WEBVTT - Could This Be The Craziest Cannibal Story Ever? 🥩 0:00:00.120 --> 0:00:04.160 Flex and Frooms on Kaita Flex and Frooms Podcast Edition. 0:00:04.360 --> 0:00:08.600 Today's show is going to be so delicious. 0:00:08.880 --> 0:00:11.119 You sick in me, You sick in me. 0:00:11.200 --> 0:00:13.119 I'm disgusted, and yet I have to sit next to 0:00:13.160 --> 0:00:16.200 you daily and experience this all for myself. 0:00:17.079 --> 0:00:20.200 There are themes that crop up in my life. One 0:00:20.200 --> 0:00:23.959 would say that they find me. My little FBI agent 0:00:24.000 --> 0:00:26.880 in my phone is making sure that at any given time, 0:00:27.320 --> 0:00:29.920 if I like something, it's all I'm seeing on every 0:00:29.920 --> 0:00:30.960 social media platform. 0:00:31.040 --> 0:00:34.080 It's so awful when you put those little toe picks 0:00:34.159 --> 0:00:37.760 up on Instagram makes me feel physically ill. 0:00:37.640 --> 0:00:40.680 Does it really? Yeah? WHOA? But I think that's nice. 0:00:40.720 --> 0:00:42.879 I think you're subverting the narrative that you have to 0:00:42.880 --> 0:00:46.479 always be talking about proper things. Yourys have to be 0:00:46.520 --> 0:00:49.519 making beautiful photos and videos. 0:00:49.360 --> 0:00:52.760 Never light and shade. But today we're going to talk 0:00:52.760 --> 0:00:55.160 about this movie I watched on Disney Plus. If you're 0:00:55.160 --> 0:00:57.240 not in Australia, I think you watch it on Hulu, 0:00:57.320 --> 0:00:59.960 but I don't know. It's called Fresh. It's a horror comic, 0:01:00.240 --> 0:01:03.080 which those two things. Initially, I say, no, I want 0:01:03.160 --> 0:01:05.760 horrors and I want thrillers. I don't really want to 0:01:05.800 --> 0:01:09.959 watch a comedy, but together it creates this really self aware, 0:01:10.120 --> 0:01:15.920 self referential movie. Freshes about this woman who signed herself 0:01:15.959 --> 0:01:19.800 so dissillusioned with dating that she taps out only to 0:01:19.840 --> 0:01:22.520 run into a really charming guy in the supermarket and 0:01:22.560 --> 0:01:24.679 they start a love affair. She's like, this is so crazy. 0:01:24.720 --> 0:01:27.000 You can meet people in real life. I am the exception. 0:01:27.160 --> 0:01:31.240 I'm so lucky. She falls fast for this guy, ignoring 0:01:31.319 --> 0:01:33.800 all the red flags and ends up a victim to 0:01:35.120 --> 0:01:40.560 his cannibalistic ways. Rip. But that's not what this is about, 0:01:41.160 --> 0:01:44.280 talking about how all this chat about red flags isn't 0:01:44.280 --> 0:01:45.720 doing anything to say to us when it matters. 0:01:46.640 --> 0:01:47.480 It certainly isn't. 0:01:48.120 --> 0:01:49.240 Anyway, let's get into it. 0:01:49.400 --> 0:01:52.000 This is flex and frooms on Kada. 0:01:52.360 --> 0:01:54.240 Someone sent me a DM the other day, and I 0:01:54.320 --> 0:01:57.480 always love when I check my dms and there's content 0:01:57.520 --> 0:02:01.000 in there that makes me think this person really gets meat. 0:02:01.600 --> 0:02:04.320 Because some people think they get me and they send 0:02:04.320 --> 0:02:07.280 me Twilight memes from twenty ten, the ones that have 0:02:07.360 --> 0:02:10.360 been rinsed, like we saw those on Tumbler. I've seen 0:02:10.400 --> 0:02:12.880 this one. Okay, it's the thought that counts. It is 0:02:12.919 --> 0:02:14.400 the thought that counts. But that's what I'm saying you 0:02:14.400 --> 0:02:16.880 get these really good ones, You're like, wow, they get me. Anyway, 0:02:17.080 --> 0:02:21.720 it's about this company, this startup called Bite Labs that 0:02:22.160 --> 0:02:27.480 grow meat from celebrity tissue and uses that meat to 0:02:27.560 --> 0:02:31.799 make artisanal salami. How does that sound to you? 0:02:31.800 --> 0:02:33.720 You know what, I'd ate it. 