WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: Family Vloggers & Tattoo Regrets

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<v Speaker 1>The Pickup with Britt Hockley and Laura Burn. Radio Work,

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<v Speaker 1>our windows, my world risen the dust, only good babs

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<v Speaker 1>all down.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't much, but.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah I'm not. I'll big get and what I want.

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<v Speaker 3>It don't matter where that goes.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the pickup. Happy Thursday, everybody, It's the Pickup

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<v Speaker 1>with Britt Hockley and Laura Burn.

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<v Speaker 3>You know one thing, I'm really proud of Laura.

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<v Speaker 1>If you say dancing with the Stars, I wasn't, but

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<v Speaker 1>now that you've brought it up, no, that's.

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<v Speaker 3>Not what I was gonna say.

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<v Speaker 4>Dance Proud that I have never played a game on

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<v Speaker 4>my phone.

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<v Speaker 3>I've never been one of those people that like get

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<v Speaker 3>addicted to an app. I am picking my drop off

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<v Speaker 3>the ground.

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<v Speaker 4>Our producer, Grace, I just like heard some beeping going

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<v Speaker 4>over in the corner like like, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>what are you doing?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, Grace under a bus.

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<v Speaker 4>This is how addicted she She took a couple of

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<v Speaker 4>minutes before we started. Tell everyone what you're playing?

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<v Speaker 1>What this is slander for starters? If it's real, absolute slander.

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<v Speaker 5>I have this game that I'm a bit addicted to

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<v Speaker 5>on my phone. I've been playing it for a couple

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<v Speaker 5>of years. It's called gardenscapes. Is it the same as

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<v Speaker 5>candy Crush or is it similar?

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<v Speaker 1>It's like candy crush, but look at it. Hold away.

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<v Speaker 5>When you like finish the levels, you get little rewards

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<v Speaker 5>and you.

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<v Speaker 1>Can help this butler build his garden.

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<v Speaker 3>You're such a nerd and I'm on.

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<v Speaker 1>Level of thirteen, eight hundred and ninety.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll tell you what this explains a lot o brit

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<v Speaker 3>You can't talk.

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<v Speaker 1>You always talk about how your mum's playing candy crush,

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<v Speaker 1>like my mom with this, Leave my mom out of it. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>while we're slandering people, I just thought I dragged Nikki

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<v Speaker 1>in as well. My mom's not. Is there anyone else

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<v Speaker 1>out there who would like to be offended? Call up

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<v Speaker 1>the pickup? Well you could.

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<v Speaker 3>You could probably play with my mom if you want.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, maybe we can become friends. You could be in

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<v Speaker 1>she'd love that. Yeah, she needs more. Well, well, look

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<v Speaker 1>if you guys, if you guys need any help, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>it's because you have a phone addiction or something else

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<v Speaker 1>going on in your life. We've got ask gun cut

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<v Speaker 1>coming up next where we answer your deep dark and

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<v Speaker 1>you're burning questions And look here it is. Here's a

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<v Speaker 1>big dilemma that we've probably all been faced with. But

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<v Speaker 1>what do you do when you get someone a really

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<v Speaker 1>good gift and then you find out that they don't

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<v Speaker 1>actually like it they're selling it a marketplace?

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<v Speaker 3>Well that's so rough.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's the dilemma we're dealing with, and it.

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<v Speaker 4>Is time for us to solve all of your problems.

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<v Speaker 3>It's ask gun Cut.

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<v Speaker 4>We do this every week on our podcast Life on

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<v Speaker 4>Cut podcast. You calling or you're writing with your deepest,

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<v Speaker 4>darkest burning questions, we do our best to answer them.

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<v Speaker 4>And today we have a really tricky conundrum. We have

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<v Speaker 4>Brendan on the line. Brendan, what is going on?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, so about six months ago, I got a friend

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<v Speaker 6>of mine for their birthday really lovely glassware. There's some

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<v Speaker 6>quite expensive glass where. I thought she'd really love them.

