Speaker 1: The Flex and Rooms Daily podcast.
Speaker 2: If you've been looking for fun, new, fresh, creative ways
Speaker 2: to break up with someone, I have answers for you.
Speaker 2: Have these been tried and tested by myself?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 2: Not entirely, but if someone with a track record of
Speaker 2: breaking up I should be keeping my How do you
Speaker 2: say repertoire.
Speaker 1: Up to date?
Speaker 4: I think you're giving yourself juju to be broken up with.
Speaker 4: Everyone should be broken up with, but you've never been. No, Oh,
Speaker 4: you're missing out?
Speaker 1: Yeah, saying the depth.
Speaker 4: Of emotion unmatched.
Speaker 2: Everyone should experience the highs and lows of all romance
Speaker 2: and love for the full depth of the human experience.
Speaker 4: Wow, are you the same person that says you don't
Speaker 4: feel true lov until we have a baby?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 4: Okay, good?
Speaker 1: Did you feel that for me?
Speaker 4: Yeah? Ugh?
Speaker 1: Any listen to this.
Speaker 5: I once stated someone who, instead of breaking up with me,
Speaker 5: was like, let's not talk for six weeks and see
Speaker 5: if we miss each other. And I was like, okay, sure.
Speaker 5: And then at the end of six weeks we met
Speaker 5: up and I was like, I missed you, and they
Speaker 5: were like I didn't break up. Still on and I
Speaker 5: wish I could say that I was young and stupid
Speaker 5: but I was thirty one.
Speaker 1: Can I read out some of the comments? Would that
Speaker 1: be appropriate?
Speaker 4: Please?
Speaker 1: Grape thirty one is practically a baby. You were innocent,
Speaker 1: thank you. Honestly, when they need space, it's over agree
Speaker 1: or disagree pretty much. Agree.
Speaker 2: Yeah this is wrong. But I understand this person because
Speaker 2: sometimes I need time to process.
Speaker 1: But six weeks is way too long.
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is legit a thing that a therapist recommended
Speaker 2: me doing. Sometimes you don't really want to break up,
Speaker 2: but just needs space.
Speaker 1: It's not manipulative.
Speaker 4: What do you think six weeks of space is? You know,
Speaker 4: I love doing my numbers. Oh yeah, that's like one,
Speaker 4: it's like eleven. Whatever. It's a long time of the year. Hang,
Speaker 4: it's longer than a month. Ye, not as long as
Speaker 4: two months exactly. A baby groes from here to hear time,
Speaker 4: you know what I mean? Yeah, I agree that if
Speaker 4: someone is asking for space, it's usually like seventy percent
Speaker 4: on the way to the breakup. But I do think
Speaker 4: sometimes you need space to know what you're missing. We
Speaker 4: know over it, we know people who've broken up slept
Speaker 4: with other people then realize, wait, the grass wasn't greener.
Speaker 2: What if you're just having like a hard time at work,
Speaker 2: like you're waking. Our life is getting a bit too hectic.
Speaker 2: You're like, I'm just frazzled.
Speaker 1: I just need a couple of weeks.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but a couple weeks, it di just six weeks.
Speaker 1: Okay, Fine.
Speaker 2: Look, all I'm saying is everyone advocates for open communication, honest, raw, real,
Speaker 2: and then we're getting it and it's not hitting well.
Speaker 2: So let's bring back dishonest, passive, ambiguous.
Speaker 4: Authenticity inside yeah, yea, yeah, yeah, inside your body.
Speaker 1: Let's live life like it's a movie.
Speaker 4: I want to live. We're dancing.
Speaker 2: The reason why I say that something about that is
Speaker 2: striking a chord with me, like I feel like I resonate.
Speaker 1: With that is because, as someone who.
Speaker 2: Is mostly an over communicator, mostly I'm trying to like
Speaker 2: overcorrect and not communicate, just like for my mental health.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 4: Fester, just fester, I know.
Speaker 1: But for someone who.