0:02:34.639 --> 0:02:37.920 This is very exciting to me. This is incredible. So 0:02:38.520 --> 0:02:40.720 I feel like when I use these phrases, people like 0:02:40.720 --> 0:02:42.800 I said, what do you mean you like eat the meat? Yes, babe. 0:02:42.880 --> 0:02:45.640 We take a bit of tissue from the celebrities and 0:02:45.680 --> 0:02:47.679 then we put them on the little peachery dish, we 0:02:47.720 --> 0:02:50.320 add some things, we harvest it turn it into dry 0:02:50.400 --> 0:02:54.440 age solami. It's actually incredible. The whole reason why they've 0:02:54.480 --> 0:02:58.200 done this is they've said that basically seventy percent of 0:02:58.240 --> 0:03:03.720 the world's farmland, almost thirty percent of the world's entire soface, 0:03:04.680 --> 0:03:08.760 is used for raising animals. So meat production today is 0:03:09.080 --> 0:03:13.160 unsustainable for now, but increasingly unsustainable for the future. And 0:03:13.160 --> 0:03:15.680 so what they're suggesting that unless we make a radical 0:03:15.760 --> 0:03:20.360 change right now, there's no drip feeding small small just 0:03:20.400 --> 0:03:22.080 like closed down one farm at a time, it's not 0:03:22.120 --> 0:03:24.120 going to work out that way. And also we're going 0:03:24.160 --> 0:03:26.440 to displace a bunch of farmers in doing that. So 0:03:26.520 --> 0:03:30.520 instead of trying to remove farms, why don't we today 0:03:31.200 --> 0:03:35.680 make a change. Right, So, basically, these people have said 0:03:35.680 --> 0:03:39.520 that if we if we became on board with celebrity 0:03:39.560 --> 0:03:43.320 meat production, it would require less than one percent of 0:03:43.400 --> 0:03:47.360 the amount of land needed to sustain traditional farming. So 0:03:47.440 --> 0:03:50.080 what they want to do is first get the celebrity, 0:03:50.120 --> 0:03:53.080 do the quick biopsy, make their meat go through this 0:03:53.320 --> 0:03:56.560 in house curing process, and because they have that tissue, 0:03:56.560 --> 0:03:59.040 they can keep making the same meat again and again 0:03:59.080 --> 0:04:04.440 and again as ever renewing meat sell sample. And so 0:04:04.560 --> 0:04:06.280 if you want to get involved, I was wondering how 0:04:06.280 --> 0:04:09.640 we could also give them our tissue because I would 0:04:09.640 --> 0:04:09.920 eat me? 0:04:10.520 --> 0:04:10.839 You would? 0:04:11.120 --> 0:04:11.360 Yeah? 0:04:11.440 --> 0:04:12.040 Would you eat me? 0:04:12.560 --> 0:04:13.040 Yeah? 0:04:13.320 --> 0:04:14.920 Just a write amount of tomato sauce on it? 0:04:15.000 --> 0:04:17.799 I do. I'm ready to get This is my little 0:04:17.839 --> 0:04:21.040 cooking hack while we're here. You know those little frankfurts, yes, 0:04:21.400 --> 0:04:26.360 red boy frankfurts, little red rockets. Chop them up, fry them, 0:04:26.880 --> 0:04:28.760 and then douse him in tomato sauce. 0:04:29.400 --> 0:04:31.719 Yeah that sounds good like little fingers. 0:04:32.360 --> 0:04:32.920 Yeah? 0:04:33.120 --> 0:04:33.880 Would I eat it? 0:04:34.000 --> 0:04:37.080 I think what you say about meat production being completely 0:04:37.440 --> 0:04:40.640 unsustainable my brain isn't ready for that. We are both 0:04:40.839 --> 0:04:42.480 enormous McDonald's fans. 0:04:43.520 --> 0:04:45.680 McDonald's even real meat. If someone swapped that out for 0:04:45.880 --> 0:04:51.360 some miscellaneous we wouldn't even know. Like I've eaten Beyond 0:04:51.360 --> 0:04:54.159 meat before camel meat. It's a good Kane group. Beyond 0:04:54.240 --> 0:04:56.800 Meat is great, tastes just like meat, and that's coming 0:04:56.800 --> 0:04:58.960 from me, a picky eater. But Beyond meat is really 0:04:59.000 --> 0:05:00.680 goes just expensive. But if that's what we need to 0:05:00.680 --> 0:05:03.039 do to save the planet, so we should do. I 0:05:03.040 --> 0:05:06.320 think what they should start doing is, you know, instead 0:05:06.320 --> 0:05:10.120 of saying like this meat was made by using James 0:05:10.120 --> 0:05:15.840 Franco's meat, just say it's James Franco branded meat. Hmm, okay, 0:05:15.920 --> 0:05:18.280 in the fine print, say it was made from him. 0:05:18.600 --> 0:05:20.840 But just get him to endorse it. Before you know it, 0:05:20.880 --> 0:05:21.720 we're saving the world? 