1 00:00:00,480 --> 00:00:13,640 Speaker 1: You are now entering the court of Judge Gina Leano. 2 00:00:15,680 --> 00:00:19,200 Speaker 2: Weddings can create drama between the very people they're supposed 3 00:00:19,239 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 2: to be uniting for life. If you have an argument 4 00:00:22,720 --> 00:00:25,480 Speaker 2: with your fiance that you once settled, once and for all, 5 00:00:25,880 --> 00:00:29,680 Speaker 2: you come to my courtroom. I am Judge Gina, and 6 00:00:29,720 --> 00:00:33,040 Speaker 2: my decision is final. You better be ready to hear 7 00:00:33,080 --> 00:00:38,000 Speaker 2: my ruling. A marriage is the union of two equals 8 00:00:38,040 --> 00:00:40,600 Speaker 2: in love. But what happens when the planning of the 9 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:44,919 Speaker 2: wedding is unbalanced? Partners in love are not always partners 10 00:00:44,920 --> 00:00:48,920 Speaker 2: in planning. Nicole has brought her fiance matt to Judge Gina, 11 00:00:49,360 --> 00:00:52,800 Speaker 2: demanding that they hire a wedding planner for their upcoming nuptials. 12 00:00:53,280 --> 00:00:56,240 Speaker 2: Nicole is seeking three thousand dollars to hire a wedding 13 00:00:56,280 --> 00:00:57,720 Speaker 2: planner for their big day. 14 00:00:58,440 --> 00:01:00,880 Speaker 3: My name is Nicole Shooter and I have come to 15 00:01:00,960 --> 00:01:06,160 Speaker 3: Judge Gina today because I want a wedding planner. My fiance, Matthew, 16 00:01:06,200 --> 00:01:10,360 Speaker 3: does not want a wedding planner. He is DIY saves 17 00:01:10,400 --> 00:01:11,679 Speaker 3: money wherever he can. 18 00:01:12,520 --> 00:01:15,319 Speaker 4: I want to spend the money elsewhere, like a honeymoon. 19 00:01:15,319 --> 00:01:17,240 Speaker 4: We currently don't have a budget for a honeymoon. 20 00:01:17,560 --> 00:01:19,920 Speaker 3: I like to get professional to do it and get 21 00:01:19,959 --> 00:01:21,520 Speaker 3: it done and get it done properly. 22 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:24,200 Speaker 5: My relationship with Ni Carl has been a long one. 23 00:01:24,240 --> 00:01:27,440 Speaker 4: We were dating for thirteen fourteen years before we got engaged. 24 00:01:27,760 --> 00:01:31,200 Speaker 3: I met Matthew when I was in year ten, Matthew 25 00:01:31,280 --> 00:01:34,120 Speaker 3: was in year eleven. He walked into the room and 26 00:01:34,160 --> 00:01:37,319 Speaker 3: it was kind of love at first sight, and we. 27 00:01:37,319 --> 00:01:40,679 Speaker 4: Are having a relatively short engagement, which is what we 28 00:01:40,760 --> 00:01:41,240 Speaker 4: both want. 29 00:01:41,680 --> 00:01:43,920 Speaker 3: I want a wedding planner because I want to take 30 00:01:43,920 --> 00:01:46,600 Speaker 3: the stress off myself, a mental load. I want to 31 00:01:46,640 --> 00:01:49,560 Speaker 3: have someone there to support us on this journey. I've 32 00:01:49,560 --> 00:01:52,040 Speaker 3: never planned a wedding before, so I just need that 33 00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:52,840 Speaker 3: extra support. 34 00:01:53,320 --> 00:01:57,960 Speaker 4: I'm hoping the outcome today is that Gina realizes we 35 00:01:58,000 --> 00:01:59,040 Speaker 4: don't need a wedding planner. 36 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:00,720 Speaker 5: You know, were mostly of the process. 37 00:02:00,840 --> 00:02:03,600 Speaker 4: We've done most of the organizing ourselves. 38 00:02:03,720 --> 00:02:06,160 Speaker 5: So hopefully the outcomes in my favorite that we don't 39 00:02:06,200 --> 00:02:07,040 Speaker 5: need a wedding plan. 40 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:18,119 Speaker 1: Court is now in session. Please rise for Judge Gina. 41 00:02:19,040 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 2: So, Nicole and Matt you're here today, and Nicole, you 42 00:02:23,520 --> 00:02:27,880 Speaker 2: have a claim against matt who is your fiance. Is 43 00:02:27,919 --> 00:02:28,520 Speaker 2: that correct? 44 00:02:28,880 --> 00:02:29,400 Speaker 6: Correct? 45 00:02:29,840 --> 00:02:34,880 Speaker 2: Okay? And you're wanting to be compensated one three hundred 46 00:02:34,919 --> 00:02:37,640 Speaker 2: and thirty three dollars for three and a half weeks 47 00:02:37,680 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 2: off work prior to your wedding? Is that right? 48 00:02:40,320 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 6: Correct? 49 00:02:40,880 --> 00:02:42,880 Speaker 2: Okay? So I'm going to start with you, Nicole, just 50 00:02:42,919 --> 00:02:46,240 Speaker 2: because you are the applicant. How did you meet and 51 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:48,120 Speaker 2: how did your relationship with Matt begin? 52 00:02:49,040 --> 00:02:51,160 Speaker 6: So? We met back in two thousand and eight. 53 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:56,720 Speaker 7: I was in year ten and I at that time 54 00:02:56,960 --> 00:03:00,520 Speaker 7: decided that I wanted to be a sport teacher. 55 00:03:01,000 --> 00:03:02,800 Speaker 6: I thought I wanted to be a sports teacher. 56 00:03:03,440 --> 00:03:05,440 Speaker 2: Stick with the facts, please, okay? 57 00:03:05,639 --> 00:03:08,120 Speaker 6: Im him in year ten? Matthew was in year eleven. 58 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:13,079 Speaker 2: Okay, in two thousand and eight. Correct, you met then? 59 00:03:13,120 --> 00:03:14,360 Speaker 2: And when did you start dating? 60 00:03:14,880 --> 00:03:15,720 Speaker 6: Four weeks later? 61 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:18,840 Speaker 2: Okay? And when did you get engaged? 62 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 6: October? 63 00:03:20,120 --> 00:03:24,160 Speaker 2: October twenty two. And are you living together? 