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Speaker 1: Matt it is my lucky day.

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Speaker 2: Well, I think we should probably cancel this episode. I

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Speaker 2: don't know they we have problems with the audio. It

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Speaker 2: was really crackly.

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Speaker 1: And also, I will say the video footage lovely. Everyone

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Speaker 2: Well, I spoke to the editor and all video footage

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Speaker 1: I don't have deleted straight to me.

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Speaker 2: Someone's broken into the hard drives, deleted at all. I

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Speaker 2: don't know who it is, but we'll find them, we

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Speaker 2: will stop them. It's it's real shame.

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Speaker 1: If I'm honest, you look panicked. Look I would be

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Speaker 1: panicked too, because we're about to have a very special

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Speaker 1: why I agreed to this, which happens to be Matthew's sister,

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Speaker 1: one and only sister. And some of the dirt is amazing.

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Speaker 1: It was dirty, It was dirty.

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Speaker 2: It was filthy. There is a photo that we talk

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Speaker 2: about in this episode, right, a photo which I think

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Speaker 2: needs to be buried. Somehow, It's crept its way out

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Speaker 2: of a box. It's found its way into the hands

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Speaker 2: of my sister. We talk about it on this episode.

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Speaker 2: She then left the photo here before I had a

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Speaker 2: chance to delete, like destroy that photo. We had another

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Speaker 2: Trady come over in the morning and Marley runs up

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Speaker 2: to that trade with the photo in hand and he goes, look,

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Speaker 2: it's my daddy. He was like, I don't know if

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Speaker 1: That's very very good. Tell us a bit about your sister, man, Well,

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Speaker 1: she is forty. I don't know. She looks great. Forty.

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Speaker 2: Hey you relaxed, Okay, you sit down salivating over there.

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Speaker 1: I am not. I know she looks great. She does.

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Speaker 1: She looks I don't want to say it.

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Speaker 2: She's got three kids. George I think he's nine, could

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Speaker 2: be ten, not quite sure. She's got Millie grade one.

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Speaker 2: And Charlotte goes to the dek Chas mcgaz shall be married,

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Speaker 1: Happily married to Bill, Bill big bad.

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Speaker 2: Build a build up there, you have it.

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Speaker 3: That's so nervous, so let's just get into it.

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Speaker 2: Welcome back to two doting dads and one doting mum.

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Speaker 1: I'm Maddie, Jay, I'm Ash and I'm Kate.

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Speaker 2: Very good name right, it's weird looking at you being nervous.

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Speaker 4: I know, I'm so nervous picture you as a nervous

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Speaker 2: Why do you say yes?

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Speaker 4: Because you begged me?

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Speaker 1: I did not. How did you do it?

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Speaker 4: I also have a little bit of spare time at

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Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, sure, have to finish my trail.

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Speaker 2: This is a podcast all about parenting. It is the good,

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Speaker 1: The bad and the relatable. And if you come for advice,

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Speaker 1: well not today. Well maybe, Kate, it's very very good.

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Speaker 2: We don't give advice.

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Speaker 1: We're allowed to, but you're allowed to you.

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Speaker 2: Go hard legally. Also, it was not Yeah, it's a

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Speaker 4: Look, get some advice and then we'll edit it all out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just say this is not advice. At the start

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Speaker 2: But notice when you were greeting my sister, you gave

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Speaker 1: I did. I enjoyed it.

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Speaker 2: It was a strong hug, and I was worried, what.

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Speaker 1: You're injured. Tell me what why why? I wasn't expecting

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Speaker 2: So just on the record, I told everyone the story,

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Speaker 2: You had a beautiful weekend at the snow, Okay.

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Speaker 4: So the whole reason we're actually why we chose the

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Speaker 1: Just give me the colors green, green, good, blue, blue.

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Speaker 1: I always hit you in like the worst spot, you know.

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Speaker 2: I did you know what was happening? Because you've you've

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Speaker 4: And also I thought that i'd come off like in

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Speaker 4: And I don't even actually remember it. But I ended

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Speaker 4: the ground going and Bill skied over.

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Speaker 4: He came over and he didn't realize how badly it

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Speaker 4: No goodness, So I just thought I'd been really badly

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Speaker 1: What have you done?

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Speaker 4: Turns out break my back?

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Speaker 1: You've broken your back broke? Oh my god, and the

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Speaker 4: I'm so sorry, and I cracked a rib.

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Speaker 1: Really yeah, what you really wanted to go to that lunch? Wow?

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Speaker 2: That is wild to any friend who's ditched on a

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Speaker 4: Okay, so you're going to break your back? It is

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Speaker 4: No, it should like spawn off and like it will

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Speaker 1: There's nothing you can really do. It's like ribs right, No, totally.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, don't pick up any kids, don't do any.

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Speaker 2: I was like, I've got to go. Oh, for God's sake.

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Speaker 4: Did I did feel bad? I did feel bad, But

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Speaker 4: I also was like, you got it so good. She

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Speaker 4: She does, you're comfortable.

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Speaker 4: She doesn't relaxed cook, she does she did something else.

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Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, we'll do anything to get moms.

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Speaker 4: Okay, so we're actually pretty good. Only like when you

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's crazy. Every broken backstory I hear, they are

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Speaker 2: This is a good lesson for people listening.

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Speaker 4: Also, if I if I went for the if I

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Speaker 1: I would have gone, well, I'm glad you're okay.

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Speaker 2: Speaking of Elie. Yes, actually, did you know this is

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Speaker 1: No, it's news to me lived there for four years.

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Speaker 2: You did you know at the time what Nana had

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Speaker 2: done with the photo of you?

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Speaker 1: What do you Okay?

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Speaker 2: You know this?

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Speaker 1: I was in the office. Yes, as you were giving birth.

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Speaker 2: I said to people. I was like, guys, you know

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Speaker 2: And you know, I was checking my phone and given birth.

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Speaker 2: They did it, and I was, you know, watching my

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00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:19,560
Speaker 2: phone for the message to say he's arrived. And then

440
00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:23,919
Speaker 2: finally in the afternoon there's a message and he's born. Oh, George,

441
00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:28,280
Speaker 2: there's a photo of my phone. Was very like, very early,

442
00:23:28,640 --> 00:23:31,760
Speaker 2: and she was very excited. Nana took a photo of

443
00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:33,119
Speaker 2: Kate holding George.