0:05:23.440 --> 0:05:25.960 Is it a real technolog Like? Have they got to go? 0:05:26.360 --> 0:05:29.119 So right now, the call to action, essentially for anyone 0:05:29.160 --> 0:05:30.919 who wants to get involved in saving the world is 0:05:30.920 --> 0:05:32.880 go to their website buy labs dot com. Maybe I 0:05:32.880 --> 0:05:35.640 don't know, And what they want you to do is 0:05:35.640 --> 0:05:37.680 they've got a list of celebrities that are on their 0:05:37.720 --> 0:05:40.400 hit list. Essentially, that they think have you know, the 0:05:40.440 --> 0:05:43.279 greatest reach and the greatest possibility of having this become 0:05:43.360 --> 0:05:46.839 a mainstream success. So they've drafted a tweet that you 0:05:46.880 --> 0:05:49.320 just need to copy and paste into your Twitter, send it, 0:05:49.760 --> 0:05:53.719 and hopefully it goes viral so we can save the world. 0:05:54.279 --> 0:05:56.800 Well, lets us to do a taste test first. 0:05:57.640 --> 0:05:59.359 Yeah, yeah, let's buy some meat. 0:06:00.600 --> 0:06:02.520 Let's do that and see what's beyond me. 0:06:03.760 --> 0:06:06.480 If any celebrities have offered up their meat yet, because 0:06:06.520 --> 0:06:08.960 I think there's an issue with IP and ownership, Like, 0:06:08.960 --> 0:06:12.040 if I'm giving you my literal body and you're now 0:06:12.080 --> 0:06:16.680 profiting and making renewable and infinite amounts of meat from 0:06:16.680 --> 0:06:18.920 my meat, where's the cut. 0:06:19.720 --> 0:06:22.360 The way that we can get around this is get 0:06:22.360 --> 0:06:25.200 the farmers to harvest their body and then we can 0:06:25.279 --> 0:06:27.880 let them retire from the farms and just make money off. 0:06:28.520 --> 0:06:30.960 That's quite good. Yeah, that's quite genius. 0:06:31.000 --> 0:06:32.200 Actually, thank you. 0:06:32.320 --> 0:06:33.360 A one was for free too. 0:06:34.000 --> 0:06:37.520 You're listening to flex and frooms on Kita. 0:06:37.400 --> 0:06:40.240 Listen to this. Researchers have found that loneliness is just 0:06:40.320 --> 0:06:44.680 as lethal as smoking fifteen cigarettes per day. Lonely people 0:06:44.720 --> 0:06:48.080 are fifty percent more likely to die prematurely than those 0:06:48.120 --> 0:06:52.760 with healthy social relationships. Grim, that's very exciting. 0:06:53.720 --> 0:06:55.159 What about that would be exciting? 0:06:55.400 --> 0:06:59.280 Well, because if you're a smoker, it's really bad for you. No, 0:06:59.520 --> 0:07:02.040 being a nighteel with no friends is worse. 0:07:03.400 --> 0:07:05.720 Well, I guess it's kind of like ciggie breaks. I 0:07:05.720 --> 0:07:08.440 think that's a big part of why people continue smoking, 0:07:08.560 --> 0:07:11.360 is because they like the social thing of going outside 0:07:11.360 --> 0:07:12.400 and having a CIGGI. 0:07:12.560 --> 0:07:14.720 We need to quiz a few cigarette smokers. 0:07:14.880 --> 0:07:15.920 Do you smoke cigarettes? 0:07:16.840 --> 0:07:17.119 Yes? 0:07:17.960 --> 0:07:18.640 How often? 