1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,440 Speaker 1: So we reckon. We saw someone breaking up at a 2 00:00:02,480 --> 00:00:02,920 Speaker 1: restaurant the. 3 00:00:02,960 --> 00:00:07,760 Speaker 2: Other nights over here, you did, yes. 4 00:00:07,360 --> 00:00:10,680 Speaker 1: Me and Susie eagle eyed. We know the signs. 5 00:00:10,720 --> 00:00:15,280 Speaker 2: That's why our producer and keeps everything. We were observant. 6 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:17,000 Speaker 1: We're having a bit of a work diner. 7 00:00:17,239 --> 00:00:19,959 Speaker 3: The blokes at the table completely oblivious to what was 8 00:00:19,960 --> 00:00:25,119 Speaker 3: happening at the table next to us, very very sad faces. 9 00:00:25,720 --> 00:00:31,200 Speaker 3: He looked really yuilty and she was wiping away tears, 10 00:00:31,480 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 3: and Susie and I are like, I think they're breaking up. 11 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:39,879 Speaker 3: I'm not laughing because I mean it was It wasn't funny, 12 00:00:41,200 --> 00:00:44,200 Speaker 3: but we we thought, we want to hear from you 13 00:00:44,320 --> 00:00:47,280 Speaker 3: as to whether you've ever had a public breakup. Now, 14 00:00:47,320 --> 00:00:50,000 Speaker 3: why do you break up with someone in a restaurant? 15 00:00:50,080 --> 00:00:53,640 Speaker 3: It happened to me years ago. I had a boyfriend 16 00:00:54,160 --> 00:00:56,920 Speaker 3: that gave me the big it's not you, it's me 17 00:00:57,720 --> 00:00:59,520 Speaker 3: speech bull. 18 00:01:00,520 --> 00:01:02,360 Speaker 1: At what was it? 19 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:04,360 Speaker 3: Was it called the Jetty and then it was called 20 00:01:04,400 --> 00:01:07,320 Speaker 3: Aqua or something nice restaurant in Netlands like the old 21 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:12,560 Speaker 3: JoJo's JoJo's JoJo's right there before the same between. I 22 00:01:12,560 --> 00:01:14,560 Speaker 3: think it was in between the the entrain that made 23 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:15,920 Speaker 3: did he really think I was going to stick around 24 00:01:15,920 --> 00:01:16,240 Speaker 3: for dinner. 25 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:19,120 Speaker 2: Did he think that's such a setting this place to 26 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:21,479 Speaker 2: do it? He thought the setting would soften the blow. 27 00:01:21,640 --> 00:01:26,720 Speaker 3: I think he thought that maybe I would, Yes, did. 28 00:01:26,520 --> 00:01:28,200 Speaker 1: You stick I don't think it was that. 29 00:01:28,319 --> 00:01:31,280 Speaker 2: Did you stick around it and order something expensive? 30 00:01:31,400 --> 00:01:33,360 Speaker 1: I didn't know. I didn't even think of that. 31 00:01:33,600 --> 00:01:35,679 Speaker 3: I don't think he thought it would soften the blow. 32 00:01:36,200 --> 00:01:38,520 Speaker 3: I think he thought it would make it less dramatic. 33 00:01:39,520 --> 00:01:41,959 Speaker 3: Maybe I would just you know. 34 00:01:44,880 --> 00:01:49,440 Speaker 2: Because you didn't want to embarrass yourself. Yeah, and make 35 00:01:49,480 --> 00:01:51,640 Speaker 2: a scene in front of a select crowd. 36 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:55,560 Speaker 3: And I guess that it did work, But it was 37 00:01:55,720 --> 00:01:58,400 Speaker 3: that's a horrible place to tell someone there dropped. 