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Speaker 1: The biggest thing with limiting beliefs is becoming aware of them.

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Speaker 1: Welcome back to the Rise and Conquered Podcast. I'm your host,

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Speaker 1: Georgie Stevenson, former lawyer turned entrepreneur, social media personality and

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Speaker 1: personal development junkie. This podcast is for my girl gang

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Speaker 1: who want to feed their mind with positive and expansive

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Speaker 1: thoughts to help them step into their power and live

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Speaker 1: their most authentic life. Which had a variety of topics

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Speaker 1: in including mindset, business, relationships, health, and so much more. Basically,

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Speaker 1: wherever you are on your journey, I want to help

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Speaker 1: you feel inspired and empowered to rise up and conquer

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Speaker 1: your next bold move. I know that's going to look

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Speaker 1: different for everyone, but just no, I'm right here by

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Speaker 2: Let's do this.

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Speaker 1: Hello and welcome back to the Rise and Conquer Podcast.

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Speaker 1: So I'm going to be very real with you guys.

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Speaker 1: You know I always am, and you know my solo

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Speaker 1: they're like downloads, and they're very passionate. So this week

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Speaker 1: So enrollment open Monday, and I honestly, like I kind

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Speaker 4: So whilst I was going to I'm going to a

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Speaker 4: So that's why I really wanted to talk about limiting

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's so interesting. I think it is definitely it's

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Speaker 1: Like a ye saying you're going to be I'm manifesting

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Speaker 3: This, Crystal Courtney. Yeah, Judge, So tell us what is

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Speaker 1: Okay, guys, So and I love what you said about,

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Speaker 2: Reality, it's not a truth.

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Speaker 1: It's, you know, a story, and we can reshape it

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Speaker 2: Most people go throughout life.

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Speaker 1: And they're not even aware of these limiting beliefs, so

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Speaker 3: I think for me that was really interesting because I

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Speaker 4: have to do it yourself. And that was like something

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Speaker 4: that really restricted me a lot, and I talked about it,

439
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Speaker 4: I think last week how after my cancer diagnosis, I

440
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Speaker 4: kind of had to reassess that because the way I

441
00:21:41,119 --> 00:21:43,359
Speaker 4: was running my business was like I was involved in

442
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Speaker 4: everything everyone was doing because I was micromanaging, because it

443
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Speaker 4: was like if I wanted it done right, I've got

444
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Speaker 4: to do it. And instead of like you know, say

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Speaker 4: button push Aaron, this is not an example.

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Speaker 3: This is a hypothetical situation.

447
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Speaker 4: You know, say he did something wrong, I'd be like, okay,

448
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Speaker 4: I'll just fix it, instead of me being like, no, no,

449
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Speaker 4: I'm going to show you how to do it. Because

450
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Speaker 4: I was in my head thinking this is the only way,

451
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Speaker 4: and that really limits a business growing if the business

452
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Speaker 4: owner thinks they have to be able to do everything

453
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Speaker 4: everyone's doing. But the minute I stopped and said, like no,

454
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Speaker 4: I need to teach everybody and then let them sort

455
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Speaker 4: of fly and do their own thing, We've really all

456
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Speaker 4: grown as a group together now, and it like, yeah,

457
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Speaker 4: took off that cap of like you know, I can

458
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Speaker 4: only the business can only grow as much as my

459
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Speaker 4: capacity because I'm having to have a piece of everything.

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Speaker 3: I know that you do the same thing as.

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Speaker 1: I say, I resonate with that so much I was

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Speaker 1: ezac same with in my business and letting go control it.

463
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Speaker 1: And even something happened today where that mirroad to me

464
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Speaker 1: and I was like I had to kind of really

465
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Speaker 1: be self aware about it and be like no, Georgia,

466
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Speaker 1: let them do it like they know how to do it,

467
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Speaker 1: just tell them and sort of go through that process.

468
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Speaker 1: It's not like and that's another thing, is like it's

469
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Speaker 1: not like once you know you're limiting belief, it's oh,

470
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Speaker 1: that's it, I'm fixed.

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Speaker 2: You have to constantly go through the process because.

472
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Speaker 3: It's so ingrained right all the time. Like even when

473
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Speaker 3: we had new staff starting, I was like, I don't

474
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Speaker 3: do it.

475
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Speaker 2: Like you that like don't control what they're doing.

476
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Speaker 4: And then like one of the like made a mistake

477
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Speaker 4: last week, was like, wow, I should have really been

478
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Speaker 4: on top of that.

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Speaker 1: It's like no, no, no, yeah, you know, and you

480
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Speaker 1: know what, like even kind of in a broader sense

481
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Speaker 1: of a limiting belief. And I remember this came up

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Speaker 1: in the course is you know I had a question

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Speaker 1: because we did Q and A calls and I had

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Speaker 1: a question.

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Speaker 2: I even remember her name, like Caitlin, was like, can

486
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Speaker 2: I really this year?

487
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Speaker 1: I really want to manifest and work towards buying a

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Speaker 1: car and putting a deposit down on a house. And

489
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Speaker 1: she's like, but like, can I have both? I'm like,

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Speaker 1: of course, you can have both. Like who says you

491
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Speaker 1: can't have both? And I think, I think we kind

492
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Speaker 1: of have this thing and we tend to limit our

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Speaker 1: dreams and go, oh no, but you know, that's a

494
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Speaker 1: bit much like imagine doing that in one year, whereas

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Speaker 1: in reality, that's just a limiting belief. And when you

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Speaker 1: unlock things and you're like, oh, okay, there's a thought

497
00:24:03,359 --> 00:24:06,680
Speaker 1: here that says doing those two things now is actually

498
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Speaker 1: like too much. Right now, let's dig into that. And

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Speaker 1: the thing that I always say to myself like, is

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Speaker 1: there somewhere you know, like I'm not.

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Speaker 2: Actually a religious person, but I always reference.

502
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Speaker 1: God, But is there somewhere that God has written, you know,

503
00:24:22,600 --> 00:24:25,399
Speaker 1: Georgia cannot buy a house and a car in the

504
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Speaker 1: same year. And it's like, no, that's not actually true.

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Speaker 1: And so when you're talking about limiting beasts, and this

506
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Speaker 1: also comes up. I had a lot of women in

507
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Speaker 1: regards to starting businesses and they were like, I'm not

508
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Speaker 1: smart enough, and I'm like, you, like I don't have

509
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Speaker 1: a business degree, or like, there's so many people. We know,

510
00:24:44,359 --> 00:24:47,440
Speaker 1: so many people who either you know, failed in college

511
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Speaker 1: or they don't even have like a high school diploma,

512
00:24:50,600 --> 00:24:53,560
Speaker 1: and they've started these like multi million dollar companies. So

513
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Speaker 1: that's actually not true. That's something you're telling yourself. And

514
00:24:56,760 --> 00:25:01,199
Speaker 1: limiting beliefs keep us so small and they keep us

515
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Speaker 1: not moving forward. And so, like I said, it's okay

516
00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:08,240
Speaker 1: if you have limiting beliefs, it's just you need to

517
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Speaker 1: be self aware about them so you can unblock them

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Speaker 1: and move through it. And that's when, like you know,

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Speaker 3: And I think, I don't know what my opinion like.

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Speaker 4: I don't like to obviously stereotype, but I have found

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Speaker 4: that the women in my life tend to have more

557
00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:33,560
Speaker 4: limiting beliefs than the males in my life. And I'm

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Speaker 4: not sure like what that is or if it's because

559
00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:38,480
Speaker 4: women have always, like over time, needed permission for men

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Speaker 4: to do things, you know, like back in the day,

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Speaker 4: and now all of a sudden, we're able to do

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Speaker 4: our own things, and we're feeling like, you know, our

563
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Speaker 4: moms taught us to like, you know, wait and do things.

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Speaker 1: I know one hundred ten percent, like I grew up

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Speaker 1: in a family where, you know, my mom stayed at

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Speaker 1: home and my dad earned the money, and I not,

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Speaker 1: you know, like I had an amazing family life. My

568
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Speaker 1: parents are amazing, but I always felt like, you know,

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Speaker 1: my mum was kind of a bit oppressed, and you know,

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Speaker 1: she she told me numerous times that she got ducks

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Speaker 1: of her college and stuff, like she was extremely smart,

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Speaker 1: but then she never kind of went out and did

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Speaker 1: her own.

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Speaker 2: Thing because she felt like she couldn't and she felt,

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Speaker 2: you know, dad and money and yeah blah blah blah.

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Speaker 2: So one hundred percent I couldn't agree more.

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Speaker 1: And I think that's why, like my whole business is

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Speaker 1: about empowering women, because I feel so passionate about doing

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Speaker 1: that and making sure women knows that no, like, yes

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Speaker 1: you can have kids, and yes you can still go

581
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Speaker 1: after a desire and you can still you know, have

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Speaker 1: a side hustle and you can have it all. Like

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Speaker 1: we can stop playing small and we can stop playing

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Speaker 1: into this you know, victim mentality where it's like, oh no,

585
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Speaker 1: I need to stay at home with the kids or

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00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:51,040
Speaker 1: oh no, you know girls don't do that sort of

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Speaker 1: sort of stuff.

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Speaker 2: And it's like, no, yeah, we get to do it all.

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Speaker 4: It is so hard because even with me, like I'm

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Speaker 4: a single person and I often thinking I want to

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Speaker 4: buy my own home, but I know that in the

592
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Speaker 4: back of my mind, I'm always thinking like, oh, do

593
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Speaker 4: I need to wait till I have a man to

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Speaker 4: do that with, Like you're supposed to own a home

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Speaker 4: and the man's supposed to you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like the way it's like he's probably not going

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Speaker 1: so coney you need to.

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Speaker 3: Get the house, and you're right.

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Speaker 4: I mean, it's like always those kinds of like and

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Speaker 4: so even if like like this is a really bad thing,

601
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Speaker 4: but like this podcast is about me being like honest,

602
00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:23,800
Speaker 4: I'll see women out with like really expensive cars and

603
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Speaker 4: there is something in the back of my mind that goes, oh,

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Speaker 4: wonder what the husband does, which is absolutely fucked No,

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Speaker 4: I know, one hundred percent, but it's like so in there,

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Speaker 4: like I put that messaging in there, isn't it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, crazy, And.

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Speaker 1: That I think that's why I'm so passionate about like,

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Speaker 1: you know, like I'm very like I will say I'm

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Speaker 1: the breadwinmmer breadwinner sorry, in my.

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Speaker 2: Partnership, but it's a marriage.

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Speaker 1: We are married in my marriage, you know, like Tim

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Speaker 1: quit his job and he works in my company, and

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Speaker 1: you know, I have a nicer car than him, and

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Speaker 1: I I think I'm like, I'm almost to the extreme

616
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Speaker 1: of that because I'm so passionate about that and about

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Speaker 1: showing other women like.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like you don't have to play by the rules anymore.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 1: And also I think we're in this really cool time

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Speaker 1: where you know, women can start businesses on the internet

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Speaker 1: from their home and make an extreme like and do

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Speaker 1: extremely well and be able to be the breadwinner and

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Speaker 1: be able to you know, do it all.

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Speaker 2: And I think, like, how cool is that?

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Speaker 4: What an amazing time, Yeah, to be a part of that.

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Speaker 4: But then sometimes it does feel like, you know, back

628
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Speaker 4: in the day, it was safe women because they knew

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Speaker 4: what they were required of them and they were put

630
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Speaker 4: in this box, and so it can be scary to

631
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Speaker 4: think you have like you can do anything.

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Speaker 2: And yeah, and that's like, that's the biggest thing.

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Speaker 1: Because I was also doing a couple of one on

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Speaker 1: ones when I did round one.

