WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: Sleeping in separate beds... the beginning of the end? 😴 0:00:12.600 --> 0:00:14.520 Laura, come on. 0:00:18.800 --> 0:00:20.880 Australia, Allo, everybody. 0:00:22.040 --> 0:00:24.120 Do you know what it's a good day when you 0:00:24.280 --> 0:00:28.320 arrive alive to work. Yes, it's a good day, Laura. 0:00:28.640 --> 0:00:31.400 I think that was Socrates said that was it? Okay, 0:00:31.480 --> 0:00:33.800 it wasn't Laura Bird of the pickup. Socrates and Laura 0:00:33.840 --> 0:00:37.320 Bird my two favorite philosophers, the modern day philosopher. Okay, 0:00:37.440 --> 0:00:39.680 I almost and I don't want to sound dramatic everyone, 0:00:40.080 --> 0:00:42.200 but I almost died on the way to work this morning. 0:00:42.360 --> 0:00:45.720 Jesus and the well, okay, just brace yourselfs all right, 0:00:45.760 --> 0:00:47.800 picture this. I just dropped the kids off at daycare, 0:00:48.159 --> 0:00:50.239 and I had a coffee in one hand, I had 0:00:50.280 --> 0:00:51.360 my phone in the other hand. 0:00:51.560 --> 0:00:53.400 I wasn't paying a lot of attention to the road. 0:00:53.440 --> 0:00:57.280 Now I don't recommend yes, but wait, it was a 0:00:57.320 --> 0:01:00.319 pedestrian crossing, and so, believe it or not, I kind 0:01:00.320 --> 0:01:03.360 of assume that when you approach a pedestrian crossing, cars stop. 0:01:03.440 --> 0:01:05.319 It's like the Red Sea. You think they're just gonna 0:01:05.360 --> 0:01:07.880 part ways for you to cross it. Anyway, I'm crossing 0:01:07.920 --> 0:01:11.920 the road and then out of my periphery, I just 0:01:12.400 --> 0:01:15.400 it feels like the car that's coming is coming too fast. 0:01:15.520 --> 0:01:17.919 Like, I was like, surely not driving. 0:01:18.120 --> 0:01:19.520 Yeah, Like it's coming at me and I can see 0:01:19.560 --> 0:01:20.480 this is anyway. 0:01:20.520 --> 0:01:23.480 I look up and there it is, this ninety year 0:01:23.520 --> 0:01:26.760 old lady in a Mercedes with all her windows down, 0:01:27.120 --> 0:01:29.240 fanging it straight across a pitestri in crossing. 0:01:30.000 --> 0:01:31.640 And I was like, this is one of two things. 0:01:31.959 --> 0:01:34.960 She either probably shouldn't have a license, or she has 0:01:35.000 --> 0:01:36.600 such little time left she doesn't care. 0:01:36.800 --> 0:01:39.440 Yeah, like I'm not stopping for anyone. She's given up. 0:01:39.440 --> 0:01:41.480 Although that'd be a great eulogy Laura Burn take and 0:01:41.520 --> 0:01:43.920 a great Daily Mail article Laura Burn taken out by 0:01:44.120 --> 0:01:46.840 botox ridden ninety years old in Mercedes bed I. 0:01:46.920 --> 0:01:49.040 Can't see it and hasn't done a license retest in 0:01:49.080 --> 0:01:49.800 twenty five years. 0:01:49.840 --> 0:01:52.080 Laura, you can't just make assumptions like that. 0:01:52.160 --> 0:01:54.520 You can't just assume a car is going to stop, 0:01:54.520 --> 0:01:56.080 Like you can't have your head down in your phone 0:01:56.160 --> 0:01:56.720 and just be. 0:01:56.760 --> 0:01:57.640 Like, ah, I trust them. 0:01:57.680 --> 0:01:59.440 I thought you were gonna say, I can't make assumptions that 0:01:59.480 --> 0:02:01.000 she was an nice and I was like, yeah, that 0:02:01.040 --> 0:02:01.600 was a bit rough. 0:02:01.640 --> 0:02:05.160 She might have been eighty five, Yeah, yeah, okay. 0:02:05.200 --> 0:02:08.560 On the show today, speaking of near death experiences, Margo 0:02:08.680 --> 0:02:12.280 Robbie today and Greta Gerwick, the stars behind the Barbie movie. 