1 00:00:03,480 --> 00:00:07,080 Speaker 1: It's the Happy Families podcast. It's the podcast for the 2 00:00:07,160 --> 00:00:10,119 Speaker 1: time poor parent who just answers. 3 00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:16,440 Speaker 2: Now, the biggest impediment to being present is exhaustion, burnout, overwhelmed. 4 00:00:16,600 --> 00:00:18,520 Speaker 2: There's just so much to do, and my head is 5 00:00:18,560 --> 00:00:20,280 Speaker 2: in those fourteen other places. 6 00:00:20,560 --> 00:00:23,759 Speaker 1: And now here's the stars of our show, my mum 7 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:24,280 Speaker 1: and dad. 8 00:00:24,400 --> 00:00:27,720 Speaker 2: Hello, this is stopped Justin Coilson from Happy Families dot com 9 00:00:27,760 --> 00:00:29,880 Speaker 2: dot au and Channel. 10 00:00:29,680 --> 00:00:30,920 Speaker 3: Nine's Parental Guidance. 11 00:00:30,960 --> 00:00:33,279 Speaker 2: I'm here with Kylie mum to our six kids and 12 00:00:33,400 --> 00:00:34,720 Speaker 2: Kylie school holidays. 13 00:00:34,720 --> 00:00:37,120 Speaker 3: We're only a couple of weeks away. How fast has. 14 00:00:37,120 --> 00:00:40,600 Speaker 2: Termed two gone? We're nearly halfway through the year. It's unbelievable. 15 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:43,440 Speaker 4: It feels like it's gone really fast, and it feels 16 00:00:43,479 --> 00:00:46,160 Speaker 4: like it's been the longest six months of our life. 17 00:00:46,440 --> 00:00:49,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, the days are slow, but it's still times it 18 00:00:49,800 --> 00:00:53,480 Speaker 2: flies by. We're excited to share something with you though, 19 00:00:53,520 --> 00:00:56,680 Speaker 2: for today's podcast, about how we can make the most 20 00:00:56,760 --> 00:00:59,840 Speaker 2: of most moments. Every now and again, we get so 21 00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:02,200 Speaker 2: caught up in the thick of thin things that the 22 00:01:02,240 --> 00:01:04,360 Speaker 2: things that matter most end up being at the mercy 23 00:01:04,480 --> 00:01:07,280 Speaker 2: of the things that matter least. And so we thought 24 00:01:07,319 --> 00:01:09,000 Speaker 2: that today we'd help you to keep the main thing 25 00:01:09,040 --> 00:01:12,520 Speaker 2: the main thing, because that's the main thing, by talking 26 00:01:12,520 --> 00:01:15,480 Speaker 2: about how we can be present, how it can be 27 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:19,560 Speaker 2: in the moment, and to do so. I want to 28 00:01:19,560 --> 00:01:22,360 Speaker 2: start off with this quote that I found from Leo Tolstoy. 29 00:01:22,480 --> 00:01:25,560 Speaker 2: It's a quote that really emphasizes what we're trying to 30 00:01:25,560 --> 00:01:28,440 Speaker 2: do if we want to make the most of our moments. 31 00:01:28,840 --> 00:01:33,320 Speaker 2: Tolstoy said, remember, then, there is only one time that 32 00:01:33,440 --> 00:01:38,600 Speaker 2: is important now. It is the most important time because 33 00:01:38,720 --> 00:01:43,360 Speaker 2: it is the only time when we have any power. 34 00:01:43,959 --> 00:01:47,520 Speaker 4: That is probably one of the most profound things I've 35 00:01:47,560 --> 00:01:51,960 Speaker 4: heard in quite some time, because we spend most of 36 00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:55,960 Speaker 4: our time either regretting what we didn't do or what 37 00:01:56,000 --> 00:01:56,800 Speaker 4: we have just. 38 00:01:56,720 --> 00:01:59,520 Speaker 2: Done yeah, think about the past, yeah, or we're. 39 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:02,200 Speaker 4: Worried about what needs to happen in the future. Right 40 