Speaker 1: Laura.
Speaker 2: Come on, hello lady, Hello britt Laura Gows. Have you
Speaker 2: noticed that I'm looking a little, a little tan, more
Speaker 2: tan than usual?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 4: But is that not from all your hot girl walks, Mitch,
Speaker 4: because you've been you've been doing some serious step counts.
Speaker 2: No, no, I walk every day. No, I've started. I
Speaker 2: saw this new trend on TikTok, and I haven't told
Speaker 2: you that I've been doing it. But I've been eating
Speaker 2: a carrot a day, and apparently that the orange pigment
Speaker 2: from the carrot seeps into your skin.
Speaker 4: Surely not No, you'd need to be eating more than
Speaker 4: one a day, surely, Midge.
Speaker 2: Well, they say up to twelve, but I don't have
Speaker 2: that much time nor carrots.
Speaker 5: I reckon.
Speaker 6: You've just been using a little bit of BONDI sands
Speaker 6: gradual tan. No, no, no, I've been doing a little glow.
Speaker 2: I've been chumming down on a carrot as I drive.
Speaker 5: It makes it absolutely no difference.
Speaker 6: Otherwise my children would be literally orange, because I reckon,
Speaker 6: they eat about seventeen carrots a day.
Speaker 7: Can we do like a trial of this somehow?
Speaker 5: Yes, Brute, you can eat twelve carrots and report back.
Speaker 7: Oh I don't think I have anything. I had a
Speaker 7: carrot last night. Actually, for everyone, this is groundbreaking.
Speaker 5: I had one.
Speaker 2: Britain is really brave view. What did you do last night?
Speaker 4: I do feel like it's it's the right place to share.
Speaker 4: I had a carrot last night?
Speaker 5: Was it cooked or both?
Speaker 2: Half raw?
Speaker 7: And then I half cooked it?
Speaker 4: But my point is I believe by the end of
Speaker 4: the one carrot I couldn't do.
Speaker 7: More, so there's no way I could be chomping down
Speaker 7: on twelve.
Speaker 2: So did you boil half a carrot?
Speaker 5: So please please show is better than this. I swear it.
Speaker 3: Is not ware.
Speaker 4: I mean finish, please, Laura, please don't finish what I did.
Speaker 5: What I did.
Speaker 4: It was supposed to be grated, to be cooked. But
Speaker 4: I'm one of those people that never eats my dinner
Speaker 4: once it's cooked, because I eat along the way, you know,
Speaker 4: when you snack.
Speaker 7: On all your food before the meal comes.
Speaker 2: I didn't think I could lose more interest in and
Speaker 2: I did.
Speaker 6: I mean, look, we have an amazing ask on Cut coming,
Speaker 6: which is what we do every single week. It's where
Speaker 6: you guys call in with you your listener questions, your
Speaker 6: big dilemmas, and I promise you it'll be more interesting
Speaker 6: than the carrot story.
Speaker 2: We have a very big guest on the show today
Speaker 2: as well. I'm excited about it.
Speaker 4: You. No. We have Daniel Ladley, former AFL great and
Speaker 4: she's got a new documentary on Stan which we have
Speaker 4: seen and it is incredible.
Speaker 7: It's an incredible story and.
Speaker 4: She's going to be coming on and revealing all about
Speaker 4: her two tribes.
Speaker 2: All right, I can't wait. That's all on the way
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Speaker 2: I don't think Britt Laura don't think therapists wear caps.
Speaker 5: Ready, Yeah, I think therapy pretty way. Whatever they want.
Speaker 5: We are doing, ask Uncut.
Speaker 4: Where you writing your deepest, darkest burning questions? Yes, we
Speaker 4: do our best to answer them.
Speaker 2: Let's do it, ask Urcut.
Speaker 4: We have one of our listeners, Step has called in
Speaker 4: with a bit of a problem.
Speaker 2: A high step Hello.
Speaker 3: Hey guys, I've got a bit of an issue I
Speaker 3: was hoping you guys could help me with. So I've
Speaker 3: always been really good friends with this guy, think like
Speaker 3: high school super good friends and always seeing there's like
Speaker 3: a big brother sort of type. The last sort of
Speaker 3: year or fo, I have been developing other feelings and
Speaker 3: he's also though at the back end of the divorce.