Speaker 2: Has like tried really hard to like be really articulate
Speaker 2: and find all the right words and like say the
Speaker 2: right thing to make somebody understand, it gets to a
Speaker 2: point where you're like, I don't have any more words,
Speaker 2: and I've definitely taken the role of like over communicator
Speaker 2: and like leader in the dynamics, Like you know some relationships,
Speaker 2: like somebody is like leading and somebody is following. All
Speaker 2: in Bunny Rabbits, by the way, but it just often
Speaker 2: feels like someone is almost like directing or like steering
Speaker 2: the direction of this ship. And I felt like in
Speaker 2: one rekup, I just wanted to like, let's share this role.
Speaker 2: You know, I'm having to do with my stuff, your stuff,
Speaker 2: the relationship stuff, like I'm waiting on you. And so
Speaker 2: there was a situation where I'm like, if you don't
Speaker 2: come with a solution, I'm not participating, you know what
Speaker 2: I mean, Like I'm waiting on you. So until you
Speaker 2: come with a solution to this issue we've been having,
Speaker 2: like I'm not gonna do I can't do the day
Speaker 2: to day because like I'm not over this thing and
Speaker 2: you want me to fix it and it's not even
Speaker 2: my shit, do you know what I'm saying. So at
Speaker 2: that point I was like, until you can come and
Speaker 2: be an active participant that I'm not playing house with you,
Speaker 2: Like go to your own space, do your own shit,
Speaker 2: and then we'll reconvene.
Speaker 4: It took two weeks and then.
Speaker 1: Oh, then I broke up with them.
Speaker 2: Okay, so the TikTok comments don't lie. It's true, But
Speaker 2: I feel like not that you should jump for the
Speaker 2: gun and assume that every time someone needs space means
Speaker 2: it you're gonna break up. But I think it's really
Speaker 2: interesting to look at how adults cry for help and
Speaker 2: how sometimes you can be really dismissive of the way
Speaker 2: someone's like just begging for acknowledgment, begging for you you
Speaker 2: to just like swoop in and save them. And if
Speaker 2: you miss the opportunity once, it's really hard to humble
Speaker 2: yourself twice.
Speaker 4: It is hard. I hate to humble myself. Yeah, and
Speaker 4: sometimes it's easy to quit, quit the relationship. Yeah, you
Speaker 4: don't want to live with the gret slough. I'll like
Speaker 4: to just crank it until it's over.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And it is true that you know, you know
Speaker 2: how like they're a friends who are.
Speaker 1: Going through perpetual relationship issues. We like babes.
Speaker 2: I've heard this too many times in too many ways,
Speaker 2: and I heard this bit of advice. I don't know
Speaker 2: what you call it, but you can't tell someone to
Speaker 2: do anything when they're not done. And everybody knows when
Speaker 2: you've hit your own personal like level of being done.
Speaker 2: That's how I feel in these like break up break situations.
Speaker 2: You're not done yet, and so you're trying to reconcile
Speaker 2: with yourself, like I give myself two weeks, three weeks,
Speaker 2: four weeks, then I'll know. And sometimes you never figure
Speaker 2: it out. You have to jump the gun and just
Speaker 2: break up because you're like, I don't know, and it's
Speaker 2: not fair to drag someone along with you, right breaking up.
Speaker 4: We talk about this stuff in such like conceptual terms,
Speaker 4: but I just had this feeling of like, actually breaking
Speaker 4: up with someone is so awful for life, terrifying. It's
Speaker 4: like losing someone that you're with all the time. It's
Speaker 4: so horrible. But because it's like dating, we add this
Speaker 4: kind of like fun element to it and there's like
Speaker 4: a lot of discourse around it. It's actually horrible. It's
Speaker 4: a horrible lifestrepping thing. I mean, anyone who's gone through
Speaker 4: a breakup right now will say, but it's been a
Speaker 4: while for me, and yeah, sorry for you're going through that.
Speaker 2: And you know, like we all know how terrifying is
Speaker 2: because how many of us are refusing to do friend breakups.
Speaker 1: Letting them linger. It's about to be twenty forty five.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying anything.
Speaker 4: I think it's better to let them linger. Yeah, let
Speaker 4: them slow fade. Oh it's also ugly.
Speaker 1: It's also ugly, but also like, it takes a lot
Speaker 1: of sensitivity to let.
Speaker 4: Slow fad.
Speaker 2: Because if you really put you put your booty into it.
Speaker 2: You can be harsh, you can be callous, you can
Speaker 2: be cruel, but.