444
00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:38,080
Speaker 4: No Bill had forwarded that photo because Bill took the photo.

445
00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:43,480
Speaker 2: Finish what the photo was the vagina is in full discussion.

446
00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:46,159
Speaker 4: Yes, So the nurse was so lovely and took some

447
00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:49,440
Speaker 4: photos literally as like he had come out.

448
00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:51,240
Speaker 1: And I was.

449
00:23:52,720 --> 00:23:59,240
Speaker 4: Still attached and like still you yes, oh my god,

450
00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:02,679
Speaker 4: And so Bill thought he was. He didn't realize if

451
00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:04,640
Speaker 4: you you just had a quick look look at the baby,

452
00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:07,840
Speaker 4: it's in the bottom. To my mom being like, it's

453
00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:10,280
Speaker 4: a boy, he's born. So then Mom borded it like

454
00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:11,600
Speaker 4: the family chat.

455
00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:12,720
Speaker 2: I uploaded it.

456
00:24:14,920 --> 00:24:16,639
Speaker 4: Like my vagina is in the phone.

457
00:24:17,359 --> 00:24:19,600
Speaker 2: I was looking like, oh my god, he's putil Oh

458
00:24:19,760 --> 00:24:21,080
Speaker 2: my gosh, my.

459
00:24:21,320 --> 00:24:25,760
Speaker 4: Sisters, I'm like, goodness, just pushed out a baby that

460
00:24:26,080 --> 00:24:26,560
Speaker 4: it did not.

461
00:24:26,760 --> 00:24:33,160
Speaker 1: Look oh my goodness embarrassed. But like also like come on, guys,

462
00:24:33,280 --> 00:24:36,920
Speaker 1: like check the phone over. I get everyone's excited. Yeah, yeah,

463
00:24:37,760 --> 00:24:40,400
Speaker 1: my goodness. And you would have been like not knowing

464
00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:42,359
Speaker 1: if that like that's a normal photo again, is that

465
00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:44,080
Speaker 1: your first like did you see.

466
00:24:45,560 --> 00:24:47,320
Speaker 4: Did you see it? Did you like?

467
00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:47,760
Speaker 3: Yeah?

468
00:24:49,359 --> 00:24:50,720
Speaker 2: I think someone said.

469
00:24:55,480 --> 00:24:59,280
Speaker 1: I wrote I think that you shouldn't.

470
00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:01,320
Speaker 2: How many people set that photo top?

471
00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:08,080
Speaker 1: Oh my very good Now you are one of five,

472
00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:10,400
Speaker 1: as is Matt, one of five big family. I've only

473
00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:12,879
Speaker 1: got one sister. But you seem very close.

474
00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:13,719
Speaker 2: Yeah we are.

475
00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:16,480
Speaker 1: We're quite good friends. I've met the other siblings not

476
00:25:16,640 --> 00:25:20,960
Speaker 1: as close, I would say, so very close.

477
00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:22,080
Speaker 2: How dare you what?

478
00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:25,040
Speaker 4: That's just an observation, just because we both live in

479
00:25:25,119 --> 00:25:25,480
Speaker 4: the know.

480
00:25:25,560 --> 00:25:30,280
Speaker 2: You're like on the same My brothers are crying right now, sobbing.

481
00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:36,120
Speaker 1: Not my problem, honestly, but maybe if I maybe sorry, guys,

482
00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:37,280
Speaker 1: but I've noticed you.

483
00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:37,760
Speaker 4: You are.

484
00:25:37,880 --> 00:25:40,199
Speaker 1: You do talk a lot. You chat a lot. You're

485
00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:43,000
Speaker 1: on the phone to each other, a lot. I've noticed,

486
00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:44,080
Speaker 1: it's not a very.

487
00:25:44,160 --> 00:25:48,600
Speaker 2: He's been watching you for a while. Weird noises in

488
00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:49,160
Speaker 2: the backyard.

489
00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:51,679
Speaker 1: I knew she had a broken back before we got

490
00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:57,600
Speaker 1: the cray I can tell you at the moment. But yeah,

491
00:25:57,680 --> 00:26:00,480
Speaker 1: you would just say yeah, you just say you are okay.

492
00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:04,840
Speaker 1: Except have you fought with my sister all the time?

493
00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:07,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, well no, sorry, Well we're very we're re close now.

494
00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:11,600
Speaker 4: But like growing up, we it was like it was

495
00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:13,840
Speaker 4: on that's very I don't think it was.

496
00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:15,080
Speaker 2: I don't think we have a yeah.

497
00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:17,160
Speaker 4: We've got all the time. And I was the only

498
00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:19,520
Speaker 4: I have four brothers, the only girl, so like I

499
00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:21,600
Speaker 4: really had to stick up for myself.

500
00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:23,240
Speaker 1: I don't recall that at all.

501
00:26:23,320 --> 00:26:25,000
Speaker 4: I also was probably a bit annoying. There was one

502
00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:29,280
Speaker 4: time where I was annoying you. I'll be honest, what

503
00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:32,359
Speaker 4: we're doing. We were like I was ten and you

504
00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:37,000
Speaker 4: and nine or something, and I was just like and

505
00:26:37,160 --> 00:26:38,840
Speaker 4: like in your face all the time.

506
00:26:39,000 --> 00:26:40,000
Speaker 2: You were a lot bigger than.

507
00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:44,600
Speaker 1: Me, as well supposed to because you know who you

508
00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:46,399
Speaker 1: were just just a big Yeah, I was older.

509
00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:48,399
Speaker 2: I was a scrawny little kid. I was I was

510
00:26:49,200 --> 00:26:49,840
Speaker 2: I was a premier.

511
00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:54,200
Speaker 1: But guys we don't fight. You're fighting right now, okay,

512
00:26:55,040 --> 00:26:55,240
Speaker 1: I was.

