WEBVTT - Big 2020 energy - Resolutions, motivation and thirst trapping 0:00:00.840 --> 0:00:07.560 Hi, guys, and when you get your shit together all right? 0:00:08.240 --> 0:00:35.400 Huh, Hi guys, and welcome back to another episode of 0:00:35.479 --> 0:00:36.120 Lack on Cut. 0:00:36.200 --> 0:00:38.479 And by another episode, I mean this is the first 0:00:38.479 --> 0:00:42.120 episode of season two and we're back, baby, Welcome to 0:00:42.280 --> 0:00:45.640 season two. Guys, back in town. Girls, A. 0:00:49.720 --> 0:00:51.599 Sorry, I'm trying to harmonize. 0:00:51.640 --> 0:00:52.600 I don't know what you were trying to do. I 0:00:52.600 --> 0:00:54.520 think we should both stop it though. That was Brittany 0:00:54.560 --> 0:00:57.680 and I'm Laura, And it is wonderful to be back 0:00:57.720 --> 0:00:59.840 behind these microphones and talking to y'all. 0:01:00.200 --> 0:01:02.240 Yeah, if you are new to the scene and to 0:01:02.320 --> 0:01:05.640 life uncut, welcome And this is probably the best decision 0:01:05.640 --> 0:01:06.840 you'll make this year. 0:01:07.040 --> 0:01:10.039 It's not many days of this year so far as 0:01:10.040 --> 0:01:12.920 the best decision you made so far. And to all 0:01:12.959 --> 0:01:15.920 our og listeners, it's so nice to be able to 0:01:16.080 --> 0:01:18.920 be back and bring you a brand spanking new episode 0:01:19.319 --> 0:01:20.960 from a brand spanking new studio. 0:01:21.080 --> 0:01:23.680 Actually, also, there's a lot of room for activities in here. 0:01:23.920 --> 0:01:26.280 Just don't do anything too crazy, keep your hands and 0:01:26.319 --> 0:01:27.240 legs under the table. 0:01:27.360 --> 0:01:29.280 So we are sorry that we have had so much 0:01:29.280 --> 0:01:31.160 time off. We do realize there's been a few months 0:01:31.160 --> 0:01:32.600 between seasons. 0:01:32.240 --> 0:01:36.720 Been almost three months. Yeah, where have you been just 0:01:36.800 --> 0:01:40.200 keeping a child alive? She's been a child alive. Yeah, 0:01:40.200 --> 0:01:42.959 she's kicking along. Actually, she's crawling. Now that's a big thing. 0:01:43.080 --> 0:01:45.560 It's very annoying, that's what it is, because. 0:01:45.360 --> 0:01:47.560 Now you can't just plunk her in the corner some 0:01:47.600 --> 0:01:50.760 of those things where you get so excited that your 0:01:50.840 --> 0:01:53.000 baby's developing and that they're hitting a milestone, and then 0:01:53.040 --> 0:01:55.240 all of a sudden you're like, oh, I wish you 0:01:55.280 --> 0:01:58.000 were a blob again, because this is a lot more. 0:01:57.880 --> 0:01:59.360 To deal with than what it used to be. But 0:01:59.480 --> 0:02:02.240 you know what, amazing and I am thoroughly enjoying each 0:02:02.280 --> 0:02:03.960 step of the of the ride. 0:02:04.080 --> 0:02:05.160 But what else have you been doing? 0:02:05.240 --> 0:02:05.400 You? 0:02:05.600 --> 0:02:07.639 I think last time we spoke, you went to Europe. 0:02:07.840 --> 0:02:11.320 I went to Europe. You went to Mexico. We had 0:02:11.360 --> 0:02:12.560 some bougie holidays. 0:02:12.720 --> 0:02:14.519 You just ate heaps of a croissants and I ate 0:02:14.600 --> 0:02:16.720 heaps of tacos, and we just came back and then 0:02:16.760 --> 0:02:19.000 we've had Christmas and New Year's and the whole rest 0:02:19.040 --> 0:02:21.519 of twenty nineteen happened, and now here we are twenty twenty, 0:02:21.560 --> 0:02:25.840 bringing that big twenty twenty energy. Yeah, so, Laura, you 0:02:25.880 --> 0:02:27.840 and I have just literally caught up now and you've 0:02:27.840 --> 0:02:30.240 gotten back this morning from Molly Mork and you were 0:02:30.240 --> 0:02:31.720 caught in the fires over years. 0:02:31.960 --> 0:02:34.840 I'm so glad to have you back safe. But what happened. 