0:02:12.520 --> 0:02:14.800 I mean their careers have almost died. The Oscar nominations 0:02:14.840 --> 0:02:17.079 have come out. They were snubbed. We have a lot 0:02:17.120 --> 0:02:17.560 to talk. 0:02:17.440 --> 0:02:19.600 About, Rob Margo, Robbie. 0:02:19.639 --> 0:02:24.480 That's good from you, brit Actually Margo Robi in Barbie. 0:02:24.680 --> 0:02:27.080 They got fried on the Barbie I don't know. The 0:02:27.080 --> 0:02:28.560 only way to get to the bottom of the Oscar 0:02:28.600 --> 0:02:30.880 nominations and the snubbery is to play the pick up, Favorite, 0:02:30.880 --> 0:02:32.480 pickup or put down. So we're going to start the 0:02:32.480 --> 0:02:34.919 show with that next right around Australia, Let's start the 0:02:34.960 --> 0:02:38.920 show now today. If you're not aware, the Academy have 0:02:39.040 --> 0:02:42.440 ruled their iron fist and the Oscar nominations are out 0:02:42.919 --> 0:02:44.919 for twenty twenty four or for the films we enjoyed 0:02:44.919 --> 0:02:48.400 in twenty twenty three. There is a lot of controversy 0:02:48.639 --> 0:02:51.160 online and we will get to the snubbery of it all. 0:02:51.200 --> 0:02:53.040 But we thought the only way to really tackle this 0:02:53.120 --> 0:02:55.760 head on is to play. Really in the political and 0:02:55.760 --> 0:02:59.360 cultural landscape of Australia, the pickup segment, Pickup put down 0:02:59.440 --> 0:03:01.720 is how the country decides what is right and what 0:03:01.800 --> 0:03:02.120 is wrong. 0:03:02.200 --> 0:03:04.600 That's absolutely the limus. It's kind of like rock paper 0:03:04.639 --> 0:03:05.320 scissors total. 0:03:05.360 --> 0:03:07.040 It's like the sixty minutes of the modern age. 0:03:07.080 --> 0:03:10.840 We are the law. 0:03:11.600 --> 0:03:13.919 Okay, I'm gonna throw you some topics. Girls. 0:03:13.960 --> 0:03:15.680 It is your job to go pick up like you're 0:03:15.680 --> 0:03:17.480 into it or put down you hate it. 0:03:17.560 --> 0:03:17.920 Okay. 0:03:18.800 --> 0:03:27.440 Margo Robbie not getting a Best Actress nominations at the Oscars. 0:03:26.000 --> 0:03:33.280 What, Brittany, You can not sit on the fence, hick one, Brittany. 0:03:33.280 --> 0:03:34.280 It's one or the other. 0:03:35.160 --> 0:03:37.000 But I have great reasoning for both. 0:03:37.320 --> 0:03:40.760 Why because she was snubbed? Margot Robbie did not get nominated. 0:03:41.360 --> 0:03:43.800 Ryan Gosling famously did for his role as Can, but 0:03:43.880 --> 0:03:45.840 Barbie did not know it was her movie. 0:03:46.080 --> 0:03:47.840 Okay, all right, this is where I'm sitting. 0:03:48.360 --> 0:03:51.720 I would normally say I would understand, and there wouldn't 0:03:51.720 --> 0:03:56.280 be so much uproar if she wasn't nominated, Because the Oscars, 0:03:56.320 --> 0:03:57.880 I feel like are the creme de la creme, right, 0:03:57.960 --> 0:04:01.680 Like we're talking Nicole Kidman, Julia Roberts, Kate Winslett, some 0:04:01.760 --> 0:04:03.000 of the Helen Mirren like. 0:04:03.160 --> 0:04:04.120 Huge, huge names. 0:04:04.520 --> 0:04:07.880 So if it was just that she wasn't nominated, wouldn't 0:04:07.880 --> 0:04:09.200 be the end of the world. I'd be like, Okay, 0:04:09.200 --> 0:04:10.800 you've got time, you're a great actress. But it's not 0:04:10.840 --> 0:04:13.280 the end of the world. The fact that makes this 0:04:13.600 --> 0:04:17.760 so shitty is that it's almost ironic that in a 0:04:17.800 --> 0:04:20.400 film about feminism that was the biggest grossing film of 0:04:20.400 --> 0:04:22.320 all time with Greta go Wing and Mungo Robbie, the 0:04:22.360 --> 0:04:25.440 person that was nominated was the man Ryan Gosling. 