WEBVTT - FULLSHOW! Mitch has some tough news 😥 0:00:14.160 --> 0:00:14.880 Come on in. 0:00:18.560 --> 0:00:20.680 Friday. Oh my god, it's here. 0:00:21.480 --> 0:00:22.840 Happy Friday. 0:00:24.160 --> 0:00:26.000 I don't know about you, guys, but I am heading 0:00:26.120 --> 0:00:28.000 a straight after Hamilton Island. 0:00:28.200 --> 0:00:30.760 No, Britt, we're not going. What a ridiculous thing to say. 0:00:30.800 --> 0:00:32.360 I don't know about you guys, but I'm going to 0:00:32.400 --> 0:00:33.120 handle to my island. 0:00:33.159 --> 0:00:35.000 I know she really just rubs it in, doesn't she. 0:00:35.040 --> 0:00:37.080 I'm going home to clean my bedroom. 0:00:39.479 --> 0:00:42.400 Going that statement, I'm going home to clean my bedroom. 0:00:42.400 --> 0:00:43.920 Make she sound like you're twelve and you've got to 0:00:43.960 --> 0:00:45.960 like your mom's making you go home to clean your home. 0:00:46.320 --> 0:00:48.080 But the problem is I'm not twelve, and so my 0:00:48.159 --> 0:00:49.839 mum doesn't clean my room and I'm the only one 0:00:49.880 --> 0:00:51.760 who will do it, and I've been putting it off 0:00:51.760 --> 0:00:52.120 for weeks. 0:00:52.400 --> 0:00:53.159 Friday night to night. 0:00:53.240 --> 0:00:54.960 You guys, did you, guys when you're a kid, change 0:00:55.000 --> 0:00:56.880 where your bed was and like your drawers were in 0:00:56.880 --> 0:00:58.120 your room just so it felt like you had a 0:00:58.160 --> 0:00:58.640 new apartment. 0:00:59.120 --> 0:01:01.360 Room knew me. I'm walking in town. I'm like, oh, 0:01:01.440 --> 0:01:02.240 I'm in New York. 0:01:02.480 --> 0:01:04.360 I'm literally just putting my clothes away. I'm not going 0:01:04.440 --> 0:01:04.800 to do that. 0:01:04.880 --> 0:01:07.280 Oh okay, yeah, Julian Morris is here to wrap up. 0:01:07.200 --> 0:01:08.840 The show glorious and we love her. 0:01:08.880 --> 0:01:10.720 She's so funny and she's If you didn't know, she's 0:01:10.760 --> 0:01:14.399 gone through a major divorce and she has never spoken 0:01:14.440 --> 0:01:16.320 about it before, but she's doing a new stand up 0:01:16.319 --> 0:01:18.320 show where she's going to shed light on how tough 0:01:18.360 --> 0:01:19.440 it's been for the first time. 0:01:19.560 --> 0:01:20.760 Yeah, and we're going to ask you some of the 0:01:20.840 --> 0:01:23.600 questions around the show, but also around her divorce and 0:01:23.600 --> 0:01:24.319 how she handled it. 0:01:24.440 --> 0:01:25.959 Yeah, see a different side of her. 0:01:26.000 --> 0:01:28.399 I think you've been going through a tough time, you know, 0:01:28.760 --> 0:01:31.000 speaking of I also have been going through a bit 0:01:31.040 --> 0:01:33.560 of a rough patch. This is no serious you know. 0:01:33.600 --> 0:01:35.199 I sort of stray away from this kind of stuff. 0:01:35.240 --> 0:01:35.800 It's not very me. 0:01:36.200 --> 0:01:37.520 You don't do serious very well. 0:01:37.760 --> 0:01:39.800 I don't. But there's been some stuff happening in my 0:01:39.840 --> 0:01:43.199 personal life that you know, I have to talk about 0:01:43.800 --> 0:01:46.000 and I want to talk about. It's been a rough 0:01:46.000 --> 0:01:47.960 time with me and my relationship, and I want to 0:01:48.000 --> 0:01:49.520 bring it to the air and we'll do it coming 0:01:49.600 --> 0:01:50.000 up on the show. 0:01:50.800 --> 0:01:52.080 We're really proud of you, man. 0:01:52.280 --> 0:01:54.160 Yeah, we'll get my best shot. It's on the way 0:01:54.280 --> 0:01:56.600 here at the pickup. Thanks to Chemist Warehouse heading today 0:01:56.640 --> 0:01:58.960 great Savings every day. It is to pick up around 0:01:59.000 --> 0:02:02.200 the country Friday afternoon. Britt, Laura and Mitch here right now, 0:02:02.320 --> 0:02:05.919 get half price of cosmetics across the Maybeline, Revelon, Rimmel 0:02:05.960 --> 0:02:09.000 and Nude by Nature Ranges, all at Chemists, Warehouse Ladies. 