WEBVTT - When Is The Best Time To Break Up With Someone 💔

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<v Speaker 1>The Flex in Rooms Daily.

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<v Speaker 3>Hello and welcome to this most gorgeous edition of Flex

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<v Speaker 3>on Frames podcast. Maybe you're binging it in a far

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<v Speaker 1>I love that.

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<v Speaker 3>Thanks. Okay, let's go.

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<v Speaker 1>You're listening to Flex and Frooms on CADA.

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<v Speaker 3>We're going to be talking about one of our favorite topics.

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<v Speaker 3>Of course, it's dating. Try and stop us. I can't stop.

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<v Speaker 1>And for all the.

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<v Speaker 2>Times we've told you to dump them, break up with them,

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's only fair that we give you a

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<v Speaker 2>framework to do so effectively. And that starts with when

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<v Speaker 2>when is the best time to break up with someone?

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<v Speaker 2>There is a formula we're going to create it. But

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<v Speaker 2>before we do that, I came across this article and

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<v Speaker 2>it was about the five times a year where breakups

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<v Speaker 2>occur the most.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, when do you think it is off?

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<v Speaker 2>Top?

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<v Speaker 3>After Christmas?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? For sure?

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<v Speaker 3>New Year kind of vibe.

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<v Speaker 2>You knew me?

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<v Speaker 3>When winter starts? No, sorry, when winter ends, so cuffing

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<v Speaker 3>season is over?

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<v Speaker 1>Spring?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? What else?

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<v Speaker 2>Was that?

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<v Speaker 3>Right?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Inconclusion always, but here is what we discovered. There was

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<v Speaker 2>a Yahoo survey. It did come out in two thousand

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<v Speaker 2>and seven, so one could say it's out of date,

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<v Speaker 2>but I feel like love is timeless and conversations about

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<v Speaker 2>love and dating are also timeless, and so the data

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<v Speaker 2>still stands. But it said that breakups are twice as

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<v Speaker 2>likely to occur between Christmas and Valentine's Day, absolute feral savages.

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<v Speaker 1>Would you do a Christmas breakup? I wouldn't rule it out. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't.

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<v Speaker 2>But the most popular times are New Year's Day, Valentine's Day, March.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm a March baby, early.

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<v Speaker 2>November, late November, early December. These things are quite obvious, right, Actually, no, Valentine's.

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<v Speaker 1>Day on the day is absurd to me.

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<v Speaker 2>Really, day before day, after a fair game, fair game,

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<v Speaker 2>day of brutal Christmas Day, brutal Christmas, Eve, boxing day,

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<v Speaker 2>fair game, fair games, early November I think is the

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<v Speaker 2>perfect time nip it in the bud. However, here's where

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<v Speaker 2>it gets a bit confusing. If we're saying that New

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<v Speaker 2>Year's Day is rogue, Valentine's Day is rogue, Christmas is rogue.

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<v Speaker 2>I think Halloween is not a great time, and East

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<v Speaker 2>is not a great time either. I also feel like

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<v Speaker 2>you can't really break up with someone a month before

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<v Speaker 2>or after their birthday. I think that's a bit mean

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<v Speaker 2>as well, because chances are they factored you into that

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<v Speaker 2>celebration or there's an expectation that because you're meeting a milestone,

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<v Speaker 2>the gift is going.

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<v Speaker 1>To be good.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to break up with someone right after

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<v Speaker 3>their birthday because that means I won't get a present

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<v Speaker 3>on my birthday exactly. That's where my man's at.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I didn't think of that at all, but thank

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<v Speaker 2>you for taking me there with you. I think the

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<v Speaker 2>correct formula is you're allowed to break up with someone

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<v Speaker 2>a month before their birthday if you've already received your gift.

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<v Speaker 2>If you haven't received your gift, it's a month after

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<v Speaker 2>your birthday.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>If your birthday falls on a major holiday in and

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<v Speaker 2>around a month either side, then you're gonna have to

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<v Speaker 2>pick the birthday or the major holiday. For instance, if

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<v Speaker 2>your birthday is November and you want a Christmas present,

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<v Speaker 2>so sorry, break up past to occur in January.

