WEBVTT - FULLSHOW! Matty J will throw out the minty toothpaste.. Laura will have special time with him! 0:00:12.600 --> 0:00:24.160 Laura, come on, hello, hello everybody. Guess what? Hi? Hi, Sorry, 0:00:24.200 --> 0:00:26.360 I'm feeling mad? What feeling? 0:00:26.880 --> 0:00:27.840 You've come in hot today? 0:00:28.160 --> 0:00:28.280 Well? 0:00:28.280 --> 0:00:30.360 No, if I can't even introduce myself, so she is. 0:00:31.320 --> 0:00:33.120 No, I'm actually not. I'm not that steeming. Have you 0:00:33.159 --> 0:00:36.000 seen the new movie on Netflix that everyone's talking about. 0:00:36.159 --> 0:00:38.680 It's called Leave the World Behind. It's got Julie. 0:00:38.400 --> 0:00:40.160 Roberts in it. 0:00:40.159 --> 0:00:42.120 It's like a drama end of the World. 0:00:42.280 --> 0:00:43.760 It's all thriller, drama, thriller. 0:00:43.800 --> 0:00:45.879 I haven't seen it, as in watched it, but I 0:00:45.920 --> 0:00:48.159 have seen it advertised and I cannot wait to watch. 0:00:48.280 --> 0:00:49.839 Everyone's talking about it on Netflix. 0:00:49.880 --> 0:00:52.440 So everyone's talking about it, and I don't watch many movies. 0:00:52.520 --> 0:00:54.240 I've got to find the time. It's like I've got 0:00:54.240 --> 0:00:56.000 to work myself up for watching a movie. 0:00:56.360 --> 0:00:56.760 Anyway. 0:00:56.920 --> 0:00:59.000 I was like, okay, I'm here for the hype. I 0:00:59.040 --> 0:00:59.959 put it on last night. 0:01:01.040 --> 0:01:01.720 I hated it. 0:01:01.800 --> 0:01:03.400 I don't know if this is a poor take, but 0:01:03.560 --> 0:01:07.280 I am still mad because it just it doesn't actually end. 0:01:07.400 --> 0:01:10.240 It just finishes and then you're left with more questions. 0:01:10.280 --> 0:01:12.679 But it didn't nail it for everybody. That's not a spoiler. 0:01:12.720 --> 0:01:15.039 You don't know what happened. I don't even know what happened. End, 0:01:15.440 --> 0:01:16.040 it doesn't end. 0:01:16.080 --> 0:01:18.360 Is it still playing? It's still going on? 0:01:18.480 --> 0:01:19.279 I had a loop. 0:01:19.600 --> 0:01:23.000 I have more questions than I have answers, and I've 0:01:23.040 --> 0:01:24.039 seen the movie now. 0:01:24.080 --> 0:01:26.039 Maybe they're setting it up for a second one. 0:01:26.280 --> 0:01:28.760 Yeah, Lora, Perhaps I don't mean to be rude. Was 0:01:28.760 --> 0:01:31.640 it the TV series that you started and you just need. 0:01:31.560 --> 0:01:32.480 To watch the next episode? 0:01:32.600 --> 0:01:35.920 No, that's sad because Julia Roberts can almost do no 0:01:36.000 --> 0:01:36.800 wrong in my eyes. 0:01:36.840 --> 0:01:38.240 But you know what, I love her as well, but 0:01:38.280 --> 0:01:40.320 she's always in a rom com. She's always in these 0:01:40.360 --> 0:01:43.880 like quite like fun, uplifting, like happy movies, and so 0:01:43.959 --> 0:01:46.120 seeing her in a thriller, and I know that I 0:01:46.200 --> 0:01:47.840 might be the minority because a lot of people have 0:01:47.880 --> 0:01:49.280 seen it, have been raving. 0:01:48.960 --> 0:01:50.440 On it across social media. 