0:02:09.000 --> 0:02:10.800 Our next guest we've had on the show before. 0:02:10.960 --> 0:02:14.480 We love her Australian icon, very very funny. 0:02:14.720 --> 0:02:17.359 The one and only Julia Morris is. 0:02:18.360 --> 0:02:20.320 I do you know I'm going to ring in every 0:02:20.440 --> 0:02:24.600 day because nothing feeds the validation that I'm not getting 0:02:24.639 --> 0:02:27.320 in my life. I speaking to you, guys, I love it. 0:02:27.480 --> 0:02:29.079 We're not good for a lot, but we are good 0:02:29.120 --> 0:02:29.720 to pick you up. 0:02:29.800 --> 0:02:32.560 You are good for loads of stuff. Let me tell 0:02:32.639 --> 0:02:34.120 you. You give me lots of joy. 0:02:34.560 --> 0:02:36.840 Jules tell me the new show seventy five years in 0:02:36.880 --> 0:02:38.280 the business. I feel like I've got to say that 0:02:38.280 --> 0:02:42.560 seventy five years in my business. That's not true, you liar, 0:02:43.280 --> 0:02:44.239 seventy true. 0:02:44.639 --> 0:02:47.839 It's it's so true. Look you guys, in the show 0:02:48.080 --> 0:02:51.119 is industry. You will have done many, many different jobs. 0:02:51.240 --> 0:02:53.720 Mass is not my strong suit, but of all the 0:02:53.800 --> 0:02:56.400 jobs I've done, it literally adds up to seventy five 0:02:56.440 --> 0:02:59.040 years in the business. You can't expect to hear stories 0:02:59.120 --> 0:03:01.840 you couldn't have thought you were going to hear, and 0:03:01.919 --> 0:03:05.760 you can expect lots and lots of laughter. If the 0:03:05.840 --> 0:03:07.880 opening weekend is any indication. 0:03:07.840 --> 0:03:09.680 Julie, I heard in this show you're speaking a little 0:03:09.680 --> 0:03:12.560 bit about your divorce that happened last year. Is this 0:03:12.639 --> 0:03:15.200 part of what makes up the show content? And is 0:03:15.240 --> 0:03:18.480 it the life lessons or what part of this is 0:03:18.600 --> 0:03:19.400 what you're sharing? 0:03:20.480 --> 0:03:24.280 Oh? What am I sharing? I'm sharing? All I know 0:03:24.400 --> 0:03:26.880 is that there's jaws dropping the floor. I don't want 0:03:26.919 --> 0:03:30.200 to feel the fear of people finding out about my life, 0:03:30.240 --> 0:03:32.680 so I've written the tour about it, and see, yeah, 0:03:32.680 --> 0:03:35.080 that's the last bastion of the fear that I would 0:03:35.120 --> 0:03:36.080 have from the past. 0:03:36.400 --> 0:03:38.200 Well, Julia, sounds like it's a bit of a therapy 0:03:38.240 --> 0:03:40.720 session for not everyone but you as well. But I 0:03:40.760 --> 0:03:43.200 remember we had you on a whole little while ago. 0:03:43.240 --> 0:03:44.800 Now we had you on the show and we talked 0:03:44.840 --> 0:03:46.880 about the fact that you were like, I am never 0:03:46.920 --> 0:03:49.080 having sex again after my divorce. I'm not going to 0:03:49.200 --> 0:03:49.680 date again. 0:03:49.720 --> 0:03:50.920 I'm not getting back out there. 0:03:51.160 --> 0:03:53.000 Do you feel like you've come I've done enough work 0:03:53.080 --> 0:03:54.200 yet to get back on the apps. 0:03:54.200 --> 0:03:54.800 Do you think the times. 