1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:04,840 Speaker 1: Hello, my name's Santasha Nabananga Bamblet. I'm a proud yor 2 00:00:04,880 --> 00:00:08,600 Speaker 1: the Order Kerni Wholbury and a waddery woman. And before 3 00:00:08,600 --> 00:00:11,080 Speaker 1: we get started on She's on the Money podcast, I 4 00:00:11,119 --> 00:00:14,240 Speaker 1: would like to acknowledge the traditional custodians of the land 5 00:00:14,360 --> 00:00:17,680 Speaker 1: of which this podcast is recorded on a wondery country, 6 00:00:18,079 --> 00:00:22,200 Speaker 1: acknowledging the elders, the ancestors and the next generation coming 7 00:00:22,239 --> 00:00:26,880 Speaker 1: through as this podcast is about connecting, empowering, knowledge sharing 8 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:30,040 Speaker 1: and the storytelling of you to make a difference for 9 00:00:30,160 --> 00:00:33,040 Speaker 1: today and lasting impact for tomorrow. 10 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 2: Let's get into it. 11 00:00:34,280 --> 00:00:53,519 Speaker 3: She's on the Money. She's on the Money. 12 00:00:57,280 --> 00:01:00,560 Speaker 4: Hello, and welcome to She's on the Money podcast that 13 00:01:00,600 --> 00:01:04,560 Speaker 4: makes personal finance fun, especially on Fridays. It is our 14 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:06,760 Speaker 4: favorite day of the week because we get our little 15 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:10,240 Speaker 4: team together and we celebrate you, our incredible She's on 16 00:01:10,280 --> 00:01:13,520 Speaker 4: the Money community, Miss Jess Gricci's got some money wins 17 00:01:13,520 --> 00:01:16,600 Speaker 4: and confessions for us. Miss beck sayed, I think she's 18 00:01:16,600 --> 00:01:19,880 Speaker 4: got a few unhinged broke tips to share. This week, 19 00:01:20,120 --> 00:01:21,920 Speaker 4: we're going to be helping to answer our money dilemma, 20 00:01:21,920 --> 00:01:24,080 Speaker 4: which this week is all about how to finance a 21 00:01:24,120 --> 00:01:27,520 Speaker 4: removable home and then something you slid into our DMS 22 00:01:27,520 --> 00:01:31,120 Speaker 4: about ADHD tax and feeling like a burden on your 23 00:01:31,160 --> 00:01:36,920 Speaker 4: partner relatable not the removable home thing, but I do 24 00:01:36,959 --> 00:01:38,800 Speaker 4: happen to know how to finance one of those. 25 00:01:39,160 --> 00:01:42,840 Speaker 2: So we'll get there later. Find Yeah, you can find out. 26 00:01:42,959 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 2: You can find out. 27 00:01:43,959 --> 00:01:46,400 Speaker 4: But before we get there, first things first, how have 28 00:01:46,440 --> 00:01:47,160 Speaker 4: your week's been? 29 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:47,760 Speaker 3: Really? 30 00:01:47,800 --> 00:01:48,200 Speaker 5: Good? 31 00:01:48,640 --> 00:01:51,400 Speaker 2: Team, She's on the money is for the most part, 32 00:01:51,440 --> 00:01:54,000 Speaker 2: back on deck now, which is very exciting. 33 00:01:54,240 --> 00:01:57,440 Speaker 4: I feel like everyone is just like a lull, Like slowly, 34 00:01:57,560 --> 00:01:59,680 Speaker 4: slowly things are starting to. 35 00:01:59,640 --> 00:02:03,000 Speaker 2: Take I'm having a lot of circling back emails from 36 00:02:03,040 --> 00:02:04,960 Speaker 2: all the ones I sent you into THEMBAR saying back 37 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:07,160 Speaker 2: to this in January, and now everyone's coming back. 38 00:02:09,280 --> 00:02:11,960 Speaker 4: Actually I didn't want you to actually come back. I 39 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:16,640 Speaker 4: didn't mean that. Also circle back corporate speak, we're canceling. 40 00:02:16,240 --> 00:02:21,280 Speaker 2: That my actions with January didn't say yeah. 41 00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:26,400 Speaker 4: I actually meant next year. Yeah, you're like you go away. No, 42 00:02:26,480 --> 00:02:29,880 Speaker 4: It's it's been fun Beck being back on deck. 43 00:02:30,000 --> 00:02:31,240 Speaker 2: How's how's life? 44 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:33,720 Speaker 4: If you kept up the motivation levels that we had 45 00:02:33,919 --> 00:02:35,160 Speaker 4: last week, you know what I. 46 00:02:35,400 --> 00:02:36,160 Speaker 2: Think I actually have. 47 00:02:36,320 --> 00:02:39,320 Speaker 5: But it is such a weirdly sad time of year 48 00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:41,480 Speaker 5: because it's like, oh I got to with now we 49 00:02:41,560 --> 00:02:45,720 Speaker 5: have to wait a whole another year for this like 50 00:02:46,240 --> 00:02:48,920 Speaker 5: nice period where everyone's excited, everyone's in the mood of 51 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:50,480 Speaker 5: like like to be festive. 52 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:53,040 Speaker 4: Okay, but like, let's reframe it. We've got a year, 53 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:55,720 Speaker 4: We've got a year to look forward to it, We've 54 00:02:55,720 --> 00:02:59,120 Speaker 4: got a year to set up our savings accounts. So 55 00:02:59,400 --> 00:03:02,280 Speaker 4: this period of the year is not financially stressful. 56 00:03:02,520 --> 00:03:05,120 Speaker 2: Yes. No, I've got a money team this week. You've 57 00:03:05,120 --> 00:03:06,720 Speaker 2: got a money team, you know, one of those old 58 00:03:06,720 --> 00:03:09,120 Speaker 2: school ones. And I like a cute with the can 59 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:11,400 Speaker 2: open up. Yeah, made the outside cute, and we're putting 60 00:03:11,440 --> 00:03:13,200 Speaker 2: coins in it and I'm going to buy my treat 61 00:03:13,200 --> 00:03:13,600 Speaker 2: myself to. 62 00:03:13,639 --> 00:03:15,359 Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, I've got questions. 63 00:03:15,520 --> 00:03:18,200 Speaker 2: I love that. Where are you getting coins? Well, I'm 64 00:03:18,240 --> 00:03:20,000 Speaker 2: trying so when I saw things cause I just don't 65 00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:22,160 Speaker 2: have cash, when I saw things on Facebook, Mark place 66 00:03:22,160 --> 00:03:24,400 Speaker 2: all the time, you get cash, and I'm trying to 67 00:03:24,480 --> 00:03:26,639 Speaker 2: use it a little bit more because I feel like 68 00:03:26,680 --> 00:03:28,120 Speaker 2: I like that I have the coins that I then 69 00:03:28,160 --> 00:03:28,880 Speaker 2: squirre all away. 70 00:03:29,080 --> 00:03:31,919 Speaker 4: See, I've got a little dish beside our front door. Yeah, 71 00:03:32,320 --> 00:03:34,520 Speaker 4: you're gonna rob me, Like, that's where to go gas. 72 00:03:34,520 --> 00:03:36,880 Speaker 4: All the coins are there, good to know, but I 73 00:03:36,880 --> 00:03:38,440 Speaker 4: don't know what to do with the twenty and fifty 74 00:03:38,480 --> 00:03:40,560 Speaker 4: cent pieces in there. Put them in my money, sir, 75 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:43,320 Speaker 4: I'll bring them in because at this point, at this 76 00:03:43,440 --> 00:03:44,360 Speaker 4: point they're a burden. 77 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:46,080 Speaker 2: I am so annoying. 78 00:03:46,120 --> 00:03:49,119 Speaker 5: I literally yesterday it is actually I like I had 79 00:03:49,160 --> 00:03:51,680 Speaker 5: five cents, tense, it's all the coins in the world, 80 00:03:51,760 --> 00:03:54,600 Speaker 5: and I like kind of put them into little piles 81 00:03:54,600 --> 00:03:56,560 Speaker 5: of my hand and then just like went and filled 82 00:03:56,640 --> 00:03:59,640 Speaker 5: up my pedal tank and I was like thirty and 83 00:03:59,680 --> 00:04:01,440 Speaker 5: then with fifty cents And. 84 00:04:01,600 --> 00:04:03,720 Speaker 4: You are really annoying but also sligh. 85 00:04:03,800 --> 00:04:07,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like free petrol. Also, you know that you 86 00:04:07,440 --> 00:04:08,880 Speaker 2: can put them in a coin counter at the bank 87 00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:11,680 Speaker 2: and just deposit them into account. Yeah, but that's. 88 00:04:11,240 --> 00:04:14,960 Speaker 4: Another it is. But also like once it's in the account, 89 00:04:14,960 --> 00:04:19,000 Speaker 4: it doesn't feel no, it becomes real money again. Yeah. Yeah, 90 00:04:19,279 --> 00:04:24,320 Speaker 4: coins are fake money, fake money anything which points fake 91 00:04:24,400 --> 00:04:28,520 Speaker 4: money not actually a real purchase. Basically financial advice right there. 