Speaker 3: So I'm like, number one, how do I broach the subject?
Speaker 3: But also at what point is too soon?
Speaker 5: How soon are we talking?
Speaker 3: Like how you yes, like a couple of weeks, like
Speaker 3: signed documents that have been separated for like a year
Speaker 3: that signed the documents. Actually a couple of weeks. That's
Speaker 3: been messy, so messy.
Speaker 6: Though, Steph, has he given you any any sort of
Speaker 6: sign that he's into you? Has there been anything that
Speaker 6: you could go, Look, I'm taking this bread crumbers as
Speaker 6: sign or a signal that maybe I'm in with a chance.
Speaker 3: Well, I mean in terms of like I supported him
Speaker 3: through like we're very close friends. So I feel like
Speaker 3: that's a bit of a sign that I just don't
Speaker 3: really know.
Speaker 4: I Look, Steph, I am a really big like shoot
Speaker 4: your shot person.
Speaker 7: I shoot my shots all the time.
Speaker 4: I think first and foremost here, you need to be
Speaker 4: a friend first, So you need to be there for
Speaker 4: him in every capacity as a friend. No pressure, no
Speaker 4: nothing make HI feel uncomfortable. Don't flirt, don't hit, don't
Speaker 4: even don't let him know anything unless you know he
Speaker 4: has one hundred percent moved on. Like if you know
Speaker 4: he's completely fine and he's in that next transition, baby,
Speaker 4: I'd be shooting that shot. I'd be letting him know,
Speaker 4: I'd be trying some moves. There's so many ways to
Speaker 4: flirt and like let him know, engaging in shoes.
Speaker 2: I'm with you, Britt. I think you need to be
Speaker 2: there and be a friend, but you need to be
Speaker 2: really sexy when you do it, like like, oh, let's
Speaker 2: go for a walk and wear some nice Lulu lemon,
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, some hot clothes and I
Speaker 2: think that'll play well for you. But I do want
Speaker 2: to say, you said I was there for him during
Speaker 2: the divorce and I was there a shout at a crayon?
Speaker 2: Did you do that knowing that you wanted to be
Speaker 2: with him? What was it? Was there an ulterior motive there?
Speaker 2: Maybe one day?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 3: No, no, always been friends, he's been in the last
Speaker 3: sort of little while though, so no ulterior motive that
Speaker 3: the relationship had ended. But because I've been support for him,
Speaker 3: I've been like, oh, what do I do?
Speaker 6: How do I?
Speaker 3: How do I?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 3: But also because the documents were only signed really recently,
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, let it said all.
Speaker 6: No, Britt says, shoot your shot. But my question is
Speaker 6: how important is his friendship to you? Because it could
Speaker 6: fundamentally change everything. And if he turns around and says, oh,
Speaker 6: I don't feel the same, then the friendship isn't to
Speaker 6: him what it is to you, and it might mean
Speaker 6: that you guys don't have anything at all.
Speaker 4: If I, oh, my god, yes, I love you too,
Speaker 4: and you could have found.
Speaker 5: Your soulmate twin flames. When the rest of you get
Speaker 5: a lot, it's worth fighting for. It's a risk, is
Speaker 5: all I'm saying. Nothing having comes easily.
Speaker 2: Okay, I think you pulling these quotes from I.
Speaker 5: Do you know what?
Speaker 6: You just need to have a cheeky glass of wine
Speaker 6: one evening just see.
Speaker 5: How he responds.
Speaker 6: I don't think aggressively shooting your shot is the way
Speaker 6: to go about it, but I think some subtle flirting
Speaker 6: when you feel like you're ready and just see if
Speaker 6: he responds positively.
Speaker 2: But just do it in a bra That's my advice.
Speaker 2: Just do it in Brier Nundy's. That's all I'm saying.
Speaker 5: Wet the lips and up to oh.
Speaker 2: Wow, wow, you're doing so well. Subtle about your wet lips,
Speaker 2: bread Keepers updated Steph please okay.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I will think.
Speaker 2: Right, no worries. You can hit up the pick up
Speaker 2: on our Instagram, slide into the DMS if you need
Speaker 2: some help, and we will wet.