0:01:50.520 --> 0:01:53.000 But I watched it with my dad and my husband 0:01:53.080 --> 0:01:55.120 and all of us. When it finished, we were like, 0:01:55.640 --> 0:01:58.800 is that it really Okay? Let's watch it tonight and 0:01:58.840 --> 0:01:59.560 we'll get back to that. 0:01:59.720 --> 0:02:00.360 Yeah, okay. 0:02:00.400 --> 0:02:03.640 If you like your artie weird sci fi movies where 0:02:03.640 --> 0:02:06.360 there's like very unusual camera angles and stuff, maybe you 0:02:06.480 --> 0:02:06.680 like it. 0:02:06.720 --> 0:02:08.440 But it was too much away. It was it was 0:02:08.680 --> 0:02:09.280 no not for me. 0:02:10.080 --> 0:02:13.480 Okay, well, in breaking news, you have heard of girl math, 0:02:13.520 --> 0:02:17.160 but I have coined a new term, lady lingo. 0:02:17.600 --> 0:02:19.080 Oh, lady lingo. 0:02:19.240 --> 0:02:21.160 Yep, lady lingo, and I'm going to tell you all 0:02:21.200 --> 0:02:22.000 about it after the point. 0:02:22.200 --> 0:02:26.400 I Britain an entrepreneur, Era, I am trademark. Yeah, Richard 0:02:26.400 --> 0:02:27.040 Brandton is in town. 0:02:27.080 --> 0:02:29.240 He might snap it up. We'll find out a message. Well, 0:02:29.360 --> 0:02:30.880 lady lingos next here at the pickup. 0:02:31.639 --> 0:02:34.960 Okay, we've all heard of girl math, but have you 0:02:35.160 --> 0:02:39.600 heard of lady lingo? No, that's because I have coined 0:02:39.639 --> 0:02:41.400 a new term, lady lingo. 0:02:42.000 --> 0:02:43.800 Okay, you have to give a bit of context. 0:02:43.960 --> 0:02:47.440 Binger sounds like binger. Come to lady lingo the local 0:02:47.520 --> 0:02:48.240 retirement village. 0:02:48.240 --> 0:02:49.640 Okay, let me tell you how I got to this 0:02:49.720 --> 0:02:52.760 new term. Last week, two weeks ago. Sorry, it was 0:02:52.840 --> 0:02:56.359 my anniversary with my partner Ben. Now we are long distance, 0:02:56.400 --> 0:02:58.520 but he happened to be here for three days. He 0:02:58.560 --> 0:03:01.040 came for a quick visit and it fell over our anniversary. 0:03:01.240 --> 0:03:02.639 Don't think I've ever made it to one year in 0:03:02.639 --> 0:03:04.080 a relationship, so it was exciting for me. 0:03:04.160 --> 0:03:05.920 I was like, I'm kidding, a milestone it's a new 0:03:05.960 --> 0:03:07.160 mouth said, I'm going to celebrate this. 0:03:07.240 --> 0:03:07.720 I'm in love. 0:03:08.280 --> 0:03:12.040 So I wrote this like beautiful long letter for him, 0:03:12.240 --> 0:03:15.000 just like expressing my love and my feelings and my emotions. 0:03:15.000 --> 0:03:17.000 I got him a beautiful card, and I got him 0:03:17.360 --> 0:03:20.160 a pretty extravagant gift. It was quite expensive. It was 0:03:20.200 --> 0:03:22.880 a designer hat that he really wanted. He didn't ask 0:03:22.919 --> 0:03:24.160 for a but I knew he wanted. I wrapped it 0:03:24.240 --> 0:03:26.960 up impeccably. It was an amazing present. And know when 0:03:26.960 --> 0:03:28.360 you've nailed the brief and you know it. 0:03:28.440 --> 0:03:30.639 Yeah, but you're also you're a very good gift giver, 0:03:30.800 --> 0:03:32.360 Like that's one of your that's one thing that you 0:03:32.400 --> 0:03:33.400 are very thoughtful about. 0:03:33.520 --> 0:03:35.040 You've put a lot of thought into gifts. 0:03:35.080 --> 0:03:37.240 I do like it. I like to make other people happy. Anyway. 0:03:37.240 --> 0:03:39.800 I also love receiving gifts, let it be noted. So 0:03:39.960 --> 0:03:41.240 I give him this present. 0:03:40.960 --> 0:03:42.880 And it was the night before right because I was like, 0:03:42.880 --> 0:03:44.680 I want to give you a present now, a night early. 0:03:44.760 --> 0:03:46.600 I've done that. When the excitement's so high, you go, 0:03:46.720 --> 0:03:47.120 just do it. 0:03:47.040 --> 0:03:48.200 At midnight totally. 