1 00:00:10,669 --> 00:00:14,869 Speaker 1: My Heart podcasts, hear more kids podcasts, playlists, and listen 2 00:00:14,909 --> 00:00:16,268 Speaker 1: live on the Free I hard. 3 00:00:17,349 --> 00:00:19,029 Speaker 2: I've got a very special guest in the studio. 4 00:00:19,109 --> 00:00:22,909 Speaker 1: Woulds my beautiful wife than here? 5 00:00:23,109 --> 00:00:24,029 Speaker 3: I love the applause? 6 00:00:24,268 --> 00:00:26,309 Speaker 2: Who is someone ever? Appauses me when I walk Bay 7 00:00:26,829 --> 00:00:28,469 Speaker 2: every now and then we do at home? 8 00:00:28,749 --> 00:00:30,909 Speaker 3: Yeah, A couple of claps, a couple of claps for girls. 9 00:00:30,669 --> 00:00:32,509 Speaker 1: And I'll certainly be clapping you in the birth suite. 10 00:00:32,509 --> 00:00:34,269 Speaker 1: And that's what I want to talk about. So you're 11 00:00:34,269 --> 00:00:38,389 Speaker 1: thirty eight weeks pregnant, thirty eight thirty nine. We're keeping 12 00:00:38,388 --> 00:00:39,669 Speaker 1: it a bit vague because we don't want to have 13 00:00:39,709 --> 00:00:41,748 Speaker 1: any pressure on when the baby's actually coming, but you're 14 00:00:41,869 --> 00:00:43,749 Speaker 1: very pregnant in the drop zone. 15 00:00:43,828 --> 00:00:46,108 Speaker 2: I just initially, I just want to be selfish here. 16 00:00:46,229 --> 00:00:48,549 Speaker 1: Yeah, because there's been a lot of questions being asked 17 00:00:48,549 --> 00:00:51,388 Speaker 1: about how much of a support we think. 18 00:00:51,429 --> 00:00:53,669 Speaker 3: I'll be listening to the show. Yeah, I'm a fan. 19 00:00:53,989 --> 00:00:54,669 Speaker 2: Great good to hear. 20 00:00:54,709 --> 00:00:57,469 Speaker 4: Now you would have heard a prerequisite part of the 21 00:00:57,469 --> 00:00:59,669 Speaker 4: prenup must listen to my show. 22 00:01:00,629 --> 00:01:02,109 Speaker 3: We've talked about this openly. 23 00:01:02,188 --> 00:01:04,509 Speaker 1: Yeah, but you would have heard Will been very critical 24 00:01:04,629 --> 00:01:06,749 Speaker 1: of maybe how helpful I'm going to be in the 25 00:01:06,789 --> 00:01:07,348 Speaker 1: birth suite. 26 00:01:07,389 --> 00:01:10,429 Speaker 3: Well, I'd say from last time, probably probably didn't kill 27 00:01:10,429 --> 00:01:10,749 Speaker 3: a lot. 28 00:01:11,269 --> 00:01:12,669 Speaker 2: Well, okay, what I do? 29 00:01:13,029 --> 00:01:13,629 Speaker 3: I did lots? 30 00:01:13,949 --> 00:01:15,709 Speaker 1: Yeah, you did a lot. You will you will obviously 31 00:01:15,789 --> 00:01:17,389 Speaker 1: be doing more. Obviously it's on the competition. 32 00:01:17,749 --> 00:01:21,269 Speaker 2: But what did I do? What did I do badly 33 00:01:21,349 --> 00:01:21,789 Speaker 2: last time? 34 00:01:21,949 --> 00:01:24,509 Speaker 3: No? I think we were both under prepared. I mean, 35 00:01:24,509 --> 00:01:27,749 Speaker 3: you've got no idea what you're going in really doing 36 00:01:27,829 --> 00:01:29,669 Speaker 3: like you've just got no idea. So this time I 37 00:01:29,669 --> 00:01:32,389 Speaker 3: feel like we've got we've got some tools under our belt. 38 00:01:32,549 --> 00:01:33,829 Speaker 3: Got some tools. Ond O a beut and the and 39 00:01:33,869 --> 00:01:36,429 Speaker 3: the labor cards I think are a great idea. 40 00:01:36,909 --> 00:01:39,909 Speaker 1: I showed Wheel the labor cards. 41 00:01:39,949 --> 00:01:40,909 Speaker 2: What you think it was critical of? 42 00:01:41,309 --> 00:01:42,389 Speaker 3: Actually, probably don't want you to. 43 00:01:44,229 --> 00:01:47,829 Speaker 4: I thought the Q the wall, I thought it was brilliant. 