513
00:26:55,320 --> 00:26:59,720
Speaker 4: I mean, I'm eighteen months older. But I just kept

514
00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:03,000
Speaker 4: going out and I remember you being like, stop it,

515
00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:10,680
Speaker 4: please stop it, leave me alone, annoying. And then all

516
00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:14,600
Speaker 4: of a sudden, I don't know where, Matt just punched

517
00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:17,520
Speaker 4: me right in the nose. That just clocked me once.

518
00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:21,359
Speaker 4: My nose was just spitching out blood.

519
00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:27,119
Speaker 1: I was like, and so I was like, and I

520
00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:30,119
Speaker 1: was like, well, let's just relax. All those means is

521
00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:32,120
Speaker 1: like when you accidentally hurt your sibling, You've just gone

522
00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:35,920
Speaker 1: and walked her in the face. Oh random, Mom.

523
00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:40,440
Speaker 4: I was like, straight in the night, straight in the middle.

524
00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:42,119
Speaker 1: I thought, you guys are I'll do it again. I

525
00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:46,520
Speaker 1: was like, Jesus, hore you nine, you're okay, then you're fine.

526
00:27:46,640 --> 00:27:51,160
Speaker 4: So my mom comes running down the hallway grabs him.

527
00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:56,399
Speaker 2: I imagine that sister just blood pouring out these only daughter,

528
00:27:56,960 --> 00:27:59,200
Speaker 2: and I was like, it was like, I was like, mom,

529
00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:00,800
Speaker 2: remember I'm a premie baby.

530
00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:04,280
Speaker 1: Very good.

531
00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:07,320
Speaker 4: So you got thrown in your room and moms she

532
00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:08,920
Speaker 4: took to me with a wooden spoons. I think she

533
00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:09,480
Speaker 4: did as well.

534
00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:13,359
Speaker 1: My sister's older as well. Her defense mechanism was because

535
00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:16,680
Speaker 1: I was the annoying one, which go figure. She used

536
00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:18,280
Speaker 1: to just sit on me. She was bigger than me,

537
00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:22,040
Speaker 1: and my mom was like, yeah, I just taught her

538
00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:24,080
Speaker 1: to sit on you because that had shut you right,

539
00:28:24,600 --> 00:28:26,320
Speaker 1: and she just wouldn't get off me. And then as

540
00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:29,520
Speaker 1: we got older, yeah, we're obviously sibling stuff and you

541
00:28:30,040 --> 00:28:31,720
Speaker 1: hurt each other. That's just how it is, right, And

542
00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:34,159
Speaker 1: then same thing as we got older, we got much more,

543
00:28:34,320 --> 00:28:36,119
Speaker 1: much closer and stuff like that. So thankfully now we

544
00:28:36,160 --> 00:28:36,800
Speaker 1: don't punt each other.

545
00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:39,400
Speaker 2: But yeah, now ashes really into being sat on.

546
00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:43,280
Speaker 1: It's a king of mine. It's a king of mine.

547
00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:48,880
Speaker 1: It was a really good sitter. I married her. I

548
00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:53,920
Speaker 1: sat through to bregnancy. Yeah, very good. And also what

549
00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:59,440
Speaker 1: comes along with siblings is embarrassing and embarrassment. My sister

550
00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:01,120
Speaker 1: and I used to have bbarrass each other all the time.

551
00:29:01,320 --> 00:29:04,440
Speaker 1: Any embarrassment that you can share with the listeners about

552
00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:07,640
Speaker 1: Matt great struck yourself in Big Guy.

553
00:29:08,600 --> 00:29:12,240
Speaker 4: I did go through the old shoe box of photos.

554
00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:16,400
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, ok yes, brought a good one.

555
00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:18,640
Speaker 1: I'm Matthew am a visual learner.

556
00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:22,200
Speaker 2: There was there is one photo and I thought.

557
00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:23,600
Speaker 1: I destroyed it.

558
00:29:24,560 --> 00:29:29,760
Speaker 4: Okay, many copies, many copies. I am not having any sisters,

559
00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:33,880
Speaker 4: like yearned for a sister most of my childhood. I

560
00:29:34,440 --> 00:29:37,160
Speaker 4: desperately wanted a sister, and so it's the only way

561
00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:41,400
Speaker 4: to get one is to dress up my pen Yes,

562
00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:42,600
Speaker 4: into my sisters.

563
00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:43,600
Speaker 1: I'm very excited about.

564
00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:46,320
Speaker 2: And because I punched her in the nose, I a

565
00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:50,800
Speaker 2: willing participant because I felt bad. Yes, why did you

566
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:51,440
Speaker 2: dress me up?

567
00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:53,840
Speaker 4: I don't really know. I feel like you came to me.

568
00:29:56,760 --> 00:30:01,280
Speaker 4: It's where I'm bored. What lines could I wear? Let's also,

569
00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:03,360
Speaker 4: he was like the he was always the funny one,

570
00:30:03,440 --> 00:30:05,240
Speaker 4: so he would have wanted attention.

571
00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:08,080
Speaker 2: And I don't remember how Yeah used to you had

572
00:30:08,120 --> 00:30:08,480
Speaker 2: a wig?

573
00:30:09,280 --> 00:30:11,320
Speaker 1: Put me in the wig? Should we you got the

574
00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:12,800
Speaker 1: side of here? Yeah?

575
00:30:13,040 --> 00:30:18,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm pretty sure. We would also like to do

576
00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:20,240
Speaker 4: like pop dance and.

577
00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:23,760
Speaker 1: Like you hang on a second, have you got any

578
00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:26,680
Speaker 1: pop dance videos? No? That was before. That was like

579
00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:29,000
Speaker 1: before my grandma would have one somewhere like a.

580
00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:32,800
Speaker 2: Photo that I'm thinking, let's not. We don't have to

581
00:30:32,840 --> 00:30:33,280
Speaker 2: bring it out.

582
00:30:33,320 --> 00:30:44,320
Speaker 6: Oh my god, what you've got breast?

583
00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:45,840
Speaker 4: Also, he's loving it. You can just.

584
00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:49,520
Speaker 2: I was forced into that against my will.

585
00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:57,160
Speaker 1: Look at the pose, the hell, oh my goodness, the

586
00:30:57,280 --> 00:31:03,680
Speaker 1: sparkly hair, I look good? Oh my god?

587
00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:04,520
Speaker 6: What am I doing?

