1 00:00:02,440 --> 00:00:07,840 Speaker 1: Get a I'm Lolla Berry, nutritionist, author, actor, TV presenter, 2 00:00:08,080 --> 00:00:14,080 Speaker 1: and professional overshaer. This podcast is all about celebrating failure 3 00:00:14,600 --> 00:00:17,200 Speaker 1: because I believe it's a chance for us to learn, 4 00:00:17,800 --> 00:00:22,160 Speaker 1: grow and face our blind spots. Each week, I'll interview 5 00:00:22,239 --> 00:00:26,160 Speaker 1: a different guest about their highs as well as their lows, 6 00:00:26,200 --> 00:00:29,800 Speaker 1: all in a bid to inspire us to fearlessly fail. 7 00:00:35,520 --> 00:00:39,160 Speaker 1: Hello today on the pod, I have a dear mate, 8 00:00:39,320 --> 00:00:42,879 Speaker 1: Toby Paddick. We've known each other for Yonks. I've been 9 00:00:42,920 --> 00:00:44,960 Speaker 1: wanting to get him on the pod for Yonks and 10 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:49,120 Speaker 1: the stars aligned when I was in mouths now. In 11 00:00:49,159 --> 00:00:54,520 Speaker 1: this chat, we talk about everything from snowboarding to working 12 00:00:54,560 --> 00:00:59,880 Speaker 1: with Jamie Oliver to his new sustainable food company So, 13 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:03,320 Speaker 1: which is called Made by Toby. So. We chat everything 14 00:01:03,600 --> 00:01:06,080 Speaker 1: we could. You'll hear this because we know each other 15 00:01:06,120 --> 00:01:08,000 Speaker 1: for youngest, we could have chatted for hours and hours 16 00:01:08,000 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 1: an hours. Is such a good egg, incredible chef, but 17 00:01:12,080 --> 00:01:16,360 Speaker 1: also incredible personalities, written mazillion books and just he's one 18 00:01:16,360 --> 00:01:18,680 Speaker 1: of those people that, yeah, you feel like you're just 19 00:01:18,760 --> 00:01:21,000 Speaker 1: you know, sitting down having a beer catching up with 20 00:01:21,160 --> 00:01:23,000 Speaker 1: We weren't having a beer. We'll have to do that 21 00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:26,919 Speaker 1: next time tops. But thank you Toby Paddick for jumping 22 00:01:26,959 --> 00:01:30,280 Speaker 1: on the pod. You're an absolute legend. Everybody listening to this, 23 00:01:30,760 --> 00:01:34,720 Speaker 1: I hope you love it is a good egg. So 24 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:37,760 Speaker 1: welcome to the podcast. Toby Paddick. We have been mates, 25 00:01:37,800 --> 00:01:40,479 Speaker 1: my friend. I think for thirteen years. I've been trying 26 00:01:40,480 --> 00:01:41,560 Speaker 1: to figure it out. 27 00:01:41,720 --> 00:01:44,440 Speaker 2: It's going to be since I don't know, Lolo, it's 28 00:01:44,560 --> 00:01:45,360 Speaker 2: loud in my mind. 29 00:01:45,520 --> 00:01:49,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, two thousand and ten, twelve eleven or something around there. 30 00:01:49,800 --> 00:01:51,760 Speaker 1: It'd be twelve or thirteen years, I reckon. 31 00:01:51,920 --> 00:01:52,800 Speaker 2: We're still breathing. 32 00:01:53,160 --> 00:01:55,680 Speaker 1: Do you remember we do the food, Food and Good 33 00:01:55,680 --> 00:01:57,720 Speaker 1: Food and Wine shows and you, me and Kemmy would 34 00:01:57,720 --> 00:02:00,360 Speaker 1: get up and go running. We'd be like the Fitzbo Gang, 35 00:02:00,440 --> 00:02:01,920 Speaker 1: and then all the other chefs would be out like 36 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 1: partying and have late nights. Do you remember this? 37 00:02:04,520 --> 00:02:06,680 Speaker 2: I do. I went through a life change around then 38 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:07,320 Speaker 2: you did. 39 00:02:07,640 --> 00:02:07,840 Speaker 4: Yeah. 40 00:02:08,320 --> 00:02:13,080 Speaker 1: So let's talk about you, chef author, media personality you've 41 00:02:13,080 --> 00:02:15,239 Speaker 1: now got made by Toby, which I really want to 42 00:02:15,240 --> 00:02:18,760 Speaker 1: talk about more so ready made sustainable frozen meals, which 43 00:02:18,800 --> 00:02:21,639 Speaker 1: I'm I've been made. I've been soaking you up. 44 00:02:22,160 --> 00:02:24,400 Speaker 2: But I sound weird anyway, in a. 45 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:29,920 Speaker 1: Really good way, but I wanted to quickly start with like, 46 00:02:30,160 --> 00:02:32,040 Speaker 1: we actually have a bit of a friendship. I have 47 00:02:32,200 --> 00:02:34,720 Speaker 1: memories of you rocking up to when we've done work 48 00:02:34,720 --> 00:02:38,320 Speaker 1: things together on your skateboard. And I don't know if 49 00:02:38,360 --> 00:02:40,400 Speaker 1: you remember this, but when we did Good Food and 50 00:02:40,440 --> 00:02:42,919 Speaker 1: Wine Show together, I used to come out on stage 51 00:02:42,919 --> 00:02:44,880 Speaker 1: because i'd MC your segments. 52 00:02:45,280 --> 00:02:49,400 Speaker 3: I remember you used to Saya's going to cook up storm? Yeah, 53 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:50,040 Speaker 3: every time. 54 00:02:50,200 --> 00:02:51,960 Speaker 1: Do you remember that you did this? You did this 55 00:02:52,040 --> 00:02:54,320 Speaker 1: recipe with a bird with you put a brick on 56 00:02:54,360 --> 00:02:56,799 Speaker 1: top of it, receipt and I don't know what it's called. 57 00:02:56,800 --> 00:02:58,799 Speaker 1: It like blood butterfly, the bird out. 58 00:02:58,919 --> 00:03:00,160 Speaker 2: You should know this me. 59 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:03,640 Speaker 3: You're dating Italians called polo Amatonian, which means under a brick. 60 00:03:04,040 --> 00:03:06,720 Speaker 1: Right, great, But do you remember one time you got me? 61 00:03:06,760 --> 00:03:08,840 Speaker 1: You're like, okay, we were doing this same recipe a 62 00:03:08,840 --> 00:03:13,320 Speaker 1: couple of times a day and it was I should 63 00:03:13,320 --> 00:03:15,120 Speaker 1: have known it by the back of my hand, but 64 00:03:15,160 --> 00:03:17,760 Speaker 1: I cut myself on set. Do you remember and you're like, oh, okay, Lola, 65 00:03:17,840 --> 00:03:18,960 Speaker 1: get out. Do you remember this? 66 00:03:19,200 --> 00:03:20,240 Speaker 2: No? Were you okay? 67 00:03:20,240 --> 00:03:20,440 Speaker 4: Though? 68 00:03:20,680 --> 00:03:22,960 Speaker 1: Totally fine? But I mean, like, what an uncle? We 69 00:03:22,960 --> 00:03:25,360 Speaker 1: were doing it? How many times a day? At all 70 00:03:25,360 --> 00:03:26,880 Speaker 1: over Australia, and I still cut. 71 00:03:27,160 --> 00:03:28,919 Speaker 3: This is when you cut yourself, is when you let 72 00:03:28,919 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 3: the guard down, you stop concentrating and go into autopilot. 73 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:34,960 Speaker 2: I always cut myself when I'm like being a joker. 74 00:03:35,640 --> 00:03:40,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, you've got joker vibes. Actually you've got mega chill vibes. 75 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:42,120 Speaker 1: And I think that's why I always got on so 76 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:44,600 Speaker 1: well with you. But I didn't know this until I 77 00:03:44,640 --> 00:03:46,800 Speaker 1: resett you, and then it all clicked and made sense. 78 00:03:46,840 --> 00:03:50,880 Speaker 1: So as a kid advid skater and then turn into 79 00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:52,200 Speaker 1: a snowboarder. 80 00:03:52,120 --> 00:03:55,440 Speaker 3: Yeah so I and you know, once again, this can 81 00:03:55,440 --> 00:03:56,640 Speaker 3: go all deep, this kind of stuff. 82 00:03:56,680 --> 00:04:01,360 Speaker 2: So I went to a pretty crazy school. Yeah boys private, Yeah, 83 00:04:01,480 --> 00:04:02,240 Speaker 2: very high brow. 84 00:04:02,880 --> 00:04:05,560 Speaker 3: You know, we're breeding prime ministers and doctors and that 85 00:04:06,040 --> 00:04:06,800 Speaker 3: girls version of this. 86 00:04:06,920 --> 00:04:07,160 Speaker 2: Okay. 87 00:04:07,240 --> 00:04:09,240 Speaker 3: I had no interest in any of that stuff. And 88 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:12,560 Speaker 3: my father is or was a headdresser. 89 00:04:12,120 --> 00:04:14,360 Speaker 1: In Albert Park. My mom told me, yeah. 90 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:18,159 Speaker 3: Right, And my mom a very famous makeup artist for 91 00:04:18,560 --> 00:04:23,120 Speaker 3: like high end fashion. So we're Helena Christiansen, Lindravangelist, all 92 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:25,919 Speaker 3: this stuff. So and so, yeah, I was brought up 93 00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:31,880 Speaker 3: in a very creative environment. I'm surrounded by artists and photographers. 94 00:04:31,920 --> 00:04:34,440 Speaker 2: Or all my parents' friends. I guess like me and 95 00:04:34,480 --> 00:04:35,760 Speaker 2: my friends are the same. 96 00:04:35,920 --> 00:04:38,880 Speaker 3: So I've kind of repeated that, and so I'd know, 97 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:42,920 Speaker 3: I didn't really understand what I was doing at school. 98 00:04:43,080 --> 00:04:45,480 Speaker 2: I had no interest what was being taught, whatsoever. 99 00:04:46,040 --> 00:04:48,960 Speaker 3: And so I get spat out of year twelve somehow 100 00:04:49,120 --> 00:04:51,760 Speaker 3: with a past like fifty point five percent or something, 101 00:04:52,240 --> 00:04:53,640 Speaker 3: and with no idea what to do. 102 00:04:53,960 --> 00:04:57,400 Speaker 1: And like so many kids, my bro got that, did he? 103 00:04:57,560 --> 00:04:59,760 Speaker 1: I think he got under I think he got forty nine. 104 00:05:00,320 --> 00:05:02,000 Speaker 1: I went to one of those boys schools that you're 105 00:05:02,000 --> 00:05:02,600 Speaker 1: referring to. 106 00:05:03,200 --> 00:05:04,200 Speaker 2: I think they're different now. 107 00:05:04,240 --> 00:05:07,280 Speaker 3: I think they maybe, you know, kind of it was 108 00:05:07,320 --> 00:05:09,279 Speaker 3: a very rigid model back then. If you weren't going 109 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:11,080 Speaker 3: to fit into it, you just kind of slipped between 110 00:05:11,120 --> 00:05:14,120 Speaker 3: the gaps. Yeah, but they still took your parents' money. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, 111 00:05:14,160 --> 00:05:14,560 Speaker 3: of course. 112 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:17,560 Speaker 1: So you loved skateboarding, that was kind of like your 113 00:05:17,760 --> 00:05:18,640 Speaker 1: passion then. 114 00:05:18,920 --> 00:05:20,279 Speaker 2: Yeah. So I just started writing. 115 00:05:20,800 --> 00:05:22,080 Speaker 3: I don't know if it's going to be a book, 116 00:05:22,120 --> 00:05:23,640 Speaker 3: but a lot of funny things have happened to me 117 00:05:23,680 --> 00:05:25,560 Speaker 3: in my career, and so I've just started writing all 118 00:05:25,560 --> 00:05:27,560 Speaker 3: this stuff down, so it's very fresh. So I basically 119 00:05:27,640 --> 00:05:30,719 Speaker 3: started skating. My parents moved me to the UK when 120 00:05:30,720 --> 00:05:32,840 Speaker 3: I was about ten, and I went to school there 121 00:05:32,839 --> 00:05:34,960 Speaker 3: for a year or two. Cool, and then we came 122 00:05:35,000 --> 00:05:38,080 Speaker 3: back and skateboarding is a thing all my I went 123 00:05:38,200 --> 00:05:40,600 Speaker 3: back to the same school, all my friends got skateboards 124 00:05:41,320 --> 00:05:43,360 Speaker 3: and I'd roller skated. 125 00:05:43,279 --> 00:05:45,120 Speaker 1: Which White Melbournie and of you. 126 00:05:45,560 --> 00:05:48,839 Speaker 3: Yeah, actually were roller skating again recently. It was awesome 127 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:51,320 Speaker 3: in a roller skating rink, like with the disco music on. 128 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:52,320 Speaker 1: Ye, it's very cool. 129 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:54,400 Speaker 2: It's been in the States, right, I think it's coming 130 00:05:54,440 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 2: back anyway. 131 00:05:55,240 --> 00:05:57,720 Speaker 3: So I started skateboarding, and skateboarding gave me so much 132 00:05:57,800 --> 00:05:59,479 Speaker 3: more than just something to do. It actually gave me, 133 00:05:59,600 --> 00:06:03,000 Speaker 3: I guess, some sense of place where I could be 134 00:06:03,480 --> 00:06:07,400 Speaker 3: and something I hated team sports, which doesn't say much 135 00:06:07,400 --> 00:06:08,560 Speaker 3: about my personality. 136 00:06:08,720 --> 00:06:11,480 Speaker 1: No, but you only child for the first ten years. 137 00:06:11,560 --> 00:06:15,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, exactly, and so I always I think, you know, 138 00:06:15,560 --> 00:06:17,039 Speaker 3: I'm forty eight now, so I've had a lot of 139 00:06:17,040 --> 00:06:20,159 Speaker 3: time to look back on these things, and I'm very 140 00:06:20,200 --> 00:06:22,760 Speaker 3: into like psychotherapy and studying that kind of stuff. 141 00:06:22,760 --> 00:06:23,640 Speaker 2: I find it fascinating. 142 00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:27,600 Speaker 3: So looking at my own human behavior, yes, it's really 143 00:06:27,600 --> 00:06:29,720 Speaker 3: interesting because now I can kind of I guess start 144 00:06:29,720 --> 00:06:31,520 Speaker 3: to interpret it a bit, and so I think it 145 00:06:31,560 --> 00:06:33,679 Speaker 3: was fear of failure of being part of a team. 146 00:06:33,920 --> 00:06:36,680 Speaker 3: And all these guys are really into football, they're really 147 00:06:36,680 --> 00:06:38,680 Speaker 3: into rowing, and they're really into cricket. I had no 148 00:06:38,800 --> 00:06:42,400 Speaker 3: interest yet being forced in there only to let everyone down. 149 00:06:42,640 --> 00:06:45,800 Speaker 2: So I didn't. I'm retracted. 150 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:47,840 Speaker 3: And so skateboarding was awesome because it was something I 151 00:06:47,839 --> 00:06:52,200 Speaker 3: could do by myself. I was in competition. I could 152 00:06:52,240 --> 00:06:54,040 Speaker 3: just come home from school and go skating. And then 153 00:06:54,080 --> 00:06:56,880 Speaker 3: I started to make all my friends of skateboarders. And 154 00:06:56,880 --> 00:06:59,320 Speaker 3: then we're getting into punk music, and then we're getting. 155 00:06:59,080 --> 00:07:01,680 Speaker 1: Into the pink care phase. What did that come later? 156 00:07:02,120 --> 00:07:05,320 Speaker 3: No, that was much later, much much later to mention 157 00:07:05,480 --> 00:07:08,320 Speaker 3: it though. Yeah, so I'm still in grade. I'm still 158 00:07:09,840 --> 00:07:13,240 Speaker 3: fifteen thirteen now. And so this skating went all the 159 00:07:13,240 --> 00:07:16,080 Speaker 3: way through a school, finished school, just scraping by. It 160 00:07:16,160 --> 00:07:18,320 Speaker 3: had no idea what I want to do, and and 161 00:07:18,400 --> 00:07:20,440 Speaker 3: kind of skating led into snowboarding as well. I didn't 162 00:07:20,440 --> 00:07:23,640 Speaker 3: grow up in skiing family, but snowboarding was immediately addictive 163 00:07:23,840 --> 00:07:26,440 Speaker 3: and hugely expensive, hugely. 