WEBVTT - FULLSHOW! Laura confronts Mitch about his Marketplace rating ⭐️

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<v Speaker 1>Laura come on.

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<v Speaker 2>Tuesdays here.

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<v Speaker 3>Hello everybody.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, what's so funny?

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<v Speaker 4>You look particularly glowy today.

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<v Speaker 5>Is there a new hair gel? You've got a moisturizer

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<v Speaker 5>on something. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>You got a pepping your step. You look illuminated, do I?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>You mean using a highlighter on your cheekbones again?

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<v Speaker 7>No, No, I'm not You guys influenced me. I'm one

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<v Speaker 7>of those led face masks.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, I know.

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<v Speaker 6>Because I saw the photo you sent me last night

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<v Speaker 6>of you in that led face mask.

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<v Speaker 3>And let me tell you, it is truly a sight

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<v Speaker 3>for Saura.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's put it on the pick up. I look like

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<v Speaker 2>Darth Vader if he was gay, if you had a husband. Look,

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<v Speaker 2>I am your dermatologist.

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<v Speaker 3>With the headbird you wear.

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<v Speaker 2>That's my skincarehead man.

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<v Speaker 7>Listen, I'm in a new era of life and I'm

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<v Speaker 7>getting close to thirty, so I'm whipping everything into year.

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<v Speaker 5>Is this facetimed me?

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<v Speaker 1>When you're in the bath with your headband on it

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<v Speaker 1>and a face mask, it's a whole thing. You will

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<v Speaker 1>not accept my face time until you're in the bath

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<v Speaker 1>with your beauty reach.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't understand this one that you bought though. The

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<v Speaker 6>eyes are so cut out that like there's no led

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<v Speaker 6>bit happening down the.

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<v Speaker 3>Sides of your eyes, and it only covers half your cheek.

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<v Speaker 3>It's for a child.

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<v Speaker 5>Did you get this marketplace or something?

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<v Speaker 7>I got it from a store and I went to

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<v Speaker 7>the store and the lady's like, I don't think it's

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<v Speaker 7>going to fit your face.

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<v Speaker 3>It doesn't.

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<v Speaker 7>So I had to try it on and she actually

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<v Speaker 7>tried to talk me out of buying it, and she's like,

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<v Speaker 7>this is going to work on your nose and one

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<v Speaker 7>cheek bone.

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<v Speaker 5>That's fine, And it's only that one little part of

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<v Speaker 5>your cheek that's gone.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh you put my cheek. Look at it. It's a

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<v Speaker 7>great check. Oh dear, we'll put that photo on the

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<v Speaker 7>pick up.

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<v Speaker 3>He will buy anything this man.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to the show, everyone, and it's a very big

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<v Speaker 2>show today.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I have some huge news to tell you guys. I

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<v Speaker 1>have locked in my performer at my wedding.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you engaged?

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<v Speaker 4>That's irrelevant, Okay, who is this performer after.

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<v Speaker 1>The break, But it's one of my favorite performers in

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<v Speaker 1>the whole entire world, and he's agreed to play at

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<v Speaker 1>my wedding.

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<v Speaker 2>The fake wedding.

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<v Speaker 5>How did you getting married?

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry? And you tell us who it is after the break.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, all right, let's go to some songs. We'll get

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<v Speaker 1>Guys, what a time to be alive. The most exciting

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<v Speaker 1>thing has happened to me. I have booked my favorite

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<v Speaker 1>artist in the world to play at my wedding.

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<v Speaker 2>You need to unpack this because you're not even engaged.

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<v Speaker 5>I not engage.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I'm not getting married, but one day when I do,

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<v Speaker 1>I have booked him. It is none other the love

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<v Speaker 1>of my life.

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<v Speaker 5>Lewis Capaldi.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh is this real? You've got Lewis?

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<v Speaker 3>Does Lewis Capaldi know that he's playing at your wedding?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, about eighty percent he does.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, hold on For those who don't know, this is.

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<v Speaker 6>Lewis no, fine, doesn't he only sing heartbreak anthems? Probably

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<v Speaker 6>not the songs you want being sung at your own wedding.

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<v Speaker 2>The Vibe Brit Okay, that's enough. How did you book

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<v Speaker 2>Luis Capari?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay?