0:03:54.800 --> 0:03:56.320 Can I never No. 0:03:56.320 --> 0:03:56.400 No. 0:03:56.600 --> 0:03:58.720 When you hear part of the story, you'll see why 0:03:58.760 --> 0:04:02.720 I am scared off from my own judgment. I honestly, 0:04:03.040 --> 0:04:05.640 I feel like, hand on heart, this is it. I 0:04:05.640 --> 0:04:07.440 don't feel like I'm going to come up and out 0:04:07.480 --> 0:04:12.720 of it. I've done years of therapy, I you know what, 0:04:13.040 --> 0:04:15.240 just not hearing that I need to lose weight, not 0:04:15.320 --> 0:04:17.480 hearing that I'm lazy, and not hearing that I need 0:04:17.520 --> 0:04:19.320 to get out and work more because we don't have 0:04:19.440 --> 0:04:22.480 enough money. That stuff is over and I do not 0:04:22.560 --> 0:04:25.160 trust my judgment that I wouldn't choose another person like 0:04:25.200 --> 0:04:27.880 that because I didn't really see it for twenty years. 0:04:28.480 --> 0:04:30.560 If I didn't see it for twenty years and then 0:04:30.600 --> 0:04:33.520 all of a sudden everything became apparent, then. 0:04:34.120 --> 0:04:36.560 No, this is what you were dealing with in your relationship, 0:04:36.600 --> 0:04:37.840 Like being spoken to in that way. 0:04:37.920 --> 0:04:40.000 That's that's horrible tonight on. 0:04:40.400 --> 0:04:43.320 Oh, well, here's the thing. You're only willing to take 0:04:43.360 --> 0:04:45.159 what you're willing to take, do you know what I mean? 0:04:45.279 --> 0:04:48.279 So that kind of does partially land at my feet. 0:04:49.520 --> 0:04:52.640 Not because things become normal over time, and sometimes you 0:04:52.680 --> 0:04:54.919 can be exposed to a certain behavior. You can be 0:04:54.920 --> 0:04:57.400 in a relationship for so long that you don't even 0:04:57.440 --> 0:05:00.520 really know anymore how unhealthy it is, but you know 0:05:00.520 --> 0:05:02.839 that your self worth has gone down the gurgle totally. 0:05:03.160 --> 0:05:06.799 It's funny because my work life, you know, I always 0:05:06.880 --> 0:05:09.360 knew that my ex was controlling, and that was something 0:05:09.400 --> 0:05:15.039 that we were they're everybody. Everybody knew. We knew, he knew, 0:05:15.200 --> 0:05:17.320 and it was something he was working on. So that's 0:05:17.360 --> 0:05:20.320 great that he's working on it. He could just work 0:05:20.360 --> 0:05:22.279 on with someone else. That can happen when you have 0:05:22.320 --> 0:05:26.080 a partner that doesn't work. So what you are constantly 0:05:26.160 --> 0:05:28.640 trying to do, I think, and this is way too 0:05:28.680 --> 0:05:31.200 serious for the this is not the comedy show. 0:05:31.279 --> 0:05:34.920 But what you do is you bend and stretch and 0:05:35.000 --> 0:05:38.400 adjust to make sure that person doesn't go down the 0:05:38.440 --> 0:05:41.479 emotional drain. If that, you know, because while things just 0:05:41.600 --> 0:05:44.200 kept happening for me professionally, a. 0:05:44.240 --> 0:05:47.640 Better, better, better, better better. That also can make those 0:05:47.640 --> 0:05:52.440 around you, you know, maybe reflect on their own contributions 0:05:52.480 --> 0:05:56.039 in life or their own missed out opportunities. So and 0:05:56.920 --> 0:06:00.240 that's the partnership that entered into I. You know, we 0:06:00.279 --> 0:06:02.400 were husband and wife, and when I spoke to all 0:06:02.480 --> 0:06:05.640 of my friends, they're like, oh god, I could never 0:06:05.680 --> 0:06:09.160 do anything right or you know, anything I say he 0:06:09.200 --> 0:06:11.440 says is wrong, and so I just thought, oh well, 0:06:11.440 --> 0:06:15.080 it's everyone, yeah, everywhere. 