00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:05,040 Speaker 4: in any given moment, I will be sitting at the 41 00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:08,360 Speaker 4: table and I'm eating breakfast, but I'm actually thinking about 42 00:02:08,440 --> 00:02:10,520 Speaker 4: the big to do list I have for the day. Sure, 43 00:02:10,639 --> 00:02:12,360 Speaker 4: or I'm driving the kids to school, but I'm not 44 00:02:12,360 --> 00:02:14,480 Speaker 4: actually with them in that moment, because I know that 45 00:02:14,520 --> 00:02:18,119 Speaker 4: in order to maximize the hours I have without them, 46 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:20,200 Speaker 4: I need to do X Y and Z before I 47 00:02:20,200 --> 00:02:20,880 Speaker 4: pick them up again. 48 00:02:21,000 --> 00:02:23,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll be in the car. Well, actually, do you 49 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:26,440 Speaker 2: know sometimes it's this bad. I can't believe I'm confessing 50 00:02:26,480 --> 00:02:29,120 Speaker 2: to this, But sometimes I've got the option of going 51 00:02:29,160 --> 00:02:31,480 Speaker 2: and doing something with either you or the kids, Like 52 00:02:31,480 --> 00:02:32,959 Speaker 2: I've got to go and run an errand and I'd 53 00:02:32,960 --> 00:02:34,720 Speaker 2: be like, Hey, does anyone want to come with me? 54 00:02:35,200 --> 00:02:37,959 Speaker 2: But then before I ask the question, I think no, 55 00:02:38,320 --> 00:02:40,639 Speaker 2: because if I don't take anyone with me, I get 56 00:02:40,720 --> 00:02:42,720 Speaker 2: to listen to a podcast. It's in the car and 57 00:02:42,720 --> 00:02:45,480 Speaker 2: listen to a podcast. And so there's all this, and 58 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:48,680 Speaker 2: what a what a waste? Like, what a what a 59 00:02:48,720 --> 00:02:51,360 Speaker 2: wasted opportunity to be in the moment and make a 60 00:02:51,360 --> 00:02:54,799 Speaker 2: connection with somebody. So Tolstoy's quote, the moment that matters 61 00:02:54,840 --> 00:02:55,120 Speaker 2: is now. 62 00:02:55,200 --> 00:02:55,320 Speaker 3: Now. 63 00:02:55,639 --> 00:02:57,960 Speaker 2: Obviously, we can focus on the future, and we can 64 00:02:57,960 --> 00:03:00,760 Speaker 2: plan for the future and help the future to be better, 65 00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:03,080 Speaker 2: and we can consider the past and learn from it 66 00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:05,360 Speaker 2: and make the present and the future better as a result. 67 00:03:05,400 --> 00:03:08,000 Speaker 3: But the general idea here is, if you. 68 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:11,959 Speaker 2: Want to make the most of most moments, be where 69 00:03:12,440 --> 00:03:15,720 Speaker 2: your feet are, make sure your head is in the 70 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:17,680 Speaker 2: same place as your feed. Make sure your head is 71 00:03:17,720 --> 00:03:20,720 Speaker 2: not three chores down the list, are halfway across the 72 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:22,840 Speaker 2: city or the suburb in which you live, because you 73 00:03:22,880 --> 00:03:25,320 Speaker 2: know you have to go there soon. Just be here, 74 00:03:26,200 --> 00:03:29,440 Speaker 2: Just be now. That seems to be what I think 75 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:31,440 Speaker 2: might be the most universal and helpful way that we 76 00:03:31,480 --> 00:03:34,519 Speaker 2: can make the most of every moment. 