1 00:00:00,480 --> 00:00:04,320 Speaker 1: This is the Will and Woody podcast. 2 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:08,280 Speaker 2: Sad We've got Sam Fisher with us live in the studio. 3 00:00:08,640 --> 00:00:11,040 Speaker 2: Damn welcome. 4 00:00:11,119 --> 00:00:13,160 Speaker 3: Finally I love that applause. 5 00:00:13,400 --> 00:00:15,880 Speaker 2: Okay, well, I think we about about three three chats 6 00:00:15,880 --> 00:00:17,080 Speaker 2: to you that all been over zoom. 7 00:00:17,239 --> 00:00:19,560 Speaker 3: I know, no applause. Then all I've been doing is 8 00:00:19,560 --> 00:00:21,880 Speaker 3: speaking to I mean, you guys are on zoom, but 9 00:00:21,920 --> 00:00:25,079 Speaker 3: then performing for my furniture and that doesn't clapform me. 10 00:00:25,239 --> 00:00:25,319 Speaker 4: No. 11 00:00:26,239 --> 00:00:29,560 Speaker 1: We actually we made you perform, didn't we. We We 12 00:00:29,640 --> 00:00:32,479 Speaker 1: had this segment called Cassio carry out expectively. 13 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:33,760 Speaker 3: That's right. 14 00:00:34,120 --> 00:00:36,880 Speaker 1: Bactically, we give people like two minutes to write a song, 15 00:00:36,920 --> 00:00:37,720 Speaker 1: they put it together. 16 00:00:38,120 --> 00:00:40,560 Speaker 5: Is it true? We've got to grab actually of you 17 00:00:40,680 --> 00:00:41,040 Speaker 5: doing a. 18 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:46,360 Speaker 3: I used to watch the food every Sunday, someone explaining 19 00:00:46,440 --> 00:00:51,919 Speaker 3: American sports. Well, I really sang my heart. 20 00:00:53,280 --> 00:00:53,440 Speaker 2: Well. 21 00:00:53,560 --> 00:00:56,520 Speaker 1: Is it true though, that you recorded it once and 22 00:00:56,560 --> 00:00:58,959 Speaker 1: then had to re record the entire thing? 23 00:00:59,040 --> 00:00:59,680 Speaker 5: Is that true? 24 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:02,960 Speaker 3: That is the truth. But I do anything for you, guys. 25 00:01:03,200 --> 00:01:08,400 Speaker 2: Reasonable Right now, the headphone jack's not working over there. 26 00:01:08,720 --> 00:01:10,600 Speaker 2: Are you the most reasonable person in the music industry? 27 00:01:10,680 --> 00:01:11,720 Speaker 3: I'm going to say yes. 28 00:01:12,040 --> 00:01:13,720 Speaker 2: If I walked over there and slapped you in the face. 29 00:01:13,720 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 2: What would you do? 30 00:01:15,000 --> 00:01:18,680 Speaker 3: I would enjoy it, enjoy every every single second. 31 00:01:19,160 --> 00:01:21,039 Speaker 2: That sounds like an invitation over there, We. 32 00:01:21,360 --> 00:01:26,120 Speaker 3: Come on, run of the mail. Come on, I'm not 33 00:01:24,480 --> 00:01:30,640 Speaker 3: going to you. 34 00:01:31,600 --> 00:01:39,039 Speaker 2: I didn't hit my face really hurts. Will just hit me? 35 00:01:40,480 --> 00:01:52,440 Speaker 6: Promise, brand new tune, all my loving We're going to 36 00:01:52,480 --> 00:01:53,080 Speaker 6: play the. 37 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:56,480 Speaker 2: Someone Fall very very shortly. But I know it comes 38 00:01:56,520 --> 00:01:58,840 Speaker 2: from a know it comes from a place, a pretty 39 00:01:58,920 --> 00:02:01,920 Speaker 2: dark place really. 40 00:01:59,640 --> 00:02:03,040 Speaker 3: When yeah, I mean someone I loved very much was 41 00:02:03,160 --> 00:02:05,680 Speaker 3: really upset with me, and I was. 42 00:02:05,960 --> 00:02:06,040 Speaker 7: So. 43 00:02:06,120 --> 00:02:07,800 Speaker 3: I wrote the song with Steve mac and he's like 44 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:10,000 Speaker 3: pop god, and so I just wanted to write like 45 00:02:10,040 --> 00:02:14,200 Speaker 3: a surface level, up tempo, happy banger. And right before 46 00:02:14,240 --> 00:02:18,919 Speaker 3: the session, I was told that I needed to take 47 00:02:18,919 --> 00:02:20,280 Speaker 3: a long, hard look in the mirror and have a 48 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 3: really honest conversation with myself. And because because the last 49 00:02:24,560 --> 00:02:27,079 Speaker 3: couple of years, like everything has been amazing. I've been 50 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:29,840 Speaker 3: really grateful for all the success, but it's all happened 51 00:02:30,560 --> 00:02:33,040 Speaker 3: in a way well, like like we were saying before, 52 00:02:33,080 --> 00:02:35,000 Speaker 3: like I've been performing in my furniture for three years, 53 00:02:35,040 --> 00:02:38,160 Speaker 3: I've been able to be here away from here, you know, 54 00:02:38,400 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 3: Like we've talked so much since the first time we're meeting, 55 00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:45,840 Speaker 3: like it just and I feel ungrateful for saying it sucked, 56 00:02:45,880 --> 00:02:48,240 Speaker 3: but like, yeah, a lot of it for shit. And 57 00:02:49,120 --> 00:02:51,200 Speaker 3: I went through a record deal before the one I'm 58 00:02:51,240 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 3: in now and it was quite an abusive, emotionally manipulative situation, 59 00:02:56,040 --> 00:02:59,120 Speaker 3: and so like I had a complete, like identity breakdown. 60 00:02:59,160 --> 00:03:00,919 Speaker 3: I wrote this City in that deal and they thought 61 00:03:00,919 --> 00:03:03,240 Speaker 3: it was crap, and I was like, well, I think 62 00:03:03,240 --> 00:03:05,640 Speaker 3: it's the best song I've ever written, so crap, and 63 00:03:05,680 --> 00:03:09,720 Speaker 3: like it just my mental health took a beating, and 64 00:03:10,120 --> 00:03:12,800 Speaker 3: I've really had to like build and build and build, 65 00:03:12,840 --> 00:03:15,920 Speaker 3: and then finally the universe throws me a bone. This 66 00:03:16,040 --> 00:03:20,120 Speaker 3: city starts going. And the problem was that I got 67 00:03:20,160 --> 00:03:21,560 Speaker 3: a taste of what it would be like to have 68 00:03:21,600 --> 00:03:23,920 Speaker 3: a hit, and so I was shown my schedule for 69 00:03:23,960 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 3: two years. I was about to fly around the world. 70 00:03:25,760 --> 00:03:28,079 Speaker 3: I was going to come back here, hang with you guys, 71 00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:30,280 Speaker 3: and do all that. And then you know, once in 72 00:03:30,320 --> 00:03:34,880 Speaker 3: a century, pandemic shuts all down. So like I just 73 00:03:35,480 --> 00:03:38,840 Speaker 3: I wasn't the best human at home, and so it 74 00:03:38,920 --> 00:03:42,360 Speaker 3: led to just me complaining about the same things over 75 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:44,480 Speaker 3: and over and over again, things that I can't change. 76 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:47,640 Speaker 3: You know, and it was after this conversation that I 77 00:03:47,680 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 3: started therapy, and I mean a much better place. Still 78 00:03:50,960 --> 00:03:55,400 Speaker 3: the most reasonable person in music, but. 79 00:03:54,320 --> 00:03:59,160 Speaker 2: Now the one and only Sam Fisher was in the 80 00:03:59,160 --> 00:04:03,960 Speaker 2: city with the boy right now. We love it now, mate, 81 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 2: you've been We've been talking about the fact Sam has 82 00:04:05,960 --> 00:04:08,560 Speaker 2: been in LA for three years, really away from Australia. 83 00:04:08,600 --> 00:04:10,160 Speaker 2: This is the first time you've been about you're touring 84 00:04:10,400 --> 00:04:12,280 Speaker 2: for the first time, as you said, no longer listening 85 00:04:12,280 --> 00:04:15,240 Speaker 2: to your couch, which is great, love it this is. 86 00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:17,799 Speaker 2: But you've missed out on some really, really big things. 87 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:21,320 Speaker 3: Yep, let's let's talk about my trauma. Come on, let's 88 00:04:21,320 --> 00:04:21,480 Speaker 3: do it. 89 00:04:23,480 --> 00:04:24,840 Speaker 2: I want to talk about some of the things that 90 00:04:24,880 --> 00:04:28,240 Speaker 2: you actually have missed out on in Australia over the 91 00:04:28,279 --> 00:04:29,800 Speaker 2: last year. And I want to actually because I want 92 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:32,760 Speaker 2: to see whether you realize that these things actually did 93 00:04:32,800 --> 00:04:34,880 Speaker 2: happen in Australia. Okay, so we're going to play a 94 00:04:34,880 --> 00:04:39,359 Speaker 2: little game of what Sam missed out in Australia in 95 00:04:39,440 --> 00:04:40,760 Speaker 2: the last three years working time? 96 00:04:43,440 --> 00:04:47,640 Speaker 5: All right, what did you miss most about Australia? 97 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:53,040 Speaker 3: The people, the energy, the food, the beer, what the food? 98 00:04:53,160 --> 00:04:53,600 Speaker 1: What food? 99 00:04:53,640 --> 00:04:54,360 Speaker 5: What food did you miss? 100 00:04:54,440 --> 00:04:57,400 Speaker 3: The Tai food in your town and from Ti food 101 00:04:57,440 --> 00:04:58,640 Speaker 3: that is amazing Asian. 102 00:04:58,320 --> 00:05:01,440 Speaker 2: Food here is under. We had Bill Bailey in the 103 00:05:01,440 --> 00:05:03,520 Speaker 2: studio last week and he was just like, I'm like, 104 00:05:03,560 --> 00:05:05,159 Speaker 2: what are you eating? He's like, mate, all I ate 105 00:05:05,160 --> 00:05:07,520 Speaker 2: when I come to Australia's Asian. It's just it's good. 106 00:05:07,600 --> 00:05:11,000 Speaker 3: You know what they don't have in La is luxA. Yeah, 107 00:05:11,440 --> 00:05:16,839 Speaker 3: haven't gone. And last night I had a chicken last 108 00:05:16,880 --> 00:05:25,719 Speaker 3: like midnight after the show, woke up with terrible acid ref. 109 00:05:23,400 --> 00:05:25,920 Speaker 5: L a scar luxA l A. 110 00:05:26,160 --> 00:05:34,640 Speaker 2: I get it. I get it anyway, it's more visual alright. 111 00:05:34,720 --> 00:05:37,000 Speaker 2: So first thing, did this or did this not happen 112 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:40,880 Speaker 2: in Australia while you were gone? Legendary surfer World Champion 113 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:45,960 Speaker 2: surfer Mick Fanning rescued somebody from their house on a 114 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:46,679 Speaker 2: jet ski. 115 00:05:47,279 --> 00:05:49,039 Speaker 3: And when I say that, did happen. 116 00:05:50,080 --> 00:05:53,440 Speaker 1: In surfing superstar Mik Fanning swapped his surfboard for a 117 00:05:53,560 --> 00:05:55,880 Speaker 1: jet ski to help people caught in the floods in 118 00:05:55,920 --> 00:05:56,960 Speaker 1: northern New South Wales. 