1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,640 Speaker 1: I would like to acknowledge the traditional owners of the 2 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:06,279 Speaker 1: land on which this episode is being recorded, the Combomb 3 00:00:06,320 --> 00:00:11,080 Speaker 1: Merry people. They've been having conversations and telling stories on 4 00:00:11,119 --> 00:00:14,280 Speaker 1: this land for thousands of years, and we show our 5 00:00:14,320 --> 00:00:19,240 Speaker 1: gratitude and respect for their contribution to our environment and culture. 6 00:00:21,920 --> 00:00:26,280 Speaker 1: This is Rise and Conquer, the podcast where we strive 7 00:00:26,480 --> 00:00:32,400 Speaker 1: to become the highest version of ourselves through curious conversations, 8 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:37,919 Speaker 1: healthy mindsets, laughter, connection, and a deep desire to evolve. 9 00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:46,360 Speaker 1: I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson. Join me as we explore parenthood, business, manifestation, 10 00:00:46,640 --> 00:00:50,720 Speaker 1: and so much more. It's positive, it's practical, and it's 11 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:53,159 Speaker 1: about putting you in the driver's seat of. 12 00:00:53,120 --> 00:00:54,720 Speaker 2: Your own life. 13 00:00:55,280 --> 00:00:59,520 Speaker 1: Are you ready? So please? 14 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:02,240 Speaker 2: You mentioned about a relationship with money. How's your relationship 15 00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:06,840 Speaker 2: with money evolved over the years, and yeah, what have 16 00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:09,160 Speaker 2: you kind of what's like a knowing for in you now? 17 00:01:09,560 --> 00:01:15,080 Speaker 1: Yes? So the concept of money is so funny, it's 18 00:01:15,400 --> 00:01:18,240 Speaker 1: everything I grew Like I said, I grew up in 19 00:01:18,240 --> 00:01:21,160 Speaker 1: a very traditional Aussie family. My dad was a plumber, 20 00:01:21,240 --> 00:01:23,560 Speaker 1: my mom was a stay at home mom. They both 21 00:01:23,680 --> 00:01:26,560 Speaker 1: kind of, you know, came from nothing and built up. 22 00:01:27,280 --> 00:01:31,800 Speaker 1: You know, we had a very comfortable life. And in 23 00:01:31,880 --> 00:01:34,360 Speaker 1: saying that we were very much it was instilled. You know, 24 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:37,479 Speaker 1: you worked very hard for money, you save your money, 25 00:01:37,480 --> 00:01:40,520 Speaker 1: money doesn't grow on trees, you know, et cetera. I 26 00:01:40,520 --> 00:01:43,080 Speaker 1: feel like that's that's very yeah, yeah, the very normal 27 00:01:43,480 --> 00:01:48,360 Speaker 1: Ossie experience. And it's so interesting because now I look 28 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:51,360 Speaker 1: at my childhood and all my conditioning with money and 29 00:01:51,400 --> 00:01:55,960 Speaker 1: I'm like, it's just not true. It's a complete illusion. 30 00:01:56,560 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 1: And like I said, I made my career choices based 31 00:01:59,480 --> 00:02:03,120 Speaker 1: on money, and I made so many choices based on money. 32 00:02:03,200 --> 00:02:07,320 Speaker 1: And I've had the scarcity relationship with money. I've had 33 00:02:07,360 --> 00:02:11,280 Speaker 1: the abundant relationship with money. I've had to continue my 34 00:02:11,400 --> 00:02:14,360 Speaker 1: relationship with money because again, it's it's not linear, it's 35 00:02:14,400 --> 00:02:18,480 Speaker 1: not an end result. And I think if you can 36 00:02:19,080 --> 00:02:25,360 Speaker 1: really detach from money being this like physical you know, 37 00:02:25,680 --> 00:02:30,440 Speaker 1: notes or numbers in yeah, and you can detach from 38 00:02:30,520 --> 00:02:33,240 Speaker 1: that and you can understand that it is an energy 39 00:02:33,400 --> 00:02:37,359 Speaker 1: and you can understand that it's always going to reflect 40 00:02:37,480 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 1: to you your beliefs about it. So for example, you know, 41 00:02:41,680 --> 00:02:44,320 Speaker 1: in my relationship with my husband Tim, which I've been 42 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:47,960 Speaker 1: with him since I was seventeen, you know, going on 43 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:50,760 Speaker 1: thirteen years now. You know, if I was to show 44 00:02:50,840 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 1: up in our relationship and I wasn't to trust him, 45 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:57,519 Speaker 1: if I was to think that he was always going 46 00:02:57,560 --> 00:03:00,359 Speaker 1: to leave, if I was to think that I've got 47 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:03,320 Speaker 1: to work really really hard for his love to the 48 00:03:03,360 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 1: point of burnout. If I was to think that, you know, 49 00:03:07,800 --> 00:03:09,799 Speaker 1: I had to really hold on and not let him 50 00:03:09,840 --> 00:03:13,160 Speaker 1: go see his friends or do anything, because if he leaves, 51 00:03:13,160 --> 00:03:15,679 Speaker 1: he's not gonna come back. Like, how do you think 52 00:03:15,720 --> 00:03:19,239 Speaker 1: our relationship would look? We probably wouldn't have a relationship. 53 00:03:19,320 --> 00:03:23,639 Speaker 1: He'd be like, well, dude, like the fuck out I 54 00:03:23,680 --> 00:03:28,360 Speaker 1: was going to go? Or you know, if I imagine if 55 00:03:28,360 --> 00:03:30,880 Speaker 1: he was like having a shower and I just kept 56 00:03:30,919 --> 00:03:32,560 Speaker 1: like looking at him in the shower and just I'm 57 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:35,200 Speaker 1: just checking you're still there, do you know what I mean? Like, 58 00:03:36,240 --> 00:03:39,720 Speaker 1: it is no different. Our relationship to money is the 59 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:43,080 Speaker 1: same as our relationship to our partner. And you know, 60 00:03:43,200 --> 00:03:46,320 Speaker 1: I hope we all know what a healthy We don't 61 00:03:46,360 --> 00:03:47,400 Speaker 1: all know, sorry, but. 62 00:03:47,440 --> 00:03:49,280 Speaker 2: We all we've seen it. 63 00:03:49,520 --> 00:03:52,880 Speaker 1: We've all seen what a healthy relationship can be. And 64 00:03:52,960 --> 00:03:56,720 Speaker 1: it's like, for example, in me and Tim's relationship, he 65 00:03:56,880 --> 00:04:00,600 Speaker 1: lets me go and do my thing. I've gone, you know, 66 00:04:00,760 --> 00:04:04,120 Speaker 1: and done my career and explored my purposes, and you know, 67 00:04:04,200 --> 00:04:07,040 Speaker 1: we holiday. I will go on a retreat and he 68 00:04:07,320 --> 00:04:10,400 Speaker 1: goes and does golf, and he has his interests and 69 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:15,320 Speaker 1: so much trust, so much love, so much acceptance. But 70 00:04:15,880 --> 00:04:18,680 Speaker 1: the underlying is I know he's always going to be 71 00:04:18,680 --> 00:04:21,200 Speaker 1: there for me. I always give him the benefit of 72 00:04:21,279 --> 00:04:25,880 Speaker 1: the doubt. I know that if there's any anytime an 73 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:30,039 Speaker 1: issue we communicate about it, I know I'm able to 74 00:04:30,200 --> 00:04:33,240 Speaker 1: change and evolve and he will accept and love me. 75 00:04:33,720 --> 00:04:36,279 Speaker 1: Like that's, you know, a foundation of a healthy relationship. 