Speaker 1: Welcome to them Christian No Show podcast.
Speaker 2: Now, Jack wants to know about an interesting theory that
Speaker 2: your wife posted to yesterday.
Speaker 3: Well, we have so many more chores in the house
Speaker 3: now adding a third person. He's only seven months old,
Speaker 3: but for some reason, it's tripled the amount of domestic chores.
Speaker 3: There's more laundry, there's way more dishes and things to
Speaker 3: clean because the way he eats is just a bomb site.
Speaker 2: What is the chair and there's like a blast zone
Speaker 2: around him.
Speaker 3: For also, people who don't have dogs and have a baby,
Speaker 3: you're missing a trick because we just let the dog
Speaker 3: in and she it's the entire.
Speaker 2: Under that chair. Stuff will come your way.
Speaker 3: So Bianca said to me offhanded, like she wasn't suggesting
Speaker 3: this is our family, but just like a bit of
Speaker 3: interesting fact I might know. She goes. You know, researchers
Speaker 3: sciences have done research to say that men who do
Speaker 3: more domestic chores around the house actually make the women
Speaker 3: want have sex with them more.
Speaker 2: That mind control. I mean, that is what a smart play.
Speaker 2: Because you're the kind of guy who is very malleable,
Speaker 2: and you're going to go I think I'm going to
Speaker 2: just remove you and then we go to bed.
Speaker 3: So she didn't actually give me any documentation.
Speaker 1: But because.
Speaker 2: What she said basically is maybe do some clearing up.
Speaker 4: It's true though, the love God just has to get
Speaker 4: the dison out and I'm ready to go.
Speaker 3: Well, this is what you call field research, empirical evidence. Right,
Speaker 3: there's nothing sexier.
Speaker 2: Do you think it's Is it sexy or is it
Speaker 2: just because then it's like it's a guy's been a
Speaker 2: proper team member rather than being just lazy.
Speaker 4: Totally, it's like, all right, you get a reward for that?
Speaker 2: What year are we in pacts? You can't say stuff
Speaker 2: giving a man a reward, but.
Speaker 1: Just doing what he should be doing exactly.
Speaker 2: Germaine Greer on the radio, is it should make us
Speaker 2: sound like a dog.
Speaker 3: You got to praise.
Speaker 2: You can have a lot of reward on the head.
Speaker 3: Praise good work. No being commuted seem less of a transaction.
Speaker 3: More that women actually do get hot under the collar,
Speaker 3: under the collar.
Speaker 5: Neil Mitchell, right now under the collar?
Speaker 1: Well woman is even wearing a collar. Christian Connell's show podcast.
Speaker 2: Run It Forward again, The theory that your wife floated
Speaker 2: your way yesterday.
Speaker 3: Women are more likely to have sex with their partner
Speaker 3: if they see them doing domestic chores, washing the dishes,
Speaker 3: the clothes, putting a load of laundre on.
Speaker 2: I mean, it's a very potent thing for your wife
Speaker 2: to say to you, isn't it. It's a loaded it's
Speaker 2: subliminal message.
Speaker 3: She said it mate of factly, like it was just
Speaker 3: some information.
Speaker 2: That's great, you know that just leaves you're just hanging
Speaker 2: in the air. Look at this hand. But there's something
Speaker 2: else going on underneath it all. And did you start
Speaker 2: doing extra housework?
Speaker 3: Well, I already feel like I pulled my weight in there,
Speaker 3: but yeah, I might have.
Speaker 2: In that house. But suddenly there's team. Everyone around the
Speaker 2: room is like, oh, that must be very very diff
Speaker 2: If she's saying that to you, she's saying that to
Speaker 2: just not she like a group, you know, out in
Speaker 2: the bar. So she's saying it just to you. She's
Speaker 2: giving you a nud She.
Speaker 3: Said it was scientific research. It had been proven by scientists.
Speaker 4: So I wanted to all right, So perhaps you say, yes, Chris,
Speaker 4: some chores and there's varying degrees of chores, so bigger
Speaker 4: rewards for rewards.
Speaker 2: Can you please lose the word reward A little bit
Speaker 2: of sick is coming up. It's just like, come get
Speaker 2: your reward. Him bounding through the house like a big
Speaker 2: old labrador.
Speaker 3: He's been a good war. He's gonna kill me.
Speaker 2: I know, oh zero two? What is on out there?
Speaker 2: And that's swing in the garden and he's still got it.
