 comment on other people's bodies and whatever, and I was like. 0:18:09.600 --> 0:18:12.920 That's fine. But then it was when you started getting 0:18:12.920 --> 0:18:14.760 all the compliments that I was like, actually, people are 0:18:14.800 --> 0:18:17.679 willing to comment on people's bodies. What the fuck have 0:18:17.720 --> 0:18:19.880 I done wrong? And again, I know that that's wrong. 0:18:20.000 --> 0:18:21.360 I know that that's wrong for me to think that 0:18:21.359 --> 0:18:23.600 this is just a group therapy session getting it all out. 0:18:23.680 --> 0:18:26.480 Okay, then I'll just speak my mind to I. I 0:18:26.520 --> 0:18:29.399 haven't really spoken about it much. Have really bad body 0:18:29.440 --> 0:18:31.920 image issues I don't find and I've told you guys 0:18:31.920 --> 0:18:33.719 this personally, like I don't look at myself and go 0:18:33.840 --> 0:18:35.560 that's an attractive man, or I don't look at my 0:18:35.560 --> 0:18:38.560 body and go that that is a hot body. And 0:18:38.600 --> 0:18:40.639 I want to like I want to have agency in 0:18:40.640 --> 0:18:43.359 my body and my sexuality, and posting it is me. 0:18:43.640 --> 0:18:48.040 Using is helping me, is actually helping me. And it's 0:18:48.040 --> 0:18:49.920 not because I'm getting the compliments. It's because I go. 0:18:50.040 --> 0:18:52.120 Also, they don't go astray the compliment. 0:18:52.320 --> 0:18:54.320 No, but the compliments don't go astray, but that they're 0:18:54.320 --> 0:18:57.600 a byproduct. I'm posting them to flip that switch in 0:18:57.680 --> 0:19:00.280 my brain because look at my content over the last 0:19:00.359 --> 0:19:02.720 five years, it's been from the neck up. I do 0:19:02.840 --> 0:19:06.040 not like posting my body because I'm uncomfortable by it, 0:19:06.320 --> 0:19:08.480 and posting all these hot girl walks and the content. 0:19:08.520 --> 0:19:11.160 I would never have done that before. And it's retraining 0:19:11.160 --> 0:19:14.280 my brain to actually love myself. 0:19:14.440 --> 0:19:16.440 It's like exposure therapy. If you do it over and 0:19:16.520 --> 0:19:18.560 over again, it becomes less intimidating. 0:19:18.640 --> 0:19:20.320 It means nothing to you, guys. The other day, I 0:19:20.320 --> 0:19:22.439 filmed a hot girl walk video and I showed my 0:19:22.480 --> 0:19:24.960 whole body, and I remember thinking, like I'm putting my 0:19:25.040 --> 0:19:27.040 people can see like a bit of man boo, people 0:19:27.040 --> 0:19:28.840 can see a bit of tummy. And I didn't. I 0:19:28.880 --> 0:19:30.520 didn't think twice about it, and I put it up 0:19:30.520 --> 0:19:33.360 and I felt good for me and it's my it's 0:19:33.400 --> 0:19:36.240 my social media. It's got to work for me at 0:19:36.280 --> 0:19:36.880 the end of the day. 0:19:37.000 --> 0:19:38.919 Exactly, can you talk to me about some of the 0:19:39.359 --> 0:19:43.240 backlashy messages you've gotten, because again, when I started my 0:19:43.320 --> 0:19:45.720 health kick, I actively chose not to. 0:19:45.680 --> 0:19:47.239 Talk about it for fear of that. 0:19:47.680 --> 0:19:49.600 Yeah, because I didn't want it to look like I 0:19:49.680 --> 0:19:53.560 was pushing the message like we've said that smaller equals better. 0:19:53.720 --> 0:19:55.439 That's I didn't want to be accused of that. 0:19:55.600 --> 0:19:57.040 And so has there been a little bit of that. 0:19:57.119 --> 0:19:58.600 There's been a couple of messages yet. 0:19:58.440 --> 0:20:00.800 But for the most part, it's majority people being nice 0:20:00.800 --> 0:20:02.760 and cheering you off and just a little bit about. 0:20:02.520 --> 0:20:06.840 The ninety nine positivity. And you know what, one of 0:20:06.880 --> 0:20:09.080 the messages I got, I've taken on board. So I 0:20:09.160 --> 0:20:11.920 would because people were messaging going, what is your routine? 0:20:12.200 --> 0:20:16.000 How long are you walking? People want questions one answers. 0:20:16.359 --> 0:20:18.560 So I started. I wear an Apple Watch to track 0:20:18.640 --> 0:20:20.560 my fitness and it sends it to your phone in 0:20:20.600 --> 0:20:23.880 an app, and I would just screenshot the length of duration, 0:20:24.160 --> 0:20:26.600 the kilometers, and I'd add that into the story. 0:20:27.119 --> 0:20:29.040 And I noticed that they're too many numbers for me. 0:20:29.119 --> 0:20:30.040 It makes no sense to me. 0:20:30.040 --> 0:20:32.040 That that's right. But the people that wanted it, Yeah, 0:20:32.040 --> 0:20:33.760 the people that want it, they get it. But I 0:20:33.800 --> 0:20:36.080 had I had two people message and say and I 0:20:36.119 --> 0:20:39.920 fully understand it. But for people that have eating disorders 0:20:40.440 --> 0:20:43.960 or people who have real issues with calorie counting, that 0:20:44.080 --> 0:20:47.000 seeing someone else burning that amount of calories can be triggering. 0:20:47.640 --> 0:20:50.240 I appreciate that. So I've removed that from I've removed 0:20:50.240 --> 0:20:53.000 the calories because I didn't even think about that. I 0:20:53.000 --> 0:20:55.760 didn't know, So I've removed the calories. I'm still putting 0:20:55.800 --> 0:20:59.440 up how far I've walked. It's hard because the people 0:20:59.440 --> 0:21:03.320 that your benefiting from educating them, people are going is 0:21:03.320 --> 0:21:06.040 four kilometers enough? I've just walked two. So I just 0:21:06.080 --> 0:21:07.840 want sometimes I walk one and a half, and I 0:21:07.880 --> 0:21:10.040 just want people to know that, yeah, I'm not go walking. 0:21:10.080 --> 0:21:12.080 It's a one kilometer walk. It doesn't matter if it's 0:21:12.080 --> 0:21:14.479 one or ten k So you got to weigh it up. 0:21:14.960 --> 0:21:17.639 But I know how fucked is calorie counting. 0:21:18.080 --> 0:21:20.679 It was such a big relief when I had my 0:21:20.720 --> 0:21:24.040 first appointment with Sarah Delarenzo and she said, we don't 0:21:24.040 --> 0:21:25.760 do calorie counting here, darling, and I was like. 0:21:25.760 --> 0:21:28.040 Oh, thank god. I thought I was about to get 0:21:28.040 --> 0:21:30.919 back into that I had my fitness palette was just awful, 0:21:32.080 --> 0:21:33.160 too much to think about. 0:21:33.240 --> 0:21:35.080 I also just want to say, like, the only reason 0:21:35.080 --> 0:21:37.040 we're talking about this miiche is because we're going through 0:21:37.080 --> 0:21:40.160 it currently. Doesn't mean that you listening have to go 0:21:40.200 --> 0:21:43.919 and walk or lose weight if you're I was so 0:21:44.080 --> 0:21:46.480 content being bigger. It's just that I've gone through this 0:21:46.840 --> 0:21:49.439 trauma and this is how I'm responding to it. 0:21:49.560 --> 0:21:50.520 Yeah, that's the thing. 0:21:50.520 --> 0:21:53.080 When I have my again, my first appointment with Sarah, 0:21:53.200 --> 0:21:57.080 she kept using the line like, oh, becoming your best self, 0:21:57.119 --> 0:21:58.880 and that's one of the only things that she said 0:21:58.920 --> 0:22:02.160 that I just didn't sit right because I'm like, smaller 0:22:02.240 --> 0:22:05.680 doesn't equals best self. It's more just the mental shit 0:22:05.720 --> 0:22:06.639 I'm trying to get on top of. 0:22:06.800 --> 0:22:10.200 Can I say though, like my and I don't know 0:22:10.240 --> 0:22:12.040 if you can comment on this, but my night show team, 0:22:12.119 --> 0:22:15.440 the producers of my radio show were like, you've been funnier, 0:22:15.600 --> 0:22:18.840 like you've been on it and you're like sparkers back, yeah, 0:22:19.119 --> 0:22:22.240 and you're like you just you're not warmer, but there's 0:22:22.280 --> 0:22:23.800 just an energy I feel. 0:22:23.600 --> 0:22:26.840 As soon as you walk into the office, it's like 0:22:26.880 --> 0:22:28.240 you're a totally different person. 0:22:30.280 --> 0:22:31.520 I'm on a lot of cocaine. 0:22:31.600 --> 0:22:32.919 Yeah, I just gave him a bump in the leaf. 0:22:33.040 --> 0:22:35.600 Yeah, mich is so generous with that of his penis 0:22:35.600 --> 0:22:36.600 though it was really weird. 0:22:37.320 --> 0:22:40.560 But but I've also noticed that too, where as soon 0:22:40.600 --> 0:22:43.760 as I started doing this meal plan, I feel like 0:22:43.800 --> 0:22:46.760 I've just become a bit sharper, Like when we're recording 0:22:46.800 --> 0:22:47.440 the podcast. 0:22:47.720 --> 0:22:49.720 Apart from days Night today where I just feel a bit. 0:22:49.760 --> 0:22:51.679 Naked, we're all a bit like that. 0:22:52.080 --> 0:22:53.000 What is it about today? 0:22:53.080 --> 0:22:55.120 I don't know. It's fine, it's a chill day. 0:22:55.480 --> 0:22:57.879 So yeah, but I noticed as soon as I started 0:22:58.400 --> 0:23:00.280 doing the meal plan, I was like, I'm just more 0:23:00.320 --> 0:23:02.400 alert and I don't need to have as many coffees. 0:23:02.920 --> 0:23:06.480 So going back to my initial question, is it bad 0:23:06.800 --> 0:23:09.560 that I'm jealous as fuck at all the compliments you're getting? 0:23:09.920 --> 0:23:13.720 Is that bad because I'm just like, he's on his journey, 0:23:13.800 --> 0:23:14.399 I'm on mine. 0:23:14.400 --> 0:23:15.920 I feel better. That should be all that matters. And 0:23:16.000 --> 0:23:17.679 yet there's a little selfish part of me that's like 0:23:17.720 --> 0:23:18.760 I just want compliments. 0:23:19.600 --> 0:23:21.320 I hate it. 0:23:20.119 --> 0:23:23.399 Normal human Some people will listen and go, yeah, it 0:23:23.480 --> 0:23:25.040 is bad, but and I swear. 0:23:24.840 --> 0:23:27.240 Anyway, listening right now, I swear that's not me fishing 0:23:27.240 --> 0:23:29.040 for compliments. I'm just I'm just getting this out of 0:23:29.040 --> 0:23:30.720 my system because it's been on my mind a lot lately. 0:23:30.720 --> 0:23:34.040 I don't understand why all the attention you're getting has 0:23:34.240 --> 0:23:35.760 made me spiral a little bit. 0:23:35.880 --> 0:23:37.399 To be honest, no, I feel you. 0:23:37.640 --> 0:23:38.240 I get it. 0:23:38.320 --> 0:23:40.600 But again, I agree with all the compliments you're getting. 0:23:40.600 --> 0:23:42.879 They're correct, thank you. So yeah I look hot, but 0:23:42.960 --> 0:23:46.400 so do you? You look so hot, Jenna when we filmed 0:23:46.480 --> 0:23:48.720 what we were released in the next couple of weeks. 0:23:48.680 --> 0:23:49.800 Next week, next week? 0:23:49.880 --> 0:23:50.080 Yeah? 0:23:50.119 --> 0:23:50.919 The blood is one right? 0:23:51.000 --> 0:23:52.760 Yes? Yeah, yes, how hot? 0:23:52.800 --> 0:23:54.520 Did Mitch look those legs? 0:23:54.800 --> 0:23:55.520 Oh? You reckon? 0:23:55.640 --> 0:23:56.000 Mitchell? 0:23:56.160 --> 0:23:58.920 See even again? Now again. This is why it's so confusing, 0:23:59.000 --> 0:23:59.760 what's going on in my head. 0:23:59.760 --> 0:24:02.520 I feel bad accepting compliments about my appearance because I 0:24:02.520 --> 0:24:04.720 feel like that is pushing the message that's smallest. But 0:24:04.760 --> 0:24:07.359 it's really it's there's a lot coming onto my stupid brain. 0:24:07.400 --> 0:24:09.879 Mitchell, I feel exactly the same, but it's not. It's 0:24:09.920 --> 0:24:12.080 it's not it's not. You're right, you got Shan when 0:24:12.080 --> 0:24:14.400 you were bigger. I was in a fie relationship when 0:24:14.400 --> 0:24:16.440 I was bigger. I've done the most TV work I've 0:24:16.440 --> 0:24:18.240 ever known in my life. When I was bigger, I have, 0:24:18.359 --> 0:24:20.800 I had my radio success. This podcast is blown up 0:24:20.800 --> 0:24:21.800 when it doesn't matter. 0:24:21.920 --> 0:24:22.680 Yeah, it doesn't matter. 0:24:22.720 --> 0:24:25.560 It's all for me personally and for you. It's a 0:24:25.600 --> 0:24:28.480 personal journey. But you're right, a fucking DM your listeners 0:24:28.520 --> 0:24:29.960 would be lovely said, No. 0:24:30.160 --> 0:24:32.280 That's not that's not what I'm fishing for. I'm just yeah, 0:24:32.359 --> 0:24:34.359 I needed a group therapy session. Like I said, that 0:24:34.480 --> 0:24:37.159 was not all out anyway. Sorry, this has gone on 0:24:37.200 --> 0:24:38.520 longer than I thought it. Woul should get to your 0:24:38.560 --> 0:24:38.960 is it just me? 0:24:39.080 --> 0:24:41.520 Yeah, and donated any of that out? That was lovely chat. Okay, 0:24:41.600 --> 0:24:42.440 that was lovely chat. 0:24:42.680 --> 0:24:44.359 I feel better now, good do you? 0:24:45.000 --> 0:24:45.160 Yeah? 0:24:45.200 --> 0:24:48.199 There's something to be said for talking about things that 0:24:48.200 --> 0:24:49.520 are weighing on your mind, isn't there? 0:24:49.640 --> 0:24:52.240 It is? It's crazy. A problem shared is a problem hard. 0:24:52.280 --> 0:24:54.840 Now that'll be three hundred dollars. I'll need your Medicare 0:24:54.840 --> 0:24:56.240 card and we'll give you back three dollars. 0:24:56.480 --> 0:24:58.480 Didn't you say that your gymis therapy related? 0:24:58.560 --> 0:24:59.520 Yes, it is all right. 0:24:59.520 --> 0:25:01.159 You're turning you get some deep shit for me. 0:25:01.240 --> 0:25:02.560 Oh it's a deep baby, it's deep. 0:25:02.640 --> 0:25:03.120 Let's go. 0:25:04.840 --> 0:25:10.679 Is it just me, is good therapy really dependent on 0:25:10.840 --> 0:25:11.560 the therapist? 0:25:12.400 --> 0:25:12.760 Fuck you? 0:25:13.040 --> 0:25:16.760 Absolutely yeah, I'm new to therapy. You've been trying for years, 0:25:16.800 --> 0:25:19.640 Mitchell to get me there, and I did need it, 0:25:20.240 --> 0:25:20.760 But there. 0:25:20.720 --> 0:25:22.680 Was part of me that was like I didn't want 0:25:22.680 --> 0:25:24.439 to push it too hard to make it seem like 0:25:24.440 --> 0:25:26.280 I was saying, you're fucked in the head, get some 0:25:26.320 --> 0:25:27.879 help now that I was just like it could be 0:25:27.960 --> 0:25:28.680 helpful for you. 0:25:28.520 --> 0:25:30.600 You know, I was one of those blissful idiots that 0:25:30.720 --> 0:25:33.000 was like, no, my life is perfect, perfect. Part of 0:25:33.000 --> 0:25:35.840 that would never do me wrong. Life, family, money, it's job, 0:25:35.840 --> 0:25:36.520 it's all good. 0:25:36.640 --> 0:25:40.560 And so don't tell me that your very first fucking 0:25:40.640 --> 0:25:42.520 therapist is a match made in heaven. 0:25:43.040 --> 0:25:45.840 No, it's I think I need to break up my therapist. 0:25:46.119 --> 0:25:49.400 Really yeah, she was really good for ChIL. 0:25:49.680 --> 0:25:52.160 You recommended her to me. I've got my first appointment 0:25:52.240 --> 0:25:54.000 next week, and now you're telling me she's no good? 0:25:54.000 --> 0:25:56.800 Did you actually? Oh my god, are you serious? You're 0:25:56.800 --> 0:25:57.280 going to see her? 0:25:57.400 --> 0:25:57.600 Yeah? 0:25:57.840 --> 0:25:59.359 Next home? No? 0:25:59.240 --> 0:26:01.720 No, no, no, no, she's really good. She's really good, 0:26:01.760 --> 0:26:05.439 and she she experts, she's an expert in relationships, and 0:26:05.480 --> 0:26:07.480 she also works with people in the public eye. So 0:26:07.600 --> 0:26:10.680 she gets that lens. It's very cool. Anyway, She's beautiful 0:26:10.680 --> 0:26:12.879 and I love her. She's a very sweet woman. However, 0:26:13.160 --> 0:26:15.280 the other week at session, the other week of therapy 0:26:15.560 --> 0:26:18.560 last week, she said, she goes to me and I 0:26:18.640 --> 0:26:20.720 just don't know, Like I felt like I was fucking 0:26:20.760 --> 0:26:25.119 eleven on stranger things in those science labs. She goes, Mitchell, 0:26:25.600 --> 0:26:28.760 I need for you to take this whiteboard, and I 0:26:28.760 --> 0:26:31.000 went okay. She gave me the whiteboard. She said I 0:26:31.080 --> 0:26:36.560 need for you to draw me your relationship. And I 0:26:36.600 --> 0:26:38.439 said you need me. You want me to draw my 0:26:38.520 --> 0:26:42.120 relationship and draw your relationship? And I went okay, sure. 0:26:42.000 --> 0:26:45.080 Were you like, listen, sketching isn't my art form? Can 0:26:45.119 --> 0:26:47.000 I make a fucking TikTok? 