WEBVTT - LIFE UNCUT RADIO SHOW - 25th June 0:00:00.920 --> 0:00:05.320 Life Uncut podcasts acknowledges the traditional custodians of country throughout 0:00:05.320 --> 0:00:09.160 Australia and their connections to land, sea and community. We 0:00:09.160 --> 0:00:11.960 pay our respect to their elders past and present and 0:00:12.039 --> 0:00:15.400 extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait islander 0:00:15.400 --> 0:00:16.160 peoples today. 0:00:16.360 --> 0:00:19.599 This episode is recorded on Gadigal Land of the Aurora Nation. 0:00:29.480 --> 0:00:32.360 Brittany Hockey and Laura Burn. Brittany Hockley very sick at 0:00:32.360 --> 0:00:34.280 the moment down with COVID, so she's doing the show 0:00:34.320 --> 0:00:36.600 from hope and feeling better. I think brittin right, and. 0:00:36.680 --> 0:00:39.159 I just like to say, don't underplay this, mistery COVID 0:00:39.240 --> 0:00:42.199 and influenza similarly, but. 0:00:42.240 --> 0:00:44.639 You know what, nobody's going to hold Britany Hockley back. 0:00:44.680 --> 0:00:46.600 She's here. Last week was a bit of a struggle, 0:00:46.600 --> 0:00:49.000 but this week she is here, ready and rearing. Guys. 0:00:49.000 --> 0:00:50.839 I don't have pants on, but I'm here and that 0:00:50.960 --> 0:00:53.559 is the important way. And she's also not in the studio. 0:00:53.640 --> 0:00:56.360 Let's make that very clear for anybody who's listening. Brit 0:00:56.480 --> 0:00:58.840 is joining us via zoom today, but she's here and 0:00:58.880 --> 0:01:00.000 she's made it none the less. 0:01:00.160 --> 0:01:01.760 I have seen britt in the flesh in the last 0:01:01.800 --> 0:01:03.280 couple of days. You know, I'm a good friend. I 0:01:03.320 --> 0:01:04.880 only met you guys when we started this show, but 0:01:04.880 --> 0:01:06.880 we've all connected and the friendship is amazing. We love 0:01:06.920 --> 0:01:09.080 each other. And I thought, Britney's ill. I'm going to 0:01:09.280 --> 0:01:11.240 bake her some croissants. I love baking. I don't know 0:01:11.240 --> 0:01:12.039 if you know that about me. 0:01:12.200 --> 0:01:15.039 I didn't know that. And I'm waiting for my little delivery. 0:01:15.720 --> 0:01:17.760 You get the double weming of influenza in COVID and 0:01:17.840 --> 0:01:18.200 you'll get some. 0:01:18.400 --> 0:01:20.320 Yeah, you get on your deathbed first, Laura, before you 0:01:20.360 --> 0:01:20.920 get cissant. 0:01:21.120 --> 0:01:23.080 So I text Britt this week and I said, hey, 0:01:23.280 --> 0:01:25.480 come on with croissants. You know she does push the 0:01:25.520 --> 0:01:27.320 friendship a bit. She goes, I love a juice. I 0:01:30.920 --> 0:01:31.480 actually did. 0:01:31.880 --> 0:01:33.960 I was like, look, if you don't mind stopping by 0:01:34.080 --> 0:01:36.240 quickly she did, And you can't reply to that. Yes, 0:01:36.280 --> 0:01:38.400 I do mind, just the croissants, thank you exactly. 0:01:38.760 --> 0:01:41.200 Okay, sure. So pulling on a corner, I don't even 0:01:41.200 --> 0:01:44.039 look at anything. I park my little mini car in 0:01:44.080 --> 0:01:45.800 this perfect parking spot and I go in and I 0:01:45.880 --> 0:01:47.600 light up and I'm standing there and I go, oh, 0:01:47.640 --> 0:01:50.480 get the vitamin juice? You know for my sick friend. 0:01:50.520 --> 0:01:53.120 She's around the corner. And then as I'm waiting for 0:01:53.160 --> 0:01:54.800 my juice to be made, I can see the beat 0:01:54.880 --> 0:01:57.640 roots being purade. I noticed this guy walked past me 0:01:57.680 --> 0:02:00.200 in high v's and he catches my attention and he's 0:02:00.240 --> 0:02:01.440 taking photos of my car. 0:02:01.760 --> 0:02:03.400 Oh, that's Bondai for your baby? 0:02:03.560 --> 0:02:06.040 Did it come for you got a flash car? High 0:02:06.080 --> 0:02:07.160 on thirty guys? 0:02:07.160 --> 0:02:08.680 Well, I don't think he was taking photos for his 0:02:08.720 --> 0:02:09.480 personal collection. 