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Speaker 1: Podcasting Right now, those woods, I want to talk about mums.

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Speaker 2: On planes on fly with me, let's fly with kids, don't.

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Speaker 3: Care.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it took us an hour to prepare that. Now

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Speaker 1: it absolutely kills me. It absolutely kills me when there

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Speaker 1: is a kid going bananas on a plane and the

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Speaker 1: parents are watching a film with noise canceling headphones. Okay,

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Speaker 1: it kills me.

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Speaker 4: Do you think they should be doing more to.

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Speaker 1: Restrain the child? Well, strains are strong word woods, But

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Speaker 1: I'll tell you what. There's a story today about a

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Speaker 1: mum who got on a plane, who got on there

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Speaker 1: and she gave out sweets and ear plugs to the

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Speaker 1: other customers, to the other passengers on the plane.

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Speaker 4: Oh nice, nice play way to get ahead, you know,

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Speaker 4: because that's almost going like and now amost feel like

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Speaker 4: you can't get angry at me because I've made an effort, Yes,

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Speaker 4: which is actually a.

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Speaker 1: Really good thing to do as well. Yes, and some

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Speaker 1: might call that obsequious or sycophantic.

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Speaker 4: But I was thinking those big words too.

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Speaker 1: But look, they might it might be going too far,

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Speaker 1: let's say that. But I do think that sometimes I

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Speaker 1: don't think that there's enough control over the child.

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Speaker 4: Oh here, we go.

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Speaker 1: I don't. I actually don't. And I don't know whether

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Speaker 1: it's because I was raised in a family where if

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Speaker 1: I was being a brat, I was firmly, firmly sat

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Speaker 1: down or pulled out or locked in car or whatever

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Speaker 1: it was.

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Speaker 4: But people can have the different ways of parenting that

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Speaker 4: I think it gets very dangerous when we started creeping

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Speaker 4: into that's how you need to.

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Speaker 1: There are different ways to parent. One hundred percent. Yes,

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Speaker 1: the last thing we want to do on this show

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Speaker 1: is tell people how to pair it because neither of

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Speaker 1: us have kids. But what did you do?

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Speaker 3: Brazil?

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Speaker 1: Still there haven't heard? Well, we're still sending money out.

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Speaker 1: So for example, I was on a plane. I was

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Speaker 1: on a plane a little while ago, and I had

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Speaker 1: a kid banging the screen in the back of my

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Speaker 1: head rest and he was sitting on his mum's lab

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Speaker 1: And I turned around and the mum had headphones on

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Speaker 1: and she was watching a movie. And I kind of

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Speaker 1: turned around and I looked at her, and she looked

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Speaker 1: at me, and my head rest is just getting smashed

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Speaker 1: around by this kid like a punching bag, and I'm

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Speaker 1: looking at the mum going, at what point do I

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Speaker 1: have license? To tell your kid to stop hitting the

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Speaker 1: back of my chad.

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Speaker 4: Oh, and she's not doing anything to stop him from

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Speaker 4: doing that.

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, she looks, She looked at the screen,

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Speaker 1: looked at me. She even smiled. She took one ear off,

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Speaker 1: and she said, how cute is he?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's pretty funny.

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Speaker 1: It's not funny at all. It's it's funny at all.

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Speaker 1: And the problem is that I feel like I obviously

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Speaker 1: don't want to I don't want to tell a kid

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Speaker 1: what to do.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Sure, So my question for you and for everybody else

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Speaker 1: listening right now is thirteen one oh six five. Can

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Speaker 1: I get angry at a parent if their kid is

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Speaker 1: a nuisance on a plane? And I want to hear

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Speaker 1: from other people here join the conversation. Can you get

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Speaker 1: and I think you need to have an opinion here?

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Speaker 1: What you whitelaw? Because you're you're the ultimate fence sitter.

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Speaker 4: No, okay, yeah, now I'm happy to get on one

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Speaker 4: side of the fence here. No you can't.

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Speaker 1: You can't.

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Speaker 4: I I like to live my life by a simple rule,

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Speaker 4: and that is you just.