64 00:03:24,919 --> 00:03:25,680 Speaker 6: Yes, we are? 65 00:03:26,200 --> 00:03:27,480 Speaker 2: And when did you move in together? 66 00:03:27,919 --> 00:03:27,959 Speaker 8: What? 67 00:03:28,160 --> 00:03:30,839 Speaker 6: Three years ago? Can we build a house? Dreams ago? 68 00:03:31,200 --> 00:03:33,000 Speaker 5: Yeah? Three? Three? Four years ago? 69 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:39,600 Speaker 2: Okay? So you dated for twelve years before you moved 70 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:40,120 Speaker 2: in together. 71 00:03:40,520 --> 00:03:43,400 Speaker 6: Correct. We did long distance for four and a half 72 00:03:43,400 --> 00:03:44,320 Speaker 6: of those years. 73 00:03:44,640 --> 00:03:48,240 Speaker 2: So, Matt you proposed Nicole in October last year. Tell 74 00:03:48,280 --> 00:03:50,720 Speaker 2: me about the proposal. How did you do that? Did 75 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:52,080 Speaker 2: you buy a ring? First of all? 76 00:03:52,480 --> 00:03:55,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, So I bought him in Tasmania about a month 77 00:03:55,480 --> 00:04:00,680 Speaker 4: before I met Nicolo over in La over there doing 78 00:04:00,680 --> 00:04:03,760 Speaker 4: a bit of study for a little while, and I 79 00:04:03,880 --> 00:04:04,800 Speaker 4: come over for a month. 80 00:04:05,360 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 5: We went to Vegas for five days. 81 00:04:08,240 --> 00:04:10,240 Speaker 2: That could have saved you a lot of money. You know, 82 00:04:10,320 --> 00:04:11,600 Speaker 2: you could have just got married there. 83 00:04:12,240 --> 00:04:13,640 Speaker 6: I know we're stupid. 84 00:04:13,920 --> 00:04:14,520 Speaker 5: We should off. 85 00:04:14,640 --> 00:04:16,279 Speaker 2: Yeah, could have saved you a lot of money. 86 00:04:16,279 --> 00:04:16,680 Speaker 3: But go on. 87 00:04:17,080 --> 00:04:17,880 Speaker 5: We went to what do we do? 88 00:04:17,920 --> 00:04:20,680 Speaker 4: We went to a circus, the Michael Jackson Show that 89 00:04:20,760 --> 00:04:24,120 Speaker 4: finished at around eleven thirty or something at night, and 90 00:04:24,160 --> 00:04:29,160 Speaker 4: I knew at midnight the Bellagio Hotel fountain fire works 91 00:04:29,160 --> 00:04:31,960 Speaker 4: go off at midnight. So then I knew that if 92 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:34,560 Speaker 4: I could get there before midnight when the water fountains 93 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:36,159 Speaker 4: all went off, that would be a pretty good moment. 94 00:04:36,640 --> 00:04:39,839 Speaker 4: So it started going off, and then I got down 95 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:42,520 Speaker 4: on one knee. I think Nicole turned around and noticed 96 00:04:42,520 --> 00:04:45,920 Speaker 4: that I wasn't standing up and looked down. She looked shocked. Yeah, 97 00:04:45,960 --> 00:04:48,719 Speaker 4: so she didn't. I don't think she was taking it 98 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:50,440 Speaker 4: seriously for a second. She thought it was all a 99 00:04:50,560 --> 00:04:52,400 Speaker 4: joke because I joke around. 100 00:04:52,120 --> 00:04:54,280 Speaker 2: Fair bit and then what did you say. 101 00:04:54,480 --> 00:04:57,760 Speaker 5: Will you marry me? I didn't say a lot. 102 00:04:57,760 --> 00:05:00,480 Speaker 2: And she obviously said yes because now you're planning your wedding. 103 00:05:01,000 --> 00:05:04,040 Speaker 6: Yeah, I said are you serious about twenty five? Fifty 104 00:05:04,080 --> 00:05:06,800 Speaker 6: times before I actually said right. 105 00:05:06,960 --> 00:05:10,360 Speaker 2: So he wasn't convincing his response to the first twenty 106 00:05:10,400 --> 00:05:11,680 Speaker 2: five questions. 107 00:05:11,960 --> 00:05:14,560 Speaker 6: I sometimes he would come home and like pretend he 108 00:05:14,680 --> 00:05:16,840 Speaker 6: was going to do it and just like joke. So 109 00:05:17,200 --> 00:05:19,360 Speaker 6: I was like, oh my god, it's actually like. 110 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:21,400 Speaker 2: You're amazing, Matt. That's a very mean thing. 111 00:05:21,960 --> 00:05:23,560 Speaker 6: I saw the ring and I was just like, oh 112 00:05:23,600 --> 00:05:25,840 Speaker 6: my god, is this a joke? 113 00:05:26,320 --> 00:05:28,080 Speaker 2: So I just want to know what do you love 114 00:05:28,120 --> 00:05:30,919 Speaker 2: about each other? Nicole? Three words to describe Matt? What 115 00:05:30,920 --> 00:05:31,880 Speaker 2: do you love about Matt? 116 00:05:32,279 --> 00:05:38,800 Speaker 6: His humor, he's kind and yeah, he's just he's just 117 00:05:38,920 --> 00:05:42,000 Speaker 6: cuddly and he's like a big teddy there cudly, he's 118 00:05:42,040 --> 00:05:44,440 Speaker 6: like a teddy bears. 119 00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:46,680 Speaker 2: And what about you? Matt? Three words to describe Nicole? 120 00:05:46,720 --> 00:05:47,359 Speaker 2: Why you love her? 121 00:05:49,839 --> 00:05:56,480 Speaker 5: She follows a dreams. Yeah, I've never had the answer. 122 00:05:56,520 --> 00:06:01,000 Speaker 2: That's there, you go. You never be married first time? 123 00:06:01,000 --> 00:06:01,400 Speaker 2: For everything? 124 00:06:01,520 --> 00:06:03,039 Speaker 5: We get along, We actually do get along with. 125 00:06:03,200 --> 00:06:11,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, what other word would you use? To describe her word. Yeah, passionate, passionate. Okay, 126 00:06:11,720 --> 00:06:13,760 Speaker 2: there you go. So you love each other and this 127 00:06:13,880 --> 00:06:16,080 Speaker 2: is going to be a beautiful thing, and you put 128 00:06:16,120 --> 00:06:18,719 Speaker 2: money aside between the two of you for this wedding. 