92 00:04:30,320 --> 00:04:31,520 Speaker 2: Did we get a good review this week? 93 00:04:31,640 --> 00:04:35,880 Speaker 4: I was an award winning financial advisor. Yep, we did. 94 00:04:35,920 --> 00:04:38,080 Speaker 4: We got a beautiful review this week. Would you like 95 00:04:38,080 --> 00:04:38,760 Speaker 4: me to read it out? 96 00:04:38,880 --> 00:04:39,960 Speaker 2: Yes? Yes, please? 97 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:43,120 Speaker 4: This one comes from Linn Britt. I don't know if 98 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:46,240 Speaker 4: her name's Britt or Linn to use the name, but 99 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:49,520 Speaker 4: five star review. I stumbled onto the She's on the 100 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:52,160 Speaker 4: Money podcast a few weeks after I had separated from 101 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:55,480 Speaker 4: my husband, and it was a godsend. I devoured all 102 00:04:55,520 --> 00:04:58,640 Speaker 4: of the previous episodes and have religiously listened every week 103 00:04:58,760 --> 00:05:01,359 Speaker 4: for the last several years. All the ladies and the 104 00:05:01,360 --> 00:05:04,159 Speaker 4: show are so relatable, even though they are so diverse. 105 00:05:04,480 --> 00:05:07,040 Speaker 4: Victoria's financial knowledge has supported me to set up an 106 00:05:07,040 --> 00:05:09,800 Speaker 4: emergency fund, manage my cash flow so that I could 107 00:05:09,839 --> 00:05:13,719 Speaker 4: buy my husband out of our joint mortgage. Yes gross, 108 00:05:14,200 --> 00:05:18,240 Speaker 4: arranged my kids to be beneficiaries for my superannuation and insurances, 109 00:05:18,800 --> 00:05:21,680 Speaker 4: and I've started investing and I'm in the most secure 110 00:05:21,720 --> 00:05:25,240 Speaker 4: financial position I've ever been in, despite now relying on 111 00:05:25,320 --> 00:05:28,039 Speaker 4: just one wage. I wouldn't have done any of that 112 00:05:28,120 --> 00:05:31,040 Speaker 4: without Sheese on the Money being so accessible and easy 113 00:05:31,080 --> 00:05:34,760 Speaker 4: to understand. Thanks a million times over. Oh God, that 114 00:05:34,920 --> 00:05:40,160 Speaker 4: is so illeged. Leaving your husband and being more financially 115 00:05:40,200 --> 00:05:43,440 Speaker 4: stable than ever and arriving and that's like, that is 116 00:05:43,480 --> 00:05:45,480 Speaker 4: what people are so stressed about, like, oh my god, 117 00:05:45,560 --> 00:05:47,000 Speaker 4: I'm going to leave, I'm going to do this. 118 00:05:47,120 --> 00:05:50,400 Speaker 2: It's going to become a clown car like what. But 119 00:05:50,560 --> 00:05:51,599 Speaker 2: you've got your stuff together. 120 00:05:51,839 --> 00:05:55,200 Speaker 5: That's incredible. That is so that would be not a 121 00:05:55,440 --> 00:05:57,760 Speaker 5: easy task at all. That's really really right. 122 00:05:57,760 --> 00:06:00,440 Speaker 2: I love our community. I know of what you go achieve. 123 00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:02,560 Speaker 2: I love that you give us some credit. 124 00:06:02,680 --> 00:06:05,159 Speaker 4: But I think it's also so important that wasn't us 125 00:06:05,640 --> 00:06:08,520 Speaker 4: we had a podcast, but like this podcast has existed 126 00:06:08,560 --> 00:06:12,720 Speaker 4: for so long. Yeah, and that doesn't mean that we 127 00:06:12,760 --> 00:06:14,599 Speaker 4: do the work for you. We can't do the work 128 00:06:14,640 --> 00:06:17,320 Speaker 4: for you. If I could, I would totally like I'd 129 00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:20,080 Speaker 4: be like, let me get your bank accounts, but unfortunately 130 00:06:20,360 --> 00:06:22,839 Speaker 4: you actually have to do the work. Like kudos to you, 131 00:06:22,839 --> 00:06:26,680 Speaker 4: because yeah, we gave you the information, but like when 132 00:06:26,680 --> 00:06:28,240 Speaker 4: people get the information. 133 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:30,200 Speaker 5: And do nothing with that exactly me for example, And 134 00:06:30,279 --> 00:06:32,799 Speaker 5: so you you actually got it, you did. 135 00:06:32,600 --> 00:06:35,839 Speaker 4: It, are though, and last year became an investor. 136 00:06:35,880 --> 00:06:40,840 Speaker 5: Beck, Oh true, look at her go I wanted to 137 00:06:40,880 --> 00:06:41,160 Speaker 5: check that. 138 00:06:41,440 --> 00:06:41,640 Speaker 2: Yeah. 139 00:06:41,760 --> 00:06:45,160 Speaker 4: Alright, moving on, miss Jess, you got some money wins 140 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:46,599 Speaker 4: and confessions to share with the fam? 141 00:06:46,720 --> 00:06:49,159 Speaker 2: I sure do. First of this week, I've got one 142 00:06:49,279 --> 00:06:51,200 Speaker 2: from Olivia, who I just wanted to say we have 143 00:06:51,240 --> 00:06:53,320 Speaker 2: matching profile pictures. She's a photo of the tar her 144 00:06:53,320 --> 00:06:54,599 Speaker 2: out front of the taj my Hull twinty. 145 00:06:55,000 --> 00:06:56,800 Speaker 4: I thought she borrowed your photo and I'd be like, 146 00:06:59,480 --> 00:07:02,880 Speaker 4: the time, you do look really cute, but that's weird. 147 00:07:03,320 --> 00:07:06,520 Speaker 2: Olivia said, I'm a bit addicted to chat GPT now, 148 00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:09,080 Speaker 2: and she said, can we all elect to use just 149 00:07:09,160 --> 00:07:11,680 Speaker 2: the free version? She said she's someone who struggles with 150 00:07:11,760 --> 00:07:13,960 Speaker 2: meal planning and staying under budget, so she'll ask a 151 00:07:14,080 --> 00:07:16,440 Speaker 2: questions like give me lunch ideas based on the coll 152 00:07:16,480 --> 00:07:18,880 Speaker 2: specials this week, or give me some dinner ideas that 153 00:07:18,920 --> 00:07:21,080 Speaker 2: I can cook in under twenty minutes with fruits and 154 00:07:21,160 --> 00:07:23,840 Speaker 2: veggies that are currently in season. She said it's also 155 00:07:23,840 --> 00:07:26,240 Speaker 2: great when she needs to reduce her takeaway cots and 156 00:07:26,280 --> 00:07:28,520 Speaker 2: she asks it what she can use based off what's 157 00:07:28,520 --> 00:07:30,680 Speaker 2: in her fridge. I adore it. 158 00:07:30,880 --> 00:07:33,040 Speaker 4: And for those of you who are like, oh, chat GPIT, 159 00:07:33,200 --> 00:07:37,000 Speaker 4: it's only okay, you're not giving it enough information. You 160 00:07:37,080 --> 00:07:41,400 Speaker 4: need to prime that baby so well and be so specific. 161 00:07:41,960 --> 00:07:44,800 Speaker 4: Like the more specific the better it takes. All of 162 00:07:44,800 --> 00:07:47,880 Speaker 4: that Intoicate said, I love it in our team chat 163 00:07:47,920 --> 00:07:53,440 Speaker 4: GPT is a team member called Gizelle. You asked Gizelle 164 00:07:53,520 --> 00:07:55,800 Speaker 4: to do that, she will do it. She's a model, 165 00:07:55,840 --> 00:07:57,200 Speaker 4: she's so good like that exactly. 166 00:07:57,400 --> 00:07:58,320 Speaker 2: Just what else have you got? 167 00:07:58,360 --> 00:07:58,520 Speaker 6: Next? 168 00:07:58,520 --> 00:08:01,360 Speaker 2: I've got money in from Chow said I started turning 169 00:08:01,400 --> 00:08:04,800 Speaker 2: things off at the wall socket and I had my 170 00:08:04,920 --> 00:08:07,120 Speaker 2: power bill. WHOA, she said, you got the second bill 171 00:08:07,240 --> 00:08:11,040 Speaker 2: since studying, and it was eighty seven dollars. That what 172 00:08:11,080 --> 00:08:12,880 Speaker 2: what for the month was for the quarter? For the 173 00:08:13,080 --> 00:08:16,520 Speaker 2: I'm assuming for the months. That's really really I really 174 00:08:16,560 --> 00:08:16,920 Speaker 2: love that. 175 00:08:17,040 --> 00:08:20,440 Speaker 4: I think that is great. I'm a skeptic and think 176 00:08:20,440 --> 00:08:22,160 Speaker 4: that there's a bigger issue in the Maybe you had 177 00:08:22,200 --> 00:08:25,920 Speaker 4: a piece of equipment that was draining your power significantly 178 00:08:26,200 --> 00:08:27,720 Speaker 4: or was not working. 179 00:08:28,760 --> 00:08:30,480 Speaker 2: I feel was really high. But one of those tester 180 00:08:30,640 --> 00:08:32,360 Speaker 2: things that you can plug things into. 181 00:08:33,240 --> 00:08:34,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, one of those. 182 00:08:35,960 --> 00:08:36,480 Speaker 2: In a good way. 183 00:08:36,480 --> 00:08:38,920 Speaker 4: I can also imagine her getting a hard hat, putting 184 00:08:38,960 --> 00:08:39,880 Speaker 4: it on and walking around there. 