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Speaker 1: The Rise and Conquer Podcast acknowledges the traditional custodians of

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Speaker 1: to all Aboriginal and Terrestride Islander peoples today. Hello and

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Speaker 1: welcome back to the Rise and Conquer Podcasts. This is

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Speaker 1: the podcast for ordinary people who want to do extraordinary things.

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Speaker 1: You have not been doing this for three years.

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Speaker 2: You've only been dogging women for three years.

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Speaker 1: Yes, anyway, let's just see what happens. Hello, and welcome

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Speaker 1: back to the Rise and Conker Podcast. It is your

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Speaker 1: host Georgie Stevenson and guys, you know Fridays are our

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Speaker 1: fun EPs where you send in your life dilemmas and

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Speaker 1: I provide my very unqualified two cents on this situation. So, guys,

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Speaker 1: today's hotline is a little bit different because we have

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Speaker 1: a very special guest, Cooper. Cooper's in the podcast studio,

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Speaker 1: so we thought it would be cool to do some

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Speaker 1: hotline cues and kind of get a guy's perspective I'm

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Speaker 1: not gonna lie, I don't agree with.

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Speaker 2: It reminded me.

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Speaker 1: While we don't interview met, it reminded it reminded us

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Speaker 1: of why men are trash. But no, we love Cooper. No,

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Speaker 1: it was like it was cool to have a different perspective.

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Speaker 1: And sure we had some really good questions, like, you know,

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Speaker 1: do guys really need guy time? We did not agree

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Speaker 1: on that. Ah, Cooper's opinion on like mask and fem energy,

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Speaker 1: why some men take longer to propose, and just a

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Speaker 1: whole bunch of fun cu so we got serious, we

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Speaker 1: had a laugh. I think you guys will enjoy this.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you'll get a bit annoyed like I.

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Speaker 2: Did, but still it's good to open your mind.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's good. It's good. But before we get into

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Speaker 1: the episode, you guys know, we say this is the

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Speaker 1: podcast for ordinary people who want to do extraordinary things,

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Speaker 1: and every now and again we are going to shine

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Speaker 1: a spotlight on someone doing an absolute extraordinary thing. So

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Speaker 1: today I want to share a quick story about Ned Brockman.

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Speaker 1: You may have heard about this person a tea. Have

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Speaker 1: So Jamie came in the other day and she was

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Speaker 1: like guys Ned Brockman. He's a twenty three year old

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Speaker 1: electrician who has just finished running from Perth to Bondai. Yes,

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Speaker 1: you literally heard that right. That's across Australia. And I

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Speaker 1: don't know if you know this, but Australia is huge.

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Speaker 1: It's three nine hundred and fifty three kilometers huge. I

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Speaker 1: because I just don't understand how anyone could do that.

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Speaker 1: And this guy is like, he's not a runner, No,

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Speaker 1: so he has this is incredible. So he's raised over

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Speaker 1: And I thought, if we're going to shine a light

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Speaker 1: We're going to put the links in our socials because

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Speaker 1: it's still open if you guys want to donate. Such

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Speaker 1: an amazing cause and just such an amazing bloke, yeah,

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Speaker 1: so don't worry, Jamie. So on our backs about it,

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Speaker 1: He's so Australian, he's so busy. I love so much.

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Speaker 2: Is it important to give your partner guy time with

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Speaker 3: Yes, I think it's very important for a guy to

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Speaker 3: if that's what they need, then that's what they should get.

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Speaker 3: Because if you say no, why don't you want to

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Speaker 1: we fit batties right now for summer, for summer and

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Speaker 2: Do you think men who cheat will always cheat? Can

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Speaker 2: they genuinely change?

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Speaker 3: I reckon, yes, they can change.

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Speaker 2: Do you think that comes with age or.

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Speaker 1: Or just like a development Wise, I think it would

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Speaker 1: be wrong to say, like you can't change, Like if

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Speaker 1: you think about the Rise and Coner podcast, we're about evolution,

482
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Speaker 1: we're about change. You can completely change who you are

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Speaker 1: and how you show up in the world. So I

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Speaker 1: think it would be very limiting to put that just

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Speaker 1: because we're talking about cheating obviously.

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Speaker 3: Is a really bad thing, but it like if it

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Speaker 3: was a once off thing or something like comes down

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Speaker 3: the communication again or something went wrong or like, but

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Speaker 3: if they did it like multiple times, then yeah, he's

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Speaker 3: going to do it again because.

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Speaker 1: For me once, what sort of thing. Yeah, shame on.