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Speaker 2: Of the project, and that's like the biggest thing.

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Speaker 1: I found is like, you know, these women they had

637
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Speaker 1: these desires and they weren't It wasn't that big. It

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Speaker 1: was like to me, I was like, oh, that's so

639
00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:03,720
Speaker 1: normal for you to want that, but they almost felt

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Speaker 1: you know, undeserving or like, oh am I dreaming too big?

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Speaker 3: It's unrealistic.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And I'm like, no, you were never dreaming too big,

643
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Speaker 1: like dream bigger. And that's even like in the course,

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Speaker 1: do you remember the module when I was talking about

645
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Speaker 1: quantum leaping.

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Speaker 2: Oh, yes, I love quantum leaping.

647
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Speaker 1: So this is this really cool thing I do where

648
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Speaker 1: whenever I'm feeling a bit scared about dreaming big.

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Speaker 2: So I got it.

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Speaker 1: I can do it financially, but you know, you can

651
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Speaker 1: do it with anything. It's just I'll be able to

652
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Speaker 1: explain it better financially. So let's just say you have

653
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Speaker 1: this goal and you want, you know, a house that's

654
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Speaker 1: five hundred thousand in that range, and you're like, that's

655
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Speaker 1: a lot of money.

656
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Speaker 2: You know, this is going to be a big goal.

657
00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:45,120
Speaker 2: But I've got my depositing and blah blah blah.

658
00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:48,280
Speaker 1: I like to quantum leap, and I'm like, Okay, in

659
00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:51,800
Speaker 1: ten years, maybe I'll want to house that's you know,

660
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:54,479
Speaker 1: three million, and I will like, it will be a

661
00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:58,200
Speaker 1: huge jump, and it will make me feel like who

662
00:31:58,240 --> 00:31:59,600
Speaker 1: am I to want that?

663
00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:00,840
Speaker 2: Let's even upper heights.

664
00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:02,800
Speaker 1: Let's say it's a ten million house, and I'm like,

665
00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:06,640
Speaker 1: you know, and I get those feelings, but then I

666
00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:09,800
Speaker 1: get okay with it, and I'm like, of course I'm

667
00:32:09,840 --> 00:32:12,720
Speaker 1: gonna have that, or of course it's okay to deserve that,

668
00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:16,200
Speaker 1: and you quantum leap and you think about like the bigger,

669
00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:18,720
Speaker 1: bigger dream, which is like it's not you know, in

670
00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:22,000
Speaker 1: the next couple of years, but you do that to

671
00:32:22,200 --> 00:32:23,520
Speaker 1: expand your.

672
00:32:23,440 --> 00:32:25,120
Speaker 2: Like dreaming muscle, let's call it.

673
00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:28,640
Speaker 1: And I think I think that's really important because we

674
00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:29,800
Speaker 1: don't tend to do that.

675
00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:33,840
Speaker 2: Anymore, and I'm not anymore, but we just don't, like

676
00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:34,960
Speaker 2: one of my oldest.

677
00:32:37,640 --> 00:32:39,720
Speaker 1: But you know, we don't, I tend to do that,

678
00:32:39,760 --> 00:32:41,880
Speaker 1: and I think especially as females.

679
00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:45,400
Speaker 2: So yeah, it's a cool little thing. I don't I

680
00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:46,440
Speaker 2: was like, where was I going with?

681
00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:50,920
Speaker 4: So I think the hardest thing, obviously is identifying these things.

682
00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:52,720
Speaker 4: So I want to like give people ideas about how

683
00:32:52,760 --> 00:32:54,479
Speaker 4: they actually cannot identify them.

684
00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:56,440
Speaker 3: And you talk a lot about journaling.

685
00:32:56,360 --> 00:32:58,560
Speaker 4: Yes, and that seems to be the best way to

686
00:32:58,680 --> 00:33:00,959
Speaker 4: like get your eye all your thoughts.

687
00:33:01,360 --> 00:33:02,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're going out.

688
00:33:02,560 --> 00:33:04,640
Speaker 1: I'm such a big journal and lots of people like, oh,

689
00:33:04,840 --> 00:33:07,800
Speaker 1: I don't know what to do. And my tip of

690
00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:10,320
Speaker 1: journaling is like, no one's going to read this, like,

691
00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:12,680
Speaker 1: don't care about spelling, don't care if it makes sense

692
00:33:12,760 --> 00:33:15,200
Speaker 1: or anything. But what we're doing is we're just getting

693
00:33:15,360 --> 00:33:16,200
Speaker 1: things out.

694
00:33:16,040 --> 00:33:16,680
Speaker 2: On the page.

695
00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:20,680
Speaker 1: And usually the first page will feel super unnatural and

696
00:33:20,760 --> 00:33:23,320
Speaker 1: like weird, but then once you start going it just

697
00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:23,880
Speaker 1: flows out.

698
00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:24,960
Speaker 2: But basically, what we're.

699
00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:30,880
Speaker 1: Trying to do is underlying, like seeing the underlying issue

700
00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:35,400
Speaker 1: of why you think maybe you're not worthy or deserving

701
00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:39,200
Speaker 1: of what you want. So I will journal and I'll go,

702
00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:41,800
Speaker 1: you know what's coming up for me for a reason

703
00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:44,440
Speaker 1: why I can't have this, and I'll do a really

704
00:33:44,440 --> 00:33:48,000
Speaker 1: honest example. So I was actually journing this week week sorry,

705
00:33:48,360 --> 00:33:52,360
Speaker 1: and I was like, I don't know with Round two.

706
00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:53,760
Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't know if.

707
00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:55,600
Speaker 1: I put it too close to the launch of the

708
00:33:55,640 --> 00:33:57,800
Speaker 1: notepads and you know what if.

709
00:33:57,680 --> 00:33:59,560
Speaker 2: It's too much is happening and no one buys the

710
00:33:59,600 --> 00:34:00,600
Speaker 2: course and you.

711
00:34:00,560 --> 00:34:09,880
Speaker 3: Know what, what if they buy a pant? No?

712
00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:11,040
Speaker 2: But this is what I mean.

713
00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:16,360
Speaker 1: And then I'm journaling and I'm like, Georgia, there's already

714
00:34:16,480 --> 00:34:19,200
Speaker 1: like there's already fourteen hundred people on the wait list

715
00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:21,640
Speaker 1: for a Round two, Like it's not like and you know,

716
00:34:21,680 --> 00:34:26,320
Speaker 1: so I then have to unpack it and I've realized

717
00:34:26,360 --> 00:34:30,040
Speaker 1: that it's and like I will journal why why why?

718
00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:33,080
Speaker 1: And keep writing, And that got right down to the

719
00:34:33,120 --> 00:34:37,360
Speaker 1: bottom where you know, growing up my dad, my dad,

720
00:34:37,719 --> 00:34:40,319
Speaker 1: he's a very like he loves to hustle and I

721
00:34:40,320 --> 00:34:43,120
Speaker 1: get my drive from him. But he has this thing

722
00:34:43,160 --> 00:34:46,080
Speaker 1: about like too much can't be happening at once, Like

723
00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:49,000
Speaker 1: let's focus on this one thing, do it really well,

724
00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:51,880
Speaker 1: and that's it, and then we move on to the next.

725
00:34:52,200 --> 00:34:54,200
Speaker 1: And it's funny because I grew up like that, and

726
00:34:54,280 --> 00:34:57,760
Speaker 1: so I realized it came from this like weird belief

727
00:34:57,880 --> 00:35:01,399
Speaker 1: that I can't do two things at once they will

728
00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:02,319
Speaker 1: fail and.

729
00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:05,560
Speaker 3: Like how typical.

730
00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:11,000
Speaker 1: And then once I unpacked that and realize that that

731
00:35:11,160 --> 00:35:14,959
Speaker 1: you know, thought of you know, the launch not going

732
00:35:14,960 --> 00:35:17,520
Speaker 1: well came from that, and I was like, that's not

733
00:35:17,680 --> 00:35:20,640
Speaker 1: actually true because I do a million things all the

734
00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:22,479
Speaker 1: time and they do extremely well.

735
00:35:22,520 --> 00:35:24,680
Speaker 2: And then I was like, oh, I feel good, It's

736
00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:25,399
Speaker 2: all going to be good.

737
00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:28,240
Speaker 3: It's all good.

738
00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:31,759
Speaker 1: Yeah. So it's funny because if I just was like, oh,

739
00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:33,799
Speaker 1: why am I feeling like this? I could have been like, oh, well,

740
00:35:33,840 --> 00:35:36,640
Speaker 1: you know, I'm just overwhelmed stress. But I would write down,

741
00:35:36,680 --> 00:35:38,560
Speaker 1: you know, why am I feeling like this, and then

742
00:35:38,600 --> 00:35:41,000
Speaker 1: go why why why? And then you get into this

743
00:35:41,160 --> 00:35:45,480
Speaker 1: like root, you know, sort of memory or belief, and

744
00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:49,280
Speaker 1: you'll often like pick the blue belief up and go.

745
00:35:50,160 --> 00:35:51,400
Speaker 2: This makes no sense.

746
00:35:51,600 --> 00:35:54,080
Speaker 1: But that's when you disarm it, That's when you take

747
00:35:54,120 --> 00:35:57,719
Speaker 1: away its power, and then I actually rewrote a sentence

748
00:35:58,000 --> 00:36:01,000
Speaker 1: and I know I'm probably getting ahead right now, but

749
00:36:01,920 --> 00:36:04,680
Speaker 1: and then I rewrote that belief. So I found limiting

750
00:36:04,719 --> 00:36:07,560
Speaker 1: belief of you shouldn't do too many things at once.

751
00:36:07,600 --> 00:36:09,560
Speaker 1: You need to do one thing and do it well.

752
00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:13,279
Speaker 1: And I wrote a new belief that was, when I'm

753
00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:17,040
Speaker 1: aligned and when I'm in my power and when i'm

754
00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:20,920
Speaker 1: you know, listening to my intuition, I can do multiple

755
00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:23,880
Speaker 1: things and they will do you know, they will do

756
00:36:24,000 --> 00:36:26,040
Speaker 1: extremely well because they're in lignment.

757
00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:28,600
Speaker 3: Like I'm trying to reprogram that with enough amazing.

758
00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:30,600
Speaker 2: And then when I and then I sat with that

759
00:36:30,640 --> 00:36:32,959
Speaker 2: feeling and I was like, it's all good.

760
00:36:33,680 --> 00:36:35,160
Speaker 3: I got it so many things.

761
00:36:36,560 --> 00:36:38,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, so I think, yeah, I think the best way

762
00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:41,120
Speaker 4: for me that I found because I'm not journaling person,

763
00:36:41,200 --> 00:36:43,719
Speaker 4: but through this process I found it to be quite rewarding.

