WEBVTT - Could This Be The Longest Tune Ever? 😏❤️ 0:00:00.760 --> 0:00:03.080 The Flex and Rooms Daily podcast. 0:00:05.600 --> 0:00:07.480 Let's keep this one short and sweet, so we don't 0:00:07.520 --> 0:00:10.039 have a sixteen minute intro like we usually do. Yes, 0:00:10.280 --> 0:00:12.440 few things we want to touch on. When I was 0:00:12.480 --> 0:00:16.880 opening up my mirrored cabinet today, I hit my knuckle 0:00:16.920 --> 0:00:19.599 and broke the skin. I thought to myself, how fragile 0:00:19.760 --> 0:00:20.520 are humans? 0:00:21.120 --> 0:00:21.360 You know? 0:00:21.480 --> 0:00:24.200 Like back in the day the cavemen were fighting lions 0:00:24.239 --> 0:00:27.480 and I'm here getting injured by a bathroom mirror. And 0:00:27.520 --> 0:00:29.960 the reason why I'm saying this is because it's plaguing 0:00:30.000 --> 0:00:32.480 my mind. It's at the front side of my mind. 0:00:32.520 --> 0:00:33.400 I should be better than that. 0:00:33.640 --> 0:00:40.080 Young people are gone soft Vault online. Please confirm Flex 0:00:40.159 --> 0:00:42.879 is too soft? Where's Steve past him? 0:00:42.920 --> 0:00:43.320 Literally? 0:00:44.280 --> 0:00:47.960 All right, let's get to it Flex and we have 0:00:48.080 --> 0:00:52.040 got some listener dms. This one is very hefty. It 0:00:52.120 --> 0:00:55.480 scrolls over two pages in my Instagram dms and not 0:00:55.480 --> 0:00:58.800 a lot of paragraphic and usually I would skip these ones, 0:00:58.840 --> 0:01:01.760 but they led with I'm currently listening to the show, 0:01:01.800 --> 0:01:03.320 and I said, okay, well, this is a friend and 0:01:03.360 --> 0:01:05.880 a fan, so let's do them. Let's do them a solid. 0:01:06.440 --> 0:01:09.240 Please put on your comprehension hats. I'm gonna need those 0:01:09.360 --> 0:01:12.520 on the whole time. I'm firmly on listening is open? 0:01:12.600 --> 0:01:14.560 Can you give me a name? What for? 0:01:15.000 --> 0:01:17.880 I just want to paint a picture Live Actually yeah, 0:01:18.560 --> 0:01:20.880 I have a sister called Live. Will say, okay, well 0:01:21.280 --> 0:01:23.679 say it? Did I? Okay? Listen? 0:01:24.360 --> 0:01:27.480 Hey, Flex, I hope you and Frooms are well. You know, 0:01:27.600 --> 0:01:29.680 I do wonder if people know that you can send 0:01:29.720 --> 0:01:31.360 dms to both of us at the same time. 0:01:31.280 --> 0:01:31.959 Create a little group. 0:01:32.040 --> 0:01:33.080 Yeah, we haven't a single one. 0:01:32.959 --> 0:01:35.959 Cause I'm constantly getting messages. I know Foms won't open 0:01:36.000 --> 0:01:37.400 her DM, so I'm sending. 0:01:37.120 --> 0:01:40.240 It to you. Okay, sorry, what am I your secretary? 0:01:42.440 --> 0:01:42.920 I agree? 0:01:43.040 --> 0:01:44.880 So I wonder someone knows people will send me one. 0:01:44.920 --> 0:01:46.440 And I'm like, are they sending it to flex through? 0:01:46.520 --> 0:01:48.240 Because then we bring our breaks in at the start 0:01:48.280 --> 0:01:50.440 of the week. I don't want to do a double up. 0:01:50.480 --> 0:01:50.960 It's true. 0:01:51.160 --> 0:01:52.320 Obviously they've got favorites. 