0:04:25.640 --> 0:04:28.120 That is where it is show. I completely agree. 0:04:28.160 --> 0:04:30.080 Also, Ryan has just come out and he said, of 0:04:30.120 --> 0:04:32.760 course he's happy about his own nomination, but he said, 0:04:33.040 --> 0:04:36.359 without Ken, there is no Barbie, which would mean that 0:04:36.400 --> 0:04:39.000 there is no Margo Robbie and she I think she 0:04:39.040 --> 0:04:39.880 did an amazing job. 0:04:39.920 --> 0:04:42.240 Look, I know, look, I'm not a movie buff. 0:04:42.680 --> 0:04:45.760 I don't know what constitutes great acting, but I think 0:04:45.800 --> 0:04:47.760 if you're going to have the highest grossing movie of 0:04:47.800 --> 0:04:50.560 the entire year, surely that makes you a half decent actress. 0:04:50.640 --> 0:04:53.000 No, I agree completely. And the snubbery of Gretagwig, I 0:04:53.040 --> 0:04:54.760 mean she put this on the map. That is the 0:04:54.760 --> 0:04:56.480 definition of brilliance in directing. 0:04:56.600 --> 0:04:57.080 Let's move on. 0:04:57.440 --> 0:05:02.520 Okay, what about this Oppenheimer getting third eighteen nominations? 0:05:05.040 --> 0:05:07.359 Pick Up, pick up. I haven't even watched it. 0:05:07.400 --> 0:05:09.400 Okay, I think I'm the only person in the whole 0:05:09.400 --> 0:05:11.840 country who hasn't seen the film yet, but I heard 0:05:11.839 --> 0:05:13.920 a lot about it, and apparently it's very good, So 0:05:13.960 --> 0:05:15.839 I'm gonna say it seems like it's well deserved. 0:05:16.600 --> 0:05:18.680 What do you think, Britte literally the same. 0:05:18.720 --> 0:05:19.920 I haven't seen it, but I've read a lot of 0:05:20.040 --> 0:05:21.320 articles saying it was brilliant. 0:05:21.640 --> 0:05:24.240 Okay, well, maybe this is where I can. I've watched it. 0:05:24.240 --> 0:05:27.640 It's about the creation of the atomic yeah, okay, and 0:05:27.680 --> 0:05:29.640 it was very cinematically good, but it just didn't have 0:05:29.680 --> 0:05:32.200 the cultural impact. So I think I think Barbie should 0:05:32.200 --> 0:05:34.280 have got more nominations than Oppenheimer. That's my hot tank. 0:05:34.400 --> 0:05:36.400 Do you think that this is a conspiracy, like the 0:05:36.720 --> 0:05:39.640 male films versus the female film Oh, of course, of course. 0:05:39.480 --> 0:05:42.440 There is one. Yeah, that is symptomatic of the whole industry. 0:05:42.680 --> 0:05:44.920 Yeah, I don't think that's a conspiracy. Yeah, I think 0:05:44.920 --> 0:05:45.480 that's fact. 0:05:46.200 --> 0:05:46.440 Yeah. 0:05:46.520 --> 0:05:48.440 Martin Score says he becoming the oldest person to get 0:05:48.480 --> 0:05:50.960 nominated for Best Director at the ripe old age of 0:05:51.000 --> 0:05:53.200 eighty one. 0:05:54.520 --> 0:05:54.919 Pick up. 0:05:55.960 --> 0:05:59.039 But also, I think at eighty one it's okay to retire, 0:05:59.400 --> 0:06:01.120 Like if you want to take a break and have 0:06:01.200 --> 0:06:03.479 a nap, you're allowed to. I do not plan on 0:06:03.520 --> 0:06:05.760 doing anything that is that sensational when I'm eighty one. 0:06:06.040 --> 0:06:07.160 I'll be on holidays. 0:06:07.680 --> 0:06:08.000 Oh. 0:06:08.240 --> 0:06:10.919 I think it's absolutely incredible that people are kicking like 0:06:10.960 --> 0:06:13.479 the ultimate goal in their industry at that age in 0:06:13.520 --> 0:06:16.679 their eighties, when most people couldn't possibly dream of even 0:06:16.760 --> 0:06:18.360 being able to work in the industry. 