0:26:46.240 --> 0:26:48.639 So you want me to back announce Padama, pa dama, 0:26:48.720 --> 0:26:50.760 talk to you about my relationship because that will be 0:26:50.840 --> 0:26:54.720 much more eloquent. Me really wants to put on was 0:26:54.760 --> 0:26:57.480 down coming up to the next ten drauma from my childhood. 0:26:58.000 --> 0:27:00.240 And I go, okay, So I take this whiteboard, take 0:27:00.280 --> 0:27:02.320 this in my hand. And then I'm like, what do 0:27:02.400 --> 0:27:03.359 you mean? What do you want me to What do 0:27:03.359 --> 0:27:05.080 you want me to draw? Because Mitchell, look at me, 0:27:05.480 --> 0:27:07.800 draw your relationship. I'm like, well, what do I do? 0:27:07.960 --> 0:27:09.800 Two stick figures of two boys and my dick in 0:27:09.840 --> 0:27:13.160 his butt? Like what do you want me to draw? 0:27:13.440 --> 0:27:16.679 And did she say whatever you want, there's no wrong answer. 0:27:16.800 --> 0:27:18.960 Yes, that's what she said, there's no wrong answer. Sure, 0:27:18.960 --> 0:27:20.879 give me the texture and I go and pick up 0:27:20.880 --> 0:27:24.800 a green one. She goes, ah, great, and I was like, 0:27:25.440 --> 0:27:28.280 I mean, what do you mean. I feel like I'm 0:27:28.280 --> 0:27:30.760 on the price is right? Oh, so I go, okay, 0:27:31.119 --> 0:27:35.920 so that I draw two stick figures and then she's like, right, 0:27:36.720 --> 0:27:42.960 all right, ah, oh oh, this is ridiculous. Then she 0:27:43.000 --> 0:27:46.960 goes draw for me a toxic relationship, and I was like, 0:27:47.280 --> 0:27:49.120 what do you mean? So that I just took the 0:27:49.359 --> 0:27:54.119 red texture and drew it in red. 0:27:52.880 --> 0:27:54.879 Skulls that you get on the chemical drums. Toxic? 0:27:56.400 --> 0:27:58.119 But it just and then after we had to like 0:27:58.680 --> 0:28:00.639 wipe it off, and she guess this tells me lot, Mitchell, 0:28:00.680 --> 0:28:03.879 you know, next time, more into it. That's my question? 0:28:04.280 --> 0:28:06.119 Does that tell her shit? And at the end of 0:28:06.160 --> 0:28:07.439 the day, does that help me? 0:28:07.520 --> 0:28:10.879 I've fired therapists for that exact reason, because I just 0:28:10.920 --> 0:28:13.520 feel like, what the fuck? This is just not clicking 0:28:13.560 --> 0:28:17.080 for me and my most recent therapist that I started 0:28:17.080 --> 0:28:17.679 seeing Patrick. 0:28:17.720 --> 0:28:18.720 He was great at the start. 0:28:18.840 --> 0:28:22.920 Yeah, and I had like a fifteen minute blind date 0:28:22.920 --> 0:28:25.359 with him to make sure we would vibe, and during 0:28:25.359 --> 0:28:27.359 that I said to him, Now, Patrick, what I need 0:28:27.400 --> 0:28:29.720 for you is to not fuck about. I need you 0:28:29.760 --> 0:28:32.080 to just tell me do this differently in order to 0:28:32.119 --> 0:28:33.720 feel better. I don't want to go around in circles 0:28:33.760 --> 0:28:36.879 and draw bullshit. Yeah, that's not gonna work for me. 0:28:37.200 --> 0:28:39.240 And I feel like it's okay to say that. So 0:28:39.360 --> 0:28:41.640 if this therapist that you've recommended to me hits me 0:28:41.720 --> 0:28:43.520 with that shit next week, I'm going to be reminding 0:28:43.520 --> 0:28:44.760 her I'm paying you. 0:28:46.320 --> 0:28:46.840 Very good call. 0:28:46.960 --> 0:28:47.400 That's good. 0:28:47.520 --> 0:28:50.240 So if that doesn't resonate with me, we're not doing 0:28:50.280 --> 0:28:50.640 that shit. 0:28:50.680 --> 0:28:52.800 Well, I think you gave me this advice because I 0:28:52.840 --> 0:28:54.160 was just about to go on a ran. So the 0:28:54.160 --> 0:28:56.160 best advice I was given about therapy. 0:28:55.880 --> 0:28:56.720 What's it is? 0:28:56.960 --> 0:28:58.160 Tell the therapist what you want? 0:28:58.400 --> 0:28:59.920 Yeah, yeah, yeah, how you. 0:29:00.080 --> 0:29:03.960 How you receive information? So I did. When I sat down, 0:29:04.000 --> 0:29:06.640 I'm like, I'm very sad about a breaker. This is 0:29:06.680 --> 0:29:10.200 all the context of the breaker, and I need strategies 0:29:10.240 --> 0:29:12.720 to stop thinking this way. And she did. 0:29:12.800 --> 0:29:13.880 She was great well, it's like I. 0:29:13.800 --> 0:29:16.800 Said just before about the nutrition thing. When it comes 0:29:16.880 --> 0:29:19.320 to things that I know nothing about, I'm actually really 0:29:19.360 --> 0:29:21.880 good at just doing what I'm told. So I'm just 0:29:21.920 --> 0:29:24.719 going to go to that therapist and say, right, how 0:29:24.760 --> 0:29:26.400 do I feel a bit more motivated, a bit less 0:29:26.400 --> 0:29:26.920 self doubting? 0:29:27.040 --> 0:29:27.960 Just give me strategies. 0:29:28.000 --> 0:29:28.080 Go. 0:29:28.240 --> 0:29:30.400 I don't want to draw anything. That's exactly what I 0:29:30.440 --> 0:29:31.680 want from you. Just tell me what to do and 0:29:31.680 --> 0:29:32.040 I'll do it. 0:29:32.040 --> 0:29:34.520 One und if I just wrote no in red texture 0:29:34.520 --> 0:29:38.040 and no. Also, what if it was a beautiful oil 0:29:38.080 --> 0:29:41.120 pastel paid no worries, you have three hours. I just 0:29:41.120 --> 0:29:44.440 turned on a candle and played some She'd. 0:29:44.160 --> 0:29:46.280 Be happy with that, because you pay her by the hour. 0:29:48.080 --> 0:29:50.440 She'd be like, now keep going time, more detail on 0:29:50.480 --> 0:29:55.160 the hairs on his receding hairline? Shade you're listening to? 0:29:55.600 --> 0:29:56.560 Isn't just me? 0:29:58.080 --> 0:30:02.120 That's enough of these two? Now let's hear and is 0:30:02.160 --> 0:30:05.280 it just you? Yes? If you'd like to get a 0:30:05.320 --> 0:30:10.000 prize too, dms on a couple of mitches and we 0:30:10.080 --> 0:30:12.320 will get you on the show and we'll get you something. 0:30:12.360 --> 0:30:15.280 Prize keeper, Jenna, We'll take control of that, won't you, Jenna? 0:30:15.400 --> 0:30:18.320 I will yes, send him something real nice for coming 0:30:18.320 --> 0:30:19.640 on with it? Is it just me or their own? 0:30:19.640 --> 0:30:22.640 We've also got the brand new text number, so everyone 0:30:22.680 --> 0:30:26.760 delete the old number please, because apparently that's been disconnected. Yeah, 0:30:27.120 --> 0:30:29.800 it's the same number we used during talkback tings. The 0:30:29.840 --> 0:30:33.160 brand new text line is oh four double two nine 0:30:33.200 --> 0:30:34.520 four eight two o. 0:30:34.640 --> 0:30:39.560 Two oh and the serial works. Listen there's yes, thank god, beautiful. 0:30:40.800 --> 0:30:42.719 All right, we have Jordan today coming to us from 0:30:42.760 --> 0:30:48.120 Blacktown in New South Wales. Hello Jordan, Jordan, Hello, Hello, Hello, Hi. 0:30:48.360 --> 0:30:50.200 How long have you been a listener? Oh? 0:30:50.640 --> 0:30:51.680 About a year now? 0:30:51.920 --> 0:30:56.080 Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I finished it and then I 0:30:56.120 --> 0:30:57.640 go back and watch, like listen to all the old 0:30:57.720 --> 0:30:59.800 episodes and yeah, up day every week. 0:31:00.000 --> 0:31:01.160 I can't believe people do that. 0:31:01.240 --> 0:31:02.240 Are you up to date yet? 0:31:02.680 --> 0:31:03.440 Yes? Up to date? 0:31:03.520 --> 0:31:04.680 Updates A good girl. 0:31:04.720 --> 0:31:07.240 Good you're on the latest, so that you're more the 0:31:07.280 --> 0:31:10.840 most up to date anyone could be. Episode Yeah, you're 0:31:10.840 --> 0:31:12.600 out of the pack. All right, Bradley's going to count 0:31:12.640 --> 0:31:16.080 you in and hit us with you. Is it just me? Okay, okay, 0:31:17.560 --> 0:31:18.720 is it just me? 0:31:21.120 --> 0:31:24.840 Open homes when someone is still living there just the 0:31:24.880 --> 0:31:28.920 most awkward thing for everybody. 0:31:27.680 --> 0:31:31.280 Absolutely, especially if they haven't bothered to tidy up. 0:31:31.480 --> 0:31:32.600 You're just revolting. 0:31:33.040 --> 0:31:35.200 No one enjoys it. You know. The one thing that 0:31:35.240 --> 0:31:37.440 always gets me about those kind of open homes is 0:31:37.480 --> 0:31:41.560 the showers always freshly used, always because they've always left that. 0:31:41.640 --> 0:31:43.600 You have never gone to an open home that someone's 0:31:43.600 --> 0:31:45.960 still living in and the shower and not be damp 0:31:46.080 --> 0:31:48.240 and wet and humid, but. 0:31:48.280 --> 0:31:49.600 It's just been used. 0:31:49.880 --> 0:31:52.080 Yeah, what happened to you, Jordy? Did that happen to 0:31:52.120 --> 0:31:52.680 you recently? 0:31:53.520 --> 0:31:56.200 Well, so I've been on both sides of this actually, 0:31:56.440 --> 0:32:00.400 So I've had some of the house is under the rens, yeah. 0:32:00.080 --> 0:32:02.880 The houses, but I've lived in it sold while I'm 0:32:02.920 --> 0:32:05.840 living there. But I've been to so many open homes 0:32:05.840 --> 0:32:08.240 as a rental where I'm just like, oh, this is disgusting. 0:32:08.240 --> 0:32:10.479 How can someone not be like embarrassed and not want 0:32:10.520 --> 0:32:13.440 to clean up? And I see to have like immaculate. 0:32:13.720 --> 0:32:16.080 But then there's also the problem of people going to 0:32:16.200 --> 0:32:19.520 your stuff. They're opening up your codom, of your kitchen covers, 0:32:19.560 --> 0:32:21.560 and then when you're going in, yeah, of course you 0:32:21.600 --> 0:32:22.920 want to know what that all looks like. 0:32:23.560 --> 0:32:26.440 And so when people were inspecting the place that you 0:32:26.480 --> 0:32:28.720 were currently living in. It sounds like, did you not 0:32:28.800 --> 0:32:30.680 want to leave that place? It was being sold and 0:32:30.720 --> 0:32:31.560 so you had to leave. 0:32:32.080 --> 0:32:33.840 Yeah, that was pretty much the situation. 0:32:34.080 --> 0:32:36.880 See, I reckon that you should have made the place 0:32:36.920 --> 0:32:39.760 look disgusting so it was less likely to sell. Because 0:32:39.840 --> 0:32:42.440 I've gone to rental inspections like a place that I 0:32:42.520 --> 0:32:44.760 might rent, and I reckon that was their tactic because 0:32:44.760 --> 0:32:46.800 the place was revolting and it turned me off the 0:32:46.880 --> 0:32:47.720 idea of ever renting that. 0:32:47.800 --> 0:32:48.960 Oh, I reckon, they just wanted to stay. 0:32:49.080 --> 0:32:51.160 Well, that's what I've done in the past. The last 0:32:51.160 --> 0:32:53.520 house that I lived in I had to get out 0:32:53.520 --> 0:32:55.880 of because it was being sold, so I'd have to 0:32:56.000 --> 0:32:59.240 leave in the morning while they took new potential tenants through. 0:32:59.520 --> 0:33:01.840 And it was so nice. I would clean the house, 0:33:01.880 --> 0:33:03.680 I'd put a candle on, but then by the end, 0:33:03.720 --> 0:33:05.160 I'm like, I don't want to fucking move out. I 0:33:05.160 --> 0:33:08.120 want to elongate this process. So the toilet wouldn't flush. 0:33:08.920 --> 0:33:11.320 There was one chick that lived in the place that 0:33:11.400 --> 0:33:14.640 I went to inspect, and there was this kitty that everywhere, 0:33:14.680 --> 0:33:16.800 cat food all over the floor. It was just a 0:33:16.920 --> 0:33:18.560 disaster now, and. 0:33:18.520 --> 0:33:20.720 The place looked beautiful. It was a meriton. 0:33:21.000 --> 0:33:23.280 Oh God, to serve, what's mine? 0:33:23.480 --> 0:33:25.120 Sorry about but she just made it look like a 0:33:25.200 --> 0:33:27.240 dumps So I was like, not for me. The smell 0:33:27.280 --> 0:33:27.880 as well. 0:33:27.760 --> 0:33:29.760 You know what's funny. Not to digress, but Mitch and 0:33:29.760 --> 0:33:32.080 I got invited to Jenna's new apartment, didn't we, Mitch, 0:33:32.760 --> 0:33:36.320 and it is the most Jenna vibe. Yeah, I have 0:33:36.480 --> 0:33:38.719 ever seen. The first thing you see, I don't want 0:33:38.760 --> 0:33:40.840 to dox you, Jenna, go for it. The first thing 0:33:40.880 --> 0:33:45.440 you see coming off the street metal cathedral gates from 0:33:45.440 --> 0:33:46.720 a church. I'm not joking. 0:33:46.760 --> 0:33:48.320 It felt a bit hogwartsy, didn't it. 0:33:48.360 --> 0:33:49.600 Oh my god? Yeah, you had to like get an 0:33:49.640 --> 0:33:51.920 umbrella and hit three bricks in a certain sequence. 0:33:52.160 --> 0:33:52.760 Parcel tongue. 0:33:52.800 --> 0:33:54.400 Yeah, you had this parcel tongue and that the doors 0:33:54.400 --> 0:33:56.719 would swing open and then we go in and then 0:33:56.760 --> 0:33:59.520 the concierge. So of course she has an escape. She 0:33:59.600 --> 0:34:01.520 may be out of a meriton, but she's still got 0:34:01.560 --> 0:34:04.280 a concert security And we said, Hi, we're here to 0:34:04.280 --> 0:34:07.440 see Jenna, he said, Miss Benson. We said, yeah, we 0:34:07.480 --> 0:34:09.560 get the lift, Mitch. And what is on the inside 0:34:09.560 --> 0:34:10.000 of the lift. 0:34:10.160 --> 0:34:13.040 It was like I was in a confessional. You know, 0:34:13.080 --> 0:34:14.920 there's confession booths. You can go to a church and 0:34:14.960 --> 0:34:16.239 there's priests on the other side. 0:34:16.280 --> 0:34:16.919 It was like that. 0:34:17.400 --> 0:34:19.560 It was confessional, and I was convinced that there was 0:34:19.600 --> 0:34:20.680 a priest in the lift too. 0:34:20.719 --> 0:34:22.399 I was like, oh my god, it felt like someone 0:34:22.400 --> 0:34:23.000 felt like it. 0:34:23.320 --> 0:34:25.680 And then, of course we actually stepped foot into Jenna's 0:34:25.680 --> 0:34:27.799 apartment and it made me feel like I neglect my 0:34:27.920 --> 0:34:32.400 cat because her apartment she had so many fucking cat toy, 0:34:32.800 --> 0:34:37.520 cat lounges, cat hammocks, like it was just a cat's paradise. 0:34:37.560 --> 0:34:40.640 It made me feel like I'm neglecting Isabella by comparison, you. 0:34:40.640 --> 0:34:42.960 Had so many cat scratch posts. 0:34:43.040 --> 0:34:45.280 Yeah, yes, yes, I just want her to be happy. 0:34:45.480 --> 0:34:48.160 Yeah, Jordan's gone quiet? Are we boring you allen. 0:34:50.719 --> 0:34:51.400 The podcast? 0:34:52.360 --> 0:34:55.160 True? Oh my god, you're getting a live podcast. 0:34:55.520 --> 0:34:59.320 I'm spoil this episode to anyone. 0:34:59.480 --> 0:35:01.759 Don't you tell anybody will sue you were sending an 0:35:01.840 --> 0:35:04.440 ndaight to your DM you fucking sign it? 0:35:05.440 --> 0:35:05.640 Yeah? 0:35:06.600 --> 0:35:08.840 Well no, I completely agree with you. Also, nothing worse 0:35:08.840 --> 0:35:10.440 than when you're because no one's ever on time to 0:35:10.520 --> 0:35:13.560 it open hours and they do fifteen middle windows now, 0:35:13.640 --> 0:35:15.640 since when is that industry standard? 0:35:15.760 --> 0:35:15.920 No? 0:35:16.080 --> 0:35:17.560 Fifteen minutes? I hate it? 0:35:17.600 --> 0:35:20.200 When I inspected this place that we're currently sitting in, 0:35:20.760 --> 0:35:24.319 it was only me and one other person inspecting, and 0:35:24.360 --> 0:35:26.799 I brought my friend Andrew with me and the other 0:35:26.880 --> 0:35:30.920 guy that was inspecting the place. He said to us, actually, 0:35:31.480 --> 0:35:33.799 this place might be better for you guys, because there's 0:35:33.840 --> 0:35:36.120 the two of you, and so you might have a 0:35:36.120 --> 0:35:36.680 bit more room. 0:35:36.719 --> 0:35:38.440 I can just go inspect one of the ones downstairs. 0:35:38.440 --> 0:35:39.759 It's smaller. I'll let you guys have this. 0:35:39.960 --> 0:35:43.239 Oh, and I realized, Oh, they think that Andrew's my boyfriend. 0:35:43.320 --> 0:35:45.799 But if it means I get the apartment, I was like, Yeah, 0:35:45.840 --> 0:35:48.759 he's right, darling, isn't he Babe. 0:35:48.880 --> 0:35:50.040 I had to just go along with it. 0:35:50.120 --> 0:35:51.799 Get on your knees, let's have some of that sex 0:35:51.840 --> 0:35:52.600 we have all the time. 0:35:52.760 --> 0:35:54.879 I can just picture us routing in this lovely room. 0:35:55.480 --> 0:35:56.440 Perfect. Perfect. 0:35:56.640 --> 0:35:58.200 Oh, you got to pull out all the tricks when 0:35:58.239 --> 0:36:01.200 you're run sing, I think ambitious. 0:36:00.680 --> 0:36:04.160 In this rental crisis, it's absolutely insane, you know, pull it. 0:36:04.040 --> 0:36:05.600 Out, pull it out, all right? 