0:02:35.080 --> 0:02:37.760 I grew up down south and so we were going 0:02:37.800 --> 0:02:40.760 to have a family holiday and it ended in the 0:02:40.800 --> 0:02:43.680 worst bush fires that we've ever seen. As everyone is 0:02:43.720 --> 0:02:45.320 so aware of and we've all been watching it play 0:02:45.360 --> 0:02:48.720 out on the news. We got a warning on New 0:02:48.800 --> 0:02:50.680 Year's Eve, and the New Year's Eve warning was a 0:02:50.680 --> 0:02:54.000 text message saying that you needed to evacuate, and then 0:02:54.080 --> 0:02:56.720 within ten minutes of that warning we received another one 0:02:57.200 --> 0:02:59.720 saying that was too late to evacuate and that everyone 0:02:59.760 --> 0:03:01.799 just had to take shelter in their house. We all 0:03:01.840 --> 0:03:05.400 lost electricity, we lost a phone reception, we lost internet, 0:03:05.560 --> 0:03:08.800 But all of that is so insignificant in comparison to 0:03:09.360 --> 0:03:11.960 people who lost their homes and their loved ones and 0:03:12.000 --> 0:03:14.800 their properties in Milton, which was only a couple suburbs away. 0:03:15.200 --> 0:03:18.720 I can't imagine how scary it is to have that 0:03:18.760 --> 0:03:21.880 feeling of it's too late to leave now, and what 0:03:21.880 --> 0:03:22.320 do you do? 0:03:22.560 --> 0:03:25.240 The hurt and the pain that so many families are 0:03:25.240 --> 0:03:27.480 going through New Year's for me has always been one 0:03:27.520 --> 0:03:29.920 of those days that have fallen short of the expectation 0:03:30.000 --> 0:03:32.160 that it's going to be great. But this year was 0:03:32.240 --> 0:03:35.400 something where I really felt like there wasn't anything to celebrate. 0:03:35.640 --> 0:03:38.920 You're not alone, I think for each Australian and every 0:03:38.920 --> 0:03:42.400 Australian I know. I had this immense feeling of guilt 0:03:42.800 --> 0:03:45.000 to even think about having a good time, Like I 0:03:45.000 --> 0:03:48.760 had a great time, but I still felt this responsibility 0:03:48.760 --> 0:03:51.200 and how can I be having fun? And this is 0:03:51.240 --> 0:03:53.800 resonating with all Australians and even people around the world now. 0:03:54.040 --> 0:03:56.920 Also, there's such a responsibility when you have a social 0:03:56.920 --> 0:03:59.160 media following which you do to not be out there 0:03:59.160 --> 0:04:01.720 and being like, oh, life is amazing, life is wonderful. 0:04:01.920 --> 0:04:04.440 When you can start channeling that into doing something that's 0:04:04.440 --> 0:04:07.560 a little bit more worthwhile and hopefully encouraging people to 0:04:07.960 --> 0:04:11.360 donate to the RFS or work towards whatever you can 0:04:11.440 --> 0:04:13.600 do to try and help these families who are so 0:04:13.720 --> 0:04:17.479 hugely affected. Britt how was the end of your last year? 0:04:17.760 --> 0:04:20.159 New Years? For me? To be honest, but it's so 0:04:20.400 --> 0:04:22.360 overrated for me. Talk to me about this. 0:04:22.600 --> 0:04:24.920 I think for me, it always has been the most 0:04:24.920 --> 0:04:28.359 overrated night of the year because these expectations and there 0:04:28.400 --> 0:04:30.279 is big build up that's always going to be this 0:04:30.400 --> 0:04:33.040 huge event and all these amazing things are going to happen, 0:04:33.040 --> 0:04:34.640 and then you start your year's resolutions. 0:04:34.920 --> 0:04:36.960 Maybe it's because we put such emphasis on it to 0:04:37.000 --> 0:04:39.920 be this milestone or this wonderful bookmarking of a brand 0:04:40.000 --> 0:04:44.760 new year and a new start. Actually New Year's is, oh, 0:04:44.800 --> 0:04:48.400 poor Matt, But New Year's has been one night where 0:04:48.680 --> 0:04:50.919 for the last two years, apart from this year, the 0:04:50.920 --> 0:04:53.560 two years prior, we have always ended up in a fight, 0:04:53.800 --> 0:04:56.880 a proper, proper fight. Actually, one of those fights was 0:04:56.920 --> 0:04:59.400 so public. We were last year at the Opera House. 