119 00:05:58,080 --> 00:06:02,559 Speaker 3: That sounds about right. That's exactly what I would expect 120 00:06:02,560 --> 00:06:02,800 Speaker 3: from you. 121 00:06:03,800 --> 00:06:04,719 Speaker 2: When you bake it down. 122 00:06:05,600 --> 00:06:06,279 Speaker 6: It's pretty cool. 123 00:06:08,040 --> 00:06:09,200 Speaker 2: She was just on the top of her house in 124 00:06:09,240 --> 00:06:10,839 Speaker 2: the middle of the floods and Mick Fanny rocked up 125 00:06:10,839 --> 00:06:12,920 Speaker 2: on a jet skin. He was like, you want to ride, 126 00:06:13,640 --> 00:06:14,240 Speaker 2: Just give you a spin. 127 00:06:14,279 --> 00:06:15,080 Speaker 5: I'll put you back later. 128 00:06:15,680 --> 00:06:17,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, Australia, very well done. 129 00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:19,080 Speaker 5: How about this one? This was last year. 130 00:06:19,320 --> 00:06:22,000 Speaker 1: Sam Shannon Nol was singing the national anthem at the 131 00:06:22,040 --> 00:06:24,160 Speaker 1: Melbourne Cup and he decided to do it on top 132 00:06:24,200 --> 00:06:27,280 Speaker 1: of a horse. Midway through the national anthem, he got 133 00:06:27,320 --> 00:06:29,080 Speaker 1: kicked off the horse and fell off the horse. 134 00:06:29,480 --> 00:06:31,080 Speaker 3: I'm going to say that didn't happen. 135 00:06:31,839 --> 00:06:41,760 Speaker 2: Well done, Okay, okay, next thing, Next thing. A kid, 136 00:06:42,120 --> 00:06:45,880 Speaker 2: a kid in the Gold Coast was arrested for robbing 137 00:06:45,880 --> 00:06:50,080 Speaker 2: a servo was held overnight. When he came out, he 138 00:06:50,760 --> 00:06:52,360 Speaker 2: told a reporter that he slept with his mum. 139 00:06:52,880 --> 00:06:54,720 Speaker 3: I really hope that didn't happen, but I kind of 140 00:06:54,720 --> 00:06:55,799 Speaker 3: feel like it did. 141 00:06:56,480 --> 00:06:57,640 Speaker 8: How's he night in the watchhouse? 142 00:06:58,040 --> 00:07:01,240 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, pretty good. Mom came around and she came 143 00:07:01,360 --> 00:07:05,560 Speaker 5: visit me today. Progo sero again. Sounds like a good 144 00:07:05,600 --> 00:07:06,080 Speaker 5: idea to me. 145 00:07:07,520 --> 00:07:09,200 Speaker 2: Now I'm going to go see his mom. Then I'm 146 00:07:09,200 --> 00:07:11,680 Speaker 2: going to go see your sister. 147 00:07:11,400 --> 00:07:13,440 Speaker 1: Sorry, but you've. 148 00:07:13,280 --> 00:07:14,400 Speaker 2: All nine month's way up. 149 00:07:16,160 --> 00:07:20,679 Speaker 3: It's like last week that's not the one Australia's. 150 00:07:25,680 --> 00:07:34,120 Speaker 2: Thanks so much for coming to this sto. It's been 151 00:07:35,360 --> 00:07:38,360 Speaker 2: congratulations on everything, and there is a herd on yourself 152 00:07:38,440 --> 00:07:38,880 Speaker 2: as well. 153 00:07:39,240 --> 00:07:40,800 Speaker 3: I'll try to be but next time I'll come in 154 00:07:40,840 --> 00:07:41,760 Speaker 3: the complaints at all. 155 00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:44,800 Speaker 5: All right, then I'll slap you. 156 00:07:46,240 --> 00:07:49,960 Speaker 2: This is the Will and Woody Podcast. Are you a 157 00:07:50,080 --> 00:07:53,360 Speaker 2: mom with young kids or just a young kid? I 158 00:07:53,360 --> 00:07:55,320 Speaker 2: would I would really love your help with something because 159 00:07:55,840 --> 00:07:58,120 Speaker 2: the premise I'm running with here, Woods is that when 160 00:07:58,160 --> 00:08:02,440 Speaker 2: you become a dad, you lose your game. You lose 161 00:08:02,480 --> 00:08:06,360 Speaker 2: your game and you're no longer. You're no longer. You 162 00:08:06,400 --> 00:08:14,200 Speaker 2: can't flirt anymore. You can't flirt. 163 00:08:12,320 --> 00:08:14,880 Speaker 5: Because you brought this up. You came in today. Yeah, 164 00:08:14,960 --> 00:08:18,280 Speaker 5: you know, poor Will. I tried to flirt with my 165 00:08:18,400 --> 00:08:21,600 Speaker 5: wife last night. It didn't work out very well. Yeah, 166 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:26,400 Speaker 5: a lot of questions. Do you think you've had it previously? 167 00:08:26,760 --> 00:08:29,760 Speaker 2: Well, yeah, well not had it. Like I'm not saying 168 00:08:29,960 --> 00:08:33,560 Speaker 2: I'm not saying I'm cassing over sure, I'm not saying that. Yeah, sure, 169 00:08:33,600 --> 00:08:35,480 Speaker 2: but but what I am saying though, it's been a 170 00:08:35,480 --> 00:08:37,440 Speaker 2: few months since you've had the baby, and you know 171 00:08:37,800 --> 00:08:41,479 Speaker 2: the Fosberry flops back on the menu in the household. 172 00:08:41,640 --> 00:08:42,679 Speaker 5: Oh good work, nice work. 173 00:08:42,800 --> 00:08:45,040 Speaker 2: Well, there's no work involved at all there, to be honest, 174 00:08:45,040 --> 00:08:46,199 Speaker 2: But the point is it's there. 175 00:08:46,440 --> 00:08:47,360 Speaker 5: There's no work involved. 176 00:08:47,360 --> 00:08:54,080 Speaker 2: Well stuff, Yeah, no, there's nothing involved. There's no work 177 00:08:54,120 --> 00:08:56,400 Speaker 2: involved yet, like for me to get to that point, 178 00:08:56,440 --> 00:08:59,280 Speaker 2: that's all. That's all, Sam. I didn't do anything there 179 00:09:00,200 --> 00:09:02,840 Speaker 2: that I've been informed that it is back on the menu. Yeah. 180 00:09:02,880 --> 00:09:03,080 Speaker 5: Sure. 181 00:09:03,120 --> 00:09:05,880 Speaker 2: What I'm saying is I haven't got any game. Yeah yeah. 182 00:09:05,920 --> 00:09:09,079 Speaker 2: It's been so long since, you know, the faithful shot 183 00:09:09,160 --> 00:09:12,440 Speaker 2: was fired? Yeah yeah, sure, thirteen months ago. Now it's 184 00:09:12,480 --> 00:09:15,400 Speaker 2: been a long time. So I don't really know how 185 00:09:15,440 --> 00:09:17,880 Speaker 2: to get from square one to square two, or, to 186 00:09:17,920 --> 00:09:20,559 Speaker 2: be honest, how to even get on the court. 187 00:09:20,760 --> 00:09:22,760 Speaker 1: Totally, mate, I think the only way to do this, 188 00:09:22,960 --> 00:09:25,240 Speaker 1: you know, I'm going to use your your reference there 189 00:09:25,240 --> 00:09:25,720 Speaker 1: of a court. 190 00:09:26,080 --> 00:09:28,560 Speaker 5: If you're a Roger Federer and your game's off, what 191 00:09:28,559 --> 00:09:29,160 Speaker 5: do you do. 192 00:09:31,200 --> 00:09:34,520 Speaker 2: Train hit a ball? Yeah yeah, I was going to say. 193 00:09:34,400 --> 00:09:36,680 Speaker 5: Okay, okay, so hitting a ball against a wall. 194 00:09:36,760 --> 00:09:39,280 Speaker 1: I think in this scenario is thirteen one oh six 195 00:09:39,440 --> 00:09:44,400 Speaker 1: five women, if you have a child, give us a call, okay, 196 00:09:44,800 --> 00:09:46,960 Speaker 1: but only give us a call if you are happy. 197 00:09:46,640 --> 00:09:47,520 Speaker 2: For will. 198 00:09:49,040 --> 00:09:53,720 Speaker 1: To like tractice flirting with Wow, so I'll give you 199 00:09:53,760 --> 00:09:56,920 Speaker 1: like a hypothetical scenario that a mum and dad would 200 00:09:56,920 --> 00:09:59,839 Speaker 1: go through, you know, changing a diaper or watching the TV. 201 00:10:00,160 --> 00:10:01,280 Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, and. 202 00:10:01,200 --> 00:10:03,320 Speaker 2: Now I've got to try and make my way through it. 203 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:04,080 Speaker 5: Boom. 204 00:10:04,120 --> 00:10:07,360 Speaker 2: So they're kind of like they're subbing in for my fiance, 205 00:10:07,520 --> 00:10:10,160 Speaker 2: sim exactly right. And I get to try out a 206 00:10:10,200 --> 00:10:10,760 Speaker 2: few things. 207 00:10:10,960 --> 00:10:15,079 Speaker 5: Perfect preparation prevents piss poor performance, oh yeah, the five 208 00:10:15,240 --> 00:10:16,720 Speaker 5: piece of flirting. 209 00:10:17,480 --> 00:10:18,880 Speaker 2: Just practicing anything in general. 210 00:10:18,880 --> 00:10:21,520 Speaker 5: Absolutely so. Yeah, but we need some we need some Yeah, 211 00:10:21,559 --> 00:10:22,679 Speaker 5: women here with kids who are. 212 00:10:23,520 --> 00:10:27,800 Speaker 2: Used, who used to used to being approached by their husbands. 213 00:10:27,840 --> 00:10:29,600 Speaker 1: Well, they'll be able to give some feedback as well. 214 00:10:29,400 --> 00:10:31,600 Speaker 1: They'll they'll say after like, Nope, you're right off there. 215 00:10:31,640 --> 00:10:35,199 Speaker 2: Because I don't want like a you know, young single person, 216 00:10:35,840 --> 00:10:37,360 Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Or you can be young, 217 00:10:37,400 --> 00:10:39,679 Speaker 2: but I just need someone who's got. 218 00:10:39,480 --> 00:10:41,600 Speaker 5: A kid, yeah, because it's. 219 00:10:41,440 --> 00:10:43,320 Speaker 2: A different it's a different sort of game as well. 220 00:10:43,800 --> 00:10:45,640 Speaker 5: People that can will navigate the. 221 00:10:45,559 --> 00:10:47,040 Speaker 2: Fact that like, oh, you've got to you know, I've 222 00:10:47,040 --> 00:10:49,040 Speaker 2: got a bit of spuell one my jumper exactly, and 223 00:10:49,080 --> 00:10:50,920 Speaker 2: I'm still going to try and pick you up exact 224 00:10:50,960 --> 00:10:53,640 Speaker 2: bloody hard? Was you know? You try and pick some 225 00:10:53,920 --> 00:10:57,160 Speaker 2: spue on your jumper. You've probably done that anyway. 226 00:10:56,880 --> 00:11:01,440 Speaker 1: For anyone on six my sixteenth birthday, say some calls. 227 00:11:01,840 --> 00:11:06,440 Speaker 2: Are you a young mum? I give us a call 228 00:11:06,520 --> 00:11:08,200 Speaker 2: if you're happy for me to flirt with you. 229 00:11:08,440 --> 00:11:12,319 Speaker 5: It's all fake, and just give some good feedback and. 230 00:11:12,280 --> 00:11:14,280 Speaker 2: Then I can hopefully take some of that home tonight 231 00:11:15,440 --> 00:11:19,000 Speaker 2: chickens come home to roost. Do you lose your game 232 00:11:19,360 --> 00:11:22,319 Speaker 2: when you become a dad? Because I can't flirt anymore 233 00:11:22,320 --> 00:11:25,480 Speaker 2: than as I've gone, I've lost it. I'm no longer 234 00:11:25,480 --> 00:11:28,920 Speaker 2: a promiscuous boy. And as I said, well I'm not. 235 00:11:29,440 --> 00:11:31,960 Speaker 2: That's what the song's for. But the point is the 236 00:11:34,360 --> 00:11:36,080 Speaker 2: I mean, there's so many ways to say this, but 237 00:11:37,559 --> 00:11:40,640 Speaker 2: flossing the fairies back back on the menu in our 238 00:11:40,679 --> 00:11:43,280 Speaker 2: house that's now going to be accessible. We can now 239 00:11:43,400 --> 00:11:47,000 Speaker 2: she lacking the canoe. I can get back in there. Good. 240 00:11:47,679 --> 00:11:50,520 Speaker 2: I'm excited to good, not four months. I'm getting a 241 00:11:50,520 --> 00:11:52,640 Speaker 2: bit of a rhythm now. But the point, but I 242 00:11:52,920 --> 00:11:54,440 Speaker 2: wouldn't know how to start. I don't even know how 243 00:11:54,480 --> 00:11:56,520 Speaker 2: to begin in like a like a sexy conversation. 