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<v Speaker 4>Four years on the podcast on the radio, I have.

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<v Speaker 1>Spoken of my love of Lewis Capaldi. I love who

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<v Speaker 1>he is, what he stands for, his songs, how funny

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<v Speaker 1>he is.

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<v Speaker 4>He also is Scottish, lives in Glasgow, where I used

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<v Speaker 4>to live.

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<v Speaker 1>So when I met my partner now Ben, who happens

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<v Speaker 1>to live in Scotland, I told Ben, I said, like,

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<v Speaker 1>one day, somehow you need to make friends with Lewis

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<v Speaker 1>so that you can ask him to play the wedding.

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<v Speaker 1>When I went to Scotland recently, this sounds my stalker.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't find out where he lives. But Ben was like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh he lives around the corner.

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<v Speaker 6>Sure that's I'm sure that's exactly how it played out.

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<v Speaker 6>Ah play that's Lewis Caparti lives.

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<v Speaker 3>How did you know? How did you find out?

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<v Speaker 5>Ben lives in a nice area around the corner from him?

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<v Speaker 5>So I used to just pray.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, I hope I will past you one

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<v Speaker 4>day I'll just say hello, that was it.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not going to stalk him.

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<v Speaker 1>So Ben is a football player for Celtic. They won

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<v Speaker 1>this huge football competition and two nights ago and they

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<v Speaker 1>all went out to celebrate. They're in the bar and

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<v Speaker 1>none other than Lewis Capaldi walks in. Lewis happens to

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<v Speaker 1>be a humongous Celtic football fan, like to the point

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<v Speaker 1>that all Lewis's stories right now are of Celtic, Like

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<v Speaker 1>he's that happy that he's posting about them.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, but you're not at this event, you're just your boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>Just Ben is there with his football team. So Lewis

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<v Speaker 1>comes over and joins them in this private party. And

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<v Speaker 1>now he comes up to Ben and he's like hey,

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<v Speaker 1>big lad, well done, like you know, high five and

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<v Speaker 1>him talking to him, and he's very intoxicated. Lewis has

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<v Speaker 1>been having his own party, his own celebration. He's very intoxicated. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>bless Ben's soul. He took this opportunity and he's like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, now's the time.

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<v Speaker 2>Because Ben knows how much you love Lewis and.

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<v Speaker 5>Knows how much I love Lewis.

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<v Speaker 1>So Ben said to him, my partner really wants you

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<v Speaker 1>to sing at our wedding.

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<v Speaker 5>It would mean the world to us.

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<v Speaker 4>Like he threw his in and Lewis said absolutely, Oh.

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<v Speaker 6>My, did he sign any contract because I'm gonna say

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<v Speaker 6>that he's probably gonna wake up on the next day

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<v Speaker 6>and not have any memory of this.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, And I feel like I don't think he'd be

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<v Speaker 7>asked to sing it many away on a night out.

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<v Speaker 3>And he just says yes, and then he knows he's

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<v Speaker 3>never going to see them again.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he probably said yes. He probably has no memory.

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<v Speaker 1>But now I'm making this a thing.

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<v Speaker 2>So we're gonna hold this. We're gonna hold him to it.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I'm gonna try it.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, can you give us a bit of an idea

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<v Speaker 6>when the wedding's going to be britt, just so he

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<v Speaker 6>also can trick you, diary.

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<v Speaker 5>I will get married to suit Lewis.

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<v Speaker 4>If Lewis says that he can play this date.

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<v Speaker 3>That's it.

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<v Speaker 1>I will.

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<v Speaker 6>It doesn't matter if it's to ban or whoever has

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<v Speaker 6>ben feel about this since he's yet to propose.

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<v Speaker 3>Watch this space.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, we'll get you up date and it's a pick

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<v Speaker 7>up Tuesday. On the pick up, it's Britt Laura and

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<v Speaker 7>Mitch here. Thanks to chemist warehouse head in today get

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<v Speaker 7>great savings every day.

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<v Speaker 3>So normally baby reveals are quite the celebration.

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<v Speaker 2>Half gender reveals. Let's just straight off the bat. I

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<v Speaker 2>hate them.

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<v Speaker 3>Why I do hate them?

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<v Speaker 2>Just because crate like grow up. It's too much for me.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, I understand that there's different people feel differently about it.