0:06:18.480 --> 0:06:20.680 And he's like plucking the fruit from the top of 0:06:20.680 --> 0:06:21.039 the tree. 0:06:21.120 --> 0:06:21.880 I completely agree. 0:06:21.920 --> 0:06:24.160 My Olmer gets lost in the aisles of audi at 0:06:24.160 --> 0:06:26.520 eighty one, and if Martin Score says he can still 0:06:26.520 --> 0:06:29.520 get nominated for an Oscar, I'm all for that. 0:06:29.680 --> 0:06:31.719 I mean, there's a real discrepancy between an eighty one 0:06:31.800 --> 0:06:33.880 year old, isn't there. There's some that are still kicking goals, 0:06:33.880 --> 0:06:35.280 and then there's some people who are feeling a. 0:06:35.200 --> 0:06:37.159 Bit more elderly, and there's some that have a death 0:06:37.160 --> 0:06:39.640 wish out for Laura burn On the pedestrian crossings of 0:06:39.680 --> 0:06:40.159 the country. 0:06:40.400 --> 0:06:42.440 All right, everyone, Well, that's pick up put down. 0:06:42.480 --> 0:06:46.960 I think that segment is perfect to decide Australia's big moments. 0:06:46.640 --> 0:06:48.920 And what was the decision that we're completely sitting on 0:06:48.960 --> 0:06:50.400 the fence and that brute is not decisive? 0:06:50.440 --> 0:06:51.440 Is that what the decision was? 0:06:51.640 --> 0:06:52.880 We love Margot Robbie and we. 0:06:52.800 --> 0:06:54.040 Do love her anyway. 0:06:54.080 --> 0:06:56.320 Look, coming up, we have one thousand dollars to give 0:06:56.360 --> 0:06:59.040 away for Office Works and that is to one very 0:06:59.160 --> 0:07:01.720 lucky and also very smart little kid who can answer 0:07:01.960 --> 0:07:02.599 our quiz. 0:07:02.720 --> 0:07:04.440 Yeah, if you're a kid listening, you want a thousand 0:07:04.480 --> 0:07:06.280 bucks or back to school? Thirteen one oh six five 0:07:06.320 --> 0:07:09.760 calls on the pickup. Heye, listen, we are looking after you. 0:07:10.040 --> 0:07:11.760 If you're a kid listening or a parent, back to 0:07:11.800 --> 0:07:13.280 school's coming up real quick, very soon. 0:07:13.360 --> 0:07:15.200 Laurie, you know better than anyone. You've got two kids. 0:07:15.240 --> 0:07:17.160 I have two kids, but they're not in school. They're 0:07:17.160 --> 0:07:19.520 only in preschool, so they're not going back. 0:07:19.720 --> 0:07:23.160 Mitchie always say what someone has kids unless they're of 0:07:23.240 --> 0:07:25.200 school age, the whole school. 0:07:25.280 --> 0:07:27.240 I'm a different generation to you. Someone's got kids. I 0:07:27.280 --> 0:07:28.400 assume they're all doing this thing. 0:07:28.440 --> 0:07:28.760 Everyone. 0:07:29.520 --> 0:07:31.960 Yeah, anyway, listen, we know kids listening are going back 0:07:31.960 --> 0:07:33.240 to school. That's why we are doing this. 0:07:37.960 --> 0:07:38.560 Yes, we have a. 0:07:38.560 --> 0:07:41.679 Thousand dollars cash up for grabs, all thanks to Office Works. 0:07:41.720 --> 0:07:42.320 If you want it. 0:07:42.520 --> 0:07:45.160 Thirteen one oh six five we're gonna quiz the kids 0:07:45.160 --> 0:07:48.160 of Australia with three very simple questions. 0:07:48.320 --> 0:07:50.800 I'm loving this, Like if kids are calling out, they're answering. 0:07:50.800 --> 0:07:51.760 It's the smartest ones. 0:07:51.800 --> 0:07:51.920 You know. 0:07:51.960 --> 0:07:53.640 If you think you've got a really smart kid, or 0:07:53.640 --> 0:07:56.400 you're a kid listening and you think you're particularly good 0:07:56.440 --> 0:07:58.560 at answering trivia questions, which I am not. 0:07:58.760 --> 0:07:59.880 That's who we want to hear from. 0:08:00.040 --> 0:08:02.440 Should we Should we meet today's contestant girls? 