1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:04,840 Speaker 1: Hello, my name's Santasha Nabananga Bamblet. I'm a proud or 2 00:00:04,880 --> 00:00:08,600 Speaker 1: the Order Kerni Whaltbury and a waddery woman. And before 3 00:00:08,600 --> 00:00:11,080 Speaker 1: we get started on She's on the Money podcast, I 4 00:00:11,119 --> 00:00:14,240 Speaker 1: would like to acknowledge the traditional custodians of the land 5 00:00:14,360 --> 00:00:17,680 Speaker 1: of which this podcast is recorded on a wondery country, 6 00:00:18,079 --> 00:00:22,200 Speaker 1: acknowledging the elders, the ancestors and the next generation coming 7 00:00:22,239 --> 00:00:26,880 Speaker 1: through as this podcast is about connecting, empowering, knowledge sharing 8 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:30,040 Speaker 1: and the storytelling of you to make a difference for 9 00:00:30,160 --> 00:00:33,040 Speaker 1: today and lasting impact for tomorrow. 10 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 2: Let's get into it. 11 00:00:34,280 --> 00:00:53,519 Speaker 3: She's on the Money. She's on the Money. 12 00:00:57,240 --> 00:01:00,000 Speaker 2: Hello, and welcome to She's on the Money, the podcast 13 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:03,720 Speaker 2: that makes personal finance fun, especially on Fridays. It's our 14 00:01:03,760 --> 00:01:05,319 Speaker 2: favorite day of the week because we get to get 15 00:01:05,319 --> 00:01:07,840 Speaker 2: our team together and then we celebrate you our incredible 16 00:01:07,880 --> 00:01:10,919 Speaker 2: She's on the Money community. Miss jessic Ricci as always 17 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:14,000 Speaker 2: is here sharing our favorite money wins. Miss Becks say 18 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:16,080 Speaker 2: Ed is sharing her broke tips, and we're going to 19 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:18,520 Speaker 2: be helping to answer a money dilemma, which this week 20 00:01:18,560 --> 00:01:20,440 Speaker 2: is about whether you should buy a house or invest 21 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:23,479 Speaker 2: and something that you slid into our dms about whether 22 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:26,120 Speaker 2: it's worth uprooting your family for a job that might 23 00:01:26,160 --> 00:01:30,720 Speaker 2: be temporary. But before we get there, my love's mid June. 24 00:01:30,760 --> 00:01:33,560 Speaker 2: How are we a little bit of a weather check in? 25 00:01:33,640 --> 00:01:35,600 Speaker 2: I suppose sads. 26 00:01:35,240 --> 00:01:37,480 Speaker 4: Are real trying to find anything exciting to look forward 27 00:01:37,480 --> 00:01:38,920 Speaker 4: to you. Actually, I have a question I need the 28 00:01:38,959 --> 00:01:41,679 Speaker 4: people to answer for me. Does anybody or is this 29 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:43,720 Speaker 4: It's open to the room, but I don't think either 30 00:01:43,760 --> 00:01:45,679 Speaker 4: of you have done it, so I'm opening it to 31 00:01:45,720 --> 00:01:48,880 Speaker 4: the people of the listeners. Okay, we've recommended. I'm pretty 32 00:01:48,920 --> 00:01:51,720 Speaker 4: sure today ticks that app. I'm trying to find joy. 33 00:01:51,960 --> 00:01:53,560 Speaker 4: I really want to go see a musical, but musical's 34 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:57,440 Speaker 4: very expensive, so I've been trying to do Jackson Michael Jackson. 35 00:01:57,080 --> 00:01:59,600 Speaker 2: Michael Jackson's musical. No, Okay, I know I wouldn't have 36 00:01:59,680 --> 00:02:02,200 Speaker 2: Wait did that come from? She wants to see Wicked Girl. 37 00:02:02,320 --> 00:02:04,200 Speaker 4: I want to see Beetle Juice, and I want to 38 00:02:04,240 --> 00:02:06,320 Speaker 4: see Hadestown at the two at the moment that I 39 00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:08,240 Speaker 4: really want to see. Okay, anyway, you can get like 40 00:02:08,280 --> 00:02:10,440 Speaker 4: really cheat tickets on this thing. They go on sale 41 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:13,520 Speaker 4: at nine am every morning at nine am. I'm on 42 00:02:13,560 --> 00:02:15,000 Speaker 4: this app like I want this app from eight to 43 00:02:15,080 --> 00:02:18,320 Speaker 4: fifty five refreshing, like waiting for the button to turn 44 00:02:18,440 --> 00:02:21,359 Speaker 4: so you can like buy the tickets right and I 45 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:24,680 Speaker 4: hit it the second my clock hits nine o'clock and 46 00:02:24,720 --> 00:02:26,840 Speaker 4: it says all the tickets are gone, and I just 47 00:02:26,880 --> 00:02:31,639 Speaker 4: need to know an idiot or it's like I don't 48 00:02:31,639 --> 00:02:33,360 Speaker 4: know if it's pre loading, so I don't know it. 49 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:35,320 Speaker 4: Has anyone ever had any success with the app? Is 50 00:02:35,320 --> 00:02:37,680 Speaker 4: what I want to know, because I'm desperate for like 51 00:02:37,840 --> 00:02:39,079 Speaker 4: fifty five dollar tickets. 52 00:02:39,120 --> 00:02:43,280 Speaker 5: But is it a EDT or whatever it is whatever in. 53 00:02:43,360 --> 00:02:46,040 Speaker 4: E because it's like a countdown, which is quite good, 54 00:02:46,200 --> 00:02:47,919 Speaker 4: like I appreciate It's like everyone. 55 00:02:47,720 --> 00:02:50,320 Speaker 2: I hate a countdown, unnecessary morning anxiety. 56 00:02:50,800 --> 00:02:53,040 Speaker 4: That's actually a great point, but it's it's kind of like, well, 57 00:02:53,040 --> 00:02:54,520 Speaker 4: I know that I haven't missed it because I get 58 00:02:54,560 --> 00:02:56,480 Speaker 4: a notification at like quarter two. I think that says 59 00:02:56,480 --> 00:02:58,600 Speaker 4: all the tickets go on sale soon. And then like 60 00:02:58,680 --> 00:03:01,560 Speaker 4: you can't click the button till it like ticks over, 61 00:03:01,680 --> 00:03:04,480 Speaker 4: which I like, but in a second, but everybody else is. 62 00:03:04,480 --> 00:03:05,720 Speaker 2: Clicking it faster than you. 63 00:03:06,280 --> 00:03:09,760 Speaker 4: I feel like I have the fastest fingers in the West. Still, 64 00:03:10,280 --> 00:03:12,880 Speaker 4: I'm like bang, still God, do. 65 00:03:12,880 --> 00:03:15,639 Speaker 2: You people are using like bots? Do you remember back 66 00:03:15,639 --> 00:03:18,720 Speaker 2: in the day people would talk about like eBay bots. Yeah, 67 00:03:19,040 --> 00:03:21,400 Speaker 2: that would like do the beadting at the very last minute, 68 00:03:21,440 --> 00:03:24,080 Speaker 2: and like that's how I used to lose Onmbardo jeans 69 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:26,920 Speaker 2: and stuff back in two thou. Yes, I don't know. 70 00:03:27,040 --> 00:03:29,000 Speaker 4: I just was very I was like, what am I 71 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:31,079 Speaker 4: doing wrong? So if anyone's ever know what you're doing wrong? 72 00:03:31,200 --> 00:03:35,520 Speaker 4: Manage it? Please let me know if you to try 73 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:38,000 Speaker 4: for you? Yeah, thank you, send us the link because 74 00:03:38,160 --> 00:03:42,440 Speaker 4: everyone on at nine am every morning, we're yeah, yeah, genuinely. 75 00:03:42,320 --> 00:03:44,760 Speaker 2: Think so if any of you work for the PR 76 00:03:44,840 --> 00:03:49,000 Speaker 2: company that does Beetle juice, be just like slide into 77 00:03:49,040 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 2: our dms, because I have a sneaky suspicion just might 78 00:03:51,600 --> 00:03:53,520 Speaker 2: even work for free. 79 00:03:54,120 --> 00:03:59,760 Speaker 5: What did you say, just has it locked into everything? 80 00:03:59,800 --> 00:04:01,680 Speaker 5: As just locked into everything? I said, No, I can 81 00:04:01,680 --> 00:04:02,720 Speaker 5: get you Bettle juice tickets. 82 00:04:02,880 --> 00:04:04,840 Speaker 2: We're giving them away work. I didn't realize you wanted 83 00:04:08,160 --> 00:04:14,160 Speaker 2: I'll post, I'll tag I don't come with me. 84 00:04:14,160 --> 00:04:15,440 Speaker 4: Should we go to be a fun team thing? 85 00:04:15,520 --> 00:04:18,280 Speaker 2: I just can't imagine anything worse. 86 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:25,480 Speaker 5: I think people love it musical in general. 87 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:27,440 Speaker 2: I thought you meant hanging out with us outside. 88 00:04:29,440 --> 00:04:33,800 Speaker 5: That's just obviously that too. But like musical, I don't 89 00:04:33,800 --> 00:04:37,320 Speaker 5: know what Beagle Juice is. I just like, but really 90 00:04:38,400 --> 00:04:39,440 Speaker 5: musical before. 91 00:04:39,320 --> 00:04:41,080 Speaker 2: That's so nice. I've been to a musical. 92 00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:43,120 Speaker 5: I just I just not I just want to know 93 00:04:43,160 --> 00:04:46,360 Speaker 5: what they're saying. But they're just singing the whole titles 94 00:04:47,160 --> 00:04:47,680 Speaker 5: the whole time. 95 00:04:47,800 --> 00:04:49,680 Speaker 4: No, unless it's Hamilton, but most of the time it's 96 00:04:49,720 --> 00:04:51,400 Speaker 4: just like burths of song in between. 97 00:04:51,160 --> 00:04:54,040 Speaker 2: The wh saw Hamilton together. 98 00:04:54,200 --> 00:04:54,800 Speaker 4: You didn't love it. 99 00:04:54,880 --> 00:04:55,400 Speaker 5: I hated it. 100 00:04:55,839 --> 00:04:58,680 Speaker 2: I did not love it. I hated it. I hated Hamilton. 101 00:04:58,800 --> 00:05:01,760 Speaker 2: I'm so sorry. I understand that you don't care. There 102 00:05:01,800 --> 00:05:03,359 Speaker 2: are going to be a lot of people listening to 103 00:05:03,360 --> 00:05:06,360 Speaker 2: be very salty on me because it's like for a 104 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:09,320 Speaker 2: lot of people the og like I know lots of 105 00:05:09,320 --> 00:05:11,560 Speaker 2: people because just and I like, we didn't just see 106 00:05:11,600 --> 00:05:13,760 Speaker 2: it in Melbourne, No, we saw it on the West End. 107 00:05:13,839 --> 00:05:17,480 Speaker 2: It was lovely because wow, we are fancy. And I 108 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:19,679 Speaker 2: was posting I'm going to go see Hamilton, and people 109 00:05:19,680 --> 00:05:22,240 Speaker 2: were like dming me being like I've seen Hamilton five 110 00:05:22,360 --> 00:05:24,159 Speaker 2: times and I need to see it on the West End. 111 00:05:24,200 --> 00:05:27,080 Speaker 2: And I'm thinking why though, like, do you hate yourself. 112 00:05:27,520 --> 00:05:29,839 Speaker 4: I reckon it's because we are not familiar with the 113 00:05:29,960 --> 00:05:31,919 Speaker 4: US history and because. 