1 00:00:02,440 --> 00:00:07,840 Speaker 1: Get a. I'm Laula Berry, nutritionist, author, actor, TV presenter, 2 00:00:08,080 --> 00:00:14,040 Speaker 1: and professional overshaer. This podcast is all about celebrating failure 3 00:00:14,600 --> 00:00:17,200 Speaker 1: because I believe it's a chance for us to learn, 4 00:00:17,800 --> 00:00:22,160 Speaker 1: grow and face our blind spots. Each week, I'll interview 5 00:00:22,239 --> 00:00:26,160 Speaker 1: a different guest about their highs as well as their lows, 6 00:00:26,200 --> 00:00:29,800 Speaker 1: all in a bid to inspire us to fearlessly fail. 7 00:00:34,560 --> 00:00:39,960 Speaker 1: Yuloha yoloha birthday yet boy yep? So Matt's birthday is 8 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:41,160 Speaker 1: the sixteenth or September. 9 00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:41,680 Speaker 2: Yep. 10 00:00:42,080 --> 00:00:47,360 Speaker 1: Mine is the fourteenth of September. So, in fearsly failing tradition, 11 00:00:48,040 --> 00:00:49,320 Speaker 1: we do a birthday. 12 00:00:49,640 --> 00:00:51,320 Speaker 2: Is this a third birthday we've done? 13 00:00:51,400 --> 00:00:58,120 Speaker 1: I believe? So yeah, yeah, wow wow wow. So what 14 00:00:58,160 --> 00:00:59,880 Speaker 1: we do is we do a call out on in 15 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:02,920 Speaker 1: Star with Q and A. So basically, this is a 16 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:06,600 Speaker 1: Q and A episode where you, the listener, has sent 17 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:09,919 Speaker 1: usked questions and we're going to answer openly, no filter. 18 00:01:10,319 --> 00:01:13,000 Speaker 1: You also put out an anonymous question box two. 19 00:01:13,480 --> 00:01:16,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, but a lot of them quite inappropriate. 20 00:01:15,959 --> 00:01:19,000 Speaker 1: Sexy times inappropriate, a lot of sexy questions. You can 21 00:01:19,360 --> 00:01:21,360 Speaker 1: you can still read them and we can decide if 22 00:01:21,400 --> 00:01:22,559 Speaker 1: we're going to pass or an. 23 00:01:24,120 --> 00:01:24,840 Speaker 2: I'm nervous. 24 00:01:25,520 --> 00:01:27,920 Speaker 1: You don't look at he's got his little shuck of 25 00:01:27,959 --> 00:01:30,080 Speaker 1: shells around his neck. 26 00:01:30,200 --> 00:01:30,680 Speaker 2: Shells. 27 00:01:30,720 --> 00:01:32,520 Speaker 1: What are they called? You would know more than me. 28 00:01:32,800 --> 00:01:35,080 Speaker 2: No, when they originally, like when they call that book 29 00:01:35,120 --> 00:01:37,200 Speaker 2: of shells or something original shell He's got a book 30 00:01:37,200 --> 00:01:40,480 Speaker 2: as she. These are just I got these from America, 31 00:01:40,560 --> 00:01:43,160 Speaker 2: fake fake, fake shells. 32 00:01:43,200 --> 00:01:44,600 Speaker 1: Throw me under the bus while you're at it. 33 00:01:44,680 --> 00:01:46,039 Speaker 2: Well, it's very nice. I do love it. 34 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:49,520 Speaker 1: So what we've done is Q and A and we're 35 00:01:49,560 --> 00:01:53,920 Speaker 1: just gonna dive right in there and answer any questions 36 00:01:53,920 --> 00:01:56,200 Speaker 1: that you may have. So do you want me to 37 00:01:56,240 --> 00:01:56,600 Speaker 1: go first? 38 00:01:56,680 --> 00:01:56,920 Speaker 2: Boy? 39 00:01:57,080 --> 00:01:59,000 Speaker 1: Or do you want your list? Do you wander your 40 00:01:59,040 --> 00:01:59,840 Speaker 1: anonymous list? 41 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:00,480 Speaker 2: I don't know. 42 00:02:00,600 --> 00:02:04,360 Speaker 1: You can do the nice instantly? Okay question and we 43 00:02:04,480 --> 00:02:09,840 Speaker 1: haven't pre prepared answers for these app go shoot. Okay, 44 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:13,400 Speaker 1: where did you meet? 45 00:02:13,480 --> 00:02:16,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, we've definitely answered this before. 46 00:02:16,280 --> 00:02:20,480 Speaker 1: Bumble Yeah were you were my first Australian bumble date? 47 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:24,200 Speaker 2: Oh? I like how you just prefaced Australian. I've had 48 00:02:24,240 --> 00:02:27,520 Speaker 2: a few, al you were my first bumble date ever. 49 00:02:27,800 --> 00:02:29,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, but you were on all the apps. Boy, you 50 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:32,200 Speaker 1: were on Rayah that's the famous family. 51 00:02:32,280 --> 00:02:35,240 Speaker 2: I'm still on RAYA. Did you know that, but because 52 00:02:35,480 --> 00:02:39,680 Speaker 2: when we met, I set my profile to friend friends only, 53 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:45,160 Speaker 2: but then I deleted that app. Yeah, and who said it? 54 00:02:45,200 --> 00:02:46,800 Speaker 2: I think it was like Ilios or someone said, like, 55 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:48,639 Speaker 2: you're on like looking for friends. 56 00:02:49,680 --> 00:02:50,280 Speaker 1: That's fine. 57 00:02:50,560 --> 00:02:52,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm going to like I've redownloaded the app, but 58 00:02:52,760 --> 00:02:53,600 Speaker 2: I've not opened it. 59 00:02:54,040 --> 00:02:56,480 Speaker 1: That's handy though, because you're a musician in Byron Bay. 60 00:02:56,440 --> 00:02:57,880 Speaker 2: I think good overseas. 61 00:02:58,200 --> 00:03:00,079 Speaker 1: Yeah, very very much, I bear. 62 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:01,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, we can do that together. 63 00:03:01,360 --> 00:03:03,760 Speaker 1: I got rejected from RAYA, so I don't know anything 64 00:03:03,800 --> 00:03:08,080 Speaker 1: about it other than I wasn't famous enough for it. Okay, 65 00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:12,200 Speaker 1: what's on your plate? So I think that's a meal question? Yep, 66 00:03:13,760 --> 00:03:15,720 Speaker 1: Well why don't we talk about what you made for 67 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:18,120 Speaker 1: dinners last night? Because we're having that after we record this. 68 00:03:18,720 --> 00:03:21,920 Speaker 2: Roast chicken and potatoes rummies. Yeah, I did little some 69 00:03:21,960 --> 00:03:23,080 Speaker 2: drumsticks last night. 70 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 1: And I was salad in charge of the salad, and. 71 00:03:25,120 --> 00:03:27,760 Speaker 2: A salad did something nice and simple. But I love 72 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:29,800 Speaker 2: just simple roast chicken potatoes. 73 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:33,840 Speaker 1: You do and you put Aristota on it, which is 74 00:03:34,639 --> 00:03:37,480 Speaker 1: out of your stone. Oh sorry, yeah, what does that mean? 75 00:03:37,480 --> 00:03:39,840 Speaker 2: It's just some Italian spice that you buy from the 76 00:03:39,880 --> 00:03:41,040 Speaker 2: Italian shop. 77 00:03:41,400 --> 00:03:44,480 Speaker 1: So good and they've got different ones guys. So yeah, 78 00:03:44,640 --> 00:03:46,680 Speaker 1: what's it called in Melbourne? 79 00:03:46,680 --> 00:03:51,920 Speaker 2: The emporium, Yeah, the the Italian whole Suit of whole. 80 00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:55,600 Speaker 1: Food wholesalers, and they've got like different spice combosa. 81 00:03:55,640 --> 00:03:58,280 Speaker 2: There's a chicken one the Mediterranean wholesalers on. 82 00:03:58,280 --> 00:04:02,760 Speaker 1: Sydney Road where our cargo toed. Remember, yeah, let's talk 83 00:04:02,760 --> 00:04:05,080 Speaker 1: about three thirty. Got tired. We're in a clear way. 84 00:04:06,040 --> 00:04:09,680 Speaker 1: We would do it again Christmas Panatoni. But they've got 85 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:13,080 Speaker 1: different spices for like chicken, fish, vegetables, potatoes. 