WEBVTT - Let's Be Wittle Babies 😚🍼🐥👶

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<v Speaker 1>Flex and Frooms Flex and Frooms.

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<v Speaker 2>This is the Flex and Frooms catch.

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<v Speaker 1>Up podcast, Friday Freaks. Oh my god, I'm so happy

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<v Speaker 1>it's Friday. Thank you If you listen every week, we

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<v Speaker 1>really love you. Today we want to advocate for behaving

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<v Speaker 1>like a baby that's on the potty. Have a lovely weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>But first, here's the podcast you're listening to, Flex and

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<v Speaker 1>Frooms on Kita.

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<v Speaker 3>I've come to a bit of an epiphany recently. And

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<v Speaker 3>I know I don't like to say that word, but

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<v Speaker 3>this really was an epiphany, and I was thinking about

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<v Speaker 3>how babies are really on like X Games mode when

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<v Speaker 3>it comes to living. Babies just understand how to do

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<v Speaker 3>life right. And what I mean by that is like

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<v Speaker 3>I spent a lot of time surrounded by kids, or

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<v Speaker 3>like more than the average person, and I'm so like

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<v Speaker 3>just infatuated by observing them, especially toddlers and babies because

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<v Speaker 3>they can't speak, which means, like you take out this

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<v Speaker 3>whole way that we're used to communicating, and yet we

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<v Speaker 3>find other ways to determine are they okay?

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<v Speaker 2>Are they well? Are they happy? Are they good?

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<v Speaker 3>We become more accountable and more responsible for reading between

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<v Speaker 3>the lines in the right way. We're not just trying

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<v Speaker 3>to assign meaning to them. We're like, oh, wait, what

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<v Speaker 3>does this baby need from me right now?

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<v Speaker 2>And I was.

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<v Speaker 3>Thinking, like, especially watching how people respond to figuring out

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<v Speaker 3>what babies need when they're not parents, Oh what's going on?

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<v Speaker 2>Are they okay? Are they not okay?

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<v Speaker 3>And then I was like, oh, because when you interact

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<v Speaker 3>with a baby, you're not leading with logic first. It's empathy,

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<v Speaker 3>it's emotions, it's body language, it's big picture. It's not

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<v Speaker 3>over intellectualized because you can't intellectualize what this sack of

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<v Speaker 3>skin is doing. And so then I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>my goodness, babies are the blueprint. What other ways are

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<v Speaker 3>they just like nailing it at life? Have you ever

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<v Speaker 3>seen a baby or a toddler in particular, pick up something,

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<v Speaker 3>no perfect posture, bent to the knee. Really I had

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<v Speaker 3>to teach myself that working in hospitality, babies naturally bend

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<v Speaker 3>at the knee to pick up stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually I could have picture that with it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, they were Also I was watching this video and

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<v Speaker 3>was talking about how a lot of adults complain about

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<v Speaker 3>lower back pain, and then this guy was like, you

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<v Speaker 3>need to lie down on your stomach, lifting from your

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<v Speaker 3>bust and your chest and the interact with the world

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<v Speaker 3>that way. That will strengthen your back muscles and make

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<v Speaker 3>your back hurt less. I said, don't babies do that? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>babies do that. And then also when you are going

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<v Speaker 3>through like the rollerdeck of what a baby needs, it's

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<v Speaker 3>like one of eight things. Eat, sleep, play, who, be cuddled,

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<v Speaker 3>be doted on, be acknowledged, I say, And realistically, as

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<v Speaker 3>a person, isn't that all you need as well acts?

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<v Speaker 3>Like all the other stuff, it's too complex. Simplify, simplify, simplify,

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<v Speaker 3>allow the people in your life to view you as

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<v Speaker 3>just a baby. Don't ask me to explain anything. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't have the words, but what I do have is

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<v Speaker 3>a scratch right here.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I did for three me.

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<v Speaker 3>When you're coming to radio touchy touchy, touchy baby needs

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<v Speaker 3>her skin to skin.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't. Oh, I get it.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome back to the Flex and Frooms Show. We here

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<v Speaker 1>at Flex and Frims love to get to the bottom

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<v Speaker 1>of life's big issues. We love it when you send

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<v Speaker 1>us voice memos all little tiny dms to Flex and

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<v Speaker 1>Frooms on Instagram ask us for advice. We won't always

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<v Speaker 1>give you things that are coherent. However, we will always

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<v Speaker 1>attempt to make it entertaining. We have a it's so true.