164 00:07:26,720 --> 00:07:29,040 Speaker 1: I just learned to snowboard like two years ago. You 165 00:07:29,120 --> 00:07:30,960 Speaker 1: like it, mate, loved it? 166 00:07:31,120 --> 00:07:33,240 Speaker 2: I'm trying to get my daughter into it, who's seven, 167 00:07:33,280 --> 00:07:35,880 Speaker 2: but she's how do I take it? 168 00:07:35,960 --> 00:07:38,320 Speaker 4: She's a bit of a wimp, like she's really she's 169 00:07:38,400 --> 00:07:42,920 Speaker 4: really scared. Yeah, No, she's just very, very wary. She's 170 00:07:42,920 --> 00:07:44,680 Speaker 4: not like these you know kids who are like, I'm 171 00:07:44,680 --> 00:07:46,400 Speaker 4: going to jump off this and if I you know, 172 00:07:46,440 --> 00:07:48,000 Speaker 4: they're not even thinking about breaking the neck. 173 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:48,920 Speaker 2: There's going to go for it. 174 00:07:50,200 --> 00:07:53,600 Speaker 3: My daughter is processing all the things, and that's probably 175 00:07:53,640 --> 00:07:56,080 Speaker 3: my fault because like when she's she cooks me a 176 00:07:56,080 --> 00:07:58,040 Speaker 3: lot in the kitchen, I'm like, don't do this, because 177 00:07:58,080 --> 00:07:59,040 Speaker 3: that could happen all this. 178 00:07:59,160 --> 00:08:01,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, anyway, Lola Berry. 179 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:04,400 Speaker 3: So I basically jump into snowboarding and all I knew 180 00:08:04,440 --> 00:08:07,160 Speaker 3: I want to do was that's where I fit and 181 00:08:07,400 --> 00:08:09,480 Speaker 3: I'm going to work in the industry or do something 182 00:08:09,520 --> 00:08:12,320 Speaker 3: like that, which didn't happen because we don't have much 183 00:08:12,360 --> 00:08:14,320 Speaker 3: of an industry in Australia. So my dad suggested I 184 00:08:14,320 --> 00:08:18,239 Speaker 3: get a job in the kitchen. And Dad's really awesome. 185 00:08:18,320 --> 00:08:22,160 Speaker 3: He's like basically one of these people who will say 186 00:08:22,200 --> 00:08:23,960 Speaker 3: things and you're like, oh, you're an idiot, you don't 187 00:08:23,960 --> 00:08:25,360 Speaker 3: know what you're talking about, and then you reflect on 188 00:08:25,400 --> 00:08:26,760 Speaker 3: a few years down the track, and you're like, he 189 00:08:26,880 --> 00:08:29,760 Speaker 3: was so right, and he basically said to me, look 190 00:08:29,800 --> 00:08:31,560 Speaker 3: at a job as a chef, it's a trade. You'll 191 00:08:31,560 --> 00:08:33,400 Speaker 3: always be able to get work anywhere in the world, 192 00:08:33,400 --> 00:08:35,120 Speaker 3: and even if you hate it, the worst thing that's 193 00:08:35,160 --> 00:08:36,600 Speaker 3: ever going to happen is you'll be able to cook 194 00:08:36,600 --> 00:08:37,920 Speaker 3: for yourself for the rest of your life. 195 00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:40,160 Speaker 2: Joint me to keep going with this. 196 00:08:40,280 --> 00:08:42,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, well no, no, I love the I love 197 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:44,400 Speaker 1: the snowboarding thing. What I wanted to talk about with 198 00:08:44,480 --> 00:08:46,480 Speaker 1: that is, like, I know this sounds like a really 199 00:08:46,480 --> 00:08:49,560 Speaker 1: weird parallel to draw, but like I think that as 200 00:08:49,640 --> 00:08:51,920 Speaker 1: a snowboarder or skater you have to be like present 201 00:08:51,960 --> 00:08:55,600 Speaker 1: in the moment and reasonably calm and relaxed. Yeahma's probably 202 00:08:55,600 --> 00:08:57,040 Speaker 1: not the word you usually put me a chef, but 203 00:08:57,080 --> 00:08:59,760 Speaker 1: like my point is, like you've always had this kind 204 00:08:59,760 --> 00:09:02,840 Speaker 1: of like chilled, cruisy nature. Every time I've worked with you, 205 00:09:02,880 --> 00:09:06,040 Speaker 1: whether it's on a film set, whether it's us speaking 206 00:09:06,080 --> 00:09:08,440 Speaker 1: on stage or whatever. You and you've, like like I said, 207 00:09:08,480 --> 00:09:11,560 Speaker 1: skated sometimes to the location, and I just think it's 208 00:09:11,679 --> 00:09:13,960 Speaker 1: kind of cool knowing that that is one big passion 209 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:16,400 Speaker 1: of yours. And then like your dad said like, let's 210 00:09:16,480 --> 00:09:18,320 Speaker 1: let's get the skill set that's going to carry you 211 00:09:18,360 --> 00:09:22,000 Speaker 1: through life. And the cool thing with being a chef 212 00:09:22,040 --> 00:09:24,560 Speaker 1: and cooking is you can that is a skill that 213 00:09:25,000 --> 00:09:28,600 Speaker 1: translates all over the world. And as you figured out 214 00:09:28,960 --> 00:09:32,560 Speaker 1: there's good, there's good snowboarding in different parts of the world, 215 00:09:32,559 --> 00:09:34,920 Speaker 1: which is where you kind of mesh the two together. Right. 216 00:09:35,160 --> 00:09:35,360 Speaker 3: Yeah. 217 00:09:35,400 --> 00:09:38,400 Speaker 2: I've had a few dim moments of my life where. 218 00:09:37,840 --> 00:09:41,240 Speaker 3: I put two and two together very slowly, and I 219 00:09:41,320 --> 00:09:42,880 Speaker 3: look back and I was like, what was I thinking. 220 00:09:42,920 --> 00:09:45,160 Speaker 2: So basically, I start cooking. 221 00:09:45,360 --> 00:09:48,320 Speaker 3: I fell in love with it really quickly, and I 222 00:09:48,360 --> 00:09:51,720 Speaker 3: think I was always drawn to doing creative things. 223 00:09:51,720 --> 00:09:52,920 Speaker 2: Skateboarding is very creative. 224 00:09:52,960 --> 00:09:54,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I think. 225 00:09:54,080 --> 00:09:58,120 Speaker 2: Almost, I don't want to say more so than than now. 226 00:09:58,200 --> 00:10:00,160 Speaker 3: But back then, in the eighties when I started, we 227 00:10:00,160 --> 00:10:02,880 Speaker 3: didn't have these purpose built skateboard parks where you go 228 00:10:02,920 --> 00:10:05,360 Speaker 3: to and everything's perfect and you had to go out 229 00:10:05,360 --> 00:10:07,640 Speaker 3: in the street and you had to like find things 230 00:10:07,679 --> 00:10:10,480 Speaker 3: and then and work out how you would interpret that 231 00:10:10,520 --> 00:10:12,880 Speaker 3: on your skateboard and how you would utilize that. 232 00:10:13,000 --> 00:10:15,600 Speaker 2: Cooking is kind of similar, right, Oh, that's really cool. 233 00:10:15,640 --> 00:10:17,880 Speaker 3: So you kind of look at cooking and so you 234 00:10:18,400 --> 00:10:21,319 Speaker 3: that you know, my mum, for example, walks past a 235 00:10:21,360 --> 00:10:23,280 Speaker 3: curb every day, but to a skateboarder, it's got a 236 00:10:23,320 --> 00:10:26,280 Speaker 3: thousand possibilities, And it's much the same as a person 237 00:10:26,320 --> 00:10:28,640 Speaker 3: who's not really into food walks past the tomato and 238 00:10:28,640 --> 00:10:31,920 Speaker 3: things that will make a nice sandwich. Another person who's 239 00:10:31,960 --> 00:10:34,600 Speaker 3: really into food looks at it and through their mind 240 00:10:34,840 --> 00:10:37,080 Speaker 3: the six million possibilities of what they could do. 241 00:10:37,160 --> 00:10:38,080 Speaker 2: So it's very similar. 242 00:10:38,120 --> 00:10:41,240 Speaker 3: And I think I took I mean, here's a quick 243 00:10:41,280 --> 00:10:43,360 Speaker 3: example of why cooking worked so well for me. 244 00:10:43,440 --> 00:10:44,520 Speaker 2: So at school. 245 00:10:44,840 --> 00:10:46,520 Speaker 3: I don't know if I had ADHD or what was 246 00:10:46,559 --> 00:10:48,760 Speaker 3: going on, but I just I found it really and 247 00:10:48,800 --> 00:10:51,200 Speaker 3: I still do find it really, really really hard to 248 00:10:51,240 --> 00:10:54,360 Speaker 3: sit there and if someone's telling me something i'm not 249 00:10:55,200 --> 00:10:58,200 Speaker 3: absolutely engaged with, it's in one ear out there, no 250 00:10:58,200 --> 00:11:01,040 Speaker 3: matter how hard I try. I mean, I've got to 251 00:11:01,080 --> 00:11:03,400 Speaker 3: try really really hard to like actually try and hold 252 00:11:03,400 --> 00:11:04,200 Speaker 3: onto that information. 253 00:11:04,400 --> 00:11:09,200 Speaker 1: You're kinesthetic, aren't You learn and feel good from touching, feeling, doing, people, 254 00:11:09,400 --> 00:11:10,280 Speaker 1: showing new things. 255 00:11:10,400 --> 00:11:12,240 Speaker 2: Yeah you make it sound creepy immediately, but. 256 00:11:12,240 --> 00:11:15,080 Speaker 1: Yes, but you're not someone that reads in a book. 257 00:11:16,000 --> 00:11:18,600 Speaker 2: My wife's the reader. I'm the doer. 258 00:11:18,720 --> 00:11:20,560 Speaker 3: So basically, to give you a quick example, and this 259 00:11:20,600 --> 00:11:23,079 Speaker 3: is why fifteen worked for a period of time. 260 00:11:23,120 --> 00:11:24,400 Speaker 2: So I come to talk about. 261 00:11:24,280 --> 00:11:26,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, so Jamie Oliver is very much the same as me. 262 00:11:26,920 --> 00:11:28,240 Speaker 3: Where he learns in that way. 263 00:11:28,559 --> 00:11:31,760 Speaker 1: You can see in the way he presents it's touch right, 264 00:11:31,800 --> 00:11:32,640 Speaker 1: it's doing. 265 00:11:32,760 --> 00:11:35,640 Speaker 3: And so when I got into a kitchen, I'm surrounded 266 00:11:35,720 --> 00:11:41,760 Speaker 3: by you know, tatoo rock and Italians, you know, roosters, 267 00:11:41,880 --> 00:11:44,280 Speaker 3: smoking cigarettes and talking about having a bend of the 268 00:11:44,400 --> 00:11:48,000 Speaker 3: night before. And meanwhile my friends are sort of doing 269 00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:51,160 Speaker 3: their electrical engineering course and I was like, screw that. 270 00:11:51,200 --> 00:11:54,360 Speaker 2: I'm on two hundred bucks a week. I'm rocket, this 271 00:11:54,520 --> 00:11:55,080 Speaker 2: is awesome. 272 00:11:55,160 --> 00:11:57,719 Speaker 3: I could buy my eskateboards stuff anyway, to give you 273 00:11:57,720 --> 00:12:00,200 Speaker 3: a quick example in a kitchen, like when you got 274 00:12:00,200 --> 00:12:04,040 Speaker 3: a university, my friends and everyone's different. I'm not doubting this, 275 00:12:04,120 --> 00:12:06,959 Speaker 3: it's just you know, different strokes, different folks. There's a 276 00:12:07,000 --> 00:12:09,640 Speaker 3: lot of long lead time stuff when you're doing these 277 00:12:09,679 --> 00:12:12,280 Speaker 3: long lead projects, having to learn a bunch of information 278 00:12:12,360 --> 00:12:14,440 Speaker 3: and then you're having to do your exam or your 279 00:12:15,080 --> 00:12:18,520 Speaker 3: project that you're putting in or whatever in a kitchen. 280 00:12:18,920 --> 00:12:21,640 Speaker 3: I think it was about probably my second or third 281 00:12:21,640 --> 00:12:24,280 Speaker 3: week I spent the first three weeks just cleaning squid, 282 00:12:25,000 --> 00:12:27,360 Speaker 3: but I continues to that for another year, smoke gray. 283 00:12:27,440 --> 00:12:29,959 Speaker 3: But in about week three someone calls in sick, and 284 00:12:30,000 --> 00:12:32,840 Speaker 3: my head chef says, right, Toby, come with me, very cool, 285 00:12:32,920 --> 00:12:34,360 Speaker 3: very gentle, he says, step in here. I'm going to 286 00:12:34,440 --> 00:12:37,240 Speaker 3: need you to do this section today. And he showed 287 00:12:37,280 --> 00:12:40,120 Speaker 3: me how to cut the calamario. I'd already learned to clean, 288 00:12:41,000 --> 00:12:43,000 Speaker 3: and you know, I'm there with the stupid fingers because 289 00:12:43,000 --> 00:12:45,079 Speaker 3: I don't have knife skills yet. And then he shows 290 00:12:45,120 --> 00:12:46,920 Speaker 3: me how to dust it and season the flour. Then 291 00:12:46,920 --> 00:12:48,920 Speaker 3: he shows me how to make it a multification dressing, 292 00:12:48,960 --> 00:12:53,040 Speaker 3: which is basically egg yolk, dijon, mustard, you know, olive, 293 00:12:53,040 --> 00:12:54,559 Speaker 3: all a little bit of more salt and pepper and 294 00:12:54,600 --> 00:12:56,000 Speaker 3: stuff like that. And then he shows me how to 295 00:12:56,000 --> 00:12:56,840 Speaker 3: prep the rocket leaves. 296 00:12:56,840 --> 00:12:57,920 Speaker 2: This is a very very. 297 00:12:57,760 --> 00:13:00,160 Speaker 3: Simple dish I could probably make beginning to end in 298 00:13:00,200 --> 00:13:04,120 Speaker 3: about three minutes, including the cooking, but in its entirety, 299 00:13:04,960 --> 00:13:08,000 Speaker 3: in about let's say twenty minutes, I learned how to 300 00:13:09,040 --> 00:13:11,600 Speaker 3: you know, how to prep something and then how to 301 00:13:11,640 --> 00:13:14,600 Speaker 3: basically put it together, execute it, and then put it. 302 00:13:14,640 --> 00:13:17,560 Speaker 3: So I had a learning, a middle, and a win 303 00:13:18,400 --> 00:13:21,400 Speaker 3: all in about bactally very quickly, so you get quite 304 00:13:21,480 --> 00:13:24,920 Speaker 3: instant gratification, and then it's very important I think with 305 00:13:24,960 --> 00:13:27,120 Speaker 3: people with that learning kind of who learn in that 306 00:13:27,160 --> 00:13:29,280 Speaker 3: way to be able to have those wins. 307 00:13:29,280 --> 00:13:30,880 Speaker 2: Otherwise you lose interest pretty quickly. 308 00:13:30,960 --> 00:13:33,360 Speaker 1: Oh it makes total sense. It makes antal sense. Okay, 309 00:13:33,600 --> 00:13:35,240 Speaker 1: so I'm going to try and keep us on a 310 00:13:35,600 --> 00:13:37,240 Speaker 1: I could talk to you all day long, we could 311 00:13:37,320 --> 00:13:41,360 Speaker 1: just chill in this gear. But so you're studying in Melbourne, 312 00:13:41,440 --> 00:13:43,600 Speaker 1: you've got to mate this. Like, Yo, come to Italy 313 00:13:44,000 --> 00:13:46,160 Speaker 1: and your Dad's like, I'll get you the ticket. 314 00:13:46,600 --> 00:13:48,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, pretty much exactly. So it's another one of those 315 00:13:48,720 --> 00:13:50,760 Speaker 3: dad moments where I'll come home and one of the 316 00:13:50,720 --> 00:13:53,120 Speaker 3: glos who come to Italy is going back there. Oh 317 00:13:53,120 --> 00:13:54,880 Speaker 3: I'm going to go and I can't afford it, And 318 00:13:54,920 --> 00:13:56,839 Speaker 3: Dad said, well, you're coming up to twenty one, I'll 319 00:13:56,840 --> 00:14:00,000 Speaker 3: buy you a ticket. And so I think he probably 320 00:14:00,320 --> 00:14:02,600 Speaker 3: knew that it would be good for. 321 00:14:02,559 --> 00:14:05,160 Speaker 2: Me to go. And I traveled a lot. Yeah, I 322 00:14:05,240 --> 00:14:05,800 Speaker 2: was very lucky. 323 00:14:05,800 --> 00:14:08,520 Speaker 3: I went overseas almost every year with my family, and 324 00:14:09,760 --> 00:14:10,640 Speaker 3: mainly to England. 325 00:14:10,720 --> 00:14:11,640 Speaker 2: You know, I wasn't going. 