WEBVTT - Ask Uncut - Are You the Interruptee or the Interrupter? 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:03.360 Life on Cut acknowledges the traditional custodians of country whose 0:00:03.440 --> 0:00:04.640 lands were never seated. 0:00:05.000 --> 0:00:07.560 We pay our respects to their elders past and present. 0:00:07.560 --> 0:00:11.360 Always was, always will be Aboriginal Land. This episode was 0:00:11.360 --> 0:00:12.560 recorded on gaddigal Land. 0:00:22.400 --> 0:00:24.520 Hi, guys, and welcome back to another episode of Life 0:00:24.520 --> 0:00:25.680 on Cut. I'm Laura and. 0:00:25.640 --> 0:00:27.880 I am produced Akisha filling in for brit while she's 0:00:27.920 --> 0:00:31.480 eating really gross things at inappropriate dinner times. 0:00:31.640 --> 0:00:34.519 It's very unfortunate that they put on the what do 0:00:34.560 --> 0:00:38.159 they call it, the Trials Tucker Time Tuesdays or something, 0:00:38.560 --> 0:00:40.680 that they put it on it like such an inappropriate 0:00:40.720 --> 0:00:41.159 time of night. 0:00:41.360 --> 0:00:43.080 Laura, this is what happened to me last night. 0:00:43.159 --> 0:00:45.840 My boyfriend and I sat down on the couch We've 0:00:45.880 --> 0:00:50.120 cooked sorry Mexican food, and I was like, oh, you know, 0:00:50.120 --> 0:00:52.120 we've got to put brit on because I'm slibs on 0:00:52.159 --> 0:00:52.760 it this time. 0:00:53.440 --> 0:00:54.360 I need to see her. 0:00:55.000 --> 0:00:59.120 I saw her attempt to eat a pigs nipple, amongst 0:00:59.200 --> 0:01:02.600 other things, which she failed. She vomited, poor thing, and 0:01:02.640 --> 0:01:05.240 he turned to me. It was like I'd committed a crime, 0:01:05.280 --> 0:01:07.480 and he was like, do we have to watch this 0:01:07.600 --> 0:01:07.960 right now? 0:01:08.000 --> 0:01:09.279 I'm trying to eat my dinner. 0:01:09.560 --> 0:01:12.040 I understand that because last week when we I can't 0:01:12.080 --> 0:01:13.399 remember who it was it was. I think it was 0:01:13.400 --> 0:01:16.399 Michelle Bridges and she was eating a penis. 0:01:19.959 --> 0:01:21.240 Tristan testicle. 0:01:21.319 --> 0:01:24.360 Last night, Bridges ate a penis and Tristan ate a 0:01:24.360 --> 0:01:28.200 testical like a champion. Put it down. We've all been there, 0:01:29.000 --> 0:01:32.319 we've all done it. What a good guy taking one 0:01:32.360 --> 0:01:33.960 for the team, I do think. 0:01:34.000 --> 0:01:35.880 So. I didn't get to watch last night's episode. But 0:01:35.959 --> 0:01:39.080 also it is safe Khan went home, which is very disappointing. 0:01:39.160 --> 0:01:42.160 Kann firstly is an angel and secondly, he's a very 0:01:42.160 --> 0:01:44.640 good cook. So that's a disappointing person to lose in 0:01:44.680 --> 0:01:48.280 the camp. But if you had to eat a pig nipple, 0:01:49.040 --> 0:01:51.520 surely that's just kind of like bacon rind but with 0:01:51.600 --> 0:01:53.480 a little bit of extra chewy bit Like I think 0:01:53.520 --> 0:01:55.040 I would be okay with that. I think I could 0:01:55.040 --> 0:01:55.800 eat a pig nipple. 0:01:55.920 --> 0:01:57.560 That's what Sky said at the time. 0:01:57.760 --> 0:01:59.720 But then I thought about it and I was like, oh, 0:01:59.720 --> 0:02:01.080 I want wonder if it was one of those like 0:02:01.520 --> 0:02:03.440 hairy nipples are. 0:02:03.360 --> 0:02:05.640 Really and they're big and they're thick, like think of 0:02:05.680 --> 0:02:06.400 like a cow utter. 0:02:06.520 --> 0:02:08.200 Then think of like a pig nipple. They're not like 0:02:08.200 --> 0:02:09.520 a cat nipple. For example. 