86 00:04:13,080 --> 00:04:14,440 Speaker 2: I don't know that you can even buy it there. 87 00:04:15,280 --> 00:04:17,440 Speaker 2: Oh don't you know? 88 00:04:16,520 --> 00:04:20,479 Speaker 1: It is somewhere else, that little dali near her house 89 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:25,400 Speaker 1: and we used to go there. Okay, we're diagresgressing. This 90 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:27,760 Speaker 1: is a good this is a good birthday. One favorite cake? 91 00:04:29,240 --> 00:04:30,240 Speaker 2: I know yours? 92 00:04:30,839 --> 00:04:35,440 Speaker 1: Do you? I think he knows what a pie I like? 93 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:36,200 Speaker 1: I don't know if you know. 94 00:04:36,160 --> 00:04:38,240 Speaker 2: About favorite cakes? Are a hummingbird cake? 95 00:04:38,320 --> 00:04:40,760 Speaker 1: Oh that's true? Yes, wow, you could make me that 96 00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:41,440 Speaker 1: for my birthday? 97 00:04:41,480 --> 00:04:42,680 Speaker 2: What is a hummingbird cake? 98 00:04:42,920 --> 00:04:46,880 Speaker 1: So a hummingbird is very similar to a carrot in 99 00:04:47,440 --> 00:04:50,880 Speaker 1: like spice profile, but you throw a little of pine 100 00:04:50,920 --> 00:04:51,240 Speaker 1: in there. 101 00:04:51,480 --> 00:04:54,280 Speaker 2: I like that pineapple pineapple spice. 102 00:04:54,560 --> 00:04:57,880 Speaker 1: Okay, but you've got to have that sick amazing like 103 00:04:58,040 --> 00:05:02,000 Speaker 1: delicious icing that rocotto. Maybe you should make a hummingbird. 104 00:05:01,560 --> 00:05:03,599 Speaker 2: For my birthday and maybe we'll talk about it. 105 00:05:03,640 --> 00:05:06,839 Speaker 1: An organic hummingbird. But pumpkin pie is my ultimate. 106 00:05:06,960 --> 00:05:08,160 Speaker 2: Pump compie is amazing. 107 00:05:08,560 --> 00:05:09,839 Speaker 1: We should make that this Christmas. 108 00:05:09,880 --> 00:05:11,479 Speaker 2: I feel the one I made you for your birthday 109 00:05:11,839 --> 00:05:12,800 Speaker 2: two years ago. 110 00:05:13,400 --> 00:05:15,279 Speaker 1: Long process two day. 111 00:05:15,480 --> 00:05:17,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, that was the best thing I've ever made, I reckon. 112 00:05:17,640 --> 00:05:20,200 Speaker 1: And then we got that I'm salivating. We got that 113 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:23,520 Speaker 1: vanilla pan and ice cream. Yeah so good. 114 00:05:23,760 --> 00:05:23,960 Speaker 2: Yeah. 115 00:05:24,120 --> 00:05:29,000 Speaker 1: What's your favorite cake? Your mom does a good flowerless chocolate. 116 00:05:29,600 --> 00:05:31,800 Speaker 2: Yeah. Oh look, I have to I have to say 117 00:05:32,120 --> 00:05:32,880 Speaker 2: my mum's cake. 118 00:05:33,160 --> 00:05:33,600 Speaker 1: Which one? 119 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:36,640 Speaker 2: So she does like the sponge. Yeah, so she does 120 00:05:36,640 --> 00:05:39,120 Speaker 2: a sponge and then she cuts it into like three 121 00:05:39,120 --> 00:05:43,320 Speaker 2: different layers and then one layer she puts the lemon custard. 122 00:05:44,800 --> 00:05:48,400 Speaker 2: The other layer she puts the chocolate custard, and then 123 00:05:48,480 --> 00:05:51,400 Speaker 2: she like layers it up like you know, straws on top, 124 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:55,000 Speaker 2: and then like puts cream all around the outside. She 125 00:05:55,080 --> 00:05:58,560 Speaker 2: made it for my birthday like everything. No, I don't 126 00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:00,800 Speaker 2: think so it's a big process, but she's made it 127 00:06:00,800 --> 00:06:02,320 Speaker 2: for me for like thirty years in a row. 128 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:12,040 Speaker 1: Would you what about the other six thirty? Okay, so 129 00:06:12,680 --> 00:06:15,039 Speaker 1: not a question. However, it seems you're both meant to 130 00:06:15,040 --> 00:06:17,640 Speaker 1: be together all the best. That's normal, that's nice. 131 00:06:17,640 --> 00:06:17,960 Speaker 2: Thank you. 132 00:06:18,760 --> 00:06:22,640 Speaker 1: Will Byron be your base long term between Australia and 133 00:06:22,680 --> 00:06:23,960 Speaker 1: the US. 134 00:06:23,920 --> 00:06:27,360 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, so it'll always be a. 135 00:06:28,360 --> 00:06:29,560 Speaker 1: It'll be our Aussie base. 136 00:06:29,720 --> 00:06:32,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, so you go, no, you go? So I keep 137 00:06:32,480 --> 00:06:33,080 Speaker 2: cutting you off. 138 00:06:33,120 --> 00:06:35,160 Speaker 1: Well, I've got a green card. So this is like 139 00:06:35,279 --> 00:06:37,320 Speaker 1: I definitely have to spend at least six months every 140 00:06:37,360 --> 00:06:39,680 Speaker 1: year in the US, which is what I've done the 141 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:43,480 Speaker 1: last two years, and then I think next year we 142 00:06:43,560 --> 00:06:45,719 Speaker 1: might ramp that up to like nine months and still 143 00:06:45,720 --> 00:06:49,800 Speaker 1: come back after Thanksgiving in America, which like November, just 144 00:06:49,839 --> 00:06:51,760 Speaker 1: for works that I hope that I can. Next year 145 00:06:51,839 --> 00:06:54,440 Speaker 1: is the year that I book a big gig hopefully. 146 00:06:54,760 --> 00:06:58,680 Speaker 1: So it's just about being on the ground. I do 147 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:00,960 Speaker 1: think I know that that people saying that's a myth, 148 00:07:01,040 --> 00:07:03,680 Speaker 1: and because of COVID, you can still be not based 149 00:07:03,839 --> 00:07:07,719 Speaker 1: in need to be there, especially for things like I 150 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:12,440 Speaker 1: did all this training in like voice and acting, and 151 00:07:12,560 --> 00:07:14,520 Speaker 1: it just you can do a lot of it online, 152 00:07:14,680 --> 00:07:17,960 Speaker 1: but like when the teachers get to know you. This 153 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:20,800 Speaker 1: is the thing in LA all the acting teachers or 154 00:07:20,880 --> 00:07:23,840 Speaker 1: voice teachers are connected to all the casting directors, and 155 00:07:23,880 --> 00:07:26,200 Speaker 1: so when you're in the room and in the space, 156 00:07:26,280 --> 00:07:29,320 Speaker 1: you're front of their mind. And so it's really interesting 157 00:07:29,400 --> 00:07:32,920 Speaker 1: how like a coffee with someone or doing a class, 158 00:07:33,200 --> 00:07:35,440 Speaker 1: all the sudden then you're getting put forward for casting 159 00:07:35,520 --> 00:07:37,320 Speaker 1: things that just don't happen if you're on the other 160 00:07:37,360 --> 00:07:38,040 Speaker 1: side of the world. 161 00:07:38,200 --> 00:07:41,440 Speaker 2: Also, hey, we've got this thing today at three o'clock. 162 00:07:41,480 --> 00:07:42,080 Speaker 2: Can you be there. 163 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:45,800 Speaker 1: Yes, it's very quick in LA too, so yes. Byron 164 00:07:45,880 --> 00:07:48,920 Speaker 1: We love Byron Bay. We were just saying we're having 165 00:07:48,920 --> 00:07:51,400 Speaker 1: our green juice. Before we were just saying we don't 166 00:07:51,400 --> 00:07:53,480 Speaker 1: want to get lost in the riff raff of Byron 167 00:07:53,520 --> 00:07:55,080 Speaker 1: Bay as far as like a lot of people come 168 00:07:55,120 --> 00:07:57,680 Speaker 1: here to kind of like run or to like discover 169 00:07:57,760 --> 00:08:02,560 Speaker 1: themselves or yeah, real like real kind of like nomadic, 170 00:08:02,720 --> 00:08:04,840 Speaker 1: and it's we want to we said, we want to 171 00:08:04,840 --> 00:08:07,840 Speaker 1: be more like the Hemsworth where this is our Australian base. 172 00:08:07,960 --> 00:08:10,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, this is where we ground. Yeah, so we you know, 173 00:08:10,680 --> 00:08:13,000 Speaker 2: do the overseas and we do the work and we 174 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:15,240 Speaker 2: do all that stuff, and then this will always be 175 00:08:15,280 --> 00:08:17,560 Speaker 2: a place that we come back to the ground and 176 00:08:17,600 --> 00:08:20,520 Speaker 2: if it's three months of the year or one month 177 00:08:20,720 --> 00:08:22,160 Speaker 2: like or whatever. 