WEBVTT - BONUS: Tesla's Have A Fart Button 🤮💨 0:00:01.480 --> 0:00:04.400 Flex and Frooms. Flex and Frooms. This is the Flex 0:00:04.440 --> 0:00:05.880 and Frooms catch up podcast. 0:00:07.680 --> 0:00:11.280 Sweetye Pies, We love you so much in a conceptual way. 0:00:11.320 --> 0:00:13.040 Of course, we'll be back next week. So here's some 0:00:13.080 --> 0:00:15.880 of our favorite moments from the last year and a 0:00:15.960 --> 0:00:21.400 half to a back on Monday, do not fret. Sometimes 0:00:21.440 --> 0:00:25.000 the things that you so desperately love leave you for 0:00:25.079 --> 0:00:29.560 a blip, but sometimes forever. Luckily for you, we are, 0:00:29.840 --> 0:00:31.280 like I said back on Monday. 0:00:31.840 --> 0:00:32.360 Bye. 0:00:32.920 --> 0:00:36.920 You're listening to Flex and Frooms on KAITA big question 0:00:37.000 --> 0:00:38.080 of the day and more to come. 0:00:38.159 --> 0:00:40.280 Should we assume that everyone loves us? 0:00:40.600 --> 0:00:44.519 If we haven't been given bad feedback, it's come from 0:00:44.520 --> 0:00:46.239 a TikTok by Delara. 0:00:46.400 --> 0:00:47.199 Listen to this. 0:00:47.200 --> 0:00:50.120 This is your friendly reminder that unless someone indicates that 0:00:50.159 --> 0:00:52.479 they have a problem with you, you're going to assume 0:00:52.560 --> 0:00:55.360 that there is no problem because it's not your responsibility 0:00:55.400 --> 0:00:59.160 to guess what someone else's problem is. It's their responsibility 0:00:59.160 --> 0:01:00.680 to communicate that problem to you. 0:01:01.360 --> 0:01:03.880 Well, the anxiety gillies are gonna hate this one. 0:01:03.800 --> 0:01:07.120 You know what, because this sounds like something I would say, 0:01:07.240 --> 0:01:10.880 This sounds very flex coded, but even I'm like, it's 0:01:10.920 --> 0:01:15.120 not that simple. If I know one thing about people 0:01:16.360 --> 0:01:19.479 is that at our core, we are irrational and often 0:01:19.600 --> 0:01:23.480 act out of alignment with what matches the situation. So like, 0:01:23.520 --> 0:01:25.119 you know, when you really need a company, you push 0:01:25.160 --> 0:01:27.400 people away. When you really want someone to like look 0:01:27.400 --> 0:01:29.400 out for you, you act like you don't need any help. 0:01:29.440 --> 0:01:32.160 It's like all this stuff, it's caterintuitive. I can say, 0:01:32.200 --> 0:01:34.480 for the sake of like your anxiety, it's nice to 0:01:34.480 --> 0:01:36.800 be like, if they haven't told me, then you know, 0:01:37.080 --> 0:01:41.280 let me not worry about tomorrow's problems, like, let me 0:01:41.400 --> 0:01:43.440 just wait until I know for a fact. 0:01:44.000 --> 0:01:46.240 But I don't think we control ourselves like that. 0:01:46.840 --> 0:01:49.800 I also think it's a slippery slope to tell people 0:01:50.200 --> 0:01:52.840 unless it's been said explicitly it's not your problem, because 0:01:53.120 --> 0:01:56.560 so much is implicit and covert and requires you to 0:01:56.600 --> 0:01:59.840 pick up on signals and signs to get it across. 0:02:00.000 --> 0:02:02.800 And if you're lucky, you get an admission of truth. 