0:01:54.040 --> 0:01:57.800 Can I Dear Mike, thank you so much. I'm currently 0:01:57.800 --> 0:02:01.360 listening to your podcast that touches based on blocking people 0:02:01.400 --> 0:02:04.320 who encroach on our personal comfort. I wanted to ask 0:02:04.360 --> 0:02:08.120 what your opinions are on simply unfollowing or unfriending old 0:02:08.200 --> 0:02:11.040 friends who you've had a big fallout with. I've had 0:02:11.040 --> 0:02:13.880 so many discussions with people about friends who they've had awkward, 0:02:13.960 --> 0:02:18.400 confronting or super uncomfortable cross the line fallouts with, who 0:02:18.440 --> 0:02:21.799 continue to follow said friends, only to quickly skip over 0:02:21.840 --> 0:02:25.040 their media posts and updates every time. I find that 0:02:25.080 --> 0:02:27.799 it's not uncommon in these instances when I ask you 0:02:28.160 --> 0:02:31.360 why you wouldn't just unfollow or unfriend that person, and 0:02:31.400 --> 0:02:33.639 they'll use usually answer defensively, be like I can't do that, 0:02:33.639 --> 0:02:34.320 Why would I do that? 0:02:34.320 --> 0:02:35.639 That's like so rude or whatever. 0:02:36.800 --> 0:02:39.000 I just want to hear what your thoughts are on 0:02:39.080 --> 0:02:42.519 keeping people you've cut ties with in your social personal 0:02:42.639 --> 0:02:45.560 space and social media circles if you don't want to 0:02:45.600 --> 0:02:48.200 see any updates from them or maintain any kind of 0:02:48.240 --> 0:02:51.840 relationship personally, I believe that letting people you've had a 0:02:51.840 --> 0:02:56.840 big fallout with create an unhappy and uncomfortable space on 0:02:56.880 --> 0:03:01.000 your personal platform is not the go What do you reckon? 0:03:01.400 --> 0:03:04.600 Look right now, I'm a little bit distracted by your 0:03:04.639 --> 0:03:07.959 t shirts to a leaper. Oh just suddenly, Yeah, I 0:03:08.000 --> 0:03:10.400 was just thinking, you know, when Kim Kardashian died her 0:03:10.440 --> 0:03:13.240 hair blonde, Yes, she kind of look like do a leaper? 0:03:13.760 --> 0:03:14.640 Yeah? I guess I see that. 0:03:14.720 --> 0:03:16.280 Aren't they both Armenian? 0:03:18.040 --> 0:03:21.360 No? Julia was Albanian? Albanian? Yeah, yeah, I mean you 0:03:21.400 --> 0:03:21.799 said that. 0:03:21.960 --> 0:03:23.320 No, I said, aren't they both? 0:03:23.320 --> 0:03:29.120 I could have said anything tall you know what I mean? Entrepreneurs, girl, 0:03:29.760 --> 0:03:31.720 set up? Every time you fall right into it? 0:03:31.840 --> 0:03:33.880 Oh my god? What can I say? I am who 0:03:33.919 --> 0:03:36.119 I am? No room for improvement? 0:03:36.680 --> 0:03:38.560 You can't say that. We've talked about this. 0:03:38.960 --> 0:03:42.480 What You've got to speak with intention? You said you 0:03:42.520 --> 0:03:44.440 have no room for improvement. You can't say that because 0:03:44.440 --> 0:03:45.000 I'm perfect. 0:03:45.520 --> 0:03:50.080 Oh yeah, and I really meant that that time. So guys, 0:03:50.080 --> 0:03:54.200 I'm manifesting right all right, all right enough. I was 0:03:54.200 --> 0:03:59.760 at a party. I know about other stuff. I will 0:03:59.800 --> 0:04:02.600 say I was at a party that I wearing all grain. 0:04:03.040 --> 0:04:06.080 Someone said, you gotta do a Shrek impression? Obviously, Nail, 0:04:06.920 --> 0:04:07.560 do you want to do one? 0:04:07.600 --> 0:04:07.760 Now? 0:04:08.160 --> 0:04:08.320 Llo? 0:04:08.680 --> 0:04:11.360 Allo girl, I'm looking at your T shirts on. It's 0:04:11.400 --> 0:04:14.440 the leaper. She's got a little bit of lightning going 0:04:14.440 --> 0:04:15.280 behind the bark. 0:04:15.520 --> 0:04:22.040 You sound like that UFC fighter Patty. Yeah, yeah, you. 0:04:22.000 --> 0:04:23.479 Know that Tic took of him jumping up and down, 0:04:23.480 --> 0:04:25.400 and it was like, why am I so attracted to this? 0:04:26.120 --> 0:04:27.040 Because he's hot. 0:04:28.560 --> 0:04:29.200 This is hot? 0:04:29.680 --> 0:04:33.080 Okay, what do I think I am voting? When she said, 0:04:33.080 --> 0:04:34.599 what does she mean by media posts? 