0:02:09.560 --> 0:02:09.760 Mix. 0:02:10.240 --> 0:02:11.800 That's not why he was taking photos. 0:02:11.880 --> 0:02:14.440 I don't think he was. Because he prints this out, 0:02:14.680 --> 0:02:15.680 Laura Burn, I brought it with. 0:02:15.639 --> 0:02:17.679 You, old please pass it over. 0:02:17.960 --> 0:02:20.520 It's a City of Waverley parking fine. 0:02:20.800 --> 0:02:22.959 I love that you brought it with you. Mitch one 0:02:23.040 --> 0:02:25.359 hundred and ninety six dollars, which means you didn't put 0:02:25.360 --> 0:02:26.239 any money in the meter. 0:02:26.520 --> 0:02:28.800 It was a loading zone, that's a It was a 0:02:28.840 --> 0:02:31.160 loading zone, which I thought was okay. That to make 0:02:31.240 --> 0:02:33.680 matters worse, the guy goes, oh, here are your juices, 0:02:33.680 --> 0:02:35.359 and I have the car keys and I go, can 0:02:35.360 --> 0:02:37.240 I get a tray? He goes sure, he gives me 0:02:37.280 --> 0:02:40.880 a tray for a dozen calypso mango R. 0:02:41.160 --> 0:02:42.880 Do you know what I know exactly the store you 0:02:42.919 --> 0:02:44.640 went to. You went to the health food store and 0:02:44.680 --> 0:02:46.840 they don't have trays because they only do recyclable stuff. 0:02:46.880 --> 0:02:50.400 That's Mitch turns up with these two tiny little juices 0:02:50.560 --> 0:02:53.400 in a tray for like twenty four mengos cost one. 0:02:53.400 --> 0:02:54.520 Hundred and ninety dollars. 0:02:54.880 --> 0:02:56.920 It cost him more core strength to try and balance 0:02:56.960 --> 0:02:58.480 the juice in the tray, and it did. 0:02:58.560 --> 0:03:00.000 The tray has surf, no purpose. 0:03:00.000 --> 0:03:02.200 And then you think, Okay, it can't get worse from here. 0:03:02.240 --> 0:03:04.320 Pull up to BRIT's and she's got this giant courtyard, 0:03:04.360 --> 0:03:06.120 so we're socially distanced. She's got a mask on. I've 0:03:06.120 --> 0:03:07.560 got a mask on. I put the juices on the 0:03:07.560 --> 0:03:09.880 table and I'm sitting in the far corner of the courtyard. 0:03:09.919 --> 0:03:11.600 And this used to be your old house, Laura, right, 0:03:11.639 --> 0:03:12.880 you know this house very well. 0:03:12.960 --> 0:03:13.200 Yeah. 0:03:13.240 --> 0:03:15.320 So for anybody who doesn't know this, and I'm sure 0:03:15.360 --> 0:03:17.720 that's a lot of you, Britt actually moved into my 0:03:17.960 --> 0:03:20.919 old apartment when I moved out with Matt. So Britt 0:03:20.960 --> 0:03:22.760 now has all my old neighbors, she has all my 0:03:22.800 --> 0:03:25.160 old stuff, and she just lives there. It's a housewall. 0:03:25.200 --> 0:03:27.640 Some neighbors are great some neighbors are very questionable, as 0:03:27.680 --> 0:03:28.200 you'll find out. 0:03:28.320 --> 0:03:29.639 Oh so I sit there and I'm in a blazer 0:03:29.639 --> 0:03:31.320 because I gotta go to the radio station after and 0:03:31.320 --> 0:03:33.240 do big interviews with major celebrities, and I go. 0:03:33.200 --> 0:03:34.000 Oh shit, it's raining. 0:03:34.040 --> 0:03:37.840 I'm getting scrabbled on. I look up. N neighbour from 0:03:37.920 --> 0:03:42.040 hell decides to mop her hardwood flows and is scraping 0:03:42.760 --> 0:03:44.760 dirty mop water onto my head. 0:03:44.920 --> 0:03:50.280 It's the Russian neighbor from upstairs. I cannot tell you. 0:03:50.440 --> 0:03:51.200 I could barely. 