0:02:02.840 --> 0:02:05.600 But even like like let's say, have a problem for me, 0:02:05.640 --> 0:02:08.000 and I'm coming to you, I'm workshopping, like I don't 0:02:08.000 --> 0:02:10.360 even know what the problem is yet, And so how 0:02:10.440 --> 0:02:12.720 many times will I allow myself to workshop? Or how 0:02:12.760 --> 0:02:16.320 many times will you make it comfortable enough for me 0:02:16.320 --> 0:02:18.679 to workshop before I'm like, yeah, I don't know. I 0:02:18.720 --> 0:02:19.639 didn't need that at all. 0:02:19.720 --> 0:02:21.079 I think I'm a little bit. 0:02:21.040 --> 0:02:25.240 Off any kind of advice or feedback that gives us 0:02:25.240 --> 0:02:29.000 the impression that we can do stuff on our own constantly, yeah, 0:02:29.080 --> 0:02:31.960 Or that we're so separated and isolated that we don't 0:02:32.000 --> 0:02:34.400 need to rely on people, or that other people aren't 0:02:34.400 --> 0:02:37.120 our problem, or that if they can't say it, then 0:02:37.160 --> 0:02:37.720 it's on them. 0:02:37.760 --> 0:02:39.359 Because I definitely felt that way when I. 0:02:39.320 --> 0:02:44.440 Was twenty, you know, to twenty five. And then you're like, wait, 0:02:46.000 --> 0:02:49.519 that's not true, because I've needed people and not asked, 0:02:49.639 --> 0:02:51.840 or I've needed help and not asked and wish someone 0:02:51.840 --> 0:02:53.360 would have offered, or whatever. 0:02:53.639 --> 0:02:56.360 Well I would like, And I tried to cultivate an 0:02:56.440 --> 0:03:00.280 environment where we are one hundred percent across the feelings. 0:03:00.200 --> 0:03:01.080 At all times. 0:03:01.639 --> 0:03:02.960 It can be a bit of a mental load if 0:03:02.960 --> 0:03:05.600 you're not used to it. But all of my best friends, 0:03:05.639 --> 0:03:08.560 if there's even the slightest little hint of weirdness, we 0:03:08.680 --> 0:03:11.280 have a trust system where we can happily talk about 0:03:11.280 --> 0:03:12.880 that without it being too much. And if you don't 0:03:12.919 --> 0:03:15.360 understand that, yeah, then we can't be friends. 0:03:15.440 --> 0:03:17.680 Like that, and it's a tricky one and. 0:03:17.639 --> 0:03:19.320 You also need to pick your battles. Like I do 0:03:19.520 --> 0:03:21.160 have friends, this is it, but they're just not my 0:03:21.240 --> 0:03:24.040 close friends, like my inner inner circle of really good friends. 0:03:24.360 --> 0:03:26.480 Understand that if I'm asking if you're mad at me, 0:03:27.160 --> 0:03:28.920 and you know you're not, I need support, right, You're 0:03:28.960 --> 0:03:30.720 not going to scoff at me. I need sup You're 0:03:30.720 --> 0:03:32.440 not going to say I'm being crazy. You're going to say, 0:03:32.840 --> 0:03:35.840 no way, I love you. 0:03:34.960 --> 0:03:36.120 You're being insane. 0:03:36.600 --> 0:03:37.400 Yeah, people do that. 0:03:37.840 --> 0:03:40.840 I also feel like, let your people have mood swings, 0:03:41.360 --> 0:03:44.600 because there's one thing about me. I'm a moody girl, 0:03:44.840 --> 0:03:48.120 and I also be friend moody girls. And sometimes you 0:03:48.200 --> 0:03:50.560 just can't take it personally. Like let's say I'm having 0:03:50.560 --> 0:03:53.160 an off day, and then you assume, because I haven't said. 0:03:53.040 --> 0:03:56.440 What it's explicitly about, let's pretend it's not happening. That's 0:03:56.440 --> 0:03:57.000 not helpful. 0:03:57.680 --> 0:03:58.000 True. 0:03:58.040 --> 0:04:00.960 I feel like acknowledge and if you acknowledge isn't taken, well, 0:04:00.960 --> 0:04:01.240 then you know. 0:04:01.240 --> 0:04:02.160 What to do. Wrap it up. 0:04:02.800 --> 0:04:03.400 Wrap it up? 0:04:03.440 --> 0:04:07.560 Sis, you go, what's going on for me? She says, oh, FLEXI, 0:04:07.800 --> 0:04:10.120 Oh you get into it. Get into it. 0:04:12.200 --> 0:04:15.960 We had a listener submission. Somebody sent us a DM 0:04:16.040 --> 0:04:18.360 via the Flex and Froom's Instagram, which, might I add, 0:04:18.839 --> 0:04:22.120 is popping off our produce. Mikayla and the various social 0:04:22.200 --> 0:04:25.800 media team that does the Flex and Rooms