WEBVTT - MINI: Housework

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to them Christian No Show podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, Jack wants to know about an interesting theory that

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<v Speaker 2>your wife posted to yesterday.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, we have so many more chores in the house

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<v Speaker 3>now adding a third person. He's only seven months old,

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<v Speaker 3>but for some reason, it's tripled the amount of domestic chores.

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<v Speaker 3>There's more laundry, there's way more dishes and things to

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<v Speaker 3>clean because the way he eats is just a bomb site.

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<v Speaker 2>What is the chair and there's like a blast zone

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<v Speaker 2>around him.

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<v Speaker 3>For also, people who don't have dogs and have a baby,

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<v Speaker 3>you're missing a trick because we just let the dog

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<v Speaker 3>in and she it's the entire.

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<v Speaker 2>Under that chair. Stuff will come your way.

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<v Speaker 3>So Bianca said to me offhanded, like she wasn't suggesting

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<v Speaker 3>this is our family, but just like a bit of

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<v Speaker 3>interesting fact I might know. She goes. You know, researchers

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<v Speaker 3>sciences have done research to say that men who do

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<v Speaker 3>more domestic chores around the house actually make the women

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<v Speaker 3>want have sex with them more.

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<v Speaker 2>That mind control. I mean, that is what a smart play.

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<v Speaker 2>Because you're the kind of guy who is very malleable,

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<v Speaker 2>and you're going to go I think I'm going to

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<v Speaker 2>just remove you and then we go to bed.

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<v Speaker 3>So she didn't actually give me any documentation.

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<v Speaker 1>But because.

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<v Speaker 2>What she said basically is maybe do some clearing up.

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<v Speaker 4>It's true though, the love God just has to get

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<v Speaker 4>the dison out and I'm ready to go.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, this is what you call field research, empirical evidence. Right,

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<v Speaker 3>there's nothing sexier.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you think it's Is it sexy or is it

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<v Speaker 2>just because then it's like it's a guy's been a

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<v Speaker 2>proper team member rather than being just lazy.

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<v Speaker 4>Totally, it's like, all right, you get a reward for that?

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<v Speaker 2>What year are we in pacts? You can't say stuff

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<v Speaker 2>giving a man a reward, but.

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<v Speaker 1>Just doing what he should be doing exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>Germaine Greer on the radio, is it should make us

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<v Speaker 2>sound like a dog.

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<v Speaker 3>You got to praise.

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<v Speaker 2>You can have a lot of reward on the head.

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<v Speaker 3>Praise good work. No being commuted seem less of a transaction.

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<v Speaker 3>More that women actually do get hot under the collar,

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<v Speaker 3>under the collar.

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<v Speaker 5>Neil Mitchell, right now under the collar?

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<v Speaker 1>Well woman is even wearing a collar. Christian Connell's show podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Run It Forward again, The theory that your wife floated

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<v Speaker 2>your way yesterday.

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<v Speaker 3>Women are more likely to have sex with their partner

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<v Speaker 3>if they see them doing domestic chores, washing the dishes,

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<v Speaker 3>the clothes, putting a load of laundre on.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it's a very potent thing for your wife

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<v Speaker 2>to say to you, isn't it. It's a loaded it's

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<v Speaker 2>subliminal message.

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<v Speaker 3>She said it mate of factly, like it was just

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<v Speaker 3>some information.

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<v Speaker 2>That's great, you know that just leaves you're just hanging

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<v Speaker 2>in the air. Look at this hand. But there's something

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<v Speaker 2>else going on underneath it all. And did you start

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<v Speaker 2>doing extra housework?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I already feel like I pulled my weight in there,

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<v Speaker 3>but yeah, I might have.

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<v Speaker 2>In that house. But suddenly there's team. Everyone around the

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<v Speaker 2>room is like, oh, that must be very very diff

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<v Speaker 2>If she's saying that to you, she's saying that to

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<v Speaker 2>just not she like a group, you know, out in

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<v Speaker 2>the bar. So she's saying it just to you. She's

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<v Speaker 2>giving you a nud She.

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<v Speaker 3>Said it was scientific research. It had been proven by scientists.

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<v Speaker 4>So I wanted to all right, So perhaps you say, yes, Chris,

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<v Speaker 4>some chores and there's varying degrees of chores, so bigger

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<v Speaker 4>rewards for rewards.

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<v Speaker 2>Can you please lose the word reward A little bit

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<v Speaker 2>of sick is coming up. It's just like, come get

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<v Speaker 2>your reward. Him bounding through the house like a big

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<v Speaker 2>old labrador.

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<v Speaker 3>He's been a good war. He's gonna kill me.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, oh zero two? What is on out there?

