WEBVTT - The Laws of the Universe Series: Part 6 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:03.160 I would like to acknowledge the traditional owners of the 0:00:03.279 --> 0:00:06.600 land on which this episode is being recorded, the Komboo 0:00:06.680 --> 0:00:10.520 Marry people. We pay our respects to elders past, present 0:00:10.600 --> 0:00:14.319 and emerging and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and 0:00:14.360 --> 0:00:15.800 Torres Strait Islander peoples. 0:00:15.840 --> 0:00:23.439 Today I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson, and this is the 0:00:23.560 --> 0:00:31.120 Rise and Conquer podcast. This is the podcast where we 0:00:31.200 --> 0:00:35.720 cha mindset, self development and becoming your higher self mix 0:00:35.760 --> 0:00:38.560 soon with a lot of laughs, plus behind the scenes 0:00:38.600 --> 0:00:42.200 of my life running two businesses and being among Think 0:00:42.240 --> 0:00:44.760 of us as the perfect combo of brunch with your 0:00:44.800 --> 0:00:48.440 besties mixed with self development. No matter where you are 0:00:48.479 --> 0:00:51.200 in your journey, we're here to help you be curious, 0:00:51.440 --> 0:00:57.040 pull yourself out, and embrace radical self awareness. If you're 0:00:57.080 --> 0:00:58.000 ready to get into the. 0:00:58.040 --> 0:01:01.000 Driver's seat of your own life and stop letting life 0:01:01.040 --> 0:01:12.600 past you by, then you're in the right place. Hello everybody, 0:01:12.720 --> 0:01:16.000 and welcome back to the potty. Today we have our 0:01:16.160 --> 0:01:20.400 final episode of our Laws of the Universe series and 0:01:20.440 --> 0:01:23.640 we are so excited to bring you it. We have 0:01:23.800 --> 0:01:27.240 had such amazing feedback from this whole series, so if 0:01:27.240 --> 0:01:30.679 you haven't listened to all the episodes. Make sure you do. 0:01:31.040 --> 0:01:33.720 We will keep them all linked in the show notes 0:01:33.760 --> 0:01:37.680 so you can click on them, because like, you need 0:01:37.720 --> 0:01:39.959 to know about all them to understand the laws of 0:01:40.000 --> 0:01:42.920 the universe, don't you a tia for sure? And in 0:01:42.959 --> 0:01:48.000 today's episode, we are unpacking the law of rhythm and 0:01:48.040 --> 0:01:51.680 the law of gender. I'm sure you haven't heard about 0:01:51.680 --> 0:01:54.560 these laws, so we've kept them for last because they 0:01:54.640 --> 0:01:58.680 are super interesting, but they're super important. So the Law 0:01:58.720 --> 0:02:03.160 of rhythm talks about how everything in our universe goes 0:02:03.320 --> 0:02:07.080 around in cycles and seasons. I love to think of 0:02:07.120 --> 0:02:10.080 this law as like the infinity law, like what goes 0:02:10.120 --> 0:02:14.360 around comes around. And then the law of gender gets 0:02:14.360 --> 0:02:19.520 into how everything has masculine and feminine energy. Now, of 0:02:19.680 --> 0:02:23.000 course we are not talking about male and female energy. 0:02:23.120 --> 0:02:26.959 It's masculine and feminine. So me as a woman has 0:02:27.080 --> 0:02:31.799 both masculine feminine energy, so does Timothy vice versa. 0:02:31.280 --> 0:02:33.040 So like ying yang. 0:02:33.000 --> 0:02:38.480 Ying yang energy, like doing pushing energy compared to receiving 0:02:38.840 --> 0:02:42.080 being energy. So we'll get into that. 