38 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:02,040 Speaker 2: Well it worked for him. Well, yes he got off 39 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 2: the hook lightly. Yes, you didn't order anything. No, he 40 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:09,160 Speaker 2: really did get off the thinker that when he walked off, 41 00:02:09,240 --> 00:02:10,440 Speaker 2: you know, to go to the toilet or something. You 42 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:12,440 Speaker 2: should have said bring me the wine list. 43 00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:17,160 Speaker 3: Should have and three lobster? But have you had or 44 00:02:17,200 --> 00:02:19,000 Speaker 3: have you witnessed? Which can be even better? 45 00:02:19,480 --> 00:02:21,720 Speaker 1: This is okay public breakup. 46 00:02:21,320 --> 00:02:23,760 Speaker 2: Made up names if you need to to protect the innocent. 47 00:02:24,040 --> 00:02:27,160 Speaker 3: We are talking about public breakups. Whether you've had one, 48 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:31,200 Speaker 3: whether you've witnessed one. There was nothing like the public 49 00:02:31,280 --> 00:02:35,160 Speaker 3: breakup of the school yard where someone's best friend would 50 00:02:35,200 --> 00:02:37,600 Speaker 3: be sent to tell you that you're dropped. 51 00:02:37,840 --> 00:02:39,720 Speaker 2: You have to drop on you're dropped. 52 00:02:40,080 --> 00:02:43,240 Speaker 4: Tracy got dropped, she'll drop me. 53 00:02:43,440 --> 00:02:47,720 Speaker 1: You're dropped, so she's probably gonna drop me now spot. 54 00:02:49,720 --> 00:02:49,919 Speaker 4: Work. 55 00:02:51,560 --> 00:02:52,920 Speaker 1: No, you never did it in person. 56 00:02:53,040 --> 00:02:56,280 Speaker 3: That was courtesy of puberty blues, which I think gave 57 00:02:56,400 --> 00:02:58,320 Speaker 3: us the great term. 58 00:03:01,120 --> 00:03:02,880 Speaker 1: Johnny Guy, Good morning. 59 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:05,120 Speaker 5: John Good morning, guys. 60 00:03:05,120 --> 00:03:09,680 Speaker 2: There you going. 61 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:14,720 Speaker 5: I haven't had a public relationship breakup, but I did 62 00:03:14,800 --> 00:03:19,160 Speaker 5: witness two within a week as an horver driver, because 63 00:03:19,200 --> 00:03:22,840 Speaker 5: they did an in the fact, seat of the car 64 00:03:23,960 --> 00:03:28,760 Speaker 5: was specifically specific about what he'd been up to and 65 00:03:28,840 --> 00:03:32,079 Speaker 5: what he'd been doing, and it went into very more 66 00:03:32,200 --> 00:03:37,280 Speaker 5: neute detail, and it was most pleasant. I could give 67 00:03:37,320 --> 00:03:40,080 Speaker 5: you a little hint here, but he decided he gave 68 00:03:40,200 --> 00:03:45,440 Speaker 5: some hints about what they could do given a certain 69 00:03:45,520 --> 00:03:47,200 Speaker 5: lady was at that top of the month. 70 00:03:50,520 --> 00:03:54,880 Speaker 2: Crazy and it was it was. 71 00:03:54,960 --> 00:03:57,720 Speaker 5: And the crazy thing was these were two with a 72 00:03:58,000 --> 00:04:00,200 Speaker 5: the same within a week, I'll pick them up the 73 00:04:00,280 --> 00:04:06,520 Speaker 5: same pub. Oh okay, and it's it's above with three 74 00:04:06,600 --> 00:04:09,279 Speaker 5: initial letters. Somewhere near the beach. 75 00:04:10,720 --> 00:04:13,680 Speaker 2: I think we know where you're talking about, John, So. 76 00:04:14,640 --> 00:04:16,760 Speaker 3: Do you drop them off separately when they break up 77 00:04:16,760 --> 00:04:20,279 Speaker 3: in the back of the year or what what happens? 