Speaker 4: People will always remember it. Sometimes you got to think about, like,
Speaker 4: how is this what's more important to me? Being right
Speaker 4: or being.
Speaker 1: Like consider it?
Speaker 4: Yeah, or like every ruining someone's self confidence. Friendship breakups
Speaker 4: hit different for me.
Speaker 1: I mean they all hit terribly. Pick one. Which one
Speaker 1: would you prefer?
Speaker 4: I prefer a relationship breakup? Thet a friend breakup?
Speaker 1: How close to a friend?
Speaker 4: Speak to me? You speak to me another day.
Speaker 1: Don't say these.
Speaker 2: Things anyway, Let's not I mean no, I stand by
Speaker 2: what I said before.
Speaker 1: I really am excited. But I told you in my
Speaker 1: poetry era, my.
Speaker 2: Didn't we have this conversation? No far anyway, my poetry poetry?
Speaker 4: Poet?
Speaker 1: How you say it poetry? Why is there a W
Speaker 1: when I say that poetry?
Speaker 4: It's like if you say fork so many times as
Speaker 4: starts making sense, you say the word fork. No fork,
Speaker 4: poetry poetry, he said, poetry, poetry.
Speaker 1: That one's good.
Speaker 4: No, Brook said poetry. Becky poetry, poetry, poetry, poetry.
Speaker 1: I hear a w How good?
Speaker 4: Am I like listening to accents and doing them again?
Speaker 4: Say something and I'll do it poetry poetry? Was that good?
Speaker 1: Actor?
Speaker 4: Anyway, Guys, I'm writing a screenplay. So if someone works
Speaker 4: at Warner Bros.
Speaker 2: Like oh, okay, so in my poetry era, because I'm
Speaker 2: having beef with communication broadly, I'm just getting really bored
Speaker 2: of like us or having to speak the same language
Speaker 2: and not understand each other.
Speaker 1: It's again, it's grating me.
Speaker 2: Even I keep having conversations where I'm like, I'm using
Speaker 2: all the words and you're not understanding, so let's stop talking.
Speaker 1: Just stop talking to me, please.
Speaker 2: But then I was like, poetry is so special because
Speaker 2: it takes these really basic concepts right and then puts
Speaker 2: you get all these flowery words and then you make
Speaker 2: it sound like so complex.
Speaker 1: I'm like, this is crazy.
Speaker 2: I think that's bad poetry. Actually, no, don't say bad poetry.
Speaker 2: Good poetry just is. But anyway, we'll talk more about
Speaker 2: it later because it's changing my life.
Speaker 4: Flex ands flex and frimes cater never miss a beat.
Speaker 4: I want to know, flex y, do you have a will?
Speaker 1: I don't.
Speaker 4: Are you thinking of getting one?
Speaker 1: Yeah? For sure? But I don't want to keep updating
Speaker 1: it between now now and when?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Who?
Speaker 4: What do you mean by that?
Speaker 2: I don't want to be taken out anytime soon? So
Speaker 2: maybe preparing the wills preparing for the worst. But I
Speaker 2: guess like even six year olds.
Speaker 1: Would say that.
Speaker 4: So I don't know, And that's life. That is part life.
Speaker 4: It is unfortunately unfortunately. So you haven't worked out your will.
Speaker 4: I haven't done mind, but I don't really have any
Speaker 4: like concrete assets that need to be.
Speaker 1: What do you want to pass down?
Speaker 4: It cannot go my hair dryer. If I only had
Speaker 4: a dicent air RUP.
Speaker 1: Might be listening.
Speaker 4: I had.
Speaker 1: It's a good thing to think about.
Speaker 4: Why I have been thinking about digital legacy. So one
Speaker 4: thing that you can pass down is the access to
Speaker 4: your digital accounts.
Speaker 1: Keep my dms away from Yes, you haven't thought of now,
Speaker 1: I haven't.
Speaker 4: Well, Meta have done it so on Facebook I did
Speaker 4: this easier. I set up years ago where you can
Speaker 4: add a person to take over your Facebook when you die.
Speaker 4: So I've put my friend Madison on there so in.
Speaker 1: The awful event event untimely.
Speaker 4: Death, eventuality, she can always take over the account, and
Speaker 4: says in memoriam loosened Price.