764
00:36:44,080 --> 00:36:45,879
Speaker 4: And that's not to say I sit down every day

765
00:36:45,920 --> 00:36:48,160
Speaker 4: and like write out or anything. But when I sat

766
00:36:48,200 --> 00:36:50,280
Speaker 4: down and you know, you said, come up with your goals,

767
00:36:50,400 --> 00:36:52,719
Speaker 4: and then it was the next week, it was why

768
00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:55,680
Speaker 4: might you feel like you can't achieve those goals? It

769
00:36:55,800 --> 00:36:58,680
Speaker 4: was really sitting down and going, huh, I do I

770
00:36:58,680 --> 00:37:01,120
Speaker 4: think I, actually, I don't believe going to achieve this goal,

771
00:37:01,239 --> 00:37:02,600
Speaker 4: Like why the fuck did I write it if I

772
00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:04,719
Speaker 4: didn't think I could even do it? And like what

773
00:37:04,800 --> 00:37:06,200
Speaker 4: can I do to kind of like so one of

774
00:37:06,239 --> 00:37:09,960
Speaker 4: mine was that, like I wanted like the financial freedom,

775
00:37:10,080 --> 00:37:12,480
Speaker 4: I guess because like, obviously I'm in a business relationship

776
00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:15,000
Speaker 4: with my brother, and the way that sort of we

777
00:37:15,040 --> 00:37:17,879
Speaker 4: set up is, I guess even though we're partners, he's

778
00:37:17,920 --> 00:37:20,719
Speaker 4: sort of the big dog in the situation and I'm

779
00:37:20,840 --> 00:37:24,040
Speaker 4: more of the support system. And that's how I've always

780
00:37:24,160 --> 00:37:26,200
Speaker 4: liked it. But it always has felt like all of

781
00:37:26,480 --> 00:37:29,839
Speaker 4: everything I do is tied to Sam financially obviously, And

782
00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:31,600
Speaker 4: so I was like, I want to be financially free,

783
00:37:31,600 --> 00:37:33,400
Speaker 4: but I didn't think that, like I didn't believe that

784
00:37:33,440 --> 00:37:34,440
Speaker 4: because I'll always.

785
00:37:34,200 --> 00:37:35,240
Speaker 3: Be doing stuff with Sam.

786
00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:37,480
Speaker 4: So that's when I them was like, well, maybe I

787
00:37:37,520 --> 00:37:40,440
Speaker 4: need to be doing some things financially for myself, you know.

788
00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:42,000
Speaker 3: And that's what I'm looking at, like, you know.

789
00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:43,960
Speaker 4: When I grow my community and things like that, and

790
00:37:44,040 --> 00:37:46,680
Speaker 4: I'm doing like my free PDFs and people are saying like, oh,

791
00:37:46,719 --> 00:37:49,000
Speaker 4: you know, can you get like principal versions, I'm like, oh,

792
00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:50,320
Speaker 4: everyone's obsessed with diaries?

793
00:37:50,400 --> 00:37:51,360
Speaker 3: Do I want to like everything?

794
00:37:52,200 --> 00:37:55,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly, yeah, And so I'm like obviously not right now,

795
00:37:55,080 --> 00:37:57,600
Speaker 4: but like my goals and even like my like those

796
00:37:57,680 --> 00:38:00,759
Speaker 4: days expandage your mind and the daily cards I do

797
00:38:00,800 --> 00:38:02,520
Speaker 4: every day. People like you should do your own. I've

798
00:38:02,520 --> 00:38:04,560
Speaker 4: always been like no, like I couldn't. I could never

799
00:38:04,640 --> 00:38:07,120
Speaker 4: do that. But it's like, why couldn't I do my own?

800
00:38:07,200 --> 00:38:09,560
Speaker 4: Like that's what I love myself. I know how to,

801
00:38:09,719 --> 00:38:12,440
Speaker 4: Like I have the like all the we do printers

802
00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:13,080
Speaker 4: and everything here.

803
00:38:13,120 --> 00:38:15,360
Speaker 3: I have all the resources obviously, so capable.

804
00:38:15,440 --> 00:38:17,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, so it's down the track, but it's like that

805
00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:19,439
Speaker 4: would be something that like I can be financially free

806
00:38:19,480 --> 00:38:21,560
Speaker 4: by having my own thing because Sam has his own

807
00:38:21,600 --> 00:38:23,680
Speaker 4: businesses that have nothing to do with me, and then

808
00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:25,560
Speaker 4: we have ones that were together, So like why couldn't

809
00:38:25,600 --> 00:38:27,480
Speaker 4: I do that myself?

810
00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:27,680
Speaker 3: You know?

811
00:38:27,719 --> 00:38:30,440
Speaker 4: And so I kind of got that from your course,

812
00:38:30,920 --> 00:38:33,680
Speaker 4: being like oh wow, like I really didn't believe that

813
00:38:33,680 --> 00:38:35,480
Speaker 4: I could do this on my own, But what can

814
00:38:35,520 --> 00:38:37,799
Speaker 4: I do to kind of like change that narrative in

815
00:38:37,840 --> 00:38:38,280
Speaker 4: my mind?

816
00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:41,920
Speaker 1: And so when you were getting into that, was there,

817
00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:44,640
Speaker 1: you know, like you said, a belief that you can't

818
00:38:44,800 --> 00:38:48,279
Speaker 1: do something without Sam like did you definitely yeah, yeah,

819
00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:50,840
Speaker 1: And it's definitely still there yea, because I'm even like

820
00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:53,719
Speaker 1: now I'm writing abound being like oh.

821
00:38:53,560 --> 00:38:55,640
Speaker 3: What what Sam would think this would be best?

822
00:38:55,920 --> 00:38:56,120
Speaker 2: You know?

823
00:38:56,400 --> 00:38:57,399
Speaker 3: Or I'm like, well, I.

824
00:38:57,400 --> 00:38:59,840
Speaker 4: Call the business she was the fire, like the podca

825
00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:01,000
Speaker 4: is it Courtney Magan?

826
00:39:01,080 --> 00:39:04,359
Speaker 3: Is it something else? Sam's about? Randy? I'll ask him, you.

827
00:39:04,280 --> 00:39:06,600
Speaker 4: Know, everything is like I want to or it's like yeah,

828
00:39:06,600 --> 00:39:08,600
Speaker 4: all the time I'm having to go back to because

829
00:39:08,640 --> 00:39:11,200
Speaker 4: I trust his instincts. Obviously, there's a line where it's like,

830
00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:13,080
Speaker 4: you know, you want to get advice in people who

831
00:39:13,120 --> 00:39:15,040
Speaker 4: you're close to and know what the fuck they're talking about.

832
00:39:15,080 --> 00:39:17,160
Speaker 3: Why wouldn't I want to utilize that? But then it's

833
00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:19,640
Speaker 3: also like I wasn't trusting my own instincts.

834
00:39:19,239 --> 00:39:22,040
Speaker 4: Either, because it feels like, you know, I've supported Sam

835
00:39:22,080 --> 00:39:23,839
Speaker 4: through this business, but a lot of it is off

836
00:39:23,840 --> 00:39:26,040
Speaker 4: the back of like a lot of his networking and

837
00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:29,720
Speaker 4: his drive. And I've said before on our other podcast,

838
00:39:29,760 --> 00:39:31,680
Speaker 4: A Business One, that I was never someone who wanted

839
00:39:31,680 --> 00:39:34,600
Speaker 4: to have their own business. I was always wanted to

840
00:39:34,640 --> 00:39:36,760
Speaker 4: be someone who was like a leader in a business,

841
00:39:36,760 --> 00:39:38,359
Speaker 4: but it wasn't necessarily that I wanted to go out.

842
00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:41,799
Speaker 4: So the entrepreneurship is him and I've supported him through that,

843
00:39:42,640 --> 00:39:45,000
Speaker 4: and so obviously, like you know, I'm a big part

844
00:39:45,040 --> 00:39:46,719
Speaker 4: of how this business got to where it is, but

845
00:39:46,880 --> 00:39:49,879
Speaker 4: it's all pretty much off Sam's initial sort of kickstarting,

846
00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:51,759
Speaker 4: and so that's been hard for me.

847
00:39:51,680 --> 00:39:53,360
Speaker 3: Because I've always been behind the scenes.

848
00:39:53,360 --> 00:39:54,799
Speaker 4: But now I'm like trying to be a bit more

849
00:39:54,840 --> 00:39:57,200
Speaker 4: forward facing, being like, no, like I'm a business, I'm

850
00:39:57,200 --> 00:39:58,240
Speaker 4: a woman in this business.

851
00:39:58,320 --> 00:39:59,479
Speaker 3: Now I do things.

852
00:39:59,520 --> 00:40:02,200
Speaker 4: But it's like I was really limiting my own like, oh,

853
00:40:02,239 --> 00:40:05,200
Speaker 4: Sam's the one that did everything. It's all because of Sam,

854
00:40:05,239 --> 00:40:06,919
Speaker 4: and like a lot of it is, but it's as

855
00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:08,480
Speaker 4: like he might not have been able to do that

856
00:40:08,520 --> 00:40:10,880
Speaker 4: had I not been here, like managing the team and

857
00:40:10,920 --> 00:40:13,719
Speaker 4: building the stuff and being the support system, and that's just.

858
00:40:13,640 --> 00:40:14,800
Speaker 3: As equally as important.

859
00:40:14,880 --> 00:40:16,880
Speaker 4: So I had this summiting belief that then made me

860
00:40:16,920 --> 00:40:19,280
Speaker 4: feel like I couldn't do my own thing without him.

861
00:40:19,480 --> 00:40:21,239
Speaker 4: And so I'm starting to like, I'm not sure I'm

862
00:40:21,239 --> 00:40:22,399
Speaker 4: across the line, but.

863
00:40:23,960 --> 00:40:26,680
Speaker 1: You're processing it, and I think that's huge, And I

864
00:40:26,680 --> 00:40:29,919
Speaker 1: think a cool thing you could do is thanking those

865
00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:33,920
Speaker 1: people forgiving you, And it's not even them, but it's you.

866
00:40:33,920 --> 00:40:35,240
Speaker 2: You've created these limiting beliefs.

867
00:40:35,280 --> 00:40:38,960
Speaker 1: You have to take ownership, but it's like thanking yourself

868
00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:42,000
Speaker 1: because at a point that served you and it is

869
00:40:42,080 --> 00:40:44,520
Speaker 1: now like, look where you are. And it's really funny

870
00:40:44,520 --> 00:40:47,440
Speaker 1: that you said that, because I remember saying to my parents,

871
00:40:47,840 --> 00:40:50,040
Speaker 1: I don't want to be a business owner. I couldn't

872
00:40:50,040 --> 00:40:52,000
Speaker 1: think of anything worse than being a business owner. When

873
00:40:52,000 --> 00:40:54,319
Speaker 1: I was like maybe about nineteen and I was working

874
00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:56,600
Speaker 1: the law firm, I'm like, I love working for a boss, Bob.

875
00:40:57,440 --> 00:40:59,879
Speaker 1: And now I'm like, I couldn't think anything worse than

876
00:41:00,160 --> 00:41:01,640
Speaker 1: not working for myself freedom.

877
00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:04,560
Speaker 2: But yeah, that's so interesting.

878
00:41:04,640 --> 00:41:07,279
Speaker 1: I love that you unpacked that and you're now processing

879
00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:09,879
Speaker 1: that and expanding your mind, and I'm excited to see

880
00:41:09,920 --> 00:41:10,840
Speaker 1: what happens in the next one.

881
00:41:10,920 --> 00:41:13,240
Speaker 4: That's interesting to see how much it actually comes into

882
00:41:13,600 --> 00:41:15,840
Speaker 4: everything that I do because of that limited belief it

883
00:41:16,000 --> 00:41:18,799
Speaker 4: like comes up in so many different ways. I think

884
00:41:18,840 --> 00:41:20,160
Speaker 4: one of the other things that you talked about that

885
00:41:20,200 --> 00:41:22,880
Speaker 4: I found interesting that's along this similar lines is about

886
00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:26,080
Speaker 4: this struggle that we kind of tell ourselves.

887
00:41:26,120 --> 00:41:27,360
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.

