WEBVTT - Self(ish) storage?

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, my name's Santasha Nabananga Bamblet. I'm a proud yr

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<v Speaker 1>the Order Kerni Whoalbury and a waddery woman. And before

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<v Speaker 1>we get started on She's on the Money podcast, I

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<v Speaker 1>would like to acknowledge the traditional custodians of the land

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<v Speaker 1>of which this podcast is recorded on a wondery country,

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<v Speaker 1>acknowledging the elders, the ancestors and the next generation coming

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<v Speaker 1>through as this podcast is about connecting, empowering, knowledge sharing

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<v Speaker 1>and the storytelling of you to make a difference for

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<v Speaker 1>today and lasting impact for tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's get into it. She's on the Money.

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<v Speaker 3>She's on the Money.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello, and welcome to The Money, the podcast for millennials

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<v Speaker 2>who want financial freedom. Today, my friends, it is Friday,

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<v Speaker 2>but it is not your average Friday. Today's my last

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<v Speaker 2>day for a little while. I'm going on matrinity leave.

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<v Speaker 3>That's exciting, but it's exciting.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, I completely agree with what Jessa said.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh thank you you're social that I wasn't listening at

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<v Speaker 5>all and I didn't do anything You've.

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<v Speaker 2>Never listened to before. Why stop now or why start now?

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<v Speaker 2>We'll start now. I'm really excited. Actually, obviously, today is

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<v Speaker 2>about getting our little team together, celebrating our community. That's

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<v Speaker 2>my favorite thing to do. But also we just have

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<v Speaker 2>so much in store. We didn't want Fridays to just

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<v Speaker 2>fall off the bandwagon because I wasn't here. We have

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<v Speaker 2>some beautiful guests lined up that are going to take

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<v Speaker 2>my place, not necessarily as host, but more is like,

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<v Speaker 2>you guys get a fun friend every week, which I

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<v Speaker 2>think will be really cool. I've pulled them out of

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<v Speaker 2>either our She's on the Money community or my friend

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<v Speaker 2>ship circles, and I just think this is gonna be

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<v Speaker 2>the best. In fact, I'm slightly concerned that the community

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<v Speaker 2>is gonna like these more and be like me, don't

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<v Speaker 2>come back. It's all good. So we're having a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of fun with your guest episodes. Can we just keep those?

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<v Speaker 2>So if that's the case, obviously, please let us know

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<v Speaker 2>kindly kindly, because like, I'm itching to get back and

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<v Speaker 2>I haven't even left, but I think that you guys

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<v Speaker 2>are gonna have the best time while I am away

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<v Speaker 2>having a bambini. It's not white.

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<v Speaker 4>It is so wild.

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<v Speaker 2>It feels fake still, like I cannot comprehend that there

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<v Speaker 2>is an entire human being in my stomach. Right now.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't comprehended at three am when they're kicking the lungs,

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<v Speaker 2>but like you know, day to day it feels very novel.

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<v Speaker 2>But let's get into today's episode. Miss Jess Gricci, you

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<v Speaker 2>have a heap of our favorite money wins. Miss becksay ed,

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<v Speaker 2>you've got some broke tips, three of them I believe,

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<v Speaker 2>to share with the community. We're going to be helping

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<v Speaker 2>to answer juicy money dilemma, which this week is all

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<v Speaker 2>about having bad neighbors. And are we gonna unpack something

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<v Speaker 2>that you slid into our d MS about this week?

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<v Speaker 2>You asked what to do about friends who store things

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<v Speaker 2>at your house long term and offer no money in return?

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<v Speaker 3>Juicy.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like that's a really hard one, that is

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<v Speaker 2>so juicy joicy. But before we get there, I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 2>did we go to Taylor Swift on the weekend?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes?

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<v Speaker 2>We did? Over?

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely not over.

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<v Speaker 5>I feel like a lot of people are probably like, yes,

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<v Speaker 5>it's over, I'll never gonna hear about it.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>I got through that whole intro of the podcast with

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<v Speaker 2>not even mentioning Taylor Swift. Thank you, Beck's already over us. No, No,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll hear it over and over again till the day

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<v Speaker 2>I die. Yeah, you will, and you will take it.

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<v Speaker 6>You will like it.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the joy.

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<v Speaker 4>Said that, and without saying like whether it's a good

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<v Speaker 4>or a bad thing, but I will hear about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Your choice. How's your week being? Are you still high

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<v Speaker 2>as a kite? Absolutely?

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<v Speaker 1>I am.

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<v Speaker 5>It was so much fun, just, you know, seeing everybody

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<v Speaker 5>in one space be so excited for her biggest show.

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<v Speaker 2>And we went to the biggest show.

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<v Speaker 3>We went to the biggest show. It was so exciting.

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<v Speaker 5>There's so much going on, and I just like, I can't, like,

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<v Speaker 5>I don't have the words.

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<v Speaker 2>I know that not everybody in our community is a

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<v Speaker 2>swifty though, so we won't go on and on and on.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what our socials are for. So head over there

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<v Speaker 2>and you will see relentless amounts of content. Beck, you

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<v Speaker 2>didn't go to Taylor Swift because you just don't care

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<v Speaker 2>about Taylor Swift, which is honestly a foreign concept to

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<v Speaker 2>the other people at this table right now. How was

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<v Speaker 2>your week?

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<v Speaker 4>So my week has been. I should have gone before, Jess,

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<v Speaker 4>because you know, I can't say that I saw any

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<v Speaker 4>famous people actually except for you guys.

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<v Speaker 2>I think you're technically famous. I don't think we can.

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<v Speaker 3>Definitely, I'm definitely not you probably are.

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<v Speaker 2>You got stopped in public Miss jessic Ricci.

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<v Speaker 3>Mostly with you, they're like, hey, can you Or when

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<v Speaker 3>I'm with Lucy, oh yes, she is the most famous.

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<v Speaker 4>Like hey, I don't know your name, but can you take

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<v Speaker 4>a photo for us?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that what they usually say. I'm still convinced that

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<v Speaker 2>half the people in this office don't know my name,

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<v Speaker 2>but they definitely know my dog and the amount of

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<v Speaker 2>people that I run into in the kitchen who are

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<v Speaker 2>like Lucy's mom. Yeah, And I'm just like mm hmm, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm perfect. I'm happy with that. Sure me, that's me.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm proud. I'm a proud Lucy mum. Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so exciting.

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<v Speaker 4>I've been stopped like two times, not stopped stopped, but

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<v Speaker 4>like people have been like, wow, I think I recognize you,

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<v Speaker 4>and I just want everyone listening to know. I want

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<v Speaker 4>to be bothered on the streets please say hi, because

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<v Speaker 4>it makes my whole entire life anyway so so exciting.

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<v Speaker 4>But that hasn't happened to me in many a month,

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<v Speaker 4>and certainly not this week. No, my week otherwise has

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<v Speaker 4>been very very lovely, just chill, you know, just cruising,

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<v Speaker 4>just like love and love, seeing friends and as always

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<v Speaker 4>and people probably seeing me saying this, still going to

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<v Speaker 4>the gym. I don't know if you can tell, but you.

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<v Speaker 3>Know, getting swoll am, I getting swollen? Thank you?

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<v Speaker 2>What about you?

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<v Speaker 4>VD.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to go back to this meeting people in

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<v Speaker 2>public thing because I have to issue a public apology

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<v Speaker 2>to the girl that stopped me two weeks ago out

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<v Speaker 2>the front of Romana IgA. And she was so kind

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<v Speaker 2>and so nice and she's like, oh my gosh, and

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, I always meet you with the same energy,

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<v Speaker 2>because like, I think it's wild that people think seeing

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<v Speaker 2>me as wild. So I was like, oh my gosh, hi,

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<v Speaker 2>and they're like wait what, and she's like, I love

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<v Speaker 2>your podcast.

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<v Speaker 3>Rah.

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<v Speaker 2>But I was actually standing there and I'd had a

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<v Speaker 2>mid morning freak out about not having my hospital bags packed.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm walking out of IgA and I'm carrying two

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<v Speaker 2>packets of adult nappies, a bag full of snacks and treats,

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<v Speaker 2>and a whole heap of stuff I think I had

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<v Speaker 2>ural in my bag. I was carrying a bottle of

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<v Speaker 2>Gaviscon and this poor girl got me at my worst

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<v Speaker 2>literally because I had had not just like a little

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<v Speaker 2>bit of a like, oh, I probably should pack my

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<v Speaker 2>hospital bags. I had a hysterical meltdown. And my husband

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<v Speaker 2>was like, just go to the shops and get the

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<v Speaker 2>things that you think you need and we'll put them together.