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We will put a link 0:07:13.200 --> 0:07:15.800 and all the details in the show notes, but let's 0:07:15.800 --> 0:07:24.800 get into the episode. So the universal law of rhythm 0:07:25.080 --> 0:07:29.240 states that everything in the universe operates in cycles and rhythms, 0:07:29.880 --> 0:07:36.040 experiencing periods of expansion and contraction, growth and decline. This 0:07:36.160 --> 0:07:40.160 law teaches us that life is characterized by constant change 0:07:40.200 --> 0:07:44.320 and that no condition or situation is permanent. Understand the 0:07:44.400 --> 0:07:47.000 law of rhythm helps us navigate through the ups and 0:07:47.040 --> 0:07:50.280 downs of life with great ease and acceptance. We can 0:07:50.400 --> 0:07:53.080 use the law of rhythm in our lives by recognizing 0:07:53.120 --> 0:07:57.840 that challenging or different periods are temporary and will eventually 0:07:57.880 --> 0:08:02.400 give way to more positive and harmon phases. So by 0:08:02.600 --> 0:08:05.560 embracing the rhythm of life, we can learn how to 0:08:05.600 --> 0:08:08.880 flow with the changes rather than resisting. And also this 0:08:08.960 --> 0:08:12.160 law reminds us to have patience and trust during times 0:08:12.200 --> 0:08:16.240 of stagnation or decline, knowing that they are necessary for 0:08:16.400 --> 0:08:21.720 growth and renew all. So I love this law so 0:08:21.800 --> 0:08:26.200 much because something you know, I constantly say is there 0:08:26.440 --> 0:08:30.800 is seasons for everything, and when you're so clear and 0:08:30.880 --> 0:08:34.319 intentional with the season you're in, you really can use 0:08:34.360 --> 0:08:37.520 it as your advantage for life and to feel a 0:08:37.559 --> 0:08:41.680 certain way. So very much like the conversation we're having 0:08:41.760 --> 0:08:44.240 the other day, a tear of if you're in a 0:08:44.280 --> 0:08:48.760 season of hustle, lean in and like go for it, yeah, 0:08:48.960 --> 0:08:51.840 and don't look around and don't see other people who 0:08:51.880 --> 0:08:54.160 are you know, in their soft girl era or like 0:08:54.320 --> 0:08:56.120 chillin and be like, oh, I wish I was doing that. 0:08:56.800 --> 0:08:59.880 Know the season you're in, commit and do it, but 0:09:00.240 --> 0:09:04.679 also know when you need to start shifting things, changing 0:09:04.720 --> 0:09:08.800 things and heading into a new season. And it's kind 0:09:08.840 --> 0:09:14.320 of just like the seasons of the year of summer, spring, autumn, 0:09:14.360 --> 0:09:18.680 and winter. From like a very a climate perspective, it's 0:09:18.720 --> 0:09:23.079 like there's times where you plant seeds, there's times where 0:09:23.160 --> 0:09:27.880 you really let like nourish and let those seeds thrive 0:09:28.120 --> 0:09:32.000 and turn into plants. And then there's times where you 0:09:32.120 --> 0:09:35.800 cultivate them and you then go and sell them. It's 0:09:35.800 --> 0:09:39.560 like there's seasons for everything. And it's interesting because me 0:09:39.679 --> 0:09:42.880 and my mentor were actually talking about this and from 0:09:43.000 --> 0:09:46.800 the perspective of me at the moment in business and 0:09:47.440 --> 0:09:52.160 h like, I'm very much wearing my CEO pens and 0:09:52.200 --> 0:09:57.440 it's this huge season where things might feel quote unquote 0:09:57.840 --> 0:10:02.319 boring and stable, but we are very much creating our 0:10:02.480 --> 0:10:06.280 foundations for a new season of growth that is coming. 