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<v Speaker 6>I thought they really suited her style and personality. I mean,

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<v Speaker 6>she seemed to really like them. When I gave it

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<v Speaker 6>to her.

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<v Speaker 7>She was like, oh my god, this's a beautiful.

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<v Speaker 6>Thank you so much. But I've just seen yesterday that

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<v Speaker 6>she's put them on marketplace, and I feel really like

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<v Speaker 6>betrayed and upset list things.

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<v Speaker 1>On marketplace don't you hide it from your direct friends?

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<v Speaker 1>Like isn't that just like marketplace one O one?

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<v Speaker 6>That is an option that like comes up?

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<v Speaker 7>But she must have.

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<v Speaker 6>She just didn't do it because I could see them.

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<v Speaker 6>I could see that they were attached to her profile.

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<v Speaker 6>And they're definitely the glasses that I cave.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, how expensive other glasses?

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<v Speaker 3>Relevant?

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's relevant because like it goes into like

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<v Speaker 1>the efforts like was it fine crystal?

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<v Speaker 6>There was a thrend of dollars set?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh it's expensive okay? And is she going through a

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<v Speaker 1>financial hardship at the moment? So that could explain a lot.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh well, I don't think so. Not that not that

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<v Speaker 6>she's brought me across.

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<v Speaker 3>Does she drink alcohol?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Does she drink anything alcohol?

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<v Speaker 6>And it's not they would look lovely on a shell.

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<v Speaker 3>We don't want glasses for a shell if we want

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<v Speaker 3>to use them.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you want to do? Like what are you thinking?

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<v Speaker 1>What are you calling you?

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<v Speaker 2>I know?

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<v Speaker 1>But like what are you weighing up here? Are you worrying?

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<v Speaker 1>Like you're going to confront her about it? Are you're

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<v Speaker 1>going to buy them? Offer? Like what are you going

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<v Speaker 1>to do?

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<v Speaker 5>Well?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I kind of feel like confronting her. I kind of.

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<v Speaker 6>I feel they were really nice, cused, and that she

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<v Speaker 6>seemed to really like them, and it's a bit a

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<v Speaker 6>bit off that she's reselling them and reselling them and

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<v Speaker 6>letting me see that.

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<v Speaker 3>Nah, I feel really uncomfortable by that.

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<v Speaker 4>You can't, No, I'm saying, no, I don't think you

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<v Speaker 4>can confront her at the end of the day. I

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<v Speaker 4>understand it's not great and it makes you feel shitty,

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<v Speaker 4>but at the end.

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<v Speaker 3>Of the day, they belong to her now she wants.

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't think that there's a way that you

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<v Speaker 1>can do this that isn't extremely passive aggressive, like you're

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<v Speaker 1>going to send her a screenshot and be like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>so I suppose you didn't like those glasses I gave you, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>there's no nice way that this is going to unfold.

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<v Speaker 3>However, how much is she selling them for?

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<v Speaker 1>She making them profit, she's.

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<v Speaker 6>Only selling them for I think I think it was

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<v Speaker 6>two hundred I saw, so she's less than they actually were.

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<v Speaker 6>But I mean, but should I ask her, like, if

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<v Speaker 6>the gift was a bit off and then she prefers

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<v Speaker 6>something different.

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<v Speaker 1>You could have exchanged it.

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<v Speaker 3>Could you passively aggressively just like the post. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>I kind of like that, like just give it a

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<v Speaker 3>like or maybe.

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<v Speaker 4>Be like just try what location like, just do a

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<v Speaker 4>little passive aggressive.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel incredibly uncomfortable thinking about the whole thing.

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<v Speaker 1>To be fair, though, she's not I mean, market place

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<v Speaker 1>is all about a bargain. She's not getting two hundred

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<v Speaker 1>dollars for ur news glasses. It's too high. She's go lower.

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<v Speaker 3>No, if they're crisp, fine crystal.

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<v Speaker 6>Like, they're really nice glasses. And so I was kind

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<v Speaker 6>of that's why I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, Oh, I think unfortunately, in this instance, you're just

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<v Speaker 1>gonna have to accept that your friend hated your gift.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh I'm really sorry.

