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Speaker 1: What did you first use the internet for?

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Speaker 2: If it wasn't enough insult to injury that when you

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Speaker 1: The internet, they made it.

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Speaker 2: They made it sound like a robot getting water boarded. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: just to really annoy you. Yeah, it's really fascinating right now.

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Speaker 2: They we're talking about this remote Amazon tribe finally got

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Speaker 2: connected to the Internet super recently, and they thought that

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Speaker 2: they would use it for like how to fix snake bites.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I've got all this sort of stuff.

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Speaker 3: Because there is some good stuff on the internet. About

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Speaker 3: five percent of the Internet is pretty good.

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Speaker 1: About five percent of the Internet. It's really useful.

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Speaker 2: All of the men have apparently just been watching porn

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Speaker 2: video in group chat. No, and they've already observed all

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Speaker 2: sorts of really nasty behavioral changes in them. No, and

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Speaker 2: all of them expecting all sorts of kinky sex from

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Speaker 2: the women that.

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Speaker 1: Their their partners, their life partners.

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Speaker 3: I was mad to say, how do they find the

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Speaker 3: adult content? But like, I feel like there's just so

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Speaker 3: much of it would have popped up.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well yeah, potentially, absolutely, It's just extraordinary. The social

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Speaker 2: media apparently is also just totally this tribe, but there

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Speaker 2: only two thousand people. There's pretty tragic. But we want,

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Speaker 2: we do want to talk about what you first looked

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Speaker 3: It's going to Melissa here, Melissa, what's the first thing

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Speaker 4: Oh, besides it like searching everything, it was MSN. That's

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Speaker 3: Shop Messenger like.

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Speaker 5: That.

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Speaker 3: Can I ask you a question, Melissa, because this was

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Speaker 3: a big sticking point for me when I was on

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Speaker 3: MSN Messenger. If you saw the person that you liked

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Speaker 3: person you like that come online, would you instigate the

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Speaker 4: No? Of course it's in a smiley faces.

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Speaker 1: Then messing your name? What was your first handle? Can

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Speaker 1: you remember that?

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Speaker 4: Flatter Lisa by flatter Lissa bi And then it turned

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Speaker 4: to Madam Chinks.

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Speaker 2: Of course you're reaching out first, Madam Kinks and send

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Speaker 2: you gloe. She sent the handcuff of Chloe one six.

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Speaker 2: Hey you get a Chloe. You were talking about the

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Speaker 2: first thing you used the internet for?

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Speaker 1: Hey?

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Speaker 4: Yes, so I was I don't know if you guys

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Speaker 4: remember it, but I was on the website Neo Pets.

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Speaker 6: Do you remember the Neo pets?

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Speaker 4: Neo Neo, n Eo Neo pen.

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Speaker 3: So you go to that website and you would feed

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Speaker 6: That's exactly right.

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Speaker 4: You see them, you could get more they hatched.

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Speaker 1: It was sounds like a tamagotchi.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, pretty much.

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Speaker 2: Online Wow, amazing, amazing. Hey, obviously YouTube was out in

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Speaker 5: Julie, Surelie, get me, oh, July, Jarlie.

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Speaker 3: Do you know what started YouTube? No, the Janet Jackson

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Speaker 1: No, I think started by started.

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Speaker 3: I'm so close. I'm always so close to a good fact.

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Speaker 1: That's the third time you've tried to hand that up

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Speaker 3: And I've been hoping that one time you just let

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Speaker 1: But I didn't clarify that. That is a noteworthy fact though.

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Speaker 2: That started the the Google image thing, which is where

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Speaker 3: So still a good fact from me. Let's two minutes, Robin,

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Speaker 3: what was your first Internet search?

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Speaker 6: Hide? My first Google wasn't Google. It was when the internet,

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Speaker 2: That became something that began thirteen six five, which I

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Speaker 1: What was a big foul the Jennet Jackson moment?

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Speaker 6: What did you go for?

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Speaker 2: The big fel thing needs it's in vogue.

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Speaker 1: Did you guys remember that mini clip? Yes, one that

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Speaker 1: was red Hash.

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Speaker 3: That was game for me.

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Speaker 2: We were talking about those one stop shops just before

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Speaker 1: Is like for people that aren't like, this is the

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Speaker 1: this is what they said.

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Speaker 2: They specialized in hilarious movies, pictures, audios, jokes, optical illusions,

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Speaker 3: That's awesome. I'm into it.

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Speaker 7: Scott's called seriously, it's time for Celebrities?

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Speaker 1: Yes who yeah, Yes, that's right. The game where you

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Speaker 2: One hundred dollars to spend on the best chicken in town.

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Speaker 2: Red Rodster if obviously Red Rock goes out saying if

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Speaker 2: if you can guess the celebrity just by a description

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Speaker 2: of their face. Woods also likes to play this game.