Speaker 4: Coming up after the break, we have Daniel lately on,
Speaker 4: former AFL great and transgender woman who has just released
Speaker 4: her documentary on Stand and absolutely incredible.
Speaker 2: All right, Daniel's on with us next here at the
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Speaker 4: I want to talk to you guys today about the
Speaker 4: original Stand documentary that has just come out called Revealed
Speaker 4: Daniel Laidley Two Tribes.
Speaker 5: Now.
Speaker 4: It's a documentary that looks at Daniel Laidley's two worlds colliding.
Speaker 4: And when I say two worlds, that's in reference to
Speaker 4: the two tribes in the title, this is Danielle's life
Speaker 4: as an ex AFL footage player and a coach, and
Speaker 4: then it's her other world as a transgender woman, and
Speaker 4: it explores what that looks like for her and how
Speaker 4: those decisions were taken away from her drug addiction. It's
Speaker 4: truly inspiring and incredible and this is a piece of
Speaker 4: the documentary.
Speaker 1: The AFL is always is to go football and always
Speaker 1: think you want to hear about me. Today is the
Speaker 1: first time that I've represented both my tribes. Former North
Speaker 1: Melbourne football coach Dean Ladley has been charged possession.
Speaker 6: Photographs taken at this until the police station have gone viral.
Speaker 1: I've got a phone call that's been arrested.
Speaker 2: I hated who I was.
Speaker 7: All the decisions that you've made have not been good ones.
Speaker 7: I don't think anyone really knew what Danny went through.
Speaker 7: We actually have Danielle with us today.
Speaker 5: Hi Danielle, Hi, Danielle.
Speaker 1: Hi. By gang, how are you?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 6: We're so well Danielle even just listening to that the
Speaker 6: shorts for the Stan documentary, like how do you feel
Speaker 6: when you hear that back?
Speaker 1: I'm okay now. When we were going through the filming
Speaker 1: the first edit, Nora and I watched it together and
Speaker 1: within ninety seconds were very, very emotional, and we basically
Speaker 1: cried through the whole the whole film. But now we've
Speaker 1: watched it, I don't know, maybe ten times because we
Speaker 1: had to watch it through all the different edits. Now
Speaker 1: we can sort of watch it quite objectively. We're really
Speaker 1: proud of the final package. We've been now to tell
Speaker 1: our story in our own words, because the narrative you know,
Speaker 1: when it very first became public was not good. Yeah,
Speaker 1: there was a lot of false things said, there was
Speaker 1: a lot of innuendo, and that was, you know, probably
Speaker 1: the main reason why we wanted to make the film
Speaker 1: so we could tell our story in our words.
Speaker 2: Daniel, I think for a bit of context as well,
Speaker 2: you played one hundred and fifty one games for men's
Speaker 2: AFL West Coast Eagles and North Melbourne football clubs, and
Speaker 2: I think the story is so important that now as
Speaker 2: a transgender woman, that coming out of that reveal was
Speaker 2: completely taken from your hands. You had no power in that,
Speaker 2: and if you don't mind speaking to how that happened,
Speaker 2: I think it's in the documentary. It is really powerful.
Speaker 2: But if you can speak to what happened in that situation.
Speaker 2: I think that is so important to hear.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was going through a pretty bad time at
Speaker 1: in my life. You know, I'd never couched drugs or
Speaker 1: anything like that, and was introduced from a relationship that
Speaker 1: I was in and it got really bad. I still
Speaker 1: hadn't been diagnosed with gender dysphoria, and eventually it just
Speaker 1: came out one day when I was seeing my counselor
Speaker 1: at the time. You know, I got diagnosed with a
Speaker 1: gender psyche and endocrinologists and all that sort of stuff,
Speaker 1: and we were starting to plan a strategy of Okay,
Speaker 1: how do we get the family together, how do we
Speaker 1: tell friends? So we put a strategy in that we
Speaker 1: were going to approach the AFL, But unfortunately that was
Speaker 1: taken away when I was outed by the Victoria police.