Speaker 1: It's a very.
Speaker 2: Thoughtful thing to do, because I can imagine, generally speaking,
Speaker 2: it would be quite difficult to get access to any
Speaker 2: of that stuff. I mean, it's hard enough to get
Speaker 2: into your own accounts when you're alive and you have
Speaker 2: all the information, literally, all the emails, all the passwords,
Speaker 2: and it's still like two factor authentications like not correct today.
Speaker 1: It is an interesting thing to think about because last
Speaker 1: week I.
Speaker 2: Spoke about the fact that all this digital stuff, your
Speaker 2: photos and your docs and your passwords are saved in
Speaker 2: the cloud. But the cloud is still a physical space,
Speaker 2: like a place with servers that need electricity to pump it.
Speaker 2: So you know, it's bad for the environment. And so
Speaker 2: when all these people start dying piling up over the
Speaker 2: next couple decades, we're still storing that data. We're still
Speaker 2: holding onto them because no one prepares to die, well
Speaker 2: not no one, but the majority of us don't prepare
Speaker 2: to die, and so we're not like getting recycling that
Speaker 2: information or getting rid of it in an environmentally friendly way.
Speaker 4: Yeah, what is going to happen with that?
Speaker 1: We should figure that out.
Speaker 4: Yeah, can we get a cloud expert on the Showbrook,
Speaker 4: We're gonna get a cloud expert, not serious.
Speaker 2: Clouds, cloud recyclers, because the same way we're running out
Speaker 2: of the same way most like Western places have run
Speaker 2: out of space for burial plots and graves, and so
Speaker 2: you know that's why cremation heaps popular. It's gonna happen
Speaker 2: with storing a physical storing your like digital storage or
Speaker 2: maybe just get really expensive. It's going to cost you
Speaker 2: like hundreds of dollars to store your stuff in the cloud,
Speaker 2: I hope.
Speaker 4: So then we get some impetus to try and clean
Speaker 4: out the cobwebs.
Speaker 1: So only then will you start trying this recycle.
Speaker 4: Yeah, recycling only goes run way flex and frooms. They're
Speaker 4: the best.
Speaker 1: I will say that we are here to change your life.
Speaker 1: Usually it's with.
Speaker 2: Nonsensical half jokes and am I the assholes? Maybe some
Speaker 2: dating dilemmas, But here we are taking a page out
Speaker 2: of the Instagram therapist's book and we're saying, yeah, maybe
Speaker 2: it does help to drink water.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 4: Maybe you shouldn't eat a twigs right before you have
Speaker 4: to go on air for two hours.
Speaker 2: Maybe you know, maybe you should sleep and wake up,
Speaker 2: you know, as the sun wakes up too.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 2: But one thing that has been hitting is journaling. I
Speaker 2: know you're thinking, I'm over at babes. I don't want
Speaker 2: a journal I don't want to do affirmations neither. I
Speaker 2: don't either, And to that, I say, why don't we
Speaker 2: try things more than once to determine if we do
Speaker 2: or don't like not into it.
Speaker 4: It's like writing an essay and then having to look
Speaker 4: at it again. Ye, but you don't have to look
Speaker 4: at it. It's just to get the thoughts out on paper.
Speaker 4: But I did come across a video on Zuckerberg's Internet
Speaker 4: that was actually quite helpful, And I think I won't
Speaker 4: be doing it personally because I've mastered traditional journaling before
Speaker 4: you little freaks and novices who'd like some additional help.
Speaker 4: This is an activity that you know might be a
Speaker 4: winner for you. Oh, I'm excited play it.
Speaker 6: Detail introducing my brand new idea, the Piggybank Method, journaling
Speaker 6: without a journal, because that's scary. Comparison kills creativity, and
Speaker 6: if you have you in order, that might be stopping
Speaker 6: you from feeling like you can make mistakes. Instead, go
Speaker 6: to Goodwill and get a piggybank, keep it in your room,
Speaker 6: and instead of putting money in it, put journal entries
Speaker 6: in it. No matter where in the world you are,
Speaker 6: if you have the urge to journal, grab a piece
Speaker 6: of paper nearby, a pencil and start writing and put
Speaker 6: the little date at the top. Put it in a
Speaker 6: safe space until you come back to your piggy bank
Speaker 6: and you can put all your journal entries in there.