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<v Speaker 1>We have an anonymous submission by one of our listeners,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's about when to re spark a friendship. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a long one guy, so strap in, here we go.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was part of a five person friend group

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<v Speaker 1>in Brackets, all girls, for the past four and a

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<v Speaker 1>half years, and then left late last year. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>this is like leaving a cult. Long story short, I

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<v Speaker 1>was going through a lot of personal issues and basically

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<v Speaker 1>I had a mental breakdown and went mute out of nowhere.

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<v Speaker 1>Mind you, four of us were roommates and one curl

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<v Speaker 1>live next door. The root of all problems here is

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<v Speaker 1>that I didn't communicate what was going what I was

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<v Speaker 1>going for, and essentially shut them all out. Wow it happens,

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<v Speaker 1>though naturally, while I was caught up in my misery,

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<v Speaker 1>they took offense to that and assumed I had it

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<v Speaker 1>out for them. One girl recently reached out to let

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<v Speaker 1>me know. I was so shocked when they started making

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<v Speaker 1>a little tiktoks and basically yapping around campus about this

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<v Speaker 1>whole thing, and I was left friendless. I was so heartbroken.

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<v Speaker 1>Thus because their reaction was so violent and living situation

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<v Speaker 1>became very passive, aggressive and just hostile. Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>Last week one of the girls in the friend group

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<v Speaker 1>reach out and apologize for their behavior and rudeness and

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<v Speaker 1>basically wanted to meet and talk to get over things

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<v Speaker 1>like adults in Bunny Rabbit quotations? Do you think I

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<v Speaker 1>should go? Not gonna lie? I don't feel ready because

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<v Speaker 1>now every time I think that life changing period in

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<v Speaker 1>my life, I can't get over how the people I

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<v Speaker 1>love most are being vile ps I genuinely do realize

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<v Speaker 1>that all this could have been avoided with a single conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>Couldn't everything in life? I am a big fan of

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<v Speaker 1>the podcast You're Going Plantnum on my Spotify rapp this year.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you incredible work.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So it's funny because when producer Mickey sent this in,

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<v Speaker 3>she did preface it by saying, I think the answer

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<v Speaker 3>is obvious, which I think is very surprising because I

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<v Speaker 3>feel like.

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<v Speaker 2>We could have different answers on this.

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<v Speaker 3>I think Fremianni and Mickey Yanni have a habit of

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<v Speaker 3>thinking the exact same thing.

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<v Speaker 1>So Mickey, please tell us what do you think about

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<v Speaker 1>the situation? What would you do?

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<v Speaker 4>Hello, Basically, she had a bit of a moment and

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<v Speaker 4>then she stepped back from the group because that's what

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<v Speaker 4>she needed for her mental health, which is we've all

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<v Speaker 4>been there, Like I think I've done that multiple times

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<v Speaker 4>in a friendship where I've taken a step back because

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<v Speaker 4>I needed that for me. But I think any friends

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<v Speaker 4>who don't understand that you might have something else going

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<v Speaker 4>on behind the scenes, which might mean that you step

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<v Speaker 4>back from the friendship I don't necessarily know have your

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<v Speaker 4>best interest at heart, Like if they're making all these

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<v Speaker 4>tiktoks about you.

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<v Speaker 3>And TikTok's got me but one thing to have a

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<v Speaker 3>bit of a bit of a gossip in the group.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, totally tiktoks.

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<v Speaker 4>It just makes me realize, like, ah, these girls your

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<v Speaker 4>real friends and how long have they been around for?

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<v Speaker 4>Because I can't say that any of my friends would

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<v Speaker 4>be making tiktoks about me behind my back before actually

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<v Speaker 4>checking in on me.

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<v Speaker 3>The living situation confuses me though, because I wonder how

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<v Speaker 3>you've been able to sustain your friendship while still living together.

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<v Speaker 4>That's hard work having to avoid picking.

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<v Speaker 3>Part of the thing that I'm understanding with aging is

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<v Speaker 3>that I did speak earlier that I was once honestly

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<v Speaker 3>is the best policy type babe. And similarly, I don't

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<v Speaker 3>know how I feel about being the bigger person because

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<v Speaker 3>all the things will tell you, you know, have this conversation,

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<v Speaker 3>see it through.

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<v Speaker 2>But who is that for?

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<v Speaker 3>If you in this current state can't imagine the benefit

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<v Speaker 3>of going and exposing yourself to a potentially horroring situation.