0:06:15.080 --> 0:06:16.920 And also, you were a partner like that, and they 0:06:16.960 --> 0:06:19.359 give you one nugget of something that you need a 0:06:19.360 --> 0:06:21.880 bit of validation. You go, you see the potential in them, 0:06:21.880 --> 0:06:23.800 So you stay for another few years, They'll give you 0:06:23.880 --> 0:06:24.520 one cycle. 0:06:24.640 --> 0:06:28.960 You're like, oh, there's there's my partner back. Yeah. Yeah, 0:06:29.040 --> 0:06:30.680 as we don't notice the other bits. And of course, 0:06:30.800 --> 0:06:34.960 you know, I confronted him many times, just going, you know, 0:06:35.080 --> 0:06:37.760 you were pretty mean last night. And so it's not 0:06:37.880 --> 0:06:42.479 like I was copying it sweet, I was giving it back. 0:06:43.360 --> 0:06:45.800 I've got nothing to lose with my honesty. You know, 0:06:45.880 --> 0:06:49.120 that's that's fear. I mean, a couple of weeks ago, 0:06:49.120 --> 0:06:51.880 I had Verdigo, So there's a little crystal in my 0:06:51.960 --> 0:06:53.760 ear that went naughty and went into a wrong part 0:06:53.800 --> 0:06:56.320 of my ear. Now that launched, I'm not exaggerating. They 0:06:56.320 --> 0:07:02.120 would have launched about forty stories online. So you definitely 0:07:02.160 --> 0:07:04.240 get more and more and more private as the time 0:07:04.320 --> 0:07:07.719 goes on, because you're like anything I post on LORL, 0:07:07.920 --> 0:07:09.279 it's going to turn into something. 0:07:09.520 --> 0:07:12.040 But there's also an amazing amount of power in taking 0:07:12.120 --> 0:07:14.920 back your story and saying it yourself. And I think 0:07:15.280 --> 0:07:17.240 you know, I mean, thank you so much for sharing 0:07:17.480 --> 0:07:20.320 so openly, even just with us today, because you have 0:07:20.400 --> 0:07:22.120 we've spoken to you in the past. And I think 0:07:22.160 --> 0:07:25.040 when someone goes through a divorce or they're single again, 0:07:25.200 --> 0:07:26.960 almost the default is to be like, well, when are 0:07:26.960 --> 0:07:29.320 you going to get it back out there? But understanding 0:07:29.600 --> 0:07:32.920 the reasons why being in a relationship is not for 0:07:32.960 --> 0:07:35.760 you now and working on yourself, which absolutely should be 0:07:35.800 --> 0:07:38.960 the priority after the relationship you've been through, like thank 0:07:39.000 --> 0:07:42.239 you for sharing them, because so many women feel that it's. 0:07:42.040 --> 0:07:46.160 Just such a pleasure. It's also women I think in 0:07:46.240 --> 0:07:49.560 and around my age have not been big sharers. I 0:07:49.640 --> 0:07:52.840 know now that there's a generation of women that women 0:07:53.040 --> 0:07:56.600 my age have raised who feel it's okay and safe 0:07:56.600 --> 0:08:00.520 to come out and say I've hit these are my boiables, this, 0:08:00.520 --> 0:08:03.640 this is my brutal honesty. What I definitely need to 0:08:03.640 --> 0:08:06.960 do for the moment is just focus on getting my 0:08:07.920 --> 0:08:11.880 perfect children to the next stage of their lives. 0:08:12.840 --> 0:08:13.800 You're an incredible woman. 0:08:13.880 --> 0:08:16.080 Sometimes the best relationships you're gonna have it with yourself, 0:08:16.120 --> 0:08:18.000 and also with your kids, and I think this is 0:08:18.120 --> 0:08:20.000 so powerful, and I know that there's so many women, 0:08:20.400 --> 0:08:22.120 not just in your age group, like, there's so many 0:08:22.120 --> 0:08:23.080 women who will relate to this. 0:08:23.160 --> 0:08:25.440 They are Yeah, thanks my pleasure. 