Speaker 6: Once you fill up this piggy bank, smash it, buy
Speaker 6: a real journal. Since you put all the dates in
Speaker 6: the corner, you can tape all in order, or you
Speaker 6: can just shrut them. I don't know. Remember, journaling is
Speaker 6: an activity, not a result.
Speaker 1: What come on? Now, that's sick. That's creative, It's very creative.
Speaker 1: That's why are you frowning?
Speaker 4: I just like just the thought of then having to
Speaker 4: seefe through it, Like writing a journal is already a
Speaker 4: pain in the s then having to smash it. You know,
Speaker 4: it's more money, but what is the.
Speaker 1: Pain about it?
Speaker 4: The pain about it is. I recently started in the
Speaker 4: notes app.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, so.
Speaker 4: That's easy because I've been doing about my dreams. So
Speaker 4: I wake up. As soon as I wake up, I
Speaker 4: ride all the dreams down. It gets the brain working
Speaker 4: having loose pieces of paper. I just what if? Okay,
Speaker 4: what if a thief comes to your house?
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Speaker 1: You're listening to Flex and Frooms.
Speaker 4: What the frick? On February three, we are doing a
Speaker 4: live show recording. Thanks to Specsavors. It's called Always Sonny.
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Speaker 2: Okay, a luxury vessel it's called the Eyelight. To say,
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Speaker 4: we are giving some people VIP tickets. That is them
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Speaker 6: Honestly?
Speaker 3: You know caller ID?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Usually my mom, So like, hello, okay, that's good to know.
Speaker 3: I didn't mean to sound rude. I was just like hello, No,
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Speaker 4: I do the same thing, don't you worry. So you
Speaker 4: are a registered nurse and you work with anethetists, like
Speaker 4: in the anethetizing place. Is that right?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Yeah, pretty much.
Speaker 4: I don't know. Like I've personally been under anesthesia a
Speaker 4: few times in my life, and I always am scared
Speaker 4: when I come to because I've been known in the
Speaker 4: past to like say things and not realize what I'm saying.
Speaker 4: Are you with people after they come out of anesthesia?
Speaker 3: Oh yeah yeah, from start to finish. Oh my god,
Speaker 3: we send them off to recovery.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 4: So what do they say when they come out of it?
Speaker 4: Anything funny?
Speaker 3: It's nothing. They don' actually don't say much because they're
Speaker 3: that doped up. It's more like how they react. It's
Speaker 3: more like the young ones mostly that they tend to
Speaker 3: fight fight you. So a couple of young guys have
Speaker 3: thrown punches here and there, but it's it's like it's
Speaker 3: very common though. It's so common, and like with like
Speaker 3: young teenage boys after an anesthetic. It's interesting though.
Speaker 1: This is a good insight. Yeah.
Speaker 3: Otherwise, the job's pretty chill. We literally just knock you
Speaker 3: guys out and then we just hang around until the
Speaker 3: surgery is done and then wake you up.
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Speaker 1: Yes?
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Speaker 4: yes or no, if it'll work. Number one, look your best.
Speaker 2: Absolutely, let's bring back superficiality because a few you've gotten
Speaker 2: too comfortable with just being your cells where you came out,
Speaker 2: and it.
Speaker 1: Hasn't worked for that reason.
Speaker 4: F instance, peaking something like a concert T shirt and jeans,
Speaker 4: a button up shirt and car keys, or leather and denim.
Speaker 4: If you're more effeminate, you might pick parcels or floral prints.
Speaker 4: Who's writing this practice good hygiene, yes, but I will
Speaker 4: say some people like the smell of pheromones.
Speaker 2: Having pheromones doesn't mean you're not don't have a good hygiene.
Speaker 2: I will say last year twenty two, I did make
Speaker 2: the pledge to stop arguing people about hygiene on the internet.
Speaker 2: So I feel like I can't weigh in.
Speaker 4: On this rip to the shared toothbrush. Yeah, never forget.
Speaker 4: Never do fund activities or a hobby so seem interesting.
Speaker 4: There's a picture of a man with a guitar. I'm
Speaker 4: gonna say it's giving. No, what are your hobbies personal?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Rollerblating? Do you want?