244 00:11:56,679 --> 00:11:59,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, and that's why we're having a little bit 245 00:11:59,080 --> 00:12:01,800 Speaker 1: of practice right now. We asked women with children to 246 00:12:01,840 --> 00:12:05,240 Speaker 1: call right now because my idea is, as your flirt coach, 247 00:12:05,400 --> 00:12:07,040 Speaker 1: I'm going to basically bring up a whole bunch of 248 00:12:07,120 --> 00:12:11,000 Speaker 1: hypotheticals that we've got Rachel here, Rachel, you're you're happily 249 00:12:11,480 --> 00:12:14,079 Speaker 1: with a guy called Chris, and you've got a daughter. 250 00:12:14,360 --> 00:12:15,760 Speaker 9: Yes, that's correct, Okay. 251 00:12:15,559 --> 00:12:17,320 Speaker 5: Amazing, Okay, so thank you so much for. 252 00:12:19,000 --> 00:12:21,680 Speaker 2: Appreciate its grist. Will be okay with this as well. 253 00:12:21,960 --> 00:12:22,360 Speaker 5: I think. 254 00:12:28,200 --> 00:12:28,600 Speaker 2: Here we go. 255 00:12:28,679 --> 00:12:30,520 Speaker 1: Here's what I'm thinking. Okay, so first time, this is 256 00:12:30,559 --> 00:12:32,600 Speaker 1: an easy one in my mind. But Will is in 257 00:12:32,640 --> 00:12:36,000 Speaker 1: the kitchen. Will you're in the kitchen, Okay, you're preparing 258 00:12:36,040 --> 00:12:40,040 Speaker 1: a meal a chicken catch a tory, and Rachel's just 259 00:12:40,080 --> 00:12:42,480 Speaker 1: walked into the kitchen and guys go for it. 260 00:12:42,679 --> 00:12:46,240 Speaker 2: Okay. Ah, good to see your honey. 261 00:12:47,480 --> 00:12:48,640 Speaker 4: Good to see you too, babe. 262 00:12:49,480 --> 00:12:53,880 Speaker 2: I'm just just cooking a bit of chicken catcha tory. 263 00:12:55,240 --> 00:12:55,720 Speaker 9: Mm hmmm. 264 00:12:56,320 --> 00:12:58,400 Speaker 2: I'm wondering if you wouldn't maybe you wanted to have 265 00:12:58,400 --> 00:13:01,000 Speaker 2: a bit of a catcha tory. That's awful, isn't it. 266 00:13:02,360 --> 00:13:06,400 Speaker 9: That's awful? But maybe I could help you knowing. 267 00:13:05,440 --> 00:13:09,120 Speaker 1: With you, I mean, Rachel tried to bring it back there, 268 00:13:10,240 --> 00:13:11,480 Speaker 1: just destroy the mood. 269 00:13:11,480 --> 00:13:13,599 Speaker 2: What did I say, if you want a bit of 270 00:13:13,640 --> 00:13:15,160 Speaker 2: catch it? Yeah, no, it doesn't make sense. 271 00:13:16,679 --> 00:13:19,440 Speaker 5: That's awful. Okay, let's go to Brittany. 272 00:13:20,080 --> 00:13:23,000 Speaker 1: I'm sorry because I don't want to put Rachel through anything. 273 00:13:23,200 --> 00:13:24,679 Speaker 2: I should have said, you're a bit of a catch 274 00:13:24,920 --> 00:13:27,480 Speaker 2: a tory. There you go with that? Have got your 275 00:13:27,520 --> 00:13:30,520 Speaker 2: rage with that? Have got Rach? Would that have got 276 00:13:30,559 --> 00:13:31,800 Speaker 2: you if I said you're a bit of a catch 277 00:13:31,800 --> 00:13:32,439 Speaker 2: a tory? 278 00:13:32,800 --> 00:13:34,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's smoother than. 279 00:13:35,840 --> 00:13:37,760 Speaker 2: A guys is I'm telling you. 280 00:13:37,920 --> 00:13:40,360 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's bad, That's okay both. I'm glad you came 281 00:13:40,440 --> 00:13:42,400 Speaker 5: to it. I think that's showing good signs that didn't 282 00:13:42,440 --> 00:13:43,160 Speaker 5: come straight away. 283 00:13:43,240 --> 00:13:45,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, but I know where I know where the goal is. 284 00:13:45,480 --> 00:13:47,840 Speaker 1: Let's go to Brittany. Here, Brittany, you've got two boys. 285 00:13:48,200 --> 00:13:51,800 Speaker 1: You've also have a partner. I do, Okay, here we go. 286 00:13:52,120 --> 00:13:54,720 Speaker 1: You guys are putting the baby to sleep, so obviously 287 00:13:54,760 --> 00:13:57,000 Speaker 1: speaking with some hushed tones, I think you can use 288 00:13:57,000 --> 00:13:59,959 Speaker 1: that will okay and action. 289 00:14:01,280 --> 00:14:09,920 Speaker 2: All right, britt I feel like the baby's asleep. M m, yeah, 290 00:14:09,960 --> 00:14:10,640 Speaker 2: what do you want to do. 291 00:14:10,720 --> 00:14:14,360 Speaker 10: Now, do you think maybe we should have a glass 292 00:14:14,360 --> 00:14:14,840 Speaker 10: of wine? 293 00:14:15,600 --> 00:14:20,200 Speaker 1: Good from britt Yeah, you've been sloppy from britt Ah. 294 00:14:20,240 --> 00:14:22,040 Speaker 2: Yeah you yeah, yeah yeah, where do you? Where do 295 00:14:22,080 --> 00:14:24,200 Speaker 2: you want to have the glass wine? 296 00:14:25,720 --> 00:14:28,720 Speaker 4: Let's start downstairs and see how we feel. 297 00:14:28,880 --> 00:14:31,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, we could definitely start downstairs. You want me to start? No, 298 00:14:31,320 --> 00:14:32,640 Speaker 2: that's far too that's too forward. 299 00:14:33,000 --> 00:14:33,640 Speaker 5: You want to make it? 300 00:14:33,760 --> 00:14:36,600 Speaker 2: Yeah it was, Yeah, that was too much. Sorry. 301 00:14:36,640 --> 00:14:39,880 Speaker 5: Sorry, sorry, britt she's a mother. 302 00:14:41,320 --> 00:14:42,920 Speaker 2: So I'm sorry, Brittany. I'm sorry. 303 00:14:43,040 --> 00:14:44,160 Speaker 5: She'll never listen to us again. 304 00:14:44,240 --> 00:14:46,800 Speaker 2: Damn it. That is sorry, Brittan. Come we bring britt back. 305 00:14:47,040 --> 00:14:49,680 Speaker 1: She's hung up, she's offended. 306 00:14:49,840 --> 00:14:51,680 Speaker 5: She's hung up. Let's go to Molly. 307 00:14:52,120 --> 00:14:54,080 Speaker 2: There was nowhere near one that was way too on 308 00:14:54,120 --> 00:14:56,560 Speaker 2: the nose. This is the perfect one. I've gone. I've 309 00:14:56,600 --> 00:14:58,320 Speaker 2: gone far left, far right. 310 00:14:59,800 --> 00:15:02,480 Speaker 5: You also have a partner, you have five kids. This 311 00:15:02,560 --> 00:15:06,080 Speaker 5: is great. Quickly, Melinda, how do you think Will's gone 312 00:15:06,120 --> 00:15:06,520 Speaker 5: so far? 313 00:15:08,240 --> 00:15:08,480 Speaker 3: Yeah? 314 00:15:08,760 --> 00:15:10,320 Speaker 10: You with kids? 315 00:15:10,400 --> 00:15:12,160 Speaker 4: You kind of need to just get into it. 316 00:15:12,960 --> 00:15:18,280 Speaker 2: Okay, strue enough and ready, Melinda. Well I should have 317 00:15:18,320 --> 00:15:18,920 Speaker 2: saved my dad. 318 00:15:19,400 --> 00:15:24,200 Speaker 5: You two are taking the bins out together, Melinda. 319 00:15:24,240 --> 00:15:27,800 Speaker 2: You speak first, You speak first, I'll respond, Okay, we're 320 00:15:27,800 --> 00:15:28,560 Speaker 2: taking the bins. 321 00:15:28,360 --> 00:15:29,160 Speaker 5: Out and go. 322 00:15:32,080 --> 00:15:39,040 Speaker 4: Now. You promise I wouldn't have a clue how to 323 00:15:39,120 --> 00:15:43,360 Speaker 4: start with beIN. Maybe take me out? 324 00:15:44,480 --> 00:15:50,640 Speaker 1: Okay, I think what we've learned here, well, what we've 325 00:15:50,680 --> 00:15:53,240 Speaker 1: learned here, let's talk, let's talk. 326 00:15:53,840 --> 00:15:56,920 Speaker 5: Just don't say had a good lie bud Okay. 327 00:15:58,320 --> 00:16:00,400 Speaker 1: The Will and Woody Podcast. 328 00:16:00,840 --> 00:16:03,680 Speaker 2: What million dollar bet did Freddy Prince Jr? Make with 329 00:16:03,800 --> 00:16:06,760 Speaker 2: Howard Stern that involved Sarah Michelle Geller? And the truth 330 00:16:06,880 --> 00:16:09,960 Speaker 2: is that Freddy Prince Junior, when he first hooked up 331 00:16:09,960 --> 00:16:14,160 Speaker 2: with Sarah Michelle Geller, Howard Stern said that they wouldn't 332 00:16:14,160 --> 00:16:14,640 Speaker 2: stick together. 333 00:16:15,400 --> 00:16:17,120 Speaker 11: I think you're going to be faithful to Sarah Michelle 334 00:16:17,120 --> 00:16:21,000 Speaker 11: gellar that if you haven't been married yet, you're gonna 335 00:16:21,000 --> 00:16:24,080 Speaker 11: have cheap It's not gonna work for you. I want 336 00:16:24,120 --> 00:16:25,920 Speaker 11: to make a written bet with you now and about 337 00:16:25,920 --> 00:16:27,680 Speaker 11: ten years you're gonna hunt me down and go, Howard, 338 00:16:28,000 --> 00:16:29,200 Speaker 11: I owe you money. 339 00:16:30,520 --> 00:16:35,520 Speaker 2: Anyway. In wild audio, totally wild audio, there's the girl 340 00:16:35,520 --> 00:16:37,840 Speaker 2: that he was with at the time, So he says, 341 00:16:37,840 --> 00:16:39,080 Speaker 2: I want to make you a written bet in about 342 00:16:39,080 --> 00:16:41,480 Speaker 2: ten years, you're gonna hunt me down and you're gonna 343 00:16:41,480 --> 00:16:42,880 Speaker 2: say he said, I'm gonna hunt you down and say, 344 00:16:42,920 --> 00:16:44,840 Speaker 2: Howard you want you owe me money? Twenty years they've 345 00:16:44,880 --> 00:16:47,160 Speaker 2: been together now, so she apparently she will not put 346 00:16:47,240 --> 00:16:49,240 Speaker 2: it down. So she like tags him in photos and 347 00:16:49,280 --> 00:16:51,680 Speaker 2: stuff like that and says she will not forget it. 348 00:16:51,720 --> 00:16:55,480 Speaker 2: And I love it. I actually think it's fascinating though. 349 00:16:55,520 --> 00:16:57,440 Speaker 2: Thirty one and six five, what's the most stubborn thing 350 00:16:57,560 --> 00:16:59,800 Speaker 2: someone's ever done? Because there's an argument to say that. 351 00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:04,240 Speaker 2: Michelle Geller has been with Freddie Prince Jr. To win 352 00:17:04,280 --> 00:17:07,600 Speaker 2: an argument, Lily one six ' five. Most stubborn thing 353 00:17:07,640 --> 00:17:08,200 Speaker 2: you've ever seen? 354 00:17:08,480 --> 00:17:11,280 Speaker 9: So, me and my dad had heard a bank ad 355 00:17:11,320 --> 00:17:15,040 Speaker 9: on the television and he thought it was saying one thing, 356 00:17:15,440 --> 00:17:17,120 Speaker 9: and I was adam and I was saying the other things. 357 00:17:17,119 --> 00:17:19,639 Speaker 9: So I actually emailed the bank directly. 358 00:17:21,359 --> 00:17:23,359 Speaker 2: What was the ad? What were they saying? 359 00:17:24,240 --> 00:17:25,440 Speaker 4: Oh? I can't even. 360 00:17:25,480 --> 00:17:27,720 Speaker 9: Exactly what it was, but I emailed them and asked 361 00:17:27,720 --> 00:17:29,679 Speaker 9: to find out from the manager exactly what it was. 362 00:17:29,760 --> 00:17:32,760 Speaker 9: And I was right, Wow, I. 363 00:17:32,760 --> 00:17:34,919 Speaker 5: Love They responded, that is amazing. 