0:07:19.240 --> 0:07:22.560 No, you've seen this skin? Shut up? You let that 0:07:22.600 --> 0:07:24.600 go for way too long. No, I don't smoke cigarettes, 0:07:24.600 --> 0:07:27.119 so I think you can tell by my complexion. Also, 0:07:27.160 --> 0:07:29.120 I told you don't have an addictive personality. It's not 0:07:29.160 --> 0:07:32.160 my vibe. Well, you're very lucky, then pick things up, 0:07:32.320 --> 0:07:33.800 let things go. It's that simple to me. 0:07:34.080 --> 0:07:36.960 This is flex and frooms on Kada. 0:07:37.200 --> 0:07:39.000 Last week, I wanted to tell you about this movie 0:07:39.080 --> 0:07:43.680 called Fresh. I watched it recently on Disney Plus. Didn't 0:07:43.800 --> 0:07:45.000 pay for that myself. 0:07:45.120 --> 0:07:47.800 I was gonna say, I asked for your log into. 0:07:48.280 --> 0:07:50.440 And I borrowed Seleiha's my best friend, because I was like, 0:07:50.480 --> 0:07:52.360 I'm not paying for another subscription, So I was not again, 0:07:52.600 --> 0:07:56.320 I've got Amazon Prime, Netflix. Hey you, I'm not doing it, 0:07:56.920 --> 0:07:59.640 but I borrowed her looking and like a borrower can't 0:07:59.680 --> 0:08:02.360 then pass on the subscription. I could never do that. 0:08:02.840 --> 0:08:04.760 Yeah that's really We could probably talk about that on 0:08:04.840 --> 0:08:05.240 a segment. 0:08:05.360 --> 0:08:08.800 Yeah truly. But yes. I watch this movie called Fresh 0:08:08.840 --> 0:08:11.200 and the only reason it had come across my radar 0:08:11.320 --> 0:08:15.480 is because of this dance scene on TikTok, and everyone's like, no, 0:08:15.560 --> 0:08:17.000 it has nothing to do with the movie. The movie 0:08:17.040 --> 0:08:18.720 is so good, it's so deep, and I was like, 0:08:18.720 --> 0:08:23.240 how deep can a horror comedy be? I digress. The 0:08:23.280 --> 0:08:27.240 movie is about the protagonist, this girl called Noah, and 0:08:27.280 --> 0:08:30.560 she finds herself really disillusioned with dating. She's like, I 0:08:30.720 --> 0:08:32.959 like one swipe after the next, I'm not into it. 0:08:33.240 --> 0:08:36.240 I'm not finding anything that's right for me. She goes 0:08:36.360 --> 0:08:37.719 on these dates. She's just like, you know what, I'm 0:08:37.720 --> 0:08:40.520 gonna tap out. I'm just I don't date anymore. I 0:08:40.559 --> 0:08:42.640 am over and I'm off it, which is not an 0:08:42.760 --> 0:08:46.880 unusual approach. Like, we know plenty of people who have 0:08:47.000 --> 0:08:49.880 just decided that dating's not for them. If someone crosses 0:08:49.920 --> 0:08:52.040 their path, they'll consider it, but if not, they're good 0:08:52.720 --> 0:08:55.960 tell me why. In this movie, this girl goes to 0:08:55.960 --> 0:09:01.560 a supermarket and she gets stopped by this guy in 0:09:01.640 --> 0:09:04.760 the fruit asle who's like, hey, like, how are you going. 0:09:04.840 --> 0:09:07.480 Have you tried these cotton candy grapes? They just taste 0:09:07.559 --> 0:09:10.200 just like cotton candy, And she's like, ah, yeah, no, 0:09:10.480 --> 0:09:13.559 like I haven't had them anyway. That sparks the conversation 0:09:13.720 --> 0:09:16.720 between her and this guy. They chat for about five minutes. 0:09:16.800 --> 0:09:19.800 He gives her his number, and suddenly she's just so 0:09:19.920 --> 0:09:22.960 excited about the prospect of finding romance of some sort. 0:09:23.240 --> 0:09:26.960 She's very common people pretend they hate dating and romance, 0:09:26.960 --> 0:09:29.520 so they got no options. You get one time, you 0:09:29.600 --> 0:09:34.040 get one lukewarm option, and suddenly you're all down for it. Now, 0:09:34.280 --> 0:09:37.120 I'm going to pause right here to say this movie 0:09:37.160 --> 0:09:39.400 has been out for almost a year, so I'm gonna 0:09:39.400 --> 0:09:41.599 spoil it because if you wanted to see it, you 0:09:41.640 --> 0:09:44.920 would have seen it by now. So long story short, 0:09:45.040 --> 0:09:47.880 she ends up dating this guy casually. He has a 0:09:47.920 --> 0:09:52.000 ton of red flags that she ignores so much show 0:09:52.040 --> 0:09:56.720 that she ends up at his private estate. She gets 0:09:56.960 --> 0:10:01.280 drugged