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<v Speaker 6>But a lot of people really care about having gender

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<v Speaker 6>reveal parties, and they really care about the gender reveal.

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<v Speaker 6>It's a big part of some people's pregnancy experience. They

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<v Speaker 6>have a big party. They might do like the balloon

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<v Speaker 6>popping or the cake smashing or something. Normally it's a

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<v Speaker 6>really beautiful celebration. Now there is a mother in the

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<v Speaker 6>US who recently had a gender reveal party and things

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<v Speaker 6>didn't go exactly to plan.

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<v Speaker 7>She really knew, so she's kicking things.

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<v Speaker 3>Yep, some stuff's getting broken.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh my god, she's throwing the cake.

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<v Speaker 3>No, there's a table being flipped.

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<v Speaker 2>What would happen?

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<v Speaker 5>Did she just get some bad news on the phone.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, this soon to be mother has just gotten the

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<v Speaker 6>news that she is having yet another baby girl, and

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<v Speaker 6>she went on a full blown rampage. She demolished her

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<v Speaker 6>own baby shower because she was so angry and so

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<v Speaker 6>disappointed by the outcome. This is a mass one point

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<v Speaker 6>two million views online and I mean, like nobody's watching

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<v Speaker 6>this video going oh yeah, I understand. I felt a

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<v Speaker 6>bit appointed when I found out I was having another

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<v Speaker 6>girl as well. People are watching this and thinking, what

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<v Speaker 6>is this absolute insanity?

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<v Speaker 1>If you knew you only wanted a boy and you've

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<v Speaker 1>got fifty to fifty chance of having a girl, why

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<v Speaker 1>would you have a big event with people there, like

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<v Speaker 1>find down the privacy of your own home.

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<v Speaker 6>Maybe she was so convinced, like I mean when I

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<v Speaker 6>was having Lola. Weirdly, I had this overwhelming sense in

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<v Speaker 6>my whole body. I was convinced she was a boy,

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<v Speaker 6>but point proven and then she came out as.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, they pulled her out she was a girl, and

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, oh check again. They checked again, and

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<v Speaker 3>I was like.

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<v Speaker 2>Still a girl. Wow, Now are you sad?

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<v Speaker 3>No? I wasn't sad.

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<v Speaker 6>I didn't like it's a weird one because I wasn't

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<v Speaker 6>disappointed that she was a girl. I love being a

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<v Speaker 6>mum to girls. But it was like a moment of

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<v Speaker 6>shock because I definitely thought she was going to be

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<v Speaker 6>a boy, because everything about that pregnancy was different. But

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<v Speaker 6>this is a very, very extreme version, more than extreme

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<v Speaker 6>version of gender disappointment.

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<v Speaker 3>Is this something that you've heard about before.

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<v Speaker 6>It's like when you find out the sex of your

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<v Speaker 6>baby and you're so bitterly disappointed, but normally people don't

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<v Speaker 6>express it so publicly.

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<v Speaker 4>But this poor child, Like once something's on the internet's

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<v Speaker 4>on the internet.

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<v Speaker 1>When this child grows up googles its mum, it finds

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<v Speaker 1>out that that was the reaction to its its identity.

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<v Speaker 3>It's so toxic.

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<v Speaker 6>Is that it makes me think though her reaction was

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<v Speaker 6>so severe and it was so it was so toxic

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<v Speaker 6>that it makes me worry that she's not gonna be

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<v Speaker 6>able to be a loving mum to a girl, Like

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<v Speaker 6>she's going to end up bringing this little girl into

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<v Speaker 6>the world and there will be some residual resentment that

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<v Speaker 6>she wasn't a boy.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just so much pressure.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, Laura, is gender disappointment real? It's an actual thing

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<v Speaker 2>that people go through.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, it's a real thing that some moms go through.