0:03:51.240 --> 0:03:53.320 I mean I could barely breathe because of COVID, but 0:03:53.480 --> 0:03:56.320 I could not breathe off. Derek's watching this go down 0:03:56.440 --> 0:04:00.600 in slow motion, this muddy trundle waterfall water all over 0:04:00.640 --> 0:04:01.360 Mitch's blazer. 0:04:01.440 --> 0:04:05.000 He's so confused. And then you see miss look up 0:04:05.120 --> 0:04:07.920 in shock, and you hear the crazy Russian neighbors start 0:04:08.240 --> 0:04:13.040 hysterically laughing. She knew, she knew one hundred percent. Let 0:04:13.080 --> 0:04:14.680 me tell you this, Mitch. I'm glad it's you are 0:04:14.720 --> 0:04:17.000 not my washing anymore. That's what I'm happy about. 0:04:17.320 --> 0:04:19.039 That I dropped it into the dry clean of this morning. 0:04:19.040 --> 0:04:21.600 Eighty seven dollars at that on top of the parking file, 0:04:22.040 --> 0:04:24.599 A good Samaradan deed plus the ingredients with those bloody 0:04:24.680 --> 0:04:26.080 chocolate croissants for fifty backs. 0:04:26.160 --> 0:04:28.479 And with inflation these days, we're looking at two hundred 0:04:28.480 --> 0:04:30.560 and sixty dollars for a round trip to Banda. 0:04:30.760 --> 0:04:32.440 And then on top of that you've got the tolls 0:04:32.440 --> 0:04:34.440 it took you to get there, the petrol price. This 0:04:34.600 --> 0:04:38.440 croissant from Mitchtury cost him five hundred and fifty dollars. 0:04:38.240 --> 0:04:40.359 And you had on the mental effect the therapy that 0:04:40.360 --> 0:04:42.520 I'll need for this anyway. It was a good Samaradan, 0:04:42.560 --> 0:04:45.240 a good deed gone wrong. I want to know what 0:04:45.320 --> 0:04:47.640 good deed did you do that backfire? The Life on 0:04:48.080 --> 0:04:52.479 radio show Mariah is called through Heimarayah. When did your 0:04:52.520 --> 0:04:53.400 good deed backfire? 0:04:53.720 --> 0:04:56.400 Yeah? It was actually my mum turns out, so we 0:04:56.640 --> 0:04:59.400 live in a small country town and we are tube 0:04:59.440 --> 0:05:03.200 and pass this poor looking skinny goat a few times 0:05:03.200 --> 0:05:05.520 in the car and Mum thought, stuff it. I'm going 0:05:05.600 --> 0:05:08.320 to call the RSPCA and make sure the owners can't 0:05:08.360 --> 0:05:11.760 neglect it anymore. R SBCO gave us a call after 0:05:11.800 --> 0:05:14.839 they went and visited and turned out it wasn't a 0:05:15.080 --> 0:05:18.159 neglected goat. It was actually a beloved family pet that 0:05:18.320 --> 0:05:20.840 was just old. But they actually ended up putting it 0:05:20.880 --> 0:05:27.000 down because of our oh oh saving the goat, we 0:05:27.200 --> 0:05:27.600 killed it. 0:05:28.000 --> 0:05:30.359 Wait did they ask or did the rs You just 0:05:30.360 --> 0:05:32.160 go in and be like, oh, this goat looks too old, 0:05:32.200 --> 0:05:33.280 Like how did this all happen? 0:05:33.960 --> 0:05:37.440 So I seco went and visited, and you were like, look, 0:05:37.560 --> 0:05:39.560 I know it's a family pet. You're not neglecting it, 0:05:39.680 --> 0:05:42.720 but it is quite skinny and old. And turns out 0:05:42.760 --> 0:05:45.080 they were just putting it off. They didn't want to 0:05:45.120 --> 0:05:46.720 put it down because it was a beloved pet. 0:05:47.160 --> 0:05:49.360 And probably you probably did a good thing in the 0:05:49.480 --> 0:05:52.760 end anyway, because sometimes I think sometimes people they don't 0:05:52.800 --> 0:05:54.880 know when it's time to let go of the family. 0:05:56.320 --> 0:05:59.840 Yeah, well we made that decision for them exactly. 0:06:00.160 --> 0:06:02.920 Maria is really she's quite confident. 0:06:03.640 --> 0:06:04.320 She's confident. 0:06:04.640 --> 0:06:07.160 All right, let's got to lee highly. What is your 0:06:07.200 --> 0:06:08.160 good deed gone wrong? 