WEBVTT - There Is A New Way To Break Up 💔 0:00:00.760 --> 0:00:02.719 The Flex and Rooms Daily podcast. 0:00:05.320 --> 0:00:08.840 If you've been looking for fun, new, fresh, creative ways 0:00:08.880 --> 0:00:11.200 to break up with someone, I have answers for you. 0:00:11.520 --> 0:00:13.880 Have these been tried and tested by myself? 0:00:14.280 --> 0:00:14.480 No? 0:00:14.600 --> 0:00:17.040 Not entirely, but if someone with a track record of 0:00:17.079 --> 0:00:20.479 breaking up I should be keeping my How do you 0:00:20.480 --> 0:00:21.720 say repertoire. 0:00:21.280 --> 0:00:21.800 Up to date? 0:00:22.120 --> 0:00:24.400 I think you're giving yourself juju to be broken up with. 0:00:24.840 --> 0:00:28.120 Everyone should be broken up with, but you've never been. No, Oh, 0:00:28.160 --> 0:00:28.800 you're missing out? 0:00:29.360 --> 0:00:31.120 Yeah, saying the depth. 0:00:30.800 --> 0:00:32.400 Of emotion unmatched. 0:00:32.840 --> 0:00:38.960 Everyone should experience the highs and lows of all romance 0:00:39.000 --> 0:00:42.560 and love for the full depth of the human experience. 0:00:43.000 --> 0:00:45.279 Wow, are you the same person that says you don't 0:00:45.280 --> 0:00:46.879 feel true lov until we have a baby? 0:00:47.080 --> 0:00:47.360 No? 0:00:47.760 --> 0:00:48.720 Okay, good? 0:00:49.360 --> 0:00:50.239 Did you feel that for me? 0:00:50.440 --> 0:00:50.960 Yeah? Ugh? 0:00:51.560 --> 0:00:52.360 Any listen to this. 0:00:52.640 --> 0:00:55.840 I once stated someone who, instead of breaking up with me, 0:00:56.040 --> 0:00:58.800 was like, let's not talk for six weeks and see 0:00:58.840 --> 0:01:02.000 if we miss each other. And I was like, okay, sure. 0:01:02.720 --> 0:01:04.959 And then at the end of six weeks we met 0:01:05.040 --> 0:01:07.759 up and I was like, I missed you, and they 0:01:07.760 --> 0:01:10.679 were like I didn't break up. Still on and I 0:01:10.720 --> 0:01:13.560 wish I could say that I was young and stupid 0:01:14.560 --> 0:01:15.959 but I was thirty one. 0:01:16.120 --> 0:01:17.840 Can I read out some of the comments? Would that 0:01:17.880 --> 0:01:18.520 be appropriate? 0:01:18.640 --> 0:01:18.920 Please? 0:01:19.000 --> 0:01:21.920 Grape thirty one is practically a baby. You were innocent, 0:01:22.720 --> 0:01:26.520 thank you. Honestly, when they need space, it's over agree 0:01:26.600 --> 0:01:28.160 or disagree pretty much. Agree. 0:01:28.240 --> 0:01:31.880 Yeah this is wrong. But I understand this person because 0:01:31.920 --> 0:01:33.600 sometimes I need time to process. 0:01:33.640 --> 0:01:34.920 But six weeks is way too long. 0:01:35.600 --> 0:01:38.360 Yeah, this is legit a thing that a therapist recommended 0:01:38.400 --> 0:01:41.200 me doing. Sometimes you don't really want to break up, 0:01:41.319 --> 0:01:42.600 but just needs space. 0:01:42.640 --> 0:01:43.640 It's not manipulative. 0:01:44.560 --> 0:01:48.440 What do you think six weeks of space is? You know, 0:01:48.520 --> 0:01:54.360 I love doing my numbers. Oh yeah, that's like one, 0:01:54.520 --> 0:02:00.160 it's like eleven. Whatever. It's a long time of the year. Hang, 0:02:01.120 --> 0:02:03.440 it's longer than a month. Ye, not as long as 0:02:03.440 --> 0:02:07.800 two months exactly. A baby groes from here to hear time, 0:02:07.920 --> 0:02:11.480 you know what I mean? Yeah, I agree that if 0:02:11.480 --> 0:02:15.040 someone is asking for space, it's usually like seventy percent 0:02:15.080 --> 0:02:17.560 on the way to the breakup. But I do think 0:02:17.639 --> 0:02:20.840 sometimes you need space to know what you're missing. We 0:02:21.000 --> 0:02:23.520 know over it, we know people who've broken up slept 0:02:23.520 --> 0:02:26.160 with other people then realize, wait, the grass wasn't greener. 