178 00:08:21,840 --> 00:08:25,000 Speaker 1: It is, this is where we'll be totally. And I 179 00:08:25,040 --> 00:08:27,720 Speaker 1: think as well, if we decide to if people listened 180 00:08:27,760 --> 00:08:30,960 Speaker 1: to last week'scept, they'll know that we're freezing embryos. If 181 00:08:30,960 --> 00:08:32,880 Speaker 1: we decide to have a bambino down the track, I 182 00:08:32,880 --> 00:08:36,160 Speaker 1: think Byron is a really great great place to bring 183 00:08:36,200 --> 00:08:41,959 Speaker 1: a bambino up. How are you celebrating your birthdays this year? Oh, well, 184 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:44,240 Speaker 1: you're gonna be malbs for your Melbourne so you get 185 00:08:44,240 --> 00:08:46,439 Speaker 1: to see your fan bam and we're going to your 186 00:08:46,480 --> 00:08:49,120 Speaker 1: favorite Do you want to say where you were going? 187 00:08:49,280 --> 00:08:49,800 Speaker 2: Neptune? 188 00:08:50,080 --> 00:08:53,400 Speaker 1: Your favorite malb spot for Little Veno. Yeah, it's the 189 00:08:53,480 --> 00:08:58,560 Speaker 1: cool little state oysters there. Yeah. Yeah. Is it like 190 00:08:58,640 --> 00:09:00,240 Speaker 1: little share plates or is it more like get a 191 00:09:00,240 --> 00:09:01,360 Speaker 1: play to pastor and a wine. 192 00:09:01,520 --> 00:09:04,440 Speaker 2: No, everything's pretty share even the pastors. Everyone shares the 193 00:09:04,480 --> 00:09:07,240 Speaker 2: pastors and stuff, so you can have your own plate. 194 00:09:07,320 --> 00:09:09,480 Speaker 2: But yeah, it's just a cute little. 195 00:09:09,320 --> 00:09:12,280 Speaker 1: Spot that I've always asked a few mates. Yeah, but it's. 196 00:09:12,160 --> 00:09:16,400 Speaker 2: Going to be very chill. I'm not drinking until we 197 00:09:16,440 --> 00:09:18,440 Speaker 2: get back to Byron. Oh yeah, you want to do 198 00:09:18,440 --> 00:09:20,560 Speaker 2: a little labooze for a whole month. 199 00:09:20,760 --> 00:09:23,319 Speaker 1: He wants to do a little when we get back 200 00:09:23,320 --> 00:09:24,600 Speaker 1: a joint birthday somewhere. 201 00:09:24,840 --> 00:09:25,360 Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah. 202 00:09:26,280 --> 00:09:29,440 Speaker 1: The next question, what are three things that attracted you 203 00:09:29,600 --> 00:09:31,960 Speaker 1: to each other when you first met? 204 00:09:32,120 --> 00:09:32,320 Speaker 2: Oh? 205 00:09:32,360 --> 00:09:35,160 Speaker 1: Wow, wow wow wow? 206 00:09:36,440 --> 00:09:37,959 Speaker 2: Three things should go first? 207 00:09:38,120 --> 00:09:38,640 Speaker 1: Go for it? 208 00:09:38,760 --> 00:09:42,320 Speaker 2: Okay? Or maybe I thought I should have thought about 209 00:09:42,360 --> 00:09:48,840 Speaker 2: this a bit more. I think we haven't seen these questions. Boy, 210 00:09:48,840 --> 00:09:50,480 Speaker 2: that's why I can't think about it. Well, you were 211 00:09:51,200 --> 00:09:53,760 Speaker 2: like I, very very quickly. I knew you were like 212 00:09:53,760 --> 00:09:57,000 Speaker 2: a very genuine, caring, good hearted person. 213 00:09:57,400 --> 00:09:59,080 Speaker 1: I think care is very important for you. 214 00:09:59,280 --> 00:10:03,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, definitely. I always knew very very quickly with you 215 00:10:03,800 --> 00:10:08,719 Speaker 2: that whatever our lives would be together, I knew that 216 00:10:08,760 --> 00:10:11,840 Speaker 2: you're a very caring person. And I love having that 217 00:10:12,200 --> 00:10:14,800 Speaker 2: around you know, always like have our best interests at 218 00:10:14,800 --> 00:10:18,199 Speaker 2: heart and having my my heart at the forefront. 219 00:10:18,760 --> 00:10:19,480 Speaker 1: Yeah that's true. 220 00:10:19,559 --> 00:10:23,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, so that's one I suppose. I love your drive 221 00:10:24,160 --> 00:10:25,080 Speaker 2: and your hard work. 222 00:10:25,320 --> 00:10:27,880 Speaker 1: Oh, very driven guys, yeah, very passionate. 223 00:10:28,000 --> 00:10:29,920 Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, and your passion. 224 00:10:30,040 --> 00:10:34,320 Speaker 1: It's your passion that's my Yeah, And I have a 225 00:10:34,360 --> 00:10:37,920 Speaker 1: thing where I love discovering the other person's passion, whether 226 00:10:37,960 --> 00:10:40,120 Speaker 1: it's a friend or the person that I'm seeing, which 227 00:10:40,160 --> 00:10:43,559 Speaker 1: is you. But like, I love that you've been composing 228 00:10:43,600 --> 00:10:45,760 Speaker 1: a lot more lately because I know that's deep down 229 00:10:45,840 --> 00:10:49,080 Speaker 1: your passion, even though you do heaps of podcast editing. Yeah, 230 00:10:49,120 --> 00:10:51,920 Speaker 1: I love other people celebrating other people's passion too, hence 231 00:10:51,960 --> 00:10:52,679 Speaker 1: this podcast. 232 00:10:52,760 --> 00:10:53,480 Speaker 2: Yeah. 233 00:10:53,640 --> 00:10:55,400 Speaker 1: Three things that attracted me to you. I remember I 234 00:10:55,400 --> 00:10:58,920 Speaker 1: felt ultimately, like instantly safe when I sat down next 235 00:10:58,920 --> 00:11:01,079 Speaker 1: to you at Neptune was the first time we met, 236 00:11:01,440 --> 00:11:03,520 Speaker 1: and you ordered tiarm A zoo and I can't have. 237 00:11:03,440 --> 00:11:06,360 Speaker 2: Gluten about that. 238 00:11:06,480 --> 00:11:08,040 Speaker 1: I didn't want to upset him, so I had some 239 00:11:08,160 --> 00:11:10,200 Speaker 1: tiar zoo and I was like, oh, to get a 240 00:11:10,200 --> 00:11:13,400 Speaker 1: shits after No. I had a PT session the next morning, though, 241 00:11:13,440 --> 00:11:15,840 Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, this doesn't feel phenomenal. 242 00:11:17,240 --> 00:11:19,160 Speaker 2: Four years later, I still feel guilty about that. 243 00:11:19,760 --> 00:11:25,000 Speaker 1: No, nearly four years, aren't we The Other thing? Well, 244 00:11:25,080 --> 00:11:28,280 Speaker 1: I think your heart is very is your like superpower 245 00:11:28,880 --> 00:11:33,920 Speaker 1: because you feel so deeply And I love that you're 246 00:11:33,960 --> 00:11:37,320 Speaker 1: an artist. Like I didn't realize until I dated you 247 00:11:37,440 --> 00:11:40,720 Speaker 1: that being with the creative is a non negotiable for me. 248 00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:44,679 Speaker 1: I had no idea. I'd always ad like engineers and 249 00:11:45,280 --> 00:11:49,400 Speaker 1: pts and very like masculine, and. 250 00:11:49,800 --> 00:11:51,400 Speaker 2: I could not see you dating a PTE. 251 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:53,439 Speaker 1: I asked the person I was with you for you, 252 00:11:54,640 --> 00:11:57,360 Speaker 1: but it was so toxic, like I was dating these 253 00:11:57,440 --> 00:11:59,760 Speaker 1: like and it's not that those skill sets are toxic 254 00:11:59,880 --> 00:12:00,439 Speaker 1: or those. 255 00:12:00,280 --> 00:12:03,080 Speaker 2: Jobs, just like you and your personality. 