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<v Speaker 3>I understand you get it. End.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, if your birthday is in April, but you don't

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<v Speaker 2>want to be single for winter.

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<v Speaker 1>Birthday? Spring? Cut them off, cut them loose?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you reckon? You can be in a relationship once

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<v Speaker 3>I know that, Once I know that I want to

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<v Speaker 3>break up with someone, I'm doing it straight away.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>No, No, you've been in.

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<v Speaker 3>A relationship you don't want to be I'm a.

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<v Speaker 2>Very harsh judge of character, and I feel like the

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<v Speaker 2>closer you ARTI someone, the more you see, the more

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<v Speaker 2>you judge them harshly. So sometimes I got a second guess,

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<v Speaker 2>am I just seeing too much? Because we just spent

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<v Speaker 2>much time together? Do I need just some distance to recalibrate?

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<v Speaker 2>But this is also the girl that broke up with

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<v Speaker 2>a boyfriend because.

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<v Speaker 1>The horoscope said, are you serious?

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<v Speaker 2>It's oversimplifying it. But yeah, around there, when was this?

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<v Speaker 2>I was my am I the asshole, like I just

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<v Speaker 2>needed the validation. I was going to do it, but

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<v Speaker 2>this was like a perfect time.

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<v Speaker 3>How did there? Did you say that to me?

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<v Speaker 1>No? But that was why.

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<v Speaker 2>If it's already bubbling, it's dead, and to me, it

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't worth being restored at the time.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I got dumb as soon as I got back

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<v Speaker 3>from Schoolies.

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<v Speaker 2>That's hectic, and I'm so sorry that happened to you.

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<v Speaker 3>It was really sad. And because he wasn't on schoolies

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<v Speaker 3>with me, so I was like, I think you were

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<v Speaker 3>like so.

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<v Speaker 1>Here you were being chased on schoolies and.

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<v Speaker 3>My chastity belt was firmly on Wow, Dog Act.

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<v Speaker 1>Dog Act, Fleck and frooms.

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<v Speaker 3>Here, on flicks and frooms we ask the hard questions

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<v Speaker 3>that no one else is ready to ask.

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<v Speaker 1>Every single day, relentless, thankless.

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<v Speaker 3>It never stops. And today's question is, of course, which

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<v Speaker 3>are you? There's two types of people in the world.

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<v Speaker 3>What are some types like tomato tomato sure, tomato sauce

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<v Speaker 3>and the fridge, tomato sauce in the cupboard, terrible tomato

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<v Speaker 3>sauce and burgers or no tomatoes again.

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<v Speaker 2>Or controversially, water at room temp or ice cold. We

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<v Speaker 2>know what's better for digestion, but socially there's a preferred one.

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<v Speaker 3>True. Well, today's is a simple one. It's one that

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<v Speaker 3>all humans and aliens around the globe can relate to,

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<v Speaker 3>and that is you are a fart or a burper.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna kick it off with what I am. Great,

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<v Speaker 3>thank you for disclosing. I'm not even gonna make you guess. Okay, great,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not here to play games. I'm here to go

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<v Speaker 3>all in for farting. I cannot believe when I say,

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<v Speaker 3>are you a burper or a farter, that anyone would

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<v Speaker 3>ever choose burping belching? Is this what would one prefer?

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<v Speaker 3>Or what one does more often?

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<v Speaker 1>Both?

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm a natural born fart and I want to

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<v Speaker 3>keep it that way. So I am both fart by

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<v Speaker 3>nature and fart by nurture.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh amazing.

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<v Speaker 3>However, burping, I don't know you're a burper. What do

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<v Speaker 3>you think you're a burper? Really? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Up the gullet, up the gullet.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I'm happy to disclose that I'm in fact a

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<v Speaker 2>far now. You have seen me on occasion try to

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<v Speaker 2>get out of burp. But I don't have the reflexes.

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<v Speaker 2>My guzzler isn't built for that. I really have to

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<v Speaker 2>push stuff out. If I was a burper, I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 2>be as flem me. True, this stuff is stays clogged.

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<v Speaker 2>Nothing's coming in, nothing's going out.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I'm gona know because we have spent some time together.