0:02:09.760 --> 0:02:11.639 I think it's the hair on the nipple that would 0:02:11.680 --> 0:02:13.640 get me, like pick it off first, or do you 0:02:13.680 --> 0:02:15.280 have to eat every single thing? Yeah? 0:02:15.320 --> 0:02:16.840 Actually just felt a bit sick thinking about it. 0:02:16.840 --> 0:02:17.680 Can they wash it down? 0:02:18.680 --> 0:02:20.480 I did see Britt take a drink of water, but 0:02:20.480 --> 0:02:22.120 I think there's like a time period they're not allowed 0:02:22.120 --> 0:02:22.880 to do it immediately. 0:02:23.600 --> 0:02:25.080 I feel sick. I'm so sorry. 0:02:25.080 --> 0:02:26.720 If you're listening to this, which you are if it's 0:02:26.720 --> 0:02:29.320 on right now, I feel sick, which means you probably 0:02:29.320 --> 0:02:34.120 feel sick anyway, speaking of cat nipples, I just. 0:02:34.440 --> 0:02:37.000 Really quickly wanted to say that we're recording this on Wednesday, 0:02:37.040 --> 0:02:40.080 which means that there has been an episode tonight before 0:02:40.120 --> 0:02:43.560 this episode comes out, so like really fingers crossed. This 0:02:43.680 --> 0:02:46.760 is not the episode where brit gets eliminated. So please 0:02:46.800 --> 0:02:48.360 keep voting, Please keep voting to keep her in there, 0:02:48.400 --> 0:02:50.480 because we're like down to one of the last final days. 0:02:50.560 --> 0:02:52.840 I know it's actually it's all going so quickly now, 0:02:52.880 --> 0:02:55.680 so every day someone's going home the whole You can 0:02:55.800 --> 0:02:56.680 vote ten times a day. 0:02:56.760 --> 0:02:58.400 Make sure you're doing it. It's on tenplay. 0:02:58.680 --> 0:03:01.080 But yeah, if there is a situation where tonight is 0:03:01.080 --> 0:03:03.639 the night Briack goes home. That's awkward for everyone listening today, 0:03:04.160 --> 0:03:06.480 because you know, this would be a very different conversation 0:03:06.560 --> 0:03:08.359 had we known now. But we don't get We don't 0:03:08.360 --> 0:03:12.000 get told anything. But speaking of cat nipples, back to 0:03:12.080 --> 0:03:15.960 the cat nipples. Finally I am back into my lady 0:03:15.960 --> 0:03:18.640 in a cat era. We have Raspberry. Raspberry has been 0:03:18.639 --> 0:03:21.200 brought home. She is so cute. 0:03:21.560 --> 0:03:23.040 Buster is so fucking off it. 0:03:23.240 --> 0:03:25.920 Matt is also pretty off it, to be honest, But 0:03:26.000 --> 0:03:28.600 everyone's gonna come around. We're gonna be one big, happy, 0:03:28.680 --> 0:03:31.840 hairy family with lots of nipples. There's so many nipples 0:03:31.880 --> 0:03:34.640 in our household now, there is there? Just is do 0:03:34.680 --> 0:03:36.400 the maths, dog nipples, cat nipples. 0:03:36.440 --> 0:03:39.960 There's more functional nipples than what there are unfunctional nipples, now, 0:03:40.240 --> 0:03:43.280 is there? Well, Matt's nipples don't work, and Busters certainly don't. 0:03:43.320 --> 0:03:45.760 It's true, that's true. Yeah, how I really are a 0:03:45.800 --> 0:03:46.640 female household? 0:03:47.200 --> 0:03:49.240 For anyone who doesn't know the backstory to this, Laura 0:03:49.280 --> 0:03:52.520 adopted a kitten named Raspberry a couple of weeks ago, 0:03:52.560 --> 0:03:54.600 but she was so little that she had to wait 0:03:54.600 --> 0:03:57.240 a little while to pick her up and bring her home. 0:03:57.320 --> 0:03:59.880 Yeah, so she's already ten weeks, but she's still under 0:04:00.280 --> 0:04:02.360 like she's tiny, tiny, she was the little runt of 0:04:02.400 --> 0:04:04.600 the litter and we had to bring her home. The 0:04:04.600 --> 0:04:07.120 girls are obsessed with her and introduce her to our 0:04:07.280 --> 0:04:09.880 very big dog who weighs as of today. We took 0:04:09.920 --> 0:04:12.760 him to the vet. He's thirty nine kilos, so he's massive. 