WEBVTT - Ask Uncut - We missed our birthday... again 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:03.400 Life on Cut acknowledges the traditional custodians of country whose 0:00:03.480 --> 0:00:06.160 lands were never seated. We pay our respects to their 0:00:06.160 --> 0:00:07.600 elders past and present. 0:00:07.560 --> 0:00:11.320 Always was, always will be Aboriginal Land. This episode was 0:00:11.360 --> 0:00:12.760 recorded on Cameragle Land. 0:00:22.480 --> 0:00:24.640 Hi, guys, and welcome back to another episode of Life 0:00:24.680 --> 0:00:25.079 on Cut. 0:00:25.120 --> 0:00:28.600 I'm Laura, I'm Brittany, and this is us Gun Cut 0:00:28.600 --> 0:00:30.240 where we answer you're. 0:00:30.280 --> 0:00:33.080 Dark and burning and deep down and dirty questions. Yeah, 0:00:33.159 --> 0:00:35.360 Therapy Thursday, we call it, we do us. 0:00:35.560 --> 0:00:37.120 I mean, we've been calling it that for five years. 0:00:37.159 --> 0:00:38.400 And you know why we've been calling. 0:00:38.159 --> 0:00:40.720 It that for five years, because that's the name. Because 0:00:40.720 --> 0:00:44.320 it's our five year birthday. Bitches today, No, it was 0:00:44.400 --> 0:00:47.320 last week and we didn't celebrate. Why do we miss 0:00:47.479 --> 0:00:52.280 every milestone ever? July seventeen was actually our birthday. It's 0:00:52.280 --> 0:00:54.280 now what July twenty five when we're recording this, twenty 0:00:54.360 --> 0:00:57.960 July twenty four, one week exactly delayed. So we recorded 0:00:58.040 --> 0:00:59.080 on our anniversary. 0:00:59.160 --> 0:01:02.440 We did, and we completely forgot. And so I'm here 0:01:02.480 --> 0:01:04.200 to tell you that we have been. 0:01:04.040 --> 0:01:07.480 A happy family. Ben and I celebrated our six month 0:01:07.520 --> 0:01:10.760 anniversary and I can't even remember the podcast five year anniversary. 0:01:10.959 --> 0:01:13.040 Look in our defense, though, I mean I've had Tony 0:01:13.080 --> 0:01:15.319 May for almost sixteen years now, and not once have 0:01:15.400 --> 0:01:18.840 I celebrated a birthday. To me, you're like five years old, 0:01:19.120 --> 0:01:22.920 sixteen or fifteen, maybe it's fifteen. I've not celebrated a birthday, 0:01:22.920 --> 0:01:24.440 so I can't remember. But I started when I was 0:01:24.440 --> 0:01:26.080 in my early twenties. So ya, I'm fucking old. 0:01:26.160 --> 0:01:28.520 Go's how old you are? Do the match shocks me? 0:01:28.840 --> 0:01:29.040 Yeah? 0:01:29.080 --> 0:01:32.199 Five years her, Happy anniversary, Happy anniversary, Bridge. 0:01:32.200 --> 0:01:34.240 I would just like to say, oh something. 0:01:34.319 --> 0:01:36.000 If it's not going to be super emotional and made 0:01:36.000 --> 0:01:37.800 me cry, I don't want to hear it. I think 0:01:37.840 --> 0:01:40.679 I'm your longest relationship, most successful thus far. What do 0:01:40.680 --> 0:01:44.000 you mean? Think you are one hundred percent and you 0:01:44.080 --> 0:01:48.000 always will be too unless life Uncut finishes. If we continue, 0:01:48.040 --> 0:01:49.920 and then Ben and I continue, you will always I 0:01:49.920 --> 0:01:54.960 will always love me. I loved more by you. When 0:01:55.000 --> 0:01:57.720 I think about my professional goals, it's to outlove Ben 0:01:58.200 --> 0:02:00.280 with you. But am I yours? No? 0:02:00.280 --> 0:02:03.279 No, No. Matt is a longer relationship. I met him first, 0:02:03.320 --> 0:02:05.000 and then that is technically how. 0:02:04.960 --> 0:02:05.400 I met you. 0:02:05.680 --> 0:02:09.640 So I always unrequited love. Everyone stided, Yeah, but it is, 0:02:09.680 --> 0:02:11.280 but it's not as the same. It is a little 0:02:11.320 --> 0:02:13.160 bit triangulated, but it's returned. 0:02:13.200 --> 0:02:13.440 Britt. 