WEBVTT - FULLSHOW! Jessica Mauboy joins the Pickup!

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<v Speaker 1>Laura, come on.

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<v Speaker 2>Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi, Hi, HELLI welcome to the Pickup. Oh, thanks to

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<v Speaker 2>Head on end.

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<v Speaker 1>Guess who's in town?

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<v Speaker 2>Guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, just caught up with them for coffee. Barack and

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<v Speaker 1>Michelle Obama a friend.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what's funny?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, ex President Barack Obama and Michelle Obama are here.

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<v Speaker 3>We actually put in a request to get them on

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<v Speaker 3>the show. And I know you were wondering.

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<v Speaker 4>I've been waiting with baited breath to see if I'm

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<v Speaker 4>coming into the studio.

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<v Speaker 1>Hush him there in today.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess you've got a reply.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait, as in, you actually got a reply from Barack

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<v Speaker 4>Obama in the.

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<v Speaker 2>DM Yes, no, no, an email. This is true.

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<v Speaker 3>I got an email the United States Presidential Office and

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<v Speaker 3>I got this reply.

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<v Speaker 2>Back this morning. I'm sure it's gonna be promising high

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<v Speaker 2>team pickup. Thanks for getting in touch and apologies for

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<v Speaker 2>the delay.

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<v Speaker 3>Unfortunately, at this stage, the President will not be joining

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<v Speaker 3>the Pickup while.

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<v Speaker 2>He is here in the country. I did, but I

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<v Speaker 2>got a reply that's halfway there. Do you know what's funny?

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<v Speaker 1>It's better than me. I Laura always gives me a

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<v Speaker 1>hard time. On our podcast, Life Uncut Podcast. I'm always

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<v Speaker 1>reaching out to the guest to get them on, and

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<v Speaker 1>Laura gives me the hardest time about the people I

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<v Speaker 1>reached out.

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<v Speaker 2>To because she's like, as if you're ever going to

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<v Speaker 2>get that.

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<v Speaker 1>Person, because I actually have been trying to get Michelle

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<v Speaker 1>Obama for a long time.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't give you a hard time for the I

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<v Speaker 4>give you a hard time because you slid into Michelle

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<v Speaker 4>Obama's DMS.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what I demand. You give me a hard time.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sure that there's like a formal channel to go through,

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<v Speaker 4>like maybe through their pr assistant or whoever takes care

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<v Speaker 4>of them.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, I'm with you, Laura, it's always unrealistic. She goes, guys,

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<v Speaker 3>I've just Flatimi putin. I think I've got him for

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<v Speaker 3>three PM.

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<v Speaker 4>But everyone you've always laughed at, I've got most of them.

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<v Speaker 5>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>Someone we do have on the show today, jess.

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<v Speaker 4>That's better than Barack Obama.

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<v Speaker 2>Who wants Barak Obama?

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<v Speaker 4>And you can have Jessica Malboy.

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<v Speaker 1>Just in case he's listening. I would still luck Brackababa

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<v Speaker 1>he might be listening.

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<v Speaker 3>We can have both guys, maybe Baraque, but definitely Jess Malboy.

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<v Speaker 2>She's joining us on the show. She's got new music

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<v Speaker 2>and she's actually coming into the studio. Very very exciting.

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<v Speaker 2>That's next pick up around the country. It's kiss. It's

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<v Speaker 2>the pickup around the country.

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<v Speaker 4>There was truly the most brutal breakup last night on Maths,

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<v Speaker 4>and it was between Lyndall and Cam. Now, Cam is

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<v Speaker 4>he's from Darwin. He's the guy who loves fishing and

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<v Speaker 4>going getting lost in the bush. For so much of

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<v Speaker 4>this experiment, she was kind of she was just like

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<v Speaker 4>wanting him to love her, and he was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not there yet. I'm not there yet. Clearly was

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<v Speaker 4>never going to get there.

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<v Speaker 2>His mine was still in the bush.

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<v Speaker 4>But last night Linda really stuck it to him.

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<v Speaker 6>I realized that there was never anything I could do

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<v Speaker 6>to be the partner you wanted because you simply don't

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<v Speaker 6>want one. This entire relationship has been on your terms

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<v Speaker 6>and yours alone, Like a movement has been taken for Branner.

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<v Speaker 6>If there is one good thing that this has given me.