0:02:26.240 --> 0:02:28.120 What if you're just having like a hard time at work, 0:02:28.360 --> 0:02:30.600 like you're waking. Our life is getting a bit too hectic. 0:02:30.639 --> 0:02:31.800 You're like, I'm just frazzled. 0:02:31.840 --> 0:02:32.959 I just need a couple of weeks. 0:02:33.720 --> 0:02:35.680 Yeah, but a couple weeks, it di just six weeks. 0:02:35.720 --> 0:02:36.480 Okay, Fine. 0:02:36.680 --> 0:02:45.320 Look, all I'm saying is everyone advocates for open communication, honest, raw, real, 0:02:45.600 --> 0:02:47.280 and then we're getting it and it's not hitting well. 0:02:47.639 --> 0:02:52.760 So let's bring back dishonest, passive, ambiguous. 0:02:52.600 --> 0:02:55.959 Authenticity inside yeah, yea, yeah, yeah, inside your body. 0:02:56.639 --> 0:02:58.880 Let's live life like it's a movie. 0:02:59.360 --> 0:03:00.640 I want to live. We're dancing. 0:03:01.000 --> 0:03:03.200 The reason why I say that something about that is 0:03:03.280 --> 0:03:06.120 striking a chord with me, like I feel like I resonate. 0:03:05.720 --> 0:03:07.880 With that is because, as someone who. 0:03:09.560 --> 0:03:13.720 Is mostly an over communicator, mostly I'm trying to like 0:03:14.000 --> 0:03:17.000 overcorrect and not communicate, just like for my mental health. 0:03:17.000 --> 0:03:17.520 You know what I'm saying. 0:03:17.680 --> 0:03:19.360 Fester, just fester, I know. 0:03:19.560 --> 0:03:20.760 But for someone who. 0:03:20.880 --> 0:03:23.880 Has like tried really hard to like be really articulate 0:03:23.919 --> 0:03:26.280 and find all the right words and like say the 0:03:26.360 --> 0:03:30.440 right thing to make somebody understand, it gets to a 0:03:30.480 --> 0:03:32.920 point where you're like, I don't have any more words, 0:03:33.360 --> 0:03:37.240 and I've definitely taken the role of like over communicator 0:03:38.240 --> 0:03:41.320 and like leader in the dynamics, Like you know some relationships, 0:03:41.360 --> 0:03:44.000 like somebody is like leading and somebody is following. All 0:03:44.000 --> 0:03:46.440 in Bunny Rabbits, by the way, but it just often 0:03:46.440 --> 0:03:50.240 feels like someone is almost like directing or like steering 0:03:50.280 --> 0:03:52.880 the direction of this ship. And I felt like in 0:03:52.880 --> 0:03:54.920 one rekup, I just wanted to like, let's share this role. 0:03:55.360 --> 0:03:58.000 You know, I'm having to do with my stuff, your stuff, 0:03:58.040 --> 0:04:01.640 the relationship stuff, like I'm waiting on you. And so 0:04:01.680 --> 0:04:03.160 there was a situation where I'm like, if you don't 0:04:03.400 --> 0:04:07.120 come with a solution, I'm not participating, you know what 0:04:07.200 --> 0:04:09.200 I mean, Like I'm waiting on you. So until you 0:04:09.200 --> 0:04:11.280 come with a solution to this issue we've been having, 0:04:11.360 --> 0:04:13.720 like I'm not gonna do I can't do the day 0:04:13.760 --> 0:04:17.040 to day because like I'm not over this thing and 0:04:17.120 --> 0:04:18.680 you want me to fix it and it's not even 0:04:18.720 --> 0:04:21.480 my shit, do you know what I'm saying. So at 0:04:21.480 --> 0:04:24.200 that point I was like, until you can come and 0:04:24.240 --> 0:04:27.400 be an active participant that I'm not playing house with you, 0:04:28.040 --> 0:04:30.840 Like go to your own space, do your own shit, 0:04:30.880 --> 0:04:31.960 and then we'll reconvene. 