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<v Speaker 3>And I was like, okay, you know, worries.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was red faced, I was sniffy, my hair

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<v Speaker 2>was on top of my head because I was a

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<v Speaker 2>little feral, and I was carrying outult nappies and she

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<v Speaker 2>was still excited to see me. So shout out to

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<v Speaker 2>you also, apologies for whatever you experienced in that interactions.

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<v Speaker 4>So I would be excited to see that version of you.

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<v Speaker 4>To be honest, Oh you have before.

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<v Speaker 2>You've been too kind not to mention it. That's true actually,

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<v Speaker 2>But yes, I have had a good week, same as Jessica.

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<v Speaker 2>But the anticipation of having a baby is I.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't know, it's startlingly more exciting.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know what, I'm just glad that I didn't

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<v Speaker 2>ruin the Tailor Swift concert, like so like some women

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<v Speaker 2>had to stop the Pink concert. I'm just glad that

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't me.

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<v Speaker 5>You know. Wow, I don't know, like I'm really on

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<v Speaker 5>the fence, like some people like that would be so

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<v Speaker 5>exciting and fun and what a good memory. And I

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<v Speaker 5>just think I would be so mortified to imagine, however,

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<v Speaker 5>many Hunter people looking at you while you're like arguably

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<v Speaker 5>in extreme din comfort.

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<v Speaker 4>Absolutely funny was that around the time that people were

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<v Speaker 4>giving Pink random items and someone gave their baby to

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<v Speaker 4>Pink on stage.

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<v Speaker 2>No, this was truly like three weeks ago. Oh I see,

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<v Speaker 2>I guess yeah, like wild. Anyway, let's get into the episode.

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<v Speaker 2>Miss Jessagricci, what have you got when it comes to

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<v Speaker 2>community money wins.

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<v Speaker 5>My first money in this week comes from Holly, who

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<v Speaker 5>said she went to the Lifeline book fair and filled

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<v Speaker 5>a whole bag full of books for thirty five dollars.

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<v Speaker 5>She says she got about thirty different books and she

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<v Speaker 5>used money that was in a pickiebank, so girl Math

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<v Speaker 5>says that they were free. She said, when I'm done

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<v Speaker 5>with them, I will likely donate them back to Lifeline

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<v Speaker 5>to on sale again at the next book fair. Lifeline

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<v Speaker 5>in Canberra, which I missumean is where she's from, is

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<v Speaker 5>a twenty four to seven suicide telephone and crisis support

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<v Speaker 5>Center and it's a big fundraiser that they hold every

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<v Speaker 5>couple of months.

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<v Speaker 2>So adore that.

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<v Speaker 5>Good for our fellow book lovers, great for you know,

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<v Speaker 5>supporting a good cause.

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<v Speaker 3>We love to see it. Well done, Holly.

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<v Speaker 5>Next, I've got one from Stacy who said my son

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<v Speaker 5>wanted a mister Potato Head and they are fifty plus

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<v Speaker 5>dollars at the shops.

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<v Speaker 7>What.

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<v Speaker 3>Firstly, since when was mister Potatohead so expensive?

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<v Speaker 2>Also, secondly, I didn't know who still existed.

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<v Speaker 5>Inflation's wild, she said, but I found one for free

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<v Speaker 5>on Facebook marketplace. Her son lost most of the pieces

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<v Speaker 5>and his interest a week later, so she's very glad

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<v Speaker 5>that she didn't spend the fifty bucks. Money win, huge

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<v Speaker 5>money win. Well, now I've got one from Renee who said,

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<v Speaker 5>I went to Mecca to get foundation color atched. They

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<v Speaker 5>gave me three free sample pots of my shades I

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<v Speaker 5>can generately out before committing to a whole bottle, and

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<v Speaker 5>those sample pots will last you yox like absolutely eight es.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's a little bit of a broke tip. Actually,

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<v Speaker 2>if it's not payday and you're you know you've got

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<v Speaker 2>a bit too much month at the end of your

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<v Speaker 2>money going into Mecca and being like, hey, can I

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<v Speaker 2>have a sample of XYZ that'll last you till the

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<v Speaker 2>end of your month?

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<v Speaker 5>That's so true to file that right away for later

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<v Speaker 5>back Yeah, sorry, sorry. Next, I've got a money win

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<v Speaker 5>from Laura who said small win. I got my moving

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<v Speaker 5>boxes for free off marketplace instead of buying them. Big

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<v Speaker 5>when I'm getting a rental for ten dollars less per

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<v Speaker 5>week than what it was advertised, which is huge. Never

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<v Speaker 5>heard of that happening. Cool, Please, for the love of God,

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<v Speaker 5>never buy moving boxes. That industry is such a scam.

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<v Speaker 5>Don't buy moving boxes. You can get them for free

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<v Speaker 5>at Bunnings. If you go into literally I'm sure if

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<v Speaker 5>that is before any retail store ever and say hey,

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<v Speaker 5>can I grab some of your boxes? They'll give them

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<v Speaker 5>to you.

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<v Speaker 2>They want to get rid of them because they don't

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<v Speaker 2>have anywhere to put them.

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<v Speaker 3>I would say, they don't want to have to lug

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<v Speaker 3>them to the bin. It's the worst.

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<v Speaker 5>So if you say hey, can I grab some boxes,

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<v Speaker 5>they'll probably say yeah, come back on Tuesday, that's delivery

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<v Speaker 5>day and you can have as many as you want.

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<v Speaker 5>So I use garbage bags also, I use laundry baskets

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<v Speaker 5>a lots coals bags, literally, anything that is not a

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<v Speaker 5>moving box that you paid for. Any vessel, any vessel

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<v Speaker 5>will do the palm of your head, your arms, we know,

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<v Speaker 5>whatever works. Lastly, I've got a money win from Zanpi,

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<v Speaker 5>who said I found out my counsel does rebates for

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<v Speaker 5>purchasing reusable period products. Luckily I still had my receipts

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<v Speaker 5>from the Christmas sales. I don't know what council, but

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<v Speaker 5>check your local council website because that is phenomenal.

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<v Speaker 4>That's equity, my friends, is it? Or is that a

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<v Speaker 4>quality I don't know, booking or lost dos?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>I love that.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, Beck, what are you bringing to the table

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<v Speaker 2>when it comes to broke tips this week?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, sorry, I'm filing this Mecca one away for but

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<v Speaker 4>also for my own life. I mean, I don't really

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<v Speaker 4>go there, but I will. Starting to say.

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<v Speaker 2>Beck, do you wear makeup? Is that a thing in

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<v Speaker 2>your repertoire? I don't. Actually, it's like you just have

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<v Speaker 2>naturally gorgeous skin. You don't need it.

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<v Speaker 3>You such a good broke tip. Don't wear makeups.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't wear makeup. Yeah, break tip from Beck. Just have

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<v Speaker 2>skin as good as me. And you don't need makeup,

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<v Speaker 2>easy peasy. If I had her skin, I wouldn't wear

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<v Speaker 2>makeup either. Why would you break?

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<v Speaker 3>That is really sweet?

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you, and I was feeling that I wasn't. That

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't even a compliments, just a fact.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I really appreciate it. Whatever it was, I'm very grateful.

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks. Thanks for the facts.

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<v Speaker 4>So, as always, there are two broke tips from the

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<v Speaker 4>community and one from myself.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'll start off with Natalie.

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<v Speaker 4>I know that we've mentioned Seven eleven coffees before, but

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<v Speaker 4>this one is kind of like an all round any

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<v Speaker 4>petrol station. So Natalie says, buy your coffee from petrol

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<v Speaker 4>stations a dollar fifty for a small armond cap. It's

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<v Speaker 4>not the worst thing in the world. I have seen

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<v Speaker 4>that it coals as well, especially one on Swan Street

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<v Speaker 4>in Richmond. If you live in Melbourne, they do. I

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<v Speaker 4>believe it's a dollar fifty or two dollars max for an.

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<v Speaker 2>Arm is still going to be an absolute stan of

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<v Speaker 2>the Seven eleven coffee.

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<v Speaker 4>Totally because they do do soy milk.

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<v Speaker 2>They just have They've nailed it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, they have old milk, regular milk, everything. It's all

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<v Speaker 4>the same price and it's no more than two dollars

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<v Speaker 4>if you just want.