129 00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:23,159 Speaker 2: Who's paying? You're saving for the wedding? Now? Trying to 130 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:24,919 Speaker 2: both and are you both working? 131 00:06:25,240 --> 00:06:26,799 Speaker 6: Yes, we're both working? 132 00:06:27,760 --> 00:06:29,160 Speaker 2: Okay, Nicole? What do you do? 133 00:06:29,880 --> 00:06:32,039 Speaker 6: So I'm a hairdresser and a dance teacher. 134 00:06:32,400 --> 00:06:33,520 Speaker 2: And what about you, Matt? 135 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:35,480 Speaker 5: I manage an aquatic center. 136 00:06:36,000 --> 00:06:38,560 Speaker 2: And do you sort of earn the same income? 137 00:06:39,080 --> 00:06:41,240 Speaker 6: Oh, you earn a bit more than me, Yeah, a 138 00:06:41,279 --> 00:06:42,600 Speaker 6: little bit, a little bit more. 139 00:06:43,040 --> 00:06:46,960 Speaker 2: Where are you getting married in Pasmania? All right? And 140 00:06:47,000 --> 00:06:50,200 Speaker 2: how many guests? Eighty two, one hundred eighty two, one 141 00:06:50,279 --> 00:06:53,520 Speaker 2: hundred guests? And how far off is your wedding? 142 00:06:53,920 --> 00:06:55,240 Speaker 6: January twenty twenty? 143 00:06:55,400 --> 00:06:56,040 Speaker 3: What's next year? 144 00:06:56,040 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 6: Twenty twenty four? 145 00:06:57,120 --> 00:06:58,520 Speaker 2: What's your budget for the wedding? 146 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:01,120 Speaker 5: There was never really a budget. There's just a figure 147 00:07:01,120 --> 00:07:03,200 Speaker 5: that it's come to and then that's how budget. 148 00:07:03,400 --> 00:07:04,479 Speaker 2: What's it per head? 149 00:07:05,160 --> 00:07:06,720 Speaker 5: Are we charging people per head? 150 00:07:06,839 --> 00:07:09,960 Speaker 2: Are you charging possibly? Yeah, you're going to charge your 151 00:07:09,960 --> 00:07:11,360 Speaker 2: guests to come to your wedding, But. 152 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:14,920 Speaker 4: We don't want gifts or nothing, because we don't need anything. 153 00:07:15,200 --> 00:07:16,840 Speaker 2: You want to charge them? How much are you going 154 00:07:16,840 --> 00:07:17,960 Speaker 2: to charge them per head? 155 00:07:18,160 --> 00:07:19,480 Speaker 5: About fifty dollars ahead? 156 00:07:19,680 --> 00:07:20,480 Speaker 2: Are you serious? 157 00:07:20,800 --> 00:07:22,800 Speaker 6: Yeah, it's a new thing. 158 00:07:23,680 --> 00:07:26,160 Speaker 5: It's in thing that is the normal thing in tasma. 159 00:07:26,560 --> 00:07:29,440 Speaker 6: Yeah, absolutely, in gifts and stuff. Now you just charge 160 00:07:29,480 --> 00:07:32,200 Speaker 6: it per head at the wedding because everything's so goddamn. 161 00:07:31,760 --> 00:07:35,920 Speaker 2: Expensive, So you're thinking about fifty works ahead, okay, just. 162 00:07:35,840 --> 00:07:40,160 Speaker 6: To cover a little portion. I mean we're putting on everything, food, wine. 163 00:07:40,040 --> 00:07:43,480 Speaker 2: Drink, fifty dollars ahead. It's only going to be five grand. 164 00:07:43,560 --> 00:07:46,240 Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, but that covers the food, so it's just. 165 00:07:46,200 --> 00:07:47,600 Speaker 2: Like a token contribution. 166 00:07:48,160 --> 00:07:50,520 Speaker 8: Yeah, okay, this is a gift in that, like, we 167 00:07:51,160 --> 00:07:54,680 Speaker 8: don't need gifts that we'd rather have a little bit 168 00:07:54,720 --> 00:07:56,600 Speaker 8: of money come off the wedding because we're obviously trying 169 00:07:56,640 --> 00:07:57,360 Speaker 8: to save it. 170 00:07:57,560 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 2: Have you had a quote from a wedding planner or coordinate? 171 00:08:00,520 --> 00:08:00,840 Speaker 6: Yes? 172 00:08:01,440 --> 00:08:02,840 Speaker 2: And what do they want to charge you? 173 00:08:03,160 --> 00:08:04,800 Speaker 6: Three thousand dollars okay? 174 00:08:05,840 --> 00:08:08,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, So tell me what you've organized so far. Have 175 00:08:08,360 --> 00:08:11,280 Speaker 2: you got your photographer yes? And you've got your. 176 00:08:11,200 --> 00:08:13,800 Speaker 6: Music yes, music's the most important. 177 00:08:14,160 --> 00:08:17,640 Speaker 2: And you've got your flowers no? So you need flowers. 178 00:08:17,960 --> 00:08:19,080 Speaker 2: Have you got your celebrant? 179 00:08:19,600 --> 00:08:19,800 Speaker 5: No? 180 00:08:20,160 --> 00:08:22,640 Speaker 2: What is there left to do now that a wedding 181 00:08:22,640 --> 00:08:23,480 Speaker 2: planner would do. 182 00:08:24,000 --> 00:08:25,520 Speaker 6: The color, the style? 183 00:08:25,840 --> 00:08:27,520 Speaker 2: Well, no, you're going to pick the color. You're going 184 00:08:27,560 --> 00:08:30,080 Speaker 2: to pick the style. Have you got bridesmaids? 185 00:08:30,400 --> 00:08:33,320 Speaker 6: Yes, I've got to do brides I've got seven, stupid 186 00:08:33,360 --> 00:08:33,559 Speaker 6: I do. 187 00:08:33,840 --> 00:08:36,120 Speaker 2: But that's just one dress and you buy seven of them. 188 00:08:36,320 --> 00:08:36,480 Speaker 3: Yeah. 189 00:08:36,559 --> 00:08:38,160 Speaker 6: I don't think I really want to do that. I 190 00:08:38,160 --> 00:08:40,600 Speaker 6: think we want to do different styles because we've got 191 00:08:40,640 --> 00:08:40,880 Speaker 6: you know. 192 00:08:40,960 --> 00:08:42,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, but your wedding plan is not going to do that. 193 00:08:43,080 --> 00:08:44,040 Speaker 6: No, she's not going to do that. 194 00:08:44,120 --> 00:08:45,000 Speaker 2: Have you got cars? 195 00:08:45,280 --> 00:08:46,839 Speaker 6: No, we don't have cars. 196 00:08:48,000 --> 00:08:50,280 Speaker 2: So you need flowers, a celebrant and cars. 197 00:08:50,840 --> 00:08:51,840 Speaker 5: We don't need cars. 198 00:08:51,960 --> 00:08:56,199 Speaker 6: We need signs, signings like welcome to the wedding, welcome 199 00:08:56,240 --> 00:08:56,559 Speaker 6: to the bar. 200 00:08:57,480 --> 00:09:01,079 Speaker 2: And Matt, what do you say about a wedding planner. 