77 00:03:35,200 --> 00:03:39,520 Speaker 4: Well, I love that, And I think the second thing 78 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:43,280 Speaker 4: that I would suggest is sometimes we just need to 79 00:03:43,360 --> 00:03:46,200 Speaker 4: let go of the agenda. We get really caught up 80 00:03:46,360 --> 00:03:51,120 Speaker 4: in what we should be doing, when at times it 81 00:03:51,160 --> 00:03:54,520 Speaker 4: may actually just be of benefit to everyone to just 82 00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:55,360 Speaker 4: slow things down. 83 00:03:56,200 --> 00:03:57,840 Speaker 2: So the other night, it's a. 84 00:03:57,840 --> 00:03:58,400 Speaker 3: Really hard thing. 85 00:03:58,440 --> 00:04:00,120 Speaker 2: By the way, before you go on with that, let 86 00:04:00,200 --> 00:04:02,920 Speaker 2: go of the agenda. I'm a very agenda driven person. 87 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:06,200 Speaker 2: I love how you're laughing at me for saying that 88 00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:08,360 Speaker 2: there's stuff to do and we've got to stay on track. 89 00:04:09,160 --> 00:04:12,360 Speaker 2: I'm totally fine with flexibility, and I'm not hard caught. 90 00:04:12,800 --> 00:04:15,080 Speaker 2: It's seven oh two and we should have moved from 91 00:04:15,280 --> 00:04:15,920 Speaker 2: the third thing. 92 00:04:15,840 --> 00:04:17,080 Speaker 3: This morning to the fourth thing this morning. 93 00:04:17,680 --> 00:04:20,200 Speaker 2: Not hardcore like that, But there is an agenda, and 94 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:23,800 Speaker 2: we need to keep things moving forward momentum. Let's not 95 00:04:23,880 --> 00:04:25,960 Speaker 2: be late, let's not ruin everyone else's day. We need 96 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:28,720 Speaker 2: to be considered of other people's needs. Let's make this 97 00:04:28,760 --> 00:04:32,599 Speaker 2: stuff happen. You're not quite as what you're saying here 98 00:04:32,640 --> 00:04:34,760 Speaker 2: is maybe the agenda doesn't need to be adhered to 99 00:04:34,880 --> 00:04:35,760 Speaker 2: quite so rigidly. 100 00:04:36,400 --> 00:04:37,159 Speaker 3: Sometimes. 101 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:41,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm not suggesting all the time, but if bedtime 102 00:04:41,400 --> 00:04:44,000 Speaker 4: is seven o'clock and at six point fifty, you can 103 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:45,679 Speaker 4: see that the kids are all sitting at the dining 104 00:04:45,680 --> 00:04:49,440 Speaker 4: table with you, and you're playing monopoly or. 105 00:04:49,320 --> 00:04:51,920 Speaker 2: Whatever whatever, g having a great conversation. 106 00:04:51,640 --> 00:04:54,400 Speaker 4: Or you might be having a conversation, or it hasn't. 107 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:55,120 Speaker 3: Come out of the freezer yet. 108 00:04:55,240 --> 00:04:59,080 Speaker 4: It's just you. You can feel there's this beautiful bond happening. 109 00:04:59,640 --> 00:05:03,960 Speaker 4: Then why would you stop that just because the routine 110 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:06,400 Speaker 4: says that at seven o'clock everything's got to be done 111 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:08,520 Speaker 4: and dusted and we're supposed to be in abajamas in bed. 112 00:05:08,320 --> 00:05:09,839 Speaker 2: Because you know that the kids are going to be 113 00:05:09,960 --> 00:05:11,359 Speaker 2: terrible tomorrow if you don't do it. 114 00:05:11,400 --> 00:05:14,120 Speaker 4: Something suggesting you have to do two hours of it, 115 00:05:14,480 --> 00:05:17,160 Speaker 4: but just letting it just kind of, you know, end 116 00:05:17,400 --> 00:05:20,080 Speaker 4: naturally is so