0:36:05.640 --> 0:36:08.360 Well, so to speak, let's get your price. A message 0:36:08.360 --> 0:36:10.279 price keeper General on Instagram will get you something. 0:36:10.320 --> 0:36:11.920 Okay, you. 0:36:14.080 --> 0:36:16.640 See your honey, and it's at a couple of minches. 0:36:16.680 --> 0:36:18.720 That's where your message Jenna. Don't go to her personally. 0:36:18.880 --> 0:36:20.840 You can go to Chenna underscore Benson. 0:36:21.160 --> 0:36:24.239 But of course for all her first traps and stuff. 0:36:24.040 --> 0:36:25.439 He's Jenner. They're getting out of hand. 0:36:26.120 --> 0:36:27.240 I can't help it. 0:36:27.400 --> 0:36:31.040 Really, it's an impulse, is it. Yeah, I've been posting 0:36:31.040 --> 0:36:32.960 some first traps I've noticed. 0:36:33.760 --> 0:36:35.399 Well, in that case you can head to add Mitch 0:36:35.480 --> 0:36:39.160 Cheery as well. Yes, we're all first trap and accept me. 0:36:42.320 --> 0:36:42.640 Now. 0:36:43.280 --> 0:36:46.880 Cheery, as we will know, you recently went through a breakup. 0:36:47.080 --> 0:36:49.520 I did the four month mark, probably at the time 0:36:49.560 --> 0:36:52.080 of four months, four months at the time this podcast 0:36:52.120 --> 0:36:53.160 is being released. 0:36:53.239 --> 0:36:56.239 Yeah, and so would it be fair to say that, 0:36:56.320 --> 0:36:59.239 like when you finally announced on the podcast, it had 0:36:59.280 --> 0:37:01.040 been a bit of a slow burn. It wasn't sudden. 0:37:01.080 --> 0:37:03.760 There'd been a bit of back and forth, there was discussion. 0:37:03.760 --> 0:37:06.320 It wasn't like a sudden breakup. He didn't just disappear 0:37:06.360 --> 0:37:06.600 from you. 0:37:06.719 --> 0:37:08.600 Yeah, there was a day that I broke up with him, 0:37:08.600 --> 0:37:11.200 when I yep, the D Day, it was actually Anzac Day, 0:37:11.239 --> 0:37:14.920 so probably shouldn't make a D Day reference. And then 0:37:15.000 --> 0:37:17.839 I was toing and froing going back for about a month. Yeah, 0:37:17.840 --> 0:37:19.840 then and then I officially was like nothing. 0:37:19.680 --> 0:37:22.520 So there wasn't any sudden loss of contact. 0:37:22.320 --> 0:37:24.799 No way, Well we're in no contact now, but no, 0:37:24.960 --> 0:37:26.600 there was communication for months. 0:37:26.680 --> 0:37:31.480 Yeah yeah, And so hypothetically, if you'd just come home 0:37:32.440 --> 0:37:36.920 and he'd vanished, just left you high and dry, no contact, 0:37:37.120 --> 0:37:40.080 no way of getting answers, would that have been better 0:37:40.360 --> 0:37:41.759 than the slow burn or worse? 0:37:41.800 --> 0:37:44.040 No? I need communication. I want. I want to chat. 0:37:44.080 --> 0:37:46.160 I like to get ideas. I like to get thoughts 0:37:46.200 --> 0:37:47.759 and why, the why and the how. 0:37:48.400 --> 0:37:48.920 Well there you go. 0:37:48.960 --> 0:37:51.839 Well that's exactly the sort of breakup that I'm going 0:37:51.840 --> 0:37:52.439 through right now. 0:37:52.440 --> 0:37:53.279 Where are you fucking go? 0:37:53.600 --> 0:37:58.000 Very sudden, no explanation, just gone, Well. 0:37:57.880 --> 0:37:59.680 It's not your cat because she did a shit in 0:37:59.719 --> 0:38:03.480 this hand house me moments ago. Yes, Isabella is here 0:38:03.480 --> 0:38:05.479 and the house things are shit, So it's not your cat. 0:38:05.640 --> 0:38:09.919 Sean's back from Europe. He's fucking fine. It's Jenna's here. 0:38:10.040 --> 0:38:12.520 I'm here and I know all your friends are around. 0:38:13.400 --> 0:38:13.880 What is it? 0:38:13.920 --> 0:38:14.960 I'm scared. 0:38:16.320 --> 0:38:18.919 It's so hard to talk about. Oh no, you're very raw. 0:38:19.040 --> 0:38:21.480 What's wrong? Spit it out? First of all, I don't 0:38:21.480 --> 0:38:23.879 appreciate you comparing it to the divorce of the love 0:38:23.920 --> 0:38:24.520 of my life. 0:38:24.719 --> 0:38:27.520 I'm not comparing, and I'm telling you that it's drastically worse. Actually, 0:38:29.560 --> 0:38:31.680 it's not really up for discussion. I'm telling you this 0:38:31.800 --> 0:38:33.680 is worse what I've been through with, worse than what 0:38:33.680 --> 0:38:34.480 you've If this is. 0:38:34.440 --> 0:38:36.359 Some fucking I had Jenna, I can't wait for him 0:38:36.360 --> 0:38:39.160 to turn around and go I have left my grocery 0:38:39.160 --> 0:38:40.200 bill because I'm. 0:38:40.040 --> 0:38:42.839 Partnering with No, that's naught it. 0:38:42.880 --> 0:38:45.239 Oh, then who is it who'll be broken up with? 0:38:46.080 --> 0:38:50.120 Well, I've been broken up with by my hairdresser. What 0:38:50.120 --> 0:38:55.160 what Franco the Wiggle, the former wiggle, Franco Terrelli. 0:38:54.920 --> 0:38:57.919 Franco really left you? He left you? 0:38:58.520 --> 0:39:02.879 Well. I went to my most recent appointment and some 0:39:03.080 --> 0:39:06.319 random woman named Tanya, who was perfectly lovely. 0:39:06.080 --> 0:39:06.880 I'm sure she was. 0:39:07.040 --> 0:39:09.279 I walked in and she goes, hi, Mitchell, how are 0:39:09.320 --> 0:39:11.320 you just come on through for your shampoo? 0:39:11.360 --> 0:39:14.560 You know how you go to the basins first, and 0:39:14.880 --> 0:39:17.759 it's not unusual that someone else would do that, and 0:39:17.800 --> 0:39:19.840 then I'd go and Franko would do the haircut. 0:39:19.840 --> 0:39:21.200 He's just the cut guy, right. 0:39:21.480 --> 0:39:25.600 And so anyway, she's shampooing my hair and she goes 0:39:25.760 --> 0:39:30.680 and so I'm assuming you've heard heard what she goes. Ah, 0:39:31.000 --> 0:39:36.400 Franco resigned effective immediately. I was like, when did this happen? 0:39:36.760 --> 0:39:39.520 She goes a couple of days ago, and so we did. 0:39:39.400 --> 0:39:40.000 Try and call you. 0:39:40.080 --> 0:39:41.880 We wanted to tell all these clients that were already 0:39:41.880 --> 0:39:44.160 booked in, and I was like, I never got a call. 0:39:44.520 --> 0:39:46.239 I later checked my call logue. I did miss that. 0:39:46.800 --> 0:39:50.080 They did let you know, yep, you really should check it. 0:39:50.360 --> 0:39:53.200 And so I just had to let this random Tanya 0:39:53.320 --> 0:39:57.600 woman who is lovely, but I've got no loyalty, your attachment. 0:39:58.160 --> 0:39:59.960 I had to let her cut my hair. 0:40:00.120 --> 0:40:03.040 It was fine, she did a good job, and when 0:40:03.080 --> 0:40:07.000 I heard the news, I was kind of okay with it. 0:40:07.000 --> 0:40:09.759 It wasn't until I got home later that I was 0:40:10.000 --> 0:40:13.320 really surprised at how affected I was by that because 0:40:13.360 --> 0:40:15.280 it was a five year relationship. 0:40:15.400 --> 0:40:18.120 Oh wow, you have been to see Frank Cart for 0:40:18.239 --> 0:40:18.920 five years. 0:40:19.360 --> 0:40:22.520 No other person apart from Franco, since I've had long 0:40:22.560 --> 0:40:23.799 hair has touched it. 0:40:24.280 --> 0:40:27.280 Wow, no one, Wow. Wow, that's huge Mitchell. 0:40:27.400 --> 0:40:30.560 And he doesn't have social media. He used to tell 0:40:30.600 --> 0:40:32.440 me all the time, Oh, I don't do that TikTok 0:40:32.520 --> 0:40:34.640 or Facebook. The only way I could contact him is 0:40:34.640 --> 0:40:37.560 grinder and so wait, is hows him? 0:40:37.680 --> 0:40:37.799 No? 0:40:37.800 --> 0:40:39.200 No, no, that's not how I messaged him. 0:40:39.200 --> 0:40:41.240 But if I really wanted to get an answer, because 0:40:41.239 --> 0:40:42.799 that's the thing, I have no explanation. 0:40:43.280 --> 0:40:44.960 Has he gone to another job? Is there a way 0:40:45.000 --> 0:40:45.520 I can follow? 0:40:45.640 --> 0:40:45.799 Yeah? 0:40:45.880 --> 0:40:46.800 Did you get the gossip? 0:40:46.840 --> 0:40:50.920 Because they didn't know. He didn't tell them secretive. 0:40:50.960 --> 0:40:52.920 They didn't know Captain Feathers swordes after him. 0:40:53.000 --> 0:40:54.440 So I don't know. Has he gone out of receipt? 0:40:54.800 --> 0:40:56.440 He's trying to get some cash. 0:40:56.080 --> 0:40:58.399 And I can't stalk him online to find out where 0:40:58.400 --> 0:41:01.080 he's working. Now it's just vanished from my life and 0:41:01.120 --> 0:41:04.960 I've got no way to get information or closure. 0:41:05.080 --> 0:41:06.600 I can find him. What's his name? 0:41:07.080 --> 0:41:09.520 It's Franco Torelli. But he's not on social media. Do 0:41:09.520 --> 0:41:10.880 you think I haven't tried this? The only thing that 0:41:10.880 --> 0:41:13.520 comes up is Wigglepedia. 0:41:15.160 --> 0:41:17.880 Just ask another of the wiggles to get contact. 0:41:18.680 --> 0:41:22.040 Just tweet Jeff and say hi, whatever Franco. 0:41:21.880 --> 0:41:24.279 I saw the yellow wiggle at Broadway came up the 0:41:24.280 --> 0:41:27.399 other week. Should have asked her when last week? 0:41:27.719 --> 0:41:27.799 No? 0:41:27.840 --> 0:41:28.440 When did I ask? 0:41:30.200 --> 0:41:31.720 Franco Torelli's not on LinkedIn? 0:41:31.760 --> 0:41:34.440 You're right, I told you I LinkedIn, and so I 0:41:34.560 --> 0:41:39.200 just felt really hurt that there was just no communication. 0:41:39.320 --> 0:41:44.080 Obviously this relationship of five years didn't mean as much 0:41:44.120 --> 0:41:45.200 to him as it did to me. 0:41:45.400 --> 0:41:49.160 Oh, Mitch, no, I've just got no way. He's just 0:41:49.280 --> 0:41:51.399 vanished in my life. I've got no way of ever 0:41:51.440 --> 0:41:52.279 speaking to him again. 0:41:52.360 --> 0:41:53.920 Also, can I I'm not going to be rude. This 0:41:53.960 --> 0:41:56.759 isn't me being rude to you. But you're not that 0:41:56.880 --> 0:41:59.960 complicated of a cut? 0:41:59.680 --> 0:42:04.640 You have you ever had long hair, Darling? 0:42:04.760 --> 0:42:06.960 No, But it's actually pretty complicated. 0:42:08.480 --> 0:42:10.839 And I was working with Franco to grow out some 0:42:10.960 --> 0:42:13.320 layers I didn't want anymore, and Tanya recut them. 0:42:14.200 --> 0:42:15.399 Show me what did she touch? 0:42:16.080 --> 0:42:18.880 Oh it's all wet. Now that's you probably won't be 0:42:18.920 --> 0:42:19.399 able to tach. 0:42:19.640 --> 0:42:22.480 But what what is your haircut? Just to trim off 0:42:22.480 --> 0:42:23.200 the ends? 0:42:23.760 --> 0:42:25.600 It's just so much more complicated that, And I don't 0:42:25.600 --> 0:42:30.160 think you understand. It's about trust in the same way 0:42:30.200 --> 0:42:33.040 that like, oh, what's a car mechanic? 0:42:33.120 --> 0:42:33.600 Servicing? 0:42:34.000 --> 0:42:35.680 You know, it's the same shit no matter where you go, 0:42:35.719 --> 0:42:38.080 But it makes a huge difference which mechanic. 0:42:37.800 --> 0:42:40.759 You get and which one you open your heart too. 0:42:40.840 --> 0:42:42.359 And dare trust I. 0:42:42.360 --> 0:42:43.880 Told you, I think I did. I speak about it 0:42:43.920 --> 0:42:46.000 on this podcast or one of my nineteen other audio 0:42:46.000 --> 0:42:48.760 shows that I broke up with my pop my hairdress 0:42:48.760 --> 0:42:50.400 at one EAA after nine years. 0:42:50.640 --> 0:42:53.239 Yeah, so you've got the power in that situation. 0:42:53.520 --> 0:42:54.080 Yeah, I left. 0:42:54.200 --> 0:42:55.720 You also broke up with your boyfriend. 0:42:55.719 --> 0:42:57.399 So that's why I'm saying that what I'm going through 0:42:57.440 --> 0:42:59.200 is drastically worse. 0:42:58.800 --> 0:43:00.640 Because you're the breaker. You've been broken up with. 0:43:01.320 --> 0:43:04.440 He just disappeared from my life like I was nothing 0:43:04.520 --> 0:43:04.919 to him. 0:43:05.040 --> 0:43:06.520 I'm going to challenge the idiots. 0:43:06.920 --> 0:43:11.439 Frank Cart's name Franco. Frank's full name is Francesco Franco. 0:43:12.080 --> 0:43:17.120 Franco Torelli Deep dive. Let's find this bitch and let's 0:43:17.120 --> 0:43:19.720 get him to cut your hair until he dies. 0:43:20.520 --> 0:43:22.760 I don't even need that from him. I just need closure. 0:43:23.040 --> 0:43:24.120 I need to know what happened. 0:43:24.200 --> 0:43:27.720 I think he's into drugs. No, I'm sorry, I'm sorry 0:43:29.040 --> 0:43:33.960 from prison. The only reason you resign effective immediately is 0:43:34.000 --> 0:43:37.840 if you've touched someone, you've been touched, or the police 0:43:37.880 --> 0:43:38.200 are after. 0:43:38.760 --> 0:43:41.040 I think he might have just been over it, or 0:43:41.040 --> 0:43:43.239 maybe he's going traveling. I don't know. I don't know. 0:43:43.400 --> 0:43:44.320 I don't have the answer. 0:43:45.239 --> 0:43:46.200 Where the salon? 0:43:47.080 --> 0:43:47.839 Well, that's the thing. 0:43:48.239 --> 0:43:50.759 I'm now torn about what to do because the only 0:43:50.840 --> 0:43:53.640 reason I kept driving back to five Doc, which I 0:43:53.719 --> 0:43:55.920 have not lived there for years, The only reason I 0:43:55.960 --> 0:43:58.239 was going out of my way, like a half hour 0:43:58.280 --> 0:44:01.359 commute to five Doc with big because I had that 0:44:01.400 --> 0:44:03.120 relationship established with Franco. 0:44:04.040 --> 0:44:05.799 And now I don't know what to do. 0:44:05.800 --> 0:44:09.280 Do I remain loyal to that business with a different haircut, 0:44:09.280 --> 0:44:11.720 because it's not ten year's fault that I feel jaded 0:44:11.760 --> 0:44:15.640 and bitter about this divorce? Or is now the time 0:44:15.680 --> 0:44:17.720 to find a new hairdresser, find. 0:44:17.600 --> 0:44:18.280 A new hairdresser? 0:44:18.360 --> 0:44:19.480 No, we need to find Franco. 0:44:19.640 --> 0:44:21.200 You need to leave, Mitch. You need to get out 0:44:21.200 --> 0:44:21.440 of there. 0:44:22.160 --> 0:44:24.680 But I love Cello hair dresses. It's so lovely, and 0:44:24.840 --> 0:44:27.080 so they don't They don't fucking charge me here. They 0:44:27.200 --> 0:44:29.480 charge me a men's cut, which is cheaper than a 0:44:29.520 --> 0:44:31.040 women's and I've clearly got women's hair. 0:44:31.280 --> 0:44:32.319 How that's so fun? 0:44:32.400 --> 0:44:33.719 I say I'd stay. 0:44:34.800 --> 0:44:39.120 I've got grinder. Now, So where do you think he lives? 0:44:39.680 --> 0:44:41.919 I think he lives around the suburb, but I actually 0:44:41.960 --> 0:44:42.279 don't know. 0:44:42.520 --> 0:44:45.360 Okay, I'm going to because you can move your location, 0:44:46.280 --> 0:44:48.520 so I'm moving my location to five dog. What's his 0:44:48.560 --> 0:44:49.280 age bracket? 0:44:50.160 --> 0:44:52.399 Is it on Wiggledpedia? I don't know. Oh, I would 0:44:52.400 --> 0:44:53.680 say like fifties or sixties. 0:44:53.760 --> 0:44:57.360 Okay, I might just do fifty to one hundred just 0:44:57.400 --> 0:45:00.319 to be safe, Jenna, if you can google the meantime. 0:45:00.000 --> 0:45:01.839 Can you go on wiggled Pedia. I need to find Frank. 0:45:01.960 --> 0:45:04.720 I don't think you're quite treating this with the empathy 0:45:04.719 --> 0:45:06.240 it deserves, by the way, I'm chattered. 0:45:06.320 --> 0:45:08.200 No, no, no, I know you are, and I hate 0:45:08.200 --> 0:45:08.480 to make it. 0:45:08.520 --> 0:45:10.560 What do I do because in eight weeks when I 0:45:10.600 --> 0:45:11.840 need a new trim, what am I going to do? 0:45:11.960 --> 0:45:14.200 Mitchelle, If there's one thing that there's a surplus of 0:45:14.239 --> 0:45:16.240 in this world, it's hairdressings. You'll be fine. 0:45:16.400 --> 0:45:18.400 He was born in nineteen seventy six. 0:45:18.560 --> 0:45:21.680 What does that mean? How old is in his fifties? 0:45:22.840 --> 0:45:24.799 Look at Jennifer furious the googling, be cause she also 0:45:24.840 --> 0:45:26.640 can't do math. I love it. 0:45:28.000 --> 0:45:29.360 Here's forty seven. 0:45:29.719 --> 0:45:32.759 Oh fuck, I said fifty or sixty. Oh, he's never 0:45:32.800 --> 0:45:33.560 going to forgive me. 0:45:33.680 --> 0:45:35.600 But he's probably a bit shy. So I'm going to 0:45:35.719 --> 0:45:36.399 do forty five. 0:45:37.360 --> 0:45:38.680 Do you know what I think we can have bought 0:45:38.719 --> 0:45:40.920 this mission because I was embarrassed to admit it cheery, 0:45:41.360 --> 0:45:44.719 but I already tried to find him on the way. 0:45:45.400 --> 0:45:46.520 I needed closure. 