0:10:06.920 --> 0:10:09.600 So we're you know, we've had a lot of changes 0:10:09.679 --> 0:10:12.360 in our team. We've had a lot of changes in 0:10:12.400 --> 0:10:15.600 the way we do things. We are very much doing 0:10:15.760 --> 0:10:19.240 things from We're not just a startup anymore. We're not 0:10:19.360 --> 0:10:22.720 just cowboys, you know. I often like to describe our 0:10:22.760 --> 0:10:25.240 first couple of years like we just tried a whole 0:10:25.240 --> 0:10:27.080 bunch of shit, and a lot of it was like 0:10:27.200 --> 0:10:30.760 exciting and new, and we're finding our feet and it 0:10:30.840 --> 0:10:33.000 was really cool. But it's like now we're in this 0:10:33.080 --> 0:10:37.680 new phase where we're actually creating foundations. We're working with 0:10:38.120 --> 0:10:42.280 external consultants to scale, and like a lot of it 0:10:42.320 --> 0:10:45.800 is like a bit Unsexyyah includes a lot of spreadsheets 0:10:47.160 --> 0:10:50.360 and procedures and we're doing S and OP meetings and 0:10:50.800 --> 0:10:54.040 it's this whole big thing. But realizing it's kind of 0:10:54.120 --> 0:10:59.600 like we're really planting and nourishing our seeds. Knowing that 0:10:59.720 --> 0:11:02.720 then and there's going to be a growth period where 0:11:02.800 --> 0:11:05.080 you know, it might get a bit more exciting and 0:11:05.120 --> 0:11:07.079 we might be able to try some new things, but 0:11:07.240 --> 0:11:13.320 this season is really really important and being able to 0:11:13.400 --> 0:11:16.720 lock into that, and it's like, for example, a's here, 0:11:17.000 --> 0:11:19.600 how you know everyone went to Europe this year? Everyone 0:11:19.679 --> 0:11:22.440 to Europe and it's like they had the best time 0:11:23.120 --> 0:11:26.640 and they are fucking jumping into clear water and looking 0:11:26.679 --> 0:11:29.720 cute and dancing on tables. And here's me and a tear. 0:11:29.920 --> 0:11:32.480 I've got an eighteen month old baby, which's nearly two. Now, 0:11:32.840 --> 0:11:35.719 I've got a baby, and I'm like doing S and 0:11:35.760 --> 0:11:38.720 OP meetings to work and a tear is you know, 0:11:38.920 --> 0:11:44.880 slaven away and not doing anything fun. But you know 0:11:45.040 --> 0:11:49.080 you're in a season of planting seeds also, and also 0:11:49.440 --> 0:11:51.960 I know you're in a season of like getting your 0:11:52.080 --> 0:11:56.280 routine so sordid and so grounded that it's like that's 0:11:56.520 --> 0:11:59.680 second nature to you, and like that's pretty boring. Let's 0:11:59.679 --> 0:12:01.480 be the most. 0:12:01.520 --> 0:12:03.560 Have got to be excited about at the moment, to 0:12:03.600 --> 0:12:04.880 be honest, But that's. 0:12:04.720 --> 0:12:10.240 Like it's needed. And for example, the people parting in Europe, Like, 0:12:10.280 --> 0:12:13.880 of course they're creating amazing experiences. But I'm not gonna 0:12:13.880 --> 0:12:16.160 sit here and be jealous because I'm like I'm fucking 0:12:16.240 --> 0:12:20.040 creating an empire. Like I'm not worried because of my 0:12:20.320 --> 0:12:23.680 season right now being different to someone else's. Yeah, And 0:12:23.720 --> 0:12:25.719 I think it's really important to lock in. And that's 0:12:25.720 --> 0:12:28.280 the thing is, if you are the person at Europe 0:12:28.360 --> 0:12:31.720 having fun, you're probably not saving money, you're probably not 0:12:32.320 --> 0:12:34.839 working on your career in a certain like you may be, 0:12:35.080 --> 0:12:38.160 but it's like it's just different and that's fine and 0:12:38.200 --> 0:12:40.960 that's perfect. But like lean into that season and be 0:12:41.080 --> 0:12:42.640 clear about that season. 