256 00:12:03,160 --> 00:12:05,120 Speaker 1: Well, because I'm a softy too, and I just think 257 00:12:05,240 --> 00:12:09,040 Speaker 1: like an artist has very like a creative has a 258 00:12:09,160 --> 00:12:14,520 Speaker 1: very deep sense of connection, and that is something that 259 00:12:15,240 --> 00:12:18,120 Speaker 1: I hadn't really experienced. I'd experienced in my first love, 260 00:12:18,160 --> 00:12:19,880 Speaker 1: I told you, and then I've never experienced it again 261 00:12:19,920 --> 00:12:22,400 Speaker 1: for ten years. And so like it was like coming 262 00:12:22,480 --> 00:12:25,960 Speaker 1: home being with you again, not again, but like being 263 00:12:25,960 --> 00:12:29,960 Speaker 1: with a creative again. Do you like that? Was that nice? 264 00:12:29,880 --> 00:12:30,640 Speaker 2: Yeah? Very nice? 265 00:12:30,760 --> 00:12:36,120 Speaker 1: So yeah, creative heart deep part and that's nice. The 266 00:12:36,120 --> 00:12:39,199 Speaker 1: sense of safety, Yeah, that's beautiful. Yeah nice. I'm just 267 00:12:39,280 --> 00:12:42,959 Speaker 1: getting the other question. Question your owns up quick. I'm sorry, 268 00:12:42,960 --> 00:12:47,080 Speaker 1: sorry I took screen grows at all. How are you 269 00:12:47,160 --> 00:12:51,199 Speaker 1: both celebrating your birthdays this year? Have I asked that already? 270 00:12:51,240 --> 00:12:55,880 Speaker 2: Oh? Sorry for me, and we'll be here for you 271 00:12:55,920 --> 00:12:57,559 Speaker 2: and then we'll have a joint when we're back. 272 00:12:57,520 --> 00:12:59,559 Speaker 1: And I'm getting it back up, and I accidently accidentally 273 00:12:59,559 --> 00:13:02,760 Speaker 1: screen the same Oh gocha. Okay, So what was the 274 00:13:02,800 --> 00:13:03,240 Speaker 1: last question? 275 00:13:03,320 --> 00:13:06,520 Speaker 2: I asked you three things about each other? And before 276 00:13:06,559 --> 00:13:07,560 Speaker 2: that was the birthday question? 277 00:13:07,600 --> 00:13:09,000 Speaker 1: Got it? Got it? Now I'm back on track. Now 278 00:13:09,000 --> 00:13:18,560 Speaker 1: I'm back on three of your daily relationship non negotiables. 279 00:13:19,000 --> 00:13:21,000 Speaker 2: Don't I don't know if they're like non negotiables, but 280 00:13:21,200 --> 00:13:23,840 Speaker 2: I love when you come back from pilates or yoga 281 00:13:23,880 --> 00:13:26,120 Speaker 2: or whatever, jumping you on the bed. We have a 282 00:13:26,120 --> 00:13:27,600 Speaker 2: little hug in bed in the morning. 283 00:13:27,760 --> 00:13:29,200 Speaker 1: And of late, what else have I been. 284 00:13:29,200 --> 00:13:31,559 Speaker 2: I've been ringing coffee sometimes too, that's not We have 285 00:13:31,600 --> 00:13:33,320 Speaker 2: a chitty chat. Yeah, I have a little chea chats. 286 00:13:33,360 --> 00:13:35,240 Speaker 2: I love the morning check in. 287 00:13:35,440 --> 00:13:37,040 Speaker 1: And I've already exercised how I'm happy? 288 00:13:37,120 --> 00:13:39,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I reckon that's kind of become like a 289 00:13:39,920 --> 00:13:40,760 Speaker 2: non negotiable. 290 00:13:41,440 --> 00:13:42,960 Speaker 1: And I think as well, we don't take it for 291 00:13:43,040 --> 00:13:46,199 Speaker 1: granted because we don't get that when I'm in LA totally. 292 00:13:46,360 --> 00:13:48,440 Speaker 1: So it is really nice to have that little like 293 00:13:48,640 --> 00:13:50,079 Speaker 1: pocket of half an hour. 294 00:13:50,280 --> 00:13:53,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, and then I think I think we're probably both 295 00:13:53,280 --> 00:13:55,160 Speaker 2: the same with the relationship stuff. We have a little 296 00:13:55,160 --> 00:13:58,200 Speaker 2: afternoon check into. So we might sit outside or have 297 00:13:58,240 --> 00:14:01,440 Speaker 2: a coffee or have a juice or yeah, or. 298 00:14:01,440 --> 00:14:05,640 Speaker 1: A little hanky panky. So how are you getting yet? 299 00:14:05,800 --> 00:14:06,360 Speaker 2: Three pm? 300 00:14:07,440 --> 00:14:08,839 Speaker 1: Our sweet spot time wise? 301 00:14:09,000 --> 00:14:16,959 Speaker 2: Yeah, keep going with Is that a non negotiable Yes, okay. 302 00:14:16,760 --> 00:14:18,559 Speaker 1: You know it is. I love that you let me 303 00:14:18,800 --> 00:14:19,560 Speaker 1: straight into that. 304 00:14:21,560 --> 00:14:23,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, you do enjoying that. 305 00:14:25,880 --> 00:14:29,040 Speaker 1: What was the next? The third one? 306 00:14:30,960 --> 00:14:32,200 Speaker 2: I think, just always checking. 307 00:14:32,000 --> 00:14:35,440 Speaker 1: In with each other, Like, yeah, I think so, I 308 00:14:35,480 --> 00:14:38,720 Speaker 1: think I'm trying to think what I like. We have 309 00:14:38,880 --> 00:14:41,320 Speaker 1: these things that we connect on on many levels. So 310 00:14:41,400 --> 00:14:45,200 Speaker 1: like we love listening to scores together, and so although 311 00:14:45,240 --> 00:14:48,440 Speaker 1: it's non non negotiable, it's something that like connects us. 312 00:14:48,440 --> 00:14:52,280 Speaker 1: So we'll always do something every day that kind of 313 00:14:52,320 --> 00:14:55,000 Speaker 1: like connects us, whether it's like, oh, make I love 314 00:14:55,040 --> 00:14:57,400 Speaker 1: making screen juices at the moment and we'll sit. 315 00:14:57,240 --> 00:14:59,800 Speaker 2: Our share sharing a passion together, Yeah. 316 00:14:59,720 --> 00:15:04,800 Speaker 1: Share experiences and like the like I write and work 317 00:15:04,920 --> 00:15:08,800 Speaker 1: to movie scores and movie scores is like your dream occupation. 318 00:15:09,000 --> 00:15:11,840 Speaker 1: So we'll often listen to scores together, which I love. 319 00:15:12,840 --> 00:15:16,320 Speaker 1: And then yeah, that morning checking is really really really nice. 320 00:15:16,320 --> 00:15:18,280 Speaker 1: You can get to it today Sunday. All the classes 321 00:15:18,360 --> 00:15:20,600 Speaker 1: run a little bit later on a Sunday, so you're 322 00:15:20,600 --> 00:15:23,600 Speaker 1: already up and at it, but we did. 323 00:15:23,480 --> 00:15:23,880 Speaker 2: Get to it. 324 00:15:24,280 --> 00:15:26,720 Speaker 1: I did get to go to a market marketo and 325 00:15:26,840 --> 00:15:29,840 Speaker 1: get a coffee together. Little coffee dates are really nice. 326 00:15:30,480 --> 00:15:33,800 Speaker 1: Nature being out in nature is really important to us. 327 00:15:34,480 --> 00:15:38,680 Speaker 2: And I just think the simplest things for me are everything. 328 00:15:38,880 --> 00:15:42,120 Speaker 1: But also not doing things together I think is important 329 00:15:42,200 --> 00:15:45,600 Speaker 1: for us, Like like you went out last night and 330 00:15:45,680 --> 00:15:48,240 Speaker 1: I didn't want to go and it wasn't a thing, 331 00:15:48,480 --> 00:15:50,360 Speaker 1: Like I was like, oh, enjoy, I want to read 332 00:15:50,360 --> 00:15:53,960 Speaker 1: my book, and so you got to go out and socialize. 333 00:15:54,000 --> 00:15:57,440 Speaker 1: And I think it's important that we both Like I 334 00:15:57,520 --> 00:15:59,960 Speaker 1: am such a book worm and a reader, like I want, 335 00:16:00,800 --> 00:16:02,200 Speaker 1: you know, half an hour to or an hour each 336 00:16:02,320 --> 00:16:05,880 Speaker 1: day ideally to read. Yeah, And you want to be 337 00:16:05,920 --> 00:16:08,640 Speaker 1: able to socialize more than I like to socialize. So 338 00:16:09,160 --> 00:16:12,400 Speaker 1: I think it's also like having your independent things that 339 00:16:13,160 --> 00:16:14,760 Speaker 1: fill your cup, Like you like to go to yoga 340 00:16:14,840 --> 00:16:16,760 Speaker 1: in the evenings. I like to go in the mornings, 341 00:16:16,800 --> 00:16:21,720 Speaker 1: like I don't there's anything wrong with having independent things, but. 342 00:16:21,600 --> 00:16:24,080 Speaker 2: They're also not like codependent people. 343 00:16:25,040 --> 00:16:28,040 Speaker 1: But I think you've had that in your past relationships, 344 00:16:28,280 --> 00:16:31,760 Speaker 1: like codependency. Yeah, I think you have much more than 345 00:16:31,800 --> 00:16:37,200 Speaker 1: me dated knobs or No. I just think, yeah, I 346 00:16:37,240 --> 00:16:41,120 Speaker 1: think it's like like I think I've always been, like 347 00:16:41,160 --> 00:16:43,200 Speaker 1: I've been in long distance relationships before. 348 00:16:43,200 --> 00:16:46,720 Speaker 2: Its independent anyway, slowly. 349 00:16:46,840 --> 00:16:50,160 Speaker 1: Your top three favorite things to do together? Oh, I 350 00:16:50,200 --> 00:16:55,240 Speaker 1: could do this and this in my eyes closed. I 351 00:16:55,280 --> 00:16:58,200 Speaker 1: don't know, sex, swim in the oceans. 