0:04:13.080 --> 0:04:15.520 And he's one leg less and he's not seeing a leg. 0:04:15.600 --> 0:04:17.440 If he had all four legs, he'd be like forty 0:04:17.440 --> 0:04:21.440 five kilos. Like, the dog is huge. He is petrified 0:04:21.480 --> 0:04:24.400 of her, Like he sat on his bed like the 0:04:24.440 --> 0:04:27.080 biggest fanny and he wouldn't even look at her. He 0:04:27.160 --> 0:04:29.680 just made these little side eyes and just shook and 0:04:29.720 --> 0:04:32.719 he was shaking in his bed. And she is tiny, 0:04:32.839 --> 0:04:35.560 less than a kilo, and she's hissing at him, and 0:04:35.640 --> 0:04:40.840 he is whipped whipped. He's so frightened. But it's gonna 0:04:40.839 --> 0:04:42.520 be a big transition for him, Like I think for 0:04:42.520 --> 0:04:45.880 anyone who has animals and then they've had children, it's 0:04:45.960 --> 0:04:48.480 such a big transition, going from them being the child 0:04:48.560 --> 0:04:50.920 of the family to then going down the pecking order, 0:04:51.400 --> 0:04:54.040 and then you have kids and then the animals kind 0:04:54.040 --> 0:04:55.960 of go down that and then you bring home a cat. Now, 0:04:56.000 --> 0:04:59.080 my poor dog's like, what's left for me? How did 0:04:59.080 --> 0:05:02.200 it best to respond when you had Marley the same thing? 0:05:02.400 --> 0:05:07.560 Somebody's better shook. He'll get over it, He'll be fine. 0:05:07.680 --> 0:05:10.680 He's so they are so loved, they are so well 0:05:10.720 --> 0:05:12.800 taken care of. But it's it's funny to me because 0:05:12.800 --> 0:05:14.000 I think people always say you have to be a 0:05:14.040 --> 0:05:15.960 cat person or you're a dog person, and I'm like, 0:05:16.360 --> 0:05:18.960 I'm a specific animal person. I don't like all cats, 0:05:19.000 --> 0:05:21.039 and I don't like all dogs, but the ones I like, 0:05:21.080 --> 0:05:23.120 I love, you know, So I'm picky where I put 0:05:23.160 --> 0:05:26.479 my energy into. And Matt he has always said he 0:05:26.520 --> 0:05:29.240 doesn't like cats, but now he owns a cat, and 0:05:29.279 --> 0:05:31.200 he has been for someone who doesn't like cats. 0:05:31.560 --> 0:05:33.400 He has been very, very, very. 0:05:34.800 --> 0:05:38.200 Cuddly and proactively snugly with this kitten that he doesn't like. 0:05:38.320 --> 0:05:40.479 There is no one who will love a family dog 0:05:40.560 --> 0:05:42.279 more than the dad who said he didn't want to 0:05:42.279 --> 0:05:42.719 get a dog. 0:05:42.800 --> 0:05:45.280 Yeah, it's one hundred percent. They're like no, no, no, 0:05:45.279 --> 0:05:45.600 no no. 0:05:45.960 --> 0:05:48.280 The rest of the family convinces them that they're getting one, 0:05:48.400 --> 0:05:49.560 and then the dad is like. 0:05:49.600 --> 0:05:53.440 The dog's best friend. It's exactly how it's happening in 0:05:53.440 --> 0:05:53.960 our household. 0:05:54.000 --> 0:05:56.640 The only thing though, which I had forgotten about, which 0:05:56.760 --> 0:05:58.760 it's the only negative of owning a cat. Actually, there's 0:05:58.760 --> 0:06:00.719 probably two negatives. One is that you can't trust them. 0:06:00.960 --> 0:06:02.520 You think you're just having a nice pattern. Then they'll 0:06:02.520 --> 0:06:04.920 turn around, they'll fuck you. That's that's a cat mentality. 0:06:05.240 --> 0:06:08.320 The number two is kitty litter, Like I cannot get 0:06:08.360 --> 0:06:10.160 on board with it. I don't if you are a 0:06:10.200 --> 0:06:12.520 cat owner and you figured out some sort of like 0:06:13.040 --> 0:06:15.880 a great way of disguising the kitty litter tray or 0:06:15.880 --> 0:06:17.960 putting it somewhere or doing something with it, like it's 0:06:18.120 --> 0:06:21.159 just it's so obscene having a big tray of cat 0:06:21.200 --> 0:06:22.600 shit in your bathroom. 