WEBVTT - Could This Be The Pettiest Fight Ever? 🤬 💑

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<v Speaker 1>The Flex and Rooms Daily podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Now McDonald's to say, now, Flex, Now, Flex, I want

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<v Speaker 2>to give you a relationship advice dilemma that's been sent in.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm ready to hear it.

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<v Speaker 1>It is by sent in by a man about his

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<v Speaker 1>girlfriend and McDonald's. I'm just gonna launch right into it.

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<v Speaker 2>Please.

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<v Speaker 1>My girlfriend asked me to pick up McDonald's tonight. I

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<v Speaker 1>ordered everything correctly, but they forgot to give us sweet

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<v Speaker 1>and sour sauce for chicken nuggets. Anyways, that's a rare thing.

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<v Speaker 3>I fee like they're always giving too much sweet and

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<v Speaker 3>sour sauce. But I digress.

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't grow up in the early two thousands. Going

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<v Speaker 1>to Berwin McDonald's in Melbourne. Anyways. I get home, she

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<v Speaker 1>opens the bag and goes through everything and finds out

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<v Speaker 1>there's no sweetened soeur sauce for her chicken nuggets. She

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<v Speaker 1>flies off the handle and tells me that I'm always

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<v Speaker 1>screwing things up and how much I'm such a dumb

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<v Speaker 1>ass and a total piece of and that I shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>then that I should have checked the bag. This petty

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<v Speaker 1>argument goes on for another fifteen minutes and evolves into

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<v Speaker 1>her now denying me my food because she didn't get.

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<v Speaker 3>Petty argument for real argument. I'm scared.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm at my breaking point with her, and I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like one day I'm just gonna lose my shit because

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<v Speaker 1>she's been verbally and emotionally abusive towards me for months,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't know how much longer I can take

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<v Speaker 1>it too long. Don't read GF didn't get her dipping sources,

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<v Speaker 1>blame me for it, called me as many names as

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<v Speaker 1>she could, and then tried to deny me food.

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<v Speaker 3>I hate, no, I don't hate to be that person.

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<v Speaker 3>We have to normalize breaking up with people number one,

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<v Speaker 3>and we also to normalize bailing when things get too hard.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's bring that energy into twenty twenty three. Too many

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<v Speaker 3>of you are in struggle dynamics, struggle situations. Relieve yourselves.

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<v Speaker 3>I know there's nothing worse than ordering food from McDonald's, KFC,

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<v Speaker 3>Hungry Jack's, a Porto Nandos and having it be incorrect.

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<v Speaker 3>But if someone's gone on an errand for you expect

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<v Speaker 3>a twenty percent margin of error, it's gonna happen. Something's

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<v Speaker 3>gonna go wrong. If you want it done right, you

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<v Speaker 3>have to do it yourself. You send it someone on

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<v Speaker 3>an errand just be grateful that they've got the food

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<v Speaker 3>back to you on time. I'm always super like, weirded out,

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<v Speaker 3>super spooked by people in verbally and physically abusive relationships

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<v Speaker 3>because young people especially, we've been learning, we've been we've

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<v Speaker 3>been talking on the sidelines about how we do relationships

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<v Speaker 3>better and how we're more progressive and more able to

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<v Speaker 3>yaddy addy, yadyaddy dadda, And now this it has to stop.

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<v Speaker 3>Cut her loose, still her sources.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope that for his sake, he actually did get

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<v Speaker 1>the sources, but just hoarded them so that he has

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<v Speaker 1>a way to break up with that abusive person. Abuse

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<v Speaker 1>is never okay. Verbal abuse is just as bad as

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<v Speaker 1>any other time.

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<v Speaker 3>Situation does not call for it. It's a bit of sauce. Yes,

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<v Speaker 3>the meal would be better with it, But is it

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<v Speaker 3>worth like traumatizing someone?

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<v Speaker 1>Actually, now that I think about it, eating chickennugts without

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<v Speaker 1>any kind of sauce is.

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<v Speaker 3>A great experience.

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<v Speaker 1>It's horrible. Oh, actually, like I just probably throw it out,

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<v Speaker 1>so I probably am more in her camp. I think

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<v Speaker 1>I am prone to get violent.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, let's bring back brawls. In twenty twenty three. No,

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<v Speaker 3>let's keep that inside take it out. So we did say, okay, wait, wait, wait,

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<v Speaker 3>so Frumi is motioning for Brook to take out what

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<v Speaker 3>she's just said. However, no less than a couple hours ago,

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<v Speaker 3>Frumi made her radio news resolutions, in which she said

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<v Speaker 3>that she would stop taking things back after she said so,

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<v Speaker 3>but also gave herself five opportunities this year to take

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<v Speaker 3>something back. Would you like to use one of them?

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<v Speaker 1>Look, I won't, but I just want to prefer saying

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<v Speaker 1>I was saying that completely as a joke, and I

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<v Speaker 1>would never you are a comedian, true. I mean, as

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<v Speaker 1>we know, sometimes sometimes things don't land, so we'll keep

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<v Speaker 1>it in in the spirit of learning.

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