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<v Speaker 6>And I know that there's a lot of shame talking

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<v Speaker 6>about it because I speak on behalf of friends that

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<v Speaker 6>I know, or people who you know from mother's group

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<v Speaker 6>who experienced it. It's this feeling where you maybe you

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<v Speaker 6>already have a boy and you wanted a girl, or

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<v Speaker 6>maybe you always saw yourself as a girl mom or

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<v Speaker 6>a boy mom. As as silly as it might sound,

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<v Speaker 6>it's this coming to terms with the identity of what

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<v Speaker 6>you thought your parenting experience is going to be. It's

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<v Speaker 6>something completely different, and people who have gender disappointment often

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<v Speaker 6>feel so shameful that they can't speak about it because

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<v Speaker 6>for some people, when you think about it, it's like,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, they don't want to speak about it publicly

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<v Speaker 6>because they feel so guilty for experiencing it when they're

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<v Speaker 6>so privileged to have a baby in the first place.

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<v Speaker 6>There's so many people who can't have kids. There's so

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<v Speaker 6>many people who struggle with their fertility. So to think

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<v Speaker 6>that there's some people out there who have been able

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<v Speaker 6>to have the blessing of having a baby and yet

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<v Speaker 6>they're still disappointed.

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<v Speaker 1>You should just be grateful that you've had a child,

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't matter what it is.

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<v Speaker 6>It feels really entitled, But just because it is something

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<v Speaker 6>that maybe feels really entitled or it feels like you're

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<v Speaker 6>not allowed to experience these feelings.

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<v Speaker 3>Doesn't mean that those feelings don't exist.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, if you're a person that really wants one gender

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<v Speaker 7>or more than the other, don't throw a gender reveal party,

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<v Speaker 7>oh because the odds are fifty to fifty. It's not

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<v Speaker 7>a meat raffle. There's not a one hundred different options.

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<v Speaker 7>It's a or B boy or girl.

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<v Speaker 5>But I do it at home totally.

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<v Speaker 6>I think it hits some people though, and they don't

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<v Speaker 6>expect it safe padded room.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, the doctor's office, so you can be you know.

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<v Speaker 3>You can drink.

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<v Speaker 6>I think the more people experience this than then what

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<v Speaker 6>let on, that's for sure. Maybe not to this extreme extent.

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<v Speaker 2>All right.

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<v Speaker 7>Next on the show, Laura, I believe you've had a

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<v Speaker 7>Facebook Marketplace mishap.

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<v Speaker 6>Something went down on Marketplace and I feel like I

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<v Speaker 6>need a bit of a refund.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right, it's the wild West out there on Marketplace.

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<v Speaker 3>Certa LEAs well.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm pack it after this at the Pickup Tuesday afternoon

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<v Speaker 7>on the Pickup with Britt, Laura and Mitch or thanks

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<v Speaker 7>to Chemist Warehouse right now, get half price off cosmetics

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<v Speaker 7>across the Maybe Lane, Revlon Rimmel and nude by Nature Rangers,

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<v Speaker 7>all at Chemists, Warehouse guys.

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<v Speaker 6>I am so late to the party, so late which party?

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<v Speaker 6>I have become obsessed with Facebook Marketplace.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, welcome to the dark side.

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<v Speaker 6>I have been buying so many things. I genuinely love it.

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<v Speaker 2>Like Laura or a city jacket. Marketplace. How much did

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<v Speaker 2>you pack a place? See this Unday's Marketplace, Babey. I

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<v Speaker 2>live on Facebook Marketplace.

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<v Speaker 6>Literally, I have bought so many things recently, and like

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<v Speaker 6>now I'm buying things that I don't need that I

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<v Speaker 6>never wanted that I never even thought I should have

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<v Speaker 6>in my house.

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<v Speaker 3>I have enough crap in my house.

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<v Speaker 6>But the other day I was talking to Matt and

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<v Speaker 6>we're moving soon, and I was like, I think we

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<v Speaker 6>need a new dining table, and ours is like it's

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<v Speaker 6>survived a few children, like it is looking worse for wear.

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<v Speaker 6>It was like kids drawings in it. And I was like,

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<v Speaker 6>do you know where I'm gonna get our table from?

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<v Speaker 5>Marketplace?

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<v Speaker 3>Marketplace?

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<v Speaker 6>So I went online and I was doing some digging

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<v Speaker 6>and I found one that I was like, I reckon,

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<v Speaker 6>this is our this is our table.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to read you listing up for sale?

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<v Speaker 6>Is this gorgeous limited edition Ikea cork standing desk dining

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<v Speaker 6>room table.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh no, it's a sit and stand desk for a

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<v Speaker 3>dining table and I work from.