364 00:17:35,080 --> 00:17:38,920 Speaker 2: Respond thanks, cal Lil Jade. We're talking about most stubborn 365 00:17:38,960 --> 00:17:39,800 Speaker 2: things you've ever seen. 366 00:17:40,960 --> 00:17:43,920 Speaker 7: Yeah, I was actually the stubborn one in this case, 367 00:17:44,480 --> 00:17:49,520 Speaker 7: well done admitting it. About two years ago, my partner 368 00:17:49,560 --> 00:17:51,960 Speaker 7: and myself and our kids were down in Canberra for 369 00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:56,200 Speaker 7: the weekend and we were driving around and I gave 370 00:17:56,320 --> 00:17:58,960 Speaker 7: my partner wrong directions and we ended up having a 371 00:17:59,000 --> 00:18:01,399 Speaker 7: fight while we were in the car, and because he 372 00:18:01,440 --> 00:18:02,960 Speaker 7: was yelling at me in front of the kids, I 373 00:18:03,040 --> 00:18:05,280 Speaker 7: got out of the car and refused to get back 374 00:18:05,320 --> 00:18:07,800 Speaker 7: in and I just stormed off and sort of walking 375 00:18:07,840 --> 00:18:12,360 Speaker 7: down the street in unknown territory, and he ended up 376 00:18:13,119 --> 00:18:15,879 Speaker 7: driving back to Sydney without me because I refused to 377 00:18:15,920 --> 00:18:19,960 Speaker 7: get in the car, and I was stranded in Canberra. 378 00:18:20,119 --> 00:18:22,879 Speaker 7: So I went online to look for available flights to 379 00:18:22,920 --> 00:18:26,240 Speaker 7: get home, and there was no flights for six hours. 380 00:18:26,640 --> 00:18:29,120 Speaker 7: So I walked around Canberra. 381 00:18:28,840 --> 00:18:31,920 Speaker 10: For six hours and had to catch a flight home 382 00:18:32,119 --> 00:18:35,440 Speaker 10: by myself. And when I got home, I got the kids, 383 00:18:35,440 --> 00:18:37,480 Speaker 10: got in the car and I went to my mom's 384 00:18:37,520 --> 00:18:39,320 Speaker 10: house and stayed there for two nights. 385 00:18:39,560 --> 00:18:43,399 Speaker 7: Oh God, we're happily together. 386 00:18:43,480 --> 00:18:44,600 Speaker 9: We were getting married. 387 00:18:44,320 --> 00:18:45,000 Speaker 10: In five months. 388 00:18:45,040 --> 00:18:45,159 Speaker 6: Yea. 389 00:18:49,080 --> 00:18:51,160 Speaker 4: He apologized for leaving me in Canberra. 390 00:18:54,680 --> 00:18:58,159 Speaker 2: Goods the Gold Jyde Darren Darren, Darren. 391 00:18:58,880 --> 00:19:00,959 Speaker 12: Yeah, I'm gonna I'm gonna. I have to own up too. 392 00:19:01,080 --> 00:19:01,480 Speaker 10: It was me. 393 00:19:01,640 --> 00:19:05,560 Speaker 12: I'm the stubborn one. Okay, so as kids, you know, 394 00:19:05,760 --> 00:19:09,359 Speaker 12: you still play backyard cricket. They ever run to come around. 395 00:19:09,640 --> 00:19:10,720 Speaker 8: Yeah. 396 00:19:11,080 --> 00:19:13,639 Speaker 12: I used to supply the tennis balls, and me and 397 00:19:13,880 --> 00:19:18,240 Speaker 12: a mate who appears in a pod inseparable. He kept 398 00:19:18,280 --> 00:19:20,480 Speaker 12: hitting the tennis balls over the fence of losing them. 399 00:19:20,480 --> 00:19:23,480 Speaker 12: So I kept bringing them. He kept losing them. Yeah, 400 00:19:23,640 --> 00:19:25,800 Speaker 12: eight years old, I said that's enough, might bring some 401 00:19:25,880 --> 00:19:29,040 Speaker 12: tennis balls. I'm not bringing them anymore now thirty years 402 00:19:29,040 --> 00:19:35,720 Speaker 12: and I haven't spoken to him since. No, no way, Yeah, no, 403 00:19:35,880 --> 00:19:38,200 Speaker 12: I still have enough spoken to since we're eight years old. 404 00:19:38,960 --> 00:19:41,679 Speaker 12: Then we would be the best mates forever. 405 00:19:42,320 --> 00:19:43,800 Speaker 5: Has he tried to reach out Darren? 406 00:19:44,359 --> 00:19:46,639 Speaker 12: Oh yeah, a couple of a number of times. 407 00:19:48,080 --> 00:19:50,160 Speaker 2: Why would you talk to him, Darren? 408 00:19:50,920 --> 00:19:55,840 Speaker 12: Well, it's principal. He just you keep bringing stuff to 409 00:19:55,880 --> 00:19:58,439 Speaker 12: the friendship and there's got to be a response. You've 410 00:19:58,440 --> 00:19:59,920 Speaker 12: got to bring. You've got to bring the tennis. 411 00:20:00,160 --> 00:20:02,480 Speaker 5: What if he brought you some balls, Darren? 412 00:20:02,520 --> 00:20:07,879 Speaker 1: What if he if he's trying to contact you with balls, 413 00:20:07,920 --> 00:20:08,840 Speaker 1: Come on, guys. 414 00:20:08,640 --> 00:20:12,880 Speaker 2: No, no, Darren, Darren, we have to heal this. Darren 415 00:20:12,880 --> 00:20:14,399 Speaker 2: would you talk to him. If he if he's what 416 00:20:14,440 --> 00:20:16,640 Speaker 2: he said, if he came to you with balls. 417 00:20:17,320 --> 00:20:20,960 Speaker 12: The guy, the guys, the guy's gone, you won't find it. 418 00:20:21,080 --> 00:20:22,439 Speaker 2: But if he comes to you with a pack of 419 00:20:22,440 --> 00:20:24,000 Speaker 2: tennis balls, if we find. 420 00:20:23,800 --> 00:20:27,920 Speaker 9: Him, you won't trust me. You're not going to find Jimmy. 421 00:20:27,960 --> 00:20:29,320 Speaker 4: Jimmy, Jimmy's the recluse. 422 00:20:29,400 --> 00:20:34,440 Speaker 12: Now he's gone, okay, he smoke bombs and gone. 423 00:20:34,240 --> 00:20:37,480 Speaker 2: Okay, thanks darn sounds he shattered. 424 00:20:37,720 --> 00:20:40,600 Speaker 1: Jimmy show shattered and he's given up on the World's 425 00:20:40,640 --> 00:20:43,040 Speaker 1: just swimming in some tennis ball somewhere in a basement. 426 00:20:43,400 --> 00:20:50,120 Speaker 2: That's right, the ball, the surround and people just find 427 00:20:50,160 --> 00:20:51,600 Speaker 2: him swimming in McDonald's ball. Bits. 428 00:20:53,280 --> 00:20:57,600 Speaker 1: Women, that's some more in just a bit the Women 429 00:20:57,640 --> 00:20:59,800 Speaker 1: Woody podcast. 430 00:20:59,080 --> 00:21:01,719 Speaker 2: On six five Them right now is sleeping in separate 431 00:21:01,800 --> 00:21:08,760 Speaker 2: rooms the death of your relationship? What do you think? 432 00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:14,440 Speaker 5: What I'd say, as long as. 433 00:21:17,480 --> 00:21:19,959 Speaker 1: If there's no intimacy, if you're sleeping in separate beds 434 00:21:20,119 --> 00:21:22,159 Speaker 1: and you're not spending the nights together at all. So 435 00:21:22,200 --> 00:21:23,639 Speaker 1: if it's like you get home from work and you 436 00:21:23,680 --> 00:21:25,560 Speaker 1: go to your bedroom and they go to their bedroom 437 00:21:25,800 --> 00:21:26,640 Speaker 1: and you barely see. 438 00:21:26,440 --> 00:21:28,679 Speaker 5: Each other, Yeah, I think you're in big trouble. Yeah, 439 00:21:28,720 --> 00:21:29,800 Speaker 5: but I think if you still. 440 00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:33,280 Speaker 1: Spend the night together, even have maybe a bit of 441 00:21:33,359 --> 00:21:35,119 Speaker 1: romance in one of your rooms, like we want to 442 00:21:35,160 --> 00:21:37,040 Speaker 1: come to my room, or why don't we Why don't 443 00:21:37,040 --> 00:21:37,639 Speaker 1: we go to your. 444 00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:39,760 Speaker 2: So you make it a bit of an exciting thing. 445 00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:42,400 Speaker 1: And then you go back to your bedrooms and sleep. 446 00:21:43,040 --> 00:21:43,880 Speaker 1: I think it's fine. 447 00:21:44,400 --> 00:21:47,680 Speaker 2: Yeah. The reason we're talking about it, there's a couple 448 00:21:47,720 --> 00:21:51,439 Speaker 2: on TikTok who have decided to move and they're like, 449 00:21:52,040 --> 00:21:54,520 Speaker 2: they're permanently in different rooms. I find this interesting. So 450 00:21:55,080 --> 00:21:57,240 Speaker 2: one of the reasons they've done it is because they 451 00:21:57,280 --> 00:21:59,119 Speaker 2: want to have their own space that they want to 452 00:21:59,160 --> 00:22:02,840 Speaker 2: design in their own way. So, like, I think a 453 00:22:02,840 --> 00:22:04,800 Speaker 2: lot of couples are used to the idea of having 454 00:22:04,800 --> 00:22:07,399 Speaker 2: a spare room. Sure right, you know, so none of 455 00:22:07,440 --> 00:22:08,679 Speaker 2: you goes in the spare bed. You know, if you 456 00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:10,640 Speaker 2: get home late, go in the spare room. 457 00:22:10,720 --> 00:22:12,280 Speaker 1: Don't wake me up. If you get home at one 458 00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:14,639 Speaker 1: or two, yeah, mate, in the spare room. Practically that 459 00:22:14,680 --> 00:22:15,560 Speaker 1: always makes. 460 00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:20,240 Speaker 2: A lot of sense. This seems like having your own 461 00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:24,200 Speaker 2: space that you've designed in your own way feels very separate. Yeah, 462 00:22:24,240 --> 00:22:26,880 Speaker 2: but that for me that's it that Yeah. 463 00:22:26,720 --> 00:22:29,040 Speaker 1: But is it okay though if you're still having those 464 00:22:29,119 --> 00:22:31,480 Speaker 1: exciting like oh you want to stay the night in mind? 465 00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:35,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's interesting because I used to think that. I 466 00:22:35,840 --> 00:22:37,480 Speaker 2: used to think that having sleeping in a separate room 467 00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:39,359 Speaker 2: was differently the end of the relationship, like it was 468 00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:41,240 Speaker 2: like I was, you'd be really worried about it. My 469 00:22:41,280 --> 00:22:42,920 Speaker 2: partn s would always be like, just going sleep in 470 00:22:42,920 --> 00:22:45,280 Speaker 2: the other room. It's fine if I needed to have 471 00:22:45,280 --> 00:22:47,000 Speaker 2: a good sleep, because I mean, at the end of 472 00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:50,359 Speaker 2: the day you sleep better, just just zero chance of 473 00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:53,119 Speaker 2: getting if you just look at the pure facts of it, 474 00:22:53,440 --> 00:22:55,000 Speaker 2: you have less chance of being worken up. 475 00:22:55,080 --> 00:22:57,359 Speaker 5: Yeah, it literally halves it, at the very least, it 476 00:22:57,400 --> 00:22:57,800 Speaker 5: halves it. 477 00:22:57,880 --> 00:23:00,879 Speaker 2: Yes, so just eradicates it. 478 00:23:01,040 --> 00:23:01,280 Speaker 5: Sure. 479 00:23:01,400 --> 00:23:03,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, so you didn't put that down? 480 00:23:03,800 --> 00:23:06,040 Speaker 5: Good job, No, no, sorry what it's your maths is wrong. 481 00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:08,920 Speaker 2: But I'll continue though it is nouse. 482 00:23:08,920 --> 00:23:10,919 Speaker 5: You're still a chance to wake up yourself. 483 00:23:12,480 --> 00:23:13,320 Speaker 2: Doing yourself. 484 00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:16,159 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but you can wake yourself up. But then 485 00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:18,200 Speaker 1: if you remove your partner, you have a fifty percent 486 00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:18,800 Speaker 1: less chance. 