0:03:48.240 --> 0:03:49.840 So he opened he was like, oh my god, it's amazing, 0:03:49.840 --> 0:03:51.720 Thank you so much. And I was looking at him 0:03:51.760 --> 0:03:54.560 like you know it's mine. 0:03:55.720 --> 0:03:57.680 And he goes, oh, oh, do you want yours now? 0:03:57.720 --> 0:03:59.520 And I say yeah, yeah, like for sure. 0:03:59.600 --> 0:04:01.600 So he does put his hand into a bag, pulled 0:04:01.640 --> 0:04:03.520 it out and just gave me a bottle of perfume. 0:04:03.640 --> 0:04:06.960 Wasn't wrapped, no card, nothing, and I was like, oh, 0:04:06.960 --> 0:04:07.360 thank you. 0:04:08.640 --> 0:04:09.440 Near Is there a card? 0:04:09.520 --> 0:04:11.160 He's like no, and I was like, oh, like a 0:04:11.240 --> 0:04:13.920 letter or anything, and he's like no. And I was like, oh, okay, 0:04:14.600 --> 0:04:15.480 open to the perfume. 0:04:15.480 --> 0:04:16.360 Didn't open it. 0:04:16.279 --> 0:04:18.040 Because it wasn't wrapped, just pulled the lid off and 0:04:18.080 --> 0:04:19.440 I was like, that's right. The main present must be 0:04:19.480 --> 0:04:22.719 coming tomorrow. That's what I thought. So tomorrow comes and 0:04:22.760 --> 0:04:26.200 there was nothing, and I said, hey, question, did you 0:04:26.279 --> 0:04:27.280 just get that perfume? 0:04:27.520 --> 0:04:29.640 Like literally yesterday Judy Free in the airport? 0:04:29.680 --> 0:04:30.320 Oh wait you give? 0:04:30.440 --> 0:04:32.680 Questioned him, Britt. That makes me so uncomfortable. 0:04:32.680 --> 0:04:34.359 Out of curiosity, I was like, hey, did you grab 0:04:34.360 --> 0:04:35.560 that on your O stream Judy Free? 0:04:35.560 --> 0:04:37.400 And he was like yeah, and I was like, oh cool. 0:04:37.440 --> 0:04:40.600 I was like, I was like, so just wondering, like 0:04:40.960 --> 0:04:42.240 how come you didn't decide to get me a card 0:04:42.320 --> 0:04:45.560 or a present or anything. And he's like, oh, well, 0:04:45.640 --> 0:04:50.360 you said, let's not get each other present. I was like, Babe, 0:04:50.920 --> 0:04:54.919 are you kidding me? That obviously means get me a present. 0:04:55.000 --> 0:04:58.400 Like no woman in the history of ever would say 0:04:58.520 --> 0:05:00.440 don't get me a present and actually mean it. 0:05:00.400 --> 0:05:03.120 Like that's a throwaway comment. I think this is very 0:05:03.120 --> 0:05:03.919 confusing for me. 0:05:04.600 --> 0:05:06.800 Yeah, Britt, I'm a guy and I'm really lost. So 0:05:06.880 --> 0:05:09.200 you said don't get me a present. He didn't get 0:05:09.200 --> 0:05:10.760 you a present, and now you're mad. 0:05:10.880 --> 0:05:13.640 Hey, girl says don't get me anything, it usually means like, 0:05:13.800 --> 0:05:14.479 get her something. 0:05:14.520 --> 0:05:15.880 It's like when somebody. 0:05:16.839 --> 0:05:20.599 No, okay, I would say, majority of girls, if they 0:05:20.640 --> 0:05:24.720 say don't get me anything, they mean don't get me nothing. 0:05:24.880 --> 0:05:26.760 Get me something and at least put a little bit 0:05:26.760 --> 0:05:28.039 of thought in it, but don't spend too much money. 0:05:28.120 --> 0:05:28.440 Got it? 0:05:28.480 --> 0:05:28.800 Okay? 0:05:28.880 --> 0:05:31.320 So where lady Lingo comes from? Because Ben was like, Babe, 0:05:31.320 --> 0:05:32.960 you can't say one thing and mean another. And I 0:05:32.960 --> 0:05:34.640 was like, well, in fact, you can, and all women do. 0:05:34.720 --> 0:05:36.159 And then I thought, oh my god, this is actually 0:05:36.200 --> 0:05:36.520 a thing. 