Instagram have 0:04:25.839 --> 0:04:28.960 been popping their bussy. I recently got access to the login, 0:04:29.040 --> 0:04:30.640 so if you want to send a personal message, please 0:04:30.680 --> 0:04:32.960 send it there. I will be reading it only if 0:04:32.960 --> 0:04:36.680 it's nice and our listener Georgia has sent in a 0:04:36.720 --> 0:04:38.760 bit of a thought starter for the girlies, which this 0:04:38.800 --> 0:04:42.119 is my favorite kind of message. She begins high, pretty 0:04:42.120 --> 0:04:45.520 princesses already kicking the box. Love the podcast with all 0:04:45.680 --> 0:04:49.080 my heart. Big discussion in the office today, I would 0:04:49.080 --> 0:04:51.720 love to hear your thoughts on would you rather companies 0:04:51.800 --> 0:04:55.080 pay to have the ads installed into your memory or 0:04:55.120 --> 0:04:57.360 prefer to actually have to watch the ads before any 0:04:57.400 --> 0:05:01.760 piece of content YouTube TV t took ITTs, assuming that 0:05:01.839 --> 0:05:03.800 if the ads are in your memory, you never actually 0:05:03.880 --> 0:05:08.159 have to endure watching them. Results here with fifty to fifty. Wow, 0:05:08.480 --> 0:05:11.200 this is an incredible question, Georgia, I love it. I 0:05:11.279 --> 0:05:14.040 want to start off by saying I studied advertising oh 0:05:14.320 --> 0:05:16.920 at university. Don't out yourself, that is who I am 0:05:17.640 --> 0:05:20.160 At the time, I didn't realize, Like I didn't know 0:05:20.200 --> 0:05:22.960 that you could study advertising. I went to UNI originally 0:05:23.040 --> 0:05:27.240 to do journalism, started doing journalism. First lecture, the lady says, 0:05:27.240 --> 0:05:28.520 if you want to be on TV, this isn't the 0:05:28.560 --> 0:05:29.200 course for you. 0:05:29.240 --> 0:05:32.760 So you left. Pack the bags, pack the note before 0:05:32.800 --> 0:05:33.599 the census date. 0:05:34.240 --> 0:05:36.760 Pack the notebooks that I diligently bought from office works 0:05:36.760 --> 0:05:37.160 into my. 0:05:37.160 --> 0:05:38.160 Little crumpler backpack. 0:05:38.279 --> 0:05:39.919 So this is not for me, and yeep back to 0:05:40.000 --> 0:05:42.680 Melbourne Central Station to go home to my care out here. 0:05:42.920 --> 0:05:44.400 It's horror. This isn't right. 0:05:45.640 --> 0:05:50.760 Literally, what do they mean? I imagine working so hard 0:05:51.000 --> 0:05:54.400 and spending so much money on a school to only 0:05:54.440 --> 0:05:56.000 find out that the course that you work so dil 0:05:56.120 --> 0:05:57.679 ged to get into it's. 0:05:57.520 --> 0:05:58.320 Not even relevant. 0:05:58.360 --> 0:06:00.080 But look at you now, look at me now. I 0:06:00.120 --> 0:06:02.720 did advertising, and I thought that advertised. I didn't think 0:06:02.720 --> 0:06:04.080 that people thought it was a bad thing. Like I 0:06:04.120 --> 0:06:07.119 thought advertising was creative and cool. People love ads. Little 0:06:07.120 --> 0:06:09.200 did I know in some of the lectures they'd be like, 0:06:09.240 --> 0:06:10.640 you know, people say ads are bad. 0:06:10.680 --> 0:06:13.080 I was like, what the manipulative God? 0:06:13.120 --> 0:06:15.200 Like, this is just fun. We're just like learning to 0:06:15.279 --> 0:06:16.440 draw pictures on photoshop. 0:06:17.120 --> 0:06:19.400 Do you think it's ads that people don't like or 0:06:19.520 --> 0:06:23.960 how almost like disruptive they can be, Like it takes 0:06:24.000 --> 0:06:26.920 you out of your favorite moment. It's berating you, one 0:06:26.960 --> 0:06:28.800 after the other after the other after the other. 0:06:29.440 --> 0:06:30.839 I feel like outdoor. 