0:45:46.680 --> 0:45:47.439 What did you use? 0:45:48.000 --> 0:45:48.160 Oh? 0:45:48.200 --> 0:45:51.080 I just started a blank profile and I went to 0:45:51.160 --> 0:45:53.680 where I thought he might live, and I couldn't find him. 0:45:53.719 --> 0:45:56.000 So he's just lost without a trace. And I just 0:45:56.440 --> 0:45:57.760 there's a hole in my heart. 0:45:58.520 --> 0:46:01.200 Oh, Mitchell, Sorry, there's a hole in my hand. I 0:46:01.239 --> 0:46:02.000 just got center photo. 0:46:02.040 --> 0:46:03.480 I don't know if you guys have been through this. 0:46:03.600 --> 0:46:05.800 Clearly you haven't. I'm interested to know. Idiot's listening. 0:46:05.800 --> 0:46:08.879 Please let me know if you've also experienced the devastation 0:46:09.440 --> 0:46:11.879 of someone who provides a service and you trust them, 0:46:12.440 --> 0:46:15.200 and you have done for years. They know you, you 0:46:15.280 --> 0:46:17.160 trust them, you feel like you've got something going, and 0:46:17.160 --> 0:46:18.600 then they just fucking vanished. 0:46:18.640 --> 0:46:21.759 Yeah, my optometrist just died and I can't go to 0:46:21.880 --> 0:46:24.239 that clinic anymore, which was really it's actually very sad. 0:46:24.239 --> 0:46:27.520 He was a lovely man. I haven't I don't really 0:46:27.600 --> 0:46:29.400 need an optometrist as much as I need a head. 0:46:30.000 --> 0:46:31.160 I've never seen you wear glasses. 0:46:31.600 --> 0:46:35.400 No, I get my eyes checked, just condition things. However, Mitchell, 0:46:35.680 --> 0:46:39.640 it's very stressful. There is another hairdresser out there for you. 0:46:39.719 --> 0:46:41.080 There is there is. 0:46:41.120 --> 0:46:42.440 But what if I'm not ready to move on? 0:46:43.120 --> 0:46:46.120 That's fine. You take your time. If you have to 0:46:46.160 --> 0:46:48.880 convince yourself that you might be with him again one day, 0:46:49.120 --> 0:46:50.600 that's fine, as long as. 0:46:50.880 --> 0:46:53.040 I don't think I can convince myself of that because 0:46:53.040 --> 0:46:57.000 we're doing no contact by force, I have no method 0:46:57.080 --> 0:46:57.839 of contact again. 0:46:57.920 --> 0:46:59.840 No, I don't think that's really how that works. But 0:47:00.280 --> 0:47:03.359 you don't need Francesca. You're better than him than. 0:47:03.560 --> 0:47:05.240 He did do me dirty, didn't he? 0:47:05.520 --> 0:47:07.160 You know what? That's actually really rude. He should have 0:47:07.160 --> 0:47:07.920 texted all his clients. 0:47:07.960 --> 0:47:10.000 I'm going through all the stages of grief. I'm now 0:47:10.040 --> 0:47:12.320 at anger. I'm like, fuck him. 0:47:12.200 --> 0:47:13.319 At last left me. 0:47:13.560 --> 0:47:15.919 Yeah, he didn't even think about you, Mitchell. You don't 0:47:15.920 --> 0:47:18.879 want to go back to that. You deserve better. Think 0:47:18.880 --> 0:47:21.000 of all the things you said to me, apply them 0:47:21.000 --> 0:47:25.080 to yourself. Yeah, okay, okay, all right. 0:47:25.800 --> 0:47:27.479 Yeah, it's gonna be an interesting time in the shape 0:47:27.480 --> 0:47:29.160 because now we're both going through bakups. 0:47:29.320 --> 0:47:31.800 No, I think it's very different, actually, and my breakup 0:47:31.880 --> 0:47:34.640 is real and yours is fabricated. No, that's where you're 0:47:34.680 --> 0:47:39.839 right disagree with Mitchell. Yeah, much ponytail together, stay together, 0:47:40.640 --> 0:47:42.040 no worries. You both get the same cut. 0:47:42.280 --> 0:47:48.719 White hairdresser Frankie at that's a sign you could go 0:47:48.760 --> 0:47:50.600 to Frankie. She does the Veronica's hair. 0:47:53.760 --> 0:47:55.080 Have you seen the Veronica's hair? 0:47:56.320 --> 0:48:00.600 She does the Veronica's head. Yes, so interesting. Here is 0:48:00.640 --> 0:48:04.120 so heat damaged and it's jet fucking black. 0:48:04.480 --> 0:48:05.960 And then one of them has gone blond, which I 0:48:05.960 --> 0:48:08.600 wouldn't have I wouldn't have advised that if I was Frankie. 0:48:09.320 --> 0:48:09.760 Whatever. 0:48:10.239 --> 0:48:13.000 Anyway, I'm just hoping that you will spare a thought 0:48:13.000 --> 0:48:13.520 for me, Joe. 0:48:14.080 --> 0:48:17.520 God, we're all sparing a thought. Yes, put your put 0:48:17.560 --> 0:48:18.960 your hair brushes out for Mitchell. 0:48:19.239 --> 0:48:21.640 Yeah, your front door and SiZ it out for Mitchell. 0:48:21.680 --> 0:48:22.799 Yeah, sciss is out for me. 0:48:22.960 --> 0:48:26.920 This is out for Franco. He could have been injured. Yeah, 0:48:26.960 --> 0:48:27.640 that's true. 0:48:27.880 --> 0:48:28.839 Anyway, let's move on. 0:48:30.360 --> 0:48:30.960 Is it just me? 0:48:33.440 --> 0:48:36.440 Make sure you leave a review on your podcast app. 0:48:36.320 --> 0:48:39.319 If you don't, you're a little bit all right? 0:48:39.360 --> 0:48:43.080 Before we dive into Jenna's junk, can I just take 0:48:43.080 --> 0:48:45.960 a moment to acknowledge the fact that Mitch, I don't 0:48:45.960 --> 0:48:50.000 know if you notice. Yeah, last week's talkback Tings Live episode. 0:48:50.239 --> 0:48:52.840 Jenna was essentially fucking with us the whole time. 0:48:53.000 --> 0:48:55.919 It's true, I've been this has been brought to my attention, Jenna. 0:48:56.000 --> 0:48:57.040 This is disciplinary action. 0:48:57.120 --> 0:48:59.160 By the way, I'm not disciplining it. I thought it 0:48:59.200 --> 0:49:01.719 was fucking excellent. She did a great job, very much. 0:49:01.800 --> 0:49:04.440 Jenna was moderating the comments, so people were commenting to 0:49:04.560 --> 0:49:07.080 you just what to say to slip words into the lib. 0:49:07.040 --> 0:49:08.960 Yeah, so like fetish. 0:49:09.040 --> 0:49:12.440 But the thing is, she did it seamlessly, like she 0:49:12.480 --> 0:49:14.920 didn't just randomly say the word fetish, and we would go, 0:49:15.360 --> 0:49:17.480 what are you talking about? Like it was relevant at 0:49:17.480 --> 0:49:19.480 the time. You were talking about sex or something, and 0:49:19.520 --> 0:49:22.000 what were the other ones? There was one where you said, oh, no, 0:49:22.040 --> 0:49:24.880 you need to redirect that energy. Someone dared you to 0:49:24.960 --> 0:49:26.880 use that phrase and you slipped it in perfectly. 0:49:26.960 --> 0:49:29.360 I was so I was actually quite proud of me. 0:49:29.719 --> 0:49:32.040 So I was like, Jennett fucking nailed that. Because it 0:49:32.080 --> 0:49:35.000 didn't disrupt the show. We were Nune the Wiser and 0:49:35.040 --> 0:49:37.000 everyone watching online got a little kick out of it. 0:49:37.000 --> 0:49:39.239 I was like, that was fucking excellent. I loved it. 0:49:39.320 --> 0:49:41.480 A little boost because at one point someone commented just 0:49:41.560 --> 0:49:44.319 laugh hysterically at a random point and then you did, 0:49:44.360 --> 0:49:46.399 and I was like, oh, we're very funny. 0:49:46.640 --> 0:49:48.600 There was one that I really wish you had have done. 0:49:48.640 --> 0:49:51.799 Someone dared you to just get up and like storm out, 0:49:51.880 --> 0:49:53.480 as if we just really offended you. 0:49:53.600 --> 0:49:53.759 Yeah. 0:49:53.920 --> 0:49:56.120 I got that too, but I was too lazy to 0:49:56.160 --> 0:49:56.640 get up. 0:49:57.000 --> 0:49:58.120 Yeah I get that better. 0:49:59.280 --> 0:50:01.600 But also yeah, I think it's impressive that we didn't 0:50:01.640 --> 0:50:04.080 notice any of it. And it's so funny listening back 0:50:04.120 --> 0:50:06.759 to that episode, being like, oh my god, this whole time, 0:50:06.800 --> 0:50:07.919 she was just fucking with us. 0:50:08.080 --> 0:50:08.920 And that person that. 0:50:08.920 --> 0:50:12.520 Called up asking about hemorrhoid cream that was discussed in 0:50:12.520 --> 0:50:14.560 the comments prior. I wasn't it you guys were stillness? 0:50:15.000 --> 0:50:17.680 Would you plan that? It was so funny, which is. 0:50:17.680 --> 0:50:19.839 Why she laughed ridiculously hard. 0:50:19.880 --> 0:50:20.839 It's my favorite part. 0:50:20.960 --> 0:50:22.040 Wait, you were in on that. 0:50:22.280 --> 0:50:23.799 Yeah, I didn't know. I'm telling it. 0:50:23.840 --> 0:50:25.960 The whole live stream. She was fucking with us, but 0:50:26.000 --> 0:50:29.040 she did it so elegantly. It was actually amazing. 0:50:29.160 --> 0:50:31.040 That's funny. I've watched that back and I'm like, fuck, 0:50:31.120 --> 0:50:33.279 I fidget a lot. There was one video or I 0:50:33.320 --> 0:50:35.040 played with my nose nine times, like I was a 0:50:35.080 --> 0:50:39.879 fucking coke feed. I was like who's on the lines disgusting. 0:50:40.000 --> 0:50:42.160 Do you know what I noticed? We're getting sidetrackedchicken. 0:50:42.239 --> 0:50:44.399 This is going to be the longest episode ever swear 0:50:44.400 --> 0:50:45.720 from Home. You know what I noticed? 0:50:45.800 --> 0:50:45.880 What? 0:50:47.000 --> 0:50:49.799 I need to stop wearing my hair out when I 0:50:49.920 --> 0:50:53.239 do the podcast, because I always touch my hair, flick 0:50:53.320 --> 0:50:55.319 my hair. It's almost like a fidget toy, Like I 0:50:55.360 --> 0:50:57.600 just need something to keep my hands busy. And so 0:50:57.640 --> 0:51:00.040 when I tied up, I feel way calmer because I 0:51:00.040 --> 0:51:03.319 don't have anything to little with. They don't get distracted. God, 0:51:03.320 --> 0:51:05.440 I'm really just divulging my feelings a lot today. 0:51:05.560 --> 0:51:09.520 That was a real brain dumb. That's all right, Speaking 0:51:09.520 --> 0:51:12.040 of brain dumb, shall we take a little dive into 0:51:12.080 --> 0:51:17.040 the cool, cool waters of Jenner's Finally, let's go, let's 0:51:17.520 --> 0:51:20.480 take a peek at Jenna's junk. Shall we? 0:51:21.520 --> 0:51:24.480 Yep, So, Jenna's junk. It's where all of our shit 0:51:24.600 --> 0:51:26.719 ideas go to die. If Mitch and I am thinking 0:51:26.719 --> 0:51:28.400 of something to talk about on the show, and is 0:51:28.440 --> 0:51:30.120 it just me that we do at the start of 0:51:30.120 --> 0:51:34.560 the episode, If we're thinking m that is it just me? 0:51:35.040 --> 0:51:37.600 Is fucking rubbish. We're not going to run that on 0:51:37.680 --> 0:51:39.880 the main show at the very start of the show, 0:51:40.000 --> 0:51:42.719 the make or break point. We're not going to use that, 0:51:42.920 --> 0:51:44.439 so we chuck it in the junk and then yeah, 0:51:44.600 --> 0:51:48.360 Jenna stuffs the hand in there, has a good rummage 0:51:48.400 --> 0:51:49.160 in her own junk. 0:51:49.400 --> 0:51:51.680 There's a lot of junk in my trunk. 0:51:51.800 --> 0:51:54.680 It's been a while since we Wow, that was really said, 0:51:54.719 --> 0:51:57.200 so well, been a while since we've taken a dive in, 0:51:57.239 --> 0:51:58.160 So why don't you jump on it. 0:51:58.600 --> 0:51:59.000 Let's go. 0:52:00.719 --> 0:52:01.839 Just brought the bin into my hand. 0:52:01.920 --> 0:52:03.960 Has Isabella had another shit? Or is that your job? 0:52:04.160 --> 0:52:08.359 Sorry about that anyway? Is it just me? Or did 0:52:08.400 --> 0:52:10.800 we stop saying little C big C? 0:52:11.600 --> 0:52:12.280 That's my one. 0:52:12.360 --> 0:52:12.600 Yeah. 0:52:13.120 --> 0:52:17.680 I remember in primary school when someone's name was like McLachlan, Yeah, 0:52:17.680 --> 0:52:21.320 I gotcha, clock. They'd be like M little C, big C. 0:52:21.960 --> 0:52:24.000 But why would there be a big C in McLachlan 0:52:24.080 --> 0:52:24.759 because it's c C. 0:52:25.040 --> 0:52:30.040 But it's mc l yeah, like McLeod's, mcloud's, or mcallahan 0:52:30.320 --> 0:52:33.640 or McDonald. I'm trying to think specifically a word that 0:52:33.680 --> 0:52:37.200 would have little C, big C like M McConnell. 0:52:37.520 --> 0:52:38.960 Yeah, there you go, little. 0:52:38.719 --> 0:52:40.600 C, big C, little C big C. But but why 0:52:40.680 --> 0:52:43.560 is it lil? Also? That's so interesting just put two 0:52:43.560 --> 0:52:44.840 fucking c's C C C. 0:52:45.239 --> 0:52:48.200 Doesn't it That would look so wrong. Imagine McDonald's and 0:52:48.239 --> 0:52:49.480 the D wasn't capitalized. 0:52:50.560 --> 0:52:53.560 It looked wrong. Yeah, McLeod's daughters without the capital L. 0:52:53.840 --> 0:52:55.320 You need the capital L. 0:52:55.520 --> 0:52:57.280 Also, I was good friends with James mcewig. 0:52:58.040 --> 0:52:58.960 Ah, they're perfect. 0:52:59.239 --> 0:53:01.120 Big C. Little C would have heard it all the time. 0:53:01.200 --> 0:53:02.400 So and I always have to write his name for 0:53:02.440 --> 0:53:05.000 invites and birthday cards. So it was James mc c 0:53:05.280 --> 0:53:07.799 u I G little C, big C. I just haven't 0:53:07.800 --> 0:53:10.200 heard as an adult. Sorry, that was just a fleeting 0:53:10.239 --> 0:53:13.520 thought that they're gone. What else, Jenny, he's back in. 0:53:13.600 --> 0:53:15.879 Don't hurt yourself? O ow, I can't. 0:53:16.960 --> 0:53:17.600 Is it just me? 0:53:17.840 --> 0:53:17.920 Or? 0:53:17.960 --> 0:53:20.240 Do you wear air pods with nothing playing? 0:53:20.640 --> 0:53:21.440 Oh? That's mine? 0:53:22.360 --> 0:53:23.120 I have it. I do. 0:53:23.239 --> 0:53:28.360 Yeah, yeah, because I've been going for my hot girls. Well, 0:53:29.560 --> 0:53:32.640 I've noticed that sometimes I'll put the AirPods in out 0:53:32.640 --> 0:53:35.040 of habit and then I'll go for half an hour 0:53:35.080 --> 0:53:37.640 forty minute and just didn't put anything on the whole 0:53:37.680 --> 0:53:40.120 time because I couldn't be bothered de signing on the 0:53:40.120 --> 0:53:43.560 podcast or designing on a song. And yet the idea 0:53:43.719 --> 0:53:47.480 of walking without air pods in I would just feel naked. 0:53:47.520 --> 0:53:48.680 Yeah, it just feels wrong. 0:53:48.960 --> 0:53:51.640 Yeah, I feel you. I I feel like I'm raw 0:53:51.640 --> 0:53:53.959 dog in the world. When I'm walking through with nothing. 0:53:53.960 --> 0:53:56.520 I'm like, this is the so much going on? But 0:53:56.640 --> 0:53:58.720 I recently, you know what's funny, look at my phone Readie. 0:53:58.719 --> 0:54:00.600 In't think I've shown you this look good? I did 0:54:00.800 --> 0:54:01.600 see the back of it. 0:54:01.840 --> 0:54:03.200 Holy fuck, what did you do? 0:54:03.719 --> 0:54:05.440 It's so smash, it's shattered. 0:54:05.840 --> 0:54:07.640 I he never would have thought to put a screen 0:54:07.640 --> 0:54:09.839 protector on the back right now. You didn't think that'd 0:54:09.880 --> 0:54:10.560 be a problem, though. 0:54:11.120 --> 0:54:14.000 I have gotten so addicted to playing podcasts and music 0:54:14.200 --> 0:54:16.520 and I'm doing everything that I played them in the shower, 0:54:16.560 --> 0:54:18.400 and I shower for five minutes, but I play a 0:54:18.440 --> 0:54:21.600 podcast anyway. It reached critical mass. I put it on 0:54:21.600 --> 0:54:24.560 the shower shelf and it fell over in the bathroom, shattered. 0:54:24.640 --> 0:54:27.239 And now I've stopped because I was trying to Maybe 0:54:27.280 --> 0:54:29.280 it be the stress of the breakup or all whatever's 0:54:29.320 --> 0:54:31.640 going on, but I need to play something to keep 0:54:31.680 --> 0:54:34.280 my mind distracted. So recently, in my hot Girl walks, 0:54:34.320 --> 0:54:38.200 I've been walking with just AirPods in nothing, playing to 0:54:38.239 --> 0:54:39.320 like connect with the earth. 0:54:40.320 --> 0:54:42.120 Yeah, it's kind of nice. 0:54:42.160 --> 0:54:44.360 When I can't be bothered deciding or something to actually 0:54:44.480 --> 0:54:46.960 just go for a wander with nothing playing. It just 0:54:46.960 --> 0:54:49.920 feels like a decluttering. 0:54:49.239 --> 0:54:50.840 It kind of it feels kind of comforting. 0:54:50.920 --> 0:54:52.400 Yeah, putting them in again. 0:54:52.560 --> 0:54:54.680 I find it a little bit scary that I've become 0:54:54.719 --> 0:54:57.560 so AirPod dependent, Like I don't know why. I just 0:54:57.560 --> 0:54:59.040 feel like I need them in even if they're not 0:54:59.080 --> 0:55:02.400 playing anything. Actually, oh, there's nothing worse. If I've got 0:55:02.440 --> 0:55:05.439 a night out and my AirPods go flat the Uber 0:55:05.520 --> 0:55:08.000 drive home, Oh my god, it just feels so it's 0:55:08.040 --> 0:55:09.960 like the longest ride ever if I don't have AirPods 0:55:09.960 --> 0:55:12.160 to listening to something during the Uber driving Get the 0:55:12.200 --> 0:55:15.760 death Oh it kills me. I don't even get that anymore. 