Speaker 1: You know, I got arrested. And it was funnily enough,
Speaker 1: it was me who rang the police and said, I'm
Speaker 1: breaking the intervention order because I was just at such
Speaker 1: a low point. I didn't know what to do. My
Speaker 1: drug use was spiraling. I just had been diagnosed with
Speaker 1: gina dysphoria. Went stood out in front of my property
Speaker 1: and called them and they came and arrested me, which
Speaker 1: was a bad decision on top of a few others
Speaker 1: that I'd made. You would think the Victoria police would
Speaker 1: show some care and empathy and go through the legalities
Speaker 1: of what had happened. But to have police members take
Speaker 1: photos of me, take my phone, take photos off my phone.
Speaker 1: It was very public, so all those plans that we
Speaker 1: were starting to put in place. The AFL family friends
Speaker 1: found out about it when you did, when they saw
Speaker 1: it in the paper.
Speaker 2: Well, we are talking to former af FELT great Danielle Ladley,
Speaker 2: who you may have seen this has recently start in
Speaker 2: her own stand original documentary series all about her life,
Speaker 2: her career, and her incredible story of going from AFL
Speaker 2: football grade to her life now as a transgender woman.
Speaker 6: Was there any consequence for the police who were at
Speaker 6: fault here? How did that process end up?
Speaker 1: There was about forty odd who got charged internally with
Speaker 1: something called disgusting behavior and then is.
Speaker 7: That the actual term?
Speaker 5: Danielle?
Speaker 4: Yeah, wow, I didn't even know that that was something
Speaker 4: you could be charged with. When was it that you
Speaker 4: knew you felt different?
Speaker 1: The very first time it happened to me, I was
Speaker 1: probably six years of age, and there were wow, literally
Speaker 1: hundreds of things going through my childhood and then early
Speaker 1: teens and having depression and anxiety. I didn't know why
Speaker 1: I was feeling this way, peeling back delays the last
Speaker 1: six or seven years. I can now label that as
Speaker 1: little Danielle times when it was speaking. She wanted attention,
Speaker 1: she wanted love, she wanted affection, she wanted all that
Speaker 1: sort of stuff. And the one thing that I've learned
Speaker 1: is you can't outrun gender dysphoria.
Speaker 4: Yah.
Speaker 1: As I got a little bit older and the Internet
Speaker 1: comes along and I was able to meet people and
Speaker 1: talk to people, it started to become clearer.
Speaker 4: It must have been nice to have that revelation and
Speaker 4: be like, wow, I'm not actually alone, like there are
Speaker 4: other people that are going through what I'm going through totally.
Speaker 2: Well that I mean, that is watching this docco that
Speaker 2: is couldn't be more clearer, the two worlds colliding. Stay there, Danielle.
Speaker 2: We want to delve more into your second part of
Speaker 2: your life, your time as a transgender woman and being
Speaker 2: part of the lgbt QA plus community. More with Danielle
Speaker 2: after this on the pickup, We're back right around Australia
Speaker 2: Thursday afternoon. It is the pickup. We've brit Laura and
Speaker 2: Mitch head into chemist warehouse today. Great savings every day
Speaker 2: joining us. Now we're back with Danielle Lady. It's on
Speaker 2: Stand the new Stand original docer revealed Danielle Ladley two Tribes.
Speaker 2: We've just been talking to Danielle. This is an incredible story,
Speaker 2: right Laura, it really is.
Speaker 6: And daniel how did the AFL and also your own
Speaker 6: family respond to finding out that you were not being
Speaker 6: able to live authentically.
Speaker 1: It's caused a lot of grief with the in our
Speaker 1: family of how it came out, and we're still on
Speaker 1: some fronts working through that. The AFL having lived in fear,
Speaker 1: the shame and embarrassment of what perhaps people would think
Speaker 1: of me. From the CEO of the AFL, Gilma Blockwin
Speaker 1: to you know, people I coach, people I played with,
Speaker 1: the wider football community have been so supportive and caring
Speaker 1: and everything I've literally had in the last bit now
Speaker 1: thousands of messages thank you for telling your story. The
Speaker 1: next most important thing was showing what we went through
Speaker 1: for families. I'm hoping that that it's a real education
Speaker 1: piece for a lot of people from all walks of.