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<v Speaker 3>Now we have gone to the toilet at the same time.

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<v Speaker 3>Was that you and the cubicle before.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you giggled, and.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought because you knew I was in there, so

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<v Speaker 2>I giggled with I didn't know why were you giggling

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<v Speaker 2>if you didn't know he was in there.

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<v Speaker 3>I was giggling because I went in and there was

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<v Speaker 3>no toilet paper, and you didn't say anything. So I

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<v Speaker 3>did a little way, then got up and waddled to

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<v Speaker 3>the next toilet. There was no toilet paper. What was

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<v Speaker 3>I to do?

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<v Speaker 1>And then came back to the original toilet?

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<v Speaker 3>Nah? Nah?

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<v Speaker 1>So when when did the flush occur? Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>No flush it was it was a millimeter of we Anyway,

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<v Speaker 3>I digress, as you would say, I'm all for farting.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to circle back. How do you soil a

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<v Speaker 2>public toilet and then not flush?

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<v Speaker 3>As I say?

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<v Speaker 1>It was like you wake up at three am?

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<v Speaker 2>Or let me just quickly let one loose, don't want

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<v Speaker 2>to wake up the roomys go back to bed, let

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<v Speaker 2>me not. People say I'm mean, I I just say

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<v Speaker 2>I'm observant.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you know how I felt waddling with my skirt.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't mean to beerate you in your time of need. However,

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<v Speaker 2>you walked into a bathroom with one cubicle in use.

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<v Speaker 2>Presumably that cubicle had toilet paper. You went into yours

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<v Speaker 2>the far right, it's there's three, did a little little

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<v Speaker 2>tinkle apparently it's not twinkled tinkle. Did a little tinkle

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<v Speaker 2>maybe while we're talking twenty mills.

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<v Speaker 3>Thirty one millimeter, it was a drop thirty mills.

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<v Speaker 2>Then used your pelvic floor to hold in the rest,

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<v Speaker 2>zip it up, went to another cubicle. And at no

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<v Speaker 2>point did you think just to ask the person in

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<v Speaker 2>the cubicle for toilet paper.

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<v Speaker 3>Look earlier in the week, you shamed me, you pissed

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<v Speaker 3>shamed me. I did because I wee like a horse,

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<v Speaker 3>and I'd do it again, And so I didn't want

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<v Speaker 3>to be outing myself as a person who's next to

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<v Speaker 3>you in a cubicle saying can I.

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<v Speaker 1>Have some toilet paper? Your nation? Shame?

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<v Speaker 3>It was your nation, And yes, I'm a father, flex

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<v Speaker 3>and frooms.

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<v Speaker 2>It seems like in the year twenty twenty two, it's

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<v Speaker 2>becoming increasingly easier and as difficult as ever to become

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<v Speaker 2>a millionaire. One might say that you take the traditional route.

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<v Speaker 1>You go to.

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<v Speaker 2>UNI, get a job, work for sixty five years, and

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<v Speaker 2>then maybe acquire a million dollars over your lifetime. Some

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<v Speaker 2>people have taken a different route, which involves unboxing toys.

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<v Speaker 2>We talked about a seven year old who made twenty

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<v Speaker 2>two million dollars in one year from unboxing toys obscene.

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<v Speaker 2>I have now come to counter that with an even

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<v Speaker 2>more absurd story, one that feels like it should have

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<v Speaker 2>a fact or cap headline. But I'm going to avoid

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<v Speaker 2>that and just tell you the truth. There was a

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<v Speaker 2>Game of Girl called Belle Delphine who made ten million

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<v Speaker 2>dollars alleged from selling her used bathwater. Some would say

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<v Speaker 2>legends are born. I think that legends are made through

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<v Speaker 2>wacky stunts like this for thirty bucks a pop, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>pretty sure that was USD. I want to do a

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<v Speaker 2>quick currency conversion, maybe about forty bucks fifty five? Anyway,

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<v Speaker 2>you think double almost double? I thought the pound was

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<v Speaker 2>almost double.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna get you a litt legnin Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>She is a Game of girl sometimes makes adult content.