0:12:42.400 --> 0:12:45.520 And I think make the most of the season you're in. 0:12:45.800 --> 0:12:48.640 Don't just sit there wishing you're in a different one. 0:12:48.840 --> 0:12:50.319 Yeah, because you're wasting time and. 0:12:50.440 --> 0:12:53.960 You're wasting time and energy, and it's like your summer 0:12:53.960 --> 0:12:56.559 in Europe will come. It may be soon, it may 0:12:56.600 --> 0:12:59.200 not be soon, but it'll happen. You'll go through that 0:12:59.320 --> 0:13:03.080 season and you don't want to be going through that 0:13:03.160 --> 0:13:05.760 season wishing you worked harder when you weren't in Europe 0:13:05.760 --> 0:13:07.680 so that you could be having more fun right now 0:13:08.200 --> 0:13:11.280 or things like that. So just recognizing that where you 0:13:11.320 --> 0:13:15.640 are at is perfect for you and really just like 0:13:15.880 --> 0:13:18.440 enjoying it to the maximum. 0:13:18.480 --> 0:13:20.640 And that's even like if you are going through a 0:13:20.679 --> 0:13:27.880 season of hardships and challenges, it's like like shifting your 0:13:27.920 --> 0:13:32.000 perspective of like what could this season be teaching me 0:13:32.559 --> 0:13:36.400 that then is a really amazing tool that I use 0:13:36.480 --> 0:13:37.640 when things are really great? 0:13:37.840 --> 0:13:38.200 Yeah? 0:13:38.840 --> 0:13:43.599 Or how could the universe actually be pushing me into 0:13:43.840 --> 0:13:48.199 experiencing something so I know how to hold a frequency 0:13:48.320 --> 0:13:50.760 of then that is the frequency of what I want 0:13:50.800 --> 0:13:51.280 to attract. 0:13:51.880 --> 0:13:54.520 Yes, I love that. And I loved the example you 0:13:54.600 --> 0:13:58.560 used before of like the crops, because you have the 0:13:58.600 --> 0:14:01.320 time where you harvest the crops, but also after you 0:14:01.400 --> 0:14:04.959 harvest the crops, before you even get to plant new crops, 0:14:05.240 --> 0:14:08.040 you have to let the soil rest. Yeah, And I 0:14:08.080 --> 0:14:11.160 think it's also important for people to remember that that 0:14:11.280 --> 0:14:14.040 season is just as important as the season where you're 0:14:14.040 --> 0:14:17.560 planting the seeds and growing the plants and then harvesting, 0:14:17.920 --> 0:14:21.760 because if you don't let that soil replenish properly, as 0:14:21.800 --> 0:14:24.600 you continue to harvest and harvest in harvest, the soil 0:14:24.680 --> 0:14:27.720 is going to lose nutrients. And you're the same in 0:14:27.800 --> 0:14:30.920 that you will have seasons of rest that seem mundane, 0:14:30.920 --> 0:14:34.320 that seem boring, But that is as important, if not 0:14:34.480 --> 0:14:37.880 more important, to see to the end as the season 0:14:37.880 --> 0:14:39.720 where you then plant more seeds. 0:14:39.520 --> 0:14:42.240 And to honor the season, because that's the thing is. 0:14:42.360 --> 0:14:45.840 I have been through periods of my life where it 0:14:46.040 --> 0:14:48.760 was a season of rest and I didn't rest, and 0:14:48.800 --> 0:14:52.840 then from that I experience burnt out health issues and 0:14:52.960 --> 0:14:56.240 things that then delayed the growth and the exciting season 0:14:56.320 --> 0:15:00.560 because I did not listen to what I needed to honor. Yeah, 0:15:00.600 --> 0:15:03.480 and that's even something I can really look back with 0:15:03.600 --> 0:15:07.000 hindsight and look at as when me and Tim were 0:15:07.000 --> 0:15:12.280 on a trying to conceive journey, I really fought against 0:15:12.400 --> 0:15:15.640 the like the universe in what I thought I needed. 