Speaker 2: Life, Danielle. As someone who identifies as gay myself, I
Speaker 2: have the exact same feelings about my sexuality. I had
Speaker 2: them at a similar age, and it pales in comparison
Speaker 2: to yours. And sexuality and gender are different. But we
Speaker 2: have so many parents listening at the pickup right now,
Speaker 2: I just I want to ask you and give you
Speaker 2: the opportunity to maybe offer some advice on how potentially
Speaker 2: parents can deal with their children's gender dysphoria potentially and
Speaker 2: their kids, and maybe even explaining what gender dysphoria is.
Speaker 1: No, gender dysphoria is how you feel on the inside
Speaker 1: is not congruent with what is portrayed on the outside.
Speaker 1: That's where the dysphoria comes. That's where the wrestle comes in.
Speaker 1: To any parent or to any teenager, the best thing
Speaker 1: to do is to be able to talk about your
Speaker 1: feelings and then as a family, whichever member it is,
Speaker 1: seek some professional help. There's some great facilities and resources
Speaker 1: out there now. As a transgender person, I've been dealing
Speaker 1: with this my whole life. Others around me, some have
Speaker 1: known for seven or eight years when I very first
Speaker 1: started to live my life as myself just not in
Speaker 1: front of my kids or at my place of work.
Speaker 1: It's a big change and it's only new for them,
Speaker 1: So as transgender people too, we need to be patient
Speaker 1: with all those around us.
Speaker 2: This is the pick up. We're talking to former AFL
Speaker 2: Great Daniel Lay, who was recently starting a stand original
Speaker 2: documentary all about her time as at AFL Great and
Speaker 2: now living as a transgender woman.
Speaker 4: I would just love to know one thing I know
Speaker 4: just a couple of days ago, And excuse my ignorance,
Speaker 4: I'm not an AFL person, but I saw an article
Speaker 4: about one of the AFL players.
Speaker 7: There was a photo that was taken last week. He
Speaker 7: had just lost the match.
Speaker 4: He had his hands over his face and he had
Speaker 4: painted fingernails, And there were so many homophobic comments that
Speaker 4: I saw on that thread about that. It wasn't about
Speaker 4: the game, wasn't about how amazing he played. It was
Speaker 4: about the fact that he had his fingernails raised. It
Speaker 4: and there was a part of me that thought, Wow,
Speaker 4: how are we still having these conversations. Do you see
Speaker 4: the tide turning in society at the moment or are
Speaker 4: you hoping that this documentary is going to really help that.
Speaker 1: I hope the documentary helps that. I think the gay
Speaker 1: and lesbian movement is so far in front being educated
Speaker 1: for many years. Still though there's a hell of a
Speaker 1: lot of work to do.
Speaker 2: I agree.
Speaker 1: Now, all of a sudden, we have a young footballer
Speaker 1: that wants to pain his nails. Yeah, so what exactly
Speaker 1: he's on that ground because he has a talent at
Speaker 1: an elite sport. That messaging just in that picture says
Speaker 1: within the four walls of AFL football clubs, people can
Speaker 1: be themselves outside that. It's a societal issue that you know,
Speaker 1: the stuff that you're just talking about, stuff that I
Speaker 1: go through still every day. That's where we've got a
Speaker 1: lot of work.
Speaker 6: To Dannielustan documentary. I think it's so beautiful that you
Speaker 6: were able to reclaim your story, and I think that
Speaker 6: this is really going to reframe for people, especially for
Speaker 6: anybody who may have just skimmed over headlines in the
Speaker 6: news or seen something and made up a judgment. Yeah,
Speaker 6: and that's what we do, right, We see a headline,
Speaker 6: we make a snap judgment. And this is an opportunity
Speaker 6: for you to be able to really share your story
Speaker 6: in your way. And one of the things I think
Speaker 6: is so beautiful about your story is your relationship with Donna.
Speaker 6: How you've been in each other's lives throughout your whole life.