326 00:14:11,480 --> 00:14:13,160 Speaker 1: For your dad's British, right, yeah. 327 00:14:13,000 --> 00:14:17,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, And so basically this guy, Mikelle he goes to. 328 00:14:17,559 --> 00:14:20,120 Speaker 2: Italy, I fly over, I got a rome. 329 00:14:20,200 --> 00:14:24,400 Speaker 3: I stayed with my godmother's sister in law or something, 330 00:14:24,800 --> 00:14:26,240 Speaker 3: you know. I stayed in the hotel, but she showed 331 00:14:26,240 --> 00:14:27,920 Speaker 3: me around, and so she took me to the first 332 00:14:27,960 --> 00:14:30,440 Speaker 3: little trattoria where there's like two three things on the menu. 333 00:14:30,520 --> 00:14:31,880 Speaker 1: What's a chatteria? What's that? 334 00:14:32,200 --> 00:14:35,320 Speaker 3: Trattoria is tratorial, we'd probably say here, it's like a 335 00:14:35,320 --> 00:14:38,160 Speaker 3: little bistro kind of. So trattoria is like a little 336 00:14:38,160 --> 00:14:40,920 Speaker 3: restaurant where they don't have a huge menu. Normally there's 337 00:14:41,160 --> 00:14:45,640 Speaker 3: there's like six, seven, ten seats or something, often people's homes, 338 00:14:46,000 --> 00:14:48,240 Speaker 3: and that you eat what they've cooked on the day. 339 00:14:48,520 --> 00:14:50,440 Speaker 2: So you just sit. 340 00:14:50,280 --> 00:14:52,760 Speaker 3: Down and you you know, you might have a soup 341 00:14:52,880 --> 00:14:54,640 Speaker 3: and something else to choose from and then a main 342 00:14:54,720 --> 00:14:56,600 Speaker 3: course and something like that. So I went to a 343 00:14:56,600 --> 00:15:01,440 Speaker 3: place like this and the food was so underproduced and 344 00:15:01,640 --> 00:15:05,240 Speaker 3: overly delicious. I was like, holy shit, this is this 345 00:15:05,320 --> 00:15:06,960 Speaker 3: is what I wanted, this is what I want to cook. 346 00:15:07,120 --> 00:15:08,720 Speaker 3: But then I had this dim moment where I go 347 00:15:08,800 --> 00:15:10,920 Speaker 3: to Courtinity and Petzel, which is where they shot a 348 00:15:10,920 --> 00:15:12,840 Speaker 3: lot of James Bond movies up in the Italian app. 349 00:15:12,880 --> 00:15:18,280 Speaker 3: So I'm snowboarding, shocking at snowboarding, but very passionate, a. 350 00:15:18,160 --> 00:15:20,240 Speaker 2: Lot of desire for it. But crap. 351 00:15:20,480 --> 00:15:22,800 Speaker 3: And so I grew up in Meltour. We don't well, 352 00:15:22,800 --> 00:15:26,600 Speaker 3: not exactly Swiss out. So I start snowboarding there and 353 00:15:26,600 --> 00:15:28,840 Speaker 3: I'm like, holy crap. And I made this Australian guy 354 00:15:29,120 --> 00:15:31,120 Speaker 3: who I can't remember his name, but here's much older. 355 00:15:31,160 --> 00:15:33,360 Speaker 3: He's like, you have been here a few seasons and 356 00:15:33,400 --> 00:15:35,080 Speaker 3: I was like seasons. He was like, yeah, I come 357 00:15:35,120 --> 00:15:36,800 Speaker 3: here and I work a season. Then I go, I 358 00:15:36,840 --> 00:15:38,600 Speaker 3: get the light bulb moment I. 359 00:15:38,480 --> 00:15:39,560 Speaker 2: Can cook and travel. 360 00:15:39,680 --> 00:15:39,920 Speaker 1: Yeah. 361 00:15:40,080 --> 00:15:42,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, So I come back to Australia and once again 362 00:15:42,800 --> 00:15:45,480 Speaker 3: cut me off because this can go on. But basically 363 00:15:45,520 --> 00:15:48,320 Speaker 3: I come back to Australia, I'm still at cooking. 364 00:15:47,960 --> 00:15:49,000 Speaker 2: Schoolfe I go. 365 00:15:49,200 --> 00:15:52,280 Speaker 3: But you weren't loving hate it because at this stage 366 00:15:52,880 --> 00:15:54,760 Speaker 3: it's just a lot of practical. 367 00:15:54,320 --> 00:15:57,360 Speaker 1: Work and you were already deep intoing kind of like 368 00:15:57,440 --> 00:16:00,360 Speaker 1: really well in that Melbourne Yeah. 369 00:15:59,560 --> 00:16:02,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm cooking a lot. Yeah, and i'd moved up. 370 00:16:02,320 --> 00:16:05,280 Speaker 3: I did this thing and I probably still do it, 371 00:16:05,280 --> 00:16:07,680 Speaker 3: but not as consciously where I was. Basically when I 372 00:16:07,680 --> 00:16:09,960 Speaker 3: first started in the kitchen, I got yelled at a lot. 373 00:16:10,200 --> 00:16:13,080 Speaker 3: And then I realized once I learned to do the 374 00:16:13,080 --> 00:16:15,320 Speaker 3: things I wouldn't get yelled at. Yeah, and then I 375 00:16:15,360 --> 00:16:17,400 Speaker 3: did this thing where I basically would pick the person 376 00:16:17,400 --> 00:16:19,880 Speaker 3: above me in the kitchen and I'd side up with 377 00:16:19,960 --> 00:16:22,400 Speaker 3: them and suck every bit of information out of them 378 00:16:22,400 --> 00:16:24,400 Speaker 3: i could, and then I'd overtake them. 379 00:16:24,440 --> 00:16:25,840 Speaker 1: Oh, yes, a good way of learning. 380 00:16:26,200 --> 00:16:28,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's probably there's a word for it, like a psychopath. 381 00:16:28,920 --> 00:16:30,840 Speaker 2: I don't know about that. This is what I did, 382 00:16:31,000 --> 00:16:31,520 Speaker 2: and I did. 383 00:16:31,440 --> 00:16:33,840 Speaker 3: It for a lot of years, where I basically go 384 00:16:34,000 --> 00:16:36,520 Speaker 3: up the food chain quickly, right, very quickly. So by 385 00:16:36,520 --> 00:16:39,160 Speaker 3: the time I'm twenty, I'm like, not officially sou chef 386 00:16:39,160 --> 00:16:41,000 Speaker 3: of the restaurant, but I'm doing the past and I'm 387 00:16:41,040 --> 00:16:43,720 Speaker 3: doing all this stuff other people were doing. 388 00:16:44,560 --> 00:16:46,280 Speaker 1: Okay, I'm going to make you jump right now, So 389 00:16:46,320 --> 00:16:48,080 Speaker 1: I'm going to apologize for making you jump. 390 00:16:48,200 --> 00:16:49,200 Speaker 2: You don't have to apologize. 391 00:16:49,240 --> 00:16:51,120 Speaker 1: You take a few steps. But I do want to 392 00:16:51,160 --> 00:16:54,000 Speaker 1: talk to you about because you've had such a colorful wife, 393 00:16:54,000 --> 00:16:56,320 Speaker 1: like done some really cool stuff. But I do want 394 00:16:56,320 --> 00:16:58,640 Speaker 1: to talk to you about like that River Cafe moment, 395 00:16:58,760 --> 00:17:01,520 Speaker 1: because I know in the time that you were there, 396 00:17:01,560 --> 00:17:04,920 Speaker 1: it was like the pinnacle of Italian food in London. 397 00:17:04,680 --> 00:17:06,840 Speaker 2: Right, the worldly. 398 00:17:06,920 --> 00:17:09,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, I've got a feeling and you can almost quote 399 00:17:09,880 --> 00:17:12,000 Speaker 3: me that at that stage it was voted best Italian 400 00:17:12,040 --> 00:17:14,200 Speaker 3: restaurant in the whole world and it's in London with 401 00:17:14,200 --> 00:17:15,400 Speaker 3: like two Italians working there. 402 00:17:15,560 --> 00:17:15,800 Speaker 4: Yeah. 403 00:17:16,240 --> 00:17:18,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, So that's is that what you met Genaro as well, 404 00:17:19,040 --> 00:17:20,399 Speaker 1: or that that's where you met Jamie. 405 00:17:20,440 --> 00:17:21,280 Speaker 2: I met Jamie there. 406 00:17:21,320 --> 00:17:24,560 Speaker 3: But working there becomes out comes out of a failure, 407 00:17:24,840 --> 00:17:27,240 Speaker 3: Like my whole life has been the string of failures. 408 00:17:27,280 --> 00:17:29,399 Speaker 1: So is that from dating the crazy. 409 00:17:29,080 --> 00:17:32,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, insane Italian girl. 410 00:17:32,640 --> 00:17:34,560 Speaker 3: I mean it was what you want to have as 411 00:17:34,600 --> 00:17:36,480 Speaker 3: a kid experience. 412 00:17:36,240 --> 00:17:37,200 Speaker 1: Got to get out of your sister. 413 00:17:37,359 --> 00:17:37,840 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah. 414 00:17:37,840 --> 00:17:40,800 Speaker 3: And you know her parents owned half a ski resort 415 00:17:40,880 --> 00:17:43,600 Speaker 3: or something, so as a snowball bum that's good. And 416 00:17:43,680 --> 00:17:46,479 Speaker 3: so anyway we were dating, she was like totally crazy. 417 00:17:46,480 --> 00:17:48,320 Speaker 3: We lived in separate areas. I was living at late 418 00:17:48,320 --> 00:17:51,159 Speaker 3: Como cooking. She's in Milan or something like that. And 419 00:17:51,200 --> 00:17:53,560 Speaker 3: then she I came back to austraight to see my family. 420 00:17:53,640 --> 00:17:55,359 Speaker 3: She called me and said she's going to move to 421 00:17:55,400 --> 00:17:59,520 Speaker 3: Paris and to study and I said, well, yeah, I 422 00:17:59,560 --> 00:18:01,159 Speaker 3: kind of want to learn French cooking, so I'll move 423 00:18:01,200 --> 00:18:01,600 Speaker 3: to Paris. 424 00:18:01,600 --> 00:18:03,240 Speaker 2: To rock up to Paris. 425 00:18:03,440 --> 00:18:05,640 Speaker 3: She's not at the airport, and then she immediately when 426 00:18:05,680 --> 00:18:09,040 Speaker 3: she finally comes, breaks the news that she's, you know, 427 00:18:09,640 --> 00:18:12,080 Speaker 3: been shagging like this guy I know or something like that. 428 00:18:12,119 --> 00:18:14,160 Speaker 3: So I was like, you could have told me before 429 00:18:14,200 --> 00:18:15,200 Speaker 3: I came all the way over. 430 00:18:15,720 --> 00:18:16,160 Speaker 2: It wasn't. 431 00:18:16,520 --> 00:18:18,600 Speaker 3: I'm quite proud at how I handled it because rather 432 00:18:18,680 --> 00:18:20,600 Speaker 3: than sort of curling up into a boat, we hadn't 433 00:18:20,600 --> 00:18:23,000 Speaker 3: been together, like we're kids and stuff like that. We 434 00:18:23,000 --> 00:18:26,320 Speaker 3: weren't married, and so I was just like, well, okay, 435 00:18:26,480 --> 00:18:28,879 Speaker 3: I'm in Paris. You've got an apartment. I don't. 436 00:18:29,080 --> 00:18:31,159 Speaker 2: I just said, you've been nasty to me, I'm going 437 00:18:31,240 --> 00:18:31,960 Speaker 2: to stay here. 438 00:18:32,280 --> 00:18:35,359 Speaker 3: And for like five days side my skateboard, so I 439 00:18:35,400 --> 00:18:38,680 Speaker 3: literally skated Paris and it was awesome. For like five 440 00:18:38,760 --> 00:18:41,840 Speaker 3: or six days by myself. I just went cruisy around there. 441 00:18:41,840 --> 00:18:43,680 Speaker 3: Weren't you know, wiles sea buds there, I got the 442 00:18:43,680 --> 00:18:46,000 Speaker 3: big headphones on. I had a great time or when cruising, 443 00:18:46,080 --> 00:18:48,960 Speaker 3: met lots of cool people. And then at the time 444 00:18:49,040 --> 00:18:50,879 Speaker 3: came where I was like, okay, the stay in Paris 445 00:18:51,680 --> 00:18:53,840 Speaker 3: or I go and I was thinking, I'll go to 446 00:18:53,880 --> 00:18:56,840 Speaker 3: Italy instead because I got an English passport and like 447 00:18:57,240 --> 00:18:59,480 Speaker 3: all Australians of that age, we'll have a million Aussie 448 00:18:59,520 --> 00:19:00,000 Speaker 3: friends there. 449 00:19:00,920 --> 00:19:03,240 Speaker 2: I called a friend and she was like, yeah. 450 00:19:03,359 --> 00:19:06,040 Speaker 3: I called a really old friend of mine who I've 451 00:19:06,040 --> 00:19:07,600 Speaker 3: known for many year's a good friend, and. 452 00:19:07,560 --> 00:19:09,240 Speaker 2: She said, we're here. 453 00:19:09,280 --> 00:19:13,159 Speaker 3: We've got a studio apartment in Portobello Road. Six girls 454 00:19:13,160 --> 00:19:14,320 Speaker 3: living in a studio apartment. 455 00:19:14,480 --> 00:19:15,800 Speaker 1: Come stay for a couple of times, and you like, 456 00:19:15,840 --> 00:19:17,560 Speaker 1: have a big party with them that night, and then 457 00:19:17,680 --> 00:19:19,120 Speaker 1: call River Cafe the next war. 458 00:19:19,240 --> 00:19:22,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's exactly that. So we got pretty you. 459 00:19:22,240 --> 00:19:24,440 Speaker 3: Know, pole axed whatever you want to call it, and 460 00:19:24,680 --> 00:19:27,040 Speaker 3: drowning sorrows whatever. But I was also excited to see 461 00:19:27,040 --> 00:19:29,920 Speaker 3: these guys. And I woke up the next day they've 462 00:19:29,920 --> 00:19:31,760 Speaker 3: all gone to work. I had a River Cafe cookbook 463 00:19:32,040 --> 00:19:33,919 Speaker 3: I hadn't. I didn't know much about it. This is 464 00:19:33,920 --> 00:19:36,520 Speaker 3: pre internet pretty much. So yeah, I called them, got 465 00:19:36,520 --> 00:19:37,840 Speaker 3: a job. I started working. 466 00:19:38,280 --> 00:19:40,280 Speaker 1: Aren't the people that worked at the River Cafe, like 467 00:19:40,440 --> 00:19:44,120 Speaker 1: the head chefs of like amazing, Like it's the caliber 468 00:19:44,280 --> 00:19:46,480 Speaker 1: already just walking in the door is so high. 469 00:19:46,320 --> 00:19:49,800 Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, so there's no apprentices there. Yeah, whatsoever, And 470 00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:52,520 Speaker 3: pretty much everyone there is of a really high level. 471 00:19:52,600 --> 00:19:55,399 Speaker 3: And they start everyone in Cold Lada, So everyone starts 472 00:19:55,440 --> 00:19:58,000 Speaker 3: no matter where you've come from, unless you worked there 473 00:19:58,040 --> 00:20:01,159 Speaker 3: before or you've come recommend it from Alice Waters or 474 00:20:01,200 --> 00:20:01,560 Speaker 3: something like that. 475 00:20:01,680 --> 00:20:04,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, you you're starting making salads and dessert. 476 00:20:04,760 --> 00:20:07,480 Speaker 1: And you moved up super quick, didn't you. 477 00:20:07,680 --> 00:20:10,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I moved up. I wasn't there long, I'll 478 00:20:10,040 --> 00:20:13,080 Speaker 3: tell month, yeah, seven eight months. And I hated living 479 00:20:13,119 --> 00:20:13,560 Speaker 3: in London. 480 00:20:14,560 --> 00:20:19,359 Speaker 1: You've been living the dream and like these beautiful with snowboarding. 481 00:20:20,760 --> 00:20:24,000 Speaker 2: Lake Como. Yeah, you know, I and Melbourne's beautiful, I think. 482 00:20:24,040 --> 00:20:26,960 Speaker 1: And I see parallels between London and Melbourne, though. 483 00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:29,320 Speaker 3: Yeah not where I live, what you're saying. I live 484 00:20:29,440 --> 00:20:31,240 Speaker 3: like on the river in the bush pretty much. 485 00:20:31,320 --> 00:20:31,639 Speaker 2: Okay. 486 00:20:32,119 --> 00:20:35,760 Speaker 3: I'm a nature dude, and I just had no desire 487 00:20:36,160 --> 00:20:38,159 Speaker 3: to go drinking every night. 488 00:20:38,280 --> 00:20:40,520 Speaker 2: Yea, yeah, London and just work and drink. 489 00:20:40,600 --> 00:20:42,880 Speaker 1: I think I put on fifteen kilos when I lived 490 00:20:42,920 --> 00:20:43,200 Speaker 1: in Lone. 491 00:20:43,240 --> 00:20:45,600 Speaker 2: Everyone so easy to do. 492 00:20:46,080 --> 00:20:48,240 Speaker 1: So okay, and again I know I'm going to be 493 00:20:48,280 --> 00:20:49,400 Speaker 1: speeding you up here, but. 494 00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:50,320 Speaker 2: That's why I stopped talking. 495 00:20:51,119 --> 00:20:53,920 Speaker 1: So you meet, you meet good old Jamie all over there. 496 00:20:54,040 --> 00:20:57,000 Speaker 1: But you still come back to Australia and you I 497 00:20:57,080 --> 00:20:59,760 Speaker 1: know that. You then went like twenty five cent Sharon 498 00:20:59,800 --> 00:21:02,480 Speaker 1: and another Italian restaurant that didn't kind of work out. 499 00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:05,560 Speaker 1: Then you're at a crape place and meet your beautiful wife. 500 00:21:05,920 --> 00:21:07,200 Speaker 2: Yeah. I did this into it well. 501 00:21:07,240 --> 00:21:10,840 Speaker 3: After living in London, I went to the Swiss Alps, 502 00:21:10,920 --> 00:21:12,719 Speaker 3: and I'm living in the Swiss Alps. Some dudes call 503 00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:15,040 Speaker 3: me up who i'd worked with a cafe cocina and said, 504 00:21:15,040 --> 00:21:17,360 Speaker 3: we're opening a restaurant here, and I was a bit homesick. 