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<v Speaker 2>I think my favorite thing about the seven eleven one

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<v Speaker 2>was on Chapel Street a couple of months ago. Seven

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<v Speaker 2>eleven did a pop up store of like an unbranded

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<v Speaker 2>cafe and they basically ghastly everybody. And that was my

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<v Speaker 2>favorite thing ever because you go in and they're like,

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<v Speaker 2>we're doing, you know, grand opening, free coffee, and you

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<v Speaker 2>go in and you relate the coffee, here's elite, so good,

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<v Speaker 2>and then on your way out, they gave you a

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<v Speaker 2>little like card and you scratched it and it told

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<v Speaker 2>you that it was seven eleven coffee. That is such

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<v Speaker 2>a idea. It was genius.

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<v Speaker 4>Can you believe that is two dollars or a dollar fifty?

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<v Speaker 4>It's so cheap five or so pay sometimes, yeah, totally,

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<v Speaker 4>like I pay sixty.

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<v Speaker 2>What This inflation is unacceptable. I know it's really really bad.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I get it, but I'm mostly like I

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<v Speaker 2>don't get so much money. I don't get it. Like

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<v Speaker 2>as a girl who completely understands inflation, I understand the

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<v Speaker 2>cost of living crisis, I understand everything. Like at this point,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to need the government to subsidize coffee.

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<v Speaker 5>I'll get against that, as I say, I don't know

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<v Speaker 5>the Prime Minister is right now, get at but easy

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<v Speaker 5>on the phone.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I've got a bone to pick with you. My

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<v Speaker 2>coffees are a bit too expensive. And He'll be like, Victoria,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm actually working on the cost of living crisis right now.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'll be like, yes, but do you know it

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<v Speaker 2>costs a dollar extra to get oat milk? Sit down,

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<v Speaker 2>Sit down, alow. She put it on the top of

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<v Speaker 2>his priorities list. I'll call it. I'll call him once.

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<v Speaker 2>I definitely quit leave. I might pick that up. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>if you could.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sure his numbers in your phone. What else you got, Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>Also just want to say that. Natalie also says, buy

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<v Speaker 4>iced coffee from an Asian groser. It's two dollars per pack.

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<v Speaker 4>Asian grocery is something I've been privy to, not privy

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<v Speaker 4>too because it has existed in my whole life, but

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<v Speaker 4>kind of been looking into recently because it is like,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, everything's all cheaper there.

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<v Speaker 2>Fines are so fresh.

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<v Speaker 5>I was.

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely so fresh, and it's also so cheap. Anytime I'm

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<v Speaker 2>getting like, you know, Chinese broccoli or like any type

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<v Speaker 2>of greens, I will purposely go out of my way

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<v Speaker 2>because it lasts so much longer in my fridge. It's

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<v Speaker 2>like two dollars a bunch.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, yes, yes, definitely shop at the Asian grocer.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>This next one comes from Catherine, who says the plant

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<v Speaker 4>Jammer app or similar gives you recipe ideas based on

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<v Speaker 4>what you already have in your fridge slash pantry, which

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<v Speaker 4>is a great idea something I mentioned recently, but I

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<v Speaker 4>didn't actually have an app for it. So the plant

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<v Speaker 4>Jammer app is good. If you don't want to go

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<v Speaker 4>to the shops and you don't know what to cook,

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<v Speaker 4>just chuck some things in the app and I will

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<v Speaker 4>tell you what to cook. And I think that's a

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<v Speaker 4>really greatita love it so my own one. I'm sure

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<v Speaker 4>you know, maybe you guys have tried this before.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not too sure.

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<v Speaker 4>But so if you're wanting a little sweet tree, or

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<v Speaker 4>you're maybe hosting a dinner party, or you're bringing dessert

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<v Speaker 4>for a pot lucks, when you should.

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<v Speaker 2>Check the kitchen at work first because they might have cinnamon.

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<v Speaker 2>Do that.

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<v Speaker 4>We did happen upon some cinnamon scrolls in our work kitchen,

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<v Speaker 4>and what we did to deserve this.

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<v Speaker 2>We liberated them. There were pancakes earlier too. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>think we missed those.

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<v Speaker 4>But what I have found is if you go to

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<v Speaker 4>muff and Break before they close, maybe like thirty Gonna.

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<v Speaker 2>Getsh didn't know muff and Breaks still existed.

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<v Speaker 5>I know.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the other thing too, is that the sorry muff

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<v Speaker 2>and Break.

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<v Speaker 4>They're hard to come by now, but I am sure,

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<v Speaker 4>I like, I know this for a fact. Actually they

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<v Speaker 4>are the best muffins slash cookies I've eaten, and I

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<v Speaker 4>have not been able to find anything has good since.

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<v Speaker 4>I know that's a big call to make. That's a

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<v Speaker 4>huge call to make, but I love, love, love them anyway.

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<v Speaker 4>So you go there maybe like half an hour before

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<v Speaker 4>they're closing or just a little bit before, and they

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<v Speaker 4>usually have like super super cheap muffins, cookies, tasty treats,

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<v Speaker 4>and loads of them too. You can get five for

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<v Speaker 4>five dollars and that's totally and that's enough to like

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<v Speaker 4>take as a potluck dessert or whatever. But sometimes if

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<v Speaker 4>you're lucky, if they're in a good mood, they might

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<v Speaker 4>give them two for free.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess if it's.

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<v Speaker 5>Money means before the crack, maybe they'll chuck an extra

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<v Speaker 5>one in or something totally exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>So God, Muff and Break. Everyone, don't forget about Uff

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<v Speaker 2>and Break please. I did. I did, and I'm glad

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<v Speaker 2>that you've reminded me that they exist.

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<v Speaker 4>It sounds like we're sponsored, but honestly, like I just

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<v Speaker 4>I just love Muff and Break.

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<v Speaker 2>If we were sponsored, I'm pretty sure I wouldn't have

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<v Speaker 2>said what I just said was sponsored. I'd be like, wait,

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<v Speaker 2>are they still around? Like Muff and Break are going

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<v Speaker 2>to be like, yeah, thanks for the mention. Next time,

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<v Speaker 2>could it be more positive? We love your stuff. Let's

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<v Speaker 2>wrap this up really quickly and go to a little

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<v Speaker 2>art be as you could say, a Muff and Break,

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<v Speaker 2>because I feel like I'm going to get canceled if

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<v Speaker 2>i keep digging this whole any deeper. So we'll see

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<v Speaker 2>you guys on the flip side, because we're going to

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<v Speaker 2>be talking about one bad neighbors and two. This week,

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<v Speaker 2>you guys asked us about what to do about a

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<v Speaker 2>friend who stored things at your house long term but

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't offer you any cash for it. Guys, don't go anywhere.

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<v Speaker 3>Welcome back, everybody. Let's take a listen to this week's

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<v Speaker 3>money dilemma.

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<v Speaker 6>listen to this week's money dilemma.

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<v Speaker 7>Hi, I've got a question. I've got really really bad

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<v Speaker 7>neighbors living in next door to my house. They're in

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<v Speaker 7>commission housing. I've tried multiple things to try to get

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<v Speaker 7>them evicted. It's really a planing on my mental health

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<v Speaker 7>and fear for my safety. I bought this house, but

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<v Speaker 7>now I'm not sure if I should sell. I'll probably

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<v Speaker 7>have to say self for a loss. I spent a

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<v Speaker 7>lot of money on renovations. Do you know changing up

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<v Speaker 7>this house? Should I just cut my losses or and sell?

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<v Speaker 7>Or do I just keep trying to, you know, fight

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<v Speaker 7>my neighbors and try to take them to court?

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you, jeez, Louise, Well, that is such a good question.

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<v Speaker 4>I have a colleague in this exact situation.

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<v Speaker 2>We're missing so much context. I just I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>there's always three sides to a story. There's like their side,

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<v Speaker 2>your side, and the truth. And I'm not saying that

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<v Speaker 2>you're not telling the truth, but like we don't have

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<v Speaker 2>any conflict, why would you take them to court? Like

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<v Speaker 2>we need some we need the juice, Like what have

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<v Speaker 2>they done so that we can have an opinion? What's

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<v Speaker 2>going on with your colleague though?

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<v Speaker 4>Back So it's a very very similar situation. My colleague

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<v Speaker 4>just brought her, I believed, like a little unit in

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<v Speaker 4>like a block of units, and her downstairs neighbor is

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<v Speaker 4>like really causing her a lot of trouble. And that's

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<v Speaker 4>sometimes she actually is as well scared for her safety,

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<v Speaker 4>but she doesn't like she doesn't really know what to do.

