1 00:00:00,920 --> 00:00:05,160 Speaker 1: This is jam nay Shan. We're I've got a question 2 00:00:05,240 --> 00:00:09,680 Speaker 1: for you. Our recipe is the latest battleground in cheating. 3 00:00:10,160 --> 00:00:13,920 Speaker 1: How would you feel if Helen made someone else? If 4 00:00:13,960 --> 00:00:17,599 Speaker 1: your relationship was rocky and Helen made someone else her specialty? 5 00:00:17,640 --> 00:00:18,480 Speaker 1: What's her specialty? 6 00:00:19,400 --> 00:00:22,000 Speaker 2: Well, as you know, I do all the cooking at home. 7 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:24,360 Speaker 3: It started a long time ago when she was pregnant 8 00:00:24,400 --> 00:00:28,240 Speaker 3: with our eldest son and she morning sickness would kick 9 00:00:28,280 --> 00:00:30,080 Speaker 3: in the afternoon, so I'd be sitting there was a 10 00:00:30,080 --> 00:00:32,560 Speaker 3: young married man with a knife and fork on the table, 11 00:00:32,680 --> 00:00:36,320 Speaker 3: ready for my dinner, and she'd be chucking up in 12 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:38,159 Speaker 3: the sink, and I thought, well, I'm gonna have. 13 00:00:38,159 --> 00:00:40,360 Speaker 1: To I'm going to open those two minute noodles myself. 14 00:00:40,400 --> 00:00:42,879 Speaker 2: And that's how it started. Then I just ended up. 15 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:45,239 Speaker 2: I like cooking. I do it every night. Last night 16 00:00:45,280 --> 00:00:47,360 Speaker 2: she made beef cheek pies. 17 00:00:47,520 --> 00:00:49,040 Speaker 1: Reason sounds delicious. 18 00:00:49,320 --> 00:00:50,839 Speaker 3: Yeah, But like there was a bit where I had 19 00:00:50,840 --> 00:00:53,600 Speaker 3: to say, Okay, you know what you need to do 20 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 3: is do that and put an eggsh on that and 21 00:00:55,840 --> 00:00:57,280 Speaker 3: that sort of stuff, And she told me to f 22 00:00:57,320 --> 00:00:58,080 Speaker 3: off a few times. 23 00:00:58,120 --> 00:00:59,680 Speaker 1: But you know, in the end of so you'd be 24 00:00:59,720 --> 00:01:01,880 Speaker 1: quite happy for her to talk. Give that for somebody else. 25 00:01:02,880 --> 00:01:04,759 Speaker 2: If she took her foods to someone else, I don't 26 00:01:04,800 --> 00:01:06,679 Speaker 2: think to devastated. 27 00:01:06,920 --> 00:01:09,080 Speaker 1: Well, the reason I bring this up, and we touched 28 00:01:09,120 --> 00:01:14,800 Speaker 1: on it earlier is actress Olivia Wilde was engaged to 29 00:01:15,000 --> 00:01:18,759 Speaker 1: and has two children with Jason Sedecas, who as well 30 00:01:18,800 --> 00:01:21,160 Speaker 1: a stack of Emmy Awards recently. 31 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:23,319 Speaker 2: He's so good in that shot. 32 00:01:23,400 --> 00:01:25,440 Speaker 1: Yes, well, they've been a couple for a number of years. 33 00:01:25,440 --> 00:01:28,679 Speaker 1: As I said, two children. She started to direct a 34 00:01:28,680 --> 00:01:32,319 Speaker 1: film with Harry Styles. And no guy wants his wife 35 00:01:32,360 --> 00:01:34,000 Speaker 1: to run off with Harry Styles. 36 00:01:33,680 --> 00:01:35,119 Speaker 2: Because he dresses like a fruit. 37 00:01:35,600 --> 00:01:40,520 Speaker 1: No, but meaning he's also I'm not saying. My point 38 00:01:40,600 --> 00:01:43,160 Speaker 1: is that he's a pop icon. All the girls in 39 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:44,520 Speaker 1: the world are in love with them, and suddenly your 40 00:01:44,520 --> 00:01:47,280 Speaker 1: wife's in love with him too. Not that he dresses 41 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:47,960 Speaker 1: like a fruit. 42 00:01:48,440 --> 00:01:48,880 Speaker 2: He does. 43 00:01:49,360 --> 00:01:51,280 Speaker 1: Well, you're just gonna have to deal with that. 44 00:01:52,200 --> 00:01:55,400 Speaker 3: But yeah, but if you're if you're like a guy 45 00:01:55,440 --> 00:01:58,600 Speaker 3: around the house and then you know, she runs off 46 00:01:58,600 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 3: for this feat sort. 47 00:01:59,600 --> 00:02:01,840 Speaker 2: Of guy that everyone likes. You're thinking, We'll hang on 48 00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:02,480 Speaker 2: a minute. 