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<v Speaker 2>Has been known to do a few salacious, stunty things

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<v Speaker 2>for you know, a few clicks. But when you've got

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<v Speaker 2>millions of followers, a few clicks can easily turn into

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<v Speaker 2>millions of dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>In your account. Please let us know.

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<v Speaker 3>Girl Boss, so forty USD dollars is fifty six Australian dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>That's terrible.

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<v Speaker 3>Told you I'm amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway, you are amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>So not only confirmes guests the make and model of

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<v Speaker 2>any car in Australia by sight, she has a two

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<v Speaker 2>to five success right, that's like a forty percent. She

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<v Speaker 2>can also do exchange currency converting.

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<v Speaker 1>I digress.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like we've been going about entrepreneurship in the

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<v Speaker 2>wrong way. Had I ever thought about selling my own

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<v Speaker 2>bath order? I haven't do I even take baths. No,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a shower girl. I am a shower girl. But

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<v Speaker 2>if it could make me ten milli USD, I would

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<v Speaker 2>do far less for.

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<v Speaker 1>That much money. I mean, wait, you would.

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<v Speaker 2>So. I think in the next coming weeks we have

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<v Speaker 2>to put some of these things.

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<v Speaker 3>To the test, just because I will detest selling my bathworts.

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<v Speaker 2>Are they flukes or are they strategies that can be

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<v Speaker 2>replicated for success?

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<v Speaker 1>If we start on boxing.

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<v Speaker 2>Toys on YouTube, maybe two three EP's, I want to

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<v Speaker 2>see how much money could flow in from that. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>if we start rickrolling people like Soldier Boy, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>we can get famous. We could be soldier boys if

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<v Speaker 2>we jump into separate baths.

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<v Speaker 1>Bottle that up. Put it on Chopify.

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<v Speaker 3>So just before this segment, our producer Brook told us

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<v Speaker 3>that you know when you go to hotels and there's

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<v Speaker 3>like sometimes a weird film on the bath, like outside

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<v Speaker 3>the bath, that's.

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<v Speaker 1>Skin that's disgusting.

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<v Speaker 3>That's people's skin that they've slored off, ill in the bar,

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<v Speaker 3>slopped it off, and their skin has just covered the

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<v Speaker 3>bath in a salutical slushy poutical, you know, salutical.

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<v Speaker 2>No. I would love to have maybe like a eighty

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<v Speaker 2>six minute conversation with you about all the ways that

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<v Speaker 2>hotels are disgusting. There was this one chicken made this

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<v Speaker 2>tell all video. It was short, maybe a minute, and

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<v Speaker 2>she used to be a hotel cleaner, and she said

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<v Speaker 2>that they would never wash the glasses. Just a bit

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<v Speaker 2>of ajax spray and wipe, you know, get the blue cloth,

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<v Speaker 2>chuck it back up the glasses. Like the glasses. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>the ones you sit from, the ones that are for consumption.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh no, I'm going to barley soon.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyway, this is flex and frooms on KEDA.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's the thing.

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<v Speaker 2>There's not a day that goes by when I don't

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<v Speaker 2>discover another insecurity, not of my own, but just on

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<v Speaker 2>the internet.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you have any insecurities?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I've got heaps, but I don't disclose because if

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<v Speaker 2>I see them and I tell everyone and they see them,

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<v Speaker 2>well now they're real.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, So you just pretend you don't for optics and

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<v Speaker 1>suffer in silence alone.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you tell your friends though, Well, it comes up.

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<v Speaker 2>I won't hide it, but I'm not gonna share it.

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<v Speaker 2>But yes, I go on the internet and people like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, that's space between your top lip and the

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<v Speaker 2>bottom of your nose.

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<v Speaker 1>And like, what about it?

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<v Speaker 3>What do you mean?

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<v Speaker 2>People have the insecurities about the distance between the bottom

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<v Speaker 2>of their nose and the top of their lip. And

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just like, okay, these are all things. Have your insecurities.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not gonna be the insecurity police, but I'm just like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>there are a few key call ones and then the

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<v Speaker 2>rest we have to let them go. But as I

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<v Speaker 2>was scrolling on the clock app, I saw this video

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<v Speaker 2>of a girl selfie mode front camera sitting in what

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<v Speaker 2>appears to be a medical office of some sort, not

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<v Speaker 2>her account.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought was weird. But she was talking.