201 00:09:01,040 --> 00:09:04,440 Speaker 4: Well, I say it's getting to the point where it's 202 00:09:04,520 --> 00:09:07,360 Speaker 4: getting a little bit expensive and we need to probably 203 00:09:07,440 --> 00:09:09,559 Speaker 4: have the hard conversation and where to cut things. 204 00:09:10,440 --> 00:09:12,520 Speaker 5: And for me, this is the first to go. 205 00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:16,840 Speaker 2: All right. What about the question of who should organize 206 00:09:16,880 --> 00:09:20,360 Speaker 2: the wedding? Matt, you say that Nicole should do it 207 00:09:20,480 --> 00:09:21,559 Speaker 2: not a wedding planner. 208 00:09:22,080 --> 00:09:24,719 Speaker 5: No, no, no, no, we should both do it. But if 209 00:09:24,760 --> 00:09:27,240 Speaker 5: we're both equally doing it, you don't need a. 210 00:09:27,160 --> 00:09:29,839 Speaker 2: Wedding planner, Okay, But are you equally doing it? Is 211 00:09:29,880 --> 00:09:30,360 Speaker 2: the question. 212 00:09:31,800 --> 00:09:35,800 Speaker 5: I'd say, I work more, she's got more time. 213 00:09:35,920 --> 00:09:38,120 Speaker 2: No, that's not what I'm asked on the laptop. No, 214 00:09:38,520 --> 00:09:41,840 Speaker 2: I'm asking you, are you equally doing it? Your answer 215 00:09:41,920 --> 00:09:43,160 Speaker 2: is no, In. 216 00:09:43,679 --> 00:09:45,880 Speaker 5: Terms of what free time we have, i'd say, ye. 217 00:09:45,960 --> 00:09:49,079 Speaker 2: No, that's not what I asked you, because then you're 218 00:09:49,120 --> 00:09:52,920 Speaker 2: just pardoning off some of them, some of the responsibility 219 00:09:52,960 --> 00:09:54,920 Speaker 2: to someone else because you think that she's got the 220 00:09:54,920 --> 00:09:57,840 Speaker 2: time to do it. So my question to you is, 221 00:09:58,880 --> 00:10:01,240 Speaker 2: are you sharing the risk on's ability of the wedding 222 00:10:01,320 --> 00:10:02,679 Speaker 2: planning equally. 223 00:10:02,840 --> 00:10:03,920 Speaker 5: The stuff I'm allowed to do? 224 00:10:04,080 --> 00:10:08,240 Speaker 2: Yes, what does that mean? What does that mean? 225 00:10:08,920 --> 00:10:11,440 Speaker 4: I don't think there'd be there'd be no trust there 226 00:10:11,440 --> 00:10:15,840 Speaker 4: to let me pick flowers or decorations, colors, et cetera. 227 00:10:16,400 --> 00:10:20,480 Speaker 2: Right like that, But it's not something you would discuss together. Go, oh, 228 00:10:20,559 --> 00:10:24,800 Speaker 2: the bridesmaids, maybe they can wear green? What color all 229 00:10:24,840 --> 00:10:27,200 Speaker 2: that sort of thing? What colors are you referring to? 230 00:10:27,360 --> 00:10:29,280 Speaker 2: Like the decor in the venue. 231 00:10:29,600 --> 00:10:31,360 Speaker 5: Yeah, whatever decorations. 232 00:10:31,400 --> 00:10:33,000 Speaker 2: Did you choose the venue together? 233 00:10:33,480 --> 00:10:34,160 Speaker 5: Ye? Yes? 234 00:10:34,520 --> 00:10:36,320 Speaker 2: And what about all the other plans that you have 235 00:10:36,400 --> 00:10:38,839 Speaker 2: in your life, buying a car, buying a house, did 236 00:10:38,840 --> 00:10:41,640 Speaker 2: you do all those things together together? 237 00:10:41,800 --> 00:10:44,240 Speaker 5: Yeah? We just we designed and built our house together. 238 00:10:44,559 --> 00:10:46,959 Speaker 2: Right, Okay? So what do you want Matt to do? 239 00:10:48,080 --> 00:10:48,679 Speaker 6: Support me? 240 00:10:49,160 --> 00:10:49,640 Speaker 5: Have done? 241 00:10:49,800 --> 00:10:53,680 Speaker 2: And I wanted to organize it, organize what? 242 00:10:54,280 --> 00:10:57,280 Speaker 5: There's nothing to organize as you lock. 243 00:10:57,200 --> 00:10:59,880 Speaker 6: Them in, like you know when I like doing the research, 244 00:11:00,040 --> 00:11:03,079 Speaker 6: but then as for actually like making a decision, a 245 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:06,280 Speaker 6: final decision and then have like having the back and 246 00:11:06,320 --> 00:11:08,440 Speaker 6: forth email. Can you get me a quote? Can you 247 00:11:08,480 --> 00:11:09,760 Speaker 6: get this? How much do you call? 248 00:11:10,000 --> 00:11:12,440 Speaker 2: Are you sharing this information with Matt? 249 00:11:13,280 --> 00:11:13,880 Speaker 6: Absolutely? 250 00:11:14,040 --> 00:11:16,079 Speaker 2: Okay? And Matt, do you feel like you've been left 251 00:11:16,080 --> 00:11:19,359 Speaker 2: out of the loop at all in relation to these decisions? 252 00:11:19,679 --> 00:11:22,120 Speaker 4: No, I feel like we've been doing it pretty well 253 00:11:22,160 --> 00:11:24,680 Speaker 4: and then and then all of a sudden, Oh, there's 254 00:11:24,720 --> 00:11:26,920 Speaker 4: a third party we have to pay to do the 255 00:11:26,960 --> 00:11:27,880 Speaker 4: two percenters? 256 00:11:28,080 --> 00:11:31,360 Speaker 2: Okay, thanks Matt. So I'm not convinced that you equally 257 00:11:31,400 --> 00:11:35,640 Speaker 2: sharing the responsibility of this wedding planning. So, Nicole, what 258 00:11:35,679 --> 00:11:39,200 Speaker 2: sort of thing have you done so far? And what 259 00:11:39,320 --> 00:11:42,000 Speaker 2: sort of thing has Matt contributed so far. I want 260 00:11:42,000 --> 00:11:43,320 Speaker 2: to know a breakdown, all. 261 00:11:43,320 --> 00:11:46,520 Speaker 6: Right, So I've done the budget plan. So I've done 262 00:11:46,520 --> 00:11:47,480 Speaker 6: a detailed budget. 