114 00:05:31,760 --> 00:05:34,240 Speaker 5: Oh no, I got the history, why are we singing 115 00:05:34,279 --> 00:05:36,159 Speaker 5: about it? I think we will probably have the same 116 00:05:36,200 --> 00:05:38,520 Speaker 5: brain in that, like we can't really well, I don't 117 00:05:38,520 --> 00:05:40,479 Speaker 5: know about you, but I can't even absorb the information 118 00:05:40,520 --> 00:05:42,600 Speaker 5: when because it sounds like it's getting to a juicy part, 119 00:05:42,640 --> 00:05:45,440 Speaker 5: they're like, it's really juicy, and then someone starts singing 120 00:05:45,480 --> 00:05:46,960 Speaker 5: the rest and I'm like, feel it. 121 00:05:47,440 --> 00:05:48,880 Speaker 2: Wow, I don't feel it. 122 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:51,120 Speaker 5: I'm just like, I'm really desperately trying to absorb what 123 00:05:51,160 --> 00:05:52,040 Speaker 5: they're saying. 124 00:05:52,600 --> 00:05:53,680 Speaker 2: I think that's probably what it is. 125 00:05:53,720 --> 00:05:57,760 Speaker 5: I'm like, at the very peak when I need this 126 00:05:57,839 --> 00:06:00,520 Speaker 5: next bit of juice, it is then it in a 127 00:06:00,560 --> 00:06:03,080 Speaker 5: way that is so I can't understand anymore. 128 00:06:03,120 --> 00:06:07,760 Speaker 2: The process thinks so differently. That's I nearly fell asleep. 129 00:06:07,880 --> 00:06:09,479 Speaker 4: Yeah she was not, Yeah it was. 130 00:06:11,440 --> 00:06:14,479 Speaker 2: She got that sober intermission. I was trying to leave, 131 00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:16,080 Speaker 2: absolutely not. 132 00:06:16,160 --> 00:06:17,960 Speaker 5: I'm putting this in my calendar really quick in case 133 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:20,320 Speaker 5: I forget beetle Juice for Jess Ricky. 134 00:06:20,640 --> 00:06:23,800 Speaker 2: The best thing. I can't believe you. 135 00:06:24,600 --> 00:06:26,080 Speaker 4: We still don't know how to use the app because 136 00:06:26,080 --> 00:06:27,599 Speaker 4: I'm sure. I'm going to at some point try and 137 00:06:27,600 --> 00:06:29,640 Speaker 4: get other cheap tickets. So if anyone knows, let me know. 138 00:06:29,720 --> 00:06:31,200 Speaker 4: But thank you so. 139 00:06:31,120 --> 00:06:34,240 Speaker 5: Much and send me the link and we will jump 140 00:06:34,279 --> 00:06:35,400 Speaker 5: on and I do that. 141 00:06:35,800 --> 00:06:40,719 Speaker 4: How do we beat anyway I've just spoken about it's. 142 00:06:40,560 --> 00:06:42,200 Speaker 2: So fun, it's cold. 143 00:06:42,320 --> 00:06:42,799 Speaker 4: It's cold. 144 00:06:42,839 --> 00:06:45,760 Speaker 5: It's called happy to be home because for those who remember, 145 00:06:45,800 --> 00:06:48,039 Speaker 5: I was in Brisbane for a little while and I'm 146 00:06:48,080 --> 00:06:50,240 Speaker 5: just such a homebody, you know, I don't want to 147 00:06:50,279 --> 00:06:52,160 Speaker 5: be anywhere else, so I'm happy to be home. It 148 00:06:52,320 --> 00:06:54,760 Speaker 5: is very cold, and I honestly don't think I have 149 00:06:55,240 --> 00:06:58,080 Speaker 5: a single interesting thing to bring to the table other 150 00:06:58,160 --> 00:06:59,360 Speaker 5: than I'm home. 151 00:06:59,520 --> 00:06:59,760 Speaker 2: Neither. 152 00:07:04,800 --> 00:07:06,839 Speaker 4: God, We're going to get so many hate comments this. 153 00:07:07,400 --> 00:07:08,920 Speaker 5: Sorry, I'm a I. 154 00:07:08,920 --> 00:07:09,480 Speaker 2: Balance them out. 155 00:07:09,520 --> 00:07:12,120 Speaker 4: I'm a huge musical nerd. Don't hate us, please, yes. 156 00:07:12,000 --> 00:07:14,080 Speaker 2: True, just don't hate with us. You know what we 157 00:07:14,120 --> 00:07:15,679 Speaker 2: love though five star reviews. 158 00:07:15,800 --> 00:07:16,040 Speaker 5: Yes? 159 00:07:17,120 --> 00:07:21,120 Speaker 2: Are you ready? So this is from Fionna. 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I feel like it's like a relatively trendy now, 179 00:08:08,120 --> 00:08:10,240 Speaker 2: which I'm not gonna lie as someone who got diagnosed 180 00:08:10,240 --> 00:08:13,120 Speaker 2: at like eighteen nineteen, I'm a bit like, oh, so 181 00:08:13,160 --> 00:08:15,000 Speaker 2: you're telling me I didn't need to get all of 182 00:08:15,000 --> 00:08:17,560 Speaker 2: my riddle and tablets, pop them out and put them 183 00:08:17,600 --> 00:08:19,920 Speaker 2: into a separate container so that when I had them 184 00:08:19,920 --> 00:08:22,120 Speaker 2: at university people couldn't tell what I was taking and 185 00:08:22,160 --> 00:08:23,960 Speaker 2: they thought I was just taking a panadoll. Because I 186 00:08:24,000 --> 00:08:28,160 Speaker 2: was genuinely like, if these girls at UNI see me 187 00:08:28,200 --> 00:08:30,680 Speaker 2: with riddling in my bag, they're going to think I'm crazy, 188 00:08:31,720 --> 00:08:35,000 Speaker 2: right right, it's good the times of change. You're on 189 00:08:35,080 --> 00:08:37,640 Speaker 2: rilin dexies. What do you take? How does it work? Oh? 190 00:08:37,640 --> 00:08:40,199 Speaker 2: If you talked to your psych about this, like totally, 191 00:08:40,200 --> 00:08:43,720 Speaker 2: it's so's change. I'm changed, sounds change, But we need 192 00:08:43,760 --> 00:08:46,280 Speaker 2: to talk about it because if it is something you 193 00:08:46,320 --> 00:08:50,080 Speaker 2: are struggling with, it is life changing and also so validating, 194 00:08:50,160 --> 00:08:52,920 Speaker 2: validating for sure. Yeah, I wouldn't be surprised that the 195 00:08:52,920 --> 00:08:57,160 Speaker 2: reason we don't like musicals has something to do with Yeah, 196 00:08:57,160 --> 00:08:59,280 Speaker 2: with that and Jess, it's just like they really like, 197 00:08:59,720 --> 00:09:02,720 Speaker 2: they really empower me. I just really enjoy sitting down 198 00:09:02,720 --> 00:09:04,760 Speaker 2: and steering at something for an hour and a half 199 00:09:04,800 --> 00:09:06,800 Speaker 2: for a five minute intermission, and then another hour and 200 00:09:06,840 --> 00:09:08,440 Speaker 2: a half of one consistent show. 201 00:09:08,679 --> 00:09:09,920 Speaker 4: It's like my favorite thing in the world. 202 00:09:10,400 --> 00:09:12,160 Speaker 2: Do you know what I hate about They're going back 203 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:14,360 Speaker 2: to this musicals going to the theater. I went to 204 00:09:14,400 --> 00:09:16,880 Speaker 2: the theater the other day, Ballet, the same thing. Yes 205 00:09:16,960 --> 00:09:18,920 Speaker 2: you mean, what do you mean I'm not allowed to 206 00:09:18,920 --> 00:09:19,800 Speaker 2: play on my phone? 207 00:09:20,360 --> 00:09:20,600 Speaker 5: Oh? 208 00:09:20,679 --> 00:09:21,920 Speaker 4: Yes, what do you mean? 209 00:09:22,040 --> 00:09:24,080 Speaker 2: I've just got to be locked into one thing and 210 00:09:24,120 --> 00:09:26,320 Speaker 2: it would be rude to get my phone out my 211 00:09:26,400 --> 00:09:29,800 Speaker 2: whole brain. So I went to a Melbourne Symphony orchestra. 212 00:09:30,360 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 2: What is it? Like a concept? The other day? Right, 213 00:09:33,120 --> 00:09:34,760 Speaker 2: it's just like a month ago with my best friend 214 00:09:34,840 --> 00:09:37,920 Speaker 2: Harriet and she was like so excited, but like my 215 00:09:38,120 --> 00:09:41,920 Speaker 2: brain during that period of time, I'm like thinking about 216 00:09:41,960 --> 00:09:44,640 Speaker 2: everything I've done wrong in life. I'm thinking about, Oh, 217 00:09:44,679 --> 00:09:46,520 Speaker 2: I wonder how many people are on the stage. I'm 218 00:09:46,559 --> 00:09:48,959 Speaker 2: counting how many people are on the stage. I'm thinking, Oh, 219 00:09:49,000 --> 00:09:51,960 Speaker 2: I wonder what sound that is or what instruments making that? 220 00:09:52,120 --> 00:09:55,320 Speaker 2: Trying to pinpoint the instruments on safe Looking at the conductor, 221 00:09:55,400 --> 00:09:58,200 Speaker 2: I'm wondering what type of degree the conductor had to 222 00:09:58,200 --> 00:10:02,200 Speaker 2: get you imagine your conducting. Yeah, I can definitely do that. 223 00:10:02,240 --> 00:10:04,080 Speaker 2: He doesn't look like he's doing much. And then I'm like, 224 00:10:04,160 --> 00:10:06,640 Speaker 2: do people watch him and read the music? Like my 225 00:10:06,640 --> 00:10:08,439 Speaker 2: brain is going a million miles an hour. I'm thinking 226 00:10:08,480 --> 00:10:10,160 Speaker 2: of what i can cook when I leave. I'm thinking 227 00:10:10,240 --> 00:10:12,480 Speaker 2: of what notifications might be on my phone, and then 228 00:10:12,520 --> 00:10:14,800 Speaker 2: Harriet's like, did you like that song? And I'm thinking 229 00:10:14,800 --> 00:10:15,320 Speaker 2: what song? 230 00:10:15,760 --> 00:10:17,600 Speaker 5: Totally I know I'm thinking the same thing. I'm thinking 231 00:10:17,640 --> 00:10:19,360 Speaker 5: how long did it take to set up the stage? 232 00:10:19,679 --> 00:10:21,119 Speaker 5: And I'm having. 233 00:10:20,840 --> 00:10:23,360 Speaker 2: These cold when I walk back to my car after 234 00:10:23,440 --> 00:10:25,760 Speaker 2: this because it's going to be quite late. Should have 235 00:10:25,800 --> 00:10:26,600 Speaker 2: parked closer? 236 00:10:26,760 --> 00:10:31,160 Speaker 4: Like so differently. This is so interesting because like when 237 00:10:31,160 --> 00:10:34,840 Speaker 4: I watch something like that, I'm like, I'm like live music, 238 00:10:34,960 --> 00:10:37,880 Speaker 4: especially like if there's no story, I'm like picturing worlds 239 00:10:37,880 --> 00:10:40,000 Speaker 4: in my mind, like use me somewhere else. 240 00:10:40,160 --> 00:10:42,440 Speaker 2: I'm thinking of what's in my fridge. I'm wonder if 241 00:10:42,480 --> 00:10:45,160 Speaker 2: those blueberries are soft yet. If they're soft, should I 242 00:10:45,200 --> 00:10:48,439 Speaker 2: freeze them for smoothies? Or should I just chuck them out? Oh, 243 00:10:48,640 --> 00:10:51,080 Speaker 2: chuck them out. I've chucked something else out one time. 244 00:10:51,200 --> 00:10:53,760 Speaker 2: One time I chucked a jumper out, like my brain 245 00:10:55,120 --> 00:10:58,480 Speaker 2: bloody loops. And then someone will interrupt my train of 246 00:10:58,480 --> 00:11:00,319 Speaker 2: thought and be like, what are you thinking about? Like, oh, 247 00:11:00,360 --> 00:11:02,800 Speaker 2: you interrupted my train of thought. And then I'm back 248 00:11:02,880 --> 00:11:05,200 Speaker 2: thinking and I'm like trains. 249 00:11:05,760 --> 00:11:08,560 Speaker 5: Yes, yes, and then we are When people say what 250 00:11:08,559 --> 00:11:11,760 Speaker 5: do you think about, You're like, it's impossible to narror that. 251 00:11:12,040 --> 00:11:14,319 Speaker 5: It could have been three seconds of thought and twenty 252 00:11:14,400 --> 00:11:15,520 Speaker 5: million things you've visited. 253 00:11:15,880 --> 00:11:18,760 Speaker 2: Ye Oh, the back of that head down sitting in 254 00:11:18,760 --> 00:11:20,840 Speaker 2: front of me really does look like my neighbor. I 255 00:11:20,880 --> 00:11:23,520 Speaker 2: wonder what can I imagine my neighbor coming to a 256 00:11:23,559 --> 00:11:28,079 Speaker 2: concert like this, like, yeah, my brain she doesn't stop. 257 00:11:28,280 --> 00:11:29,280 Speaker 5: No, no, no. 258 00:11:29,160 --> 00:11:31,120 Speaker 2: I'm not saying like you know when people say my 259 00:11:31,120 --> 00:11:33,840 Speaker 2: brain doesn't stop and you go, oh, that's so impressive. 