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<v Speaker 2>About how for the longest time, she's felt really insecure

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<v Speaker 2>about her voice, that it's too high pitched, and so

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<v Speaker 2>she's gone to the surgeon's office to deepen it. I'll

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<v Speaker 2>do some voice acting. Okay, here's what she sounds like.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey everyone, for the longest time, I've had an insecurity

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<v Speaker 2>that my voice is too high and I think it

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<v Speaker 2>makes me sound like a child.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Sitting with Doctormlem to see what he can do for me.

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<v Speaker 2>She gets the surgery the next day, so he's done this.

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<v Speaker 2>She had the Flax special. So I'm really happy with

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<v Speaker 2>my voice at the moment. I feel like I sound

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<v Speaker 2>like a mature woman. This is what I've ached for

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<v Speaker 2>for the last fifteen years. I'm so happy. And the

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<v Speaker 2>comments naturally were tearing her app This is not one

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<v Speaker 2>of those moments where you're like, oh, you know, like

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<v Speaker 2>I don't like my back girls, and everyone's like yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it's saying they were like.

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<v Speaker 3>You are on his ass.

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<v Speaker 1>Your voice was perfect.

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<v Speaker 2>Can I be honest, I don't like your new voice.

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<v Speaker 2>You sound like a man. And then she's in the

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<v Speaker 2>comments fighting for her life. You don't enter, you don't enter,

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<v Speaker 2>you don't enter, just let it play.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so okay to they like cut the vocal cords

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<v Speaker 3>or something.

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<v Speaker 2>It was like before and after she comes out to

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<v Speaker 2>the tube, resurgeon was like, can you make this noise?

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<v Speaker 1>Ah? And then in the before it's.

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<v Speaker 2>Like ah, and the after it's like oh. And then

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<v Speaker 2>he was like, you see, in forty eight hours, you

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<v Speaker 2>too could deepen your voice like this person. And I

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<v Speaker 2>need to nail home the point. We all have insecurities.

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<v Speaker 2>But I just feel like if we were sitting in

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<v Speaker 2>a room on our own, in our lonesome, these insecurities

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<v Speaker 2>would be I don't know, ninety percent lessened. What kind

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<v Speaker 2>of interaction do we need to be having in society

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<v Speaker 2>where some persons felt so traumatized by the pitch of

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<v Speaker 2>their voice.

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<v Speaker 1>Now snipping chords.

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<v Speaker 2>And now she's finally happy with herself. I presume she

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<v Speaker 2>might have Bier's remorse. You know, it was very quick.

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<v Speaker 2>She was still in her surgical garms making the video,

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<v Speaker 2>and now everybody's roasting her. Her new insecurity is going

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<v Speaker 2>to be I was bullied by fifteen year olds on

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<v Speaker 2>TikTok for doing something nice for myself.

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<v Speaker 3>Always fifteen year olds brutal you see, and the issue

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<v Speaker 3>here is that people that are often going out and

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<v Speaker 3>getting surgery have dysmorphia.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that a stat it is?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, hectic?

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<v Speaker 3>So poor cis Can you do your deepest voice?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, let's what's the word alphabet A, b ab CD,

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<v Speaker 2>E f G.

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<v Speaker 1>My voice is already pretty deep.

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<v Speaker 3>No, it's not that was hard? What are you already?

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<v Speaker 1>ABC?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna stop you right there.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay ab CD you should have led with that. You

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<v Speaker 1>would show and tell, just to show and tell. Don't

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<v Speaker 1>ask me to join.

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<v Speaker 3>Roast it.

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<v Speaker 1>This is flex and frooms.

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<v Speaker 3>It's time for my favorite segment, and that segment is

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<v Speaker 3>called love Line, where you our dear listeners, send in

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<v Speaker 3>a dilemma of the relationship variety nice and we will

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<v Speaker 3>match you with a song to send you on your

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<v Speaker 3>merry way and.