0:08:02.520 --> 0:08:06.360 Oh yeah, let's go today playing and joining the pick up. 0:08:09.240 --> 0:08:12.800 She just finished here four, knows all the flags for 0:08:12.880 --> 0:08:14.920 countries around the world and. 0:08:14.960 --> 0:08:16.120 Loves the boogie. 0:08:16.440 --> 0:08:17.920 Please welcome to the pick up. 0:08:18.240 --> 0:08:22.600 Levea oo via kind of Veya? 0:08:22.720 --> 0:08:25.840 Okay, let us know what is your favorite subject at school? 0:08:26.720 --> 0:08:27.400 Geography? 0:08:27.680 --> 0:08:31.040 Oh? Guy, I reckon that's going to come in handy 0:08:31.120 --> 0:08:32.120 to one of these questions. 0:08:32.160 --> 0:08:34.640 Are you feeling nervous? Levea for the thousand bucks? 0:08:35.080 --> 0:08:36.040 Kind yeah? 0:08:36.080 --> 0:08:37.920 Okay, Well, let's let's start the quiz. 0:08:38.000 --> 0:08:42.080 Let's jump right in with question number one, Nevea, how 0:08:42.120 --> 0:08:44.760 many legs does an octopus have? 0:08:45.400 --> 0:08:45.640 Hey? 0:08:46.679 --> 0:08:48.000 Oh, she's good, She's very good. 0:08:48.320 --> 0:08:48.880 She's good. 0:08:49.240 --> 0:08:51.160 All right, we've got one off the rank not even 0:08:51.200 --> 0:08:52.160 any hesitation. 0:08:52.800 --> 0:08:55.479 Okay, Neveah, Well, you said you were good at geography, 0:08:55.559 --> 0:08:56.920 so I'm gonna put you to the test. 0:08:56.960 --> 0:09:02.200 Okay, okay, what continent is Kenya in? 0:09:03.320 --> 0:09:03.880 Oh? 0:09:03.960 --> 0:09:07.400 She's much That was good. 0:09:07.440 --> 0:09:09.720 Geographies are bread and butter. She's a pro. 0:09:09.920 --> 0:09:11.280 Let's hope that you're good at colors. 0:09:12.040 --> 0:09:14.439 What color do you get if you mix red and 0:09:14.520 --> 0:09:15.360 blue together? 0:09:16.080 --> 0:09:16.520 Purple? 0:09:17.520 --> 0:09:18.439 God? 0:09:18.920 --> 0:09:22.240 We know, too easy? Do your child? 0:09:22.800 --> 0:09:25.520 What a thousand dollars to spend at office works? 0:09:25.880 --> 0:09:29.640 Oh my gosh, thank you so much, so exciting. 0:09:30.720 --> 0:09:31.880 What are you going to spend. 0:09:32.120 --> 0:09:35.679 I think I'm going to spend it on stationary for school. 0:09:36.080 --> 0:09:37.240 That's very sensible. 0:09:37.360 --> 0:09:39.480 Also, I reckon you should do a detour down the 0:09:39.480 --> 0:09:41.800 loly Islet's at the back of office works. They sell 0:09:41.840 --> 0:09:43.800 it in bulk. Could be nice to throw a few 0:09:43.800 --> 0:09:44.800 of those in the cart as well. 0:09:44.960 --> 0:09:46.959 Yeah, thank you so much. 0:09:47.240 --> 0:09:50.200 No waries all thanks to office Works who won't be 0:09:50.200 --> 0:09:52.680 beaten on back to school prices with their price beat 0:09:52.720 --> 0:09:56.320 guarantee exclusions apply. See the website for details. Hey, another 0:09:56.360 --> 0:09:58.120 thousand dollars cash up for grabs tomorrow. 0:09:58.280 --> 0:10:00.240 I'm loving doing this every day. Yeah, there was a 0:10:00.240 --> 0:10:03.280 corpor tomorrow. Okay, coming up. I want to know, do 0:10:03.360 --> 0:10:06.679 you think that if if you and your partner happily 0:10:06.679 --> 0:10:08.800 married or you're in a long term relationship and you 0:10:08.880 --> 0:10:11.760 start sleeping in separate beds, is that kind of an 0:10:11.760 --> 0:10:15.480 indication of the beginning of the end? Asking for a friend, 0:10:16.040 --> 0:10:16.360 not for. 0:10:16.320 --> 0:10:20.000 Me, I swear, all right, I know where this is going. Yeah, 0:10:20.040 --> 0:10:22.200 me too, all right, coming right up next on the pickup. 