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Speaker 2: Shame on you for me twice, shame on me.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, So but if you do it once or

494
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Speaker 3: it just happens or something, yeah, you can definitely change.

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Speaker 3: But he's going to happen, but he's probably yeah, at

496
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Speaker 3: a low point or something's gone wrong in that relationship

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Speaker 3: and there's like it takes two to tango.

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Speaker 1: So my view one cheating too is if you are

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Speaker 1: going to I guess make it work and try to

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Speaker 1: come back from it, I think you almost need to

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Speaker 1: clean slate it and go all right, we're starting basically

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Speaker 1: again from this time and clean slate it and not

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Speaker 1: go back to that issue.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like you can't be in a fight and be like,

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Speaker 2: well you cheated on me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, And but it's up to you for a sample,

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Speaker 1: if you feel like you can go there and almost

508
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Speaker 1: like forgive them computer Yeah, because me personally, I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I don't. I think I would always bring I'd always

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Speaker 1: bring it up. Yeah, So it depends, like if you

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Speaker 1: want to move forward and they you feel like they

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Speaker 1: are going to change and you believe them, you almost

513
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Speaker 1: need to come to the table. Well from this point,

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Speaker 1: you know, we're moving forward with a clean slight but.

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Speaker 3: It's hard, like we obviously haven't been in that situation.

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Speaker 3: So to give advice to something like that, like, it's

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Speaker 3: really hard, but like overall you can.

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Speaker 1: But I would like to believe people change like that.

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Speaker 3: Trust it would be that would be like the hardest

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Speaker 3: thing to get over, harder. I don't know if I

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Speaker 3: could do it. Trust thing.

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Speaker 2: Okay, next question, what do you do if friends and

523
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Speaker 2: family ask for a free product or discount on your business?

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Speaker 2: It's not relationships, but I thought it was interesting.

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Speaker 3: It depends who they are, depends if I like them

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Speaker 3: pretty much.

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Speaker 1: No, So I have an opinion on this, and then

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Speaker 1: you can go cooper. So I have an opinion that,

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Speaker 1: for example, I feel like we are very generous with

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Speaker 1: our family and friends. But I also have opinion of

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Speaker 1: a true always been like that generous?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like would you give free product when you first started? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I but I am I'm of the view

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Speaker 1: that your friends should never expect and they should always

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Speaker 1: want to support you, especially when you're starting out, especially

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Speaker 1: when you're a small business. Well I think at any

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Speaker 1: time really, and they should never I don't know because

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Speaker 1: for example, if someone came to me a friend and

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Speaker 1: was like, oh I want this, this, this for free.

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Speaker 1: I would almost turn around and like.

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Speaker 3: They wouldn't be your friend.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'd be like no, just for the point of

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Speaker 1: like a true friend wouldn't do that. Yeah, Like they

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Speaker 1: would not expect that. And I think that's like a

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Speaker 1: really gross assumption to have because it's like they should

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Speaker 1: want to support you on your endeavors, and I feel

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Speaker 1: like that should need to be like shown.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Would it be different if they like ask for a

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Speaker 2: discount code, Like if they were like, hey, I really

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Speaker 2: want to order a few things. Did you have a

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Speaker 2: small little friends and family discount code? If not, totally fine,

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Speaker 2: how would you take something like that?

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Speaker 1: Oh, I think that's so fine. I would like love

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Speaker 1: for people to you know.

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Speaker 3: After that, that's still support.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's so supportive because they're like, I want to

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Speaker 1: help you out, but also give me a dissy, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: a welcome dizzy, which is I think. Yeah, I think

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Speaker 1: that's so fine, and that's even like a like normal

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Speaker 1: thing to do.

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Speaker 2: I guess next question, why do some men take longer

563
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Speaker 2: to propose than others.

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Speaker 3: They probably need more time to think about the next step.

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Speaker 1: And Cooper can't relate.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I was pretty soon. Well, I when I got

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Speaker 3: to marry me, I thought we'd have a long engagement

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Speaker 3: and we didn't, so I wanted more time. But I

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Speaker 3: didn't really mind that much. But I couldn't really mind.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, well, they're probably not sure on something.

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Speaker 2: So talk to them about it.

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Speaker 3: Communication again.

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Speaker 1: I think also like for most guys, it's not I

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Speaker 1: feel like our family's different, Cooper, because all like all

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Speaker 1: the brothers have proposed at very young ages, very quite soon,

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Speaker 1: whereas I know a lot of people where it can

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Speaker 1: take ten years. And I think it's like the priority.