185 00:08:44,520 --> 00:08:48,360 Speaker 2: I'm going to inspect this. It's the cutest image. Next, 186 00:08:48,400 --> 00:08:50,200 Speaker 2: I've got to own you in from Abby, who said 187 00:08:50,240 --> 00:08:52,200 Speaker 2: she got a four hundred and twenty dollars refund from 188 00:08:52,200 --> 00:08:54,679 Speaker 2: the ATYO because she had previously paid off her hex 189 00:08:54,760 --> 00:08:56,880 Speaker 2: after the big indexation. How good. I feel like a 190 00:08:56,920 --> 00:08:58,559 Speaker 2: lot of people have probably seen that rolling out over 191 00:08:58,600 --> 00:09:01,000 Speaker 2: the past few weeks, haven't looked at your hext. 192 00:09:01,160 --> 00:09:03,120 Speaker 4: We've got a lot of people in our community as 193 00:09:03,120 --> 00:09:06,880 Speaker 4: well who choose to still contribute to their hex quote 194 00:09:06,920 --> 00:09:09,920 Speaker 4: because they told their employer that it's still there, and 195 00:09:09,960 --> 00:09:11,839 Speaker 4: then at tax time they get a heap of money 196 00:09:11,840 --> 00:09:14,080 Speaker 4: back because they're like, I'm so bad at saving, so 197 00:09:14,080 --> 00:09:15,959 Speaker 4: I'm just going to do this. Whether or not that's 198 00:09:16,000 --> 00:09:18,920 Speaker 4: a good strategy is still to be determined, but it's 199 00:09:19,000 --> 00:09:22,000 Speaker 4: just a strategy, and an interesting one at that. 200 00:09:22,640 --> 00:09:24,320 Speaker 2: Next, I've want of money in from Molly, who said 201 00:09:24,320 --> 00:09:27,000 Speaker 2: she logged into her iron G bank account to see 202 00:09:27,040 --> 00:09:29,400 Speaker 2: she'd been gifted one hundred dollars as part as their 203 00:09:30,000 --> 00:09:33,560 Speaker 2: giving program is give iron G very clever whoever came 204 00:09:33,600 --> 00:09:35,720 Speaker 2: up with that. In the marketing team, she covered lunch 205 00:09:35,760 --> 00:09:39,880 Speaker 2: for her and her friends on Saturday's on Money Team 206 00:09:40,120 --> 00:09:43,560 Speaker 2: also free money, saying where is it? 207 00:09:44,160 --> 00:09:44,319 Speaker 4: Yes? 208 00:09:44,440 --> 00:09:47,480 Speaker 2: Lease thanks? Last of this week, I've got money from Holly, 209 00:09:47,520 --> 00:09:49,199 Speaker 2: who said she just Molly and Holly. 210 00:09:49,280 --> 00:09:49,680 Speaker 4: I like it. 211 00:09:49,800 --> 00:09:51,520 Speaker 2: That actually is very cute. I didn't even realize that 212 00:09:51,720 --> 00:09:54,199 Speaker 2: money in from Holly who said she just grabbed groceries. 213 00:09:54,320 --> 00:09:57,120 Speaker 2: Thanks to every Day Rewards and Flybys points, she spent 214 00:09:57,240 --> 00:10:00,520 Speaker 2: a little over ten dollars instead of three hundred and twenty. Sorry, 215 00:10:00,600 --> 00:10:05,640 Speaker 2: what crazy working the system? He has hacked the system. 216 00:10:06,120 --> 00:10:06,960 Speaker 2: That's so good. 217 00:10:07,200 --> 00:10:10,320 Speaker 4: I'm so impressed. But like proof that it all adds up. 218 00:10:10,360 --> 00:10:12,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, if you're an everyday rewards person, turn on your 219 00:10:12,640 --> 00:10:14,880 Speaker 2: savings thing now for Christmas because you can turn it 220 00:10:14,920 --> 00:10:17,480 Speaker 2: onto your points bank. So I'm not. I'm not. I'm 221 00:10:17,480 --> 00:10:18,480 Speaker 2: a Coles girlie. 222 00:10:18,600 --> 00:10:20,960 Speaker 4: I am a coldly I'm going to hack the fly 223 00:10:21,040 --> 00:10:24,760 Speaker 4: By system this year. You best believe one pass. Watch out, Yeah, 224 00:10:24,840 --> 00:10:26,960 Speaker 4: watch out for you. Watch out if you think I'm 225 00:10:27,080 --> 00:10:29,800 Speaker 4: not going to abuse your system within the breadth that 226 00:10:29,840 --> 00:10:30,280 Speaker 4: you've set. 227 00:10:30,920 --> 00:10:32,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, she's milking it. 228 00:10:33,040 --> 00:10:35,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm going to milk it for all you are 229 00:10:35,040 --> 00:10:38,760 Speaker 4: going to let me have It's excited, clever. Have you 230 00:10:38,760 --> 00:10:40,120 Speaker 4: got some broke tips this week? 231 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:43,880 Speaker 5: Okay, So I don't know if anyone listened last week, 232 00:10:44,000 --> 00:10:46,400 Speaker 5: you might have heard me mention I'm kind of doing 233 00:10:46,440 --> 00:10:50,199 Speaker 5: some more hinge things this year, more unhinged than last. 234 00:10:50,080 --> 00:10:51,480 Speaker 2: Year, more unhinged than last year. 235 00:10:51,559 --> 00:10:53,720 Speaker 4: Would we be concerned for your mental health? Yeah? 236 00:10:53,760 --> 00:10:56,920 Speaker 2: I think, so you let me know what you need, 237 00:10:56,960 --> 00:10:57,840 Speaker 2: and I'm right here. 238 00:10:58,040 --> 00:11:00,600 Speaker 5: Well, this one actually comes from clothes. This one was unhinged, 239 00:11:01,040 --> 00:11:03,160 Speaker 5: but I really like it. I know it's silly and. 240 00:11:03,040 --> 00:11:08,440 Speaker 4: Probably maybe still saving money. Yes, exactly, so clothes, there's unhinged. 241 00:11:08,440 --> 00:11:10,439 Speaker 4: But put clothes that are too big in the dryer 242 00:11:10,480 --> 00:11:11,640 Speaker 4: so they shrink and fit you better. 243 00:11:12,280 --> 00:11:13,920 Speaker 2: Honestly, I've done that, but honestly I do. 244 00:11:13,920 --> 00:11:16,200 Speaker 4: That with my genes all the time. Like my jeans 245 00:11:16,320 --> 00:11:18,240 Speaker 4: are one. It's too big because I ordered them on 246 00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:20,760 Speaker 4: the Iconic and I couldn't be bothered returning them, and 247 00:11:20,800 --> 00:11:22,640 Speaker 4: so I put them extra hot in the dryer and 248 00:11:22,679 --> 00:11:23,120 Speaker 4: now they fit. 249 00:11:23,240 --> 00:11:26,280 Speaker 2: So yeah, personal, it's fantastic. Yes, there you go. I've 250 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:27,240 Speaker 2: really really back this. 251 00:11:27,440 --> 00:11:31,720 Speaker 5: I think, don't buy new clothes, just keep drying them 252 00:11:31,800 --> 00:11:34,800 Speaker 5: til they get small, like that Picasso. This next one 253 00:11:34,880 --> 00:11:37,040 Speaker 5: comes from I believe the names Owen, but I could 254 00:11:37,040 --> 00:11:40,280 Speaker 5: be wrong. So I care memberships are apparently free, and it 255 00:11:40,280 --> 00:11:42,599 Speaker 5: means you can return your furniture within three hundred and 256 00:11:42,640 --> 00:11:44,719 Speaker 5: sixty five days for a full refund if you do. 257 00:11:44,920 --> 00:11:45,920 Speaker 2: I can't key membership. 258 00:11:45,960 --> 00:11:47,840 Speaker 4: I don't know. So you're saying, if I'm moving to 259 00:11:47,880 --> 00:11:49,959 Speaker 4: Melbourne for six months, I could dip my house out 260 00:11:49,960 --> 00:11:51,840 Speaker 4: in I Care furniture then for genal That's what. 261 00:11:51,960 --> 00:11:55,160 Speaker 2: I'm thinking, Never do that. Who's an option? 262 00:11:55,320 --> 00:11:57,640 Speaker 5: It's an option, but genuinely that's what I'm thinking. I'm like, 263 00:11:58,040 --> 00:12:01,360 Speaker 5: you want to impress someone, you have someone coming over 264 00:12:01,360 --> 00:12:03,400 Speaker 5: for a date. Now I've got my I K Calyx 265 00:12:03,520 --> 00:12:05,840 Speaker 5: shelves with the tags still on. 266 00:12:06,880 --> 00:12:10,520 Speaker 2: They're not coming off. Yeah, Like I think that's really really. 267 00:12:10,360 --> 00:12:13,480 Speaker 4: I'm impressed totally. That's actually really good to know. 268 00:12:13,679 --> 00:12:15,679 Speaker 2: And especially it's a big trip to IKr. So it's 269 00:12:15,679 --> 00:12:16,920 Speaker 2: like if you go and you buy stuff and then 270 00:12:16,960 --> 00:12:18,240 Speaker 2: you don't need it and you're like, well, I'm not 271 00:12:18,240 --> 00:12:19,880 Speaker 2: going to get there for another six months. 272 00:12:20,000 --> 00:12:22,320 Speaker 4: That's the time where you didn't measure your ceiling height 273 00:12:22,320 --> 00:12:24,000 Speaker 4: and bought a Christmas tree that was too big? 274 00:12:24,080 --> 00:12:29,960 Speaker 2: Is it like that arguably very comparable? Yes, I like it. Yeah. 275 00:12:29,960 --> 00:12:32,199 Speaker 5: It's also like if you move into a house and 276 00:12:32,240 --> 00:12:34,439 Speaker 5: then you leave after a year after your lease over, 277 00:12:34,480 --> 00:12:36,040 Speaker 5: and you're like, oh, what do I do this stuff? 278 00:12:36,040 --> 00:12:37,800 Speaker 5: I'm going to take it back to by K And 279 00:12:37,840 --> 00:12:40,319 Speaker 5: then this next one comes from myself obviously, have you 280 00:12:40,320 --> 00:12:42,200 Speaker 5: guys sort of mister Rebates. 281 00:12:42,000 --> 00:12:44,319 Speaker 4: Not yet, but I'm sure you're going to teach us. Yeah, 282 00:12:44,600 --> 00:12:46,800 Speaker 4: I think I myster rebates. 283 00:12:47,200 --> 00:12:49,360 Speaker 2: I know it's like fun, it's giving mister minute. 