0:05:00.040 --> 0:05:04.880 It doesn't get more beautiful setting, and I was really pregnant, 0:05:05.000 --> 0:05:09.520 very hormonal, patience very minimal, and I don't even remember 0:05:09.560 --> 0:05:12.919 what had happened, but I did definitely overreact and it 0:05:13.000 --> 0:05:17.840 culminated in me being like, you're a dighead in public. 0:05:18.400 --> 0:05:21.400 In public. We don't even normally fight, let alone fight 0:05:21.440 --> 0:05:21.919 in public. 0:05:22.120 --> 0:05:24.160 But what was I don't understand what the fight was over. 0:05:24.320 --> 0:05:24.880 I don't either. 0:05:25.360 --> 0:05:27.719 Oh, just one of those yeah, just like a stress 0:05:27.720 --> 0:05:29.400 build up and then an implosion, like. 0:05:29.960 --> 0:05:33.280 Lots of miscommunication and me taking things the wrong way 0:05:33.360 --> 0:05:36.360 and I just turned into a crazy person. Happy twenty twenty. 0:05:37.320 --> 0:05:39.520 Well, I think a lot of people actually around this time. 0:05:39.800 --> 0:05:42.320 From what I've seen, there's a lot of breakups around 0:05:42.320 --> 0:05:43.880 this time statistically. 0:05:44.080 --> 0:05:47.000 I read this Brittany in this Dolly magnifact. No, I've 0:05:47.040 --> 0:05:51.200 read it on the internet. I'm sure it's very correct, 0:05:51.720 --> 0:05:54.960 but one of the highest peaks for breakups is during 0:05:55.000 --> 0:05:55.880 this Christmas period. 0:05:56.120 --> 0:06:00.320 Speaking of breakups, actually, this I find really interesting, and 0:06:00.440 --> 0:06:01.960 we've all been guilty of it. I just want to 0:06:01.960 --> 0:06:04.919 preempt I recently discovered my friend had broken up with 0:06:04.920 --> 0:06:07.839 her partner, and I only knew that this had happened. 0:06:07.839 --> 0:06:09.360 She didn't tell me, but it was just because her 0:06:09.400 --> 0:06:12.120 Instagram had changed, like the things she was posting, in 0:06:12.120 --> 0:06:14.760 the style that she was posting. I said to my girlfriend, 0:06:14.800 --> 0:06:18.000 she's got to be single because these bloody hot photos. 0:06:18.080 --> 0:06:20.440 All of a sudden, she's just got her booty on Instagram. 0:06:20.480 --> 0:06:23.120 She's like, yeah, boy, live in my best laugh. 0:06:23.600 --> 0:06:25.640 It's not even that, it's just literally my best life. 0:06:25.680 --> 0:06:27.320 And she's tan and she's beautiful, and she's at the 0:06:27.320 --> 0:06:29.920 beach and she's at a party, and the style changes. 0:06:29.960 --> 0:06:31.640 I think when you're in a relationship to when you're 0:06:31.640 --> 0:06:32.919 not in a relationship. 0:06:33.040 --> 0:06:35.719 Sometimes it comes because there's a motivating factor there where 0:06:35.720 --> 0:06:37.920 you're trying to make your ex jealous or you're trying 0:06:37.920 --> 0:06:40.400 to appear as though you're having the best life ever, 0:06:40.839 --> 0:06:42.880 and so there might be a mismatch between how you're 0:06:42.880 --> 0:06:46.640 feeling and what you're posting come straight after a breakup. However, 0:06:46.680 --> 0:06:49.800 I do also sometimes think maybe it's not a first trap. 0:06:49.839 --> 0:06:52.240 Maybe that girl's just living her best goddamn life and 0:06:52.279 --> 0:06:55.600 she's happy about posting it on the internet now, whereas 0:06:55.600 --> 0:06:58.000 before she maybe felt a little bit more reserved because 0:06:58.000 --> 0:07:00.320 she had a boyfriend and she thought, oh, I want 0:07:00.320 --> 0:07:02.800 to give the wrong impression. Maybe I didn't know what 0:07:02.800 --> 0:07:06.040 a first trap was until I read Liam Hemsworth has 0:07:06.080 --> 0:07:08.200 just first trapped and broke the Internet. 