WEBVTT - MINI! The Honey Badger asked Brittany for a PRENUP?

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<v Speaker 1>It's the pickup Britt, Laura and MITCHI are stuck on

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<v Speaker 1>floating around of the weekend, A massive relationship therapist. He

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<v Speaker 1>is so big and so powerful, so important that Gwyneth

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<v Speaker 1>Paltrow has given him the tick of approval.

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<v Speaker 2>So we should probably stop following along with what he

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<v Speaker 2>has to say immediately.

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<v Speaker 3>So I assume you're talking about Stan Tatkin.

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<v Speaker 4>Correct. Yes, yes, he.

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<v Speaker 3>Wrote a book about how to overcome conflicts in a relationship,

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<v Speaker 3>and Gwyneth Paltrow loves him, so yes, let's not listen

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<v Speaker 3>to anything he says.

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<v Speaker 5>But what does he have to say?

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<v Speaker 1>He's essentially said, here are the five major red flags.

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<v Speaker 1>Your relationship cannot move past this. If you have experienced

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<v Speaker 1>any one of these issues, your relationship is doomed. Put

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<v Speaker 1>your life jacket on. Escape through the window now, because

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<v Speaker 1>there is no going back. So let's see how we

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<v Speaker 1>all fare if we all tick off any of these

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<v Speaker 1>points from past or current relationships. He number one, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't trust your partner due to previous in fidelities.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I mean, yes, that feels pretty. That feels like

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<v Speaker 2>some pretty good.

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<v Speaker 3>Advice ground solid breaking stand.

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<v Speaker 2>So cheating yeah yeah yeah, well I mean, but not

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<v Speaker 2>being able to get over the cheating.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, yeah, great, you're holding a grudge chap.

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<v Speaker 4>I think we all can agree on that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yees.

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<v Speaker 1>Point Number two, you want an open relationship but your

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<v Speaker 1>partner doesn't.

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<v Speaker 3>Remember when I floated that went with my new boyfriend Ben,

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<v Speaker 3>not the actual open relationship that I wanted one, but

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<v Speaker 3>I just for like shits and giggles because we're new.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, how do you feel about an open relationship?

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<v Speaker 3>Went down like a lead balloon. He was like, hard, No,

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<v Speaker 3>it's cheating. And we're long distance.

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<v Speaker 5>As well, So these seemed pretty straightforward.

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<v Speaker 4>What about number three?

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<v Speaker 1>You want kids but your partner doesn't, relationships doomed.

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<v Speaker 3>There's a pretty big deal breaker. I agree.

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<v Speaker 2>I do think this is a deal breaker. However, I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't really want kids when I first got with Matt,

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<v Speaker 2>but he really wanted them and it kind of changed

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<v Speaker 2>my mind. So I feel like you could change your mind,

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<v Speaker 2>but you need to know pretty early on.

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<v Speaker 3>What I'm hearing is Matt trapped you? Yeah, so you can.

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<v Speaker 2>I was baby trapped by my partner now and the

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<v Speaker 2>relationship is good.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait, why did you not want kids? Laws?

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<v Speaker 1>Because you're what I know, I only know you as

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<v Speaker 1>a mother, but I look at you and go, you're

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<v Speaker 1>the best mum out there.

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<v Speaker 2>I forget you.

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<v Speaker 3>Guys didn't know each other pre motherhood.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I just never I never had that maternal urge.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean a lot of women really had that sort

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<v Speaker 2>of undying pool to become a mum, and that never

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<v Speaker 2>hit me. I always kind of thought, well, maybe it

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<v Speaker 2>might happen, and if it does, I'll be fine with it,

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<v Speaker 2>I guess. But I never really could visualize myself as

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<v Speaker 2>a mum. And then when Matt came along, because he's

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<v Speaker 2>such I mean, he's he's built to be a dad.

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<v Speaker 2>He's genuinely the best dad. I think, I just kind

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<v Speaker 2>of I could see it more and more. And then

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<v Speaker 2>all of a sudden, I was clucky and I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>who is this person was when I was pregnant, And

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<v Speaker 2>you know, it all happened very quickly.

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<v Speaker 3>Now I've got a tire leage shock, I've got a

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<v Speaker 3>business we do. I'm like you can't go right.

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<v Speaker 5>It's trying to stop me from having three All right,

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<v Speaker 5>quint number three?

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<v Speaker 4>Quiet? That was three point number four.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't cap you hold a grudge over being asked

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<v Speaker 1>to sign a pre nup.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh this is actually sticky territory. Oh my god, do

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<v Speaker 3>you know what? I just remember it. This is a

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<v Speaker 3>blast from the past. When I was on the Bachelor

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<v Speaker 3>Volcano six years ago? Now, I was on with the

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<v Speaker 3>Honey Badger. Oh yea who's currently in was in the jungle.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you know what?

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<v Speaker 3>We were on a date? I can't believe I've forgotten this.

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<v Speaker 3>We were on a date towards the end. Because for

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<v Speaker 3>those plaint at home, I was the first person in

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<v Speaker 3>the whole universe to win the Bachelor and not win anything.