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<v Speaker 6>It's resilience. I have now been given a miracle, a

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<v Speaker 6>fresh start, a new version of my life that is

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<v Speaker 6>completely unburdened and unlimited. I won't spend another moment of

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<v Speaker 6>that life restricted, not by my condition, not by my body,

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<v Speaker 6>not by fear, and certainly not by you. Before you start, yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>I just feel like, no matter what you say, today's

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<v Speaker 6>and they're going to disappoint me. Then I think I've

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<v Speaker 6>just done.

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<v Speaker 5>Hi, you gave me a car, I'm out of it.

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<v Speaker 2>High boom.

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<v Speaker 4>And then Cam threw his vows on the ground and

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<v Speaker 4>walk right out of their very dramatic Oh it was,

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<v Speaker 4>but you know what we have Lindall right here on

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<v Speaker 4>the phone, Lindall, welcome to the pickup.

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<v Speaker 6>Bye, hey guys, Halloe.

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<v Speaker 4>How are you feeling after watching that all go down

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<v Speaker 4>last night?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh my god, I mean I feel mostly relieved, actually,

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<v Speaker 6>like it's been such a hard slog rewatching it all

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<v Speaker 6>and then to finally be like, now there's is that's

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<v Speaker 6>that's me, Like that's what I deserve.

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<v Speaker 4>It was really like such a powerful speech. But did

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<v Speaker 4>you ever after Cam had thrown his vows on the ground,

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<v Speaker 4>did you take a moment where you were like, God,

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<v Speaker 4>I really want to read them.

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<v Speaker 6>There was so much going through my head at the time.

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<v Speaker 6>It wasn't until I'd walked off that I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 6>maybe I should have picked them up.

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<v Speaker 3>Cam was on the Kyle and Jackie Oh Show. They

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<v Speaker 3>asked him to recite the vowels, and he recited the

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<v Speaker 3>vows so we thought, we'll play them for you when

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<v Speaker 3>we'll get your actual takes, so you can actually hear

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<v Speaker 3>what he would have said if he didn't get any

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<v Speaker 3>highlights and go straight to BCF.

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<v Speaker 5>Throughout this experiment, amongst all the good times we'll share

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<v Speaker 5>the Boss, I had my first share of concerns about

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<v Speaker 5>the future. We have completely different lifestyle and being together

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<v Speaker 5>would mean one of us would have to change our

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<v Speaker 5>life completely. Another major concern is the way we handle

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<v Speaker 5>our conflict. You can say I can't sit down and

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<v Speaker 5>talk through tough times, that you never asked the question

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<v Speaker 5>because you were too scared of the answer. I feel

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<v Speaker 5>like you like to air our daddy laundry in a

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<v Speaker 5>public environment, which really pushes my buttons. Throughout this experiment,

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<v Speaker 5>you have needed more affection, free assurance and emotion from me.

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<v Speaker 5>I've taken the time to reflect the lot. I haven't

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<v Speaker 5>been able to give you these things. I think these

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<v Speaker 5>things flow naturally when you're falling in love, which.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm how do you feel hearing that?

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know, pretty unsurprised, actually, I think Cam has

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<v Speaker 6>a very set way of how he thinks everything should

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<v Speaker 6>go and how he thinks that I should have behaved.

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<v Speaker 6>But like, I also know that, like it just continued

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<v Speaker 6>to be hypocritical. It was like you never asked the question.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm like, well, when I did ask questions, you would

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<v Speaker 6>get mad and storm out. So what do you want

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<v Speaker 6>me to do? How do I win that? How do

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<v Speaker 6>I get that conversation going? Then if you're going to

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<v Speaker 6>constantly leave and then never readdress it with me, it's

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<v Speaker 6>also not my job to ask you how you're feeling

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<v Speaker 6>all the time, like a lot more than welcome to

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<v Speaker 6>come to me. And then I think as well bearing

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<v Speaker 6>dirty laundry, like did this guy not realize we were

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<v Speaker 6>recording and get to be on national team? It's like, well, did.

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<v Speaker 4>You feel like he led you on throughout the process?

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<v Speaker 4>Because I think it was only really right there at

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<v Speaker 4>the end that he actually started to be honest.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I definitely felt led on and I felt like

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<v Speaker 6>extremely confused because we were really good and we did

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<v Speaker 6>have a very good connection, a very strong connection, and

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<v Speaker 6>got along, I don't know, better than I was expecting

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<v Speaker 6>to get along with whoever. I was mad fit. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>it wasn't until those last few weeks that he started

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<v Speaker 6>saying things like it'll never work, and like every conversation

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<v Speaker 6>we've had before that was that we were going to

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<v Speaker 6>work and he was going to travel to WA and

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<v Speaker 6>like work his way down the coast.