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<v Speaker 2>And this is and so also I don't know when

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<v Speaker 2>you buy a property what the neighbors are. You just

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<v Speaker 2>don't know. And I also don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't have advice for this because I would be

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<v Speaker 4>completely stuck. I guess, I guess, cell but I don't

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<v Speaker 4>know anything, so don't listen to me. But no, she's

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<v Speaker 4>in the exact same situation, and it's really weighing on

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<v Speaker 4>her mental health, and unfortunately it's such a tricky one

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<v Speaker 4>because you just I don't know where you'd go from here.

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<v Speaker 4>But I'm hoping you guys have more advised because I'm

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<v Speaker 4>being useless.

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<v Speaker 2>Yess.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I just want to say I'm really sorry for

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<v Speaker 5>our listener, because buying a property is so excited and

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<v Speaker 5>I can only imagine the joy and the pride that

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<v Speaker 5>you would have felt buying this house and then moving in,

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<v Speaker 5>and then to go through whatever experience you're going through.

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<v Speaker 5>Nobody should ever ever feel unsafe in their own home,

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<v Speaker 5>and I can only imagine how hard that is and

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<v Speaker 5>how it would have ruined what should be such a

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<v Speaker 5>fantastic and exciting time for you. So I'm really sorry

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<v Speaker 5>that that is the case. It's just awful. I think

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<v Speaker 5>it's hard to say because obviously, if you're selling because

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<v Speaker 5>of the location that you know, you're not necessarily looking

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<v Speaker 5>at the ideal timing of the market. And if you

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<v Speaker 5>purchase recently, you might have to if you use any grants,

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<v Speaker 5>you might have to pay those back, depending on if

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<v Speaker 5>you're a first home buyer, and there's all of those

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<v Speaker 5>I guess financial considerations. But at the same time, I

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<v Speaker 5>might gut instinct, which again may not be the most logical,

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<v Speaker 5>but is just your safety needs to always be your

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<v Speaker 5>number one priority. And if you're saying that you're concerned

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<v Speaker 5>for that, that makes me concerned for you. It sounds

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<v Speaker 5>like she's tried to go through some form of official channel.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm assuming that's what she meant when she said that

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<v Speaker 5>she's tried to get the neighbor evicted. And without the

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<v Speaker 5>context of what they're doing, we can't really provide any

0:20:46.640 --> 0:20:49.160
<v Speaker 5>insight into what channels you can go through, like I'm assuming,

0:20:49.160 --> 0:20:51.399
<v Speaker 5>if they're doing something illegal, or if they're threatening you

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<v Speaker 5>in some way, if you haven't speak to the police,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, I would say, maintain a chain of records.

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<v Speaker 5>So it might feel really futile to keep reporting the

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<v Speaker 5>same thing, but sometimes, unfortunately the system can work in

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<v Speaker 5>a way where you need a certain amount of proof

0:21:08.280 --> 0:21:12.720
<v Speaker 5>or a certain historical record of things occurring regularly or frequently.

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<v Speaker 5>So even if it feels like you're getting nowhere, continue

0:21:16.440 --> 0:21:20.000
<v Speaker 5>reporting to whatever the relevant body may be, whether it's

0:21:20.480 --> 0:21:22.640
<v Speaker 5>you know, if they're renters, reporting it to their landlord

0:21:22.680 --> 0:21:25.480
<v Speaker 5>or their property manager if you can find that out, or.

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<v Speaker 3>To the police.

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<v Speaker 5>Or to whoever the I don't know, we don't know

0:21:28.200 --> 0:21:30.640
<v Speaker 5>the context, so it's hard to say where. But if

0:21:30.640 --> 0:21:34.720
<v Speaker 5>you can keep making reports above and beyond, all make

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<v Speaker 5>sure that you're safe. I would say, if you haven't,

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<v Speaker 5>maybe pop some security cameras in.

0:21:39.840 --> 0:21:41.480
<v Speaker 2>I was about to say the same, like, have you

0:21:41.520 --> 0:21:44.640
<v Speaker 2>got security cameras? Are you looking after your safety?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Right now? Because like moving, it's a privilege, right, Like

0:21:48.520 --> 0:21:51.320
<v Speaker 2>you've probably just spent every single cent you have on

0:21:51.320 --> 0:21:53.360
<v Speaker 2>this property. You probably can't just be like, oh, I'll

0:21:53.400 --> 0:21:55.560
<v Speaker 2>just go rent somewhere else, Like you're right, Jess, Like

0:21:55.640 --> 0:21:58.400
<v Speaker 2>what are you doing? Document? Document? Document, I'd be calling

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<v Speaker 2>the cops. I'd be getting everybody involved, to be honest.

0:22:01.359 --> 0:22:03.600
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, And you can get really on the security camera thing.

0:22:03.600 --> 0:22:06.280
<v Speaker 5>You can get really affordable. I know I even when

0:22:06.320 --> 0:22:08.680
<v Speaker 5>I was renting, I purchased ring. You can get them

0:22:08.720 --> 0:22:11.159
<v Speaker 5>on sale, usually at Bunnings or on Amazon, and you

0:22:11.200 --> 0:22:13.160
<v Speaker 5>don't have to hardwire them in. So if you don't

0:22:13.200 --> 0:22:15.800
<v Speaker 5>have the cash to get something installed that's really heavy duty,

0:22:15.800 --> 0:22:17.919
<v Speaker 5>you can get ones that you just screw into the

0:22:17.960 --> 0:22:20.840
<v Speaker 5>wall with some screws and bolts, and sometimes even just

0:22:20.880 --> 0:22:23.679
<v Speaker 5>the presence of cameras can be enough to deter people

0:22:23.720 --> 0:22:26.760
<v Speaker 5>from doing things that are a little bit sketchy, and

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<v Speaker 5>you can get ones that go inside your property too,

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<v Speaker 5>if that will make you feel more secure and safe.

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<v Speaker 3>But it is.

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<v Speaker 5>You're right, it's such a hard one because you don't

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, partly because we don't have the context, but

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<v Speaker 5>also because it's a rock and a hard place between.

0:22:39.640 --> 0:22:41.680
<v Speaker 5>Your safety should be your priority, but also like from

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<v Speaker 5>a financial perspective, just up and selling may or may

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<v Speaker 5>not from a financial angle, be the best choice.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so it's so hard.

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<v Speaker 5>But I just want to say I feel very sympathetic

0:22:53.040 --> 0:22:55.960
<v Speaker 5>and I'm really sorry that you're struggling with this, because

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<v Speaker 5>like the three of us are kind of struggling to

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<v Speaker 5>come up which to ourselves.

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<v Speaker 4>I do just want to say one quick thing though,

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<v Speaker 4>I guess if like obviously again like we don't really

0:23:04.240 --> 0:23:06.400
<v Speaker 4>have context, but if I feel sorry for the listener here,

0:23:06.440 --> 0:23:10.880
<v Speaker 4>I also kind of feel as though the neighbors themselves

0:23:10.920 --> 0:23:13.000
<v Speaker 4>if you get like the idea, like maybe the feeling

0:23:13.040 --> 0:23:15.359
<v Speaker 4>that they don't they don't have the I guess like

0:23:15.640 --> 0:23:19.480
<v Speaker 4>means to be living anywhere else or be able to

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<v Speaker 4>like if them getting evicted means that they become homeless

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<v Speaker 4>or something. I kind of also feel for them as well.

0:23:25.280 --> 0:23:29.160
<v Speaker 4>Maybe they didn't have the best upbringing, that's what's causing

0:23:29.200 --> 0:23:31.359
<v Speaker 4>their behavior or whatever it might be, you know what

0:23:31.400 --> 0:23:33.040
<v Speaker 4>I mean. I just want to also take a minute

0:23:33.040 --> 0:23:36.560
<v Speaker 4>to acknowledge that bad neighbors also may have a bad

0:23:36.600 --> 0:23:39.560
<v Speaker 4>story behind them or maybe in a tough situation, and

0:23:39.600 --> 0:23:42.639
<v Speaker 4>we don't actually always know, and you know, and I

0:23:42.640 --> 0:23:45.840
<v Speaker 4>do feel really awful for people out there that had

0:23:45.840 --> 0:23:49.400
<v Speaker 4>their future written for them before they were even born,

0:23:49.440 --> 0:23:50.960
<v Speaker 4>if that makes sense. I just want to take time

0:23:51.000 --> 0:23:52.560
<v Speaker 4>to acknowledge that. But I also feel really bad for

0:23:52.600 --> 0:23:54.320
<v Speaker 4>you listener. It's a very tricky situation.

