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<v Speaker 1>High Heart podcasts, hear more Kiss podcast playlist and listen

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<v Speaker 1>live on the Free iHeart app a good pickup with

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<v Speaker 1>Britt Hockley and Laura Burn Brady or what our windows down?

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<v Speaker 1>My world risen the dust only good fab dogle down.

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<v Speaker 1>I've don't much, but yeah I'm not our big get

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<v Speaker 1>and what I want it don't matter where that goes.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the pickup. Happy Friday, Everybody, Friday afternoon, It's

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<v Speaker 1>the pickup with Britt Hopily and Laura Burn and I

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<v Speaker 1>know the show's just starting, mate, but it must go on.

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<v Speaker 1>But we do need to get out of here on

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<v Speaker 1>time today because someone not naming names me has their

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<v Speaker 1>hens party. Whoo, we have someou Sorry that that was

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<v Speaker 1>the saddest woo that we could possibly do. Its gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be d It's going to be a great, big weekend

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<v Speaker 1>this weekend because we are celebrating the very last few

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<v Speaker 1>weeks or times or I don't even know if I

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<v Speaker 1>can say exactly how long we are celebrating the last

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<v Speaker 1>six weeks. I think I'm I'm embargoed, so where Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Brittany is going to be single, but not for much longer. Everyone.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel a little bit apprehensive hows. I'm not a

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<v Speaker 1>party animal. I hate doing shots, and I'm really worried that,

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<v Speaker 1>like someone's gonna make me do a shot. Like that

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<v Speaker 1>makes me sound so sad, But I'm not a shot.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't know who you're friends with outside of

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<v Speaker 1>the friends that I already know, because all the people

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<v Speaker 1>that I know that are going, no one's going to

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<v Speaker 1>make you do a shot. I'm also pregnant, so I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna be drinking like yeah, you're I mean, apart

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<v Speaker 1>from the really buff stripper that we have planned for you,

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<v Speaker 1>no you don't. Yeah, absolutely our cards stripper that we

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<v Speaker 1>have planned. There's no shots. I don't exactly know what's happening. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>there are quite a lot of people going, and it

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<v Speaker 1>has been organized by a bunch of my friends and

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<v Speaker 1>my sister. But for me, when I think of like

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<v Speaker 1>the perfect hens, this makes me sound so sad. Day lunch,

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<v Speaker 1>So that was mine, that was my hands. A couple

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<v Speaker 1>of drinks, but like tapping out, Maybe go to a spa,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe get we're not doing that. We get a massage,

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<v Speaker 1>has some relax a couple of drinks in the afternoon,

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<v Speaker 1>but then like we are back home, we are chilling

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<v Speaker 1>at like nine thirty. This is the problem when you

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<v Speaker 1>get married when you're in your late thirties, because this

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<v Speaker 1>was this was the problem for me when I got

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<v Speaker 1>married after having two kids. We had a day lunch.

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<v Speaker 1>We went on a rave bus at two o'clock in

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<v Speaker 1>the afternoon for an hour and a half. We were

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<v Speaker 1>home by six and we were drinking tea by nine

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<v Speaker 1>and everyone was in bed. I know we sound lame.

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<v Speaker 1>I get that, we are well aware, but it was

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<v Speaker 1>really fun. Everyone don't kno, get to try it. It

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<v Speaker 1>was fun, but no, I think it's going to be great.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't wait to see everyone. And of course I

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<v Speaker 1>am going to have a little party and a little boogie.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, let's let's just pray for me to see

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<v Speaker 1>what happens. Only yeah, Monday. Now there is a video

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<v Speaker 1>a TikTok actually that I came across and britt My

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<v Speaker 1>mouth was on the floor. I stopped in my tracks.

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<v Speaker 1>I wish I could play you the audio, but actually

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<v Speaker 1>it was just a really annoying music video that had

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<v Speaker 1>like text overlay. So there's not much to play. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>not great from like a radio perspective, but hear me

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<v Speaker 1>out and I'll talk you through it. Use your words.