0:04:32.360 --> 0:04:34.320 It took two weeks and then. 0:04:34.839 --> 0:04:35.880 Oh, then I broke up with them. 0:04:35.960 --> 0:04:41.680 Okay, so the TikTok comments don't lie. It's true, But 0:04:41.920 --> 0:04:44.080 I feel like not that you should jump for the 0:04:44.080 --> 0:04:47.400 gun and assume that every time someone needs space means 0:04:47.400 --> 0:04:49.760 it you're gonna break up. But I think it's really 0:04:49.839 --> 0:04:52.440 interesting to look at how adults cry for help and 0:04:52.480 --> 0:04:55.560 how sometimes you can be really dismissive of the way 0:04:55.640 --> 0:05:00.120 someone's like just begging for acknowledgment, begging for you you 0:05:00.160 --> 0:05:02.760 to just like swoop in and save them. And if 0:05:02.800 --> 0:05:04.960 you miss the opportunity once, it's really hard to humble 0:05:05.000 --> 0:05:05.680 yourself twice. 0:05:06.000 --> 0:05:08.839 It is hard. I hate to humble myself. Yeah, and 0:05:08.839 --> 0:05:13.720 sometimes it's easy to quit, quit the relationship. Yeah, you 0:05:13.760 --> 0:05:15.839 don't want to live with the gret slough. I'll like 0:05:15.880 --> 0:05:18.479 to just crank it until it's over. 0:05:19.040 --> 0:05:21.880 Yeah, And it is true that you know, you know 0:05:21.920 --> 0:05:23.280 how like they're a friends who are. 0:05:23.200 --> 0:05:26.520 Going through perpetual relationship issues. We like babes. 0:05:26.560 --> 0:05:29.560 I've heard this too many times in too many ways, 0:05:30.160 --> 0:05:33.400 and I heard this bit of advice. I don't know 0:05:33.400 --> 0:05:37.240 what you call it, but you can't tell someone to 0:05:37.320 --> 0:05:39.880 do anything when they're not done. And everybody knows when 0:05:39.920 --> 0:05:44.320 you've hit your own personal like level of being done. 0:05:44.440 --> 0:05:47.240 That's how I feel in these like break up break situations. 0:05:47.440 --> 0:05:50.240 You're not done yet, and so you're trying to reconcile 0:05:50.240 --> 0:05:52.599 with yourself, like I give myself two weeks, three weeks, 0:05:52.640 --> 0:05:55.200 four weeks, then I'll know. And sometimes you never figure 0:05:55.240 --> 0:05:56.520 it out. You have to jump the gun and just 0:05:56.560 --> 0:05:59.160 break up because you're like, I don't know, and it's 0:05:59.200 --> 0:06:03.320 not fair to drag someone along with you, right breaking up. 0:06:03.360 --> 0:06:06.920 We talk about this stuff in such like conceptual terms, 0:06:06.960 --> 0:06:10.120 but I just had this feeling of like, actually breaking 0:06:10.160 --> 0:06:13.280 up with someone is so awful for life, terrifying. It's 0:06:13.320 --> 0:06:16.839 like losing someone that you're with all the time. It's 0:06:16.839 --> 0:06:19.640 so horrible. But because it's like dating, we add this 0:06:19.720 --> 0:06:21.760 kind of like fun element to it and there's like 0:06:21.760 --> 0:06:25.840 a lot of discourse around it. It's actually horrible. It's 0:06:25.839 --> 0:06:28.080 a horrible lifestrepping thing. I mean, anyone who's gone through 0:06:28.080 --> 0:06:31.640 a breakup right now will say, but it's been a 0:06:31.640 --> 0:06:36.000 while for me, and yeah, sorry for you're going through that. 0:06:36.400 --> 0:06:38.960 And you know, like we all know how terrifying is 0:06:38.960 --> 0:06:41.960 because how many of us are refusing to do friend breakups. 0:06:41.880 --> 0:06:45.440 Letting them linger. It's about to be twenty forty five. 0:06:45.560 --> 0:06:47.279 I'm not saying anything. 