0:06:09.120 --> 0:06:09.360 Well? 0:06:09.480 --> 0:06:13.920 Yeah, we were in La and walking from our hotel 0:06:14.040 --> 0:06:16.720 room to dinner. As we're walking down the street, we 0:06:16.800 --> 0:06:19.159 just come across a homeless woman on the side of 0:06:19.160 --> 0:06:21.040 the road and she had a sign like bagging them 0:06:21.040 --> 0:06:24.039 for money. Anyway, we went to dinner and ordered a 0:06:24.120 --> 0:06:27.680 huge space, and of course the portion sizes in America 0:06:27.720 --> 0:06:29.640 are quite big, so we didn't finish it off. So 0:06:29.680 --> 0:06:31.720 I thought I would do something nice. Asked the way 0:06:31.839 --> 0:06:34.880 for some to take away containers, and got them to 0:06:34.920 --> 0:06:36.960 take the food away, and I was like, I'm going 0:06:37.000 --> 0:06:38.440 to give it to the homeless woman on the way 0:06:38.480 --> 0:06:41.240 back anyway, So walking back and got some bottles of 0:06:41.279 --> 0:06:43.280 water and gave her the bag of food. We went 0:06:43.320 --> 0:06:45.359 to give her the bag of food and water and 0:06:45.440 --> 0:06:48.000 she just gets off and just started yelling and screaming 0:06:48.040 --> 0:06:51.960 at us. We've done something wrong, and we were like, okay, 0:06:52.040 --> 0:06:54.159 you're not begging for money for food. 0:06:55.200 --> 0:06:59.520 No, maybe she was vegan. She was just really offended. 0:07:02.040 --> 0:07:04.160 She was probably just like, this isn't my style food, 0:07:04.200 --> 0:07:07.039 this is not my restaurant. Come back again, horrible. 0:07:07.160 --> 0:07:10.040 You tried to do a good thing, Stacey thirteen six 0:07:10.520 --> 0:07:12.560 and this forest. When did your good deed go wrong? 0:07:13.160 --> 0:07:16.000 Well, I am my good deed went wrong when I 0:07:16.040 --> 0:07:21.920 believed the alleged story of a supposedly struggling trade. He 0:07:21.960 --> 0:07:23.800 sticks me out to the tune of about nine hundred 0:07:23.840 --> 0:07:25.440 dollars when he got me to pay a deposit for 0:07:25.520 --> 0:07:27.280 work that he was going to do, and he then 0:07:27.360 --> 0:07:29.920 disappeared and blocked on my numbers and I've never heard 0:07:29.920 --> 0:07:30.480 from him again. 0:07:30.960 --> 0:07:33.880 No, So he got you to pay in advance, in 0:07:34.000 --> 0:07:35.120 like just out of good faith. 0:07:35.320 --> 0:07:35.480 Ah. 0:07:35.680 --> 0:07:38.480 He got me to pay a deposit whose story was 0:07:38.520 --> 0:07:40.560 that he'd had a heap of people kind of canceled 0:07:40.560 --> 0:07:45.200 because of the rain and the floods off the Eastern border, 0:07:45.320 --> 0:07:47.880 and so he needed the money up front to get 0:07:47.880 --> 0:07:50.600 the equipment because he was struggling and he wanted to 0:07:50.720 --> 0:07:54.360 break into this business area. He was new to the business, and. 0:07:54.360 --> 0:07:57.880 He was a full fraudster trade. You should shame him, 0:07:58.120 --> 0:07:59.200 at him, on them, at him. 0:07:59.200 --> 0:08:05.760 Here we have connection with Tracy Grimshaw. Maybe go on 0:08:05.760 --> 0:08:06.360 a current of fee. 0:08:06.400 --> 0:08:09.320 That's that's what We'll look you up after the show. 0:08:11.400 --> 0:08:13.160 As soon as I said it, I was like, oh god, 0:08:13.240 --> 0:08:17.600 legal gonna call me, not the show name in shape, 0:08:17.800 --> 0:08:23.040 the radio show. Well, I want to ask you guys something. 0:08:23.160 --> 0:08:25.320 I've been up since five am this morning. It's not 0:08:25.360 --> 0:08:26.800 that early. I know lots of people get up and 0:08:26.800 --> 0:08:28.800 go for runs, but not me. That's not that's not 0:08:28.840 --> 0:08:31.640 my jam. But Mitch, what was the last thing that 0:08:31.760 --> 0:08:33.120 you ever lined up. 0:08:32.960 --> 0:08:36.079 For Japanese cheesecakes in the city. I lined up for 0:08:36.080 --> 0:08:37.040 an hour and a half. 0:08:36.920 --> 0:08:39.920 And Britt an hour and a half a cheesecake. 