78 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:21,719 Speaker 6: I just I just went on. 79 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:23,560 Speaker 5: It was affording of the trip. So soon as they 80 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:25,440 Speaker 5: got in the car and started and I thought, oh 81 00:04:25,560 --> 00:04:28,480 Speaker 5: my god, not a kid. And then it went off 82 00:04:28,520 --> 00:04:33,120 Speaker 5: for twenty five minutes. Yeah, at each other. 83 00:04:34,880 --> 00:04:36,560 Speaker 2: All recorded on the security came. 84 00:04:38,400 --> 00:04:42,360 Speaker 5: When, you know, apologized when she got out of the car. 85 00:04:42,520 --> 00:04:45,160 Speaker 5: But it was just like floor. 86 00:04:48,279 --> 00:04:50,760 Speaker 2: You'd see it all, John, You'd see it all as 87 00:04:50,760 --> 00:04:52,240 Speaker 2: a cabby or as an uber driver. 88 00:04:53,160 --> 00:04:55,520 Speaker 1: Carolyn and Willerton, says her neighbors. 89 00:04:55,560 --> 00:04:57,680 Speaker 3: I think they were going for a private breakup, but 90 00:04:57,920 --> 00:05:00,160 Speaker 3: it became a bit public. The next door Na came 91 00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:02,400 Speaker 3: home to an empty house after his wife hired a 92 00:05:02,400 --> 00:05:04,960 Speaker 3: truck and emptied their house of all but the TV cabinet. 93 00:05:06,000 --> 00:05:07,760 Speaker 3: And then she came back a few days later and 94 00:05:07,760 --> 00:05:09,880 Speaker 3: there was a lot of screaming and shouting, culminating in 95 00:05:09,920 --> 00:05:13,400 Speaker 3: her throwing something through their front window. As the first time, 96 00:05:13,560 --> 00:05:15,880 Speaker 3: do you remember a friend of ours you and I 97 00:05:15,920 --> 00:05:18,080 Speaker 3: had that he came home one day and she had 98 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:22,200 Speaker 3: cleaned out the whole house except for a photo of 99 00:05:22,240 --> 00:05:25,400 Speaker 3: the two of them that she left strategically on the wall. 100 00:05:26,040 --> 00:05:28,279 Speaker 1: That was aggressive. That was it. 101 00:05:28,520 --> 00:05:32,920 Speaker 3: Nothing else in the house, nothing, not that she took 102 00:05:32,920 --> 00:05:36,719 Speaker 3: it all. Kathy said on the text says she was 103 00:05:36,800 --> 00:05:39,760 Speaker 3: dumped at midnight on New Year's Eve. They'd gone to 104 00:05:39,800 --> 00:05:41,920 Speaker 3: a French restaurant in Mundering and then went to the 105 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:44,160 Speaker 3: weir to see in the New Year, and that's where 106 00:05:44,320 --> 00:05:46,599 Speaker 3: it happened. Had absolutely no idea it was coming. At 107 00:05:46,680 --> 00:05:48,320 Speaker 3: least I got a very expensive dinner out of it, 108 00:05:48,480 --> 00:05:52,120 Speaker 3: very long, quiet drive back to her, and I've never 109 00:05:52,160 --> 00:05:55,920 Speaker 3: wanted to celebrate New Year since that's the. 110 00:05:56,560 --> 00:05:59,680 Speaker 2: Side, Kathy. You got to move on from that. I 111 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:00,960 Speaker 2: can celebrat him. 112 00:06:01,000 --> 00:06:01,960 Speaker 1: I reckon go double. 113 00:06:02,200 --> 00:06:02,960 Speaker 2: Life's not over. 114 00:06:03,279 --> 00:06:06,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, well it did seem so on probably his day 115 00:06:06,839 --> 00:06:07,200 Speaker 3: that year. 116 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:10,200 Speaker 1: But anyway, Sharon in Mandra. 117 00:06:09,960 --> 00:06:13,160 Speaker 7: Hello, Hello, how are you guys good? 118 00:06:13,440 --> 00:06:14,040 Speaker 1: What happened? 119 00:06:14,120 --> 00:06:14,640 Speaker 2: What happened? 