888
00:41:27,560 --> 00:41:31,000
Speaker 1: So the concept that Court's talking about is in the

889
00:41:31,000 --> 00:41:34,239
Speaker 1: course I talk about dropping the struggle, and I feel like,

890
00:41:34,320 --> 00:41:37,120
Speaker 1: and I again, I don't want to kind of be

891
00:41:37,200 --> 00:41:40,200
Speaker 1: sexist here, but I feel like women tend to do

892
00:41:40,239 --> 00:41:42,520
Speaker 1: this and we kind of carry things on our back

893
00:41:42,560 --> 00:41:45,879
Speaker 1: and it's almost like a label. And so when I'm

894
00:41:45,920 --> 00:41:49,480
Speaker 1: talking about struggle, I'm talking kind of yeah about stories

895
00:41:49,880 --> 00:41:54,000
Speaker 1: that we pick up and we tell ourselves that. You know,

896
00:41:54,400 --> 00:41:57,520
Speaker 1: you know when you do something at work and you're like, no,

897
00:41:57,640 --> 00:41:59,560
Speaker 1: it has to be this way, and it's this long

898
00:41:59,640 --> 00:42:02,239
Speaker 1: process and it's complicated, and then someone comes along they

899
00:42:02,239 --> 00:42:04,120
Speaker 1: try and simplify it and you're like no, no, no, no,

900
00:42:04,360 --> 00:42:06,719
Speaker 1: it has to be done this way. But then they like,

901
00:42:06,800 --> 00:42:08,759
Speaker 1: do it this simple way, and you're like, oh, I

902
00:42:08,800 --> 00:42:11,400
Speaker 1: could have been doing that the ah way. This is

903
00:42:11,480 --> 00:42:15,040
Speaker 1: you know, this is the struggle. And we all have things.

904
00:42:15,120 --> 00:42:18,400
Speaker 1: And a great example of mine is again with the

905
00:42:18,680 --> 00:42:20,920
Speaker 1: I used to have this thing in my head that

906
00:42:21,040 --> 00:42:25,319
Speaker 1: you had to yeah, you could, you know, you could

907
00:42:25,360 --> 00:42:27,160
Speaker 1: do really well in business and you could do really

908
00:42:27,200 --> 00:42:31,000
Speaker 1: well in life, but you have to attach hard work

909
00:42:31,080 --> 00:42:32,759
Speaker 1: and you have to really slog and you have.

910
00:42:32,719 --> 00:42:34,440
Speaker 2: To work nights and days.

911
00:42:34,480 --> 00:42:38,160
Speaker 1: And I a great example I teach and the course

912
00:42:38,239 --> 00:42:41,560
Speaker 1: is with my ebook and so I launched this ebook

913
00:42:41,560 --> 00:42:44,080
Speaker 1: a couple of years ago, and it was like I

914
00:42:44,120 --> 00:42:48,000
Speaker 1: got graphic designers, I got you know, like it was

915
00:42:48,080 --> 00:42:51,160
Speaker 1: this whole ordeal for this like twenty dollars ebook, and

916
00:42:51,400 --> 00:42:53,120
Speaker 1: you know, like it did extremely well and I was

917
00:42:53,120 --> 00:42:55,720
Speaker 1: super proud of it. But then a couple of years later,

918
00:42:55,840 --> 00:42:59,200
Speaker 1: like I wanted to launch presets, and I literally had

919
00:42:59,239 --> 00:42:59,720
Speaker 1: the idea.

920
00:42:59,840 --> 00:43:02,080
Speaker 2: I talked to my graphics sign I said make the assets.

921
00:43:02,160 --> 00:43:03,680
Speaker 2: I did the presets myself.

922
00:43:03,560 --> 00:43:07,000
Speaker 1: Exported them, you know, check some things my website, put

923
00:43:07,040 --> 00:43:10,799
Speaker 1: it up on stories, and it went wild, and I,

924
00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:13,279
Speaker 1: you know, like there was no struggle, there was no

925
00:43:13,920 --> 00:43:17,279
Speaker 1: work per se, and it's like previously I had this

926
00:43:17,400 --> 00:43:20,879
Speaker 1: concept that to achieve something you had to go through

927
00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:21,520
Speaker 1: this struggle.

928
00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:23,600
Speaker 2: So that's kind of a great example.

929
00:43:23,719 --> 00:43:25,480
Speaker 4: I think another part in the course you had kind

930
00:43:25,520 --> 00:43:28,479
Speaker 4: of said that during the first round you were doing

931
00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:30,239
Speaker 4: one on one calls and things like that, and then

932
00:43:30,280 --> 00:43:31,800
Speaker 4: you were doing the lives with us, and there was

933
00:43:31,840 --> 00:43:33,200
Speaker 4: all this stuff that was going into it, and at

934
00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:35,640
Speaker 4: the end of the day you're energy yeah, and you're like, oh,

935
00:43:35,640 --> 00:43:37,640
Speaker 4: I feel really drained and I'm really tired.

936
00:43:37,640 --> 00:43:41,200
Speaker 3: But then you realize, like, actually am I. Yeah, like

937
00:43:41,440 --> 00:43:44,160
Speaker 3: I'm not. I'm actually energized or like helping all of

938
00:43:44,200 --> 00:43:44,640
Speaker 3: these women.

939
00:43:44,680 --> 00:43:47,000
Speaker 4: And I think that I often do that when I'm

940
00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:50,440
Speaker 4: feeling overwhelmed. I kind of get stuck in focusing that

941
00:43:50,480 --> 00:43:52,720
Speaker 4: it's like, oh, I've got so much on my plate,

942
00:43:53,160 --> 00:43:56,200
Speaker 4: but it's actually like I thrive under like that kind

943
00:43:56,200 --> 00:43:58,799
Speaker 4: of show. Yeah, So like why am I pretending like

944
00:43:58,840 --> 00:44:01,239
Speaker 4: it's it's almost like you're supposed to you know. I

945
00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:03,279
Speaker 4: had a lot with the cancer as well where it

946
00:44:03,320 --> 00:44:05,000
Speaker 4: was like I had a lot of people being like.

947
00:44:05,640 --> 00:44:08,239
Speaker 3: Are you okay? Oh my god, rest are you?

948
00:44:08,320 --> 00:44:10,640
Speaker 4: And I felt almost like I was supposed to be

949
00:44:11,280 --> 00:44:14,360
Speaker 4: There's something wrong. Am I supposed to be struggling? Am

950
00:44:14,400 --> 00:44:18,120
Speaker 4: I supposed to be feeling worse? Or people like maybe

951
00:44:18,120 --> 00:44:20,040
Speaker 4: you need to see a therapist. I'm like I feel

952
00:44:20,080 --> 00:44:22,040
Speaker 4: like I need to see it. I feel like I'm

953
00:44:22,320 --> 00:44:23,600
Speaker 4: I'm handling this really well?

954
00:44:23,960 --> 00:44:24,399
Speaker 3: Is that wrong?

955
00:44:24,440 --> 00:44:26,760
Speaker 4: And I felt like I was supposed to be struggling,

956
00:44:26,840 --> 00:44:28,160
Speaker 4: But I'm like when I looked at it, I was

957
00:44:28,200 --> 00:44:32,240
Speaker 4: like I'm fine, I'm okay, Like I'm working through this well,

958
00:44:32,320 --> 00:44:36,239
Speaker 4: Like I'm okay, I'm like dealing with this and like

959
00:44:36,320 --> 00:44:38,640
Speaker 4: I don't feel like I'm a sickly person that's dying

960
00:44:38,719 --> 00:44:40,880
Speaker 4: or anything that everyone I think is expecting you to

961
00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:42,080
Speaker 4: do when you have cancer.

962
00:44:42,560 --> 00:44:43,919
Speaker 3: And like all of a sudden, it's like I don't

963
00:44:43,960 --> 00:44:46,839
Speaker 3: need to have the struggle, Like I'm okay, move on.

964
00:44:47,080 --> 00:44:49,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's so interesting.

965
00:44:49,360 --> 00:44:51,839
Speaker 4: Yeah, and like obviously some days are harder than others, yes,

966
00:44:51,880 --> 00:44:55,080
Speaker 4: but I felt like this weight of pressure from people

967
00:44:55,120 --> 00:44:57,560
Speaker 4: being like you're not going to be okay, like Strata,

968
00:44:57,640 --> 00:44:59,400
Speaker 4: it was like you need to organize a therapist. I

969
00:44:59,440 --> 00:45:00,920
Speaker 4: just churned out the last twenty four hours that I

970
00:45:00,920 --> 00:45:03,200
Speaker 4: have voiced a serious cancer. Give me a minute to

971
00:45:03,239 --> 00:45:03,719
Speaker 4: process it.

972
00:45:03,760 --> 00:45:05,640
Speaker 3: But it was just like this pressure from people that

973
00:45:05,680 --> 00:45:08,520
Speaker 3: you're like and there was like go home, don't. Like

974
00:45:08,560 --> 00:45:10,360
Speaker 3: I came into work the next day after my surgery,

975
00:45:10,360 --> 00:45:11,960
Speaker 3: it was like you shouldn't be here, and it's like

976
00:45:12,160 --> 00:45:13,719
Speaker 3: I want to be at work. I don't want to

977
00:45:13,719 --> 00:45:15,240
Speaker 3: sit at home and sit like am I dying?

978
00:45:15,440 --> 00:45:15,600
Speaker 1: Yeah?

979
00:45:15,600 --> 00:45:17,200
Speaker 4: You know who wants to do that, But like some

980
00:45:17,200 --> 00:45:19,480
Speaker 4: people want to relax, sure, but that's not where I

981
00:45:19,520 --> 00:45:22,719
Speaker 4: am like feeling the best. I feel better when like,

982
00:45:22,760 --> 00:45:24,920
Speaker 4: oh my I work, I'm so friendly with all of

983
00:45:24,960 --> 00:45:26,560
Speaker 4: my stuff and like some of the people that are

984
00:45:26,600 --> 00:45:28,360
Speaker 4: closest to me. I want to be around that, not

985
00:45:28,400 --> 00:45:31,280
Speaker 4: sitting at home alone looking at my scar and thinking

986
00:45:31,360 --> 00:45:32,359
Speaker 4: like am I going to die?

987
00:45:32,560 --> 00:45:33,719
Speaker 3: You know what I mean? So it was like I

988
00:45:33,719 --> 00:45:35,879
Speaker 3: felt this pressure to act a certain way and put

989
00:45:35,920 --> 00:45:38,520
Speaker 3: this struggle on when I was like, I'm not I'm

990
00:45:38,560 --> 00:45:39,080
Speaker 3: not fine.

991
00:45:39,239 --> 00:45:39,520
Speaker 5: Yeah.

992
00:45:39,800 --> 00:45:43,520
Speaker 1: So I think it's also sometimes it's like complacentness.

993
00:45:43,760 --> 00:45:44,359
Speaker 3: Is that a word?

994
00:45:44,840 --> 00:45:45,120
Speaker 2: I think?

995
00:45:45,120 --> 00:45:46,000
Speaker 3: You know what you mean it?

996
00:45:46,080 --> 00:45:49,120
Speaker 1: Yeah? And so, like Court was saying, I was explaining

997
00:45:49,120 --> 00:45:52,839
Speaker 1: the course, I always tell people I'm an introvert. So

998
00:45:52,880 --> 00:45:54,799
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, I'm an introvert. I don't get my

999
00:45:54,920 --> 00:45:56,920
Speaker 1: energy from other people. I get it from like being

1000
00:45:56,920 --> 00:45:59,360
Speaker 1: at home watching Netflix. And then I love that.

1001
00:45:59,520 --> 00:45:59,880
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1002
00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:01,880
Speaker 1: And then I started the course, and so I was

1003
00:46:01,920 --> 00:46:04,440
Speaker 1: doing one on ones and live calls and I was like,

1004
00:46:04,520 --> 00:46:07,399
Speaker 1: oh my god, you know, like it's taking so much energy.