Speaker 6: It's incredible. And was there ever a time in your
Speaker 6: life where you were maybe surprised because you know, society
Speaker 6: tells you that you're not lovable when you're going through this,
Speaker 6: that somebody is going to stay there and love you
Speaker 6: regardless of who you are or how you present, because
Speaker 6: of the person that you are. Just think it, like,
Speaker 6: it's just such a beautiful part of your story.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And you know, I suppose the choice was to
Speaker 1: live and be my authentic self. I thought the ramifications
Speaker 1: of that decision rather than leaving this world in a sad,
Speaker 1: sorry state, I'll probably be by myself for the rest
Speaker 1: of my life. And so Donald and I had reconnected,
Speaker 1: but I still hadn't told her. Donald will openly say,
Speaker 1: why can't you just love another person? I'm forever ever
Speaker 1: grateful for that and the reality with our relationship, I
Speaker 1: can be myself. It's beautiful best version of myself, and
Speaker 1: so can Donna. Yeah, we have a lot of fun.
Speaker 1: We're basically inseparable. We do everything together. You know. We
Speaker 1: live between Melbourne and Perth, and we fly sort of
Speaker 1: every second week, every third week. And I'm grateful.
Speaker 5: Everyone. We're all on our team. This documentary is incredible.
Speaker 4: If you guys listening to this haven't seen it, please
Speaker 4: go and watch the stand documentary revealed Daniel Lately, Two Tribes.
Speaker 7: It's incredible. Thank you for giving us your time. You're amazing.
Speaker 1: Thank you. I'm very grateful to spend some time. Look
Speaker 1: forward to talking in the future.
Speaker 5: Thanks so much.
Speaker 2: All right, guys, we're back after this on the pick up.
Speaker 5: It's the pickup.
Speaker 2: Welcome back, Brett, Laura and Mitch here thanks to Chemists Warehouse,
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Speaker 5: Now, Mitch, would you consider yourself an adult?
Speaker 2: I don't know where this is going, but it's a
Speaker 2: retorical question. I'm twenty eight in two days, so I'd
Speaker 2: say I'm an adult.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 6: And would you consider Britt and I more adulty? Would
Speaker 6: you think that we are mature sophisticated women.
Speaker 2: Oh, we've had great, great, real high quality work done, but.
Speaker 7: You've had gray hair.
Speaker 5: I thought that's what you're you have a.
Speaker 2: Few now, no, you guys, Yeah, you guys are adults. Yeah,
Speaker 2: you are all right.
Speaker 6: Well, I mean I know that you think you're an adult,
Speaker 6: and sometimes I do mention to you how even though
Speaker 6: we are the best of friends, Yeah, sometimes I feel
Speaker 6: the age disparity.
Speaker 5: Usually it's when you bring TikTok trends to the show.
Speaker 6: That's when I'm like, oh, hold on, you are absolutely
Speaker 6: a decade younger than what we have.
Speaker 2: Well, Laura, there's a ten year age gap between you
Speaker 2: and me. Then Britt there's nine, I think.
Speaker 7: Four years between us.
Speaker 5: It's holding on top.
Speaker 2: How are we friends? It doesn't make sense, but on
Speaker 2: pay friends it's situational.
Speaker 6: Well, look, Mitch, for a long time, we've made the
Speaker 6: joke that maybe you're still a kid at heart. There's
Speaker 6: been a bit of research that's come out, and it
Speaker 6: turns out that maybe you're not a kid at heart.
Speaker 5: Maybe you're also a kid in your brain.
Speaker 2: What do you mean?
Speaker 6: So it turns out that people only turn into fully
Speaker 6: fledged adults when they hit their thirties, and so if
Speaker 6: you're listening to this in the car and you were
Speaker 6: in your twenties, you were still going through your adult maturing.
Speaker 5: You are not yet a fully fledged adult.
Speaker 4: Wow, it's pretty crazy because when you think about it,
Speaker 4: who said, been at an adult is eighteen? Like that's
Speaker 4: just society was like, let's just whip whip a numb
Speaker 4: around put on eighteen. But your brain is physically still developing.
Speaker 4: We've always thought that. I know, in the dating world
Speaker 4: in my twenties, every time I dated a guy, I
Speaker 4: was just like, he's just such a child. And it's
Speaker 4: because he was. Scientifically, but it makes a lot of
Speaker 4: sense with you, like Laura and.
Speaker 2: I Yeah, scientific legally not, but scientifically yes's with.