0:04:34.920 --> 0:04:37.719 The social media posts like you know, like skipping past 0:04:37.760 --> 0:04:40.919 their stories, their snapchats, their whatever. Because I guess what 0:04:40.960 --> 0:04:43.000 she's explaining is that, like, let's say, have had a 0:04:43.040 --> 0:04:45.599 falling out with someone and I'm not going to watch 0:04:45.640 --> 0:04:47.800 their story because we've had a falling out. I'm not 0:04:47.800 --> 0:04:49.919 gonna like their posts. We've had a falling out. She's like, 0:04:50.000 --> 0:04:52.599 just unfollow them, block them. 0:04:52.839 --> 0:04:55.800 You're not coming back from unfollow That's Nothing's more awkward 0:04:55.839 --> 0:04:57.760 than having to follow someone again what I would do? 0:04:58.040 --> 0:05:00.480 Of course, he's used the mute button. And then when 0:05:00.480 --> 0:05:02.880 you're having a bad time at night, going through a 0:05:02.880 --> 0:05:05.480 bit of self loathing, go and look at their profile 0:05:05.520 --> 0:05:08.960 and hurt yourself. Gotta keep them there so you don't do. 0:05:08.920 --> 0:05:10.080 The unfollowed Nah. 0:05:10.800 --> 0:05:12.680 Oh nah, that was. 0:05:12.640 --> 0:05:14.760 A lot of effort just muting. 0:05:15.279 --> 0:05:17.200 But to be fair, I get the point that she's 0:05:17.240 --> 0:05:20.920 making because it's there's nothing worse than you creating a 0:05:20.960 --> 0:05:23.800 happy home for someone who's an unwelcome visitor. 0:05:24.560 --> 0:05:25.599 Yeah, do you know what I'm saying? 0:05:25.880 --> 0:05:27.320 Actually is better than a bad tenant. 0:05:27.440 --> 0:05:28.120 This is exactly. 0:05:28.160 --> 0:05:34.560 It not in the current rental crisis, speak for yourself, 0:05:35.640 --> 0:05:41.160 but it doesn't actually make any sense emotionally, mentally, spiritually 0:05:41.240 --> 0:05:45.040 to be hanging onto that energy because you're concerned about 0:05:45.080 --> 0:05:48.120 the optics if the falling out has a curb snip 0:05:48.160 --> 0:05:50.160 the ties. I used to be the kind of person 0:05:50.160 --> 0:05:52.719 who wasn't into blocking, wasn't into atomic blocking. 0:05:52.760 --> 0:05:55.680 I was like, no, that, like that's like not mature. 0:05:56.080 --> 0:05:58.440 But then I realized it was my immaturity who was like, no, 0:05:58.480 --> 0:06:00.479 they need to see me flex on them in a 0:06:00.560 --> 0:06:03.479 very loud way. They need the subtweets to reach them. 0:06:03.800 --> 0:06:05.400 How my subweet is going to reach them if they've 0:06:05.400 --> 0:06:06.880 blocked you know. But I'm a big fan of the 0:06:06.960 --> 0:06:10.040 atomic block because the mental space you got to free 0:06:10.040 --> 0:06:10.360 it up. 0:06:11.480 --> 0:06:14.159 Ah Louis, who works a cater, said this thing about 0:06:14.240 --> 0:06:15.760 soft block, and I think that's a really good word 0:06:15.800 --> 0:06:18.760 as well. It's a soft block one platform muting. 0:06:19.279 --> 0:06:20.679 Oh a mute is a soft block. 0:06:20.920 --> 0:06:23.000 Yeah, oh, it's a personal block. 0:06:23.560 --> 0:06:25.840 I think we need to start getting specific with our 0:06:27.080 --> 0:06:31.320 interpersonal interactions because what we think is nuance is just 0:06:31.400 --> 0:06:37.159 like avoidant apathy and ambiguity. This like undefined space where 0:06:37.200 --> 0:06:39.800 nothing is or nothing can be perceived as anything but 0:06:40.080 --> 0:06:45.840 all this other stuff. No pick aside, block someone, let 0:06:45.839 --> 0:06:47.880 them know how they made you feel, because at the 0:06:48.000 --> 0:06:50.840 very least you get closer to reconciliation. Remember one time 0:06:51.160 --> 