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Speaker 2: Now, No, I do need to come clean in the

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Speaker 2: dumb stories about my teenage years. I was the teenage

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Speaker 1: And now here's the stars of our show, my mom

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Speaker 2: So we don't normally start our Happy Families podcast with

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Speaker 3: I'm just a teen age dad back feeback.

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Speaker 4: This is teenage do bag by wadness.

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Speaker 2: And I don't know if we're allowed to play it

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Speaker 2: a Happy Family podcast, this is the Happy Family's podcast

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Speaker 2: tonight as a freebie, a free webinar. Because our Happy

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Speaker 2: Families and members do so much to support the work

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Speaker 2: that we're doing, We're doing a free webinar about.

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Speaker 4: Raising I don't know. I don't want to offend anyone.

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Speaker 2: I don't want you to think that you have to

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Speaker 2: have a teenage dirt bag kid to come to the

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Speaker 2: webinar if you're raising teens and every now and again

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Speaker 2: you think, oh my goodness, what am I doing here.

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Speaker 2: dot com dot are you teenage dirt Bag Free webinar tonight?

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Speaker 4: Going back to the nineties, man, it's the nineties. It's

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Speaker 2: We've got to tap into our own empathy about what

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Speaker 4: It's hard. It's hard, but I love the way you

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Speaker 3: Well, with teenagers. There is so much to talk about.

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Speaker 2: The summit is called the Smells Like Teen Spirit Summit.

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Speaker 4: And they're incredible people.

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Speaker 2: So we've got Julie Liffcott Haymes, We've got Professor Lawrence Steinberg.

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Speaker 2: And they're joining me for the Smells Like Teen Spirits Summit.

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