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<v Speaker 5>Romend.

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<v Speaker 4>So she possibly loved them for six months and now

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<v Speaker 4>they don't service her anymore, but also possibly not. So

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<v Speaker 4>maybe one night when you're drunk, you can ask her

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<v Speaker 4>about it when you're over there, be like, hey.

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<v Speaker 3>Where are those glasses, Let's use the glasses.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh my god, that's totally going to happen. I'm so

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<v Speaker 6>totally going to happen.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm actually soorry.

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<v Speaker 6>I'll let you know how it goes.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh please do please give us a call back Brendon,

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks guys. See, now this one is a bit of

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<v Speaker 1>an odd one for you guys, but it is something

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<v Speaker 1>that I have been following pretty closely across social media.

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<v Speaker 1>You might be aware that in the States they've brought

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<v Speaker 1>out some new legislation around family vlogging and paying your

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<v Speaker 1>children for appearing in content. So this is specifically for

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<v Speaker 1>like influencers who make their money of having their kids

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<v Speaker 1>like mummy influence. Yeah, mummy influencers. Now, the thing with

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<v Speaker 1>the US is that laws are created state by state,

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<v Speaker 1>So laws that are being passed in say California, are

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<v Speaker 1>very very different to what might be passed in s Tennessee.

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<v Speaker 1>So recently there was a law that was passed, basically

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<v Speaker 1>it was a Californian bill which requires content creators who

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<v Speaker 1>feature minor children in at least thirty percent of their

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<v Speaker 1>content to set aside sixty five percent of their earnings

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<v Speaker 1>into a trust fund, which then the child would be

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<v Speaker 1>able to access at eighteen years old. Sixty five percent long,

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<v Speaker 1>it's huge, it's a huge amount. So basically, if a

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<v Speaker 1>child is appearing in any more than thirty percent of

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<v Speaker 1>the content, they get sixty five percent of the earnings

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<v Speaker 1>The thing is, though, is that there seems to be

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<v Speaker 1>some very famous Californian families who have made millions upon

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<v Speaker 1>millions of dollars off the back of their families and

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<v Speaker 1>their children who are now leaving California and moving to

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<v Speaker 1>other states. Most of them are under the guise of

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<v Speaker 1>like wanting to have you know, a farm change or

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<v Speaker 1>move somewhere with her calma and more relaxed lifestyle, like a.

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<v Speaker 3>Sense of community space.

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<v Speaker 1>But the thing is is like a lot of it

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<v Speaker 1>has been very oddly timed. And there's one influencer in

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<v Speaker 1>particular who's come under fire. Her name's at Britney Xavier.

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<v Speaker 1>She's got five point one million followers on TikTok. She's

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<v Speaker 1>a really really like, well loved sort of family vlogger

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<v Speaker 1>who she shares her own stuff, but she really does

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<v Speaker 1>lean into the fact that she's a mom and her

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<v Speaker 1>kids are often in her content, far more than thirty percent.

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<v Speaker 1>And she moved just two weeks after these laws came

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<v Speaker 1>into place. So people are calling around and saying that

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<v Speaker 1>the move has to do with her not wanting to

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<v Speaker 1>remunerate her kids, but she's saying, well, no, it was

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<v Speaker 1>just bad timing and you know, we had molded our

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<v Speaker 1>place in California, so we had to get out. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean we spoke by this so many times.

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<v Speaker 4>I definitely think that children should be paid, but sixty

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<v Speaker 4>five percent is a lot, like if they are just

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<v Speaker 4>in the content, but the parents are still the people

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<v Speaker 4>that are, like I guess, doing the work, doing the editing,

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<v Speaker 4>taking them where they need to go, making brand deals.

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<v Speaker 4>Sixty five percent is a lot to be putting into

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<v Speaker 4>a trust fund for the child. I don't know what

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<v Speaker 4>I believe the laws and regulation should be, but like

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<v Speaker 4>without doubt one hundred percent of these influences, the reason

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<v Speaker 4>they are moving is not to grow food. The reason

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<v Speaker 4>that they are moving is to avoid paying sixty five

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<v Speaker 4>percent of their earning.