0:06:54.160 I downloaded an unfollowed app because I was trying to 0:06:54.200 --> 0:06:57.240 clear out my feed because it was the time where 0:06:57.240 --> 0:06:59.960 the Instagram algorithm changed and you weren't seeing your friend's post. 0:07:00.080 --> 0:07:01.480 And I was like, oh, I need to start being 0:07:01.600 --> 0:07:03.800 a bit more specific with who I'm following so I 0:07:03.839 --> 0:07:07.000 can interact with my friends. So I downloaded this unfollowed 0:07:07.040 --> 0:07:09.360 app and essentially you get to pick who you want 0:07:09.360 --> 0:07:11.560 to unfollow, and it's like accounts who's not engaged with 0:07:11.600 --> 0:07:14.400 me in the last thirty days, accounts I haven't engaged 0:07:14.480 --> 0:07:17.560 with in the last thirty days anyway. World War III. 0:07:18.320 --> 0:07:20.360 People weren't coming up to me and saying why did 0:07:20.360 --> 0:07:22.480 you unblock me? But they were going to my friends 0:07:22.560 --> 0:07:24.880 and being like, hey, like, does FLEX have a problem 0:07:24.920 --> 0:07:27.040 with me? Why does she unfollow me? And now look 0:07:27.080 --> 0:07:29.120 like a liar because I forgot I had done this 0:07:29.200 --> 0:07:31.040 and I didn't know what accounts are being unfollowed. I 0:07:31.040 --> 0:07:32.440 was like, they all got to go. You know it 0:07:32.520 --> 0:07:35.080 wasn't personal. It was personal to a lot. 0:07:34.880 --> 0:07:37.840 Of people followed me to feel very intentional, right. 0:07:37.600 --> 0:07:39.280 And I was like, it wasn't even like that because 0:07:39.280 --> 0:07:41.000 I was happy to go back and with a refollow, 0:07:41.040 --> 0:07:43.160 but it wasn't given the good vibe. So you know, 0:07:43.320 --> 0:07:46.680 be prepared for what that unfollow means. Can't go back, 0:07:47.360 --> 0:07:49.480 You can, but the damage is done. 0:07:49.760 --> 0:07:51.520 Yeah, flex and frums. 0:07:51.640 --> 0:07:54.080 Today we're getting hot and heavy on the listener messages 0:07:54.160 --> 0:07:57.320 dms whatever, all the evidence is here. Like I see 0:07:57.480 --> 0:08:00.800 Plice show, I'm always very intrigued in people message me 0:08:00.880 --> 0:08:02.920 for the first time on Instagram when they've been following 0:08:02.960 --> 0:08:06.360 me for a long time, because my platform is mostly 0:08:06.360 --> 0:08:08.560 about two way communications. Sometimes I scream, you know what 0:08:08.600 --> 0:08:11.120 I mean. But if you if you're a longtime follower, 0:08:11.320 --> 0:08:14.800 I'm always like, what implored you? What gave me the 0:08:14.840 --> 0:08:16.400 conviction to message this time? 0:08:16.560 --> 0:08:17.680 Nothing is better than that. 0:08:17.720 --> 0:08:19.560 I get met with three voice notes. 0:08:20.160 --> 0:08:23.920 This person says, I've never before in my life sent 0:08:24.040 --> 0:08:26.560 a voice note on Instagram, and I feel that this 0:08:26.720 --> 0:08:28.040 was not the chat to practice in. 0:08:28.480 --> 0:08:32.360 But oh my god, dot dot dot dot dot dot 0:08:32.400 --> 0:08:34.320 dot they want us to wait on something. I don't 0:08:34.320 --> 0:08:36.880 know what it is. We'll we'll find out together. 