0:08:39.920 --> 0:08:41.920 Doctor Ted is whatever his name is. They're very good. 0:08:42.160 --> 0:08:44.959 They are there. And what about you, Britt, what was 0:08:44.960 --> 0:08:46.960 the last thing you lined up for? Laura burn If 0:08:46.960 --> 0:08:48.920 there's a line I avoided, I don't line up, I 0:08:49.000 --> 0:08:53.920 go straight to the front, all right, Well not me. 0:08:54.760 --> 0:08:57.120 I avoided the line at all costs. But you know, 0:08:57.360 --> 0:08:59.400 people will line up for whole lots of crazy things. 0:08:59.440 --> 0:09:01.800 People line up yeezy, I've done that. Yeah, people line 0:09:01.840 --> 0:09:04.920 up for iPhones, Mitchell, I have I have? Yeah, Mitch, 0:09:05.400 --> 0:09:06.360 so would you're. 0:09:06.240 --> 0:09:10.319 Such a little nerd burger Jesus throw look at what's 0:09:10.360 --> 0:09:11.280 COVID done to your brain? 0:09:11.320 --> 0:09:14.319 You've got COVID brain, You've got What have. 0:09:14.320 --> 0:09:15.080 You lined up for? 0:09:15.160 --> 0:09:15.439 Laura? 0:09:15.720 --> 0:09:17.560 You've obviously got yourself up at five am? Is it 0:09:17.600 --> 0:09:20.080 like a concert ticket or something? And back in down 0:09:20.360 --> 0:09:21.720 I would line up for a handsOn ticket. 0:09:21.760 --> 0:09:21.840 No. 0:09:21.880 --> 0:09:23.439 Look, I've lined up for what I think most of 0:09:23.480 --> 0:09:25.400 Australia is lining up for at the moment, and I've 0:09:25.400 --> 0:09:27.240 done it several times in the past two weeks. And 0:09:27.280 --> 0:09:30.480 that is I have spent some quality time at the 0:09:30.520 --> 0:09:36.280 passport office, just waiting, waiting alongside all my fellow Australians. 0:09:36.280 --> 0:09:37.920 But let me tell you I was there. So I 0:09:37.960 --> 0:09:40.160 was there this week. On Thursday, I lined up. I 0:09:40.200 --> 0:09:41.840 got there at five am because I was like, this 0:09:42.000 --> 0:09:45.160 is really early, nobody's that crazy. There was a girl 0:09:45.600 --> 0:09:48.120 who had gotten the train up on Wednesday night. She 0:09:48.240 --> 0:09:51.040 had set up a little tent, she had a sleeping 0:09:51.040 --> 0:09:53.520 bag and she had slept there in order to get 0:09:53.520 --> 0:09:56.560 her passport. Now I'm not kidding. I arrived at five 0:09:56.600 --> 0:10:00.080 am in the morning. The line was already five one 0:10:00.120 --> 0:10:02.640 hundred meters long. It curved all the way around and 0:10:02.679 --> 0:10:04.600 all the way down the street around the corner from 0:10:04.600 --> 0:10:08.040 where Central Station is. People had they had little seats 0:10:08.040 --> 0:10:09.320 that you would take out if you were lining up 0:10:09.320 --> 0:10:12.239 for concert tickets. There was one woman in the bathroom 0:10:12.720 --> 0:10:18.360 having a bath in the sink bar a passport bird bar. 0:10:18.600 --> 0:10:21.000 Since what are people lining up for? 0:10:21.120 --> 0:10:24.200 I didn't understand is like, have you sent your passport 0:10:24.200 --> 0:10:25.880 off and you're trying to get it back or what's 0:10:25.880 --> 0:10:27.000 the purpose of this lineup? 0:10:27.040 --> 0:10:28.680 We just want to get out of the country. 