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Speaker 1: Got an interesting question for you, guys, certainly something that's

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Speaker 1: not spoken about a lot.

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Speaker 2: Are you afray sexual?

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Speaker 1: And again music's are obviously didn't listen to me the

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Speaker 1: first time, Joe, that's not the right music, because a

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Speaker 1: phrase sexual is someone that once they start liking someone,

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Speaker 1: they want to have less of that.

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Speaker 3: It just sounds extraordinary and debilitating.

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Speaker 1: Pretty fascinating stuff. But look, so if you're a phrase sexual,

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Speaker 1: love to hear from you. But the thing that Woody

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Speaker 1: and I could relate to with this is something that

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Speaker 1: guys definitely don't.

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Speaker 2: Talk about a lot.

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Speaker 1: But when you really like someone as a guy, often

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Speaker 1: you do struggle to turn on the lightsaber.

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Speaker 3: Well, you get a performance anxiety because because you actually

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Speaker 3: do really care about how you go, you put a

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Speaker 3: lot of pressure on yourself and that's a bit counterintuitive to.

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Speaker 2: Well, if you want to have gland to gland combat.

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Speaker 1: Well, not something that you can that you can actually

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Speaker 1: engage in when when that's not happening.

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Speaker 2: So look, thirty one or six five guys is the

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Speaker 2: phone number, and I think it's a good thing to

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Speaker 2: talk about it. I would love to hear.

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Speaker 1: I mean, obviously, as two heterosexuals, we haven't been on

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Speaker 1: the end of being the other person who's witnessed the disappointment. Sure,

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Speaker 1: So I want to hear from people who obviously you

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Speaker 1: have been with guys before the guy or girl, what

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Speaker 1: does actually mean?

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Speaker 2: Because for me, I've said that to girls two or

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Speaker 2: three times in a row.

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Speaker 1: Hey, look, because I really like you and had actually

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Speaker 1: struggled three times, and I remember at the end of

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Speaker 1: the third ones just like, well are you lying to me? Like,

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Speaker 1: what does it mean? Are you disappointed? Does it hurt

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Speaker 1: their chances? Do you take it personally? If you're on

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Speaker 1: the receiving end of that? Vanessa?

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Speaker 2: Is a phrase sexual? So Vanessa, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for calling.

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Speaker 4: Hey, boys, how are.

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Speaker 5: You going good?

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Speaker 3: Can you run us through? What is it like being

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Speaker 3: a phrase sexual?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 5: Unbelievably confusing? So I'm being honest. So listening to some

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Speaker 5: of the things people have actually spoken about previously on

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Speaker 5: your show, just then they all talk about performance anxiety

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Speaker 5: and that's what's causing the issue. And I can tell

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Speaker 5: you it has absolutely nothing to do with that. It

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Speaker 5: is just like your body has a no reaction to

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Speaker 5: sexual I am I allowed to say that way, but yeah,

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Speaker 5: reaction to the activity happening and my whole life every time, Like,

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Speaker 5: I find it much easier to have a one night

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Speaker 5: stand with a guy than it is to actually hold

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Speaker 5: my partner's hands. So as time goes on, my relationships

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Speaker 5: basically work as Benjamin button and go and revert.

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Speaker 3: Oh my, wow, do you explain that to someone? So

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Speaker 3: if you have an like Veneza, if you had an

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Speaker 3: amazing first date with someone, you didn't sleep with them,

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Speaker 3: and as you said, the first time is good, what

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Speaker 3: do you then say? You know, as you're starting to

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Speaker 3: care for them or like them, what do you tell them?

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Speaker 5: I have developed almost every excuse underneath the sun, you know,

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Speaker 5: because it takes it takes so much to understand this

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Speaker 5: for yourself, Like what's going on? How do I explain

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Speaker 5: it to someone else? If I don't need no? And

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Speaker 5: I only discovered the word proisexual a year and a

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Speaker 5: half ago and it was like a light bulb went

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Speaker 5: But like, basically, the only way I can ever explain

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Speaker 5: it to a heterosexual is you know, could you ever

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Speaker 5: find yourself sexually attracted to a dude when push came

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Speaker 5: to shots? You know, wow, see you could find someone

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Speaker 5: who spatically attracted me and connected to them, but that

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Speaker 5: moment comes, you're just not gonna You're not going to.