263 00:11:47,720 --> 00:11:53,200 Speaker 2: I contacted vendor caterers. Yeah, okay, not a vendor like 264 00:11:53,400 --> 00:11:55,200 Speaker 2: zin you're going to have a caravan out the front 265 00:11:55,200 --> 00:11:57,760 Speaker 2: and everyone can queue up and get a sevlaki. Not 266 00:11:57,880 --> 00:11:59,360 Speaker 2: that sort of vendor. We're kind of going to do 267 00:11:59,440 --> 00:12:04,280 Speaker 2: wood five semi okay. So this is a casual kickup 268 00:12:04,440 --> 00:12:05,480 Speaker 2: with heels affair. 269 00:12:05,600 --> 00:12:07,760 Speaker 5: It's a casual cocktails. 270 00:12:08,960 --> 00:12:14,599 Speaker 6: It's a casual, well planned out wedding. It's very detailed, 271 00:12:14,760 --> 00:12:15,440 Speaker 6: but casual. 272 00:12:16,000 --> 00:12:18,880 Speaker 2: Okay, what's the dress code. Let's get the vibe here. 273 00:12:18,920 --> 00:12:20,000 Speaker 2: What's the dress code? 274 00:12:20,080 --> 00:12:23,559 Speaker 6: The dress code is like a little bit beach here, 275 00:12:23,600 --> 00:12:26,959 Speaker 6: a little bit cocktailly, but like have a good. 276 00:12:26,880 --> 00:12:32,040 Speaker 2: Time, like bikinis with a high heel. No, is that 277 00:12:32,160 --> 00:12:32,719 Speaker 2: the sort of thing? 278 00:12:32,880 --> 00:12:34,439 Speaker 6: Absolutely not cover up? 279 00:12:34,520 --> 00:12:36,559 Speaker 2: What's a beach in a cocktail? I have been to 280 00:12:36,600 --> 00:12:38,880 Speaker 2: the beach in High Hills, by the way, just for 281 00:12:38,960 --> 00:12:39,360 Speaker 2: the record. 282 00:12:39,559 --> 00:12:43,040 Speaker 6: It's cut. It's like in this estate where there's the 283 00:12:43,120 --> 00:12:45,880 Speaker 6: beach down the road and it's a little bit rustick 284 00:12:45,920 --> 00:12:49,040 Speaker 6: and a bit edgy, and it's got like a Byrony 285 00:12:49,120 --> 00:12:50,360 Speaker 6: Bay kind of vibe. 286 00:12:50,440 --> 00:12:53,199 Speaker 2: And will the ceremony happen at the venue or do 287 00:12:53,280 --> 00:12:54,160 Speaker 2: guests have to move? 288 00:12:54,679 --> 00:12:57,200 Speaker 6: Yeah, there's an open air chapel at the venue where 289 00:12:57,200 --> 00:12:59,600 Speaker 6: we will be getting having a ceremony. 290 00:12:59,240 --> 00:13:01,920 Speaker 2: So you'll have this ceremony there and then everybody kicks 291 00:13:01,920 --> 00:13:04,679 Speaker 2: on and has pizzas on the beach with high heels 292 00:13:04,720 --> 00:13:06,440 Speaker 2: and a cocktail dress. 293 00:13:06,240 --> 00:13:10,000 Speaker 6: On at the venue and not in a bikini. Absolutely 294 00:13:10,080 --> 00:13:10,800 Speaker 6: not right? 295 00:13:10,920 --> 00:13:15,920 Speaker 2: Okay, So you've got musicians, photographers of your organized music music. 296 00:13:17,360 --> 00:13:21,679 Speaker 6: I've been doing mood board after mood board, getting colors, designs, 297 00:13:21,800 --> 00:13:23,960 Speaker 6: making sure everything matches in what's and. 298 00:13:24,040 --> 00:13:27,400 Speaker 2: You're enjoying that? Is that something that you in your element? 299 00:13:27,440 --> 00:13:29,280 Speaker 2: Do you feel that you're in your element doing this? 300 00:13:29,559 --> 00:13:33,240 Speaker 6: I enjoy the creative side and I love doing colors 301 00:13:33,280 --> 00:13:35,079 Speaker 6: and pitying and this and that. 302 00:13:35,760 --> 00:13:38,320 Speaker 2: So, you know, I think in most situations there's got 303 00:13:38,360 --> 00:13:40,520 Speaker 2: to be a driver. Would you agree with that? Someone's 304 00:13:40,559 --> 00:13:43,400 Speaker 2: got to sort of, you know, manage it. So even 305 00:13:43,440 --> 00:13:45,800 Speaker 2: if you did get a wedding plan, someone would have 306 00:13:45,840 --> 00:13:49,320 Speaker 2: to instruct her or him. Yes, would you agree with that? Yes? 307 00:13:49,600 --> 00:13:51,880 Speaker 2: Who would do that? Would you do that? Naturally? 308 00:13:51,960 --> 00:13:57,640 Speaker 8: Nicole I'm happy to instruct, but as for like actually 309 00:13:57,720 --> 00:14:01,959 Speaker 8: like making the decision, having that support someone that is necessary. 310 00:14:02,360 --> 00:14:05,520 Speaker 2: Okay, So if you were to instruct a wedding planner, 311 00:14:05,880 --> 00:14:08,800 Speaker 2: you would tell them who the vendors were, the florist, 312 00:14:08,840 --> 00:14:12,360 Speaker 2: the flowers, you like, what music, the type of photographer. 313 00:14:12,400 --> 00:14:16,480 Speaker 2: So you would be actually giving them the information. 314 00:14:16,320 --> 00:14:18,360 Speaker 6: Giving them the vibe and the tone. 315 00:14:18,360 --> 00:14:20,680 Speaker 2: Sounds a little bit like the horse might have bolted. 316 00:14:20,280 --> 00:14:25,000 Speaker 8: Here, no, no, because she feels in the gaps. 317 00:14:25,080 --> 00:14:27,800 Speaker 6: And then she's going to say no, that's a stupid idea, 318 00:14:27,880 --> 00:14:29,880 Speaker 6: or that's a good idea, or you're missing this, or 319 00:14:29,920 --> 00:14:32,080 Speaker 6: that's not going to work, or that's not going to gel. 320 00:14:32,200 --> 00:14:34,360 Speaker 2: And so you want some professional feedback. 321 00:14:34,640 --> 00:14:37,920 Speaker 6: I want the professional. I can't hear I'm a professional 322 00:14:37,960 --> 00:14:40,880 Speaker 6: at that, and someone comes to me because I'm the professional. 323 00:14:41,960 --> 00:14:44,240 Speaker 6: That's what I'm there for. I'm planning an event, or 324 00:14:44,280 --> 00:14:47,720 Speaker 6: we're planning an event for eighty two hundred people. I 325 00:14:47,840 --> 00:14:51,920 Speaker 6: need the professional to lead the way because I've never 326 00:14:51,960 --> 00:14:52,360 Speaker 6: done it. 327 00:14:52,560 --> 00:14:54,480 Speaker 2: So you're about a third of the way, though it 328 00:14:54,520 --> 00:14:57,040 Speaker 2: sounds like to me when you're planning already. 