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<v Speaker 3>I got to the end.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, when you say I got to the end, but

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<v Speaker 2>you didn't win, you just got dumped at the end,

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<v Speaker 2>like what it is?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, it's right for you because you one had two

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<v Speaker 3>kids and got married. You didn't wear a white dress

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<v Speaker 3>thinking you had the happy ever after and then got dumped. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>let me have my moment.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, sorry, without winning, I got dumped.

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<v Speaker 3>I one without winning.

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<v Speaker 4>You lost.

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<v Speaker 3>Look it's about perceptions. I think I'm the real win here. No,

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<v Speaker 3>But on one of the dates towards the end, he

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<v Speaker 3>said to me, We're sitting in his car, we've been bowling,

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<v Speaker 3>and he had said, out of nowhere, you feel about

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<v Speaker 3>a prenup?

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<v Speaker 5>That's what he said to me. WHOA yeah, And I

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<v Speaker 5>was like wait.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, hang on for you or me, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>probably in more than you certainly do.

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<v Speaker 2>Now. I don't imagine he wanted if you were to

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<v Speaker 2>be the one at the end, he wanted to know

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<v Speaker 2>how you felt about a prenup.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, all he's all I can say is I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>gonna twist words. But he did say, how do you feel?

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<v Speaker 3>What are your thoughts on a prenup? And I actually

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<v Speaker 3>made the joke and I said, yes, I'm glad you asked.

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<v Speaker 3>I was probably gonna get you to sign one.

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<v Speaker 4>My god.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought it was funny at the time.

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<v Speaker 4>How much was making from those trady andies that he

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<v Speaker 4>was flogging on break.

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<v Speaker 3>We all know he made a lot. He made a

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<v Speaker 3>lot for going on the batch. Obviously, that's why he

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<v Speaker 3>went on it, because he didn't end up with anyone.

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<v Speaker 2>But I mean, I think it would definitely leave a

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<v Speaker 2>bit of a sore taste if someone was so hell

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<v Speaker 2>bent on signing a prenup. I know it's important because

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<v Speaker 2>obviously it protects you, but it also signifies to me

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<v Speaker 2>that maybe you're thinking that the relationship's not gonna last.

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<v Speaker 3>Like no, because if I had, if I was when

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<v Speaker 3>I make it to Hollywood, I have thought about this.

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<v Speaker 3>When I make it to Hollywood and I changed my

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<v Speaker 3>name to Mayo, I would probably have a prenup.

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<v Speaker 5>And I actually eighty manifest.

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<v Speaker 3>I think when you've got big, big money, I get it.

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<v Speaker 3>I do understand it. Because if you've worked your whole life,

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<v Speaker 3>you said to this money and the other person doesn't

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<v Speaker 3>want to contribute at all to the relationship, I think

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<v Speaker 3>that's okay. Otherwise it's like fifty to fifty.

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<v Speaker 4>None of us are luckily, you know, none of us.

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<v Speaker 4>I think we'll be fine. None of us have to

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<v Speaker 4>final point, this is the last one.

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<v Speaker 1>You and your partner are forced to live far far

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<v Speaker 1>away from each other.

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<v Speaker 2>I e.

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<v Speaker 4>Australia and Scotland, I E.

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<v Speaker 3>Brittany and every relationship. How do you say about that,

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<v Speaker 3>brit So are you saying, Mitch that Stan is saying

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<v Speaker 3>that I'm doomed because I have a long.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't agree with Stan, as we've proven he's not

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<v Speaker 1>exactly bang on with the other points.

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<v Speaker 4>But this is what he's saying, long distance will dur

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<v Speaker 4>you relationships.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it says here that long distance it leads to dissatisfaction.

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<v Speaker 5>In the relationship.

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<v Speaker 3>I agree. I'm going to agree with Stan. Actually, I

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<v Speaker 3>don't think long distance relationships can work forever. I think

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<v Speaker 3>they can be beautiful relationships if they have an end

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<v Speaker 3>goal together and you're both are working towards something. But

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<v Speaker 3>you can't you can't be away from each other forever.

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<v Speaker 3>Otherwise it's not a relationship. We have a pen pal.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, we thoroughly look forward to the day when Ben

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<v Speaker 2>moves to Australia, moving scholar.

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<v Speaker 3>Laura is in denial that I might ever ever ever leave.

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<v Speaker 5>We can find about this off.

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<v Speaker 4>Off offtware chance. Do you guys have a prenup?

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<v Speaker 2>We don't have a I feel like I'm just as

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<v Speaker 2>much in a relationship with you as what I am

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<v Speaker 2>with Matt.

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<v Speaker 3>One hundred percent we are, except we don't have the

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<v Speaker 3>makeup sex and listen.

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<v Speaker 1>If you want to go to the UK to see

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<v Speaker 1>the Coronation of King Charles. We are sending you there,

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<v Speaker 1>collect your boarding pass to fly direct to London next

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<v Speaker 1>to the pickup