0:55:15.760 --> 0:55:16.720 They just die suddenly. 0:55:16.840 --> 0:55:17.680 Fucking bitches. 0:55:18.040 --> 0:55:21.680 Anyway, Sorry, I'm bitching again. Jump back in the jump Lee. 0:55:22.520 --> 0:55:23.840 There's so much juncture. 0:55:24.960 --> 0:55:27.239 Oh yeah, we'll just go with this. Is it just me? 0:55:27.440 --> 0:55:30.000 Or does the term most livable city get thrown around 0:55:30.040 --> 0:55:30.319 a lot? 0:55:30.600 --> 0:55:31.720 Oh that's another one of mine. 0:55:32.080 --> 0:55:33.040 Yeah, yeah, I'm with you. 0:55:33.360 --> 0:55:36.480 I was watching this show on fuck which one was it? 0:55:36.520 --> 0:55:39.359 I think it was binge fascinating show. You should all 0:55:39.440 --> 0:55:43.120 check it out. It's called Australia from Above and it's 0:55:43.160 --> 0:55:47.000 basically just like a documentary but all drone footage. They've 0:55:47.000 --> 0:55:51.120 got like five episodes. I think it's Tasmania, Wa, Sydney. 0:55:51.320 --> 0:55:53.319 There's one that's just called The Outback, which I found 0:55:53.320 --> 0:55:57.239 fascinating and it's really interesting, just beautiful drone footage with 0:55:57.400 --> 0:56:01.600 a voiceover giving you fun facts and stuff. Every single 0:56:01.680 --> 0:56:04.600 place they showed me on that fucking show would be like, 0:56:04.960 --> 0:56:08.160 and Perth is considered one of the world's most livable cities? 0:56:09.360 --> 0:56:11.000 Is it just I thought that was Melbourne? 0:56:11.080 --> 0:56:13.759 Yeah, and then I felt Melbourne Hobart is considered one 0:56:13.800 --> 0:56:16.960 of the world's most livable cities. I was like, right, okay, 0:56:17.000 --> 0:56:19.640 And then when it got to Sydney and said Sydney 0:56:19.719 --> 0:56:22.200 is one of the world's most livable cities, I was like, okay, 0:56:22.360 --> 0:56:22.839 hang on. 0:56:23.040 --> 0:56:24.800 Hold on, if you're fucking loaded. 0:56:24.840 --> 0:56:28.920 Maybe the thing is, by definition, all you need to 0:56:28.920 --> 0:56:31.800 be considered a liverable city is a fucking piece of bread, 0:56:32.120 --> 0:56:33.920 a bowl of water, and a roof over your head. 0:56:34.239 --> 0:56:36.279 You can not even that, and like. 0:56:36.239 --> 0:56:39.600 What constitutes most livable cities? Like, is there a least 0:56:39.640 --> 0:56:40.320 liverable city? 0:56:40.520 --> 0:56:42.560 Actually? Jenna can you google that, what is the world's 0:56:42.640 --> 0:56:43.479 least livable city? 0:56:43.560 --> 0:56:46.120 It'd be ranked by crime rate. I'd say you reckon, Yeah, 0:56:46.200 --> 0:56:48.360 like it'd be like it'd be somewhere. 0:56:48.480 --> 0:56:50.919 Okay, Tehran, Yes, Iran. 0:56:50.600 --> 0:56:51.560 That fucking checks out. 0:56:52.200 --> 0:56:52.960 Wait what was it? 0:56:53.000 --> 0:56:54.400 Tehran in Iran? 0:56:54.719 --> 0:56:54.919 Oh? 0:56:54.960 --> 0:56:57.000 Okay, that makes sense. Actually, I feel bad for bringing 0:56:57.120 --> 0:56:58.480 up now that is probably. 0:56:58.239 --> 0:57:04.560 Least in camera Harari in Zimbabwe, darker in bengaland doesn't. 0:57:04.400 --> 0:57:05.080 Say why. 0:57:06.760 --> 0:57:09.279 It'd be awful for us gays in any of those places. Yeah, 0:57:09.840 --> 0:57:11.520 we'd be beheaded on arrival. 0:57:11.760 --> 0:57:12.760 Yeah. 0:57:12.920 --> 0:57:15.160 I'd love to visit Abu Dhabi if it weren't for 0:57:15.200 --> 0:57:16.680 the fact that it's illegal to be gay there. 0:57:16.680 --> 0:57:17.680 I don't think I'll ever go there. 0:57:17.760 --> 0:57:21.520 It's not suitable for human habitation due to factors such 0:57:21.560 --> 0:57:24.440 as poor living conditions, lack of access to basic needs 0:57:24.680 --> 0:57:28.400 and reduced quality of life, so high crime rates, poor air, 0:57:28.480 --> 0:57:31.200 water quality, lack of affordable housing. 0:57:32.040 --> 0:57:37.240 I'm getting going back in my binch. 0:57:38.560 --> 0:57:41.560 Junk sounds very hollow, Jenner, Oh so much. 0:57:41.440 --> 0:57:45.800 Echo, Trust me, it's not hollow, mostly full. Is it 0:57:46.040 --> 0:57:49.440 just me? Or should we stop hiding our talents? 0:57:50.280 --> 0:57:53.440 This is me because someone said to me this week, 0:57:53.880 --> 0:57:57.360 you got the hidden talents, and I said, monetize everything 0:57:57.400 --> 0:57:59.360 I do. Yeah, if I had a hidden talent, you 0:57:59.440 --> 0:58:00.720 best believe it be on Shark. 0:58:00.920 --> 0:58:01.080 Oh. 0:58:01.120 --> 0:58:05.000 Absolutely, in this economy, I ain't hiding shit. If I 0:58:05.040 --> 0:58:07.800 got a talent, I'm putting it on a radio show, 0:58:07.960 --> 0:58:10.840 I'm putting it on social media, I'm podcasting it, and 0:58:10.960 --> 0:58:11.760 anyone listening. 0:58:11.920 --> 0:58:13.439 You go for one walk and all of a sudden, 0:58:13.440 --> 0:58:14.160 you've got merchant. 0:58:15.000 --> 0:58:18.320 It's true. People out there, if you if you're sitting 0:58:18.320 --> 0:58:22.280 on a hidden talent, fucking milk it. It shouldn't be hidden. 0:58:23.080 --> 0:58:25.960 Should not be hidden unless it's like, oh, I can 0:58:26.040 --> 0:58:27.960 drink a glass of wine with my toes. Like maybe 0:58:28.000 --> 0:58:30.360 that's for the parties showing that off. 0:58:30.880 --> 0:58:32.000 Great talent, Like do. 0:58:32.000 --> 0:58:34.360 You know what I mean? Just take some agency. Hidden 0:58:34.360 --> 0:58:36.680 talents is outdated and it's built by the patriarchy to 0:58:36.760 --> 0:58:39.400 keep us down. Well said, what hidden talents do you 0:58:39.480 --> 0:58:42.120 guys have. Let's let's see, let's brainstorm, let's get some out. 0:58:42.600 --> 0:58:44.280 I don't know what hidden talents do I have. 0:58:44.400 --> 0:58:46.040 You're the same as me. You monetize it all. 0:58:46.120 --> 0:58:47.880 I mean, I like to think I'm pretty good at 0:58:47.880 --> 0:58:49.919 politisan bar but I've already shown that off to you, guys. 0:58:50.520 --> 0:58:51.560 Show that's not hidden. 0:58:51.560 --> 0:58:54.160 Our darling podcast listeners will be able to witness that 0:58:55.160 --> 0:58:55.600 next week. 0:58:55.680 --> 0:58:58.360 True, Jenny, you're hidden talent? Is you're quite homely? 0:58:58.800 --> 0:58:59.400 Is that hidden? 0:59:00.000 --> 0:59:01.560 It's more of a personality trait. 0:59:01.680 --> 0:59:03.000 Yeah, true, yeah, talent. 0:59:03.040 --> 0:59:04.480 I'm trying to think I met that. 0:59:04.560 --> 0:59:06.680 I'm going to have a stupid party trick that I'll 0:59:06.680 --> 0:59:08.920 remember later and go fuck. I should have thought of 0:59:08.920 --> 0:59:10.360 that on the podcast, but I just don't think I 0:59:10.400 --> 0:59:10.760 can do this. 0:59:10.840 --> 0:59:12.040 So I don't think I've ever shown you this. Look 0:59:12.080 --> 0:59:14.720 me in the eyes, guys, ready, oh yuck. 0:59:16.040 --> 0:59:16.200 Ah. 0:59:16.440 --> 0:59:20.440 Yeah, I can shake my eyes like an earthquake. No 0:59:20.560 --> 0:59:22.840 money is being made off that, but if anyone's interested, 0:59:23.400 --> 0:59:25.160 maybe Quester con want me to stand. 0:59:25.320 --> 0:59:29.040 Oh, I can twist my arm all right, show us Look, okay. 0:59:29.600 --> 0:59:30.919 I can't see. 0:59:31.200 --> 0:59:35.320 Basically you describe it, Mitchell, Basically her elbow that normally 0:59:35.360 --> 0:59:37.480 you would use to elbow someone in the ribs. She 0:59:37.560 --> 0:59:39.240 can twist it and make that all the way around 0:59:39.240 --> 0:59:42.880 the other side. Do that again, So can you then 0:59:42.960 --> 0:59:43.439 bend it. 0:59:43.360 --> 0:59:46.560 The wrong way? Can you bend your arm? That's Oh, 0:59:46.640 --> 0:59:47.560 that looks so wrong. 0:59:47.760 --> 0:59:48.280 Jenna that's it. 0:59:48.360 --> 0:59:50.320 It's like that scene out of Harry Potter. 0:59:50.640 --> 0:59:51.960 Oh, where they drink the slug juice. 0:59:52.160 --> 0:59:54.120 Yes, that's exactly what that looked like. Jenna's arm was 0:59:54.160 --> 0:59:55.240 going the wrong way. 0:59:58.040 --> 0:59:59.840 I take that back. That needs to be remaind. 1:00:00.920 --> 1:00:03.440 Is that a hidden talent or some sort of deformity? 1:00:03.800 --> 1:00:04.280 I don't know. 1:00:04.640 --> 1:00:09.760 Do you belong in the city of Cameroon. That's horrific. Well, 1:00:09.760 --> 1:00:12.520 that's just my point. If I can whistle in, this 1:00:12.600 --> 1:00:15.200 is something to me. Oh God, do it, go for it. 1:00:15.280 --> 1:00:17.320 Give me a song, bad romance. 1:00:26.160 --> 1:00:27.640 I need to get back into my junk. 1:00:29.480 --> 1:00:35.040 We weren't hiding talents anymore. You just shut mine downhole. 1:00:33.880 --> 1:00:37.480 Let's get okay, okay? Is it just me? Or is 1:00:37.680 --> 1:00:40.440 the back pocket the Superior podcast? 1:00:42.560 --> 1:00:44.680 Someone had auto correct, not me? 1:00:44.960 --> 1:00:47.760 That was mine. I clearly belonged to the jug That 1:00:47.800 --> 1:00:49.680 was a fleeting thought that I viewed Siri for. 1:00:49.920 --> 1:00:51.760 Clearly, I never used my back pockets. 1:00:51.800 --> 1:00:54.200 What I want to sit down, Mitchell? As was I 1:00:54.200 --> 1:00:57.400 I was. I was so scared of using the back pocket. 1:00:57.600 --> 1:00:59.880 I was scared of sitting on my phone. I was 1:01:00.080 --> 1:01:03.800 scared of losing items. But now I live for my 1:01:03.880 --> 1:01:06.560 back pocket. It's just so much easier. You put your 1:01:06.560 --> 1:01:08.120 phone in, you slide it out, you pull it in, 1:01:08.200 --> 1:01:09.720 you pull it out. Hold what if you want to 1:01:09.720 --> 1:01:12.360 stare pods? Then you fucking sit on you and you 1:01:12.440 --> 1:01:14.360 feel it. I mean you've felt things in your ass 1:01:14.360 --> 1:01:15.280 before you know it's there. 1:01:15.320 --> 1:01:16.800 Well, I have, but not the cheek. 1:01:17.000 --> 1:01:19.760 No, all my phones that you pull it out. Fine, 1:01:19.800 --> 1:01:20.720 I've never had a problem. 1:01:20.800 --> 1:01:21.960 But then you have to pull it out. If you 1:01:21.960 --> 1:01:23.720 put it in the side pocket, you can leave it there, 1:01:23.800 --> 1:01:24.440 set and forget. 1:01:24.480 --> 1:01:25.800 How hard is it to pull your phone out of 1:01:25.840 --> 1:01:29.480 your side pocket and you sitting terrible? It's terrible, terrible. 1:01:29.480 --> 1:01:30.760 You don't have to do a lot of scooching if 1:01:30.760 --> 1:01:32.080 you're already sitting on the phone to be. 1:01:31.960 --> 1:01:35.080 Like listen, if you're out and about any you've got 1:01:35.120 --> 1:01:36.880 your phone in your ear pods and your kiss, use 1:01:36.920 --> 1:01:38.080 your back pocket. It's incredible. 1:01:38.080 --> 1:01:40.480 Well, jenners a woman, so none of her clothes have pockets, 1:01:40.520 --> 1:01:42.800 so she'd love to put it in her back pocket. 1:01:43.000 --> 1:01:45.040 Props, there's usually no pocket. 1:01:45.360 --> 1:01:47.720 Yeah, but also they'll have the little line of stitching 1:01:47.760 --> 1:01:50.120 to make it look like women's teens have pockets, but 1:01:50.160 --> 1:01:50.919 they fucking don't. 1:01:50.960 --> 1:01:52.240 That's why they will have handbags. 1:01:52.280 --> 1:01:53.240 That's so stupid. 1:01:54.040 --> 1:01:54.960 Tell me about it. 1:01:55.440 --> 1:01:59.920 Wow, you know, sorry us get them? 1:02:00.200 --> 1:02:03.080 Hey, okay, I'll do all there. Is it just me? 1:02:03.320 --> 1:02:05.760 Or is there no need to ask someone's name when 1:02:05.800 --> 1:02:07.760 you're the only customer at the cafe? 1:02:07.960 --> 1:02:11.800 Oh? This is mine? But you were there, Mitchell. 1:02:12.680 --> 1:02:14.320 This is when I went and visited you in the 1:02:14.360 --> 1:02:17.040 Shire and we went to some cafe and we were 1:02:17.080 --> 1:02:18.800 the only bastards there. 1:02:19.000 --> 1:02:22.640 Yeah, the only people. And the waitress goes, yeah, can 1:02:22.680 --> 1:02:25.000 I get a name for that? And I was like, sure, 1:02:25.040 --> 1:02:28.160 it's Mitchell. And I didn't wander far. 1:02:28.880 --> 1:02:31.240 It took her all of thirty seconds to make one 1:02:31.320 --> 1:02:33.360 coffee because I was the only person. They're making an 1:02:33.440 --> 1:02:37.640 order and she goes. Mitchell was like that was just 1:02:37.760 --> 1:02:38.800 so unnecessary. 1:02:38.960 --> 1:02:40.160 Well what else would she have done? 1:02:40.400 --> 1:02:42.160 Heyha, just go and here's your coffee. 1:02:42.200 --> 1:02:45.240 There go, Because most cafes do that if you're the 1:02:45.240 --> 1:02:47.000 only order, they don't need to get your name and 1:02:47.000 --> 1:02:48.480 all that shit. They don't need to they don't need 1:02:48.480 --> 1:02:52.040 to yell, and they just remember they go here, all done. 1:02:52.160 --> 1:02:56.080 But this chick was just so buy the book, sticking 1:02:56.160 --> 1:02:59.080 to the procedure, get in my name and then shouting, 1:02:59.160 --> 1:03:02.479 mitche like you're actually causing a fucking scene for no reason. 1:03:02.520 --> 1:03:04.640 Also, Mitch was such a bitch to her after I 1:03:04.680 --> 1:03:06.920 actually wasn't. He was like, I want the croutons on 1:03:06.960 --> 1:03:08.640 the side, and then I want the dressing on the top. 1:03:08.800 --> 1:03:10.480 No, that was later when we went to lunch and 1:03:10.480 --> 1:03:11.960 I was being a bit of a diva about it. 1:03:12.440 --> 1:03:14.400 You were, You've taught me. Mitch gets his croutons on 1:03:14.440 --> 1:03:16.080 the side. Now I get my croutons on the side. 1:03:16.080 --> 1:03:16.440 Smart. 1:03:16.480 --> 1:03:19.240 Actually I was going to get no croutons, but then 1:03:19.240 --> 1:03:21.480 I was like, I'll donate them to Mitchell and I 1:03:21.480 --> 1:03:24.320 I was like, can I get croutons on the side, please? 1:03:24.560 --> 1:03:26.440 But I get the dressing on the side so that 1:03:26.440 --> 1:03:27.240 they don't lather it. 1:03:27.360 --> 1:03:27.880 That's good. 1:03:28.040 --> 1:03:30.800 Yeah, you can dip your chicken in it. Yeah, all right, 1:03:30.880 --> 1:03:31.600 is you drunk empty? 1:03:32.240 --> 1:03:34.360 I'm still full, but I couldn't be bothered to it. 1:03:34.440 --> 1:03:36.400 Yeah, we'll get to the rest another day. 1:03:37.040 --> 1:03:39.600 We should probably go, shouldn't we We probably should? 1:03:39.920 --> 1:03:42.720 Of course, we'll be back next week. Geena Leano's on, 1:03:42.800 --> 1:03:43.480 like we've mentioned. 1:03:43.560 --> 1:03:46.600 Yeah, and then the hobby Hunt is yeah, kicking off 1:03:46.760 --> 1:03:50.240 officially underway, the inaugural and it is not annual. It 1:03:50.320 --> 1:03:51.360 is just inaugural. 1:03:51.560 --> 1:03:54.080 Next week, we're bringing you the bar class that I 1:03:54.160 --> 1:03:55.920 dragged you guys along to the reason that we're all 1:03:55.960 --> 1:03:57.240 limping and sore today. 1:03:58.040 --> 1:03:58.440 Correct. 1:03:58.600 --> 1:04:02.600 I feel like we need, like we can't officially kick 1:04:02.600 --> 1:04:04.440 off the Hobby Hunt next week unless we have some 1:04:04.480 --> 1:04:06.200 sort of fun jingle now that we're making it a 1:04:06.200 --> 1:04:08.440 thing like Jenner's Junk has the fun sound effects we 1:04:08.440 --> 1:04:09.680 need like a Hobby Hunt jingle. 1:04:09.800 --> 1:04:16.400 Hobby Hard, Pokemon, pokey man, gotta catch up, gotta do 1:04:16.560 --> 1:04:17.560 them all. 1:04:17.440 --> 1:04:21.520 For Okay, hang on, stop the stop the closing music. 1:04:21.640 --> 1:04:22.520 Oh, we're gonna do this now. 1:04:23.040 --> 1:04:23.600 We may as well. 1:04:23.600 --> 1:04:26.440 We've already we've already blown out poll. 1:04:26.080 --> 1:04:28.720 Pokemon theme song instrumental. 1:04:28.920 --> 1:04:30.920 It's going to go for a fuck it? Ever? Is 1:04:30.960 --> 1:04:33.320 it go to the hump? You know the YouTube hump 1:04:33.640 --> 1:04:34.040 the wave. 1:04:34.200 --> 1:04:35.640 Oh, I'm going to the hump at the very end, 1:04:41.280 --> 1:04:49.640 teach you it's hobby Hobby had gotta try again, all 1:04:49.800 --> 1:04:52.880 Hobby Had. I think we nailed that. 1:04:53.240 --> 1:04:54.400 Did we just find a jingle? 