49 00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:04,480 Speaker 1: Well, would you rather that or run off with Vin Diesel? 50 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:07,080 Speaker 2: Well, I'd rather she ran off with Vin Diesel. Would 51 00:02:07,120 --> 00:02:10,000 Speaker 2: you yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. 52 00:02:10,080 --> 00:02:12,799 Speaker 1: Interesting. Your masculinity is an interesting I just like. 53 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:15,920 Speaker 2: You think are fair enough, Jason State and Vindel. 54 00:02:16,480 --> 00:02:19,280 Speaker 1: Really, you know, we wouldn't think fair enough, Harry Styles. 55 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:23,320 Speaker 1: You know, I think really you think fair enough. 56 00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:26,560 Speaker 2: Because I think you'd be you know, you feel like, well, 57 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:30,800 Speaker 2: what's you know, what's happened here? Am I not sensitive 58 00:02:30,919 --> 00:02:31,959 Speaker 2: enough for you? 59 00:02:32,160 --> 00:02:34,440 Speaker 1: And maybe that's what you need to think about? Brandon? 60 00:02:34,520 --> 00:02:35,240 Speaker 2: That's what it is. 61 00:02:35,400 --> 00:02:37,760 Speaker 1: Well, we now have salad Gate. Let me explain to 62 00:02:37,760 --> 00:02:40,400 Speaker 1: you what salad Gate is. A woman who claims she 63 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:43,320 Speaker 1: was a part time nanny for the children has been 64 00:02:43,360 --> 00:02:47,040 Speaker 1: speaking to Daily Mail, and both Olivia and Jason have 65 00:02:47,040 --> 00:02:48,800 Speaker 1: said she doesn't know what she's talking about, but she 66 00:02:48,919 --> 00:02:52,600 Speaker 1: has relayed an event that happened in their home. She 67 00:02:52,639 --> 00:02:55,680 Speaker 1: said one move in particular sparked Sidekas to fly into 68 00:02:55,680 --> 00:02:58,800 Speaker 1: a rage and realize that his relationship was finally over. 69 00:02:59,520 --> 00:03:03,440 Speaker 1: It's when Olivia Wilde made a salad with her special 70 00:03:03,560 --> 00:03:07,440 Speaker 1: salad dressing and left the house. Apparently, she walked out 71 00:03:07,480 --> 00:03:09,200 Speaker 1: of the family homes is towards the end of twenty 72 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:13,320 Speaker 1: twenty to take the salad to singer Harry styles. This 73 00:03:13,400 --> 00:03:18,040 Speaker 1: is a quote that said, apparently Jason Sedeikus told the nanny, 74 00:03:18,639 --> 00:03:21,520 Speaker 1: she made this salad, and she made her special dressing, 75 00:03:21,840 --> 00:03:24,600 Speaker 1: and she's leaving her. She's leaving with her salad to 76 00:03:24,639 --> 00:03:27,520 Speaker 1: have dinner with Harry. And then he flung himself under 77 00:03:27,520 --> 00:03:30,800 Speaker 1: the car to stop her going under the car. Yep, 78 00:03:30,919 --> 00:03:34,160 Speaker 1: under the car, stop at the wheels, to stop her 79 00:03:34,480 --> 00:03:36,320 Speaker 1: taking this salad and salad dressing. 80 00:03:36,760 --> 00:03:37,840 Speaker 2: Because that was a sign. 81 00:03:37,960 --> 00:03:40,560 Speaker 1: It was a sign that love is a doing word. 82 00:03:40,680 --> 00:03:43,960 Speaker 1: This is how women show love and affection, and guys 83 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:46,120 Speaker 1: do too. Love's a doing word. But this is a 84 00:03:46,120 --> 00:03:49,800 Speaker 1: classic female thing. I'll make my special recipe and I'll 85 00:03:49,800 --> 00:03:51,760 Speaker 1: take it him. I've got the recipe here. Do we 86 00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:53,680 Speaker 1: hear what it is? It sounds really good. I thought 87 00:03:53,680 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 1: I might make it on the weekend. Four cups of rocket, 88 00:03:55,920 --> 00:03:58,360 Speaker 1: three oranges segmented, half a bulb of fenel. You get 89 00:03:58,400 --> 00:04:02,120 Speaker 1: some walnuts, goats, cheese. The dressing is zest of an 90 