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<v Speaker 3>Gaslighting. Yeah, that's what it sounds like. He was gaslighting

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<v Speaker 3>you the whole time, only to drop the vows at

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<v Speaker 3>the end and walk out what I think.

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<v Speaker 2>But that's my question.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think he was gaslighting you the whole time?

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<v Speaker 6>I don't think it was the whole time. I think

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<v Speaker 6>that first like that, especially that first month was absolutely incredible,

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<v Speaker 6>and like even the challenges and the task that we

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<v Speaker 6>got from the experts. I remember doing an active listening

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<v Speaker 6>one where I was trying to get him to talk

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<v Speaker 6>about maybe why he was struggling with talking or struggling

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<v Speaker 6>with showing that affection or showing that emotion, and he

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<v Speaker 6>did really, really well, He really tried, and I was

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<v Speaker 6>like jumping up and down on the couch, saying how

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<v Speaker 6>proud I was of him, Like, it's hard because there

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<v Speaker 6>was so much good that just that didn't get shown,

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<v Speaker 6>but also like it was really I don't know to

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<v Speaker 6>have that change was I was completely unaware of how

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<v Speaker 6>to fix it.

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<v Speaker 4>We heard that you've already filmed the reunion episode.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what was that?

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<v Speaker 7>Like?

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<v Speaker 6>It was very interesting because I think after everything that

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<v Speaker 6>happened at final about it was like all the respectors

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<v Speaker 6>went out the door. So, yeah, we hadn't spoken at all,

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<v Speaker 6>and then going into reunion there were quite a few

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<v Speaker 6>like little rumors and things swirling around that upset me

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<v Speaker 6>quite a bit. It's hard as well, because I genuinely

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<v Speaker 6>don't like tearing other people down, especially not in a

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<v Speaker 6>public setting, and so it was really hard for me

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<v Speaker 6>to approach those issues in a setting where I was

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<v Speaker 6>emotional and I knew that everybody was there and like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>so it was really quite tough to see him again.

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<v Speaker 3>Hashtag team Wendell. There she is from married at first sight.

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<v Speaker 3>It's Lindall. I can't wait for that reunion, that's for sure,

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<v Speaker 3>all right, next everyone, she's an Aussie superstar. Yeah, Jesse's

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<v Speaker 3>here our new music out from Jess. A lot going

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<v Speaker 3>on in her life.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, she's married now, she's straight sweetheart Jessica moun.

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<v Speaker 3>Boy, she is, and we're blessed to have her on

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<v Speaker 3>the show after this a kiss all right. It's the

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<v Speaker 3>pick up around Australia with Britt, Laura and Mitch. Thanks

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<v Speaker 3>to Chemist Warehouse heading today great savings every day. You

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<v Speaker 3>guys want to hear any worm? Oh you want to

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<v Speaker 3>hear one of the best songs of the summer, best

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<v Speaker 3>songs of the year.

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<v Speaker 2>It's new music from jess Melboy.

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<v Speaker 7>She's right there, right now, right now, right here, right here,

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<v Speaker 7>right now.

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<v Speaker 4>I am righty hey.

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<v Speaker 2>First of all, thank you for.

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<v Speaker 8>Playing the song.

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<v Speaker 2>We should have even played it. We can just have

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<v Speaker 2>it lives.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, apart from being literally right here, right now,

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<v Speaker 4>what was the inspiration behind it?

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<v Speaker 8>Many many things, particularly about being completely confident in the

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<v Speaker 8>skin of yourself. I think I've been writing lots of

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<v Speaker 8>ballads and lots of like deep stories for the record.

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<v Speaker 8>I have a record coming out, and I yeah, I

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<v Speaker 8>was just in the mood to write something that was

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<v Speaker 8>a little bit more upbeat, had a bit of a

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<v Speaker 8>you know, skip skip in the skip and the feet,

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<v Speaker 8>you know, like fingers point to the sky and grooving. Yeah, exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>You do talk about this accepting who you are at

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<v Speaker 1>the stage of your life. What has that been like

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<v Speaker 1>for you that journey. Have you always been a really

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<v Speaker 1>confident person and this is how I am? Or has

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<v Speaker 1>that been a bit of a battle to get to

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<v Speaker 1>where you want it has been?

