Speaker 1: Laura, come on.
Speaker 2: Tuesday.
Speaker 3: Hi, Hi, HELLI welcome to the Pickup. Oh, thanks to
Speaker 3: Chemists ware House, great savings every day.
Speaker 2: Head on end.
Speaker 1: Guess who's in town?
Speaker 2: Guys.
Speaker 1: Oh, just caught up with them for coffee. Barack and
Speaker 1: Michelle Obama a friend.
Speaker 2: You know what's funny?
Speaker 3: Yeah, ex President Barack Obama and Michelle Obama are here.
Speaker 3: We actually put in a request to get them on
Speaker 3: the show. And I know you were wondering.
Speaker 4: I've been waiting with baited breath to see if I'm
Speaker 4: coming into the studio.
Speaker 1: Hush him there in today.
Speaker 2: I guess you've got a reply.
Speaker 4: Wait, as in, you actually got a reply from Barack
Speaker 4: Obama in the.
Speaker 2: DM Yes, no, no, an email. This is true.
Speaker 3: I got an email the United States Presidential Office and
Speaker 3: I got this reply.
Speaker 2: Back this morning. I'm sure it's gonna be promising high
Speaker 2: team pickup. Thanks for getting in touch and apologies for
Speaker 2: the delay.
Speaker 3: Unfortunately, at this stage, the President will not be joining
Speaker 3: the Pickup while.
Speaker 2: He is here in the country. I did, but I
Speaker 2: got a reply that's halfway there. Do you know what's funny?
Speaker 1: It's better than me. I Laura always gives me a
Speaker 1: hard time. On our podcast, Life Uncut Podcast. I'm always
Speaker 1: reaching out to the guest to get them on, and
Speaker 1: Laura gives me the hardest time about the people I
Speaker 1: reached out.
Speaker 2: To because she's like, as if you're ever going to
Speaker 2: get that.
Speaker 1: Person, because I actually have been trying to get Michelle
Speaker 1: Obama for a long time.
Speaker 4: I don't give you a hard time for the I
Speaker 4: give you a hard time because you slid into Michelle
Speaker 4: Obama's DMS.
Speaker 2: That's what I demand. You give me a hard time.
Speaker 4: I'm sure that there's like a formal channel to go through,
Speaker 4: like maybe through their pr assistant or whoever takes care
Speaker 4: of them.
Speaker 3: Now, I'm with you, Laura, it's always unrealistic. She goes, guys,
Speaker 3: I've just Flatimi putin. I think I've got him for
Speaker 3: three PM.
Speaker 4: But everyone you've always laughed at, I've got most of them.
Speaker 5: You know.
Speaker 2: Someone we do have on the show today, jess.
Speaker 4: That's better than Barack Obama.
Speaker 2: Who wants Barak Obama?
Speaker 4: And you can have Jessica Malboy.
Speaker 1: Just in case he's listening. I would still luck Brackababa
Speaker 1: he might be listening.
Speaker 3: We can have both guys, maybe Baraque, but definitely Jess Malboy.
Speaker 2: She's joining us on the show. She's got new music
Speaker 2: and she's actually coming into the studio. Very very exciting.
Speaker 2: That's next pick up around the country. It's kiss. It's
Speaker 2: the pickup around the country.
Speaker 3: Britt, Laura and Mitch Hey get ahead of the spread
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Speaker 4: There was truly the most brutal breakup last night on Maths,
Speaker 4: and it was between Lyndall and Cam. Now, Cam is
Speaker 4: he's from Darwin. He's the guy who loves fishing and
Speaker 4: going getting lost in the bush. For so much of
Speaker 4: this experiment, she was kind of she was just like
Speaker 4: wanting him to love her, and he was like, oh,
Speaker 4: I'm not there yet. I'm not there yet. Clearly was
Speaker 4: never going to get there.
Speaker 2: His mine was still in the bush.
Speaker 4: But last night Linda really stuck it to him.
Speaker 6: I realized that there was never anything I could do
Speaker 6: to be the partner you wanted because you simply don't
Speaker 6: want one. This entire relationship has been on your terms
Speaker 6: and yours alone, Like a movement has been taken for Branner.
Speaker 6: If there is one good thing that this has given me.