588
00:31:04,800 --> 00:31:06,640
Speaker 4: And so for like one evening i'd get a sister.

589
00:31:07,720 --> 00:31:08,320
Speaker 1: Yeah you did.

590
00:31:08,600 --> 00:31:09,640
Speaker 2: I was called Matricia.

591
00:31:09,880 --> 00:31:11,600
Speaker 3: Is that is it?

592
00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:15,800
Speaker 1: I read your probably probably any foundation, any.

593
00:31:15,720 --> 00:31:18,800
Speaker 4: Roofely muma's makeup?

594
00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:22,200
Speaker 1: Wow, very good? Have you got a sports prober on

595
00:31:22,320 --> 00:31:22,600
Speaker 1: under that?

596
00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:26,280
Speaker 4: The only thing I would say is like he wasn't

597
00:31:26,320 --> 00:31:28,920
Speaker 4: the only brother I dressed most dressed them, Yeah, I did,

598
00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:31,400
Speaker 4: bro dress you wanted to be like the Spice girls.

599
00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:34,600
Speaker 4: David did ask most of the time to be dressed up.

600
00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 1: Wow, he did. I suspect you look great. You do

601
00:31:38,440 --> 00:31:43,000
Speaker 1: look good? Thank you. Yeah, you look like you look

602
00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:45,000
Speaker 1: like someone who always tries to get out of pe.

603
00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:46,480
Speaker 2: You.

604
00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:51,320
Speaker 1: He was good, you know, just like a lit the

605
00:31:51,400 --> 00:31:54,920
Speaker 1: beer boxes in the back beeeper, good boobs, good, great

606
00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:56,400
Speaker 1: set of camps. Can I keep this?

607
00:31:56,800 --> 00:31:57,760
Speaker 2: God knows what you'll do with it.

608
00:31:58,200 --> 00:32:00,280
Speaker 4: Matts dressed up as a woman plenty of time times

609
00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:01,400
Speaker 4: in recent times.

610
00:32:01,640 --> 00:32:04,280
Speaker 1: In a while I'm drew for one, I reckon, you

611
00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:08,520
Speaker 1: need to recreate this. That's a great, great week.

612
00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:11,480
Speaker 2: Thank you so much. We have a few questions. I

613
00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:14,560
Speaker 2: asked the good people on Facebook and it's a great response.

614
00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:17,080
Speaker 2: People do want to hear from you, Kate. I know

615
00:32:17,160 --> 00:32:18,920
Speaker 2: you're only nervous. You're thinking people don't want to hear

616
00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:21,040
Speaker 2: from you, But they do when you're the sister of

617
00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:23,720
Speaker 2: a big deal like me. Here is if you're a

618
00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:25,880
Speaker 2: sister of a big child cross dresser.

619
00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:28,800
Speaker 1: They want to hear. They want to hear. What we

620
00:32:28,840 --> 00:32:31,680
Speaker 1: got to ask from Maggie. Has Matt always been your

621
00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:32,880
Speaker 1: mum's favorite child?

622
00:32:34,160 --> 00:32:35,240
Speaker 4: He stole it from me?

623
00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:35,600
Speaker 1: Oh?

624
00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:37,200
Speaker 4: Did he stole it from me?

625
00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:37,840
Speaker 1: I see that.

626
00:32:38,360 --> 00:32:42,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, there's still some pain there. Yeah. Since now I'm like,

627
00:32:42,360 --> 00:32:43,760
Speaker 4: it's like a deedless celebrity.

628
00:32:44,880 --> 00:32:45,520
Speaker 1: Is that hurts?

629
00:32:45,800 --> 00:32:46,880
Speaker 4: Definitely? The favorite?

630
00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:49,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would say you're more than d thank you,

631
00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:53,080
Speaker 1: you'll be Yeah, you were a favorite for all my

632
00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:53,720
Speaker 1: whole life.

633
00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:57,160
Speaker 4: It's been hard fall, I'll be honest.

634
00:32:57,400 --> 00:32:59,239
Speaker 1: You turned into a rat bag as a teenager, though,

635
00:32:59,280 --> 00:33:00,960
Speaker 1: didn't you to those two.

636
00:33:00,840 --> 00:33:03,200
Speaker 4: Years that I'm not proud of?

637
00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:06,280
Speaker 1: And you were bad and I was like, she's off

638
00:33:06,320 --> 00:33:06,880
Speaker 1: the rails.

639
00:33:07,400 --> 00:33:11,400
Speaker 2: Were on the other hand, just really planning my wig.

640
00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:14,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, but then then you got kick you out of

641
00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:17,239
Speaker 4: Ironbark School camp suspended.

642
00:33:18,320 --> 00:33:18,640
Speaker 1: Story.

643
00:33:18,680 --> 00:33:19,840
Speaker 2: What happened expensions.

644
00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:21,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, so you're not the angel trying.

645
00:33:21,960 --> 00:33:23,959
Speaker 2: I stole a few things still. I stole noodles from

646
00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:27,200
Speaker 2: the touch shop got suspended. This is from Cynthia and

647
00:33:27,320 --> 00:33:30,840
Speaker 2: she says, what's your favorite childhood memory with Matt.

648
00:33:31,200 --> 00:33:33,480
Speaker 1: Oh that's nice. Yeah, that's a nice one.

649
00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:37,040
Speaker 4: So we lived on the outskirts of Brisbane in the

650
00:33:37,080 --> 00:33:39,520
Speaker 4: western suburbs and we backed we had like a four

651
00:33:40,080 --> 00:33:44,200
Speaker 4: acre property and we backed onto a creek and so

652
00:33:44,840 --> 00:33:47,440
Speaker 4: like most of our childhood was going down to the

653
00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:54,080
Speaker 4: creek and finding tadpoles and yeah, we were just for

654
00:33:55,080 --> 00:33:57,560
Speaker 4: hours and hours leave in the morning.

655
00:33:57,560 --> 00:34:01,360
Speaker 1: And then was it swimming this creek? It's hot in Brisbane, man,

656
00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:02,640
Speaker 1: like the Margie.