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<v Speaker 8>I think there's been a lot of things that I've

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<v Speaker 8>kind of come into effect in the way that I've

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<v Speaker 8>kind of grown, and all of those things have allowed

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<v Speaker 8>me to really review on why I am the way

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<v Speaker 8>that I am and why I love music so much

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<v Speaker 8>and know that there's so many others that are feeling

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<v Speaker 8>the same with a different, unique story. But yeah, it

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<v Speaker 8>was mainly about the color of my again, growing up,

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<v Speaker 8>you know, in a small community and seeing you know,

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<v Speaker 8>I guess domestic violence and I guess culturally that kind

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<v Speaker 8>of being hushed or not really talked about and having

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<v Speaker 8>no space to be able to release that.

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<v Speaker 4>When do you think that changed for you? When do

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<v Speaker 4>you think that you found this confidence? Because I mean

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<v Speaker 4>some people never find it, and I.

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<v Speaker 2>Think for a lot I'm still looking sometimes behind the couch.

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<v Speaker 4>I think so many people looking at you would have think, well,

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<v Speaker 4>you've always been confident, You've always like been this almost

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<v Speaker 4>like superpower. But when was it for you that you

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<v Speaker 4>felt like, Okay, I've really come into this.

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<v Speaker 8>That's a hard one because they came in different stages.

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<v Speaker 8>I remember being eleven years old, and that's when I

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<v Speaker 8>first stepped out onto a country music scene stage. Very

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<v Speaker 8>much older generation who were playing on stage, you know,

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<v Speaker 8>in their thirties with the guitar, had music to back

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<v Speaker 8>them up. That was one of the first moments I

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<v Speaker 8>was like, Nah, I got this. I've got a CD.

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<v Speaker 8>I'm gonna, you know, play backing track. I know the lyrics,

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<v Speaker 8>I know what I'm I kind of know what I'm singing.

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<v Speaker 8>I'm like singing my Harvell go on vy Celindon. And

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<v Speaker 8>I ended up winning. I ended up winning that competition

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<v Speaker 8>that year, wow, got two trophies and walked away with

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<v Speaker 8>five hundred dollars. And I just had in my bones.

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<v Speaker 8>I just knew that I had the fire in me

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<v Speaker 8>and it was just Yeah, the surroundings in the environment

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<v Speaker 8>was was supported.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, a.

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<v Speaker 1>Pretty big deal. You've performed for some pretty big people.

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<v Speaker 1>We've got Oprah Winfrey, Ellen DeGeneres, Barack Obama, ex President.

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<v Speaker 2>We just saw the Baracs.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually here has he called?

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<v Speaker 2>He's like, can you come back and perform for me?

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<v Speaker 8>I'm here.

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<v Speaker 2>Not so much.

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<v Speaker 8>He's very formal. It's always through the team like it's

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<v Speaker 8>never kind of through social media or anything like that.

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<v Speaker 8>They think is a different generation where yeah, it comes.

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<v Speaker 3>Through right here, right now, is out now Jess, my boy,

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<v Speaker 3>amazing to have you on the pick up. All right,

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<v Speaker 3>we're back after this at Kiss It's the pickup. Welcome

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<v Speaker 3>everyone a Tuesday afternoon Britt Laura and Mit John Kiss

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<v Speaker 3>f fam get ahead of the spread this flu season.

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<v Speaker 2>Just go do it.

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<v Speaker 3>Annual flu vaccinations available at Chemists Warehouse only nineteen ninety nine. Guys,

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<v Speaker 3>I saw something on my Instagram feed and I need

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<v Speaker 3>some help unpacking this Instagram post that was put up

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<v Speaker 3>by Martha Kalamata Martha from.

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<v Speaker 4>Mad marther from MAVs Beautiful Baby, Her.

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<v Speaker 3>And a partner Michael correct and everyone loves those two

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<v Speaker 3>they are I think they have excelled past their season.

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<v Speaker 3>They're now known as one of Australia's most beloved couples.

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<v Speaker 3>And this was posted to Martha's Instagram account last week.

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<v Speaker 3>Have a listened to this.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not once constant. It's got to be like sucking.

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<v Speaker 7>Than that.

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<v Speaker 2>How does the baby do it?

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>You got me this. I've got no strength in my suck.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh my god, I can feel it empty.

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<v Speaker 2>You've got a free three.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we've done it.

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<v Speaker 2>You've got to give us some context before you play something.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a very good call. That's her boob.

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<v Speaker 3>She's got a blocked milk duck in her boob because

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<v Speaker 3>she's currently breastfeeding, and her partner got down on the

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<v Speaker 3>couch and.

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<v Speaker 2>Sucked it out.

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<v Speaker 4>What he's doing, God's work. She's got mustatis the poor

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<v Speaker 4>thing that is that is possibly the most painful. I've

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<v Speaker 4>only had it once. It is horrible. It is a

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<v Speaker 4>horrible thing to experience.