0:10:28.679 --> 0:10:31.720 What do you think have you applied one think it out. 0:10:32.440 --> 0:10:34.760 Yes, what are you waiting for? Is my questions. It's 0:10:34.800 --> 0:10:37.280 everybody waiting for renewals of their past because like what 0:10:37.320 --> 0:10:40.400 happened during COVID is so many people's passports have expired 0:10:40.679 --> 0:10:43.720 and then they've had this mass like submission of passports 0:10:43.760 --> 0:10:46.680 all happening at once. Matt thinks it's a conspiracy theory 0:10:46.679 --> 0:10:48.679 and he thinks that the government is trying to keep 0:10:48.720 --> 0:10:52.920 us in the country. Probably stop telling people that, because 0:10:52.920 --> 0:10:54.680 we sound nuts. I just want to say, this is 0:10:54.720 --> 0:10:57.960 my This is my recommendation. If you are getting prepared 0:10:58.000 --> 0:11:00.400 to go overseas, if you don't have your passport ready, 0:11:00.840 --> 0:11:04.080 get organized, like, just get it done, get it submitted 0:11:04.160 --> 0:11:06.360 right now. I know the holidays are coming, but just like, 0:11:06.480 --> 0:11:09.359 do not be in this situation. Just go to cans. 0:11:11.520 --> 0:11:17.200 Back after this, the Life on Cut Radio showed Hockley 0:11:17.320 --> 0:11:20.000 and Laura be coming up. Reece Nicholson from Rippol's Drag 0:11:20.080 --> 0:11:22.400 Rats down Under season two was just announced. He's here 0:11:22.400 --> 0:11:24.840 to give us all the goss. In the meantime, it's 0:11:24.880 --> 0:11:25.800 a show favorite. 0:11:26.240 --> 0:11:27.560 Ask Uncut, so. 0:11:30.160 --> 0:11:32.520 Ask gun Cut is something we do on the podcast 0:11:32.559 --> 0:11:34.959 on Life on Cut every single week. It is where 0:11:35.080 --> 0:11:37.960 you guys right in. You're deep, dark and dirty, sometimes 0:11:38.040 --> 0:11:41.559 burning questions, and we do our absolute best to answer them. 0:11:41.559 --> 0:11:43.640 And I have one for you this week which we 0:11:43.720 --> 0:11:45.400 can do our best to try and answer. I have 0:11:45.440 --> 0:11:47.720 been with my partner for almost five years. He is 0:11:47.840 --> 0:11:50.959 all I ever wanted because he's so amazing and completely 0:11:51.040 --> 0:11:54.160 respectful to me. He sounds like a good guy until recently. 0:11:54.320 --> 0:11:56.200 I went out with some friends a few weeks ago 0:11:56.240 --> 0:11:58.800 and I met this guy. I was a bit drunk, 0:11:58.840 --> 0:12:01.000 but even when I'm drunk, this ever happens. This guy 0:12:01.080 --> 0:12:05.120 has set my insights on fire. I am so physically 0:12:05.240 --> 0:12:09.080 attracted to him, and his personality just turns me on. Now. 0:12:09.280 --> 0:12:11.200 I didn't get his number, but I do know where 0:12:11.200 --> 0:12:15.160 he works, and I literally cannot stop thinking about him. 0:12:15.400 --> 0:12:18.280 I feel so guilty because even when I'm with my partner, 0:12:18.400 --> 0:12:21.280 all I'm doing is thinking about this guy who I've met. 0:12:21.520 --> 0:12:22.120 What should I do? 0:12:22.440 --> 0:12:25.400 Very very similar to how I feel about Chanting Tatum, 0:12:25.920 --> 0:12:28.480 except burning. 0:12:29.160 --> 0:12:31.400 Inside to Bernie, No, this one this for me. 0:12:31.800 --> 0:12:34.640 This is pretty tricky, but I'm going to come in 0:12:34.760 --> 0:12:36.920 with a pretty tough opinion. 0:12:37.240 --> 0:12:39.599 I don't think it's tricky at all. I think it's 0:12:39.440 --> 0:12:42.600 it's not I can on this. Yeah, it is you. 0:12:42.600 --> 0:12:43.679 You cannot. 0:12:43.960 --> 0:12:46.920 Firstly, you said his person you're so attracted to his personality, 0:12:46.960 --> 0:12:49.280 how great that is. You do not let me tell 0:12:49.280 --> 0:12:51.319 you you could date someone. I dated someone for two years. 0:12:51.320 --> 0:12:54.199 I didn't know his personality. You do not know someone's personality. 