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Speaker 2: Sleep, is that? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Wow Vanessa. You so you're with someone now, Vanessa?

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Speaker 5: No.

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Speaker 1: No, So to constantly reinvent, like, is there any way

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Speaker 1: that they could come in with like a full prosthetic

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Speaker 1: mask on and just pretend to.

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Speaker 2: Be someone else, I've never tried it.

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Speaker 1: Maybe ideas get one of those glasses with the pistache

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Speaker 1: calling back to my own.

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Speaker 2: Let's go to renee. You think it's insulting, Hi.

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Speaker 4: Yes I do. I've been with my partner for one

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Speaker 4: year now, and when we actually started seeing each other,

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Speaker 4: the first time we got close like that, he failed

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Speaker 4: to perform and he kind of made the excuse, Oh,

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Speaker 4: I'm just on pain killers. I've hurt my shoulders, so

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Speaker 4: that's that's why. And then the second time, same issue.

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Speaker 4: He couldn't perform either, and he kept apologizing and I

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Speaker 4: had to stop and ask him. I was like, look,

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Speaker 4: not gonna lie. I am extremely insulted. You find me

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Speaker 4: attracted like me? And he said He's like, no, I find.

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Speaker 2: You that hot.

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Speaker 4: Tout it down, but I can't. It's just not happening

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Speaker 4: because I'm really really nervous, and then time coming again

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Speaker 4: didn't happen, and that was kind of it. I was like, oh,

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Speaker 4: I just I feel really insulted because here I am

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Speaker 4: exposing myself. You're telling me that it's because of that reason.

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Speaker 4: But it's not like that anymore. We finally got comfortable

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Speaker 4: with each other. But from a girl's point of view, yes,

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Speaker 4: so insult.

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Speaker 2: Oh that is just the wrong response.

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Speaker 1: Enough. Well, I hope we can live this in the

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Speaker 1: bud now, because that's the last that's the last way

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Speaker 1: you feel.

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Speaker 3: You can understand. As the guy here, I'm going like, oh,

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Speaker 3: it's the worst, and you can say it because that

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Speaker 3: makes it worse today, but you can understand how female

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Speaker 3: feels that way.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well kind of. But like I'm telling you right now,

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Speaker 1: even if you do feel that way, don't tell the

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Speaker 1: dude that it's going to make it worse. Let's go

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Speaker 1: to Esan.

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Speaker 2: Esan.

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Speaker 1: You've been in a situation where a bloke can't set

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Speaker 1: the clock to midnight. What's the response from you?

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Speaker 3: Silent treatment does not work, Ethan, You've got to say

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Speaker 3: something after that. Let's go to Victoria, Victoria, Victoria.

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Speaker 1: We're talking about, Yeah, guys not performing and just what

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Speaker 1: the response is, how you go about it?

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Speaker 2: It's happened to you.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, look, it's happened to me. It's happened to me

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Speaker 6: on two different like occasions. You know, we really really

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Speaker 6: liked each other and it just didn't want to happen.

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Speaker 6: In saying the same thing, like it happens with girls

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Speaker 6: tunes like we just can't get so. Does that mean

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Speaker 6: that we don't like the guy? No, it just means that,

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Speaker 6: just like a guy, we get nervous.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but Victoria, you've got a lovely wi like, there's

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Speaker 1: no you know, but the analogy I learned to use

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Speaker 1: is when a dog's happy, it wags its tail, right,

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Speaker 1: there's no denying that the dog's happy. Same with guys,

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Speaker 1: Like there's there's something visible that happens in order for

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Speaker 1: you guys to you know, get to the next level

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Speaker 1: so you can see it on us at least you

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Speaker 1: guys can.

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Speaker 2: Well, I hate to say it. I feel like this

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Speaker 2: happens a lot though, Like.

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Speaker 6: Hiding, I don't know, how do you how do you

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Speaker 6: hide the Sahara desert?

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Speaker 2: Victoria, not too bad? See what you're hearing?

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