44 00:01:47,869 --> 00:01:50,509 Speaker 2: My only so obviously last time what you. 45 00:01:50,469 --> 00:01:52,309 Speaker 4: Told me that you know, he printed out the birthplane 46 00:01:52,349 --> 00:01:54,909 Speaker 4: and laminated them much much. You got there and then 47 00:01:54,909 --> 00:01:56,509 Speaker 4: he was trying to hand them around and you were like, 48 00:01:56,869 --> 00:01:57,749 Speaker 4: just get rid of them. 49 00:01:57,749 --> 00:02:01,109 Speaker 3: But I was in deep. Everything was very fast, and 50 00:02:01,149 --> 00:02:02,029 Speaker 3: produce was needed. 51 00:02:02,069 --> 00:02:05,149 Speaker 4: You know, it's fine, it's fine, But I'm just saying, like, 52 00:02:05,549 --> 00:02:08,069 Speaker 4: so my question was I meant this earnestly. Yeah, because 53 00:02:08,228 --> 00:02:10,149 Speaker 4: I mean you and I birth know Woody intimately, and 54 00:02:10,149 --> 00:02:12,029 Speaker 4: he's like a dog with a bone, and so sometimes 55 00:02:12,269 --> 00:02:14,669 Speaker 4: you go no far, the best way to sort of 56 00:02:15,469 --> 00:02:17,709 Speaker 4: get rid of him is to distract him. So my 57 00:02:17,829 --> 00:02:20,829 Speaker 4: question was with it, like with is he is he 58 00:02:20,869 --> 00:02:23,429 Speaker 4: going to be blue tacking his cards on the wall? 59 00:02:23,429 --> 00:02:25,909 Speaker 2: Well, like, is that the idea? Just out of side, 60 00:02:25,909 --> 00:02:26,629 Speaker 2: out of mind sort of thing. 61 00:02:26,669 --> 00:02:29,509 Speaker 3: But I also think that with with that comes no 62 00:02:29,749 --> 00:02:32,869 Speaker 3: sort of just add lib sort of moments. So let 63 00:02:32,949 --> 00:02:36,509 Speaker 3: me why did I try this? I don't need to 64 00:02:36,509 --> 00:02:39,149 Speaker 3: put that apple there? Yeah, yeah, And I'm not saying where, 65 00:02:39,189 --> 00:02:40,429 Speaker 3: but I'm saying somewhere, you know. 66 00:02:40,509 --> 00:02:44,429 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you don't make any decisions for myself. 67 00:02:44,669 --> 00:02:47,029 Speaker 3: I would like to make the decisions for you and 68 00:02:47,149 --> 00:02:49,989 Speaker 3: have them given to you. And if you try, yeah, 69 00:02:49,989 --> 00:02:51,709 Speaker 3: I've got blue tag in there. I have put blue 70 00:02:51,749 --> 00:02:54,629 Speaker 3: tack in there so he can he can put them up, 71 00:02:54,869 --> 00:02:56,909 Speaker 3: he can put them on the last time he did your. 72 00:02:56,789 --> 00:02:58,629 Speaker 2: Birth cards up, mate, put your cards up. 73 00:02:58,829 --> 00:03:01,629 Speaker 3: Cards up. He's got one hundred and fifty copies printed, 74 00:03:01,669 --> 00:03:04,749 Speaker 3: So I'm not sure. I might go around to the 75 00:03:04,789 --> 00:03:09,589 Speaker 3: other birth Hey, girls, if you need any help, I'm here. No, 76 00:03:09,669 --> 00:03:12,909 Speaker 3: but I think I think that they will be great 77 00:03:12,909 --> 00:03:15,069 Speaker 3: tools unless it goes really quick again or even quicker. 78 00:03:15,069 --> 00:03:18,989 Speaker 3: I've heard of the second time round people going a 79 00:03:19,069 --> 00:03:23,508 Speaker 3: couple of car burths from a couple of my girlfriends recently. Yeah, yeah, 80 00:03:23,549 --> 00:03:25,709 Speaker 3: so that scares me a bit, would you in a 81 00:03:25,709 --> 00:03:27,388 Speaker 3: car birth sort of situation, Because. 