0:06:30.440 --> 0:06:34.000 Advertising isn't as disruptive as like digital advertising. 0:06:34.160 --> 0:06:38.159 Some people hate them. Some people think outdoor advertising I. 0:06:38.120 --> 0:06:39.480 Guess it ruins the landscape. 0:06:40.000 --> 0:06:41.880 We had all these beautiful trees, and now what do 0:06:41.920 --> 0:06:42.400 we see? 0:06:42.640 --> 0:06:45.400 Show me what we see, let me see. 0:06:45.480 --> 0:06:48.320 I think I would prefer them burned into my brain 0:06:48.360 --> 0:06:51.880 because there's nothing like feeling as though every good idea 0:06:52.000 --> 0:06:52.960 you have, of every. 0:06:52.720 --> 0:06:54.800 Inkling came from you and you alone. 0:06:54.960 --> 0:06:56.760 Like if I wake up one day and I'm like, oh, 0:06:56.800 --> 0:06:59.840 I really want to sign up to that cool new 0:07:00.920 --> 0:07:02.880 I would love to feel as though just it's an 0:07:02.920 --> 0:07:06.599 idea that came came to and I'm just acting on 0:07:06.640 --> 0:07:09.800 my natural impulse. If I go and buy a new 0:07:09.840 --> 0:07:12.400 toilet cleaner, I'd love to feel like, oh my god, 0:07:12.520 --> 0:07:18.560 you're another one amazing, as opposed to being so like 0:07:19.240 --> 0:07:21.280 involved in the process. I think that's what I don't 0:07:21.560 --> 0:07:24.560 love about digital advertising sometimes is that everything has to 0:07:24.560 --> 0:07:27.560 feel like a choice, another choice, another choice. 0:07:27.240 --> 0:07:29.920 This ad, not this ad, skip this ad, watch this ad? 0:07:30.000 --> 0:07:31.800 Do I like this ad? What's this ad for? Did 0:07:31.840 --> 0:07:32.680 they even know? It's? 0:07:32.680 --> 0:07:35.440 Like, oh my god, Like, we don't need it to 0:07:35.440 --> 0:07:39.280 be intentional for the desire to come anyway. I think 0:07:39.280 --> 0:07:41.000 that's my issue with it, you know, like so much 0:07:41.000 --> 0:07:46.560 of what I desire about life is unintentional, program subconscious, 0:07:46.800 --> 0:07:48.080 and I feel better about that. 0:07:48.640 --> 0:07:50.680 I personally would like to see all the ads. I 0:07:50.720 --> 0:07:53.520 love the creativity of the advertisers. I love seeing how 0:07:53.600 --> 0:07:54.440 much money is bringing. 0:07:56.320 --> 0:07:57.760 How do you love the jingle? 0:07:59.200 --> 0:08:02.400 I'm telling you jingles like what I wanted to be 0:08:02.440 --> 0:08:04.440 as a child, if not a presenter, was a jingle 0:08:04.440 --> 0:08:07.720 making a jingle. I've got them both downpath, So believe 0:08:07.760 --> 0:08:10.640 in your dreams. Study advertising, folks, and watch the ad. 0:08:11.000 --> 0:08:16.080 Can the creativity of advertising could be funneled into cinema 0:08:16.160 --> 0:08:19.400 and TV, because my goodness, why are we doing twenty 0:08:19.400 --> 0:08:21.960 six hundred hours of a TV show that is not 0:08:22.120 --> 0:08:24.600 concise and wrapped up? And ad can tell you everything 0:08:24.600 --> 0:08:27.760 you need to know about health insurance in fourteen seconds. 0:08:27.800 --> 0:08:30.480 That's why I need to become have a TV show 0:08:31.680 --> 0:08:32.400 the pipeline. 0:08:32.520 --> 0:08:34.960 No, but I'm serious, learn how to be articulate through 0:08:35.000 --> 0:08:35.640 making TV. 0:08:38.760 --> 0:08:41.760 You're listening to Flex and Frooms on Kaita. 