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<v Speaker 2>Home space, I'm going home.

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<v Speaker 6>The cooke top is no longer available anywhere and was

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<v Speaker 6>a limited run only on Ikea Australia. We installed the

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<v Speaker 6>electric legs on it, so it really is a one

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<v Speaker 6>of a kind piece.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, it works perfectly.

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<v Speaker 6>The cork is lovely to work on and it's not

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<v Speaker 6>harsh or a hard metal, easy to work or sit

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<v Speaker 6>at all day long. Pick up, well, we all know

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<v Speaker 6>where the pickup is.

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<v Speaker 3>It's Mitury House. Now now, now, now, now now.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wait, do you want to buy it? I'll give

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<v Speaker 2>you a great price.

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<v Speaker 6>I saw this listing five hundred and eighty dollars a

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<v Speaker 6>little bit steep. I saw this listing for this table,

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<v Speaker 6>and I thought, before I saw who's listing it was,

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<v Speaker 6>I was like, that is a great table.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a great table.

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<v Speaker 6>So then the next thing I did is I looked

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<v Speaker 6>at this person's cellar rating on Facebook Marketplace. Now, if

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<v Speaker 6>you listened to last week's shows, you might all remember

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<v Speaker 6>that I got dragged for my uber rating.

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<v Speaker 3>This one is really telling the amount of one stars.

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<v Speaker 2>My god.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, I may have gotten nineteen one star reviews on

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<v Speaker 6>Uber and that was out of six hundred, six hundred

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<v Speaker 6>and seventy five Uber trips, which when you do the

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<v Speaker 6>mass on that is a it's a point something of

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<v Speaker 6>a percentage. It is so minimal, it is minuscule, and

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<v Speaker 6>you made me suffer for two weeks. Your one star

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<v Speaker 6>rating or Marketplace is fifty percent. No, it's not fifty

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<v Speaker 6>percent of all.

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<v Speaker 3>Of your rating.

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<v Speaker 5>Here it is done.

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<v Speaker 2>That's where are my printouts. I didn't get those papers.

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<v Speaker 3>And here are some of the pinch points.

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<v Speaker 6>Number one communication, number two, pricing, Number three, this is

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<v Speaker 6>from another one punctuality, communication, pricing and item description.

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<v Speaker 3>You got everything wrong.

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<v Speaker 6>Number four punctuality, communication, pricing and item description.

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<v Speaker 3>Again, out of eight things that you've sold four people.

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<v Speaker 2>Here is that? Now? That was she sold me a

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<v Speaker 2>bun kettle. I was serious with that.

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<v Speaker 4>No, you know why everyone's got a problem with the description.

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<v Speaker 5>You've literally written in this description.

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<v Speaker 4>The cook top is no longer available.

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<v Speaker 5>You meant to say cork top.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, people think cook top.

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<v Speaker 7>No listen, people on Facebook, Marketplace. I'm embarrassed. People on

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<v Speaker 7>Facebook marketplace are awful and they're the scum of the

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<v Speaker 7>earth and they fight and I'm I fight.

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<v Speaker 4>You are the person on Facebook, mumplayers you are this

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<v Speaker 4>come up?

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<v Speaker 3>I have to tell you this is actually what happened.

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<v Speaker 6>My staff, one of my staff at Tony May was

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<v Speaker 6>gonna buy this table and then she sent.

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<v Speaker 3>Me the screenshots and was like, isn't this your goals?

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<v Speaker 3>Why is his rating so bad?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>Fine?

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<v Speaker 2>Does she want it? Because, like I said, I'll give

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<v Speaker 2>her ten months off.

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<v Speaker 3>She's scared to come out and pick it up from

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<v Speaker 3>your house.

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<v Speaker 5>Though very nice, you should be mortified.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, I will work on my let me get this. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 7>I'll work on my pricing, my communication. This one says

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<v Speaker 7>he needs to work on his hair, get real personal.

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<v Speaker 5>An't that Jesus attitude?

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<v Speaker 7>I'm so embarrassed. Okay, let's go, let's go home. See

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<v Speaker 7>you tomorrow. Everybody will and wood you wrap next. You

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<v Speaker 7>can podcast the whole show this week on the iHeartRadio

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<v Speaker 7>app so it could pick up.

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<v Speaker 3>So bye.