0:06:47.600 --> 0:06:49.920 I think it's better to let them linger. Yeah, let 0:06:49.920 --> 0:06:52.799 them slow fade. Oh it's also ugly. 0:06:53.720 --> 0:06:55.960 It's also ugly, but also like, it takes a lot 0:06:55.960 --> 0:06:57.560 of sensitivity to let. 0:06:57.920 --> 0:06:58.760 Slow fad. 0:07:01.000 --> 0:07:04.040 Because if you really put you put your booty into it. 0:07:04.080 --> 0:07:07.080 You can be harsh, you can be callous, you can 0:07:07.120 --> 0:07:08.320 be cruel, but. 0:07:08.320 --> 0:07:10.640 People will always remember it. Sometimes you got to think about, like, 0:07:11.520 --> 0:07:14.480 how is this what's more important to me? Being right 0:07:14.800 --> 0:07:16.200 or being. 0:07:17.400 --> 0:07:19.800 Like consider it? 0:07:20.320 --> 0:07:24.120 Yeah, or like every ruining someone's self confidence. Friendship breakups 0:07:24.160 --> 0:07:25.320 hit different for me. 0:07:25.920 --> 0:07:29.080 I mean they all hit terribly. Pick one. Which one 0:07:29.080 --> 0:07:30.440 would you prefer? 0:07:30.680 --> 0:07:33.760 I prefer a relationship breakup? Thet a friend breakup? 0:07:34.200 --> 0:07:35.160 How close to a friend? 0:07:35.480 --> 0:07:37.120 Speak to me? You speak to me another day. 0:07:37.920 --> 0:07:38.880 Don't say these. 0:07:38.680 --> 0:07:42.560 Things anyway, Let's not I mean no, I stand by 0:07:42.560 --> 0:07:43.360 what I said before. 0:07:43.400 --> 0:07:45.240 I really am excited. But I told you in my 0:07:45.360 --> 0:07:46.960 poetry era, my. 0:07:48.040 --> 0:07:53.560 Didn't we have this conversation? No far anyway, my poetry poetry? 0:07:54.400 --> 0:07:54.720 Poet? 0:07:55.320 --> 0:07:58.600 How you say it poetry? Why is there a W 0:07:58.600 --> 0:08:00.160 when I say that poetry? 0:08:01.640 --> 0:08:03.600 It's like if you say fork so many times as 0:08:03.600 --> 0:08:07.000 starts making sense, you say the word fork. No fork, 0:08:07.080 --> 0:08:13.360 poetry poetry, he said, poetry, poetry. 0:08:13.520 --> 0:08:14.200 That one's good. 0:08:14.400 --> 0:08:20.360 No, Brook said poetry. Becky poetry, poetry, poetry, poetry. 0:08:20.440 --> 0:08:21.800 I hear a w How good? 0:08:21.800 --> 0:08:25.160 Am I like listening to accents and doing them again? 0:08:25.800 --> 0:08:31.760 Say something and I'll do it poetry poetry? Was that good? 0:08:33.200 --> 0:08:33.600 Actor? 0:08:34.480 --> 0:08:38.040 Anyway, Guys, I'm writing a screenplay. So if someone works 0:08:38.040 --> 0:08:38.880 at Warner Bros. 0:08:39.280 --> 0:08:44.040 Like oh, okay, so in my poetry era, because I'm 0:08:44.040 --> 0:08:47.240 having beef with communication broadly, I'm just getting really bored 0:08:47.280 --> 0:08:49.800 of like us or having to speak the same language 0:08:49.840 --> 0:08:50.760 and not understand each other. 0:08:50.800 --> 0:08:52.080 It's again, it's grating me. 0:08:52.240 --> 0:08:56.160 Even I keep having conversations where I'm like, I'm using 0:08:56.200 --> 0:08:59.600 all the words and you're not understanding, so let's stop talking. 0:09:00.080 --> 0:09:01.400 Just stop talking to me, please. 0:09:01.880 --> 0:09:05.839 But then I was like, poetry is so special because 0:09:05.880 --> 0:09:11.000 it takes these really basic concepts right and then puts 0:09:11.520 --> 0:09:14.000 you get all these flowery words and then you make 0:09:14.080 --> 0:09:16.280 it sound like so complex. 0:09:16.360 --> 0:09:17.720 I'm like, this is crazy. 0:09:18.080 --> 0:09:22.959 I think that's bad poetry. Actually, no, don't say bad poetry. 