0:15:16.080 --> 0:15:20.280 So I was so stuck on we need to have 0:15:20.320 --> 0:15:23.880 a child. I want to be pregnant now, like this 0:15:24.080 --> 0:15:26.360 is what I want and very much. I did not 0:15:26.480 --> 0:15:29.360 on the season. And for example, I look back now, 0:15:29.440 --> 0:15:32.320 and you know, it was my I think it was 0:15:32.360 --> 0:15:36.600 like my twenties, my twenty sixth birthday, and because we 0:15:36.600 --> 0:15:39.720 were trying to conceive, like I didn't drink and I 0:15:39.800 --> 0:15:43.960 didn't go out, and I didn't like spend any fun time. 0:15:44.160 --> 0:15:46.880 And I remember half the month I was like stressed 0:15:46.920 --> 0:15:49.680 and worried because I'd like constantly take a pregnancy test 0:15:49.760 --> 0:15:53.440 and like I was not letting go and trusting and 0:15:53.520 --> 0:15:57.520 embracing life. And that was like emotionally one of the 0:15:57.600 --> 0:16:00.760 hardest years of my life. And I was like a 0:16:00.760 --> 0:16:03.600 shell of a human. And it's so funny because now 0:16:03.680 --> 0:16:06.400 it's like, obviously, in hindsight, is a beautiful thing. But 0:16:07.320 --> 0:16:09.720 if I could go back and just tell myself that, 0:16:09.800 --> 0:16:12.360 it's like, bitch, you're gonna be pregnant in a year, 0:16:12.600 --> 0:16:15.080 so make the most of it. Make the most of it, 0:16:15.160 --> 0:16:17.960 and just enjoy this time with your husband and go 0:16:18.080 --> 0:16:21.360 for walks and go out with your friends and have 0:16:21.440 --> 0:16:24.880 fun and go on some holidays and really enjoy yourself 0:16:24.880 --> 0:16:27.080 because you're about to be in for a ride. Yeah, 0:16:27.120 --> 0:16:28.960 and it's like I wish I could go back, and 0:16:29.000 --> 0:16:32.040 I really see that being like one of the biggest 0:16:32.080 --> 0:16:35.520 lessons because the universe was like, no, I'm not going 0:16:35.600 --> 0:16:38.160 to give this to you until you surrender. And it 0:16:38.200 --> 0:16:42.040 took me a year to surrender. Wow, because it's crazy 0:16:42.040 --> 0:16:44.040 of like once we had a miscarriage and then once 0:16:44.080 --> 0:16:47.560 I got my implants out homemember saying to Tim, I'm 0:16:47.600 --> 0:16:50.800 so over forcing this and trying this, and of course 0:16:50.960 --> 0:16:54.000 I'm going to take inspied action and move my feet. 0:16:54.360 --> 0:16:57.840 But I remember surrendering and we were not like we 0:16:57.840 --> 0:16:59.200 were pregnant a couple months later. 0:16:59.360 --> 0:16:59.920 Oh my god. 0:17:00.280 --> 0:17:01.800 And it's so like I wish I could go back 0:17:01.800 --> 0:17:04.480 and tell that person, like it's all good, just surrender. So, 0:17:04.600 --> 0:17:08.320 for example, if you are in a season of fun 0:17:08.400 --> 0:17:10.040 and you going to Europe and do that thing, like 0:17:10.400 --> 0:17:12.240 don't be worried what other people are doing with their 0:17:12.280 --> 0:17:14.320 career or if they're buying a new house or they're 0:17:14.720 --> 0:17:17.520 you know, just embrace it. And that's even like I 0:17:17.560 --> 0:17:20.520 truly believe social media is fucking up everyone's law of 0:17:20.560 --> 0:17:25.560 rhythm because they are looking at everyone else's lives and 0:17:25.680 --> 0:17:29.119 seeing like what other people are doing and not honoring 0:17:29.160 --> 0:17:31.119 the season. It's really funny. I actually did this the 0:17:31.119 --> 0:17:34.800 other day tea because a really big thing that comes 0:17:34.840 --> 0:17:36.880 up on my feed because I do consume a lot 0:17:36.880 --> 0:17:40.440 of like mother content, is there's definitely like this trend 0:17:40.480 --> 0:17:43.119 the see happening at the moment where it's this whole 0:17:43.240 --> 0:17:47.680 