0:10:23.360 --> 0:10:25.960 Okay, I need to poll the country on this one. 0:10:26.280 --> 0:10:27.400 You need to call me, let me know. 0:10:27.480 --> 0:10:30.440 Thirteen one oh six five do you think that sleeping 0:10:30.480 --> 0:10:33.160 in separate beds to your partner is or indicates the 0:10:33.200 --> 0:10:33.880 beginning of the end? 0:10:34.200 --> 0:10:35.280 I got big feelings on this. 0:10:36.720 --> 0:10:38.079 I think I'm frightened to hear them much. 0:10:38.120 --> 0:10:38.320 Okay. 0:10:38.320 --> 0:10:40.920 The reason for this is recently, I like, during our 0:10:40.920 --> 0:10:44.520 holiday break, I had pneumonia, and you guys know, I've 0:10:44.520 --> 0:10:47.160 been coughing a lot, like on off air, I have 0:10:47.280 --> 0:10:50.160 this real cough, and especially when I was really sick, 0:10:50.240 --> 0:10:53.160 and in the depths of it, my beautiful husband, Maddie 0:10:53.200 --> 0:10:56.160 Jay he decided that maybe I was keeping him up 0:10:56.160 --> 0:10:57.840 a little bit too much during the night, which was 0:10:57.880 --> 0:10:58.600 fair at the. 0:10:58.520 --> 0:11:01.360 Start, totally totally fair, totally fair. He was like, babe, 0:11:01.360 --> 0:11:02.000 you're really, really sick. 0:11:02.040 --> 0:11:03.240 I'm gonna go and I'm gonna grab some of the 0:11:03.240 --> 0:11:05.400 stuff and I'll sleep downstairs tonight. You don't mind if 0:11:05.440 --> 0:11:07.880 I sleep downstairs. So that was about three weeks ago, 0:11:08.200 --> 0:11:12.120 and then slowly he's sleeping downstairs. Has progressed to he 0:11:12.160 --> 0:11:15.840 took his toilet trees downstairs. He took his favorite pillow downstairs. 0:11:15.920 --> 0:11:18.239 Oh no, he took some linen downstairs. 0:11:18.640 --> 0:11:19.240 He's moved. 0:11:20.080 --> 0:11:24.800 He's got a wardrobe. I haven't seen it for a week. No, okay, 0:11:24.840 --> 0:11:28.320 it's gotten to the point now where I'm pretty much better. 0:11:28.360 --> 0:11:30.960 Like I'm very very close to being better. I'm definitely 0:11:31.000 --> 0:11:33.080 not contagious. We could be sleeping in the same bed. 0:11:33.559 --> 0:11:36.080 And last night I said to him, like, hey, honey, 0:11:36.080 --> 0:11:38.520 when do you think you're gonna come back to sleep 0:11:38.679 --> 0:11:41.680 in our bed together? And I was expecting him to 0:11:41.720 --> 0:11:44.240 say tonight or tomorrow night, like I was expecting kind 0:11:44.280 --> 0:11:47.640 of an immediate answer, and he goes, whoa, It's like 0:11:47.679 --> 0:11:49.960 it's really nice down there. I don't I don't get 0:11:50.000 --> 0:11:52.120 woken up, but all during the night I've I'm getting 0:11:52.160 --> 0:11:54.319 really deep sleep. I like to get up in the 0:11:54.360 --> 0:11:56.400 morning and go for a run and usually that wakes 0:11:56.440 --> 0:11:58.480 you up, Like, do you think it's a problem if 0:11:58.480 --> 0:12:01.720 I stayed down there a bit longer? Now I have 0:12:01.840 --> 0:12:04.760 gotten the impression that a little bit longer might be 0:12:04.800 --> 0:12:06.400 a bit longer than what I would like, because I 0:12:06.440 --> 0:12:08.240 think it's quite important for couples to sleep in the 0:12:08.240 --> 0:12:10.640 same bed together, like I need and would like him 0:12:10.679 --> 0:12:11.920 to be next to me, But. 0:12:11.920 --> 0:12:14.600 I think he wants to stay downstairs. And do you 0:12:14.640 --> 0:12:15.000 think that this? 0:12:15.760 --> 0:12:17.880 Does this mean that there's something wrong or is this 0:12:17.960 --> 0:12:20.320 just a new chapter in our relationship now? I. 0:12:20.640 --> 0:12:22.199 Laura, I get what you're saying. 