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<v Speaker 1>Lis. I don't know if we can say one hundred

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, but it is interesting because it's come

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<v Speaker 1>off the back. There's a really famous case in the States,

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<v Speaker 1>Ruby Frankie. She's been convicted for thirty years for child abuse.

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<v Speaker 1>Fantastic Disney plus documentary that's available now around it. But

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<v Speaker 1>these changes have come about because of families who have

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<v Speaker 1>exploited their children. So there had to be some legislation

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<v Speaker 1>that was brought in. But I would say that the

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<v Speaker 1>vast majority of parents who do genuinely care about their

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<v Speaker 1>children are safeguarding their children's future. And you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>think about it from our perspective because my husband and

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<v Speaker 1>I we've got two kids. We often post them online,

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<v Speaker 1>not in terms of like we're very mediated with how

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<v Speaker 1>we do it, but they have appeared in our online content,

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<v Speaker 1>and they do sometimes appear in brand partnerships that we

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<v Speaker 1>do across you know, the network or the radio shows

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever. But we have separate bank accounts for them.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm careful about saying this because I don't actually want

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<v Speaker 1>the kids to know this, because I don't want them

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<v Speaker 1>to grow up thinking that they're growing.

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<v Speaker 3>They don't listen to the radio at pre school.

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<v Speaker 1>I know Molly's in school, she could know this now,

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<v Speaker 1>but like growing up on a silver spoon is like

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<v Speaker 1>a real worry I have for them. But we put

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<v Speaker 1>money away every year as though that they I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>if they've done the work, they earn the money, and

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<v Speaker 1>when they do turn you know, the right age. And

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<v Speaker 1>the thing that's really cool about that is it's not

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<v Speaker 1>money that we've set aside for them that we're giving them.

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<v Speaker 1>It's theirs. They earned it, it's their money, and also

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<v Speaker 1>we're able to put it in like a really great

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<v Speaker 1>compounding interest bank account, so they're going to have a

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<v Speaker 1>lot more than what they would have had had they

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<v Speaker 1>were accessing it every year.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but then we're banking on the fact that everybody

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<v Speaker 4>that is in this position is doing what you're doing

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<v Speaker 4>and as good a person as you're doing and saying, hey,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to safe god their future. Having said that,

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<v Speaker 4>there'd be a lot of people that aren't doing that,

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<v Speaker 4>but the child is still benefiting.

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<v Speaker 3>I think there's a lot of people that would.

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<v Speaker 4>Be using that income so that they live in a

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<v Speaker 4>nice house and their families gone nice holidays and their

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<v Speaker 4>kids go to nice school. So it might indirectly be

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<v Speaker 4>going back into the children's upbringing. But there's no way

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<v Speaker 4>to regulate that unless you literally put.

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<v Speaker 3>A law down like they have.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and I think it's a really hard thing to

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<v Speaker 1>quantify what is the right amount, like you know, sharing

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<v Speaker 1>someone's childhood online, exposing them without them being able to

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<v Speaker 1>have consent to it, and saying well I sent you

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<v Speaker 1>to a nice school, Well you lived in a nice house.

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<v Speaker 1>Does that equate? Is that monetary value a fair value.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I guess like it is tricky when the

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<v Speaker 1>decisions is completely left up to the parents and there

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<v Speaker 1>aren't enough regulations around it.

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<v Speaker 4>I would have grown up and been like, well, I

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<v Speaker 4>would have preferred you to send me to a public

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<v Speaker 4>school and had fifty thousand dollars right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Totally, totally, So I think that this push in California

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<v Speaker 1>that's happened is really exceptional, and I actually hope that

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<v Speaker 1>within Australia we have rules that come into place that

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<v Speaker 1>make family vlogging a more responsible space so the kids

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<v Speaker 1>aren't being exploited online.