1005
00:46:07,440 --> 00:46:09,280
Speaker 1: And then I was talking to a friend at dinner

1006
00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:13,239
Speaker 1: and I was like, wait, am I an introvert? Or

1007
00:46:13,320 --> 00:46:16,399
Speaker 1: is this a story that I've told myself that I

1008
00:46:16,400 --> 00:46:20,440
Speaker 1: identify with? And so I think it's sometimes like for

1009
00:46:20,520 --> 00:46:24,800
Speaker 1: a long time, with identified with being a certain person

1010
00:46:26,000 --> 00:46:28,800
Speaker 1: or being a certain way, and it's just about checking

1011
00:46:28,800 --> 00:46:31,719
Speaker 1: in with yourself and going, oh, hey, is this you

1012
00:46:31,760 --> 00:46:34,920
Speaker 1: know something I still want to identify with. And it's

1013
00:46:34,960 --> 00:46:38,160
Speaker 1: also about realizing that you have the option. I think

1014
00:46:38,480 --> 00:46:40,759
Speaker 1: the biggest thing, like you said, like you know, people

1015
00:46:40,800 --> 00:46:43,520
Speaker 1: are saying that and you were You're conflicted and you're like,

1016
00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:46,840
Speaker 1: but no, I actually I feel fine, and then choosing

1017
00:46:46,880 --> 00:46:50,720
Speaker 1: that option. Whereas a lot of people, you know, certain

1018
00:46:50,719 --> 00:46:54,440
Speaker 1: stuff will happen to them and they will have this identity,

1019
00:46:54,600 --> 00:46:58,200
Speaker 1: and then because they're stuck in that identity for so long,

1020
00:46:58,480 --> 00:47:00,440
Speaker 1: they kind of feel like they have to stay in that.

1021
00:47:01,200 --> 00:47:03,920
Speaker 3: I had the same thing with I'm not a networker.

1022
00:47:04,000 --> 00:47:05,399
Speaker 3: I'm not a good networker and I.

1023
00:47:05,600 --> 00:47:07,600
Speaker 4: Just tell myself that all the time because Sam is

1024
00:47:07,680 --> 00:47:11,160
Speaker 4: like fucking a plus top notch, so anyone compared to

1025
00:47:11,200 --> 00:47:12,719
Speaker 4: him would be like z list, you know what I mean.

1026
00:47:13,280 --> 00:47:14,880
Speaker 4: I grew up with someone who's just like and my

1027
00:47:15,000 --> 00:47:17,880
Speaker 4: mum is the same. She could sell like iced eskimos

1028
00:47:17,960 --> 00:47:21,120
Speaker 4: like and like multiple on bulk like she's crazy. So

1029
00:47:21,360 --> 00:47:23,560
Speaker 4: I was surrounded by these two people who were like

1030
00:47:23,880 --> 00:47:27,000
Speaker 4: just so charismatic and like, you know, get life stories

1031
00:47:27,040 --> 00:47:29,600
Speaker 4: from anybody in a heartbeat. We're getting at the Woolworths

1032
00:47:29,680 --> 00:47:32,120
Speaker 4: checkout and Mums knows like the full person's life. So

1033
00:47:32,200 --> 00:47:33,879
Speaker 4: I'm like, what's happening here?

1034
00:47:35,120 --> 00:47:35,279
Speaker 1: You know.

1035
00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:37,200
Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm I forgot, let us go again.

1036
00:47:37,239 --> 00:47:39,160
Speaker 4: I come back, and She's like already knows the whole

1037
00:47:39,160 --> 00:47:43,279
Speaker 4: life story in the astrology charts, you know. And so

1038
00:47:43,360 --> 00:47:46,200
Speaker 4: I've always kind of by comparison, been like I'm bad

1039
00:47:46,200 --> 00:47:46,800
Speaker 4: at networking.

1040
00:47:46,800 --> 00:47:49,080
Speaker 3: I'm not a good networker. But then when I was.

1041
00:47:49,040 --> 00:47:52,120
Speaker 4: Like, you know what, no, Like that's not true, Like

1042
00:47:52,560 --> 00:47:56,200
Speaker 4: that's all talk to people, I'm like smart, Like why

1043
00:47:56,239 --> 00:47:58,720
Speaker 4: would I think that? And so even with this business,

1044
00:47:58,760 --> 00:48:00,400
Speaker 4: when we were starting at Sam and have all the

1045
00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:02,560
Speaker 4: contact with clients and you know, all the people that

1046
00:48:02,560 --> 00:48:04,680
Speaker 4: we work with like influences and stuff like that, I'd

1047
00:48:04,719 --> 00:48:06,000
Speaker 4: just be like in the corner.

1048
00:48:05,680 --> 00:48:06,640
Speaker 3: Like Hi, I am Courtney.

1049
00:48:06,840 --> 00:48:09,839
Speaker 4: Whereas now I'm like, no, like I can be like

1050
00:48:10,239 --> 00:48:13,080
Speaker 4: building relationships with these people like you, for instance, Yeah,

1051
00:48:14,000 --> 00:48:14,840
Speaker 4: relationship with you.

1052
00:48:15,000 --> 00:48:16,759
Speaker 2: This is you networking with people the way.

1053
00:48:16,920 --> 00:48:18,279
Speaker 3: So it's like I could do that too.

1054
00:48:18,320 --> 00:48:20,280
Speaker 4: And it was like this story I was telling myself

1055
00:48:20,280 --> 00:48:21,719
Speaker 4: that it was like, no, you're not good at that,

1056
00:48:21,800 --> 00:48:24,160
Speaker 4: But like what was that based on? Just because Sam

1057
00:48:24,200 --> 00:48:25,640
Speaker 4: and my mom are so good. It doesn't mean by

1058
00:48:25,640 --> 00:48:28,399
Speaker 4: comparison and I'm bad. I can still do it, maybe

1059
00:48:28,480 --> 00:48:30,759
Speaker 4: not as good as them, because like they're really out

1060
00:48:30,800 --> 00:48:31,279
Speaker 4: there with it.

1061
00:48:31,640 --> 00:48:32,680
Speaker 3: But yeah, it's.

1062
00:48:32,560 --> 00:48:35,200
Speaker 4: Just funny that you only like get down to looking

1063
00:48:35,200 --> 00:48:37,120
Speaker 4: at your goals and what you want to achieve, how

1064
00:48:37,360 --> 00:48:40,600
Speaker 4: much of them you actually don't believe that you can achieve.

1065
00:48:40,600 --> 00:48:41,560
Speaker 3: It's actually crazy.

1066
00:48:41,800 --> 00:48:45,520
Speaker 1: Well that's this is what's so interesting and so amazing

1067
00:48:45,560 --> 00:48:48,680
Speaker 1: about self development is Yeah, when you like really dive

1068
00:48:48,719 --> 00:48:51,360
Speaker 1: into this stuff and you really peel back the layers,

1069
00:48:51,840 --> 00:48:55,320
Speaker 1: you're like, I can literally be a whole different person.

1070
00:48:55,760 --> 00:48:57,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like it's insane.

1071
00:48:58,080 --> 00:49:00,400
Speaker 4: It's just like these little things that we've been taught

1072
00:49:00,560 --> 00:49:02,839
Speaker 4: or wet a repetition like sand them over time.

1073
00:49:03,000 --> 00:49:05,719
Speaker 1: It's not like a fast process like I like I

1074
00:49:05,760 --> 00:49:08,080
Speaker 1: say to anyone, like, you know, self development and the

1075
00:49:08,120 --> 00:49:10,840
Speaker 1: projects and stuff. It's not this magical thing that you

1076
00:49:10,960 --> 00:49:14,160
Speaker 1: do and then you know you've manifested everything and you're

1077
00:49:14,239 --> 00:49:17,160
Speaker 1: this confident you know, boss lady, you can you definitely

1078
00:49:17,160 --> 00:49:17,520
Speaker 1: can be that.

1079
00:49:17,960 --> 00:49:20,319
Speaker 2: But it's this process of.

1080
00:49:20,400 --> 00:49:24,080
Speaker 1: Learning tools, like you said, caught of like now you

1081
00:49:24,280 --> 00:49:27,040
Speaker 1: know how to sort of unpack things and see it

1082
00:49:27,120 --> 00:49:30,520
Speaker 1: as it is and then decide, actually, I don't like

1083
00:49:30,600 --> 00:49:32,640
Speaker 1: I do want to be a networker and I am

1084
00:49:32,719 --> 00:49:34,480
Speaker 1: really good at that, and I can you know, that's

1085
00:49:34,480 --> 00:49:37,400
Speaker 1: something I can work on and something I can step into.

1086
00:49:38,080 --> 00:49:40,680
Speaker 2: And I think I think it's also realizing that.

1087
00:49:40,840 --> 00:49:44,640
Speaker 1: We go through, you know, seasons in our life and

1088
00:49:44,680 --> 00:49:47,320
Speaker 1: we kind of can you know, focus on new things

1089
00:49:47,360 --> 00:49:49,400
Speaker 1: and we can step into.

1090
00:49:49,280 --> 00:49:51,400
Speaker 2: You know, being someone else. We don't. We don't have

1091
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Speaker 2: to be stuck where we are exactly.

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Speaker 4: So I want to talk about so once you're sort

1093
00:49:55,760 --> 00:49:58,640
Speaker 4: of like identified the limiting belief, I've got your goal,

1094
00:49:58,680 --> 00:49:59,360
Speaker 4: you've identified?

1095
00:49:59,360 --> 00:50:03,239
Speaker 1: What's even like that, because I mean you're telling you

1096
00:50:03,280 --> 00:50:06,920
Speaker 1: an unpack your whole personality now, then like, what do

1097
00:50:06,960 --> 00:50:07,520
Speaker 1: you do to.

1098
00:50:07,520 --> 00:50:10,839
Speaker 4: Sort of like you've identified them? How do we overcome them?

1099
00:50:11,000 --> 00:50:13,040
Speaker 4: I think the main thing is obviously identifying them first.

1100
00:50:13,440 --> 00:50:15,319
Speaker 4: So I think it's important to only do one at

1101
00:50:15,320 --> 00:50:17,680
Speaker 4: the time, Right, it's too much to try and change everything?

1102
00:50:18,200 --> 00:50:23,840
Speaker 1: Well or is that a limiting belating belief? Well again,

1103
00:50:24,040 --> 00:50:26,520
Speaker 1: it you know, it depends how deep rooted. And some

1104
00:50:26,560 --> 00:50:29,600
Speaker 1: people have you know, trauma, and some people have some

1105
00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:30,200
Speaker 1: you know.

1106
00:50:30,239 --> 00:50:32,440
Speaker 3: Some of them you will need therapy for yeah, one

1107
00:50:32,520 --> 00:50:33,080
Speaker 3: hundred percent.

1108
00:50:33,160 --> 00:50:36,400
Speaker 1: And it's funny because I went through a lot of

1109
00:50:36,400 --> 00:50:39,640
Speaker 1: my limiting beliefs in therapy too, okay, kind of like

1110
00:50:39,719 --> 00:50:43,880
Speaker 1: childhood stuff. And yeah, so the next step, sorry, the

1111
00:50:43,920 --> 00:50:46,640
Speaker 1: next step is what I was saying, and the first

1112
00:50:46,680 --> 00:50:48,200
Speaker 1: thing is just being aware about them.

1113
00:50:48,440 --> 00:50:50,480
Speaker 2: And you know, you might not want to go.

1114
00:50:50,360 --> 00:50:52,759
Speaker 1: To the next step for a while because it might

1115
00:50:52,840 --> 00:50:56,000
Speaker 1: be quite difficult for you to have this new reality

1116
00:50:56,280 --> 00:50:59,880
Speaker 1: of actually, this isn't how the world is.