657
00:34:02,840 --> 00:34:05,960
Speaker 4: Yeah. And then every time a flood would come, every

658
00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:09,000
Speaker 4: few years of flood would come and once it receded,

659
00:34:09,680 --> 00:34:11,800
Speaker 4: everything had the whole creek changed.

660
00:34:12,120 --> 00:34:13,719
Speaker 2: Oh wow, it would transform.

661
00:34:14,719 --> 00:34:15,600
Speaker 1: It sounds like a movie.

662
00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:19,520
Speaker 4: So we would collect tadpoles thin and like set little

663
00:34:19,560 --> 00:34:20,239
Speaker 4: homes for them.

664
00:34:20,360 --> 00:34:22,480
Speaker 2: Do you remember, though, Sorry to cut you off for

665
00:34:22,520 --> 00:34:22,759
Speaker 2: you guys.

666
00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:26,840
Speaker 4: Sorry, Well, then they would turn into cana.

667
00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:28,319
Speaker 2: So then we'd kill them.

668
00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:32,400
Speaker 1: False stats of security like would nurture you up to

669
00:34:32,520 --> 00:34:34,239
Speaker 1: a stage where it's okay to kill you.

670
00:34:35,040 --> 00:34:38,000
Speaker 2: Do you remember, because we used to ride our bikes everywhere.

671
00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:39,080
Speaker 2: We would just go exploring.

672
00:34:39,160 --> 00:34:40,680
Speaker 1: Yes, and we found that house. I know.

673
00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:43,359
Speaker 4: That was I told my kids that story as well.

674
00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:46,320
Speaker 4: That was the weirdest house you found.

675
00:34:46,120 --> 00:34:46,880
Speaker 1: A house in the suburb.

676
00:34:46,960 --> 00:34:53,280
Speaker 2: So we like out out into the mountains, the mountains.

677
00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:54,200
Speaker 2: It was like.

678
00:34:55,760 --> 00:34:58,200
Speaker 4: So we were the kids that literally we would like

679
00:34:58,320 --> 00:35:02,600
Speaker 4: get a backpack some sound and school holidays, we would

680
00:35:02,680 --> 00:35:03,720
Speaker 4: just ride our bikes.

681
00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:07,080
Speaker 1: How do I get kids like that? Just like clanging on?

682
00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:09,960
Speaker 2: So we found this house.

683
00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:14,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was an abandoned house, like a couple of

684
00:35:14,239 --> 00:35:17,520
Speaker 4: k's from our house, and we pulled our bikes up

685
00:35:17,560 --> 00:35:20,839
Speaker 4: there floored this house and then we because like there

686
00:35:20,920 --> 00:35:23,600
Speaker 4: was furniture in there, and there was like food on

687
00:35:23,840 --> 00:35:28,000
Speaker 4: the this sounds on the bench, like half eaten rice

688
00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:30,319
Speaker 4: bubbles and stuff. So like, but then no one would

689
00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:30,520
Speaker 4: be in.

690
00:35:30,560 --> 00:35:33,680
Speaker 1: There, and with the rass bubble still edible, I don't know,

691
00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:36,120
Speaker 1: so I tell them.

692
00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:39,560
Speaker 4: The story I tell my kids is we were exploring

693
00:35:39,640 --> 00:35:42,000
Speaker 4: this house and they were scratching.

694
00:35:41,600 --> 00:35:44,600
Speaker 1: Coming from the roofs Oh my goodness, and we.

695
00:35:44,680 --> 00:35:47,000
Speaker 4: Didn't know what it was, and all of a sudden

696
00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:50,799
Speaker 4: there was a bump and we screamed and we ran out,

697
00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:52,799
Speaker 4: and we thought there was a ghost up there.

698
00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:55,840
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Now they haven't slept.

699
00:35:56,600 --> 00:35:58,200
Speaker 2: But didn't you like we kind of made a bit

700
00:35:58,239 --> 00:35:59,080
Speaker 2: of a mess in the house.

701
00:35:59,200 --> 00:35:59,759
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, we did.

702
00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:03,120
Speaker 1: And then you trash to play a bunch.

703
00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:06,040
Speaker 2: Of And then how did people find out that it

704
00:36:06,120 --> 00:36:08,400
Speaker 2: was us? You made the mess in there because you

705
00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:10,000
Speaker 2: got you went back and you were made to clean

706
00:36:10,040 --> 00:36:13,480
Speaker 2: the house. What I don't remember that you don't remember?

707
00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:14,880
Speaker 4: That makes sense, to be honest.

708
00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:18,920
Speaker 2: You were back and they made you. I was away somewhere,

709
00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:19,279
Speaker 2: I don't know.

710
00:36:19,800 --> 00:36:23,320
Speaker 1: Favorite child, that's true, all right. Next question from Laurel

711
00:36:23,520 --> 00:36:26,279
Speaker 1: beautiful namely it's kind of like floral, but without the

712
00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:32,680
Speaker 1: what's your sorry? What's your biggest pet peeve about Maddie?

713
00:36:33,120 --> 00:36:37,640
Speaker 4: He's always late? Oh my god, thank you he's always late?

714
00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:40,920
Speaker 1: Oh my god. To relief, I thought it was just

715
00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:41,200
Speaker 1: with me.

716
00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:47,279
Speaker 2: Whoa whoa validated over there?

717
00:36:47,440 --> 00:36:49,879
Speaker 1: I feel I've never been so validate. I have gotten better,

718
00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:53,000
Speaker 1: you have gotten better, but late everything?

719
00:36:53,360 --> 00:36:55,960
Speaker 4: What is with everything? Yeah, you're gotta tell him like

720
00:36:56,000 --> 00:36:56,640
Speaker 4: half an hour.

721
00:36:56,600 --> 00:36:59,799
Speaker 1: Before he as looks great too. He turns out looking great.

722
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:02,480
Speaker 1: Half hour late. It's like, maybe don't look as good

723
00:37:02,520 --> 00:37:03,399
Speaker 1: and you'll get there on time.

724
00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:04,319
Speaker 2: I apologize.

725
00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:05,840
Speaker 4: I'm very it.