284 00:12:49,880 --> 00:12:52,640 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I don't know what that is, but I'm like, 285 00:12:53,000 --> 00:12:54,640 Speaker 5: is that a. 286 00:12:55,800 --> 00:13:02,720 Speaker 2: Yeah? Okay, you only last time something of all able 287 00:13:02,760 --> 00:13:04,120 Speaker 2: to use a slur. It's not just. 288 00:13:06,280 --> 00:13:09,280 Speaker 5: No, but mister Rebate is very It's similar to your 289 00:13:09,320 --> 00:13:11,840 Speaker 5: cash backs or your shot backs of the world things 290 00:13:11,840 --> 00:13:12,080 Speaker 5: like that. 291 00:13:12,160 --> 00:13:14,040 Speaker 2: Yes, okay, mister rebates, mister rebates. 292 00:13:14,080 --> 00:13:15,880 Speaker 5: And I was like, I was just looking at it 293 00:13:15,880 --> 00:13:17,600 Speaker 5: because I was like, oh, I need to buy some 294 00:13:17,640 --> 00:13:18,360 Speaker 5: pre workout. 295 00:13:18,559 --> 00:13:20,320 Speaker 2: There's no way my supplement store is going to be 296 00:13:20,320 --> 00:13:22,960 Speaker 2: on here. It was the random stores. 297 00:13:23,040 --> 00:13:25,319 Speaker 5: In't there that that like, it's just like you wouldn't 298 00:13:25,640 --> 00:13:26,679 Speaker 5: no one's I've never heard of it. 299 00:13:27,040 --> 00:13:28,240 Speaker 2: How did you find out about it? 300 00:13:28,280 --> 00:13:30,160 Speaker 4: Because sometimes I feel like I live under a rock 301 00:13:30,240 --> 00:13:32,920 Speaker 4: and I you know, obviously I am very privy to 302 00:13:33,000 --> 00:13:34,839 Speaker 4: like shot back and cash rewards in all of those 303 00:13:34,840 --> 00:13:37,400 Speaker 4: platforms because I use them and love them. I've like, 304 00:13:37,720 --> 00:13:39,720 Speaker 4: sometimes I can't even remember how I found them. Where'd 305 00:13:39,720 --> 00:13:41,160 Speaker 4: you find mister rebates? 306 00:13:41,280 --> 00:13:43,920 Speaker 5: God, I got to tell you, I have not a 307 00:13:43,960 --> 00:13:44,560 Speaker 5: single clue. 308 00:13:44,600 --> 00:13:46,079 Speaker 2: It must have been like a TikTok. I think a 309 00:13:46,120 --> 00:13:47,080 Speaker 2: TikTok to TikTok. 310 00:13:47,240 --> 00:13:48,240 Speaker 4: It's changing lives. 311 00:13:48,280 --> 00:13:51,120 Speaker 5: It's really like, I'm really on on money talk at 312 00:13:51,120 --> 00:13:51,440 Speaker 5: the moment. 313 00:13:51,559 --> 00:13:54,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, money talk is a good place to be. Yeah, 314 00:13:54,080 --> 00:13:56,080 Speaker 4: I'm on cosmetic talk and I'd like to get off 315 00:13:56,160 --> 00:13:57,959 Speaker 4: it because I keep buying more cosmetics. 316 00:13:58,880 --> 00:14:02,040 Speaker 2: Mecca called me. How we change our algorithm? Anyway? 317 00:14:02,320 --> 00:14:04,600 Speaker 4: You can reset your algorithm? How Yep, you can go 318 00:14:04,640 --> 00:14:07,400 Speaker 4: in and completely clear your cage and like it will 319 00:14:07,400 --> 00:14:10,320 Speaker 4: reset and give you a brand new for you page 320 00:14:10,520 --> 00:14:11,800 Speaker 4: if you were sad for some reason. 321 00:14:11,920 --> 00:14:12,680 Speaker 2: I don't want to do that. 322 00:14:13,240 --> 00:14:14,600 Speaker 4: I want to lose it because I feel like it's 323 00:14:14,600 --> 00:14:16,760 Speaker 4: reflective of my personalityxation. 324 00:14:16,840 --> 00:14:19,680 Speaker 2: See that no one knows us like TikTok knows exactly. 325 00:14:19,760 --> 00:14:21,640 Speaker 4: All right, let's go to a really quick break because 326 00:14:21,680 --> 00:14:23,360 Speaker 4: on the flip side, we are going to be talking 327 00:14:23,360 --> 00:14:25,560 Speaker 4: about a money dilemma, which this week is all about 328 00:14:25,640 --> 00:14:28,760 Speaker 4: how to finance a removable home, And we're going to 329 00:14:28,760 --> 00:14:30,960 Speaker 4: be chatting about something that you lead into our DMS, 330 00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:34,960 Speaker 4: about ADHD tax and feeling like a burden on your partner. 331 00:14:35,000 --> 00:14:42,080 Speaker 4: So guys, don't go anywhere Welcome back, everybody. Let's take 332 00:14:42,080 --> 00:14:47,760 Speaker 4: a listen to this week's money dilemma. Hi, there, have 333 00:14:47,840 --> 00:14:50,160 Speaker 4: you got a money dilemma you just can't solve. The 334 00:14:50,240 --> 00:14:52,920 Speaker 4: Sheese on the Money team is here to help. Every 335 00:14:52,960 --> 00:14:55,760 Speaker 4: week we tackle your dilemmas, both big and small, to 336 00:14:55,800 --> 00:14:57,640 Speaker 4: answer your most burning money. 337 00:14:57,400 --> 00:14:58,760 Speaker 2: Career and life questions. 338 00:14:58,960 --> 00:15:01,480 Speaker 4: To get involved, we head to our website and leave 339 00:15:01,520 --> 00:15:03,640 Speaker 4: us a short voice recording, and you might just find 340 00:15:03,680 --> 00:15:06,400 Speaker 4: yourself on the show. Now, let's take a listen to 341 00:15:06,440 --> 00:15:09,720 Speaker 4: this week's money dilemma. 342 00:15:10,040 --> 00:15:10,840 Speaker 2: I vi Juria. 343 00:15:11,280 --> 00:15:15,080 Speaker 7: I'm wondering if you should shed some light on removable homes. 344 00:15:15,320 --> 00:15:18,000 Speaker 7: I'm looking at buying a few acres in the upcoming 345 00:15:18,080 --> 00:15:21,160 Speaker 7: years as I have horses. However, there are some great 346 00:15:21,200 --> 00:15:24,320 Speaker 7: block with night houses on them. I have briefly locked 347 00:15:24,360 --> 00:15:28,000 Speaker 7: into removable homes through a local company and they seem 348 00:15:28,160 --> 00:15:32,280 Speaker 7: somewhat affordable. I'm wondering how they work in regards to 349 00:15:32,360 --> 00:15:35,880 Speaker 7: the mortgage and the loans I deal. I would like 350 00:15:35,960 --> 00:15:39,400 Speaker 7: to buy the block and the house within a relatively 351 00:15:39,480 --> 00:15:43,160 Speaker 7: closed time frame. I'm the first home over. Is it 352 00:15:43,280 --> 00:15:45,720 Speaker 7: in the scope of a mortgage rife to it'ssis being 353 00:15:45,720 --> 00:15:48,120 Speaker 7: a through removable home? As long as the block of wed. 354 00:15:49,080 --> 00:15:51,400 Speaker 7: Do I get a mortgage that will cover both or 355 00:15:51,400 --> 00:15:54,200 Speaker 7: will I need to have put warns for any information 356 00:15:54,400 --> 00:15:56,960 Speaker 7: on removable homes and buying block would be great. 357 00:15:57,000 --> 00:16:00,760 Speaker 2: Thank you, I got it, not a whole lot. I'm 358 00:16:00,760 --> 00:16:01,640 Speaker 2: gonna be honest with you. 359 00:16:02,320 --> 00:16:04,680 Speaker 4: Well, you've never mortgaged a removable. 360 00:16:04,160 --> 00:16:07,200 Speaker 2: Home, and even no what a removable home was inuntil 361 00:16:07,280 --> 00:16:07,560 Speaker 2: just then. 362 00:16:07,680 --> 00:16:11,640 Speaker 4: Okay, So removable homes are increasing in popularity, which kind 363 00:16:11,640 --> 00:16:12,240 Speaker 4: of makes sense. 364 00:16:12,120 --> 00:16:14,320 Speaker 2: Because everything's so expensive. 365 00:16:15,560 --> 00:16:17,440 Speaker 4: And this is you need to have a chat with 366 00:16:17,440 --> 00:16:21,360 Speaker 4: a mortgage broker because a removable home could mean a 367 00:16:21,400 --> 00:16:23,960 Speaker 4: plethora of different things, Like are you talking about like 368 00:16:24,000 --> 00:16:25,800 Speaker 4: a caravan that you're going to put there, at which 369 00:16:25,800 --> 00:16:28,160 Speaker 4: point you probably don't need counsel approval, But if you're 370 00:16:28,200 --> 00:16:30,400 Speaker 4: going to put like a whole setup and plummet in, 371 00:16:30,440 --> 00:16:32,520 Speaker 4: and it's like technically if you're home kind of like 372 00:16:32,560 --> 00:16:35,520 Speaker 4: a tiny home, you're going to need counsel approval for that. 373 00:16:35,560 --> 00:16:37,440 Speaker 4: So you're going to need to look into it. So 374 00:16:37,480 --> 00:16:41,080 Speaker 4: we need to talk about what a broker would do. 375 00:16:41,280 --> 00:16:44,120 Speaker 4: So land easy, bread and butter. We can get you 376 00:16:44,200 --> 00:16:48,400 Speaker 4: land finance because it's a secure asset. It's quite hard 377 00:16:48,440 --> 00:16:52,520 Speaker 4: to secure finance for the home because it's actually not 378 00:16:52,840 --> 00:16:56,040 Speaker 4: that stable, Like it's not seen as an asset that 379 00:16:56,080 --> 00:16:57,960 Speaker 4: they can flog off and get their money. But like 380 00:16:58,000 --> 00:17:00,480 Speaker 4: the bank can't just liquidate it and get rid of it. 381 00:17:00,800 --> 00:17:04,120 Speaker 4: And the other issue and the reason that a bank 382 00:17:04,160 --> 00:17:07,840 Speaker 4: is very unlikely to connect the two so go, oh yeah, 383 00:17:07,920 --> 00:17:11,440 Speaker 4: no worries because like stepping back for a minute, if 384 00:17:11,440 --> 00:17:14,320 Speaker 4: you were asking a mortgage broker to help you finance 385 00:17:14,520 --> 00:17:16,840 Speaker 4: a home and land package, is it great, We do 386 00:17:16,920 --> 00:17:19,119 Speaker 4: that all the time. But you're asking a broker to 387 00:17:19,160 --> 00:17:22,480 Speaker 4: help you finance a removable home which arguably adds no 388 00:17:22,640 --> 00:17:25,440 Speaker 4: value to the land. And because it doesn't add any 389 00:17:25,520 --> 00:17:30,000 Speaker 4: value to the land, the bank is very unlikely to go, yeah, sure, 390 00:17:30,080 --> 00:17:33,080 Speaker 4: have even more money on this loan that is now 391 00:17:33,200 --> 00:17:35,080 Speaker 4: not as secure as it was before. 