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<v Speaker 4>We're gonna be talking to tattoo regrets. So if you

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<v Speaker 4>are out there listening right now and you've got a

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<v Speaker 4>tattoo that you wish you didn't get, give us a

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<v Speaker 4>call and let us know.

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<v Speaker 3>Because Pete Davidson.

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<v Speaker 4>Pete Davidson had something like two hundred tattoos on his body.

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<v Speaker 1>Whole body was covered. It was sort of like what

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<v Speaker 1>he was known for.

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<v Speaker 4>But he look at him now, Laura, he has had

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<v Speaker 4>every single tattoo laser removed.

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<v Speaker 3>I reckon, he's really hot now.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't mind a tattoo like I'm quite I quite

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<v Speaker 1>like a tattooed.

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<v Speaker 4>Man, I don't want a tattoo either, but like, this

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<v Speaker 4>is two hundred tattoos is a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>It is. But also if you've the two hundred tattoos,

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<v Speaker 1>is two hundred decisions to get tattoos, Like, that's a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of time that you could have changed your mind

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<v Speaker 1>along the way. So in twenty twenty to around and said, actually,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to get them all lasered off. I know

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<v Speaker 1>you can laser tattoos off. I didn't think you could

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<v Speaker 1>laser off this many.

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<v Speaker 4>My fiancee Ben is laser in a tattooth at the moment.

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<v Speaker 4>Which one not Gladiator, not Russell Crowe. He's got Russell

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<v Speaker 4>Crowe tattooed on his thigh, which is cute.

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<v Speaker 1>This needs so much like BRIT's fiance has a Gladiator

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<v Speaker 1>scene tattooed to his thigh.

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<v Speaker 4>It's the detail on Russell Crowe's face quite close to

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<v Speaker 4>his nether region, is an interesting choice.

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<v Speaker 1>When I first saw it, what did you think? The

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<v Speaker 1>very first time you said, were you like, is that

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<v Speaker 1>Russell Crowe?

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, hey, Russ, I didn't see the detail

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<v Speaker 4>of Russell Crowe's face. And it wasn't until a couple

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<v Speaker 4>of weeks later, I was like, hang on a minute,

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<v Speaker 4>is that gladiator?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that gladiator?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>No, he's just getting a little He had a quote

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<v Speaker 4>written on his arm.

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<v Speaker 1>What was it.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it was something like always believe or something motivational,

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<v Speaker 4>But he got it so young that it all bled

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<v Speaker 4>into one another and you couldn't.

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<v Speaker 3>Really read it anymore. So he's like, I'll just remove it.

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<v Speaker 1>I have quite a big one down my side that

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<v Speaker 1>I got when I was like twenty, and most people

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<v Speaker 1>cut a fringe when they've gone through a bad breakup.

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<v Speaker 1>I on this occasion decided I would get a side tattoo.

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<v Speaker 1>And it is probably like it's twenty five centimeters long. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>it's quite long, and it's a it's a harmster hand

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<v Speaker 1>show Grace. So I don't want to show grace. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to show she's looking for producer grace.

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<v Speaker 3>It's exactly what she describes.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell me, you tell me, how is it as long

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<v Speaker 1>as I think it is? Oh, it's so much longer

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<v Speaker 1>than I thought it was. It's really quite thick. Well

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't. When I got it done. It was really

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<v Speaker 1>soft and detailed. But now from like sun exposure and age,

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<v Speaker 1>and I've had two babies. Like it's just stretched now.

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<v Speaker 1>I just have like a weird hand melting down the

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<v Speaker 1>side of my body. And you've also got.

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<v Speaker 3>Like a club stamp tattoo.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm also not Hindu, so it's just not appropriate.

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<v Speaker 4>I you also just can't be bothered to get it

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<v Speaker 4>laysered off, so you've just committed to it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not that I can't be bothered. It's because of

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<v Speaker 1>the pain. It's so dark, it's so old, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>so big. You gave birth to two kids with an

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<v Speaker 1>EPI dural. If you could give me all the drugs

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<v Speaker 1>in the world, I'll go and get it laysered off.