352 00:16:58,320 --> 00:16:59,760 Speaker 2: You really come back to sex. 353 00:16:59,600 --> 00:17:00,960 Speaker 1: Astm in the ocean. 354 00:17:01,000 --> 00:17:01,880 Speaker 2: We'll talk about fucking. 355 00:17:02,640 --> 00:17:04,480 Speaker 1: Ah, that's so crass. 356 00:17:04,680 --> 00:17:06,640 Speaker 2: Do you find it funny that couples have like their 357 00:17:06,680 --> 00:17:10,120 Speaker 2: own time, Like every couple has like their sex time 358 00:17:10,119 --> 00:17:13,240 Speaker 2: that they do. Really, Yeah, I reckon most people have like, oh, 359 00:17:13,320 --> 00:17:15,520 Speaker 2: you know where they both kind of agree that that's 360 00:17:15,560 --> 00:17:17,560 Speaker 2: their nice joint time. 361 00:17:17,920 --> 00:17:19,320 Speaker 1: What do you mean? Is that a thing? If you 362 00:17:19,359 --> 00:17:20,680 Speaker 1: look that up on Reddit or something. 363 00:17:21,080 --> 00:17:23,200 Speaker 2: No, I look so much shit up and read it though. 364 00:17:23,359 --> 00:17:24,720 Speaker 1: Oh he loves that anyway. 365 00:17:24,960 --> 00:17:28,160 Speaker 2: No, Yeah, beach walks with you. 366 00:17:28,960 --> 00:17:31,160 Speaker 1: I'm really excited. We're going to a movie date tomorrow. 367 00:17:31,240 --> 00:17:32,200 Speaker 2: You love movie dates. 368 00:17:32,280 --> 00:17:34,920 Speaker 1: I love movie dates. It's so important for me. And 369 00:17:35,480 --> 00:17:39,120 Speaker 1: this is going to sound like such a weird thing 370 00:17:39,160 --> 00:17:41,359 Speaker 1: to say, but like, I'm so excited to go to 371 00:17:41,400 --> 00:17:45,120 Speaker 1: the movies and not freak out for the first ten 372 00:17:45,160 --> 00:17:47,240 Speaker 1: minutes and someone's going to come in with a gun. Yeah, 373 00:17:47,280 --> 00:17:51,280 Speaker 1: because in LA there's shootings in movie cinemas, and so 374 00:17:51,480 --> 00:17:55,040 Speaker 1: where I sit, I will sit and it'll take me 375 00:17:55,160 --> 00:17:58,359 Speaker 1: ten minutes to talk myself through it, Yeah, through it, 376 00:17:58,440 --> 00:18:01,040 Speaker 1: and like, and there's saying in LA like you never 377 00:18:01,080 --> 00:18:03,879 Speaker 1: go to an opening weekend movie because that's when the 378 00:18:03,960 --> 00:18:06,800 Speaker 1: highest chances of shootings are going to be. So I'm 379 00:18:06,840 --> 00:18:09,159 Speaker 1: really excited to go to a movie and just freaking 380 00:18:09,240 --> 00:18:11,800 Speaker 1: sit with you and not be looking at the exit 381 00:18:12,000 --> 00:18:14,040 Speaker 1: sign the whole time, because I love going to the 382 00:18:14,040 --> 00:18:15,920 Speaker 1: movies so much, and I still did it a lot 383 00:18:16,000 --> 00:18:24,880 Speaker 1: in LA. But you can't. You can't escape that moment 384 00:18:25,080 --> 00:18:32,399 Speaker 1: and that like natural instinct to be cautious. 385 00:18:30,880 --> 00:18:33,200 Speaker 2: Very nice, And then you come to Byron and no 386 00:18:33,240 --> 00:18:34,359 Speaker 2: one even looks their doors. 387 00:18:34,720 --> 00:18:36,600 Speaker 1: No, that's what I mean. That's why I'm so excited 388 00:18:36,640 --> 00:18:39,280 Speaker 1: to go to the movies. Okay, next question, how's the 389 00:18:39,359 --> 00:18:43,440 Speaker 1: long distance affecting your relationship? Is it just short term? 390 00:18:43,920 --> 00:18:45,240 Speaker 2: Yes, it is short term. 391 00:18:45,359 --> 00:18:47,320 Speaker 1: What's short term? Like that we're doing long distance? 392 00:18:47,400 --> 00:18:48,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, it won't be forever. 393 00:18:48,680 --> 00:18:49,680 Speaker 1: Oh why is that? 394 00:18:50,080 --> 00:18:54,440 Speaker 2: Ah? Maybe working towards something. 395 00:18:54,160 --> 00:18:56,560 Speaker 1: Something Someone might be coming over with me. 396 00:18:57,000 --> 00:19:00,320 Speaker 2: I think that realistically in our lives and relationship chips, 397 00:19:00,800 --> 00:19:05,520 Speaker 2: we will have distance at many points. 398 00:19:05,359 --> 00:19:07,840 Speaker 1: Like especially if I'm on a movie or a TV 399 00:19:08,000 --> 00:19:11,119 Speaker 1: set and you're composing with harm Zimmer or something like. 400 00:19:11,359 --> 00:19:13,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, and even for me, like even in the composing 401 00:19:13,600 --> 00:19:16,080 Speaker 2: job that I did, like you know, that was like 402 00:19:16,119 --> 00:19:19,600 Speaker 2: three months. Yeah, you know, so if you had to 403 00:19:19,680 --> 00:19:22,159 Speaker 2: like travel for three months and I had to be 404 00:19:22,200 --> 00:19:24,000 Speaker 2: in one spot for three months, so yeah, no, like, 405 00:19:24,560 --> 00:19:27,760 Speaker 2: but I think our relationship is strong and yeah, the 406 00:19:27,800 --> 00:19:31,200 Speaker 2: love and respect is strong, and yeah, noise, I think 407 00:19:31,240 --> 00:19:33,960 Speaker 2: long distance isn't a big deal or traveling isn't a 408 00:19:34,000 --> 00:19:34,640 Speaker 2: big deal. 409 00:19:34,800 --> 00:19:38,680 Speaker 1: As long as you've got therapy and like to open communication. 410 00:19:39,359 --> 00:19:41,919 Speaker 1: How the next question, how long are you back in 411 00:19:41,960 --> 00:19:46,760 Speaker 1: Australia for Lola? So just under six months probably, which 412 00:19:46,840 --> 00:19:48,960 Speaker 1: is that's the rules with the green cards, you can't 413 00:19:49,000 --> 00:19:51,679 Speaker 1: be out of America for six months. But in that time, 414 00:19:52,280 --> 00:19:54,000 Speaker 1: we've got a lot of things that we want to do. 415 00:19:54,280 --> 00:19:59,360 Speaker 1: We've started the fertility journey, so we want to freeze embryos, 416 00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:03,280 Speaker 1: which is pet tying but also really empowering, and so 417 00:20:03,359 --> 00:20:06,080 Speaker 1: we're doing that so that we can really run at 418 00:20:06,080 --> 00:20:08,719 Speaker 1: our careers. For the next ten years and hopefully friggin 419 00:20:08,920 --> 00:20:13,800 Speaker 1: make it, yes, make that American dream come true. So yeah, 420 00:20:13,800 --> 00:20:16,480 Speaker 1: there's a lot of adulting we've got going on here. 421 00:20:16,640 --> 00:20:20,680 Speaker 1: We so much adult If you moved house, I bought it. Well, 422 00:20:20,840 --> 00:20:23,680 Speaker 1: we bought a motamore. We bought a motamoa. We bought 423 00:20:23,680 --> 00:20:24,359 Speaker 1: a dice. 424 00:20:24,280 --> 00:20:27,040 Speaker 2: An electric one too, because I have a little bit 425 00:20:27,040 --> 00:20:27,800 Speaker 2: of grass anything. 426 00:20:27,840 --> 00:20:29,840 Speaker 1: I want to get this art up on the wall too. Boss, 427 00:20:29,960 --> 00:20:32,880 Speaker 1: I got some cool art in La and I want 428 00:20:32,880 --> 00:20:35,760 Speaker 1: to get some prints and things printed. Yeah, yeah, we 429 00:20:35,760 --> 00:20:38,040 Speaker 1: should try and do that all. Let me get back 430 00:20:38,040 --> 00:20:42,240 Speaker 1: from Hels. Happy birthday, Lola and Matt. 431 00:20:42,320 --> 00:20:44,520 Speaker 2: Have you moved Yeah, we moved house. 432 00:20:44,600 --> 00:20:46,960 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah we have moved, Yes, just to environ. 433 00:20:47,000 --> 00:20:47,680 Speaker 2: But we moved house. 434 00:20:47,840 --> 00:20:51,400 Speaker 1: People noticed the kitchen was the dead giveaway apparently. 435 00:20:51,920 --> 00:20:54,239 Speaker 2: Yeah. I get so many messages meaning like, oh your 436 00:20:54,320 --> 00:20:56,919 Speaker 2: kitchen benches, and I'm like, you just wait till I 437 00:20:56,880 --> 00:20:59,000 Speaker 2: spilled chumeric or something on those white bench. 438 00:20:59,320 --> 00:21:03,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, so pretty are they? How amazing is it being 439 00:21:03,800 --> 00:21:04,439 Speaker 1: back together? 