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<v Speaker 1>The girl in it is screaming as well, So really

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<v Speaker 1>visualize that when my boyfriend proposed to me at my

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<v Speaker 1>sister's wedding, Oh, shut up, while she was walking down

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<v Speaker 1>the aisle. No way, that's fake. It's not. No one

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<v Speaker 1>would do that. And no, he didn't ask her first.

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<v Speaker 1>It goes on to say I said yes because we

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<v Speaker 1>have been dating for eight years and I knew if

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<v Speaker 1>I said no, he wouldn't ask me again. Oh, this

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<v Speaker 1>is BS. Do you know what? I read this? And like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't actually think it's BS, because I went through

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<v Speaker 1>the rest of her TikTok and she did get married

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<v Speaker 1>to this guy, So like I would, I would dare

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<v Speaker 1>say that if you are married and in a relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of weird to make up fake content about

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<v Speaker 1>your proposals about your boyfriend who is now your husband.

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<v Speaker 1>He your new husband, does not like your sister. No

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<v Speaker 1>one does that. I think that, Why else would you

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<v Speaker 1>do it. She's halfway down the aisle. It's not at

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<v Speaker 1>the wedding, it's not at the reception, it's not the

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<v Speaker 1>pre drinks like she's on the aisle. Yeah, it's really

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<v Speaker 1>like taking someone else's thunder. Also, if it's your sister,

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<v Speaker 1>why aren't you walking down with her? Whyn't right day? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe they will hate each other. Makes sense that there's

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<v Speaker 1>family beef going on here for sure. No. I read

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<v Speaker 1>this and I was like, Wow, it's very narcissistic because

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<v Speaker 1>you've just taken that one person's special day and you've

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<v Speaker 1>made it about yourself and what it is that you want.

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<v Speaker 1>But also if you think about it and you can

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<v Speaker 1>like cut out the special day part and the narcissism

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<v Speaker 1>and everything else, it is kind of genius. It's so romantic.

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<v Speaker 1>Someone else has paid for it. You didn't have to

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<v Speaker 1>do anything. All the people you love are there? Sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>what part of that is romantic? Stingy? I agree? I agree.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just trying to see it from trying to play

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<v Speaker 1>devil's advocate, and there's no advocate here. There's only a

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<v Speaker 1>devil zero advocacy for this man like that. I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I reckon. I'd be like, evacuate my wedding, get out

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<v Speaker 1>of my wedding. I would be off it, oh massively.

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<v Speaker 1>I totally agree. Can I read you some of the

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<v Speaker 1>comments that were underneath this girl? I hope she announces

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<v Speaker 1>her pregnancy at your wedding. Other people like, are you serious?

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<v Speaker 1>I feel so bad for your sister. Another person wrote, girl,

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<v Speaker 1>if he wouldn't ask again because you said no at

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<v Speaker 1>your sister's special day, then are you still with him?

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<v Speaker 1>Which I think is a perfect response. I'm thinking the

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<v Speaker 1>same thing too. If you've been moving for eight years

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<v Speaker 1>and you're like, oh, I was just worried you'd never

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<v Speaker 1>ask me again, then like you read the wrong person. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you with the wrong person. Anyway, he just

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<v Speaker 1>proposed you as your sister was walking down the aisle.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree. And this is the last one, which I

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<v Speaker 1>thought was bang on. Eight years of a relationship and

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<v Speaker 1>the only option to get married that he gives you

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<v Speaker 1>is to ruin your sister's wedding. This man either hates you,

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<v Speaker 1>your family, or the idea of marrying you, or a

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<v Speaker 1>mix of all of these three. I think that they

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<v Speaker 1>maybe got to bang on. Thank God, my sister's already married.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what would you do? What would you do if

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<v Speaker 1>someone propose at your wedding?