by him, wakes up chained. The fl law turns 0:10:01.320 --> 0:10:10.440 out her new boyfriend is accounable. Oh yah. And the 0:10:10.559 --> 0:10:15.720 thing that pains me so is that every step of 0:10:15.880 --> 0:10:19.960 the way, the red flags were flagging. The red flags 0:10:20.000 --> 0:10:23.440 were flagging, and she ignored them because Number one, her 0:10:23.520 --> 0:10:26.160 lack of success in dating had made her desperate. Yeah, 0:10:26.280 --> 0:10:29.200 so desperate. She didn't even realize she was that desperate 0:10:29.280 --> 0:10:32.960 because she refused to acknowledge a creepy guy because he 0:10:33.040 --> 0:10:37.760 was handsome and showed her her kindness. These particular red flags, 0:10:38.040 --> 0:10:41.280 I have no doubt most people would ignore if the 0:10:41.320 --> 0:10:42.400 person was attractive. 0:10:43.080 --> 0:10:44.760 So what are some of the red flags? 0:10:45.440 --> 0:10:46.520 I was hoping you'd ask. 0:10:46.800 --> 0:10:47.800 I was hoping you'd ask. 0:10:47.920 --> 0:10:49.880 Honestly, when I was watching this movie, I had to 0:10:49.960 --> 0:10:55.400 stop because I found myself wanting to just like yell 0:10:55.480 --> 0:10:58.360 at her, like, what do you mean you're ignoring this? Yeah, 0:10:58.400 --> 0:11:01.600 he's cute. He's like a moly attractive random man. But 0:11:01.640 --> 0:11:04.800 he's just some guy who's the Sebastian Stan never heard 0:11:04.840 --> 0:11:07.720 of him. Yeah, okay, here are some of the red flags. 0:11:08.120 --> 0:11:12.800 Number One, he has no social media. Now, when someone 0:11:13.040 --> 0:11:15.520 says to me they don't have social media, I feel 0:11:15.559 --> 0:11:18.000 like you don't use it, you just don't have it. 0:11:19.559 --> 0:11:22.600 As in, like if someone has social media and doesn't 0:11:22.679 --> 0:11:25.400 use it. I think, whatever, but to not have it. 0:11:25.520 --> 0:11:27.280 If I'm dating a twenty eight year old with no 0:11:27.320 --> 0:11:30.040 social media, I'm like, this is sus. You're either hiding 0:11:30.080 --> 0:11:34.600 your mistaken identity, you've got a partner, or you're being 0:11:34.600 --> 0:11:36.600 a contrariyanto a fault. It's too much for me. 0:11:36.760 --> 0:11:37.000 Yeah. 0:11:37.320 --> 0:11:40.400 My one of my best friends doesn't didn't have social 0:11:40.440 --> 0:11:43.000 media until about two months ago. And it's like she 0:11:43.440 --> 0:11:46.240 is starting from scratch. She's like, I didn't know, Like 0:11:47.000 --> 0:11:48.920 this is so much pressure, Like feels the pressure one 0:11:48.960 --> 0:11:51.400 hundred percent more like she's jumping into cold water. 0:11:51.679 --> 0:11:56.240 What was her reason for not having a contrarian? I'd say, yeah, at. 0:11:56.200 --> 0:11:58.560 Least you know I mean, Lisa, you know. So the 0:11:58.600 --> 0:12:01.600 second one, which is a huge, huge one, he refuses 0:12:01.640 --> 0:12:05.079 to tell her anything about himself straight up. He dodges 0:12:05.200 --> 0:12:09.160 questions about himself left and right. He deflects them back onto. 0:12:09.320 --> 0:12:12.960 For example, she'll say do you have any siblings? He's like, oh, siblings? 0:12:13.360 --> 0:12:14.800 Do I look like a sibling kind of person? What 0:12:14.800 --> 0:12:16.360 about you? Do you have siblings? And then before you're 0:12:16.360 --> 0:12:18.040 not She's talking about herself and again and again and 0:12:18.040 --> 0:12:22.160 again and so what she registered this as was, oh 0:12:22.200 --> 0:12:24.320 my god, he's so interested in getting to know me. 0:12:24.679 --> 0:12:29.120 He's asking me questions. Green flag. Before she knows her 0:12:29.120 --> 0:12:31.600 friends are like, wait, what does this guy do? Like, 0:12:31.640 --> 0:12:34.160 even when he said his occupation he's a doctor, she 0:12:34.200 --> 0:12:37.280 didn't ask any questions like what kind of doctor are you? 0:12:37.280 --> 0:12:41.200 You're a pediatrician, you're a surgeon. He's an asked doctor, 0:12:41.440 --> 0:12:43.040 you know what. He just flipped it back on her, 0:12:43.040 --> 0:12:45.400 and she's like, oh, he's so interested in getting to 0:12:45.440 --> 0:12:47.839 know me. That's two off the. 0:12:47.800 --> 0:12:48.880 Bat, and they're big ones. 0:12:49.120 --> 0:12:52.320 That's like character faults as a person, regardless of if 0:12:52.320 --> 0:12:53.080 you're dating them or not. 0:12:54.240 --> 0:12:57.280 The third one, when they go home together for the 0:12:57.320 --> 0:13:00.560 first time, he is like, we're moving to fast. I 0:13:00.559 --> 0:13:02.720 don't want to sleep if you or do anything. Within 0:13:02.880 --> 0:13:07.880 three minutes switches up. It's like, actually, I'm keen. 0:13:08.080 --> 0:13:08.920 He's a genius. 0:13:09.000 --> 0:13:10.920 Will we should be taking dating tips from this man, 0:13:10.960 --> 0:13:12.480 to be honest, because. 0:13:12.160 --> 0:13:13.560 As soon as he got there, he was like, you 0:13:13.559 --> 0:13:15.280 know what, We're not gonna do anything. I want to talk. 0:13:15.360 --> 0:13:18.880 She let her guard down immediately, and then the moment 0:13:18.920 --> 0:13:22.320 he sat next to her, she was like smoke and 0:13:22.360 --> 0:13:25.920 he was like smoke and they're like, let's fuck, that's 0:13:25.960 --> 0:13:28.800 three so far we haven't even gotten to the halfway point. 0:13:28.840 --> 0:13:30.319 The big hey, he's a cannibal thing. 0:13:31.200 --> 0:13:32.760 Four So yeah. 0:13:33.000 --> 0:13:35.520 The fourth one is after knowing each other for like 0:13:35.600 --> 0:13:39.640 three minutes, not knowing anything about who is his full name, 0:13:40.120 --> 0:13:42.200 where he works, what he does for work, who his 0:13:42.360 --> 0:13:45.800 friends are, where he lives, none of this vital information. 0:13:46.160 --> 0:13:48.760 He's okay, we should go on a trip together. We 0:13:48.760 --> 0:13:52.080 should go to my holiday house. And everybody knows that 0:13:52.480 --> 0:13:55.959 the sign of progress in a new relationship is like 0:13:55.960 --> 0:13:57.800 the going away together to her holiday and it's very 0:13:57.800 --> 0:14:01.280 exciting family holiday house. But she's not remembering. She like 0:14:01.320 --> 0:14:04.920 this is some strange man. And when her friends remind 0:14:04.920 --> 0:14:06.400 her of this fact, she's like, no, you don't get it. 0:14:06.400 --> 0:14:08.200 Like he's really nice, and like he's so charming and 0:14:08.240 --> 0:14:10.720 he really likes me. You're like, don't rain on my parade, 0:14:10.720 --> 0:14:14.400 don't ruin my vibe. He's a good guy. Tell me why. 0:14:14.800 --> 0:14:18.520 As they're driving to the holiday house, so before they 0:14:18.679 --> 0:14:21.400 leave to start their drive, she's like, where is it again, 0:14:21.760 --> 0:14:24.760 He's like, oh, I didn't tell you. Oh it's nearby, 0:14:24.840 --> 0:14:26.480 so and so you might not be familiar with it, 0:14:26.520 --> 0:14:29.720 but I'll show you a well that way, okay, So 0:14:29.760 --> 0:14:32.920 I can't know where we're going. Then, as they're getting 0:14:32.920 --> 0:14:35.920 ready to go, he's like, oh, I checked the traffic 0:14:35.960 --> 0:14:38.280 and it's gonna be really bad traffic. So why don't 0:14:38.320 --> 0:14:42.000 we stop at my house on the way, stay the 0:14:42.080 --> 0:14:45.080 night at my house, and then go to the holiday house. 0:14:45.440 --> 0:14:48.040 At this rate, both of you just stay home go tomorrow. 0:14:48.800 --> 0:14:51.880 So then when she's like, okay, where is it, he's like, 0:14:51.920 --> 0:14:53.960 I'll tell you later. So you don't know where you're going. 