0:08:25.440 --> 0:08:26.360 I love you, guys. 0:08:26.360 --> 0:08:27.240 Oh, we love you. 0:08:27.600 --> 0:08:30.640 We'll go and see Julia seventy five years in the business. 0:08:30.720 --> 0:08:33.760 The tour tickets run saldow Livenation dot com, dot you, 0:08:33.800 --> 0:08:36.520 we love you, Jewels talk soon, Love your girl, Julia. 0:08:36.840 --> 0:08:39.120 All right, stand by next on the show you know What. 0:08:39.240 --> 0:08:41.839 Inspired by many things, Julie was just saying, I have 0:08:41.920 --> 0:08:43.720 an announcement to make and we'll do it next on 0:08:43.760 --> 0:08:46.680 the Pickup. It's a pick up Friday afternoon. Britt, Laura 0:08:46.720 --> 0:08:49.240 and Mitch here head into chemist ware House today. Great 0:08:49.240 --> 0:08:53.480 savings every day. I am gonna have to lean on 0:08:53.520 --> 0:08:54.640 YouTube for a little bit. 0:08:54.760 --> 0:08:56.360 Yeah, sure, you know we're here. 0:08:56.400 --> 0:08:57.080 If you don't mind. 0:08:57.360 --> 0:09:01.400 I'm going through a pretty awful breakup, first breakup of 0:09:01.400 --> 0:09:05.000 my life. I've never been through anything this hard in 0:09:05.040 --> 0:09:08.480 my entire existence. It was my first love. It's been 0:09:08.520 --> 0:09:11.120 five years together. We went to ballet together and I 0:09:11.160 --> 0:09:12.520 don't know, I just wanted to talk about it. And 0:09:12.559 --> 0:09:14.920 I will start with the fact that what has helped 0:09:14.960 --> 0:09:16.960 me get through this period that I've never been through 0:09:17.040 --> 0:09:19.880 before is hearing other people's stories and stories that I 0:09:19.920 --> 0:09:22.520 could relate to. Everyone thinks heartbreak is so unique to them. 0:09:22.880 --> 0:09:24.959 I go through it and I go, I've never felt 0:09:24.960 --> 0:09:27.200 this much pain, And I call Britt and she goes, 0:09:27.280 --> 0:09:30.600 I have, And I talk to Laura I have, and 0:09:30.640 --> 0:09:32.440 then you go on TikTok and so many people have. 0:09:32.520 --> 0:09:34.439 So that's the reason I just hate talking about myself 0:09:34.440 --> 0:09:36.040 in this capacity. So I want to preface it by 0:09:36.040 --> 0:09:39.440 saying I was helped by other people stories, which. 0:09:39.200 --> 0:09:40.240 Is why you want to talk about it. 0:09:40.480 --> 0:09:42.559 Well, I think as well, Mitch, like you're so on 0:09:43.120 --> 0:09:46.600 this show and in life, you are always the funny beacon, 0:09:46.679 --> 0:09:50.520 and you're always the one cracking jokes and bringing the comedy. 0:09:50.640 --> 0:09:54.200 And I know when you're going through something quite hard 0:09:54.240 --> 0:09:57.319 in life and you're not feeling happy on the inside, 0:09:57.320 --> 0:09:58.880 but having to show up and be happy all the 0:09:58.920 --> 0:10:01.480 time on the outside, that really takes a toll as well. 0:10:01.520 --> 0:10:04.280 And seeing you going through what you've been going through 0:10:04.280 --> 0:10:05.800 the last couple of weeks and not being able to 0:10:05.800 --> 0:10:08.160 talk about it because you weren't necessarily there yet. Yeah, 0:10:08.200 --> 0:10:09.800 We just wanted to say how proud we are of 0:10:09.840 --> 0:10:12.079 you that you know you've made this decision as hard 0:10:12.120 --> 0:10:14.600 as what it is, but also that you feel like 0:10:14.679 --> 0:10:16.600 you can share it with everyone and not just ask, 0:10:16.679 --> 0:10:18.079 but you can share that with Australia. 