00:04:02,160 --> 00:04:04,080 Speaker 1: orange caught a cup of orange juice, caught of a 91 00:04:04,120 --> 00:04:07,560 Speaker 1: cup of red wine vinegar, three tablespoons of olive oil, 92 00:04:08,040 --> 00:04:12,560 Speaker 1: some marmalade that's interesting, and some me soap paste, seed 93 00:04:12,560 --> 00:04:15,520 Speaker 1: and mustard, oil from the goats, cheese, and some salt 94 00:04:15,560 --> 00:04:19,359 Speaker 1: and pepper. That does sound delicious. Harry Styles creaky that 95 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:20,159 Speaker 1: night to get. 96 00:04:20,040 --> 00:04:23,880 Speaker 2: That, But that wouldn't happen. It was Vin Diesel. He's 97 00:04:23,880 --> 00:04:24,840 Speaker 2: not getting a salad. 98 00:04:25,200 --> 00:04:30,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, he'll get the meat and potatoes. Brenda, You don't. 99 00:04:30,320 --> 00:04:33,560 Speaker 1: You don't see the power of a salad. I've always 100 00:04:33,800 --> 00:04:37,520 Speaker 1: enjoyed the power of a salad. Salad is an important thing. 101 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 1: Look look what it did. It made a man throw 102 00:04:39,800 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 1: himself under a car. You're gonna have to get used 103 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:46,560 Speaker 1: to the fact that men like Harry Styles, women like 104 00:04:46,640 --> 00:04:50,640 Speaker 1: men like Harry Styles, and that men might like a salad. 105 00:04:51,120 --> 00:04:52,440 Speaker 1: You've got to come into the new world. 106 00:04:53,200 --> 00:04:55,400 Speaker 2: I'm not some cave man. I appreciate a salad. 107 00:04:55,440 --> 00:04:59,400 Speaker 3: But you know, really, your masculinity isn't threatened if your 108 00:04:59,440 --> 00:05:02,800 Speaker 3: wife goes off to see her new lover with a salad, 109 00:05:02,920 --> 00:05:04,280 Speaker 3: even though you know what they're doing. 110 00:05:04,279 --> 00:05:07,560 Speaker 1: But this isn't no, this isn't about your messages. 111 00:05:07,240 --> 00:05:09,520 Speaker 3: In my grandma's clothes and he's eating a salad. It's 112 00:05:09,560 --> 00:05:10,800 Speaker 3: not so bad, is. 113 00:05:10,760 --> 00:05:13,520 Speaker 1: That what you would think? Because that's interesting. If your 114 00:05:13,560 --> 00:05:15,359 Speaker 1: partner leaves you for someone else or this is the 115 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:18,760 Speaker 1: end of your relationship. I don't think it's masculine. Maybe 116 00:05:18,760 --> 00:05:21,000 Speaker 1: it is. It's interesting. Maybe it is masculinity that comes 117 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:23,840 Speaker 1: into play, But it's hurt and it's betrayal, and it 118 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:26,680 Speaker 1: doesn't have to be about is he a stronger man 119 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:29,720 Speaker 1: than I am? Maybe, like Jason, he has to think 120 00:05:29,880 --> 00:05:32,440 Speaker 1: what does she see in him that I'm not. It's 121 00:05:32,440 --> 00:05:33,600 Speaker 1: not about masculinity. 122 00:05:34,760 --> 00:05:37,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, well, Zadekas isn't a manly man when you look 123 00:05:37,560 --> 00:05:39,320 Speaker 3: at him. He's kind of in ted Lasso. He's kind 124 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:44,200 Speaker 3: of sensitive, horrible bosses. He's a bit of a goofball. 125 00:05:44,400 --> 00:05:47,240 Speaker 1: So it's not always about masculinity. So if your wife 126 00:05:47,360 --> 00:05:49,480 Speaker 1: was to take her cooking skills elsewhere, you wouldn't throw 127 00:05:49,480 --> 00:05:50,680 Speaker 1: yourself under the wheels of the car. 128 00:05:51,760 --> 00:05:53,240 Speaker 2: If she took her. 129 00:05:53,279 --> 00:05:56,560 Speaker 1: She was head to it with LIBERACEI with. 130 00:05:56,600 --> 00:05:57,920 Speaker 2: A jar of chickens tonight. 131 00:06:00,839 --> 00:06:01,800 Speaker 1: You'd be okay with that. 132 00:06:01,839 --> 00:06:03,440 Speaker 2: I'd be wearing the domio gre 133 00:06:03,520 --> 00:06:05,000 Speaker 1: Not threatening anyway.