0:12:54.200 --> 0:12:56.400 After one night, he's turned it on. He's given you 0:12:56.400 --> 0:12:58.559 the best version of him. He's gonna be funny, he's 0:12:58.559 --> 0:13:00.960 got some out calling him. He's with his He's one 0:13:01.040 --> 0:13:03.679 hundred percent. He's best version. He's hot as well, very 0:13:03.720 --> 0:13:06.400 lucky guy. He's hot with a funny personality. It's normal 0:13:06.440 --> 0:13:08.120 to have an attraction to somebody else. 0:13:08.400 --> 0:13:10.440 This is human nature. We're always going to go through 0:13:10.480 --> 0:13:13.079 life and look at people and say, damn, they're so cute. 0:13:13.520 --> 0:13:16.360 You cannot do the wrong thing on your partner here 0:13:16.480 --> 0:13:19.600 because you met someone once that tickled your inside. 0:13:19.679 --> 0:13:21.559 That's my bigion. Can I just say, I don't remember 0:13:21.600 --> 0:13:23.680 the last time I met someone and thought, damn, you're 0:13:23.720 --> 0:13:26.360 so cute like those That's I think that all the time. 0:13:26.440 --> 0:13:30.560 That is constantly my internal monologue. Okay, I have some 0:13:30.559 --> 0:13:32.840 big feelings. I very much agree with you, Britt, but 0:13:32.920 --> 0:13:35.120 I also just want to add. And this is something 0:13:35.120 --> 0:13:37.920 that I think we often think it's way too important 0:13:37.960 --> 0:13:40.559 in a relationship, and that is like this instant chemistry. 0:13:40.640 --> 0:13:43.240 You know, we all want to have like this crazy 0:13:43.320 --> 0:13:46.720 burning instant chemistry when we meet someone new. But often 0:13:46.760 --> 0:13:50.000 that instant burning chemistry can lie because it can make 0:13:50.040 --> 0:13:52.000 you think that the relationship is going to be great, 0:13:52.040 --> 0:13:53.800 that you're going to end up being like this is 0:13:53.840 --> 0:13:55.760 the love of your life, when really, if you were 0:13:55.800 --> 0:13:58.480 ever to navigate a relationship with them or to like 0:13:58.559 --> 0:14:01.160 start dating them, you might realize that actually it's super 0:14:01.200 --> 0:14:03.920 toxic and doesn't work out, but you love them so much, 0:14:03.960 --> 0:14:07.599 So chemistry is not a great indicator for a great relationship. 0:14:07.720 --> 0:14:11.440 What you already have is a great relationship. So I think, like, 0:14:11.840 --> 0:14:15.160 do your best to disengage from these thoughts, and in 0:14:15.280 --> 0:14:17.800 time that feeling will go away, like it always does. 0:14:17.920 --> 0:14:21.200 You know, time heals everything. I know that's very annoying, 0:14:21.200 --> 0:14:22.160 but it's very true. 0:14:22.360 --> 0:14:24.400 You said you do know where he works, and he'd 0:14:24.440 --> 0:14:26.240 be easy to find. Let me give you a piece 0:14:26.240 --> 0:14:28.600 of advice. Don't turn up to his work, don't stalk 0:14:28.640 --> 0:14:30.680 his work, don't hide in the bushes, don't wait at 0:14:30.680 --> 0:14:31.440 his coffee shop. 0:14:31.520 --> 0:14:32.920 I think you just need to take a step back 0:14:32.960 --> 0:14:35.880 from that and leave it as the one blissful interaction 0:14:36.040 --> 0:14:38.080 that it was. I think it's a very clear cut 0:14:38.080 --> 0:14:38.440 this one. 0:14:38.480 --> 0:14:40.280 But if you want to get in touch with the ladies, 0:14:40.400 --> 0:14:42.800 I hit us up a lifund Cut podcast on Instagram 0:14:42.840 --> 0:14:44.400 and we'll get you on the show. We're back after this. 0:14:44.480 --> 0:14:47.280 Recentleson joins us next the Life on Cut radio show 0:14:47.720 --> 0:14:50.360 Hockley and Love. Our first guest of the show's an 0:14:50.400 --> 0:14:54.640 award winning Australian comedian the main judge for RuPaul's drag 0:14:54.720 --> 0:14:56.800 Race down Under It when season two was just announced 0:14:56.800 --> 0:14:59.560 premiering July thirty on Sean. He's up there with RuPaul. 