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<v Speaker 2>If they want to propose at my wedding, but in

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<v Speaker 2>private at the reception, It's beautiful it's overlooking an ocean

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<v Speaker 2>or whatever, and it's their little moment because they got

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<v Speaker 2>so overtaken by love, then fine. But if you were

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<v Speaker 2>doing it like smack like if you can picture that,

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<v Speaker 2>imagine me in six weeks walking down the aisle and

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<v Speaker 2>then someone walks out in front of me and gets

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<v Speaker 2>on a knee and proposes.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you kidding me? I don't know if they proposed

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<v Speaker 1>on the aisle or whether it would have just been

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<v Speaker 1>like saying it to the person next to you. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean? But the thing is is,

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<v Speaker 1>even if you say, look, if they want to do

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<v Speaker 1>it in private at my wedding, I don't care. I

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<v Speaker 1>still think most people would care because then it means

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<v Speaker 1>they can't tell anyone. Don't you dare speak about the

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<v Speaker 1>fact that you just got engaged when the day is

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<v Speaker 1>not about you, like, because by doing that, it'll spread

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<v Speaker 1>like wildfire through the wedding. Everyone will know, and then

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<v Speaker 1>the day becomes about something else, and that I think

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<v Speaker 1>is unfair. I do know somebody that got engaged at

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<v Speaker 1>a wedding. It was at the wedding, but private, overwhelmed

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<v Speaker 1>with love, that was the time, but it wasn't stealing

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<v Speaker 1>anything though, but it was the location. Ah, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>sure about it, guys, I think we all have feelings anyway. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to talk to you about a new sport

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<v Speaker 1>that I have discovered online. And we're calling this segment

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<v Speaker 1>down the rabbit Hole. It's where you like, find something

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<v Speaker 1>super niche online and you just end up down the

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<v Speaker 1>rabbit hole. You need to know everything about it. I

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<v Speaker 1>have done that. Then the algorithm spits it out and

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<v Speaker 1>you just can't stop. It's like you see one once

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<v Speaker 1>you thought it was a little bit interesting, and all

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<v Speaker 1>of a sudden, it's eleven o'clock at night. You've been

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<v Speaker 1>there for forty five minutes. Now I feel terrible because

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<v Speaker 1>it makes me laugh a ludicrous amount, Like I shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>be laughing this much. It's actually quite impressive. Have you

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<v Speaker 1>heard of hobby horsing? Yeah, you don't even have to

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<v Speaker 1>ask me, because you know I've been down that right

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<v Speaker 1>while with you. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So, if you guys are in the car listening now,

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<v Speaker 2>you don't know what hobby horsing is. It's a sport

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<v Speaker 2>that generally speaking, adults aren't doing like it seems to

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<v Speaker 2>be teenagers and younger, and it is horse jumping and

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<v Speaker 2>horse parading a horse.

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<v Speaker 1>Show without the horse, but there's no horse.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's in fact like think of when you're a

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<v Speaker 2>kid and you get those broomstick horses, Like where there's

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<v Speaker 2>a broomstick there's got the horse head on it and

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<v Speaker 2>had a rain and you would walk it around. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>what they're doing is they're getting their horse and it's

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<v Speaker 2>a competition where there's proper horse jumping. You have to

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<v Speaker 2>parade it around, jump through all the what I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know what they're call but you know where horse jumping

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<v Speaker 2>has the two poles and the different heights.

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<v Speaker 1>It's got to take Jim Canna. I've never horse, so

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, but I think that the jumps are

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<v Speaker 1>just called jumps, but I might be wrong. I'm also

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<v Speaker 1>not a harsey person, so I don't know. So you

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<v Speaker 1>sort of need to see this to believe it. But

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<v Speaker 1>it's taken like a weird turn. Okay, I don't even

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<v Speaker 1>know how to say it, and I feel guilty. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not just show jumping.