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<v Speaker 3>People on the defense, you're outnumbered, which means that you're

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<v Speaker 3>out experienced. You have four different people, five friends, people

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<v Speaker 3>who have all these really extreme opinions about what you

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<v Speaker 3>did to them, even though it was passive and in adirect.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think you're in a particularly safe spot to

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<v Speaker 3>come out of that unscathed.

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<v Speaker 1>I think if they are reaching out to you, I

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<v Speaker 1>would go. I would just keep your guard up. We

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<v Speaker 1>know we don't like guard up culture. The fact that

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<v Speaker 1>you've come out the gate to acknowledge that you shut

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<v Speaker 1>off like some people really don't take to that kindly.

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<v Speaker 1>They might have been really offended. And then, like the group,

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<v Speaker 1>when you're in a group situation, you egg each other

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<v Speaker 1>on to think, oh, that is really rude, that is

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<v Speaker 1>really rude. Maybe you just need to diffuse the situation.

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<v Speaker 1>Go in there, have the chat, but kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>have low expectations.

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<v Speaker 3>See that's crazy, though, because right now she's in a

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<v Speaker 3>quite fine place where she's saying, like, I don't feel ready.

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<v Speaker 3>Every time I think about that life changing period, I

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<v Speaker 3>can't get over how the people I love most were

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<v Speaker 3>being vile. You're mad, you're a odds like You've got

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<v Speaker 3>five people who think that you're the villain. You're like,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm the victim. You've only got one representative who's got

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<v Speaker 3>to reach out and talk to you. Now they're playing

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<v Speaker 3>both sides. It's just like it doesn't feel like a

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<v Speaker 3>dust hands, like let's just kiss and makeup. To be honest,

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<v Speaker 3>it feels like the girl that reached out is experiencing

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<v Speaker 3>what you experienced.

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<v Speaker 2>And she said, hold on, let.

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<v Speaker 1>Me go on the right side of history for a second.

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<v Speaker 3>Let me you know, I've actually got pick my side properly.

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<v Speaker 3>Friendships are definitely you shouldn't just throw them out. I

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<v Speaker 3>think they're worth investing time and energy into. But not

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<v Speaker 3>all friendships are built the same. And like MICKI was saying,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know any of my friends who if I

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<v Speaker 3>was going through something and I dipped out for a bit,

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<v Speaker 3>the instinct is to go and make tiki talkies about me.

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<v Speaker 1>The tiki TALKI is not just like, oh.

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<v Speaker 3>I had a friend and like she's been having a

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<v Speaker 3>moment and she's disappeared, but like and I quote yapping

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<v Speaker 3>around campus and I was left friendless.

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<v Speaker 1>This is so weird.

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<v Speaker 4>It's really I would assess the value of these friends

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<v Speaker 4>before the drama, and if they were of value and

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<v Speaker 4>really important to you, then I would go down the

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<v Speaker 4>fumi route. But if I was this cut up about

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<v Speaker 4>it and they had been humiliating me in a public forum,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think it's worth it. I think you can

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<v Speaker 4>find other friends.

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<v Speaker 1>Truly start from scratch, and you can make really good

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<v Speaker 1>friends all through your life. Don't know if you're you know,

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<v Speaker 1>twenty something and you're like, oh, I should be friends

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<v Speaker 1>with my high school friends, trusty, babes, There's so many

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<v Speaker 1>opportunities to make new friends. You know what's right in

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<v Speaker 1>your gut, babes. That's all I'll say. Flex and frilms

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<v Speaker 1>on KEDA, guys, let's do a visulation visualization a vigilante

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<v Speaker 1>visualization exercise. Everybody was your.

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<v Speaker 2>Eyes done, don't ask me twice.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, on listening. Take a deep breath in and a

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<v Speaker 1>deep breath out. Now I'm going to paint a picture

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<v Speaker 1>in your mind's eye. You were dating someone that you

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<v Speaker 1>really liked, You kind of thought they were better than you,

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<v Speaker 1>and you were really.

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<v Speaker 2>You've really pulled.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, yourself in this scenario. Okay, you honestly think, God,

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<v Speaker 1>they're a catch, they are a real fine piece of.

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<v Speaker 2>Thing, piece of thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Now they break up with you seemingly out of

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<v Speaker 1>the blue. You think, oh my god, I'm so upset.

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<v Speaker 1>I really really like this person, and I just feel

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<v Speaker 1>so devastated. Nothing is fun for me anymore. What do

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<v Speaker 1>I do?

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<v Speaker 2>What do I do?

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<v Speaker 1>But there is a part of you that thinks I

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<v Speaker 1>think I can get them back if I make them jealous,

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<v Speaker 1>if I make them think I'm having the best life ever.