0:02:13.560 --> 0:02:15.400 You know you came into my life and you are 0:02:15.800 --> 0:02:18.360 right up there as number one. I did have a 0:02:18.440 --> 0:02:20.799 five year I mean an eight year relationship. You remember, 0:02:20.960 --> 0:02:23.320 so long ago. Your life didn't work evidently, but I 0:02:23.360 --> 0:02:24.800 still had it. So I still feel like you've got 0:02:24.800 --> 0:02:25.680 a trumpet, do you know what? 0:02:26.360 --> 0:02:27.040 Not the same? 0:02:27.120 --> 0:02:30.400 But I always forget Delilah's birthday too. That's so harsh, 0:02:30.440 --> 0:02:32.440 but I don't think that matters as much. She doesn't 0:02:32.440 --> 0:02:35.160 know she's a dog. Okay, can I say one more thing? 0:02:35.240 --> 0:02:37.240 Oh God, do you remember? 0:02:37.919 --> 0:02:39.920 Okay, God, I can't even remember my own birthday. There 0:02:39.960 --> 0:02:40.560 must be so. 0:02:40.520 --> 0:02:42.440 Many people that listen to this when I make these 0:02:42.440 --> 0:02:44.919 analogies and be like, fucking shut up. Okay, But I'm 0:02:44.919 --> 0:02:47.400 always going to make these analogies because I don't have kids. 0:02:47.520 --> 0:02:49.600 I always say this thing. I can only imagine what 0:02:49.639 --> 0:02:52.800 a parent feels like. Because remember when last year I 0:02:52.840 --> 0:02:55.160 think it was, there was one of the dogs from 0:02:55.200 --> 0:02:57.760 the dog park. It was its birthday. And remember, because 0:02:57.760 --> 0:03:00.560 we live in the eastern Beaches of Sydney, the dogs 0:03:00.560 --> 0:03:03.320 had a birthday party. They hired the owner hired a 0:03:03.320 --> 0:03:05.520 mini van and went around and picked up all the 0:03:05.560 --> 0:03:08.080 dogs for the birthday party. Took it to somewhere that 0:03:08.120 --> 0:03:10.000 they hired out. All the dogs had a party, They 0:03:10.000 --> 0:03:12.680 had cake, they had hats. Then the minibus dropped all 0:03:12.680 --> 0:03:13.240 the dogs back. 0:03:13.360 --> 0:03:13.920 I remember this. 0:03:14.240 --> 0:03:18.000 Delilah was not invited to the dog park birthday. I 0:03:18.040 --> 0:03:19.560 was like, I imagine this is what it's like when 0:03:19.560 --> 0:03:21.840 you're a parent and your kid doesn't get invited to 0:03:21.880 --> 0:03:24.040 a party. Because I was up in arms, I was like, 0:03:24.080 --> 0:03:27.079 why would you exclude Delilah? Why is she the only 0:03:27.120 --> 0:03:29.040 dog from the dog park. There was one other Australian 0:03:29.080 --> 0:03:31.880 shepherd that also didn't get any fish. Delilah's best friend. 0:03:33.320 --> 0:03:36.080 It was Blue, Delilah's best friend. They're the mean girls, 0:03:36.080 --> 0:03:37.840 that's why. No, they're not the mean girls. 0:03:38.000 --> 0:03:38.640 Blues a boy. 0:03:42.520 --> 0:03:44.640 Anyway, that took a segway. But going back to the 0:03:44.680 --> 0:03:48.080 life on cut birthday, we laugh. But it's such an achievement, 0:03:48.120 --> 0:03:50.640 the fact that we've had this podcast for five years 0:03:50.840 --> 0:03:54.200 and it's almost I think we're around like seventy seven 0:03:54.480 --> 0:03:57.600 million downloads, yeah, nearly eighty million. That is one we 0:03:57.680 --> 0:04:01.680 will celebrate five years over five one hundred and something episodes. 0:04:01.840 --> 0:04:02.920 We are not six hundred. 