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Speaker 1: Like I feel like a lot of men that like,

579
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Speaker 1: you know, they're not it's not like they dream about

580
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Speaker 1: their winning and they're thinking of the colors and you know,

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Speaker 1: what they want to wear, et cetera. It's just not

582
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Speaker 1: a priority and they're probably thinking, oh, we most all

583
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Speaker 1: put this money into our house or that sort of thing,

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Speaker 1: and it's almost like a backburner thing.

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Speaker 3: Well, I think there's a lot of it's definitely one,

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Speaker 3: Like there's a lot of things where they're not ready,

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00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:07,160
Speaker 3: Like that's probably a big one. They're not ready to

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Speaker 3: take that commitment and go to that next step and

589
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Speaker 3: because they know after that it might be kids, or

590
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Speaker 3: they might want to still party or like doing stuff

591
00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:20,480
Speaker 3: or yeah, like there's a lot of factors.

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Speaker 2: So next question, when you're in a relationship and have

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Speaker 2: a fight, do you overthink similar to women? Like do

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Speaker 2: I like, do men overthink like women.

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Speaker 3: Overthinkh Probably not. I would say men don't overthink. They

596
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Speaker 3: would just leave it, But it depends.

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Speaker 1: That's putting like men and women in such a box though,

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Speaker 1: it is because you'd have some guys who completely overthink,

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Speaker 1: overthink and some women who's like.

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Speaker 3: Overthink a bit more and ask doesn't but then our

601
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Speaker 3: other brother, he wouldn't give a ship and then yeah, the.

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Speaker 1: Wife depends on the person.

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Speaker 3: You do you overthink? You wouldn't, So it depends on

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Speaker 3: the person.

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Speaker 2: Yea.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. The main thing is to probably have a breather

607
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Speaker 3: and step away from that situation and however long that

608
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Speaker 3: is hopefully not too long, and then come back and

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Speaker 3: communicate when you're not angry. If you got anger, you

610
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Speaker 3: just let loose whoever is the more angry person. Envy

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Speaker 3: like we want to fight, like we want to talk

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Speaker 3: this a fight, nothing comes good of.

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Speaker 2: It because I feel like often guys will be like,

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Speaker 2: I'm angry, I need to walk away, and girls are like, no,

615
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Speaker 2: let's fix it now before you walk away. It needs

616
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Speaker 2: to be fixed.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I just want to keep talking about it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but you found that it's easier for people to

619
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Speaker 2: like take a breather.

620
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Speaker 3: And then come back after Yeah, it doesn't matter who's

621
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Speaker 3: who's angry one, but yeah, just have a breather, step away,

622
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Speaker 3: go for a walk, and come back and then communicate

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Speaker 3: and figure it out.

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Speaker 2: More of a longer question one was posted in our

625
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Speaker 2: Facebook group. I've been with my partner for about two

626
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Speaker 2: years now, and I truly love him and we are

627
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Speaker 2: so obsessed with each other. He recently quit his job

628
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Speaker 2: a couple of months ago to start a business, but

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Speaker 2: at the moment, I feel like it's less starting a

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Speaker 2: business and more just hanging around at home. He doesn't

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Speaker 2: ever get up before midday and seems to mainly just

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Speaker 2: watch TV shows. Do you have any advice for me?

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Speaker 3: Crap? I wonder if he stays up as.

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Speaker 1: Much to say, getting up at midday, Jesus.

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Speaker 2: How would you approach that as someone who started a business, Like,

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Speaker 2: what was it like when you guys started n h

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Speaker 2: was working.

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Speaker 3: Like four or something because I couldn't sleep about anything.

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Speaker 3: I think everything.

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Speaker 1: I think he's taking the piers.

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Speaker 3: Definitely, don't you reckon? Yeah, you need to pull him

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Speaker 3: in and say what the hell are you doing? Like communicate?

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Speaker 1: Well, he also couperzends everything.

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Speaker 3: Communicate its key.

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Speaker 1: I'd also loved to know like is he did he

646
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Speaker 1: quit his job, but now you're providing for him and

647
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Speaker 1: then he's just mucking around or you know, like what's

648
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Speaker 1: happening here? Why should she be worried?

649
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Speaker 2: Or is he well he said he's quit his job.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but he might financially have iby fed. Yeah, and

651
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Speaker 1: then like maybe he just needs some like breather time

652
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Speaker 1: or what not.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. So like if if she's providing, then it's a

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Speaker 2: point of concern. But if he's still like paying his

655
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Speaker 2: half and lumbing around, she doesn't. She shouldn't stress.