76 00:04:36,400 --> 00:04:39,839 Speaker 1: Let's say so if you have things with money, like 77 00:04:39,960 --> 00:04:43,160 Speaker 1: you constantly check your bank account, you constantly feel like 78 00:04:43,279 --> 00:04:46,240 Speaker 1: if you don't hold onto that amount of money, you're 79 00:04:46,240 --> 00:04:49,280 Speaker 1: going to be you know, less off or something bad 80 00:04:49,360 --> 00:04:51,640 Speaker 1: is going to happen. If you feel like you have 81 00:04:51,720 --> 00:04:53,839 Speaker 1: to work really really hard to the point of burnout, 82 00:04:53,920 --> 00:04:58,400 Speaker 1: to the point of your boundaries being broken, you are 83 00:04:58,480 --> 00:05:01,920 Speaker 1: not going to have a great experience with wealth with abundance. 84 00:05:02,400 --> 00:05:05,640 Speaker 1: And it's so interesting because we don't get taught that 85 00:05:05,640 --> 00:05:08,280 Speaker 1: that's not I'm if you have never heard someone talk 86 00:05:08,320 --> 00:05:10,280 Speaker 1: about money in that way, you'd be listening being like, 87 00:05:10,720 --> 00:05:15,080 Speaker 1: what the fuck is she on? And so it's hard 88 00:05:15,200 --> 00:05:19,720 Speaker 1: because all our conditioning, for you know, however old you are, 89 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:22,080 Speaker 1: if it's you know, thirty years old, for thirty years, 90 00:05:22,480 --> 00:05:25,279 Speaker 1: you have been taught about money in a certain way, 91 00:05:25,400 --> 00:05:28,280 Speaker 1: and that's what your life has reflected. And so if 92 00:05:28,360 --> 00:05:30,840 Speaker 1: you want to change your life with money, if you 93 00:05:30,920 --> 00:05:32,800 Speaker 1: want to change your relationship with money, if you want 94 00:05:32,800 --> 00:05:34,520 Speaker 1: to have more money, if you want to have less money, 95 00:05:34,520 --> 00:05:38,200 Speaker 1: if you want to whatever, it is so simple that 96 00:05:38,320 --> 00:05:42,040 Speaker 1: you need to change your beliefs, what you think, what 97 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:45,680 Speaker 1: you feel, what is in your body with your relationship 98 00:05:45,680 --> 00:05:49,680 Speaker 1: with money, and your reality has to reflect that, it 99 00:05:49,839 --> 00:05:53,680 Speaker 1: has to bend and change to reflect your beliefs. Like 100 00:05:54,279 --> 00:05:57,000 Speaker 1: our reality is just you know, our three D eight. 101 00:05:57,040 --> 00:06:00,120 Speaker 1: It's an illusion. It's not actually real, which again a 102 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:04,760 Speaker 1: whole other conversation. It's just our perception. And so it's 103 00:06:04,760 --> 00:06:08,279 Speaker 1: so funny because with money, I just always go back 104 00:06:08,279 --> 00:06:11,120 Speaker 1: to those call beliefs. I always go back to well, 105 00:06:11,760 --> 00:06:15,599 Speaker 1: even if the three D is reflecting, I know, maybe 106 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:18,080 Speaker 1: you get a bill or like something goes really wrong 107 00:06:18,240 --> 00:06:20,760 Speaker 1: or something really fucks up in business and you're you know, 108 00:06:20,839 --> 00:06:25,120 Speaker 1: down hundreds of thousands of dollars that doesn't actually matter 109 00:06:25,360 --> 00:06:29,599 Speaker 1: because I know I can go inwards. I can readjust things. 110 00:06:29,680 --> 00:06:31,880 Speaker 1: I can look at, Okay, well, what have I been 111 00:06:31,920 --> 00:06:34,760 Speaker 1: thinking about? What I have, what have I been integrating, 112 00:06:34,839 --> 00:06:38,120 Speaker 1: what have I been focusing on? I can readjust that, 113 00:06:38,520 --> 00:06:42,400 Speaker 1: and I know my reality has to reflect that absolutely 114 00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:46,240 Speaker 1: my job. It really can be that simple. But I 115 00:06:46,720 --> 00:06:48,800 Speaker 1: know it's obviously it's a whole conversation. 116 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:50,839 Speaker 2: Well like, let it be that simple. But at the 117 00:06:50,839 --> 00:06:53,000 Speaker 2: same time, it's like our stories and our illusions men 118 00:06:53,040 --> 00:06:55,200 Speaker 2: make it over complicated. And what I was really hearing 119 00:06:55,200 --> 00:06:59,560 Speaker 2: from especially is this, like like anything in life when 120 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:02,600 Speaker 2: especially with like when we're moving towards with our life 121 00:07:02,720 --> 00:07:08,159 Speaker 2: orce energy and seeing that what like that you receive 122 00:07:08,240 --> 00:07:11,440 Speaker 2: from what like there's that reciprocal energy that's coming with money, 123 00:07:11,640 --> 00:07:14,080 Speaker 2: And what has happened is that we've created all these 124 00:07:14,120 --> 00:07:17,880 Speaker 2: prerequisites of how it has to happen. And so in 125 00:07:18,000 --> 00:07:19,640 Speaker 2: really what you were saying, it's like, yes, we have 126 00:07:19,640 --> 00:07:22,160 Speaker 2: the mindset piece, but it's also the energetic piece of 127 00:07:22,200 --> 00:07:24,440 Speaker 2: like are you actually operating in the ways that you're 128 00:07:24,480 --> 00:07:25,120 Speaker 2: saying that. 129 00:07:25,000 --> 00:07:26,000 Speaker 1: You want to operate? 130 00:07:26,080 --> 00:07:29,000 Speaker 2: Are you actually living in that way? Because we can 131 00:07:29,880 --> 00:07:33,400 Speaker 2: take out the word yeah, money for love or for 132 00:07:33,480 --> 00:07:37,360 Speaker 2: freedom or for energy, and the second that you're operating 133 00:07:37,400 --> 00:07:41,000 Speaker 2: from a place of you know, I think even just 134 00:07:41,040 --> 00:07:43,320 Speaker 2: when you were saying with the challenge there, when things 135 00:07:43,360 --> 00:07:45,960 Speaker 2: like that happen, I always see it as an opportunity 136 00:07:46,040 --> 00:07:49,240 Speaker 2: to expand and see it's to lock in and to 137 00:07:49,320 --> 00:07:51,400 Speaker 2: like looking like, wow, my vessel is like expanding in 138 00:07:51,400 --> 00:07:52,800 Speaker 2: this moment of how much I can hold and how 139 00:07:52,880 --> 00:07:54,560 Speaker 2: much I can do and like knowing that there's actually 140 00:07:54,560 --> 00:07:55,880 Speaker 2: going to be a lot more coming on the other 141 00:07:55,920 --> 00:07:59,000 Speaker 2: side because this idea, again it's based on this one 142 00:07:59,040 --> 00:08:01,920 Speaker 2: percent perception of our logical mind of like this bill 143 00:08:01,960 --> 00:08:05,400 Speaker 2: came in or things are really whatever right now, so 144 00:08:05,480 --> 00:08:07,320 Speaker 2: this is how it's going to be moving forward. Things 145 00:08:07,360 --> 00:08:10,240 Speaker 2: are bad, so it equals bad, rather than seeing like 146 00:08:10,360 --> 00:08:12,440 Speaker 2: what is the other potential that it could be happening 147 00:08:12,480 --> 00:08:14,240 Speaker 2: from this, Like I'm sure when you've had those things 148 00:08:14,240 --> 00:08:16,840 Speaker 2: happen in your business, like what the lesson that you 149 00:08:16,920 --> 00:08:19,160 Speaker 2: gained from it? Often there can be like an expensive 150 00:08:19,240 --> 00:08:22,520 Speaker 2: lesson or expensive bill, but then from that you've gained 151 00:08:22,560 --> 00:08:26,320 Speaker 2: so much more abouts money from that, you know, And 152 00:08:26,360 --> 00:08:28,600 Speaker 2: it's like seeing that Yep, I think a lot of 153 00:08:28,600 --> 00:08:32,400 Speaker 2: the time, Yeah, the conditioning. Is this like punishment that 154 00:08:32,480 --> 00:08:35,920 Speaker 2: we're always then continuing for ourselves. 