0:07:08.240 --> 0:07:10.080 He put this beautiful photo up with a dog, so 0:07:10.360 --> 0:07:12.600 I mean I liked it, as did eleven million other people. 0:07:12.800 --> 0:07:14.320 But it was him and his dog, and he looked 0:07:14.360 --> 0:07:16.200 so hot, and it was just after his breakup with 0:07:16.280 --> 0:07:19.920 Miley and Adam Devine, his friend, his active friend that 0:07:20.080 --> 0:07:23.000 was in Isn't It Romantic, actually commented on his photo 0:07:23.040 --> 0:07:25.640 and called him out for first trapping, and it's essentially 0:07:25.720 --> 0:07:28.320 just when you're putting a really hot photo out there, 0:07:28.360 --> 0:07:29.960 when you know you've just broken up with someone. 0:07:30.000 --> 0:07:31.400 You know I was going to get attention. You know 0:07:31.440 --> 0:07:34.000 they're going to be like, damn, he looks good. You're like, 0:07:34.080 --> 0:07:36.400 this is what you're missing, atom boy. So I had 0:07:36.400 --> 0:07:38.720 to google it myself, and it's a new term to me. 0:07:38.720 --> 0:07:40.120 Apparently it's been around for a while and I'm a 0:07:40.120 --> 0:07:41.400 bit behind. 0:07:41.000 --> 0:07:45.120 But like I love, there is absolutely nothing wrong with 0:07:45.200 --> 0:07:45.840 first trapping. 0:07:46.040 --> 0:07:48.800 I don't think I've ever actually first trapped because I 0:07:48.840 --> 0:07:52.320 am pretty sensitive with putting sexy photos of myself on 0:07:52.360 --> 0:07:55.360 my Instagram. Mind you, I have no issue if girls 0:07:55.360 --> 0:07:57.040 want to do that, I think, like, all the power 0:07:57.080 --> 0:08:00.280 to them. I just myself don't really feel like a 0:08:00.280 --> 0:08:05.080 particularly sexy person at all. EVERK God, I'm not. 0:08:05.120 --> 0:08:07.880 I'm like, oh where do I put my arms? Anyway? 0:08:07.960 --> 0:08:10.360 I used to I used to do something that was 0:08:10.360 --> 0:08:12.200 probably a step worse than that when I would go 0:08:12.240 --> 0:08:13.240 through bad breakups. 0:08:13.640 --> 0:08:15.840 I am laughing already, and I don't even know what 0:08:15.920 --> 0:08:20.000 this is. I used to put like really vague quotes 0:08:20.240 --> 0:08:24.600 like you just like love your life and love yourself 0:08:24.600 --> 0:08:25.760 and the rest will come. 0:08:25.720 --> 0:08:28.800 Or some live. For example, remember that not getting what 0:08:28.840 --> 0:08:31.240 you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck. 0:08:31.680 --> 0:08:32.920 As if he doesn't. 0:08:32.640 --> 0:08:35.720 Know that's about him, and as if all my friends 0:08:35.760 --> 0:08:38.760 don't know that it's about him. But here I am thinking, 0:08:38.840 --> 0:08:42.800 I'm being really, really mysterious and just like it's not pointed, 0:08:42.840 --> 0:08:44.000 I'm just living my best life. 0:08:44.000 --> 0:08:45.199 But really I was heartbroken. 0:08:45.440 --> 0:08:47.760 I just didn't deal with breakups very well at the time. 0:08:47.760 --> 0:08:48.480 I don't think. 0:08:48.480 --> 0:08:51.719 I absolutely can one hundred percent of test that you 0:08:51.800 --> 0:08:54.640 are not alone, and I have done that. Also, the 0:08:54.679 --> 0:08:57.000 deep quote is obviously this person you've just broken at me. 0:08:57.320 --> 0:08:59.160 And don't get me wrong, like I would read these 0:08:59.240 --> 0:09:03.040 quotes and think, yes, that one hundred percent reflects exactly 0:09:03.080 --> 0:09:04.599 how I feel right now, and I'm gonna put that 0:09:04.640 --> 0:09:06.319 on the Internet because I'm gonna own the space. 