0:05:36.720 --> 0:05:39.159 Lady ling you're having an argument. 0:05:39.320 --> 0:05:39.919 More examples. 0:05:40.120 --> 0:05:43.640 Okay, you're having an argument and he says, babees everything okay, 0:05:43.760 --> 0:05:45.080 and you're like yeah, it's fine. 0:05:45.279 --> 0:05:46.200 Are you sure it's fine? 0:05:46.360 --> 0:05:46.600 Sure? 0:05:46.720 --> 0:05:48.839 Absolutely fine? The floor is lava. 0:05:48.960 --> 0:05:49.880 It is not fine. 0:05:50.000 --> 0:05:52.200 It is never absolutely okay. I have one for you. 0:05:52.360 --> 0:05:54.520 For example, when I say to my husband, do you 0:05:54.560 --> 0:05:55.119 want to drive? 0:05:55.680 --> 0:05:55.760 Me? 0:05:55.880 --> 0:05:59.159 Asking do you want to drive means I'm not driving. 0:05:59.400 --> 0:06:01.080 I do not want to drive. I will not drive 0:06:01.080 --> 0:06:03.640 the car and you will drive. It's not a questions, 0:06:04.040 --> 0:06:04.839 that's a state question. 0:06:05.120 --> 0:06:06.800 I think I'm getting there. I think because I'm gay. 0:06:06.839 --> 0:06:10.279 I think I also use lady lingo, what do you yeah? 0:06:10.320 --> 0:06:12.080 If I make at dinner with friends and I go, oh, 0:06:12.120 --> 0:06:13.320 do you guys want to transfer me? 0:06:13.480 --> 0:06:16.359 That means get your phone out? Transfer. 0:06:17.400 --> 0:06:19.640 This is a good one, right Like when a guy, 0:06:19.720 --> 0:06:22.360 if you ever call up your partner she's at home 0:06:22.480 --> 0:06:24.360 and you're like, babe, gone through a drive story, You're like, 0:06:24.360 --> 0:06:25.400 I'm gonna get myself some dinner. 0:06:25.440 --> 0:06:27.920 You're hungry, Do you want anything? No, I'm okay. 0:06:28.600 --> 0:06:30.320 If you want to eat your meal, you get that 0:06:30.360 --> 0:06:33.160 girl a burger. She is always, whether she knows she's 0:06:33.200 --> 0:06:34.800 hunger or not, she's going to eat it. Whether she 0:06:34.839 --> 0:06:36.880 says she wants to share, she's gonna eat it. No. 0:06:36.960 --> 0:06:38.560 This I think that this goes a step further. 0:06:38.720 --> 0:06:41.599 Usually in the relationships, it's when when partner says, you know, 0:06:41.720 --> 0:06:43.320 do you want anything to eat and the other one 0:06:43.320 --> 0:06:45.359 says no, The girl says no, no, I don't, but that 0:06:45.440 --> 0:06:47.520 means I'm going to eat yours. So if you don't 0:06:47.560 --> 0:06:49.480 want me to eat yours, you need to get extra 0:06:49.600 --> 0:06:51.360 because I know I said I don't want anything to eat, 0:06:51.360 --> 0:06:52.880 but what I'm actually saying is I don't want you 0:06:52.920 --> 0:06:53.800 to order me a whole meal. 0:06:53.920 --> 0:06:54.719 I'm fully for this. 0:06:54.960 --> 0:06:56.400 I do think we need to like carve it into 0:06:56.400 --> 0:06:58.560 a tablet or something and make some like ancient rules, 0:06:58.600 --> 0:06:59.720 because there are rules. 0:06:59.480 --> 0:07:02.240 Here, so many. Okay, I've got one more. If any 0:07:02.279 --> 0:07:06.120 girl ever says I like him, but I like him, 0:07:06.120 --> 0:07:07.680 but you know, and then goes on to say something, 0:07:07.680 --> 0:07:09.440 what she's actually saying is she does not like him, 0:07:10.800 --> 0:07:13.040 it's not happening, Lingo. 0:07:12.880 --> 0:07:16.160 Lady Lingo, it's the and every single person listening has 0:07:16.200 --> 0:07:16.880 their own version. 