155 00:08:36,240 --> 00:08:38,360 Speaker 1: Well, it's like, for example, if I was to say 156 00:08:38,360 --> 00:08:42,360 Speaker 1: to you, if you knew for a fact that for 157 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:45,600 Speaker 1: the next two years you wouldn't earn any money, maybe 158 00:08:45,640 --> 00:08:48,360 Speaker 1: it'd even like lose some money, but at the end 159 00:08:48,440 --> 00:08:50,680 Speaker 1: of that two years you would be given a check 160 00:08:50,760 --> 00:08:54,040 Speaker 1: of five million dollars, how would you feel? How would 161 00:08:54,080 --> 00:08:58,239 Speaker 1: you move through that time at knowing that certainty compared 162 00:08:58,320 --> 00:09:01,839 Speaker 1: to if you you know, because again we don't know. 163 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:05,400 Speaker 1: We don't have that certainty. We're not supposed to. If 164 00:09:05,440 --> 00:09:08,960 Speaker 1: you move through life and you were constantly having you know, 165 00:09:09,480 --> 00:09:12,320 Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not gaining money, I'm not gaining wealth, 166 00:09:13,200 --> 00:09:15,439 Speaker 1: you know, how would you move? It's like you can 167 00:09:15,520 --> 00:09:18,319 Speaker 1: see how different that person is going to be. And 168 00:09:18,360 --> 00:09:23,040 Speaker 1: so that's why it's so important to not engage with 169 00:09:23,080 --> 00:09:25,640 Speaker 1: the three D, not engage with our reality, because it's 170 00:09:25,720 --> 00:09:29,480 Speaker 1: not It's never a truth unless unless you want it 171 00:09:29,520 --> 00:09:31,640 Speaker 1: to be, unless you create it, make it. Yeah, and 172 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:34,520 Speaker 1: it's again it's I know that's a hard concept to 173 00:09:34,600 --> 00:09:38,480 Speaker 1: kind of comprehend sometimes, but also, like you said, you 174 00:09:38,600 --> 00:09:43,120 Speaker 1: never know what's going to happen, and so losing Let's 175 00:09:43,120 --> 00:09:45,240 Speaker 1: say you lose a bit of money for this, that 176 00:09:45,440 --> 00:09:50,000 Speaker 1: and whatever reason. If you make it mean that you're 177 00:09:50,040 --> 00:09:52,800 Speaker 1: bad with money, that you'll never have more money, et cetera, 178 00:09:52,920 --> 00:09:55,320 Speaker 1: et cetera, then that will be true for you. That 179 00:09:55,360 --> 00:09:58,360 Speaker 1: will be your story. But if you make it mean 180 00:09:59,400 --> 00:10:02,000 Speaker 1: this was the mo that I then went and did 181 00:10:02,000 --> 00:10:04,600 Speaker 1: the thing and then you know, sold the company for 182 00:10:04,640 --> 00:10:07,280 Speaker 1: this amount or you know whatever. There's so many stories 183 00:10:07,640 --> 00:10:11,280 Speaker 1: that we have of other people having that rock bottom 184 00:10:11,320 --> 00:10:14,200 Speaker 1: moment and then something incredible happening, or having that rock 185 00:10:14,280 --> 00:10:18,600 Speaker 1: bottom moment and something even worse happening. You actually get 186 00:10:18,640 --> 00:10:22,239 Speaker 1: to decide, and that's like I am a huge manifesto, 187 00:10:22,640 --> 00:10:25,560 Speaker 1: huge like law of assumption all that sort of thing, 188 00:10:25,720 --> 00:10:29,640 Speaker 1: and you really are the co creator of your life 189 00:10:29,800 --> 00:10:34,360 Speaker 1: and the universe is here to back you. But it doesn't. 190 00:10:34,480 --> 00:10:37,480 Speaker 1: It doesn't care if it's negative of positive. So if 191 00:10:37,520 --> 00:10:41,120 Speaker 1: you want to have these negative views and these negative stories, 192 00:10:41,160 --> 00:10:43,000 Speaker 1: it's going to back you, and that's what you're going 193 00:10:43,040 --> 00:10:45,440 Speaker 1: to get. If you want to have these incredible positive 194 00:10:45,480 --> 00:10:50,520 Speaker 1: stories and positive experience and positive challenges, it's going to 195 00:10:50,600 --> 00:10:54,800 Speaker 1: back you. It doesn't actually matter your belief system. Your 196 00:10:54,840 --> 00:10:57,120 Speaker 1: reflections is what matters. 197 00:10:57,280 --> 00:10:59,880 Speaker 2: Absolutely, and even for people that are listening now, and 198 00:11:00,040 --> 00:11:02,880 Speaker 2: you can feel your mind wanting to resist it or 199 00:11:02,920 --> 00:11:05,959 Speaker 2: your conditioning and like beautiful, just like be aware of that. 200 00:11:06,080 --> 00:11:08,200 Speaker 2: Instead of running down the stories, you can just be like, Okay, 201 00:11:08,280 --> 00:11:10,679 Speaker 2: there's a part of me that is saying, oh, that's 202 00:11:10,679 --> 00:11:12,160 Speaker 2: all well and good for you to say, or there's 203 00:11:12,160 --> 00:11:14,800 Speaker 2: a part of me that's saying that's not possible for me. 204 00:11:14,960 --> 00:11:18,160 Speaker 2: And I think sometimes we can either It's not about 205 00:11:18,160 --> 00:11:20,560 Speaker 2: like shaming that, It's about being like interesting, there is 206 00:11:20,600 --> 00:11:23,000 Speaker 2: this part of me there is in this like disbelief 207 00:11:23,080 --> 00:11:26,040 Speaker 2: or in this yeah, fear for self yeap, And like 208 00:11:26,320 --> 00:11:28,280 Speaker 2: how are you when you do have moments of like 209 00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:33,040 Speaker 2: doubt or fear or yeah, like self judgment? 210 00:11:33,080 --> 00:11:35,600 Speaker 1: How how how do you operate through that? I love 211 00:11:35,640 --> 00:11:41,160 Speaker 1: this question again understanding that that's not a bad thing. 212 00:11:41,720 --> 00:11:44,960 Speaker 1: We have, you know, the inner critic, we have the doubt, 213 00:11:46,000 --> 00:11:49,240 Speaker 1: we have the ego, you know, so we don't die, 214 00:11:49,840 --> 00:11:52,360 Speaker 1: so we're not not jumping off cliffs and stuff. But 215 00:11:52,960 --> 00:11:57,920 Speaker 1: really seeing that again not as truth. Well, it can 216 00:11:57,960 --> 00:11:59,720 Speaker 1: be truth if you want it to be truth, but 217 00:11:59,760 --> 00:12:02,360 Speaker 1: see it as a choice and just seeing it as 218 00:12:03,360 --> 00:12:07,439 Speaker 1: your past conditioning so anytime I do have doubt or 219 00:12:07,480 --> 00:12:10,960 Speaker 1: I have things come up, I'm like, oh this is good. 220 00:12:11,520 --> 00:12:15,800 Speaker 1: I know there's still a belief system inside that is 221 00:12:15,880 --> 00:12:20,120 Speaker 1: reflecting this doubt, is reflecting this shame, is reflecting this guilt. 