260 00:11:33,880 --> 00:11:37,760 Speaker 2: It's not impressive, Jessica. It sounds exhausting. Yeah, it's humbling. 261 00:11:38,000 --> 00:11:40,880 Speaker 2: Like I'm not consistently thinking of new business ideas. I'm 262 00:11:40,880 --> 00:11:44,240 Speaker 2: not consistently thinking of things that could help the world. Like, hmm, 263 00:11:44,480 --> 00:11:46,800 Speaker 2: I don't know, does my neighbor have hairdlet looks like that? 264 00:11:49,160 --> 00:11:50,280 Speaker 2: I kid you not, And. 265 00:11:50,240 --> 00:11:52,080 Speaker 4: You may never know because I'll dispear into the crowd and. 266 00:11:52,080 --> 00:11:55,840 Speaker 2: You just have to wonder it did happen. I don't 267 00:11:55,880 --> 00:11:59,120 Speaker 2: know because he disappeared into a crowd. Jessica. Anyway, talk 268 00:11:59,200 --> 00:12:00,600 Speaker 2: to me, what if we got when it comes to 269 00:12:00,600 --> 00:12:01,520 Speaker 2: community money wins? 270 00:12:01,640 --> 00:12:04,520 Speaker 4: Alrighty nothing musical themes, sadly but very on brand. I 271 00:12:04,559 --> 00:12:06,439 Speaker 4: have a money in from b who said she won 272 00:12:06,520 --> 00:12:08,080 Speaker 4: an NGV membership. 273 00:12:07,679 --> 00:12:10,160 Speaker 2: Free er cool, boring. I love that for you. 274 00:12:10,960 --> 00:12:13,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, doesn't love a music gallery either. 275 00:12:14,760 --> 00:12:17,440 Speaker 5: I don't mind an art gallery, Yeah, I do like 276 00:12:17,440 --> 00:12:18,080 Speaker 5: an art gallery. 277 00:12:18,240 --> 00:12:23,160 Speaker 2: Just took me to an art gallery when basically we 278 00:12:23,200 --> 00:12:25,640 Speaker 2: went to send me home. We went to MoMA in 279 00:12:25,720 --> 00:12:31,760 Speaker 2: New York doesn't live up to the heart. 280 00:12:33,960 --> 00:12:36,760 Speaker 4: Zero out of ten would not recommend with me or book. 281 00:12:36,920 --> 00:12:39,120 Speaker 2: Can we just can we just say that I wasn't 282 00:12:39,280 --> 00:12:41,600 Speaker 2: on my own in that you took two eighty HD 283 00:12:41,720 --> 00:12:44,200 Speaker 2: girlies and then expected them to not go up the wolves. 284 00:12:44,200 --> 00:12:46,319 Speaker 4: I mean to be fair, I said, I'm so happy 285 00:12:46,400 --> 00:12:47,320 Speaker 4: to go by myself. 286 00:12:47,600 --> 00:12:48,760 Speaker 2: We wanted to say that we went. 287 00:12:49,000 --> 00:12:52,280 Speaker 5: Yeah, I see, Well, that's good to know that Jess 288 00:12:52,600 --> 00:12:54,000 Speaker 5: was really. 289 00:12:53,720 --> 00:12:56,280 Speaker 2: Stressed knowing that you guys were not having fun. The 290 00:12:57,040 --> 00:12:59,640 Speaker 2: fingernails there real question. Don't ruin it for me? 291 00:12:59,679 --> 00:13:00,839 Speaker 5: I would be I want to go and I do 292 00:13:00,960 --> 00:13:01,800 Speaker 5: want any spoilers. 293 00:13:02,360 --> 00:13:04,480 Speaker 4: Sorry, I do feel you would love it. 294 00:13:04,559 --> 00:13:05,880 Speaker 5: I feel like I would like I love a jar. 295 00:13:05,800 --> 00:13:07,679 Speaker 2: Of fingernails, but a lot of places that you can 296 00:13:07,720 --> 00:13:09,040 Speaker 2: sit though. That's good. 297 00:13:09,120 --> 00:13:09,640 Speaker 5: That's what we need. 298 00:13:10,160 --> 00:13:10,439 Speaker 2: Next. 299 00:13:10,480 --> 00:13:12,600 Speaker 4: I've got a money win from Madeline who said money win. 300 00:13:12,679 --> 00:13:15,000 Speaker 4: I've got my Opal card this morning. I got to 301 00:13:15,000 --> 00:13:18,360 Speaker 4: the Metro and they're signed everywhere that say free travel today. 302 00:13:18,600 --> 00:13:19,600 Speaker 2: All the games are open. 303 00:13:19,920 --> 00:13:21,240 Speaker 4: Thank you so much. Universe. 304 00:13:21,600 --> 00:13:23,440 Speaker 2: Hey, that is cool, isn't it. 305 00:13:23,360 --> 00:13:25,640 Speaker 4: When just a little thing, when the world aligns for you. 306 00:13:25,679 --> 00:13:26,720 Speaker 4: It's such a good feeling. 307 00:13:26,800 --> 00:13:27,640 Speaker 2: Why is it free travel? 308 00:13:27,679 --> 00:13:29,599 Speaker 4: That's great, really cool, I want to say to the 309 00:13:29,600 --> 00:13:31,079 Speaker 4: melbournecause obviously Opal is sid me. 310 00:13:32,160 --> 00:13:32,559 Speaker 2: Anyway. 311 00:13:32,800 --> 00:13:34,839 Speaker 4: Next, I've got a money win from Monique, who said 312 00:13:34,960 --> 00:13:37,320 Speaker 4: she got a ten dollar gift boucher from Yochi because 313 00:13:37,320 --> 00:13:38,040 Speaker 4: it was her birthday. 314 00:13:38,559 --> 00:13:39,640 Speaker 2: We all love Yoshi. 315 00:13:39,679 --> 00:13:41,600 Speaker 4: Your birthday's coming up, vd's if you dors. 316 00:13:41,480 --> 00:13:43,199 Speaker 2: Is too, it is, we could time it to use 317 00:13:43,200 --> 00:13:45,520 Speaker 2: it within the same week. I reckon, Yeah, if you 318 00:13:45,520 --> 00:13:47,240 Speaker 2: don't have a Yochi account, everybody, we should do a 319 00:13:47,280 --> 00:13:49,199 Speaker 2: birthday we can see how much free stuff we can get. 320 00:13:49,480 --> 00:13:51,240 Speaker 4: I had actually thought about that. I thought it would 321 00:13:51,240 --> 00:13:53,440 Speaker 4: be a very good TikTok to be like, yeah, how 322 00:13:53,440 --> 00:13:54,839 Speaker 4: many things, how many things? 323 00:13:55,160 --> 00:13:57,400 Speaker 2: But also, have you ever gone to Yochi and only 324 00:13:57,440 --> 00:13:58,319 Speaker 2: spent ten dollars? 325 00:13:58,440 --> 00:14:01,440 Speaker 4: Well, that's so true. But all of a sudden, my 326 00:14:01,480 --> 00:14:03,560 Speaker 4: fifteen dollar thing is only five and that's the money. 327 00:14:03,600 --> 00:14:07,360 Speaker 2: That's a deal, good deal. You're basically making money exactly right. 328 00:14:07,559 --> 00:14:10,079 Speaker 4: Next, I've got a money win from Lou said she 329 00:14:10,120 --> 00:14:11,760 Speaker 4: went into Just Jeans this week to try on a 330 00:14:11,800 --> 00:14:14,520 Speaker 4: denim dress, and the sales assistant advice that they could 331 00:14:14,559 --> 00:14:18,280 Speaker 4: price match the online prices. Online it was forty percent off, 332 00:14:18,640 --> 00:14:20,160 Speaker 4: so she managed just call that in store. 333 00:14:20,200 --> 00:14:21,680 Speaker 2: That's so nice, so good. 334 00:14:21,800 --> 00:14:23,440 Speaker 4: I do that sometimes when stuff I want is out 335 00:14:23,440 --> 00:14:25,600 Speaker 4: of stock, Like if there's an online sale that's really 336 00:14:25,600 --> 00:14:27,560 Speaker 4: good and the thing you wanted to sold out, but 337 00:14:27,600 --> 00:14:29,560 Speaker 4: it's not on sale instore, I'll just go in store 338 00:14:29,720 --> 00:14:31,600 Speaker 4: and say can you match the online price? And nine 339 00:14:31,640 --> 00:14:33,520 Speaker 4: times out of ten I say yes, genius, and then 340 00:14:33,520 --> 00:14:36,120 Speaker 4: you get the size that you wanted. And then last 341 00:14:36,120 --> 00:14:37,880 Speaker 4: of this week, I've got money in from wonder who 342 00:14:37,920 --> 00:14:40,800 Speaker 4: said money win. I've been doing so well with saving, 343 00:14:40,960 --> 00:14:43,720 Speaker 4: mostly due to cooking rather than buying takeaway, so I 344 00:14:43,800 --> 00:14:47,080 Speaker 4: decided to buy a convection slash microwave slash air fryer. 345 00:14:47,520 --> 00:14:49,800 Speaker 4: At checkout, I noticed the good guys had a compare 346 00:14:49,920 --> 00:14:53,600 Speaker 4: prices button, so I would already check competitors, you know myself. 347 00:14:53,640 --> 00:14:56,240 Speaker 4: I'd looked at the other websites. I wasn't expecting anything, however, 348 00:14:56,360 --> 00:15:00,120 Speaker 4: was pleasantly surprised when their button found a ten ten 349 00:15:00,160 --> 00:15:01,920 Speaker 4: dollars saving, which they then passed on to her. 350 00:15:02,160 --> 00:15:08,160 Speaker 2: Hey nice, like I have so nice crazy. 351 00:15:08,240 --> 00:15:09,920 Speaker 4: I thought that was very good, So well done to 352 00:15:09,920 --> 00:15:10,440 Speaker 4: the good guys. 353 00:15:10,480 --> 00:15:13,720 Speaker 2: Well done for me, good wrap from you, miss Becks. 354 00:15:13,800 --> 00:15:16,600 Speaker 2: I said, let's quick fire your broke tips because we 355 00:15:16,680 --> 00:15:18,120 Speaker 2: yapped too much about Hamilton. 356 00:15:18,480 --> 00:15:20,680 Speaker 5: Okay, okay, So this first one comes from Rachel, who 357 00:15:20,680 --> 00:15:23,400 Speaker 5: says that if you join Hoyts, it's fifteen dollars a year. 358 00:15:23,400 --> 00:15:25,640 Speaker 5: You can get ulimited refills, So if you go movies, 359 00:15:25,880 --> 00:15:28,440 Speaker 5: your refill. I know, it's not like the drink's portion 360 00:15:28,560 --> 00:15:30,160 Speaker 5: of the night. You wouldn't think about it. It's like, 361 00:15:30,240 --> 00:15:32,840 Speaker 5: I'm not going to be spending a motter on soft drink. 362 00:15:32,920 --> 00:15:36,800 Speaker 5: But it's just another little extra costs that you don't 363 00:15:36,840 --> 00:15:38,640 Speaker 5: have to worry about when you go, which I think 364 00:15:38,720 --> 00:15:40,800 Speaker 5: is great. And also I'm assuming with the Heutz membership 365 00:15:40,920 --> 00:15:43,280 Speaker 5: you get some other benefits as well, like cheap tickets 366 00:15:43,320 --> 00:15:45,400 Speaker 5: things like that. It comes after what I said a 367 00:15:45,400 --> 00:15:47,280 Speaker 5: few weeks ago about I think it was like uber 368 00:15:47,320 --> 00:15:51,040 Speaker 5: one or something the ticket. Yeah, really really cheap tickets, 369 00:15:51,560 --> 00:15:54,400 Speaker 5: free popcorn, all this kind of stuff. So that is fantastic. 370 00:15:54,440 --> 00:15:56,680 Speaker 5: And what they do is they just fill up an 371 00:15:56,720 --> 00:15:59,160 Speaker 5: empty vessel of any kind and then just keep getting 372 00:15:59,160 --> 00:16:02,000 Speaker 5: refills and then they go, you're soft rink for the week. 373 00:16:03,600 --> 00:16:05,760 Speaker 5: And the next one comes from Nat who says, this 374 00:16:05,840 --> 00:16:08,120 Speaker 5: is actually very very smart. You know how you get like, 375 00:16:08,160 --> 00:16:10,560 Speaker 5: you know your loyalty cards and you have free coffee. 