505 00:21:17,400 --> 00:21:19,119 Speaker 1: I've been away a few years and your mom was like, 506 00:21:19,160 --> 00:21:20,040 Speaker 1: please come back. 507 00:21:20,119 --> 00:21:20,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, she was stoked. 508 00:21:20,920 --> 00:21:22,920 Speaker 3: I'm really tight with my parents still when I speak 509 00:21:22,920 --> 00:21:25,520 Speaker 3: to mom every day and not embarrassed to say nice, 510 00:21:25,680 --> 00:21:29,040 Speaker 3: and she's awesome. And so basically I come back to 511 00:21:29,040 --> 00:21:31,080 Speaker 3: Australia and it's really nice to be home. 512 00:21:31,119 --> 00:21:33,320 Speaker 2: But these guys party cats. 513 00:21:33,920 --> 00:21:37,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, but they also didn't. They just want to replicate 514 00:21:37,200 --> 00:21:38,360 Speaker 3: where we'd worked before. 515 00:21:38,480 --> 00:21:40,520 Speaker 1: And you've got this, all these skill sets under your 516 00:21:40,520 --> 00:21:42,480 Speaker 1: belt now that you're like, yo, let me teach what 517 00:21:42,480 --> 00:21:43,760 Speaker 1: I've learned, you know what I mean? 518 00:21:44,040 --> 00:21:46,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I was cooking horribly probably looking back 519 00:21:46,800 --> 00:21:48,600 Speaker 3: at it now, like, I mean, you know, we all 520 00:21:48,640 --> 00:21:50,800 Speaker 3: do that, you look back at yourself because we're constantly 521 00:21:50,840 --> 00:21:55,280 Speaker 3: evolving with our concentration and I'm our practice whatever that is, 522 00:21:55,359 --> 00:21:57,080 Speaker 3: and so looking back at it now, I'm. 523 00:21:56,960 --> 00:21:58,200 Speaker 2: Like, oh, go, what was I doing? 524 00:21:58,200 --> 00:22:00,080 Speaker 3: But these guys were like, let's just stick to the 525 00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:02,199 Speaker 3: classics were doing and so that didn't work for me. 526 00:22:02,240 --> 00:22:03,800 Speaker 3: But there was other stuff going on there as well. 527 00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:05,080 Speaker 3: There was a lot of partying, and. 528 00:22:05,160 --> 00:22:06,480 Speaker 1: I've heard you say nosebes. 529 00:22:06,800 --> 00:22:07,800 Speaker 2: There was a. 530 00:22:07,800 --> 00:22:11,440 Speaker 3: Bit of nosebes. And look, there were situations where I'd 531 00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:14,479 Speaker 3: we were working a lot and we didn't come in. 532 00:22:15,160 --> 00:22:18,240 Speaker 3: I'd basically leave the kitchen at night and then I'd 533 00:22:18,240 --> 00:22:19,760 Speaker 3: come back the next morning because I was doing a 534 00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:22,200 Speaker 3: lot of double shifts. And one of the guys was 535 00:22:22,240 --> 00:22:25,960 Speaker 3: living opposite the restaurant up in this apartment, and a 536 00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:27,840 Speaker 3: couple of times he'd be out in the balcony I'd 537 00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:28,800 Speaker 3: see him rocking. 538 00:22:28,600 --> 00:22:30,000 Speaker 2: You know, like you've been out all night. 539 00:22:30,320 --> 00:22:31,840 Speaker 3: Actually, a couple of times I came in there was 540 00:22:31,880 --> 00:22:34,600 Speaker 3: people in the restaurant in the eight o'clock from the 541 00:22:34,720 --> 00:22:36,880 Speaker 3: night before, in the cour room. 542 00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:40,520 Speaker 1: And yeah, and in the cool room curing a hangover. 543 00:22:40,359 --> 00:22:42,360 Speaker 3: Well in the cour room, helping themselves to food, helping 544 00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:44,760 Speaker 3: themselves to the barker. And then I'm having meetings of 545 00:22:44,760 --> 00:22:46,400 Speaker 3: how we're struggling for money, and I was like, yeah, 546 00:22:46,440 --> 00:22:47,200 Speaker 3: this sucks. 547 00:22:46,880 --> 00:22:49,639 Speaker 1: So can you Then you get this call from I 548 00:22:49,640 --> 00:22:51,760 Speaker 1: think Matt Skinner, but you get this call. I know 549 00:22:52,040 --> 00:22:53,280 Speaker 1: I skipped the Georgia bit, didn't. 550 00:22:53,320 --> 00:22:54,720 Speaker 2: I know. I was just about to say. 551 00:22:54,800 --> 00:22:57,840 Speaker 3: What's quite interesting is that I've had these moments in 552 00:22:57,880 --> 00:23:00,679 Speaker 3: my career, which I highly recommend to people, where when 553 00:23:00,760 --> 00:23:05,320 Speaker 3: you're unsure, don't. I never remained in situations which made 554 00:23:05,320 --> 00:23:08,879 Speaker 3: me really unhappy, and I would pull the plug on 555 00:23:08,920 --> 00:23:12,480 Speaker 3: those situations, not quickly. I'd think about it, and it 556 00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:17,080 Speaker 3: wasn't a very educated decision. It's just like this makes 557 00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:19,479 Speaker 3: me feel fucking miserable. I'm going to quit it. 558 00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:23,120 Speaker 1: That takes courage easy, Like a lot of people would 559 00:23:23,119 --> 00:23:25,600 Speaker 1: sit in what is like quote unquote safe. 560 00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:26,879 Speaker 2: Yeah. I never did that. 561 00:23:27,640 --> 00:23:29,440 Speaker 1: That's why you've got a great career, I think. 562 00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:30,280 Speaker 2: Yeah. 563 00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:33,960 Speaker 3: And then I went to wash dishes at a friend's 564 00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:35,800 Speaker 3: crapri and I've done that a couple of times in 565 00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:38,199 Speaker 3: my career where I'm just like, I've gone you know, 566 00:23:38,359 --> 00:23:42,120 Speaker 3: six steps forward and then few back and yeah. 567 00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:44,119 Speaker 2: Anyway, so I met Georgia there and we've been together 568 00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:44,919 Speaker 2: ever since. 569 00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:46,719 Speaker 1: And you've been together like two weeks or something. And 570 00:23:46,760 --> 00:23:49,199 Speaker 1: it is call going from Jamie going, you know, I've 571 00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:52,280 Speaker 1: got this idea I want you and you convince you 572 00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:53,280 Speaker 1: guys to come to London. 573 00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:56,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean it didn't take much convincing basically. Basically 574 00:23:56,560 --> 00:23:59,120 Speaker 3: I was at a stage where i'd worked with Jamie 575 00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:01,040 Speaker 3: was getting blowing up. At this stage is coming out 576 00:24:01,080 --> 00:24:03,000 Speaker 3: to Australia for the good food and wine and stuff 577 00:24:03,040 --> 00:24:05,080 Speaker 3: like that. Filming I introduced him to Matt skin And 578 00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:07,280 Speaker 3: who I went to school with, where the good mate still. 579 00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:09,200 Speaker 1: It's like a wine a wine. 580 00:24:09,359 --> 00:24:12,119 Speaker 3: Yeah, but at that stage he was like one of 581 00:24:12,119 --> 00:24:16,000 Speaker 3: the only young people who was kind of could Matt's 582 00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:18,600 Speaker 3: an incredible communicator and he was one of the only 583 00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:22,880 Speaker 3: people who could communicate wine in a non snobby elitis fashion, 584 00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:25,840 Speaker 3: in a fun way, and Jamie really resonated with that. 585 00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:26,560 Speaker 1: Yeah. 586 00:24:26,640 --> 00:24:29,440 Speaker 3: So yeah, Georgia and I get a phone call from 587 00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:31,560 Speaker 3: Matt saying, dude, if you've spoken to Jamie this before 588 00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:34,600 Speaker 3: mobile phones, everyone's got them. I was like no, He's like, well, 589 00:24:34,600 --> 00:24:37,040 Speaker 3: he's in Australia. He just called me and he needs 590 00:24:37,080 --> 00:24:39,160 Speaker 3: to talk to you asap. So I've popped in the car. 591 00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:43,040 Speaker 3: George is like, Georgia met me as a kitchen yeah, 592 00:24:43,080 --> 00:24:45,240 Speaker 3: and so and I'm like, oh, I've actually a chef 593 00:24:45,240 --> 00:24:46,040 Speaker 3: and she was like it's. 594 00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:48,200 Speaker 2: Okay, you know, it's okay. 595 00:24:48,560 --> 00:24:50,399 Speaker 3: And so then Jamie Oliver is like, I want you to 596 00:24:50,400 --> 00:24:52,119 Speaker 3: come back and head up the kitchen and she's like, 597 00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:55,400 Speaker 3: oh shit, okay. So and that was fifteen, right, Yeah, 598 00:24:55,440 --> 00:24:57,679 Speaker 3: So we went over with no idea what we're doing. 599 00:24:57,840 --> 00:24:59,639 Speaker 2: Like Georgia was twenty two or something. 600 00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:02,880 Speaker 3: I was probably twenty six or something, and we go 601 00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:06,639 Speaker 3: over to open up this arm. So fifteen starts out 602 00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:10,000 Speaker 3: in Jamie's mind as a forty seater restaurant taking on 603 00:25:10,119 --> 00:25:13,400 Speaker 3: kids from unemployed, disadvantaged background, like. 604 00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:17,080 Speaker 1: Was it sixteen, twenty four or something like real kids, Yeah, yeah. 605 00:25:16,840 --> 00:25:19,159 Speaker 3: And they can we teach them some cooking skills and 606 00:25:19,160 --> 00:25:21,000 Speaker 3: they can utilize that to then go on and get 607 00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:24,840 Speaker 3: a career or not and use those I guess the 608 00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:27,400 Speaker 3: confidence and all the skills, the timing discipline, you learning 609 00:25:27,480 --> 00:25:30,760 Speaker 3: kitchens to do other things, which probably eighty ninety percent 610 00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:32,320 Speaker 3: of the kids who went through the program in the 611 00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:36,280 Speaker 3: entirety of across globally would do Yeah. So I went 612 00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:38,000 Speaker 3: across and did that. What was supposed to be a 613 00:25:38,040 --> 00:25:41,080 Speaker 3: forty seater restaurant ends up as like one hundred and 614 00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:44,119 Speaker 3: twenty seater thing with a TV show booked out for 615 00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:47,560 Speaker 3: six months. And I was deeply in the shit because 616 00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:49,800 Speaker 3: I was like underskilled to do this. 617 00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:51,600 Speaker 1: Didn't know you were going to be the head chef, right, 618 00:25:51,680 --> 00:25:52,359 Speaker 1: you didn't know that. 619 00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:55,560 Speaker 2: No one told me, But of course I wanted it. 620 00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:57,640 Speaker 2: I got there. It's like, I. 621 00:25:57,600 --> 00:25:59,960 Speaker 3: Think there's this thing where you're young, where you want 622 00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:02,840 Speaker 3: the title and you want yeah, you want the cool 623 00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:04,639 Speaker 3: car and you want the title and you want the 624 00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:08,639 Speaker 3: kudos and but yeah, in hindsight, I didn't have the 625 00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:10,239 Speaker 3: skill level to do that. 626 00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:12,520 Speaker 1: You would have learned so much though by just like 627 00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:14,920 Speaker 1: jumping in the deep end like that. Oh hell yeah, 628 00:26:15,119 --> 00:26:16,800 Speaker 1: there's a really I found a good quote of yours 629 00:26:16,840 --> 00:26:19,080 Speaker 1: from I think it's the Australian Show, because you know 630 00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:21,640 Speaker 1: how you brought it to Australia as well. Yeah, and 631 00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:23,560 Speaker 1: you're saying to the kids like so obviously these are 632 00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:25,480 Speaker 1: the kids that have just got in. They've made it 633 00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:28,240 Speaker 1: through to just know that they're going to be part 634 00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:32,000 Speaker 1: of the crew, right right, and you're like, the work's 635 00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:34,359 Speaker 1: going to start now, but it's going, but it is 636 00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:38,040 Speaker 1: going to be absolutely the hardest thing you'll do in 637 00:26:38,080 --> 00:26:40,520 Speaker 1: your life. That was your like, pep, talk to them, 638 00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:41,160 Speaker 1: do you know that? 639 00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:43,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, because all these kids are like jumping up and 640 00:26:43,359 --> 00:26:44,840 Speaker 3: down like they've already done it. 641 00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:45,640 Speaker 1: Yeah. 642 00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:48,480 Speaker 3: And I was like, well you've done nothing. Yeah, and 643 00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:50,560 Speaker 3: all you've done is got your. 644 00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:51,160 Speaker 2: Foot in the door. 645 00:26:51,280 --> 00:26:55,479 Speaker 3: Yeah, now is where the pain starts. And cooking, Oh 646 00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:56,320 Speaker 3: I shouldn't say that. 647 00:26:56,960 --> 00:26:59,520 Speaker 2: Well, a little bit of pain. It's like, it's it's 648 00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:00,679 Speaker 2: a hard career to do. 649 00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:04,200 Speaker 1: I remember I didn't even expect say this, but I 650 00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:07,320 Speaker 1: dated a chef that did his stuff at Voodemon and 651 00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:09,760 Speaker 1: he said he'd leave in the mornings and call his 652 00:27:09,840 --> 00:27:12,959 Speaker 1: mum crying like it was that brutal and like so 653 00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:16,679 Speaker 1: hard to be able to just feel like get up 654 00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:17,720 Speaker 1: and do it again the next day. 655 00:27:17,880 --> 00:27:18,720 Speaker 2: It's really hard. 656 00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:21,639 Speaker 3: I didn't quite I have probably had that a little bit. 657 00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:23,800 Speaker 3: I've heard a lot of stories of people who trained 658 00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:27,560 Speaker 3: in Britain and under the really hardcore I'm not going 659 00:27:27,560 --> 00:27:31,000 Speaker 3: to name names. Yeah, really hardcore free Michelin restaurant. Yeah, 660 00:27:31,040 --> 00:27:33,240 Speaker 3: and they and a lot of these people kids when 661 00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:35,800 Speaker 3: they start cooking, Yeah, they're leaving school at fourteen. Yeah, 662 00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:39,040 Speaker 3: and they're starting you know, they're fifteen and suddenly working 663 00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:40,840 Speaker 3: double shifts every day with men. 664 00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:42,360 Speaker 2: Yeah. 665 00:27:42,840 --> 00:27:45,439 Speaker 1: And I always found ego. Is there ego still in 666 00:27:45,480 --> 00:27:47,679 Speaker 1: a like or have you experienced ego in a kitchen? 