222 00:12:20,559 --> 00:12:24,520 Speaker 1: Do I want to carry that forward? And being like okay, cool, 223 00:12:24,559 --> 00:12:27,160 Speaker 1: I have this option. This is where I need to 224 00:12:27,160 --> 00:12:30,320 Speaker 1: do the work. Because again, it's so easy to say, 225 00:12:31,480 --> 00:12:34,160 Speaker 1: just have a great relationship with money, just you know, 226 00:12:34,200 --> 00:12:37,320 Speaker 1: think you're always going to be successful, but unless you're 227 00:12:38,040 --> 00:12:42,480 Speaker 1: looking internally and seeing what needs to shift, what needs 228 00:12:42,480 --> 00:12:46,600 Speaker 1: to move through, because again it can be simple. But 229 00:12:46,760 --> 00:12:51,400 Speaker 1: also you know, this is just a very complex example. 230 00:12:51,480 --> 00:12:54,480 Speaker 1: But to give an example, if you are someone who 231 00:12:54,600 --> 00:12:58,520 Speaker 1: has been abused, let's say by a man, and then 232 00:12:58,840 --> 00:13:01,600 Speaker 1: you have you listen to someone and they're like, menagrade. 233 00:13:01,640 --> 00:13:04,199 Speaker 1: You know, just be in a healthy relationship with a man, 234 00:13:04,240 --> 00:13:07,920 Speaker 1: but you have this past experience that would be trauma 235 00:13:07,960 --> 00:13:11,880 Speaker 1: inside your body. You can't just think, oh no, men, 236 00:13:11,880 --> 00:13:14,800 Speaker 1: I find men can be safe. You would have to 237 00:13:15,200 --> 00:13:17,560 Speaker 1: work through that trauma. You would have to work through 238 00:13:17,600 --> 00:13:21,679 Speaker 1: that inner experience. And of course you can work through it, 239 00:13:21,760 --> 00:13:25,000 Speaker 1: but it's sometimes not as simple as just thinking it. 240 00:13:25,080 --> 00:13:27,920 Speaker 1: If that makes sense. So when I do have these 241 00:13:27,960 --> 00:13:31,640 Speaker 1: situations that come up of the inner critic of the doubt, 242 00:13:32,360 --> 00:13:35,320 Speaker 1: it's showing me where I need to do the work. 243 00:13:35,720 --> 00:13:40,079 Speaker 1: And then from there it's you know, using different modality. 244 00:13:40,200 --> 00:13:46,040 Speaker 1: So for me, I am big on meditation, breath work, EFT, tapping. 245 00:13:46,040 --> 00:13:48,720 Speaker 1: That's kind of like my go to and I have 246 00:13:48,760 --> 00:13:52,120 Speaker 1: an app where we do all that, and so that's 247 00:13:52,160 --> 00:13:56,440 Speaker 1: my basis. If that's still feeling like the doubt's still 248 00:13:56,440 --> 00:13:58,960 Speaker 1: coming up, the shame, guilt, you know, whatever the feeling 249 00:13:59,120 --> 00:14:02,600 Speaker 1: is then and it might be you know, like I 250 00:14:02,679 --> 00:14:06,680 Speaker 1: go to a full body heal or where we do 251 00:14:06,840 --> 00:14:09,520 Speaker 1: a lot of different it's like ed M Marti the 252 00:14:09,840 --> 00:14:12,560 Speaker 1: I you know, those sorts of things. So yes, so 253 00:14:12,640 --> 00:14:17,880 Speaker 1: I'll go deeper. And so in that situation, it's not bad. 254 00:14:18,040 --> 00:14:24,040 Speaker 1: It's just showing me my previous past conditioning, what my body, 255 00:14:24,280 --> 00:14:27,440 Speaker 1: where my body is storing trauma, where I'm you know, 256 00:14:27,560 --> 00:14:30,480 Speaker 1: thinking a certain way. And it's so good when it 257 00:14:30,560 --> 00:14:33,920 Speaker 1: comes up because you have the chance to clear it. 258 00:14:34,480 --> 00:14:38,480 Speaker 1: If you never had challenges, if everything went right, like 259 00:14:38,960 --> 00:14:43,040 Speaker 1: you would never be shaped, you would never understand yourself, 260 00:14:43,080 --> 00:14:45,400 Speaker 1: you would never become and like we were saying in 261 00:14:45,400 --> 00:14:50,600 Speaker 1: our previous conversation, this beautiful life, this incredible life, is 262 00:14:50,840 --> 00:14:55,000 Speaker 1: about the becoming. So if you are going through something tough, 263 00:14:55,280 --> 00:15:00,600 Speaker 1: like of course, have that beautiful self compassion and love 264 00:15:00,720 --> 00:15:05,520 Speaker 1: for yourself, but also understand that it is this beautiful 265 00:15:06,120 --> 00:15:11,240 Speaker 1: opportunity to expand, to move forward, because without that you 266 00:15:11,280 --> 00:15:15,440 Speaker 1: would never be able to identify. And it's funny. I 267 00:15:15,480 --> 00:15:18,200 Speaker 1: saw this quote that was so beautiful and I will 268 00:15:18,240 --> 00:15:21,600 Speaker 1: try not butcher it, and she was saying, like, our 269 00:15:21,760 --> 00:15:27,640 Speaker 1: doubt is just basically like the before of our courage, 270 00:15:28,000 --> 00:15:32,200 Speaker 1: because without the doubt, without the thing stopping you, you 271 00:15:32,240 --> 00:15:34,680 Speaker 1: don't get to move through it. You don't get to 272 00:15:34,680 --> 00:15:36,640 Speaker 1: be the person who moves through. You don't get to 273 00:15:36,680 --> 00:15:40,880 Speaker 1: become the person who overcomes that. And so it's like 274 00:15:40,960 --> 00:15:44,240 Speaker 1: we need those experiences, We need those things, and that's 275 00:15:44,280 --> 00:15:47,840 Speaker 1: why you know, I'll talk about manifestation and people will 276 00:15:47,880 --> 00:15:50,160 Speaker 1: be like, but look at all the bad in the world, 277 00:15:50,280 --> 00:15:53,840 Speaker 1: like did that person deserve it? And it's never about 278 00:15:53,880 --> 00:15:58,040 Speaker 1: that person deserving it. It's never about that. But also 279 00:15:58,200 --> 00:16:01,880 Speaker 1: understanding that everyone is on their own journey and I 280 00:16:01,920 --> 00:16:06,520 Speaker 1: personally believe it's like we've all signed the slip where 281 00:16:06,520 --> 00:16:08,560 Speaker 1: it's like, this is what I want to experience. This 282 00:16:08,600 --> 00:16:12,160 Speaker 1: is the becoming I want. So we have to have 283 00:16:12,680 --> 00:16:16,760 Speaker 1: these experiences to become the person we want. So and 284 00:16:16,840 --> 00:16:20,080 Speaker 1: if you can have that mindset where something is going down, 285 00:16:20,120 --> 00:16:23,080 Speaker 1: like shit's going down, Shit's not good, and you can 286 00:16:23,160 --> 00:16:26,560 Speaker 1: have the mindset of like this is actually my becoming, 287 00:16:27,280 --> 00:16:29,720 Speaker 1: Like how can I lean more into this? How can 288 00:16:29,760 --> 00:16:32,480 Speaker 1: I be more uncomfortable? How can I, like we were 289 00:16:32,520 --> 00:16:35,720 Speaker 1: saying off air, Hillary of like I'm going through a 290 00:16:35,760 --> 00:16:39,120 Speaker 1: period where I'm actually having to slow down and I'm 291 00:16:39,160 --> 00:16:41,280 Speaker 1: having to be more present and I'm having to like 292 00:16:41,800 --> 00:16:44,360 Speaker 1: let go and surrender, and that feels so foreign to 293 00:16:44,440 --> 00:16:49,760 Speaker 1: me because my comfortable is the over overachieving, it's doing more, 294 00:16:49,880 --> 00:16:53,520 Speaker 1: it's you know, level five kind of thing. So it's 295 00:16:53,520 --> 00:16:56,960 Speaker 1: so interesting because it's so uncomfortable to slow down, to 296 00:16:57,080 --> 00:17:00,280 Speaker 1: be present, to just be still. And so that that's 297 00:17:00,320 --> 00:17:03,800 Speaker 1: how I know that's where I need to be. Because again, 298 00:17:03,920 --> 00:17:06,840 Speaker 1: if you just stay in the comfortable zone of what 299 00:17:06,880 --> 00:17:09,760 Speaker 1: you've always known, you can do that, but you will 300 00:17:09,800 --> 00:17:13,760 Speaker 1: never become more, you will never expand more. And again, 301 00:17:13,760 --> 00:17:15,919 Speaker 1: I truly believe that is you know, the purpose of 302 00:17:15,920 --> 00:17:22,240 Speaker 1: why we're here. We're just pausing this episode for a 303 00:17:22,280 --> 00:17:26,480 Speaker 1: second to tell you about the Abundance Academy. This is 304 00:17:26,600 --> 00:17:31,719 Speaker 1: our signature thirty day money mindset and energetics course that 305 00:17:31,880 --> 00:17:35,960 Speaker 1: is going to change everything about how you show up 306 00:17:35,960 --> 00:17:40,600 Speaker 1: with money. Imagine never being stressed out about bills or 307 00:17:40,640 --> 00:17:44,840 Speaker 1: spending money ever again. 