much nicer. The kids hate it when 117 00:05:20,080 --> 00:05:21,640 Speaker 4: you wake them up in the morning, and it's just 118 00:05:21,720 --> 00:05:25,240 Speaker 4: that instant abrup turn the lights on, everything's done. Those 119 00:05:25,279 --> 00:05:28,640 Speaker 4: transitions matter, And so for me when I see that, 120 00:05:28,800 --> 00:05:32,280 Speaker 4: you know we're having this beautiful moment, I just want 121 00:05:32,320 --> 00:05:33,960 Speaker 4: to I want to live in that moment for just 122 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:36,360 Speaker 4: a little bit longer, because they don't last long enough 123 00:05:37,320 --> 00:05:38,279 Speaker 4: a lot of the time. 124 00:05:38,120 --> 00:05:39,719 Speaker 2: Which kind of goes back to that first point that 125 00:05:39,760 --> 00:05:41,000 Speaker 2: I made again, and that is you've got to be 126 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:45,040 Speaker 2: sufficiently aware and have the willingness to be flexible on it. 127 00:05:45,320 --> 00:05:48,600 Speaker 2: But awareness and being present. Awareness and being present is 128 00:05:48,640 --> 00:05:51,240 Speaker 2: how you really make the most of the moment. You're 129 00:05:51,279 --> 00:05:54,359 Speaker 2: not being reactive, you're not chasing the agenda, you're not 130 00:05:54,400 --> 00:05:56,400 Speaker 2: doing this stuff that just has to be done. You're 131 00:05:56,440 --> 00:05:59,719 Speaker 2: actually saying, I'm committed to hear, I'm committed to now, 132 00:06:00,160 --> 00:06:03,600 Speaker 2: I'm present, I'm taking it in, I'm focused and intentional. 133 00:06:04,360 --> 00:06:06,240 Speaker 2: When you do that, you're going to make more of 134 00:06:06,279 --> 00:06:07,600 Speaker 2: the moment than you would otherwise. 135 00:06:07,760 --> 00:06:09,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, And I think just a flow on for that 136 00:06:10,279 --> 00:06:14,359 Speaker 4: is being open to spontaneity. It's one thing that we 137 00:06:14,680 --> 00:06:18,440 Speaker 4: have at times been brilliant at and other times we've 138 00:06:18,480 --> 00:06:21,360 Speaker 4: been very very agenda focused. But you wake up on 139 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:25,120 Speaker 4: Saturday morning, the sun is just beaming, and you know 140 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:26,640 Speaker 4: that a day down at the beach is going to 141 00:06:26,640 --> 00:06:29,039 Speaker 4: be amazing. But you've got house cleaning planned, and you've 142 00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:30,920 Speaker 4: got other things that you need to take care of. 143 00:06:31,360 --> 00:06:32,320 Speaker 4: What are you going to choose? 144 00:06:32,480 --> 00:06:33,559 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm choosing the beach. 145 00:06:34,200 --> 00:06:36,279 Speaker 2: But a few years ago I probably wouldn't have Maybe 146 00:06:36,360 --> 00:06:38,760 Speaker 2: ten or fifteen years ago, I would have said, no, no, no, 147 00:06:38,880 --> 00:06:42,039 Speaker 2: we can have fun once we've done the important things, 148 00:06:42,080 --> 00:06:44,359 Speaker 2: because it's so important that the car gets washed, or 149 00:06:44,360 --> 00:06:47,400 Speaker 2: that the lawns get mowed or the washing gets done. 150 00:06:47,680 --> 00:06:49,719 Speaker 2: And of course, over time we start to realize that 151 00:06:49,720 --> 00:06:54,880 Speaker 2: the important stuff is not necessarily the important stuff. After 152 00:06:54,920 --> 00:06:56,880 Speaker 2: the break, we're going to talk about Kylie's favorite way 153 00:06:57,000 --> 00:07:00,120 Speaker 2: to be more present, to be more aware, to let 154 00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:01,719 Speaker 2: go of the agenda and be in the moment, to 155 00:07:01,760 --> 00:07:03,440 Speaker 2: make the most of the moment. In just a set, 156 00:07:08,120 --> 00:07:10,480 Speaker 2: just when you think you've got this parenting gignailed, your 157 00:07:10,560 --> 00:07:13,840 Speaker 2: child hits some new milestone that leaves you figuratively banging 158 00:07:13,880 --> 00:07:17,400 Speaker 2: your head against the wall. You wonder, where's the instruction manual? 