392 00:17:35,400 --> 00:17:36,240 Speaker 2: So even if it. 393 00:17:36,160 --> 00:17:38,560 Speaker 4: Did add some value, the value would only be able 394 00:17:38,560 --> 00:17:42,560 Speaker 4: to like be counted after the move had been completed, 395 00:17:42,640 --> 00:17:45,920 Speaker 4: if that makes sense. So when you talk to a broker, 396 00:17:46,400 --> 00:17:49,000 Speaker 4: obviously take everything with a grain of salt. All of 397 00:17:49,040 --> 00:17:52,560 Speaker 4: these situations are going to be different, but they're going 398 00:17:52,600 --> 00:17:55,200 Speaker 4: to be able to assess your personal situation and work 399 00:17:55,240 --> 00:17:58,280 Speaker 4: it out. But the broker will probably have a look 400 00:17:58,359 --> 00:18:01,879 Speaker 4: at financing the land and really bread and butter normal, 401 00:18:02,280 --> 00:18:05,600 Speaker 4: then maybe trying to finance the tiny home via mortgage 402 00:18:05,680 --> 00:18:08,359 Speaker 4: if that's an option, if it's seen as stable. We 403 00:18:08,400 --> 00:18:11,320 Speaker 4: don't know, maybe there's some issues with how big it 404 00:18:11,400 --> 00:18:13,480 Speaker 4: is and the footprint and whatnot, and you know how 405 00:18:13,600 --> 00:18:17,080 Speaker 4: quote removable it is. But on the flip side, you 406 00:18:17,160 --> 00:18:20,320 Speaker 4: might also need to go down a more unsecured finance 407 00:18:20,480 --> 00:18:24,000 Speaker 4: root for that, or you might save up buy the 408 00:18:24,000 --> 00:18:26,480 Speaker 4: property on finance and then use the cash that you 409 00:18:26,560 --> 00:18:28,959 Speaker 4: have for the tiny home because often tiny homes are 410 00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:32,119 Speaker 4: significantly cheaper than like proper homes. Right, So there are 411 00:18:32,160 --> 00:18:35,560 Speaker 4: a lot of different options, but I think it's important 412 00:18:35,600 --> 00:18:38,520 Speaker 4: to start conversations probably now with a broker around what 413 00:18:38,560 --> 00:18:40,440 Speaker 4: that might look like, because the last thing you want 414 00:18:40,720 --> 00:18:42,880 Speaker 4: is to find the perfect block of land and find 415 00:18:42,960 --> 00:18:46,760 Speaker 4: the perfect home and then realize I actually can't finance 416 00:18:46,800 --> 00:18:49,119 Speaker 4: any of this because the bank actually won't finance the 417 00:18:49,119 --> 00:18:50,800 Speaker 4: home and I don't have the cash to do that, 418 00:18:51,040 --> 00:18:53,240 Speaker 4: or I need all the cash to get the block 419 00:18:53,240 --> 00:18:54,520 Speaker 4: of land as my deposit. 420 00:18:55,200 --> 00:18:56,960 Speaker 2: Right, So just work out all. 421 00:18:56,880 --> 00:18:59,320 Speaker 4: The moving parts and what that would look like, because 422 00:18:59,400 --> 00:19:03,320 Speaker 4: they're all going to be very different, but I wouldn't 423 00:19:03,320 --> 00:19:05,520 Speaker 4: be surprised if the route you go down is kind 424 00:19:05,560 --> 00:19:08,760 Speaker 4: of like personal finance for the house in the same 425 00:19:08,760 --> 00:19:11,720 Speaker 4: way that you might personally finance like a Winnebago or 426 00:19:11,800 --> 00:19:13,719 Speaker 4: a caravan or something like that. 427 00:19:14,840 --> 00:19:15,280 Speaker 2: There you go. 428 00:19:15,640 --> 00:19:18,119 Speaker 5: I mean, like, whatever you do, good luck on your journey. 429 00:19:18,119 --> 00:19:20,480 Speaker 5: It sounds like a really sounds like a really cool idea. 430 00:19:20,480 --> 00:19:22,880 Speaker 5: I feel like I would like to in my head 431 00:19:22,880 --> 00:19:25,439 Speaker 5: it was like a freedom right tent or something, but 432 00:19:26,400 --> 00:19:29,680 Speaker 5: no fold up ten. It's a tiny hoe that makes 433 00:19:29,680 --> 00:19:31,159 Speaker 5: so much sense. For some reason, I thought it was 434 00:19:31,200 --> 00:19:34,400 Speaker 5: something like that, like something fold down. But that's really cool. 435 00:19:34,400 --> 00:19:36,000 Speaker 5: I feel like the freedom to just be like, I 436 00:19:36,000 --> 00:19:36,920 Speaker 5: don't want to live here anymore. 437 00:19:36,960 --> 00:19:42,280 Speaker 2: Yea, yeah, doing whatever you want? 438 00:19:42,800 --> 00:19:43,120 Speaker 7: All right? 439 00:19:43,160 --> 00:19:45,359 Speaker 4: Do you want to get into this week's DM Absolutely? 440 00:19:45,440 --> 00:19:47,040 Speaker 2: Of course you do. You ready? Yeah? 441 00:19:47,200 --> 00:19:49,280 Speaker 4: Hey, she's on the money. I really need some advice 442 00:19:49,320 --> 00:19:52,080 Speaker 4: because I feel like I'm letting my partner down. I 443 00:19:52,080 --> 00:19:55,639 Speaker 4: have ADHD, and while there always are so understanding, I 444 00:19:55,680 --> 00:19:58,280 Speaker 4: can't help but feel like a burden. We are always 445 00:19:58,359 --> 00:20:01,000 Speaker 4: paying the ADHD tax because I forget to pay the 446 00:20:01,000 --> 00:20:03,119 Speaker 4: bills on time, and then we get hit with fees, 447 00:20:03,160 --> 00:20:06,080 Speaker 4: and I procrastinate on big purchases, so the price goes up. 448 00:20:06,680 --> 00:20:08,760 Speaker 4: My partner has had to take over most of the 449 00:20:08,880 --> 00:20:12,040 Speaker 4: financial management to keep us on track, and even though 450 00:20:12,080 --> 00:20:15,560 Speaker 4: they never complain, I know it's exhausting for them. They're 451 00:20:15,600 --> 00:20:18,320 Speaker 4: patient and supportive, but every time I mess up, I 452 00:20:18,359 --> 00:20:20,960 Speaker 4: feel like I'm adding to their stress. It's hard to 453 00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:23,520 Speaker 4: not feel inadequate when they're picking up the slack for 454 00:20:23,640 --> 00:20:26,440 Speaker 4: something I know I should be better at. I want 455 00:20:26,440 --> 00:20:29,359 Speaker 4: to contribute more and be a true partner, but I 456 00:20:29,400 --> 00:20:31,240 Speaker 4: don't even know where to start. I just want to 457 00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:34,119 Speaker 4: find a way to lighten their load without making things 458 00:20:34,119 --> 00:20:35,240 Speaker 4: worse or feeling like. 459 00:20:35,240 --> 00:20:39,520 Speaker 2: I'm failing them. That breaks my heart. You're feeling that way. 460 00:20:39,600 --> 00:20:41,159 Speaker 2: That sucks. Yeah, I get that. 461 00:20:41,600 --> 00:20:45,480 Speaker 5: I live adhd Well, that's it exactly exactly I think. 462 00:20:45,760 --> 00:20:49,680 Speaker 5: With my partner Jess, I'm like constantly, like constantly barking 463 00:20:49,720 --> 00:20:52,840 Speaker 5: on about mental load, mental load, and like she's very 464 00:20:53,200 --> 00:20:55,760 Speaker 5: organized and things like that. So I'm like hyper aware 465 00:20:55,760 --> 00:20:57,000 Speaker 5: of that and I don't want her to like take 466 00:20:57,040 --> 00:20:59,440 Speaker 5: on more than she needs to. I don't want to 467 00:20:59,480 --> 00:21:02,040 Speaker 5: like stress or exhausts her. She is just naturally better 468 00:21:02,080 --> 00:21:03,720 Speaker 5: at those things. That's something you must keep in mind 469 00:21:03,800 --> 00:21:06,600 Speaker 5: that if your partner does not have ADHD, maybe they're 470 00:21:06,960 --> 00:21:09,360 Speaker 5: this kind of stuff like life admin and stuff might 471 00:21:09,359 --> 00:21:10,760 Speaker 5: not stress them out. 472 00:21:10,680 --> 00:21:13,560 Speaker 2: As much as someone who does have ADHD. 473 00:21:13,680 --> 00:21:16,480 Speaker 5: So that's something to keep in mind, but not to 474 00:21:16,480 --> 00:21:18,359 Speaker 5: say that don't worry about it, that'll be fine. 475 00:21:18,560 --> 00:21:20,000 Speaker 4: They can deal with that kind of thing. Just to 476 00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:23,600 Speaker 4: say that you can wear this much too, yeah, totally. 