0:08:41.920 --> 0:08:46.760 Mikayla, a much beloved producer, has sent me, oh she did, 0:08:46.800 --> 0:08:49.320 little Heart. Guys, when did these little hearts start happening 0:08:49.400 --> 0:08:51.800 with the fingerapops k pop? I know, but I'm just 0:08:51.800 --> 0:08:53.520 seeing every man in the dog do. I absolutely love 0:08:53.679 --> 0:08:57.319 these liks are cultured. It's amazing to me. 0:08:57.760 --> 0:08:59.240 A fair few too many. 0:09:01.280 --> 0:09:04.839 We just need to know, weirdly from her so much 0:09:04.920 --> 0:09:07.400 love with the little love heart hands and she's sent 0:09:07.480 --> 0:09:10.079 in this TikTok and it's quite an important question. I 0:09:10.120 --> 0:09:13.800 think most people in the audience need to know me. 0:09:14.040 --> 0:09:16.400 And it's a POV type thing, Guys, me trying to 0:09:16.480 --> 0:09:19.120 explain to literally every man that it's extremely important to 0:09:19.160 --> 0:09:21.079 post your GF from time to time, whether it be 0:09:21.160 --> 0:09:23.120 on a story or in an IG post, because it 0:09:23.320 --> 0:09:25.720 not only shows her off and makes her feel more 0:09:25.720 --> 0:09:28.199 confident and secure in a relationship, but it also is 0:09:28.240 --> 0:09:30.559 a heartfelt gesture that shows that you're not ashamed to 0:09:30.679 --> 0:09:32.839 be with her. It's just the assect of showing you 0:09:32.960 --> 0:09:37.559 appreciate her and not hiding her existent that's so crucial 0:09:38.000 --> 0:09:43.160 Micky as the token relationship girl in the podcast studio. 0:09:43.160 --> 0:09:45.720 It's me flex and Mikayla. 0:09:45.480 --> 0:09:46.840 Token relationship girl. 0:09:47.080 --> 0:09:47.520 She is y. 0:09:48.520 --> 0:09:50.199 Does your BF post things about you? 0:09:50.920 --> 0:09:52.319 Almost? His whole Instagram is me? 0:09:52.800 --> 0:09:53.079 Period? 0:09:53.080 --> 0:09:53.400 Stop it? 0:09:53.800 --> 0:09:54.000 Yeah? 0:09:54.040 --> 0:09:55.959 I could show you. He has a little hat that 0:09:56.040 --> 0:09:59.280 says taken and he wears it everywhere. It's his favorite. 0:09:59.320 --> 0:10:01.000 Please show Yeah, I'll show you. 0:10:01.040 --> 0:10:03.080 I'll show you. Do you know what's funny? My ex 0:10:03.160 --> 0:10:07.520 boyfriend posted nith no no me and how long. 0:10:07.440 --> 0:10:07.959 Were you together? 0:10:08.040 --> 0:10:08.079 In? 0:10:08.200 --> 0:10:08.600 Two years? 0:10:10.600 --> 0:10:12.640 And at the time, what do you think that was? 0:10:13.080 --> 0:10:15.319 I don't think he wanted to why. I think he 0:10:15.440 --> 0:10:19.520 was ashamed of me. Oh, Mikayla, I do like, I'm 0:10:19.559 --> 0:10:20.320 resolved with it now. 0:10:20.400 --> 0:10:23.280 Oh you got taken. I'm fine with it now. 0:10:24.360 --> 0:10:26.320 We were doing long distance and I think he hated 0:10:26.400 --> 0:10:28.240 the fact that we were doing long distance. 0:10:28.520 --> 0:10:29.280 Was it your choice? 0:10:29.720 --> 0:10:29.920 Yeah? 0:10:30.200 --> 0:10:31.960 Like, could have you been together? Were you inter state? 0:10:32.000 --> 0:10:32.520 What's the vibe? 0:10:32.559 --> 0:10:34.079 He didn't want to leave Melbourne nine did when I 0:10:34.120 --> 0:10:34.520 leave Sydney? 0:10:35.080 --> 0:10:36.640 Oh, so look, you're a punishment? 0:10:36.920 --> 0:10:37.520 Yeah? Yeah. 0:10:38.240 --> 0:10:38.440 Yeah. 0:10:38.520 --> 0:10:41.600 My current boyfriend Justin is his name Justin? 0:10:41.679 --> 0:10:41.839 Yeah? 0:10:41.880 --> 0:10:43.440 His name is taking hat Justin. 