0:07:16.920 --> 0:07:19.280 I love if you're listening d MS at the pickup 0:07:19.360 --> 0:07:20.600 or the pickup dot com dot au. 0:07:20.880 --> 0:07:23.080 What's your lady lingo like? Do you have an example? 0:07:23.080 --> 0:07:23.720 Okay, one more. 0:07:23.800 --> 0:07:25.960 When you're leaving somewhere or you're going to somewhere and 0:07:26.000 --> 0:07:27.760 someone says, hey, do you want to lift? 0:07:28.240 --> 0:07:30.720 Oh not, It's okay, I can walk pick her up? 0:07:34.800 --> 0:07:35.800 All right? Everyone next. 0:07:36.000 --> 0:07:38.720 Over the weekend, Jesus, I was in a tricky moral conundrum. 0:07:38.880 --> 0:07:41.000 I got a free meal at a restaurant, but it 0:07:41.000 --> 0:07:43.720 shouldn't have happened, and I think I need to apologize. 0:07:43.840 --> 0:07:46.320 So what you mean is you thieve something? 0:07:45.320 --> 0:07:50.040 You're right, and I'm being arrested in the songs that's 0:07:50.080 --> 0:07:54.000 next to the pickup girls. I had such a I think, 0:07:54.080 --> 0:07:56.280 successful dinner over the weekend. 0:07:56.640 --> 0:07:59.360 I was a successful dinner. You ate, I ate, and. 0:07:59.280 --> 0:08:01.640 I ate for I went this beautiful new restaurant in 0:08:01.680 --> 0:08:03.400 the local area. I took the guy that I was dating, 0:08:03.440 --> 0:08:05.080 and there was some friends there. I thought, this is 0:08:05.120 --> 0:08:07.920 gonna be a great night out at a brand new restaurant. 0:08:07.960 --> 0:08:09.280 And you know when you go to a new local 0:08:09.360 --> 0:08:11.720 you get excited. The menu's overwhelming. They hand it to 0:08:11.800 --> 0:08:13.840 you and they had in the center of the menu 0:08:14.200 --> 0:08:17.080 banquet available eighty five per head. We all looked at 0:08:17.120 --> 0:08:19.400 each other, we went, screw it, just get the banquet. 0:08:19.400 --> 0:08:20.120 We don't want to order. 0:08:20.240 --> 0:08:22.320 It takes the choice out of it. 0:08:22.120 --> 0:08:22.960 Make it easy. 0:08:23.040 --> 0:08:26.920 Yes, yes, yeah, you don't look at all the individual items. 0:08:26.960 --> 0:08:29.040 You kind of go A bit of beef, it's a salad, 0:08:29.040 --> 0:08:31.720 and some and some garlic free whatever put it in. 0:08:32.000 --> 0:08:33.880 So we ordered the banquet. We sit there, we're drinking. 0:08:34.040 --> 0:08:36.520 The banquet arrives one by one, the food comes, we 0:08:36.600 --> 0:08:38.640 eat it, We eat it, and the banquet has stopped, 0:08:38.800 --> 0:08:41.280 clearly ended, and we all kind of look at each 0:08:41.280 --> 0:08:45.040 other and go, oh, it wasn't really enough food. 0:08:45.480 --> 0:08:46.800 Were a little bit peckish. 0:08:47.800 --> 0:08:50.160 Can't be peckish after a banquet? You can if it's 0:08:50.160 --> 0:08:52.000 like one skull, but they've not done a good enough job. 0:08:52.000 --> 0:08:53.720 If you're still peckish after a bankleet. 0:08:53.480 --> 0:08:53.960 Well that's the thing. 0:08:54.160 --> 0:08:55.880 That's what we're thinking, Like, of course, one there's a 0:08:55.880 --> 0:08:57.600 bit more food. Oh well, we'll be fine, we'll get 0:08:57.600 --> 0:08:59.840 some dessert and we'll be all right. Anyway, that's when 0:08:59.840 --> 0:09:03.240 the waitress walks over and she's got a beautiful, large, 0:09:03.360 --> 0:09:05.200 juicy chunk of barremundy on the plate. 0:09:05.400 --> 0:09:06.679 This restaurant has just opened. 