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<v Speaker 1>Open your eyes, everybody, Are you going to do some

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<v Speaker 1>breakup revenge?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 1>No, Niki, you.

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<v Speaker 4>Like it has to have crossed your mind, right, Yes,

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<v Speaker 4>you're not.

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<v Speaker 2>You're not going from on the high road. No, you're

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<v Speaker 2>notting it.

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<v Speaker 3>But what is that quote like, don't let someone that,

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<v Speaker 3>don't let someone tell you they don't want you twice facts.

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<v Speaker 1>So hey, the synopsis here, or rather the idea of this,

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<v Speaker 1>was the idea of breakup revenge we heard in the

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<v Speaker 1>early two thousands of the breakup revenge body. I think, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>still gonna say we're past to others to say, I

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<v Speaker 1>think that's a lie. But however, here we are, apparently

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<v Speaker 1>gen Z and now doing a thing where they make

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<v Speaker 1>their lives look amazing on Instagram. Honestly, I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>this is gen Z. I think gen X are even

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<v Speaker 1>doing these ones. Posting your best life online is the

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<v Speaker 1>newest breakup revenge.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, this makes sense.

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<v Speaker 1>So this involves posting on Instagram, like going to places

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<v Speaker 1>that are really cool, doing a little bit KINI pick

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<v Speaker 1>if you like, like posting with other guys. That's a

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<v Speaker 1>really classical one, guys. I love to employ that one,

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<v Speaker 1>not personal experience. However, I think that this is not

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<v Speaker 1>a good idea because, as you said, don't let someone

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<v Speaker 1>reject you twice. I think as well, if they're watching

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<v Speaker 1>your story and they broke up with you, I know

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<v Speaker 1>what we're thinking, Oh my god, you watch my story.

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<v Speaker 1>He's obsessed Watching a story takes a second. They're probably

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<v Speaker 1>going they're not even looking at it properly you shouldn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Or they're just curious.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm curious a lot, but I have been known very

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<v Speaker 3>recently to hear people with the mute when it's when

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<v Speaker 3>it's done, for fear of not wanting to give them

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<v Speaker 3>the illusion that I care heaps to be viewing their story.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I do that too.

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<v Speaker 2>I learned that from you.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree with your FLEXI I also think like you

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<v Speaker 1>are worth the price that you put on your head.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think that it's actually very obvious to people

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<v Speaker 1>when you're trying to go them. Oh yeah, you think

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<v Speaker 1>you're being subtle. There's nothing subtle about it. You're going

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<v Speaker 1>to the restaurant they really likes. Like, I'll never forget.

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<v Speaker 1>The one like breakup revenge experience that I had was

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<v Speaker 1>when I was eighteen and I had just been dumped.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like the worst, what a dog pain of

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<v Speaker 1>my life And I thought about the breakup and this

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<v Speaker 1>person constantly for one whole year. Took me one year,

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<v Speaker 1>which I think is fair. It was my first, but

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, like, I have a quite obsessive way of thinking,

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<v Speaker 1>so it was every second.

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<v Speaker 3>I think people should people need more time to get

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<v Speaker 3>over breakups.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you. I gave myself the exit one year. What happened?

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<v Speaker 1>One day? I'm thinking about him coming home from Chadston,

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<v Speaker 1>the fashion capital, in a beautiful outfit. I was killing it.

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<v Speaker 1>I looked incredible, and I randomly my head turns to

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<v Speaker 1>the left and I see him and all of his

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<v Speaker 1>friends sitting outside at a pizza restaurant, and I'm like, whoa,

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<v Speaker 1>I was just thinking about him. I've just come home

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<v Speaker 1>from Thursday night shopping. I've got a whole new loop

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<v Speaker 1>kind so like I remember that exactly. I was doing

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<v Speaker 1>a little pussy bow moment, like, oh, I was killing it.

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<v Speaker 1>I've got to do a walk by. Oh, I go

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<v Speaker 1>and park up at Red Rooster one Danonong Road or whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>and I struck. I've also got these little acne boots

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<v Speaker 1>that I just bought. Huge, I'm strutting down past the

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<v Speaker 1>piece of shop, pretending to go to the pancake parlor.

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<v Speaker 2>Huge, you knowing?

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<v Speaker 1>How do you know?

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<v Speaker 2>You say bad bittery is fake?

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<v Speaker 1>I STI rut past. I see him look at me

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<v Speaker 1>and his jaw it his jaw drops, and he looked

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<v Speaker 1>so he looked really sad, which like I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>him to be sad. No, you love that.