0:08:37.200 --> 0:08:41.200 Lex oh and maybe fause he my name is Tony 0:08:41.720 --> 0:08:43.959 and I just would please need you guys to wait 0:08:43.960 --> 0:08:47.880 in on this. So actually no, say, well, just a 0:08:48.000 --> 0:08:50.680 warning heads up. I will probably not be presenting this 0:08:50.720 --> 0:08:52.160 in a new tool and by this way. But that 0:08:52.280 --> 0:08:56.400 feels like my parent. So my question is, if you're 0:08:56.520 --> 0:08:59.440 born on Olympia and your birthday happens to fall on 0:08:59.520 --> 0:09:04.160 between ninth of February, do you, a like on all 0:09:04.160 --> 0:09:07.120 the other non leper years, celebrate your birthday on the 0:09:07.160 --> 0:09:09.960 twenty eighth of February or b on the first of March, 0:09:10.440 --> 0:09:13.120 because like my friend thinks that it should be the 0:09:13.240 --> 0:09:16.800 twenty eighth because it keeps it in February. But surely 0:09:16.840 --> 0:09:20.040 the only correct answer is B. Because first of all, 0:09:20.520 --> 0:09:23.880 you are because I was looking at the time and 0:09:23.880 --> 0:09:25.079 I was like, oh my gosh, gonna run out of 0:09:25.120 --> 0:09:25.520 time here. 0:09:27.120 --> 0:09:28.360 Oh now I actually will. 0:09:29.600 --> 0:09:31.600 This is this is a journey one of us. 0:09:31.760 --> 0:09:33.880 That is actually so embarrassing. I did not mean to 0:09:33.920 --> 0:09:37.240 say that so early. So you just keep going, You're 0:09:37.280 --> 0:09:40.480 all good. So because okay. 0:09:40.360 --> 0:09:41.960 So was. 0:09:44.120 --> 0:09:47.240 Flex the past. 0:09:47.280 --> 0:09:49.280 You just never get to the white So absolutely, okay, wait, 0:09:49.360 --> 0:09:52.480 so you know how she's one of yours for me? 0:09:52.760 --> 0:09:56.160 Yeah, ringa and composure hopefully, I think. But I was 0:09:56.200 --> 0:09:59.560 saying because like, surely the only correct answer is b 0:10:00.120 --> 0:10:04.520 first of March, because one, your birthday is literally the 0:10:04.600 --> 0:10:07.880 day after the twenty eighth of February, and two, if 0:10:07.880 --> 0:10:11.880 it was actually a leap yeah, that day like labels 0:10:11.920 --> 0:10:15.920 a side would be your birthday, Like, please affirm me, 0:10:16.040 --> 0:10:19.280 tell me I'm right, because I'm genuinely anyway, I'm just 0:10:19.280 --> 0:10:26.120 gonna leave because I am genuine my nervous thing many times, 0:10:26.120 --> 0:10:26.679 So goodbye. 0:10:26.880 --> 0:10:27.400 I hope you're. 0:10:30.600 --> 0:10:33.000 Shout out to Tony. That's the best word we've ever 0:10:33.040 --> 0:10:33.480 gotten in. 0:10:33.440 --> 0:10:35.520 Our lives, Tony, I was on the ride. 0:10:35.679 --> 0:10:38.880 Okay, so let's do a show of hands. 0:10:39.000 --> 0:10:43.000 No, it's radio, so we're gonna need a allowed yes. 0:10:43.200 --> 0:10:47.040 So if it's yes, oh ah, So if you believe 0:10:47.640 --> 0:10:50.960 that a leapy baby should celebrate their birthday on the 0:10:51.120 --> 0:10:55.439 twenty eighth or the thirty first. 0:10:54.679 --> 0:10:57.360 Wait, there is no thirty one of them? Yeah what 0:10:57.840 --> 0:10:59.000 did you even go to school? 0:11:00.200 --> 0:11:02.280 Okay, who agrees you sell about your birthday on the 0:11:02.320 --> 0:11:05.920 twenty eighth if you're a leapier baby, wi yeah, yeah, 0:11:06.200 --> 0:11:08.880 in theory, the twenty eighth makes a lot of sense 0:11:08.880 --> 0:11:10.079 because it's still in February. 0:11:10.200 --> 0:11:11.840 You know, nobody's nen get too fast. 0:11:11.880 --> 0:11:13.760 It's like it's your birthday's coming up, and if you're 0:11:13.800 --> 0:11:16.560 going out at night, probably gonna crack over into what 0:11:16.600 --> 0:11:20.480 would have been your birthday. However, you weren't born, You 0:11:20.520 --> 0:11:24.160 won't even you didn't even exist yet in the human realm. 0:11:24.440 --> 0:11:28.760 You hadn't touched oxygen like that until the twenty ninth. 0:11:28.800 --> 0:11:30.080 So it has to be the first. 0:11:30.200 --> 0:11:32.920 How does the baby not breathe in the tummy? 