0:12:22.240 --> 0:12:25.120 I get that you want to be in the same bed, 0:12:25.520 --> 0:12:27.160 but I think there's more to this one. I'm sure 0:12:27.200 --> 0:12:28.920 Matt wants to be in the same bed with you too, 0:12:29.120 --> 0:12:31.040 but I think it's more like it's further away from 0:12:31.040 --> 0:12:33.000 the kid's bedroom so he doesn't have to do those 0:12:33.000 --> 0:12:34.600 get ups in the middle of the night. That's what 0:12:34.640 --> 0:12:37.600 it is. But all jokes are signed. I don't think 0:12:37.600 --> 0:12:39.719 it's the worst thing to sleep into separate beds, Like, 0:12:39.760 --> 0:12:42.120 there's nothing worse than if you are getting a bad 0:12:42.240 --> 0:12:44.120 night sleep, especially if one of you coughin your guts 0:12:44.160 --> 0:12:44.760 up the whole night. 0:12:45.080 --> 0:12:47.640 I think it's pretty normal. I think it's offensive. I'm like, 0:12:47.720 --> 0:12:48.920 how are we here already? 0:12:48.960 --> 0:12:49.360 Like at what? 0:12:49.720 --> 0:12:52.120 I am offended that you want to move away from me? 0:12:52.280 --> 0:12:54.960 And yes I was sick, but care for me, love me, 0:12:55.040 --> 0:12:58.360 I need you. And now he's remember you're dollying on 0:12:58.440 --> 0:13:01.720 his face. Why are you offended? But he's offended? I 0:13:01.760 --> 0:13:03.960 mean you should have been turned on by this, you know, 0:13:04.000 --> 0:13:04.959 for better orf or worse. 0:13:05.320 --> 0:13:08.480 I just think that's a discussion, right, It's not just 0:13:08.520 --> 0:13:11.160 you just don't migrate downstairs to a different bedroom. Surely 0:13:11.200 --> 0:13:13.600 you have a discussion first, and you both have to 0:13:13.600 --> 0:13:14.600 be on the same page. 0:13:14.760 --> 0:13:17.200 No, I think it's the death of a relationship. I 0:13:17.200 --> 0:13:19.320 think if you're sleeping in separate bits, you haven't even 0:13:19.360 --> 0:13:19.880 been married. 0:13:20.000 --> 0:13:21.200 You've been married? What just a year? 0:13:21.320 --> 0:13:21.719 Just a year? 0:13:21.800 --> 0:13:23.199 That's done. The marriage is done. 0:13:24.080 --> 0:13:26.520 No, No, in my eyes, you have I'm sorry, but 0:13:26.559 --> 0:13:29.240 you and Mattie j Laura, that is really that's I 0:13:29.320 --> 0:13:31.120 think that's really sad. The reason you want to be 0:13:31.160 --> 0:13:32.880 with someone your whole life so you can share these 0:13:32.920 --> 0:13:33.679 intimate moments. 0:13:33.720 --> 0:13:36.800 What vow did you make at the wedding? Through sickness 0:13:36.920 --> 0:13:38.040 and in health? And in health? 0:13:38.120 --> 0:13:40.160 Remind him the better or worse, better or for worse, 0:13:40.400 --> 0:13:42.680 and then I'll coff in his mouth say why don't 0:13:42.679 --> 0:13:43.320 you love me more? 0:13:43.600 --> 0:13:44.600 Maybe no, I don't know. 0:13:44.840 --> 0:13:47.640 Okay, part of me I was okay with it at 0:13:47.679 --> 0:13:49.640 the start, and now I feel offended. And I want 0:13:49.640 --> 0:13:51.520 to know, what do you guys think? Do you think 0:13:51.559 --> 0:13:52.880 that this is the beginning of the end. 0:13:52.920 --> 0:13:53.960 Like a snappole? Yeah? 0:13:53.960 --> 0:13:57.640 Absolutely, all right, listen, maybe couples that are living like this, 0:13:57.679 --> 0:13:58.320 because many do. 0:13:58.440 --> 0:14:00.199 Thirteen one oh sixty five. Let us know. 0:14:00.280 --> 0:14:02.760 Britta and I clearly have our opinions, but let's see 0:14:02.760 --> 0:14:03.920 what the country thinks next. 0:14:03.920 --> 0:14:05.840 On the pickup, we're having. 