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<v Speaker 2>That was his cherry on top for you. Yeah, she said,

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<v Speaker 2>make ing suffer.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like, there's all these moments in my life

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<v Speaker 1>where I realized my life is a movie. That was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you couldn't make that up. He lived, He lived an

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<v Speaker 1>hour away. I don't know what he.

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<v Speaker 2>Was doing there.

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<v Speaker 3>He was loitering, trying to get a little a little

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<v Speaker 3>look at.

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<v Speaker 1>It's Friday. That means silliness must ensue in the studio.

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<v Speaker 1>Cute Mickeyani Floriano, Oh produced to the Stars. She's come

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<v Speaker 1>up with a game. It's a guessing game.

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<v Speaker 2>She hasn't come up with this game.

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<v Speaker 1>We've got to give credit where it's okay, who's I

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<v Speaker 1>was doing this?

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<v Speaker 3>And she said allow plagiarism.

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<v Speaker 2>We only allow nepotism. That's what we drop the one.

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<v Speaker 1>Truly, we have to guess what this song is that

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to play using one second.

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<v Speaker 4>It is from dj DC on TikTok if you wanted

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<v Speaker 4>to know where it was coming from. We're not going

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<v Speaker 4>to page lies, so.

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<v Speaker 2>Not page.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I was going to let it go when I could

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<v Speaker 2>it Okay, ready, can you name this?

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<v Speaker 5>Two thousand song and just one note? This is the

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<v Speaker 5>easy level.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I'm umbrella? Next one, please, sir, this is not

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<v Speaker 1>a group effort.

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<v Speaker 2>That's one nil.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 5>Can you name a twenty song? One note? Level? Three?

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<v Speaker 1>Again?

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<v Speaker 2>Is it jet?

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<v Speaker 1>Who is it? Gives life back to music?

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<v Speaker 2>Dart punk?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I never heard that song.

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<v Speaker 2>Laugh, there's only one dark punk song ever released.

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<v Speaker 1>One more term?

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<v Speaker 5>Can you name this ninety song and just one note?

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<v Speaker 5>This is the request level?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>Check, check, and just one What is it called poison?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you know that?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's worrying.

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<v Speaker 5>Can you name this song from the two thousands in

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<v Speaker 5>one note?

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<v Speaker 1>Again?

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<v Speaker 2>I wish Jesus walks?

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<v Speaker 1>Can you West?

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<v Speaker 4>Do you want my more?

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<v Speaker 1>Please?

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<v Speaker 5>More? More?

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<v Speaker 3>More?

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<v Speaker 4>Guys not doing well?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, Mickey, watch your manners please. That's not how you

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<v Speaker 1>coach a team by I think flex is one up.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all for me? All right, come bro, check check check.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't stop because that was that's in the first

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<v Speaker 2>eight bas.

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<v Speaker 1>Babe, Just do a bunch of Mickey. I'm here all day,

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<v Speaker 1>I got nowhere to be.

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<v Speaker 5>You name the song from the two thousand and tens

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<v Speaker 5>and just one note?

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<v Speaker 1>Other one film, down, down down, down down California Girls,

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<v Speaker 1>Katie Perry. Yeah, it's given, It's given feet Snoop Dogg

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<v Speaker 1>not to be alright ready? This is from the twenty tens.

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<v Speaker 5>Can you name this twenty and ten song? And just

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<v Speaker 5>one note other one.

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<v Speaker 1>Gang dumb stuff?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, oh this is fun.

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<v Speaker 1>We gotta keep playing this.

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<v Speaker 4>You get one more the song from the two thousands

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<v Speaker 4>and just one note level one.

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<v Speaker 3>Sorry, you gotta hold the phone to win. Good job

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<v Speaker 3>for me podcast? What she does have a playlist? It's

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<v Speaker 3>called for Me Fridays. It was it was unfairly taken

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<v Speaker 3>down by the FED.

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<v Speaker 1>Still haven't heard from insert streaming service.

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<v Speaker 3>Mickey has some suspicions that it had never left that.

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<v Speaker 3>If you type in through Me Fridays and you can't

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<v Speaker 3>find the playlist, it's because Spotify don't want you to

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<v Speaker 3>have it.

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<v Speaker 1>They've also left me on Red so I'm really off it.

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<v Speaker 1>I've spent six months making that plays and new pay

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<v Speaker 1>a subscription facts, Yeah, twelve dollars ninety nine.

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