0:09:07.440 --> 0:09:08.559 But I look back. 0:09:08.400 --> 0:09:11.440 Now and I you lie, Yeah, I laugh, because it 0:09:11.480 --> 0:09:13.960 was so obvious that I had just transitioned into a 0:09:14.000 --> 0:09:15.960 breakup and that was me dealing with it in the 0:09:16.000 --> 0:09:18.880 way that I deal with things. But I wasn't necessarily 0:09:18.920 --> 0:09:22.400 posting that quote because it made me feel better. I 0:09:22.520 --> 0:09:24.360 was posting it because I knew he was going to 0:09:24.400 --> 0:09:26.440 see it, and I did it as this like subliminal 0:09:26.480 --> 0:09:29.640 way to kind of manipulate or try and have contact 0:09:29.640 --> 0:09:31.200 with someone who'd got no contact on me. 0:09:31.320 --> 0:09:33.320 That's not subliminal. I just got to tell me that 0:09:33.440 --> 0:09:35.400 right now. That is not a subliminal message. That's like 0:09:35.440 --> 0:09:36.720 a big fat yeah. 0:09:36.880 --> 0:09:39.040 I literally put up a neon sign and I was like, 0:09:39.120 --> 0:09:42.960 so I'm broken up, but I'm single now if anyone's wondering. 0:09:42.800 --> 0:09:46.360 Because he's a deep quote and I'm in a bikini. Look. 0:09:46.440 --> 0:09:48.959 New Year's always brings with it a lot of highs 0:09:48.960 --> 0:09:51.319 and lows and a lot of It's like a it's 0:09:51.360 --> 0:09:53.760 a time for reshuffling your life, and it's a time 0:09:53.800 --> 0:09:56.120 for a bit of self reflection, and it's the time 0:09:56.120 --> 0:09:59.120 when everyone sets New Year's resolutions and thinks, New Year 0:09:59.200 --> 0:09:59.560 knew me. 0:10:00.000 --> 0:10:01.040 What do you think of a resolution? 0:10:01.120 --> 0:10:02.920 I don't know how I feel about a resolution as 0:10:02.960 --> 0:10:04.040 such for the New year. 0:10:04.480 --> 0:10:06.920 You don't like the concept of New Year's resolutions, Like. 0:10:06.920 --> 0:10:08.880 I always make a point of I don't know if 0:10:08.880 --> 0:10:10.280 I want to call it a resolution, but I always 0:10:10.280 --> 0:10:12.040 make a point of saying, Okay, this year, this is 0:10:12.080 --> 0:10:13.880 what I want to do and achieve. But I think 0:10:13.920 --> 0:10:16.360 people shouldn't have to wait until that one day of 0:10:16.440 --> 0:10:19.240 the year, Like what was it about January first? Like 0:10:19.320 --> 0:10:22.600 this clean slate, this arbitrary first date of the year 0:10:22.640 --> 0:10:25.040 where we go, Okay, this is the time where we're 0:10:25.040 --> 0:10:27.000 going to make all the changes, and this is the 0:10:27.000 --> 0:10:29.040 time where I'm going to get my shit together, and 0:10:29.080 --> 0:10:31.160 all the stuff that happened last year, oh well, that 0:10:31.280 --> 0:10:33.560 was just a practice round. I think it's also the 0:10:33.600 --> 0:10:36.840 wording that people tell themselves to like, instead of saying 0:10:37.240 --> 0:10:40.600 I want to lose fifteen kilos, break it down because 0:10:40.679 --> 0:10:42.840 saying fifteen kilos that's huge, But I want to start 0:10:42.880 --> 0:10:44.520 eating better and I want to start running every day. 0:10:44.559 --> 0:10:46.960 That's going to get you there, but it's more attainable 0:10:47.000 --> 0:10:49.920 and it's not as scary, so people get overwhelmed with 0:10:49.960 --> 0:10:50.920 their own resolutions. 0:10:50.960 --> 0:10:53.240 I think it's also such a funny time of year 0:10:53.320 --> 0:10:57.280 to start making changes, because I mean, it's so impractical 0:10:57.320 --> 0:10:59.360 to think that you're going to get your health kick 0:10:59.440 --> 0:11:02.200 started or going to you know, be able to cut 0:11:02.240 --> 0:11:04.319 out sugar or do any of those sorts of things 0:11:04.360 --> 0:11:06.200 when it's right in the middle of a period where 0:11:06.240 --> 0:11:09.400 everyone's partying and everyone's having such a good time, and 0:11:09.440 --> 0:11:13.400 so you're then isolating yourself from enjoying that because you've 0:11:13.400 --> 0:11:16.240 made a resolution that actually, do you know what, maybe 0:11:16.240 --> 0:11:18.120 it would have been better to start that in March. 