440 00:21:04,640 --> 00:21:06,240 Speaker 2: It's amazing. I loved it. 441 00:21:06,240 --> 00:21:08,800 Speaker 1: It's very nice. It's a bit awkward always first half 442 00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:11,199 Speaker 1: an hour because I always say to Boss, do I 443 00:21:11,240 --> 00:21:15,960 Speaker 1: still know how to kiss you. Yeah, yeah, whereas your 444 00:21:16,119 --> 00:21:18,399 Speaker 1: like confident. You gave me a shit for not dressing 445 00:21:18,520 --> 00:21:19,959 Speaker 1: up for you, and I was like, I've been traveling 446 00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:21,560 Speaker 1: for literally twenty four hours. 447 00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:24,200 Speaker 2: You're just wearing like a mismatched like outfit. 448 00:21:24,400 --> 00:21:24,800 Speaker 1: Don't care. 449 00:21:24,880 --> 00:21:27,480 Speaker 2: Actually, someone rates for an Instagram being like what no 450 00:21:27,600 --> 00:21:29,680 Speaker 2: welcome kiss? And I'm like, I think it was a 451 00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:33,720 Speaker 2: video of you coming out of the bathroom and I'm like, what, that's. 452 00:21:33,560 --> 00:21:36,320 Speaker 1: How you meant to do that while you're filming. You 453 00:21:36,320 --> 00:21:37,480 Speaker 1: did give me a welcome. 454 00:21:37,280 --> 00:21:40,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, I did. I just didn't put on film more Instagram. 455 00:21:40,359 --> 00:21:41,720 Speaker 1: I think you can film it. 456 00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:44,119 Speaker 2: Yeah, No, Like there's certain things I don't need to 457 00:21:44,119 --> 00:21:46,960 Speaker 2: put on Instagram. Yeah, anyway, very funny. 458 00:21:47,440 --> 00:21:50,160 Speaker 1: Okay, So that's all the install ons you're in. Trying 459 00:21:50,160 --> 00:21:52,840 Speaker 1: to be nice like Rudy. 460 00:21:53,760 --> 00:21:58,479 Speaker 2: I mean they're all pretty, they're all pretty rude, literally, like, 461 00:21:58,920 --> 00:22:01,960 Speaker 2: I've taken a few screens shots. But how long do 462 00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:04,359 Speaker 2: you guys get to spend together before lolos? We were 463 00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:07,119 Speaker 2: to answer that six sx months. Yeah, Matt, do you 464 00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:10,120 Speaker 2: plan on moving to the USA with Lola? Eventually? It's 465 00:22:10,160 --> 00:22:13,399 Speaker 2: a working progress, but the aim is yes, to spend 466 00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:14,960 Speaker 2: some time in the us. 467 00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:18,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, so we'll still probably be like Byron and us, 468 00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:20,800 Speaker 1: but like I'll be spending a bit more in the US, 469 00:22:22,119 --> 00:22:23,280 Speaker 1: especially the next couple of years. 470 00:22:23,320 --> 00:22:26,679 Speaker 2: Yeah, so yes, definitely, and they're just going to be 471 00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:30,480 Speaker 2: our two homes. Yeah, yep. How do you keep the 472 00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:35,160 Speaker 2: spark alive while Lols is away? How do you keep 473 00:22:35,520 --> 00:22:37,400 Speaker 2: the spark alive? Boss? 474 00:22:38,520 --> 00:22:39,479 Speaker 1: Were between you and I? 475 00:22:39,720 --> 00:22:40,880 Speaker 2: Yeah? Oh? 476 00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:43,000 Speaker 1: Like are they asking if we do phone sex and stuff? 477 00:22:43,280 --> 00:22:43,679 Speaker 2: I don't know. 478 00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:46,359 Speaker 1: Just as the spark, my spark never goes for you. No, 479 00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:48,479 Speaker 1: I don't think our spark goes anywhere. We talk at 480 00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:51,760 Speaker 1: nauseum anyway, we talk all the time. Yeah, and we 481 00:22:51,880 --> 00:22:55,760 Speaker 1: have very open communications. I don't think the spark goes anywhere. 482 00:22:55,800 --> 00:22:59,720 Speaker 1: I think it's like really nice to like go back 483 00:22:59,760 --> 00:23:03,520 Speaker 1: into like teammate mode as opposed to like, you know, 484 00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:06,159 Speaker 1: we're still boyfriend girlfriend, but it's nice to just just 485 00:23:06,240 --> 00:23:08,160 Speaker 1: change changes the dimension a little. 486 00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:16,320 Speaker 2: Yeah. Do you have an open relationship? Oh? I get 487 00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:19,080 Speaker 2: this a lot, do you? Ah? Yeah? Everyone asks me. 488 00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:21,840 Speaker 1: Do you think it's because they look into those blue 489 00:23:21,840 --> 00:23:24,119 Speaker 1: eyes and just think, oh wonder if he's on the market. 490 00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:25,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure. 491 00:23:25,680 --> 00:23:27,920 Speaker 1: What do you say with people last night? I said, 492 00:23:27,960 --> 00:23:31,879 Speaker 1: I mean people what people to go for a wi 493 00:23:32,800 --> 00:23:36,760 Speaker 1: Oh wow, I say, am in a monogamous a relationship, 494 00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:40,800 Speaker 1: So let's be really open and honest here before I 495 00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:44,399 Speaker 1: went to La this last trip. So we're done, I 496 00:23:44,440 --> 00:23:47,439 Speaker 1: think four and a half months apart last year and 497 00:23:47,480 --> 00:23:49,800 Speaker 1: this year we were doing longer. We're doing six close 498 00:23:49,840 --> 00:23:52,720 Speaker 1: to six months apart. And you did say, how do 499 00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:54,800 Speaker 1: you feel you did float it with me? Do you remember? 500 00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:59,520 Speaker 1: And I said, while I'm still like finding my feet 501 00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:02,720 Speaker 1: in our life, and like, it's hard, it's a very 502 00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:07,080 Speaker 1: lonely town. It's brutal, it's hard, it's rough, it's you know, 503 00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:10,280 Speaker 1: guns are reel over there. I said, I don't think 504 00:24:10,320 --> 00:24:13,280 Speaker 1: I could handle the thought of you sleeping with someone else. 505 00:24:14,160 --> 00:24:20,000 Speaker 1: And so we both decided that open wasn't right for 506 00:24:20,119 --> 00:24:23,160 Speaker 1: us or for me. More, I feel like you would 507 00:24:23,200 --> 00:24:24,000 Speaker 1: have been great with it. 508 00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:27,439 Speaker 2: Oh. I was just like, if you see someone a 509 00:24:27,480 --> 00:24:32,159 Speaker 2: bit cute, you got a free past that socializes. 510 00:24:32,200 --> 00:24:34,080 Speaker 1: I don't, so it would only work in his favor. 511 00:24:34,280 --> 00:24:42,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, But like imagine if you know, what's his name, jughead, dreamboat, 512 00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:44,000 Speaker 2: what's his name? That's the actor's name? 513 00:24:44,280 --> 00:24:46,320 Speaker 1: No, boss? What if I meet him? So embarrassing. 