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Speaker 1: Jersey and Amanda gam.

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Speaker 2: Nation the pub test today, guests helping with the dishes?

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Speaker 2: Does that pass the pub test?

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Speaker 3: You think it'd be a wonderful thing, but maybe not.

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Speaker 3: Someone's written into an advice column in the Washington Post

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Speaker 3: saying that in their tiny, tiny kitchen there's no room

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Speaker 3: to stack dishes. They have a rhythm and they say

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Speaker 3: to the guests, please don't do it, let me, But

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Speaker 3: guests will always insist on helping, and it's not helpful.

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Speaker 4: When we have book club, it's all girls.

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Speaker 3: Everyone pictures in. It's understood that you relinquish control in

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Speaker 3: your kitchen, something quite freeing about it. But other than that,

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Speaker 3: I don't think I can. I think that I would

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Speaker 3: rather just stack the dishes and deal with it later

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Speaker 3: when everyone's gone.

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Speaker 4: You say you.

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Speaker 2: Do the deal with it later. I just do it

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Speaker 2: as we're going, but I do it very discreetly, very discreet,

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Speaker 2: and take a ja womanizing behind Jerry's what's her.

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Speaker 4: Name, Cherry Haul's back. So the only thing broken is

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Speaker 4: a heart, not places.

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Speaker 2: That she never noticed until he got two showing started

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Speaker 2: getting Brazilian supermodels pregnant. That's the problem.

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Speaker 4: But you can't stand anyone in your kitchen.

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Speaker 2: You no, no, no, But you know if you get

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Speaker 2: an ally that helps you stack the dishes. You know,

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Speaker 2: they gather the plates together, separate the knives and forks

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Speaker 2: and that sort of stuff.

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Speaker 5: But you do it discretely.

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Speaker 3: It's easily.

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Speaker 4: Yes, he's helping with the dishes. Does it pass the

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Speaker 4: pub test?

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Speaker 6: No?

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Speaker 7: Because I like to do things in a little fashion,

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Speaker 7: and if they do it wrong, I don't like it

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Speaker 7: wash and then leaving its dry, and I don't like that.

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Speaker 7: I like them for a way.

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Speaker 1: No, it doesn't pass the pub test. I just think

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Speaker 1: they need to come over and just enjoy the company

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Speaker 1: and the food and the drink and relax.

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Speaker 6: My brother than sit down. My husband and I've always

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Speaker 6: got a rhythm to do it. So I throw them

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Speaker 6: to sit down. Because the kitchen's just small, so the

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Speaker 6: more people go in there, it's really tight to actually

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Speaker 6: do anything.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: No, it doesn't pass the pub test. I don't like

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Speaker 5: anyone in the kitchen because I don't cook, but I

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Speaker 5: clean up very well and orchestrate how the dishwasher is stacked.

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Speaker 5: I don't want any interruption. So I'm with Jonesy.

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Speaker 2: There you go, keep away from.

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Speaker 3: My dishworsh So it sounds like it's a great thing,

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Speaker 3: everyone offering to help, but it's not always.

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Speaker 2: Not always.

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Speaker 3: Next time we'll do the How do you feel if

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Speaker 3: someone brings a dish to the dinner party, a plate.

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Speaker 4: Of food that's not asked for. We'll deal with that

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Speaker 4: next time.

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Speaker 3: Can flowers if someone brings flowers and you've got ten

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Speaker 3: guests and you're holding a bunch of flowers.

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Speaker 2: So much to unpack, so much to unpack, so little time.