Speaker 1: I mean, how did you listen to quiver?
Speaker 4: I think I was thinking to snarl.
Speaker 1: Do you want to meet someone who also rollerblade?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: While you're rollerlady?
Speaker 4: Oh, I could, okay, men on rollerblades. It's great for
Speaker 4: his own activity, be comfortable being alone, se appear confident.
Speaker 4: I just agree to peer. That's all that matters. Ask
Speaker 4: your friends to introduce the girls I know dating within
Speaker 4: the friendship circle. Yes or no?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm back on it. Joe was off it briefly.
Speaker 1: I'm back on it.
Speaker 4: Join clubs or teams to meet girls at school. Let's
Speaker 4: take school out of it. I are briefly joined PCYC
Speaker 4: doing dodgeball. Oh, and I will say it's a hostyle environment,
Speaker 4: not conducive to dating. Stay away at tend events to
Speaker 4: meet more girls again.
Speaker 1: Get near it, get outside, getting near it. Absolutely, it's
Speaker 1: quite good.
Speaker 4: Get near it. Springs summer season twenty twenty. Still in it.
Speaker 4: Offer to help a girl with something that's a contentious one.
Speaker 2: This is a big one because I feel like everybody
Speaker 2: loves a helpful person. Make yourself an accessible pick up
Speaker 2: something for me.
Speaker 4: I guys did let us through the door earlier and push.
Speaker 1: It for us, so helpful, romantic, so hard.
Speaker 4: He didn't really seem to want the kudos. But anyway,
Speaker 4: try online dating for eighteen or older.
Speaker 1: Yes, no, I think you have to do it to
Speaker 1: not do it, So yeah, do it.
Speaker 4: Oh, I need to reactivate.
Speaker 2: I just think there's a there's a process, and if
Speaker 2: you're gonna opt out, here's the thing. I am not
Speaker 2: one of those people who believes that you can know
Speaker 2: something without doing it.
Speaker 4: Facts, try it before you buy it.
Speaker 1: Literally, So how can you be the most efficient dato
Speaker 1: if you don't date broadly? I don't know. Maybe you can.
Speaker 4: Maybe you can't give genuine compliments to girls who interest you. Yeah,
Speaker 4: nice tits, show off your sense of humor by telling
Speaker 4: that can't go on it. Can it?
Speaker 1: Everyone's loving it very I can't see.
Speaker 4: Please don't say that love. Show off your sense of
Speaker 4: humor by telling jokes and stories. Listen, don't be a joke.
Speaker 2: Agree, stop telling jokes. Definitely tell stories, but stop telling jokes.
Speaker 2: Mister dark humor somewhere is shaking.
Speaker 4: Make her feel special on the date by showing her attention.
Speaker 4: Reminds me if you're on a date, don't pick up
Speaker 4: the phone. Huh, yeah, it's happened to me.
Speaker 1: Wow, it was.
Speaker 4: Almost laughable at the time, though, Oh.
Speaker 1: What else?
Speaker 4: Ask her to be your girlfriend in person when you
Speaker 4: feel ready. This is something that I will die on
Speaker 4: the hill of Okay, I need to be asked to
Speaker 4: be your girlfriend?
Speaker 1: Who's not asking?
Speaker 4: I've had to go to it out of people in
Speaker 4: the past.
Speaker 1: Naw it want to fall into it now.
Speaker 4: It's just like a weird It feels unnatural to ask,
Speaker 4: will you be my girlfriend?
Speaker 5: Mmm?
Speaker 1: No, go date some romantics, babe.
Speaker 4: Okay, finally text her to see if she'll be your
Speaker 4: girlfriend if you're shy. Oh, and the example is, these
Speaker 4: past few weeks have been amazing. Want to make it
Speaker 4: official and be my girlfriend? Oh, that's actually quite cute,
Speaker 4: and then finally stay calm and respect her feelings.
Speaker 1: If she says no, keep calm and carry on.
Speaker 4: Let's it carry on, king sutthing up from here.
Speaker 1: That was actually quite helpful.
Speaker 2: I think if you were reading that earnestly and applied
Speaker 2: some of those strategies that you get to go.
Speaker 4: From, oh, I'd be lapping that up because I was
Speaker 4: on the hunt for a girlfriend.
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