477 00:21:23,680 --> 00:21:26,280 Speaker 4: Well that's just me, that's just how I am. 478 00:21:26,560 --> 00:21:30,240 Speaker 5: Yeah, totally totally, so I can completely understand that. But yeah, 479 00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:32,680 Speaker 5: I think when you are conscious of a mental load 480 00:21:32,720 --> 00:21:34,720 Speaker 5: and then you're like, I'm going to make sure I'm 481 00:21:34,760 --> 00:21:35,320 Speaker 5: really good at this. 482 00:21:35,480 --> 00:21:37,240 Speaker 2: I'm going to make sure that I remember this, and. 483 00:21:37,160 --> 00:21:40,600 Speaker 5: Then you just consistently are like, oh crap, this person 484 00:21:40,600 --> 00:21:41,920 Speaker 5: had to remind me to do this or whatever. 485 00:21:42,119 --> 00:21:43,479 Speaker 2: It's like, I feel like I'm failing. 486 00:21:43,480 --> 00:21:46,160 Speaker 5: But I'm curious to know if this If our listener 487 00:21:46,200 --> 00:21:49,840 Speaker 5: has any kind of like For example, for me, I 488 00:21:49,880 --> 00:21:52,919 Speaker 5: have Google calendar that sink also to my phone. I 489 00:21:53,000 --> 00:21:54,920 Speaker 5: check it every day, and also have like an everything 490 00:21:55,240 --> 00:21:58,800 Speaker 5: literally list that says everything every day and it's every 491 00:21:58,880 --> 00:22:01,280 Speaker 5: single thing I have to do every single day, including 492 00:22:01,320 --> 00:22:06,159 Speaker 5: brushing my teeth, including I'm impressed every sability, yeah, and 493 00:22:06,200 --> 00:22:10,520 Speaker 5: everything I need to check like petrol, everything, everything, because 494 00:22:10,600 --> 00:22:12,840 Speaker 5: there's something that's going to be lacking and I'm going 495 00:22:12,880 --> 00:22:16,080 Speaker 5: to forget about it for months. And so I wonder 496 00:22:16,119 --> 00:22:18,960 Speaker 5: if our listener has any of those, like alarms to 497 00:22:19,200 --> 00:22:21,439 Speaker 5: alarms constantly going off on my phone for things like 498 00:22:21,680 --> 00:22:23,720 Speaker 5: I just dismissed No, so that doesn't work for me. 499 00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:25,280 Speaker 2: That's fair final work. 500 00:22:25,320 --> 00:22:27,679 Speaker 4: But the list thing, that's why I'm known for my 501 00:22:27,720 --> 00:22:31,120 Speaker 4: cleaning schedule. Like people are like, oh my gosh, V 502 00:22:31,440 --> 00:22:35,280 Speaker 4: so organized. No, V so disorganized. That's why she needs 503 00:22:35,280 --> 00:22:38,119 Speaker 4: a whole schedule. This is when this has to happen. 504 00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:39,679 Speaker 4: And this is when this has to happen, because like 505 00:22:39,720 --> 00:22:42,680 Speaker 4: I get overwhelmed, and so if you said, hey, they 506 00:22:42,960 --> 00:22:45,800 Speaker 4: on Tuesday you have to clean the house where yeah, 507 00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:49,760 Speaker 4: oh my god, you start get analysis paralysis and then 508 00:22:49,800 --> 00:22:51,720 Speaker 4: you know what we're doing. We're actually just going to 509 00:22:51,920 --> 00:22:56,800 Speaker 4: organize the cosmetics. Yeah, we're actually just gonna pull the 510 00:22:56,960 --> 00:23:00,679 Speaker 4: entire laundry apart and reassemble it. And then you're going 511 00:23:00,760 --> 00:23:03,359 Speaker 4: to come home and did I'm mop the floors? Absolutely not. 512 00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:07,880 Speaker 4: But look at this other thing that I did pantry organization, Stella. 513 00:23:08,359 --> 00:23:11,160 Speaker 4: Why is the bathroom an absolute mess? 514 00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:14,719 Speaker 2: Victoria. Yes, the priorities are off. That is why I 515 00:23:14,760 --> 00:23:15,600 Speaker 2: need a whole schedule. 516 00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:18,119 Speaker 4: If this is what happens on a day to day basis, 517 00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:20,040 Speaker 4: this is what happens on a week to week basis, 518 00:23:20,040 --> 00:23:22,280 Speaker 4: and every month, this is what I do because when 519 00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:24,600 Speaker 4: I'm feeling overwhelmed, I go back to my list. And 520 00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:27,679 Speaker 4: I think that that is a really great coping tool 521 00:23:28,160 --> 00:23:31,440 Speaker 4: for ADHD because then your job is to just check 522 00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:35,960 Speaker 4: the list. And in this situation where you're managing finances, 523 00:23:36,000 --> 00:23:38,280 Speaker 4: maybe you need to write a list of like every 524 00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:40,520 Speaker 4: week I pay for netball, and every month I pay 525 00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:42,719 Speaker 4: my phone bill, and like you have a date that 526 00:23:42,760 --> 00:23:44,840 Speaker 4: you go through and check and pay those things. So 527 00:23:44,880 --> 00:23:47,240 Speaker 4: instead of like, oh, every week, I will make sure 528 00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:49,280 Speaker 4: that I check X, like you know what date it 529 00:23:49,320 --> 00:23:51,600 Speaker 4: comes in, so on that week that gets paid on 530 00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:54,920 Speaker 4: that date. How I do manage it just as somebody 531 00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:56,600 Speaker 4: who doesn't struggle with these things. 532 00:23:56,760 --> 00:24:00,400 Speaker 2: No, I think for most people that exist somewhere obviously, 533 00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:02,879 Speaker 2: neurodivergens is a spectrum. There's so many different things, and 534 00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:06,359 Speaker 2: I think a lot of what can be done regardless 535 00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:08,359 Speaker 2: of you know what kind of point of difference you 536 00:24:08,440 --> 00:24:11,240 Speaker 2: have is finding coping mechanisms that work for you. So 537 00:24:11,280 --> 00:24:13,639 Speaker 2: you've both just listed two different you know, types of 538 00:24:13,760 --> 00:24:15,919 Speaker 2: or ways of doing things that work really well for 539 00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:17,600 Speaker 2: you guys. They might not work for somebody else. But 540 00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:20,200 Speaker 2: I think it's about a little bit of trial and error, 541 00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:23,720 Speaker 2: like trying list error is trying, you know, remind us 542 00:24:23,760 --> 00:24:26,840 Speaker 2: of your phone trying like some people use what is 543 00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:30,200 Speaker 2: it like audio, some kind of audio thing. Like, there's 544 00:24:30,240 --> 00:24:32,359 Speaker 2: lots and lots of different things out there, and I 545 00:24:32,359 --> 00:24:34,600 Speaker 2: think it's largely about finding what works for. 546 00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:36,679 Speaker 4: You to do, because it's like the alarm thing you 547 00:24:36,760 --> 00:24:37,600 Speaker 4: said that worked for you. 548 00:24:37,840 --> 00:24:39,720 Speaker 2: I tried all idea, and. 549 00:24:39,760 --> 00:24:41,560 Speaker 4: It's not because I think I'll switch it off. It's 550 00:24:41,600 --> 00:24:43,840 Speaker 4: because I put all the alarms. I went in and 551 00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:45,439 Speaker 4: I set them all up. Because like one thing that 552 00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:47,960 Speaker 4: we're good at is like the motivation at the start 553 00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:50,119 Speaker 4: to get it all organized. Did that and then I 554 00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:51,720 Speaker 4: see it pop up and I'm like, I don't want 555 00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:54,160 Speaker 4: to do that, dismiss and then I never think about 556 00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:54,760 Speaker 4: it ever again. 557 00:24:54,840 --> 00:24:56,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, there's trial and error to find what works for you. 558 00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:59,240 Speaker 2: I also think perhaps automation of your bank account so 559 00:24:59,280 --> 00:25:02,080 Speaker 2: having money ortomatically debit from one plate, you know your money. 