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<v Speaker 2>Mustadas Well, this is why I.

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<v Speaker 3>Bring it to you, because is this a normal thing

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<v Speaker 3>that you and your boyfriend Ben do Britain on Maddie

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<v Speaker 3>J do you guys.

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<v Speaker 2>Do not breastfeeding?

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<v Speaker 1>But I guess we could be practicing.

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<v Speaker 2>A little bit of going on. That's too much thought.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's just go straight to the source. The man who

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<v Speaker 3>would do the sucking if ever is Maddie Jane. He

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<v Speaker 3>joined some on line now, no, welcome to the pickup

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<v Speaker 3>Maddie La husband, Hello, you.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't have to join this conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not it's not, he called.

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<v Speaker 3>He actually sent me the post. He said, have you

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<v Speaker 3>seen this on Instagram? It's good to talk about it.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, but she has a blocked milk duck. She needs

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<v Speaker 4>to have it expressed out. You can use like a pump,

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<v Speaker 4>but you know, one of the best ways to unblock

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<v Speaker 4>it is to get someone to suck it out. I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>the baby's not hungry. Who's going to do it?

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<v Speaker 1>We wanted to ask, have you ever tried Laura's breast milk?

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<v Speaker 7>I remember, like it was yesterday with a Tuesday afternoon

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<v Speaker 7>and the kids were in daycare. Marley actually at the time,

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<v Speaker 7>was in daycare and Laura was sitting there. Plump said, Laura,

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<v Speaker 7>why are.

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<v Speaker 4>You being so weird?

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<v Speaker 7>Why you just said yourself, it's a beautiful thing. It's natural,

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<v Speaker 7>it's great. Everyone should do it. I had to try

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<v Speaker 7>you only you were like you're like rationing your milk

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<v Speaker 7>to me, like you were afraid that I was going

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<v Speaker 7>to take it all off. Marley, you gave me like

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<v Speaker 7>a drop and a half. I wanted more to give.

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<v Speaker 2>It, so I try it.

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<v Speaker 3>What was the delivery method? Did did you sit underneath

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<v Speaker 3>the teeth or did she pump it into a bottle?

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<v Speaker 4>I do remember this now.

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<v Speaker 7>No, she was really conservative. It was you know. I

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<v Speaker 7>I was ready to do it the old fashioned way

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<v Speaker 7>where I just latch on. She went to the kitchen

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<v Speaker 7>and gave it a little squirt into a cup. But

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<v Speaker 7>one thing that really amazed me was just how much

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<v Speaker 7>power is able to be given to the breast milk

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<v Speaker 7>as it leaves the boob. Lord, you remember you were

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<v Speaker 7>in the bath one time, Marley was. I was brushing

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<v Speaker 7>my teeth and I was maybe I'm going to say

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<v Speaker 7>it was a solid meter and a half, possibly pushing

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<v Speaker 7>two meters away from you, and you said, I reckon.

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<v Speaker 7>I could hit you from here, and you from laying down.

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<v Speaker 7>You shot your boob two meters across a bathroom. Gused

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<v Speaker 7>me in breast milk.

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<v Speaker 1>It was one of the most Oh it was not

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<v Speaker 1>This is not four play.

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<v Speaker 4>It's just the stuff the couples do to each other

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<v Speaker 4>when they're weird.

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<v Speaker 7>If I'm going to drink it, to give me a drop.

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<v Speaker 1>But then quarantine the recony.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you, Maddie, j straight to the sauce.

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<v Speaker 4>So I cannot wait for the Daily Mail articles that

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<v Speaker 4>are going to come out about that.

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<v Speaker 1>Why didn't you let him latch on naturally?

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<v Speaker 2>Just because that's weird.

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<v Speaker 4>It's for the baby, It's like a real connecting thing,

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<v Speaker 4>and I didn't really want to.

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<v Speaker 2>Nurse my husband for the baby.

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<v Speaker 1>It's for the man.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, let's get out of here. On that note, Will,

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<v Speaker 2>what are youre up next? To drive you home?

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<v Speaker 5>In?

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<v Speaker 3>Today's the day we find out which of the boys,

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<v Speaker 3>Will or Woody is going into the I'm a celebrity jungle.

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<v Speaker 4>I reckon, I reckon, it's Will. I'm putting my bets

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<v Speaker 4>on Will.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll go wood They're standing by and they'll reveal it next.

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<v Speaker 3>We'll see you tomorrow from three ye