0:09:23.000 --> 0:09:25.960 Good poetry just is. But anyway, we'll talk more about 0:09:25.960 --> 0:09:27.600 it later because it's changing my life. 0:09:27.880 --> 0:09:31.640 Flex ands flex and frimes cater never miss a beat. 0:09:31.840 --> 0:09:33.800 I want to know, flex y, do you have a will? 0:09:34.880 --> 0:09:35.400 I don't. 0:09:36.160 --> 0:09:37.160 Are you thinking of getting one? 0:09:37.440 --> 0:09:40.480 Yeah? For sure? But I don't want to keep updating 0:09:40.520 --> 0:09:44.000 it between now now and when? 0:09:44.679 --> 0:09:46.679 Yeah? 0:09:45.200 --> 0:09:45.360 Who? 0:09:46.679 --> 0:09:47.600 What do you mean by that? 0:09:47.640 --> 0:09:49.680 I don't want to be taken out anytime soon? So 0:09:49.679 --> 0:09:52.360 maybe preparing the wills preparing for the worst. But I 0:09:52.360 --> 0:09:54.080 guess like even six year olds. 0:09:53.920 --> 0:09:54.440 Would say that. 0:09:54.520 --> 0:09:57.760 So I don't know, And that's life. That is part life. 0:09:57.800 --> 0:10:02.120 It is unfortunately unfortunately. So you haven't worked out your will. 0:10:02.200 --> 0:10:03.719 I haven't done mind, but I don't really have any 0:10:03.760 --> 0:10:05.400 like concrete assets that need to be. 0:10:06.760 --> 0:10:07.880 What do you want to pass down? 0:10:09.960 --> 0:10:13.240 It cannot go my hair dryer. If I only had 0:10:13.240 --> 0:10:14.559 a dicent air RUP. 0:10:16.080 --> 0:10:16.720 Might be listening. 0:10:17.960 --> 0:10:19.280 I had. 0:10:20.200 --> 0:10:21.360 It's a good thing to think about. 0:10:21.679 --> 0:10:24.920 Why I have been thinking about digital legacy. So one 0:10:24.920 --> 0:10:27.320 thing that you can pass down is the access to 0:10:27.360 --> 0:10:28.719 your digital accounts. 0:10:28.840 --> 0:10:33.920 Keep my dms away from Yes, you haven't thought of now, 0:10:33.960 --> 0:10:34.480 I haven't. 0:10:34.880 --> 0:10:38.120 Well, Meta have done it so on Facebook I did 0:10:38.120 --> 0:10:40.400 this easier. I set up years ago where you can 0:10:40.480 --> 0:10:43.199 add a person to take over your Facebook when you die. 0:10:43.240 --> 0:10:45.520 So I've put my friend Madison on there so in. 0:10:45.520 --> 0:10:49.920 The awful event event untimely. 0:10:49.440 --> 0:10:52.480 Death, eventuality, she can always take over the account, and 0:10:52.520 --> 0:10:55.160 says in memoriam loosened Price. 0:10:55.640 --> 0:10:56.319 It's a very. 0:10:56.160 --> 0:10:59.600 Thoughtful thing to do, because I can imagine, generally speaking, 0:10:59.640 --> 0:11:01.720 it would be quite difficult to get access to any 0:11:01.760 --> 0:11:03.520 of that stuff. I mean, it's hard enough to get 0:11:03.520 --> 0:11:06.080 into your own accounts when you're alive and you have 0:11:06.120 --> 0:11:09.360 all the information, literally, all the emails, all the passwords, 0:11:09.360 --> 0:11:12.640 and it's still like two factor authentications like not correct today. 0:11:13.120 --> 0:11:15.360 It is an interesting thing to think about because last 0:11:15.400 --> 0:11:15.760 week I. 0:11:15.720 --> 0:11:19.640 Spoke about the fact that all this digital stuff, your 0:11:19.679 --> 0:11:23.360 photos and your docs and your passwords are saved in 0:11:23.400 --> 0:11:25.720 the cloud. But the cloud is still a physical space, 0:11:25.880 --> 0:11:29.040 like a place with servers that need electricity to pump it. 0:11:29.120 --> 0:11:31.600 So you know, it's bad for the environment. And so 0:11:31.640 --> 0:11:34.439 when all