Speaker 6: It's resilience. I have now been given a miracle, a
Speaker 6: fresh start, a new version of my life that is
Speaker 6: completely unburdened and unlimited. I won't spend another moment of
Speaker 6: that life restricted, not by my condition, not by my body,
Speaker 6: not by fear, and certainly not by you. Before you start, yeah,
Speaker 6: I just feel like, no matter what you say, today's
Speaker 6: and they're going to disappoint me. Then I think I've
Speaker 6: just done.
Speaker 5: Hi, you gave me a car, I'm out of it.
Speaker 2: High boom.
Speaker 4: And then Cam threw his vows on the ground and
Speaker 4: walk right out of their very dramatic Oh it was,
Speaker 4: but you know what we have Lindall right here on
Speaker 4: the phone, Lindall, welcome to the pickup.
Speaker 6: Bye, hey guys, Halloe.
Speaker 4: How are you feeling after watching that all go down
Speaker 4: last night?
Speaker 6: Oh my god, I mean I feel mostly relieved, actually,
Speaker 6: like it's been such a hard slog rewatching it all
Speaker 6: and then to finally be like, now there's is that's
Speaker 6: that's me, Like that's what I deserve.
Speaker 4: It was really like such a powerful speech. But did
Speaker 4: you ever after Cam had thrown his vows on the ground,
Speaker 4: did you take a moment where you were like, God,
Speaker 4: I really want to read them.
Speaker 6: There was so much going through my head at the time.
Speaker 6: It wasn't until I'd walked off that I was like, oh,
Speaker 6: maybe I should have picked them up.
Speaker 3: Cam was on the Kyle and Jackie Oh Show. They
Speaker 3: asked him to recite the vowels, and he recited the
Speaker 3: vows so we thought, we'll play them for you when
Speaker 3: we'll get your actual takes, so you can actually hear
Speaker 3: what he would have said if he didn't get any
Speaker 3: highlights and go straight to BCF.
Speaker 5: Throughout this experiment, amongst all the good times we'll share
Speaker 5: the Boss, I had my first share of concerns about
Speaker 5: the future. We have completely different lifestyle and being together
Speaker 5: would mean one of us would have to change our
Speaker 5: life completely. Another major concern is the way we handle
Speaker 5: our conflict. You can say I can't sit down and
Speaker 5: talk through tough times, that you never asked the question
Speaker 5: because you were too scared of the answer. I feel
Speaker 5: like you like to air our daddy laundry in a
Speaker 5: public environment, which really pushes my buttons. Throughout this experiment,
Speaker 5: you have needed more affection, free assurance and emotion from me.
Speaker 5: I've taken the time to reflect the lot. I haven't
Speaker 5: been able to give you these things. I think these
Speaker 5: things flow naturally when you're falling in love, which.
Speaker 1: I'm how do you feel hearing that?
Speaker 6: I don't know, pretty unsurprised, actually, I think Cam has
Speaker 6: a very set way of how he thinks everything should
Speaker 6: go and how he thinks that I should have behaved.
Speaker 6: But like, I also know that, like it just continued
Speaker 6: to be hypocritical. It was like you never asked the question.
Speaker 6: I'm like, well, when I did ask questions, you would
Speaker 6: get mad and storm out. So what do you want
Speaker 6: me to do? How do I win that? How do
Speaker 6: I get that conversation going? Then if you're going to
Speaker 6: constantly leave and then never readdress it with me, it's
Speaker 6: also not my job to ask you how you're feeling
Speaker 6: all the time, like a lot more than welcome to
Speaker 6: come to me. And then I think as well bearing
Speaker 6: dirty laundry, like did this guy not realize we were
Speaker 6: recording and get to be on national team? It's like, well, did.
Speaker 4: You feel like he led you on throughout the process?
Speaker 4: Because I think it was only really right there at
Speaker 4: the end that he actually started to be honest.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I definitely felt led on and I felt like
Speaker 6: extremely confused because we were really good and we did
Speaker 6: have a very good connection, a very strong connection, and
Speaker 6: got along, I don't know, better than I was expecting
Speaker 6: to get along with whoever. I was mad fit. But yeah,
Speaker 6: it wasn't until those last few weeks that he started
Speaker 6: saying things like it'll never work, and like every conversation
Speaker 6: we've had before that was that we were going to
Speaker 6: work and he was going to travel to WA and
Speaker 6: like work his way down the coast.
