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<v Speaker 1>Hey, it's the pickup with Britt, Laura and Mitch here

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<v Speaker 1>right around Australia. Rush into Chemists warehouse this Father's Day

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<v Speaker 1>for big brand fragrances at the lowest prices chemist ware House,

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<v Speaker 1>great savings every day. So you, Laura, are happily married

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<v Speaker 1>to your beautiful Maddie Jay.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, as is a statement of moment concur.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just going through my tick, Liss.

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<v Speaker 1>Correct, married, Britt, you are happily incoupled with your beautiful,

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<v Speaker 1>gorgeous boyfriend Benjamin.

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<v Speaker 2>Yep.

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<v Speaker 4>Definitely no marriage yet if he's listening. Not opposed to it,

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<v Speaker 4>but yes, that's correct.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm nearly single after your tumultuous breakup and just tick

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<v Speaker 1>that I almost forgot and now I've reminded myself. The

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<v Speaker 1>reason I'm asking is because there's this trend going viral

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<v Speaker 1>online and it is people talking about lies that they

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<v Speaker 1>keep or little secrets that they share they don't share

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<v Speaker 1>with their partner, that are wholesome, that are small, they're

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<v Speaker 1>not big enough, They're not cheating. It's not infidelity, just.

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<v Speaker 5>Little white lies like the lies you tell your children

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<v Speaker 5>are the same ones that you tell your partner.

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<v Speaker 3>Exactly. We all have those lies that you just go

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<v Speaker 3>they don't need to know.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes you have to do that.

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<v Speaker 5>Also, not all lies are created equal. I think it's

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<v Speaker 5>so kay to have some secrets from your partner.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, here are some examples.

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<v Speaker 5>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>One girlfriend says, my husband gets excited about bag fries

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<v Speaker 1>when we get fast food. So when I pass out

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<v Speaker 1>the food in the bag, I always take a few

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<v Speaker 1>of my fries out and sprinkle them into the bottom

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<v Speaker 1>of the bag.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh it's cute. Yeah, like she thinks that there's extra ones.

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<v Speaker 3>He just thinks that.

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<v Speaker 1>They've fallen out, and he gets so excited bag fries

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<v Speaker 1>bag fries, But she does so he gets excited.

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<v Speaker 4>Done that in reverse, like I would have quickly taken

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<v Speaker 4>the bag fries and eaten them so he couldn't get them.

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<v Speaker 3>What about this?

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<v Speaker 1>Whenever someone else says, whenever he's having a really bad day,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll reach out to his mum and say that he

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<v Speaker 1>misses her. She'll usually call him that day or the next,

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<v Speaker 1>but it always makes him feel a lot better. He

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<v Speaker 1>thinks that his mum has a special mum sense and

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<v Speaker 1>knows when to call him when he's feeling bad.

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<v Speaker 3>It's really cute.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, these are so nice. I mean, I'm cute, he's.

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<v Speaker 5>A lovely I mean, I lied to my beautiful husband, Matt,

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<v Speaker 5>and it was a white lie. But it was because

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<v Speaker 5>I scratched the tires on his car, and then I

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<v Speaker 5>said that they was already like that when I over

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<v Speaker 5>drove the car.

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<v Speaker 2>I just denied it and gas led him into believing

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<v Speaker 2>maybe he did it.

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<v Speaker 3>That's just gaslighting.

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<v Speaker 5>So is that just bad line? Where's the line between

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<v Speaker 5>what's a bad line a good life?

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<v Speaker 3>I was hoping for some like more salacious white lies

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<v Speaker 3>like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe aren't.

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<v Speaker 4>So, you know, like I ate the last block of

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<v Speaker 4>chocolate quickly and then I went and had to buy

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<v Speaker 4>another one to replace it, so that they would never know.

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<v Speaker 2>I've got one.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I often tell Matt that I'm really tired and I'm

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<v Speaker 5>going to bed, but really.