0:06:22.279 --> 0:06:26.200 And it's so so smelly, and something I think is 0:06:26.480 --> 0:06:28.360 sorry to all the cat owners, but I need to 0:06:28.400 --> 0:06:31.640 tell you this because your friends might not. You get 0:06:31.720 --> 0:06:34.120 used to the smell and you get a little desensitized 0:06:34.160 --> 0:06:34.440 to it. 0:06:34.920 --> 0:06:35.960 Other people don't. 0:06:36.240 --> 0:06:40.160 I've walked into my friend's houses before and felt physically uncomfortable, 0:06:40.200 --> 0:06:42.760 like you've got punched in the face. But cat your rear, 0:06:44.520 --> 0:06:47.000 it's so strong, and you can tell me that you've 0:06:47.000 --> 0:06:49.480 got the whole leg, so you can put these things 0:06:49.480 --> 0:06:52.320 on top of them that are like circular and spin 0:06:52.480 --> 0:06:52.919 or something like. 0:06:53.040 --> 0:06:54.960 You know, they've got all these castles to try and 0:06:55.000 --> 0:06:57.520 get rid of the smell. It's still there, whether you 0:06:57.560 --> 0:06:59.600 can still smell it or not. It's like your own 0:06:59.640 --> 0:07:02.080 bo you get slightly used to it or you start 0:07:02.120 --> 0:07:02.640 to like it. 0:07:06.000 --> 0:07:07.559 I'm going to keep you accountable, Okay. 0:07:07.560 --> 0:07:09.360 If I come to your house and it starts to smell, 0:07:09.440 --> 0:07:10.440 I'm going to tell you. 0:07:10.480 --> 0:07:12.960 Please. I never want to become so comfortable in my 0:07:13.080 --> 0:07:15.160 lady in a cat status that I can't tell that 0:07:15.200 --> 0:07:19.200 my house smells like piers. Please please tell me, because 0:07:19.200 --> 0:07:21.720 that's when I think things are spiraling out of control 0:07:21.760 --> 0:07:22.400 in my life. 0:07:22.560 --> 0:07:23.200 I really do. 0:07:23.640 --> 0:07:25.560 Oh my days, Well, I'd look forward to this, and 0:07:25.600 --> 0:07:27.640 I look forward to seeing the relationship between Matt and 0:07:27.640 --> 0:07:30.400 the cat become the strongest relationship in your home. 0:07:31.040 --> 0:07:33.360 Literally, it's not the dog going down, it's actually me, 0:07:33.640 --> 0:07:35.680 like I'm going down in the order of priorities at 0:07:35.680 --> 0:07:37.840 the moment because there's too many animals and too many. 0:07:37.760 --> 0:07:39.960 Children, and you welcomed it into your own life. Should 0:07:39.960 --> 0:07:42.880 be getting to vibes and unsubscribes for the week. Yes, Keisha, 0:07:43.080 --> 0:07:43.840 what is your vibe? 0:07:43.880 --> 0:07:46.280 I know you have a good one, and so I 0:07:46.320 --> 0:07:47.560 am looking forward to this. 0:07:47.760 --> 0:07:51.480 I also really quickly have a small unsubscribe because we 0:07:51.560 --> 0:07:54.080 got a message not long ago saying you guys used 0:07:54.120 --> 0:07:55.600 to do unsubscribes as well. 0:07:55.800 --> 0:07:58.320 I'm unsubscribing from kitty litter. If I didn't make that clear, 0:07:59.000 --> 0:08:01.600 that's what I'm un alternative. I want to teach her 0:08:01.600 --> 0:08:03.400 to shit in the toilet. That's what I want to teach. 0:08:05.040 --> 0:08:08.120 You know, there's cats on YouTube. There's like some sort 0:08:08.160 --> 0:08:10.400 of training thing where you can like teach a cat 0:08:10.440 --> 0:08:11.880 to pool straight into the toilet. 0:08:11.960 --> 0:08:13.120 I want to teach her to do that. 0:08:13.440 --> 0:08:16.760 Please be careful because she's so small right now, like. 0:08:16.720 --> 0:08:18.480 A cockroach in the bottom of a toilet bot like. 0:08:18.720 --> 0:08:20.440 In the toilet bowl when you get home one afternoon. 0:08:20.480 --> 0:08:22.600 But how impressive would that be if you came over 0:08:22.640 --> 0:08:24.480 to my house and there's just the cats on the 0:08:24.760 --> 0:08:27.320 pray just looks at you as you walk past the bathroom. 