0:09:06.679 --> 0:09:08.920 It's opening weekend, so that staff is still finding their 0:09:08.920 --> 0:09:09.959 feet brand new menu. 0:09:10.160 --> 0:09:11.760 So she walks up and she goes, did you guys 0:09:11.840 --> 0:09:12.720 get the Barramunday? 0:09:13.160 --> 0:09:16.839 And I see this as a complete opportunity to say absolutely, yeah, 0:09:16.880 --> 0:09:18.640 we got we got the barrel Mundy. We ordered it 0:09:18.679 --> 0:09:20.800 in the banquet, and she went, I don't think the 0:09:20.800 --> 0:09:23.679 barrel money in the banquet. And I knew there wasn't 0:09:23.720 --> 0:09:25.800 any barral money in the banquet, but I wanted that 0:09:25.800 --> 0:09:28.240 barrel Monday. So I said, oh yeah, yeah, no, I 0:09:28.280 --> 0:09:30.800 definitely was the reason we ordered the banquet was because 0:09:30.800 --> 0:09:32.280 I love me some baron moundy. 0:09:32.360 --> 0:09:33.560 So that's for us me. 0:09:33.800 --> 0:09:35.400 So she looked at me like you double down on 0:09:35.440 --> 0:09:35.760 the line. 0:09:35.760 --> 0:09:36.600 Oh wait, double down. 0:09:37.720 --> 0:09:40.160 I'm a barrel mundy other fish. 0:09:40.760 --> 0:09:42.839 I was so evil the table next to me. 0:09:42.920 --> 0:09:44.240 You know, when you've ordered your food and it's taking 0:09:44.240 --> 0:09:46.439 it a little while too long, so you're watching every 0:09:46.480 --> 0:09:49.160 plate that the waitress brings out. This was the table 0:09:49.200 --> 0:09:51.560 next to me's barrel Mondy that they've been waiting on, 0:09:51.640 --> 0:09:53.040 and they saw her come to me. 0:09:53.360 --> 0:09:54.200 See me take it. 0:09:54.400 --> 0:09:57.120 She the waitress reluctantly puts it on the table and 0:09:57.200 --> 0:10:00.640 like paranhas we all ravished this Barremunday. She then walks 0:10:00.679 --> 0:10:02.679 back the waitress about two minutes later and goes, I 0:10:02.800 --> 0:10:06.600 just wanted to say the Barramundy wasn't included in the banquet. 0:10:06.920 --> 0:10:09.080 But when when you it's on the house, enjoyed, enjoy 0:10:09.120 --> 0:10:09.679 the barramundy. 0:10:11.760 --> 0:10:14.040 You stole that. 0:10:14.640 --> 0:10:19.320 Yeah, you intentionally set up to take somebody else's fish. 0:10:19.480 --> 0:10:22.959 Have a ballad klava on and a baseball a fishing rod. 0:10:24.320 --> 0:10:26.160 I mean it did it? You did it. 0:10:26.320 --> 0:10:28.520 You just gave a bit of information and said, you know, 0:10:28.600 --> 0:10:29.720 I think it's in the banquet. 0:10:30.000 --> 0:10:32.600 No, he said, it's definitely in the banquet. 0:10:33.600 --> 0:10:36.400 I am more on your side, he image, because I 0:10:36.440 --> 0:10:38.520 think as a waitress it's your job to know what 0:10:38.640 --> 0:10:40.040 isn't in the banquet. 0:10:39.640 --> 0:10:41.200 And if you're not sure, don't put it down on 0:10:41.200 --> 0:10:41.600 the table. 0:10:41.640 --> 0:10:42.840 Once it's down, it's free game. 0:10:43.559 --> 0:10:45.240 If you've put that down on the table, you can't 0:10:45.240 --> 0:10:46.400 take a Backyone. 0:10:45.920 --> 0:10:47.960 Says that in the hospitality played on table, free game. 0:10:48.520 --> 0:10:50.480 Both are shady little suckers. 0:10:51.760 --> 0:10:53.839 Never going to trust either of you. Again, you should 0:10:53.880 --> 0:10:55.560 you'll get more food when we go out for dinner. 0:10:55.760 --> 0:10:57.480 You'll get my food. 0:10:57.679 --> 0:10:59.880 Oh yeah, wouldn't bat niling Mitch. 