560 00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:03,760 Speaker 2: Maybe you have a bill's fund. Yeah, all your bill's 561 00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:05,399 Speaker 2: autod debbit out of there, and it's set up so 562 00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:08,280 Speaker 2: you actually can be quite hands off, but everything goes 563 00:25:08,359 --> 00:25:10,280 Speaker 2: where it needs to go, so it can debit and 564 00:25:10,680 --> 00:25:11,359 Speaker 2: you can do that. 565 00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:13,560 Speaker 4: I think a lot of people assume that, Oh, if 566 00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:16,320 Speaker 4: the you know, phone company, for example, didn't offer a 567 00:25:16,359 --> 00:25:18,800 Speaker 4: direct debit option, I can't do that, like I have 568 00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:20,600 Speaker 4: to manually do it. But you can go into your 569 00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:23,560 Speaker 4: bank account and set up an automatic transfer on a 570 00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:27,399 Speaker 4: particular date to a specific account number and BSB code 571 00:25:27,480 --> 00:25:30,760 Speaker 4: or a bpay reference like and you could go, okay, well, 572 00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:33,480 Speaker 4: every month, I know that my phone bill is thirty 573 00:25:33,480 --> 00:25:37,480 Speaker 4: five dollars, so two days after the bill comes in, 574 00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:39,520 Speaker 4: in my head, I'm going to set up that automatic 575 00:25:39,560 --> 00:25:42,040 Speaker 4: thing and then if I go over then at least 576 00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:42,360 Speaker 4: I know. 577 00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:44,080 Speaker 2: The base bill is covered. Yeah. 578 00:25:44,119 --> 00:25:46,480 Speaker 4: So I think that that is a really good wages 579 00:25:46,520 --> 00:25:48,679 Speaker 4: of automating things because it's like one and done. You 580 00:25:48,720 --> 00:25:50,679 Speaker 4: set it all up and then just check in on 581 00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:53,160 Speaker 4: it every couple of months to make sure that things 582 00:25:53,160 --> 00:25:55,840 Speaker 4: haven't changed and they're still going through and like, that's 583 00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:57,240 Speaker 4: a good idea. Yeah. 584 00:25:57,320 --> 00:25:59,120 Speaker 2: The other thing I would say is, like I guess 585 00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:02,919 Speaker 2: the moretional aspect of it is I would remind you 586 00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:06,000 Speaker 2: that a partnership is exactly that, Like there's it's give 587 00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:08,919 Speaker 2: and take, and so it's filling the gaps, you know, 588 00:26:09,040 --> 00:26:11,440 Speaker 2: of where the other might have. What is a mental 589 00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:13,320 Speaker 2: crack for you might be something that's so simple for 590 00:26:13,359 --> 00:26:15,840 Speaker 2: your partner. So rather than feeling like you're a burden, 591 00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:18,359 Speaker 2: which I'm sure that you're not, I would say, what 592 00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:20,320 Speaker 2: are your strength what are your strong suits? Like, I'm 593 00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:22,240 Speaker 2: sure that there are things that you're really good at. 594 00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:24,840 Speaker 2: Do you get your you know, hyper fixated and a 595 00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:27,440 Speaker 2: cleaning task? Can you once a month do a deep 596 00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:29,720 Speaker 2: clean of a part of the house, or can you 597 00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:32,640 Speaker 2: take on, you know, yard duties, or can you walk 598 00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:35,399 Speaker 2: the dog every day? Or is there something that you 599 00:26:35,440 --> 00:26:37,359 Speaker 2: can do with you know, within the realm of what 600 00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:39,800 Speaker 2: needs to be done as a part of your partnership, 601 00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:42,080 Speaker 2: within the household that you can take on that then 602 00:26:42,160 --> 00:26:44,000 Speaker 2: comes off your partner's plate. Because I think it's all 603 00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:46,960 Speaker 2: about balance and just because you know, you feel like 604 00:26:47,000 --> 00:26:49,000 Speaker 2: they're taking a lot of the mental load. I think 605 00:26:49,280 --> 00:26:51,320 Speaker 2: it's really kind that you're so aware of this and 606 00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:53,360 Speaker 2: wanting to make sure that it's good and that's awesome, 607 00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:55,600 Speaker 2: but also give yourself some grace and know that there's 608 00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:58,960 Speaker 2: absolutely somewhere within the relationship that you can add value 609 00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:01,320 Speaker 2: and that you can do whatever what you're really good at. 610 00:27:01,680 --> 00:27:03,639 Speaker 2: And I think that you know you've said your partner 611 00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:06,040 Speaker 2: doesn't complain, they love you, right, Like, at the end 612 00:27:06,040 --> 00:27:07,480 Speaker 2: of the day, we. 613 00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:10,600 Speaker 4: Love my partner, and I still complain. So interesting, but 614 00:27:10,680 --> 00:27:11,680 Speaker 4: we you know, a. 615 00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:17,120 Speaker 2: Partnership is appreciating someone good and bad. You're seeing arguably 616 00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:18,080 Speaker 2: the worst, probably. 617 00:27:17,880 --> 00:27:19,720 Speaker 4: Got some things that they're like, oh my god, I 618 00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:23,080 Speaker 4: wish I was better at XYZ for my partner, So. 619 00:27:23,080 --> 00:27:24,600 Speaker 2: Talk to them, be like what can I do? Like, 620 00:27:24,640 --> 00:27:27,200 Speaker 2: what's something like if it's not finding you know, if 621 00:27:27,320 --> 00:27:28,720 Speaker 2: you get to the point where say I've tried all 622 00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:30,359 Speaker 2: the things, I've set the alarms, I've done the bladh 623 00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:32,919 Speaker 2: lah dah, and it just doesn't work for me, go Okay, 624 00:27:33,720 --> 00:27:35,879 Speaker 2: what's a different area that I can focus on that 625 00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:38,080 Speaker 2: I can then add my own value? And I think 626 00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:40,480 Speaker 2: that's very valid and fair too. Yeah, no, I like it, 627 00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:41,640 Speaker 2: we very well said. Yeah. 628 00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:43,800 Speaker 4: We did also ask the community. So we said, in 629 00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:48,680 Speaker 4: your relationships, how has managing finances worked. Fifty five percent 630 00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:51,040 Speaker 4: of you said, one person naturally takes charge. 631 00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:52,040 Speaker 2: I think that's very common. 632 00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:54,760 Speaker 4: Twenty nine percent of you said it's usually shared pretty evenly, 633 00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:57,280 Speaker 4: and sixteen percent of you said, I've only ever managed 634 00:27:57,320 --> 00:28:00,800 Speaker 4: my own. We then asked how if you ever felt 635 00:28:00,800 --> 00:28:04,439 Speaker 4: like you're letting down your partner financially. Thirteen percent of 636 00:28:04,480 --> 00:28:07,920 Speaker 4: you said, oh, my god, all the time, thirty five 637 00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:10,399 Speaker 4: percent of you said yeah, sometimes, and fifty two percent 638 00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:12,320 Speaker 4: of you said no, I'm pretty on top of everything. 