376 00:16:10,800 --> 00:16:14,360 Speaker 5: If you use those specifically on public holidays or Sundays 377 00:16:14,360 --> 00:16:18,200 Speaker 5: and you're when there's like a surcharge, then you are 378 00:16:18,360 --> 00:16:20,960 Speaker 5: in a way saving a lot of money, because like 379 00:16:20,960 --> 00:16:23,600 Speaker 5: if you're using it on every other day of the week, 380 00:16:23,800 --> 00:16:26,680 Speaker 5: then it's just like coffee is expensive anyway, but a 381 00:16:26,720 --> 00:16:30,440 Speaker 5: public holiday surcharge on top of that, my god, So 382 00:16:30,640 --> 00:16:32,320 Speaker 5: make sure you use those, save those and use those 383 00:16:32,320 --> 00:16:34,240 Speaker 5: on public holidays unless you can't afford it on a day, 384 00:16:34,600 --> 00:16:36,400 Speaker 5: use it whatever the hell you want. So I think 385 00:16:36,400 --> 00:16:40,240 Speaker 5: that's so clever. My one is really really silly and dumb. 386 00:16:40,280 --> 00:16:42,800 Speaker 5: But I just saw my partner step with this video 387 00:16:42,840 --> 00:16:45,120 Speaker 5: and this girl who had this Tita sauce bottle. I'm 388 00:16:45,160 --> 00:16:47,640 Speaker 5: sure you guys probably have seen this, but it's like, 389 00:16:47,680 --> 00:16:49,000 Speaker 5: you know, when you have like tomato sauce or any 390 00:16:49,040 --> 00:16:51,800 Speaker 5: kind of sauce bottle, it's so unsatisfying when it's like. 391 00:16:52,040 --> 00:16:52,760 Speaker 2: You're shaking it. 392 00:16:52,800 --> 00:16:54,560 Speaker 5: You're doing that thing, were trying to get the rest 393 00:16:54,560 --> 00:16:56,960 Speaker 5: of it out, but it just will not come out, 394 00:16:57,240 --> 00:16:58,520 Speaker 5: and so you just go to chuck the whole thing out. 395 00:16:58,520 --> 00:17:01,640 Speaker 5: It's probably like two three, maybe four serving still left. 396 00:17:01,880 --> 00:17:05,000 Speaker 5: That's just coating the bottle and you're like, wow, I 397 00:17:05,040 --> 00:17:06,600 Speaker 5: can't get it out. I'm just going to check it out. 398 00:17:06,640 --> 00:17:09,639 Speaker 5: But instead, what you could do if you have limber shoulders, 399 00:17:09,680 --> 00:17:13,400 Speaker 5: good rotator center a fugal for yes, if you it's 400 00:17:13,400 --> 00:17:16,320 Speaker 5: gonna be hard to explain to people who are listening, but. 401 00:17:17,119 --> 00:17:21,000 Speaker 2: Say you're gonna get your arms. You're gonna go full, go, go, gadget. 402 00:17:20,760 --> 00:17:25,200 Speaker 5: Yeah, full three hundred and sixty. Hold the bottle at 403 00:17:25,200 --> 00:17:28,359 Speaker 5: the end like a bowler. Yeah, cuck a bowler. 404 00:17:28,400 --> 00:17:29,600 Speaker 2: Don't stop, you don't stop. 405 00:17:29,600 --> 00:17:33,640 Speaker 5: You hold it down and you're like going to an 406 00:17:33,760 --> 00:17:34,520 Speaker 5: example of. 407 00:17:34,520 --> 00:17:37,480 Speaker 2: This, can jump up and get it. Give you a 408 00:17:37,480 --> 00:17:41,159 Speaker 2: good example. It's very satisfying. You kind of like just 409 00:17:41,200 --> 00:17:42,679 Speaker 2: like pulling around the. 410 00:17:43,119 --> 00:17:46,359 Speaker 5: Bottles and it's like it's like, I don't know how 411 00:17:46,359 --> 00:17:48,320 Speaker 5: good it is for your rotated cuffs is what I'm 412 00:17:48,359 --> 00:17:48,840 Speaker 5: worried about. 413 00:17:49,080 --> 00:17:51,800 Speaker 2: Whenever free sauce. Yeah, and I guess you. 414 00:17:51,760 --> 00:17:53,520 Speaker 5: Have to do that when you're like exercising, you have 415 00:17:53,520 --> 00:17:58,480 Speaker 5: to like do that well with you. I can't explain it, 416 00:17:58,480 --> 00:17:59,960 Speaker 5: but I hope you guys understand. 417 00:17:59,840 --> 00:18:01,840 Speaker 2: You're not just putting a little bit of water in there, 418 00:18:01,880 --> 00:18:08,720 Speaker 2: shaking it up and then you storing it upside down. Okay, genius, Yes, 419 00:18:08,840 --> 00:18:10,120 Speaker 2: yes you do can do that too. 420 00:18:10,200 --> 00:18:12,199 Speaker 5: But but sometimes they're in that like glass but you 421 00:18:12,200 --> 00:18:14,560 Speaker 5: know a sweet and sour sauce where it's like that 422 00:18:14,760 --> 00:18:17,320 Speaker 5: glass bottle with that top that is like. 423 00:18:17,280 --> 00:18:20,679 Speaker 2: I know what you're talking. You know, it's like and 424 00:18:20,680 --> 00:18:21,239 Speaker 2: then I opened it. 425 00:18:21,240 --> 00:18:24,200 Speaker 5: It's going everywhere, going everywhere, and also it's coming out 426 00:18:24,240 --> 00:18:26,399 Speaker 5: as it's sat there just doing nothing because it's just 427 00:18:26,400 --> 00:18:29,760 Speaker 5: like it's not very what's the word thinking of, it's 428 00:18:29,840 --> 00:18:31,560 Speaker 5: not like sealing it properly? 429 00:18:31,640 --> 00:18:32,640 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, perfect. 430 00:18:33,400 --> 00:18:34,160 Speaker 5: So cent. 431 00:18:37,680 --> 00:18:38,080 Speaker 4: We're going to. 432 00:18:40,040 --> 00:18:41,960 Speaker 2: Centrifugal force said. 433 00:18:41,720 --> 00:18:44,000 Speaker 5: I will not give you any context. 434 00:18:44,760 --> 00:18:46,720 Speaker 2: That's me. I love that. All right, Well let's go 435 00:18:46,800 --> 00:18:48,560 Speaker 2: to a really quick break on the flip side. We're 436 00:18:48,560 --> 00:18:50,640 Speaker 2: going to be answering a money dilemma, which this week 437 00:18:50,680 --> 00:18:53,440 Speaker 2: is about whether you should buy a house or start investing. 438 00:18:53,640 --> 00:18:55,760 Speaker 2: And then something that you slid into our d ms 439 00:18:55,800 --> 00:18:58,520 Speaker 2: about whether it's worth uprooting your family for a job 440 00:18:58,640 --> 00:19:01,760 Speaker 2: that might actually just be temporary. So guys, don't go anywhere. 441 00:19:05,400 --> 00:19:06,480 Speaker 2: Welcome back, everybody. 442 00:19:06,560 --> 00:19:10,560 Speaker 4: Let's take a listen to this week's moneys dilemma. 443 00:19:10,800 --> 00:19:13,199 Speaker 2: Hi, there, have you got a money dilemma you just 444 00:19:13,240 --> 00:19:15,760 Speaker 2: can't solve That She's on the Money team is here 445 00:19:15,760 --> 00:19:19,000 Speaker 2: to help. Every week we tackle your dilemmas, both big 446 00:19:19,080 --> 00:19:21,800 Speaker 2: and small, to answer your most burning money, career and 447 00:19:21,840 --> 00:19:25,000 Speaker 2: life questions. To get involved, simply head to our website 448 00:19:25,040 --> 00:19:27,160 Speaker 2: and leave us a short voice recording and you might 449 00:19:27,240 --> 00:19:29,760 Speaker 2: just find yourself on the show. Now, let's take a 450 00:19:29,800 --> 00:19:31,560 Speaker 2: listen to this week's money dilemma. 451 00:19:34,160 --> 00:19:36,120 Speaker 6: Hi, She's on the Money. I had a quick question 452 00:19:36,160 --> 00:19:39,120 Speaker 6: I wanted to ask you. So I'm weighing up where 453 00:19:39,200 --> 00:19:41,200 Speaker 6: I should be trying to buy a house for where 454 00:19:41,240 --> 00:19:43,720 Speaker 6: RA should be trying to invest my money. So, for 455 00:19:43,760 --> 00:19:45,919 Speaker 6: a bit of context, I'm twenty three years old, and 456 00:19:45,960 --> 00:19:48,879 Speaker 6: I've just graduated from university, and I'm currently in my 457 00:19:48,920 --> 00:19:51,440 Speaker 6: first full time job. And while I was at Uni, 458 00:19:51,520 --> 00:19:54,679 Speaker 6: I was able to say about twenty thousand dollars, keeping 459 00:19:54,680 --> 00:19:56,840 Speaker 6: in mind that I am planning and putting some aside 460 00:19:56,880 --> 00:19:59,399 Speaker 6: as an emergency fund, So this would give me about 461 00:19:59,440 --> 00:20:03,000 Speaker 6: ten to fift grand left to play with. So obviously 462 00:20:03,080 --> 00:20:05,200 Speaker 6: that's not quite enough to buy a house right now, 463 00:20:05,320 --> 00:20:08,000 Speaker 6: and with my like a work history, but I'm wondering, 464 00:20:08,320 --> 00:20:10,000 Speaker 6: whoever I've be in the next one to two years 465 00:20:10,000 --> 00:20:12,560 Speaker 6: of full time work, I could probably say enough to 466 00:20:12,720 --> 00:20:16,680 Speaker 6: buy something. However, I am also wondering if investing would 467 00:20:16,680 --> 00:20:19,639 Speaker 6: be a smarter option, given that it's a bit more flexible. 468 00:20:20,240 --> 00:20:22,399 Speaker 6: It might give me a bit more room to you know, 469 00:20:22,880 --> 00:20:26,160 Speaker 6: move within my career and do different things. The other 470 00:20:26,280 --> 00:20:29,000 Speaker 6: information I think is important is that I'm hoping to 471 00:20:29,000 --> 00:20:31,880 Speaker 6: pursue a PhD in the next few years, so I'm 472 00:20:31,920 --> 00:20:34,480 Speaker 6: wondering if I should be focusing on buying a house 473 00:20:34,560 --> 00:20:36,840 Speaker 6: before I do that, to kind of get my foot 474 00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:40,240 Speaker 6: in the door before I stop having full time income. 475 00:20:41,000 --> 00:20:43,240 Speaker 6: So I'm also single for a bit of context, So 476 00:20:43,320 --> 00:20:45,919 Speaker 6: I'm making plans kind of around this at the moment, 477 00:20:46,440 --> 00:20:48,560 Speaker 6: and I would love your thoughts and insights. 478 00:20:48,840 --> 00:20:52,760 Speaker 2: Thank you so much, can or lost us? Yeah, what 479 00:20:52,880 --> 00:20:53,560 Speaker 2: would you guys do? 480 00:20:53,840 --> 00:20:54,040 Speaker 1: Well? 481 00:20:54,080 --> 00:20:56,119 Speaker 5: I was just gonna say, like, there's a few thoughts 482 00:20:56,119 --> 00:20:57,800 Speaker 5: I have as all. I feel like, if you're ready 483 00:20:57,800 --> 00:20:59,560 Speaker 5: to do a PhD and you won't have like a 484 00:20:59,560 --> 00:21:02,359 Speaker 5: full time income or like stable income, then maybe like 485 00:21:02,400 --> 00:21:04,760 Speaker 5: buying house, it's not a good time for that. But 486 00:21:04,800 --> 00:21:06,240 Speaker 5: my main question is do you want to buy a 487 00:21:06,240 --> 00:21:09,359 Speaker 5: house or is it like this is you should buy? Yeah, 488 00:21:09,400 --> 00:21:11,760 Speaker 5: like this is what society says I should do by 489 00:21:11,840 --> 00:21:13,719 Speaker 5: this aid blah blah blah, Like do you actually want 490 00:21:13,760 --> 00:21:15,040 Speaker 5: to buy a house, because if you do, then like 491 00:21:15,680 --> 00:21:19,439 Speaker 5: then I think Victoria would say, don't invest, it's too risky. 492 00:21:19,680 --> 00:21:22,560 Speaker 5: Put it in a high interest savings you haven't or 493 00:21:22,600 --> 00:21:25,280 Speaker 5: a term deposit, which is where you lot your money in. 494 00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:27,000 Speaker 2: You don't need me if you. 495 00:21:26,960 --> 00:21:28,400 Speaker 5: Can, actually you know what you could If you could 496 00:21:28,440 --> 00:21:30,600 Speaker 5: leave the whole studio, that would be nice because I 497 00:21:30,600 --> 00:21:31,280 Speaker 5: can take it from here. 498 00:21:31,320 --> 00:21:37,280 Speaker 2: But as long as you continue the Hamilton hate strong, 499 00:21:38,440 --> 00:21:41,239 Speaker 2: you hold that side of the fort up and I 500 00:21:41,240 --> 00:21:42,240 Speaker 2: don't need to know. 501 00:21:42,440 --> 00:21:45,399 Speaker 5: And if we're remembered for nothing else, it's that we 502 00:21:45,400 --> 00:21:45,960 Speaker 5: we didn't like. 503 00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:47,359 Speaker 2: But I never liked Hamilton. 504 00:21:48,800 --> 00:21:51,399 Speaker 5: Term deposit for anyone who needs context that it's just 505 00:21:51,440 --> 00:21:54,280 Speaker 5: like a savings account when you like lock in your 506 00:21:54,280 --> 00:21:57,480 Speaker 5: money for a specific amount of interest for a specific 507 00:21:57,520 --> 00:21:59,159 Speaker 5: amount of time, Like you can't touch it. I mean 508 00:21:59,160 --> 00:22:01,840 Speaker 5: you can, than there's fees, I think anyway. Anyway, So 509 00:22:01,920 --> 00:22:04,960 Speaker 5: like term deposit is an option if you don't trust 510 00:22:05,000 --> 00:22:07,360 Speaker 5: yourself to have all this money in a savings account, 511 00:22:07,520 --> 00:22:09,080 Speaker 5: and you're like, I can't just have it sitting there 512 00:22:09,080 --> 00:22:11,000 Speaker 5: because I'm going to be spending it all, So lock 513 00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:13,400 Speaker 5: it in somewhere where you can still access as it's 514 00:22:13,960 --> 00:22:17,439 Speaker 5: it's really low risk. And then when you feel ready 515 00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:20,920 Speaker 5: and you've saved a little bit more, then start. 