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<v Speaker 2>A bit of advice ulicited. No, it's not unsolicited. If

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<v Speaker 2>you met the gin with a request, flexus advice and

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<v Speaker 2>rooms is banter.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, I ha, I've got a lot to say about

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<v Speaker 3>this one today, Love Line. Should I let my ex

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<v Speaker 3>call me pet names? Now? Right off the bat, I want.

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<v Speaker 2>To say, God, yes, I'm not giving up a pet name.

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<v Speaker 2>You think I'm gonna go back and be regressed.

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<v Speaker 1>If there's a pet name I'm sticking on.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, I get back to Lacinda. Hey, Lacinda, I know.

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<v Speaker 1>So rude that grinds my gears.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, let me tell you about this true in justice.

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<v Speaker 3>My boyfriend and I broke up six months ago. He

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<v Speaker 3>dumped me, period. We still remain friends because we are

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<v Speaker 3>in the same friendship group, so much so that we

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<v Speaker 3>will go away on weekends trips as a group and

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<v Speaker 3>we try not to make it awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>Can relate, can you?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? Wow, I am pretty cool with this, but obviously

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<v Speaker 3>I'm still feeling a little bit sensitive given I was

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<v Speaker 3>the dumb pee.

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<v Speaker 1>No, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Dump truck. Anyway, Anyway, when we're in the same space,

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<v Speaker 3>he still calls me pet names. For example, we were

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<v Speaker 3>in the kitchen at the Airbnb when we all went

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<v Speaker 3>away and it was just him and me making chicken

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<v Speaker 3>tacos for the group, and he would say things like, hey, Munchie,

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<v Speaker 3>can you pass the sauce boat, Hey, pigeon, past the mayo,

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<v Speaker 3>because we used to call each other munch. Of course, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>it makes sense. This really bothers me because it feels

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<v Speaker 3>too intimate and I know he doesn't want to get

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<v Speaker 3>back together. I think he's seen someone else.

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<v Speaker 1>Should a.

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<v Speaker 3>Munchie has entered the chat, that's bold. This is a

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<v Speaker 3>tricky one for me.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think it is. It's very simple. Then you

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<v Speaker 1>tell me why is it so tricky.

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<v Speaker 3>Because often I get called Lucinda, which is just absurd.

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<v Speaker 1>You find that rude. I'm hurt for you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, well, because I hit them with a pet name.

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<v Speaker 1>Of course any.

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<v Speaker 2>Sound person would if we're not on pet name status.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's not talk.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I'm thinking about this situation. I'm taking myself out

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<v Speaker 3>of there.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, let's promove ourselves.

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<v Speaker 3>I am sad for her that he is calling her munchie.

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<v Speaker 1>And seeing someone else.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, don't call me munchie if you're routing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, I mean you're laying down pipe stick to

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<v Speaker 2>the government name.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that he is in the wrong. I think

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<v Speaker 3>he should stop calling her Munchie and instead go back

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<v Speaker 3>to her legal name, which i'd say it's Licinda. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>But also in this instance, this person's messaged in. They've

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<v Speaker 2>said I was broken up with. Only people who've been

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<v Speaker 2>broken up with make the distinction. If you've done the

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<v Speaker 2>breaking up, you say we broke up, you know, so

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<v Speaker 2>let's just make that clear. Number two, it's been six months.

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<v Speaker 2>That's fresh to me. Me too, that's pretty fresh. You're

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<v Speaker 2>in the same friend group. You are never healing, you

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<v Speaker 2>are never recovering. So while someone who was completely fine

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<v Speaker 2>with this would not message us, you have, which leads

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<v Speaker 2>me to believe you are uncomfortable with the current dynamic.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't want to be single. You don't appreciate the

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<v Speaker 2>pet names, not because it's too close to home, but

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<v Speaker 2>because he's pet naming you and seeing someone else, and

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<v Speaker 2>as you said, he doesn't want to get back together

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<v Speaker 2>with you. These are all bad things compound together a

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<v Speaker 2>terrible thing well with no solution because you're in the

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<v Speaker 2>same friend group.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, hasoc You've been listening to the Flegs and Frooms

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