Speaker 3: Gaslighting. Yeah, that's what it sounds like. He was gaslighting
Speaker 3: you the whole time, only to drop the vows at
Speaker 3: the end and walk out what I think.
Speaker 2: But that's my question.
Speaker 1: Do you think he was gaslighting you the whole time?
Speaker 6: I don't think it was the whole time. I think
Speaker 6: that first like that, especially that first month was absolutely incredible,
Speaker 6: and like even the challenges and the task that we
Speaker 6: got from the experts. I remember doing an active listening
Speaker 6: one where I was trying to get him to talk
Speaker 6: about maybe why he was struggling with talking or struggling
Speaker 6: with showing that affection or showing that emotion, and he
Speaker 6: did really, really well, He really tried, and I was
Speaker 6: like jumping up and down on the couch, saying how
Speaker 6: proud I was of him, Like, it's hard because there
Speaker 6: was so much good that just that didn't get shown,
Speaker 6: but also like it was really I don't know to
Speaker 6: have that change was I was completely unaware of how
Speaker 6: to fix it.
Speaker 4: We heard that you've already filmed the reunion episode.
Speaker 2: Yeah, what was that?
Speaker 7: Like?
Speaker 6: It was very interesting because I think after everything that
Speaker 6: happened at final about it was like all the respectors
Speaker 6: went out the door. So, yeah, we hadn't spoken at all,
Speaker 6: and then going into reunion there were quite a few
Speaker 6: like little rumors and things swirling around that upset me
Speaker 6: quite a bit. It's hard as well, because I genuinely
Speaker 6: don't like tearing other people down, especially not in a
Speaker 6: public setting, and so it was really hard for me
Speaker 6: to approach those issues in a setting where I was
Speaker 6: emotional and I knew that everybody was there and like, yeah,
Speaker 6: so it was really quite tough to see him again.
Speaker 3: Hashtag team Wendell. There she is from married at first sight.
Speaker 3: It's Lindall. I can't wait for that reunion, that's for sure,
Speaker 3: all right, next everyone, she's an Aussie superstar. Yeah, Jesse's
Speaker 3: here our new music out from Jess. A lot going
Speaker 3: on in her life.
Speaker 4: You know, she's married now, she's straight sweetheart Jessica moun.
Speaker 3: Boy, she is, and we're blessed to have her on
Speaker 3: the show after this a kiss all right. It's the
Speaker 3: pick up around Australia with Britt, Laura and Mitch. Thanks
Speaker 3: to Chemist Warehouse heading today great savings every day. You
Speaker 3: guys want to hear any worm? Oh you want to
Speaker 3: hear one of the best songs of the summer, best
Speaker 3: songs of the year.
Speaker 2: It's new music from jess Melboy.
Speaker 7: She's right there, right now, right now, right here, right here,
Speaker 7: right now.
Speaker 4: I am righty hey.
Speaker 2: First of all, thank you for.
Speaker 8: Playing the song.
Speaker 2: We should have even played it. We can just have
Speaker 2: it lives.
Speaker 4: I mean, apart from being literally right here, right now,
Speaker 4: what was the inspiration behind it?
Speaker 8: Many many things, particularly about being completely confident in the
Speaker 8: skin of yourself. I think I've been writing lots of
Speaker 8: ballads and lots of like deep stories for the record.
Speaker 8: I have a record coming out, and I yeah, I
Speaker 8: was just in the mood to write something that was
Speaker 8: a little bit more upbeat, had a bit of a
Speaker 8: you know, skip skip in the skip and the feet,
Speaker 8: you know, like fingers point to the sky and grooving. Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 1: You do talk about this accepting who you are at
Speaker 1: the stage of your life. What has that been like
Speaker 1: for you that journey. Have you always been a really
Speaker 1: confident person and this is how I am? Or has
Speaker 1: that been a bit of a battle to get to
Speaker 1: where you want it has been?