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Speaker 2: It gets far too competitive, and he's proving that he

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Speaker 2: is awful, but if you can beat him, give a call.

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Speaker 2: Thirty one and sixty five got to try and get

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Speaker 3: Steve Carrell.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean definitely, definitely. I almost just want to

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Speaker 2: Adam galafanaks is Galgers. He says, if you were, if

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Speaker 3: That's very good, and he's very good.

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Speaker 2: It's not him, it's not him. Ralph's called on thirty

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Speaker 2: very pointy nose?

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Speaker 6: Adam Challaman?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we all know, very pointy.

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Speaker 3: Not then you'd think I've seen him in person from

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Speaker 1: So I'm going to give you another clue here because

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Speaker 3: Pale complexion shallow may as well, quite.

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Speaker 2: A pale complexion, pointy nose and I'm going to say

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Speaker 2: that they've got like a like a quiff, a quiff.

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Speaker 1: To their hair right at the front. They've got a quiff.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, can you explained to me what a quiff is?

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Speaker 5: Again?

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Speaker 1: Like you want your hair kind of like like fold.

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Speaker 2: It looks like it's like a wave, like a natural

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Speaker 2: have a quiff, he came quiff Venus called on thirty

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Speaker 4: Daniel Radcliffe, Owen Wilson.

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Speaker 2: Radcipper natural quiff on Wilson, No doubt, not sure about

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Speaker 2: rad Oh, no, Radcliffe.

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Speaker 3: Bit of a quiff, a more.

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Speaker 1: Of a like a quiff. Never had to split hairs.

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Speaker 3: That's very good. Pale pointy nose quiff.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, pale complexion, pointy nose quiff. I'm going to

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Speaker 2: Please their cheeks when they smile, they've almost got you

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Speaker 1: Squash balls in behind their cheeks.

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Speaker 2: But you know what I mean, those little like balls,

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Speaker 2: like their cheeks form two.

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Speaker 3: Little balls really comes out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they really pop out.

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Speaker 3: Phoenix.

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Speaker 1: No, I don't think he's.

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Speaker 2: Got bally cheeks balls for checks, but quiff in the hair,

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Speaker 3: Do you think it is.

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Speaker 8: For sure?

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Speaker 2: No salient features to kidmen?

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Speaker 1: Salient features to kidmen.

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Speaker 2: Hasn't got the same hair as kidman's got the curly hair.

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Speaker 2: They've got a quiff in their hair.

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Speaker 3: Give me male female.

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Speaker 2: I'm tempted too, but I'm going to keep playing the

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Speaker 2: going to play it properly. When their lips close, this person,

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Speaker 2: they've got like almost like a renowned sort of a pout,

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Speaker 1: Them together, renowned sort of a pout. Yeah yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: he's got big lips. I'm going to go to Douchhan here, Hello,

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Speaker 1: douchan Yeah, hi, Hi, Who do you think that is Wilson?

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Speaker 2: It's not Owen Wilson, but okay, okay, okay, I'm going

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Speaker 1: It is a woman.

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Speaker 2: But what I find very interesting about this is I

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Speaker 1: Isn't that about that? This is the male?

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Speaker 3: Like it's the it sounds I mean, like what I've

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Speaker 1: Does sound like male Owen Wilson. It's not a man, though.

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Speaker 3: Does she look a bit like Owen Wilson given that

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Speaker 3: you've well, there's obviously similarities between her face and Will.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, yes, but they're older than Owen Wilson. That's

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Speaker 2: a big hint, Melissa on thirty one and six five,

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Speaker 2: who do you think that is?

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Speaker 9: Street?

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Speaker 1: Melissa? Very good, very good.

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Speaker 3: One hundred red Rooster dollars to go to you.

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Speaker 1: That's well done. Congratulation.

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Speaker 3: Here's the things.

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Speaker 2: It's just calling you to try Rooster's new sweet and

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Speaker 2: Sour crunch fried chicken to deep no doubt.

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Speaker 3: Enjoy that, Melissa, enjoy that. You deserve it now, Will

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Speaker 3: here's the thing. Literally thirty seconds ago, while we were

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Speaker 3: playing this game, you said, God, I am very good

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Speaker 3: at describing fads.

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Speaker 1: I am very good at it.

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Speaker 3: Well, here's the thing. I've paid some money, some substantial money,

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Speaker 3: to hire a police sketch artist to draw the face

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Speaker 3: that you were describing. Oh my god, yes, I will

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Speaker 3: reveal that right up next.

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Speaker 3: Now, isn't she blood?

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Speaker 3: Not enough sex? She watches it without me, She prefers

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Speaker 1: Sorry? My name Sam?