120 00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:15,599 Speaker 4: Ah? 121 00:06:15,839 --> 00:06:18,119 Speaker 7: Well, I was in high school, so we're going back 122 00:06:18,240 --> 00:06:20,520 Speaker 7: quite a long time because I'm in the sixties now. 123 00:06:21,040 --> 00:06:25,840 Speaker 7: But I'll never forget my humiliating breakup when a guy 124 00:06:25,880 --> 00:06:29,880 Speaker 7: i'd been dating for probably a whole two days. Yes, yes, 125 00:06:30,839 --> 00:06:34,240 Speaker 7: very loudly announced in front of all his friends that 126 00:06:34,320 --> 00:06:37,200 Speaker 7: he was breaking up with me because I was as 127 00:06:37,200 --> 00:06:39,400 Speaker 7: cold as an absence on a polar bear's asshole. 128 00:06:43,320 --> 00:06:44,840 Speaker 2: He only gave you two days. 129 00:06:46,120 --> 00:06:48,599 Speaker 7: I know. It was one of those stupid things. I 130 00:06:48,600 --> 00:06:50,880 Speaker 7: didn't even know the guy. He didn't know me though, 131 00:06:50,960 --> 00:06:52,720 Speaker 7: But you know, it's been like a good idea to 132 00:06:53,920 --> 00:06:59,359 Speaker 7: be boyfriend and girlfriend. But obviously we obviously we weren't suited. 133 00:07:00,480 --> 00:07:02,120 Speaker 1: It was quite the poet though. 134 00:07:02,960 --> 00:07:06,279 Speaker 2: He may not have known you, but he certainly gave 135 00:07:06,320 --> 00:07:08,480 Speaker 2: you quite the character analysis, did you. 136 00:07:08,600 --> 00:07:12,280 Speaker 7: Oh it's hilarious, isn't it. I can't believe I still 137 00:07:12,320 --> 00:07:14,080 Speaker 7: remember that after all these years. 138 00:07:14,160 --> 00:07:17,000 Speaker 1: Oh okay, that that kind of thing sticks with you. 139 00:07:17,760 --> 00:07:18,600 Speaker 1: Thanks Sharon. 140 00:07:19,840 --> 00:07:24,080 Speaker 2: Oh that's awesome and very public and in school and awkward. 141 00:07:24,480 --> 00:07:26,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, ticks every horrentous box. 142 00:07:26,760 --> 00:07:29,520 Speaker 2: But was over by afternoon recess. 143 00:07:30,040 --> 00:07:30,240 Speaker 1: Yeah. 144 00:07:31,360 --> 00:07:34,600 Speaker 2: Ever had a public breakup, a very public one after 145 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:39,040 Speaker 2: we reckon. We saw one. The girls are certain we 146 00:07:39,120 --> 00:07:41,480 Speaker 2: saw one about a week and a half ago. 147 00:07:41,520 --> 00:07:43,960 Speaker 1: Totally Lorane and Hilbert, Hello. 148 00:07:44,160 --> 00:07:45,720 Speaker 7: Ah, Hi, how are you going good? 149 00:07:45,800 --> 00:07:46,480 Speaker 1: What happened? 150 00:07:47,840 --> 00:07:48,040 Speaker 3: Yeah? 151 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:51,480 Speaker 4: In high school this boy asked me out and I 152 00:07:51,520 --> 00:07:54,679 Speaker 4: said yes, and then I got teethed relentlessly by mate. 153 00:07:54,720 --> 00:07:57,960 Speaker 4: So after an hour I broke up with him and 154 00:07:58,120 --> 00:08:00,880 Speaker 4: he was in the science club and he's not happened, 155 00:08:00,880 --> 00:08:03,400 Speaker 4: and he was being a bit obnoxious. So I pushed 156 00:08:03,400 --> 00:08:05,600 Speaker 4: his head into the microscope and then he chased me 157 00:08:05,640 --> 00:08:08,760 Speaker 4: around the science lads. So we both got pumished by 158 00:08:08,760 --> 00:08:09,400 Speaker 4: the teacher. 159 00:08:09,240 --> 00:08:12,080 Speaker 1: Sounds science class. 160 00:08:12,400 --> 00:08:13,560 Speaker 2: The chemistry wasn't there. 161 00:08:14,480 --> 00:08:17,080 Speaker 4: No, absolutely, we had to run a thousand lines about 162 00:08:17,120 --> 00:08:17,600 Speaker 4: being safe. 163 00:08:20,400 --> 00:08:22,600 Speaker 8: I will not break up over the buns and burner, 164 00:08:24,680 --> 00:08:37,520 Speaker 8: not while it's on anyways, school romance, everything, they had, everything. 