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Speaker 3: Well, it depends what you want to be with You

657
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Speaker 3: you want to be with someone like that, and that's

658
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Speaker 3: doesn't matter about financial if you want to it's who

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Speaker 3: you hang out with. Like, if you're hanging out with

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Speaker 3: someone like that, it's going to rub on you. And

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Speaker 3: if you if you're not going in that direction, you

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Speaker 3: need to buy it in the barm and have a

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Speaker 3: talk with him and say I don't like the way

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Speaker 3: want to progress.

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Speaker 1: To and just say, well, check in with him, being

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Speaker 1: like what's happening here? Yeah, like why are you sleeping

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Speaker 1: until midday?

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Speaker 3: And like a sla his mental health?

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Speaker 1: What's he doing at night?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Normal? But if he's working at night, then that's it.

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Speaker 3: But if he's not, something like yeah, you need to

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Speaker 3: communicate a bit more and suss it out. Yeah, And

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Speaker 3: if that's what you want or don't want, then go

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Speaker 3: for it.

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Speaker 2: Lucky. Last question, my boyfriend and I have been together

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Speaker 2: for over two and a half years. We love each

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Speaker 2: other to death, but notice that we're both really burnt

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Speaker 2: out in general. We're currently looking to move in together

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Speaker 2: towards the end of the year and I don't want

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Speaker 2: to feel like this when we move into our new

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Speaker 2: environment together. What's your best advice on not feeling burnt out?

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Speaker 3: Probably need to assess what's going on in your life

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Speaker 3: to try and substitute where you're getting burnt out. Like

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Speaker 3: if it's your work, then maybe not work as much

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Speaker 3: or I don't know if you're doing too many sports

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Speaker 3: in the afternoon or somewhere where you can eliminate a

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Speaker 3: bit of the stress or something.

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Speaker 1: I feel like when you're burnt out, you're not in alignment,

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Speaker 1: like something in life is you're doing something you don't

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Speaker 1: like or yeah, you're almost like not happy in a way. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and it's like something needs to shift, whether it's your routine,

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Speaker 1: your work, your hobbies to get into a new energy.

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Speaker 1: But in saying that, I think even moving in together

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Speaker 1: would be a huge shift that may help if it's

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Speaker 1: not something that you know.

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Speaker 2: That's exactly what I thought too, because like maybe the

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Speaker 2: bonout is coming from trying to manage too much moving around.

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Speaker 2: Because I know one of my friends and her partner

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Speaker 2: jump between her house and his house because they're saving

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Speaker 2: up to get their own, So that would be the

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Speaker 2: cause of their boneout. Yeah, so have a look at

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Speaker 2: what it's actually causing it, because moving in together might

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Speaker 2: solve the burnout.

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Speaker 1: And also if they're currently living in separate households, like

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Speaker 1: maybe with parents, maybe with roommates, I think having your

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Speaker 1: own environment where it's just you two is so refreshing

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Speaker 1: and so nice. Like I think your living environment. Environment

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Speaker 1: is so huge to how you show up in life.

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Speaker 1: Like I've even noticed with our move just how I'm

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Speaker 1: in a new environment and just how different I kind

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Speaker 1: of amah, And that's like shifted a lot of like

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Speaker 1: stagnant energy. So I feel like, yeah, I don't know,

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Speaker 1: this could be it's almost have a look what you're

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Speaker 1: doing right now, But this could be like a very

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Speaker 1: exciting step.

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Speaker 3: I remember when I moved out with Ash for the

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Speaker 3: first time. We were nineteen and it was the best

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Speaker 3: one year of my life. It can only last maybe

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Speaker 3: last year and a half, and then we moved back

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Speaker 3: to the parents to save up, but it was the

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Speaker 3: best thing that we ever did. The freedom that you

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Speaker 3: get from it, it opens up, Yeah, so many doors.

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Speaker 3: You mature U so much.

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Speaker 1: You have to grow up so much.

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Speaker 3: Hey, it's awesome.

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Speaker 1: I moved out when I was nineteen two, and I

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Speaker 1: remember it was the best. I was like, holy fuck.

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Speaker 3: So good. So yeah, when something scary, it's usually really

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Speaker 3: exciting to turn out really good.

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Speaker 1: That's where they're and that could be where the burnout is.

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Speaker 1: Like it's just like you're in the same routine, You're

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Speaker 1: in the same energy. You need a change you need.

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Speaker 1: Saying fresh to change the environment really exciting.

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Speaker 2: Do it.

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