0:10:43.800 --> 0:10:44.000 Yeah. 0:10:44.040 --> 0:10:46.040 He always wearing his all taken hat, his photos of 0:10:46.160 --> 0:10:47.199 us in taken hats. 0:10:47.600 --> 0:10:53.200 Who please, may I justin I'm obsessed with love my god. 0:10:53.320 --> 0:10:54.959 Yeah, he post photos me all the time. But do 0:10:55.040 --> 0:10:56.680 I think it's a requirement for him to post photos 0:10:56.679 --> 0:10:56.839 of me? 0:10:57.240 --> 0:10:57.280 No? 0:10:57.720 --> 0:10:59.760 No, I will say, I don't want to be that 0:10:59.840 --> 0:11:02.160 girl because I don't post fodders of my boyfriend. We'll 0:11:02.200 --> 0:11:05.400 talk to me say it, but I think it kind 0:11:05.440 --> 0:11:06.640 of is a red flag if you don't want to 0:11:06.679 --> 0:11:07.079 post them. 0:11:07.280 --> 0:11:08.560 Oh, one hundred percent red flag. 0:11:09.600 --> 0:11:13.600 Like, unless you're an influencer, money depends on you being 0:11:13.640 --> 0:11:14.439 single and loving it. 0:11:14.920 --> 0:11:17.280 Look, I will say one thing that I am trying 0:11:17.360 --> 0:11:21.080 to learn is to measure someone's behavior relative to who 0:11:21.160 --> 0:11:24.480 they are, not who you are. So for me, when 0:11:24.600 --> 0:11:28.319 I didn't post someone I was dating a lot, I 0:11:28.800 --> 0:11:30.760 know that dating me, i'd feel some kind of way 0:11:30.760 --> 0:11:33.640 because you post everything, the most mundane things. 0:11:33.800 --> 0:11:34.800 Why aren't you posting me? 0:11:35.360 --> 0:11:38.280 In my defense, the Internet is crazy and I don't 0:11:38.280 --> 0:11:41.720 think people can truly comprehend having one hundred different people 0:11:41.840 --> 0:11:46.120 message you about yourself. And maybe it's not fair to 0:11:46.200 --> 0:11:48.800 decide for people what they can and can't handle. But 0:11:49.840 --> 0:11:52.880 when I did end up posting him what happened. We're 0:11:52.880 --> 0:11:59.160 going to beat this out, so I will say. 0:12:00.080 --> 0:12:01.079 It's not a requirement. 0:12:02.320 --> 0:12:05.760 However, I do think that if it's something that your 0:12:05.840 --> 0:12:09.280 partner really wants, make an effort. Yeah, because I feel 0:12:09.320 --> 0:12:11.240 like there's a disparity between someone who's like, I don't 0:12:11.240 --> 0:12:13.079 even care. That's why I don't post. It's exactly you 0:12:13.200 --> 0:12:16.720 don't care. This person cares a lot to meet them halfway. 0:12:17.520 --> 0:12:20.760 It's also such a shame that, like, relationships as a 0:12:20.800 --> 0:12:24.320 whole are so complex, and we're stuck on the minutia. 0:12:24.559 --> 0:12:26.880 Like we haven't even gotten into beautif we. 0:12:27.000 --> 0:12:29.760 Just want to it's because we can't talk about serious things, 0:12:29.920 --> 0:12:31.520 but we want to talk about relationships. 0:12:31.679 --> 0:12:33.959 No, but don't you think, like for every person who's like, 0:12:34.520 --> 0:12:36.480 my partner won't post me, I'm like, that's not even 0:12:36.480 --> 0:12:37.160 your biggest problem. 0:12:37.240 --> 0:12:37.320 BA. 0:12:37.679 --> 0:12:42.360 Yeah, there's probably you need gratification for, hence you need 0:12:42.400 --> 0:12:42.839 the photo for. 0:12:43.120 --> 0:12:46.320 Yeah, that's exactly what I'm saying, Like we're missing all 0:12:46.400 --> 0:12:49.679 this not posting the photo. They don't plan things. It's 0:12:49.720 --> 0:12:52.480 symptomatic of a big issue. We don't want to say it, 0:12:53.080 --> 0:12:55.480 oop see, but I think we got to start saying it. 0:12:56.920 --> 0:12:58.719 It's like, didn't through me read the book. He's just 0:12:58.760 --> 0:12:59.240 not that into you. 0:12:59.800 --> 0:13:00.000 Listen. 