487 00:23:18,840 --> 00:23:21,920 Speaker 2: I don't. We're gonna walk away from it. We're gonna 488 00:23:21,920 --> 00:23:26,840 Speaker 2: walk away. We're gonna walk away all right. So so 489 00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:29,000 Speaker 2: I used to think that that was the end of things. 490 00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:31,640 Speaker 2: But then since we had a kid, sure it became 491 00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:34,200 Speaker 2: a necessity. And I've spoken to you about this before. 492 00:23:34,320 --> 00:23:36,520 Speaker 2: Like you know, Max is only three months old now. 493 00:23:36,640 --> 00:23:38,960 Speaker 2: She wakes up three or four times a night, whatever 494 00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:44,120 Speaker 2: it is. If both of us is in the same bed, 495 00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:46,680 Speaker 2: she's in a CoA sleeper where she and she's woken 496 00:23:46,760 --> 00:23:50,320 Speaker 2: up three or four times that night, the relationship, that's 497 00:23:50,359 --> 00:23:53,119 Speaker 2: the relationship killer because the next day both of us 498 00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:56,440 Speaker 2: are running on like five percent. And when you're both 499 00:23:56,520 --> 00:24:00,200 Speaker 2: running on five percent, the word forgiveness does not exist. 500 00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:02,520 Speaker 5: And you, yeah, both of you would be going. I 501 00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:04,399 Speaker 5: need this time because I'm tired. 502 00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:07,959 Speaker 2: But if yeah, you're a child, still there. 503 00:24:07,400 --> 00:24:09,960 Speaker 1: There's one freshy that's right, say the freshly slept in 504 00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:13,360 Speaker 1: the bear save your legs and fresh can go handball 505 00:24:13,480 --> 00:24:16,919 Speaker 1: to me. Obviously that's a metaphor. Yes, I'll take the baby. 506 00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:17,280 Speaker 5: For the morning. 507 00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:21,479 Speaker 2: Just protecting yourself from you never know. 508 00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:26,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, no, Peter, do animals mate unless you're referring to 509 00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:26,919 Speaker 5: your child as an animals. 510 00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:34,159 Speaker 2: Oh no, they're gonna come for both us now, child Services. 511 00:24:32,440 --> 00:24:33,280 Speaker 5: Coming too careful. 512 00:24:33,640 --> 00:24:35,159 Speaker 1: But then you go, you're the fresh one. You go, 513 00:24:35,280 --> 00:24:37,880 Speaker 1: I'll take in the morning. You can have a sleep now, yes, yeah. 514 00:24:37,840 --> 00:24:41,200 Speaker 2: And that has been a godsend. Having another room has 515 00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:43,919 Speaker 2: saved us in that respect. And yeah, we've had a 516 00:24:44,280 --> 00:24:45,960 Speaker 2: you know, we've had a late night visit here and there. 517 00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:48,800 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and it's been it's been cute, you know, 518 00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:54,160 Speaker 2: have night visits. The baby I had one, the baby 519 00:24:54,400 --> 00:24:59,920 Speaker 2: handballer Jettison. Give us all right now, thirty one of 520 00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:03,760 Speaker 2: six five is sleeping in separate rooms. The death of 521 00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:07,120 Speaker 2: your relationship? Has it actually ended your relationship? Right now? 522 00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:09,560 Speaker 2: Third end one I six ' five is sleeping in 523 00:25:09,600 --> 00:25:13,320 Speaker 2: separate rooms. The death of the relationship. I think one 524 00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:15,520 Speaker 2: of the things we haven't discussed so far is why. 525 00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:18,719 Speaker 2: The reason that I think it can start to signal 526 00:25:18,760 --> 00:25:20,919 Speaker 2: the end of a relationship is what I realized when 527 00:25:20,960 --> 00:25:23,080 Speaker 2: I go back to the same bed and it's the cuddling. 528 00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:28,080 Speaker 2: I'm not a tactile person at all. I'm not, but 529 00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:30,440 Speaker 2: I know as soon as it's just you want to 530 00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:33,440 Speaker 2: be held, you want some sort of physical affection with 531 00:25:33,480 --> 00:25:35,560 Speaker 2: your partner, and if you're not, if you're not getting 532 00:25:35,600 --> 00:25:37,560 Speaker 2: it in the same bed as in the morning and 533 00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:40,679 Speaker 2: in the night, you might hug each other in the kitchen, 534 00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:43,879 Speaker 2: on the couch, you might, But it's funny for a 535 00:25:44,119 --> 00:25:46,760 Speaker 2: very as I said, non tactile person like myself, I 536 00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:49,680 Speaker 2: don't need physical affection. That's not my love language. Sure, 537 00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:53,800 Speaker 2: it goes missing, and it's strange how much you crave it. 538 00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:55,640 Speaker 1: You'd have to really make time for if you are 539 00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:56,600 Speaker 1: doing the separate bed thing. 540 00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:59,480 Speaker 5: Yeah, you don't have a cuttle time. 541 00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:01,680 Speaker 2: We don't have cuddle time. No, And it's funny because 542 00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:03,680 Speaker 2: I think as men, I mean during the song button 543 00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:06,920 Speaker 2: Bush and George said he doesn't need cuddling after loving. Yeah, 544 00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:09,080 Speaker 2: and you responded to that by saying, sometimes you've got 545 00:26:09,119 --> 00:26:11,480 Speaker 2: to pay the piper, which I thought was an interesting chat. 546 00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:14,320 Speaker 1: I certainly didn't say that you've obviously misheard us. 547 00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:16,240 Speaker 2: Let's go to Alexia here. 548 00:26:16,320 --> 00:26:18,960 Speaker 5: I'm thirteen true though, as the. 549 00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:21,600 Speaker 1: Bulk of the conversation was that we get sweaty, we 550 00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:22,600 Speaker 1: get really sweaty. 551 00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:26,439 Speaker 2: But as men, you don't traditionally need cuddling. You don't. 552 00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:28,560 Speaker 2: We don't think you do. But I think it's different 553 00:26:28,600 --> 00:26:29,040 Speaker 2: for women. 554 00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:32,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, it's a heat problem for identities. 555 00:26:32,920 --> 00:26:33,360 Speaker 12: Let's go to. 556 00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:37,959 Speaker 2: Ax s in separate rooms to your partner. 557 00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:42,520 Speaker 4: We do, yes, yes, well good to go, Yeah, we're 558 00:26:42,520 --> 00:26:44,800 Speaker 4: good to go. Yeah. I think it's better to be honest. 559 00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:49,199 Speaker 9: Good nights really luckily, you. 560 00:26:49,200 --> 00:26:51,280 Speaker 4: Know, hug on the couch and stuff. We don't need 561 00:26:51,320 --> 00:26:52,880 Speaker 4: to hug in bed all the time. 562 00:26:53,280 --> 00:26:57,200 Speaker 1: Alexia, do you organize little stayovers or sleepovers? 563 00:26:58,440 --> 00:27:01,360 Speaker 4: I wouldn't call it a stay over, but yeah, we organize. 564 00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:03,800 Speaker 2: You know, it's like a post, it's a quick it's 565 00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:04,199 Speaker 2: a drop in. 566 00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:06,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, pretty much. 567 00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:09,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, and sorry, I'm just I'm so curious about that 568 00:27:09,640 --> 00:27:11,639 Speaker 1: because I think that's really important to maintain that to 569 00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:12,639 Speaker 1: get your intimacy up. 570 00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:14,760 Speaker 5: Do you just sneak in there? Do you just do 571 00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:15,640 Speaker 5: you just sneak in there? 572 00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:15,760 Speaker 2: Au? 573 00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:16,400 Speaker 5: Do you sendema? 574 00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:19,760 Speaker 4: Well, like, it's it's not always at nighttime. Sometimes it 575 00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:23,000 Speaker 4: might be during the day or afternoon or whatever. 576 00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:25,000 Speaker 5: Are you guys in bed? You guys just stay in 577 00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:26,680 Speaker 5: your going. 578 00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:29,399 Speaker 4: On honestly, not not very often, but yeah, you know 579 00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:30,600 Speaker 4: it does. It does happen. 580 00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:33,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, but you don't schedule it though, Like it's not 581 00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:34,760 Speaker 2: like a meeting room in the office where you have 582 00:27:34,760 --> 00:27:37,000 Speaker 2: to book no nory. 583 00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:38,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, no, so you. 584 00:27:38,800 --> 00:27:42,640 Speaker 2: Just sneak in there, you know, It's funny there's another 585 00:27:42,680 --> 00:27:45,960 Speaker 2: woman saying she she's okay with the affection side of things. Yeah. 586 00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:49,600 Speaker 2: I think that women who are do need physical affection 587 00:27:49,640 --> 00:27:52,480 Speaker 2: are quite vocal about it, like men who need physical 588 00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:54,760 Speaker 2: affection would never say that they are. It'll be interesting. 