329 00:14:57,000 --> 00:15:02,360 Speaker 5: Two thirds No. On the day stuff is probably what 330 00:15:02,400 --> 00:15:03,280 Speaker 5: you're concerned about. 331 00:15:03,520 --> 00:15:05,800 Speaker 8: Yeah, it's also too on the day, Like she comes 332 00:15:05,800 --> 00:15:08,960 Speaker 8: and runs the day and sets up and does everything. 333 00:15:08,600 --> 00:15:10,560 Speaker 6: So I can just relax and I don't have to 334 00:15:10,680 --> 00:15:12,160 Speaker 6: chase up the people. 335 00:15:12,320 --> 00:15:14,800 Speaker 2: But don't you have isn't there someone at the venue 336 00:15:14,800 --> 00:15:15,440 Speaker 2: who does that? 337 00:15:15,720 --> 00:15:17,280 Speaker 5: Yeah? No, I'll be there. 338 00:15:17,320 --> 00:15:19,640 Speaker 2: No, you're not going to do that, Matt. So you're 339 00:15:19,720 --> 00:15:21,600 Speaker 2: the groom. You've got to be part of the wedding. 340 00:15:22,200 --> 00:15:24,200 Speaker 2: Is there not someone? Is there not a matre d 341 00:15:24,480 --> 00:15:27,000 Speaker 2: or a manager at the venue. I don't know if 342 00:15:27,000 --> 00:15:29,240 Speaker 2: you know this, but I am actually a marriage celebrant 343 00:15:30,240 --> 00:15:33,880 Speaker 2: and I do many weddings. I've done about eighty weddings 344 00:15:33,920 --> 00:15:38,160 Speaker 2: since twenty eighteen, and so I know how these things work. 345 00:15:38,320 --> 00:15:42,400 Speaker 2: So usually we would have someone at a venue who 346 00:15:42,440 --> 00:15:45,840 Speaker 2: coordinates things so that they don't need to worry about it. 347 00:15:45,920 --> 00:15:47,760 Speaker 2: You're not getting that support from the venue. 348 00:15:48,000 --> 00:15:50,160 Speaker 6: I don't think we are, because I emailed and there's 349 00:15:50,520 --> 00:15:52,880 Speaker 6: she was very blasse, and I was like, she's not, 350 00:15:53,320 --> 00:15:56,560 Speaker 6: Like she's not the profession here, Like at least if 351 00:15:56,560 --> 00:15:58,280 Speaker 6: I get the wedding planner, I know that she's going 352 00:15:58,320 --> 00:15:59,640 Speaker 6: to set it up. She's going to be down at 353 00:15:59,640 --> 00:16:01,840 Speaker 6: the Sarah money and she's going to know what I 354 00:16:02,200 --> 00:16:04,800 Speaker 6: actually want or we want, or I shouldn't say I 355 00:16:05,040 --> 00:16:07,960 Speaker 6: what we want, and she's going to make sure it 356 00:16:07,960 --> 00:16:10,520 Speaker 6: goes to a planned The wedding people there just for themselves. 357 00:16:10,520 --> 00:16:12,280 Speaker 6: They're getting their money for their venue, and they're like. 358 00:16:12,240 --> 00:16:16,840 Speaker 2: WHOA, all right? So currently your claim is that you've 359 00:16:16,880 --> 00:16:20,960 Speaker 2: spent on one hundred and thirty three hours ye preparing 360 00:16:21,000 --> 00:16:24,720 Speaker 2: this absolutely? Yeah today over what period of time? Is 361 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:26,280 Speaker 2: it like eight hour days or. 362 00:16:26,680 --> 00:16:29,119 Speaker 5: A bit excess in October? 363 00:16:29,200 --> 00:16:31,040 Speaker 2: Hang on, Matt, I'll get to you, Nicole. I just 364 00:16:31,080 --> 00:16:33,120 Speaker 2: want to hear, and then I'm going to get Matt's feedback. 365 00:16:33,280 --> 00:16:36,000 Speaker 6: Been October since we got engaged. The next day, I 366 00:16:36,080 --> 00:16:37,720 Speaker 6: was on the laptop looking at a venue. 367 00:16:37,880 --> 00:16:40,280 Speaker 2: And so have you been sort of keeping a running 368 00:16:40,400 --> 00:16:43,040 Speaker 2: tally here of how many hours? How did you work 369 00:16:43,040 --> 00:16:43,400 Speaker 2: that out? 370 00:16:43,560 --> 00:16:43,760 Speaker 8: Yeah? 371 00:16:43,800 --> 00:16:46,360 Speaker 6: I'm averaging at least an hour a day on wedding stuff. 372 00:16:46,800 --> 00:16:48,640 Speaker 2: One hour a day, yep, whether it's a. 373 00:16:50,200 --> 00:16:52,400 Speaker 6: Yeah, actually pretty much is my lunch Breakay. 374 00:16:52,680 --> 00:16:54,720 Speaker 2: Wouldn't you spend an hour a day talking to a 375 00:16:54,720 --> 00:16:56,280 Speaker 2: wedding plan or I mean, she's not just going to 376 00:16:56,360 --> 00:16:58,880 Speaker 2: miraculously come up with these or the flowers or you're 377 00:16:58,880 --> 00:16:59,840 Speaker 2: gonna have to talk to it. 378 00:17:00,080 --> 00:17:02,640 Speaker 6: Yeah, I have to chat to it obviously. Yeah, we'd 379 00:17:02,640 --> 00:17:03,600 Speaker 6: have to have a conversation. 380 00:17:04,200 --> 00:17:06,280 Speaker 2: I'm going to come over to you, Matt now, So 381 00:17:06,359 --> 00:17:09,439 Speaker 2: what do you say about the cost? Why have you 382 00:17:09,520 --> 00:17:11,720 Speaker 2: said no? Why are you leaving all this work up 383 00:17:11,760 --> 00:17:12,280 Speaker 2: to Nicole? 384 00:17:12,760 --> 00:17:16,040 Speaker 5: Well, half the value in a wedding planner has we've 385 00:17:16,080 --> 00:17:19,399 Speaker 5: done ourselves. That's why I think we've done three quarters 386 00:17:19,400 --> 00:17:19,800 Speaker 5: of the work. 387 00:17:20,040 --> 00:17:22,399 Speaker 2: But that's because you said no in the first place. 388 00:17:22,880 --> 00:17:27,439 Speaker 5: No, it this was an afterthought, right, this was down the. 389 00:17:27,480 --> 00:17:30,360 Speaker 2: Journey, right that you've talked about getting a wedding planner. 390 00:17:30,760 --> 00:17:34,280 Speaker 2: I don't believe that. Somehow, I can't imagine that it 391 00:17:34,320 --> 00:17:37,080 Speaker 2: would just be a revelation. Nichole's woken up one morning gone, 392 00:17:37,080 --> 00:17:39,199 Speaker 2: oh bloody hell, this is too hard. I should have 393 00:17:39,200 --> 00:17:40,720 Speaker 2: had a wedding plan And Matt, what do you think? 