82 00:03:28,589 --> 00:03:30,349 Speaker 4: You can still blue take your cards to the winds, 83 00:03:31,069 --> 00:03:31,629 Speaker 4: that's the case. 84 00:03:31,709 --> 00:03:35,189 Speaker 3: You can't sticky taped together. So I mean you're probably 85 00:03:35,229 --> 00:03:37,549 Speaker 3: just gonna be like, okay, babies outlets, sticky tape you up, 86 00:03:39,309 --> 00:03:40,069 Speaker 3: I don't need that. 87 00:03:40,749 --> 00:03:41,749 Speaker 2: Does figs everything? Yeah? 88 00:03:42,149 --> 00:03:45,269 Speaker 3: Carrillative to me, exactly, your favorite, my boy. 89 00:03:45,869 --> 00:03:47,469 Speaker 1: Okay, So the other part which I want to talk 90 00:03:47,469 --> 00:03:49,349 Speaker 1: to you about is I talked about the fact that 91 00:03:49,389 --> 00:03:51,189 Speaker 1: I was taking on some of your pregnancy symptoms. 92 00:03:51,269 --> 00:03:53,029 Speaker 3: Yeah, which we love. I'm sure a lot of other 93 00:03:53,069 --> 00:03:55,029 Speaker 3: pregnant women would have loved hearing that too. 94 00:03:55,149 --> 00:03:56,429 Speaker 1: Yeah, it might surprise you to hear a lot of 95 00:03:56,469 --> 00:03:58,429 Speaker 1: pregnant wmen but angry with that. Actually, I was actually 96 00:03:58,469 --> 00:03:59,869 Speaker 1: abused by comedian bron Lewis. 97 00:03:59,909 --> 00:04:02,669 Speaker 3: I did do that that secretly, just a tad. 98 00:04:02,389 --> 00:04:04,909 Speaker 2: This is bron Lewis just torturing me. 99 00:04:05,629 --> 00:04:09,389 Speaker 5: I was taking couldn't give you some comparisons. It's like 100 00:04:09,509 --> 00:04:12,669 Speaker 5: going to a daycare during the midst of the drop 101 00:04:12,669 --> 00:04:16,589 Speaker 5: off chaos and asking the one lady who's working a 102 00:04:16,709 --> 00:04:19,909 Speaker 5: bum off to come over and help you do a week. 103 00:04:19,988 --> 00:04:24,909 Speaker 5: It's like going after a woman suffering through the pregnancy 104 00:04:24,988 --> 00:04:28,789 Speaker 5: of a baby you put inside her. Her organs are 105 00:04:28,829 --> 00:04:32,429 Speaker 5: shifting and her brain keeps ruminating. On the YouTube clip 106 00:04:32,549 --> 00:04:36,069 Speaker 5: she's watched about third and four scree cares and saying 107 00:04:36,069 --> 00:04:44,029 Speaker 5: to her, I get it. I've got a sniffle, Okay. 108 00:04:43,789 --> 00:04:45,549 Speaker 1: So I just want to make it very clear you 109 00:04:45,549 --> 00:04:48,309 Speaker 1: were at home with me. Yes, that was that was 110 00:04:48,429 --> 00:04:49,269 Speaker 1: somewhat happening. 111 00:04:49,629 --> 00:04:53,229 Speaker 3: Yeah, no, But I think that I think that even 112 00:04:53,269 --> 00:04:56,789 Speaker 3: if these things do happen in this sort of situation, 113 00:04:56,988 --> 00:04:58,829 Speaker 3: you just don't bring it up. You just you just 114 00:04:59,029 --> 00:05:00,709 Speaker 3: bury it and you just go there and you're like, oh, 115 00:05:00,749 --> 00:05:02,509 Speaker 3: maybe I could. No, you just don't. 116 00:05:02,749 --> 00:05:04,189 Speaker 1: To be fair, I didn't bring it up with you 117 00:05:04,229 --> 00:05:05,949 Speaker 1: so much. Feels like when I come to the radio 118 00:05:05,988 --> 00:05:07,909 Speaker 1: show and talk about it, it's like I would talking 119 00:05:07,909 --> 00:05:10,149 Speaker 1: to my friends, bring this that with my wife. But 120 00:05:10,389 --> 00:05:12,269 Speaker 1: now that I've got you, will you do forget A 121 00:05:12,309 --> 00:05:13,068 Speaker 1: lot of people hear that. 122 00:05:13,149 --> 00:05:14,949 Speaker 4: Yeah, and then I mean you brought it on an 123 00:05:14,949 --> 00:05:18,269 Speaker 4: old gyne professionally, you know, to validate what you were saying, 124 00:05:18,349 --> 00:05:20,229 Speaker 4: and you know there was a lot of like male 125 00:05:20,709 --> 00:05:22,749 Speaker 4: male insertion into a female bit. 126 00:05:22,789 --> 00:05:26,229 Speaker 3: But anyway, I do think though, that you have become 127 00:05:26,589 --> 00:05:31,389 Speaker 3: more like I bet you as last time. You can 128 00:05:31,429 --> 00:05:33,309 Speaker 3: catch it on their socials. That's right. I just did 129 00:05:33,309 --> 00:05:36,748 Speaker 3: a plug you crying after the birth. You were so emotional. 