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<v Speaker 2>I lay in bed on Instagram.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh we all do that for forty five We've all

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<v Speaker 3>been there.

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<v Speaker 5>And then I quickly turned it off when I hear

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<v Speaker 5>him coming and pretend I'm asleep so we won't have

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<v Speaker 5>sex with me. Just see when you're on line sometime

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<v Speaker 5>Because I am tired and I wanted to go to sleep,

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<v Speaker 5>but I got distracted.

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<v Speaker 2>He's in the lounde room on Instagram looking at you're online. No,

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<v Speaker 2>I do in cognito mode. That's not a Instagram.

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<v Speaker 3>Just have sex with your husband.

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<v Speaker 2>No, don't make me.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm tiredous.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what happened last time. I have two children

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<v Speaker 2>to prove it.

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<v Speaker 3>He's a beautiful man.

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<v Speaker 2>I I know, poor guy.

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<v Speaker 3>But I might put a wig on and put on

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<v Speaker 3>some and line in your bed one night. So I'm ready.

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<v Speaker 3>Something happened to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I was just thinking if I share it or not?

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<v Speaker 2>Because Ben, listen.

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<v Speaker 4>I I'm a really bad cook and I'm really bad

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<v Speaker 4>in the kitchen and I hate it.

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<v Speaker 3>I live alone.

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<v Speaker 4>I never want to do it, so I usually eat

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<v Speaker 4>pretty badly and I have a really bad habit of

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<v Speaker 4>just having cocoa pops or a bowl of cereal for Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I don't know the brit special is. She has

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<v Speaker 5>chicken and nugget dinosaurs.

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<v Speaker 1>Now.

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<v Speaker 4>My partner, Ben is an athlete, a professional athlete. He's

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<v Speaker 4>very healthy, very to his finish soccer.

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<v Speaker 2>He plays football. Yeah, he always worries about me, and

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<v Speaker 2>he doesn't live here.

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<v Speaker 4>He lives over in Scotland, so he can't watch what

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<v Speaker 4>I'm eating or cook for me. So he always hassles

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<v Speaker 4>me and he's like, what are you having for dinner?

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<v Speaker 4>Or what if you had for dinner? Let me know,

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<v Speaker 4>talk with your send me a picture. So I often

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<v Speaker 4>will just like sit down with my bowl of Coca

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<v Speaker 4>Pops and I'll just find like a picture online of

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<v Speaker 4>hallow Fresh off a meal and that someone else has

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<v Speaker 4>taken and I'm to send it to him and I'll

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<v Speaker 4>just pretend that I've cooked a Hallow Fresh wait.

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<v Speaker 3>You're googling Hollow Fresh finished meals.

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<v Speaker 4>Or I'll go back through like my phone as if

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<v Speaker 4>I've ever taken a photo of a meal, and then

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<v Speaker 4>I just send it to him and I just pretend.

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<v Speaker 2>Brit what did you send a double?

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<v Speaker 5>And he's like, this is a recycled food pick that

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<v Speaker 5>you sent me two months ago.

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<v Speaker 3>I literally picture this.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sitting on the on the lounge and in my

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<v Speaker 4>Coca Pops and I'm just like pressed in on a

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<v Speaker 4>generic Hollow Fresh meal and that's here and he's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>that looks really good.

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<v Speaker 3>Lots of veggies. I was like, well that's a veggies,

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<v Speaker 3>that's gold that's cold.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh oh well, if you want to have another laugh,

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<v Speaker 6>I had to talk my knees, my twelve year old

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<v Speaker 6>niece through the Birds and the Bees on the weekend.

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<v Speaker 6>Somehow these got dumped on me and I found myself

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<v Speaker 6>talking birds and the bees, talking science, talking embryos, talking

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<v Speaker 6>egg freezing, how things are made a lab.

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<v Speaker 2>It didn't go down that well.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, I can't wait to hear that went out.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll do an eggs on the pickup