667 00:27:47,760 --> 00:27:50,399 Speaker 1: Because I like my small taste it. I was like, 668 00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:52,080 Speaker 1: oh my goodness, like everyone has to say yes shit, 669 00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:54,679 Speaker 1: like not even yes chefs. I know it's respectful, but 670 00:27:54,800 --> 00:27:57,479 Speaker 1: like sometimes there feels like there can be ego in 671 00:27:57,480 --> 00:27:57,919 Speaker 1: a kitchen. 672 00:27:58,359 --> 00:28:02,000 Speaker 2: Oh hell yeah, so much go in the kitchen. Yeah, 673 00:28:02,040 --> 00:28:02,800 Speaker 2: it's insane. 674 00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:08,399 Speaker 3: It's really I don't know whether it's changing. And I 675 00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:11,959 Speaker 3: guess it's in any job. There's dickheads and good people 676 00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:12,680 Speaker 3: in every place. 677 00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:13,320 Speaker 1: Yeah. 678 00:28:13,440 --> 00:28:17,720 Speaker 2: I've worked with some crazy, crazy, crazy people. 679 00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:19,879 Speaker 3: With huge amounts of ego and you know, you're not 680 00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:23,200 Speaker 3: even cooking, you're just ego managing most of the time. 681 00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:27,879 Speaker 1: So interesting. Okay, so you do fifteen in London and 682 00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:32,240 Speaker 1: it's like six, Like you've helped all these Yeah, I 683 00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:34,920 Speaker 1: want to say bambinos, butyh youth. Yeah, and then you. 684 00:28:34,960 --> 00:28:37,119 Speaker 3: Come some of them were six six yeah, you know, 685 00:28:37,320 --> 00:28:39,320 Speaker 3: had been in prison for knifing people, so they're not 686 00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:40,200 Speaker 3: quite bambinos. 687 00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:44,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I remember watching the series and 688 00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:45,920 Speaker 1: then you come to Australia and you're like, right, oh, 689 00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:48,160 Speaker 1: we're gonna and you partner with the Charity for Australia 690 00:28:48,200 --> 00:28:50,520 Speaker 1: in same similar kind of format and ball. 691 00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:53,120 Speaker 3: Game, right, yes, and no, I did it way more 692 00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:56,160 Speaker 3: stupidly than that. I came back and Jamie was pleading 693 00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:57,560 Speaker 3: me not to do it because it's such a big 694 00:28:57,600 --> 00:28:58,000 Speaker 3: thing to do. 695 00:28:58,200 --> 00:28:59,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I said okay. 696 00:28:59,880 --> 00:29:01,840 Speaker 3: So one thing I skipped over was that I had 697 00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:04,080 Speaker 3: got when I was working as a dishwasher and I 698 00:29:04,120 --> 00:29:05,840 Speaker 3: met my wife. I'd got to a stage where I'd 699 00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:07,760 Speaker 3: cooked in a lot of restaurants, I cooked overseas, I've 700 00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:11,200 Speaker 3: learned some language, I was getting okay at cooking, and 701 00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:13,760 Speaker 3: I was wondering what was next. And I could see 702 00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:17,120 Speaker 3: the road because I could I knew older chefs, and 703 00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:19,760 Speaker 3: I could see where my life was going. And I 704 00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:24,240 Speaker 3: was looking at upskilling doing something else. And so that's 705 00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:26,360 Speaker 3: why I kind of took that break to watch dishes 706 00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:28,440 Speaker 3: and I was like, let's do this while I work 707 00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:29,040 Speaker 3: out my next move. 708 00:29:29,120 --> 00:29:30,440 Speaker 2: Maybe maybe I'm going back to UNI. 709 00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:33,600 Speaker 3: I also had a huge interest in becoming a mountain 710 00:29:33,640 --> 00:29:36,440 Speaker 3: guide before coming back to Australia from Switzerland. 711 00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:39,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, you'd enrolled in the course to learn about avalanches 712 00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:41,160 Speaker 1: and like halle skiing and all that. 713 00:29:41,240 --> 00:29:43,200 Speaker 3: Yes, I would have been the guy that you know, 714 00:29:43,360 --> 00:29:47,400 Speaker 3: is that snowbum that and that's kind of I sometimes 715 00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:49,400 Speaker 3: have regrets I didn't do that because I was a 716 00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:51,080 Speaker 3: road for big time. 717 00:29:51,640 --> 00:29:53,440 Speaker 2: Do I stay in Switzerland and do. 718 00:29:53,480 --> 00:29:56,560 Speaker 3: This where I loved living in Switzerland and I had 719 00:29:56,600 --> 00:29:59,080 Speaker 3: an offer there to from the people I was working 720 00:29:59,120 --> 00:30:01,200 Speaker 3: with also and to release restaurant. They said to me, 721 00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:03,760 Speaker 3: go run this restaurant. You could do you guiding. Everything 722 00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:05,400 Speaker 3: was laid out for me like it was ready to 723 00:30:05,440 --> 00:30:08,480 Speaker 3: go in a package. But I came back. But I 724 00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:10,000 Speaker 3: wouldn't have met my beautiful. 725 00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:10,640 Speaker 2: Wife when we come back. 726 00:30:10,720 --> 00:30:11,560 Speaker 1: So interesting. 727 00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:13,920 Speaker 2: So we're just quickly about to talk about fifteen. 728 00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:15,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, Jamie really wanted me to come back and just 729 00:30:15,840 --> 00:30:18,719 Speaker 3: open a past the bar because making fresh pass us 730 00:30:18,760 --> 00:30:22,080 Speaker 3: a huge passion of mine. But the reason I wanted 731 00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:25,480 Speaker 3: to do fifteen was because I found cooking to be 732 00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:29,720 Speaker 3: surrounded by egos a lot of hard work, very underpaid. 733 00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:31,640 Speaker 3: This is before cooking is cool. We've got to remember 734 00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:34,040 Speaker 3: as well, so there's no master chef and stuff like that. 735 00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:37,479 Speaker 3: Then it's just a very thankless job, which you had 736 00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:40,360 Speaker 3: to be passionate about. Yeah, so Jamie thought it would 737 00:30:40,360 --> 00:30:42,360 Speaker 3: be much better because fifteen was such hard work. And 738 00:30:42,400 --> 00:30:44,200 Speaker 3: you mentioned I partnered with the charity. I didn't do 739 00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:46,800 Speaker 3: any of that stuff. I came back with a desire 740 00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:49,440 Speaker 3: to do it because I had got to a stage 741 00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:52,720 Speaker 3: with my career where I could see where my life 742 00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:54,959 Speaker 3: was going with cooking, and I didn't want to be 743 00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:58,920 Speaker 3: sixty years old and just working you know, double shifts 744 00:30:58,920 --> 00:31:01,320 Speaker 3: every day for like you know, eighty grand or whatever. 745 00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:03,160 Speaker 3: So I want to more. I wanted something else. I 746 00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:04,920 Speaker 3: didn't want to spend my whole off doing it. Yeah, 747 00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:08,520 Speaker 3: fifteen field avoid because we're actually utilizing a skill set 748 00:31:08,640 --> 00:31:12,040 Speaker 3: I'd learned to change lives and to be people, and 749 00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:14,360 Speaker 3: to be a part of that process with people was 750 00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:18,400 Speaker 3: fucking sick. And there was a lot of heartache in 751 00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:21,880 Speaker 3: it as well, and saw some horrible, horrible things, but 752 00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:24,000 Speaker 3: also got to be a part of some amazing change. 753 00:31:24,080 --> 00:31:26,520 Speaker 1: Can you'd be watching so much transformation as well. 754 00:31:26,920 --> 00:31:29,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, and a lot of the time, I mean, fifteen 755 00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:33,160 Speaker 3: was everything. It was like heartbreaking, it was amazing, it 756 00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:36,680 Speaker 3: was absolutely everything. So basically, yeah, we did fifteen here. 757 00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:39,200 Speaker 3: But when I say I did, in a stupid way. 758 00:31:39,280 --> 00:31:41,680 Speaker 3: We did everything. So I didn't partner with charities. We 759 00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:44,320 Speaker 3: started our own charity of which I was a director of. 760 00:31:44,440 --> 00:31:45,240 Speaker 1: So wow. 761 00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:47,440 Speaker 2: So I came back at I. 762 00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:50,120 Speaker 3: Think I'm thirty, and I'm like, right, I've got to 763 00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:52,000 Speaker 3: find like millions of dollars. I've got to learn how 764 00:31:52,040 --> 00:31:54,040 Speaker 3: to start a charity and do that. I've got to 765 00:31:54,080 --> 00:31:56,080 Speaker 3: try and broker a TV show because that's going to 766 00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:58,600 Speaker 3: bring traffic through and it's also going to bring the 767 00:31:58,680 --> 00:32:01,880 Speaker 3: heavy hitter corporates there, which will bring them much needed 768 00:32:01,960 --> 00:32:04,560 Speaker 3: funds to bankroll the whole thing. 769 00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:06,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, and so yeah, I did that. 770 00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:09,360 Speaker 1: So how did it go then from because I visited 771 00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:11,560 Speaker 1: when it was fifteen in Melbourne and I've been to 772 00:32:11,600 --> 00:32:13,040 Speaker 1: the one in London. 773 00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:13,360 Speaker 3: Fun. 774 00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:15,040 Speaker 1: In fact, I signed to Fresh Partners and I had 775 00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:18,040 Speaker 1: to sign my contract in fifteen. Yeah, they will do 776 00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:21,760 Speaker 1: it official and everyone's got little fifteen IDs and stuff 777 00:32:21,960 --> 00:32:23,720 Speaker 1: that work in the company. I'm like, oh my goodness, 778 00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:26,840 Speaker 1: this is a this is a big family here huge, 779 00:32:27,840 --> 00:32:31,080 Speaker 1: but in Melbourne we also my family, my family. I 780 00:32:31,120 --> 00:32:34,160 Speaker 1: still remember we all went to the kitchen cat as well. 781 00:32:34,240 --> 00:32:37,840 Speaker 1: So I'm guessing then for you, fifteen at some stage 782 00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:40,440 Speaker 1: turned into the kitchen cat. Is also this is a 783 00:32:40,440 --> 00:32:43,080 Speaker 1: side question. Is the kitchen cat? Is that a nod 784 00:32:43,120 --> 00:32:45,719 Speaker 1: to Italy because there's often a cat in a kitchen? 