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<v Speaker 2>They start to treat their horse like it's a real horse.

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<v Speaker 2>They have like places for it to live, They have

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<v Speaker 2>saddles that they clean, and they like brush its hair,

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<v Speaker 2>and they take it to the beach and they film themselves,

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<v Speaker 2>like letting it run free on the beach.

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<v Speaker 1>They like film the moment that they take it off.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't get it. I just don't get it. I

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<v Speaker 1>want to also, I want to. I've also seen a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of this, and what I've taken from this is

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<v Speaker 1>that the people who take hobby horsing very seriously on

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<v Speaker 1>social media and I'm almost scared to talk about it

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<v Speaker 1>for fear of falling into their wrath, are people who

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<v Speaker 1>also really want a horse. So they really desperately want

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<v Speaker 1>a horse. Horses are expensive, they're high maintenance, like you've

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<v Speaker 1>got to have all of the stuff right to have

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<v Speaker 1>a horse. A lot of people can't do it, and

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<v Speaker 1>so it's like the next best option. So these people

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<v Speaker 1>who are doing the competitions, like they're young girls or

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<v Speaker 1>young boys and they're running around jumping over the jumps

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<v Speaker 1>themselves with their stick horse and the same as it's

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<v Speaker 1>like exactly the same as dressage. If you went to

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<v Speaker 1>watch dressage at the Olympics, you'd think you're watching that,

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<v Speaker 1>but there's no horse. But there is an aspect where

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, you guys are actually really incredible athletes. Like

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<v Speaker 1>they run as fast as they can on their horse.

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<v Speaker 1>They jump as high as they can. It's like they're

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<v Speaker 1>doing high jump. What is the highest jump We've got

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<v Speaker 1>their grace on record for hobby horse. Here the highest

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<v Speaker 1>recorded hobby horse jump. Yeah, one point four one meters.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a big jump on two feet to run with

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<v Speaker 2>a stick between your legs and jump one point four meters, Like,

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<v Speaker 2>if you google it, it is impressive, But it's just

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<v Speaker 2>hard to look past the fake horse for me. Like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm impressed by them, and I love their dedication. They

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<v Speaker 2>train in their backyards, they have proper like dressage training,

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<v Speaker 2>and I think you're wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>You said it's only for teenagers and young girls. Here's

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<v Speaker 1>one for you and Emma.

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<v Speaker 3>I begun hobbyhole saying when I was thirteen I'm now

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<v Speaker 3>forty seven. For friendships are strong. Just always surrounded by women. Obviously,

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<v Speaker 3>this is my main horse. My really, as I say

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<v Speaker 3>in america' my ride I die.

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<v Speaker 1>This is grandmother.

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<v Speaker 3>My name chapter my grandmother. It is a real competitive sport,

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<v Speaker 3>like any other sport. They are bawling rollerblating football. Some

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<v Speaker 3>people try to understand. I try to explain to the Americans.

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<v Speaker 3>I am Themichael Jordan of Finland as far as competitive horbyhossing,

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<v Speaker 3>Michael Jordan, we're.

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<v Speaker 1>Gonna put that video up on the pickup because you

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<v Speaker 1>do need to see it. You need to see it

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<v Speaker 1>to understand. I feel like we're not making fun of me.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, we're not. It is a sport. It's

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<v Speaker 1>people's lives. I love it. I encourage it. They are outdoors,

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<v Speaker 1>they're athletic. I love it for them. I don't understand

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<v Speaker 1>that it's impressive. It's competitive, and I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 1>take anything away from that. However, I do have a question.

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<v Speaker 1>At what point did it turn from just a group

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<v Speaker 1>of people who really wanted a horse, couldn't have one,

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<v Speaker 1>so then they got a bit fixated with their stick horse.