vibe of stair at home moms and you know, there's 0:17:47.680 --> 0:17:51.399 a lot of energy of being the homemaker is like 0:17:51.480 --> 0:17:53.439 one of the biggest jobs and I don't need to 0:17:53.480 --> 0:17:56.439 have a career, and I like, I love this energy 0:17:56.880 --> 0:18:00.840 and that I'm so happy for those people that I 0:18:01.040 --> 0:18:03.439 sometimes like will get that piece of content and be like, 0:18:04.119 --> 0:18:06.000 oh my god, because I'm a working mom, I'm actually 0:18:06.000 --> 0:18:08.160 doing the opposite to them. And I'm like, oh my god, 0:18:08.240 --> 0:18:10.239 should I be a stay at home or you know, 0:18:10.359 --> 0:18:12.760 it enters my mind. Yeah, and then I've got to 0:18:12.800 --> 0:18:15.720 actively be like, no jobgy, you'd fucking hate that. And 0:18:16.280 --> 0:18:18.760 you've chosen and you've been intentional with your life and 0:18:18.760 --> 0:18:21.920 it's perfect for you and you have so much inner 0:18:22.119 --> 0:18:24.800 peace and happiness and so you need to lean into 0:18:24.840 --> 0:18:28.800 your season and I've got to be reminded. But it's 0:18:28.840 --> 0:18:31.040 like content like that can throw me off. 0:18:31.440 --> 0:18:33.960 I totally understand what you mean. And I feel like 0:18:34.720 --> 0:18:37.680 I really agree with social media messing that up because 0:18:37.720 --> 0:18:40.760 it's so much easier to stay I guess, in touch 0:18:40.880 --> 0:18:42.600 with people who you. 0:18:42.640 --> 0:18:44.920 Knew and see where they're at. 0:18:44.800 --> 0:18:47.359 And you're obviously going to compare because you kind of 0:18:47.440 --> 0:18:48.600 came from the same. 0:18:48.400 --> 0:18:50.920 Place and wow, interesting. 0:18:51.119 --> 0:18:53.359 Yeah, And I think in your twenties, you see people 0:18:53.640 --> 0:18:57.000 like I've seen people I know from I guess school 0:18:57.080 --> 0:18:59.840 is probably the easiest example. They're getting married, they're having 0:18:59.840 --> 0:19:04.320 been babies, they're buying houses, and they're traveling the world 0:19:04.359 --> 0:19:06.960 by themselves, and there's just all these people doing all 0:19:07.000 --> 0:19:10.760 these different things, and it's so easy to get over whelm, going, oh, 0:19:10.800 --> 0:19:13.280 should I be traveling the world right now by myself? Oh? 0:19:13.280 --> 0:19:15.480 Should I not be so much so worried about my 0:19:15.560 --> 0:19:17.880 career right now? Or should I be more worried about 0:19:17.880 --> 0:19:20.280 finding a partner right now and having a baby. And 0:19:20.320 --> 0:19:22.320 it's just so easy to get caught up in that 0:19:22.440 --> 0:19:25.840 and stuck in that and let that get to you. 0:19:26.000 --> 0:19:29.000 When as soon as you go internal, it's so much 0:19:29.040 --> 0:19:31.919 easier to be clear on what you actually want. And 0:19:31.960 --> 0:19:35.760 I think if you're in tune with that you'll be fine. 0:19:35.920 --> 0:19:38.879 And it's more just using the law of rhythm to 0:19:38.960 --> 0:19:41.760 ground you and remind you that, yes, it's there, but 0:19:41.880 --> 0:19:43.399 everybody's rhythm is different. 