516 00:22:20,720 --> 00:22:21,880 Speaker 2: Looking for to buy a house. 517 00:22:21,920 --> 00:22:23,800 Speaker 5: But if you don't actually want to buy a house, 518 00:22:24,200 --> 00:22:26,600 Speaker 5: and you're like, this is money that I'm happy to 519 00:22:27,119 --> 00:22:33,840 Speaker 5: put in shares forever, then do that. I would say, well, 520 00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:34,200 Speaker 5: you can do. 521 00:22:34,200 --> 00:22:36,159 Speaker 2: Like half half whatever. That's me. 522 00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:40,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel like it's I mean, I personally would 523 00:22:40,359 --> 00:22:42,600 Speaker 4: probably invest. Like I look back and I wish that 524 00:22:42,600 --> 00:22:44,679 Speaker 4: I had had the literacy that you have now when 525 00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:48,000 Speaker 4: I was twenty three. Well done on your savings, Well 526 00:22:48,040 --> 00:22:50,119 Speaker 4: done on thinking so far ahead, getting in front of 527 00:22:50,119 --> 00:22:51,879 Speaker 4: the ball. That's absolutely incredible for it. 528 00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:52,440 Speaker 2: Totally. 529 00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:55,120 Speaker 4: I wish that I had had that knowledge and that 530 00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:58,520 Speaker 4: forethought when I was your age. I would say, there's 531 00:22:58,520 --> 00:22:59,680 Speaker 4: a lot of thing touched on. We've done a whole 532 00:22:59,680 --> 00:23:02,200 Speaker 4: episode actually called should I Buy a house or Should 533 00:23:02,200 --> 00:23:04,320 Speaker 4: I invest? I'm pretty sure I would just go listen 534 00:23:04,320 --> 00:23:05,920 Speaker 4: to that episode. We maybe we'll link in the show 535 00:23:05,920 --> 00:23:08,040 Speaker 4: notes but I think there's a lot of reflection to 536 00:23:08,080 --> 00:23:10,320 Speaker 4: be done on what are your goals? You know, I 537 00:23:10,359 --> 00:23:13,119 Speaker 4: think having your money in the share market, particularly taking 538 00:23:13,119 --> 00:23:15,600 Speaker 4: on that PhD, might give you a bit of flexibility. 539 00:23:15,880 --> 00:23:18,680 Speaker 4: I know that a PhD is already such a significant undertaking, 540 00:23:18,720 --> 00:23:22,640 Speaker 4: it's really stressful having mortgage repayments on top of that. Yeah, 541 00:23:22,680 --> 00:23:24,840 Speaker 4: that's where I was mighty a lot. Yeah, but there's 542 00:23:24,880 --> 00:23:26,359 Speaker 4: a lot to consider. So I would just say go 543 00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:28,080 Speaker 4: listen to that episode, because that's the reason we made it. 544 00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:29,680 Speaker 4: I feel like there's something a lot of people think about. 545 00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:32,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's a cliff notes well, one hundred percent. 546 00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:37,440 Speaker 2: I think rock in a hard place because I think backtracking. 547 00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:39,679 Speaker 2: If you have money in an account and it is 548 00:23:39,720 --> 00:23:42,120 Speaker 2: not making you money, you need to do something right now. 549 00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:45,240 Speaker 2: So whether that is investing, or whether that is putting 550 00:23:45,240 --> 00:23:47,919 Speaker 2: it in a you know, high interest savings account or 551 00:23:47,920 --> 00:23:50,600 Speaker 2: a term deposit, like we do not in this house. 552 00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:52,600 Speaker 2: We do not have money that does not make us money, 553 00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:54,840 Speaker 2: full stop, end of story. If you've got savings and 554 00:23:54,840 --> 00:23:57,959 Speaker 2: they're not working for you, you're doing something wrong in 555 00:23:58,040 --> 00:24:00,639 Speaker 2: saying that. Yes, it is a real big goal to 556 00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:03,560 Speaker 2: purchase a house. It is a really big overhead here 557 00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:07,240 Speaker 2: in Australia. If you do a PhD. It usually takes 558 00:24:07,240 --> 00:24:10,040 Speaker 2: anywhere between three and five years to complete a PhD. 559 00:24:10,600 --> 00:24:14,240 Speaker 2: And from my research, a PhD like you get paid 560 00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:17,480 Speaker 2: a stipend to do your PhD, and that is paid 561 00:24:17,480 --> 00:24:19,840 Speaker 2: to you because they assume that you're working so hard 562 00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:23,000 Speaker 2: that you can't maintain any other type of employment during 563 00:24:23,040 --> 00:24:25,960 Speaker 2: this research period. That amount of money, which is tax 564 00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:29,280 Speaker 2: free is anywhere between thirty three thousand and thirty seven 565 00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:33,160 Speaker 2: thousand dollars. That is not a lot of money. And 566 00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:35,600 Speaker 2: you're telling me, oh, I want to get a mortgage 567 00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:38,920 Speaker 2: in this economy and pay it off with that inc 568 00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:40,840 Speaker 2: I feel like you might be setting yourself up for 569 00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:45,440 Speaker 2: some serious, significant financial pressure. And when you're doing a PhD, 570 00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:48,479 Speaker 2: I'm assuming that's the last thing you want. It doesn't 571 00:24:48,480 --> 00:24:51,480 Speaker 2: mean you can't invest for you know, the next five 572 00:24:51,640 --> 00:24:54,280 Speaker 2: ten years and then buy a house later down the track. 573 00:24:54,320 --> 00:24:55,800 Speaker 2: I know that there seems to be a lot of 574 00:24:55,840 --> 00:25:00,119 Speaker 2: pressure on especially young people at the moment, to get 575 00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:02,640 Speaker 2: into the market as soon as possible, But the right 576 00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:04,359 Speaker 2: time for you to get into the market is actually 577 00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:06,240 Speaker 2: when it works for you, not when the market is 578 00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:10,359 Speaker 2: quote good because nobody can time the market. So yes, Jess, 579 00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:13,119 Speaker 2: great suggestion, go listen to that episode. But then also, 580 00:25:14,040 --> 00:25:17,560 Speaker 2: how do we make decisions if we're like, oh, I 581 00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:19,240 Speaker 2: don't know what I want. I need you to like 582 00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:21,520 Speaker 2: zoom out and look at your lifestyle, your goals, what 583 00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:23,639 Speaker 2: do you actually want to achieve? What's the purpose of 584 00:25:23,680 --> 00:25:26,040 Speaker 2: purchasing this house? Because you might go, well, be I 585 00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:27,680 Speaker 2: want to purchase this house while I have a full 586 00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:30,879 Speaker 2: time income and I'm you know, slaying it financially. I 587 00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:32,560 Speaker 2: then want to rent it out for that period of 588 00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:35,680 Speaker 2: time because I've already worked out what the rental yield 589 00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:37,679 Speaker 2: on that property would be. You might already have all 590 00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:40,520 Speaker 2: your numbers and go, well, v actually, that rental yield 591 00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:42,800 Speaker 2: would cover my mortgage repayments, and I'd go rent in 592 00:25:42,800 --> 00:25:45,400 Speaker 2: a sharehouse and keep my living costs really low while 593 00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:49,160 Speaker 2: doing a PhD so that I'm not financially stressed. Different story. 594 00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:52,760 Speaker 2: So I don't know your situation well enough to be 595 00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:55,800 Speaker 2: able to advise on that. And the only person, unfortunately, 596 00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:58,000 Speaker 2: that can answer the question of should I buy a 597 00:25:58,000 --> 00:26:00,480 Speaker 2: house or should I invest is you? And the only 598 00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:02,159 Speaker 2: way that you're going to be able to answer that 599 00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:05,720 Speaker 2: question is to deeply understand your values, your priority is 600 00:26:05,760 --> 00:26:07,880 Speaker 2: what you want to achieve, But then take the pressure 601 00:26:07,920 --> 00:26:10,560 Speaker 2: off timing, Like we don't need to time the market. 602 00:26:10,600 --> 00:26:12,560 Speaker 2: It's like people saying when should I invest? Is it 603 00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:15,520 Speaker 2: a good time now? Honestly, anytime is a good time. 604 00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:18,200 Speaker 2: Just get in. When it comes to purchasing a house, though, 605 00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:21,840 Speaker 2: different story, because is any time a good time? Well no, 606 00:26:22,119 --> 00:26:25,040 Speaker 2: if you're going to be financially hamstrung or really stressed, 607 00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:29,320 Speaker 2: or you're like making that situation that puts you behind, 608 00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:32,800 Speaker 2: is paying off your mortgage during that period of time 609 00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:34,439 Speaker 2: going to mean that you can't put food on the table. 