0:14:05.640 --> 0:14:10.280 A pretty heated discussion here on potentially if Laura's marriage 0:14:10.320 --> 0:14:13.959 to husband Matty Jay has ended or is on its 0:14:13.960 --> 0:14:18.640 way to ending. Laura and Maddie are sleeping in separate rooms. Now, 0:14:18.679 --> 0:14:21.280 that's because Laura was sick, and it's a bit on 0:14:21.280 --> 0:14:24.160 the fence on is this the beginning of the end? 0:14:24.600 --> 0:14:26.920 Okay, it's not the beginning of the end. It's just 0:14:26.960 --> 0:14:30.280 had some flow on effect. And originally there was a 0:14:30.320 --> 0:14:32.600 reason why matt was sleeping in a different bedroom, but 0:14:32.640 --> 0:14:34.640 now I think he's just enjoying it. Because you know, 0:14:34.680 --> 0:14:37.400 he says he gets better sleep there, which I understand, 0:14:37.720 --> 0:14:39.320 but I like to be cuddled through the night. 0:14:39.400 --> 0:14:42.640 And I want to fam you this pathetic gripping love. 0:14:42.720 --> 0:14:44.320 It's over. It's over, Mitch. 0:14:44.440 --> 0:14:47.200 It isn't okay, it isn't. And I know what you think. 0:14:47.320 --> 0:14:49.400 It is not an indication that there is anything wrong 0:14:49.400 --> 0:14:51.880 in a relationship. And there are so many people. My 0:14:51.920 --> 0:14:56.160 grandparents married seventy two years, deeply in love, Brest in peace, Papa, 0:14:56.400 --> 0:15:00.000 but they slept in different rooms for the last fifty years. 0:15:00.280 --> 0:15:02.520 So like, I'm also so single, So who am I 0:15:02.640 --> 0:15:05.360 to even true even jump in. 0:15:05.400 --> 0:15:06.800 So that's what we're doing. We're polling the nation. 0:15:06.880 --> 0:15:09.000 We want to we want to see where the country 0:15:09.000 --> 0:15:12.200 stands on whether or not Laura and Maddie Jay's relationship 0:15:12.240 --> 0:15:13.960 is over. Is it okay to sleep in the same bed? 0:15:14.320 --> 0:15:16.680 Tash on thirteen one or sixty five? Where do you stand? 0:15:17.440 --> 0:15:21.040 I think you should sleep in the same bed. I 0:15:21.080 --> 0:15:25.840 think sleeping in different beds can sometimes lead to lack 0:15:25.880 --> 0:15:30.040 of intimacy. And also, if you're at work all day 0:15:30.040 --> 0:15:32.280 and you don't see your partner, you just go home, 0:15:32.640 --> 0:15:35.960 cook dinner or do whatever, and then you go off 0:15:36.000 --> 0:15:39.280 to different bedrooms. That can also put a strain on 0:15:39.680 --> 0:15:43.440 the relationships in that sense as well. You're not with 0:15:43.560 --> 0:15:44.400 each other as much. 0:15:44.480 --> 0:15:48.920 And no, no, you're unconscious anyways. Do you have kids? 0:15:48.960 --> 0:15:50.040 Do you have any kids? 0:15:50.720 --> 0:15:50.920 No? 0:15:51.040 --> 0:15:51.920 I don't have kids. 0:15:52.040 --> 0:15:55.040 Okay, I have two kids, and I feel like that 0:15:55.080 --> 0:15:57.600 that has already the lack of intimacy is already there, 0:15:57.760 --> 0:16:00.040 and I blame them, but I love them dearly, but 0:16:00.120 --> 0:16:01.160 it's not happening anyway. 0:16:02.120 --> 0:16:04.960 Okay, that's one vote to start at the end. Oh yeah, 0:16:05.040 --> 0:16:07.520 simone thirteen, one oh sixty five. What's your opinion on 0:16:07.600 --> 0:16:08.720 sleeping in separate beds? 0:16:09.000 --> 0:16:11.200 But no, no, no, if you're married, you married, you're 0:16:11.240 --> 0:16:12.160 not house mate. 0:16:12.320 --> 0:16:15.560 Okay, smart, Wait wait, wait, I have a question, Tom, 0:16:15.640 --> 0:16:17.800