1117
00:51:00,160 --> 00:51:01,320
Speaker 2: It's something I've.

1118
00:51:01,120 --> 00:51:04,880
Speaker 1: Been telling myself for twenty six years that has completely

1119
00:51:04,960 --> 00:51:06,920
Speaker 1: kept me small. And I think this is why it's

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00:51:06,960 --> 00:51:10,200
Speaker 1: quite difficult for people in week two, because it's really

1121
00:51:10,239 --> 00:51:13,799
Speaker 1: confronting when you realize you've almost done this to yourself.

1122
00:51:14,400 --> 00:51:15,960
Speaker 3: And I think people sign up for your posts being

1123
00:51:16,000 --> 00:51:17,880
Speaker 3: like I'm a go getter, I'm going to change everything

1124
00:51:17,880 --> 00:51:19,759
Speaker 3: and I'm ready to make a move, and then you realize, like,

1125
00:51:19,760 --> 00:51:21,560
Speaker 3: oh shit, I was holding myself by God.

1126
00:51:21,640 --> 00:51:23,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's hard and it's not nice. And I

1127
00:51:23,840 --> 00:51:27,680
Speaker 1: still find limiting beliefs all the time. So it's okay

1128
00:51:27,719 --> 00:51:29,400
Speaker 1: if you just sit with that a new journal and

1129
00:51:29,440 --> 00:51:32,320
Speaker 1: new process. But the next sort of big step after

1130
00:51:32,360 --> 00:51:37,440
Speaker 1: that is rewriting that story and picking a new belief.

1131
00:51:37,880 --> 00:51:40,440
Speaker 1: But the here's the kind of trick part is you

1132
00:51:40,480 --> 00:51:43,440
Speaker 1: actually have to believe it. So this is what does

1133
00:51:43,640 --> 00:51:46,839
Speaker 1: take the process and does take the you know, going

1134
00:51:46,840 --> 00:51:49,920
Speaker 1: through the six modules and really digging deep because you

1135
00:51:49,920 --> 00:51:52,520
Speaker 1: know it's not as easy as going, oh well I

1136
00:51:52,560 --> 00:51:55,239
Speaker 1: know this now and I'm fixed and my opposite. Yeah.

1137
00:51:55,280 --> 00:51:57,480
Speaker 2: I think we were kind of talking about that over DM.

1138
00:51:57,800 --> 00:52:00,480
Speaker 1: A lot of questions I got in the project was like,

1139
00:52:00,719 --> 00:52:03,440
Speaker 1: you know, I've done the journaling, I've got this limiting belief,

1140
00:52:03,440 --> 00:52:05,040
Speaker 1: but like, how do I believe the new one?

1141
00:52:05,080 --> 00:52:06,200
Speaker 2: And I'm like, I can't.

1142
00:52:06,080 --> 00:52:08,800
Speaker 4: Do that for you have people were like thought you

1143
00:52:08,840 --> 00:52:10,480
Speaker 4: were gonna be like a B C D done.

1144
00:52:10,680 --> 00:52:15,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, no exactly.

1145
00:52:16,480 --> 00:52:21,440
Speaker 1: You did get a car, your card, But it's about

1146
00:52:21,560 --> 00:52:27,200
Speaker 1: unpacking it, rewriting it and really you know, committing to uh,

1147
00:52:27,520 --> 00:52:30,319
Speaker 1: going through that process of writing that new story. So

1148
00:52:30,600 --> 00:52:33,719
Speaker 1: like your story with Sam, like you said, you're not

1149
00:52:33,840 --> 00:52:36,319
Speaker 1: you don't think you're over the line, but you've unpacked it,

1150
00:52:36,719 --> 00:52:39,439
Speaker 1: you're processing it. Like I said, I reckon it would

1151
00:52:39,440 --> 00:52:41,960
Speaker 1: be awesome for you to journal and almost ride out

1152
00:52:42,040 --> 00:52:44,879
Speaker 1: a whole page of this like new story and new

1153
00:52:44,920 --> 00:52:47,920
Speaker 1: belief of what you want your reality to look like,

1154
00:52:47,960 --> 00:52:49,440
Speaker 1: which is going to be very different to what it

1155
00:52:49,480 --> 00:52:52,880
Speaker 1: looks like now. And when you first write that, you

1156
00:52:52,880 --> 00:52:57,040
Speaker 1: have me to new reality next week. Oh gosh, no.

1157
00:52:57,360 --> 00:53:00,080
Speaker 2: Sam's going to get.

1158
00:53:00,640 --> 00:53:03,439
Speaker 1: Goodness that I run the show how to Watch Out.

1159
00:53:04,920 --> 00:53:07,279
Speaker 1: And it's when you read that new story, it's not

1160
00:53:07,360 --> 00:53:09,239
Speaker 1: going to feel like something you can get on board

1161
00:53:09,320 --> 00:53:11,880
Speaker 1: with because you've just believed this other thing for you know,

1162
00:53:11,920 --> 00:53:16,160
Speaker 1: twenty six years. So that's okay, But it's about then

1163
00:53:16,320 --> 00:53:22,000
Speaker 1: like reprocessing, rejournaling, and really getting on board and committing

1164
00:53:22,040 --> 00:53:24,439
Speaker 1: to that process of rewriting that belief. So I wish

1165
00:53:24,480 --> 00:53:27,000
Speaker 1: I had a more you know, magical answer for you,

1166
00:53:27,120 --> 00:53:28,279
Speaker 1: but it's putting in the work.

1167
00:53:28,600 --> 00:53:30,520
Speaker 4: I think for me, what I've tried to do is

1168
00:53:30,560 --> 00:53:32,960
Speaker 4: that I've tried to like write down like the small

1169
00:53:32,960 --> 00:53:35,320
Speaker 4: steps that I can take to hit in that direction.

1170
00:53:35,760 --> 00:53:36,759
Speaker 3: So like for one of.

1171
00:53:36,680 --> 00:53:39,520
Speaker 4: Them, waking it down, Yeah, that I identified that. I

1172
00:53:39,560 --> 00:53:41,600
Speaker 4: felt like Sam was a networker, so that I couldn't

1173
00:53:41,640 --> 00:53:44,080
Speaker 4: then do those things myself. So I was like, okay, well,

1174
00:53:44,120 --> 00:53:45,799
Speaker 4: like just get out there and try and talk to

1175
00:53:45,840 --> 00:53:48,160
Speaker 4: people more and like you know, put yourself out there more.

1176
00:53:48,200 --> 00:53:50,600
Speaker 4: And when you do meet someone new, then like try

1177
00:53:50,640 --> 00:53:52,560
Speaker 4: and form that relationship and build on that and not

1178
00:53:52,640 --> 00:53:54,680
Speaker 4: wait for them to come to you or all that

1179
00:53:54,760 --> 00:53:57,200
Speaker 4: kind of stuff. So it's like those little kind of things.

1180
00:53:57,200 --> 00:53:59,640
Speaker 4: And then it's like, Okay, well, why don't I give

1181
00:53:59,680 --> 00:54:02,040
Speaker 4: a free PDF for my planner and just see if

1182
00:54:02,080 --> 00:54:04,680
Speaker 4: anyone downloads it? You know, And so I have like

1183
00:54:04,719 --> 00:54:06,520
Speaker 4: five hundred people like download it, and I have a

1184
00:54:06,600 --> 00:54:07,400
Speaker 4: very small following.

1185
00:54:07,480 --> 00:54:09,279
Speaker 3: So I was like, it's.

1186
00:54:08,960 --> 00:54:11,160
Speaker 4: Interesting that people like we got and like I can't

1187
00:54:11,200 --> 00:54:13,719
Speaker 4: do a swipe up because I don't have ten thousand followers.

1188
00:54:13,400 --> 00:54:15,040
Speaker 3: So like they have to click out, click to the thing,

1189
00:54:15,080 --> 00:54:15,759
Speaker 3: then click in the bar.

1190
00:54:15,880 --> 00:54:17,520
Speaker 4: It's like a whole ordeal. And I was like, five

1191
00:54:17,560 --> 00:54:18,719
Speaker 4: hundred people still did that.

1192
00:54:18,719 --> 00:54:19,400
Speaker 2: That's impressive.

1193
00:54:19,440 --> 00:54:21,160
Speaker 3: That's like, you know, it means that there's something that

1194
00:54:21,160 --> 00:54:22,160
Speaker 3: people are interested in.

1195
00:54:22,200 --> 00:54:24,359
Speaker 4: So it's like doing those little things all So I'm

1196
00:54:24,360 --> 00:54:26,920
Speaker 4: not ready right now to be like invested in notepads

1197
00:54:26,920 --> 00:54:29,560
Speaker 4: and planners and quote cards and stuff, but it's like

1198
00:54:29,840 --> 00:54:32,680
Speaker 4: all these little things I can do to start reshaping

1199
00:54:32,920 --> 00:54:34,120
Speaker 4: how I'm pitching things.

1200
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Speaker 1: That's really interesting, caught because that's a great point in

1201
00:54:37,400 --> 00:54:41,360
Speaker 1: regards to taking a small step and having a small

1202
00:54:41,440 --> 00:54:45,560
Speaker 1: win which then increases like your confidence exactly that you

1203
00:54:45,600 --> 00:54:48,279
Speaker 1: can then take another step and breaking that down I think.

1204
00:54:48,360 --> 00:54:50,799
Speaker 1: I think that's super important. And that's kind of what

1205
00:54:50,840 --> 00:54:55,919
Speaker 1: I talk about in regards to when you are sort

1206
00:54:55,960 --> 00:55:00,000
Speaker 1: of manifesting something or going after something, if you can't

1207
00:55:00,200 --> 00:55:03,000
Speaker 1: get on board with it, it's almost not going to work.

1208
00:55:03,040 --> 00:55:04,600
Speaker 2: So have that over there.

1209
00:55:04,920 --> 00:55:07,200
Speaker 1: But then yeah, do these little things where you can

1210
00:55:07,239 --> 00:55:11,280
Speaker 1: have little wins, and you will find that your belief

1211
00:55:11,480 --> 00:55:14,160
Speaker 1: in yourself and you know your self worth and your.

1212
00:55:14,080 --> 00:55:17,600
Speaker 2: Desire to have that bigger desire. So many desires.

1213
00:55:18,600 --> 00:55:22,000
Speaker 1: Will slowly over time increase. And that's even like I

1214
00:55:22,120 --> 00:55:25,239
Speaker 1: talk about in the course, like my ebook again, that

1215
00:55:25,360 --> 00:55:28,040
Speaker 1: was my first thing that I ever put out, and

1216
00:55:28,080 --> 00:55:31,279
Speaker 1: it was super like I was scared and I was

1217
00:55:31,360 --> 00:55:33,319
Speaker 1: like so up in my head in it, and then

1218
00:55:33,520 --> 00:55:37,160
Speaker 1: like I did it and I was like, huh, people

1219
00:55:37,320 --> 00:55:37,920
Speaker 1: did like it?

1220
00:55:38,280 --> 00:55:39,799
Speaker 2: People were like yeah, people loved it.

1221
00:55:40,080 --> 00:55:43,280
Speaker 1: And then you know, it's exact same with like Naked Harvests.

1222
00:55:43,280 --> 00:55:45,560
Speaker 1: When I first launched Naked Harvest, I was like, what

1223
00:55:45,600 --> 00:55:48,080
Speaker 1: are people going to think? And all this, and then

1224
00:55:48,120 --> 00:55:50,600
Speaker 1: now like we smash out new products and people like

1225
00:55:50,640 --> 00:55:52,920
Speaker 1: are obsessed and it's like just doing.

1226
00:55:52,640 --> 00:55:55,640
Speaker 2: Those little steps. I know those weren't little steps, but it's.