589 00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:56,760 Speaker 2: I think if Alexia actually spoke to her partner, do 590 00:27:56,760 --> 00:27:58,439 Speaker 2: you need to be hugged more? Because you and I 591 00:27:58,480 --> 00:28:01,200 Speaker 2: actually used to know someone who was a who was 592 00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:03,720 Speaker 2: a male escort, and the number one thing he got 593 00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:05,960 Speaker 2: paid for was middle aged men coming in there and saying, 594 00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:07,320 Speaker 2: can you just hold me for half an hour? 595 00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:10,679 Speaker 5: Nothing else? 596 00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:11,920 Speaker 2: I don't want to do anything. 597 00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:14,680 Speaker 5: Apparently they pay through the nose as well. Yeah, let's 598 00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:14,960 Speaker 5: go to. 599 00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:20,679 Speaker 2: Bruno one six five. Bruno, you you you love to 600 00:28:20,680 --> 00:28:21,760 Speaker 2: sleep in separate rooms. 601 00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:26,440 Speaker 8: I wouldn't say I love it. I just I wish 602 00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:28,359 Speaker 8: I had a stall a room, to be honest, because 603 00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:31,480 Speaker 8: misters and I we only have one, and she complains 604 00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:37,480 Speaker 8: with snall you have a bedroom. It would help the 605 00:28:37,560 --> 00:28:39,280 Speaker 8: relationship rather than ruining it. 606 00:28:40,320 --> 00:28:43,480 Speaker 5: Bruno, my dad's a huge snorer. Chuck some tape over 607 00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:43,920 Speaker 5: your mouth. 608 00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:46,240 Speaker 9: God, am I going to breathe? 609 00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:46,520 Speaker 8: Mate? 610 00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:51,440 Speaker 2: Great question. I think we're all thinking this thing. Let's 611 00:28:51,480 --> 00:28:52,040 Speaker 2: wrap it up. 612 00:28:57,720 --> 00:29:01,480 Speaker 1: Oh, well, we all do it just that that scroll 613 00:29:01,520 --> 00:29:06,520 Speaker 1: through TV shows on streaming services. I'm at the point 614 00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:08,680 Speaker 1: now where Mim and I we put Remy to bed 615 00:29:08,800 --> 00:29:11,280 Speaker 1: and we've got, like, I don't know, an hour before 616 00:29:11,280 --> 00:29:12,600 Speaker 1: we should go to sleep, just because we need to 617 00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:16,200 Speaker 1: get our sleep as well, and we're now spending about 618 00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:18,640 Speaker 1: ninety five percent of that time just trying to choose 619 00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:21,520 Speaker 1: a TV show to the point where that's our entertainment 620 00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:24,400 Speaker 1: before bit, we just y, we debate what show to watch, 621 00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:26,480 Speaker 1: and then we don't have time to actually watch the show. 622 00:29:26,600 --> 00:29:31,440 Speaker 2: Sometimes we'll spend yeah exactly, we'll just like look, and 623 00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:35,760 Speaker 2: then the exhaustion of looking is what I'm after in 624 00:29:35,840 --> 00:29:38,280 Speaker 2: watching the show. So I just all want. All I 625 00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:39,640 Speaker 2: wanted to do is spend half an hour on the 626 00:29:39,640 --> 00:29:43,680 Speaker 2: couch before I go to bed. The looking fixes that, 627 00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:48,320 Speaker 2: and then I just go all right, Well, or alternatively, 628 00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:50,880 Speaker 2: we'll choose the show and then I'll get five minutes 629 00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:52,560 Speaker 2: in and go I haven't got the energy for this. 630 00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:54,000 Speaker 5: Yes, you fall asleep. 631 00:29:54,080 --> 00:29:54,800 Speaker 1: It is, We're done. 632 00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:55,760 Speaker 5: We need to go to sleep. 633 00:29:56,360 --> 00:30:00,000 Speaker 1: Well, turns out well this also relates to Megan Mark 634 00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:02,040 Speaker 1: and Prince Harry oh nice. 635 00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:05,360 Speaker 2: Good to know in touch with the the top dogs 636 00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:07,240 Speaker 2: of the world as well. I mean, the common denominator 637 00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:09,200 Speaker 2: is it choosing a Netflix show? Well? 638 00:30:09,240 --> 00:30:09,680 Speaker 1: Absolutely? 639 00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:12,080 Speaker 2: What other things do you think we would do that 640 00:30:12,160 --> 00:30:13,520 Speaker 2: they would do? Not many? 641 00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:18,440 Speaker 1: Well, okay, so they've revealed their pre bed routine in 642 00:30:18,520 --> 00:30:21,200 Speaker 1: what I can only imagine was a terrible interview to read. 643 00:30:23,840 --> 00:30:27,400 Speaker 1: They've revealed that they also like to play wordle. 644 00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:30,800 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, bit of word yeah. 645 00:30:30,400 --> 00:30:34,920 Speaker 1: And then they spend ten minutes on duo lingo. This 646 00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:37,360 Speaker 1: is yeah, this is after they've put Archie to bed. 647 00:30:37,880 --> 00:30:40,480 Speaker 1: That's their bit of fun before bed, a bit of wordle. 648 00:30:40,280 --> 00:30:42,000 Speaker 2: I do a bit of due lingo before ben. 649 00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:43,760 Speaker 5: Really you are just. 650 00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:48,640 Speaker 1: Like, yeah, she is. Look at that anyway. I don't 651 00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:50,480 Speaker 1: care about that stuff. What I do care about, though, 652 00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:53,160 Speaker 1: was trying to solve people's problem of this of this 653 00:30:53,240 --> 00:30:55,479 Speaker 1: scroll We're all going home tonight, we know what's happening, 654 00:30:55,520 --> 00:30:57,720 Speaker 1: we know we're going to pop onto Netflix and we're 655 00:30:57,720 --> 00:30:59,160 Speaker 1: going to scroll through there for an hour. 656 00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:02,920 Speaker 2: I think it woulds I'm close to a movie. I am. 657 00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:03,960 Speaker 2: I'm a bit done with it. 658 00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:05,040 Speaker 5: Okay, Well, at the. 659 00:31:04,960 --> 00:31:08,400 Speaker 2: Moment, there's better gear going around, and there's better gear 660 00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:13,600 Speaker 2: Amazon Stan there's gonna be a binge, yes, not places 661 00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:14,560 Speaker 2: to watch shows. 662 00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:16,520 Speaker 1: Yes, And he's not getting paid for that Australia. That 663 00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:17,640 Speaker 1: is genuine opinion. 664 00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:21,280 Speaker 2: No, that's don't play that sound of it because it 665 00:31:21,320 --> 00:31:24,960 Speaker 2: makes it sound like I am getting paid more. I'm not. Well, Magie, 666 00:31:25,000 --> 00:31:26,520 Speaker 2: Meghan Mark and I have got a lot more in 667 00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:28,800 Speaker 2: coming than your thing. Every word that comes out of 668 00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:30,120 Speaker 2: his mouth's a sponsored bit. 669 00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:31,760 Speaker 5: All right, well, this is I reckon. 670 00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:34,720 Speaker 1: This should be then a last ditch attempt for Netflix, 671 00:31:34,760 --> 00:31:37,080 Speaker 1: because in front of me, I have got the top 672 00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:38,160 Speaker 1: ten TV. 673 00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:40,000 Speaker 5: Shows in Australia on Netflix right now. 674 00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:42,800 Speaker 1: No doubt everyone listening or a large proportion of our 675 00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:46,000 Speaker 1: audience will probably be scrolling through this top ten tonight. 676 00:31:46,080 --> 00:31:50,240 Speaker 1: I want you will to help decide what everyone should watch. 677 00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:53,640 Speaker 2: Right that's a big film, that's the hottest show on 678 00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:54,480 Speaker 2: TV at the moment. 679 00:31:54,560 --> 00:32:01,000 Speaker 13: Where first of all, can Ida say, yeah, you're a 680 00:32:01,040 --> 00:32:02,920 Speaker 13: bit of a spanker if you're watching something in the 681 00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:07,600 Speaker 13: top ten like top ten for me, just screams, idiot. 682 00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:10,000 Speaker 1: Hang on, but that's what everyone else is watching. 683 00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:14,880 Speaker 2: The lower good Why no, no, it's not goods. You're 684 00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:19,760 Speaker 2: lowering yourself. Just follow the crowd gems out there. 