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<v Speaker 1>Why does that turned into a sport? Why aren't there

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<v Speaker 1>people walking their toy dogs on a leash walking down

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<v Speaker 1>the street. That's the way anything turns into a sport,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I understand that, literally, Like, what's that sport where

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<v Speaker 1>it's in the Olympics and you have to run and

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<v Speaker 1>scrub the ice so that the puck curl and curling?

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<v Speaker 1>Like we're sorry, who thought that that was a good idea, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just the way people have a pastime things popularity

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<v Speaker 1>it becomes a sport. Do you think people get into

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<v Speaker 1>these niche sports because they find a way to be

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<v Speaker 1>really good at it because there's only like three people

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<v Speaker 1>in the country that play it. What's the niche of

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<v Speaker 1>sport you ever tried? Ah, I got a niche sports

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<v Speaker 1>person water polo. It wasn't me. I tried to do

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<v Speaker 1>some most random stuff. I wanted to be a fencer,

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<v Speaker 1>so I started fencing. I wanted then I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>do clay shooting, but we are allowed to have guns,

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<v Speaker 1>Like that was the whole thing I wanted to do,

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<v Speaker 1>Like all the random left field sports. Do you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm getting from this? Which is grass? I'm getting

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<v Speaker 1>from this that like, because Brits made it very clear

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<v Speaker 1>she doesn't want to tease the hobby horses, she spent

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of time. I'm on this. What would you

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<v Speaker 1>do if I bought you one? I reckon watch this

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<v Speaker 1>space ten years. Hobby horsing will be at the Olympics twenty

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<v Speaker 1>years maybe. Wow. All right, Britt, I know we've just

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<v Speaker 1>gone from hobby horsing to cats being stolen, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>been a real journey this show. Let me tell you, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what's happened to you? No, my cat hasn't been stolen.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a cat named Raspberry. As much to my

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<v Speaker 1>husband's dismay, because I'm sure he'd love the cat to

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<v Speaker 1>be stolen. He's not a fan. The cat still lives

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<v Speaker 1>with us. But it did get me thinking because there

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<v Speaker 1>is a woman who is in Zurich and she's currently

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<v Speaker 1>in courts at the moment for feeding her neighbour's cat.

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<v Speaker 1>Now hear me out. She's sixty eight years old. She

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<v Speaker 1>intentionally installed a cat flap on her door so that Leo,

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<v Speaker 1>the neighbor's cat could just pop over any time that

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<v Speaker 1>the cat liked. Well, what's wrong with this story? This

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<v Speaker 1>sounds wholesome. Well, the people who are the rightful owners

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<v Speaker 1>of the cat put in a complaint asked this lovely

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<v Speaker 1>old lady to stop feeding the cat. She refused. She

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<v Speaker 1>kept feeding the cat. The problem is, ten months later,

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<v Speaker 1>Leo the cat no longer wants to go home. It

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<v Speaker 1>wants to live with the feeder smile, And so they've

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<v Speaker 1>taken her to court and it's currently going through the

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<v Speaker 1>court systems and it's called systematically feeding a cat that

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<v Speaker 1>is not yours, so that cannot be a law that

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<v Speaker 1>is not real. So it's a criminal offense in Switzerland.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know whether it's a criminal offense in Australia.

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<v Speaker 1>But let me tell you, I have a lovely neighbor.

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<v Speaker 1>She's so so sweet. She lives on her own and

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<v Speaker 1>we have a cat, and our cat sometimes during the

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<v Speaker 1>day just disappears for long periods of time. I know

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<v Speaker 1>she only kind of goes in our yard or the

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<v Speaker 1>neighbor's yard, like she's not a wandering cat, because she's

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<v Speaker 1>quite timid and scared of literally everything. But some days gone, disappeared, vanished,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm pretty certain she's inside my neighbor's house because

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<v Speaker 1>my kids were talking to my neighbor the other day

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<v Speaker 1>and she was talking about how much she loves having

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<v Speaker 1>the cat over, and You're like, when do you have

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<v Speaker 1>the cat? I was like, what do you mean? The

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<v Speaker 1>cat doesn't come over anyway. Molly came inside and she

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<v Speaker 1>was like, Mom, I reckon, Raspberry's been living at Ronda's house.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you reckon? She mope, okay, worst case, I don't mind.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we'rend would treat it well. I think not.