610 00:26:34,880 --> 00:26:37,520 Speaker 2: That's a completely different conversation. So I think that there's 611 00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:41,720 Speaker 2: a lot let's just go back to recommending those podcast episodes, yes, 612 00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:43,560 Speaker 2: and we'll make sure that they're in the show notes 613 00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:45,160 Speaker 2: for you so you can just click them and go. 614 00:26:45,560 --> 00:26:49,359 Speaker 2: But for me, it would be about sorry, understanding your values, 615 00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:51,320 Speaker 2: what you want to achieve and what life looks like, 616 00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:54,440 Speaker 2: or being really realistic about what doing a PhD is 617 00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:55,080 Speaker 2: going to look like. 618 00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:58,560 Speaker 5: There you go, we got a juicy dst we do. 619 00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:01,760 Speaker 2: I'm glad you asked. I thought you'd never ask Jessica, 620 00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:06,280 Speaker 2: it's about Hamilton. So this week's DM. Hey, she's on 621 00:27:06,320 --> 00:27:08,760 Speaker 2: the money. I'm really torn and need your help working 622 00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:12,120 Speaker 2: through a bigger family career change. My partner's just been 623 00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:16,040 Speaker 2: offered an incredible job opportunity that's life changing, but it's 624 00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:18,560 Speaker 2: in a big town over an hour away from where 625 00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:21,200 Speaker 2: we currently live in the city. We have two kids. 626 00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:23,679 Speaker 2: I work full time, and if we stay here, I 627 00:27:23,760 --> 00:27:25,680 Speaker 2: take on a lot more of the load to cover 628 00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:28,240 Speaker 2: the commute, and I would have to do the big 629 00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:31,399 Speaker 2: commute one day week. The job would likely only be 630 00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:33,880 Speaker 2: for a couple of years, so I'm not sure if 631 00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:36,560 Speaker 2: we should move to that town. It would mean moving 632 00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:39,720 Speaker 2: away from family support and our kids having to change 633 00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:42,840 Speaker 2: school My husband wants to stay, but I think the 634 00:27:42,920 --> 00:27:46,280 Speaker 2: move makes more sense. I never really changed schools as 635 00:27:46,280 --> 00:27:49,200 Speaker 2: a kid. Is it really that bad? What would you guys? 636 00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:53,640 Speaker 2: Do you go? You guys? Is it just me like 637 00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:56,840 Speaker 2: jess you drive over an hour to work? But my 638 00:27:57,040 --> 00:28:00,480 Speaker 2: first thought when and I know you're not, oh, I 639 00:28:00,520 --> 00:28:03,000 Speaker 2: need to move to Richmond. No, And I know that I'm. 640 00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:05,639 Speaker 4: Like, I guess a bit of the anomaly in actually No. 641 00:28:05,680 --> 00:28:06,920 Speaker 4: One of the other girls in the team is quite 642 00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:09,600 Speaker 4: close to me, an hour to work is like. 643 00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:11,920 Speaker 2: A bare minimum of me and my dad did that 644 00:28:12,040 --> 00:28:14,439 Speaker 2: for when I was growing up. Yeah, I grew up 645 00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:15,399 Speaker 2: in the suburbs like that. 646 00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:18,520 Speaker 4: An hour commute to me is honestly nothing like to me, 647 00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:21,800 Speaker 4: that's just an hour. Oh that's quez Yeah, literally, I 648 00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:23,560 Speaker 4: had a good run to be forty five minutes dream 649 00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:26,000 Speaker 4: so to me when you said it's an hour away, 650 00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:28,600 Speaker 4: But I don't want to disregard the fact that you 651 00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:30,760 Speaker 4: said that that would mean you taking on a lot 652 00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:33,840 Speaker 4: of the additional mental load. I feel like maybe that's 653 00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:36,200 Speaker 4: where it's coming from. Because the commute itself an hour 654 00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:39,440 Speaker 4: from someone who makes it, it's neither here nor there. 655 00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:41,920 Speaker 2: You just build it. And I'm not saying that it's 656 00:28:41,960 --> 00:28:45,440 Speaker 2: super fun, but you do just build it into your day, definitely, And. 657 00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:47,720 Speaker 4: I understand that that means perhaps that's two hours a 658 00:28:47,800 --> 00:28:50,440 Speaker 4: day less help that you would get from your partner. 659 00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:53,720 Speaker 2: But hopefully the finances make up for it, right, because 660 00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:56,320 Speaker 2: otherwise it's not a good decision to take that job. 661 00:28:56,560 --> 00:28:59,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, I think that if I was you, I would 662 00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:01,120 Speaker 4: be weighing up the pros and cons, Like, I know, 663 00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:02,800 Speaker 4: it sounds really silly. Have you done a pros and cons. 664 00:29:02,840 --> 00:29:04,640 Speaker 4: This obviously a con is you would be taking on 665 00:29:04,680 --> 00:29:07,040 Speaker 4: more work, But what does that work look like specifically, 666 00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:10,080 Speaker 4: because typically, in my mind that would mean in the morning, 667 00:29:10,120 --> 00:29:13,960 Speaker 4: you're probably doing school drop off by yourself, lunch boxes, 668 00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:16,200 Speaker 4: all that sort of stuff, and in the evening you're 669 00:29:16,240 --> 00:29:19,360 Speaker 4: doing dinner prep, maybe bathtime depending on the kid's age, 670 00:29:19,360 --> 00:29:22,240 Speaker 4: that sort of stuff by yourself. A lot of people 671 00:29:22,360 --> 00:29:25,120 Speaker 4: do within their partnership do that because it's I think 672 00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:27,600 Speaker 4: like that kind of community is actually quite common. Like, 673 00:29:27,640 --> 00:29:29,560 Speaker 4: a lot of people have to travel at your work. 674 00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:31,640 Speaker 2: Is it. There's going to be so many people listening 675 00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:33,200 Speaker 2: to this going. I'm listening to the Shoes on the 676 00:29:33,200 --> 00:29:35,520 Speaker 2: Money podcast because I'm always in the car for an hour. 677 00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:39,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, genuinely, Like, is the whatever the work looks like? 678 00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:41,440 Speaker 4: I'm basing that on, Like, you know, a lot of assumptions. 679 00:29:41,480 --> 00:29:45,440 Speaker 4: Whatever you're believing you'll take on, is it manageable for you? 680 00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:47,400 Speaker 4: And if it is manageable for you, are there things 681 00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:49,640 Speaker 4: that you can pass off to your partner, you know, 682 00:29:49,800 --> 00:29:51,720 Speaker 4: when they're home on the weekend, they pick up some 683 00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:54,080 Speaker 4: more of the housework so that you're not doing that, 684 00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:56,440 Speaker 4: you know, Yeah, can you get a robot vacuum, so 685 00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:58,320 Speaker 4: you don't vacuum in the evenings because now you've got 686 00:29:58,320 --> 00:29:59,800 Speaker 4: a bit more cash, Like, are there things you can 687 00:29:59,800 --> 00:30:03,920 Speaker 4: do kind of counterbalance it, because I mean, I personally 688 00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:06,120 Speaker 4: wouldn't move for something that's only an hour away. 689 00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:08,000 Speaker 2: That seems how I feel like you're uprooting your house. 690 00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:09,120 Speaker 2: I'm thinking about property. 691 00:30:09,280 --> 00:30:11,440 Speaker 4: You said you're moving away from your family support, which 692 00:30:11,440 --> 00:30:12,360 Speaker 4: I think is probably. 693 00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:13,840 Speaker 5: Important with you, very important. 694 00:30:14,080 --> 00:30:16,080 Speaker 4: I never moved to school, so I can't really comment 695 00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:18,040 Speaker 4: on that. But did you move schools? Have you said 696 00:30:18,080 --> 00:30:20,840 Speaker 4: that I did move? I feel you're talking about I 697 00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:21,440 Speaker 4: did move schools. 698 00:30:21,480 --> 00:30:23,760 Speaker 5: We did move a fair bit. I moved schools and 699 00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:25,120 Speaker 5: then moved back to the. 700 00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:26,600 Speaker 2: Same Stuah moving schools. 701 00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:28,200 Speaker 5: I think it depends what age you are. 702 00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:29,800 Speaker 2: I have schools three times. 