these people start dying piling up over the 0:11:34.520 --> 0:11:38.400 next couple decades, we're still storing that data. We're still 0:11:38.440 --> 0:11:41.240 holding onto them because no one prepares to die, well 0:11:41.240 --> 0:11:43.040 not no one, but the majority of us don't prepare 0:11:43.080 --> 0:11:46.360 to die, and so we're not like getting recycling that 0:11:46.480 --> 0:11:50.840 information or getting rid of it in an environmentally friendly way. 0:11:50.960 --> 0:11:52.480 Yeah, what is going to happen with that? 0:11:54.160 --> 0:11:55.120 We should figure that out. 0:11:55.240 --> 0:11:57.160 Yeah, can we get a cloud expert on the Showbrook, 0:11:58.000 --> 0:12:00.800 We're gonna get a cloud expert, not serious. 0:12:00.559 --> 0:12:05.360 Clouds, cloud recyclers, because the same way we're running out 0:12:05.360 --> 0:12:09.800 of the same way most like Western places have run 0:12:09.800 --> 0:12:13.040 out of space for burial plots and graves, and so 0:12:13.240 --> 0:12:16.240 you know that's why cremation heaps popular. It's gonna happen 0:12:16.320 --> 0:12:19.760 with storing a physical storing your like digital storage or 0:12:19.760 --> 0:12:22.600 maybe just get really expensive. It's going to cost you 0:12:22.640 --> 0:12:26.240 like hundreds of dollars to store your stuff in the cloud, 0:12:26.679 --> 0:12:27.240 I hope. 0:12:27.280 --> 0:12:29.480 So then we get some impetus to try and clean 0:12:29.480 --> 0:12:30.280 out the cobwebs. 0:12:30.520 --> 0:12:32.800 So only then will you start trying this recycle. 0:12:33.320 --> 0:12:37.520 Yeah, recycling only goes run way flex and frooms. They're 0:12:37.520 --> 0:12:37.920 the best. 0:12:39.480 --> 0:12:41.839 I will say that we are here to change your life. 0:12:42.040 --> 0:12:42.760 Usually it's with. 0:12:42.760 --> 0:12:47.560 Nonsensical half jokes and am I the assholes? Maybe some 0:12:47.640 --> 0:12:50.480 dating dilemmas, But here we are taking a page out 0:12:50.520 --> 0:12:52.920 of the Instagram therapist's book and we're saying, yeah, maybe 0:12:52.920 --> 0:12:53.880 it does help to drink water. 0:12:54.200 --> 0:12:54.640 I don't know. 0:12:54.720 --> 0:12:56.440 Maybe you shouldn't eat a twigs right before you have 0:12:56.440 --> 0:12:57.480 to go on air for two hours. 0:12:57.679 --> 0:13:00.280 Maybe you know, maybe you should sleep and wake up, 0:13:00.360 --> 0:13:02.760 you know, as the sun wakes up too. 0:13:02.880 --> 0:13:03.920 I don't know. I don't know. 0:13:04.080 --> 0:13:06.200 But one thing that has been hitting is journaling. I 0:13:06.200 --> 0:13:08.200 know you're thinking, I'm over at babes. I don't want 0:13:08.200 --> 0:13:10.560 a journal I don't want to do affirmations neither. I 0:13:10.559 --> 0:13:13.480 don't either, And to that, I say, why don't we 0:13:14.480 --> 0:13:17.400 try things more than once to determine if we do 0:13:17.600 --> 0:13:19.120 or don't like not into it. 0:13:19.120 --> 0:13:20.880 It's like writing an essay and then having to look 0:13:20.880 --> 0:13:22.439 at it again. Ye, but you don't have to look 0:13:22.440 --> 0:13:24.679 at it. It's just to get the thoughts out on paper. 