0:11:18.559 --> 0:11:19.800 Yeah, what's happening in March. 0:11:19.960 --> 0:11:21.480 It's a good time. Just cut out, sugar. 0:11:21.760 --> 0:11:24.520 What what have you sort of set for yourself this year? 0:11:24.600 --> 0:11:26.599 Do you have a resolution or like a goal or 0:11:26.640 --> 0:11:31.640 aspiration or I like new ye, knew me, old. 0:11:31.400 --> 0:11:31.920 You, old me. 0:11:32.200 --> 0:11:35.559 I liked Olbie. I mean Oldie was fine, she was okay, 0:11:35.880 --> 0:11:38.840 she was run about. I mean, look, don't get me wrong. 0:11:38.920 --> 0:11:41.920 I am one hundred percent of work in progress, and 0:11:42.640 --> 0:11:45.040 I think there's lots of things that I need to 0:11:45.120 --> 0:11:49.240 change coming into this new year. And I guess for me, though, 0:11:49.360 --> 0:11:51.720 news resolutions have never spoke to me on a on 0:11:51.760 --> 0:11:55.680 a deep level, so I haven't really put in place 0:11:55.800 --> 0:11:59.600 any massive news resolutions for twenty twenty. I have, however, 0:12:00.000 --> 0:12:02.360 from a relationship perspective, and maybe this is a bit 0:12:02.400 --> 0:12:04.480 of an overshare, and I was like, we're going to 0:12:04.559 --> 0:12:05.960 have more sex in twenty twenty. 0:12:06.559 --> 0:12:09.280 Oh my god, can that be my resolution too? Not 0:12:09.320 --> 0:12:10.679 for you to have more sex, but like for me 0:12:10.720 --> 0:12:12.160 to also have more sex. You can have it for 0:12:12.200 --> 0:12:14.920 me to have more sex, I need the support. I 0:12:15.000 --> 0:12:18.720 kind of reflect on the last six months and I have, 0:12:19.600 --> 0:12:22.720 you know, we've had a baby, and the stresses and 0:12:23.120 --> 0:12:26.600 the full time consuming nature that comes with having a child. 0:12:27.040 --> 0:12:29.640 I feel like it's really gotten the better of Matt 0:12:29.640 --> 0:12:31.880 and I a little bit. And as much as we 0:12:32.000 --> 0:12:34.800 absolutely love each other, there are aspects of our relationship 0:12:34.840 --> 0:12:37.560 that I think have massively taken a back burner. So 0:12:37.960 --> 0:12:40.000 I just want to reshuffle some of my priorities in 0:12:40.000 --> 0:12:42.840 my life and put our relationship back up, back up 0:12:42.840 --> 0:12:43.280 the pile. 0:12:43.559 --> 0:12:44.040 Basically. 0:12:44.080 --> 0:12:45.920 It's just one of those things, isn't it. It's I mean, 0:12:45.960 --> 0:12:48.679 give yourself some credit. You just had a baby and 0:12:48.840 --> 0:12:51.079 sex is just not a priority. You had to kill 0:12:51.080 --> 0:12:53.040 a child alive, and you have a business to run 0:12:53.080 --> 0:12:54.960 and sex is probably the last thing you want to do. 0:12:55.200 --> 0:12:59.520 Having said that, now you know Marley's probably not as 0:12:59.559 --> 0:13:02.360 dependent on your boob, and she's a bit older, and 0:13:02.559 --> 0:13:04.680 you know you could just she can look after herself 0:13:04.720 --> 0:13:05.360 so you can go and. 0:13:05.320 --> 0:13:06.640 Have some more set Yeah. 0:13:06.679 --> 0:13:10.840 Absolutely, she's pretty much doing my tax now, No, I guess, 0:13:10.920 --> 0:13:13.080 and I know that any other new mums who are 0:13:13.080 --> 0:13:16.680 listening to this probably can totally relate because it's just 0:13:16.720 --> 0:13:19.560 an aspect of your life that gets shoved aside, and 0:13:19.600 --> 0:13:22.280 it's not it's not a