703 00:30:30,320 --> 00:30:33,200 Speaker 5: I don't know, crazy, Hey, it depends on so many things, 704 00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:35,240 Speaker 5: like if your friends, if your children have so many 705 00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:37,400 Speaker 5: friends and like they really like their classes, they really 706 00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:39,240 Speaker 5: like the teachers, they have a really good community there, 707 00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:41,080 Speaker 5: then it's like, oh, yeah, don't do that, sir. But 708 00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:42,960 Speaker 5: then I mean unless if you can avoid it. But 709 00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:45,200 Speaker 5: if you can't avoid it, then they'll be fine. Like 710 00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:47,880 Speaker 5: it's actually I'm sure it does help with their resilience 711 00:30:47,920 --> 00:30:51,959 Speaker 5: and like social skills and learning to connect with different 712 00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:54,760 Speaker 5: walks of life and like different people, different brains, different 713 00:30:54,760 --> 00:30:56,360 Speaker 5: all these things, you know what I mean. So it 714 00:30:56,400 --> 00:30:58,120 Speaker 5: is beneficial in some way. But yeah, if you can 715 00:30:58,160 --> 00:31:01,360 Speaker 5: avoid it, cool. If not cool, if it's like really 716 00:31:01,400 --> 00:31:04,000 Speaker 5: really hard to get there, like cause an hour in 717 00:31:04,040 --> 00:31:07,400 Speaker 5: a car, cool, an hour anywhere in a car, fine, 718 00:31:07,720 --> 00:31:10,400 Speaker 5: an hour to I don't know, it's not an hour 719 00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:12,440 Speaker 5: to Beller, right, but say it is. It's like, god, 720 00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:14,880 Speaker 5: that's like probably twenty buses, you know what I mean, Like, 721 00:31:15,120 --> 00:31:17,280 Speaker 5: what does the commute look like? Maybe that is actually 722 00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:21,840 Speaker 5: really war tricky, which is so fair. But I'm also thinking, 723 00:31:21,920 --> 00:31:25,080 Speaker 5: like the commute currently, if it took me an hour 724 00:31:25,120 --> 00:31:29,720 Speaker 5: to get here, that's only twenty six more minutes than usual, 725 00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:32,520 Speaker 5: you know what I mean, And it's like, god, an hour. 726 00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:34,680 Speaker 5: That's no, I'm not going to do that, but it's 727 00:31:34,720 --> 00:31:37,680 Speaker 5: like only a little bit more than what I'm doing 728 00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:39,960 Speaker 5: right now, So it's like just add that much time? 729 00:31:40,160 --> 00:31:42,440 Speaker 5: Or is it like to feel really really crazy because 730 00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:46,040 Speaker 5: hearing it or seeing it in that way is like 731 00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:48,440 Speaker 5: it feels like too much to bear but like I 732 00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:49,520 Speaker 5: think if it worked. 733 00:31:49,360 --> 00:31:51,360 Speaker 4: Locally and works fifteen minutes away. 734 00:31:51,160 --> 00:31:53,400 Speaker 5: And yeah, it's like an extra forty five minutes, but 735 00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:55,080 Speaker 5: it's like you think of it as an hour and 736 00:31:55,120 --> 00:31:56,880 Speaker 5: you're like, my god, that's crazy. 737 00:31:57,280 --> 00:31:58,640 Speaker 2: So maybe like frame it that way. 738 00:31:58,680 --> 00:32:01,280 Speaker 5: I don't know, but I yeah, I would also say 739 00:32:01,320 --> 00:32:07,640 Speaker 5: like if it is temporary or potentially. 740 00:32:07,880 --> 00:32:11,840 Speaker 2: Just like whatever, nothing's permanent talking about this, I just 741 00:32:11,880 --> 00:32:14,640 Speaker 2: feel like, you know, you wrote in you said it 742 00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:17,960 Speaker 2: was a life changing job opportunity, right, so I'm assuming 743 00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:22,400 Speaker 2: that that means significant financial remuneration and can like in 744 00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:25,640 Speaker 2: comparison to what you currently have, and you know, if 745 00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:27,920 Speaker 2: it's only going to be short lived, like, can we 746 00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:30,040 Speaker 2: not have the mindset of yet it's going to be hard. 747 00:32:30,320 --> 00:32:32,719 Speaker 2: Like I'm not trying to make this sound easier, but 748 00:32:32,840 --> 00:32:35,479 Speaker 2: like for the next few years, we get a lock in, 749 00:32:35,600 --> 00:32:36,600 Speaker 2: we are going to do this. 750 00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:37,239 Speaker 1: You know. 751 00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:39,880 Speaker 2: My compromise is that I'm going to have to spend 752 00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:42,040 Speaker 2: more time at home because my husband's going to go 753 00:32:42,080 --> 00:32:44,800 Speaker 2: out make big bank. But we've got this cash flow 754 00:32:44,840 --> 00:32:47,120 Speaker 2: plan that means that in the three years that he's 755 00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:49,239 Speaker 2: going to you know, have this job, we are going 756 00:32:49,280 --> 00:32:52,080 Speaker 2: to be in such a better financial situation that we're 757 00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:54,520 Speaker 2: on the same page about it being worth it, And 758 00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:57,040 Speaker 2: like Jess you said before, like you know, if you 759 00:32:57,120 --> 00:32:58,600 Speaker 2: have a bit more free money, you could buy like 760 00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:01,240 Speaker 2: a robot vacuum. In my I was like, okay, cool, 761 00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:04,400 Speaker 2: Let's say that my husband gets this job opportunity of 762 00:33:04,440 --> 00:33:07,160 Speaker 2: a lifetime, which is what you're saying it is, and 763 00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:10,280 Speaker 2: he's going to earn double what he's currently earning. I 764 00:33:10,280 --> 00:33:12,840 Speaker 2: don't think it would be beyond the scope of what's 765 00:33:12,920 --> 00:33:16,000 Speaker 2: reasonable to go. Okay, cool, Yeah, we are maybe financially 766 00:33:16,080 --> 00:33:19,840 Speaker 2: a little bit pressed, but let's spend one hundred and 767 00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:22,160 Speaker 2: fifty bucks a week on a cleaner that comes in 768 00:33:22,240 --> 00:33:25,560 Speaker 2: every week, maybe every Friday, so that you're not spending 769 00:33:25,640 --> 00:33:28,960 Speaker 2: any time on the weekend's cleaning. Like, yes, you might 770 00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:31,800 Speaker 2: do the day to day stuff, but like someone comes 771 00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:33,880 Speaker 2: in and I'm trying to sell you on this, they 772 00:33:33,920 --> 00:33:36,400 Speaker 2: do your bathrooms, They you know, change the sheets of 773 00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:39,120 Speaker 2: the kids' beds, they change your bed they do the 774 00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:42,000 Speaker 2: whole hog. Right, Maybe you find someone who's a bit 775 00:33:42,080 --> 00:33:44,560 Speaker 2: cheap because they take cash, Like I just find what 776 00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:46,960 Speaker 2: works for you. But that might be an investment in 777 00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:48,720 Speaker 2: your mental health, so you don't have to do any 778 00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:50,720 Speaker 2: of that. Then when the weekend comes and your husband 779 00:33:50,840 --> 00:33:53,520 Speaker 2: is home, you're spending really good quality family time together. 780 00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:55,800 Speaker 2: But you're not trying to find time during the week 781 00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:58,000 Speaker 2: either to do the sheets and we'll in it and 782 00:33:58,040 --> 00:34:00,120 Speaker 2: like maybe you're like, oh my goodness, the bathroom some 783 00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:04,200 Speaker 2: intouched in weeks and that can genuinely wake quite heavily 784 00:34:04,240 --> 00:34:08,200 Speaker 2: on you mentally. So I feel like, what compromises could 785 00:34:08,200 --> 00:34:11,880 Speaker 2: you be making? And this again is probably me talking. 786 00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:14,880 Speaker 2: You've got more cash flow, you're financially a little bit 787 00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:17,760 Speaker 2: more comfortable instead of having to do the grocery shopping 788 00:34:17,760 --> 00:34:20,160 Speaker 2: every single week. Are we looking at a food delivery 789 00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:23,520 Speaker 2: service like Marley's Boon where you can have dinner four 790 00:34:23,640 --> 00:34:25,560 Speaker 2: nights a week. It's in the fridge, it's ready to cook. 791 00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:28,200 Speaker 2: So you just do school, pick up, come home and 792 00:34:28,239 --> 00:34:31,880 Speaker 2: start prepping dinner. There's no lack that overwhelming Oh my goodness, 793 00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:33,439 Speaker 2: I don't know what I'm going to cook for dinner. 794 00:34:33,440 --> 00:34:34,759 Speaker 2: I have to go to the super market. That like 795 00:34:35,120 --> 00:34:37,360 Speaker 2: mad rush, Like you're running around like a chicken without 796 00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:39,759 Speaker 2: a head after school, Like what can we do to 797 00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:43,160 Speaker 2: set ourselves up for success? Because I'm kind of I'm 798 00:34:43,200 --> 00:34:45,480 Speaker 2: on the same team. I just think that if it's 799 00:34:45,520 --> 00:34:48,160 Speaker 2: an hour away, we don't need to uproot our whole lives, 800 00:34:48,239 --> 00:34:50,719 Speaker 2: especially if your family is there. We're not moving away 801 00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:52,839 Speaker 2: from them. But what things could we spend a bit 802 00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:55,919 Speaker 2: of money on so that it feels really comfortable during 803 00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:58,799 Speaker 2: that period of time. Or are we just trying to 804 00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:01,279 Speaker 2: change our mindset so that we're like, all right, we're 805 00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:03,279 Speaker 2: locking in for three years. It's going to be a 806 00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:05,919 Speaker 2: bit of a hard hog, but like, look how much 807 00:35:05,920 --> 00:35:07,759 Speaker 2: better off we're going to be. And everyone's just on 808 00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:10,040 Speaker 2: the same page. Yeah, Like what does that look like? 809 00:35:10,480 --> 00:35:12,360 Speaker 2: Did everyone else say when we ask? Oh my goodness, 810 00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:15,239 Speaker 2: so many opinions. So first thing we asked is if 811 00:35:15,239 --> 00:35:17,520 Speaker 2: you were our community member, would you say or move? 812 00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:21,440 Speaker 2: Fifty three percent of you said move. It's more sustainable. Surprising, 813 00:35:21,719 --> 00:35:23,200 Speaker 2: I mean sustainability. I guess it's good. 814 00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:25,440 Speaker 4: But they can hatch the train if that's an option, 815 00:35:25,520 --> 00:35:27,600 Speaker 4: potentially public trainsport. 