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Speaker 1: Jobson with jos and Amanda.

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Speaker 2: Remember Rufus Cat, my cat that I loved very much.

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Speaker 1: Not much of a pet guy, And originally I didn't

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Speaker 1: want Rufus cat, but my sister moved over to Jubai

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Speaker 1: and couldn't take the cat with hers. So how long

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Speaker 1: have you had Rufus Since two thousand and three? And

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Speaker 1: he was two years old already.

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Speaker 3: So he's substantial. He was one of the first weeks

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Speaker 3: on ear this year.

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Speaker 2: You told me, I.

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Speaker 1: Told you just our first show when we started back

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Speaker 1: this year that he went missing.

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Speaker 2: The last time I saw.

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Speaker 1: Him was on December twenty three of last year, and

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Speaker 1: I had this feeling that that was going to be

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Speaker 1: the last time I saw him, and subsequently it was

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Speaker 1: the last time I saw Rufus Cat.

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Speaker 2: And he was a great cat. He did he didn't

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Speaker 2: bother me. Kids loved him. Everyone loved Rufus Cat. He

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Speaker 2: was like the street cat, you know.

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Speaker 1: People would feed him and they just and he just

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Speaker 1: he just didn't He gave no f's old Rufus he

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Speaker 1: just don't do what.

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Speaker 3: It's inviable to live like that.

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Speaker 1: It was a great life. He lived a great life.

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Speaker 1: And I remember telling you the story about Rufus cat.

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Speaker 1: Can you just move all your coffee cups.

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Speaker 3: I know, the minute you told me that Rufus had

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Speaker 3: you thought you'd seen him for the last time. I

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Speaker 3: inadvertently not my coffee cup over and spilt coffee all

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Speaker 3: over the floor. And I was trying to commune with

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Speaker 3: you because you were quite upset.

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Speaker 2: I was upset, but you were like a bullet a

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Speaker 2: china shop. I'm sorry about that, knocking everything over.

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Speaker 3: So what's the news.

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Speaker 1: Well, yesterday we found Ruber and well of his mortal remains.

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Speaker 3: So I'm sorry to hear that.

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Speaker 2: One of my neighbors. It was under a.

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Speaker 3: Hedge, because that's what cats do, don't they They go

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Speaker 3: away quietly. And that's what you figured.

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Speaker 2: Yep.

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Speaker 1: And it's a skeleton, little skeleton of Rufus. So I identified

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Speaker 1: the skeleton.

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Speaker 3: How did you do that?

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Speaker 2: Well, I looked at it. I knew like he had

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Speaker 2: a broken front tooth, and it was a cat, and

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Speaker 2: there was some black fur there.

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Speaker 3: So it wasn't like in the movies where they take

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Speaker 3: you to a room and pull of sheet. It's what

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Speaker 3: I pictured.

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Speaker 1: No, So I said to my neighbor Jim, I said,

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Speaker 1: stand by, I'm going to go and get a box

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Speaker 1: and I'll pick up his remains and then we'll work

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Speaker 1: out what we can do with you.

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Speaker 3: You have a burial.

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Speaker 2: Well, we've had a tough week.

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Speaker 1: Helen's father died this week, and you know, rufus Cat,

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Speaker 1: it's a lot to process. So anyway, I'm talking to Jim,

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Speaker 1: my neighbor, and we're just talking about life. And it

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Speaker 1: was a beautiful day yesterday, the sun was shining, and I,

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Speaker 1: you know, I was talking about how, you know hard

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Speaker 1: the week has been with losing Ron and you now

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Speaker 1: finding Rufus's bones, and then we just established it.

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Speaker 2: We're lucky, man, We're living good lives. We've got a

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Speaker 2: good life.

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Speaker 1: So I'm picking all the bones into the box and

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Speaker 1: I go back home and I've totally forgotten the gravity

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Speaker 1: of finding rufus Kat's bones. I've gone into the kitchen

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Speaker 1: and my daughter's in the kitchen and I said, hey, Rayam,

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Speaker 1: look what I found. And she thought there was going

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Speaker 1: to be food in the box or something. And I've

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Speaker 1: opened the lid of the box. I said, rufus Cat.

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Speaker 3: I thought that Chanel handbag she was hoping for.

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Speaker 1: And she said that you insane and burst into tea,

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Speaker 1: ran out of the room.

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Speaker 3: It wasn't the most sensitive way to say I found

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Speaker 3: his remain.

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Speaker 2: See the difference is you do you think I've handled that? Yes,

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Speaker 2: you have.

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Speaker 3: You've lived with the knowledge because you found. You've got

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Speaker 3: a text yesterday saying I think I may have found

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Speaker 3: the remains. So you had processed the information, You saw

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Speaker 3: the bones under the tree, you appreciated the context. Just

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Speaker 3: shoving a box in her face and saying look what's

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Speaker 3: in here with an excited voice.

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Speaker 2: Right, okay, so can you talk to a form me? No,

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Speaker 2: mother's away.

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Speaker 3: You've stuffed it up big time.

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Speaker 2: She's all right.

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Speaker 1: We laughed at it later, but still, you know, I

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Speaker 1: guess it's a bit of a dad thing, isn't it really?

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Speaker 2: Because I'm pragmatic, it's not.

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Speaker 3: A dad thing. It's a youth thing.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, thanks for your help. You're welcome.

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Speaker 1: Jonesy and Amanda's