necessity. You're like, oh my god, 0:13:22.320 --> 0:13:24.400 that got us into this in the first place. Keep 0:13:24.400 --> 0:13:27.520 it away from me. But the less of it that 0:13:27.559 --> 0:13:29.960 you have, the less of it that you need. And 0:13:30.000 --> 0:13:30.920 so it's very. 0:13:30.800 --> 0:13:34.240 Forget what you're missing. Yes, we've all been there at 0:13:34.240 --> 0:13:35.600 some point, and so I'm just like. 0:13:35.600 --> 0:13:38.160 Not even motivated for it at the moment, but I 0:13:38.240 --> 0:13:41.280 know that when I do it, I will like it, 0:13:41.400 --> 0:13:43.200 and so I'm getting back on that bandwagon. 0:13:43.240 --> 0:13:44.760 We'll just send me a message and I can come 0:13:44.840 --> 0:13:46.280 down and get Miley for a little bit. 0:13:46.400 --> 0:13:48.240 I'll let you guys go, Nuice, what do you think 0:13:48.280 --> 0:13:49.240 I was gonna say. 0:13:49.480 --> 0:13:52.680 I was gonna say, you're not invited, Brittany. You we're 0:13:52.720 --> 0:13:55.400 a duo and everything, but you're not coming to that. 0:13:55.679 --> 0:13:56.880 Well, I'm just really disappointed. 0:13:56.880 --> 0:13:58.800 Now it's an exclusive party that you're. 0:13:58.679 --> 0:14:02.480 Not welcome to anyway. 0:14:02.600 --> 0:14:05.280 What about you, honey, any newar's resolutions that you'll bringing 0:14:05.280 --> 0:14:05.840 to the table. 0:14:06.040 --> 0:14:07.800 Well, I didn't think of that as a resolution, but 0:14:07.840 --> 0:14:10.160 I mean, yeah, okay, let's have more sex for everyone. 0:14:10.200 --> 0:14:12.080 I think everyone can have that resolution. There you go, 0:14:12.120 --> 0:14:12.720 spread the word. 0:14:12.800 --> 0:14:13.720 Spread it. You heard it here. 0:14:13.760 --> 0:14:17.440 First, I have a few random things like I just 0:14:17.440 --> 0:14:20.280 want to start surfing, I really do, and I need 0:14:20.280 --> 0:14:21.760 to just take the first step and buy board. 0:14:21.800 --> 0:14:23.960 And well, you live in Bondai. Now, it's very Bondai 0:14:24.080 --> 0:14:24.320 of you. 0:14:24.560 --> 0:14:26.120 I know there's so many people in Bondai that you 0:14:26.160 --> 0:14:28.040 can hit like, I just need to go somewhere it's 0:14:28.040 --> 0:14:30.840 not as many people. I want to definitely cut back 0:14:30.880 --> 0:14:35.400 on my sugar consumption because you know, I'm all or nothing. 0:14:35.480 --> 0:14:37.080 I can't just have one little chocolate. 0:14:37.520 --> 0:14:40.200 I'm going to call you out on this one because 0:14:40.320 --> 0:14:42.120 you have been saying to me that you want to 0:14:42.160 --> 0:14:44.600 cut out sugar, and then this morning when we went 0:14:44.640 --> 0:14:46.360 for coffee, you were like, oh, I'm just gonna put 0:14:46.360 --> 0:14:46.960 some sugar in. 0:14:46.920 --> 0:14:47.960 This, which I never did. 0:14:47.960 --> 0:14:50.960 That was weird. Yeah, So for someone who's not cutting out, 0:14:51.080 --> 0:14:53.400 who's cutting out sugar, you then actively put it in 0:14:53.440 --> 0:14:55.840 your coffee. You also sent me a video of yourself 0:14:55.880 --> 0:14:58.520 eating ice cream last night. And the last time we 0:14:58.600 --> 0:15:01.640 came into this podcast room, which has all happened this year, guys, 0:15:01.920 --> 0:15:05.520 she walked in with a container of chocolate covered almonds 0:15:05.560 --> 0:15:07.960 and ate the entire thing, which, do you know what, 0:15:08.040 --> 0:15:09.640 I'm fully supporting of it, and if. 0:15:09.560 --> 0:15:10.800 I don't want to cut it out, I want to 0:15:10.840 --> 0:15:15.160 cut back. And also, I brought those chocolates for you 0:15:15.200 --> 0:15:17.160 to share. It's not true she's lying to you. 0:15:17.160 --> 0:15:19.680 You are, but that is definitely a resolution. 