726
00:37:05,920 --> 00:37:09,840
Speaker 1: So it's fine now I'm getting used to it. Actually,

727
00:37:10,080 --> 00:37:12,719
Speaker 1: I'm I have noticed because my whole life I've been

728
00:37:12,760 --> 00:37:16,360
Speaker 1: irritatingly punctual. But since meeting you, I've relaxed on that.

729
00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:18,040
Speaker 1: You're welcome.

730
00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:22,560
Speaker 4: I pick up Lolo moy most like Monday, Tuesday, Wednesdays

731
00:37:22,600 --> 00:37:25,799
Speaker 4: for school. Have to say you're never late getting them.

732
00:37:26,360 --> 00:37:29,920
Speaker 1: That's good parenting. Eight o'clock out and that's what's important.

733
00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:33,440
Speaker 4: He's like disheveled, he's no shirt, he's got.

734
00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:37,560
Speaker 1: Like just wants to get his abs out. You're right,

735
00:37:37,680 --> 00:37:37,960
Speaker 1: he's like.

736
00:37:39,640 --> 00:37:41,960
Speaker 4: He has the kids, and I like, see I.

737
00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:45,520
Speaker 2: Take that from Mom. God we say to Mom, you're

738
00:37:45,520 --> 00:37:47,399
Speaker 2: always late. I remember being the last kids.

739
00:37:48,280 --> 00:37:50,040
Speaker 1: She's always so frazzled your mind.

740
00:37:50,200 --> 00:37:53,880
Speaker 2: And if you tell us she's late, she's a late person.

741
00:37:54,560 --> 00:37:58,800
Speaker 1: She wow, I love it. Startling an Ellie's story.

742
00:37:59,040 --> 00:38:01,920
Speaker 4: This was the moment that I was like, oh, she

743
00:38:02,040 --> 00:38:05,959
Speaker 4: can no longer like do family. She can't host family Christmases. Okay,

744
00:38:06,239 --> 00:38:09,440
Speaker 4: So she stocked the fridges, everything was ready to go

745
00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:12,480
Speaker 4: Christmas Day we're on Stripbroke Island, so Chris's date. Nothing

746
00:38:12,600 --> 00:38:14,879
Speaker 4: is open, so you've got to like stuck up. She's

747
00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:17,960
Speaker 4: very organized. All of us was, their partners were there.

748
00:38:18,120 --> 00:38:21,200
Speaker 4: The house is full of people she's gone to because

749
00:38:21,239 --> 00:38:24,759
Speaker 4: the fridges were so full she turned them down.

750
00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:26,399
Speaker 1: Oh god.

751
00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:29,200
Speaker 4: And she went to make the salad for the lunch

752
00:38:29,560 --> 00:38:32,680
Speaker 4: and like the cucumber had frozen and the letters had frozen,

753
00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:36,000
Speaker 4: and she like yes, and.

754
00:38:36,680 --> 00:38:40,080
Speaker 1: She broke down. I was like, we can't have a

755
00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:41,360
Speaker 1: green salad.

756
00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:43,520
Speaker 2: Relax.

757
00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:47,400
Speaker 4: I was like, Mum, it's cooled, We'll be right, and

758
00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:50,920
Speaker 4: like ruined her. Her ruined her whole The frozen has

759
00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:51,839
Speaker 4: ruined her whole day.

760
00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:54,520
Speaker 2: Whenever sheever she sees the kim Now, she's.

761
00:38:54,440 --> 00:38:58,360
Speaker 1: Like a traumatize. I was lucky enough to go on

762
00:38:58,400 --> 00:39:02,160
Speaker 1: a cruise with your mum so much because she's I

763
00:39:02,600 --> 00:39:05,719
Speaker 1: love that. When the goalpost moved for Ellie, she's like,

764
00:39:05,880 --> 00:39:10,440
Speaker 1: oh suddenly she startled for it, and I'm like this

765
00:39:10,640 --> 00:39:11,400
Speaker 1: is amazing, and.

766
00:39:11,520 --> 00:39:16,120
Speaker 4: Like, did you get like the pointless story.

767
00:39:18,200 --> 00:39:19,840
Speaker 2: Dad, that's why you're not the favorite?

768
00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:23,880
Speaker 1: Her and my dad pointless story king, So they were

769
00:39:24,040 --> 00:39:26,960
Speaker 1: like it was you too.

770
00:39:27,400 --> 00:39:30,960
Speaker 4: She'll tell me why I like the g note on

771
00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:33,240
Speaker 4: a piano first, origeated from or something.

772
00:39:33,320 --> 00:39:35,200
Speaker 1: And I'm like, for the record, I.

773
00:39:35,239 --> 00:39:36,279
Speaker 2: Think her stories are great.

774
00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:39,080
Speaker 1: Okay, you would say that the favorite child. But it

775
00:39:39,200 --> 00:39:41,359
Speaker 1: was funny because my mum was also on the cruise too.

776
00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:43,000
Speaker 1: Mom was like, that's great, he's got someone to talk

777
00:39:43,040 --> 00:39:47,239
Speaker 1: to me. He's actually he's actually quite pleasant on this trip.

778
00:39:48,040 --> 00:39:49,719
Speaker 2: This is from Hannah. She wants to know what was

779
00:39:49,800 --> 00:39:53,640
Speaker 2: your first reaction when I appeared on The Bachelor? You

780
00:39:53,760 --> 00:39:56,000
Speaker 2: actually got you got a bad edit on The Bachelor?

781
00:39:56,040 --> 00:39:56,920
Speaker 2: I know, but I knew that.

782
00:39:57,040 --> 00:39:58,000
Speaker 4: I knew that was going to come.

783
00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:07,080
Speaker 1: The villain, the general, the dictator.

784
00:40:08,400 --> 00:40:08,680
Speaker 2: Really.

785
00:40:08,800 --> 00:40:12,239
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah, I'm assuming she means because obviously I

786
00:40:12,280 --> 00:40:15,359
Speaker 4: found out you were going to go on it before

787
00:40:15,400 --> 00:40:20,759
Speaker 4: it Like, yeah, and you would did the Bachelorette first.

788
00:40:20,760 --> 00:40:21,600
Speaker 4: I don't know what did I think?

789
00:40:21,680 --> 00:40:24,480
Speaker 2: The embarrassed that I've been on reality TV many times?