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Speaker 1: Walk away from all conflicts. Now, we are currently talking

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Speaker 1: about moms.

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Speaker 2: On planes on fly with me, let's fly with kids,

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Speaker 2: but obviously extends to mums and dads on planes with kids.

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Speaker 1: But you know, we just we can't play more than

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Speaker 1: three song grabs in a row. Guys, it gets a

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Speaker 1: little bit tedious. So thirty one or six five as

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Speaker 1: a phone number I really want to know from from

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Speaker 1: from you guys down there, feel free to join the conversation.

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Speaker 1: Can you get angry at a parent if their kid

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Speaker 1: is a nuisance on a plane and you think, yes,

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Speaker 1: I think you should be able to Thomas, what do

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Speaker 1: you reckon?

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Speaker 5: Well will, I'm a parent myself. What I think you

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Speaker 5: should have done is just politely said to the mum,

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Speaker 5: just hey, just so you know, your kids hit in

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Speaker 5: the back of my seat for it's been going on,

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Speaker 5: for it.

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Speaker 1: You could see that, Thomas, it was it was the

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Speaker 1: scene in front of it or not.

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Speaker 5: You've just got to let her know politely and speak

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Speaker 5: to her from one humor to another human because telling

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Speaker 5: off the kid, he's not going to understand. Yeah, if

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Speaker 5: you just let the mom know verbally, Thomas going.

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Speaker 1: On as I said before, like I'm never actually going

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Speaker 1: to tell off a kid. I feel very weird about that,

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Speaker 1: and I totally understand. I just don't think you should

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Speaker 1: tell off another person's kid. I feel weird about that,

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Speaker 1: but I don't think that I should need to be

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Speaker 1: in a position, is what I'm saying when a parent

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Speaker 1: is where an a parent's child is obviously bashing the

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Speaker 1: seat in front of them, and the person has turned

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Speaker 1: around and looked at them that I need to verbalize

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Speaker 1: anything looks picture sas a thousand words there.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but you've also you've also got to realize that

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Speaker 5: this probably could have been the first five minutes that

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Speaker 5: that mum of has had all day a bit of solitude,

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Speaker 5: and the kids are brat all day long, and she's like,

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Speaker 5: I can't contain him, you.

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Speaker 1: Unleash him on other people. Yeah, I think it's I can't.

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Speaker 1: I can't take this anymore. I can let it out

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Speaker 1: on thirty two F I can hear.

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Speaker 4: What Thomas is saying, like, you know, she realize you

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Speaker 4: don't have a kid.

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Speaker 1: Thomas a really good perspective.

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Speaker 4: But I think it's found. You know, you sort of

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Speaker 4: go like, you know, mate, you don't have a kid.

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Speaker 4: You can cover a couple of kicks to the back

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Speaker 4: of the head. You'll be fine, don't you reckon and

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Speaker 4: can't you just cover real couple of kicks to the

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Speaker 4: back of your head?

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Speaker 3: I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't enjoy you being antagonistic, particularly when you don't

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Speaker 1: have a point of view. We've got Stella here on

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Speaker 1: thirty one and six five. Stella talked to us. You're

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Speaker 1: a flight attendant, Yeah.

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Speaker 6: I am. I think you should.

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Speaker 1: You think you think you can get angry at the parents.

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Speaker 1: Do you get angry at the parents still as a

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Speaker 1: flight attendant? Do you ever go hey, your kids over there,

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Speaker 1: destroying someone's peace and quiet?

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Speaker 6: No, we're technically not allowed to, but it gets a

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Speaker 6: bit annoying when you've got passengers coming up to you

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Speaker 6: and saying like, oh, can you please let these child know? Like,

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Speaker 6: I don't want to have to be the one that

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Speaker 6: tells a child or the parent, but I've had parents.

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Speaker 6: I've had parents turn around and yell at the children

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Speaker 6: because if the parents, like if the child's not listening

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Speaker 6: to the parent, like what like if you turn around

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Speaker 6: and say, can you let your child know that he's

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Speaker 6: kicking the back of my feet? You know, girl, listen,

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Speaker 6: but you turn around and yell at him, then maybe

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Speaker 6: you might.