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Speaker 8: You've been misled.

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Speaker 2: You're there deserved at the end of the day, she's

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Speaker 1: What's up for you?

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Speaker 3: Go judge that, get on your lamb, sure mind move.

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Speaker 2: Sharing how you're going is one of the best things

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Speaker 2: And if you don't address how you are, your feelings

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Speaker 2: Ask yourself, how am I feeling? How do I express

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Speaker 8: It's a nice thing to say, because I'm not sure

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Speaker 9: When you start letting these words of burnout, I think

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Speaker 9: Our time here on this planet is very limited, and

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Speaker 10: Losing myself with the first one who I'm he's still

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Speaker 3: Sorry, sorry, sorry hate So your first first ex husband, yes,

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Speaker 9: Yes?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Wow, and then you're all still good amazing, so amazing.

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Speaker 1: So he that's great.

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Speaker 2: I think that's a mark of a really mature person

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Speaker 2: you know, you find out that a person you've been

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Speaker 2: hanging out with is their ex but it's like we're

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Speaker 2: just so much bigger than what was.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, because I think if you fully I believe that

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Speaker 10: if you haven't been able to metabolize like whatever was

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Speaker 10: causing you the grief, it's still always there and it's

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Speaker 10: so and it's like, I think it's unresolved love. So

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Speaker 10: you have to actually work through it and transform it

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Speaker 10: into something else for it to be healthy, so you

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Speaker 10: can both move on. Because I think when people are

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Speaker 10: still triggered by their partners, I think something about them

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Speaker 10: that still has a hold over them, and you want

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Speaker 10: to be rid of that, you know, so that you're

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Speaker 10: an empty vessel to be like go on to your

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Speaker 10: new relationship.

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Speaker 2: With I feel like I got some really good advice

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Speaker 2: around that once, which was that like the fastest way

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Speaker 2: to kind of get over someone is to realize that

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Speaker 2: you'll always love them. Oh that's beautiful, rather than thinking

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Speaker 2: that like, oh, I'm going to get over it, because

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Speaker 2: the English we always say when you get over them,

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Speaker 2: and it's like, well, no, you kind of got to

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Speaker 2: go through yes them rather than over them, because you're

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Speaker 2: always going to love them.

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Speaker 1: It might just feel differently.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but you were talking so so the quote that

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Speaker 3: I saw, sorry was about this idea of you having individuality.

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Speaker 10: Yes, so I think that like for the first relationship,

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Speaker 10: that's when I identified that it was getting really unhealthy

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Speaker 10: because I was getting so lost in the dysfunction that

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Speaker 10: I didn't recognize myself anymore, and I was just reacting

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Speaker 10: all the time. I was just so easily we could

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Speaker 10: just push each other's buttons and just you could have

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Speaker 10: an argument about this that that like it was just insane.

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Speaker 10: And that's when I'm like, I'm getting lost in this

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Speaker 10: like bitterness and I need to find myself again. And

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Speaker 10: so when we finally broke up, it was I was like,

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Speaker 10: wait a minute, this is so cool because we now

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Speaker 10: get to like keep all the things that we still

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Speaker 10: love about each other, because we loved each other's company,

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Speaker 10: like we were great friends. But as a marriage it

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Speaker 10: just didn't work. So we got to just throw all

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Speaker 10: the bad things in the bin and keep all the

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Speaker 10: good things.

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Speaker 3: Great.

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Speaker 2: God, this podcast come up twice now on this show,

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Speaker 2: but it's a good podcast. On Daria Ceo, I was

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Speaker 2: listening to Esther Parell talk and I love her. She's

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Speaker 2: so good, so good, And she was saying that she

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Speaker 2: obviously if you don't know who she is, she's psychotherapist.

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Speaker 2: She works in relationships. She was saying, she away finds

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Speaker 2: it really funny when people walk in. She sees a

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Speaker 2: couple and they're walking in and like, one of the

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Speaker 2: first things I'll say is that they're adamant that they're individuals.

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Speaker 2: And she's like, well, you're not, because you've chosen to

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Speaker 2: be with someone, and as soon as you choose to

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Speaker 2: be with someone, who you are is defined entirely by

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Speaker 2: the pattern that you've agreed to be in with that person. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and she was like, if you think of it like

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Speaker 2: a figure eight loop, you both feed the loop, and

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Speaker 2: then people break up when the loop's broken. So like

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Speaker 2: when one of you goes, okay, I don't like the

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Speaker 2: way that this keeps coming back to me, And it's

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Speaker 2: exactly what you said. You were like, just everything just

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Speaker 2: get coming back in the same way. So to realize that,

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Speaker 2: I think's enormous.

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Speaker 3: If you want to get the whole thing, just look

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Speaker 3: up Share my Mood wherever you get your podcast.