0:04:03.000 --> 0:04:05.520 We are not people who I think, you know, a 0:04:05.560 --> 0:04:07.400 lot of other brands out there, and this is not 0:04:07.440 --> 0:04:09.320 I think it's actually an amazing thing. I think people 0:04:09.720 --> 0:04:12.600 should celebrate their achievements, and I think we should celebrate 0:04:12.600 --> 0:04:15.880 them loudly, but we haven't necessarily done that over the years, 0:04:15.920 --> 0:04:18.159 and it's because often the achievements kind of come and 0:04:18.200 --> 0:04:21.839 pass us by. And I really was going, like Matt 0:04:21.839 --> 0:04:23.120 and I were talking about it the other night when 0:04:23.120 --> 0:04:24.560 we were talking about the fact that we've had this 0:04:24.600 --> 0:04:25.720 business for five years now. 0:04:26.400 --> 0:04:27.520 Hate hobby that you had. 0:04:27.640 --> 0:04:29.560 That's a cute hobby that Matt told me, You know, 0:04:29.600 --> 0:04:31.640 no one listens to podcasts, Like, why would I want to? 0:04:31.960 --> 0:04:33.520 I was, you know, at the time, as you guys know, 0:04:33.560 --> 0:04:35.520 I was pregnant. Matt was kind of like, why are 0:04:35.560 --> 0:04:38.320 you taking on more things to do as hobbies? 0:04:38.480 --> 0:04:40.240 As hobbies? He was like, it's crazy. 0:04:40.480 --> 0:04:43.119 But he's obviously so proud of everything that we've achieved Britain, 0:04:43.120 --> 0:04:45.279 and he's also a podcaster now. 0:04:45.120 --> 0:04:47.400 Has a podcasts. It's a shame that no one listens to. 0:04:47.360 --> 0:04:51.599 Podcasts, but we are so incredibly grateful for everything that 0:04:51.760 --> 0:04:54.400 you guys as listeners, have allowed us to be able 0:04:54.440 --> 0:04:56.360 to create and achieve, because if it wasn't for you 0:04:56.760 --> 0:04:58.640 coming on and some of you are OJ listeners, you've 0:04:58.640 --> 0:05:00.480 been there from the very very start, some of your 0:05:00.520 --> 0:05:02.240 recent some of you been there at all different parts 0:05:02.240 --> 0:05:04.320 of your journey. But if there's ever been an episode 0:05:04.400 --> 0:05:07.400 that we've done that has meant something to you or 0:05:07.440 --> 0:05:10.320 it's helped you in some way, even if that's anything 0:05:10.320 --> 0:05:12.440 from just giving you a laugh all the way to 0:05:12.520 --> 0:05:15.440 helping you through a really challenging part of your relationship, 0:05:15.920 --> 0:05:18.320 it means everything to us. And that's been like the 0:05:18.440 --> 0:05:21.279 absolute kind of juice that's kept this thing going. 0:05:21.480 --> 0:05:24.200 We had no direction whatsoever when we started. I remember 0:05:24.520 --> 0:05:26.279 we were like, let's just do it a couple of episodes, 0:05:26.279 --> 0:05:28.200 see what happens, and here we are. 0:05:28.360 --> 0:05:30.279 See it's funny. I think we had so much direction. 0:05:30.360 --> 0:05:32.080 I think we knew exactly what we wanted to do 0:05:32.120 --> 0:05:32.360 with it. 0:05:32.360 --> 0:05:34.120 We didn't might be the wrong word, yeah, I mean 0:05:34.160 --> 0:05:35.920 like we didn't know how long it was going to last. 0:05:36.040 --> 0:05:37.600 We were like, let's just put a couple episodes out 0:05:37.600 --> 0:05:38.320 and see what happened. 0:05:38.360 --> 0:05:41.080 But we always knew what the core values of life 0:05:41.120 --> 0:05:41.560 on Cut Work. 0:05:41.560 --> 0:05:42.920 We always knew what we wanted to do with it. 0:05:42.960 --> 0:05:45.320 We always knew the conversations we wanted to have. Pinkies 0:05:45.320 --> 0:05:45.839 and stinkies. 0:05:45.880 --> 0:05:48.120 Yeah, yeah, I mean, look, I know that we're. 0:05:47.600 --> 0:05:49.800 Making it out like we've got some sort of deep 0:05:49.800 --> 0:05:52.640 political podcast that's moved mountains. No, but we wanted to 0:05:52.640 --> 0:05:55.279 talk about relationships and that's where this whole thing started, 0:05:55.320 --> 0:05:57.400 and I think at its very core, even though we 0:05:57.400 --> 0:05:59.840 talk about lots of things these days, we always come 0:05:59.839 --> 0:06:03.320 back to things that matter when it comes to relationships, 0:06:03.320 --> 0:06:06.160 and whether that relationship is with your partner, whether that's 0:06:06.200 --> 0:06:08.800 a relationship with your job, whether that's your relationship with money, 0:06:08.880 --> 0:06:12.040 or whether that's your relationship with yourself. They're the episodes 0:06:12.040 --> 0:06:13.920 that I think mean the most to me. And this 0:06:13.960 --> 0:06:15.360 is just taking a second to say, I'm so fucking 0:06:15.360 --> 0:06:16.680 grateful that we get to do this for a job, 0:06:16.720 --> 0:06:17.200 So thank. 