1:04:54.840 --> 1:04:55.840 We just found a jingle? 1:04:56.320 --> 1:04:57.360 Any other ideas? 1:04:57.880 --> 1:04:58.520 I don't know. 1:04:58.880 --> 1:04:59.680 Did we need for it? 1:05:00.360 --> 1:05:00.960 I think that's it. 1:05:01.200 --> 1:05:02.160 You don't have shocked. 1:05:02.200 --> 1:05:03.440 Why are we so brilliant? 1:05:03.440 --> 1:05:05.840 We are so good our mind? Guys? Can you not? 1:05:05.920 --> 1:05:07.400 Mitchell though, we're I'm going to go to a studio 1:05:07.400 --> 1:05:10.640 and record that. That is what it will be raw? 1:05:13.080 --> 1:05:14.560 Now any others? 1:05:14.920 --> 1:05:16.560 I like that one. I mean, we may as well 1:05:16.560 --> 1:05:19.040 have a plan b What else works with hobby Hunt? 1:05:19.560 --> 1:05:22.800 I was listening to chromatic driving here, what about Babylon? 1:05:23.600 --> 1:05:25.480 That's a bit abstract? 1:05:26.040 --> 1:05:27.440 Hobby hobby hobby hunt? 1:05:28.360 --> 1:05:33.080 What about like, Oh, her name is a bit mard 1:05:33.120 --> 1:05:38.320 at the moment, but Lizzo, about damn time? Okay, all right, 1:05:38.880 --> 1:05:41.600 it's a heartbeart, yeah, play it all right. 1:05:41.720 --> 1:05:44.480 We don't support or her fat phobia. 1:05:45.320 --> 1:05:47.640 Alleg I just stopped in hobby Hunt instrumental. 1:05:49.920 --> 1:05:51.800 The problem with an instrumental is I don't know at 1:05:51.800 --> 1:05:56.120 what point about so when you go it's about damn time, bitch. 1:05:56.480 --> 1:05:59.160 Read ready it's the heartbead? 1:05:59.520 --> 1:06:05.080 No ready, it's a hobby had. 1:06:05.840 --> 1:06:07.160 Oh that's a nice bed. 1:06:08.080 --> 1:06:11.520 It's good. But I'm sorry, we can't support her. M Okay, 1:06:11.560 --> 1:06:11.880 we can't. 1:06:11.880 --> 1:06:12.720 I'm trying to think this. 1:06:12.760 --> 1:06:13.320 Is a syllabon. 1:06:14.600 --> 1:06:18.600 What about what's. 1:06:18.240 --> 1:06:19.280 About my humps? 1:06:19.360 --> 1:06:25.640 But hobby hobby harby hobby. 1:06:23.880 --> 1:06:26.439 My lovely hobby Hunt check it out out. 1:06:27.120 --> 1:06:27.960 What about. 1:06:29.200 --> 1:06:36.080 Paradise by Coldplay? But it's hobby Hobby Hobby hard Hobby 1:06:36.800 --> 1:06:39.880 Hobby hard. Okay, wait, I'll get the instrumental. We can 1:06:39.920 --> 1:06:42.680 just record this now. Although I reckon the Pokemon one 1:06:42.720 --> 1:06:43.720 might be the winner. 1:06:43.520 --> 1:06:47.320 I agree, But this is this is a beautiful song. 1:06:48.480 --> 1:06:48.840 Okay. 1:06:49.840 --> 1:06:54.920 When it kicks in with then that's when we start. Ready, 1:06:55.640 --> 1:06:56.480 it's a violin bit. 1:07:00.640 --> 1:07:03.280 This is us putting on our hobby hunt polarates gear 1:07:04.160 --> 1:07:06.439 not yet have. 1:07:06.400 --> 1:07:10.800 Any It's hurry out, gonna go. 1:07:12.320 --> 1:07:20.400 Hobby hobby, hobby hats, Hobby hobby, hobby hats, hobby hobby 1:07:21.200 --> 1:07:25.440 hobby hands hobby hat. 1:07:26.680 --> 1:07:28.920 My neighbors must be so confused about what's going on 1:07:28.960 --> 1:07:29.320 in here. 1:07:30.720 --> 1:07:35.600 All right, which one do you vote? We're trying multiple hobbies, 1:07:35.880 --> 1:07:36.880 so why don't. 1:07:36.680 --> 1:07:39.680 We just different into everywhere for every Okay, well, we've 1:07:39.720 --> 1:07:40.920 got a few to work with. 1:07:41.000 --> 1:07:44.000 Now we're starting with pilates and that is next week. 1:07:44.040 --> 1:07:44.560 This is the bar. 1:07:44.760 --> 1:07:45.439 I think you're fine. 1:07:45.520 --> 1:07:49.040 Oh sorry, I got so in trouble by your your 1:07:49.080 --> 1:07:50.240 doctor whatever name. 1:07:50.160 --> 1:07:51.440 Is my instructor. 1:07:53.040 --> 1:07:55.000 All right, that's next week. Thank you for having us 1:07:55.040 --> 1:07:55.360 in the house. 1:07:55.400 --> 1:07:58.240 Bach Oh anytime, darling, any time? 1:07:58.360 --> 1:08:00.720 Oh? Can I just say something selfish? Do you mind? 1:08:01.760 --> 1:08:03.080 You've never asked permission before? 1:08:03.200 --> 1:08:05.960 So go on, Well, never have I had the chance. 1:08:07.320 --> 1:08:11.960 I will say podcast exclusive hotgir Walk merch is being made. 1:08:12.320 --> 1:08:14.800 They yeah, sorry, I made a joke about you making 1:08:14.800 --> 1:08:17.200 merch before and then I went, oh, I fucked his announcement. 1:08:17.280 --> 1:08:19.720 Now you're right. I basically teased to it. But I'm 1:08:19.760 --> 1:08:22.040 getting Hot Girl Work Hotgirl Walk t shirt made. 1:08:23.720 --> 1:08:25.439 Do you have all the details yet about where people 1:08:25.479 --> 1:08:25.720 can buy? 1:08:25.840 --> 1:08:27.920 Not yet? Not yet? Okay, So I'm getting sent a 1:08:27.960 --> 1:08:29.639 sample next week and if I like it, then I'm 1:08:29.640 --> 1:08:31.120 going to promote it. And I'm working with the guys 1:08:31.120 --> 1:08:33.639 at Gray Lines who we will gorge. Yeah, and there'll 1:08:33.680 --> 1:08:35.280 be a pre order, so you won't get them for 1:08:35.479 --> 1:08:36.080 five six weeks. 1:08:36.120 --> 1:08:38.640 Well that's even better because Gray Lines usually send me 1:08:38.680 --> 1:08:39.200 free ship. 1:08:39.280 --> 1:08:40.000 I'll just get one. 1:08:40.040 --> 1:08:41.479 That's what they send the we need to send them 1:08:41.479 --> 1:08:43.600 to some creators. I'm like, Oh, don't worry. 1:08:43.880 --> 1:08:45.639 Philly, Honey, I'll pay for one. 1:08:45.760 --> 1:08:49.679 No, don't do you anyway. I just wanted to say 1:08:49.680 --> 1:08:52.120 that if you're enjoying the Hot Girl Works walks can't 1:08:52.120 --> 1:08:54.960 speak t shirts are coming great. We will see you 1:08:55.000 --> 1:08:56.800 guys next week for the initial. 1:08:57.760 --> 1:09:08.040 The inaugural hobby Hobby Hobby. Yeah, we'll see you for that. 1:09:08.320 --> 1:09:10.479 See next week, guy, catch fack? 1:09:10.920 --> 1:09:12.200 Is it just me? 1:09:12.760 --> 1:09:14.879 A podcast by a couple of meches. 1:09:15.200 --> 1:09:18.320 Make sure you've hit follow on your podcast. 1:09:27.960 --> 1:09:30.799 Welcome to a toy D brief. This is our secret segment. 1:09:30.800 --> 1:09:34.240 On the end, we keep talking shit even though apparently 1:09:34.880 --> 1:09:36.799 we haven't done enough talking shit today. 1:09:36.920 --> 1:09:38.880 How longd podcast been? I can't see the timer. 1:09:39.040 --> 1:09:40.080 It's been well over an hour. 1:09:40.720 --> 1:09:42.760 Well it's supposed to be an our episode, but I 1:09:42.800 --> 1:09:46.439 don't think it's been an hour bang on for fucking months. 1:09:47.040 --> 1:09:49.320 It's always an hour, ten minutes or whatever. But I'm 1:09:49.320 --> 1:09:50.160 like whatever, who cares? 1:09:50.200 --> 1:09:52.600 Fuck it, I've lost my phone. See it's in my 1:09:52.600 --> 1:09:55.240 back fucking pocket. I'll retract that. I can't told you 1:09:55.240 --> 1:09:55.960 now it's shouted. 1:09:56.040 --> 1:09:58.839 Also, we are we are recording, so don't get distracted 1:09:58.840 --> 1:09:59.519 on your phone mate. 1:09:59.600 --> 1:10:00.679 No to get comfortable. 1:10:00.840 --> 1:10:03.360 I'm going to readjust I have been so comfortable this 1:10:03.400 --> 1:10:06.920 whole time. I don't know if my buckets the microphone 1:10:07.040 --> 1:10:09.280 is going to pick up any fidgitting, but I have 1:10:09.320 --> 1:10:11.040 not had a micro sand I'm holding my mic this 1:10:11.080 --> 1:10:11.479 whole time. 1:10:11.520 --> 1:10:14.439 It feels quite nice. I'm enjoying it. And so we're 1:10:14.439 --> 1:10:15.840 back in studio next week. 1:10:15.840 --> 1:10:16.160 You're right. 1:10:16.439 --> 1:10:18.720 Actually I just remembered. I don't know if I've told 1:10:18.720 --> 1:10:20.840 you guys. It's but I'm away next week. So I'm 1:10:20.880 --> 1:10:22.559 going to be dialing in remotely. 1:10:22.840 --> 1:10:24.960 Are where are you going? I'm just going back to 1:10:25.000 --> 1:10:28.000 bogen Gate. Just had a bit of shush. Mom and 1:10:28.080 --> 1:10:29.400 Dad aren't even there there overseas. 1:10:29.400 --> 1:10:30.200 Are you going with Sean? 1:10:31.040 --> 1:10:32.519 No, he's going to be back at work, but one 1:10:32.520 --> 1:10:35.439 of our family friends, Shane, will be there and we've 1:10:35.479 --> 1:10:37.920 told mom and dad that we're going to look after 1:10:38.000 --> 1:10:41.160 the farm. Oh, I'll be doing that. I'm just going 1:10:41.200 --> 1:10:43.160 home to I need a bit of shush. There's just 1:10:43.200 --> 1:10:44.520 a lot of clutter. 1:10:44.200 --> 1:10:44.759 At the moment. 1:10:44.880 --> 1:10:46.320 Yeah, I feel that. I feel that. 1:10:46.360 --> 1:10:46.439 Well. 1:10:46.479 --> 1:10:47.679 I'm going to Melbourne next week. 1:10:48.000 --> 1:10:49.920 Oh are you are you going to be there when 1:10:49.960 --> 1:10:50.600 we podcast? 1:10:50.960 --> 1:10:51.600 Maybe? 1:10:52.120 --> 1:10:52.920 What day are you going? 1:10:53.280 --> 1:10:56.400 Potentially Thursday night, but we normally we shall be Okay, 1:10:56.439 --> 1:11:00.400 that's right, Thursday, Friday, Saturday. So any Melbourne idiots hello, Okay, 1:11:00.560 --> 1:11:04.599 you want to hate when people go Melbourne? I'm in you, Melvin, 1:11:04.600 --> 1:11:07.679 I'm gonna be inside you this weekend or the insta. 1:11:07.720 --> 1:11:13.080 Sorry Melbourne, I'm in here. Shut the fuck up. What 1:11:14.000 --> 1:11:18.800 if Sean said that to me? Michill, I'm in you 1:11:19.600 --> 1:11:21.200 tagged location your boss. 1:11:21.680 --> 1:11:23.400 See. I was going to say, imagine if you said 1:11:23.400 --> 1:11:24.880 that to Hayden, but I was like, oh, too soon. 1:11:26.479 --> 1:11:30.720 Anyway, Now I'm sad. Thanks guys, I'm jokes joking. I'm 1:11:30.920 --> 1:11:31.679 actually it's fine. 1:11:31.720 --> 1:11:34.040 It's the group therapy episode, so you can share your feelings. 1:11:34.160 --> 1:11:38.200 I'm actually doing better than I was. I was doing better. 1:11:39.000 --> 1:11:41.240 Alexa play I'm good by Wafia. 1:11:41.400 --> 1:11:42.800 Oh that's that's a good song. 1:11:42.840 --> 1:11:44.840 Did you see in the group that people were saying, oh, 1:11:44.920 --> 1:11:47.599 fuck here, that song's a banger when we played it. Yeah, 1:11:47.600 --> 1:11:49.280 it's my favorite song and I'm read even going through 1:11:49.280 --> 1:11:49.880 a fucking break. 1:11:50.080 --> 1:11:51.360 It's amazing, so good. 1:11:51.840 --> 1:11:54.280 I've stopped listening to sad songs. I'll tell you what though, 1:11:54.840 --> 1:11:57.240 I've never wanted to fucking x more than after listening 1:11:57.240 --> 1:12:01.479 to Olivia Rodrigo's new song You it's a bad idea, right, 1:12:01.960 --> 1:12:03.160 it's a bad idea? Right? 1:12:03.520 --> 1:12:04.519 Is that a vampire one? 1:12:04.880 --> 1:12:05.320 Something like that? 1:12:05.360 --> 1:12:05.439 No. 1:12:05.560 --> 1:12:07.160 She released the second single, from that out. 1:12:07.200 --> 1:12:08.760 Oh, and is it about going back to your X. 1:12:08.960 --> 1:12:10.320 It's about going on fucking your X. 1:12:10.800 --> 1:12:12.800 Oh god, Olivia's got in your head. You're like, good 1:12:12.800 --> 1:12:13.360 idea live. 1:12:14.200 --> 1:12:16.879 She's like, I only see him as a friend. Biggest 1:12:16.920 --> 1:12:18.080 lie I ever said. 1:12:18.240 --> 1:12:19.360 I don't feel that you need to go back to 1:12:19.400 --> 1:12:21.120 your X anyway. I hope you don't mind me sharing 1:12:21.160 --> 1:12:22.200 this little bit of information. 1:12:22.320 --> 1:12:23.800 No, I'm not going back to my X. Let's just 1:12:23.800 --> 1:12:24.760 say that, you know what. 1:12:24.720 --> 1:12:25.920 I'm What I'm about to say is that. 1:12:27.800 --> 1:12:31.280 After we finished the bar class the other day, I 1:12:31.320 --> 1:12:34.599 plugged your phone into my laptop so that I could 1:12:34.600 --> 1:12:37.719 download the footage because we had Jenne's phone was filming 1:12:37.760 --> 1:12:40.040 her on a tripod. I my phone on my on me. 1:12:40.320 --> 1:12:42.760 You had your phone on you, and so I needed 1:12:42.800 --> 1:12:44.960 to get your footage. I plugged it into the laptop 1:12:45.120 --> 1:12:48.320 to upload it to the photos app on my Mac 1:12:48.400 --> 1:12:50.599 so I could have the footage for the edit. And 1:12:51.240 --> 1:12:54.160 my god, I got the shock of my life when 1:12:54.240 --> 1:12:57.040 I saw your camera roll. I was like, oh, that's 1:12:57.240 --> 1:12:59.160 more of Mitch Cherry than I was supposed to see. 1:12:59.200 --> 1:13:02.720 They're not from my arm and so I really politely. 1:13:02.720 --> 1:13:05.080 I don't know if you noticed, but I really politely 1:13:05.160 --> 1:13:08.200 turned to you and said, hey, I don't want to 1:13:08.479 --> 1:13:10.200 go through your camera roll in case there's anything I'm 1:13:10.200 --> 1:13:12.679 not supposed to see, So can you just hit upload 1:13:12.760 --> 1:13:13.719 on the footage from today? 1:13:13.760 --> 1:13:15.200 Please? That's all I need you to do, because I 1:13:15.200 --> 1:13:16.519 don't want to look through your phone. But it was 1:13:16.520 --> 1:13:17.680 too late. I'd already seen it. 1:13:17.720 --> 1:13:20.960 Well, there weren't my nudes. Oh thank god I didn't 1:13:20.960 --> 1:13:23.439 see me. Oh thank god, no, because I don't know 1:13:23.479 --> 1:13:23.760 they're not. 1:13:24.080 --> 1:13:27.040 Because I was like, oh no, these weren't. For my eyes. 1:13:27.200 --> 1:13:29.760 I've seen more of Mitch Jerry than he everated me to. 1:13:30.040 --> 1:13:31.000 Surely you'd see that. 1:13:31.120 --> 1:13:33.200 I mean, you know, well no, it was a very 1:13:33.479 --> 1:13:36.120 swift reaction from me, Like your camera roll opened and 1:13:36.160 --> 1:13:38.280 I was like flash, and then I just turned away 1:13:38.280 --> 1:13:39.760 because I was like, I'm not supposed. 1:13:39.400 --> 1:13:42.840 To see whose fucking nudes were that? Just someone I'm 1:13:42.880 --> 1:13:43.280 talking to? 1:13:43.800 --> 1:13:45.479 Why the fuck were they in your camera roll? 1:13:45.760 --> 1:13:48.639 Okay, I think you're supposed to have a hidden folder 1:13:48.800 --> 1:13:51.679 or something like these nudes were just in your camera 1:13:51.920 --> 1:13:55.120 like it was a photo of your fucking brunch alongside 1:13:55.120 --> 1:13:57.320 pictures of you with your hot girl walk. 1:13:57.040 --> 1:13:59.599 And the footage of you pilarates then just a hole. 1:14:01.040 --> 1:14:03.439 I did eat it out, like, oh my god, sorry 1:14:03.520 --> 1:14:04.200 I didn't. I didn't. 1:14:04.240 --> 1:14:05.320 I just sauce on the side. 1:14:06.080 --> 1:14:07.280 No, no, no, right on top. 1:14:07.920 --> 1:14:08.000 No. 1:14:08.280 --> 1:14:11.080 What happened was it's actually a terrible story. So they ate. 1:14:11.240 --> 1:14:12.800 Let me just preface this by saying, they are in 1:14:12.840 --> 1:14:15.400 my hidden folder. But when you when you sink your 1:14:15.400 --> 1:14:17.719 phone to your Mac, it doesn't give a shit about folders. 1:14:18.000 --> 1:14:22.640 Everything's just in one pile, but two is. So we're 1:14:22.680 --> 1:14:24.599 messaging on Instagram and then they were like, oh, it's 1:14:24.640 --> 1:14:27.040 like like it was getting heated. And they were like, oh, 1:14:27.200 --> 1:14:30.120 send some photos and I was like, I'm not. I'm 1:14:30.120 --> 1:14:31.639 not going to get my nudes leaked. I ain't sending 1:14:31.680 --> 1:14:33.800 your shit. And they're like, let's go on Snapchat. I'm like, 1:14:33.840 --> 1:14:36.599 I don't do Snapchat. I'm twenty seven. Please. Yeah. 1:14:36.720 --> 1:14:39.200 Is it just me on the fly or does snapchat 1:14:39.280 --> 1:14:41.599 have like nineteen year old energy? 1:14:41.880 --> 1:14:42.080 Yeah? 1:14:42.120 --> 1:14:42.479 It does. 1:14:43.160 --> 1:14:44.880 Whenever I find out like friends of mine that have 1:14:44.960 --> 1:14:46.880 grown ass adults, like in their thirties and they still 1:14:46.960 --> 1:14:47.920 use Snapchat. 