0:11:33.040 --> 0:11:35.240 Not does? But it's scott gills? 0:11:36.080 --> 0:11:36.760 Are you serious? 0:11:36.880 --> 0:11:37.320 Yeah? 0:11:37.400 --> 0:11:39.120 No, But it doesn't come out with gills? 0:11:39.520 --> 0:11:40.240 Yeah it does. 0:11:41.080 --> 0:11:42.320 Where's the baby's gills? 0:11:42.480 --> 0:11:43.920 Okay? See this is how you I know. 0:11:44.040 --> 0:11:48.360 I need to Okay, hold on a bloody second. Marty 0:11:48.480 --> 0:11:49.840 in the studio has a baby? 0:11:50.480 --> 0:11:53.840 Does it have gills? Baby has never had gills? 0:11:54.040 --> 0:11:54.599 It? 0:11:57.120 --> 0:12:00.880 So, how does the baby breathe in the tummy bilical cord? 0:12:00.960 --> 0:12:01.320 Babe? 0:12:01.360 --> 0:12:01.520 Bro? 0:12:01.880 --> 0:12:06.600 It has a mouth, bro, How is it not drowning 0:12:06.800 --> 0:12:07.480 in the fluid? 0:12:07.760 --> 0:12:10.440 Yeah, so we take its first breath, Bro, that must 0:12:10.480 --> 0:12:12.120 be a rush. 0:12:11.880 --> 0:12:17.640 Yeah, the first real high Okay, So the only correct 0:12:17.679 --> 0:12:20.920 answer is the first. However, I won't fight someone if 0:12:20.920 --> 0:12:22.760 they want to do the twenty eighth. It really depends 0:12:22.800 --> 0:12:25.360 on what you're how you're celebrating, and what day it 0:12:25.360 --> 0:12:27.880 falls on me. If you're smart, you do the whole 0:12:27.960 --> 0:12:30.160 weekend twenty eighth to the first. 0:12:30.240 --> 0:12:31.280 I don't like those people. 0:12:31.840 --> 0:12:33.760 Oh okay, tell us how you really feel. 0:12:34.679 --> 0:12:37.400 Don't be so selfish. It's like people have a wedding, 0:12:37.600 --> 0:12:41.800 an engagement, a bridle shower, a hens. Do keep to 0:12:41.840 --> 0:12:42.600 one event please? 0:12:42.880 --> 0:12:43.800 Oh you can't have them all? 0:12:43.960 --> 0:12:44.959 Nah, I got other stuff to do. 0:12:45.440 --> 0:12:49.040 What if you have a hierarchical approach to friendship? Like 0:12:49.080 --> 0:12:52.360 I went to a party once recently, and I'm a 0:12:52.400 --> 0:12:54.880 party friend for this friend. So I wasn't invited to 0:12:54.880 --> 0:12:57.000 the daytime lunch. I was invited to the nighttime. But 0:12:57.160 --> 0:12:57.800 I loved that. 0:12:58.920 --> 0:13:02.400 Yeah, anyway, thank you so much for your voice, man, 0:13:02.600 --> 0:13:03.760 and thanks for being a listener. 0:13:03.880 --> 0:13:11.560 Toy Tony. This is Flex and Frooms on CADA. 0:13:11.720 --> 0:13:14.440 So in today's segment on our radio show Flex and Rooms, 0:13:15.559 --> 0:13:18.240 I have entitled this the longest tune ever. I know 0:13:18.320 --> 0:13:19.960 you're thinking I'm going to play a song for the 0:13:20.000 --> 0:13:21.920 whole break. Yeah, you're gonna enjoy it. 0:13:22.160 --> 0:13:23.120 We love what we love it. 0:13:23.120 --> 0:13:26.320 When radio hosts don't talk, we want that interrupted ad 0:13:26.400 --> 0:13:31.040 free break. I gotta disappoint you. It's not a tune. Instead, 0:13:31.160 --> 0:13:32.640 it's a term that we use when you're on the 0:13:32.679 --> 0:13:35.679 tune with someone, when you're trying to get someone's attention. 0:13:35.760 --> 0:13:37.080 Tune is the term you use when you're on the 0:13:37.120 --> 0:13:37.840 tune with someone. 0:13:38.320 --> 0:13:41.200 Can you think of it when you're like trying to 0:13:41.400 --> 0:13:41.920 date someone. 0:13:42.480 --> 0:13:46.439 Tune is propositioning someone romantically or sexually. 0:13:46.679 --> 0:13:50.440 There we go on the tune. And the other day 0:13:50.480 --> 0:13:52.480 I was walking through the park listening to our podcast 0:13:52.520 --> 0:13:54.719 actually because I listen to it back for personal. 