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<v Speaker 1>But maybe we can make content out of it, but

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<v Speaker 1>I I just don't think I could.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, we've got Phoenix on the line. Phoenix. If you've

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<v Speaker 3>got a tattoo that you regret, what's your situation.

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<v Speaker 7>Hey, so I've got a tattoo that my mum regrets

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<v Speaker 7>me getting. A few years ago, I was traveling in

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<v Speaker 7>Greece doing a KENTICKI and we were on our last

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<v Speaker 7>night at a club and there was a tattoo parlor

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<v Speaker 7>in the club and I was like, oh, my God,

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<v Speaker 7>I really want to get a tattoo, but I don't

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<v Speaker 7>know what to get. And I thought, oh, what did

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<v Speaker 7>I have for dinner? And I went in and I

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<v Speaker 7>got better written on my ass just the word fetter.

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<v Speaker 3>So not a block of fair, just the worst.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the word fetter on your ass, So stupid. I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>do you?

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<v Speaker 3>And you don't regret that?

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<v Speaker 7>There's two other people that have it somewhere in the

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<v Speaker 7>world as well, so I'm not sure how they're feeling,

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<v Speaker 7>but kind of quirky.

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<v Speaker 1>I do like that. You just kind of will like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, yolo, I want to get a tattoo today.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really care what it's about.

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<v Speaker 4>You in a club in another country screams, doesn't scream

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<v Speaker 4>like occupacial health safety.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes it's not about what you get tattooed on you,

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<v Speaker 1>it's the story surrounding it.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, listen with them.

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<v Speaker 1>She doesn't know who they are.

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<v Speaker 3>They were just on a Kentiki trip. She's like, somewhere in.

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<v Speaker 1>The world, did they also eat fetter that night? That's

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<v Speaker 1>the real question.

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<v Speaker 7>They did. They had to seek it, but I was like, guys,

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<v Speaker 7>better looks so much better than to seek.

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<v Speaker 6>No one can.

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<v Speaker 3>Spell to seeking.

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<v Speaker 1>No one can spell it. Thank you. I regret that

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<v Speaker 1>one for you as well.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, we've got Michayla on the line.

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<v Speaker 4>Him, Mikayla, Helloka, what do you regret?

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<v Speaker 2>My brother got our mum's brownie recipe tattooed on his back.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it a particularly good brownie recipe?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean it's not bad, like a whole brownie recipe.

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<v Speaker 4>He got the whole, like every ingredient and like the methods,

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<v Speaker 4>every ingredient and the method, so it's like, oh, whatever

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<v Speaker 4>it is.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like, you know, a cup of sugar, cup of milk,

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<v Speaker 2>cup of flour talking together, like the shoulder blade covered.

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<v Speaker 1>The whole shoulder blade is covered in your mum's brownie recipe.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like mum would either be really peace also

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<v Speaker 1>incredibly flattered. It's going to go one or two ways.

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<v Speaker 2>No, she loved it. He's also like a bit of

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<v Speaker 2>a golden boy in the family, so that really helps

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<v Speaker 2>him out there with getting to the favorite list when

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<v Speaker 2>he's cooking.

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<v Speaker 4>Now, does he follow the recipe?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think he would ever admit it. I think

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<v Speaker 2>it was just a way to like approach girls when

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<v Speaker 2>he was younger, to be like, Hey, I got my

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<v Speaker 2>mum's brownie tattooed on my back, and then they'd be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>really show me.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's why I sort of love it. I also

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<v Speaker 1>think he got it somewhere where he doesn't have to

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<v Speaker 1>see it and someone else can make him brownie. So

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<v Speaker 1>that's what that is. Sounds like a real tack exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>He hates it now, Like if you bring it up

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<v Speaker 2>with him, he'll be.

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<v Speaker 7>Like, oh no, don't talk about it.

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<v Speaker 2>He tries to be a respectful lawyer.

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<v Speaker 4>Now, so respectful lawyer with a brownie recipe, Thank you

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<v Speaker 4>for that.

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<v Speaker 1>Look, well, it's the end of the show, guys,