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Speaker 1: And Amanda gam Nations. We had burried a borron just

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Speaker 1: before and.

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Speaker 2: Ween he comes in here, he just brings a dozen.

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Speaker 2: All the girls are boweries.

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Speaker 1: He's such an incredible person and when you hear him

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Speaker 1: talk about the battle he's had with cancer. I've learned

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Speaker 1: so much from him about living in the moment. And

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Speaker 1: my husband says the same thing. We all have an

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Speaker 1: asteroid coming for us. So well, we all do, and

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Speaker 1: so it's how you live graciously each day that makes

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Speaker 1: the difference.

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Speaker 2: Why I ride a motorcycle, why for exactly that reason.

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Speaker 2: You never feel so alive when you're so close to

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Speaker 2: death every day. But it's funny I get that I

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Speaker 2: get that bike since I was nineteen.

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Speaker 1: Well, I celebrated it a different way yesterday because it

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Speaker 1: was Father's Day and both boys, and either of whom

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Speaker 1: live at home anymore, came home. We had a wonderful

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Speaker 1: day together. And when our show turned eighteen, our bosses

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Speaker 1: here gave us this beautiful bottle of wine, A penfolds wine.

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Speaker 2: Is it?

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Speaker 1: They graine? Am I just assuming from the year our

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Speaker 1: show started, which was two thousand and five. It's a

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Speaker 1: nice bottle, And I thought, why am I keeping this

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Speaker 1: for a better day. There is no better day than

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Speaker 1: the four of us sitting around a table at home.

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Speaker 1: So we drank it. And you know, neither of the

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Speaker 1: boys are particularly wine drink as you know they're twenty

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Speaker 1: two and twenty, but they had a glass as well.

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Speaker 1: But the idea that keeping things for best today should

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Speaker 1: be your best. And when my mom died, my niece

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Speaker 1: and I were going through some of the things she'd

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Speaker 1: had there and she used a tatty old handbag every day,

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Speaker 1: but in the drawer with these beautiful, pristine bags she'd

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Speaker 1: brought over the years that she never used, and I thought,

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Speaker 1: that's such a shame that you just don't use your

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Speaker 1: things every day, your best things. I think maybe mum

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Speaker 1: got pleasure from the fact that they were pristine, and

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Speaker 1: maybe that gave her pleasure. She knew that they were

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Speaker 1: still at their best condition in the cupboard. But for me,

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Speaker 1: I think, let's get the stuff out. And I've got

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Speaker 1: friends who say the same thing, who got given big

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Speaker 1: dinner services when they got married, bring it out for

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Speaker 1: a barbecue, get it out, live your best life absolutely today.

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Speaker 1: So we drank the grange.

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Speaker 2: Did Jack do a shoey he's got.

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Speaker 1: Big feet too. It would have been much left for

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Speaker 1: the rest of us.

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Speaker 2: It will speaking drink fly spray on a bad day.

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Speaker 1: Have you got yours?

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Speaker 2: I think i'd have to check the recycling. When we

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Speaker 2: first got it.

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Speaker 1: You didn't notice the two thousand and five on the label.

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Speaker 2: I think it would have gone straight into the recycling.

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Speaker 1: You used it to make a gravy.

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Speaker 2: No,