0:19:44.920 --> 0:19:47.399 That's why I truly believe you should have like set 0:19:47.480 --> 0:19:53.080 times on fucking TikTok and Instagram. We have a bone 0:19:53.080 --> 0:19:57.040 to be good, dude. I can get on TikTok for 0:19:57.040 --> 0:20:00.000 a couple of hours and it can disregulate me. Yeah, 0:20:00.320 --> 0:20:03.960 And like I am such a strong human, so I'm like, fuck, guys, 0:20:03.960 --> 0:20:07.199 if you're consuming it every single night, like stop, because 0:20:07.280 --> 0:20:10.840 you'd be such you'd be not a grounded human one 0:20:10.880 --> 0:20:15.159 hundred percent. So for example, like if you have friends 0:20:15.200 --> 0:20:18.160 from school who are doing certain stuff like mute them, 0:20:19.320 --> 0:20:21.200 mute them on Instagram, like if they're about to get 0:20:21.200 --> 0:20:23.040 married and stuff, and you're like getting a bit triggered 0:20:23.080 --> 0:20:25.639 and you're like the four enters into your mind of 0:20:25.680 --> 0:20:27.280 like oh maybe I should be getting married. I don't know, 0:20:27.320 --> 0:20:30.000 whatever it is. Yeah, it's like mute that person, like 0:20:30.119 --> 0:20:33.440 be conscious about what you're consuming and what is knocking 0:20:33.480 --> 0:20:34.359 you off the path. 0:20:34.600 --> 0:20:35.240 Yeah. 0:20:35.280 --> 0:20:38.080 So it's like we're all fucking self led humans. Yeah, 0:20:38.119 --> 0:20:39.960 And that's why I don't spend a lot of time 0:20:39.960 --> 0:20:42.439 on TikTok. Yeah, because it literally gets to me and 0:20:42.480 --> 0:20:44.840 I'm like, maybe I should be a stare of mama 0:20:46.520 --> 0:20:50.040 as she laughs you and Tim. I know, Tim's like 0:20:50.880 --> 0:20:53.040 here ordering everyone around. He'd be great on the podcast. 0:20:53.200 --> 0:20:55.320 Would he would be great, you'd have he'd give you 0:20:55.400 --> 0:20:59.280 a lot of time. Yeah, you're like Georgie never said this. 0:21:01.400 --> 0:21:04.480 So guys, knowing your season and that's the thing if 0:21:04.520 --> 0:21:07.000 you are a stay at home mum and maybe it's 0:21:07.040 --> 0:21:09.960 the opposite thing of like you see women pursuing their 0:21:09.960 --> 0:21:13.200 career and that triggers you of like knowing that this 0:21:13.320 --> 0:21:15.639 actually just gets to be the beautiful season where you 0:21:15.680 --> 0:21:19.400 do look after your children and you can like always 0:21:19.440 --> 0:21:21.800 shift of like maybe you do swop with your partner, 0:21:22.160 --> 0:21:24.040 or maybe once the kids go to school, you do 0:21:24.119 --> 0:21:26.480 pursue your career and it's never too late. And just 0:21:26.520 --> 0:21:30.080 because your season looks different doesn't make it wrong. And 0:21:30.160 --> 0:21:34.600 be really conscious about what's in your life. Of telling 0:21:34.640 --> 0:21:37.840 you you're not in the right season. Is it? Content? 0:21:38.119 --> 0:21:41.160 Is it? People like what is it? And then saying 0:21:41.160 --> 0:21:45.520 that like, I guess contradicting that is if you do 0:21:45.640 --> 0:21:47.960 have this feeling of you are in the wrong season 0:21:48.000 --> 0:21:50.120 and it keeps coming up. It's like, maybe you need 0:21:50.160 --> 0:21:51.520 to listen to it and shift. 0:21:52.119 --> 0:21:55.040 I love that, And I think overall with this law, 0:21:55.240 --> 0:21:58.919 what it can remind us and what we need to 0:21:59.040 --> 0:22:02.760 use it as is I always hear people saying, oh, 0:22:02.800 --> 0:22:05.639 I have rose colored glasses on for the past or 0:22:05.640 --> 0:22:08.800 for the future, in that you think future you will 0:22:08.840 --> 0:22:12.199 be different to now you, and you think past you 0:22:12.400 --> 0:22:14.879 was different to who you are now. And although that 0:22:15.040 --> 0:22:19.680 is true, what I find is some people I think 0:22:19.800 --> 0:22:22.199 jobs are a really good example, like one of my 0:22:22.240 --> 0:22:25.240 friends left a really toxic workplace and started somewhere new 0:22:25.560 --> 0:22:27.960