WEBVTT - 🤔 Olivia Wilde has been told she can't be intimate ?

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<v Speaker 1>Celebrity news. You like that.

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<v Speaker 2>I touched on it earlier. Olivia Wilde is in the

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<v Speaker 2>latest episode of Call Her Daddy, and she was speaking

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<v Speaker 2>about everything from her divorce to her career and also

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<v Speaker 2>her relationship that she had with Harry Styles. So they

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<v Speaker 2>met because she directed that movie. Don't worry Darling if

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<v Speaker 2>you've seen it, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, great, yeah, watch it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's like Harry Styles, Florence Pugh I think, and

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<v Speaker 2>Chris Pine. Really good movie. But yeah, she directed it

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<v Speaker 2>and Harry starred in it. They've got a ten year

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<v Speaker 2>age gap, and she had two kids to her ex husband,

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<v Speaker 2>Jason Saday, So when it started coming out to the

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<v Speaker 2>public that they were dating, she feels as if because

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<v Speaker 2>she was a mother, Harry fans like One Direction die Hards,

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<v Speaker 2>and just America in general thought that she didn't have

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<v Speaker 2>the right to have the sexual desires of a younger

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<v Speaker 2>woman without kids.

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<v Speaker 4>Take a listen, God, in this country, motherhood means no

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<v Speaker 4>more sexual being for you, young lady. You that part

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<v Speaker 4>of you is all now, and there is this puritanical

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<v Speaker 4>basis to that, which is like you are no longer

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<v Speaker 4>capable of desire. You don't deserve it, you have served

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<v Speaker 4>your purpose. And now if I see you without your

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<v Speaker 4>baby and you are like enjoying yourself as an individual woman,

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<v Speaker 4>I see that as a betrayal of this covenant.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I can tell you right now, every mother

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<v Speaker 1>on earth is going to disagree with that. That is,

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<v Speaker 1>I know what she's saying, and I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>it's like in America. She lives in America, right, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't get that vibe here in Australia. I don't feel

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<v Speaker 1>like there is this community pressure that once you become

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<v Speaker 1>a mom and have children, you're not allowed to want

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<v Speaker 1>to enjoy being intimate with other people.

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<v Speaker 2>Or there's definitely I'm alive mom shaming though around, Like

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<v Speaker 2>if you're a mom and you posted like a sexier

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<v Speaker 2>first trap on socials, as if there wouldn't be people going,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my god, I wonder what her kids would think.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, there's that there's.

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<v Speaker 1>Definitely a small minority of people who are judging, but

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<v Speaker 1>they're the people who are going to judge you on

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<v Speaker 1>your parenting techniques and the way you raise your children,

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<v Speaker 1>and God forbid you go out and you know, don't

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<v Speaker 1>just fall into the whole motherhood trap and it becomes

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<v Speaker 1>your whole personality you.

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<v Speaker 2>So that as a mother, like when you first became

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<v Speaker 2>a mom, you felt less sexy.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, yeah, I looked like Princess Fiona for a

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<v Speaker 1>solid year of birth. I didn't also care because I

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<v Speaker 1>was just I was like, oh my god, Wow, I've

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<v Speaker 1>got a baby that I've got to keep alive. So

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<v Speaker 1>I definitely didn't feel sexy. But ill yourself for sexy Now,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I am confident in my skin now. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>for sure.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't use the word sexy, though.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I can dress up and I feel

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<v Speaker 1>really sexy in certain clothing. There's definitely a period, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, maybe in my luteal phase where I feel sexy.

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<v Speaker 1>Your face, my luteal face, it's like the face when

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<v Speaker 1>i'mulating relating. Yeah, yeah, yeah, ute.

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<v Speaker 3>You learn something new every day every day on this show. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, Olivia Rodrigo, she's twenty three, so she's in that

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<v Speaker 2>like prime age of dating, and you know, people aren't

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<v Speaker 2>necessarily ready to settle down at that age, will men particularly,

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<v Speaker 2>So it's kind of that those years where you just

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<v Speaker 2>it's a bit of trial and error with the people

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<v Speaker 2>you're dating. So she was talking to Capital fm over

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<v Speaker 2>in the UK about the group chat that she has

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<v Speaker 2>with her friends where they kind of discuss all their boy.

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<v Speaker 5>Problems anytime many of us are having, like any boy

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<v Speaker 5>troubles or dating troubles with taxta group chat and go

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<v Speaker 5>jury duty and then everyone comes in and the jury

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<v Speaker 5>convenience and I'll give our opinion a good jury. Need

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<v Speaker 5>you need help? Sometimes you know you're seeing you're not

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<v Speaker 5>seeing things clearly when you're in a relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I feel like every single girl has this

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<v Speaker 1>kind of oh yeah, group chat. I still do it.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a girlfriend who recently left a marriage up

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<v Speaker 1>for like fourteen years, and her, I want to say,

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<v Speaker 1>her flirting game is not really up there, and we

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<v Speaker 1>all kind of chip in and help out. She goes

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<v Speaker 1>on all these different dates and she's getting all these

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<v Speaker 1>mixed messages, and you know, you kind of over analyze

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<v Speaker 1>things when you are single and new to the dating scene.

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<v Speaker 1>So we are helping her reply like when she replies

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<v Speaker 1>it's because four of us and added like.

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<v Speaker 3>All of our advice, your dudes don't do.

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<v Speaker 1>This, she's actually he's actually dating five of us.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, he doesn't even know the real her.

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<v Speaker 2>Guys never like you. Guys won't screenshot a message you

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<v Speaker 2>get from a girl going what does this mean? Like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm confused? Does she like me?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 3>No, guys don't do that really no, no, none of

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<v Speaker 3>my mates.

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<v Speaker 2>I reckon. Every girl you've ever dated, all their friends

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<v Speaker 2>have seen all your messages to you.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what guys are doing now though, and don't

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<v Speaker 3>do it because it's really obvious they're using AI. So

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<v Speaker 3>like chat GPT, my girlfriend showed me when before me

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<v Speaker 3>there was a guy. She's got a screenshot and the

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<v Speaker 3>message is so obvious he had written to her using

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<v Speaker 3>chat GPT. Didn't know how to talk from women.

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<v Speaker 2>All the dashes A long dashes? Yeah, why doesn't chat

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<v Speaker 2>GPT just change those, say the normal ones?

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<v Speaker 3>You cannot dashes, no dashing if you're gonna if you're

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<v Speaker 3>gonna use that to text a woman, at least ask

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<v Speaker 3>her to get rid of the dashes,