0:06:17.080 --> 0:06:17.440 You, guys. 0:06:17.600 --> 0:06:19.200 Do you know what one thing that I don't know 0:06:19.240 --> 0:06:21.000 if I've ever told you guys this, I hope I have, 0:06:21.200 --> 0:06:23.080 because I was a listener before I worked for you, 0:06:23.279 --> 0:06:25.360 and I it was twenty twenty that I started listening 0:06:25.360 --> 0:06:26.000 to the podcast. 0:06:26.080 --> 0:06:27.200 I was living in Victoria. 0:06:27.800 --> 0:06:30.159 Anyone who was down there at that time, need I 0:06:30.160 --> 0:06:32.839 say more. We really lacked connection because we were in 0:06:32.839 --> 0:06:36.279 lockdown for the whole fucking year, and the podcast was 0:06:36.320 --> 0:06:38.479 this form of connection for me. It made me feel 0:06:38.520 --> 0:06:40.640 less lonely, and I think that I just felt like 0:06:40.720 --> 0:06:41.960 I had like. 0:06:41.880 --> 0:06:43.760 A sense of what was going on. But also it 0:06:43.800 --> 0:06:46.720 was like an easy entry and I think that still 0:06:46.760 --> 0:06:48.120 exists now for a lot of people. 0:06:48.200 --> 0:06:50.080 Like sometimes if you're not feeling that great, you can 0:06:50.160 --> 0:06:52.479 check a podcast on and feel better. Sometimes if you 0:06:52.560 --> 0:06:54.080 just want to go for a walk by yourself and 0:06:54.080 --> 0:06:56.640 listen to something, but you don't have to give much 0:06:56.680 --> 0:06:59.080 mental input. The give amount of people who have message 0:06:59.080 --> 0:07:00.839 and be like, I know, oh you don't know me, 0:07:00.920 --> 0:07:03.039 but I feel like we're best friends. That is like 0:07:03.080 --> 0:07:05.520 such a privilege. It's I you know, guys, I'm going 0:07:05.560 --> 0:07:07.839 to get emotional. I'm just very grateful and I'm so 0:07:07.839 --> 0:07:09.240 happy that we get to do this for a job 0:07:09.320 --> 0:07:11.880 and happy birthday life on cut because five years is 0:07:11.920 --> 0:07:13.840 a fucking huge achievement in this world, and I'm really 0:07:13.840 --> 0:07:14.320 proud of us. 0:07:14.440 --> 0:07:16.760 The funniest thing just happened actually, just before we're coming 0:07:16.800 --> 0:07:18.520 in here. I was lining up to get our coffees 0:07:18.520 --> 0:07:20.920 at the coffee shop, and so I was ordering and 0:07:20.960 --> 0:07:23.040 talking to the women behind the counter and we're having 0:07:23.040 --> 0:07:24.640 a laugh because we all know each other at work, 0:07:25.080 --> 0:07:27.440 having a big laugh. And then I turned around and 0:07:27.480 --> 0:07:29.360 the girl that was directly behind me was like, oh 0:07:29.440 --> 0:07:32.000 my god. She's like, it makes so much sense, and 0:07:32.040 --> 0:07:34.320 she turned her phone around. She's like, I'm listening to 0:07:34.360 --> 0:07:36.760 you right now. But then I was like, why does 0:07:36.800 --> 0:07:42.720 it sound like surround sound? Because I because I was 0:07:42.760 --> 0:07:45.160 in front of her also laughing and talking. So she 0:07:45.240 --> 0:07:47.120 was looking at her phone being like, is it skippy? 0:07:47.240 --> 0:07:47.640 Is it doc? 0:07:48.320 --> 0:07:51.520 Yeah? She was like, what's happening? It was literally surround sound? 