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Check out 323 00:18:48,400 --> 00:18:50,800 Speaker 1: the link and the show notes for all the details. 324 00:18:50,960 --> 00:18:52,840 Speaker 1: All right, let's get back into the app sto. 325 00:18:55,400 --> 00:18:59,840 Speaker 2: But yeah, like right on time, almost like right everything exactly, 326 00:19:00,240 --> 00:19:02,920 Speaker 2: like exactly what you were saying of like what is 327 00:19:02,960 --> 00:19:05,280 Speaker 2: the actual whole point of it? And so if the 328 00:19:05,320 --> 00:19:07,720 Speaker 2: whole point is the becoming or is it transformation or 329 00:19:07,760 --> 00:19:10,639 Speaker 2: is the evolution or is it we say, like the 330 00:19:10,720 --> 00:19:12,879 Speaker 2: Camic correction whatever, as we said, like you come in 331 00:19:12,920 --> 00:19:16,159 Speaker 2: here with something like okay, so if we need to 332 00:19:16,280 --> 00:19:18,840 Speaker 2: learn something, we're going to be given those challenges, and 333 00:19:18,880 --> 00:19:21,520 Speaker 2: it's going to often be around something that we're deeply 334 00:19:21,560 --> 00:19:24,880 Speaker 2: motivated by. We're deeply motivated by love and money, and 335 00:19:24,960 --> 00:19:28,400 Speaker 2: so we'll get challenged around that because we'll we still 336 00:19:28,440 --> 00:19:30,679 Speaker 2: want those things. So if we're thinking that this in 337 00:19:30,800 --> 00:19:32,680 Speaker 2: order to get through this challenge, and I'll be able 338 00:19:32,720 --> 00:19:35,679 Speaker 2: to receive that, it's like a motivating force. And so 339 00:19:36,119 --> 00:19:38,159 Speaker 2: exactly how you said, when you can almost just that 340 00:19:38,240 --> 00:19:41,560 Speaker 2: shift of perspective of like this is you know, the 341 00:19:41,640 --> 00:19:44,800 Speaker 2: cliche thing, but like I was going to say, this 342 00:19:44,880 --> 00:19:45,719 Speaker 2: is not it. 343 00:19:45,920 --> 00:19:47,560 Speaker 1: This is for me, life thing for me. 344 00:19:47,920 --> 00:19:51,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's having for me, not to me and this 345 00:19:51,520 --> 00:19:55,160 Speaker 2: idea as well of you know exactly of you need 346 00:19:55,160 --> 00:19:57,800 Speaker 2: to be scared to be brave, and yeah, you need 347 00:19:57,840 --> 00:20:00,359 Speaker 2: to doubt in order to overcome and to to have 348 00:20:00,440 --> 00:20:03,200 Speaker 2: this courage. And so when you see that, the constriction 349 00:20:03,320 --> 00:20:06,119 Speaker 2: is always going to happen right before the expansion. And 350 00:20:06,160 --> 00:20:08,560 Speaker 2: I saw it even just recently where we're selling our 351 00:20:08,600 --> 00:20:11,119 Speaker 2: place and we're going to go get we want to 352 00:20:11,119 --> 00:20:14,280 Speaker 2: have more land, and of course the selling process, like 353 00:20:14,320 --> 00:20:17,000 Speaker 2: the real estate agent is just like Mick's just like 354 00:20:17,000 --> 00:20:19,639 Speaker 2: why is he making it difficult? Like you know, he 355 00:20:19,680 --> 00:20:22,880 Speaker 2: took photos of our space and it's just like they're 356 00:20:22,920 --> 00:20:25,119 Speaker 2: just shitty photos. And I was like, Nick, this is 357 00:20:25,119 --> 00:20:28,280 Speaker 2: a good sign something is coming, Like we're going to 358 00:20:28,400 --> 00:20:30,520 Speaker 2: you know, this is going to be incredible process because 359 00:20:30,880 --> 00:20:33,840 Speaker 2: like all just these like little stupid challenges of like 360 00:20:34,240 --> 00:20:36,560 Speaker 2: you know, Nick ended up getting his own photographer in 361 00:20:36,640 --> 00:20:38,879 Speaker 2: and he was like, should we just like get another 362 00:20:38,920 --> 00:20:39,760 Speaker 2: real estate agent. 363 00:20:39,760 --> 00:20:40,880 Speaker 1: And I'm like this is good. 364 00:20:41,080 --> 00:20:44,120 Speaker 2: Even though obviously it doesn't mean that you just sit 365 00:20:44,160 --> 00:20:47,240 Speaker 2: back and do nothing. It's like, well, okay, we've been 366 00:20:47,280 --> 00:20:51,080 Speaker 2: to you know, shift and problem solve a mode. But 367 00:20:51,320 --> 00:20:53,480 Speaker 2: knowing that this is not actually a bad sign, I 368 00:20:53,480 --> 00:20:55,520 Speaker 2: think Nick almost went down of like is this a 369 00:20:55,560 --> 00:21:01,480 Speaker 2: bad sign about selling the place? Exactly? It never never, 370 00:21:01,520 --> 00:21:03,119 Speaker 2: So to speak to that, please, because I think a 371 00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:05,360 Speaker 2: lot of us can even just hearing this, you might 372 00:21:05,400 --> 00:21:08,120 Speaker 2: be we can go into the victim mentality. We speak 373 00:21:08,119 --> 00:21:08,520 Speaker 2: more into that. 374 00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:13,840 Speaker 1: I honestly like, the worst thing you can do in 375 00:21:13,880 --> 00:21:17,560 Speaker 1: your life is we stuck in victim mentality and think 376 00:21:17,800 --> 00:21:22,800 Speaker 1: things are going wrong and that person will perpetually have 377 00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:29,760 Speaker 1: a bad life. That's what you focus on expands. So, 378 00:21:30,720 --> 00:21:32,280 Speaker 1: so a great story. I love that you brought in, 379 00:21:32,400 --> 00:21:36,320 Speaker 1: you know, your property situation. So we recently moved and 380 00:21:36,840 --> 00:21:40,480 Speaker 1: it was very it was this thing. So it's interesting 381 00:21:40,520 --> 00:21:43,040 Speaker 1: because even with the relationships, Me and my husband went 382 00:21:43,080 --> 00:21:46,639 Speaker 1: through a huge challenge in our relationship, which at the time, 383 00:21:46,960 --> 00:21:49,520 Speaker 1: I was like why we've been together for so long, 384 00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:52,399 Speaker 1: We've never had issues, like why is this happening? It 385 00:21:52,520 --> 00:21:55,080 Speaker 1: felt very like I was in the victim mentality of 386 00:21:55,160 --> 00:21:58,080 Speaker 1: like why because he was like the one constant in 387 00:21:58,119 --> 00:22:01,480 Speaker 1: my life that I never really had to and so 388 00:22:01,520 --> 00:22:04,040 Speaker 1: we went through a huge challenge around when we had 389 00:22:04,080 --> 00:22:08,280 Speaker 1: our first daughter. It really reflected a lot of wounds 390 00:22:08,280 --> 00:22:10,119 Speaker 1: in each other and I think just having a child 391 00:22:10,600 --> 00:22:16,080 Speaker 1: is such a challenging process an initiation is. And it's 392 00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:19,520 Speaker 1: interesting because now that we're past that challenge, we have 393 00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:22,120 Speaker 1: such a deeper relationship. We have such a deeper connection, 394 00:22:22,240 --> 00:22:24,200 Speaker 1: which again we've been together for so long. I didn't 395 00:22:24,200 --> 00:22:26,720 Speaker 1: think that was possible. But now on the other side, 396 00:22:26,720 --> 00:22:28,600 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, thank god that happened. But 397 00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:32,000 Speaker 1: during the time, it wasn't nice. And so that's you know, 398 00:22:32,080 --> 00:22:35,160 Speaker 1: that's the first thing of like, but if you get stuck, 399 00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:37,800 Speaker 1: if I was stuck in the victim mentality, if he 400 00:22:37,840 --> 00:22:41,159 Speaker 1: was stuck in the victim mentality, who knows what could happen. 