0:10:18.240 --> 0:10:18.640 Thank you. 0:10:18.800 --> 0:10:20.400 I mean, I just think part of the reason it 0:10:20.440 --> 0:10:22.559 was so hard is that it came as a massive 0:10:22.679 --> 0:10:25.400 shock to me. I didn't think this is where the 0:10:25.440 --> 0:10:27.920 relationship would go. I'm not going to go into the details, 0:10:27.960 --> 0:10:31.760 but yeah, of course not. I was blindsided completely, and 0:10:31.880 --> 0:10:34.240 we just both had different pictures of where we saw 0:10:34.240 --> 0:10:36.520 our relationship in the future, and ultimately I had to 0:10:36.520 --> 0:10:39.199 make the decision to walk away. And I mean, we've 0:10:39.200 --> 0:10:41.360 got a house together, Like the joke is, and you're 0:10:41.360 --> 0:10:43.480 so right, it's hard when you're comedian and entertainer. You 0:10:43.920 --> 0:10:46.360 want to go to that place of humor to just 0:10:46.480 --> 0:10:48.920 mask it. But it does feel like a mid level 0:10:49.000 --> 0:10:51.240 heterosexual divorce. Like I feel like I'm in a divorce. 0:10:51.440 --> 0:10:53.200 I've seen my auntie and uncles go through this shit. 0:10:53.440 --> 0:10:56.160 I never thought i'd be here and we weren't even married, 0:10:56.200 --> 0:10:59.160 but I mean I pictured our life together. I was 0:10:59.200 --> 0:11:04.400 thinking about proposing. I we've spoken about adoption, adopting kids. 0:11:04.480 --> 0:11:06.560 See like our plan for that and you have those 0:11:07.200 --> 0:11:10.800 you have that vision and the picture of your future life, 0:11:10.840 --> 0:11:13.520 and then in one night it can be taken away 0:11:13.559 --> 0:11:16.960 and it throws you. It's so hard when to end 0:11:16.960 --> 0:11:20.000 a relationship when you still love a person, because most 0:11:20.040 --> 0:11:22.480 relationships and when there's no love or we just spoke 0:11:22.520 --> 0:11:24.240 to Julia Morris, you know, and she said, you know, 0:11:24.280 --> 0:11:26.760 you put up with so much she did a relationship. 0:11:26.840 --> 0:11:28.760 You don't realize how shitty it was until you're out, 0:11:28.880 --> 0:11:31.720 and you just people live in these loveless relationships. We 0:11:31.760 --> 0:11:33.920 had so much love and that's that's where the confusion 0:11:33.920 --> 0:11:35.600 comes from and the hurt because there was so much. 0:11:36.200 --> 0:11:39.080 I mean, I mean, obviously there's all the emotional stuff 0:11:39.080 --> 0:11:40.439 that you have to deal with and you go through 0:11:40.440 --> 0:11:43.080 a breakup, but like, what do you plan? You guys 0:11:43.080 --> 0:11:46.160 shared a house together, you have furniture together, Like how 0:11:46.200 --> 0:11:48.640 do you kind of decide what is next? 0:11:48.679 --> 0:11:50.480 Oh my god, I mean we caught up on the weekend. 0:11:50.800 --> 0:11:53.000 I haven't seen him in weeks and we have to 0:11:53.040 --> 0:11:57.400 sit down with a Microsoft Excel spreadsheet to separate our 0:11:57.440 --> 0:11:58.960 items and we have to go. It's like the price 0:11:59.040 --> 0:12:01.240 is right, Like we're going by different values. I'm like, well, 0:12:01.240 --> 0:12:03.760 you can get the revel kettle and the smeg toaster 0:12:03.880 --> 0:12:06.439 if I can get the you know, so no sound system, 0:12:06.520 --> 0:12:07.720 Like it's awful. 0:12:07.480 --> 0:12:08.680 But what actually is awful? 