0:07:51.600 --> 0:07:52.960 And I was like, oh, I love that, Thank you 0:07:52.960 --> 0:07:55.160 so much for listening. But it was a very funny moment. 0:07:55.200 --> 0:07:57.480 But there the moments we froth, like when you actually 0:07:57.560 --> 0:07:58.320 see someone in. 0:07:58.240 --> 0:08:00.360 The wild and we get to meet you guys, can 0:08:00.400 --> 0:08:02.760 I say really quickly I know we're going on. I 0:08:02.840 --> 0:08:04.760 had that happen. It was only a couple of weeks ago. 0:08:04.920 --> 0:08:05.960 I was in Tony May. 0:08:06.520 --> 0:08:10.160 I had Delilah, a beautiful listener walked in. 0:08:10.640 --> 0:08:13.120 She looked at me, She looked at Delilah and she 0:08:13.200 --> 0:08:14.480 kind of was just like, what. 0:08:14.520 --> 0:08:17.240 The She's like, you were phone and she showed me. 0:08:17.960 --> 0:08:20.400 She's like, I'm listening to you, guys. 0:08:20.800 --> 0:08:25.240 I'm in Low's store, You're like, and. 0:08:25.160 --> 0:08:27.000 She was shopping for earrings for her wedding. 0:08:27.720 --> 0:08:29.960 It was so lovely and I thought, this is actually 0:08:30.000 --> 0:08:33.520 such a funny, like full circle moment. Doesn't get more 0:08:33.559 --> 0:08:36.160 life on three components of this, And yeah, it was 0:08:36.280 --> 0:08:38.240 very it was a really nice moment. 0:08:38.360 --> 0:08:40.280 All of that said, I think it's probably time for 0:08:40.360 --> 0:08:44.520 vibes and unsubscribed. Yeah, okay, I will start then. My 0:08:44.679 --> 0:08:48.480 vibe this week is a Netflix documentary, very timely because 0:08:48.480 --> 0:08:51.319 of the Olympics. It's Simone Biles. The documentary story is 0:08:51.320 --> 0:08:55.439 called Simone Biles Rising. It's only two episodes I think 0:08:55.440 --> 0:08:57.520 of two hours each, so probably for four and a 0:08:57.520 --> 0:09:00.199 half fish. I don't know exactly, but it's not too long. 0:09:00.880 --> 0:09:03.520 And if you don't know someone Biles, she's the most 0:09:03.559 --> 0:09:08.880 decorated gymnast of all time and she's absolutely incredible. She's 0:09:08.880 --> 0:09:11.760 American and you may or may not remember, but back 0:09:11.800 --> 0:09:14.960 in twenty twenty at Tokyo Olympics, everyone was like, cool, 0:09:14.960 --> 0:09:17.439 She's gonna wipe the floor. With gold medals because she's 0:09:17.480 --> 0:09:21.480 so incredible, Like she has gymnastic moves named after her 0:09:21.520 --> 0:09:23.520 because she's the only one that can do them. She's 0:09:23.600 --> 0:09:26.240 just so good that she makes up new moves with 0:09:26.280 --> 0:09:27.920 new spins and twists, and no one else can do them. 0:09:28.520 --> 0:09:31.560 So what happened in the twenty twenty Olympics was she 0:09:31.800 --> 0:09:34.880 actually pulled out. She's something started happening to her that 0:09:34.960 --> 0:09:37.480 has never happened. She wasn't landing, she was going up 0:09:37.520 --> 0:09:40.360 and like you know, hitting the springboard, doing nothing like 0:09:40.400 --> 0:09:43.120 what she was supposed to be doing. And she ended 0:09:43.200 --> 0:09:46.160 up talking a lot in this documentary about what happened then. 0:09:46.200 --> 0:09:49.120 And it's something called like the twisties or something that 0:09:49.200 --> 0:09:53.640 happens inside a gymnast's head where the brain no longer 0:09:53.720 --> 0:09:57.080 can connect to the body, almost like a vertigo type thing. Yes, 0:09:57.120 --> 0:09:59.200 and it's something that happens in the gymnastic world with 0:09:59.200 --> 0:10:01.280 how many spins and they do. It's like the thing 0:10:01.320 --> 0:10:03.200 that they all fear. So she would be going and 0:10:03.240 --> 0:10:05.320 doing the jumps in the air and the flips and 0:10:05.360 --> 0:10:08.960 her brain's like triple flip whatever, whatever, whatever, whatever, but 0:10:09.000 --> 0:10:10.800 it's just not connecting and a body can't do it. 0:10:10.960 --> 0:10:12.359 So wow, that's so petrifying. 