0:13:25.040 --> 0:13:28.959 But I did come across a video on Zuckerberg's Internet 0:13:29.000 --> 0:13:31.120 that was actually quite helpful, And I think I won't 0:13:31.160 --> 0:13:34.880 be doing it personally because I've mastered traditional journaling before 0:13:34.880 --> 0:13:37.400 you little freaks and novices who'd like some additional help. 0:13:37.800 --> 0:13:40.400 This is an activity that you know might be a 0:13:40.400 --> 0:13:42.760 winner for you. Oh, I'm excited play it. 0:13:42.840 --> 0:13:47.480 Detail introducing my brand new idea, the Piggybank Method, journaling 0:13:47.640 --> 0:13:53.320 without a journal, because that's scary. Comparison kills creativity, and 0:13:53.400 --> 0:13:58.120 if you have you in order, that might be stopping 0:13:58.160 --> 0:14:01.719 you from feeling like you can make mistakes. Instead, go 0:14:01.880 --> 0:14:04.760 to Goodwill and get a piggybank, keep it in your room, 0:14:04.880 --> 0:14:08.680 and instead of putting money in it, put journal entries 0:14:08.720 --> 0:14:10.640 in it. No matter where in the world you are, 0:14:11.200 --> 0:14:14.080 if you have the urge to journal, grab a piece 0:14:14.120 --> 0:14:17.480 of paper nearby, a pencil and start writing and put 0:14:17.520 --> 0:14:19.280 the little date at the top. Put it in a 0:14:19.320 --> 0:14:21.360 safe space until you come back to your piggy bank 0:14:21.360 --> 0:14:23.280 and you can put all your journal entries in there. 0:14:23.360 --> 0:14:25.840 Once you fill up this piggy bank, smash it, buy 0:14:25.880 --> 0:14:28.400 a real journal. Since you put all the dates in 0:14:28.480 --> 0:14:32.000 the corner, you can tape all in order, or you 0:14:32.040 --> 0:14:34.360 can just shrut them. I don't know. Remember, journaling is 0:14:34.400 --> 0:14:36.080 an activity, not a result. 0:14:36.880 --> 0:14:40.880 What come on? Now, that's sick. That's creative, It's very creative. 0:14:41.000 --> 0:14:44.280 That's why are you frowning? 0:14:45.840 --> 0:14:48.520 I just like just the thought of then having to 0:14:48.560 --> 0:14:51.480 seefe through it, Like writing a journal is already a 0:14:51.520 --> 0:14:54.200 pain in the s then having to smash it. You know, 0:14:54.280 --> 0:14:55.960 it's more money, but what is the. 0:14:55.880 --> 0:14:56.880 Pain about it? 0:14:58.040 --> 0:15:01.120 The pain about it is. I recently started in the 0:15:01.160 --> 0:15:01.640 notes app. 0:15:01.840 --> 0:15:03.320 Oh yeah, yeah, so. 0:15:04.200 --> 0:15:06.280 That's easy because I've been doing about my dreams. So 0:15:06.280 --> 0:15:07.840 I wake up. As soon as I wake up, I 0:15:07.920 --> 0:15:09.800 ride all the dreams down. It gets the brain working 0:15:11.440 --> 0:15:16.160 having loose pieces of paper. I just what if? Okay, 0:15:16.160 --> 0:15:17.480 what if a thief comes to your house? 0:15:17.520 --> 0:15:22.640 Okay, DJ roll the tape cat Flex and Frooms. 0:15:23.000 --> 0:15:25.120 You're listening to Flex and Frooms. 0:15:25.200 --> 0:15:28.840 What the frick? On February three, we are doing a 0:15:28.880 --> 0:15:32.360 live show recording. Thanks to Specsavors. It's called Always Sonny. 0:15:32.520 --> 0:15:34.680 We can be out on a barge on Sydney Harbor 0:15:34.960 --> 0:15:36.400 having fun, doing lasts. 0:15:37.640 --> 0:15:40.760 Okay, a luxury vessel it's called the Eyelight. To say, 0:15:40.760 --> 0:15:43.800 it's similar to a yacht without any of the walls. 0:15:44.320 --> 0:15:48.720 Oh, I don't think you els have wolves, pape have wolves. Anyway, 0:15:49.400 --> 0:15:51.680 we are giving some people VIP tickets. That is them 0:15:51.720 --> 0:15:55.280 and a friend with drinks, fun, friends and laughter. We're 0:15:55.320 --> 0:15:57.480 gonna be now calling a woman called Camille. She's a nurse. 0:15:57.560 --> 0:16:06.440 Let's see if she's on shift? Hello? Hi is that Camille? 