0:11:00.000 --> 0:11:00.880 I don't have a problem with this. 0:11:01.080 --> 0:11:03.360 I think that if you're at a restaurant, if they're 0:11:03.360 --> 0:11:05.520 going to put food on your table, then it's yours 0:11:05.520 --> 0:11:05.760 to eat. 0:11:06.000 --> 0:11:09.680 Yeah, let's capitalize on this poor new little waitress on 0:11:09.679 --> 0:11:11.800 a first day on the job of a brand new restaurant. 0:11:11.800 --> 0:11:13.800 She's just trying to save some money to get by. 0:11:14.240 --> 0:11:16.679 Yeah, you show her, you take her money and make 0:11:16.720 --> 0:11:17.520 her get fired. 0:11:17.600 --> 0:11:20.120 She was a bat from France. I didn't take her money. 0:11:20.160 --> 0:11:22.320 I just took her Yeah, but now she gave away 0:11:22.320 --> 0:11:22.720 free food. 0:11:22.760 --> 0:11:23.560 What if the restaurant fires? 0:11:23.600 --> 0:11:24.960 Are you? 0:11:25.040 --> 0:11:27.880 Are so dramatic as if Brittany Hockley, the Queen of 0:11:27.920 --> 0:11:31.200 Carbonara sitting down at your local Italian if they had 0:11:31.200 --> 0:11:33.679 a plate of Carbonara and said did you order this? 0:11:33.760 --> 0:11:34.640 You wouldn't say yet. 0:11:34.679 --> 0:11:34.839 No. 0:11:35.160 --> 0:11:36.960 What I always say because this happens a lot, right, 0:11:37.000 --> 0:11:38.560 people always get brought the wrong food. 0:11:38.640 --> 0:11:41.120 I always say, I didn't order that, but I do 0:11:41.280 --> 0:11:43.120 love it. If it's going back to the kitchen, I'll 0:11:43.160 --> 0:11:43.480 take it. 0:11:43.520 --> 0:11:45.160 I always say that, Oh, you're such a mummy. 0:11:45.320 --> 0:11:46.600 I mean, do you know what, I'm. 0:11:46.520 --> 0:11:48.400 The most mum non mom that there is. 0:11:48.440 --> 0:11:49.840 I mean, I'm the mum and I'll still take the 0:11:49.840 --> 0:11:50.319 free food. 0:11:50.320 --> 0:11:50.400 No. 0:11:50.480 --> 0:11:52.280 I think that this is a learning curve for everyone. 0:11:52.480 --> 0:11:53.839 I think that she's not going to make the same 0:11:53.880 --> 0:11:56.360 mistake twice, and you don't get fired for one mistake. 0:11:56.440 --> 0:11:58.560 So if she does it again and once again, it's 0:11:58.600 --> 0:11:58.800 on her. 0:11:58.880 --> 0:12:00.600 I just love that we flipped it from me being 0:12:00.640 --> 0:12:02.439 in the wrong to this waitress. 0:12:02.000 --> 0:12:03.720 She's in competent. 0:12:03.840 --> 0:12:05.959 Flaura's like moral of the story, fire the word. 0:12:08.040 --> 0:12:08.640 To friends. 0:12:08.880 --> 0:12:11.080 Yeah, a bit extreme, but I'm dramatic. 0:12:11.320 --> 0:12:14.400 Oh all right, Well, look, I have a question for 0:12:14.440 --> 0:12:14.839 you guys. 0:12:15.320 --> 0:12:18.280 Do you think it's okay to bear your partner from 0:12:18.320 --> 0:12:21.600 certain things, like to stop them from doing or using 0:12:21.640 --> 0:12:22.120 certain things. 0:12:22.200 --> 0:12:24.240 I think it's okay if you're bearing your partner from 0:12:24.240 --> 0:12:25.280 stealing food at a restaurant. 0:12:25.360 --> 0:12:27.240 Yeah, yeah, Well I don't seem to have a problem 0:12:27.280 --> 0:12:28.920 with that. But there is something that I've banned Matt 0:12:28.960 --> 0:12:31.840 from doing, and I don't know. Maybe I'm in the wrong, 0:12:31.880 --> 0:12:33.120 but maybe I'm onto something. 0:12:33.200 --> 0:12:35.160 Okay, all right, that's next here at the pickup. 