130 00:05:36,869 --> 00:05:40,109 Speaker 3: I feel acteel like you did take that on as 131 00:05:40,229 --> 00:05:41,868 Speaker 3: like it. It was like you were breaking down. So I 132 00:05:41,949 --> 00:05:43,549 Speaker 3: kind of get it. I kind of get it as 133 00:05:43,629 --> 00:05:44,789 Speaker 3: much as I don't want to admit it. 134 00:05:44,949 --> 00:05:46,829 Speaker 2: Yeah, sure, I kind of get it. Okay, I'll take 135 00:05:46,909 --> 00:05:47,429 Speaker 2: kind of get it. 136 00:05:48,149 --> 00:05:50,789 Speaker 4: Can I ask a scared it? All? Um? 137 00:05:51,709 --> 00:05:54,029 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's weird. I'm kind of excited about it, though, 138 00:05:54,229 --> 00:05:56,789 Speaker 3: I'm scared of like because you've just got no idea 139 00:05:56,789 --> 00:06:00,308 Speaker 3: how it's going to go. Yeah, but I'm just hoping 140 00:06:00,349 --> 00:06:03,188 Speaker 3: it'll go similar to last time, and that like I 141 00:06:03,229 --> 00:06:07,269 Speaker 3: can go even harder and have my my teammate in 142 00:06:07,309 --> 00:06:10,149 Speaker 3: the room with me. We have talked about like encouraging 143 00:06:10,189 --> 00:06:14,628 Speaker 3: words and positive feedback. So he's like he's got more 144 00:06:14,669 --> 00:06:16,709 Speaker 3: of a coach role now, and. 145 00:06:16,669 --> 00:06:19,709 Speaker 2: I think we've got more of a goal in mind. Yes, 146 00:06:21,109 --> 00:06:22,789 Speaker 2: we want as we know. 147 00:06:23,269 --> 00:06:25,389 Speaker 3: Who knows once you get in there what's going to happen. 148 00:06:25,429 --> 00:06:27,829 Speaker 4: Of course, there's so many women that I know that 149 00:06:28,309 --> 00:06:29,508 Speaker 4: having babies or had babies. 150 00:06:29,749 --> 00:06:30,949 Speaker 2: It's raining babies right now. 151 00:06:31,149 --> 00:06:34,229 Speaker 4: You're on the precipice of like you know what witnessed, 152 00:06:34,309 --> 00:06:36,229 Speaker 4: And it's just like that's the most hectic thing I've 153 00:06:36,269 --> 00:06:37,589 Speaker 4: ever been in and around. 154 00:06:37,709 --> 00:06:39,029 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I never kind of asked. 155 00:06:40,109 --> 00:06:42,909 Speaker 3: It's always like want to talk about it. 156 00:06:42,629 --> 00:06:45,069 Speaker 4: Because maybe you are shitting yourself and it's just best 157 00:06:45,149 --> 00:06:45,909 Speaker 4: not spoken about. 158 00:06:45,949 --> 00:06:47,949 Speaker 3: Funny though, and like I've spoken to this. All of 159 00:06:47,949 --> 00:06:50,749 Speaker 3: a sudden, once you have a child, have like this 160 00:06:51,549 --> 00:06:54,509 Speaker 3: new friendship group of women that have like had babies 161 00:06:54,549 --> 00:06:56,989 Speaker 3: and everything and gone through it, and you almost feel 162 00:06:56,988 --> 00:07:00,029 Speaker 3: like you've got more power, like and you're like, you know, 163 00:07:00,109 --> 00:07:03,029 Speaker 3: oh man, that's sweet, that's sweet. You guys go through life. 164 00:07:03,389 --> 00:07:06,509 Speaker 3: You'd have your ups and downs too, but like, god, yeah, 165 00:07:06,589 --> 00:07:07,989 Speaker 3: do so much. 166 