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<v Speaker 1>I think she probably has a good life there. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>Franzbury should move in with Rhonda. No, I love my cat.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want her to move in, but I also

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<v Speaker 1>want her to know that there's many forms of love

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<v Speaker 1>and she can get it from the neighbor as well.

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<v Speaker 1>She want to know, Okay, hang on. I had a

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<v Speaker 1>border Collie called Mia, love of my life. I was

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<v Speaker 1>about twenty three years old, and she was getting fatter

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<v Speaker 1>and fatter, and she was only about four years old,

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<v Speaker 1>and you knew it wasn't coming from her. I knew

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<v Speaker 1>what I was feeding her, and I would leave her

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<v Speaker 1>in the day in the morning, come home in the afternoon.

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<v Speaker 1>She was there to greet me. And I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>this is a real problem, and I know there are

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<v Speaker 1>some diseases that she could have that made to put

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<v Speaker 1>on weight.

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<v Speaker 2>So I took her to the vet, had the vet

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<v Speaker 2>check her out, and the vet was like, she's not

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<v Speaker 2>coming back with anything, but they were like, you need

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<v Speaker 2>to stop feeding her. I was like, I'm barely feeding her,

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<v Speaker 2>like she's on the strictest diet to lose weight, and

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<v Speaker 2>she was getting bigger and bigger.

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<v Speaker 1>We ended up having to install cameras. What she was

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<v Speaker 1>doing my border Collie, which she would jump up onto

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<v Speaker 1>the bins outside, jump over the fence, a big fence

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<v Speaker 1>to the ground outside, walk down into the street to

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<v Speaker 1>the retirement village, spend the day at the retirement village.

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<v Speaker 1>The hold a whole roast chickens.

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<v Speaker 2>Every single retirement village person Newa would feed her and

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<v Speaker 2>I ended up figuring it out.

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<v Speaker 1>They were like, oh, she's been coming every day for

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<v Speaker 1>a year. Then she would bring herself home, sneak back

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<v Speaker 1>in the back like nothing ever happened. That's really sad though,

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<v Speaker 1>because then if you stop her from going, all of

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<v Speaker 1>those old people who love seeing their dog, their dog

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<v Speaker 1>who visited them every day, they're one piece of joy

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<v Speaker 1>that it brings them. I said she could still come.

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<v Speaker 1>She used to visit, but I said, you guys can't

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<v Speaker 1>feed her anymore. They yeah, they stopped feeding up, but

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<v Speaker 1>Mia still went down to visit.

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<v Speaker 2>She made their day. But I was like, you can't

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<v Speaker 2>give a roast chickens. They were giving a whole chicken.

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<v Speaker 1>I also think in this instance, like if you've got

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<v Speaker 1>an issue with your cat going to the neighbor's house,

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<v Speaker 1>keep a cat inside, Like the plan is simple I

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<v Speaker 1>know that. Like, I don't understand how this couple and

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<v Speaker 1>this cat and this old woman ended up in court

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<v Speaker 1>in Zurich. I'm like, surely, if the issue is is

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<v Speaker 1>that your cat is leaving your apartment and going in

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<v Speaker 1>the cat flap door that your neighbor installed, just don't

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<v Speaker 1>let it out Like that makes no sense to me.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not against it. I think it's fine, but I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sure that there are other people who have had far

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<v Speaker 1>worse versions of this. I just think my cat is

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<v Speaker 1>happily being co parented at the moment, and she's living

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<v Speaker 1>a great life. Let her live her best life with Ruth. Ruth,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, guys, Look that is it from us,