0:13:00.000 --> 0:13:02.679 I listened to the book for me. 0:13:02.880 --> 0:13:06.000 Listen to the book educated us and when I am listening, 0:13:07.160 --> 0:13:12.079 this is a better I have some great news. So 0:13:12.240 --> 0:13:14.440 what I mentioned that we're on track for immortality, people 0:13:14.480 --> 0:13:16.400 were not happy. So I don't know how this is 0:13:16.440 --> 0:13:22.880 going to land. But you can freeze yourself now in 0:13:23.040 --> 0:13:27.079 twenty twenty three in New South Wales in hopes of 0:13:27.520 --> 0:13:31.080 defrosting in a couple extra years. Be serious, maybe one 0:13:31.120 --> 0:13:32.719 hundred years later. I don't know what the timeline is, 0:13:33.160 --> 0:13:38.160 so you can hopefully live life one hundred years later 0:13:38.400 --> 0:13:41.200 as the age you are when you get frozen. How 0:13:41.280 --> 0:13:44.880 do we feel about it? I want to say overwhelmingly positive. 0:13:45.240 --> 0:13:46.079 But listen to this. 0:13:47.160 --> 0:13:50.080 Fifty people have signed up to be the very first 0:13:50.160 --> 0:13:53.520 Australians hoping to take a trip to the future. A 0:13:53.640 --> 0:13:56.400 facility in a rural New South Wales town is the 0:13:56.440 --> 0:14:00.280 first in the Southern Hemisphere to freeze humans in the 0:14:00.360 --> 0:14:03.319 hope that future technology will bring them back to life. 0:14:03.840 --> 0:14:08.000 It's now in operation, seven years after it received counsel approval. 0:14:08.440 --> 0:14:11.960 Why this doesn't excite you, No, because I don't want 0:14:12.000 --> 0:14:13.439 to live when my loved ones aren't there. 0:14:13.800 --> 0:14:16.360 You will make new loved ones. I promise you. 0:14:17.000 --> 0:14:19.480 Everybody you think you've loved in your lifetime, have you 0:14:19.560 --> 0:14:20.360 not loved deeper? 0:14:20.640 --> 0:14:21.680 I can't get my mummy. 0:14:22.240 --> 0:14:25.520 Oh, don't do that. I'm being serious, don't take a din. 0:14:25.920 --> 0:14:27.480 I mean, that's all I think about is my mama. 0:14:27.720 --> 0:14:30.560 Yeah, but like what would oh Shaather? 0:14:31.040 --> 0:14:34.520 It does concern me that the first ever is happening 0:14:34.960 --> 0:14:37.400 in New South Wales tech capital. 0:14:37.680 --> 0:14:38.720 But what I will say is. 0:14:38.760 --> 0:14:43.000 It's nice to know that advancements are being made in 0:14:43.160 --> 0:14:46.160 some capacity, because why, while we may not want to 0:14:46.240 --> 0:14:50.800 freeze ourself, it's good to know that we're thinking creatively 0:14:50.880 --> 0:14:53.960 and laterally about ways to prolong our lives. 0:14:54.440 --> 0:14:56.720 The good old eat well and exercise. Isn't it like 0:14:56.800 --> 0:14:58.960 you used to working? The two fruit five vesu or 0:14:58.960 --> 0:15:01.120 whatever they're talking about. It's not working. It's not getting 0:15:01.160 --> 0:15:04.120 like it used to. We need new solutions. 0:15:04.840 --> 0:15:06.840 But also I think the more we talk about these 0:15:07.920 --> 0:15:13.240 life extending futuristic practices, I feel like we start to 0:15:13.280 --> 0:15:17.680 have a very interesting and necessary conversation about mortality, Like 0:15:17.760 --> 0:15:20.560 what are we doing with life currently? I think when 0:15:20.560 --> 0:15:23.200 we're doing our day to day grind, rise and grind. 0:15:23.720 --> 0:15:27.200 We kind of forget that number one, not to be grim. 0:15:27.960 --> 0:15:30.600 It could end in a second. But even if it doesn't, 0:15:31.080 --> 0:15:34.560 I don't really think we're living like the movies say 0:15:34.600 --> 0:15:38.400 we should do it. It's not Project X Eat, Prey, Love, 0:15:38.520 --> 0:15:40.600 Mama Mia, go to Greece. 