0:12:35.960 --> 0:12:39.960 I have a true phobia to chewing gum, Like I 0:12:40.000 --> 0:12:42.360 can't be in the same room as someone chewing chewing gum. 0:12:42.400 --> 0:12:45.680 It makes me feel like my anxiety goes through the roof. 0:12:45.800 --> 0:12:48.360 I feel hot and sweaty, like I can't stand the 0:12:48.400 --> 0:12:50.880 smell of it. I can't stand the sound of it 0:12:50.920 --> 0:12:54.120 makes me feel physically sick. Now, this goes beyond chewing gum. 0:12:54.520 --> 0:12:58.560 It's actually anything that smells like the smell of chewing gum, 0:12:58.600 --> 0:13:01.120 Like it's a specific chewing gum. It's the mintiness. It's 0:13:01.160 --> 0:13:05.280 the overpowering stench of minty breath. Now, matt uses a 0:13:05.320 --> 0:13:07.280 toothpaste and it is his favorite toothpaste, and he's been 0:13:07.320 --> 0:13:08.280 using it for a really long time. 0:13:08.320 --> 0:13:10.240 Your husband, Mattie J My husband, Matty JA. 0:13:10.600 --> 0:13:12.720 So anytime he brings chewing gum home into the house, 0:13:12.800 --> 0:13:14.000 I will throw it in the bin or I will 0:13:14.080 --> 0:13:15.760 hide it. And he just thinks he's gone through with 0:13:15.800 --> 0:13:17.440 the packet of chewing gum. He thinks that it just 0:13:17.480 --> 0:13:21.040 magically disappeared. But recently he started using this toothpaste that 0:13:21.200 --> 0:13:25.119 smells identical to chewing gum. And it is so revolting 0:13:25.160 --> 0:13:27.320 to me that anytimes he brings it into the bathroom, 0:13:27.360 --> 0:13:28.880 I then have to go and hide it, to hide 0:13:28.880 --> 0:13:30.839 it either in the cupboard or I hide it like 0:13:30.920 --> 0:13:33.200 under the basin. I just can't stand the thought of 0:13:33.240 --> 0:13:36.080 him coming to bed and the mintiness of it being 0:13:36.120 --> 0:13:37.560 in his mustache and in his mouth. 0:13:37.880 --> 0:13:39.360 He brought his mustache with that. 0:13:39.840 --> 0:13:44.400 He's the mustache now it lingers just buy different toothpaste. 0:13:43.840 --> 0:13:45.200 No, I do, I have one. 0:13:45.280 --> 0:13:47.720 There is a specific kind of toothpaste that's okay for 0:13:47.800 --> 0:13:48.360 him to use. 0:13:48.559 --> 0:13:49.760 He likes the other one. 0:13:49.840 --> 0:13:51.959 He's allowed to buy his favorite toothpaste. 0:13:52.000 --> 0:13:52.280 I know. 0:13:52.400 --> 0:13:55.960 But what happens if you're dating someone who uses something 0:13:56.040 --> 0:13:58.959 that you hate? Is it okay to hide it or 0:13:59.000 --> 0:14:00.560 to throw it in the bin, or to ban them 0:14:00.600 --> 0:14:01.160 from using it? 0:14:01.720 --> 0:14:02.520 Or am I insane? 0:14:02.559 --> 0:14:04.080 I think it's you break up with them. 0:14:04.440 --> 0:14:06.360 I'm not breaking over my husband over toothpape. 0:14:06.360 --> 0:14:09.880 I don't know that was advice for Maddie and Natalie's 0:14:09.920 --> 0:14:11.120 here on thirteen one or six five? 0:14:11.160 --> 0:14:12.520 Do you do that? Well? 0:14:12.840 --> 0:14:16.000 My boyfriend I threw out a pair of his shoes. 0:14:16.080 --> 0:14:18.640 He had, you know, those like black and white checkers 0:14:18.640 --> 0:14:19.640 slip on van. 0:14:19.760 --> 0:14:22.480 Oh yeah, from when you're like seventeen. 0:14:22.600 --> 0:14:25.600 Yes, literally like massive blink on eity two fan. I 0:14:25.680 --> 0:14:28.680 get it, But like we've moved on, surely, but he. 0:14:28.560 --> 0:14:30.440 Didn't move on. Does he know that you threw them away? 0:14:30.480 --> 0:14:31.760