0:10:12.520 --> 0:10:15.480 Yeah. So she had to pull out because you can die. Yeah, yea, yes, 0:10:15.600 --> 0:10:17.760 And she wasn't being able to compete anyway, so she 0:10:17.800 --> 0:10:20.040 pulled out, and then it just follows she never thought 0:10:20.080 --> 0:10:22.480 she would compete again. She talks a lot about her 0:10:22.480 --> 0:10:25.400 mental health and finding her husband, who's a football player 0:10:25.440 --> 0:10:27.480 over there. She never thought she'd make her way back, 0:10:27.520 --> 0:10:30.240 but she's at the Olympics now, so this is her comeback. 0:10:30.280 --> 0:10:32.680 And the documentaries followed her the last couple of years. 0:10:33.080 --> 0:10:33.600 Netflix. 0:10:33.840 --> 0:10:34.280 Netflix. 0:10:34.360 --> 0:10:34.520 Yeah. 0:10:34.520 --> 0:10:35.480 Okay, did it. 0:10:35.440 --> 0:10:39.400 Cover the controversy that happened with the coaches, Yes, yeah, yeah. 0:10:39.440 --> 0:10:41.760 It also she also touches on a lot of you 0:10:41.840 --> 0:10:44.520 might remember to a lot of the sexual assault accusations 0:10:44.520 --> 0:10:46.880 that happened within the gymnastics team in America and all 0:10:46.920 --> 0:10:48.880 of the young girls came well they're not young girls now, 0:10:48.880 --> 0:10:50.959 they're women, but they were young girls when it happened. 0:10:51.320 --> 0:10:53.760 It covers that as well. So that also leads into 0:10:53.880 --> 0:10:56.960 her having to admit that she's having some mental health 0:10:57.000 --> 0:10:59.040 issues and that was a really big thing for her 0:10:59.080 --> 0:11:01.439 to say, I actually do need to go and get help, 0:11:01.600 --> 0:11:03.640 especially in that athlete world where everyone puts you on 0:11:03.640 --> 0:11:06.400 the pedestal and you don't have these shoes. So yeah, 0:11:06.400 --> 0:11:11.080 I found it fascinating, educational, inspiring, really great, unreal. I 0:11:11.120 --> 0:11:12.720 have a bit of a different vibe for this week. 0:11:12.840 --> 0:11:16.560 My book club have started I say reading, but I 0:11:16.559 --> 0:11:17.600 am an audiobook girl. 0:11:17.960 --> 0:11:19.080 The club I've started reading. 0:11:19.160 --> 0:11:20.640 Until then we just drink wine. 0:11:21.280 --> 0:11:23.240 Well, I was in it for the social aspect, to 0:11:23.240 --> 0:11:26.960 be honest, I've started reading. That's the best line they read. 0:11:27.080 --> 0:11:28.839 I listen to the audio books you can get. 0:11:28.920 --> 0:11:31.120 If you pay for Spotify Premium, you can get fifteen 0:11:31.120 --> 0:11:34.840 hours of free audio books per month. So this one 0:11:34.960 --> 0:11:37.440 I just found out. It was only released twenty days ago. 0:11:37.920 --> 0:11:40.640 It is by Shari Lapina. Now she might be familiar 0:11:40.640 --> 0:11:43.600 to you because she has written thrillers called The Couple. 0:11:43.320 --> 0:11:45.280 Next Door, which I think they turned into a TV series. 0:11:45.320 --> 0:11:47.280 I just watched that with Sam Hugh and my celebrity 0:11:47.280 --> 0:11:50.280 crup It's Changer in the House and unwod Guest. She 0:11:50.400 --> 0:11:52.800 is a New York Times wstling author over and over 0:11:52.840 --> 0:11:55.280 and over again. This is her new one called Everyone 0:11:55.320 --> 0:11:57.680 Here Is Lying. I'll just read out the plotline for you. 0:11:58.360 --> 0:12:00.640 William Willer is a family man on the show, but 0:12:00.720 --> 0:12:03.199 he's been having an affair and that affair ended horribly 0:12:03.240 --> 0:12:05.840 this afternoon at a motel up the road. So when 0:12:05.840 --> 0:12:08.400 he returns