394 00:17:40,760 --> 00:17:41,320 Speaker 2: And you said no. 395 00:17:41,960 --> 00:17:44,000 Speaker 4: She had a breakdown after a couple of months of 396 00:17:44,040 --> 00:17:46,040 Speaker 4: doing this, right after booking a venue. 397 00:17:46,080 --> 00:17:48,240 Speaker 2: I can see her laughing. Somehow, I don't think it 398 00:17:48,280 --> 00:17:50,320 Speaker 2: was a breakdown, but go on, oh. 399 00:17:50,480 --> 00:17:53,320 Speaker 6: No, it was absolutely breaking. I said, there's no walking 400 00:17:53,400 --> 00:17:55,280 Speaker 6: down this eye if I don't get a wedding planner. 401 00:17:55,320 --> 00:17:56,119 Speaker 6: I need one. 402 00:17:56,359 --> 00:17:59,399 Speaker 2: So you say it was halfway through Nichole's had a 403 00:17:59,400 --> 00:18:01,800 Speaker 2: bit of a break down, so she's thought, okay, we 404 00:18:01,840 --> 00:18:04,040 Speaker 2: should get a wedding planner, and you said, well, you've 405 00:18:04,080 --> 00:18:05,960 Speaker 2: done half or three quarters of the work. There's no 406 00:18:06,080 --> 00:18:08,080 Speaker 2: point now we're trying to keep the costs down. Is 407 00:18:08,080 --> 00:18:09,200 Speaker 2: that would that be fair to say? 408 00:18:10,040 --> 00:18:10,600 Speaker 5: Absolutely? 409 00:18:11,400 --> 00:18:13,760 Speaker 2: Okay? So I want to know out of the photographer, 410 00:18:13,840 --> 00:18:17,240 Speaker 2: the music, the flowers, the venue, what have you done? 411 00:18:17,680 --> 00:18:20,560 Speaker 5: I picked and spoke to the photographer. Yeah, that was 412 00:18:20,720 --> 00:18:21,040 Speaker 5: I did. 413 00:18:21,080 --> 00:18:22,520 Speaker 6: That's a videographer. 414 00:18:22,920 --> 00:18:24,120 Speaker 5: Videographer? Sorry? 415 00:18:24,320 --> 00:18:27,399 Speaker 2: Will you have a DJ or someone playing music? 416 00:18:28,320 --> 00:18:30,800 Speaker 5: Yeah, we have a we have a two piece band, 417 00:18:30,840 --> 00:18:32,119 Speaker 5: who does a DJ set? 418 00:18:32,160 --> 00:18:33,120 Speaker 2: Who organized that? 419 00:18:33,440 --> 00:18:34,080 Speaker 5: We both did? 420 00:18:34,320 --> 00:18:35,000 Speaker 2: You both did? 421 00:18:35,680 --> 00:18:37,440 Speaker 5: I'll come on, we both picked it. 422 00:18:37,680 --> 00:18:40,320 Speaker 6: Okay. When you say pick, I do all the research 423 00:18:40,359 --> 00:18:42,880 Speaker 6: and come to you with things and then you just go, yep, 424 00:18:42,920 --> 00:18:45,520 Speaker 6: book it after I've done a Will. 425 00:18:45,320 --> 00:18:46,720 Speaker 5: You do all this when I'm at work? 426 00:18:47,760 --> 00:18:50,480 Speaker 2: Okay? Is this usual for you to to not see 427 00:18:50,560 --> 00:18:52,600 Speaker 2: eye to eye or is this an unusual thing? 428 00:18:52,880 --> 00:18:53,879 Speaker 6: Depends on the topic. 429 00:18:54,119 --> 00:18:57,919 Speaker 4: When it's cost saving stuff, yeah, I push it pretty. 430 00:18:57,640 --> 00:18:59,960 Speaker 6: Hard, and I think just pay the professional and get 431 00:19:00,080 --> 00:19:00,680 Speaker 6: it done. 432 00:19:00,880 --> 00:19:03,560 Speaker 2: If you don't want a wedding planet to organize at 433 00:19:03,640 --> 00:19:06,400 Speaker 2: least the day, who's going to make sure everything runs 434 00:19:06,440 --> 00:19:09,919 Speaker 2: smoothly so that you two can focus on your wedding, 435 00:19:10,440 --> 00:19:12,879 Speaker 2: on exchanging vals and having fun. 436 00:19:13,520 --> 00:19:17,200 Speaker 5: Well, if I thought maybe the job of an MC 437 00:19:17,440 --> 00:19:20,199 Speaker 5: could do that as well. All they're going to do 438 00:19:20,240 --> 00:19:22,679 Speaker 5: is point the food truck in the right direction and 439 00:19:22,720 --> 00:19:23,720 Speaker 5: the band and. 440 00:19:24,119 --> 00:19:27,040 Speaker 2: It sounds to me like you've taken control of the 441 00:19:27,040 --> 00:19:29,280 Speaker 2: whole thing. Would that be fair to say, Matt, that 442 00:19:29,400 --> 00:19:33,439 Speaker 2: Nicole's actually the driver here her ideas? I think it's 443 00:19:33,520 --> 00:19:37,120 Speaker 2: not unusual. There's usually one person who's doing it, and 444 00:19:37,320 --> 00:19:40,359 Speaker 2: even if it's a shared load, someone will take on 445 00:19:41,040 --> 00:19:43,720 Speaker 2: the mental load. Would that be u, Nicole? 446 00:19:44,320 --> 00:19:47,040 Speaker 6: Yes? I think so the mental loads yet, because I 447 00:19:47,240 --> 00:19:49,359 Speaker 6: care about lots of details and things. 448 00:19:49,400 --> 00:19:50,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, Matt, do you agree with that? 449 00:19:51,320 --> 00:19:52,360 Speaker 5: Yeah, I'd agree with that. 450 00:19:52,520 --> 00:19:56,639 Speaker 2: And so the purpose of the wedding planner would be 451 00:19:56,760 --> 00:19:59,359 Speaker 2: to share that load, would that be right? 452 00:19:59,680 --> 00:19:59,880 Speaker 6: Yeah? 453 00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:02,440 Speaker 7: I just have that support person that has that professional 454 00:20:03,080 --> 00:20:05,720 Speaker 7: advice so that I know that I'm speaking with someone 455 00:20:05,760 --> 00:20:07,879 Speaker 7: that's going to give me real, honest advice and has 456 00:20:07,920 --> 00:20:10,679 Speaker 7: been through it before, so I know that the day's 457 00:20:10,680 --> 00:20:12,600 Speaker 7: going to be less stressed for both of us, because 458 00:20:12,600 --> 00:20:16,240 Speaker 7: I know how stressed I get in sitch like certain situations. 459 00:20:16,240 --> 00:20:18,040 Speaker 6: So on the day, I just want to enjoy it 460 00:20:18,080 --> 00:20:20,720 Speaker 6: with Matthe you'll not have to stress about anything and 461 00:20:20,760 --> 00:20:23,440 Speaker 6: know that if anything does go wrong or anything, someone's 462 00:20:23,480 --> 00:20:24,159 Speaker 6: taking care of it. 463 00:20:24,440 --> 00:20:26,760 Speaker 2: But you're saying in your claim you want three and 464 00:20:26,800 --> 00:20:29,639 Speaker 2: a half weeks off prior to the wedding yep, and 465 00:20:29,680 --> 00:20:32,560 Speaker 2: you want a total of three hundred and thirty three dollars. 