401 00:22:41,680 --> 00:22:44,040 Speaker 1: You know, maybe we wouldn't be together or you know 402 00:22:44,119 --> 00:22:48,399 Speaker 1: that sort of you believe, yes, exactly, and so just 403 00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:52,720 Speaker 1: be very conscious of that. And I think, sorry, going 404 00:22:52,760 --> 00:22:55,840 Speaker 1: back to the property thing, we recently moved and it 405 00:22:55,880 --> 00:22:58,120 Speaker 1: came off the back of these you know, challenges where 406 00:22:58,119 --> 00:23:00,200 Speaker 1: we're like, we want something different for the family, want 407 00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:03,040 Speaker 1: to like have more land, we want more space, we 408 00:23:03,080 --> 00:23:05,919 Speaker 1: want Ivy to have like more of a yard, we 409 00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:08,679 Speaker 1: want the dog to have a yard. And we end 410 00:23:08,800 --> 00:23:12,040 Speaker 1: up buying a house before we sold our other primary 411 00:23:12,119 --> 00:23:15,879 Speaker 1: house and it felt like such a stretch, but I 412 00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:17,680 Speaker 1: was like, it's such a stretch, it's like going to 413 00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:21,080 Speaker 1: be the right decision. I'm like, blah blah blah blah. Yes, 414 00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:25,479 Speaker 1: it's interesting because we didn't end up selling it, so 415 00:23:25,560 --> 00:23:29,200 Speaker 1: we actually are renting that house now, and it's definitely 416 00:23:29,480 --> 00:23:31,800 Speaker 1: I would prefer to sell it because it's like, you know, 417 00:23:31,840 --> 00:23:36,000 Speaker 1: it's always not always on your mind, but it's like yes, 418 00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:38,959 Speaker 1: like I'm like, I would just rather because it's not 419 00:23:39,119 --> 00:23:42,040 Speaker 1: we have other investment properties, and it's definitely not going 420 00:23:42,080 --> 00:23:44,440 Speaker 1: to be an investment property. It's like you live there 421 00:23:44,480 --> 00:23:48,080 Speaker 1: as your house. Yeah, And it's so funny because we 422 00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:50,160 Speaker 1: didn't sell it, so we ended up renting it and 423 00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:54,480 Speaker 1: it's definitely like negatively good. So it's definitely again it's 424 00:23:54,520 --> 00:24:00,240 Speaker 1: not the best financial situation. And I notice how how 425 00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:05,240 Speaker 1: much that brought up with childhood beliefs around will you 426 00:24:05,280 --> 00:24:07,920 Speaker 1: always have to pick this safe money option? And again 427 00:24:07,960 --> 00:24:11,080 Speaker 1: this is like someone I've done so much money work, 428 00:24:11,119 --> 00:24:13,120 Speaker 1: Like my life is such a reflection of how much 429 00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:15,240 Speaker 1: money work I have done, and I teach money work 430 00:24:15,840 --> 00:24:20,960 Speaker 1: and it has been the best thing because I literally 431 00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:23,719 Speaker 1: feel like a different person with my money mindset. But 432 00:24:23,760 --> 00:24:26,560 Speaker 1: I had to go through this experience and still at 433 00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:28,680 Speaker 1: this time, like we haven't sold it. It is still 434 00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:34,160 Speaker 1: on the market, but it is rented out. And it's 435 00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:37,280 Speaker 1: funny because even the conversations I've been having with my dad, 436 00:24:37,359 --> 00:24:40,679 Speaker 1: because he's like the ultimate stress case of money, and 437 00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:43,119 Speaker 1: he's like, you know, every time seeing me, he's like, 438 00:24:43,200 --> 00:24:45,760 Speaker 1: have you sold the house? What's happening? And I'm like, Dad, 439 00:24:45,800 --> 00:24:48,040 Speaker 1: it's all good, because you know, he's like, but you're 440 00:24:48,040 --> 00:24:51,160 Speaker 1: bleeding money, like and I'm like, yeah, but Dad, when 441 00:24:51,400 --> 00:24:54,399 Speaker 1: I sell it, the money we bled is going to 442 00:24:54,440 --> 00:24:57,600 Speaker 1: be such a blip that it's like it's when you're 443 00:24:57,640 --> 00:24:59,760 Speaker 1: not gonna be worried. Trust me, You're not gonna be worried. 444 00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:04,840 Speaker 1: And I, with the reflection of him, have to constantly 445 00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:10,639 Speaker 1: move into this secure relationship with money and be like 446 00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:15,200 Speaker 1: constantly tested. And it has been the best thing because 447 00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:19,960 Speaker 1: I feel so rock solid with it because it's like 448 00:25:20,240 --> 00:25:23,240 Speaker 1: it hasn't happened straight away. If it happened straight away, 449 00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:26,600 Speaker 1: I wouldn't have learnt what I'm currently feeling and what 450 00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:30,760 Speaker 1: I'm currently having to apply. And so I also know 451 00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:34,320 Speaker 1: it's like such a huge expansion, not even on the 452 00:25:34,320 --> 00:25:38,160 Speaker 1: other side, because that's happening right now, but again having 453 00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:42,360 Speaker 1: that trust, having that belief system where I'm like, this 454 00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:44,760 Speaker 1: is happening for me, this is working out for me, 455 00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:46,840 Speaker 1: this is showing me the lessons. It's showing me where 456 00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:48,680 Speaker 1: I need to heal, where I need to work on, 457 00:25:48,720 --> 00:25:52,359 Speaker 1: where I need to be more secure. And if I 458 00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:56,240 Speaker 1: was to fall into victim mentality, I can. I can 459 00:25:56,320 --> 00:25:59,560 Speaker 1: just see so clearly that path and what it would 460 00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:02,240 Speaker 1: look like. And I can also see it in a 461 00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:06,320 Speaker 1: lot