816 00:35:27,040 --> 00:35:29,359 Speaker 5: And then you can do two things at once. If 817 00:35:29,400 --> 00:35:31,759 Speaker 5: you are like I'm to your more of the mental load. Know, 818 00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:33,879 Speaker 5: if your partner is seeing the train every day, they 819 00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:35,080 Speaker 5: do all the adamint on the train. 820 00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:37,520 Speaker 2: A friend who lives in Ballarat and commutes to the 821 00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:40,560 Speaker 2: city every day and has negotiated in their contract that 822 00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:43,319 Speaker 2: they actually get a nine a m train because there's 823 00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:46,000 Speaker 2: less like people on there because it's like a V line, 824 00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:48,560 Speaker 2: which is more of a regional train, so you're guaranteed 825 00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:51,360 Speaker 2: a spot. Basically, they work for the hour on the 826 00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:54,040 Speaker 2: train on the way there, and they've negotiated with their 827 00:35:54,040 --> 00:35:56,400 Speaker 2: boss that that's in their working time, So they leave 828 00:35:56,440 --> 00:35:59,160 Speaker 2: at four pm and they arrive technically at the office 829 00:35:59,160 --> 00:36:02,400 Speaker 2: at ten am, but they've already done like the two hours, 830 00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:05,919 Speaker 2: so their commute time is Actually, that's great genius, right, 831 00:36:06,239 --> 00:36:06,640 Speaker 2: that's great. 832 00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:07,200 Speaker 5: I think I should be. 833 00:36:07,800 --> 00:36:10,160 Speaker 2: Regional trains have Wi Fi and stuff, so they're fine. 834 00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:13,919 Speaker 2: But like, isn't that smart? So yeah, forty seven percent 835 00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:16,160 Speaker 2: of you said you'd stay and not uproot the kids. 836 00:36:16,320 --> 00:36:18,560 Speaker 2: I feel like we're all like, just stay. I was 837 00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:20,640 Speaker 2: surprised with that split. I thought way more of you 838 00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:23,279 Speaker 2: would say, like, stay, but that's okay. Have you or 839 00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:25,239 Speaker 2: your kids ever had to move school because of a 840 00:36:25,280 --> 00:36:28,520 Speaker 2: parent's job. Forty six percent said no, we never had 841 00:36:28,520 --> 00:36:31,200 Speaker 2: to consider it. Thirty percent said yep, and it was fine. 842 00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:34,080 Speaker 2: Thirteen percent said no, but a parent did the commute 843 00:36:34,120 --> 00:36:37,280 Speaker 2: and eleven percent said yes, and it was a struggle. Okay, 844 00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:41,040 Speaker 2: interesting spread. I moved schools three times. Strug did you 845 00:36:41,080 --> 00:36:45,000 Speaker 2: find it? I think because it was relatively early primary school, 846 00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:47,399 Speaker 2: it wasn't as dramatic as it would have been if 847 00:36:47,400 --> 00:36:49,279 Speaker 2: it was high school. I think in high school I 848 00:36:49,280 --> 00:36:52,040 Speaker 2: would have been very upset to lose my friends. But 849 00:36:52,080 --> 00:36:54,440 Speaker 2: when I was little, like making friends when you're like 850 00:36:54,560 --> 00:36:58,600 Speaker 2: six seven eight is not as hard as teenagers. Yeah, 851 00:36:58,680 --> 00:37:01,120 Speaker 2: And I mean we were moving stay so first we 852 00:37:01,120 --> 00:37:03,360 Speaker 2: were like in Lancestern, and then we moved to a 853 00:37:03,360 --> 00:37:06,920 Speaker 2: place called Sister's Beach in Tasmania. And then from Sister's 854 00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:09,160 Speaker 2: Beach we moved over to Melbourne and then you know, 855 00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:12,000 Speaker 2: found a primary school there. But I do remember my 856 00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:16,399 Speaker 2: friends from each location, but I don't remember it being 857 00:37:16,440 --> 00:37:19,120 Speaker 2: super traumatic. I think my parents worked really hard to 858 00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:22,720 Speaker 2: make it as easy as possible, like as exciting as possible. Yeah, 859 00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:24,960 Speaker 2: I I don't remember being like, oh my god, like 860 00:37:25,040 --> 00:37:27,360 Speaker 2: this is the worst decision ever. I do remember not 861 00:37:27,400 --> 00:37:29,480 Speaker 2: wanting to leave the school because I had my little friends, 862 00:37:29,560 --> 00:37:32,360 Speaker 2: but like mom was like, oh, we'll come back to Tasmania, 863 00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:34,400 Speaker 2: We'll do this or you can keep in touch. And 864 00:37:34,440 --> 00:37:37,799 Speaker 2: I mean my best friend Harriet lived in Tasmania all 865 00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:41,680 Speaker 2: through school. Still best friends. Yeah, like that hasn't really changed. 866 00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:42,000 Speaker 4: Yeah. 867 00:37:42,280 --> 00:37:43,880 Speaker 2: We then went to the community and we said what 868 00:37:44,000 --> 00:37:47,520 Speaker 2: is your two cents? So first person said, smaller towns 869 00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:50,759 Speaker 2: often have a stronger community, for example, like sports to 870 00:37:50,840 --> 00:37:55,200 Speaker 2: keep kids connected. Next person said, my dad was constantly away, 871 00:37:55,200 --> 00:37:57,520 Speaker 2: but we never had to move. In retrospect, my mum 872 00:37:57,560 --> 00:37:59,080 Speaker 2: probably had the hardest time. 873 00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:00,000 Speaker 5: Yeah. 874 00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:03,160 Speaker 2: Next person said, moving a kid in primary schools much 875 00:38:03,160 --> 00:38:06,000 Speaker 2: easier on them than high school, which is exactly what 876 00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:08,480 Speaker 2: I said. I moved schools a few times. It was 877 00:38:08,520 --> 00:38:12,240 Speaker 2: absolutely fine, And unhappy marriage and unhappy parents is definitely 878 00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:13,520 Speaker 2: worse than moving schools. 879 00:38:14,040 --> 00:38:16,040 Speaker 4: I mean, that's a good point. It's a good pointing 880 00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:18,680 Speaker 4: to weigh heavily on you. Then that's something you've got 881 00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:19,839 Speaker 4: to consider to Yeah. 882 00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:22,160 Speaker 2: Someone else said, we did it, and we're currently doing it. 883 00:38:22,160 --> 00:38:24,560 Speaker 2: It turned out to be a better lifestyle for us, 884 00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:28,040 Speaker 2: and we ended up staying. Next person said, teacher here 885 00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:30,880 Speaker 2: a fresh start does wonders for kids. They learn to 886 00:38:30,920 --> 00:38:34,400 Speaker 2: build relationships over time. Yes, so you were saying, Another 887 00:38:34,440 --> 00:38:35,880 Speaker 2: person said, and I'm only going to give you a 888 00:38:35,920 --> 00:38:38,320 Speaker 2: couple more. The commute has one of the biggest effects 889 00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:40,640 Speaker 2: on overall happiness, which I think is why you know, Beck, 890 00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:42,560 Speaker 2: you were saying before, like what could you do during 891 00:38:42,600 --> 00:38:44,239 Speaker 2: that time, Like if they'd a way that you could 892 00:38:44,280 --> 00:38:47,320 Speaker 2: make that commute not so old destroying. Someone else said 893 00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:49,759 Speaker 2: this was me and I actually ended up asking to 894 00:38:49,840 --> 00:38:53,200 Speaker 2: change schools over having to commute. And then the last 895 00:38:53,239 --> 00:38:56,319 Speaker 2: person said, I'm a former army brat. Kids are very 896 00:38:56,400 --> 00:38:59,040 Speaker 2: resilient and we'll make new friends and settle into a 897 00:38:59,080 --> 00:39:00,000 Speaker 2: new school easily. 898 00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:03,239 Speaker 5: There you go, really change, I've really gone one eighty. 899 00:39:03,360 --> 00:39:04,160 Speaker 2: I'm like, you can. 900 00:39:04,160 --> 00:39:05,799 Speaker 5: They should move because yeah, because it's like if you're 901 00:39:05,800 --> 00:39:08,080 Speaker 5: an hour away from your family, that's not too far. 902 00:39:11,320 --> 00:39:14,200 Speaker 2: Family support. Like and I'm just like making this up 903 00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:16,480 Speaker 2: in my head at this point, but like if you're saying, oh, 904 00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:18,440 Speaker 2: we don't want to be far away from family support, 905 00:39:18,520 --> 00:39:20,000 Speaker 2: like there's nothing like being able to pick up a 906 00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:22,320 Speaker 2: phone and be like, hey, Mom, I'm struggling with the kids. 907 00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:24,799 Speaker 2: Can you come over and help after school? Like that's 908 00:39:24,840 --> 00:39:26,960 Speaker 2: not as possible if you're asking your mum or whatever 909 00:39:27,280 --> 00:39:30,239 Speaker 2: to drive an hour for that. So yeah, I don't 910 00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:32,359 Speaker 2: I feel like you just have to do what Jess said. 911 00:39:32,360 --> 00:39:34,000 Speaker 2: Have you done a pros and cons? Lest We love 912 00:39:34,040 --> 00:39:36,919 Speaker 2: a pros and cons? We absolutely do. All right. 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