785 00:32:46,040 --> 00:32:46,400 Speaker 2: Yeah? 786 00:32:46,680 --> 00:32:46,880 Speaker 1: Is that. 787 00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:48,600 Speaker 3: I'm glad you get that because no one else got that. 788 00:32:48,640 --> 00:32:52,960 Speaker 3: But basically it's a very complicated story. As I mentioned 789 00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:55,600 Speaker 3: to you, Like during the life of fifteen, we had 790 00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:58,320 Speaker 3: a lot going on. We had a lot of so 791 00:32:58,400 --> 00:33:00,680 Speaker 3: when you own a restaurant, most to the time you're 792 00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:02,800 Speaker 3: not dealing with what you want to deal with. And 793 00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:05,520 Speaker 3: most of the time in fifteen, I was dealing with 794 00:33:06,400 --> 00:33:07,960 Speaker 3: a sewage smell. 795 00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:09,320 Speaker 2: So we had because. 796 00:33:09,080 --> 00:33:11,600 Speaker 1: We were underground, underground. 797 00:33:11,040 --> 00:33:13,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, we had this smell that was coming through and 798 00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:15,160 Speaker 3: it was there for like four years. I don't want 799 00:33:15,160 --> 00:33:16,520 Speaker 3: to go into it too much, but it took up 800 00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:19,920 Speaker 3: an incredible amount of energy, and in the end, it 801 00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:22,640 Speaker 3: brought a lot of tension between It took me away 802 00:33:22,680 --> 00:33:24,960 Speaker 3: from the kitchen and just dealing with that. It took 803 00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:28,480 Speaker 3: me away and people away from fundraising. It just made 804 00:33:28,520 --> 00:33:32,160 Speaker 3: it really really hard to work and my business. Part 805 00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:34,640 Speaker 3: of the time. He's getting angry, I'm getting angry. There's 806 00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:36,920 Speaker 3: a lot of emotion tension going on. We just, you know, 807 00:33:36,960 --> 00:33:41,000 Speaker 3: wanted to get onto it, but we couldn't. Simultaneously, I've 808 00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:43,320 Speaker 3: got an amazing bunch of staff working there, you know, 809 00:33:43,400 --> 00:33:46,120 Speaker 3: what's off to make good food and on a Saturday night, 810 00:33:46,160 --> 00:33:48,080 Speaker 3: when you've got one hundred people sitting down, you're getting 811 00:33:48,080 --> 00:33:49,520 Speaker 3: a shit smell coming through the restaurant. 812 00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:51,680 Speaker 1: Oh yeah. 813 00:33:51,720 --> 00:33:57,160 Speaker 3: So anyway, so basically the idea we couldn't sell fifteen. 814 00:33:57,600 --> 00:34:01,200 Speaker 3: So the plan was we because it was a charity, 815 00:34:01,240 --> 00:34:03,320 Speaker 3: it was a franchise, you can't, you know, it was 816 00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:05,680 Speaker 3: a big thing, so we would change it over and 817 00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:07,680 Speaker 3: there was a few It was actually a very good 818 00:34:08,520 --> 00:34:11,400 Speaker 3: idea in concept, but it didn't follow through. So the 819 00:34:11,440 --> 00:34:15,279 Speaker 3: idea was fifteen was a really good program because it 820 00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:18,280 Speaker 3: would really change people's lives. It was also incredibly expensive 821 00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:20,440 Speaker 3: to run. I think it cost about seventy thousand per 822 00:34:20,480 --> 00:34:22,800 Speaker 3: student per year because they need the support stuff and 823 00:34:22,920 --> 00:34:25,400 Speaker 3: this kind of stuff. I had this idea which was 824 00:34:25,760 --> 00:34:28,840 Speaker 3: why and in the end as well, Lola, all these awesome. 825 00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:30,759 Speaker 3: Chefs are putting their hands up saying, can we have 826 00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:34,640 Speaker 3: your staff when you've trained them? So I realized, well, amazing, 827 00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:38,520 Speaker 3: but I'm here doing all the hard work and passing 828 00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:41,320 Speaker 3: them on and passing them on. Why isn't everyone putting, 829 00:34:41,719 --> 00:34:43,279 Speaker 3: you know, helping out here. So I came up with 830 00:34:43,320 --> 00:34:46,520 Speaker 3: this other model which we turned. We changed fifteen foundation 831 00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:49,520 Speaker 3: to stepping stones. So the idea there was we get 832 00:34:49,560 --> 00:34:52,480 Speaker 3: government grants and we get some people to put money in. 833 00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:56,160 Speaker 3: The charity is no longer putting all the trainees in 834 00:34:56,160 --> 00:34:58,760 Speaker 3: one restaurant. We basically get them in through the various 835 00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:02,680 Speaker 3: charities ubsidized a portion of their wage to a restaurant, 836 00:35:03,560 --> 00:35:05,520 Speaker 3: you know, to sixty seventy percent or whatever. 837 00:35:05,600 --> 00:35:08,960 Speaker 2: So then they take on these people cool and they 838 00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:09,520 Speaker 2: get to help the. 839 00:35:09,600 --> 00:35:11,880 Speaker 1: Different skill sets as well, like different specialties. 840 00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:13,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, we get to put up the support network. 841 00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:15,239 Speaker 3: So if they're not rocking up, they're having trouble at 842 00:35:15,239 --> 00:35:17,640 Speaker 3: home or something like that, we send the youth worker 843 00:35:17,680 --> 00:35:20,160 Speaker 3: out who helped them. And so that was the idea 844 00:35:20,200 --> 00:35:22,560 Speaker 3: with that, and then we would sell the restaurant. We 845 00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:25,800 Speaker 3: had so many issues still with the builder of the landlord, 846 00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:28,880 Speaker 3: all this stuff that we ended up finished looked, for 847 00:35:28,960 --> 00:35:30,160 Speaker 3: lack of a better word, it finish. 848 00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:33,160 Speaker 1: Badly as fifteen rise kitchen cat. 849 00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:33,600 Speaker 2: Kitchen cat. 850 00:35:33,719 --> 00:35:36,880 Speaker 3: Oh really, it all just fizzed out because we basically 851 00:35:36,960 --> 00:35:39,520 Speaker 3: ended up in this situation where we found this this 852 00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:41,480 Speaker 3: sewerage thing went on for four years and. 853 00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:42,360 Speaker 2: It was just a smell. 854 00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:47,200 Speaker 1: And sorry i'mkaying off, but that's obviously, like quite unquote 855 00:35:47,239 --> 00:35:49,560 Speaker 1: a failure, Like how do you bounce back from that? 856 00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:54,560 Speaker 3: Well, look, there was no real bouncing back from that 857 00:35:54,640 --> 00:35:57,600 Speaker 3: because the amount of damage that was done through that smell, 858 00:35:57,680 --> 00:36:00,000 Speaker 3: and it wasn't we of course we called the plumb 859 00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:03,200 Speaker 3: much no one could tell us where the problem was 860 00:36:03,239 --> 00:36:06,000 Speaker 3: coming from. It ended up being an incredibly complicated problem 861 00:36:06,040 --> 00:36:07,839 Speaker 3: with a broken pipe that wasn't on a map because 862 00:36:07,880 --> 00:36:11,840 Speaker 3: it was one hundred years to do it, sex airflow 863 00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:14,080 Speaker 3: and all this kind of stuff. So it took some 864 00:36:14,239 --> 00:36:16,319 Speaker 3: very smart minds to work it out. Once they worked 865 00:36:16,320 --> 00:36:19,200 Speaker 3: it out, my business partner at the time went the 866 00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:22,279 Speaker 3: landlord by the juggular and so that started. 867 00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:24,560 Speaker 2: Heading towards a very big court case. 868 00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:28,640 Speaker 3: Meanwhile, I'm getting totally burned out, like totally totally. 869 00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:32,240 Speaker 1: We haven't even mentioned that you've got you know, five books, 870 00:36:32,280 --> 00:36:34,319 Speaker 1: like at that stage, you've probably got three or four. 871 00:36:34,360 --> 00:36:34,920 Speaker 1: I imagine it. 872 00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:36,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, I was probably three books deep and I'm filming 873 00:36:36,920 --> 00:36:39,919 Speaker 3: a lot and doing it. I got a media career, 874 00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:43,200 Speaker 3: so I started doing all that stuff. And my sister 875 00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:45,880 Speaker 3: in law who's a lawyer, tapped me on the shoulder 876 00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:47,400 Speaker 3: and just said, you need to step away from the 877 00:36:47,480 --> 00:36:48,000 Speaker 3: vehicle here. 878 00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:50,200 Speaker 2: You said, you're just you. 879 00:36:51,160 --> 00:36:53,160 Speaker 3: This this is a big like it's grown ups game 880 00:36:53,200 --> 00:36:56,120 Speaker 3: now and no disrespect, but you know there's lawyers. 881 00:36:56,200 --> 00:36:57,360 Speaker 2: And so I stopped. 882 00:36:57,480 --> 00:37:00,960 Speaker 3: We basically closed the restaurant, stepped away, and I had 883 00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:03,399 Speaker 3: someone ready because now we can fix the problem because 884 00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:03,920 Speaker 3: we knew. 885 00:37:03,719 --> 00:37:05,959 Speaker 2: What it was. But I was out. 886 00:37:06,040 --> 00:37:09,000 Speaker 3: I was just like totally milked and ready to just 887 00:37:09,040 --> 00:37:09,840 Speaker 3: do something else. 888 00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:12,480 Speaker 1: So interesting. Thank you for sharing all that, because so 889 00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:15,160 Speaker 1: I have I had. I remember the meals that I 890 00:37:15,200 --> 00:37:17,200 Speaker 1: got that I got then stilled to this day, I'm 891 00:37:17,200 --> 00:37:19,480 Speaker 1: like driven when I think it was like some braised 892 00:37:19,560 --> 00:37:22,080 Speaker 1: cheek or something I got there and then something else 893 00:37:22,160 --> 00:37:24,160 Speaker 1: bone marrow, and it was. 894 00:37:23,960 --> 00:37:27,560 Speaker 2: It was heartbreaking and it was a beautiful spot. Thank you. 895 00:37:27,800 --> 00:37:30,279 Speaker 3: It was really heartbreaking because it was kind of our thing, 896 00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:32,839 Speaker 3: but it was just a lot of yeah in a way, 897 00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:34,400 Speaker 3: and it's you know, happens a lot. 898 00:37:34,719 --> 00:37:37,600 Speaker 1: But I love that you're I love that you're sharing, Like, yeah, 899 00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:40,080 Speaker 1: it's something that didn't kind of work out in your 900 00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:42,880 Speaker 1: favor other than you would have learnt shit tons from it. 901 00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:46,520 Speaker 1: I know I'm skipping many years now, but what about made. 902 00:37:46,280 --> 00:37:48,280 Speaker 2: By T So that's a result of everything. 903 00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:51,120 Speaker 3: So basically I get spit out of spat out of kitchens. 904 00:37:51,520 --> 00:37:54,640 Speaker 3: I lost thirty seven percent of my eyesight at this 905 00:37:54,760 --> 00:37:56,280 Speaker 3: time in twenty twenty. 906 00:37:56,719 --> 00:37:57,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, pretty heavy stuff. 907 00:37:57,840 --> 00:38:01,520 Speaker 3: So basically I started wearing glasses and the script's going 908 00:38:01,600 --> 00:38:02,480 Speaker 3: up and up and up, and. 909 00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:04,520 Speaker 1: But you suit glasses, by the way, you look great. 910 00:38:04,600 --> 00:38:06,080 Speaker 2: Well lucky that because I need them. 911 00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:09,680 Speaker 3: But anyway, so I ended up going to the doctor 912 00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:12,120 Speaker 3: who told me a load of you know what. So 913 00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:14,440 Speaker 3: I was like, okay, and these are things I'm starting 914 00:38:14,480 --> 00:38:17,000 Speaker 3: to learn as you get older that not everyone's got 915 00:38:17,040 --> 00:38:17,480 Speaker 3: your back. 916 00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:20,520 Speaker 2: You need to look after yourself, don't believe everyone. Do 917 00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:23,319 Speaker 2: your own research and understand what's happening in your life 918 00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:26,160 Speaker 2: rather than relying on the professionals all the time. So 919 00:38:26,520 --> 00:38:29,520 Speaker 2: I ended up going to you know, like an eye 920 00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:32,239 Speaker 2: specialist at Cabrini Hospital here in Melbourne, and then I 921 00:38:32,320 --> 00:38:34,279 Speaker 2: have this horrible thing run there for like eight hours. 922 00:38:34,320 --> 00:38:37,319 Speaker 2: I'm getting bounced from specialists to specialist. 923 00:38:36,880 --> 00:38:38,359 Speaker 3: And I thought it was going to be a quick fix, 924 00:38:38,880 --> 00:38:41,480 Speaker 3: and then you hear those horrible words where you've. 925 00:38:41,280 --> 00:38:43,120 Speaker 2: Got a problem of great significance. 926 00:38:43,120 --> 00:38:44,919 Speaker 3: So I was waiting for the cancer words come out, 927 00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:47,000 Speaker 3: and they were like I ended up with this thing, 928 00:38:47,080 --> 00:38:49,279 Speaker 3: which is crazy, Lola, because you were saying before that 929 00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:52,160 Speaker 3: I'm like always calm and everything, Well. 930 00:38:52,000 --> 00:38:55,799 Speaker 2: I'm actually not. I'm running it, you know, high anxiety. 