0:16:07.280 --> 0:16:07.440 Ah? 0:16:07.520 --> 0:16:09.720 Yeah, how are ya good? 0:16:09.760 --> 0:16:10.320 How's the girling? 0:16:10.560 --> 0:16:10.760 Good? 0:16:10.800 --> 0:16:10.960 Good? 0:16:11.000 --> 0:16:13.040 No? You do you recognize his voice. 0:16:14.360 --> 0:16:14.880 It's true. 0:16:16.920 --> 0:16:18.120 I thought that was a bit touching. 0:16:18.200 --> 0:16:20.920 Go for a second there, How are you. 0:16:20.880 --> 0:16:23.360 Familiar at work right now? I am? 0:16:23.480 --> 0:16:24.880 Actually, let's not. 0:16:27.080 --> 0:16:30.120 Okay, let's just pretend that she's on a paid lunch break. 0:16:30.840 --> 0:16:32.800 We're so excited because we were applied to come along 0:16:32.840 --> 0:16:35.760 to our island, our live recording, and I'm pleased to 0:16:35.800 --> 0:16:37.080 say you have VIP tickets. 0:16:38.600 --> 0:16:39.080 Shut up? 0:16:39.760 --> 0:16:45.000 Yeah, no, you no, God, It's gonna be super hot 0:16:45.120 --> 0:16:45.600 and sexy. 0:16:46.520 --> 0:16:50.960 All the best people are coming. I'm obsessed. I will say, though, 0:16:51.280 --> 0:16:53.360 got a quick question for you. When you picked up 0:16:53.400 --> 0:16:55.320 the phone, you didn't say your name. Is that because 0:16:55.320 --> 0:16:56.720 you don't what the scammers to know who you are? 0:16:58.400 --> 0:16:58.760 Honestly? 0:16:58.840 --> 0:16:59.680 You know caller ID? 0:17:00.200 --> 0:17:00.400 Yeah? 0:17:00.640 --> 0:17:06.359 Usually my mom, So like, hello, okay, that's good to know. 0:17:07.960 --> 0:17:10.720 I didn't mean to sound rude. I was just like hello, No, 0:17:10.880 --> 0:17:11.320 I love it. 0:17:11.480 --> 0:17:13.600 I do the same thing, don't you worry. So you 0:17:13.720 --> 0:17:17.000 are a registered nurse and you work with anethetists, like 0:17:17.080 --> 0:17:19.000 in the anethetizing place. Is that right? 0:17:19.760 --> 0:17:20.000 Yeah? 0:17:20.520 --> 0:17:21.320 Yeah, pretty much. 0:17:21.560 --> 0:17:23.960 I don't know. Like I've personally been under anesthesia a 0:17:24.000 --> 0:17:27.800 few times in my life, and I always am scared 0:17:27.840 --> 0:17:29.600 when I come to because I've been known in the 0:17:29.640 --> 0:17:32.080 past to like say things and not realize what I'm saying. 0:17:32.240 --> 0:17:34.240 Are you with people after they come out of anesthesia? 0:17:34.640 --> 0:17:36.640 Oh yeah yeah, from start to finish. Oh my god, 0:17:36.760 --> 0:17:38.200 we send them off to recovery. 0:17:38.359 --> 0:17:38.560 Yeah. 0:17:38.720 --> 0:17:40.240 So what do they say when they come out of it? 0:17:41.119 --> 0:17:41.760 Anything funny? 0:17:42.320 --> 0:17:44.680 It's nothing. They don' actually don't say much because they're 0:17:44.680 --> 0:17:47.480 that doped up. It's more like how they react. It's 0:17:47.560 --> 0:17:50.000 more like the young ones mostly that they tend to 0:17:50.840 --> 0:17:53.920 fight fight you. So a couple of young guys have 0:17:54.119 --> 0:17:57.400 thrown punches here and there, but it's it's like it's 0:17:57.480 --> 0:18:00.159 very common though. It's so common, and like with like 0:18:00.520 --> 0:18:03.520 young teenage boys after an anesthetic. It's interesting though. 0:18:04.600 --> 0:18:06.960 This is a good insight. Yeah. 0:18:07.359 --> 0:18:10.440 Otherwise, the job's pretty chill. We literally just knock you 0:18:10.520 --> 0:18:12.920 guys out and then we just hang around until the 0:18:13.000 --> 0:18:14.439 surgery is done and then wake you up. 0:18:15.000 --> 0:18:15.160 Good. 0:18:15.160 --> 0:18:15.639 I love that. 0:18:15.920 --> 0:18:17.200