159 00:07:17,920 --> 00:07:21,440 Speaker 2: Your growth guide? Is that instruction manual a webinar outlining 160 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:24,640 Speaker 2: basic milestones so you know where your child's at, where 161 00:07:24,640 --> 00:07:28,720 Speaker 2: they're going, and what you can expect get insights, reassurance 162 00:07:28,800 --> 00:07:32,280 Speaker 2: and support from your growth guide, available online at happy 163 00:07:32,320 --> 00:07:33,559 Speaker 2: families dot com dot au. 164 00:07:34,480 --> 00:07:36,760 Speaker 4: It's the Happy Families podcast, the podcast for the time 165 00:07:36,760 --> 00:07:39,840 Speaker 4: poor parent who just wants answers Now. You know, as 166 00:07:39,840 --> 00:07:42,080 Speaker 4: a parent can be really hard to take in all 167 00:07:42,120 --> 00:07:44,480 Speaker 4: of the moments and to really be where your feet are. 168 00:07:44,600 --> 00:07:45,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's exhausting. 169 00:07:45,760 --> 00:07:47,680 Speaker 2: In fact, I reckon this is not something that we 170 00:07:47,720 --> 00:07:50,840 Speaker 2: had written down before, but just as I think about it, 171 00:07:50,880 --> 00:07:56,720 Speaker 2: the biggest impediment to being present is exhaustion, burnout, overwhelm. 172 00:07:56,800 --> 00:07:58,760 Speaker 2: There's just so much to do and my head is 173 00:07:58,760 --> 00:08:03,240 Speaker 2: in those fourteen other places. Another one is social media screens. 174 00:08:03,480 --> 00:08:06,600 Speaker 2: That's a massive impediment to actually really enjoying the moment. 175 00:08:06,680 --> 00:08:08,520 Speaker 2: It takes you away from the moment, takes you into 176 00:08:08,520 --> 00:08:10,560 Speaker 2: this screen and you don't even notice what's going on, 177 00:08:10,760 --> 00:08:13,120 Speaker 2: which goes back to the awareness thing. But you've got 178 00:08:13,160 --> 00:08:16,320 Speaker 2: one thing that you mentioned to me before we started 179 00:08:16,360 --> 00:08:18,760 Speaker 2: to record this podcast, and I thought that that's what 180 00:08:18,800 --> 00:08:21,280 Speaker 2: we've got to finish on. That's the thing that helps 181 00:08:21,280 --> 00:08:25,360 Speaker 2: you to bring it all together. What's your favorite idea 182 00:08:25,400 --> 00:08:26,640 Speaker 2: when it comes to being in the moment. 183 00:08:28,160 --> 00:08:32,560 Speaker 4: For me, the number one thing that just brings everything 184 00:08:32,640 --> 00:08:36,600 Speaker 4: back full circle, especially when I'm feeling overwhelmed by everything, 185 00:08:37,120 --> 00:08:40,520 Speaker 4: is just gratitude. Taking opportunities sit around the table with 186 00:08:40,559 --> 00:08:44,040 Speaker 4: everybody at the end of the day and share and 187 00:08:44,120 --> 00:08:47,439 Speaker 4: express the things that we're grateful for, because so often 188 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:51,000 Speaker 4: you miss the moments and it's through each other's perspectives 189 00:08:51,000 --> 00:08:53,319 Speaker 4: that you gain you gain them back. 190 00:08:53,559 --> 00:08:54,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, I love that you've said that. 191 00:08:54,880 --> 00:08:57,200 Speaker 2: I think about those times where we're sitting at the 192 00:08:57,200 --> 00:08:59,120 Speaker 2: table and we say, so, what was good in your 193 00:08:59,200 --> 00:09:00,959 Speaker 2: day or what were you great and one of the 194 00:09:01,040 --> 00:09:03,640 Speaker 2: kids and it doesn't happen all the time, like please don't. 195 00:09:03,440 --> 00:09:06,000 Speaker 3: Think our kids are deep or insightful or always. 