0:12:08.800 --> 0:12:10.560 What's it like though? When you see him sitting in 0:12:10.559 --> 0:12:12.520 the same room having to go over a spreadsheet. Surely 0:12:12.559 --> 0:12:13.200 that's hard enough. 0:12:13.240 --> 0:12:15.760 Oh, that's it's it's yeah, it's really hard because you 0:12:15.800 --> 0:12:17.920 want to get out of this period as fast as possible. 0:12:17.920 --> 0:12:19.640 Like I want to get out of this yuck ick 0:12:20.240 --> 0:12:23.120 sadness as soon as I can so, but I have 0:12:23.160 --> 0:12:25.040 to go through this period and be civil and actually 0:12:25.040 --> 0:12:27.280 have a conversation to get there. But I also don't 0:12:27.280 --> 0:12:29.240 want to have that conversation because it's the most heartbreaking 0:12:29.240 --> 0:12:29.800 thing I've ever done. 0:12:30.040 --> 0:12:31.800 What do you think has been the hardest part of 0:12:31.840 --> 0:12:32.280 the journey? 0:12:32.280 --> 0:12:33.439 From the breakup. 0:12:33.280 --> 0:12:36.479 Context, I came out for this relationship. 0:12:36.520 --> 0:12:41.400 I was straight. I mean I was never fraighty from 0:12:41.400 --> 0:12:43.360 the outside. I was in the closet. 0:12:43.480 --> 0:12:46.760 I got into this beautiful relationship at you know, twenty two, 0:12:47.080 --> 0:12:49.040 and then it was the inciting incident for me to 0:12:49.080 --> 0:12:50.880 then come out. So I came out, went straight into 0:12:50.920 --> 0:12:53.920 this relationship. So all my experiences as a as a 0:12:53.960 --> 0:12:57.720 gay man in the in entertainment. So when that ends, 0:12:58.120 --> 0:13:00.880 my brain goes back to that moment when I started, 0:13:00.880 --> 0:13:02.920 but I was a completely different person. I was a 0:13:02.960 --> 0:13:06.839 twenty two year old, closeted kid. So I just don't 0:13:06.880 --> 0:13:08.280 want to go back there mentally, and I'm not I'm 0:13:08.320 --> 0:13:10.920 in a good spot, but it's just all that comes up, 0:13:10.960 --> 0:13:13.080 and that's all swelling around in my head, and it's 0:13:13.240 --> 0:13:14.000 it's all linked. 0:13:14.200 --> 0:13:15.400 It's a lot, and that's why I wanted to talk 0:13:15.400 --> 0:13:15.679 about it. 0:13:15.679 --> 0:13:17.400 I want to get it off because there's so many amazing, 0:13:17.400 --> 0:13:19.480 funny things that are happening. Like when we sat down 0:13:19.480 --> 0:13:21.679 to have the initial breakup chat, my neighbor I've spoken 0:13:21.720 --> 0:13:24.400 about this on the show before, was playing the flute. 0:13:24.760 --> 0:13:26.800 She's learning to play the flute, and that day she 0:13:26.840 --> 0:13:28.440 decided to learn the Simpsons theme. 0:13:28.600 --> 0:13:31.400 So I'm going, Babe, it's time, after five years, we need. 0:13:31.320 --> 0:13:36.800 To right this shit. 0:13:37.040 --> 0:13:38.920 I'm like, shut up, I'm trying to break up. 0:13:39.440 --> 0:13:42.080 My bat was awful, So it's out a way and 0:13:42.280 --> 0:13:43.000 I'm ready to grow. 0:13:43.080 --> 0:13:44.440 Yeah, you can feel like you can move on with 0:13:44.520 --> 0:13:47.080 your life, but now it's officially like weight off your 0:13:47.120 --> 0:13:49.280 shoulders and we can we can get. 0:13:49.160 --> 0:13:49.880 You back, sad. 0:13:49.920 --> 0:13:52.040 I still love him and I'll miss him dearly. But yeah, 0:13:52.040 --> 0:13:54.200 it's a new part of my life that I'm in. 0:13:54.440 --> 0:13:57.080 I'm really proud of you for feeling okay enough to 0:13:57.080 --> 0:13:58.120 share that with everyone. 0:13:58.280 --> 0:13:59.800 Yeah, and thirteen one six five. 0:13:59.840 --> 0:14:01.720 If you want to date Mitch, he's available. 