0:08:27.400 --> 0:08:29.760 She's hanging half in the toilet or a poo. We 0:08:29.880 --> 0:08:32.720 had to wait for her to finish. Excuse me, can 0:08:32.760 --> 0:08:35.680 you give the cats some privacy? Raspberries doing going to 0:08:35.720 --> 0:08:37.000 the toilet, close the door. 0:08:38.040 --> 0:08:38.960 Oh my days. 0:08:39.080 --> 0:08:42.640 Okay, my unsubscribed for the week is the plastic liner 0:08:42.640 --> 0:08:43.319 in swimwear. 0:08:43.960 --> 0:08:45.240 It's fucking disgusting. 0:08:45.640 --> 0:08:47.800 Can we all please just make you know that you 0:08:47.840 --> 0:08:51.319 buy a pair of swimmer necessary Well, it's only necessary 0:08:51.400 --> 0:08:53.960 because we don't trust everyone to wear underwear when they 0:08:53.960 --> 0:08:56.000 try on swimwear. And I think this is where we 0:08:56.040 --> 0:08:59.400 all need to come together and create a solution, because 0:08:59.440 --> 0:09:03.200 when you that plastic thing off of swimwear, you don't 0:09:03.240 --> 0:09:04.839 know how many flaps. 0:09:05.120 --> 0:09:08.200 You don't know how much trust you're putting in that well, 0:09:08.200 --> 0:09:09.120 like do you do it with? 0:09:09.480 --> 0:09:15.000 I always feel like, wow, this is so potentially disgusting, 0:09:15.240 --> 0:09:16.839 but I don't know how disgusting because I don't know 0:09:16.880 --> 0:09:18.599 how many flaps this it's touched, because I don't know 0:09:18.640 --> 0:09:20.120 how many of you have tried this pair of swimmers 0:09:20.120 --> 0:09:21.240 on without your underwear on. 0:09:21.800 --> 0:09:24.319 That's true, that's true. What a gamble? What do you do? 0:09:24.320 --> 0:09:25.480 Do you take it off then go wash your hand 0:09:25.480 --> 0:09:26.880 straight away? Or do you just take it off and 0:09:26.880 --> 0:09:28.160 then bang it on like you know? 0:09:28.240 --> 0:09:31.040 Game on? I really play off. I try to get like. 0:09:31.000 --> 0:09:34.360 The corner, like with my fingernails, and then I sanitize. 0:09:34.679 --> 0:09:39.760 You always sanitize afterwards, Yeah, yeah, I think I do. 0:09:40.160 --> 0:09:42.040 But sometimes I just put on swimmers at the beach 0:09:42.080 --> 0:09:43.320 that I've just bought, so you just rip it off 0:09:43.360 --> 0:09:43.800 and put them on. 0:09:44.400 --> 0:09:47.199 Do you always wash them before you put them on? No? 0:09:47.679 --> 0:09:51.320 I don't, okay, but yeah, yeah, maybe I'm contradicting myself. Now, 0:09:51.400 --> 0:09:53.400 maybe if they didn't have the sticker thing on them 0:09:53.400 --> 0:09:54.480 that I would feel the need. 0:09:54.360 --> 0:09:54.839 To wash them. 0:09:55.080 --> 0:09:57.720 You always watch underwear before anyway, I move on. 0:09:57.800 --> 0:10:00.720 I actually don't. I'm so bad with that. Whatever. 0:10:00.880 --> 0:10:05.520 It's worked out so well thirty eight. Nothing's happened yet anyway, 0:10:05.200 --> 0:10:08.000 And that's a good unsubscribe, except I still think it's 0:10:08.040 --> 0:10:09.720 quite necessary. Do you know what I think we should 0:10:09.720 --> 0:10:11.120 do instead of it being the plastic one? You know 0:10:11.120 --> 0:10:14.040 how you can get those ones? They're like Satney better. 0:10:14.840 --> 0:10:17.040 More costly for the businesses though, I agree. 0:10:17.080 --> 0:10:19.319 Okay, this is a complex issue that obviously we need 0:10:19.360 --> 0:10:20.840 to think about a little bit more in depth. But 0:10:20.880 --> 0:10:22.600 I do have a really good vibe for this week. 0:10:22.960 --> 0:10:26.040 It was Tuesday's episode of the Daily OS podcast. You 0:10:26.080 --> 0:10:28.120 guys all know that we really like the Daily Ods. 0:10:28.160 --> 0:10:31.080 I think that they deliver news in a really consumable way. 0:10:31.280 --> 0:10:34.439 The episode was titled Bruce Lehman lost his defamation case. 0:10:34.559 --> 0:10:35.400 What does this mean? 0:10:36.040 --> 0:10:39.960 So I think it was Monday, Yeah, Monday afternoon, just 0:10:40.000 --> 0:10:43.600 as Michael Lee handed down a judgment for this defamation case. 0:10:43.760 --> 0:10:46.840 There has been so many different cases to do with 0:10:46.920 --> 0:10:49.600 Bruce Lehman. There's been criminal cases, there's been civil cases. 