790
00:40:25,040 --> 00:40:27,919
Speaker 4: No, because you're very good at it any won Yeah?

791
00:40:28,200 --> 00:40:28,439
Speaker 1: True?

792
00:40:29,200 --> 00:40:32,960
Speaker 2: So yeah, it is awkward with the camera crew and

793
00:40:33,080 --> 00:40:36,000
Speaker 2: you've got to like act in a sense.

794
00:40:36,000 --> 00:40:38,239
Speaker 1: Do they make you do they like when they when

795
00:40:38,280 --> 00:40:40,160
Speaker 1: you are on a camp, do they like heavily produce

796
00:40:40,239 --> 00:40:40,520
Speaker 1: you to.

797
00:40:42,520 --> 00:40:44,120
Speaker 2: Because you remember you came to the house that I

798
00:40:44,200 --> 00:40:45,440
Speaker 2: was staying at and.

799
00:40:45,600 --> 00:40:47,840
Speaker 4: We I did a date with you. We did a

800
00:40:47,880 --> 00:40:48,480
Speaker 4: group day.

801
00:40:48,840 --> 00:40:52,920
Speaker 1: No, that was actually not in episode. It's my favorite

802
00:40:53,000 --> 00:40:53,920
Speaker 1: season of The Bachelor.

803
00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:59,680
Speaker 4: That was fine, but I couldn't be there for the

804
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:04,600
Speaker 4: nally of The Bachelor because I was pregnant and it

805
00:41:04,760 --> 00:41:08,360
Speaker 4: was filmed in Thailand. Also, there was zekea virus, so

806
00:41:08,600 --> 00:41:10,960
Speaker 4: was advised, I do love a good virus, I don't

807
00:41:11,000 --> 00:41:11,720
Speaker 4: go to Thailand.

808
00:41:12,880 --> 00:41:15,319
Speaker 2: So it was awkward because they were like, who else

809
00:41:15,520 --> 00:41:16,680
Speaker 2: could do the grilling.

810
00:41:17,120 --> 00:41:18,840
Speaker 1: For the final because if you were the dictator.

811
00:41:19,400 --> 00:41:23,279
Speaker 2: My brothers were like fuck that. Adam oldest is like

812
00:41:23,400 --> 00:41:26,920
Speaker 2: not for me. David second youngest, absolutely not. Tom who's

813
00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:28,840
Speaker 2: the youngest, was like, oh, I guess I'll do it.

814
00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:32,520
Speaker 2: He would have been like twenty one, twenty one, and

815
00:41:32,640 --> 00:41:36,120
Speaker 2: he was there. One question he asked Laura. They were like, Tom,

816
00:41:36,160 --> 00:41:37,960
Speaker 2: you gotta ask some heart hitting questions here, like really

817
00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:39,560
Speaker 2: put on the spot. This could be the girl that

818
00:41:40,000 --> 00:41:41,919
Speaker 2: Matt spends the rest of his life with. And Tom

819
00:41:42,040 --> 00:41:45,160
Speaker 2: was like, so, do you have any hobbies?

820
00:41:46,239 --> 00:41:47,360
Speaker 1: Hard hitting journalism?

821
00:41:48,080 --> 00:41:50,759
Speaker 2: And Laura kind of was like, oh, stumbled a bit

822
00:41:50,840 --> 00:41:53,320
Speaker 2: on the question and Tom was like, I don't know

823
00:41:53,360 --> 00:41:53,759
Speaker 2: about her.

824
00:41:57,880 --> 00:42:03,080
Speaker 1: I really want to see. That's so good. All right,

825
00:42:03,840 --> 00:42:06,640
Speaker 1: what's your go to thing to do with your kids

826
00:42:06,920 --> 00:42:07,880
Speaker 1: in the school holidays?

827
00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:12,120
Speaker 4: This is lovely end Well, this is quite convenient these

828
00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:16,200
Speaker 4: days because we bought a rural property down the South coast.

829
00:42:17,760 --> 00:42:22,040
Speaker 4: Must be nice twelve months ago and Matt and Laura

830
00:42:22,080 --> 00:42:29,480
Speaker 4: were looking for another property north and then I was like,

831
00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:32,719
Speaker 4: why are you looking north for coming beautiful south North?

832
00:42:35,040 --> 00:42:44,879
Speaker 4: So they bought Alida, Oh shut at risk holidays. Yeah,

833
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:49,520
Speaker 4: we go down to our our holiday house, call up

834
00:42:49,800 --> 00:42:53,560
Speaker 4: and the girls do perony club together, so.

835
00:42:53,640 --> 00:42:55,600
Speaker 1: That is our They don't know how bloody good they've

836
00:42:55,640 --> 00:42:57,640
Speaker 1: got at these kids, Yeah for sure, Like they get

837
00:42:57,640 --> 00:43:00,239
Speaker 1: to go away like South Coast beautiful, lovely.

838
00:43:00,200 --> 00:43:02,800
Speaker 4: Just to be cold animals on your Yeah, we have

839
00:43:02,960 --> 00:43:06,319
Speaker 4: like a proper working farms. We have a hundred beef

840
00:43:06,400 --> 00:43:08,879
Speaker 4: cows or beef cows to come down ash.

841
00:43:09,160 --> 00:43:13,279
Speaker 1: Yeah is that a formerly yet, We'll think about it.

842
00:43:13,400 --> 00:43:18,600
Speaker 1: Yeah Christmas, Christmas maybe that's big leagues. So I'm just.

843
00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:24,800
Speaker 4: So, yeah, that's pretty good. We get to spend a

844
00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:25,640
Speaker 4: lot of time together.

845
00:43:25,800 --> 00:43:28,680
Speaker 1: That's awesome, and it's also good like you you know,

846
00:43:28,800 --> 00:43:30,840
Speaker 1: you've got like a lot of siblings and you're the

847
00:43:30,880 --> 00:43:33,400
Speaker 1: only one with kids. But it's like it's good that

848
00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:35,400
Speaker 1: they've got like, you know, cousins and ship like that.