0:14:02.559 --> 0:14:06.679 I'm not there yet, but please accept my rayer referral code. 0:14:06.880 --> 0:14:08.760 I have thinks so much. 0:14:09.120 --> 0:14:18.480 Okay, let's go happy now. Yeah, where back after this? 0:14:18.720 --> 0:14:22.000 It's a pick up. 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Her name's Eliza. 0:14:49.920 --> 0:14:51.200 She loves Eliza. 0:14:51.840 --> 0:14:52.040 Now. 0:14:52.080 --> 0:14:55.360 I recently discovered that Eliza Marley May is best friend. 0:14:55.520 --> 0:14:59.080 Her mum is Aaron mollin No Ways, and you didn't 0:14:59.160 --> 0:15:01.960 know that my kid was like attracted to the celebrity mum. 0:15:02.040 --> 0:15:03.440 She was like, oh, which kid in here? 0:15:06.200 --> 0:15:08.920 Morley's coming home and telling Laura all this skuy news 0:15:08.920 --> 0:15:09.600 stuff like have you. 0:15:09.520 --> 0:15:12.040 Heard what's happening over in the UK? Laws like, honey, you. 0:15:12.080 --> 0:15:16.000 Know suddenly a conservative blonde woman shout a red dress on. 0:15:16.720 --> 0:15:17.680 No Aaron Mullen. 0:15:17.800 --> 0:15:19.760 She ended up messaging me on Instagram. She was like, 0:15:19.800 --> 0:15:22.160 did you know that our children are best friends? 0:15:22.440 --> 0:15:22.560 Fun? 0:15:22.680 --> 0:15:24.920 And it was like very very small world moment. But anyway, 0:15:25.200 --> 0:15:27.400 we've not met in real life, but we've been messaging 0:15:27.440 --> 0:15:29.400 on Instagram and we've been kind of like staying in 0:15:29.400 --> 0:15:31.840 touch a little bit, always about the kids, right, and 0:15:31.840 --> 0:15:34.920 they're a little cute connection and friendship. Well, last night, 0:15:35.200 --> 0:15:38.000 very very randomly, we get this message on Instagram. It 0:15:38.040 --> 0:15:40.120 was late, it was a late invite, but Aaron slid 0:15:40.120 --> 0:15:41.920 into our DMS Matt and Mine and she said, Hey, 0:15:41.920 --> 0:15:44.120 if you guys aren't doing anything tonight, do you want 0:15:44.120 --> 0:15:46.720 to come over because we're having a birthday party for 0:15:46.760 --> 0:15:47.240 a Liza. 0:15:47.440 --> 0:15:50.320 Oh my god, you made an adult friend on a weeknight, 0:15:50.920 --> 0:15:53.800 weeknight at that also, I'm all here for a week 0:15:53.880 --> 0:15:54.680 night birthday party. 0:15:54.720 --> 0:15:56.040 Everyone has gone by seven pm. 0:15:56.440 --> 0:15:58.840 It's quite nerve wracking going to like even to a 0:15:58.880 --> 0:16:01.400 kid's birthday party, but you don't know anyone. We've never 0:16:01.440 --> 0:16:03.240 met her in real life, we haven't met any of 0:16:03.240 --> 0:16:05.160 her friends. We didn't know anyone going to this party. 0:16:05.200 --> 0:16:07.080 But we were like, we will do this for the 0:16:07.560 --> 0:16:08.680 kid's friendship. 0:16:08.360 --> 0:16:10.760 Right, So Marley's in the back seat excited. 0:16:10.480 --> 0:16:13.080 So excited, and we get there and we were greeted 0:16:13.120 --> 0:16:14.640 by one of the guests who was coming to let 0:16:14.680 --> 0:16:16.560 us in, and it's because Erin was a little bit 0:16:16.560 --> 0:16:19.440 caught up. It turns out that at her own party, 0:16:19.640 --> 0:16:22.520 Erin and Eliza got stuck in the lift, so the 0:16:22.560 --> 0:16:25.040 lift had made it to her floor, her apartment floor, 0:16:25.280 --> 0:16:28.400 and they were trapped inside and we were inside with 0:16:28.480 --> 0:16:31.760 all the guests and we didn't know. We walked in 0:16:31.800 --> 0:16:34.240