of like the relationships currently. And so I think, 462 00:26:06,440 --> 00:26:09,240 Speaker 1: like I said, the best thing you can ever do 463 00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:13,600 Speaker 1: is like almost like live in that delusion. Like my 464 00:26:13,680 --> 00:26:17,719 Speaker 1: dad thinks I'm being generally delusional with what I believe, 465 00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:21,280 Speaker 1: you know, with our properties and our financial decision. And 466 00:26:21,359 --> 00:26:26,560 Speaker 1: you know, like it's so funny because me having to 467 00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:28,720 Speaker 1: you know, because I love my dad. I'm going to 468 00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:31,960 Speaker 1: continuously have conversations with him. So it's like me having 469 00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:36,080 Speaker 1: to continuously lock in my beliefs and be so secure 470 00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:39,480 Speaker 1: in that is the challenge is the reflection, because not 471 00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:43,240 Speaker 1: only it's hard enough you getting like on board with 472 00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:46,200 Speaker 1: the new reality to then convince other people. That's why 473 00:26:46,200 --> 00:26:49,080 Speaker 1: I actually tell people, you know, in my courses it's like, 474 00:26:49,440 --> 00:26:52,920 Speaker 1: don't tell people your dreams because it's like you need 475 00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:55,520 Speaker 1: to get on board and be so fucking one hundred percent, 476 00:26:56,080 --> 00:26:58,480 Speaker 1: like don't try and convince other people. And it's so 477 00:26:58,520 --> 00:27:02,840 Speaker 1: funny because in this experience, I'm having to not convince him. 478 00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:05,879 Speaker 1: But it's a conversation. But I feel so good in 479 00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:08,280 Speaker 1: the conversation. I feel so secure and I feel so 480 00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:11,520 Speaker 1: like I'm like, fuck, I'm seeing money in this whole 481 00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:15,920 Speaker 1: new expanded light that Georgie three months ago saw money 482 00:27:15,960 --> 00:27:19,720 Speaker 1: so differently. And so again, I haven't even like it's 483 00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:22,920 Speaker 1: not even finished, it's not you're in pros finalized, I'm 484 00:27:22,960 --> 00:27:26,640 Speaker 1: in process. But I can see the becoming. I can 485 00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:30,679 Speaker 1: see the expansion. I can see the person I want 486 00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:35,320 Speaker 1: to be in this scenario. Because again, it's like, for instance, 487 00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:39,919 Speaker 1: let's say I knew you know. Let's say let's just 488 00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:41,880 Speaker 1: put some numbers in that to make it an example. 489 00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:45,200 Speaker 1: Let's say you're bleeding, you know, one thousand dollars a week, 490 00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:48,720 Speaker 1: so you're losing one thousand dollars a week for a year, 491 00:27:49,359 --> 00:27:53,280 Speaker 1: fifty two thousand dollars. But let's say the sale price, 492 00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:56,919 Speaker 1: you're going to make a million dollars would you do that? 493 00:27:57,480 --> 00:28:01,280 Speaker 1: Of course you would. I don't have that certainty, but 494 00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:02,840 Speaker 1: I'm like, of course that's going to happen. 495 00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:06,000 Speaker 2: Like you have certainty and self uncertainty in what's possible, 496 00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:08,280 Speaker 2: you know, I think yes, we have like we don't 497 00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:11,760 Speaker 2: need to have certainty of like knowing that no, and. 498 00:28:11,720 --> 00:28:15,720 Speaker 1: Also how how doesn't matter and the exact thing doesn't matter. 499 00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:19,840 Speaker 1: It's you being so secure in the beliefs and knowing 500 00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:22,560 Speaker 1: that you're always going to be supported, You're always going 501 00:28:22,600 --> 00:28:25,959 Speaker 1: to be guided. It's always going to work out. And 502 00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:29,520 Speaker 1: I think the best thing too. If you cannot have 503 00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:34,200 Speaker 1: to see evidence of that all the time, you're unstoppable. 504 00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:38,640 Speaker 1: If you need to see evidence of things working out, 505 00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:41,240 Speaker 1: trust me when I say you will not have a 506 00:28:41,240 --> 00:28:45,240 Speaker 1: good life, or you know, you will have an ordinary life. 507 00:28:46,040 --> 00:28:48,560 Speaker 1: If you can be the person who doesn't need to 508 00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:52,040 Speaker 1: see evidence and you can push forward in your vision 509 00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:55,400 Speaker 1: and who you want to be, you will have an 510 00:28:55,520 --> 00:28:59,239 Speaker 1: extraordinary life that people will look at your life and 511 00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:01,760 Speaker 1: be like what the like, how did you do that? 512 00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:04,200 Speaker 1: And you won't be able to tell them because it's 513 00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:07,960 Speaker 1: just you know, locking into your beliefs and believe, Yeah, 514 00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:11,120 Speaker 1: you're just in your energy. And that's even like I, 515 00:29:11,280 --> 00:29:13,280 Speaker 1: you know, I go on podcasts and I talk about 516 00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:15,120 Speaker 1: my story of like I once was a lawyer and 517 00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:17,040 Speaker 1: then I created this and I came from nothing and 518 00:29:17,080 --> 00:29:20,080 Speaker 1: this is what I have, you know, made and I 519 00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:22,880 Speaker 1: could give you my step to step of how I 520 00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:25,520 Speaker 1: did it, but you would not be able to replicate 521 00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:30,000 Speaker 1: it because there is so much invisible energy and belief 522 00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:35,720 Speaker 1: and challenges that again is so in my blueprint and 523 00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:38,800 Speaker 1: who I am that it's like you could not replicate 524 00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:42,800 Speaker 1: my story. And so I think if you can be 525 00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:45,920 Speaker 1: the person where you don't need evidence and you are 526 00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:48,200 Speaker 1: your own backing, you have your own support, with the 527 00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:50,880 Speaker 1: support of you know, the universe, whatever you want to 528 00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:57,080 Speaker 1: believe in, you literally become unstoppable, so powerful Georgie. 