Speaker 8: I think there's been a lot of things that I've
Speaker 8: kind of come into effect in the way that I've
Speaker 8: kind of grown, and all of those things have allowed
Speaker 8: me to really review on why I am the way
Speaker 8: that I am and why I love music so much
Speaker 8: and know that there's so many others that are feeling
Speaker 8: the same with a different, unique story. But yeah, it
Speaker 8: was mainly about the color of my again, growing up,
Speaker 8: you know, in a small community and seeing you know,
Speaker 8: I guess domestic violence and I guess culturally that kind
Speaker 8: of being hushed or not really talked about and having
Speaker 8: no space to be able to release that.
Speaker 4: When do you think that changed for you? When do
Speaker 4: you think that you found this confidence? Because I mean
Speaker 4: some people never find it, and I.
Speaker 2: Think for a lot I'm still looking sometimes behind the couch.
Speaker 4: I think so many people looking at you would have think, well,
Speaker 4: you've always been confident, You've always like been this almost
Speaker 4: like superpower. But when was it for you that you
Speaker 4: felt like, Okay, I've really come into this.
Speaker 8: That's a hard one because they came in different stages.
Speaker 8: I remember being eleven years old, and that's when I
Speaker 8: first stepped out onto a country music scene stage. Very
Speaker 8: much older generation who were playing on stage, you know,
Speaker 8: in their thirties with the guitar, had music to back
Speaker 8: them up. That was one of the first moments I
Speaker 8: was like, Nah, I got this. I've got a CD.
Speaker 8: I'm gonna, you know, play backing track. I know the lyrics,
Speaker 8: I know what I'm I kind of know what I'm singing.
Speaker 8: I'm like singing my Harvell go on vy Celindon. And
Speaker 8: I ended up winning. I ended up winning that competition
Speaker 8: that year, wow, got two trophies and walked away with
Speaker 8: five hundred dollars. And I just had in my bones.
Speaker 8: I just knew that I had the fire in me
Speaker 8: and it was just Yeah, the surroundings in the environment
Speaker 8: was was supported.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, a.
Speaker 1: Pretty big deal. You've performed for some pretty big people.
Speaker 1: We've got Oprah Winfrey, Ellen DeGeneres, Barack Obama, ex President.
Speaker 2: We just saw the Baracs.
Speaker 1: Actually here has he called?
Speaker 2: He's like, can you come back and perform for me?
Speaker 8: I'm here.
Speaker 2: Not so much.
Speaker 8: He's very formal. It's always through the team like it's
Speaker 8: never kind of through social media or anything like that.
Speaker 8: They think is a different generation where yeah, it comes.
Speaker 3: Through right here, right now, is out now Jess, my boy,
Speaker 3: amazing to have you on the pick up. All right,
Speaker 3: we're back after this at Kiss It's the pickup. Welcome
Speaker 3: everyone a Tuesday afternoon Britt Laura and Mit John Kiss
Speaker 3: f fam get ahead of the spread this flu season.
Speaker 2: Just go do it.
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Speaker 3: I saw something on my Instagram feed and I need
Speaker 3: some help unpacking this Instagram post that was put up
Speaker 3: by Martha Kalamata Martha from.
Speaker 4: Mad marther from MAVs Beautiful Baby, Her.
Speaker 3: And a partner Michael correct and everyone loves those two
Speaker 3: they are I think they have excelled past their season.
Speaker 3: They're now known as one of Australia's most beloved couples.
Speaker 3: And this was posted to Martha's Instagram account last week.
Speaker 3: Have a listened to this.
Speaker 2: It's not once constant. It's got to be like sucking.
Speaker 7: Than that.
Speaker 2: How does the baby do it?
Speaker 6: I don't know.
Speaker 2: You got me this. I've got no strength in my suck.
Speaker 6: Oh my god, I can feel it empty.
Speaker 2: You've got a free three.
Speaker 1: I think we've done it.
Speaker 2: You've got to give us some context before you play something.
Speaker 2: That's a very good call. That's her boob.
Speaker 3: She's got a blocked milk duck in her boob because
Speaker 3: she's currently breastfeeding, and her partner got down on the
Speaker 3: couch and.
Speaker 2: Sucked it out.
Speaker 4: What he's doing, God's work. She's got mustatis the poor
Speaker 4: thing that is that is possibly the most painful. I've
Speaker 4: only had it once. It is horrible. It is a
Speaker 4: horrible thing to experience.