1227
00:55:55,480 --> 00:55:57,239
Speaker 3: Like I started a whole new business.

1228
00:55:57,840 --> 00:56:02,799
Speaker 2: I started a company that wasn't bad. Exactly, we get

1229
00:56:02,800 --> 00:56:03,840
Speaker 2: what Like I get what you're.

1230
00:56:03,680 --> 00:56:04,640
Speaker 3: Saying, yeah, exactly.

1231
00:56:05,160 --> 00:56:07,080
Speaker 4: So I wonder before we finished, Like obviously I said,

1232
00:56:07,080 --> 00:56:09,799
Speaker 4: this isn't about goal setting, but I do because you

1233
00:56:09,840 --> 00:56:11,839
Speaker 4: are big on the whole goal setting thing. I do

1234
00:56:11,880 --> 00:56:13,560
Speaker 4: want to get some tips that you might have for

1235
00:56:13,600 --> 00:56:15,200
Speaker 4: people who are setting goals.

1236
00:56:15,280 --> 00:56:17,920
Speaker 3: What are they okay? Goal setting?

1237
00:56:18,480 --> 00:56:20,080
Speaker 2: I well, see this is the thing.

1238
00:56:20,200 --> 00:56:22,720
Speaker 1: I used to be that person who was like smart

1239
00:56:22,760 --> 00:56:26,000
Speaker 1: goals and it's all like you know, specific and measurable.

1240
00:56:26,040 --> 00:56:27,040
Speaker 3: Oh yes, fuck that.

1241
00:56:27,239 --> 00:56:28,280
Speaker 2: We don't do that anymore.

1242
00:56:28,400 --> 00:56:30,759
Speaker 1: Like I am about when I set a goal. I

1243
00:56:30,960 --> 00:56:33,080
Speaker 1: literally and this is going to be a bit woo woo,

1244
00:56:33,320 --> 00:56:36,239
Speaker 1: but like I will like sit there, stand my nose,

1245
00:56:37,400 --> 00:56:38,480
Speaker 1: get my crystal.

1246
00:56:39,040 --> 00:56:42,120
Speaker 5: No, I actually do I have crystals around, because I

1247
00:56:42,200 --> 00:56:44,360
Speaker 5: was like, just in case they do something eldest with

1248
00:56:44,640 --> 00:56:48,040
Speaker 5: around I all think Cely was my friend gives week

1249
00:56:48,120 --> 00:56:49,440
Speaker 5: just started a can to diagnose it.

1250
00:56:50,320 --> 00:56:52,120
Speaker 3: But I was like I want more of them. What

1251
00:56:52,160 --> 00:56:53,000
Speaker 3: if they do work?

1252
00:56:54,080 --> 00:56:54,319
Speaker 5: Yeah?

1253
00:56:54,440 --> 00:56:55,879
Speaker 3: So I do have crystals no.

1254
00:56:55,960 --> 00:56:58,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I do. My best friend has a crystal bisiness, so.

1255
00:56:58,640 --> 00:57:02,200
Speaker 1: I have lots of crystals and they are pretty too,

1256
00:57:02,400 --> 00:57:05,640
Speaker 1: you know, yeah they are. They give you that energy anyway,

1257
00:57:05,719 --> 00:57:08,040
Speaker 1: So I sit there and I'll meditate and I'll get

1258
00:57:08,040 --> 00:57:12,880
Speaker 1: really clear, and I'll like almost like really like listen

1259
00:57:12,960 --> 00:57:17,080
Speaker 1: to my intuition and go what do I want and

1260
00:57:17,240 --> 00:57:18,520
Speaker 1: why do I want it?

1261
00:57:19,320 --> 00:57:21,160
Speaker 2: And I think, you know.

1262
00:57:21,120 --> 00:57:24,680
Speaker 1: We usually have goals because we're like it's almost like

1263
00:57:24,760 --> 00:57:28,960
Speaker 1: this outside thing, whereas I used to do that. And

1264
00:57:29,440 --> 00:57:32,720
Speaker 1: what I've realized is when you set goals from like

1265
00:57:32,840 --> 00:57:35,720
Speaker 1: this kind of inside intuition and when you're really listening

1266
00:57:35,720 --> 00:57:40,560
Speaker 1: to yourself, like I guess, like the way they happen

1267
00:57:40,880 --> 00:57:44,920
Speaker 1: and how fast they happen is insane, like, and I

1268
00:57:44,920 --> 00:57:49,160
Speaker 1: guess that's living in alignment with yourself rather than just

1269
00:57:49,280 --> 00:57:52,280
Speaker 1: setting and making a goal because you think you have to,

1270
00:57:52,560 --> 00:57:53,720
Speaker 1: if that makes sense exactly.

1271
00:57:53,800 --> 00:57:56,520
Speaker 4: And often, as we discovered and unpacked, we're setting goals

1272
00:57:56,520 --> 00:57:58,360
Speaker 4: we don't even believe we can achieve anyway, so like

1273
00:57:58,400 --> 00:58:00,360
Speaker 4: how are we supposed to ever reach them?

1274
00:58:00,560 --> 00:58:01,000
Speaker 2: Exactly?

1275
00:58:01,040 --> 00:58:03,640
Speaker 1: And I think also another thing people, and this is

1276
00:58:03,680 --> 00:58:05,800
Speaker 1: just like a little tip, another thing people do is

1277
00:58:05,800 --> 00:58:06,400
Speaker 1: they'll set a.

1278
00:58:06,360 --> 00:58:08,280
Speaker 2: Goal, they might write it down once and then like

1279
00:58:08,360 --> 00:58:08,800
Speaker 2: that's it.

1280
00:58:09,200 --> 00:58:12,000
Speaker 1: Like I literally write down my goals every single day.

1281
00:58:12,160 --> 00:58:14,760
Speaker 1: That might be excited, that might be excessive, but you

1282
00:58:14,800 --> 00:58:16,000
Speaker 1: don't have to do that. You can just do it

1283
00:58:16,040 --> 00:58:16,720
Speaker 1: like once a week.

1284
00:58:17,480 --> 00:58:17,760
Speaker 3: I just.

1285
00:58:20,360 --> 00:58:23,080
Speaker 1: I think it's really important because you know, like that

1286
00:58:23,200 --> 00:58:26,160
Speaker 1: whole thing about our brains, how you know when you

1287
00:58:26,200 --> 00:58:28,600
Speaker 1: want a certain car and then you start seeing it everywhere,

1288
00:58:28,800 --> 00:58:30,600
Speaker 1: and it's not because everyone.

1289
00:58:30,280 --> 00:58:33,080
Speaker 2: Has that car. It's because now you're clear on what

1290
00:58:33,160 --> 00:58:33,640
Speaker 2: you want.

1291
00:58:34,040 --> 00:58:36,000
Speaker 1: So if you set a goal and then you kind

1292
00:58:36,000 --> 00:58:39,640
Speaker 1: of just like forget about it, it's not going to

1293
00:58:40,040 --> 00:58:42,840
Speaker 1: do much and as be as powerful as you're writing

1294
00:58:42,920 --> 00:58:45,520
Speaker 1: down and saying that goal every single day or every

1295
00:58:45,560 --> 00:58:50,400
Speaker 1: single week, because your brain then is constantly looking for opportunities,

1296
00:58:50,880 --> 00:58:53,000
Speaker 1: it's constantly looking ways.

1297
00:58:53,240 --> 00:58:54,200
Speaker 3: To unblock you.

1298
00:58:54,240 --> 00:58:56,280
Speaker 1: If you do have a limiting belief, like I have

1299
00:58:56,320 --> 00:58:58,720
Speaker 1: a belief that the universe is like always supporting me

1300
00:58:58,760 --> 00:59:01,840
Speaker 1: and always guiding me. So like that's like I know,

1301
00:59:02,280 --> 00:59:06,640
Speaker 1: I'm so lucky, and so I'm like, you know, if

1302
00:59:06,680 --> 00:59:09,439
Speaker 1: I do have a goal, the and it's funny because

1303
00:59:09,440 --> 00:59:12,160
Speaker 1: that it happened in this course, the universe will kind

1304
00:59:12,200 --> 00:59:14,160
Speaker 1: of give me the lessons that I need to learn

1305
00:59:14,200 --> 00:59:16,640
Speaker 1: to overcome it, to go oh wow, that's a limiting belief.

1306
00:59:16,960 --> 00:59:17,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 4: So we've talked obviously a lot about your course and

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Speaker 4: like this wasn't supposed to be like some sort of

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Speaker 4: an ad as she said she's but so basically it's

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Speaker 4: called call the Rise and Conquer Project and it will

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Speaker 4: be on sale on the fifteenth, So you're as in

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Speaker 4: like you're opening up the but it's limited still this time.

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Speaker 3: Is it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So enrollment opens on the fifteenth of September at

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Speaker 1: seven a m. And then the course actually starts on

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Speaker 1: the twenty first of September, and it's a six week course.

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Speaker 1: Every week a module gets unlocked, and you have a

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Speaker 1: training video, a workbook, a guided meditation that just helps

1319
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Speaker 1: you with the workbook. And then also you'll get my

1320
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Speaker 1: cue in a live videos from round one. And then

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Speaker 1: we also do a live Q and A with me

1322
01:00:06,120 --> 01:00:08,120
Speaker 1: every fortnight in the Facebook group.

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Speaker 2: And that's so if you.

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01:00:08,960 --> 01:00:12,000
Speaker 1: Have any questions, we're going through the modules just because

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Speaker 1: it can be like me and we're talking about quite extensive.

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Speaker 1: And then also you have the Facebook.

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Speaker 3: Group which is really supportive.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and the.

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Speaker 1: Girls in the Facebook group, like I was just so

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Speaker 1: blown away by like yeah, like how like energy driven

1331
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Speaker 1: and support they were, So it's a really cool thing.

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Speaker 1: And it's also like lifetime access, so it's not you know,

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Speaker 1: subscription or anything like that. It's one payment and then

1334
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Speaker 1: you can use this course for like, you know, more

1335
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Speaker 1: desires that come up and so kind of how like

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Speaker 1: I guess I pitched the course when I'm talking to people,

1337
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Speaker 1: is it is my formula, a ten step formula that

1338
01:00:50,920 --> 01:00:54,680
Speaker 1: I use anytime I want to step up, you know,

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Speaker 1: step into the new georgy, whether she's got to you know,

1340
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Speaker 1: do something new, whether that is you know, starting a company,

1341
01:01:01,480 --> 01:01:05,360
Speaker 1: putting out a podcast, buying a house, buying a new car.

1342
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Speaker 2: You can literally use it for anything.

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Speaker 3: It's like all things you've done quite recently because.

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Speaker 1: My head and also not just you know, physical things.

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Speaker 1: But a lot of the girls in the group said

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Speaker 1: they use this formula for self confidence, to feel confident,

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Speaker 1: confidence like within themselves to go after what they want.

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Speaker 2: And I just thought that was huge.

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Speaker 4: So, as you said, there's a lot of people on

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Speaker 4: the waitlist, so I suggest if you do want.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, so close it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so round Round one sold out in twenty four

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Speaker 1: hours and I hadn't even had any good reviews or anything.

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Speaker 2: I was actually shocked by that.

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Speaker 3: I was sitting in a hotel in Brisbane because my

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Speaker 3: friend's birthday and we were about to like drive back

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Speaker 3: down to the Gold Course. It was on a Monday,

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Speaker 3: I think, yeah, and I was like, oh, Joorgie's course

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Speaker 3: is just gone. Do I don't die? I think I

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Speaker 3: want to do it. Then I was like, I might

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Speaker 3: wait till we get back to the Gold Coast, and

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Speaker 3: I was like, oh, I don't know how popular this is.