0:23:54.600 --> 0:23:55.760
<v Speaker 3>Same neighbors as well.

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<v Speaker 5>Actually made me think of one other thing, which is

0:23:58.280 --> 0:24:00.440
<v Speaker 5>if you haven't spoken to your neighbors because you're a block,

0:24:00.480 --> 0:24:03.600
<v Speaker 5>speak to your neighbors because maybe they are taking steps,

0:24:03.600 --> 0:24:07.199
<v Speaker 5>maybe they're not taking steps. Sometimes if everybody bands together

0:24:07.480 --> 0:24:09.920
<v Speaker 5>like that can also be very impactful. They see what

0:24:09.960 --> 0:24:12.920
<v Speaker 5>they're doing, see if they've got any more information. The

0:24:13.080 --> 0:24:15.480
<v Speaker 5>safety in numbers too, So keeping an eye on your neighbors,

0:24:15.520 --> 0:24:17.639
<v Speaker 5>them keeping an eye out for you. It can be

0:24:17.720 --> 0:24:20.040
<v Speaker 5>nice just knowing that that's there for you, like your

0:24:20.080 --> 0:24:22.760
<v Speaker 5>other neighbors, not the bad neighbors obviously, but yeah, it's

0:24:22.840 --> 0:24:24.200
<v Speaker 5>it's such a hard one. I feel like I really

0:24:24.240 --> 0:24:25.159
<v Speaker 5>don't have a good answer.

0:24:25.280 --> 0:24:28.280
<v Speaker 2>I don't either, because there's no like perfect outcome here.

0:24:28.280 --> 0:24:31.600
<v Speaker 2>I mean, perfect outcome would be your neighbors move away, slay,

0:24:31.880 --> 0:24:35.320
<v Speaker 2>but that's probably not gonna happen. I had terrible neighbors

0:24:35.400 --> 0:24:38.040
<v Speaker 2>before I moved where I have moved to, and I

0:24:38.040 --> 0:24:40.080
<v Speaker 2>feel like I put that on the podcast a lot. Yes,

0:24:40.640 --> 0:24:45.320
<v Speaker 2>like they were horrendous, Like we're not talking like, oh,

0:24:45.320 --> 0:24:47.159
<v Speaker 2>I just didn't like these people. They would yell and

0:24:47.160 --> 0:24:50.000
<v Speaker 2>scream at us. They would like literally like I had

0:24:50.000 --> 0:24:52.680
<v Speaker 2>called the cops on them a number of times because

0:24:52.680 --> 0:24:56.560
<v Speaker 2>it was actually so unhinged. And whenever I'd tell people

0:24:56.560 --> 0:24:59.320
<v Speaker 2>the stories, they'd be like, what, like if you're a

0:24:59.359 --> 0:25:01.520
<v Speaker 2>close friend of mine, you know, and you've heard the

0:25:01.560 --> 0:25:05.400
<v Speaker 2>horror story anyway, so I so get it. We ended

0:25:05.480 --> 0:25:07.240
<v Speaker 2>up having the privilege of being able to move away

0:25:07.240 --> 0:25:10.080
<v Speaker 2>because that was a rental. But you know, if you're

0:25:10.119 --> 0:25:12.240
<v Speaker 2>not comfortable there, I would be looking at ways that

0:25:12.240 --> 0:25:14.040
<v Speaker 2>you can leave. Can you rent out the property, like

0:25:14.480 --> 0:25:16.720
<v Speaker 2>just because you spent a lot and renovated. It doesn't

0:25:16.760 --> 0:25:19.480
<v Speaker 2>mean you need to dispose of that asset either, Like

0:25:20.560 --> 0:25:23.480
<v Speaker 2>what can you do? How can this work? But yeah,

0:25:23.520 --> 0:25:26.560
<v Speaker 2>I'd go back to literally everything just said, like document everything,

0:25:26.600 --> 0:25:29.840
<v Speaker 2>call the cops when anything goes wrong, Like protect yourself

0:25:30.359 --> 0:25:33.280
<v Speaker 2>and put some cameras up, take photos of everything, make

0:25:33.320 --> 0:25:36.200
<v Speaker 2>sure it's really well documented. And if you can find

0:25:36.240 --> 0:25:39.840
<v Speaker 2>out who their landlord is, provide that to them and

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<v Speaker 2>work out what next steps would be from there, because

0:25:42.320 --> 0:25:43.440
<v Speaker 2>that's just not fair.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it's such a hard place and we're sorry going

0:25:46.680 --> 0:25:50.600
<v Speaker 5>through that. Ye, please be safe above everything else. That's

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<v Speaker 5>all I can really.

0:25:51.240 --> 0:25:53.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and if they are renting, a little sneaky tip

0:25:53.680 --> 0:25:56.439
<v Speaker 2>that I learned when I had bad neighbors is google

0:25:56.480 --> 0:25:59.040
<v Speaker 2>their address and it will usually come up with you know,

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<v Speaker 2>like the old real state, dot com, dot au listing

0:26:01.680 --> 0:26:04.199
<v Speaker 2>and will have the real estate agent who listed it.

0:26:04.560 --> 0:26:07.520
<v Speaker 2>You can call them and say, hey, do you still

0:26:07.640 --> 0:26:10.600
<v Speaker 2>you know manage one, two, three Boring Street and they'll

0:26:10.640 --> 0:26:13.199
<v Speaker 2>be like yeah, we do, and you go great, I

0:26:13.320 --> 0:26:14.879
<v Speaker 2>have a whole heap of stuff that's going to be

0:26:14.920 --> 0:26:18.639
<v Speaker 2>really interesting for you guys and the landlord, Like, you

0:26:18.640 --> 0:26:20.560
<v Speaker 2>don't even need to put me in contact with the landlord.

0:26:20.600 --> 0:26:22.520
<v Speaker 2>I just want to be able to provide this information

0:26:22.640 --> 0:26:26.600
<v Speaker 2>because you know, obviously they think they're getting away with it. Yeah, anyway,

0:26:26.640 --> 0:26:30.240
<v Speaker 2>that's me throwing other people under a bus. Let's move on, though,

0:26:30.320 --> 0:26:33.639
<v Speaker 2>because we have a community DM which I would be

0:26:33.640 --> 0:26:37.320
<v Speaker 2>really annoyed about this, So let's read it out. Hi,

0:26:37.400 --> 0:26:38.720
<v Speaker 2>she's on the money. I've got a bit of a

0:26:38.800 --> 0:26:42.240
<v Speaker 2>random question. If a friend asks to leave their stuff

0:26:42.240 --> 0:26:44.320
<v Speaker 2>at your house while they go one a three month

0:26:44.359 --> 0:26:48.840
<v Speaker 2>overseas holiday, should you charge them rent for keeping their stuff?

0:26:49.320 --> 0:26:51.840
<v Speaker 2>To this date, they still haven't booked a return flight,

0:26:51.920 --> 0:26:54.840
<v Speaker 2>and they've been gone since November twenty twenty three. They

0:26:54.880 --> 0:26:56.840
<v Speaker 2>stayed at my house for a couple of nights prior

0:26:56.880 --> 0:26:59.040
<v Speaker 2>to their flight, and I even drove them to the

0:26:59.040 --> 0:27:02.119
<v Speaker 2>city to catch the skybus to the airport. I've not

0:27:02.200 --> 0:27:05.560
<v Speaker 2>received a single dollar from this person. I wouldn't say

0:27:05.560 --> 0:27:07.600
<v Speaker 2>that they are a super close friend, but I've known

0:27:07.600 --> 0:27:10.399
<v Speaker 2>them since July last year. I am doing them a

0:27:10.480 --> 0:27:12.480
<v Speaker 2>huge favor storing their stuff at my house in my

0:27:12.520 --> 0:27:16.040
<v Speaker 2>spare room. Their stuff includes their bike in my garage,

0:27:16.240 --> 0:27:20.560
<v Speaker 2>several helmets, shoes and boots, a laptop, clothes, cooking and

0:27:20.640 --> 0:27:23.679
<v Speaker 2>groceries which are currently in my fridge and things like

0:27:23.720 --> 0:27:26.879
<v Speaker 2>snacks and toilet paper that are currently sitting in my cupboards.

0:27:27.240 --> 0:27:29.359
<v Speaker 2>What would you do and how would you go about

0:27:29.400 --> 0:27:31.960
<v Speaker 2>asking for money if they don't come back? Do I

0:27:32.000 --> 0:27:33.720
<v Speaker 2>have a right to sell all this stuff?