Speaker 1: By the way, I don't never swing.
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, this, let's take some calls and let's
Speaker 2: just agree. Now. We don't want to hear the word
Speaker 2: rewards a right. We can all agree some standards here.
Speaker 2: Let's go to uh Angie, Good morning, Angie, Good morning.
Speaker 1: How are we all? I'm good, Angie.
Speaker 2: So what do you think about the theory that Jack's
Speaker 2: wife suggested yesterday?
Speaker 6: Yes, so it's on like Donkey Kong is my husband
Speaker 6: can take the bins out on a Wednesday night without
Speaker 6: being told.
Speaker 3: This is such a simple task to complains down.
Speaker 1: And it's the right day.
Speaker 2: I'm like Donkey Kong rewards. I mean, I used to
Speaker 2: play Donkey Kong a lot. I never saw him doing that.
Speaker 2: Maybe even get to the right level.
Speaker 1: We we we've turned hump day into a totally different I've
Speaker 1: got a hump day, yeah, without being told. If I
Speaker 1: have to tell him then it's off.
Speaker 2: I take those bins out every week. Angie, thank you
Speaker 2: very much.
Speaker 1: You call Okay, who worries You're welcome? Had a good day,
Speaker 1: thank you?
Speaker 2: Uh Kiara, good morning?
Speaker 1: Hello Kiara?
Speaker 2: What do you think about this?
Speaker 1: I'm gonna know it just wont everyone.
Speaker 6: No, not at all. No, it just annoys me even more.
Speaker 2: Well because you get it wrong, and then it just
Speaker 2: creates more.
Speaker 1: Yep, that's right. I have to redo it.
Speaker 6: All position is always have to read.
Speaker 2: Okay, Kiara, thank you very much.
Speaker 1: She called us.
Speaker 2: Go to Kelly. Good morning, Kelly. It's a live sign
Speaker 2: of sounding to get what Kenny does every morning together
Speaker 2: the right answer.
Speaker 1: Hey, Kelly, Hello, Hello, it's the radio show Kelly.
Speaker 2: Sorry, that's all right, Kelly, Kelly. What do you think
Speaker 2: about the theory about the housework of men?
Speaker 6: Very true, Petty, I definitely agree with that, with that theory.
Speaker 6: So the theory is a fact. There is a survey
Speaker 6: that I did the language of love, and my language
Speaker 6: of love is acts of service?
Speaker 1: What what do you mean acts of service?
Speaker 2: Is that some sort of gameplay master? And I mean,
Speaker 2: what what do you mean? Acts of service? Lick the boat?
Speaker 2: What are we talking about here?
Speaker 6: Long language of love is physical touch. And so when
Speaker 6: he does things like you know, weed the law, weed
Speaker 6: my garden, bed or you, then you know it gets
Speaker 6: me quite you know friendly. Right, we get his physical
Speaker 6: touch and we're all, you know, touch.
Speaker 2: You can touch me here because you weeded my.
Speaker 1: Guard whatever, touch you like my bottom?
Speaker 5: And he came up like cheating something here your move, husband,
Speaker 5: These trains are going to clear themselves out, gotcha, Kelly, Well,
Speaker 5: thank you very.
Speaker 2: Much for.
Speaker 1: Jack's blushing. I'm actually bushing, am blushing.
Speaker 2: We had no business peering into their bedrooms, did we,
Speaker 2: or their bins or their guys.
Speaker 3: And there was no matter how many chores I do
Speaker 3: around my house, it doesn't get a reaction like y no.
Speaker 5: No, no, no.
Speaker 2: Kelly's very animated right now.
Speaker 1: Thought of that. Let's go to Sarah here.
Speaker 2: Good morning, Sarah.
Speaker 1: Hello, hello Sarah.
Speaker 2: So we're talking about men doing more domestic chores and
Speaker 2: women find than them attractive.
Speaker 6: Absolutely, it's on. It's on.
Speaker 1: My husband puts a dinner, it's on.
Speaker 2: This is unbelievable.
Speaker 3: We had no idea before you eat or after during.
Speaker 6: Yeah, after after I ate our show a lot of appreciation.
Speaker 2: Unlie, I don't know how to feel about this, any
Speaker 2: of this. All right, Sarah, thank you very much, you.
Speaker 1: Cool, thank you, have a good day, and part of
Speaker 1: me wishes we'd never asked.
Speaker 2: We're not the better for this. This is the Christian
Speaker 2: O'Connell Show podcast