Speaker 6: You specifically, it makes a lot of sense. Apparently there's
Speaker 6: been these Miris studies that have been done now and
Speaker 6: they studied a whole group of people, two hundred ninety
Speaker 6: seven volunteers, and they've actually tracked the brain ways to
Speaker 6: show that people's brains in their twenties are still developing.
Speaker 6: They have not reached adulthood yet. So if you were
Speaker 6: making terrible decisions in your twenties, questionable ones.
Speaker 2: Hold on, hold on, is this just you? Guys? Is
Speaker 2: an intervention to say that we know why you're insane. No,
Speaker 2: because you're a kid.
Speaker 5: We don't think you're insane, Mitch. We just think you're
Speaker 5: a child. We've been teasing you about the fat that you.
Speaker 6: Went home and you're living with your parents, but more
Speaker 6: so the fact of who does your washing at the moment.
Speaker 2: Oh, this is an absolute setup.
Speaker 7: Mitch just answered the question.
Speaker 5: I mean, it's an important one if.
Speaker 2: You're I am an adult, I'm a fully grown a dot.
Speaker 2: I pay my taxes, I drive a car.
Speaker 5: Who does your registration for you?
Speaker 4: Though?
Speaker 5: On that car?
Speaker 2: Well? Dad, Dad's good with cars, so dad helps.
Speaker 5: You, and who does who actually does your taxes?
Speaker 2: I have a great tax account, and then my dad
Speaker 2: put me onto Actually, now that you bring in.
Speaker 5: Who cooks for you?
Speaker 2: Well, my mom meal press freezes me.
Speaker 7: Who does the grocery shopping for you?
Speaker 2: My mom does. But I leave at home with my
Speaker 2: mom and dad.
Speaker 7: So I think that's case.
Speaker 5: Dismissed with I feel like we're sadly okay, yeah, okay,
Speaker 5: But at what point?
Speaker 6: At what point do you have to then make the
Speaker 6: gigantic adult leap into being a fully fledged adult. Is
Speaker 6: it when you turn thirty or is there going to
Speaker 6: come a time where you say, no, Mom, no daddy,
Speaker 6: I'm not the big boy.
Speaker 5: And I can do it all on my happen Mitch's
Speaker 5: house at my house. Do you know what he did?
Speaker 7: This is such a childlike thing in an adult's house.
Speaker 7: He couldn't find the bin in the house.
Speaker 2: So do you know what I mean?
Speaker 5: Do you know what mitched in?
Speaker 7: Instead of either going to look for a bin or
Speaker 7: messaging me saying where's the bin, he.
Speaker 4: Just collected all the rubbish over the days and put
Speaker 4: them in a bag in the lounge room. And he
Speaker 4: lived in a trash pit in my lounge room, everything stinking,
Speaker 4: everything leaking out.
Speaker 5: Because he was like, and I.
Speaker 7: Said, why why did you talk me through this? Why
Speaker 7: did you do this? I just couldn't find a bin.
Speaker 7: And I was like, I can't even have I'm too
Speaker 7: adult to.
Speaker 2: Have this conversation. You didn't have fruit flies before, a.
Speaker 5: Maggots everywhere.
Speaker 2: The point of this, if you want to push hard
Speaker 2: that I'm a child, that's fine. That just means you're
Speaker 2: mature aged women. We are sorry.
Speaker 5: I mind being a mature age woman. I've got two kids.
Speaker 5: I bloody hopes.
Speaker 2: So that's really childish. Point proven, point proven, that was
Speaker 2: really spiked. Let's go guys, I've got a craze to
Speaker 2: be at and I got a kidding.
Speaker 5: You gotta go to your graduation.
Speaker 2: If you missed any of the show we had Daniel
Speaker 2: Lately on with us earlier Absolute Superstars year. She's got
Speaker 2: the new stand series out, Daniel Lady Two Tribes. You
Speaker 2: can podcast it on the iHeartRadio app. All right, we'll
Speaker 2: see tomorrow. We're gonna go.
Speaker 5: See you guys. That's it from moment.
Speaker 7: We're going to hand you over to the boys the missed,
Speaker 7: the legends, Will and Woody, Bye guys.
Speaker 1: See you guys.