0:27:35.640 --> 0:27:36.160
<v Speaker 3>Interesting?

0:27:36.400 --> 0:27:39.240
<v Speaker 2>Interesting? This has gone real deep, real quick, Like you're

0:27:39.240 --> 0:27:41.000
<v Speaker 2>asking if you have a right to sell this stuff,

0:27:41.000 --> 0:27:41.680
<v Speaker 2>but you've.

0:27:41.640 --> 0:27:42.840
<v Speaker 3>Gone very weirdly.

0:27:43.040 --> 0:27:46.560
<v Speaker 2>Have you had a conversation with this person? Like why

0:27:46.560 --> 0:27:48.199
<v Speaker 2>are you asking me if you have a right to

0:27:48.240 --> 0:27:51.600
<v Speaker 2>sell someone's stuff before asking them when they're returning.

0:27:51.560 --> 0:27:53.639
<v Speaker 5>Which, by the way, abandoned property is I think like

0:27:53.640 --> 0:27:58.040
<v Speaker 5>a six month rule after you have contacted the relevant party.

0:27:58.200 --> 0:27:59.320
<v Speaker 2>Oh I see, I see, I see.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, this is a true I think personally, I it depends.

0:28:03.280 --> 0:28:05.359
<v Speaker 4>I guess how much space this is taking up. It

0:28:05.400 --> 0:28:07.600
<v Speaker 4>doesn't sound like it's taking up a whole lot of space,

0:28:07.640 --> 0:28:09.520
<v Speaker 4>but it's also like if it's like a one bedroom

0:28:09.520 --> 0:28:11.240
<v Speaker 4>apartment or a share house, it could be you know,

0:28:11.320 --> 0:28:14.000
<v Speaker 4>that's you know, a very crucial amount of space that

0:28:14.040 --> 0:28:15.800
<v Speaker 4>you could be using for other things. So I totally

0:28:15.880 --> 0:28:18.119
<v Speaker 4>get that. I guess my thing is if you hadn't

0:28:18.160 --> 0:28:22.280
<v Speaker 4>had a conversation ahead of time about them paying for

0:28:22.680 --> 0:28:26.040
<v Speaker 4>like storage fees. I guess you'd call it then I

0:28:26.040 --> 0:28:28.280
<v Speaker 4>wouldn't expect any money. If I had this conversation ahead

0:28:28.280 --> 0:28:31.400
<v Speaker 4>of time and I wasn't expecting storage fees, I wouldn't

0:28:31.640 --> 0:28:35.000
<v Speaker 4>be then expecting storage fees in three, four or five months,

0:28:35.040 --> 0:28:37.199
<v Speaker 4>no matter how long they took. Really, I guess like

0:28:37.200 --> 0:28:40.000
<v Speaker 4>they're outliving their best. But I think if you had

0:28:40.000 --> 0:28:41.840
<v Speaker 4>that in mind already, that you were going to get

0:28:41.880 --> 0:28:45.080
<v Speaker 4>storage fees, maybe there were some sort of conversation and

0:28:45.200 --> 0:28:47.680
<v Speaker 4>I would like that context but totally find that is

0:28:47.680 --> 0:28:48.920
<v Speaker 4>a bit of a tricky one. But I guess at

0:28:48.960 --> 0:28:53.600
<v Speaker 4>this point if you hadn't discussed it, I wouldn't expect it. Yeah,

0:28:53.600 --> 0:28:55.400
<v Speaker 4>maybe they maybe have a conversation.

0:28:55.160 --> 0:28:57.240
<v Speaker 5>Which yeah, like did was there a conversation at the

0:28:57.280 --> 0:28:59.320
<v Speaker 5>start around how long you were holding their stuff?

0:28:59.320 --> 0:28:59.400
<v Speaker 1>For?

0:28:59.560 --> 0:29:00.000
<v Speaker 2>Three months?

0:29:00.080 --> 0:29:02.640
<v Speaker 3>So I think, and well, so they've just hit the

0:29:02.680 --> 0:29:03.400
<v Speaker 3>three month mark.

0:29:03.520 --> 0:29:06.440
<v Speaker 5>Yeah really, So I feel like, if anything, just dropping

0:29:06.480 --> 0:29:08.440
<v Speaker 5>the message and saying, hey, like, I know when we

0:29:08.440 --> 0:29:11.760
<v Speaker 5>first chatted, you said about three months. We've just recently

0:29:12.120 --> 0:29:14.560
<v Speaker 5>you know, I've got a dog, my partner's like, any

0:29:14.600 --> 0:29:15.800
<v Speaker 5>excuse that you can think of.

0:29:15.800 --> 0:29:17.600
<v Speaker 2>You don't even need an excuse. So I'm just wondering

0:29:17.600 --> 0:29:19.160
<v Speaker 2>when you're coming to gather stuff.

0:29:18.920 --> 0:29:21.000
<v Speaker 5>Like well, yeah, or if you want to be a

0:29:21.000 --> 0:29:22.640
<v Speaker 5>bit softer, I yes, you could just say, oh, I

0:29:23.040 --> 0:29:24.640
<v Speaker 5>really need the space, so we can't hold it for

0:29:24.680 --> 0:29:26.080
<v Speaker 5>too much longer. When do you want to come and

0:29:26.080 --> 0:29:29.080
<v Speaker 5>grab it? And so then the option is either they go,

0:29:29.120 --> 0:29:31.080
<v Speaker 5>oh my god, I can't come back, and you go, okay,

0:29:31.080 --> 0:29:32.719
<v Speaker 5>would you like me to sell it? Would you like

0:29:32.760 --> 0:29:35.560
<v Speaker 5>to pay for a storage facility? You know, here are

0:29:35.560 --> 0:29:37.880
<v Speaker 5>a few different options for you. But I think like

0:29:37.960 --> 0:29:40.840
<v Speaker 5>you've really jumped the gun on can I sell this stuff?

0:29:40.920 --> 0:29:42.000
<v Speaker 3>Can I?

0:29:42.080 --> 0:29:44.240
<v Speaker 5>You know, it sounds like you're kind of just coming

0:29:44.360 --> 0:29:46.160
<v Speaker 5>to be weird. It's going to be weird, And I

0:29:46.200 --> 0:29:49.040
<v Speaker 5>think like, maybe you're feeling weird because they haven't communicated

0:29:49.040 --> 0:29:51.120
<v Speaker 5>with you, which I totally understand. But I think, like,

0:29:51.600 --> 0:29:54.200
<v Speaker 5>if they haven't communicated with you, let's like put our

0:29:54.240 --> 0:29:56.760
<v Speaker 5>big girl pants on and we'll start the communication, which

0:29:56.800 --> 0:29:58.960
<v Speaker 5>I know is out answer a lot of the time communicate,

0:29:59.000 --> 0:30:01.240
<v Speaker 5>but you'd be surprised any things you can fix by

0:30:01.240 --> 0:30:05.360
<v Speaker 5>having a simple and kind conversation. So I think just

0:30:05.360 --> 0:30:08.000
<v Speaker 5>like bringing it up me like Hey, Like, I I know,

0:30:08.040 --> 0:30:09.720
<v Speaker 5>we said three months. It's been about three months. I

0:30:09.760 --> 0:30:12.200
<v Speaker 5>can't of need the space, So what's the go Yeah.

0:30:12.000 --> 0:30:14.360
<v Speaker 2>I think given the diversity of the stuff that they've

0:30:14.440 --> 0:30:16.840
<v Speaker 2>left at your house, it tells me that you consented

0:30:16.840 --> 0:30:19.160
<v Speaker 2>to this at the start, Like they didn't just come

0:30:19.200 --> 0:30:21.040
<v Speaker 2>to your house before they went to the airport and

0:30:21.080 --> 0:30:23.280
<v Speaker 2>accidentally leave some stuff and then they're like, oh sorry,

0:30:23.320 --> 0:30:24.680
<v Speaker 2>I'll get it when i'm home, and it was a

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<v Speaker 2>bit awkward, Like you've got a bike, you've got a laptop,

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<v Speaker 2>you've got their shoes, you've got random things in your

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<v Speaker 2>house that are theirs. So I'm assuming that you said, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you can leave them at my house for now. What

0:30:36.320 --> 0:30:38.920
<v Speaker 2>you're now telling me is that your expectations have changed.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm assuming you haven't communicated those expectation changes, and

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<v Speaker 2>maybe you're a little bit frustrated with it now because

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<v Speaker 2>you might not have thought about charging them at the start,

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<v Speaker 2>and then you're like, hold on, she could have put

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<v Speaker 2>in storage and she'd have to pay for this. So

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like you need to have a conversation about like, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>when are you coming back, Like when you say they

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<v Speaker 2>still haven't booked a return flight. Does that mean you're

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<v Speaker 2>in communications? Or we're guessing, like have they actually what

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<v Speaker 2>does that mean? So I would literally just be like, hey,

0:31:04.640 --> 0:31:06.800
<v Speaker 2>you just wanted to check in. When are you coming home?