0:10:49.600 --> 0:10:51.400 A guy like spending time in court. Put it that way. 0:10:51.559 --> 0:10:54.640 Yes, he's gonna have no money left very likely. Also, 0:10:54.720 --> 0:10:57.200 terrible reputation far up could not be more in the gutter. 0:10:57.480 --> 0:10:59.600 There is definitely an irony in the fact that he 0:10:59.640 --> 0:11:04.400 brought this defamation case forward saying that he wanted to 0:11:04.679 --> 0:11:07.800 not be called an alleged rapist, and now we had 0:11:07.800 --> 0:11:11.360 a judge say on the balance of probabilities that he 0:11:11.520 --> 0:11:12.199 is a rapist. 0:11:12.360 --> 0:11:14.559 Like I'm sure everyone has heard the quote from the 0:11:14.640 --> 0:11:17.840 judge having escaped the lines Dan mister Lehrmann made the 0:11:17.840 --> 0:11:21.040 mistake of coming back for his hat, and I think 0:11:21.080 --> 0:11:24.240 that that is just it paints such a picture around 0:11:24.840 --> 0:11:27.800 what this court case was, what this trial was. 0:11:28.600 --> 0:11:31.079 So The Daily Os did a twenty minute episode that 0:11:31.120 --> 0:11:33.480 broke it down. Sam who is one of the co 0:11:33.520 --> 0:11:36.280 founders of The Daily Ohs. He has a legal background. 0:11:36.440 --> 0:11:38.920 He breaks it down in such a way that's really, really, 0:11:38.960 --> 0:11:42.520 really easy to understand, and he also goes into kind 0:11:42.559 --> 0:11:44.840 of the nuances of what is going to happen. 0:11:44.600 --> 0:11:46.199 Next next Tuesday. 0:11:46.440 --> 0:11:49.360 We've been told that the costs are going to be 0:11:49.559 --> 0:11:51.839 kind I don't know what the legal term is. Basically, 0:11:52.000 --> 0:11:53.880 the court are going to say who needs to pay 0:11:53.920 --> 0:11:55.800 who money and who needs to pay for the legal 0:11:55.840 --> 0:11:59.240 representation side of things. So that's happening next Tuesday, and 0:11:59.280 --> 0:12:02.160 there's going to be more news about it around, So 0:12:02.200 --> 0:12:04.000 if you want to kind of get your head around it, 0:12:04.080 --> 0:12:05.560 I really recommend that episode. 0:12:05.720 --> 0:12:07.719 I'm so interested as well because I think there's been 0:12:07.840 --> 0:12:10.760 there's been so much reporting around the case, like this 0:12:10.840 --> 0:12:13.520 case couldn't have had more reporting, And I think that 0:12:13.559 --> 0:12:16.480 for a lot of people understanding the nw onance of it, 0:12:16.520 --> 0:12:18.560 because there's been so much speculation and there's been so 0:12:18.679 --> 0:12:21.360 much commentary and personal opinion that's been loaded into this, 0:12:21.400 --> 0:12:24.720 I think understanding the legalities around it for some people 0:12:24.720 --> 0:12:27.120 it can still seem a little bit vague. In for myself, 0:12:27.240 --> 0:12:29.240 I think getting my head around how this case has 0:12:29.240 --> 0:12:32.400 actually come about. But also part of this story that 0:12:32.440 --> 0:12:35.520 I think is so interesting is Lisa Wilkinson and her 0:12:36.200 --> 0:12:39.160 involvement in it and how she has been misrepresented within 0:12:39.160 --> 0:12:41.559 the media, and how that's going to then play out 0:12:41.559 --> 0:12:42.920 over the next couple of months. And I think we're 0:12:42.920 --> 0:12:45.800 going to be seeing the next story or the next 0:12:45.800 --> 0:12:48.920 part of this, which will be Lisa Wilkinson having her 0:12:48.960 --> 0:12:51.120 time to be able to say, well, I was misrepresented 0:12:51.160 --> 0:12:52.360 and I was also defamed. 