639 00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:13,640 Speaker 2: Wow. Okay, she's on. 640 00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:17,399 Speaker 4: The muddy clean like a sligh but for this community member, 641 00:28:17,520 --> 00:28:19,959 Speaker 4: not relatable. We then said, all right, what are your 642 00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:23,760 Speaker 4: two cents? One person said, try out a money date 643 00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:26,560 Speaker 4: every so often and do it together. Automation is going 644 00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:29,080 Speaker 4: to be the best hute. Someone else said, their partner 645 00:28:29,119 --> 00:28:31,800 Speaker 4: sounds like a gem. It's okay to have different strengths 646 00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:35,800 Speaker 4: in a relationship. Someone else said, your ADHD isn't a burden. 647 00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:39,000 Speaker 4: It makes you caring and special and that is so valuable. 648 00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:39,600 Speaker 2: I love that. 649 00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:42,960 Speaker 4: Ye I love that too, but I'm not gonna lie 650 00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:48,400 Speaker 4: my ADHD. It's a superpower. It's fantastic. It's also a burden, Like, 651 00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:52,160 Speaker 4: don't get me wrong. Like on one side, I'm like, oh, 652 00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:55,280 Speaker 4: it's why I'm as successful as I am, and it's 653 00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:56,840 Speaker 4: why I get to do what I do, and it's 654 00:28:56,920 --> 00:28:59,840 Speaker 4: why I you know, function well in all these spaces. 655 00:28:59,840 --> 00:29:02,200 Speaker 4: But like, my gosh, it is a burden on the 656 00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:04,520 Speaker 4: flip side. And I'm not disagreeing with you. This is 657 00:29:04,560 --> 00:29:07,600 Speaker 4: a really nice sentiment, but to sometimes say like, oh, 658 00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:10,240 Speaker 4: it's not a burden at all, Like, girlfriend, I'm stressed. 659 00:29:10,600 --> 00:29:12,320 Speaker 2: That is a burden, Like. 660 00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:14,080 Speaker 4: I just need to work through it, and I just 661 00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:16,040 Speaker 4: need a framework or a structure that works for me. 662 00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:19,320 Speaker 4: And it's work to then get to that framework or structure, 663 00:29:19,560 --> 00:29:21,920 Speaker 4: because it's so disheartening when you try something right, like 664 00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:23,600 Speaker 4: when you go through your phone and you set up 665 00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:26,760 Speaker 4: all the alarms so that everything happens, and then you 666 00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:30,080 Speaker 4: literally it just doesn't work, and you're like, nothing's gonna work. 667 00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:32,680 Speaker 4: You just need to like have a bit more grit, Yeah, 668 00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:35,000 Speaker 4: try and try again and find another solution, because I 669 00:29:35,000 --> 00:29:36,840 Speaker 4: promise there'll be one that fits. It just might not 670 00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:40,400 Speaker 4: be that one. Yeah, someone else said I feel like 671 00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:43,200 Speaker 4: this with my chores. I have ADHD and struggle with 672 00:29:43,320 --> 00:29:47,240 Speaker 4: day to day stuff ADHD can be exhausting. Do you 673 00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:50,800 Speaker 4: know what I'm seeing is that a lot of people 674 00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:55,080 Speaker 4: are saying, like I'm really struggling with it, medication is 675 00:29:55,080 --> 00:30:00,880 Speaker 4: not always the answer, going and seeing somebody and talking 676 00:30:01,040 --> 00:30:04,640 Speaker 4: about like ways to manage it. Yeah, like a therapist, 677 00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:10,000 Speaker 4: a psychologist, a psychiatrist, Like my entire life is different. 678 00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:13,440 Speaker 4: Like I'm talking about medication here because that's the one 679 00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:16,239 Speaker 4: thing that has really really worked for me. But just 680 00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:20,320 Speaker 4: like my days are different when I'm medicated and when 681 00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:24,000 Speaker 4: I'm not. My team you guys know, I walk into 682 00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:27,440 Speaker 4: the studio jess lgo you're not medicated today, I'd be 683 00:30:27,440 --> 00:30:29,840 Speaker 4: like pounded, you're not And. 684 00:30:29,800 --> 00:30:36,440 Speaker 2: I'm like halfway up the wall. Oh, you just had 685 00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:40,000 Speaker 2: a different handbag today to ADHD. 686 00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:43,040 Speaker 4: And I'm not saying that that's right or wrong, but 687 00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:46,160 Speaker 4: there are lots of different coping mechanisms, and if you're 688 00:30:46,200 --> 00:30:49,560 Speaker 4: really struggling, please reach out for help and support and 689 00:30:49,720 --> 00:30:51,680 Speaker 4: ask for it. Because when people are like, oh, I 690 00:30:51,680 --> 00:30:55,120 Speaker 4: feel like this with chores, like you don't have to 691 00:30:55,120 --> 00:30:57,480 Speaker 4: feel like that with chores. You don't have to feel 692 00:30:57,480 --> 00:30:59,480 Speaker 4: like that with your partner, Like you don't have to 693 00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:02,640 Speaker 4: feel like a burden, Like there are solutions that you 694 00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:04,040 Speaker 4: can look into, and lots of people are going to 695 00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:06,360 Speaker 4: be like, oh, I don't want medicate, You don't need medication. 696 00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:09,000 Speaker 4: There are lots of things that you can do that 697 00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:12,240 Speaker 4: would help here, but a lot of it involves professional intervention. 698 00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:14,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's been intersessional. Explore your options and if you 699 00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:16,360 Speaker 2: know whether or not you take them, it's up to you. 700 00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:19,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, someone else said, as an ADHD queen, as soon 701 00:31:19,040 --> 00:31:20,720 Speaker 4: as I get a bill, I have to pay it instantly. 702 00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:25,680 Speaker 4: Direct debit is also a god sent someone else said, automate, automate, automate, 703 00:31:25,720 --> 00:31:28,680 Speaker 4: and I put reminders for three times in my phone 704 00:31:28,680 --> 00:31:29,440 Speaker 4: for everything else. 705 00:31:29,640 --> 00:31:30,080 Speaker 2: Yes, you. 706 00:31:33,120 --> 00:31:37,200 Speaker 4: Mean someone else said, please be kind to yourself. Money 707 00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:39,920 Speaker 4: is hard for everyone at some time in life. It's 708 00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:42,600 Speaker 4: all in communication with your partner. I think that one's 709 00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:43,800 Speaker 4: the perfect one to end on. 710 00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:44,160 Speaker 2: Yeah. 711 00:31:44,240 --> 00:31:47,120 Speaker 4: Greatious, Oh my gosh, have the best day, guys. I'm 712 00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:50,000 Speaker 4: so glad to be back. If you haven't been following along, 713 00:31:50,160 --> 00:31:53,400 Speaker 4: we still have the thirty day Reset going on online 714 00:31:53,560 --> 00:31:55,640 Speaker 4: and it is available to sign up for for all 715 00:31:55,720 --> 00:31:58,440 Speaker 4: of January. 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