165 00:08:37,200 --> 00:08:39,040 Speaker 2: They were the most entertaining breakups. 166 00:08:39,720 --> 00:08:44,360 Speaker 8: Well yeah, well on the receiving end at least she 167 00:08:44,400 --> 00:08:45,960 Speaker 8: told him in person she shouldn't get her best friend 168 00:08:45,960 --> 00:08:46,600 Speaker 8: to go and say. 169 00:08:46,760 --> 00:08:47,840 Speaker 1: Lorraine said, do your drop? 170 00:08:47,920 --> 00:08:48,440 Speaker 2: Do you drop? 171 00:08:50,840 --> 00:08:53,160 Speaker 1: Public breakups in Rockingham says. 172 00:08:53,160 --> 00:08:55,560 Speaker 3: I found out my relationship was over was when my 173 00:08:55,600 --> 00:08:57,400 Speaker 3: then partner put up on Facebook. 174 00:08:57,640 --> 00:09:01,480 Speaker 1: She was in a new relationship. That's and so I had. 175 00:09:01,400 --> 00:09:04,400 Speaker 3: A friend message asking if I was okay because they 176 00:09:04,400 --> 00:09:06,240 Speaker 3: saw the post before he did. 177 00:09:06,280 --> 00:09:09,000 Speaker 1: That's horrible. Everything about that is horrible. 178 00:09:10,000 --> 00:09:11,000 Speaker 2: But it's the way now. 179 00:09:11,760 --> 00:09:13,120 Speaker 1: Well for some it doesn't have to be. 180 00:09:13,200 --> 00:09:13,960 Speaker 2: It doesn't have to be. 181 00:09:14,080 --> 00:09:18,560 Speaker 3: But anyway, Wayne in South Perth, what happened with your breakup? 182 00:09:19,240 --> 00:09:23,160 Speaker 6: Hi? I mean this was the seventies. I was working 183 00:09:23,200 --> 00:09:25,600 Speaker 6: as a guide on the European camping to a circuit 184 00:09:26,160 --> 00:09:28,679 Speaker 6: and there was one girl on the trip who was 185 00:09:28,840 --> 00:09:31,320 Speaker 6: telling everyone that this was her last far before she 186 00:09:31,400 --> 00:09:35,640 Speaker 6: came back home to Australia to marry her fiance. And 187 00:09:35,720 --> 00:09:37,679 Speaker 6: then a week into the trip she comes and asks 188 00:09:37,679 --> 00:09:40,000 Speaker 6: me if I have us there content because she and 189 00:09:40,080 --> 00:09:42,560 Speaker 6: one of the single fellows that decided was able a couple. 190 00:09:43,000 --> 00:09:45,560 Speaker 6: Oh so sure, sure enough. We gave them a tent 191 00:09:45,679 --> 00:09:47,880 Speaker 6: that we're using. And then late one night we were 192 00:09:47,880 --> 00:09:49,880 Speaker 6: in Happens and we got a telex. Because this was 193 00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:53,960 Speaker 6: before mobile phones, we've got a telection head office saying 194 00:09:54,640 --> 00:09:56,839 Speaker 6: that a new passenger was joining the trip because he 195 00:09:56,880 --> 00:09:58,560 Speaker 6: wanted to surprise his fiance. 196 00:09:59,240 --> 00:10:02,120 Speaker 5: Ah the driver, and. 197 00:10:02,080 --> 00:10:04,400 Speaker 6: I thought okay, first thing in the morning because they'd 198 00:10:04,400 --> 00:10:10,080 Speaker 6: already gone to bed. Bah. Well, I got woken to 199 00:10:10,160 --> 00:10:12,680 Speaker 6: all hell breaking looms because he'd arrived before the sun 200 00:10:12,760 --> 00:10:16,160 Speaker 6: came up and went straight to the tenth and the 201 00:10:16,320 --> 00:10:20,400 Speaker 6: jumped for the two of them. Oh public a breakout 202 00:10:20,440 --> 00:10:24,360 Speaker 6: that you can get, yes, that is pred he stuck 203 00:10:24,400 --> 00:10:28,760 Speaker 6: around for a couple of days, such. 204 00:10:28,640 --> 00:10:32,199 Speaker 1: A long way that is amazing. 205 00:10:36,400 --> 00:10:39,280 Speaker 3: Last Hurrah Rush exactly