0:14:59.640 --> 0:15:02.080 Charles is up there with Michelle Visage ladies and gentlemen. 0:15:02.160 --> 0:15:03.320 Rhys Nicholson is here. 0:15:03.480 --> 0:15:07.160 I re hello, Hello. I love the term main judge. 0:15:07.160 --> 0:15:09.520 I would have thought RuPaul was the main judge. 0:15:09.560 --> 0:15:12.760 No, no, no, You're the most important now, the most important 0:15:12.760 --> 0:15:14.520 to us here because you were the one here with us. 0:15:15.240 --> 0:15:17.720 We keep down this line of questioning, I'm going to 0:15:17.760 --> 0:15:19.760 get shot. A little red dot is going to appear 0:15:19.760 --> 0:15:21.520 on my chest and have me shot. 0:15:21.680 --> 0:15:24.600 Rece you were fresh off the back of the logies. Now, 0:15:24.640 --> 0:15:26.240 some of us had COVID and couldn't make it. Some 0:15:26.280 --> 0:15:27.520 of us also just weren't invited. 0:15:27.800 --> 0:15:34.200 But you you, you were there in an absolutely magnificent cape. 0:15:34.240 --> 0:15:36.800 You made some best dress lists. Is this how you 0:15:36.840 --> 0:15:39.040 know you've made it? Tell me, tell me about the cape, 0:15:39.080 --> 0:15:40.960 and tell me the moment you knew you'd made it. 0:15:41.120 --> 0:15:42.800 Well, I thought, like, it's the first time I ever 0:15:42.800 --> 0:15:45.000 been invited and I wasn't even there. I was there 0:15:45.040 --> 0:15:48.160 representing drag Race. But I like, we weren't up for anything. 0:15:48.200 --> 0:15:49.640 It was just being up to bone. And I think 0:15:49.640 --> 0:15:52.040 that's the best situation to go into, one of those 0:15:52.040 --> 0:15:53.720 things of just being like, well, what are they going 0:15:53.800 --> 0:15:57.160 to do and invite me? And we were we were 0:15:57.360 --> 0:15:59.840 like we were sitting down at chairs. We weren't invite 0:16:00.120 --> 0:16:02.120 telling people that we would. And I think Mitch, like 0:16:02.160 --> 0:16:04.160 I saw you there, right, and like, but you were 0:16:04.320 --> 0:16:06.520 you were hosting some sort of event. I heard you 0:16:06.800 --> 0:16:09.360 when I was getting ready. You were hosting some event outside. 0:16:09.560 --> 0:16:13.040 Yeah, I was hosting the prison. I was in the 0:16:13.160 --> 0:16:15.520 urinal like a midnight with Carl Stefanovic. He's like, you 0:16:15.560 --> 0:16:18.200 want me up from a nap because It's true. They 0:16:18.240 --> 0:16:20.840 put my voice on these like big PA systems and 0:16:20.840 --> 0:16:23.800 it went through the whole star. It was horrific, but yeah. 0:16:24.240 --> 0:16:24.520 It was. 0:16:24.800 --> 0:16:27.640 At one point I heard you say, have anyone seen 0:16:27.680 --> 0:16:30.840 any celebrities yet? And no one made a knowing. I 0:16:30.880 --> 0:16:32.440 was like, oh, I'm right here. 0:16:32.600 --> 0:16:35.080 The reason I wanted to ask, speaking of you guys 0:16:35.080 --> 0:16:37.960 being the most excitable people at the logis who was 0:16:38.120 --> 0:16:41.480 and in your in your like experience, who was the 0:16:41.480 --> 0:16:43.040 most lip person at the logis? 0:16:43.320 --> 0:16:45.600 I mean, I think this is in a surprise to 0:16:45.640 --> 0:16:49.040 no one and in a very responsible way. Tony Armstrong ABC. 0:16:50.120 --> 0:16:53.640 Would Stefanovic, don't they? 0:16:53.640 --> 0:16:55.920 Was he? I thought he'd be containing himself. I thought 0:16:55.920 --> 0:16:57.640 he'd be like, let me get through the whole ceremony, 0:16:57.640 --> 0:16:58.440 but he just let loose. 0:16:58.480 --> 0:17:01.360 Did always like, I mean, wait, Tony or Carl, I 0:17:01.400 --> 0:17:06.600