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<v Speaker 2>For a starter, And then they might say, oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 2>like we haven't booked flights, but we need to in

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<v Speaker 2>the next week. We've been putting it off. Or they

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<v Speaker 2>might say, oh my gosh, we're loving it. We're going

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<v Speaker 2>to stay here another month and a half, at which

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<v Speaker 2>point you go, cool, what are we going to do

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<v Speaker 2>about your stuff? Like, there's stuff in my house. Do

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<v Speaker 2>you want me to like move it to a friend's place,

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<v Speaker 2>or do you want me to give it to your parents?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you want me to put it in a storage

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<v Speaker 2>unit for you so that it's all together and safe.

0:31:30.760 --> 0:31:34.000
<v Speaker 2>I'm just worried about breaking it, or you know, whatever

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<v Speaker 2>it is that makes you feel comfortable in having that conversation,

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<v Speaker 2>but I do. I don't know what it is about

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<v Speaker 2>this message, and I'm sorry to the person who has

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<v Speaker 2>written this in but I find it very strange that

0:31:44.880 --> 0:31:47.320
<v Speaker 2>you are going from going yep, cool, I let them

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<v Speaker 2>keep their stuff. Also, should I be charging them? We'll

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<v Speaker 2>have a chat with them about that, but also can

0:31:52.200 --> 0:31:54.760
<v Speaker 2>I sell their stuff? Like oh, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't escalated quickly.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, Like Jesse, if I asked to leave my

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<v Speaker 2>bike at your place because I was traveling and it

0:32:00.360 --> 0:32:02.800
<v Speaker 2>was all Riggie did and you were like, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>they you can leave it in my garage, I just

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<v Speaker 2>would have thought it was fine because you're one of

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<v Speaker 2>my girlfriends, and yeah, my bike's just in your garage.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not worried that you're going to sell it. And

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<v Speaker 2>then that just is another layer of like imagine if

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<v Speaker 2>I came home and said, hey, Jess, can I come

0:32:16.320 --> 0:32:19.400
<v Speaker 2>get my bike and just is like I saw it. Actually,

0:32:20.320 --> 0:32:22.440
<v Speaker 2>I'd be like what and just to be like, well,

0:32:22.440 --> 0:32:23.880
<v Speaker 2>you said you'd be gone for three months and you

0:32:23.920 --> 0:32:26.920
<v Speaker 2>were gone for four, I'd be like, yeah, you know

0:32:26.960 --> 0:32:28.720
<v Speaker 2>what I mean, like weird.

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<v Speaker 3>Your space back.

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<v Speaker 5>But I think, like, not at the expense of dogging

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<v Speaker 5>your friend.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you have slight suspicion if they've only known each

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<v Speaker 4>other since July that maybe this other person doesn't have

0:32:42.960 --> 0:32:45.480
<v Speaker 4>a lot of other close friends because I don't know, Like,

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<v Speaker 4>I think that if they had other people to leave

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<v Speaker 4>it with, they would probably go for that option over

0:32:50.720 --> 0:32:52.880
<v Speaker 4>someone they've not known for that long, You know what

0:32:52.920 --> 0:32:55.160
<v Speaker 4>I mean, Because it's it's a big thing to trust someone.

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<v Speaker 5>With all your stuff because what if they sold it?

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<v Speaker 2>So that's the other thing I'm I'm like, well let

0:33:01.880 --> 0:33:04.680
<v Speaker 2>them be Yeah, I'm just so confused. Why have you

0:33:04.680 --> 0:33:07.680
<v Speaker 2>got their groceries in your fridge?

0:33:07.600 --> 0:33:07.800
<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

0:33:08.280 --> 0:33:10.160
<v Speaker 2>I think that's I feel like you're allowed to throw

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<v Speaker 2>out the groceries, Like is there a half eaten jarriff pickles?

0:33:13.440 --> 0:33:14.400
<v Speaker 2>Why are we holding this?

0:33:14.720 --> 0:33:17.840
<v Speaker 4>Yes, they might not be perishable, so so maybe you check.

0:33:17.680 --> 0:33:19.440
<v Speaker 2>The why are they in the fridge?

0:33:19.360 --> 0:33:20.040
<v Speaker 4>Yeah? A good question.

0:33:20.680 --> 0:33:21.480
<v Speaker 3>Whateveryone else say?

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<v Speaker 2>Obviously, we asked some questions because if anything, we need

0:33:24.120 --> 0:33:27.200
<v Speaker 2>the drama. He said, do you think that you can

0:33:27.280 --> 0:33:29.479
<v Speaker 2>charge rent for this? Forty two percent said yes, but

0:33:29.560 --> 0:33:32.400
<v Speaker 2>fifty eight percent of you said no. We said, do

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<v Speaker 2>you think it's okay to sell this stuff? If the

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<v Speaker 2>person doesn't return after a certain amount of time, twenty

0:33:37.960 --> 0:33:40.640
<v Speaker 2>two percent of you said, yeah, they abandoned the stuff there.

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<v Speaker 2>Twenty two percent.

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<v Speaker 3>If you need to call your friend, I don't know it,

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<v Speaker 3>I would say abandoned.

0:33:45.520 --> 0:33:50.400
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, if they ghost you and it's there for like

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<v Speaker 4>two years.

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<v Speaker 5>Like if you've tried to message them several times and

0:33:55.160 --> 0:33:57.320
<v Speaker 5>they haven't. Then yeah, okay, maybe.

0:33:57.000 --> 0:34:00.440
<v Speaker 2>But you're ghosted. Absolutely different story. But you're telling me

0:34:00.480 --> 0:34:03.040
<v Speaker 2>that this friend doesn't have flights booked to come home,

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<v Speaker 2>and that tells me that you've been in communication with them.

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<v Speaker 2>So maybe I'm reading a little bit too much into it,

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<v Speaker 2>but I feel a little bit weird about it. But

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<v Speaker 2>seventy eight percent of you said no, they trusted you

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<v Speaker 2>to keep their stuff safe, which I'm on that age.

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<v Speaker 2>I agree. We said, if you said yes to selling

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<v Speaker 2>their stuff, how long do you have to have it

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<v Speaker 2>before you sell it? Ten percent of you said three months?

0:34:25.480 --> 0:34:29.480
<v Speaker 2>And it's sold three months. I'm screwed. But like, what

0:34:29.560 --> 0:34:31.759
<v Speaker 2>the hell that was? That was the expectation my friend

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<v Speaker 2>actually set with.

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<v Speaker 5>You to the day, Like it is July sixth th

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<v Speaker 5>they at two pm.

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<v Speaker 3>It's officially been three months. See you later. I watching

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<v Speaker 3>the clocks.

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<v Speaker 2>Did your friends say you could sell the stuff after

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<v Speaker 2>three I'm so confused. Twenty two percent of you said

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<v Speaker 2>six months. I would say fair. If they have fully

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<v Speaker 2>ghosted you and we have had absolutely no communication, and

0:34:54.680 --> 0:34:59.279
<v Speaker 2>you have tried to reach out to them via Facebook, messenger, Instagram,

0:34:59.360 --> 0:35:01.960
<v Speaker 2>text message, WhatsApp, an email, and you've done all of

0:35:02.000 --> 0:35:04.640
<v Speaker 2>this and heard nothing back. Then okay, sure, And then

0:35:04.719 --> 0:35:07.440
<v Speaker 2>sixty eight percent of you said after a year again,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm assuming if they have been ghosted, not like they

0:35:10.480 --> 0:35:14.080
<v Speaker 2>haven't still away. In the spicy bit, we asked, well,

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<v Speaker 2>what's your two cents? And here are some of the responses.

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<v Speaker 2>Someone said, you should have worked out rent prior. If

0:35:20.080 --> 0:35:22.640
<v Speaker 2>you want rent now, you need to communicate that. Agree,

0:35:22.719 --> 0:35:26.320
<v Speaker 2>this is a very surprising response. Someone said, that's something

0:35:26.320 --> 0:35:30.480
<v Speaker 2>you should have discussed beforehand. I think you're the drama.