1:14:47.520 --> 1:14:50.000 I'm like, I don't know why. It just feels like 1:14:50.080 --> 1:14:51.680 I aged out of it. Why didn't you. 1:14:51.640 --> 1:14:53.719 When I have Snapchat because my mum and my parents, 1:14:53.760 --> 1:14:57.439 my family, our group chats on Snapchat's my mom loves it. 1:14:57.520 --> 1:14:59.439 They love it. My mom sends video messages like how's 1:14:59.479 --> 1:15:00.760 everyone's There's just. 1:15:00.760 --> 1:15:02.680 So many other options, Michelle. 1:15:04.120 --> 1:15:06.800 It's the one. It's the one system they've got used to. 1:15:06.920 --> 1:15:09.240 So we're keeping them on it because they get confused. 1:15:08.880 --> 1:15:12.559 By for your parents and for random nudes. 1:15:13.040 --> 1:15:14.240 So this twink was like, let me get to go 1:15:14.280 --> 1:15:15.599 to snatch and I'm make fine. So then we were 1:15:15.640 --> 1:15:17.479 just talking and then they were like send a photo 1:15:17.520 --> 1:15:19.280 and I was like, oh, it's fun. 1:15:19.600 --> 1:15:22.240 And then I'm like they disappear on snapshot. 1:15:22.280 --> 1:15:25.120 Yeah, he last for ten seconds. So then they sent 1:15:25.160 --> 1:15:26.559 the photo and I was like, oh, this is such 1:15:26.560 --> 1:15:29.080 a shame because like this is I wish I had these. 1:15:29.120 --> 1:15:31.360 These are great photos. And then they were like, oh 1:15:31.560 --> 1:15:31.920 just safe. 1:15:32.000 --> 1:15:33.679 You're like, can you burn it for me on a Disney? 1:15:34.840 --> 1:15:36.400 I was like, yeah, keep put this onto a floppy 1:15:36.439 --> 1:15:40.200 this corn. So I said, he said you save them 1:15:40.200 --> 1:15:43.360 and I was like, okay, cool, how do I do that? 1:15:44.360 --> 1:15:47.080 So then he goes he goes, oh, here, I'll send 1:15:47.120 --> 1:15:50.120 you a practice nude and then I'll walk you through it. 1:15:50.280 --> 1:15:52.040 So he goes, don't know, I got this one. So he 1:15:52.120 --> 1:15:54.439 sent me this nude. I'm like a fucking boomer and 1:15:54.560 --> 1:15:57.200 an Apple genius bar he had coach you wanted how 1:15:57.240 --> 1:15:58.840 to save the news, and then there was a practice 1:15:58.880 --> 1:16:00.559 and he was just taking it and he's like, open it, 1:16:00.560 --> 1:16:02.880 then tap the three buttons in it to chat. And 1:16:02.880 --> 1:16:04.519 then I'm like, it's not working for me. He went, 1:16:04.800 --> 1:16:08.000 let me Google. So then he Google came back two 1:16:08.000 --> 1:16:09.519 minutes later and was like, I think you need to 1:16:09.600 --> 1:16:14.320 update into settings, so go to sitting snapchat iOS permissions. 1:16:14.479 --> 1:16:15.640 I'm like, my erections. 1:16:15.360 --> 1:16:17.920 Didn't even just texted it to you. I did not 1:16:18.000 --> 1:16:19.439 have a number but his number. 1:16:19.760 --> 1:16:22.920 So then I'm like, oh fuck. So he goes, just 1:16:22.920 --> 1:16:24.960 just screenshot them. I want you to have them. I'm like, 1:16:25.120 --> 1:16:27.000 you want me to screenshot? He said, yeah, I'll screenshot you. 1:16:27.160 --> 1:16:30.599 So we screenshot. So that's why they're in my camera roll. Okay, yeah, 1:16:30.640 --> 1:16:31.880 I don't want people to think I'm a creep. I'm 1:16:31.920 --> 1:16:32.439 just having fun. 1:16:32.520 --> 1:16:32.880 I don't know. 1:16:32.920 --> 1:16:34.519 I didn't think you were creep, but I did get 1:16:34.520 --> 1:16:35.960 a shock when they were in your camera roll, like 1:16:35.960 --> 1:16:37.640 they were just a normal photo, and. 1:16:37.720 --> 1:16:40.800 I hid and folded my wank bank. But but you 1:16:40.800 --> 1:16:42.360 know what is funny, I'm open to them. 1:16:42.840 --> 1:16:45.760 Do they have hidden folders just on your normal arto? Now, yeah, 1:16:45.800 --> 1:16:47.160 I'll show you. 1:16:47.160 --> 1:16:48.680 You need my face to get into it. So if 1:16:48.720 --> 1:16:51.680 you got your camera ready and you go to photos 1:16:51.760 --> 1:16:54.600 and then you go to all the way down hidden. 1:16:55.640 --> 1:16:56.640 You just open. 1:16:57.960 --> 1:17:00.439 No, No, I'm going to cover my camera. Yeah, so 1:17:00.520 --> 1:17:02.120 I've just got stuff in there. But I have never 1:17:02.160 --> 1:17:02.800 taken a nude either. 1:17:02.840 --> 1:17:05.920 He didn't want to do really, he didn't want one. 1:17:06.560 --> 1:17:11.120 Did you offer? And he said, nah, I'm right, that's insulting. 1:17:11.400 --> 1:17:13.599 No more into like the like the chat was dirty? 1:17:13.920 --> 1:17:18.160 Oh yeah, prove it? How dirty we're talking? 1:17:19.080 --> 1:17:21.920 Do this in front of Jenna to get out? 1:17:23.040 --> 1:17:25.640 No, Like, I'm only intrigued because I wouldn't know how 1:17:25.640 --> 1:17:27.400 to talk dirty. 1:17:27.439 --> 1:17:31.360 My my strength is like the chat. I feel I've 1:17:31.360 --> 1:17:35.320 got good game, I think. Yeah, my strength is not Jenna. 1:17:35.600 --> 1:17:38.320 Yeah, I won't believe it until i've read it. 1:17:39.320 --> 1:17:41.639 Michure, I've told you what I say in the bedroom before. 1:17:41.880 --> 1:17:44.120 Yeah, but we weren't telling people about that time we fucked. 1:17:45.000 --> 1:17:46.000 I've heard it with my own ear. 1:17:46.040 --> 1:17:46.760 You're a good boy. 1:17:47.840 --> 1:17:48.360 There you go. 1:17:49.040 --> 1:17:52.280 Okay, that's enough. Please, good boy? Yeah, I like that 1:17:52.280 --> 1:17:52.679 it's hot. 1:17:52.680 --> 1:17:54.679 Did you give him a scratch behind the years as well? 1:17:54.840 --> 1:18:02.640 Yeah? One couple stretch strat shut it wait till I 1:18:02.680 --> 1:18:04.720 start dating. This podcast is going to be in for 1:18:04.760 --> 1:18:05.519 a wild ride. 1:18:05.560 --> 1:18:06.120 I can't wait. 1:18:07.400 --> 1:18:08.880 I'm getting there. I don't want to date. I don't 1:18:08.880 --> 1:18:10.679 want to partner. You know what I want, and I'm 1:18:10.680 --> 1:18:12.280 I don't think I'm red anyone outs it, but I 1:18:12.280 --> 1:18:13.640 think I'm going to just go out and be a 1:18:13.680 --> 1:18:17.320 bit of a be, you know, gay for a bit o. 1:18:17.400 --> 1:18:20.280 Who know about that? I don't know. I haven't decided. 1:18:20.479 --> 1:18:22.920 Well, that's a fantastic point. What is the plan with 1:18:22.960 --> 1:18:25.759 this twink whose whole I've seen? You're gonna pauk this weekend? 1:18:26.000 --> 1:18:28.839 It did not. No, I've got dinner with Rebel Wilson 1:18:28.840 --> 1:18:29.880 this weekend, so I can't. 1:18:30.520 --> 1:18:31.360 That's the real shame. 1:18:32.240 --> 1:18:32.599 I'm glad. 1:18:32.640 --> 1:18:34.200 You hate it when you've got to grind a hook up, 1:18:34.240 --> 1:18:35.880 but you have to fucking go to dinner with. 1:18:35.880 --> 1:18:38.439 Rebel wils You believe this is if I had a dollar. 1:18:39.240 --> 1:18:42.240 Seriously, every single time, I believe. 1:18:41.960 --> 1:18:44.360 That was a conversation we just had and it's real. 1:18:44.520 --> 1:18:46.879 Are you gonna pak this grinded twink on the weekend. 1:18:46.960 --> 1:18:48.360 Now I've got dinner with Rebel Wolves. 1:18:50.560 --> 1:18:52.320 What do you mean you've got dinner with Rebel Wilson. 1:18:52.560 --> 1:18:53.920 I love how when you didn't question that. 1:18:54.280 --> 1:18:56.200 She has mutual friends with my friend and we're all 1:18:56.200 --> 1:18:59.559 going to do which friend Brittany Hockley, who radio COEs 1:18:59.600 --> 1:19:02.880 on the cuff, He's having a birthday dinner and we're 1:19:02.920 --> 1:19:04.960 going to get it. It's like five people going Rebel, 1:19:05.000 --> 1:19:10.679 her sister, my Lantern, and Anarchy and then not Tyranny. Yeah, 1:19:11.280 --> 1:19:12.640 that's her sister's name, is it? 1:19:12.760 --> 1:19:13.120 Actually? 1:19:13.320 --> 1:19:16.679 Yeah, there's Rebel. Can you google it, Jenna, there's Rebel. 1:19:16.840 --> 1:19:20.080 There is Anarchy. We call her Anna, I know, similar 1:19:20.360 --> 1:19:21.000 same age to us. 1:19:21.040 --> 1:19:22.639 We just call her an Yeah, of course. 1:19:22.680 --> 1:19:25.759 Then there is Velociraptor Wilson. She's really testy. 1:19:26.040 --> 1:19:27.320 Okay, so there's anarchy. 1:19:27.520 --> 1:19:30.880 Yeah, I know, Anna lovely. Anna is a beautiful person. 1:19:31.439 --> 1:19:35.200 Another sister Liberty Liberty, and a brother called Riot. 1:19:35.439 --> 1:19:35.599 Right. 1:19:36.960 --> 1:19:38.720 They've got a cousin called Trespass. 1:19:41.280 --> 1:19:43.599 You know who I met though when I last met Rebel, 1:19:44.439 --> 1:19:47.599 her mum Bayo has divorce. 1:19:48.200 --> 1:19:50.640 If you're catching up with Rebel on the weekend. Can 1:19:50.720 --> 1:19:53.519 you ask her how her great aunt Insider Trading is doing. 1:19:56.320 --> 1:19:59.280 Lovely lady, she's good though, but that's only because she 1:19:59.400 --> 1:20:01.920 divorced Vehicular Mansel actually. 1:20:01.640 --> 1:20:04.920 Left him doctor Vehicular Manser. 1:20:05.040 --> 1:20:09.519 I think you'll find professor anyway. I'm not pawking this thingk. 1:20:09.479 --> 1:20:11.280 No, are you going to make Rebel aware of the 1:20:11.360 --> 1:20:12.440 fucking sacrifice? 1:20:13.160 --> 1:20:15.120 Can you tell her that I'm not fucking a twink? 1:20:15.240 --> 1:20:16.920 But I was like, you've got all weekend? What's the guy? 1:20:17.160 --> 1:20:17.760 Bring him over? 1:20:18.960 --> 1:20:22.719 No, because I don't know, invite him to the Rebbel 1:20:22.720 --> 1:20:23.439 Wilson dinner. 1:20:24.680 --> 1:20:26.200 Did you not give you a plus one? What a bitch? 1:20:27.080 --> 1:20:28.960 It's actually not Rebel's dinner. I'm just remembering. 1:20:29.280 --> 1:20:32.120 Yeah, it's not Rebels, it's Brittany talk about this. 1:20:32.560 --> 1:20:35.479 Oh you brought it up. 1:20:35.760 --> 1:20:36.640 You brought it up. 1:20:37.160 --> 1:20:38.719 No, I just answer if you're going to pork the twink, 1:20:38.800 --> 1:20:39.719 which is not a question. 1:20:39.840 --> 1:20:41.680 If you told me this time last year to be 1:20:41.680 --> 1:20:43.280 asking you that question, I just said same. 1:20:43.400 --> 1:20:46.160 Isn't that sad? It's fun, I'll report, but it's fun 1:20:46.240 --> 1:20:46.639 or it's fun. 1:20:46.680 --> 1:20:47.120 I'm talking. 1:20:47.200 --> 1:20:49.400 I said it's fun and fine, But I'm talking to 1:20:49.439 --> 1:20:51.200 you like I would any of my other single friends 1:20:51.200 --> 1:20:52.320 who I live like carelessly through. 1:20:52.400 --> 1:20:53.160 Now it's interesting. 1:20:53.200 --> 1:20:53.519 I love it. 1:20:53.640 --> 1:20:53.880 True. 1:20:53.920 --> 1:20:56.760 You know what's funny, though, serious conversation for gays out 1:20:56.800 --> 1:20:59.880 there listening for people that are having sex gay sex. 1:21:00.080 --> 1:21:01.840 Either gates don't like us, they're not listening. 1:21:02.000 --> 1:21:04.160 No, yeah, true, you've got the lesbians. 1:21:03.800 --> 1:21:06.000 Yeah, church goers mostly. 1:21:06.200 --> 1:21:07.920 I'm gonna I think I might have to look at 1:21:08.120 --> 1:21:09.840 PREP because I don't I've never I've never had to 1:21:09.880 --> 1:21:12.120 have that conversation in my life, So I'm gonna have 1:21:12.200 --> 1:21:14.760 to will This is amazing life saving drug stops he 1:21:14.840 --> 1:21:18.600 transmitting or getting HIV. But I just can't believe that 1:21:18.680 --> 1:21:20.000 that's something that I'm doing. It's wild. 1:21:20.160 --> 1:21:22.320 Yeah, but you know what Sean told me, because he 1:21:22.479 --> 1:21:25.479 was on PREP before we go together, he felt like 1:21:25.560 --> 1:21:27.320 he had to get bang for his back, and so 1:21:27.640 --> 1:21:30.960 he just felt compelled to root more because otherwise it's 1:21:31.000 --> 1:21:33.160 just a waste of going to the chemist. If I've 1:21:33.200 --> 1:21:35.760 gone this medication, I'm not actually having unsafe sex. No, 1:21:36.000 --> 1:21:37.280 what am I even paying for it for? 1:21:37.560 --> 1:21:41.120 No? I get that. You know what you can do though, 1:21:41.160 --> 1:21:44.760 you can disco dose, you know, disco dosing hush, that's 1:21:44.800 --> 1:21:47.280 not like the medical term by the way, Gladys Beryiclian 1:21:47.360 --> 1:21:49.080 is not like, you know, telling everyone to know who. 1:21:48.960 --> 1:21:50.519 Is it, who's manditary disco dosing? 1:21:50.560 --> 1:21:51.639 Who's the Minister for health? 1:21:52.280 --> 1:21:54.640 Kerry Chance, Cherry Chance. I don't think is she in 1:21:54.720 --> 1:21:55.320 that job anymore? 1:21:55.520 --> 1:21:59.360 She resigned. I think disco dosing is when you can 1:21:59.439 --> 1:22:01.519 take it because you don't have to take it all 1:22:01.520 --> 1:22:03.080 the time. It's just for when you're having sex. So say, 1:22:03.120 --> 1:22:06.160 for example, I've lined up a Sunday, I take it 1:22:06.240 --> 1:22:08.040 two hours minimum of two hours before. 1:22:08.080 --> 1:22:10.000 Well, that's fine, then no, I'm not done. 1:22:10.160 --> 1:22:12.400 Minimum of two hours before. Or if you've porking that night, 1:22:12.400 --> 1:22:14.160 you take it in the morning with you with your crumpet. 1:22:14.680 --> 1:22:17.040 Then you take one. Now don't take this for Bible, 1:22:17.040 --> 1:22:20.200 because I'm not one hundred percent sure yet. Then you 1:22:20.320 --> 1:22:23.799 take one twenty four hours after, and then one exactly 1:22:23.880 --> 1:22:25.080 twenty four hours after. 1:22:24.920 --> 1:22:27.479 That, or maybe maybe like a morning after pill. 1:22:27.600 --> 1:22:29.040 Yes, maybe one directly after sex. 1:22:29.080 --> 1:22:31.439 I'm not saying a lot of fucking admin actually yah. 1:22:31.560 --> 1:22:33.240 But for me, someone who doesn't have a high pork 1:22:33.320 --> 1:22:37.000 drive more into so to speak, I think that could 1:22:37.080 --> 1:22:39.360 work better for me because I'll just do it case 1:22:39.400 --> 1:22:40.799 by Okay, some have sex once. 1:22:40.640 --> 1:22:43.160 A month anyway, short on prep. 1:22:43.680 --> 1:22:45.080 Yeah, so wild thought. 1:22:45.240 --> 1:22:48.000 I know, right, it just seems so out of character. 1:22:48.080 --> 1:22:51.360 Yeah, someone we compared numbers once is in people have 1:22:51.479 --> 1:22:54.080 sept with before, and I was fucking shocked how many. 1:22:54.400 --> 1:22:57.040 He's a gorgeous boy. You've done well, he's struck gold. 1:22:57.080 --> 1:22:58.960 But also it was a late bloomer. 1:22:59.040 --> 1:23:00.479 He didn't come out of the closet until it was 1:23:00.520 --> 1:23:02.360 twenty four, so we had some fucking lost time to 1:23:02.439 --> 1:23:02.800 make up for. 1:23:02.800 --> 1:23:04.720 Well, say that's where I'm at now. I got to 1:23:04.720 --> 1:23:07.599 get Sean's number. Actually, sorry, you fucking my boyfriend. I'm 1:23:07.600 --> 1:23:08.680 not going to fact Sean me. What are we going 1:23:08.720 --> 1:23:11.080 to do? Fight? No, this is cute. 1:23:11.080 --> 1:23:11.599 I can be fun. 1:23:11.720 --> 1:23:14.040 The audience will love it. I'm down for that. Sean 1:23:14.200 --> 1:23:15.600 called me the other night because I was having a 1:23:15.680 --> 1:23:19.439 down night and he called me out of the blue. Yeah, 1:23:20.320 --> 1:23:23.080 it was really gave me a life advice. Have you 1:23:23.120 --> 1:23:23.719 had a threesome? 1:23:24.200 --> 1:23:24.240 No? 1:23:24.920 --> 1:23:25.600 Yeah, nor have I. 1:23:26.240 --> 1:23:28.000 I feel like it'd be just too much to think 1:23:28.040 --> 1:23:30.519 about for me. I mean, don't knock it to You's right, 1:23:31.040 --> 1:23:32.920 you know, but I don't see that happening in mine. 1:23:32.960 --> 1:23:35.439 In Shawan's relationship, I'm not interested in Yeah, i'd have. 1:23:35.520 --> 1:23:38.600 To be comfortable. I need to be comfortable with the 1:23:38.680 --> 1:23:41.519 person in order to get my clothes off, So I 1:23:41.680 --> 1:23:44.599 have to double that and be comfortable with two different people. 1:23:44.840 --> 1:23:48.000 Too much, too much, No, I couldn't do it. I 1:23:48.040 --> 1:23:48.439 don't think. 