to his house, devastated and angry to find 0:12:08.440 --> 0:12:11.959 his difficult nine year old daughter Avery unexpectedly home from school, 0:12:12.080 --> 0:12:17.760 William loses his temper. Hours later, Avery's family declare her missing. Suddenly, 0:12:17.960 --> 0:12:21.080 Stanhope doesn't feel so safe and William isn't the only 0:12:21.120 --> 0:12:24.160 one on the street who's hiding a lie. As witnesses 0:12:24.200 --> 0:12:27.040 come forward with information that may or may not be true, 0:12:27.200 --> 0:12:33.480 Avery's neighbors become increasingly unhinged. Well, initially I was like, 0:12:33.720 --> 0:12:38.160 I'm not really into thrillers. I have inhaled this book. 0:12:38.240 --> 0:12:41.640 I've had my speaker on it around with me in 0:12:41.679 --> 0:12:46.120 the house. Why don't you put last Night carrying boombox 0:12:46.480 --> 0:12:48.560 because like I can shower and stuff because it's waterproof. 0:12:48.920 --> 0:12:51.640 So She's also like, Toba needs to listen to this 0:12:51.679 --> 0:12:54.600 as well. Everyone needs to enjoy this book. He should 0:12:54.600 --> 0:12:58.440 with a boom box on his shoulder. Audio book The 0:12:58.520 --> 0:12:59.760 Tiny Wonder boom Ones. 0:13:00.160 --> 0:13:03.640 My book club have inhaled this book in literally a day. 0:13:03.800 --> 0:13:05.080 I love that I needed a new book. 0:13:05.080 --> 0:13:07.800 Recommendation It's also hard when you haven't gotten a good 0:13:07.840 --> 0:13:09.520 book in a while, you haven't sat down and read 0:13:09.520 --> 0:13:11.920 for like a while, it's hard to know where to start. 0:13:11.960 --> 0:13:13.120 You kind of feel like you're a bit out of 0:13:13.120 --> 0:13:13.360 the book. 0:13:13.400 --> 0:13:16.200 Well, page one usually, yeah, it's always a good spot anyway. 0:13:16.559 --> 0:13:19.200 But if you are wanting a book that like just 0:13:19.320 --> 0:13:22.200 such easy entry that you can just consume. 0:13:22.120 --> 0:13:23.040 That's gripping. 0:13:23.600 --> 0:13:26.400 Highly recommend It is called Everyone Here Is Lying by 0:13:26.480 --> 0:13:29.240 Shari Lapina. It is brand new, just came out on 0:13:29.280 --> 0:13:29.920 the fourth of July. 0:13:30.120 --> 0:13:30.520 Perfect. 0:13:30.720 --> 0:13:33.560 I'm excited about that recommendation, and also get excited about 0:13:33.559 --> 0:13:36.840 this one because this is one of the best sound. 0:13:38.280 --> 0:13:39.920 Well, I'm excited about this one. 0:13:40.080 --> 0:13:42.920 This is one of the best movies I have seen 0:13:43.000 --> 0:13:44.040 in such a long time. 0:13:44.160 --> 0:13:45.400 It's a biographical drama. 0:13:45.600 --> 0:13:48.280 It's a true story and it came out last year, 0:13:48.280 --> 0:13:50.360 but I had not heard of it, and my lovely 0:13:50.400 --> 0:13:52.200 mother in law was like, we need to watch this. 0:13:52.240 --> 0:13:54.040 So she watched it recently when she was in France 0:13:54.120 --> 0:13:55.880 and it was in French, but she was like, I 0:13:55.920 --> 0:13:58.240 think I missed parts of the storyline. I really want 0:13:58.240 --> 0:14:01.160 to watch it again in English. Anthony Hopkins in it 0:14:01.200 --> 0:14:04.480 the way in which the biography is told is it's 0:14:04.520 --> 0:14:06.480 him telling his story from when he was twenty nine 0:14:06.600 --> 0:14:09.160 years old. Now this story is based around the life 0:14:09.200 --> 0:14:11.960 of a man named Nicholas Winton. He was a British 0:14:12.000 --> 0:14:14.520 Man who went to Prague during the middle of World 0:14:14.520 --> 0:14:19.240 War II when Hitler invaded Czechoslovakia. There was thousands of 0:14:19.320 --> 0:14:22.720 displaced Jewish refugees in Czechoslovakia at the time, and so 0:14:23.080 --> 0:14:23.880 he went over there. 