0:14:54.120 --> 0:14:55.440 I don't know how long it's going to take. You 0:14:55.440 --> 0:14:56.960 can't tell your friends where you are. And at this 0:14:57.000 --> 0:14:59.600 point you're like, but you don't get him. He's good something. 0:15:00.000 --> 0:15:01.880 It's for a mantic you know exactly. 0:15:02.160 --> 0:15:05.040 You know what he's taking charge. He's planning dates. You're 0:15:05.080 --> 0:15:08.800 just jealous because your man would never Then it gets worse. 0:15:09.360 --> 0:15:11.920 They're in the car driving to his house to go 0:15:12.000 --> 0:15:14.800 to his holiday house. She's like, I don't have reception. 0:15:15.520 --> 0:15:17.600 He's like, oh yeah, it's terrible up here. You know, 0:15:17.800 --> 0:15:19.800 it'll kick you in When we'll get to my house. 0:15:20.240 --> 0:15:23.480 She's like, how far away are we? He's like, chill, right, 0:15:23.640 --> 0:15:27.680 just you're always stressing about details. Let your hair out, Relax, 0:15:27.800 --> 0:15:34.160 it's all good. They get to his house, tell me why. 0:15:34.320 --> 0:15:36.360 She's like. He's like, oh, do you want to drink? 0:15:36.800 --> 0:15:38.520 And she's like, oh, I just really want to call 0:15:38.560 --> 0:15:41.320 my friends. He's like, sit down and sit down, relax, 0:15:41.440 --> 0:15:46.400 don't worry about that. She's like, Okay, send more. If 0:15:46.440 --> 0:15:49.880 these were isolated incidents spread over the course of six months, 0:15:50.000 --> 0:15:52.880 maybe you wouldn't notice it's been two weeks. 0:15:53.400 --> 0:15:53.600 See. 0:15:53.640 --> 0:15:55.680 But that's the thing I feel like, when things happen 0:15:55.760 --> 0:15:59.640 to you in quick succession from another person a decns 0:15:59.680 --> 0:16:04.400 at times, you used to this person taking you by surprise, right, 0:16:04.480 --> 0:16:07.000 So then it just becomes part of their quirky personality, Like, 0:16:07.040 --> 0:16:08.840 of course he's going to act like that. 0:16:08.960 --> 0:16:12.280 Yes, this is exactly what he would do. And so, 0:16:12.520 --> 0:16:16.200 long story short, she gets to his actual home. He 0:16:16.240 --> 0:16:18.520 gives her a drink. He's like, do you taste anything 0:16:18.520 --> 0:16:21.080 different in it? And she's like, oh, apriclot. He's like 0:16:21.320 --> 0:16:24.560 guess again. She's like pitch. She's like guess again, and 0:16:24.600 --> 0:16:25.840 then he's like, I drugged. 0:16:25.560 --> 0:16:29.000 You, and then she does she like pass out? 0:16:29.320 --> 0:16:31.320 Yeah, she passes out. She wakes up chain to the 0:16:31.360 --> 0:16:33.640 Crown turns out not only is he accountable, but what 0:16:33.680 --> 0:16:37.480 he does is he kidnaps women, and then he, while 0:16:37.520 --> 0:16:39.800 they're alive, he cuts and hacks off bits of their 0:16:39.800 --> 0:16:43.320 limbs and sells them to rich men who have also 0:16:43.360 --> 0:16:48.200 a kink and a fetish and a hunger for newbile 0:16:48.800 --> 0:16:49.840 woman meat? 0:16:50.480 --> 0:16:52.760 Does she end up dying? I can't tell you that. 0:16:53.000 --> 0:16:56.600 Oh you've you're not? 0:16:59.280 --> 0:17:02.120 No, of course, she gets out, she missed a feeling, 0:17:02.200 --> 0:17:03.000 she missing a finger? 0:17:03.120 --> 0:17:05.360 Yeah, yeah, guess what he cuts off first. 0:17:06.840 --> 0:17:08.520 Third toe her bum? 0:17:09.080 --> 0:17:13.000 What? Yeah? He gives her an anti bound She's bound 0:17:13.080 --> 0:17:13.560 to the ground. 0:17:13.760 --> 0:17:18.400 The point is, though, wait, like how much of the bum. 0:17:18.840 --> 0:17:24.120 Like the meaty bits or the fatty bits? Cut right? 0:17:24.960 --> 0:17:28.480 I say all this to say, every week we come 0:17:28.520 --> 0:17:30.720 on here, we talk about dating, We talk about red flags. 