0:13:54.360 --> 0:13:58.400 Notes, and I get a message and. 0:13:58.320 --> 0:14:02.000 It goes still looking forward to our coffee A and 0:14:02.000 --> 0:14:06.079 then this smiley face oh with a tongue out, and 0:14:06.120 --> 0:14:07.800 I go, wait a minute, and I'm going to put 0:14:07.840 --> 0:14:11.760 up I'm going to make a different name. Ryan, Oh, Ryan, 0:14:11.880 --> 0:14:14.400 that that name looks really familiar. It's kind of unusual name. 0:14:14.480 --> 0:14:15.720 Is this the person we barked at? 0:14:16.520 --> 0:14:19.440 No? No, this is someone else? So a few a 0:14:19.480 --> 0:14:21.560 few months, want to flex some froom show. Someone sent 0:14:21.640 --> 0:14:24.520 me a message and we just sent back some barking. 0:14:24.680 --> 0:14:28.600 He said, something like, you're like, you think you're funny 0:14:28.880 --> 0:14:29.800 a or something. 0:14:30.160 --> 0:14:31.600 Yeah, yeah, and he was trying to he was trying 0:14:31.600 --> 0:14:32.520 to nag you. 0:14:32.560 --> 0:14:34.600 But like and then we send him a voice member. 0:14:34.600 --> 0:14:37.600 We're like, yeah, so I clicked through this guy and 0:14:37.640 --> 0:14:41.040 I go, oh my god, it's Ryan. I don't remember 0:14:41.040 --> 0:14:43.760 what time of my life we were chatting, but we 0:14:43.760 --> 0:14:46.840 were chatting at some point when I was Frooms, Like, 0:14:46.840 --> 0:14:49.760 because I haven't I have a life before Frooms. Oh 0:14:49.880 --> 0:14:52.000 after him? So before Frooms, I was the Cinder. What 0:14:52.080 --> 0:14:55.480 year was that twenty sixteen? I became true Firms. Oh, 0:14:55.880 --> 0:14:57.760 but up until that point, I didn't have social media. 0:14:58.400 --> 0:14:59.680 This is really his longest tune ever. 0:15:00.040 --> 0:15:03.960 Already repulsed, it was done. 0:15:04.760 --> 0:15:08.320 So then I'm like, I figured out, yeah, I've somehow 0:15:08.320 --> 0:15:11.240 we've messaged. So then I click through the message and 0:15:11.280 --> 0:15:14.440 I go, oh my god. I start scrolling back. The 0:15:14.560 --> 0:15:18.040 last time we spoke was twenty nineteen, and it was 0:15:18.120 --> 0:15:20.040 him replying to a story. Obviously I didn't reply. 0:15:20.760 --> 0:15:22.720 Covid was hot, and then. 0:15:23.360 --> 0:15:25.400 It was it was lockdown. 0:15:25.800 --> 0:15:29.840 And then I'm looking through and it's like October twenty eighteen. 0:15:30.080 --> 0:15:32.480 It looks shell Shop January. 0:15:32.040 --> 0:15:35.160 January twenty nineteen, then February twenty eighteen. 0:15:35.200 --> 0:15:35.400 Lap. 0:15:35.560 --> 0:15:39.720 These are nine month intervals between him messaging me what's 0:15:39.760 --> 0:15:42.360 going on, and then I scroll all the way back 0:15:43.840 --> 0:15:48.520 and it's twenty seventeen. Howdy, hand up. You have a 0:15:48.520 --> 0:15:52.200 funky account. Nice, So that's how my man started. Then 0:15:52.640 --> 0:15:54.800 I go le Mayo, thank you, sends me a little 0:15:54.920 --> 0:15:57.640 video WHOA that I won't play. I mean, i'll play 0:15:57.640 --> 0:16:05.280 the sound the lads as if that's attractive. 0:16:05.800 --> 0:16:06.800 I'm feeling. I feel it. 0:16:06.840 --> 0:16:07.320 I'm safe. 0:16:07.360 --> 0:16:09.880 It's twenty seventeen, it might have work. Yeah. 0:16:10.200 --> 0:16:12.040 Also, I love how the video is square, because that's 0:16:12.080 --> 0:16:15.920 all Instagram let you do back then vintage. Then he goes, oops, 0:16:15.920 --> 0:16:19.240 didn't mean to send that here, but oh well, Plasic, 0:16:19.400 --> 0:16:22.440 now you know what I'm up to. Are you from Melbourne? 