685 00:32:20,320 --> 00:32:22,720 Speaker 1: This is this is why Will is good. He is 686 00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:25,080 Speaker 1: brutally honest. If he can pick a hole in a 687 00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:27,600 Speaker 1: TV show like you pick holes that no one else 688 00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:29,080 Speaker 1: can see. So look, we're going to go to a song, 689 00:32:29,320 --> 00:32:30,240 Speaker 1: all right and right. 690 00:32:31,120 --> 00:32:36,800 Speaker 2: And watch some Nordic noir is what I would recommend. 691 00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:42,920 Speaker 1: Losing a few. But despite that comment, he is still 692 00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:50,320 Speaker 1: going to suggest what you should all watch tonight, doing 693 00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:53,880 Speaker 1: everyone a massive favor right now, to stop you from 694 00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:58,160 Speaker 1: your endless scroll through Netflix tonight, trying to choose the 695 00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:01,080 Speaker 1: TV show to watch. Will, you are going to decide 696 00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:03,000 Speaker 1: what we should all watch in this. 697 00:33:04,520 --> 00:33:06,640 Speaker 2: That's a big film, that's the hotest show on TV 698 00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:09,000 Speaker 2: at the moment. Where is the fixed review? 699 00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:13,800 Speaker 1: So what I love about your Will is I've never 700 00:33:13,800 --> 00:33:15,880 Speaker 1: met anyone else in my life who can just hear 701 00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:18,920 Speaker 1: what a TV show is called and then with a 702 00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:22,040 Speaker 1: slight blurb and then no, if that TV show is 703 00:33:22,080 --> 00:33:23,480 Speaker 1: going to be worth watching, I. 704 00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:25,320 Speaker 2: Can probably tell you how it finishes as well. 705 00:33:25,840 --> 00:33:26,760 Speaker 5: And this can you do that? 706 00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:28,960 Speaker 1: So please do that here, because you're doing all of 707 00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:31,480 Speaker 1: us a favor. Okay, because I don't want people sitting 708 00:33:31,520 --> 00:33:38,520 Speaker 1: around just scrolling around Okay. First one, Bling Empire follow 709 00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:42,520 Speaker 1: LA's wildly wealthy Asian Asian American fund seekers as they 710 00:33:42,560 --> 00:33:43,720 Speaker 1: go to fabulous parties. 711 00:33:43,840 --> 00:33:46,600 Speaker 2: Absolutely not. There's no way I'd watch that in a million. 712 00:33:47,880 --> 00:33:48,400 Speaker 2: We were going to. 713 00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:51,760 Speaker 1: Say, we'll give it a review. What can people expect from? 714 00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:52,800 Speaker 2: What is it? 715 00:33:52,880 --> 00:33:53,640 Speaker 11: Bling Empire? 716 00:33:53,880 --> 00:33:58,240 Speaker 2: So so just give me, give me the concepts. Like again, 717 00:33:58,240 --> 00:34:00,160 Speaker 2: I wouldn't have got much past the name of I 718 00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:01,520 Speaker 2: was scrolling through at this stage. 719 00:34:01,600 --> 00:34:03,440 Speaker 1: Okay, No, no, okay, fair enough, let's just move it on. 720 00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:06,440 Speaker 2: There's no way I'm clicking on that. I'm not. Don't 721 00:34:06,560 --> 00:34:07,440 Speaker 2: entertain that anyone. 722 00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:10,600 Speaker 1: Okay Empire, Yeah, Bling Empire. 723 00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:11,680 Speaker 5: Okay. 724 00:34:11,760 --> 00:34:16,280 Speaker 1: Next one Chesapeake Shores, when she returns to the small 725 00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:20,160 Speaker 1: Merryland hometown her father's founded. A successful career woman and 726 00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:24,440 Speaker 1: single mum considers staying and settling down roots. Is that 727 00:34:24,520 --> 00:34:25,120 Speaker 1: worth watching? 728 00:34:26,800 --> 00:34:30,759 Speaker 5: No, he's quick with his. 729 00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:35,960 Speaker 1: Okay, next month. This one's actually getting a lot of talk. 730 00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:39,040 Speaker 1: I personally haven't given it a go, but I've considered it. 731 00:34:39,120 --> 00:34:43,000 Speaker 1: Heartbreak High, so a hidden sex map rocks Hartley High 732 00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:46,319 Speaker 1: as the student's sexcapades are publicly exposed. Now that sounds 733 00:34:46,360 --> 00:34:46,960 Speaker 1: pretty hot to me. 734 00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:48,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, I like that. That's a bing from me. 735 00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:51,759 Speaker 1: Heartbreak high. 736 00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:57,200 Speaker 2: Okay, I think everyone's is picked up at hidden sex Map. 737 00:34:57,320 --> 00:34:58,920 Speaker 2: I mean, I don't even know what that means, but 738 00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:02,719 Speaker 2: I want to know what it means. What I mean 739 00:35:02,760 --> 00:35:05,480 Speaker 2: they're hiding the map or does that mean that they're 740 00:35:05,520 --> 00:35:09,239 Speaker 2: like secrets of sex that we call it like a 741 00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:12,920 Speaker 2: hidden map? They the secrets of sex. It is the 742 00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:16,840 Speaker 2: map to sex hidden somewhere. There's lots of questions. I 743 00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:18,600 Speaker 2: want to have them answered, is all I'm saying. I'm 744 00:35:18,600 --> 00:35:20,279 Speaker 2: not sure who wrote the blurb, but you've got me 745 00:35:20,320 --> 00:35:24,479 Speaker 2: that's hot riding next that range. So that's number five, 746 00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:27,839 Speaker 2: that should be number one, that should be number one. Okay, 747 00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:32,240 Speaker 2: sex that's goodyear next. 748 00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:38,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean your partner's only going away today and 749 00:35:38,160 --> 00:35:41,160 Speaker 1: you're already watch TV shows. 750 00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:44,400 Speaker 2: Sex Map season one, two and three tonight sign me 751 00:35:44,480 --> 00:35:46,680 Speaker 2: up that she got heartbreak high? What are they thinking? 752 00:35:46,719 --> 00:35:50,480 Speaker 2: It should just be sex map? X marks the spot right? 753 00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:56,439 Speaker 2: It's will And I really wanted to take the opportunity 754 00:35:56,560 --> 00:36:00,440 Speaker 2: to extend on something I said about help being your 755 00:36:00,520 --> 00:36:04,279 Speaker 2: partner if you think they're going through issues with their 756 00:36:04,280 --> 00:36:05,000 Speaker 2: mental health. 757 00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:06,320 Speaker 5: This was really good stuff. 758 00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:10,359 Speaker 2: Something that I mentioned on the Kick podcast with Steph 759 00:36:10,440 --> 00:36:13,359 Speaker 2: Claire Smith and lawyer Henshaw and I touched on it 760 00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:15,360 Speaker 2: briefly on the podcast, and I realized not everyone's going 761 00:36:15,440 --> 00:36:17,239 Speaker 2: to go listen to the podcast, So I think it's 762 00:36:17,280 --> 00:36:20,560 Speaker 2: important for our audience that I elaborate a bit more because. 763 00:36:20,440 --> 00:36:21,880 Speaker 5: It gave it to them first. Interesting. 764 00:36:22,000 --> 00:36:27,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, interesting, And the busses have taken out to the 765 00:36:27,680 --> 00:36:29,840 Speaker 1: brass is his best gear on podcasts? 766 00:36:29,960 --> 00:36:30,120 Speaker 11: Is he? 767 00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:32,880 Speaker 5: Okay? That's where he is at? Okay. 768 00:36:33,239 --> 00:36:35,960 Speaker 2: It wasn't deliberate, they just that they asked. It was 769 00:36:36,000 --> 00:36:37,480 Speaker 2: a good question to ask. 770 00:36:37,320 --> 00:36:39,280 Speaker 1: Me because in the podcast you said I actually prepared 771 00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:41,360 Speaker 1: saying I'm like, oh, did you will prepared saying for 772 00:36:41,400 --> 00:36:42,080 Speaker 1: their podcast? 773 00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:44,880 Speaker 2: Did you? I did, because it's a question that I 774 00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:48,359 Speaker 2: get asked a lot by women who are friends of 775 00:36:48,400 --> 00:36:51,880 Speaker 2: my mates, and often it's after a few drinks or something. 776 00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:54,400 Speaker 2: And because I've been quite open about struggles I've had 777 00:36:54,440 --> 00:36:57,080 Speaker 2: with my mental health, they'll ask me, or they've asked 778 00:36:57,120 --> 00:36:59,520 Speaker 2: me before, how do I help my partner if I 779 00:36:59,520 --> 00:37:02,480 Speaker 2: think they're issues with their mental health, And ultimately I 780 00:37:02,520 --> 00:37:05,359 Speaker 2: think that comes that what you're trying to get to 781 00:37:05,560 --> 00:37:08,239 Speaker 2: is a place where they're talking. Yes, how do I 782 00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:11,520 Speaker 2: get them talking, because we know we know that in 783 00:37:11,640 --> 00:37:13,759 Speaker 2: order to help someone with their mental health, they have 784 00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:16,719 Speaker 2: to be communicating about what's going on. They're not communicating, 785 00:37:16,800 --> 00:37:20,120 Speaker 2: that's when it gets dangerous. So the acronym I came 786 00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:24,759 Speaker 2: up with to help you is called soft because I 787 00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:26,959 Speaker 2: think it's really important that when you're dealing with someone 788 00:37:26,960 --> 00:37:30,400 Speaker 2: else's mental health that the strength is through your softness. 