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Speaker 3: She's saying it's limited. True, I'm not sure. I'm like,

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: Like by the time we got down or you were

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01:02:02,440 --> 01:02:03,720
Speaker 5: just like oh, there's like a few spots, and I

1367
01:02:03,840 --> 01:02:05,720
Speaker 5: was like, thank god I slided up earlier it was

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Speaker 5: closed like if.

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Speaker 2: You have a flavor, yeah, So yeah, it went mental.

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Speaker 1: And then now if you do kind of want more information,

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Speaker 1: you can go to my website and there's like heaps

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Speaker 1: of reviews on there, and I think you've got.

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Speaker 3: Podcast.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, actually if you're still listening, like congrats, but yeah,

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Speaker 1: so there are limited spots. And the reason why I

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Speaker 1: do that is just because I'm super active in the

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Speaker 1: Facebook group and I don't want to, you know, have

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Speaker 1: a million people not be able to get to questions.

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Speaker 1: And because for me, it's I want you guys to

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Speaker 1: have a transformation. It's not about getting the most people

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Speaker 1: in the course. It's about giving you guys the best experience.

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Speaker 1: So it is limited numbers.

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Speaker 2: So if this is calling you, if you're like, hmmm.

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Speaker 3: This sounds like signing, I think for me as well,

1385
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Speaker 3: it was like, oh, it's like I wouldn't say it's

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Speaker 3: like cheap, I wouldn't say it's super expensive. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I was like, it's as women again, do I spend

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Speaker 4: this money on myself? Yeah, you know it's that thing

1389
01:03:02,000 --> 01:03:03,600
Speaker 4: that's like, oh I have kids or I have bills,

1390
01:03:03,640 --> 01:03:05,480
Speaker 4: and like, oh no, it's like this personal growth thing.

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Speaker 3: Do I know it?

1392
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Speaker 4: But I think it is important that we do spend

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Speaker 4: money on ourselves so important.

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Speaker 1: And also we'll see I'm like self development is very

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Speaker 1: high on my priority. So like, I think I've spoke

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Speaker 1: about this in the course, but in twenty nineteen, I

1397
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Speaker 1: dropped like forty grand on personal development, Like it was

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Speaker 1: a lot of money because you did you like a

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Speaker 1: personal coach I had a one on one mentor yeah,

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Speaker 1: not just expense to be the same. So I am

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01:03:29,760 --> 01:03:32,360
Speaker 1: all about, you know, spending money, but I can tell

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01:03:32,440 --> 01:03:34,680
Speaker 1: you this course will never be this teape again. And

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Speaker 1: I do say this because honestly it is that powerful.

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01:03:38,320 --> 01:03:40,160
Speaker 1: And then you have this and you get to use

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01:03:40,160 --> 01:03:42,720
Speaker 1: it for every you know, new goal and aspect of

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01:03:42,760 --> 01:03:45,200
Speaker 1: your life. So it is a one time payment of

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Speaker 1: three twenty. If you guys were wondering, just say that.

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Speaker 4: But yeah, that's yeah, I think it's definitely was something

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Speaker 4: that I was like tossing up between but I was like, yeah, that.

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Speaker 1: Like so caught what I was just gonna say ahead

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Speaker 1: in my head, it works about to be like fifty

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Speaker 1: dollars a week, so if you think about it, you know,

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01:04:01,360 --> 01:04:03,600
Speaker 1: instead of getting your nails done or.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's what I did. I would drop fifty dollars

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Speaker 4: on dinner like that. Yeah, and I thought, and that's

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Speaker 4: over in two.

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Speaker 3: Seconds and hasn't advanced. I probably gained weight from it.

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Speaker 3: So the other day I caught.

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Speaker 1: I dropped fifty dollars on it's this place is called

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Speaker 1: oh my Waffles.

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Speaker 3: Because that's worth it.

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Speaker 1: We tried like three different things and then like delivery

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01:04:25,640 --> 01:04:28,600
Speaker 1: was exceedingly expensive because it wasn't close to us, and

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Speaker 1: I spent like fifty six dollars.

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Speaker 2: So you know, you can have waffles or Geordie's clause,

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Speaker 2: I'd probably pick the waffles. Is that the one in Bury?

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Speaker 3: Yes, I saw that when I was sitting in Jimmy Wahs.

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Speaker 3: I was looking at it.

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Speaker 2: I was like, waffle, it's really good. You have to

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Speaker 2: try it. And their cookie, get their waffle.

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Speaker 3: That's what I was. I was like, look delicious. All right.

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Speaker 4: So just to recap, So firstly, what you're doing is

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01:04:48,880 --> 01:04:51,520
Speaker 4: you're like running down your goal and then you're unpacking

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01:04:51,640 --> 01:04:54,000
Speaker 4: maybe why you think you can't achieve that goal, and

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Speaker 4: then you're having them as front of mind and journaling

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Speaker 4: being away. Georgie goes more into it in the course,

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Speaker 4: but yeah, journaling is something that I've I think was

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Speaker 4: definitely helpful to me. I'm not that kind of a person.

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Speaker 4: That is what has been helpful for me. All right,

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Speaker 4: before you go, there are a couple of things. Guys,

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01:05:08,560 --> 01:05:10,120
Speaker 4: you haven't heard this yet, but I have a new

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Speaker 4: question that I'm gonna ask every single guest, and that

1443
01:05:13,320 --> 01:05:15,680
Speaker 4: is what gets you fired up. So I want to

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Speaker 4: hear what you're passionate about what you love, or it

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01:05:17,720 --> 01:05:20,200
Speaker 4: could be the alternative. If I'd asked Sam of it,

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Speaker 4: it would be like, you know, cyclists on the road.

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Speaker 3: That's what gets you fired up. But I'm sure you're

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Speaker 3: gonna go the passionate route, So what gets you fired up?

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be like super cheesy, but this is just

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01:05:32,000 --> 01:05:33,280
Speaker 1: first thing that comes to mind.

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Speaker 2: Is like, honestly, what I do.

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Speaker 1: So I spent a long time doing a job that

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Speaker 1: I wasn't passionate about because I worked full time while

1454
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Speaker 1: I was doing my law degree and.

1455
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Speaker 2: I worked in family law.

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Speaker 1: And don't get me wrong, I did enjoy it, but

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Speaker 1: I was not passionate about it like I am with

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Speaker 1: the current work I do, especially with my female empowerment

1459
01:05:52,560 --> 01:05:54,880
Speaker 1: like my podcasts and course and stuff like I think

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Speaker 1: you can tell by the way that I talk about it,

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Speaker 1: It's like nothing lights me up more than seeing other

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Speaker 1: women go because of you, I feel empowered to go

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Speaker 1: after something I want, or to dream bigger, or you know,

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01:06:09,800 --> 01:06:11,959
Speaker 1: just to do more or just to have that little

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Speaker 1: bit more self confidence. Nothing fires me up more so,

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Speaker 1: And I'm so lucky because I get to do that

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Speaker 1: every single day.

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Speaker 3: So love that. Yeah, all right, and we're going to

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Speaker 3: finish with attitude of gratitude or what are you grateful

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Speaker 3: for at the moment, Georgie.

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Speaker 1: Oh well, I see, I do a little grateful thing

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Speaker 1: every single day. And what I wrote this morning was again,

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Speaker 1: you know, my job, being able to do what I love.

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Speaker 1: But the biggest thing that came to me this morning

1475
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Speaker 1: was just being so grateful with the current environment, you know,

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Speaker 1: to be in a job where you know, I get

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Speaker 1: to make my own schedule and my own rules, and

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Speaker 1: I get to be at home and I get to

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Speaker 1: be you know, safe with my puppy and husband. I

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Speaker 1: know that's kind of broader picture thing, but that's something

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Speaker 1: I wrote down this morning.

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Speaker 3: That's nice for me.

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Speaker 4: I'm getting a really small this week because usually I'm like,

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01:07:02,240 --> 01:07:04,760
Speaker 4: oh yeah, the medical system, living in Queensland, all those

1485
01:07:04,800 --> 01:07:07,520
Speaker 4: like the things, it's like big things. But I'm going

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01:07:07,560 --> 01:07:09,040
Speaker 4: to be like really small because I went to this

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Speaker 4: event today and when I got there, Amy, who is

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Speaker 4: like a friend, she obviously is like she works at

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Speaker 4: Pacific there and she's organized the event and everything. When

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Speaker 4: I got there, she had like organized a seat that

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Speaker 4: was out of the sun. She made sure there'd be

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Speaker 4: no direct sunline. She'd like said that I'm allergic to everything,

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Speaker 4: and I hadn't had any contact with her, but I

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Speaker 4: didn't even know I was going to this event till Monday, and.

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Speaker 3: So she'd like, it's just like those little things growing here.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, people that are around you that, like she had thought,

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Speaker 4: like where should Courtney sit because we don't want her

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Speaker 4: to be in the sun, and like there's seafood around

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Speaker 4: to let's make sure that I tell them, you know

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Speaker 4: what I mean, just like those dietary things that like,

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Speaker 4: you know, if I had looked at the RSVP, I

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01:07:43,760 --> 01:07:46,480
Speaker 4: probably should have done that myself. But you know, she

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Speaker 4: just like knew those little things. So it's just nice

1504
01:07:48,320 --> 01:07:51,439
Speaker 4: having people around you that know and like remember those

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01:07:51,480 --> 01:07:53,320
Speaker 4: little things about you that when I got to the event,

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Speaker 4: I then wasn't like, oh god, the sun, you know,

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Speaker 4: because for me that's like quite stressful. I coded myself

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Speaker 4: and soon screen before I left, just in case. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: But then when I arrived, I felt instantly comfortable because

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Speaker 4: Amy had taken that time to like consider me, you know.

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Speaker 3: So just I'm grateful for those little things that your

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01:08:06,760 --> 01:08:09,520
Speaker 3: friends do. That's love yeah, all right. So the thought

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Speaker 3: for this week is from Tony Robbins.

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Speaker 4: The only thing that keeps you from getting what you

1515
01:08:13,920 --> 01:08:16,320
Speaker 4: want is the story you keep telling yourself.

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Speaker 3: So that's the thought. And thank you for coming on, Georgie.

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Speaker 4: I really appreciate thanks for making your course. It's really

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Speaker 4: obviously changed the direction of my life.

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Speaker 1: Well. I I love having this conversation and seeing like

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Speaker 1: its hearing sorry what you thought of it, and having

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Speaker 1: this discussion. And I love that you know you you

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Speaker 1: impact that thing about Sam you're on this post has

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Speaker 1: Sam's gonna hate me.

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Speaker 3: Word, shut up. She's like constantly talking to people. Go

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Speaker 3: back to my desk.

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Speaker 2: No, I love it. Thank you so much for having me.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for listening for another RNC episode. I really

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Speaker 1: appreciate taking the time to be here with me, and

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Speaker 1: also for taking the time for yourself. If you found

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Speaker 1: this episode help full, it would be so amazing if

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Speaker 1: you shared it on your stories and tagged us, or

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Speaker 1: simply just send it on to a girlfriend or family

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Speaker 1: member who would benefit from listening. We are an independent

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Speaker 1: podcast run by me and my amazing podcast manager, so

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Speaker 1: it would mean the world to us if you left

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Speaker 1: a review on the Apple podcast app. Also, if you're

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Speaker 1: vibing this podcast and the concepts we're chatting about and

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Speaker 1: your craving community, please come and join us over at

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Speaker 1: the RNC podcast community Facebook group. Just search Rise and

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Speaker 1: Conquer Podcast Community on Facebook and I will be in

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Speaker 1: there to chat to you until next time.

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Speaker 3: You have to be