0:15:19.720 --> 0:15:22.120 I need to cut back because I just find that 0:15:22.720 --> 0:15:26.360 my energy is better when I'm not always having these 0:15:26.400 --> 0:15:29.440 sugar highs. I'm not as fatigued, I feel better and 0:15:29.480 --> 0:15:31.920 I know that. So that's something I want to do. 0:15:32.440 --> 0:15:34.520 Yeah, okay, I'm I'm all for that. If you actually 0:15:34.560 --> 0:15:37.440 genuinely want to do something, I guess you have to 0:15:37.520 --> 0:15:41.800 kind of surround yourself with people who support you positive. Yeah, why, 0:15:41.800 --> 0:15:43.640 I be a realist. When you can be positive, I 0:15:43.640 --> 0:15:45.520 will be positive for you and I will help you 0:15:45.560 --> 0:15:46.280 on your Jenny. 0:15:47.160 --> 0:15:48.760 I also want to do some things. 0:15:48.840 --> 0:15:51.920 I want to start filming things, I want to start 0:15:51.960 --> 0:15:56.120 acting and just really embracing dreams that I've always wanted 0:15:56.160 --> 0:15:57.960 to do. And I really encourage a lot of people 0:15:58.000 --> 0:16:00.720 to do this. Don't worry about what anyone thinks of 0:16:00.760 --> 0:16:02.560 you in your life. Because I've been speaking to a 0:16:02.560 --> 0:16:05.000 lot of friends recently that want to go and start 0:16:05.040 --> 0:16:07.680 doing things. We've been talking about resolutions, like I've always 0:16:07.680 --> 0:16:09.120 wanted to do this. I've always wanted to try this, 0:16:09.200 --> 0:16:11.080 but I'm scared people will judge me, and I'm scared 0:16:11.120 --> 0:16:13.640 I'm going to fail, and we're all going to fail 0:16:13.680 --> 0:16:17.080 at stuff. But the surest way for you to fail 0:16:17.080 --> 0:16:19.160 in anything is to not try. 0:16:19.960 --> 0:16:23.480 I'm so glad that you said this, because this resonates 0:16:23.520 --> 0:16:26.160 so well with something that I had written down actually 0:16:26.200 --> 0:16:29.160 for this podcast, and it was that this year, I'm 0:16:29.200 --> 0:16:31.840 not going to allow my experiences and the things that 0:16:31.880 --> 0:16:35.320 I enjoy to be dictated by other people's fears. And 0:16:35.400 --> 0:16:38.440 the reason why I had experienced this myself was because 0:16:39.640 --> 0:16:43.000 going back to like traveling with Maley, and also when 0:16:43.000 --> 0:16:46.640 I was pregnant, especially last year, I had so many 0:16:46.720 --> 0:16:49.160 people tell me all of the bad bits about it. 0:16:49.160 --> 0:16:51.800 They had said how hard like having a newborn is, 0:16:52.080 --> 0:16:53.560 and they told me how shitty it is to go 0:16:53.640 --> 0:16:55.680 traveling with a kid, and how awful it is on 0:16:55.720 --> 0:16:57.160 a plane, and how hard it is to kind of 0:16:57.160 --> 0:17:00.640 figure out their food and their schedules. And so I 0:17:00.760 --> 0:17:03.960 walked into these experiences in my life. I walked into childbirth, 0:17:04.000 --> 0:17:06.480 and I walked into traveling with Marley thinking it was 0:17:06.520 --> 0:17:09.720 going to be hideously awful, and I was so prepared 0:17:09.760 --> 0:17:12.639 to hate every part of that experience, But to be 0:17:12.640 --> 0:17:17.280 perfectly honest, I have loved it so much. I just 0:17:17.320 --> 0:17:20.920 wish that I hadn't taken on such negative opinions and 0:17:21.160 --> 0:17:24.159 allowed somebody else's experience to dictate what I thought my 0:17:24.280 --> 0:17:28.199 experience was going to be. Because you shouldn't. You shouldn't 0:17:28.200 --> 0:17:30.520 live your life through somebody else's fears, but we do. 0:17:30.640 --> 0:17:32.600 And I really love this saying. I can't remember it 0:17:32.600 --> 0:17:36.160 word for word, but it's like nobody above you is. 0:17:36.119 --> 0:17:37.959