0:17:30.720 --> 0:17:33.520 You get on TikTok red flags, this is a nick whatever, 0:17:34.320 --> 0:17:37.479 And when push comes to shoves, people are interested in 0:17:37.640 --> 0:17:41.320 like the creative writing of it all to be able 0:17:41.320 --> 0:17:43.439 to say, I know what a red flag looks like, 0:17:43.480 --> 0:17:45.440 and I can explain it in a really beautiful way. 0:17:45.800 --> 0:17:50.320 But in practice, this girl, who her character was not 0:17:50.440 --> 0:17:55.199 some ditsy empty head bimbo, was sort of framed as 0:17:55.240 --> 0:18:00.040 like this really cerebral feminist girl who had decid I 0:18:00.080 --> 0:18:02.119 had to opt out of dating because it wasn't working 0:18:02.119 --> 0:18:04.320 for her, and she'd seen it all before and she 0:18:04.440 --> 0:18:09.120 knew better. Imagine her surprise and she's like, fuck, I'm 0:18:09.160 --> 0:18:12.520 that girl, like so desperate to be seen that I'm 0:18:12.520 --> 0:18:14.800 in this predicament where I am now chained to the 0:18:14.800 --> 0:18:18.800 ground and I'm rich man meat. It's quite sad if 0:18:18.800 --> 0:18:21.280 you think about it. Red flags have lost or meaning 0:18:21.280 --> 0:18:24.720 to me, to be honest, seriously, it's too the language 0:18:24.760 --> 0:18:27.399 is too advanced. Literally, I was going to post a 0:18:27.440 --> 0:18:31.080 TikTok the other day saying that my red Flag four 0:18:31.119 --> 0:18:34.560 people are seeing them with inside out umbrellas, like broken 0:18:34.640 --> 0:18:35.720 umbrellas in. 0:18:35.680 --> 0:18:38.760 The Sydney rain. I'm like, it's so so fucking embarrassing. 0:18:38.760 --> 0:18:44.159 I go to you, an elitist, and I have a 0:18:44.200 --> 0:18:45.199 doozy few flecks. 0:18:45.320 --> 0:18:46.120 Let me hear it. 0:18:46.320 --> 0:18:49.640 This was sent in by one of our man listeners. Oh, 0:18:49.960 --> 0:18:53.920 I know you're thinking OMN on the airwaves, so sure is. 0:18:54.200 --> 0:18:56.840 And he wants to know if his girlfriend went too 0:18:56.880 --> 0:18:59.560 far at a bachelorette party. I don't believe she did 0:19:01.119 --> 0:19:04.520 listen to this Hey, I'm looking for some perspective. I 0:19:04.600 --> 0:19:07.840 understand and appreciate the view. Every relationship is different and 0:19:07.920 --> 0:19:12.399 has different boundaries. I like him, but the purpose of 0:19:12.440 --> 0:19:15.199 this post is to ask you for your opinion on 0:19:15.240 --> 0:19:19.000 the situation. My girlfriend of three point five years went 0:19:19.080 --> 0:19:22.040 on a bachelorette party and to her own admission, it 0:19:22.119 --> 0:19:24.960 was a wild weekend. They got a striper one of 0:19:25.000 --> 0:19:26.880 the nights, and she sent me a video the next 0:19:26.920 --> 0:19:29.520 morning that a friend of hers took of her lying 0:19:29.560 --> 0:19:31.359 on a couch with all the girls in the room 0:19:31.680 --> 0:19:34.120 and the stripper on top of her, touching and moving 0:19:34.200 --> 0:19:36.919 her legs, smacking the side of her leg ass and 0:19:37.000 --> 0:19:39.639 kissing her on the neck and air humping in multiple 0:19:39.720 --> 0:19:42.919 sex positions, all while her skirt rode up and you 0:19:42.960 --> 0:19:46.359 can fully see her underwear about six inches from his 0:19:47.000 --> 0:19:50.159 You know what? WHOA All the girls are screaming, laughing 0:19:50.320 --> 0:19:53.200 and watching, and she's laughing in the video. When I 0:19:53.200 --> 0:19:57.399 immediately responded wtf about the video, she acted surprised and 0:19:57.440 --> 0:19:59.720 she thought she She said she shared it because she 0:19:59.680 --> 0:20:03.840 heard was funny. I think this is borderline cheating, and 0:20:03.880 --> 0:20:06.560 even if it's not cheating, it makes me very uncomfortable. 0:20:06.600 --> 0:20:07.600 And enraged to. 0:20:07.640 --> 0:20:10.399