Speaker 1: Celebrity news. You like that.
Speaker 2: I touched on it earlier. Olivia Wilde is in the
Speaker 2: latest episode of Call Her Daddy, and she was speaking
Speaker 2: about everything from her divorce to her career and also
Speaker 2: her relationship that she had with Harry Styles. So they
Speaker 2: met because she directed that movie. Don't worry Darling if
Speaker 2: you've seen it, Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, great, yeah, watch it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like Harry Styles, Florence Pugh I think, and
Speaker 2: Chris Pine. Really good movie. But yeah, she directed it
Speaker 2: and Harry starred in it. They've got a ten year
Speaker 2: age gap, and she had two kids to her ex husband,
Speaker 2: Jason Saday, So when it started coming out to the
Speaker 2: public that they were dating, she feels as if because
Speaker 2: she was a mother, Harry fans like One Direction die Hards,
Speaker 2: and just America in general thought that she didn't have
Speaker 2: the right to have the sexual desires of a younger
Speaker 2: woman without kids.
Speaker 4: Take a listen, God, in this country, motherhood means no
Speaker 4: more sexual being for you, young lady. You that part
Speaker 4: of you is all now, and there is this puritanical
Speaker 4: basis to that, which is like you are no longer
Speaker 4: capable of desire. You don't deserve it, you have served
Speaker 4: your purpose. And now if I see you without your
Speaker 4: baby and you are like enjoying yourself as an individual woman,
Speaker 4: I see that as a betrayal of this covenant.
Speaker 1: I mean, I can tell you right now, every mother
Speaker 1: on earth is going to disagree with that. That is,
Speaker 1: I know what she's saying, and I don't know what
Speaker 1: it's like in America. She lives in America, right, I
Speaker 1: don't get that vibe here in Australia. I don't feel
Speaker 1: like there is this community pressure that once you become
Speaker 1: a mom and have children, you're not allowed to want
Speaker 1: to enjoy being intimate with other people.
Speaker 2: Or there's definitely I'm alive mom shaming though around, Like
Speaker 2: if you're a mom and you posted like a sexier
Speaker 2: first trap on socials, as if there wouldn't be people going,
Speaker 2: oh my god, I wonder what her kids would think.
Speaker 2: You know, there's that there's.
Speaker 1: Definitely a small minority of people who are judging, but
Speaker 1: they're the people who are going to judge you on
Speaker 1: your parenting techniques and the way you raise your children,
Speaker 1: and God forbid you go out and you know, don't
Speaker 1: just fall into the whole motherhood trap and it becomes
Speaker 1: your whole personality you.
Speaker 2: So that as a mother, like when you first became
Speaker 2: a mom, you felt less sexy.
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I looked like Princess Fiona for a
Speaker 1: solid year of birth. I didn't also care because I
Speaker 1: was just I was like, oh my god, Wow, I've
Speaker 1: got a baby that I've got to keep alive. So
Speaker 1: I definitely didn't feel sexy. But ill yourself for sexy Now,
Speaker 1: I feel like I am confident in my skin now. Yeah,
Speaker 1: for sure.
Speaker 3: I don't use the word sexy, though.
Speaker 1: I feel like I can dress up and I feel
Speaker 1: really sexy in certain clothing. There's definitely a period, I
Speaker 1: don't know, maybe in my luteal phase where I feel sexy.
Speaker 1: Your face, my luteal face, it's like the face when
Speaker 1: i'mulating relating. Yeah, yeah, yeah, ute.
Speaker 3: You learn something new every day every day on this show. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Hey, Olivia Rodrigo, she's twenty three, so she's in that
Speaker 2: like prime age of dating, and you know, people aren't
Speaker 2: necessarily ready to settle down at that age, will men particularly,
Speaker 2: So it's kind of that those years where you just
Speaker 2: it's a bit of trial and error with the people
Speaker 2: you're dating. So she was talking to Capital fm over
Speaker 2: in the UK about the group chat that she has
Speaker 2: with her friends where they kind of discuss all their boy.
Speaker 5: Problems anytime many of us are having, like any boy
Speaker 5: troubles or dating troubles with taxta group chat and go
Speaker 5: jury duty and then everyone comes in and the jury
Speaker 5: convenience and I'll give our opinion a good jury. Need
Speaker 5: you need help? Sometimes you know you're seeing you're not
Speaker 5: seeing things clearly when you're in a relationship.
Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like every single girl has this
Speaker 1: kind of oh yeah, group chat. I still do it.
Speaker 1: I have a girlfriend who recently left a marriage up
Speaker 1: for like fourteen years, and her, I want to say,
Speaker 1: her flirting game is not really up there, and we
Speaker 1: all kind of chip in and help out. She goes
Speaker 1: on all these different dates and she's getting all these
Speaker 1: mixed messages, and you know, you kind of over analyze
Speaker 1: things when you are single and new to the dating scene.
Speaker 1: So we are helping her reply like when she replies
Speaker 1: it's because four of us and added like.
Speaker 3: All of our advice, your dudes don't do.
Speaker 1: This, she's actually he's actually dating five of us.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, he doesn't even know the real her.
Speaker 2: Guys never like you. Guys won't screenshot a message you
Speaker 2: get from a girl going what does this mean? Like,
Speaker 2: I'm confused? Does she like me?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 3: No, guys don't do that really no, no, none of
Speaker 3: my mates.
Speaker 2: I reckon. Every girl you've ever dated, all their friends
Speaker 2: have seen all your messages to you.
Speaker 3: You know what guys are doing now though, and don't
Speaker 3: do it because it's really obvious they're using AI. So
Speaker 3: like chat GPT, my girlfriend showed me when before me
Speaker 3: there was a guy. She's got a screenshot and the
Speaker 3: message is so obvious he had written to her using
Speaker 3: chat GPT. Didn't know how to talk from women.
Speaker 2: All the dashes A long dashes? Yeah, why doesn't chat
Speaker 2: GPT just change those, say the normal ones?
Speaker 3: You cannot dashes, no dashing if you're gonna if you're
Speaker 3: gonna use that to text a woman, at least ask
Speaker 3: her to get rid of the dashes,