849
00:43:35,600 --> 00:43:38,640
Speaker 2: Actually, that is the coolest part. We grew up not

850
00:43:38,719 --> 00:43:41,120
Speaker 2: really spending a lot of time with our cousins and

851
00:43:42,800 --> 00:43:46,520
Speaker 2: to give our kids the relationship with an extended family

852
00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:47,319
Speaker 2: that we didn't get.

853
00:43:47,680 --> 00:43:50,600
Speaker 4: Really, it's very like you's got two girls, I've got

854
00:43:50,640 --> 00:43:51,719
Speaker 4: two girls similar age.

855
00:43:51,840 --> 00:43:53,359
Speaker 1: That's like just works.

856
00:43:54,360 --> 00:43:57,120
Speaker 4: George, my nine year old, he's always like, I can't

857
00:43:57,200 --> 00:43:58,920
Speaker 4: play bobbies anymore.

858
00:43:59,160 --> 00:44:00,560
Speaker 1: Enough for George, but it is.

859
00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:03,359
Speaker 2: I don't know if there's other people out there who

860
00:44:03,400 --> 00:44:06,560
Speaker 2: don't have family close by. It makes a world of difference.

861
00:44:06,960 --> 00:44:10,440
Speaker 2: On the weekend, for example, you have Lola every Friday, which, thank.

862
00:44:10,320 --> 00:44:10,799
Speaker 1: You very much.

863
00:44:11,480 --> 00:44:14,400
Speaker 4: It was like seven thirty am and Charlotte didn't want

864
00:44:14,400 --> 00:44:16,879
Speaker 4: to come to Georgia's footy game, so I was like, hey,

865
00:44:17,080 --> 00:44:19,160
Speaker 4: you're going to have another five year old here.

866
00:44:19,800 --> 00:44:22,680
Speaker 1: Yeah. It does make it like it takes a village

867
00:44:22,719 --> 00:44:25,279
Speaker 1: right there. Is it's like my like for me, I

868
00:44:25,360 --> 00:44:29,160
Speaker 1: had a lot of cousins and like my mom's side,

869
00:44:29,239 --> 00:44:32,600
Speaker 1: they're breeders. Anyway, my kids only have one cousin. It's

870
00:44:32,600 --> 00:44:33,080
Speaker 1: really sad.

871
00:44:33,480 --> 00:44:33,719
Speaker 3: Yeah.

872
00:44:34,600 --> 00:44:37,200
Speaker 1: Wow, Well my brother in law and his partner gay.

873
00:44:37,360 --> 00:44:40,000
Speaker 1: Obviously they don't want to adopt. They have two duel

874
00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:42,440
Speaker 1: income and they must live in the dream. But my

875
00:44:42,560 --> 00:44:48,920
Speaker 1: sisters has winning my niece who's a month younger than Macy.

876
00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:53,320
Speaker 1: They like, they've gone this is it will be your family.

877
00:44:56,280 --> 00:45:01,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, like nine hundred meters for each other, miles away.

878
00:45:01,160 --> 00:45:03,720
Speaker 1: My sister is on this side too, so it's like anyway,

879
00:45:03,760 --> 00:45:07,600
Speaker 1: but yes, I think like having a bunch of cousins was.

880
00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:10,080
Speaker 1: It was always really fun. So it's good that you've

881
00:45:10,120 --> 00:45:13,960
Speaker 1: got Yeah, you've got that. I'm very sentimental sometimes. Thank

882
00:45:13,960 --> 00:45:15,320
Speaker 1: you Kate for jumping on the podcast.

883
00:45:15,600 --> 00:45:19,080
Speaker 4: You were but you were great, very much for having me.

884
00:45:19,200 --> 00:45:20,160
Speaker 1: You'll have to come back sometime.

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Speaker 2: Yes, if you enjoyed this episode, please okay, can you

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Speaker 2: just ask them, just say review the podcast. Don't ask

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Speaker 2: the man like the Please say like you're talking to

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Speaker 2: your children's review the podcast, review the.

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Speaker 1: Podcast, tell of a sudden our reviews.

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Speaker 2: Go on subscribe and ashwell, can they find us and.

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Speaker 4: Review the podcast or you will not get a treat tonight.

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Speaker 1: Perfect cut that Instagram. Also, you yell a lot louder

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Speaker 1: than that. When you're talking to the kids.

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Speaker 4: There's no gentle.

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Speaker 1: I'm a yeller as well.

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Speaker 4: It works.

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Speaker 1: Two days on Instagram, Facebook, TikTok and now YouTube and

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Speaker 1: we'll see you guys next week. Matt the Matt. There's

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Speaker 1: a special fallout we need to do right now.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I'm about to do it. I'm calling out to

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Speaker 2: all of you dots right.

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Speaker 1: Now who are listening.

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Speaker 2: If you've ever dreamed of sitting down and listening to

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Speaker 2: myself and Ash talk about our lives and the disasters

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Speaker 2: that we get up to as parents, You're in luck

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Speaker 2: because you can do that in the flesh.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely. We are doing a one and only live show

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Speaker 1: at the Apple Store in Sydney, CBD on George Street,

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Speaker 1: which is when on the fourth of September.

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Speaker 2: I believe it is Ash and if you'd like to come,

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Speaker 2: the easiest way to do the only way to do

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Speaker 2: that really is there's a link in our show notes

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Speaker 2: you can pre register. You have to preregister. We are

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Speaker 2: going to cut it off once we get to a

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Speaker 2: certain amount. Apple's going to manage that.

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Speaker 1: More like if we get to a certain name, people

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Speaker 1: want to see us. If you want to be part

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Speaker 1: of the show too. Submit your parents to us because

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Speaker 1: we are going to do a little parents segment and

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Speaker 1: also lies I believe Matt.

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Speaker 2: So send us those details. You may be lucky enough

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Speaker 2: to have that information read out. You can say anonymous

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Speaker 2: show if you like. But yeah, register before, but register

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Speaker 2: before it all closes, and we'll see that seats are limited.

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Speaker 2: They are really limited.

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Speaker 1: So limited. Please come see Bye.

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Speaker 2: Two Doting Dads. Podcast acknowledges the traditional custodians of country

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Speaker 2: throughout Australia and the connections to land, see and community.

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Speaker 1: We pay our respects to their elders past and present

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Speaker 1: and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torrestraight Islander

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Speaker 1: people's today