514 00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:48,600 Speaker 2: Well, what if he wants like a quick little route, like, 515 00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:50,760 Speaker 2: oh my god, you want to like do it guilt 516 00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:52,320 Speaker 2: free and know that I'm fine with it. 517 00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:55,080 Speaker 1: But I'm not a quick cookup kind of gown. 518 00:24:55,160 --> 00:24:57,880 Speaker 2: I know, and I'm not either. I'm definitely not used 519 00:24:57,920 --> 00:24:58,760 Speaker 2: to be used to be. 520 00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:00,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, when we met how many else on the go boss? 521 00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:03,080 Speaker 2: They know, three four whatever it. 522 00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:04,520 Speaker 1: Was, Yeah, that's definitely a four. 523 00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:07,840 Speaker 2: They say if when a guy says a number, harve it, 524 00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:11,159 Speaker 2: when a girl says a number, double it. Yeah. No, 525 00:25:11,320 --> 00:25:15,840 Speaker 2: but I'm definitely not like that. But no, I'm Yeah, 526 00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:19,560 Speaker 2: have you been in a monogamous relationship? We talked about it. 527 00:25:19,560 --> 00:25:20,320 Speaker 2: We had to float it. 528 00:25:21,080 --> 00:25:23,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, but yeah, it's. 529 00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:24,840 Speaker 2: Not because I wanted it. I was just making sure 530 00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:26,320 Speaker 2: that we're on the same page about everything. 531 00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:28,520 Speaker 1: But we also did say, like if we had to 532 00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:30,879 Speaker 1: do what we did this year again next year, which 533 00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:34,240 Speaker 1: was potentially going to happen until you found out about 534 00:25:34,240 --> 00:25:37,240 Speaker 1: your visa stuff, we did talk about it being a 535 00:25:37,240 --> 00:25:39,959 Speaker 1: potential that we could explore. So we're not we're not 536 00:25:40,040 --> 00:25:42,200 Speaker 1: closed to the idea of it. I just knew while 537 00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:44,520 Speaker 1: I was like really cutting my teeth in LA that 538 00:25:44,560 --> 00:25:48,440 Speaker 1: I needed your support, and the thought of knowing that 539 00:25:48,520 --> 00:25:50,639 Speaker 1: you would be sleeping with someone else wasn't great for 540 00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:51,679 Speaker 1: me or for my man. 541 00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:53,600 Speaker 2: I would would ever do that to you. I think 542 00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:56,639 Speaker 2: they call it like ethical non monogamy now or something. 543 00:25:57,359 --> 00:26:00,000 Speaker 2: Really yeah, yeah, there's all these new terms that people 544 00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:00,600 Speaker 2: tell me. 545 00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:04,320 Speaker 1: So is what is ethical non monogamy? Polyamoro? 546 00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:07,040 Speaker 2: No. I think polyamory is like when you have like 547 00:26:07,119 --> 00:26:12,919 Speaker 2: multiple partners, but you're like in a relationship, like a 548 00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:16,560 Speaker 2: monogamous relationship with someone. But I think you have a 549 00:26:16,600 --> 00:26:18,840 Speaker 2: little sally on the side every now and again, and 550 00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:22,200 Speaker 2: that's called what I think it's ethical non monogamy. Someone's 551 00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:23,919 Speaker 2: going to pull me up if I've said this wrong. 552 00:26:24,320 --> 00:26:26,720 Speaker 2: That's so funn It's just random terms people have like 553 00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:27,199 Speaker 2: said to me. 554 00:26:27,600 --> 00:26:30,720 Speaker 1: That's that's cool, col I don't think there's anyone rule 555 00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:33,720 Speaker 1: that fits everybody, you know what I mean? And I don't. 556 00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:37,040 Speaker 1: And I think our lives can go through ebbs and flows. 557 00:26:39,680 --> 00:26:41,639 Speaker 2: How many times did you and Lola have sex in 558 00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:46,240 Speaker 2: the first twenty four hours she was home? How many 559 00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:48,680 Speaker 2: times we have sex in the first twenty didn't we 560 00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:49,400 Speaker 2: in the first one? Once? 561 00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:52,639 Speaker 1: So I got my period the next day, remember I 562 00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:55,080 Speaker 1: gave you a good session though you did? He did? 563 00:26:55,160 --> 00:26:55,480 Speaker 1: He did? 564 00:26:55,560 --> 00:26:57,760 Speaker 2: Fave four play did you plan this on? 565 00:26:58,040 --> 00:26:59,080 Speaker 1: Yes? I did. 566 00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:01,600 Speaker 2: Answer eating pussy? 567 00:27:02,240 --> 00:27:05,199 Speaker 1: Oh it is too what's your word for it? You 568 00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:12,280 Speaker 1: have the funniest word pussy. I have many words for Swana. Yeah, velvet, purse, coin, purse. 569 00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:16,879 Speaker 1: That It really gets you going, doesn't it. 570 00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:17,760 Speaker 2: It's so funny. 571 00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:20,919 Speaker 1: Isn't it your favorite taste in the world or something? 572 00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:26,120 Speaker 2: Yeah? 573 00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:28,160 Speaker 1: You know what, if we ever gave that open thing 574 00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:29,600 Speaker 1: a shot, people are going to be listening to this 575 00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:31,680 Speaker 1: and be like, yeah, sign me up, sign me up. 576 00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:33,879 Speaker 1: You're going to have a little and. 577 00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:38,200 Speaker 2: You love a person it's. 578 00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:40,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, Well I think it must be different for girls. 579 00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:43,560 Speaker 2: Probably. Okay, that's probably enough of that. Is that all 580 00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:47,199 Speaker 2: the our family's probably going to listen to this. No, 581 00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:51,520 Speaker 2: and I've just thought about eating pussy fucking Your mom's 582 00:27:51,560 --> 00:27:55,800 Speaker 2: going to listen to this. No, no's not going to listen. 583 00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:57,879 Speaker 1: Well, we're going to find out when we see them 584 00:27:57,880 --> 00:27:59,240 Speaker 1: in Melbourne next week. 585 00:27:59,440 --> 00:27:59,959 Speaker 2: So awkward. 586 00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:03,520 Speaker 1: No, Boston, they're not gonna they're not going to. Also, 587 00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:06,600 Speaker 1: you've talked about eating pussy in general. You haven't just 588 00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:11,480 Speaker 1: said it's mine. Yeah, you like it in jail before 589 00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:14,040 Speaker 1: you met me. You liked that as your full play correct? 590 00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:15,600 Speaker 2: Oh fucking munch that all day? 591 00:28:15,760 --> 00:28:20,320 Speaker 1: Oh wow, wow, wait wow, we're going to need to 592 00:28:20,320 --> 00:28:22,640 Speaker 1: put an explicit warning on this pod. You know that, right? 