466 00:20:33,080 --> 00:20:34,280 Speaker 2: So how did you come up with that? 467 00:20:34,920 --> 00:20:37,159 Speaker 6: I just thought it's hard for both of us at 468 00:20:37,200 --> 00:20:39,600 Speaker 6: the moment, like we're both trying and work ours off 469 00:20:39,680 --> 00:20:42,360 Speaker 6: to have the best day we can have. So if 470 00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:44,840 Speaker 6: I can get a week or two weeks off before 471 00:20:44,840 --> 00:20:47,960 Speaker 6: the wedding and that covers my expenses, I'm a happy chat. 472 00:20:48,520 --> 00:20:50,320 Speaker 2: Okay, Well, I'm going to make my decision. 473 00:20:52,480 --> 00:20:56,880 Speaker 1: Judge Gina is deliberating and will soon hand down her verdict. 474 00:20:57,320 --> 00:20:58,840 Speaker 1: Please do not leave the. 475 00:20:58,800 --> 00:21:07,359 Speaker 2: Courtroom, Okay. So I've had to think about it and 476 00:21:07,359 --> 00:21:10,840 Speaker 2: I've made my decision. So Nicole and Matt, you both 477 00:21:10,880 --> 00:21:13,119 Speaker 2: met at high school and you've been together ever since. 478 00:21:13,160 --> 00:21:15,920 Speaker 2: You both engage and you're getting married January of next year. 479 00:21:16,480 --> 00:21:19,080 Speaker 2: Your budget for your wedding is forty thousand dollars? Is 480 00:21:19,119 --> 00:21:19,560 Speaker 2: that right? 481 00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:21,520 Speaker 6: Which it wasn't. 482 00:21:21,640 --> 00:21:26,200 Speaker 2: Ye and Nicole, you've brought Matt to me today because 483 00:21:26,240 --> 00:21:29,199 Speaker 2: you believe you need a wedding planner, and Matt you 484 00:21:29,280 --> 00:21:31,480 Speaker 2: believe that you don't and you can do it yourselves. 485 00:21:32,119 --> 00:21:35,400 Speaker 2: I've made a decision, and what I say is that 486 00:21:36,560 --> 00:21:40,720 Speaker 2: you're about I would say two thirds already planned into 487 00:21:40,800 --> 00:21:43,480 Speaker 2: the wedding. Two thirds, and you've got a quote for 488 00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:46,960 Speaker 2: three thousand dollars. So I would suggest you go back 489 00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:49,920 Speaker 2: to the wedding planner, ask her to do the final 490 00:21:50,080 --> 00:21:54,680 Speaker 2: third of your wedding planning, and I will award you 491 00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:59,960 Speaker 2: one thousand dollars towards the wedding planner for that final 492 00:22:00,200 --> 00:22:02,639 Speaker 2: part of your wedding planning. And that's my decision. 493 00:22:06,080 --> 00:22:10,320 Speaker 6: I think the outcome today has been awesome. 494 00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:13,120 Speaker 3: I'm so excited now that we can actually like get 495 00:22:13,160 --> 00:22:14,480 Speaker 3: a wedding planner. Yeah. 496 00:22:14,480 --> 00:22:16,080 Speaker 6: I think it's a fair outcome. 497 00:22:15,760 --> 00:22:17,840 Speaker 3: To being that we sort of asked two thirds of 498 00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:19,639 Speaker 3: the way and this is really going to us this 499 00:22:19,680 --> 00:22:20,119 Speaker 3: stuff in. 500 00:22:20,240 --> 00:22:22,760 Speaker 6: Like getting us across the line and knowing that someone's going. 501 00:22:22,760 --> 00:22:24,639 Speaker 3: To be there on the day so we can have 502 00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:25,439 Speaker 3: a good time. 503 00:22:26,400 --> 00:22:30,280 Speaker 4: I think Gina gave us, or myself in particular, what 504 00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:33,760 Speaker 4: I think we needed, and the outcome we got is 505 00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:35,359 Speaker 4: probably what we were after. 506 00:22:35,800 --> 00:22:38,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel Gina was very fair, straight to the point, 507 00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:39,960 Speaker 3: beck to the fact. 508 00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:42,520 Speaker 5: She was great. I feel like I did get a 509 00:22:42,520 --> 00:22:43,399 Speaker 5: fair trial today. 510 00:22:43,640 --> 00:22:46,120 Speaker 4: She was fair, She did hear us out, and it's 511 00:22:46,119 --> 00:22:47,280 Speaker 4: good for both of us. 512 00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:51,120 Speaker 3: I definitely think the wedding plan will have a really positive. 513 00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:53,600 Speaker 6: Impact on our relationship moving forward. 514 00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:56,560 Speaker 3: Knowing that Nicole is not going to be stressed anymore 515 00:22:57,200 --> 00:22:59,080 Speaker 3: and we can just enjoy the process. 516 00:22:59,359 --> 00:23:01,480 Speaker 5: I think it'll be a good positive thing for us. 517 00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:05,119 Speaker 4: It sounds like Nicole needed that mental rest from planning 518 00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:06,800 Speaker 4: a wedding, and I'm. 519 00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:09,199 Speaker 5: Glad she got at least a part of that. I 520 00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:11,119 Speaker 5: feel as though this is settled and we shouldn't have 521 00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:12,120 Speaker 5: to talk about it anymore. 522 00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:29,280 Speaker 1: This has been an iHeart production.