789 00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:33,560 Speaker 2: So it's a good reminder to remain soft with them. 790 00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:36,200 Speaker 2: So I'll just run through the acronym. It's really simple. 791 00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:41,880 Speaker 2: The S in soft stands for shitty. Often, particularly with 792 00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:45,600 Speaker 2: guys when they're struggling with their mental health that manifests 793 00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:49,000 Speaker 2: as shitty, they will present as shitty. And I got 794 00:37:49,040 --> 00:37:51,239 Speaker 2: to stress, you know, if your partner's just a bit 795 00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:53,520 Speaker 2: of a dick consistently, well maybe you shouldn't be with 796 00:37:53,600 --> 00:37:55,640 Speaker 2: him and he's not a nice person, totally fine, But 797 00:37:55,680 --> 00:37:57,200 Speaker 2: if you love the person and you know them and 798 00:37:57,239 --> 00:38:00,480 Speaker 2: they're constantly irritable and you still love them, could be 799 00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:03,319 Speaker 2: an indicator that maybe there's something going on. So that 800 00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:06,880 Speaker 2: then goes to oh, and O stands for open, And 801 00:38:07,640 --> 00:38:10,200 Speaker 2: this is a really hard one, I think because it's 802 00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:12,680 Speaker 2: really really hard when a person that you know and 803 00:38:12,760 --> 00:38:15,399 Speaker 2: love gets angry at you, for you to not move 804 00:38:15,440 --> 00:38:17,600 Speaker 2: into a space where you're reactionary. 805 00:38:17,200 --> 00:38:20,920 Speaker 1: Especially where the thing they're angry at you about is souch. 806 00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:22,799 Speaker 2: Doesn't make any sense. Yeah, it doesn't make any sense. 807 00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:23,680 Speaker 2: And you know you're right. 808 00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:24,200 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah. 809 00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:28,719 Speaker 2: It's really easy to react to the anger or their despondency, 810 00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:31,560 Speaker 2: and that gives them an outlet because as soon as 811 00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:35,239 Speaker 2: you give them the friction for their anger, then they'll 812 00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:39,080 Speaker 2: get more angry and then they'll explode, and that gives 813 00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:43,240 Speaker 2: them a chance to effectively project on you what's going 814 00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:45,480 Speaker 2: on with them, and that's not fair on you, and 815 00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:48,719 Speaker 2: it also means that you're not getting to the underlying issue. 816 00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:51,520 Speaker 2: So if you can remain open in those moments and 817 00:38:51,560 --> 00:38:54,319 Speaker 2: you can sort of accept what's going on, don't try 818 00:38:54,320 --> 00:38:57,239 Speaker 2: and put up a fight or an argument, but understand 819 00:38:57,280 --> 00:38:59,719 Speaker 2: as much as you can. You may not even need 820 00:38:59,760 --> 00:39:02,120 Speaker 2: to get it to F to F and T, which 821 00:39:02,160 --> 00:39:04,719 Speaker 2: are the next two parts of the step, because I 822 00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:08,000 Speaker 2: often find if, particularly with sam my partner, if she's 823 00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:11,360 Speaker 2: very open with me in those moments, I will I 824 00:39:11,400 --> 00:39:14,560 Speaker 2: will almost it. Almost It puts up a mirror to 825 00:39:14,600 --> 00:39:17,839 Speaker 2: you because you go geez, I'm being I'm being I'm 826 00:39:17,840 --> 00:39:19,960 Speaker 2: being a dickhead here? Yeah, sure, Why am I being 827 00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:22,080 Speaker 2: a dickhead? It makes me think about it and then 828 00:39:22,120 --> 00:39:25,239 Speaker 2: I will sort of have the realization myself there's something 829 00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:27,160 Speaker 2: more going on here. It's not Sam's fault. I shouldn't 830 00:39:27,160 --> 00:39:29,919 Speaker 2: be angry at her, but I acknowledge that's a hard part. 831 00:39:30,520 --> 00:39:35,359 Speaker 2: But oh is stay open. If you get past oh, 832 00:39:35,520 --> 00:39:37,440 Speaker 2: and that you still can't figure out what's going on, 833 00:39:37,880 --> 00:39:41,440 Speaker 2: the next one is friends. That's the f so shitty 834 00:39:41,520 --> 00:39:45,560 Speaker 2: open friends. In Australia and countries in general, we say 835 00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:48,279 Speaker 2: boys will be boys. Oh, they're mates, they're the boys, Yeah, 836 00:39:48,320 --> 00:39:52,560 Speaker 2: the boys, all that sort of stuff, and that's often villainized. 837 00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:56,200 Speaker 2: Why didn't you use that? And I think one of 838 00:39:56,239 --> 00:39:57,920 Speaker 2: the reasons that a lot of men don't talk to 839 00:39:57,960 --> 00:40:00,799 Speaker 2: their partners about what they're going through is because it 840 00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:04,759 Speaker 2: emasculates them. You lose your sexiness in the relationship. You're 841 00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:07,640 Speaker 2: vulnerable all of a sudden, you can't you know, you're 842 00:40:07,640 --> 00:40:09,040 Speaker 2: never going to talk to the person that you're meant 843 00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:10,839 Speaker 2: to be sexy around about the fact that you don't 844 00:40:10,880 --> 00:40:13,400 Speaker 2: feel like you're manly at the moment. You won't love 845 00:40:13,440 --> 00:40:18,359 Speaker 2: me if I exactly undermines you. So in order if 846 00:40:18,400 --> 00:40:20,600 Speaker 2: you don't feel like you can have that conversation with him, 847 00:40:20,880 --> 00:40:23,839 Speaker 2: call his best mate, checked his best mate and go, hey, 848 00:40:24,600 --> 00:40:26,759 Speaker 2: he's not talking to me at the moment, I don't 849 00:40:26,760 --> 00:40:28,800 Speaker 2: really know what's going on. Could you please have a chat? 850 00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:33,480 Speaker 2: Because blokes, they stand a chance of maybe having that conversation. 851 00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:35,760 Speaker 5: Yeah, So back on friends. 852 00:40:35,719 --> 00:40:38,880 Speaker 1: So I got one question about that because I and 853 00:40:38,880 --> 00:40:40,920 Speaker 1: I'm someone who really doesn't like talking about my emotions. 854 00:40:41,120 --> 00:40:42,960 Speaker 1: If I found out that MIM message one of my 855 00:40:43,040 --> 00:40:46,319 Speaker 1: best friends behind my back and the friend was now 856 00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:48,520 Speaker 1: talking to me, I would be a chance, I think, 857 00:40:48,520 --> 00:40:49,399 Speaker 1: to be angry at Mim. 858 00:40:49,840 --> 00:40:51,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, but then what would happen after you had a 859 00:40:51,680 --> 00:40:52,640 Speaker 2: conversation with her. 860 00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:55,000 Speaker 5: Oh you're there, bloody hell, check mate. 861 00:40:58,360 --> 00:41:02,440 Speaker 2: I love that you got check made on yourself. Amazing. 862 00:41:03,040 --> 00:41:05,480 Speaker 2: So that's friends. And then the final one therapy. And 863 00:41:05,600 --> 00:41:08,320 Speaker 2: I recognize I think everyone should go to therapy. I 864 00:41:08,320 --> 00:41:10,120 Speaker 2: think it's the best thing you can ever do. Really, 865 00:41:10,440 --> 00:41:12,799 Speaker 2: it's amazing thing to do. But I also recognize, and 866 00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:14,000 Speaker 2: this is a little tip that I give in the 867 00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:16,520 Speaker 2: podcast as well, but one thing that my partner did 868 00:41:16,520 --> 00:41:18,839 Speaker 2: with me, which so yeah, I mean, if you're at 869 00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:21,239 Speaker 2: that point and you cannot get this person talking and 870 00:41:21,280 --> 00:41:23,600 Speaker 2: you really worried about them, you can't. You can't push 871 00:41:23,640 --> 00:41:26,279 Speaker 2: them into therapy. What Sem did with me once, which 872 00:41:26,320 --> 00:41:29,240 Speaker 2: was very crafty, very clever, and I would highly recommend it. 873 00:41:29,320 --> 00:41:31,480 Speaker 2: As she said, Okay, fine, there's no issues with you. 874 00:41:31,560 --> 00:41:34,200 Speaker 2: I think we've got a big issue with us. I 875 00:41:34,239 --> 00:41:37,640 Speaker 2: want to go to couple's therapy. And I'm like, and 876 00:41:37,680 --> 00:41:40,040 Speaker 2: then I walk into couple's therapy with my chest out 877 00:41:40,080 --> 00:41:42,239 Speaker 2: going off. It's no issue with me. You know, a 878 00:41:42,239 --> 00:41:43,880 Speaker 2: couple's therapy, we're just going to find out there's an 879 00:41:43,880 --> 00:41:44,760 Speaker 2: issue with the relationship. 880 00:41:44,880 --> 00:41:46,719 Speaker 5: You're probably thinking, look, I'm just hit to support her. 881 00:41:46,840 --> 00:41:50,719 Speaker 2: That's exactly right, therapist. Yes, yes, I'm so glad you 882 00:41:50,719 --> 00:41:53,200 Speaker 2: can see all the deficiencies with her. One session into 883 00:41:53,200 --> 00:41:58,000 Speaker 2: couples therapy. She was I might be the problem. So 884 00:41:58,080 --> 00:42:00,000 Speaker 2: that's a little crafty way to do it and leverage 885 00:42:00,080 --> 00:42:02,359 Speaker 2: yourself blackmail them like. This is perfectly what Sem did 886 00:42:02,360 --> 00:42:05,120 Speaker 2: to me. She was like, look, we're going a couple's therapy. 887 00:42:05,280 --> 00:42:06,960 Speaker 2: It's over, and they then they're not going to want 888 00:42:06,960 --> 00:42:09,120 Speaker 2: to lose you, of course, but maybe you get to 889 00:42:09,120 --> 00:42:11,040 Speaker 2: that point where you really need that so and then 890 00:42:11,040 --> 00:42:14,280 Speaker 2: once they're in that therapy streamline, hopefully they can help themselves. 891 00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:17,000 Speaker 2: So yeah, soft s o ft bloody good stuff.