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<v Speaker 2>And that's swing in the garden and he's still got it.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, I don't never swing.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right, this, let's take some calls and let's

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<v Speaker 2>just agree. Now. We don't want to hear the word

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<v Speaker 2>rewards a right. We can all agree some standards here.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's go to uh Angie, Good morning, Angie, Good morning.

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<v Speaker 1>How are we all? I'm good, Angie.

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<v Speaker 2>So what do you think about the theory that Jack's

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<v Speaker 2>wife suggested yesterday?

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, so it's on like Donkey Kong is my husband

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<v Speaker 6>can take the bins out on a Wednesday night without

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<v Speaker 6>being told.

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<v Speaker 3>This is such a simple task to complains down.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's the right day.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like Donkey Kong rewards. I mean, I used to

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<v Speaker 2>play Donkey Kong a lot. I never saw him doing that.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe even get to the right level.

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<v Speaker 1>We we we've turned hump day into a totally different I've

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<v Speaker 1>got a hump day, yeah, without being told. If I

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<v Speaker 1>have to tell him then it's off.

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<v Speaker 2>I take those bins out every week. Angie, thank you

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<v Speaker 2>very much.

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<v Speaker 1>You call Okay, who worries You're welcome? Had a good day,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you?

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<v Speaker 2>Uh Kiara, good morning?

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<v Speaker 1>Hello Kiara?

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<v Speaker 2>What do you think about this?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna know it just wont everyone.

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<v Speaker 6>No, not at all. No, it just annoys me even more.

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<v Speaker 2>Well because you get it wrong, and then it just

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<v Speaker 2>creates more.

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<v Speaker 1>Yep, that's right. I have to redo it.

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<v Speaker 6>All position is always have to read.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Kiara, thank you very much.

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<v Speaker 1>She called us.

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<v Speaker 2>Go to Kelly. Good morning, Kelly. It's a live sign

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<v Speaker 2>of sounding to get what Kenny does every morning together

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<v Speaker 2>the right answer.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, Kelly, Hello, Hello, it's the radio show Kelly.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry, that's all right, Kelly, Kelly. What do you think

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<v Speaker 2>about the theory about the housework of men?

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<v Speaker 6>Very true, Petty, I definitely agree with that, with that theory.

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<v Speaker 6>So the theory is a fact. There is a survey

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<v Speaker 6>that I did the language of love, and my language

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<v Speaker 6>of love is acts of service?

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<v Speaker 1>What what do you mean acts of service?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that some sort of gameplay master? And I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>what what do you mean? Acts of service? Lick the boat?

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<v Speaker 2>What are we talking about here?

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<v Speaker 6>Long language of love is physical touch. And so when

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<v Speaker 6>he does things like you know, weed the law, weed

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<v Speaker 6>my garden, bed or you, then you know it gets

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<v Speaker 6>me quite you know friendly. Right, we get his physical

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<v Speaker 6>touch and we're all, you know, touch.

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<v Speaker 2>You can touch me here because you weeded my.

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<v Speaker 1>Guard whatever, touch you like my bottom?

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<v Speaker 5>And he came up like cheating something here your move, husband,

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<v Speaker 5>These trains are going to clear themselves out, gotcha, Kelly, Well,

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<v Speaker 5>thank you very.

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<v Speaker 2>Much for.

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<v Speaker 1>Jack's blushing. I'm actually bushing, am blushing.

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<v Speaker 2>We had no business peering into their bedrooms, did we,

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<v Speaker 2>or their bins or their guys.

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<v Speaker 3>And there was no matter how many chores I do

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<v Speaker 3>around my house, it doesn't get a reaction like y no.

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<v Speaker 5>No, no, no.

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<v Speaker 2>Kelly's very animated right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Thought of that. Let's go to Sarah here.

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<v Speaker 2>Good morning, Sarah.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, hello Sarah.

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<v Speaker 2>So we're talking about men doing more domestic chores and

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<v Speaker 2>women find than them attractive.

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<v Speaker 6>Absolutely, it's on. It's on.

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<v Speaker 1>My husband puts a dinner, it's on.

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<v Speaker 2>This is unbelievable.

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<v Speaker 3>We had no idea before you eat or after during.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, after after I ate our show a lot of appreciation.

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<v Speaker 2>Unlie, I don't know how to feel about this, any

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<v Speaker 2>of this. All right, Sarah, thank you very much, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Cool, thank you, have a good day, and part of

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<v Speaker 1>me wishes we'd never asked.

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<v Speaker 2>We're not the better for this. This is the Christian

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<v Speaker 2>O'Connell Show podcast