931 00:38:56,400 --> 00:38:59,040 Speaker 3: Well back then more so where I was basically getting 932 00:38:59,040 --> 00:39:00,400 Speaker 3: out of bed, and this was a lot to do 933 00:39:00,440 --> 00:39:04,239 Speaker 3: with cooking and pressure and tension and trying to do 934 00:39:04,239 --> 00:39:04,920 Speaker 3: all this stuff. 935 00:39:05,160 --> 00:39:06,439 Speaker 2: I was basically getting out of bed. 936 00:39:06,480 --> 00:39:08,400 Speaker 3: Like if you've got a line where you're supposed to 937 00:39:08,400 --> 00:39:12,080 Speaker 3: sit at and that's your normal operating line, I'm like 938 00:39:12,360 --> 00:39:15,239 Speaker 3: swimming above that line before I've even woken up. And 939 00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:16,920 Speaker 3: then I'm getting up and then I'm having like three 940 00:39:17,000 --> 00:39:20,040 Speaker 3: four espresso by the time I get to work. I'm 941 00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:25,719 Speaker 3: like my normal operating level is we're talking flight or 942 00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:30,000 Speaker 3: flight mode or whatever, and so you know, Cortisol's going crazy. 943 00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:32,720 Speaker 2: And all that kind of stuff. Adrenaline but all the time. 944 00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:36,640 Speaker 3: And so I ended up with this I specialist and 945 00:39:36,680 --> 00:39:39,279 Speaker 3: they said, look, we can do laser surgery, but what 946 00:39:39,280 --> 00:39:40,759 Speaker 3: you really need to do is lower your stress. So 947 00:39:40,800 --> 00:39:43,399 Speaker 3: I ended up going to the GP. I walked in, 948 00:39:43,719 --> 00:39:45,840 Speaker 3: you know, my doctor, and I'm like, oh, I'm stressed. 949 00:39:45,840 --> 00:39:47,319 Speaker 3: What are we gonna do about it? She's like, I'm 950 00:39:47,320 --> 00:39:48,840 Speaker 3: gonna write your script for this. We're gonna give you 951 00:39:48,840 --> 00:39:50,480 Speaker 3: heaps to these value and and xan X and all 952 00:39:50,520 --> 00:39:52,320 Speaker 3: this stuff. And I was like, it sounds like fun, 953 00:39:52,360 --> 00:39:56,359 Speaker 3: but it also sounds well, it sounds like a band aid, 954 00:39:56,719 --> 00:39:57,560 Speaker 3: is what I was hearing. 955 00:39:57,880 --> 00:39:59,799 Speaker 2: And what it was pretty cool. 956 00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:01,759 Speaker 3: I'm quite of proud of myself that I started to 957 00:40:01,840 --> 00:40:04,440 Speaker 3: understand that that the words that were coming out of 958 00:40:04,440 --> 00:40:06,200 Speaker 3: her mouth weren't going to be a long term solution. 959 00:40:06,840 --> 00:40:08,560 Speaker 3: So when you would have met me, I would have 960 00:40:08,600 --> 00:40:10,359 Speaker 3: been going through this change where so. 961 00:40:10,400 --> 00:40:14,440 Speaker 1: You became Plank curious, isn't it? And you started caring 962 00:40:14,480 --> 00:40:18,800 Speaker 1: about like really switching around your health value system, right. 963 00:40:18,600 --> 00:40:22,239 Speaker 3: But looking after myself, and I'd just been everything was 964 00:40:22,280 --> 00:40:26,200 Speaker 3: about the kitchen and what I needed to do, and 965 00:40:26,320 --> 00:40:29,640 Speaker 3: you know, all this contractual stuff, and so I basically 966 00:40:30,280 --> 00:40:32,600 Speaker 3: suddenly had because I wasn't working in the kitchen eighty 967 00:40:32,640 --> 00:40:34,479 Speaker 3: hours of my life back a week and. 968 00:40:34,400 --> 00:40:35,560 Speaker 2: I was like, holy shit. 969 00:40:35,680 --> 00:40:38,319 Speaker 3: So I started doing a lot of yoga, and I'm 970 00:40:38,320 --> 00:40:40,480 Speaker 3: going back to this professor who's been doing this. I 971 00:40:40,520 --> 00:40:42,040 Speaker 3: still go to him for a check up. And he 972 00:40:42,200 --> 00:40:46,080 Speaker 3: was blown away because in three months I basically took 973 00:40:46,640 --> 00:40:49,040 Speaker 3: I was having a leakage of fluid behind my retina's 974 00:40:49,040 --> 00:40:51,400 Speaker 3: which was messy with my eyesight. Got rid of all 975 00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:54,200 Speaker 3: the fluid and my eyes are self feeling so which. 976 00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:55,000 Speaker 2: Is almost unheard of. 977 00:40:55,160 --> 00:40:58,359 Speaker 3: So I was like, wow, this yoga things for really Yeah, right, 978 00:40:58,440 --> 00:41:01,840 Speaker 3: And so then I start getting really into yoga and 979 00:41:01,880 --> 00:41:04,879 Speaker 3: I still very much am and meditate every single day 980 00:41:05,000 --> 00:41:07,279 Speaker 3: now because I now know that I am prone to 981 00:41:07,360 --> 00:41:11,040 Speaker 3: kind of this high anxiety and I can bounce and 982 00:41:11,560 --> 00:41:14,480 Speaker 3: go into flight mode real quick, which is great in kitchens. 983 00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:16,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, of course, not healthy. 984 00:41:16,560 --> 00:41:19,200 Speaker 1: So interesting though, says that's where all the health stuff. 985 00:41:19,239 --> 00:41:22,719 Speaker 1: That's because you went from your cookbooks all being very 986 00:41:22,719 --> 00:41:26,680 Speaker 1: Italiano Italiano, which is amazing, but then it really shifted 987 00:41:26,680 --> 00:41:29,040 Speaker 1: to and free and then plant base. 988 00:41:29,400 --> 00:41:31,640 Speaker 3: One of the reasons is is I'm at home all 989 00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:34,040 Speaker 3: the time. And because I don't have a restaurant outlet, 990 00:41:34,080 --> 00:41:35,800 Speaker 3: a lot of people think chefs can cook anything. 991 00:41:35,840 --> 00:41:36,280 Speaker 2: They can't. 992 00:41:36,400 --> 00:41:38,839 Speaker 3: You learn to cook, you cook what you trained to cook, 993 00:41:38,880 --> 00:41:40,799 Speaker 3: and so for me that was quite fattening Italian. It 994 00:41:40,840 --> 00:41:43,520 Speaker 3: was restaurant Italian food, beautiful. So we're eating that most 995 00:41:43,600 --> 00:41:45,840 Speaker 3: nights of the week. Georgia, who is paying someone a 996 00:41:45,880 --> 00:41:49,440 Speaker 3: fortune to personal train her, is training and training and training, 997 00:41:49,880 --> 00:41:52,520 Speaker 3: and the trainer said to her, look, you've plateaued, like 998 00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:56,040 Speaker 3: you're doing all the right stuff, but something's stopping you. 999 00:41:56,080 --> 00:41:58,040 Speaker 3: So I end up in front of this like six 1000 00:41:58,080 --> 00:42:01,200 Speaker 3: foot four Amazonian woman who said, you know, what are 1001 00:42:01,239 --> 00:42:02,520 Speaker 3: you eating? And I told her it was one of 1002 00:42:02,560 --> 00:42:04,239 Speaker 3: the best things that's ever happened to me because she 1003 00:42:04,320 --> 00:42:06,640 Speaker 3: was lovely, and she said, right, all this food you're 1004 00:42:06,640 --> 00:42:09,680 Speaker 3: cooking with like it's good for restaurants, but it's not 1005 00:42:09,760 --> 00:42:12,480 Speaker 3: everyday food. So she wrote me a list of what 1006 00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:14,919 Speaker 3: we can have every day as much of as we want, 1007 00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:16,600 Speaker 3: what we can never have, and what we can have 1008 00:42:16,640 --> 00:42:19,040 Speaker 3: sometimes is a treat. If George is to get the desire, 1009 00:42:19,440 --> 00:42:21,880 Speaker 3: start cooking this kind of food at home. Put the 1010 00:42:21,920 --> 00:42:25,840 Speaker 3: photos on Instagram, which we now have my beautiful publisher 1011 00:42:25,880 --> 00:42:29,240 Speaker 3: at Penguin, Julie Gibbs at the time, said, what's this stuff? 1012 00:42:29,280 --> 00:42:31,280 Speaker 2: You cook Italian food? What's this other stuff? 1013 00:42:31,600 --> 00:42:34,000 Speaker 3: We start doing a cookbook called The Chef Gets Healthy, Yeah, 1014 00:42:34,040 --> 00:42:35,520 Speaker 3: which was life changing, one. 1015 00:42:35,520 --> 00:42:37,279 Speaker 1: Hundred gluten free recipes, wasn't it. 1016 00:42:37,560 --> 00:42:39,759 Speaker 3: Yeah, But all my books have been gluten free, which 1017 00:42:39,800 --> 00:42:41,919 Speaker 3: was pretty crazy since two thousand and five. 1018 00:42:42,080 --> 00:42:42,440 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1019 00:42:42,640 --> 00:42:44,759 Speaker 3: I came back from the UK with the opportunity to 1020 00:42:44,840 --> 00:42:46,160 Speaker 3: a book and I said, I want to do this 1021 00:42:46,200 --> 00:42:48,759 Speaker 3: thing where because I had a look in Borders, which 1022 00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:49,759 Speaker 3: is a bookshop at the time. 1023 00:42:49,840 --> 00:42:50,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, I remember Borders. 1024 00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:53,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, And I said, you know, I've got a couple 1025 00:42:53,400 --> 00:42:56,000 Speaker 3: of friends who are struggling to cook gluten free diets. 1026 00:42:56,040 --> 00:42:58,000 Speaker 3: This is when gluten free wasn't trendy, and they're like 1027 00:42:58,640 --> 00:43:01,680 Speaker 3: gluten free books at that time we're in the medical section. Yes, 1028 00:43:01,760 --> 00:43:04,080 Speaker 3: And so I said, I just want to write a 1029 00:43:04,080 --> 00:43:06,600 Speaker 3: book which is a book for everybody. So it's inclusive 1030 00:43:06,680 --> 00:43:08,440 Speaker 3: and it's got little notes down the bottom. If you 1031 00:43:08,480 --> 00:43:11,360 Speaker 3: can't have flower change out for this, oh so good. Anyway, 1032 00:43:11,640 --> 00:43:14,400 Speaker 3: interesting side note there. So I write The Chef Gets Healthy. 1033 00:43:14,480 --> 00:43:16,759 Speaker 3: We're eating really healthy food, not eating a bunch of 1034 00:43:16,760 --> 00:43:18,680 Speaker 3: pasta grilled, you know, lots of kale, stuff like that. 1035 00:43:19,239 --> 00:43:22,480 Speaker 3: We had been together a long time and decided we 1036 00:43:22,520 --> 00:43:25,640 Speaker 3: wouldn't have kids and then decided let's give it a shot, 1037 00:43:25,760 --> 00:43:30,000 Speaker 3: and nothing was happening. This is prior to the yoga, 1038 00:43:30,560 --> 00:43:33,960 Speaker 3: the kale, all this stuff lowering the stress levels and 1039 00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:37,719 Speaker 3: they get pregnant naturally. And there was like, literally, I'm 1040 00:43:37,760 --> 00:43:39,440 Speaker 3: careful saying this to people because I know a lot 1041 00:43:39,480 --> 00:43:40,600 Speaker 3: of people have a lot of trouble. 1042 00:43:40,760 --> 00:43:43,399 Speaker 2: And we never went the IVF or anything like that. 1043 00:43:43,800 --> 00:43:45,879 Speaker 1: I've just done. It's a brutal one, mate, I've heard 1044 00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:48,040 Speaker 1: it's a rough ride. 1045 00:43:48,280 --> 00:43:48,840 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1046 00:43:48,880 --> 00:43:51,279 Speaker 1: And I went in first, really healthy, and I was like, oh, 1047 00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:52,560 Speaker 1: I'm good, this is going to be a walk in 1048 00:43:52,840 --> 00:43:56,600 Speaker 1: no lolla, It's okay. Just for everyone, it's yeah, and 1049 00:43:56,640 --> 00:43:59,440 Speaker 1: it's yeah, very very so. How lucky are you guys? 1050 00:44:00,120 --> 00:44:01,279 Speaker 2: I would feel me at the time. 1051 00:44:01,560 --> 00:44:04,720 Speaker 3: And I remember, you know, phones off as I do now, 1052 00:44:04,880 --> 00:44:07,000 Speaker 3: and I went for a webreak or something, turn my 1053 00:44:07,040 --> 00:44:09,800 Speaker 3: phone on and there's just a photo of a pregnancy test. Yeah, 1054 00:44:09,840 --> 00:44:12,319 Speaker 3: well that's what was my That's what I said. I 1055 00:44:12,360 --> 00:44:15,160 Speaker 3: was like, holy crap, this isn't even supposed to be possible. 1056 00:44:15,239 --> 00:44:17,480 Speaker 3: We literally had apparently it was like one in a 1057 00:44:17,600 --> 00:44:19,640 Speaker 3: million chants or something. 1058 00:44:19,360 --> 00:44:23,160 Speaker 1: So over forty is a female. The stats dropped dramatically. 1059 00:44:23,280 --> 00:44:26,120 Speaker 1: So the fact that you guys were just like to 1060 00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:29,200 Speaker 1: naturally and just to be healthy, be looking after yourself 1061 00:44:29,280 --> 00:44:32,279 Speaker 1: obviously cortisol, which touched on three times, you know what 1062 00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:34,680 Speaker 1: I mean, Like, I think you were naturally kind of 1063 00:44:34,719 --> 00:44:39,040 Speaker 1: like coming back to in this is nerdy but homeostasis, 1064 00:44:39,080 --> 00:44:43,160 Speaker 1: so balance, and that's where you guys were. Yeah, how good. 1065 00:44:43,520 --> 00:44:45,440 Speaker 3: And I've really I learned so much from that and 1066 00:44:45,480 --> 00:44:47,760 Speaker 3: it's one of those failure things we speak of where 1067 00:44:48,120 --> 00:44:50,400 Speaker 3: it was a life changing thing for me because it 1068 00:44:50,640 --> 00:44:54,080 Speaker 3: really made me stop and think, right, I'm doing everything 1069 00:44:54,120 --> 00:44:58,840 Speaker 3: for everyone else and what's expected from me and I'm suffering, yeah, badly, And. 1070 00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:03,400 Speaker 1: I think it's and like I know that we're talking 1071 00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:05,759 Speaker 1: about like being in a kitchen chef and all that 1072 00:45:05,840 --> 00:45:07,440 Speaker 1: kind of world, but also in the media world too, 1073 00:45:07,440 --> 00:45:10,080 Speaker 1: because you do feel highly replaceable, and so there's this 1074 00:45:10,239 --> 00:45:11,360 Speaker 1: like I've got to be ready. I've got to be 1075 00:45:11,360 --> 00:45:13,080 Speaker 1: ready to drop everything. I've got to be you know, 1076 00:45:13,640 --> 00:45:18,160 Speaker 1: there's this feeling of like that like underlying anxiety, just 1077 00:45:18,200 --> 00:45:20,799 Speaker 1: working in the media world sometimes and so you had 1078 00:45:20,840 --> 00:45:21,320 Speaker 1: the double. 1079 00:45:21,760 --> 00:45:24,160 Speaker 3: I think it's what I've really learned now is it's 1080 00:45:24,160 --> 00:45:26,640 Speaker 3: how there definitely was the double, if not the quadruple. 1081 00:45:26,719 --> 00:45:29,600 Speaker 3: But what I've really learned is that anybody's life can 1082 00:45:29,680 --> 00:45:30,799 Speaker 3: be full of anxiety. 1083 00:45:30,840 --> 00:45:33,560 Speaker 2: It's how you manage it. 1084 00:45:33,560 --> 00:45:35,400 Speaker 3: If you and I go and we're in a situation, 1085 00:45:35,560 --> 00:45:38,160 Speaker 3: you will process it differently to watch totally and everyone 1086 00:45:38,200 --> 00:45:40,560 Speaker 3: will process it differently. So it's learning how to process 1087 00:45:40,600 --> 00:45:42,600 Speaker 3: things in a way that isn't harmful to you, and 1088 00:45:42,640 --> 00:45:45,759 Speaker 3: then learning how to And this has been a huge 1089 00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:48,600 Speaker 3: one for me now is like I'm getting really really 1090 00:45:48,600 --> 00:45:49,000 Speaker 3: good at it. 1091 00:45:49,080 --> 00:45:49,760 Speaker 2: I think I'll. 1092 00:45:49,640 --> 00:45:51,399 Speaker 3: Probably say I was crap at it in twenty years 1093 00:45:51,440 --> 00:45:56,160 Speaker 3: when we talk again. Yeah, but yeah, learning that things happen. 