1:23:48.600 --> 1:23:51.519 Yeah, I will say that, like we were talking about 1:23:51.560 --> 1:23:54.360 before the exposure therapy and like posting full body stuff 1:23:54.400 --> 1:23:57.840 so that you get over that struggle for you. I 1:23:58.040 --> 1:23:59.960 was like that ages ago. But then I don't know, 1:24:00.080 --> 1:24:01.240 I just got to a point where I was like, 1:24:01.360 --> 1:24:03.280 fuck it. I guessed to get nervous, taken my clothes 1:24:03.320 --> 1:24:04.800 up in front of people. But by the time I 1:24:04.880 --> 1:24:06.439 met Sean, I was just like, you get what you 1:24:06.560 --> 1:24:08.040 get and you don't get upset. 1:24:08.360 --> 1:24:08.479 Oh. 1:24:08.800 --> 1:24:11.800 I just was so I don't know what switched in 1:24:11.880 --> 1:24:13.599 my brain, but I was just like, fuck it, who cares? 1:24:13.680 --> 1:24:15.439 You gave me this advice? And some other people have. 1:24:15.600 --> 1:24:17.880 When I'm like talking to people and they're interested, and 1:24:18.000 --> 1:24:20.240 it like gets to a point of like what are 1:24:20.240 --> 1:24:22.080 we gonna do, I'm like, well, I don't want to. 1:24:22.120 --> 1:24:23.160 I don't want them to see me naked. 1:24:23.200 --> 1:24:25.799 They're gonna think I'm fat and ugly, which is my issue. 1:24:26.040 --> 1:24:28.040 Yeah, that's that's what I get in my thoughts. 1:24:28.320 --> 1:24:30.240 But you and other people have been like, you're not 1:24:30.479 --> 1:24:33.320 I'm not like a hermit, Like my body is out there, 1:24:33.880 --> 1:24:36.600 like they they go on my profile like they know 1:24:36.960 --> 1:24:39.040 what I look like, you know, but in my head 1:24:39.479 --> 1:24:41.080 they just see me from the chin up and like, 1:24:41.160 --> 1:24:42.519 I'm going to take my top off and they're going 1:24:42.560 --> 1:24:44.479 to be shocked that there's man boops there, Like, no, 1:24:44.720 --> 1:24:47.080 they know who I am. Of course they're gonna know 1:24:47.200 --> 1:24:48.120 that there's some repel. 1:24:48.160 --> 1:24:51.840 So most people in my experience aren't actually that awful. 1:24:51.920 --> 1:24:53.840 Like if you took your top off, no one's ever 1:24:53.880 --> 1:24:57.040 gonna go h no, thanks, Yeah, exactly, that's true. 1:24:57.080 --> 1:24:58.160 Actually, that's a very good point. 1:24:58.240 --> 1:25:02.080 Actually, the people aren't that awful on Grinder. Before you 1:25:02.160 --> 1:25:04.200 meet up, they're awful people, but once they've agreed to 1:25:04.240 --> 1:25:05.400 the meet up, anything goes. 1:25:05.800 --> 1:25:08.320 Yeah. Anyway, you know what, I'm not liking Grinder, No, 1:25:08.439 --> 1:25:12.679 I don't like it. It's I don't know, but I'm 1:25:12.800 --> 1:25:15.360 leaning towards I'm learning more about me, which is why 1:25:15.439 --> 1:25:18.160 this experience has been great. Like Sewan, I came out 1:25:18.160 --> 1:25:21.320 at twenty three and I went straight into Hayden so 1:25:21.439 --> 1:25:23.600 to speak, and. 1:25:25.160 --> 1:25:27.040 It made nice to meet you straight. 1:25:26.800 --> 1:25:30.240 In straight blue belt bendover and I I've never had 1:25:30.280 --> 1:25:32.200 that experience, but I feel like I'm going to lean 1:25:32.240 --> 1:25:36.040 towards liking relationship sex better. I just prefer it. 1:25:36.320 --> 1:25:37.479 Yeah, I agree. 1:25:37.680 --> 1:25:41.800 I was single for ages, as you would recall, and 1:25:41.920 --> 1:25:43.840 it was never for me. I preferred to at least 1:25:43.880 --> 1:25:45.840 go on a date or something. I mean, there were 1:25:45.840 --> 1:25:48.439 a couple of times that I met people at the 1:25:48.479 --> 1:25:50.000 club and stuff and went home with them and had 1:25:50.120 --> 1:25:53.320 one night stand. But I think that's different. You sort 1:25:53.360 --> 1:25:55.639 of swept up in the moment. I couldn't connect with people. 1:25:56.000 --> 1:25:58.680 I haven't done that yet. That could be fun, it is, 1:25:59.160 --> 1:25:59.800 I've not done that. 1:26:00.320 --> 1:26:03.040 Yeah, I mean again, not heaps. I've compared numbers to Sean. 1:26:03.280 --> 1:26:04.519 He's got way more. 1:26:05.520 --> 1:26:05.680 Yeah. 1:26:05.720 --> 1:26:08.080 I might have to call him again for some tips. Yeah, yeah, 1:26:08.320 --> 1:26:09.679 I'll send him some pics for payment. 1:26:09.720 --> 1:26:11.880 You know, the only time I've had a one night 1:26:11.960 --> 1:26:14.080 SAMD with someone that I met online was the one 1:26:14.120 --> 1:26:17.960 that turned out to be an endurant idiot. Oh yeah, 1:26:18.720 --> 1:26:22.240 and he actually it was on Instagram, not Grinder, but 1:26:22.320 --> 1:26:23.960 it was the same concept. It was like, do you 1:26:24.000 --> 1:26:27.000 want to come over it's all right. I did, and 1:26:27.160 --> 1:26:30.200 then he blocked me, and he probably doesn't listen anymore. 1:26:30.240 --> 1:26:32.040 So it was obviously a really good fuck from me. 1:26:33.000 --> 1:26:33.439 He blocked you. 1:26:33.560 --> 1:26:37.160 After the fuck, I would say, like a couple of months. 1:26:36.960 --> 1:26:39.800 After, yeah, I wonder, why do you think I need 1:26:39.840 --> 1:26:41.599 to sleep with a fan. I think it's only even 1:26:41.640 --> 1:26:43.240 we have to we have to do everything in equals. 1:26:43.800 --> 1:26:45.439 I mean, if it's going to be even an equal, 1:26:45.760 --> 1:26:48.080 you have to not know they were a Fan's true. 1:26:48.080 --> 1:26:49.040 Oh you didn't know until after. 1:26:50.000 --> 1:26:51.439 He was very vague about it. 1:26:51.560 --> 1:26:54.640 He goes, oh, yeah, so you do like a podcast, right, 1:26:54.720 --> 1:26:57.120 I think my sister listens. And then it wasn't until 1:26:57.520 --> 1:27:01.439 after we fucked that he elaborated that he had bought 1:27:01.560 --> 1:27:03.439 merch and he was in the and Durant Idiot's groom 1:27:03.439 --> 1:27:05.160 and it was a regular fucking listener and I was like, 1:27:05.240 --> 1:27:05.559 oh my. 1:27:05.720 --> 1:27:07.800 God, he bought merch. He was in the group and 1:27:07.880 --> 1:27:11.599 he was in the host next, and then. 1:27:11.600 --> 1:27:14.000 Blocked the host with full circle. 1:27:14.040 --> 1:27:16.680 What's his insta? Can you delete it? Just be muted out. 1:27:16.680 --> 1:27:18.120 I'll see if he's blocked me. I just want to 1:27:18.120 --> 1:27:18.840 see if he comes up. 1:27:20.560 --> 1:27:24.040 Okay, they're looking for him they're stalking. Apparently it's the 1:27:24.080 --> 1:27:26.080 two men job. I've got no one to banter with. 1:27:26.720 --> 1:27:28.160 Hello, I found him. 1:27:29.360 --> 1:27:31.240 Oh my god. So he hasn't blocked you. 1:27:33.080 --> 1:27:34.719 Oh he's got a he's got a partner. 1:27:35.040 --> 1:27:37.160 Oh that's nice. Maybe that's why he blocked me. 1:27:37.400 --> 1:27:38.439 Is he on the left or right? 1:27:41.600 --> 1:27:42.040 How do you know? 1:27:42.680 --> 1:27:44.000 Because I was jealous at the time. 1:27:45.160 --> 1:27:47.000 Oh, I've I already told you about this guy. He's 1:27:47.040 --> 1:27:49.040 stalked before, coalked at the time. 1:27:49.560 --> 1:27:52.960 Yeah, maybe that's why he blocked me, because his new 1:27:53.080 --> 1:27:55.639 partner is jealous and he's like, like we were saying 1:27:55.720 --> 1:27:59.360 last week during the talk back things, any male that 1:27:59.400 --> 1:28:03.040 you've had any prior interaction with, delete them. Maybe he's 1:28:03.080 --> 1:28:04.320 got a shit in your boyfriend. 1:28:04.920 --> 1:28:07.280 So explain to me, please, for the love of god, 1:28:07.880 --> 1:28:08.599 where you met him. 1:28:08.680 --> 1:28:11.440 I can't remember exactly. I think he might have replied 1:28:11.520 --> 1:28:14.479 to an Instagram story and then it was like, if 1:28:14.520 --> 1:28:17.960 you're ever down for a rose, let me know, and 1:28:18.320 --> 1:28:20.280 I was like, fuck it, I'm down for a rose. 1:28:20.400 --> 1:28:23.000 And then I went to his house that night. Wow, yeah, 1:28:23.400 --> 1:28:24.320 which I've never done that. 1:28:25.240 --> 1:28:26.320 I had to be I have to be in a 1:28:26.439 --> 1:28:27.800 very specific mood to agree to that. 1:28:28.840 --> 1:28:30.960 I was just like, you know what, the sun's setting, 1:28:31.040 --> 1:28:34.200 it's wine o'clock, it's wine a cock fucking let's. 1:28:34.040 --> 1:28:37.439 Go jump on. Well congratulations, Well can't wait for that day. 1:28:37.479 --> 1:28:39.559 This is like two or three years ago, but sure, 1:28:39.680 --> 1:28:39.880 thank you. 1:28:39.920 --> 1:28:40.760 Congratulations. 1:28:41.040 --> 1:28:42.280 All right, we should we go. This has been the 1:28:42.280 --> 1:28:43.679 longest episode in the history of the show. 1:28:43.920 --> 1:28:46.120 What if I just didn't edit it. I think it's 1:28:46.160 --> 1:28:48.160 now Titanic length feature film. 1:28:48.600 --> 1:28:50.439 We've made many diffamatory marks. 1:28:50.800 --> 1:28:51.920 Yeah, that's true. 1:28:52.200 --> 1:28:54.679 Can we also say that before we started this podcast, 1:28:54.720 --> 1:28:58.320 we ordered lunch on the kideo Yes and Jenna. We 1:28:58.439 --> 1:29:04.000 ordered Nando's and Jenna ordered a cup of corn, and 1:29:04.120 --> 1:29:06.000 Mitch and I were like, she goes he wants corn, 1:29:06.280 --> 1:29:07.360 and we laughed. 1:29:07.080 --> 1:29:09.640 And there was corn to share. Yeah, it was a 1:29:09.720 --> 1:29:14.800 share who it was a family shares corn, anous. 1:29:14.000 --> 1:29:17.720 Option three dollars fifty. I got the share option and. 1:29:17.760 --> 1:29:20.559 Then well thank god for that because I literally ordered 1:29:20.600 --> 1:29:23.360 my salad and specifically tapped without corn. 1:29:24.360 --> 1:29:27.160 Mitchell, we looked at the phone and we thought it 1:29:27.240 --> 1:29:28.840 was a joke and it was just one family corn. 1:29:28.880 --> 1:29:31.080 Then our wraps and I was like, well you'll wrap 1:29:31.240 --> 1:29:31.719 my salad. 1:29:31.800 --> 1:29:34.000 Oh sorry, Sarah Dela Rend's ocean gates. Sal, We'll be 1:29:34.040 --> 1:29:36.360 wearing an upset with that comment, Sarah. 1:29:36.120 --> 1:29:38.160 Dela rental crisis would not appreciate. 1:29:39.479 --> 1:29:41.160 Yeah, Sarah Dealer red and stimpy. 1:29:42.200 --> 1:29:45.680 Anyway, So yeah, we put our order in. 1:29:45.960 --> 1:29:50.720 Sarah Dealer read the musical, Yes exactly, So Sarah Dealer 1:29:50.760 --> 1:29:51.559 remeding on my starte. 1:29:54.000 --> 1:29:55.080 So we put our order in. 1:29:55.200 --> 1:30:01.240 Sara, fuck me dead chipped to tooth or most. 1:30:01.120 --> 1:30:04.320 I did I need a mic stand In hindsight, I 1:30:04.360 --> 1:30:06.080 don't know how you've held that thing up all day. 1:30:06.400 --> 1:30:08.479 I feel like Kylie and it's good anyway. 1:30:09.920 --> 1:30:12.320 You need to so much, Kylie. Sorry, I think the. 1:30:12.360 --> 1:30:14.080 Corn story is this well and truly passes. 1:30:14.320 --> 1:30:16.439 I want to talk about my corn anyway. The corn 1:30:16.560 --> 1:30:18.400 was delicious, but I feel full and sick. 1:30:18.520 --> 1:30:20.519 So we were about to put our order in and 1:30:20.600 --> 1:30:23.040 we were like, Jenna, you add your order to the 1:30:23.120 --> 1:30:26.719 Herber Eats, and she just put corn. And then instead 1:30:26.760 --> 1:30:29.680 of instead of just respecting her choices, I was like, 1:30:30.800 --> 1:30:33.840 I'm fucking putting my foot down, Jenna. You are not 1:30:34.120 --> 1:30:35.240 just ordering corn. 1:30:35.680 --> 1:30:38.600 I don't care if you order food for you and 1:30:38.680 --> 1:30:40.880 your mum and take it home for dinner. But I'm 1:30:40.960 --> 1:30:43.000 just not letting you order corn and corn only because 1:30:43.000 --> 1:30:46.000 that's fucked. That's fucking psychopathic behavior. 1:30:46.120 --> 1:30:46.679 That's crazy. 1:30:46.880 --> 1:30:48.200 Yeah, that it was a shared cut. 1:30:48.760 --> 1:30:50.759 Well, thank god, you know how much I love corn. 1:30:50.880 --> 1:30:52.720 And Mitch went to his kitchen draw got us two 1:30:52.720 --> 1:30:54.920 spoons out. Mine looks like a ladle, and Jenna and 1:30:55.000 --> 1:30:57.720 I sat there like we went an amish couple who 1:30:57.760 --> 1:30:58.840 can't penetrate each other. 1:31:00.120 --> 1:31:01.800 It was a Ben and Jerry's You're like, oh, how 1:31:02.000 --> 1:31:03.240 we were on a. 1:31:03.280 --> 1:31:05.040 Day in the south of Texas and we were like 1:31:05.800 --> 1:31:08.040 looking at each other lovingly in the eyes. It was 1:31:08.120 --> 1:31:12.000 like if that movie that Cat the Tramp was filmed in. 1:31:12.120 --> 1:31:17.000 Texas and we were like, oh, this is delicious, delicious corn, 1:31:17.439 --> 1:31:19.080 said no one ever it was. 1:31:22.400 --> 1:31:25.120 I ordered my salad without corn, like I said. There 1:31:25.240 --> 1:31:27.880 was one colonel fucking colonel, and I was like. 1:31:29.000 --> 1:31:32.320 Funny that colonel's spelt differently, but colonel is also spelt differently, 1:31:32.360 --> 1:31:34.960 but it's the same word, but it means different things. Yeah, 1:31:35.520 --> 1:31:39.120 like colonel Sanders, like it spelt colonial, spelt colonal, but 1:31:39.160 --> 1:31:42.040 then there's colonel, but it's the same word. Yeah, and 1:31:42.200 --> 1:31:46.639 like night and night. Yeah, like English is dumb. 1:31:48.560 --> 1:31:51.880 We hope this podcast made to feel at least three 1:31:51.920 --> 1:31:54.120 percent better today. That's all just three percent. 1:31:54.200 --> 1:31:56.400 Should I do a walking tour of your apartment? Oh? 1:31:56.439 --> 1:31:58.680 For fuck sake, the mic isn't wireless. 1:31:59.240 --> 1:32:01.720 I can pull it out, but you. 1:32:01.720 --> 1:32:04.759 Won't be able to walk with it. It's a tiny cord. 1:32:05.000 --> 1:32:06.920 What's going to hold it? Because I feel like you've 1:32:07.000 --> 1:32:08.040 got gains and I haven't. 1:32:08.479 --> 1:32:10.960 Doesn't it feel powerful holding the mic? 1:32:11.280 --> 1:32:13.800 I do feel like like a stand up Oh that 1:32:13.920 --> 1:32:14.479 must be white. 1:32:14.479 --> 1:32:16.439 It comes so naturally to me. Of course, I'm in 1:32:16.479 --> 1:32:18.600 my natural habitat Imagine if I did my stand up 1:32:18.640 --> 1:32:21.720 with a fucking mic stand on stage. Some people do, 1:32:22.439 --> 1:32:23.800 but like to start at a desk like I'm just 1:32:23.840 --> 1:32:28.680 doing a podcast. Speaking of which podcast live show is 1:32:28.760 --> 1:32:32.519 potentially happening later in the year, tvc oh announcing that 1:32:32.840 --> 1:32:34.519 that was an announcement, that was just a teaser. 1:32:34.680 --> 1:32:35.560 We pre announce it. 1:32:35.840 --> 1:32:37.840 Yeah, it's really after we have. 1:32:37.840 --> 1:32:39.200 A loop generator, Jenner. 1:32:39.200 --> 1:32:40.800 We're waiting for your management to get back to it. 1:32:41.560 --> 1:32:44.000 By the way, your management hasn't gotten back to Andrews, 1:32:44.040 --> 1:32:44.920 so that's why we're. 1:32:45.000 --> 1:32:47.960 That's an actual grave problem. Really, I'll talk to her. 1:32:48.479 --> 1:32:49.960 I'll just go to rereck. They don't get their twenty 1:32:50.000 --> 1:32:52.240 percent fuck it. See you, guys, we haven't done our 1:32:52.760 --> 1:32:55.760 We haven't done it. Done what I already did that 1:32:56.160 --> 1:32:57.559 about fifteen minutes ago. 1:32:58.160 --> 1:32:58.720 We didn't do it. 1:32:59.000 --> 1:33:01.639 You didn't it because he said I want to take 1:33:01.640 --> 1:33:02.880 you on an apartment to us. 1:33:02.920 --> 1:33:06.080 Mitch has got a lovely perspect stool fuck and uh 1:33:06.240 --> 1:33:08.240 oh fiddle. If it's fake, I've already pressed it. 1:33:08.240 --> 1:33:09.439 All right, Do you want me to do the wrap up? 1:33:09.520 --> 1:33:09.680 Yeah? 1:33:09.800 --> 1:33:13.080 Yeah, don't fuck your que this time. We hope this 1:33:13.240 --> 1:33:16.360 podcast made you feel at least three percent better today. 1:33:16.439 --> 1:33:19.080 That's all just three percent, so weeet. 1:33:18.960 --> 1:33:21.680 Deal, gotta dash, Love your bye, see you next week, 1:33:21.720 --> 1:33:24.519 Love your bye, bob bye. 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