0:16:24.280 --> 0:16:27.280 He's the one Tunic. 0:16:26.400 --> 0:16:27.360 I stand by him. 0:16:27.400 --> 0:16:29.040 I want to read you more of these messages because 0:16:29.040 --> 0:16:30.280 I want to get your opinion on whether or not 0:16:30.280 --> 0:16:32.080 I should actually meet up with him. Okay, I'm going 0:16:32.160 --> 0:16:34.680 to give you all the full discography of our conversations 0:16:34.680 --> 0:16:37.240 in the inbox from twenty seventeen to twenty twenty two. 0:16:37.600 --> 0:16:41.320 The longest tune of all time Read us some messages FLEXI. 0:16:41.360 --> 0:16:45.120 Okay, So we start in you know, May twenty seventeen. 0:16:45.320 --> 0:16:46.640 How do you have a funky account? 0:16:47.960 --> 0:16:51.000 Then we go to the twenty fifth of May, about 0:16:51.000 --> 0:16:53.760 a week later, so may I have your hand in marriage? 0:16:53.760 --> 0:16:56.600 Where I leave the country? Is he looking for a visa? 0:16:57.160 --> 0:16:57.920 We don't know. 0:16:58.440 --> 0:17:02.320 But also great for clout to get married. You know 0:17:02.360 --> 0:17:03.960 what I mean, never to go get it done properly, 0:17:04.000 --> 0:17:08.160 but definitely have the wedding. Of course, Fumi did say 0:17:08.440 --> 0:17:09.919 as long as I do, I have to sign a prenup, 0:17:09.920 --> 0:17:12.160 which I think is quite fair considering you were building 0:17:12.760 --> 0:17:17.760 building a profile at the time. So scroll scroll scroll board. 0:17:18.200 --> 0:17:22.320 We get to August twenty seventeen. I feel privileged that 0:17:22.440 --> 0:17:27.400 my second favorite person on Instagram follows me, to which 0:17:27.520 --> 0:17:31.720 Froom's replies a day later, God bless. So I want 0:17:31.720 --> 0:17:34.119 to know you didn't ask who the first hope person was. 0:17:34.200 --> 0:17:37.720 This guy's putting his grafting keep going and you're blocking 0:17:37.840 --> 0:17:39.800 the graft. Do you remember what you felt about him 0:17:39.800 --> 0:17:42.960 and that just at this time, Ah, you had options. 0:17:43.000 --> 0:17:45.640 I had options. Look at time five years ago. 0:17:45.800 --> 0:17:49.040 He sends a response to your Instagram story at the 0:17:49.040 --> 0:17:52.440 Australian Open laughing emoji face, hard eye's emoji face. 0:17:52.520 --> 0:17:58.359 You send a bomb back? What does that mean? What 0:17:58.400 --> 0:17:59.000 does that mean? 0:17:59.680 --> 0:18:02.520 This last week when I said the issue with fruit 0:18:02.600 --> 0:18:04.399 so that she can't close, you guys thought I was 0:18:04.400 --> 0:18:07.560 a savage. This is what I'm talking about. Right, We're 0:18:07.600 --> 0:18:12.080 throwing shots. We're throwing shots. We're throwing shots. You're dodging them. 0:18:12.920 --> 0:18:16.199 Twentieth of January. Twentieth of January twenty eighteen. What are 0:18:16.200 --> 0:18:18.960 you doing this evening? Fran says, hang out with my mama. 0:18:19.119 --> 0:18:21.840 I got a big day tomorrow. But then she says, 0:18:22.240 --> 0:18:24.320 where do you usually go out? I want to boogie 0:18:24.359 --> 0:18:24.520 with you? 0:18:25.160 --> 0:18:25.320 Did? 0:18:25.359 --> 0:18:26.160 I say we did? 0:18:27.560 --> 0:18:31.600 I just like, honestly, there's nothing worse than aimless chit 0:18:31.680 --> 0:18:33.439 chat quick caveat. I was talking to a friend of 0:18:33.440 --> 0:18:35.439 mine the other day and he was like talking about 0:18:35.480 --> 0:18:37.680 how he started a lot of conversations with these girls 0:18:37.960 --> 0:18:39.960