0:12:52.640 --> 0:12:53.280 Absolutely. 0:12:53.320 --> 0:12:55.960 And the other thing that I thought was very interesting 0:12:56.040 --> 0:12:59.480 and I'm really really glad about from this particular court case, 0:12:59.520 --> 0:13:03.800 is that just Michael Lee, he explained in his findings 0:13:04.000 --> 0:13:08.839 that Brittney Higgins was an unreliable witness, but he also 0:13:08.960 --> 0:13:11.720 went in to explain that that is so often the 0:13:11.760 --> 0:13:15.560 case for sexual assault victims absolutely to experienced trauma, and 0:13:15.600 --> 0:13:18.320 I know that for us, we have these conversations all 0:13:18.360 --> 0:13:21.040 the time and we go, yeah, obviously, anyone who's been 0:13:21.040 --> 0:13:26.000 traumatized has glitches in their memory and their story may change, 0:13:26.040 --> 0:13:28.319 not because they're not telling the truth, but because it's 0:13:28.360 --> 0:13:32.960 a really traumatic experience. Having that actually delivered in court 0:13:33.160 --> 0:13:35.240 is a really good step in the right direction, and 0:13:35.280 --> 0:13:38.079 I know that it might seem a bit fucking prehistoric, 0:13:38.640 --> 0:13:41.880 but it is like our court system has been so so, 0:13:41.880 --> 0:13:44.640 so bad for victims of sexual assault, and so it's 0:13:44.640 --> 0:13:46.840 been really nice to kind of see this first step 0:13:46.840 --> 0:13:47.760 in a better direction. 0:13:48.240 --> 0:13:52.280 I also hope in that Brittany Higgins was never able 0:13:52.320 --> 0:13:54.920 to have her day in court and him being able 0:13:54.960 --> 0:13:58.160 to walk freely with the assumption that I think a 0:13:58.160 --> 0:14:00.480 lot of people draw the assumption that because he was 0:14:00.559 --> 0:14:05.200 never prosecuted for the rape trial that he's innocent. Just 0:14:05.200 --> 0:14:08.720 because someone isn't found guilty doesn't automatically mean that they're innocent. 0:14:08.840 --> 0:14:12.480 And there is hopefully so much vindication for Britney Higgins 0:14:12.520 --> 0:14:14.760 in this But that's such an amazing vibe Keisha and 0:14:14.800 --> 0:14:16.199 I will absolutely listen to it. 0:14:16.360 --> 0:14:18.480 I just quickly want to. I mean, this is a 0:14:18.480 --> 0:14:21.200 little bit us covering ourselves legally. He was found guilty 0:14:21.240 --> 0:14:23.600 on the balance of probabilities, and if you listen to 0:14:23.680 --> 0:14:26.080 this episode of The Daily OS, that will be explained 0:14:26.080 --> 0:14:28.720 to you why that is different to the criminal proceedings. 0:14:29.040 --> 0:14:31.600 So yes, The Daily ohs Bruce Leman lest his defamation case. 0:14:31.640 --> 0:14:34.400 What does this mean? On wherever you get your podcast? Laws? 0:14:34.400 --> 0:14:37.440 What's you like my vibe is very self fulfilling, guys, 0:14:37.440 --> 0:14:40.040 so give me a second. But also it's something I'm really, really, 0:14:40.040 --> 0:14:41.720 really proud of, and I know I don't. I mean, 0:14:41.880 --> 0:14:43.680 we've spoken a little bit about Tony May over the 0:14:43.720 --> 0:14:46.640 last couple of weeks, but this is such a huge 0:14:46.640 --> 0:14:48.440 part of my life that I don't speak about a 0:14:48.440 --> 0:14:51.880 lot on the podcast. And last week there's been a 0:14:51.920 --> 0:14:53.840 few things that have happened that just means we haven't 0:14:53.840 --> 0:14:56.040 had a chance to talk about this yet. But last 0:14:56.040 --> 0:14:58.640 week we launched our Mother's Day collection and it's a 0:14:58.680 --> 0:15:01.840 campaign that I am so proud of. We shot it 0:15:01.880 --> 0:15:05.160 on my birthday this year, and we