196 00:09:05,640 --> 00:09:08,960 Speaker 2: Finding the magic moment in the day, But every so 197 00:09:09,040 --> 00:09:11,760 Speaker 2: often one of them will say, I really appreciate it today. 198 00:09:11,840 --> 00:09:14,160 Speaker 2: And then they'll say this thing, and you'll be like, 199 00:09:14,440 --> 00:09:17,880 Speaker 2: I was there and I totally missed that, or I 200 00:09:17,960 --> 00:09:20,160 Speaker 2: was there and I failed to appreciate it. I saw 201 00:09:20,200 --> 00:09:25,320 Speaker 2: it happen, I registered, but I didn't consider the magnitude, 202 00:09:25,360 --> 00:09:28,719 Speaker 2: the meaning, the purpose, the value in that moment. And 203 00:09:29,000 --> 00:09:31,839 Speaker 2: then you hear that child recite to you how that 204 00:09:32,040 --> 00:09:34,280 Speaker 2: was the best part of their day, and you kind 205 00:09:34,280 --> 00:09:37,320 Speaker 2: of go, Oh, I need to be in the moment more. 206 00:09:37,440 --> 00:09:39,720 Speaker 2: I've got to pay attention to this stuff because this 207 00:09:39,960 --> 00:09:41,160 Speaker 2: is where life happens. 208 00:09:41,520 --> 00:09:42,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, I love it. 209 00:09:42,600 --> 00:09:44,160 Speaker 2: Look, there's probably a handful of other things that we 210 00:09:44,200 --> 00:09:45,760 Speaker 2: could talk about in terms of being in the moment. 211 00:09:45,800 --> 00:09:48,320 Speaker 2: We could talk about mindfulness, we can talk about granting techniques, 212 00:09:48,320 --> 00:09:49,079 Speaker 2: we can talk about all. 213 00:09:49,080 --> 00:09:50,920 Speaker 3: That sort of stuff. We can talk about self. 214 00:09:50,679 --> 00:09:54,360 Speaker 2: Care and looking after yourself so that you're well enough emotionally, psychologically, 215 00:09:54,400 --> 00:09:57,360 Speaker 2: or physically to be in the moment. But most people 216 00:09:57,400 --> 00:09:59,800 Speaker 2: know that, and even just that quick mention of it 217 00:09:59,840 --> 00:10:01,960 Speaker 2: is probably enough to give you the memory job. But 218 00:10:02,000 --> 00:10:04,440 Speaker 2: today we want to encourage you to just be present, 219 00:10:04,720 --> 00:10:07,120 Speaker 2: be aware, be in the moment, Focus on here and 220 00:10:07,160 --> 00:10:08,760 Speaker 2: now because here and now is what you've got. Be 221 00:10:08,840 --> 00:10:10,880 Speaker 2: where your feet are, Let go of the agenda, especially 222 00:10:10,880 --> 00:10:12,800 Speaker 2: when things are going well so long as it's not going. 223 00:10:12,720 --> 00:10:14,240 Speaker 3: To totally derail your. 224 00:10:14,240 --> 00:10:19,520 Speaker 2: Day, and focus on gratitude because gratitude forces you to 225 00:10:19,800 --> 00:10:24,240 Speaker 2: be present. It forces you to pay attention and recognize 226 00:10:24,400 --> 00:10:26,320 Speaker 2: what's going on in your life. We hope that this 227 00:10:26,360 --> 00:10:30,160 Speaker 2: is a helpful handful of hints to help you to 228 00:10:30,200 --> 00:10:32,800 Speaker 2: be more present in your day to day with your kids. 229 00:10:32,840 --> 00:10:35,920 Speaker 2: The Happy Family's podcast is produced by Justin Rulan from 230 00:10:35,960 --> 00:10:39,440 Speaker 2: Bridge Media. 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