529 00:29:57,120 --> 00:29:59,400 Speaker 2: And I think even with what you were just saying 530 00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:04,200 Speaker 2: of like the evidence can be your intuition or the 531 00:30:04,280 --> 00:30:06,960 Speaker 2: evidence can be way you're feeling called. And you know, 532 00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:10,400 Speaker 2: I think a lot of people think that worry is 533 00:30:11,200 --> 00:30:13,120 Speaker 2: going to mean that you have nothing, like nothing will happen, 534 00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:15,160 Speaker 2: like your dad saying like if I'm worried about this, 535 00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:17,280 Speaker 2: or if we do the logical thing, then we'll get to 536 00:30:17,320 --> 00:30:19,440 Speaker 2: the solution. Whereas what you're saying is that no, I 537 00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:21,480 Speaker 2: can have this expansion and can have so much trust 538 00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:24,000 Speaker 2: and also have like how you operate in the world 539 00:30:24,040 --> 00:30:26,080 Speaker 2: will be so different than from fear and from lack. 540 00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:29,880 Speaker 2: Like when you have that knowing, it's you operate differently 541 00:30:29,920 --> 00:30:30,440 Speaker 2: in the world and. 542 00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:33,120 Speaker 1: The intention behind it. If you act from fear, if 543 00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:36,640 Speaker 1: you act from you know, there's low fights. Yeah, that's 544 00:30:36,640 --> 00:30:38,920 Speaker 1: when you lose money. If I was to now be like, 545 00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:41,160 Speaker 1: oh well, I'll just take any offer because I need 546 00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:44,160 Speaker 1: to get rid of my house, I guarantee you it's 547 00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:46,400 Speaker 1: going to be at I'm going to lose money, I'm 548 00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:48,840 Speaker 1: going to not you know, win out or I don't 549 00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:51,600 Speaker 1: know what the word is, but yeah, exactly. 550 00:30:51,680 --> 00:30:54,320 Speaker 2: And you know, I think sometimes it can be hard 551 00:30:54,360 --> 00:30:57,800 Speaker 2: to articulate, you know, the like it's the energy behind it, 552 00:30:57,840 --> 00:31:01,320 Speaker 2: and it's the knowing. And I think sometimes you have 553 00:31:01,400 --> 00:31:03,560 Speaker 2: to trust, well you do. You have to trust until 554 00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:06,520 Speaker 2: it becomes annoying. And so you like let yourself take 555 00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:10,479 Speaker 2: in Georgie's words of Okay, it might not my body 556 00:31:10,600 --> 00:31:14,120 Speaker 2: still feels unsafe in this, but like let this be 557 00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:17,320 Speaker 2: somewhat of your evidence, because honestly, we're all just everyone's 558 00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:20,320 Speaker 2: just thrown up stories, everyone's just throwing up options, And 559 00:31:20,360 --> 00:31:23,120 Speaker 2: so imagine if you took this as the option rather 560 00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:26,600 Speaker 2: than the option of the fear, and it's we can 561 00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:28,560 Speaker 2: say it's a choice, but it's also like helping your 562 00:31:28,560 --> 00:31:30,960 Speaker 2: subconscious to make that choice, because your subconscious is already 563 00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:33,160 Speaker 2: making the duty now and it's. 564 00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:33,440 Speaker 1: Just what's known. 565 00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:35,680 Speaker 2: And so it's so beautiful that you're being able to 566 00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:37,880 Speaker 2: hold that because I agree with you of like having 567 00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:41,120 Speaker 2: manifestation boundaries of like who you tell, and like don't 568 00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:43,000 Speaker 2: expect people to believe in your dreams if they don't 569 00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:45,400 Speaker 2: even believe in their own And so when you can 570 00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:48,040 Speaker 2: just like be like so firm and you're getting these 571 00:31:48,040 --> 00:31:50,280 Speaker 2: little tests right now, and I'm excited for the expansion 572 00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:50,720 Speaker 2: that's going to. 573 00:31:50,760 --> 00:31:54,880 Speaker 1: Come after this. I know, like yeah it do it. 574 00:31:55,240 --> 00:31:58,040 Speaker 2: And just that like that trust that you've cultivated and 575 00:31:58,080 --> 00:31:59,280 Speaker 2: that's such a test inment to you. 576 00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:02,719 Speaker 1: But it's possible for everyone. I know. It's incredible, isn't it. 577 00:32:03,120 --> 00:32:07,200 Speaker 1: And again it's that blind like I would have previous Georgie, 578 00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:10,520 Speaker 1: who was still in her becoming, would have never said 579 00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:13,080 Speaker 1: that on a podcast because it's like, oh, I'm just 580 00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:15,200 Speaker 1: trying to get on board. I can't tell the world, 581 00:32:15,720 --> 00:32:18,520 Speaker 1: and that's even such a testament to like my journey 582 00:32:18,560 --> 00:32:22,120 Speaker 1: and my becoming and kind of where I'm at, because yeah, 583 00:32:22,160 --> 00:32:25,240 Speaker 1: I wouldn't have felt comfortable or safe in my body 584 00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:29,960 Speaker 1: to talk about a manifestation before it happened, whereas now 585 00:32:30,000 --> 00:32:32,480 Speaker 1: I'm like, I know it's going to work out. Thank 586 00:32:32,560 --> 00:32:34,880 Speaker 1: you so much for listening to this episode of the 587 00:32:34,960 --> 00:32:38,600 Speaker 1: Rise and Conquer podcast. If you enjoyed it and want more, 588 00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:42,760 Speaker 1: connect with us via Instagram or continue the conversation on 589 00:32:42,800 --> 00:32:46,560 Speaker 1: our beautiful Facebook community page. 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