wanted because every 0:15:05.240 --> 0:15:07.680 year we do this like limited edition Mother's Day necklace, 0:15:08.000 --> 0:15:10.720 which we have done for like the last three years, 0:15:11.240 --> 0:15:12.920 and then this year we wanted to do something that 0:15:12.960 --> 0:15:15.360 was a little bit different, and part of that was 0:15:15.400 --> 0:15:19.040 capturing motherhood stories, so talking to different moms. We had 0:15:19.520 --> 0:15:21.760 I think it was nine different people come through that 0:15:21.880 --> 0:15:24.720 day and the podcast or in me got to sit 0:15:24.800 --> 0:15:28.120 down and interview each of those moms. The questions that 0:15:28.160 --> 0:15:29.960 we asked were all the questions that I asked were 0:15:29.960 --> 0:15:32.240 all around, like what does motherhood mean to you? And 0:15:33.000 --> 0:15:35.240 how has your life changed since becoming a mom that 0:15:35.280 --> 0:15:38.120 there was this one question that came up and with 0:15:38.240 --> 0:15:40.640 every single person I spoke to, literally from the minute 0:15:40.640 --> 0:15:42.520 they sat down until the minute they left, we were 0:15:42.520 --> 0:15:45.480 all in tears. But the one question was around priorities 0:15:45.920 --> 0:15:48.880 and when you put so much of yourself into your 0:15:48.960 --> 0:15:51.120 children and into your relationships and into your work, like, 0:15:51.200 --> 0:15:54.160 where do you fall in the list of priorities. 0:15:53.800 --> 0:15:56.880 Especially when you get a new kitten and there's so 0:15:56.920 --> 0:15:59.680 many nipples in your house, where do you fall? 0:15:59.760 --> 0:16:03.000 And every single woman that day said that they are 0:16:03.040 --> 0:16:04.960 at the bottom, that they are at the very bottom 0:16:05.000 --> 0:16:08.480 of their list of priorities. One person and it was 0:16:08.480 --> 0:16:10.400 my sister, but also another one of the women that 0:16:10.440 --> 0:16:13.320 I interviewed said that they're below the dogs. And I 0:16:13.360 --> 0:16:14.840 know that a lot of mums feel like this at 0:16:14.840 --> 0:16:18.640 different times, that they deprioritize themselves so much because everything 0:16:18.640 --> 0:16:20.840 else requires so much of them, especially when you have 0:16:20.920 --> 0:16:23.400 little kids. But it was really a moment of self 0:16:23.400 --> 0:16:25.760 reflection for myself, and also I think it was just 0:16:25.800 --> 0:16:28.240 a really powerful video that we were able to And 0:16:28.280 --> 0:16:29.920 if you haven't seen it, it was a video that 0:16:30.000 --> 0:16:30.320 we made. 0:16:30.400 --> 0:16:32.600 It's on my Instagram. It's also on Tony May's Instagram. 0:16:33.040 --> 0:16:36.120 What it was supposed to be was everybody's individual motherhood 0:16:36.160 --> 0:16:39.200 story came together to kind of share what one singular 0:16:39.200 --> 0:16:41.640 thing is that we all experience. And even though everybody 0:16:41.680 --> 0:16:44.280 shows up to motherhood differently, we all have very similar 0:16:44.280 --> 0:16:46.440 things that we go through. And I was really proud 0:16:46.480 --> 0:16:48.080 of it, and I think it was a really beautiful 0:16:48.120 --> 0:16:50.200 capture of what motherhood is. And I'm sorry for anyone 0:16:50.200 --> 0:16:52.560 who may cry, but my vibe for the week, I 0:16:52.560 --> 0:16:56.520 guess is overarchingly. We have this beautiful collection that we've 0:16:56.520 --> 0:16:59.760 created which is all around motherhood. It's all around celebrating 0:16:59.800 --> 0:17:02.000 the many forms of it. And one of the pieces 0:17:02.000 --> 0:17:04.760 that we have in there, which over the years we 0:17:04.880 --> 0:17:07.920 have always received the feedback of what about people who 0:17:08.200 --> 0:17:11.000