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Speaker 1: Get the pictures directly to a kid. Yeah, I've got

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Speaker 1: issue with that, stella. Just before you go very quickly,

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Speaker 1: have you actually got unlimited nuts?

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Speaker 6: Unlimited nuts?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: No?

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Speaker 1: Damn what? Yeah, I see, I thought it was a hoax,

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Speaker 1: Thanks Nicole Steller. Interesting that you can't get involved. I

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Speaker 1: didn't know. Legally they can't involve. Don't get involved, which

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Speaker 1: means as a passenger you have to if we can't

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Speaker 1: rely on the police on the planes to get angry

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Speaker 1: at the kid or the parent.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so you've got you're saying someone has to. But

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Speaker 4: if a fight starts between you, if the mum gives

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Speaker 4: it back to you and goes like, hey, mind your

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Speaker 4: own business, mate, then one, if you guys are a biffin,

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Speaker 4: then surely.

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Speaker 1: If I'm biffing a fifty five year old.

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Speaker 4: Sorry biffing was the wrong word. But if you get

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Speaker 4: into a verbal joust with the brother and she's like, no,

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Speaker 4: mind your own business, big head, you know she might

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Speaker 4: say because I'm a huge head, wow, big bald man.

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Speaker 1: You know she might say that, like what is that

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Speaker 1: a mastage?

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Speaker 4: Do you think you're trending?

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Speaker 1: Now? You know she might say these things.

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Speaker 4: I'm just saying that mum might say that, she writes,

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Speaker 4: who gets involved them like an air marshal?

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Speaker 1: Uh No, we're up in the air. I don't think

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Speaker 1: the air marshal is the last porter call. We've got Jess.

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Speaker 1: Who's called Jess. You're the final call on this? What

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Speaker 1: have you got for us? Thirty one or six five?

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Speaker 1: Can you get angry at a parent if their kids

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Speaker 1: a nuisance on a plane?

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Speaker 3: Absolutely?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Right, so you're a parent.

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Speaker 3: I'm a parent, and I'm the opinion that my kids

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Speaker 3: are my responsibility. I'm I'm pretty strict with my kids.

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Speaker 3: I make sure that if they're in public, they are

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Speaker 3: behaving to a certain level. But I see it from

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Speaker 3: both spect If I see kids that are playing up

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Speaker 3: and I see that the parent is actively doing their

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Speaker 3: best to control that, that's absolutely no.

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Speaker 1: I couldn't agree more with you. It's when they've got

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Speaker 1: the noise canceling headphones on and their child is a

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Speaker 1: little tornado and at the back of your seat that

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Speaker 1: I got an issue.

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Speaker 3: All right, So I'm not doing my job as a parent.

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Speaker 3: Then you have every right to come up to me

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Speaker 3: and say, what are you doing?

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Speaker 1: Okay? I love it, thanks so much for I mean,

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Speaker 1: at the end, of the day. We haven't had your

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Speaker 1: two cents. You've got a three year old banging the

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Speaker 1: back of your seat, You've turned around, your mum is

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Speaker 1: smiling at you like there's nothing going on. You're the

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Speaker 1: ultimate fence sitter. What do you do in that situation?

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Speaker 6: What do I do?

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Speaker 1: The kids kicking me in the back of the head?

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Speaker 4: Well, yep, okay. The first of the game in my

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Speaker 4: head was a no. That's I definitely can't say that publicly.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: No, I would say I would try, hmm, what happened

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Speaker 4: to this? I would say I'd bribe the mum. I'd

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Speaker 4: go listen, listen, listen, mon no, no, stop it. There's

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Speaker 4: a thousand bucks for you when we land in Pouquette

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Speaker 4: if you stop that kid from kicking me in the head.

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Speaker 1: A thousand dollars, A thousand Pouquettian dollars.

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Speaker 4: That solves everything.

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