593 00:28:23,600 --> 00:28:27,440 Speaker 1: Is that all the questions? Boy? Happy birthday, Happy birthday? 594 00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:28,440 Speaker 1: We turned thirty seven? 595 00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:31,200 Speaker 2: Quick quickly. Favorite memory of the last half. 596 00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:36,960 Speaker 1: Months of ours? Yep, I do love our When we 597 00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:40,160 Speaker 1: celebrate New Year's you'll always got broken head together. I 598 00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:41,320 Speaker 1: love that broken head. 599 00:28:41,560 --> 00:28:42,320 Speaker 2: That's my favorite? 600 00:28:42,440 --> 00:28:44,560 Speaker 1: Was it? I always tell mat that'd be a nice 601 00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:45,600 Speaker 1: spot to propose to me. 602 00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:47,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, don't I Yeah. Maybe in the future. 603 00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:50,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, he always says that may oh maybe in the future. 604 00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:53,320 Speaker 2: Maybe we might not be here, maybe we might be overseas. 605 00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:54,720 Speaker 2: I might do what overseas? 606 00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:58,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I'm down. Yeah, I'm open. I'm down. 607 00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:01,560 Speaker 2: Yeah. Maybe roll over one morning and be like, what 608 00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:02,720 Speaker 2: do you reckon? You want to do it? 609 00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:05,640 Speaker 1: That's not how you're going to do it. No, he's virgo. 610 00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:09,360 Speaker 1: He's very thought out, and I've got a birthday present 611 00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:11,280 Speaker 1: plan for you. So we're going to actually do birthday 612 00:29:11,280 --> 00:29:14,360 Speaker 1: present swaps on my birthday because we're going to be 613 00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:16,120 Speaker 1: in Melbourne for yours and I just don't want to 614 00:29:16,200 --> 00:29:19,440 Speaker 1: risk with all the luggage stuff that's going on in Melbourne. 615 00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:22,120 Speaker 2: And fingers cross your birthday present arrives on Tuesday. 616 00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:22,720 Speaker 1: I know it is. 617 00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:25,080 Speaker 2: I put a request in. It's my favorite perfume film. 618 00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:26,840 Speaker 2: I need some I need like an hour or two 619 00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:30,440 Speaker 2: to go organize things. That's okay, Okay, take as long 620 00:29:30,480 --> 00:29:33,680 Speaker 2: as you are today. No, no Monday or Tuesday? 621 00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:34,600 Speaker 1: Oh cool? 622 00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:38,440 Speaker 2: Nice today Sunday. Yeah, all right. 623 00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:40,440 Speaker 1: We're just planning our week out for you on the pod. 624 00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:43,080 Speaker 1: So as of next week we'll go back to a 625 00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:46,360 Speaker 1: Monday fearlessly failing app We have a beautiful photographer, David 626 00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:49,200 Speaker 1: Higgs on the pod. Took me about a year to 627 00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:51,560 Speaker 1: get him on the Potter Rooney. Do you know he 628 00:29:51,680 --> 00:29:52,400 Speaker 1: was a hard one to. 629 00:29:52,800 --> 00:29:54,760 Speaker 2: Also one that we knew separately before we met. 630 00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:58,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, your mates with him, I'm many yonks Ago as well. 631 00:29:58,880 --> 00:30:01,920 Speaker 1: Good Australian pographer that lives in America and has built 632 00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:03,240 Speaker 1: a ranch in Montana. 633 00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:04,360 Speaker 2: And I've shot with him before. 634 00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:05,440 Speaker 1: Has he shot you? 635 00:30:05,560 --> 00:30:05,760 Speaker 2: Yeah? 636 00:30:06,160 --> 00:30:08,520 Speaker 1: That cool added ass photo he shot that. 637 00:30:08,760 --> 00:30:08,960 Speaker 2: Yeah. 638 00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:11,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, he's very relaxed. I imagine he'd be a really 639 00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:13,880 Speaker 1: great photographer. To shoot with, Like he wouldn't be nervous. 640 00:30:13,920 --> 00:30:16,080 Speaker 2: He's so chill, and he like did me a favor. 641 00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:17,400 Speaker 2: It was like the end of the day and he's 642 00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:19,320 Speaker 2: like the studio set up, like quick, come in like 643 00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:23,000 Speaker 2: for free. No I paid him, but mates rates, yeah, 644 00:30:23,040 --> 00:30:25,160 Speaker 2: mate's rates. But it was like the end of a 645 00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:27,040 Speaker 2: shoot that he'd done and he's like, just come in 646 00:30:27,040 --> 00:30:29,360 Speaker 2: for an hour, just quickly get it done. Oh what 647 00:30:29,480 --> 00:30:31,880 Speaker 2: a chem Yeah yeah. 648 00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:34,680 Speaker 1: And didn't he work in the same like office as 649 00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:35,800 Speaker 1: your ex girlfriend or something? 650 00:30:35,880 --> 00:30:39,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, they should. I just dropped that in a little. 651 00:30:39,040 --> 00:30:42,480 Speaker 1: Bit of intel from Mat, a little bit of his. 652 00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:46,440 Speaker 2: Story, right, I love you, Happy birthday, birth. 653 00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:47,480 Speaker 1: I still don't know what I'm going to do on 654 00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:48,000 Speaker 1: my birthday. 655 00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:50,080 Speaker 2: What am I going to do? 656 00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:53,760 Speaker 1: We'll figure it out, Doma, Yeah, I don't know. I 657 00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:56,480 Speaker 1: don't know, hummingbird cake maybe. Okay, we'll talk about that, 658 00:30:56,640 --> 00:31:03,320 Speaker 1: all right. Love you. That's a wrap on another episode 659 00:31:03,360 --> 00:31:07,920 Speaker 1: of Fearlessly Failing. As always, thank you to our guests, 660 00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:13,760 Speaker 1: and let's continue the conversation on Instagram. I'm at Yamo Lollerberry. 661 00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:18,520 Speaker 1: This potty my word for podcast is available on all 662 00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:22,520 Speaker 1: streaming platforms. I'd love it if You could subscribe, rate 663 00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:25,400 Speaker 1: and comment, and of course spread the love.