Speaker 2: Mustadas Well, this is why I.
Speaker 3: Bring it to you, because is this a normal thing
Speaker 3: that you and your boyfriend Ben do Britain on Maddie
Speaker 3: J do you guys.
Speaker 2: Do not breastfeeding?
Speaker 1: But I guess we could be practicing.
Speaker 2: A little bit of going on. That's too much thought.
Speaker 3: Let's just go straight to the source. The man who
Speaker 3: would do the sucking if ever is Maddie Jane. He
Speaker 3: joined some on line now, no, welcome to the pickup
Speaker 3: Maddie La husband, Hello, you.
Speaker 4: Don't have to join this conversation.
Speaker 1: It's not it's not, he called.
Speaker 3: He actually sent me the post. He said, have you
Speaker 3: seen this on Instagram? It's good to talk about it.
Speaker 4: Okay, but she has a blocked milk duck. She needs
Speaker 4: to have it expressed out. You can use like a pump,
Speaker 4: but you know, one of the best ways to unblock
Speaker 4: it is to get someone to suck it out. I mean,
Speaker 4: the baby's not hungry. Who's going to do it?
Speaker 1: We wanted to ask, have you ever tried Laura's breast milk?
Speaker 7: I remember, like it was yesterday with a Tuesday afternoon
Speaker 7: and the kids were in daycare. Marley actually at the time,
Speaker 7: was in daycare and Laura was sitting there. Plump said, Laura,
Speaker 7: why are.
Speaker 4: You being so weird?
Speaker 7: Why you just said yourself, it's a beautiful thing. It's natural,
Speaker 7: it's great. Everyone should do it. I had to try
Speaker 7: you only you were like you're like rationing your milk
Speaker 7: to me, like you were afraid that I was going
Speaker 7: to take it all off. Marley, you gave me like
Speaker 7: a drop and a half. I wanted more to give.
Speaker 2: It, so I try it.
Speaker 3: What was the delivery method? Did did you sit underneath
Speaker 3: the teeth or did she pump it into a bottle?
Speaker 4: I do remember this now.
Speaker 7: No, she was really conservative. It was you know. I
Speaker 7: I was ready to do it the old fashioned way
Speaker 7: where I just latch on. She went to the kitchen
Speaker 7: and gave it a little squirt into a cup. But
Speaker 7: one thing that really amazed me was just how much
Speaker 7: power is able to be given to the breast milk
Speaker 7: as it leaves the boob. Lord, you remember you were
Speaker 7: in the bath one time, Marley was. I was brushing
Speaker 7: my teeth and I was maybe I'm going to say
Speaker 7: it was a solid meter and a half, possibly pushing
Speaker 7: two meters away from you, and you said, I reckon.
Speaker 7: I could hit you from here, and you from laying down.
Speaker 7: You shot your boob two meters across a bathroom. Gused
Speaker 7: me in breast milk.
Speaker 1: It was one of the most Oh it was not
Speaker 1: This is not four play.
Speaker 4: It's just the stuff the couples do to each other
Speaker 4: when they're weird.
Speaker 7: If I'm going to drink it, to give me a drop.
Speaker 1: But then quarantine the recony.
Speaker 2: Thank you, Maddie, j straight to the sauce.
Speaker 4: So I cannot wait for the Daily Mail articles that
Speaker 4: are going to come out about that.
Speaker 1: Why didn't you let him latch on naturally?
Speaker 2: Just because that's weird.
Speaker 4: It's for the baby, It's like a real connecting thing,
Speaker 4: and I didn't really want to.
Speaker 2: Nurse my husband for the baby.
Speaker 1: It's for the man.
Speaker 2: All right, let's get out of here. On that note, Will,
Speaker 2: what are youre up next? To drive you home?
Speaker 5: In?
Speaker 3: Today's the day we find out which of the boys,
Speaker 3: Will or Woody is going into the I'm a celebrity jungle.
Speaker 4: I reckon, I reckon, it's Will. I'm putting my bets
Speaker 4: on Will.
Speaker 3: I'll go wood They're standing by and they'll reveal it next.
Speaker 3: We'll see you tomorrow from three ye