0:14:23.960 --> 0:14:26.160 He was a young banker and when he got. 0:14:26.000 --> 0:14:29.400 There, he discovered that there were thousands of children who 0:14:29.480 --> 0:14:32.600 were living in refugee camps at the precipice of winter 0:14:32.640 --> 0:14:35.080 coming and he realized that they were all going to die, 0:14:35.080 --> 0:14:37.600 They're all going to perish in winter, and so he 0:14:37.680 --> 0:14:41.160 came back to England and with his mum they started 0:14:41.200 --> 0:14:43.880 a ground roots charity. And what that charity did is 0:14:43.920 --> 0:14:45.960 it put out a call out for as many British 0:14:45.960 --> 0:14:50.600 families who would home and foster any Czechoslovakian children that 0:14:50.680 --> 0:14:53.160 they could, or any of these refugee children that they could, 0:14:53.560 --> 0:14:56.440 and they ended up homing six hundred and sixty nine children. 0:14:56.520 --> 0:14:59.160 They got visas for them, they brought them over and 0:14:59.640 --> 0:15:01.640 as some of you may or may not know, but 0:15:01.840 --> 0:15:04.840 basically every single person in those refugee camps ended up 0:15:04.920 --> 0:15:07.000 dying and being taken to concentration camp. 0:15:07.080 --> 0:15:11.480 So he saved so many children. It's an incredible story. 0:15:11.720 --> 0:15:14.920 The way in which the story's told is it's him retrospectively, 0:15:14.920 --> 0:15:18.360 and he's such a humble man. Nobody knew at the 0:15:18.400 --> 0:15:21.400 time the impact that he had made during the Holocaust 0:15:21.800 --> 0:15:25.160 and the stories like a tearjerk. Holy shit, I was 0:15:25.320 --> 0:15:27.760 a blubbering mess sitting on my couch. But I don't 0:15:27.760 --> 0:15:29.120 want to tell you the end of it because the 0:15:29.160 --> 0:15:31.440 end of it's really really remarkable, and you have to 0:15:31.560 --> 0:15:33.080 watch it because it was one of those movies that 0:15:33.240 --> 0:15:35.720 leaves you and it makes you think for days about it. 0:15:35.840 --> 0:15:37.640 Please go watch it. It's called One Life. 0:15:37.840 --> 0:15:40.000 I watched it on Apple TV, but I had to 0:15:40.040 --> 0:15:41.560 pay for it to watch it on Apple TV. But 0:15:41.600 --> 0:15:43.480 it is also an Amazon Prime, so there's a couple 0:15:43.520 --> 0:15:44.680 of places where you can watch it. 0:15:44.560 --> 0:15:45.400 It's phenomenal. 0:15:45.840 --> 0:15:47.200 We have some exciting news. 0:15:47.640 --> 0:15:50.360 Usually at this point we say that the vibes go 0:15:50.520 --> 0:15:53.800 in our show notes. But because every week, every week 0:15:53.800 --> 0:15:56.480 we get lots of messages, we get Facebook posts in 0:15:56.520 --> 0:15:59.440 the discussion group, saying, a couple of weeks ago someone 0:15:59.480 --> 0:16:01.360 mentioned this and I can't remember it. I don't know 0:16:01.400 --> 0:16:03.280 which episode it was in. I'm not going to go 0:16:03.320 --> 0:16:05.760 back and try and find it. We now have a 0:16:05.800 --> 0:16:07.360 place that the vibes will live. 0:16:07.440 --> 0:16:08.680 It is on the website. 0:16:08.720 --> 0:16:12.120 If you go onto Life uncutpodcast dot com dot AU. 0:16:12.320 --> 0:16:15.120 Along the top it says episodes about us merch and 0:16:15.160 --> 0:16:17.840 then there is a whole page that says vibes and 0:16:17.880 --> 0:16:20.320 it will have each person's vibe. You can click on it, 0:16:20.320 --> 0:16:22.360 it will have a link to it, and it will 0:16:22.400 --> 0:16:24.680 live there for probably about two months. I think. 0:16:24.720 --> 0:16:26.880 I think we'll do like eight weeks worth. Yeah, it's 0:16:26.920 --> 0:16:28.560 not going to be there forever, so you've got to 0:16:28.600 --> 0:16:29.160 get in quick. 0:16:29.240 --> 0:16:31.240