0:15:40.760 --> 0:15:43.600 Who's your dad? I don't know. And that's what life 0:15:43.720 --> 0:15:46.680 is about. And suddenly when you hear that they're doing 0:15:47.280 --> 0:15:49.000 what is it cRIO therapy? I don't know. 0:15:49.080 --> 0:15:50.960 When they're doing that in rural New South Wales, you 0:15:51.000 --> 0:15:53.560 start thinking, who'd want to do that? Who wouldn't want 0:15:53.600 --> 0:15:53.840 to do that? 0:15:54.320 --> 0:15:55.880 Do you have to die? No? 0:15:56.200 --> 0:16:00.760 Like you you freeom, you're hibernating, but you're alive when 0:16:00.800 --> 0:16:05.360 they freeze you, right because maybe like unconscious? Yeah wait yeah, 0:16:05.400 --> 0:16:07.840 because like is it when people die they're getting frozen? No, 0:16:08.360 --> 0:16:11.000 this is like because you know, like when you freeze 0:16:11.120 --> 0:16:12.840 something like I'm putting the bread in the freezer. 0:16:13.080 --> 0:16:16.120 I'm like prolonging the shelf, flizing the eggs, the bread. 0:16:16.920 --> 0:16:18.720 It means that you would have to sacrifice your life 0:16:18.880 --> 0:16:21.400 now because you have to be in full health for 0:16:21.440 --> 0:16:22.200 them to then resurrect. 0:16:22.240 --> 0:16:23.560 But people aren't really living anyway. 0:16:23.880 --> 0:16:25.720 Would you do it? I'm not gonna do it. I'm chilling. 0:16:25.800 --> 0:16:28.800 Well, I'm not going to do it, but I'm grateful 0:16:28.840 --> 0:16:31.640 to know that things are being done. I'm personally looking 0:16:31.640 --> 0:16:34.440 for the fountain of youth, to which that's why I 0:16:34.480 --> 0:16:35.200 love vamporism. 0:16:36.240 --> 0:16:38.080 Well, you look about ten years old, so you find not. 0:16:38.200 --> 0:16:40.320 Literally if I could get bitten today. You think I'm 0:16:40.320 --> 0:16:43.720 not doing that. I'm getting bitten. I'm taking ten years 0:16:43.760 --> 0:16:46.680 off instantly to go run around in the forest. Like 0:16:46.760 --> 0:16:50.680 you said, brawless, shoeless. It breeds in. 0:16:52.920 --> 0:16:56.480 And thoughts out, thoughts out. I'm cigarettes. 0:16:58.200 --> 0:17:00.360 What I would really love in this world, and I 0:17:00.440 --> 0:17:03.520 wonder if you feel the same. Everybody is to buy 0:17:03.840 --> 0:17:07.800 a Tesla. Say what you will about young Elon Musk. 0:17:08.040 --> 0:17:11.040 He really popped his bussy when he put the Tesla 0:17:11.119 --> 0:17:13.879 on Earth. I love the functions of it. And I 0:17:14.119 --> 0:17:16.240 was once in an uber that was a Tesla and 0:17:16.320 --> 0:17:18.520 it was one of the Big four drive ones Staateley. 0:17:19.119 --> 0:17:22.560 It felt like I was in this spaceship. Believe acoustics. 0:17:22.680 --> 0:17:24.160 My dad is in there. He was torn of the driver, 0:17:24.320 --> 0:17:26.520 being like, moh, where do you this one? Mate? Absolutely 0:17:26.680 --> 0:17:29.320 loving it. Sick, just like browing down all the way 0:17:29.320 --> 0:17:32.600 in this tesla. My friend has been dating this guy 0:17:32.720 --> 0:17:36.760 right who has a Tesla. Nice, I know, I said, 0:17:36.840 --> 0:17:40.840 go off, queen, does he have any mates? Okay, just joking, 0:17:41.720 --> 0:17:43.480 I said to her when they started dating, I'm like, 0:17:43.680 --> 0:17:45.840 can you tell him about the fart function? So when 0:17:45.880 --> 0:17:48.520 you own a Tesla, it comes with all these mods. 0:17:49.080 --> 0:17:51.200 So this guy, she told me, he's got a mod 0:17:51.280 --> 0:17:53.639 that makes everything Christmas theme. So when you put the 0:17:53.680 --> 0:17:56.880 blinker on, it's like jingle bell jingle. When you toot, 0:17:57.040 --> 0:18:00.520 it's like some Santa related And I said, oh my god, 0:18:00.680 --> 0:18:03.000 have you heard this? Friend of mine and I joke 0:18:03.040 --> 0:18:06.359