1094 00:45:56,360 --> 00:45:59,200 Speaker 3: Shit happens. Yeah, you can either get hung up on 1095 00:45:59,280 --> 00:46:01,160 Speaker 3: it or you can look at it for what it 1096 00:46:01,280 --> 00:46:04,160 Speaker 3: is and not let it ruin your day and process 1097 00:46:04,200 --> 00:46:06,600 Speaker 3: it in a manner where it isn't potentially learn from. 1098 00:46:06,440 --> 00:46:09,400 Speaker 1: It, learn grow skill up, right, you know. 1099 00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:11,799 Speaker 3: So we're going to type we were getting to mate 1100 00:46:11,800 --> 00:46:12,880 Speaker 3: by time, and that's what I've. 1101 00:46:12,719 --> 00:46:14,600 Speaker 1: Got in my notes here. So first of all, you've 1102 00:46:14,600 --> 00:46:16,680 Speaker 1: got me a few meals that I get to try later. 1103 00:46:17,360 --> 00:46:18,880 Speaker 1: So I'm very excited. 1104 00:46:19,080 --> 00:46:20,520 Speaker 2: So mayby Toby came about. 1105 00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:22,640 Speaker 3: Once I got out of kitchens, I looked at all 1106 00:46:22,640 --> 00:46:24,719 Speaker 3: the things that were making me pretty stressful. I had 1107 00:46:24,800 --> 00:46:26,600 Speaker 3: no desire and still don't have a desire to go 1108 00:46:26,640 --> 00:46:29,040 Speaker 3: back and run run high into kitchens. It's not what 1109 00:46:29,080 --> 00:46:32,200 Speaker 3: I want to do anymore. But I love cooking more 1110 00:46:32,200 --> 00:46:35,360 Speaker 3: than I ever have. So I basically understood that I 1111 00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:38,760 Speaker 3: enjoyed doing TV shows some TV shows, I really enjoyed cooking, 1112 00:46:38,880 --> 00:46:41,400 Speaker 3: And so I ended up having two different food brands. 1113 00:46:41,400 --> 00:46:43,239 Speaker 2: One was in Woolies for a period of time, one 1114 00:46:43,280 --> 00:46:44,080 Speaker 2: was in David Jones. 1115 00:46:44,200 --> 00:46:46,080 Speaker 1: I remember the one in Woolies. 1116 00:46:46,239 --> 00:46:49,440 Speaker 3: Both of them were successful and unsuccessful for different reasons. 1117 00:46:50,280 --> 00:46:53,239 Speaker 3: A lot of them to do with supermarket charging of 1118 00:46:53,280 --> 00:46:55,359 Speaker 3: how much their market out products and stuff like it. 1119 00:46:55,400 --> 00:46:57,719 Speaker 3: So all of these failures have taught me a lot 1120 00:46:57,719 --> 00:47:00,880 Speaker 3: of things, and i've all so over the past few 1121 00:47:00,960 --> 00:47:03,840 Speaker 3: years worked as a consultant for NPD new product development 1122 00:47:03,880 --> 00:47:06,080 Speaker 3: for companies, and so they'll come to me and say, right, 1123 00:47:06,120 --> 00:47:10,680 Speaker 3: Toby Paddock, we want you to make cauliflower nuggets, and 1124 00:47:10,760 --> 00:47:13,040 Speaker 3: so then I'll come up with a recipe, and I 1125 00:47:13,080 --> 00:47:15,919 Speaker 3: now have an understanding of large scale manufacturing, and so 1126 00:47:16,400 --> 00:47:18,239 Speaker 3: I will do a recipe that could be scaled to 1127 00:47:18,440 --> 00:47:20,920 Speaker 3: do fifty thousand units today kind of thing, and then 1128 00:47:20,920 --> 00:47:24,799 Speaker 3: I'll work, I'll get paid to work with the manufacturer 1129 00:47:24,840 --> 00:47:26,879 Speaker 3: to show them, you know, we work together to work 1130 00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:29,040 Speaker 3: out how we get it. And then I started seeing 1131 00:47:29,040 --> 00:47:31,680 Speaker 3: these what I would cook at home, my recipe would 1132 00:47:31,719 --> 00:47:34,880 Speaker 3: be the polar opposite of what ends up getting spat 1133 00:47:34,920 --> 00:47:37,520 Speaker 3: out of the machines they're using, and so that never 1134 00:47:37,560 --> 00:47:39,400 Speaker 3: sat well with me. Also, what had a lot to 1135 00:47:39,440 --> 00:47:42,680 Speaker 3: do with that with the food chain is basically the spreadsheets. 1136 00:47:43,040 --> 00:47:45,680 Speaker 3: So you've got all these people trying to make money, 1137 00:47:45,880 --> 00:47:49,040 Speaker 3: and so the ingredients get crapper and crapper and crapper, 1138 00:47:50,040 --> 00:47:53,520 Speaker 3: more water gets added in for plumping and all these things. 1139 00:47:53,880 --> 00:47:56,239 Speaker 2: And the more I learn, you know, they're using blue 1140 00:47:56,320 --> 00:47:59,440 Speaker 2: food dyes in kale to keep it green for the cooking, 1141 00:48:00,040 --> 00:48:01,480 Speaker 2: I was like, this isn't food. 1142 00:48:01,560 --> 00:48:05,360 Speaker 3: This is so during COVIDL alright, basically I developed a 1143 00:48:05,480 --> 00:48:08,040 Speaker 3: range of food that I wanted to sell into woollies, 1144 00:48:08,560 --> 00:48:10,120 Speaker 3: and it was too expensive for them. It was going 1145 00:48:10,200 --> 00:48:12,080 Speaker 3: to be like eleven dollars to buy which is a 1146 00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:14,560 Speaker 3: premium product for them. You can't buy anything anywhere for 1147 00:48:14,600 --> 00:48:18,080 Speaker 3: eleven dollars. So basically I started cooking some food for 1148 00:48:18,160 --> 00:48:22,760 Speaker 3: some friends. I did everything myself the way I wanted 1149 00:48:22,760 --> 00:48:26,000 Speaker 3: to do it, in garden compossible packaging and basically doing 1150 00:48:26,040 --> 00:48:29,360 Speaker 3: real food that was honest and I wasn't trying to 1151 00:48:29,360 --> 00:48:31,839 Speaker 3: take on profit or anything like that. I just wanted 1152 00:48:31,840 --> 00:48:35,120 Speaker 3: to do something that was better than for already available 1153 00:48:35,160 --> 00:48:38,880 Speaker 3: frozen ready meals. I started freezing because you know, we 1154 00:48:38,920 --> 00:48:41,440 Speaker 3: throw away about forty percent of food produced in this country, 1155 00:48:41,520 --> 00:48:45,040 Speaker 3: so it ends up in landfill or elsewhere. So I 1156 00:48:45,080 --> 00:48:49,200 Speaker 3: wanted to freeze because we eliminate wastage, which increads profitability 1157 00:48:49,239 --> 00:48:50,120 Speaker 3: for a business as well. 1158 00:48:50,160 --> 00:48:52,160 Speaker 1: And didn't you say it's garden compossible as well? Does 1159 00:48:52,160 --> 00:48:54,080 Speaker 1: that mean, like so you literally can eat it? Could 1160 00:48:54,120 --> 00:48:55,440 Speaker 1: you eat it from the container if you wanted to? 1161 00:48:55,760 --> 00:48:56,319 Speaker 1: How does it work? 1162 00:48:56,360 --> 00:48:58,080 Speaker 2: So you can say? Could you eat it in the composes? 1163 00:48:58,800 --> 00:48:59,120 Speaker 1: Sure? 1164 00:48:59,360 --> 00:48:59,480 Speaker 2: You? 1165 00:49:00,000 --> 00:49:02,000 Speaker 3: Those containers are made out of bigas, which is a 1166 00:49:02,000 --> 00:49:04,680 Speaker 3: byproduct of sugar cane, so it's called pulp sugar cane. 1167 00:49:04,840 --> 00:49:05,080 Speaker 1: Cool. 1168 00:49:05,520 --> 00:49:10,319 Speaker 3: They're everything, so they're freezer, fridge, oven, microwave proof. How 1169 00:49:10,360 --> 00:49:13,480 Speaker 3: good Yeah, they're obviously way more expensive than normal containers, 1170 00:49:13,520 --> 00:49:16,280 Speaker 3: but I do anyway, Look, I came up with this model, 1171 00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:20,400 Speaker 3: and to start with, I was like, right, I just 1172 00:49:20,440 --> 00:49:21,680 Speaker 3: you know, I'm going to saw them in packs of 1173 00:49:21,760 --> 00:49:25,760 Speaker 3: seven because that allows me to use free range organic produce, 1174 00:49:26,040 --> 00:49:28,000 Speaker 3: because I've got I've got it. 1175 00:49:28,040 --> 00:49:30,719 Speaker 1: That's a seven dinners seven like a whole week. You 1176 00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:32,040 Speaker 1: can buy it weekly, right. 1177 00:49:32,280 --> 00:49:35,080 Speaker 3: Correct, But all foods cost different amounts of money, so 1178 00:49:35,120 --> 00:49:37,359 Speaker 3: I can spread a food cost across seven meals, which 1179 00:49:37,480 --> 00:49:40,600 Speaker 3: enables me to use good quality produce. One a pasta 1180 00:49:40,680 --> 00:49:42,800 Speaker 3: is cheaper to make than a free range organic chicken, 1181 00:49:42,840 --> 00:49:45,560 Speaker 3: for example, So that model allows me to use really 1182 00:49:45,560 --> 00:49:47,600 Speaker 3: good quality produce. So anyway, I start cooking it for 1183 00:49:47,640 --> 00:49:50,520 Speaker 3: friends very quickly. I'm working out of a full chest 1184 00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:53,640 Speaker 3: freezer and doing three hundred meals a week. And then yeah, 1185 00:49:53,680 --> 00:49:56,799 Speaker 3: and then I was like, like yourself, I've been doing 1186 00:49:56,800 --> 00:49:59,280 Speaker 3: lots of media stuff and learned to build websites. 1187 00:49:59,320 --> 00:50:01,239 Speaker 2: So then I was like, screw this, I'm going to 1188 00:50:01,280 --> 00:50:02,440 Speaker 2: do everything myself. 1189 00:50:02,480 --> 00:50:03,880 Speaker 1: Did you build that website yourself? 1190 00:50:04,080 --> 00:50:05,160 Speaker 2: Everything you see? I did? 1191 00:50:05,280 --> 00:50:08,919 Speaker 3: So Yeah, I did the website, the photography absolutely, and I've. 1192 00:50:08,880 --> 00:50:11,000 Speaker 1: All the YouTube VIDs that are matched and stuff when 1193 00:50:11,000 --> 00:50:12,600 Speaker 1: you do your recipe everything. 1194 00:50:12,800 --> 00:50:15,839 Speaker 3: Oh right, so I kind of I guess this goes 1195 00:50:15,920 --> 00:50:17,840 Speaker 3: back to not wanting to know what I wanted to 1196 00:50:17,840 --> 00:50:19,200 Speaker 3: do when I was a kid. Now I get to 1197 00:50:19,200 --> 00:50:22,799 Speaker 3: do everything. So we will grow this business now. So 1198 00:50:22,840 --> 00:50:26,320 Speaker 3: we've had a year of proof of concept. It's only 1199 00:50:26,320 --> 00:50:29,080 Speaker 3: available online through made by Tooby dot Com, which we're 1200 00:50:29,080 --> 00:50:31,520 Speaker 3: going to change to Toby Store. 1201 00:50:31,680 --> 00:50:33,600 Speaker 1: Awesome. I'll be putting this all in the show notes 1202 00:50:33,600 --> 00:50:36,319 Speaker 1: so people can order and is that Melbourne for now? 1203 00:50:36,640 --> 00:50:38,239 Speaker 3: Yeah, and then I'll get it up to Sydney and 1204 00:50:38,280 --> 00:50:40,960 Speaker 3: Brisbane shortly. So I'll just you know, in the process 1205 00:50:41,000 --> 00:50:42,839 Speaker 3: of scaling. But I'm not in a rush to do this. 1206 00:50:43,000 --> 00:50:45,880 Speaker 3: A lot of businesses I've done, as things you've been 1207 00:50:45,920 --> 00:50:48,759 Speaker 3: involved with, millions of dollars are suddenly present, there's a 1208 00:50:48,840 --> 00:50:51,799 Speaker 3: huge amount of pressure to make things work and I 1209 00:50:52,040 --> 00:50:54,279 Speaker 3: just wanted to do this really slowly and just grow 1210 00:50:54,320 --> 00:50:55,000 Speaker 3: it organically. 1211 00:50:55,280 --> 00:50:58,040 Speaker 1: And as you touched on, your not compromising your values 1212 00:50:58,080 --> 00:51:00,040 Speaker 1: at all with this, Like there's. 1213 00:50:59,880 --> 00:51:02,440 Speaker 3: No business partners, there's no guests, there's just we just 1214 00:51:02,480 --> 00:51:05,120 Speaker 3: do it slowly, yeah, and change things as we go. 1215 00:51:05,440 --> 00:51:08,200 Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, I love it. So we've we've covered 1216 00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:11,160 Speaker 1: so so so much. So I'm so proud of you 1217 00:51:11,200 --> 00:51:13,080 Speaker 1: as a mate. I feel like I've got to see 1218 00:51:13,080 --> 00:51:17,000 Speaker 1: you always kind of like go after whatever it is 1219 00:51:17,320 --> 00:51:19,320 Speaker 1: that your dreams are like I've watched you have many 1220 00:51:19,360 --> 00:51:22,120 Speaker 1: different kind of like incredible things going on, and I'm 1221 00:51:22,160 --> 00:51:24,239 Speaker 1: so excited for the future for you as well. I 1222 00:51:24,280 --> 00:51:26,839 Speaker 1: do not seeing you, I do not see you ever 1223 00:51:26,920 --> 00:51:28,920 Speaker 1: slowing down. I just think you're always going to be 1224 00:51:29,280 --> 00:51:32,320 Speaker 1: onto the next and it's so so inspiring and I 1225 00:51:32,400 --> 00:51:33,840 Speaker 1: feel very lucky to be your mate. 1226 00:51:33,920 --> 00:51:36,239 Speaker 3: Thank you, Darling. Likewise, well, I think you know with 1227 00:51:36,280 --> 00:51:38,839 Speaker 3: this food brand, this is me now. I just I'm 1228 00:51:38,880 --> 00:51:42,560 Speaker 3: sort of forty eight and I don't have a desire 1229 00:51:42,640 --> 00:51:43,080 Speaker 3: to go off. 1230 00:51:43,120 --> 00:51:45,080 Speaker 1: And do you know I always thought we were the 1231 00:51:45,120 --> 00:51:48,560 Speaker 1: same ageps. Do you know that because we traveled together 1232 00:51:48,800 --> 00:51:50,680 Speaker 1: and everything, I literally thought we were just say I 1233 00:51:50,760 --> 00:51:52,760 Speaker 1: was masquerading a few years younger. 1234 00:51:52,960 --> 00:51:54,799 Speaker 2: But yeah, this brand's me. 1235 00:51:54,920 --> 00:51:56,880 Speaker 3: It's just it's kind of I think you get to 1236 00:51:56,920 --> 00:51:58,600 Speaker 3: this stage as I have in my life where I've 1237 00:51:58,600 --> 00:52:01,239 Speaker 3: done lots of traveling, lots of show there's lots of everything, 1238 00:52:01,360 --> 00:52:03,759 Speaker 3: and now with this brand, I'm about to take a 1239 00:52:03,840 --> 00:52:06,600 Speaker 3: kitchen that's three hundred meters from my house, and so 1240 00:52:06,920 --> 00:52:09,200 Speaker 3: it's all about lifestyle now. So I write an electric 1241 00:52:09,239 --> 00:52:12,759 Speaker 3: bike around and it's like coming up with business model 1242 00:52:12,800 --> 00:52:14,840 Speaker 3: that brings in the money you need to be happy, 1243 00:52:15,080 --> 00:52:16,120 Speaker 3: not greedy, and. 1244 00:52:17,840 --> 00:52:19,480 Speaker 2: Gives you a really good quality of life. 1245 00:52:19,600 --> 00:52:21,120 Speaker 1: I love it. I feel like there could be a 1246 00:52:21,160 --> 00:52:24,480 Speaker 1: TV showing book in here as well for the next phase. 1247 00:52:24,640 --> 00:52:26,799 Speaker 1: Just saying, just saying, thanks. 1248 00:52:26,560 --> 00:52:28,719 Speaker 2: Tobes, thanks Lola, thanks for having having. 1249 00:52:30,280 --> 00:52:35,960 Speaker 1: That's a wrap on another episode of Fearlessly Failing. As always, 1250 00:52:36,080 --> 00:52:39,440 Speaker 1: thank you to our guests, and let's continue the conversation 1251 00:52:39,600 --> 00:52:45,120 Speaker 1: on Instagram. I'm at Yamo Lola Berry. This potty my 1252 00:52:45,160 --> 00:52:50,000 Speaker 1: word for podcast is available on all streaming platforms. I'd 1253 00:52:50,000 --> 00:52:53,080 Speaker 1: love it if you could subscribe, rate and comment and 1254 00:52:53,160 --> 00:52:54,879 Speaker 1: of course spread the love.