00:07:08,029 --> 00:07:09,589 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, And like I'm like. 167 00:07:09,669 --> 00:07:12,029 Speaker 3: Building limbs, like fattening something up in my stomach and 168 00:07:12,069 --> 00:07:13,589 Speaker 3: I'm just talking to you. Yeah. Yeah. 169 00:07:13,789 --> 00:07:21,389 Speaker 2: At the same time, multit better than you, so. 170 00:07:23,949 --> 00:07:25,469 Speaker 4: You are scared of the procedure, but then at the 171 00:07:25,509 --> 00:07:26,629 Speaker 4: same time, Yeah. 172 00:07:27,349 --> 00:07:28,069 Speaker 2: It's empowering. 173 00:07:28,109 --> 00:07:31,149 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's exactly right, it's empowering. I think there's this 174 00:07:31,309 --> 00:07:33,349 Speaker 3: huge thing that like, if you go into it looking 175 00:07:33,389 --> 00:07:36,549 Speaker 3: like that, you're like, I am literally an amazing human. Yeah. 176 00:07:36,789 --> 00:07:38,789 Speaker 2: That's one of my cue cuts is you're powerful and 177 00:07:38,829 --> 00:07:39,469 Speaker 2: really pretty. 178 00:07:39,869 --> 00:07:46,229 Speaker 3: Yeah. I mean you wrote them, didn't you. I love 179 00:07:46,309 --> 00:07:48,629 Speaker 3: the one that just says like, make sure the space 180 00:07:48,709 --> 00:07:51,149 Speaker 3: is quiet and just has like a picture of the words. 181 00:07:52,109 --> 00:07:54,349 Speaker 2: Except you spilt make sure the place is quite. 182 00:07:54,509 --> 00:07:55,869 Speaker 3: Oh that's right, Yeah I can't. 183 00:07:59,149 --> 00:08:01,229 Speaker 1: I love you very much. We're going to be in 184 00:08:01,269 --> 00:08:02,869 Speaker 1: there very very soon. It's very very exciting. 185 00:08:02,909 --> 00:08:03,429 Speaker 3: Yah, it is. 186 00:08:03,709 --> 00:08:05,069 Speaker 4: How's Remy feeling about it? 187 00:08:05,309 --> 00:08:06,869 Speaker 3: Yeah, she's telling you, Rother that she's going to be 188 00:08:06,869 --> 00:08:08,989 Speaker 3: a big sister, and I've got a baby in my bally, 189 00:08:09,029 --> 00:08:10,949 Speaker 3: which I think by now it's a little bit of it. 190 00:08:11,189 --> 00:08:11,869 Speaker 3: So you'll get. 191 00:08:13,229 --> 00:08:15,749 Speaker 4: So you get palmed off immediately, like, yeah. 192 00:08:15,589 --> 00:08:17,669 Speaker 3: We'll get rid of her and we'll just have the 193 00:08:17,709 --> 00:08:21,709 Speaker 3: new one. I guess she got to mom and dads 194 00:08:21,829 --> 00:08:25,029 Speaker 3: and then yeah, what you'll probably leave and go and 195 00:08:25,069 --> 00:08:27,949 Speaker 3: get it. Yeah, that'll be that's got to be the 196 00:08:28,429 --> 00:08:29,509 Speaker 3: that's so exciting to. 197 00:08:29,509 --> 00:08:30,549 Speaker 2: Be the most exciting thing. 198 00:08:30,509 --> 00:08:36,069 Speaker 3: Right, Oh yeah, I mean the only awkward situation, yeah, 199 00:08:36,309 --> 00:08:39,189 Speaker 3: is that she's adamant that it's a girl and the 200 00:08:39,228 --> 00:08:41,668 Speaker 3: girl's name is Sophia, which is just going to be 201 00:08:41,748 --> 00:08:43,388 Speaker 3: awkward if it's if it's not a boy, and the 202 00:08:43,388 --> 00:08:45,549 Speaker 3: fact that the name isn't so Fia, so. 203 00:08:47,348 --> 00:08:52,189 Speaker 4: To remy it will always be all right, all right, luck, 204 00:08:52,429 --> 00:08:53,628 Speaker 4: thank you, thank you. 205 00:08:53,708 --> 00:08:54,029 Speaker 3: Boys. 206 00:08:54,189 --> 00:08:54,828 Speaker 2: Get out of here. 207 00:08:55,069 --> 00:08:56,789 Speaker 4: Do you need a forklift or something? 208 00:08:57,309 --> 00:08:57,748 Speaker 3: Roll me out.