0:35:30.880 --> 0:35:33.600
<v Speaker 3>Oh am, I the drama.

0:35:33.719 --> 0:35:36.880
<v Speaker 2>But like, yeah, I also think you're being the drama.

0:35:37.120 --> 0:35:38.279
<v Speaker 3>I kind of agree a little bit.

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<v Speaker 2>Someone said the timeline should have been clearly communicated. A

0:35:41.280 --> 0:35:45.840
<v Speaker 2>friend isn't just a free storage shed. Someone said, don't

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<v Speaker 2>offer to help a friend if you're expecting something in return.

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<v Speaker 4>Took a point, sure, yes, sure, yes, that's literally my thought, like,

0:35:54.120 --> 0:35:54.840
<v Speaker 4>did you offer this?

0:35:54.920 --> 0:35:56.560
<v Speaker 2>Did you say, oh, I've got a spare room you

0:35:56.560 --> 0:35:59.360
<v Speaker 2>can put it in. Yeah, because I would not immediately

0:35:59.360 --> 0:36:01.160
<v Speaker 2>expect if you said, oh, V you can put in

0:36:01.160 --> 0:36:03.319
<v Speaker 2>my spare room. I wouldn't be like, okay, so what's

0:36:03.360 --> 0:36:05.640
<v Speaker 2>the rent on? That, But it's just not how the

0:36:05.640 --> 0:36:08.279
<v Speaker 2>communications go, right. It's all about the tone of that

0:36:08.360 --> 0:36:11.000
<v Speaker 2>conversation exactly. You don't go, hey, Beck, do you want

0:36:11.000 --> 0:36:12.759
<v Speaker 2>to come down to my place for the weekend to

0:36:12.800 --> 0:36:14.680
<v Speaker 2>be really good? And you go yeah, I'd love that, vee,

0:36:14.840 --> 0:36:19.560
<v Speaker 2>and I go yes. So it's one hundred bucks a night. Yeah.

0:36:19.600 --> 0:36:24.399
<v Speaker 2>Also there's a service fee anyway. Weird. So someone else said,

0:36:24.440 --> 0:36:26.440
<v Speaker 2>it doesn't sound like that much stuff. I think you

0:36:26.560 --> 0:36:30.680
<v Speaker 2>might be being a little bit over dramatic, gentle. Gentle, right,

0:36:30.719 --> 0:36:31.480
<v Speaker 2>I'm just reading.

0:36:31.280 --> 0:36:35.000
<v Speaker 3>Other people's everyone's safe.

0:36:35.080 --> 0:36:38.160
<v Speaker 2>Today, doesn't feel that safe. Someone said you need to

0:36:38.200 --> 0:36:40.680
<v Speaker 2>communicate with your friend and ask when they're back, Otherwise

0:36:40.760 --> 0:36:42.799
<v Speaker 2>it would be very fair of you to ask them

0:36:42.840 --> 0:36:46.000
<v Speaker 2>to sort another storage option. Yeah, I think that's fair.

0:36:46.239 --> 0:36:48.400
<v Speaker 2>They said, why did you bother saying yes? If this

0:36:48.520 --> 0:36:50.279
<v Speaker 2>is how you feel, you should have said no from

0:36:50.320 --> 0:36:53.480
<v Speaker 2>the start, which I think is very fair. Someone said

0:36:53.520 --> 0:36:55.200
<v Speaker 2>eat their groceries.

0:36:56.000 --> 0:37:01.000
<v Speaker 5>Honestly, like unless they're like really really old, in which

0:37:01.040 --> 0:37:01.719
<v Speaker 5>case maybe don't.

0:37:01.840 --> 0:37:04.319
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Someone else said, a friend left his couch at

0:37:04.320 --> 0:37:07.440
<v Speaker 2>my place when he moved overseas. It's now my couch.

0:37:07.960 --> 0:37:10.520
<v Speaker 4>Money in that's the other thing, like when does it

0:37:10.560 --> 0:37:14.560
<v Speaker 4>become your own property after you've communicated, after you community.

0:37:14.560 --> 0:37:16.560
<v Speaker 4>Absolutely everything's after communication.

0:37:16.719 --> 0:37:19.440
<v Speaker 2>So someone else said, you're a bad person if you

0:37:19.480 --> 0:37:21.319
<v Speaker 2>go and sell their things without communicating.

0:37:21.520 --> 0:37:23.000
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I've got to kind of agree with them.

0:37:23.040 --> 0:37:23.239
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:37:23.280 --> 0:37:23.480
<v Speaker 4>Sure.

0:37:23.560 --> 0:37:26.000
<v Speaker 2>Someone said take the food, use the toilet paper. That

0:37:26.040 --> 0:37:28.600
<v Speaker 2>stuff's getting lucrative, and then at least you've sort of

0:37:28.640 --> 0:37:29.560
<v Speaker 2>got something out of this.

0:37:29.760 --> 0:37:33.520
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, use to I reckon, use the toilet paper. That's fine.

0:37:34.440 --> 0:37:37.280
<v Speaker 2>I just don't know why the toilet paper's gone into storage.

0:37:38.440 --> 0:37:41.520
<v Speaker 2>So true, it doesn't make sense to me. But most

0:37:41.560 --> 0:37:46.320
<v Speaker 2>of the other conversations are literally communicate with your friend,

0:37:46.560 --> 0:37:48.600
<v Speaker 2>Like I can't tell you how many of them are,

0:37:48.640 --> 0:37:50.680
<v Speaker 2>Like why haven't you asked them? Why haven't you spoken

0:37:50.719 --> 0:37:52.640
<v Speaker 2>to them? Why haven't you communicated? You need to have

0:37:52.680 --> 0:37:55.080
<v Speaker 2>clearer communication. So you think that's going to be the

0:37:55.120 --> 0:37:58.360
<v Speaker 2>main takeaway from this is that you need to step

0:37:58.440 --> 0:38:01.720
<v Speaker 2>up and have a good conversation with your friend about

0:38:01.840 --> 0:38:04.160
<v Speaker 2>when they're going to come back and what your expectations are,

0:38:04.280 --> 0:38:07.440
<v Speaker 2>even if those expectations have changed totally. You can set

0:38:07.480 --> 0:38:09.440
<v Speaker 2>your own boundaries. It's not up to us to say, oh,

0:38:09.480 --> 0:38:11.760
<v Speaker 2>I wouldn't do that, or I wouldn't do this. That's fine,

0:38:11.760 --> 0:38:13.000
<v Speaker 2>but you have to communicate it.

0:38:13.480 --> 0:38:16.600
<v Speaker 4>Also, if the listener is listening, please give us an update.

0:38:16.880 --> 0:38:18.360
<v Speaker 4>I actually really really invested.

0:38:18.640 --> 0:38:20.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, can we have photos of this stuff?

0:38:20.680 --> 0:38:21.759
<v Speaker 3>Well, let you know if we get an update.

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<v Speaker 2>Can you show us what groceries they left? I feel

0:38:24.080 --> 0:38:25.319
<v Speaker 2>like it's strange she.

0:38:25.440 --> 0:38:26.960
<v Speaker 4>Was the toils paper two. I'm curious about the TWI

0:38:27.480 --> 0:38:27.719
<v Speaker 4>was it.

0:38:27.719 --> 0:38:30.160
<v Speaker 3>Like an unopened roll or something.

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<v Speaker 4>Who gives a crap that it can be a little

0:38:32.680 --> 0:38:33.200
<v Speaker 4>bit expensive?

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<v Speaker 2>I get some all right. I think that's all we

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<v Speaker 2>have time for today, guys, which is very sad because

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<v Speaker 2>it is my last episode before I go on Matt leave.

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<v Speaker 2>So instead of saying we'll see you on Monday, bright

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<v Speaker 2>and early for our money, dret which we will because

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<v Speaker 2>I've pre recorded all of them. If you thought I

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<v Speaker 2>was going anywhere wrong, she's magic wrong, I'm not magic.

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<v Speaker 3>I am organized.

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<v Speaker 2>No, that sounds really nice as well. I'm probably certified insane.

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<v Speaker 2>And I've pre recorded all of them for you, so

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<v Speaker 2>you are welcome, but have the best time. I will

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<v Speaker 2>be back in six or so weeks, and I am

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<v Speaker 2>so excited to share my mini with you. But also

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not going anywhere. I'm going to be creeping in

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<v Speaker 2>I can't get rid of it.

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